Latest / Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie / The Energetics Of Wealth, Getting Unstuck & Being The Woman Money Loves To Flow To
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- 0:01SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Wealth Podcast, hosted by me, Lip.
- 0:05SPEAKER_00: On this podcast, we go beyond the basics to really create a life that glows so that you can thrive in your body, relationships, wealth, money, business, and spiritual connection, where we rewire your nervous system and truly expand into all that is possible.
- 0:23SPEAKER_00: In these episodes, we will have a juicy conversation full of all the codes, tools, tips that really work.
- 0:29SPEAKER_00: So if you are looking to live well, you are in the right place.
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- 0:39SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
- 0:41SPEAKER_00: Hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Live Well Podcast.
- 0:47SPEAKER_00: I'm so excited.
- 0:49SPEAKER_00: It's the first episode of 2024.
- 0:52SPEAKER_00: Lately I've been wanting to say 2025, which is getting ahead of myself of 2024.
- 0:58SPEAKER_00: And I am so excited for this year.
- 1:01SPEAKER_00: It is an eight-year numerology, in case you're into that.
- 1:04SPEAKER_00: Um, and it just means like a year that's really good for financial success and abundance and all of that stuff.
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: We're working on trying to get someone in a numerology onto the podcast for you.
- 1:16SPEAKER_00: But it's perfectly on theme with today's episode, which is all about really what's keeping you stuck, the energetics of wealth, and really being the woman that money loves to flow to.
- 1:29SPEAKER_00: How delicious, how yummy.
- 1:31SPEAKER_00: That's what we all want this year.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: So let's go ahead and dive in.
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: So I want to talk start tongue tie.
- 1:38SPEAKER_00: As I drink my delicious latte, guys, I got the element chocolate caramel.
- 1:44SPEAKER_00: It's a game changer.
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: It's a game changer.
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: You know I love element, um, and the chocolate caramel is delicious in coffee.
- 1:49SPEAKER_00: In the summer, I'll do it in smoothies, but otherwise I do it in coffee, and it's so good.
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: Highly recommend.
- 1:55SPEAKER_00: But what I want to say about the difference is that there is a difference between money and wealth, right?
- 2:03SPEAKER_00: There's being able to make money, and then there is building wealth.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: Wealth is different than just having money come in.
- 2:10SPEAKER_00: Wealth is grounded, consistent, stable.
- 2:13SPEAKER_00: It's very much that relaxed energy because you are existing in the natural receiving mode with money.
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 2:22SPEAKER_00: And so it's really that place that it easily flows to because you have a solid foundation.
- 2:28SPEAKER_00: Now, how is this different than what you might be thinking when it comes to money?
- 2:33SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: Because most people experience money as this thing that rules over their life, that triggers a bodily response, uh a somatic response.
- 2:43SPEAKER_00: And if you are living in dysregulation with money, you can never actually build wealth, right?
- 2:51SPEAKER_00: And so wealth doesn't feel like chasing, it's just there, right?
- 2:55SPEAKER_00: Whereas money, the energy of money can feel very chasing, it can feel very in and out, it can feel very lack, it can feel very scarcity, it can feel very transient, right?
- 3:05SPEAKER_00: And so this is really about no longer having that nervous system response to money so that you can actually build wealth.
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: I will say that one more time.
- 3:13SPEAKER_00: This is about no longer having a nervous system response to money so that you can actually build wealth, right?
- 3:20SPEAKER_00: And so the contraction, the pressure, the dysregulation, the way your heart speeds up, you feel that pit in your stomach, that heaviness in your chest, all of these things are keeping you from quote unquote getting unstuck and being the woman that money loves to flow to so that you can build wealth, right?
- 3:38SPEAKER_00: And so what I really want to show you is the energetics of wealth and what life gets to look like when you feel safe with wealth, right?
- 3:46SPEAKER_00: Because when you feel safe with wealth, you are no longer dysregulated, you are no longer contractive, you don't get dippy with money, you're able to flow it without the fear of it not coming back, right?
- 3:58SPEAKER_00: So often what I see when it comes to like money and wealth is that you want to receive, receive, receive, but immediately if you have to flow it out, you contract.
- 4:07SPEAKER_00: So if you're like, okay, I want to receive all the money, but you do not feel comfortable flowing the money, then we have a dysregulated relationship with wealth.
- 4:14SPEAKER_00: And then you won't actually become the energetic match for wealth.
- 4:18SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 4:18SPEAKER_00: If you want to receive$50,000, you have to be able to flow out$50,000 and not get into fear, lack, scarcity, guilt, shame, weird kind of spirals, right?
- 4:28SPEAKER_00: Or fear of it not coming back.
- 4:30SPEAKER_00: And then when you do flow it out, right, you don't immediately go into, has it come back yet?
- 4:34SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 4:35SPEAKER_00: Because you are so solid.
- 4:36SPEAKER_00: Yes, it naturally does as a byproduct, but it won't do so if you dip into the instant gratification, little kid who didn't get its cookie, of has it come back yet?
- 4:45SPEAKER_00: And then when you do this, you're actually able to tap into overflow without having so much of your mind space taken up by money.
- 4:52SPEAKER_00: The thing is, is when we're very dysregulated when it comes to money, it takes up a lot of mind space, right?
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: It takes up a lot of our capacity, our system, our brain power.
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: So much of our day, if we think about tabs open in our brain, are spent having enough money.
- 5:06SPEAKER_00: Will the money come back?
- 5:08SPEAKER_00: All these stories, limitations, you know, beliefs about money, you go to the grocery store, something about money, you come home, something about money, look at your bank account, something about money, all that space.
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: And so when you actually heal your relationship with it, right, you don't actually have to worry about quote unquote managing your mindset or doing 50 rituals to get you into the quote unquote perfect space with money, because you just exist that way.
- 5:30SPEAKER_00: And so there's, I know a very bitch trend of, you know, let's do mindset rituals and visualize and script and feel the feelings as if we've already have it.
- 5:40SPEAKER_00: And I think I even might have said this in like the beginning of my manifestation journey, you know, back when I maybe two years ago on this podcast.
- 5:48SPEAKER_00: You may have actually heard that from me as well.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: Now I've deepened my relationship to actually understand what it looks at a high level.
- 5:55SPEAKER_00: And that is you don't actually need all those things when you exist and you are naturally in the state of receiving, right?
- 6:02SPEAKER_00: You don't need to manage your mindset, you don't need to do all these rituals, you don't need to chant, you know, things of abundance to blah, blah, blah, in order to become a match.
- 6:11SPEAKER_00: But also, those things won't work if you're dysregulated with money.
- 6:15SPEAKER_00: And that's kind of like what uh really allowed me to discover all this and to really solidify this in.
- 6:20SPEAKER_00: And I started learning from people who actually have wealth versus just like manifesting money.
- 6:24SPEAKER_00: It's a big difference.
- 6:26SPEAKER_00: And that really is those rituals that visualizing that scripting doesn't mean shit if you are dysregulated, if you have fear, if you have scarcity, if you have lack, if you've got guilt, if you've got shame.
- 6:38SPEAKER_00: Because sure, you can feel that for 10 minutes of the day.
- 6:43SPEAKER_00: But how are you the rest of the day?
- 6:47unknown: Right.
- 6:47SPEAKER_00: And so often people are like, all right, I did the the manifesting practice, I did the scripting, I sat there and felt the feelings, I chanted, I canted all my beads and chanted, you know, the chant for abundance to goddess Lakshmi.
- 7:05SPEAKER_00: But how are you the rest of the day?
- 7:07unknown: Right.
- 7:08SPEAKER_00: And so you're really working with that conscious 5% instead of the 95%.
- 7:15SPEAKER_00: And the 95% is what rules the show, right?
- 7:18SPEAKER_00: It's not the 10 minutes of when you're vibing first thing in the morning and you're feeling good and you do the visualization, you feel the feelings.
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: It's how you respond when you have to pay a bill, or when you look at your bank account, or when you go to the grocery store, or the whole rest of the day.
- 7:36SPEAKER_00: But so often be like, well, live, it's not working.
- 7:38SPEAKER_00: Live, I'm visualizing, I'm scripting, I'm feeling the feelings of already being there.
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: But if you're feeling the feelings of already being there, but they're coded, you know, with an undercurrent of lack because you're not already there, you know, you're you're manifesting money because of a lack of money and you feel a lack of money, it's actually not even feeling the feelings, to be honest.
- 7:57SPEAKER_00: But also, it's not gonna work.
- 7:59SPEAKER_00: And that's why you can affirm things for 10, 15, 20 years if you want to.
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: You can say, I am wealthy, I am rich until the cows come home.
- 8:06SPEAKER_00: But it won't stick.
- 8:09SPEAKER_00: It will not stick until you dissolve that nervous system response.
- 8:13SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 8:13SPEAKER_00: And so when when you do that, when you heal that nervous system response and you finally feel safe with wealth, you don't have to chase money.
- 8:21unknown: Right?
- 8:22SPEAKER_00: Money, that's a different, another difference between money and wealth, right?
- 8:24SPEAKER_00: That we spoke about earlier.
- 8:25SPEAKER_00: Money is very much a chasing mentality.
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: You don't have to chase money.
- 8:30SPEAKER_00: You are just able to receive with ease once you feel safe with this, right?
- 8:34SPEAKER_00: This is about no longer being in the cycle of quote unquote just enough.
- 8:37SPEAKER_00: No more hoarding money for a rainy day because you're able to call it right back.
- 8:41SPEAKER_00: So we need to hoard, we don't need to save, save, save.
- 8:44SPEAKER_00: No longer worrying.
- 8:45SPEAKER_00: What if it stops coming?
- 8:46unknown: Right?
- 8:47SPEAKER_00: Because all of these thoughts, all of these things prevent you from being a clear channel.
- 8:51SPEAKER_00: And when you are not clear, when you have all these entanglements, all these stories, all these frequencies, you cannot be the grounded, relaxed place wealth easily flows to.
- 9:02SPEAKER_00: Remember, this is the reason the affirmations or 369 or scripting or feeling the feelings, whatever it is you're trying to manifest is not working because you haven't healed that relationship to it.
- 9:14SPEAKER_00: You have things like fear, guilt, shame, lack, scarcity that they're running the show.
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: You do not need another money or manifestation strategy.
- 9:22SPEAKER_00: You need to heal your nervous system response.
- 9:24SPEAKER_00: And once you become a clear channel, then everything sticks because you have become the one who receives it.
- 9:30SPEAKER_00: You are just relaxed, vibing on life, don't actually have to worry about it.
- 9:34SPEAKER_00: This is very important.
- 9:36SPEAKER_00: This is the thing that in terms of like actually the energetics of wealth that people get stuck in for weeks, months, years, decades.
- 9:46SPEAKER_00: But no longer you because you've listened to this and now you know better.
- 9:50SPEAKER_00: See, most people are stuck with money because of the emotions and conditioning attached to it in their nervous system.
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: If you are someone who contracts, who gets a somatic response in your body around money, you will unconsciously block yourself from it because your nervous system does not feel safe with wealth.
- 10:09SPEAKER_00: All right, you get caught up in the same loops because they're unconsciously running the show and giving you that somatic response.
- 10:17SPEAKER_00: If you don't feel safe, your brain and nervous system won't let you expand, which means you will stay stuck in the same loops.
- 10:24SPEAKER_00: This is also what can have you, you know, thinking, oh, wealth is for her, but not for me.
- 10:29SPEAKER_00: Money's for her, but not for me.
- 10:32SPEAKER_00: So I just wanted to pop on and let you guys know that wealth recode is officially open.
- 10:38SPEAKER_00: I am so excited.
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: This is the first wealth program I've ever done to deeply recode your nervous system to feel safe around money and wealth, which means live healing calls with me where we do the work so that your body can now feel safe to receive and be in overflow.
- 10:55SPEAKER_00: We are going to be doing all the stuff to reprogram all the living beliefs, bringing safety around money, generational trauma.
- 11:02SPEAKER_00: It's going to be one juicy program.
- 11:04SPEAKER_00: And I don't want you to miss out because I don't know the next time I'm going to be doing this live.
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: So if you know you want to heal your relationship with money, become a higher match for wealth of all kinds, and just bring nervous system safety into money, then this is the program for you.
- 11:18SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna leave all the links down below.
- 11:20SPEAKER_00: Check it out, let me know if you have any questions.
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: This is going to be one hell of a program, and I'm so excited for those of you already inside.
- 11:27SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get back to the show.
- 11:30SPEAKER_00: This also can explain why you have difficulty holding money.
- 11:35unknown: Right?
- 11:35SPEAKER_00: There's a lot of people, if you were to receive money right now or have received money, and then they dip.
- 11:41SPEAKER_00: Right, and then it doesn't come back, right?
- 11:43SPEAKER_00: They they get a flood of money and then they quote unquote lose it.
- 11:46SPEAKER_00: You may have heard before that most lottery winners go bankrupt.
- 11:49SPEAKER_00: I think it's within seven years.
- 11:50SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 11:50SPEAKER_00: There's a statistic.
- 11:52SPEAKER_00: I I'll look it up and confirm for you guys.
- 11:54SPEAKER_00: I'll share it maybe on my stories.
- 11:56SPEAKER_00: But they're most of them go bankrupt.
- 11:57SPEAKER_00: It's like something like 80 is a high percentage, 80, 90%, because they don't actually know how to hold money.
- 12:03SPEAKER_00: If you can't hold money, you can't build wealth.
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: But you can't hold money if you're dysregulated with money.
- 12:08SPEAKER_00: And the thing is, a lot of people, maybe you're familiar with the whole classic money programming of like money doesn't grow on trees, it's hard to make money, you have to work hard to make money.
- 12:18SPEAKER_00: Uh, money is evil, money is greedy, all of that, like very blase.
- 12:22SPEAKER_00: Yes, those all exist, but there are subtle unconscious associations with money that you may not be aware of that are massively contributing.
- 12:33SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna give an example.
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: Um let's say growing up, you know, your parents fought about money.
- 12:43SPEAKER_00: And you know that your parents maybe they had a little bit, but it was always maybe just enough.
- 12:51SPEAKER_00: And they would fight about money.
- 12:56SPEAKER_00: And so when your parents would fight about money, you would notice them fighting.
- 13:02SPEAKER_00: And when you see mom and dad fighting, you get sad or anxious or scared, right?
- 13:09SPEAKER_00: And so you feel like, oh my god, money makes them fight.
- 13:15SPEAKER_00: Now, what happens is you start to feel like money is a threat because mom and dad fight about money.
- 13:22SPEAKER_00: Oh no, money makes mom and dad fight.
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: Money must be threatening.
- 13:27SPEAKER_00: So your younger self developed a story and structure of money equals mom and dad fight equals fighting makes me sad, anxious, and scared, equals money makes me feel sad, anxious, or scared.
- 13:41SPEAKER_00: And because your little brain is so sensitive when you're little, especially before the age of seven, you take on these truths and they become subconscious programming that runs the show.
- 13:51SPEAKER_00: So your conscious is like, no, no, yeah, I feel safe with money.
- 13:54SPEAKER_00: I want it all.
- 13:54SPEAKER_00: Yes, please send it to me.
- 13:57SPEAKER_00: Meanwhile, your actual nervous system and unconscious is like, no.
- 14:03SPEAKER_00: Like, money makes me anxious, money makes me scared, money makes me sad, money causes pain, money causes suffering.
- 14:11SPEAKER_00: That is like some of the really deep entanglements.
- 14:14SPEAKER_00: That's one very simple example that people aren't aware of.
- 14:18SPEAKER_00: They're aware of more like the traditional ones, like the money is greedy, money is evil, and all of those things, like I said, are relevant and will run the show.
- 14:27SPEAKER_00: But this one is is also big, right?
- 14:30SPEAKER_00: All these little things.
- 14:32SPEAKER_00: You know, I'll give one more little example.
- 14:35SPEAKER_00: So let's say mom had beliefs that rich people are greedy.
- 14:40SPEAKER_00: Now, why is something like that so dangerous to our subconscious mind?
- 14:44SPEAKER_00: So mom thinks rich people are greedy, rich people are bad.
- 14:47SPEAKER_00: Maybe she would be very negative about anyone who has money, right?
- 14:51SPEAKER_00: Whether that was a family friend, a family member, her sister, someone on TV, someone on the street, you know, oh, someone with that amount of money can only do bad things, or you have, you know, someone with money has to do bad things to get there.
- 15:04SPEAKER_00: And I'm telling you now, the richest people I know are like the most kindest, big-hearted people I know.
- 15:10SPEAKER_00: But she had all these associations.
- 15:12SPEAKER_00: So what does your younger child learn?
- 15:14SPEAKER_00: Yes, they learn that money is bad and money is evil.
- 15:17SPEAKER_00: But the deeper root that is actually so much more important is that mom views rich people are bad.
- 15:24SPEAKER_00: I want to be loved by mom so that I can survive.
- 15:27SPEAKER_00: Because when we are little, we depend on our parents for survival, right?
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: This is everything before the age of seven.
- 15:33SPEAKER_00: If mom doesn't like me, I won't be able to survive because she provides me food, shelter, and the basic necessities for living.
- 15:39SPEAKER_00: Ergo, I can't like money.
- 15:41SPEAKER_00: I can't be a rich person because if I'm a rich person, I won't survive.
- 15:46SPEAKER_00: Because I need mom to love me.
- 15:47SPEAKER_00: So what happens is this association gets ingrained in your nervous system and it starts to run the show.
- 15:53SPEAKER_00: This is another example of a deep-rooted nervous system response to money that can make you crazy.
- 16:01SPEAKER_00: It can make you feel like you want to rip your hair out and be like, live, I'm doing all the things.
- 16:05SPEAKER_00: Why is it not coming?
- 16:07SPEAKER_00: Why am I not the place it easily flows to?
- 16:10SPEAKER_00: Why am I still experiencing this?
- 16:12SPEAKER_00: You know, I've done, I do all these methods, I do these rituals, I do the thing, it's not coming.
- 16:16SPEAKER_00: And I'm telling you, if you have these entanglements, if you have these nervous system responses that are buried in your unconscious, you will not be the place money you wants to flow to.
- 16:25SPEAKER_00: And then you cannot build wealth, and you certainly as hell will not be grounded and relaxed.
- 16:30SPEAKER_00: It's and you definitely won't expand into more, right?
- 16:33SPEAKER_00: And this can also be like maybe you have a ceiling.
- 16:35SPEAKER_00: Maybe you feel, you know, capped at a certain certain amount, or you know, you've never been able to reach past that.
- 16:42SPEAKER_00: This is also where these things can kick in.
- 16:45SPEAKER_00: So maybe like mom and dad had had an okay view, like, oh yeah, okay, maybe if you made like 100k a year, you were fine.
- 16:51SPEAKER_00: But what was her view about millionaires?
- 16:52SPEAKER_00: What was her view about people who made a million dollars a year?
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 16:56SPEAKER_00: And so, all right, you feel safe enough with money to make a hundred K a year, but your nervous system doesn't feel safe to make a million dollars a year.
- 17:03SPEAKER_00: Very important.
- 17:05SPEAKER_00: So all of this exact work is literally what has allowed me to have a relaxed relationship with money so that I'm the place it wants to float to, right?
- 17:12SPEAKER_00: To reach seven figures in my business in under three years, to quantum leap from, you know, zero to 40k months within eight months of my business, right?
- 17:22SPEAKER_00: Which is rapid.
- 17:23SPEAKER_00: That is a quantum leap, right?
- 17:25SPEAKER_00: To a 40K day while stabilizing high faith fire group months.
- 17:28SPEAKER_00: To invest not only myself and my own mentorship, but also assets outside my business from overflow, right?
- 17:35SPEAKER_00: To really experience luxury in how I live, the food I eat, the water I drink, like the food I eat is I eat grass and meats, pasteur raised eggs, like or it's organic, uh, you know, the electrolytes, whatever, you know, fun, vibey, like wellness things I want, or like delicious figs, or like berries in the winter time, or you know, shopping at certain types of like grocery stores or buying that kind of like olive oil or truffle oil, whatever it is, like the water I drink.
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: Like I don't drink tap water.
- 18:07SPEAKER_00: Like that's also like from health stuff because there's lead and heavy metals and all that stuff in there.
- 18:11SPEAKER_00: But it allows me to then like spend the money on like water, you know, my home, first-class travel, five-star hotels, like all of these things.
- 18:22SPEAKER_00: Healing your relationship with money allows you to live in that luxury for whatever it looks like for you, right?
- 18:27SPEAKER_00: Whatever kind of home, travel, food, clothing, purses, bags, cosmetics, like whether you want to get massages every week, acupuncture, like whatever it is, right?
- 18:40SPEAKER_00: It just becomes then like a non-issue.
- 18:42SPEAKER_00: All right, it allows me to flow money not only into charities and causes that I love, but also to provide experiences for those in my life.
- 18:51SPEAKER_00: I remember, and I think I've mentioned this on a podcast before, but this is like I remember back in the day, this is one of the biggest things I was like so excited to do.
- 19:00SPEAKER_00: Um, it was when I first I don't know, was it when I first hit, I forget what year it was now.
- 19:06SPEAKER_00: No, I think it was just when I hit 40k months.
- 19:09SPEAKER_00: And I was going on a trip to no, was it just no, maybe it wasn't.
- 19:16SPEAKER_00: Time is relevant.
- 19:18SPEAKER_00: Anyways, I had just like really started anchoring into like that overflow frequency.
- 19:22SPEAKER_00: And I was going to Banff with um one of my family friends who's basically grew up like a sister to me.
- 19:28SPEAKER_00: She grew up the block, you know, um two blocks over from me.
- 19:31SPEAKER_00: I was always at her house every day after school, had grown up with her.
- 19:33SPEAKER_00: Anyways, we were oh, I know when she we were celebrating, I think her 30th.
- 19:38SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I want to say her 30th.
- 19:39SPEAKER_00: So maybe a couple of years ago, two years ago, though.
- 19:41SPEAKER_00: There we go.
- 19:43SPEAKER_00: And I surprised her by upgrading her flight from economy to business.
- 19:48SPEAKER_00: And like this is like not just like the business class with a little bit more space.
- 19:52SPEAKER_00: This is like full lie flat beds.
- 19:55SPEAKER_00: Like the beds go back.
- 19:56SPEAKER_00: It's a it's a four-hour flight, but it's it's luxe, right?
- 19:59SPEAKER_00: Like that's what I mean by luxury.
- 20:01SPEAKER_00: You get a duvet, you get pillows, you get like this nice big TV screen, you know, bottles of water, you know, dark chocolate, you know, meals, like everything is served in like glass.
- 20:12SPEAKER_00: Like you don't get like paper cups or everything, like the water, the tea, the coffee, all of it is ceramic and/or glass cups.
- 20:18SPEAKER_00: Like there's a lot of detail, right?
- 20:20SPEAKER_00: All of this experience that allowed me to provide an experience for her that she'd never experienced before.
- 20:25SPEAKER_00: And I did that from overflow, from like no-brainer.
- 20:28SPEAKER_00: And so this is what I mean by yes, you know, wealth allows you in healing relationship to do all these things, but it also allows you to send out ripples to everyone around you, right?
- 20:38SPEAKER_00: So you're not just doing this for yourself, you're doing this for everyone in your life, for those around you, for the causes you want to support.
- 20:45SPEAKER_00: And all of this came not from constricting, not from saving or hoarding my way there, right?
- 20:52SPEAKER_00: When we dive into your nervous system, you don't like look at your bank account and go, right?
- 20:58SPEAKER_00: No more choosing the cheaper thing to quote unquote save when you really want the five-star hotel or the first class travel or the quality food or the beautiful home or the strawberries in the middle of winter.
- 21:10SPEAKER_00: And you want to buy organic, but they're like$10, one thing, and you do it because you want to, right?
- 21:16SPEAKER_00: Or you buy the more expensive flight, or you fly first class, or you stay in a next level home, you know, or you know, you pay a little bit more on rent, or you stay in that hotel, or whatever it is.
- 21:26SPEAKER_00: Right?
- 21:27SPEAKER_00: You buy your dog the most expensive dog food.
- 21:29SPEAKER_00: We we buy a cost of like she loves it.
- 21:31SPEAKER_00: This is very quality dog food, but it's something like wealth is allowed, right?
- 21:36SPEAKER_00: And so you quite literally can't be someone who expands into greater levels of wealth if you are having a nervous system response to money.
- 21:44SPEAKER_00: Not only will you be unable to break a glass ceiling, but it's gonna be very contractive and dippy for you around it, which then makes you lose momentum when building wealth.
- 21:53unknown: Right?
- 21:53SPEAKER_00: When we think about momentum and building wealth, you lose momentum because of your nervous system response.
- 22:00SPEAKER_00: And we can't break through that glass ceiling because you get contractive and dippy, and then we start all over again.
- 22:05SPEAKER_00: You can't build wealth when we lose momentum because we're getting contractive and dippy around money.
- 22:09SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 22:10SPEAKER_00: And so this is really why your body's response to money and wealth matters.
- 22:15SPEAKER_00: Point blank, your nervous system dictates your ability to receive money.
- 22:21SPEAKER_00: So not only does how your body responds to money matter, it is the biggest thing that matters because it is a primal response.
- 22:27SPEAKER_00: It is just a viable mode response.
- 22:30SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter everything else.
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter how much you chant or affirm or kumbaya visualize, well, I don't care.
- 22:37SPEAKER_00: And I love all those things.
- 22:39SPEAKER_00: And I love immersing myself in environments and, you know, like expanding myself to next levels of wealth.
- 22:44SPEAKER_00: But that's because, and the reason why it really works is because my nervous system is solid.
- 22:48SPEAKER_00: If your body is not on board with big receiving, you know, while also not getting like grippy and contractive, it's going to be very hard to build wealth.
- 22:57SPEAKER_00: When your body feels safe with money because you've dissolved any weird somatic responses to it, you actually become the grounded, relaxed place wealth easily flows to without having to quote unquote manage.
- 23:08SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 23:08SPEAKER_00: Because yes, we want to be able to receive money, but we also want to be able to flow it and have it come back.
- 23:13SPEAKER_00: And so the only reason it doesn't come back is because you dipped into lax, scarcity, and got dysregulated in your nervous system.
- 23:19SPEAKER_00: You spiraled, you went into limiting beliefs, you told stories of it's not working.
- 23:24SPEAKER_00: You were not solid.
- 23:25SPEAKER_00: And that's why it came back.
- 23:26SPEAKER_00: Not because it doesn't want to come, it's because you decided it wasn't going to come back.
- 23:30SPEAKER_00: You quite literally cannot be someone who expands into greater levels of wealth if you are having a nervous system response.
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: My ability to not create stories and dip into lack is why I'm a match for wealth, even when there's no quote unquote evidence around me not to be.
- 23:43SPEAKER_00: It is impossible to feel wealth and scarcity at the same time.
- 23:46SPEAKER_00: Your conscious mind can do affirmations all day long, but they won't stick if your subconscious mind is dysregulated when it comes to wealth.
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: You literally get a bodily response that sends you into a spiral and you'll get stuck throwing spaghetti at the wall, hoping it's going to stick.
- 24:00SPEAKER_00: Right?
- 24:00SPEAKER_00: Your subconscious, which is your nervous system, runs 95% of the show.
- 24:06SPEAKER_00: So no wonder it's not working.
- 24:08SPEAKER_00: You're working with the 5% instead of the 95%.
- 24:12SPEAKER_00: And so if you're living in dysregulation with money, you can't actually ever build wealth.
- 24:16SPEAKER_00: Because in order to build wealth, you have to have a solid nervous system.
- 24:22SPEAKER_00: You have to be neutral.
- 24:23SPEAKER_00: You can't be having a body response to money when it comes to receiving, having, or flowing it out.
- 24:27SPEAKER_00: This is about like being able to, you know, not only make money, but build wealth.
- 24:32SPEAKER_00: And so this is why in like wealth recode, we are rewiring and expanding your nervous system to be the grounded, relaxed place that wealth easily flows to.
- 24:40SPEAKER_00: This is not a wealth mindset course.
- 24:42SPEAKER_00: This is not journaling, scripting, writing affirmations, hoping that it'll stick and wealth will fall from the sky.
- 24:46SPEAKER_00: This is not chanting.
- 24:47SPEAKER_00: This is being someone who exists in wealth.
- 24:50SPEAKER_00: Because when you change the way your nervous system interacts with wealth, you create the space that is not only safe and solid, but where it can expand.
- 24:56SPEAKER_00: And that is where the magic is.
- 24:59SPEAKER_00: So we are going to be rewiring your nervous system to dissolve fear, guilt, shame around money.
- 25:04SPEAKER_00: Because without doing this, nothing sticks.
- 25:05SPEAKER_00: You get caught in those same loops because unconsciously they're running the show and giving you that somatic response.
- 25:11SPEAKER_00: Right?
- 25:11SPEAKER_00: We're going to be expanding your nervous system into that place that wealth easily flows to because you need to not only be solid, but be able to hold more so that you remain open and in receiving mode.
- 25:20SPEAKER_00: All of this space actually creates an environment for money to easily flow to.
- 25:24SPEAKER_00: But this won't happen until expansion feels safe to your body.
- 25:27SPEAKER_00: If you don't feel safe, your brain and nervous system won't let you expand.
- 25:31SPEAKER_00: And then you will keep having to chase money instead of it flowing to you.
- 25:35SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 25:35SPEAKER_00: Obviously, we're going to be breaking out of the reactive and dysregulated state with money so that those contractive and dippy moments can be a thing of the past.
- 25:43SPEAKER_00: And you can be someone who naturally receives because you can't compound money and get wealth if you're getting dysregulated, remember?
- 25:49SPEAKER_00: And we're also going to be existing in the frequency of overflow and blasting through upper limits.
- 25:54SPEAKER_00: So it's one thing to receive money and it's another to be able to be in the energy of more than enough always.
- 26:00SPEAKER_00: And really, this is how you start to receive at the next level and break through glass ceilings, especially if no one in your family has done it before.
- 26:07unknown: All right.
- 26:08SPEAKER_00: So point blank, your nervous system dictates your ability to receive money and wealth.
- 26:14SPEAKER_00: And especially build wealth.
- 26:15SPEAKER_00: Remember that.
- 26:16SPEAKER_00: The wealth you desire has always existed within you.
- 26:19SPEAKER_00: You are just trapped in a cycle of lack and scarcity, perceiving money and wealth to be something outside of you, which then makes you constantly search outside of you for it and it's exhausting.
- 26:29SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 26:29SPEAKER_00: And you're so you're running in these loops of somatic responses and nervous system dysregulation.
- 26:34SPEAKER_00: We're going to be breaking you out of that and changing how you respond.
- 26:38SPEAKER_00: This is very important.
- 26:39SPEAKER_00: You need to understand why it occurs, the blocks that create it, and how to prevent it.
- 26:44SPEAKER_00: If you want to be the woman that money loves to flow to, if you want to get unstuck and to truly master the energetics of wealth.
- 26:52SPEAKER_00: So that being said, we will leave the details for wealth recode down below.
- 26:57SPEAKER_00: If you have any questions, you can always head on over to Instagram, send me a DM.
- 27:02SPEAKER_00: If you also found this episode helpful, send it to someone who needs to like understand, you know, money programming who really wants to work on their money mindset.
- 27:11SPEAKER_00: If you and like a friend are really into money stuff, send it to him, send it to her, whatever it is.
- 27:16SPEAKER_00: Cause we we need to get all people on board with you know being a match for higher states of wealth.
- 27:21SPEAKER_00: So with that being said, I love you guys so much and I will see you in the next episode.