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Best of full interview: T.K. Kirkland Talks New Series 'Lot Patrol', Fatherhood, Modern Dating, Upcoming Shows + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: We all finished or y'all done? Morning, everybody.
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  Speaker 2: It's DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha God. We are
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  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club. Law and the Rose is here as well.
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  Speaker 2: We got a special guest in the building.
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  Speaker 3: One of my OGs.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: TK Kirkland.
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  Speaker 1: It's always good to see y'all, man. Hello. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: for the flowers. I'm doing good.
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  Speaker 4: You're welcome, sweetheart.
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  Speaker 1: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 2: TK was up 5.30.
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  Speaker 3: T to the motherfucking K.
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  Speaker 2: 5.30 every morning. TK is in the gym working out.
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  Speaker 3: TK, how old are you now? 66.
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  Speaker 1: 66 years old.
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  Speaker 2: This morning, he was on live, working out 5.30 in
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  Speaker 2: the morning, and I was on my way dropping in
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  Speaker 2: the morning.
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  Speaker 1: TK was working, and he was showing.
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  Speaker 2: He was like, look, I want you to know, he's
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  Speaker 2: just 25 pounds, and you don't need all that heavy weight.
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  Speaker 1: And TK was working out this morning. Right, right, right. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't lift heavy anymore. I just stay consistent. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think I bench pressed 230 in about 15 years,
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  Speaker 1: as long as I stay consistent.
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  Speaker 3: You look good, though, brother. Thank you, sir. And the
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  Speaker 3: reason I bring that up is because you're wearing Jay-Z
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  Speaker 3: on your shirt. And one thing I think that Jay-Z
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  Speaker 3: showed us, and your career has shown us, It ain't
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  Speaker 3: about being the white hot person because you're only going
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  Speaker 3: to be that once.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: But to have a career that is consistent. Consistent. That's
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  Speaker 3: the key.
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  Speaker 1: And long. Yep.
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  Speaker 3: And can still do the things that he did this
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  Speaker 3: weekend and the things that you're doing. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: Because when I saw that, you know, because I opened
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  Speaker 1: for Jay-Z on the Heart of My Life tour.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it all started because we threw a party, me, Chaz,
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  Speaker 1: you know, all the hustlers, zipping all of us. And
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  Speaker 1: we threw a party, and they hired Jay-Z. And I
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  Speaker 1: remember paying him $ 1, 500. Damn. You know, and I tell
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  Speaker 1: this story, and I tell you, he took my money
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  Speaker 1: and flipped it. And that's how you became a billionaire.
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  Speaker 1: That's the story. I said, that was the seed money,
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  Speaker 1: you know. But what was so cool about it, they
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  Speaker 1: came back around and got me. And it took me
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  Speaker 1: on the Hard Knock Life Tour. And from that, that's
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  Speaker 1: how I hooked up with Baby from Cash Money. Because
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  Speaker 1: when we was down there, Baby walked up on me
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  Speaker 1: and said, yo, what up all day? He said, I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing this movie called Baller Blockin'. And I want you to...
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  Speaker 1: And then that's how I hooked up with the Rough Riders.
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  Speaker 1: And the rest is history.
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  Speaker 3: Let's talk about Lot Patrol, though. Who are you playing
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  Speaker 3: on Lot Patrol?
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  Speaker 1: I'm playing a young man named Mr. Cox. And... I
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  Speaker 1: would describe it, I know, everybody start laughing. So listen, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I took it as me playing the role like Ari
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  Speaker 1: Gold from Entourage because I'm the boss of the lot
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  Speaker 1: and I have all these security guards just really doing
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  Speaker 1: all these shenanigans. But every comic who come on here
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  Speaker 1: or any interview will say it's their TV show. That's
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  Speaker 1: the great thing about, that's the funny thing about comedians.
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  Speaker 1: A comedian's going to say, yeah, go watch my show.
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  Speaker 1: But it's all about shows. And it's just a great situation,
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  Speaker 1: especially for me, because I never really cared about TV
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  Speaker 1: or doing movies back in the day. You know, I've
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  Speaker 1: always like, let me go get the money, because that
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  Speaker 1: was real for me and being on the road. And
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  Speaker 1: it paid off at my age.
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  Speaker 3: And it's shot like a documentary, but they call it
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  Speaker 3: a mockumentary.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's called a mockumentary.
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  Speaker 3: How does that change how you do your comedy versus
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  Speaker 3: like a scripted thing?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I have to be honest with you. I'm the
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  Speaker 1: worst when it comes to studying. You know, when they
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  Speaker 1: sent me the script, I acted like I was really
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  Speaker 1: studying on the plane and I really thought I was
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  Speaker 1: that guy. And when I landed, I didn't comprehend nothing. Like,
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  Speaker 1: nothing stayed in my head. But when we was on
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  Speaker 1: the set, Manny, who knew my stand-up, was like, yo,
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  Speaker 1: this is TK. He knows this stuff better than all
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  Speaker 1: of us. So I was able to just look at
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  Speaker 1: the stuff and just wing it. And they said that
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  Speaker 1: I did a great job. And I didn't believe him
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  Speaker 1: the same way you was not believing me. Like, the
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  Speaker 1: way you was acting, that's the way I was acting
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  Speaker 1: to them. No, when they were saying, TK, you was good,
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  Speaker 1: like the same energy he was doing, when you said,
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  Speaker 1: get out of here, I swear to you, I had
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  Speaker 1: the same energy to them. So I'm looking at you,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, that's the same way I was acting
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  Speaker 1: when they was talking about my show. And I just
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  Speaker 1: thought that was from now. I said, I was going
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  Speaker 1: to ask you, was you there when they asked me
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  Speaker 1: that question? Yeah. Yeah, so that's the way. And we
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  Speaker 1: pulled it off. And as a matter of fact, I
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  Speaker 1: think we got picked up for another season already.
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  Speaker 3: Dope.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think we have to call the other
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  Speaker 1: day about that. Didn't you do security before? Like, kind of? No, no.
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  Speaker 3: See, I don't know. What's wrong?
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  Speaker 1: In a movie?
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  Speaker 4: Or, like, you made it part of his real-life story?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I don't want to say security, but you've been,
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  Speaker 3: I guess, the muscle for some other comedians. You've kept
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  Speaker 3: people off other comedians before. No, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: That's never been my thing. My thing is... I'm older
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  Speaker 1: than mostly everybody. My thing has always been I stay
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  Speaker 1: out of the way. I let the young kids do
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  Speaker 1: what they do. I don't get involved because my reputation
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  Speaker 1: is not the greatest reputation, right? So what I try
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  Speaker 1: to do is make sure that I keep an honest
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  Speaker 1: and peaceful light as I go through life. And I
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  Speaker 1: stay away from anything that can bring me trouble. It's
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  Speaker 1: important to me because, I mean, we know.
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  Speaker 3: But that's one thing I've heard people say, whether you
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  Speaker 3: realize it or not, that TK, even with the reputation,
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  Speaker 3: you've kept some people out of trouble, whether.
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  Speaker 1: You know it or not. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We
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  Speaker 1: do what we got to do. It doesn't come down
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  Speaker 1: to fights. It comes down to a phone call. Because
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  Speaker 1: you're well-respected, people will respect your word, and you keep
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  Speaker 1: it moving. That's all.
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  Speaker 2: How important to you, and I know you work out
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  Speaker 2: every day, but I've been seeing a lot of comedians...
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  Speaker 2: sick recently, right? I see you with Capone, Salute to Capone.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, God bless. Shout out to Capone. Salute to Capone.
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  Speaker 2: I see a bunch of other comedians. How important is that?
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  Speaker 2: Because you guys live a tough life, right? You're always
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  Speaker 2: in the club. A lot of times, a lot of
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  Speaker 2: comedians drink a lot because it gets them started. Cigarettes
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  Speaker 2: a lot. So how important is health?
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  Speaker 1: Health has always been important to me. It started since
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  Speaker 1: I was a kid because I ran track, I ran,
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  Speaker 1: I played football. And the key to success to me
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  Speaker 1: is discipline. You got to have that discipline. I go
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  Speaker 1: to bed like 9, 10 o'clock. I'm up like 2,
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  Speaker 1: 3 in the morning. I make sure I hit the
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  Speaker 1: gym and put my 2, 3 hours in. And then
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  Speaker 1: I go for a walk and do like about sometimes
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  Speaker 1: 6 miles, sometimes 9 in one day. And then I
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  Speaker 1: start my day and I just keep it going. But
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  Speaker 1: it's discipline, but you got to start young. A lot
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  Speaker 1: of people start at 40 and 45. To me, that's
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  Speaker 1: too late. I think people got to eat well young.
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  Speaker 1: People got to work out young. I've seen a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people that did drugs at a young age, and
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  Speaker 1: they start working out later, and they never made it.
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  Speaker 1: I think you damage your body at a young age,
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  Speaker 1: and once it's damaged, I don't think you really could
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  Speaker 1: repair it. You've seen people get on crack. even though
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  Speaker 1: they stop, they still look horrible. Am I right or wrong? Like, yo,
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  Speaker 1: such and such was on crack, but... TK goes to
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  Speaker 1: the extreme. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: Smoke cigarettes, they're on crack.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're on crack, but they still look horrible. So
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  Speaker 1: I don't think there's no coming back from that. You
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  Speaker 1: got to start young. And we was taught so many
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  Speaker 1: different ways to eat, right? Eating three times a day
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  Speaker 1: was the wrong information. We're really supposed to eat one
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  Speaker 1: time a day. People don't understand about their cortisol. People
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  Speaker 1: don't understand about those type of things with your blood
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  Speaker 1: pressure and all that. They tell you that sugar is
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  Speaker 1: the culprit, but it's really, I mean, they tell you
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  Speaker 1: sugar is the culprit, but they say salt is the
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  Speaker 1: culprit to give you high blood pressure. But salt is
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  Speaker 1: really good for you. It's the sugar. That's bad for you.
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  Speaker 1: And a lot of people don't know that. Sugar in
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  Speaker 1: your eyes is called glaucoma. Sugar in your bones is
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  Speaker 1: called arthritis. Sugar in a child is called ADHD. So
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  Speaker 1: all that comes from sugar. And I had somebody actually
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  Speaker 1: argue with me on Facebook saying that you can't get
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  Speaker 1: that from sugar. And I just tell people just to
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  Speaker 1: Google stuff. I mean, it's right there. The sugar is
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  Speaker 1: really serious. But they have lobbyists in D.C. that protects
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  Speaker 1: these people from And they push out the narrative to
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  Speaker 1: the world and people bite on it. And it's been
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  Speaker 1: taught since we was kids. And all of us, everybody
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  Speaker 1: in this room was pre-diabetic if you want to go
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  Speaker 1: that way because all our parents had a five-pound domino
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  Speaker 1: bag of sugar sitting on the counter when we was kids.
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  Speaker 1: And you took four pounds and put it in the
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  Speaker 1: Kool-Aid to stir it up until you saw snow. And
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  Speaker 1: you taste it and say, it's not sweet enough. You
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  Speaker 1: put the other pound in. So you got 0.5 pounds
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  Speaker 1: of the Kool-Aid and the sugar in the Kool-Aid. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's crazy. But that's important. It's very important to stay healthy. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Now, trending things with you. So I was watching your
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  Speaker 4: interview on Club Shay Shay.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: The headline that they put, and you just mentioned your reputation. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 4: The headline that they put is TK Kirkland talks about
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  Speaker 4: when he robbed Diddy, which we know is like this
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  Speaker 4: old story about- It's an old story.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So why do you, when you go to places like,
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  Speaker 4: why talk about stuff like that then if you just mentioned,
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  Speaker 4: you didn't want to talk about the protecting people with Sharla.
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  Speaker 1: That's true. And it's always a time to start. So
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  Speaker 1: we're going to start now. We're not going to talk
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  Speaker 1: about it.
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  Speaker 4: Don't do us.
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  Speaker 3: I know. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm joking.
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  Speaker 3: I'm joking. I guess we're the platform like Shea Shea.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's a big platform and that was your first time.
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  Speaker 1: And it was first time on there. Yeah. I've been
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  Speaker 1: here a hundred times. I was just wondering.
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  Speaker 4: Because when, when he mentioned the protecting people thing, I
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  Speaker 4: was like, Oh, he don't really want to go into
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  Speaker 4: that stuff. But then when I watched that interview, I
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  Speaker 4: was like, why?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it was because of that. And then
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  Speaker 1: he boarded up and it caught me slipping. But I,
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: if you ever noticed my interviews, I never allow anybody
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: to get me caught up in messiness.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I always pivot out of the messiness. And, um, Now
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  Speaker 1: that things have truly changed even more, there's certain things
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  Speaker 1: I probably won't ever talk about ever again. If you know,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 4: Have you had to learn to navigate those type of
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  Speaker 4: things because business was messing up for you too?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. I was always in money. God's
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  Speaker 1: here to tell you. I always got the bread. The
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  Speaker 1: thing it with me is as you get older you
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  Speaker 1: just want to be respected more yeah it is yeah
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  Speaker 1: the goal is respect is about relationships and um you
• 10:08
  Speaker 1: know you get to be my age you just want
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  Speaker 1: good things to happen good things are happening Do.
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  Speaker 4: You think that there is a, because like even on
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  Speaker 4: Lot Patrol, right, like you're working with like the Skeet
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  Speaker 4: Carters and people that are coming up in this where
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  Speaker 4: being viral is a thing for them. But at the
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  Speaker 4: same time, like you said, there's a respect that also
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  Speaker 4: keeps business and relationships.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: What do you tell people like him or like the
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  Speaker 4: younger comedians that are coming up when they're navigating that space?
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  Speaker 1: I explain to them to be friends with everybody. You know,
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  Speaker 1: don't make, don't have a clique. Don't get caught up
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  Speaker 1: in the he said, she said stuff. That's important because
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  Speaker 1: you never know who's going to make it. So you
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  Speaker 1: treat everybody well because you never know who's going to
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  Speaker 1: be that person to take off. And never burn the headliner.
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  Speaker 1: You know, when he was coming up, it felt good
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  Speaker 1: to destroy somebody behind you that had a little name.
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  Speaker 1: And then they really blow up, blow up. They never
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  Speaker 1: look out for you no more because they know what
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: you've done to them. And there's no recovery from that.
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  Speaker 3: Why are comedians so petty?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was about to say, because if you come
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  Speaker 4: on and you just better, what are you supposed to
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  Speaker 4: do about that?
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  Speaker 1: Nobody wants to be outshined, I think. I can't explain it.
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  Speaker 1: I just stay away from all that. I'm glad my
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  Speaker 1: name now is on the marquee. You know, I'm glad
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  Speaker 1: that I get a majority of the door. I pick
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  Speaker 1: who I want on the show. And I just really
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: stay out the way and just get my little change
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  Speaker 1: and keep it moving. Because like you said earlier, it's
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  Speaker 1: about consistency.
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  Speaker 3: 40 years.
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  Speaker 1: Like, Jay been doing it 30, and I was doing
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  Speaker 1: it 10 years before him. So... I got 40 years in.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm only 41.
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  Speaker 2: It's always difficult, though. If you look at DJing or artists, right?
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  Speaker 2: I remember Jay, we were talking about Jay, telling this
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  Speaker 2: story about when DMX got on before him and Redman
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  Speaker 2: and Methman making their show so active and flying to
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: the stage that he had to increase what he did
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: on stage and make his show better because he was
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: coming behind them.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: DJs do that. Comedians do that. Like, you don't want
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: nobody to be laughing crazy. And when you get there,
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  Speaker 2: it's like.
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  Speaker 1: That's so true. You have to... But that's up to
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  Speaker 1: the promoters as well.
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  Speaker 4: That's what they say, but it's people putting a show
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  Speaker 4: together that know what you're coming with, though.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. It doesn't go like that. Promoters
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: put asses in the seats. Their job is to get
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  Speaker 1: the money. And what artists don't do is that we
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: don't talk to each other. Meaning in comedy, we should
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: have this thing called comedy IQ. If all of us
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: are about to perform, we should all be in the
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: green room talking, what are you going to talk about tonight?
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: What are you going to talk about tonight? So that
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: way we don't talk about the same exact thing. Because
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: if you're sitting in the audience and people hear the
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: same topic, they like, yo, didn't you hear? He just
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: said the same thing. Now the joke might be different,
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: but you got this, it's the same topic. And that's
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: what I think comedians should do amongst each other.
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: You said you have those conversations a lot?
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  Speaker 1: I have them when I'm on my, on my shows,
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  Speaker 1: you know? And then sometimes I, believe it or not,
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: you can't curse on my show. Really? Yeah. Can't curse
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: on my show. But it's two things. Cause you know,
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: I'm always like trying to teach. Yeah. So in my day,
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: you want a comedian to learn and be comfortable doing
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: a clean set. Because if you want to work for
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: the rest of your life, you're going to have to
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: learn how to do clean material. Young comics, all they
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: know how to do is, um, P-jokes, D-jokes, and profanity.
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  Speaker 1: No one has taught them to do a clean set.
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  Speaker 1: And if you really want to work in Brussels like
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: I do, you want to work in Paris like I do,
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  Speaker 1: you want to work in all these different places, you're
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  Speaker 1: going to have to learn how to do clean material.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: And it's best to start right in this small comedy
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  Speaker 1: club or somewhere in the States if you're taking this
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  Speaker 1: comedy game seriously.
• 13:41
  Speaker 3: So you don't say T to the mother F and
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: K no more?
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: No, I still say it. But I don't say it
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: on all shows. My shows now, I talk about being
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: president of the Home Owners Association. You know, stuff like that.
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: It's hilarious. You laugh because you own a home. When
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: I see people don't laugh, I'm like, oh, you must
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  Speaker 1: not own a home. But when people own a home
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: and understand the community, they understand it. And I explain
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: to being president of the Home Owners Association, I'm privileged
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: to certain things. Like when women husbands die, I know.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: So I open my home up. For comfort.
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: Got you.
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: You know, 3, 4 o'clock in the morning, you know?
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: And over the years, it's gotten so bad, I wound
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: up getting my money, and now I bought a flyer
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: spot over at Assistant Living. So now all of them
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: got signed at the front desk. You know? And when
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: we was hustlers, you know, we bought women diamonds and
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: all that. It's fly. But, oh, it's different when you're
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: a senior citizen, dog. I just bought Ms. Williams a scooter.
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: and you are technically you consider yourself I'm a senior
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: citizen 65 and over really wow yeah do you use
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: some discounts yeah discount is serious dog they don't believe
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: you they be making you show you I don't believe
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: you yo the coldest thing is IHOP I went to
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: IHOP and I got the senior citizen meal you know
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: have you ever seen the senior citizen meal no it's
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: hash browns black coffee two pack it's very tasty very
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: delicious you know.
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: You got to show your ID because they don't believe you.
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: Watch where I'm going with this, right? So I left
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: and I realized they didn't apply my ID. So I
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: busted U-turn and went right back to IHOP. And you
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: know there's always a white girl who's a cashier who
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: thinks she wants to be manager one day. And when
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I walked in, she said, sir, is there something wrong?
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: Was there something wrong with delicious hot pancakes in your head?
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: So I said, I don't want to talk to you.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: I want to talk to people who make decisions. The
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: manager comes out. He says, sir, is there a problem?
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: I said, yes. I'm a senior citizen. They didn't apply
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: my discount. He said, sir. You're not a senior citizen.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: I said, sir, yes, I am. Here's my ID. He
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: looked at my ID and said, oh, my God. You
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: look good for your age. I said, yep, 20%. I
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: don't care about the compliment. 20%. Now, it was only
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: 17 cents, but it's not the point. I lived long
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: enough to get my discount. I'm a senior citizen. I
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: want everything coming to me. The gas cost you more
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: to get back. That's right. I'm going to get my
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: 17 cents.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: I don't blame you.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: That's right.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: Have you seen the new Netflix show called The Polygamist?
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: I started to watch it, and I didn't like the actor.
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: Which one?
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: The guy that's doing all the sex stuff and cheating.
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: I started, and it triggered me. I had to turn
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: it off.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. I don't think he was smooth enough to
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: pull that off.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's based in Africa about a man seeking
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: out wealthy women and marrying them, and he got a
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: bunch of wives.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: What are your thoughts on just that premise, though, on
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: polygamy in that way?
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: It happens. You know, it depends on how good you
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: are to get away with it. And do I recommend?
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I just believe men just stay safe. I know you
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: guys are married. Half the world is married. And I'm
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: happy for y'all because I know when y'all was young
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: and y'all was out there doing what I used to do.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: You know, and how you got settled down and got
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: a family. You know, why are you laughing? Because Charlamagne
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: was something else. Charlamagne was something else when he was young.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: I see what you're doing here. You're getting him back.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: But I do remember T.K. used to say in a set, T.K.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: used to say, you don't want no girl that don't
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: ask you for nothing.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: No, no, no. You want to find somebody that don't
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: need to be taken care of and then take care
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: of them.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: There you go.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, something like that.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: Dang, what's wrong with girls that ask you for stuff?
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: Because you just said the.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: Opposite of that.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: So here's the thing about what women don't understand. Young girls,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: you just don't get it. It's psychology even when it
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: comes to men. A man wants to feel that he
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: wants to help you, but As you get older and
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: you understand life, we all have bills. So if I
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: meet you and you are another bill, the goal in
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: life is to get rid of your bills every month.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Like what? You're a bill. And just because you text me,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: you call, you have sex with me, I'm supposed to
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: continue paying your bills? My thing is your parents sent
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: you into the world unprepared. And when men wake up
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: and they understand it, it bothers them because they want
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: someone who's thoughtful, who's considerate, who's not complaining all the time.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: And some of our women just don't get it. They'll
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: go back and forth in conversation. And some guys stay
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: in it. But when they ask me, I tell them
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: to leave.
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: You said they'll go back and forth in conversation.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: They'll stay in the relationship. I believe break it off.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: I believe you protect your peace at all costs. Break
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: it all and meet somebody new.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: Oh, when the girl's asking for things.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: Not enough she's asking for things, she's complaining. Giving is
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: out of your heart. If you're feeling someone and you're
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: really feeling her and she's thankful, like, I'll get you flowers,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying? But if you don't text
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: and say thank you or call... oh okay I'm glad
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: you let me off the hook because I see that
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: you wasn't raised right because a man to me a
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: man wants a phone call if I get you flowers
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Call me and say, oh, my God, thank you. I
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: don't care if you're married. I buy a woman flowers
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: that's married. But if you're married, call me. I need
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: a phone call.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: You know why he making sense? Because some women have
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: such a sense of entitlement.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: There you go.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: They expect things.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Yes. I don't have to get you no flowers. That's right.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: Do you have daughters, TK?
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: I have daughters, yes.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: Okay, all y'all have daughters. So what do you guys
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: teach your daughters about the entitlements? Where entitlement, sometimes it's
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: a boundary that women set up to make sure that
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: they're not getting less than they deserve. How do you
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: guys teach them to navigate that?
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: So here's what you're saying. You're talking about parents that
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: don't raise their kids.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: No, I'm asking for you guys.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: No, listen to what I'm saying.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I'm sharing with you. You raise their kids.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: No.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Men who raise their children, their daughters don't go around
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: thinking like that. Because we take care of our children.
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: Ask her what her father does.
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: Shut up.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Shut up.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: When you ready, write.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Shut up. See, when a father don't take care of
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: his daughters, that's the results that you get.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: Is what?
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Entitlement. You feel like you're supposed to get certain things.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: But when a man takes care of his daughters... She's
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: not looking for a man because she's got a dad.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: She'll never come to another man and expect anything because
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: all our lives we took care of our daughters so
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: much that they don't even Process that thinking.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: And don't let daddy be touching some paper. Daddy said,
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: we touching some paper too.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Exactly. Yeah. Daughters who've been raised by good dads, that
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: ain't coming out they mouth though.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: So my question then is, what I was trying to
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: ask is.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: You asked what you wanted to ask.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: No.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: It didn't go the way you wanted it to.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: No.
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: What I was trying to ask is, because you guys
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: are like that, what are you doing and what are your,
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: like what should the girls who are the opposite be
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: learning from your daughters?
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Like what are you teaching them? They can't learn from us.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Everything starts in the home. We could sit here and
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: explain this all day. It's already in their DNA because
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: of their parents. This is the reason why we have
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: the confusion that we have out here in this country.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Everybody has a platform to give knowledge and gain. Nobody's
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: paying attention. Your mother, your father has to teach you this.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: They don't say thank you and they don't open the
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: door when women feel or using profanity and talking any
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: kind of way. A real man, when he see that,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: he don't want to deal with that.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: You know what's interesting? Lauren don't curse a lot. Lauren's
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: a nice young lady.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: How you are in relationships, but she has a lot
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: of gratitude.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: I can tell by her personality. I watch you on
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: this thing a lot, and I'm good at discernment. Thanks.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Very nice woman. But the great thing about you, you're
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: beautiful on the outside, but you're also beautiful inside. on
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: the inside and it.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Comes why you looking like that you can't take compliments
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: yeah I'm.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Not good at that he be doing he be.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: Doing jokes thank you I mean jokes yeah no no
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: no she was looking like she looked at me like
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: something was coming like I was playing especially when he
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: start off the niceness it's like alright.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: No no no every man moves differently I compliment if
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I can't give a compliment I ain't gonna say nothing
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I think you're a beautiful sister. I think you are
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: very intelligent. And it comes across on the screen.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Now, Lauren's a good person. Yeah, she's a good person.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: You're a good person. I mean, we don't know how
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: she is in relationships, though.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: That's true.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: I'm the same way in relationships until it gets to
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: a point where I shouldn't be.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Nah, she cares.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: She rides.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I'm the same way. You ever take your man shopping?
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: Love taking care of my man if.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: He's taking care of me and here's the thing about
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: it what big and tall store you take him to
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: cause he a husky first of all.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Stop playing with my man that is a grown ass.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: 6'4 beautiful chocolate man beautiful.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: Chocolate man but if I am in a relationship that
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm He's treating me great. I have no, like, that's, what? Like,
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: that's bare minimum for me. But it's not about financial
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: things either. Men, like, a lot of times what I
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: encounter with him is that it's simple things like you said. Like,
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: a thank you or like a thoughtful or like a.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: That's so true. You can get him a card and
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: put it under the pillow. He will swear you bought
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: him a Bentley.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: He'd be going crazy.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: That's how little things to men are. You know what
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I mean? You can give him cute tips. You can
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: buy him socks. And I always tell gentlemen to wear
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: pajamas around the house. You know, now you guys are successful.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: So here's the thing about pajamas. Just my opinion. I
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: think pajamas gives an edge to you for you to
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: practice mentally about success. It makes you feel a certain way.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: And I think that especially when you open your door, mailman,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: FedEx or whatever, I just think to that person who's
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: looking at you, you look like you got your stuff together.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: What's some rich man pajamas?
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I wear nice pajamas, but you know,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I went to Walmart the other day, and Walmart had
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: stepped their game up. I was walking through, and I
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: saw some pajamas for $ 19. And I snatched them up, dog.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Are they cotton? It don't have to be expensive, as
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: long as the material feels good on you.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: You got to know what material to buy from Walmart.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying wear pajamas to bed. as a
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: presentation walkthrough, especially men who have horrible bodies. If you
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: got a horrible body, you should wear a robe and pajamas.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: You got, like, your feet are horrible, like, your nails
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: is yellow, and you got cracked ankles and heels. Slippers.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Because your woman will find you attractive. Now, when you
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: get undercover, you take things off slowly. And you slide
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: underneath there, that's a different ball game. But when you
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: walk through the house, it's a presentation. Like, oh, my
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: man looks good.
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: What about women? Because y'all love women in certain type
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: of pajamas.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: No, women have fallen off bad.
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: They be talking about that.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Y'all come to bed looking any kind of way. And
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I always say when you're in a relationship, you got
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: to be prepared for lovemaking 24-7. You got to always
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: take a shower. You got to always take your wig off.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: And women should take their wigs off And eyelashes at
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: least once a month so the man can know who
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: they are because as you get older, things happen.
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: So you accept a woman who takes her wig off.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: No, you can fall down the stairs. You could be
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: in a car accident. And if that man comes to
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: the hospital, you'd say, Doc, my wife is here. Where
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: is she? Oh, she's in 14B. And you walk in like, Doc,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I thought you said my wife was here. That's her
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: right there. Oh, baby, put the wig back on. I
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: ain't recognize you.
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: Ain't no woman taking her wig off around you. You
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: got me in jokes.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: But that's my point. A man should know what his
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: woman look like. That's real. That's real. That's all I'm saying.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I think it's horrible that you go out and the
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: woman had the eyelashes on, the long hair, and that's
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: not how she looks. And when you take it off, well,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: eventually one day, and the eyelashes are on, and the
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: guy looking at you at his peripheral. What the hell
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: is that? Whoa, she look horrible.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: That's real.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: Am I right or wrong?
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: That's real. Have you done, you did 80 Pops South Shore, right?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: You never did Poor Minds podcast with Gary and Lex?
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: You should do Poor Minds. No, no, I don't think so.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: You should do Poor Minds. They under the 80 Pops
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: South Shore umbrella. They with Black Effect too, but you
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: should do 80 Pops.
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: They recently did Club Shea Shea.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: What was the quote?
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: Okay, so they recently did Club Shea Shea and they
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: talked about a couple things. First thing was, you know
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: Daphne Joy, the girl that was dating Diddy, that was
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: on Sex Aid with him?
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: So they said that a black woman would never be
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: able to be on a press run about a sexual
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: encounter like that, how she's been. Like, she did Kim
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: Newton after all of that. She sent people calling her
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: the new Kim Kardashian.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Because the sex tape dropped.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because the sex tape dropped. And they're saying if
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: it was a black woman, like Meg Thee Stallion or whoever.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: Ain't Daphne black?
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: No, she's like Filipino.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: But basically they're saying because she's not black, people are
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: melting at her. When if it was a black woman,
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: it'd be like, ooh, that's the girl from the 60s.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: We live in the world that it is what it
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: is now. It ain't no secret no more. The world
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: don't rock with black people. And it's bad to say it,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: no matter how much we achieve. I mean, our black
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: women are some of the most gorgeous women in the world.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Some of the most natural butts, natural breasts that you
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: can imagine. And what I've seen in my lifetime is
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: in 30 years, the decline of common sense and education.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: And it just truly went downhill. And women started getting
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: more surgeries because of the Kardashians, the big lips. And
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: our beautiful black women have been this way forever. since
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: the beginning of time, even when you go back when
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: they had the black girl with the big buck in
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: the zoo. And they was in awe of her. You
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? But you know she died of syphilis, right?
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: So even though they was talking about her, men were
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: still having sex with her behind closed doors. So what
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: can we do about it, guys? There's nothing. All we
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: can do is just really complain. If Daphne's doing it,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: the best way to handle things like that is wish
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: her well. if that's what she's doing with Shuella, I'm
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: still tripping how Puff gave the girl Cassidy 30 million
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: and she came to court. Like, I'm a street hustler.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I gave you 30 million, you came to court? Like,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to disappear. I remember catching a case out
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: here with the crew in 93. We gave a girl
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: $ 11, 000 to leave the country. She's still going.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: She ain't been back.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Off $ 11, 000, dog. In 93. In 93. God damn.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Man, she's still going off 11 bands.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: If you want to see TK. Hold on, we got more.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: Ask them about the split the bill thing that they
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: were talking about.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: So they said that, let me get the verbatim. They
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: were talking about, okay, splitting the bill or growing with someone.
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: It was the debate between, are you okay with doing the,
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: this person doesn't have a 50-50, or you come into
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: a person's life and I don't want to build you. Like,
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: I want you to.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: They said women not splitting the bill.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: That was the conversation about it.
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: But more so, from what I took from it, I
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: took from the conversation that they were saying, we're at
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: a point in our lives where we want you to
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: come to the table with something to put on the table. Like,
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: I don't want to have to, like, start you from zero.
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: I'm too old for that.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: They even talked about roommates and how they dated people
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: with roommates before, but at this point in.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: Time, they wouldn't do it anymore. No, no, no, All that.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: So here's what I've been doing for years. I've been
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: telling men before they even start dating to have their
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: money together because you don't have to be rich, but
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: a woman want to go to a movie, she want
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: to take a nice little trip, but you... What's my
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: main thing? Stay low-key, flex occasionally. Meaning you stay low-key,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: get your money up, you work hard. And as you
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: grow together, you pick two, three times a year when
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: you can flex, right? You can flex. Put on your MasterCard,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: American Express, and you pay that bill later on. Because
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: who we are, if we took a woman on a date,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: she ain't paying the bill because that's who we are, right?
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: But everybody don't have the kind of change we have, right?
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: So it depends on the female that you with. Some girls... Well,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: don't mind paying half. Some women don't even mind picking
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: you up. I had a beautiful lady who tried to
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: pick me up on a date. I was like, you
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: ain't picking me up because that's the kind of guy
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I am. And even when we leave the restaurant, you
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: ain't dropping me off unless you staying with me because
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: I'm not the female. I take that very seriously. But
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: I tell men, get their money up and you should
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: pay and never ask a woman to leave a tip
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: or anything like that. That's part of the game. But
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: go to places that you go anyway. Because the girl
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: is not there to benefit you. Like, I'm doing this
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: with you or without you. This is how I eat.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: This is what I do all the time. You're just
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: here to keep me company. And always go out with
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: someone that you like. Because you know it's a horrible
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: feeling to take someone to a good restaurant and you
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: don't like her.
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: I'm not trying to.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Say have sex with her or anything of that nature.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, you just don't like her.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: Men will sit down at a restaurant with anybody.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: She eating good and drinking good. And you looking at her,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: you know. I remember in the 90s, Houston, so here
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: on Park Avenue, texting and all that stuff started coming out.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: That's how long I've been around.
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: What if the woman asked you out and she got paper?
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: Like a lot of paper, probably more paper. I've had that.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: I actually had a woman really pay me $ 1, 000 a month.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: True story. She just loved me that much. I wasn't
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: doing nothing. She just loved me. Sometimes she would send
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: me money, cash out, just say buy lunch and all
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. But it got to a point
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I had to stop it because I felt like the female.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: I felt like I didn't want to get bored. You
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? So I was always taught if
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: a female gives you money, you hung out with her
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: a few times. My mom always said, don't ever give
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: it back. That's for your time. That's a... My mom
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: gave me that game. My mom said, that's what you're
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: talking about. That's what the girls.
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: With the dads be saying, too, and then y'all be
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: mad at them.
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: Say that one more time.
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: The girls with the dads be saying that, too, and
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: then y'all be mad.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. I told you. The girls without
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: the dads.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 32:27
  Speaker 4: First of all, and I'm the complete opposite of what
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: y'all think. Like, I'm not just out here like, give me,
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: give me, give me.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: No, we know you're not like that, baby.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: No, they don't know. They don't know.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Baby, trust me. I'm looking at you. Thank you. If
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: I was a little younger, I'd try to holler at you.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean? And also, I seen her
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: a few years ago when she ain't had no paper.
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: So I know she wasn't asking nobody for no damn money.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Right, right, right, right.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: You try to say you didn't run down.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: No, I didn't say all that.
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: Like, you really be playing with me.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: I see the little thing, your little neck that you.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: This was a gift from my dad.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, see, you've been a nice person. When I first
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: met you, I could tell you was struggling. Wow. No,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: I could tell her scalp was dry. Wow. She didn't
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: have the moisture in her hair like she got now.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: I don't even remember what hairstyle I had.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Oh, no.
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: I had the bob, and it was flowing that day.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: No, I'm sorry. You did. And you look extremely beautiful now.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: But when you first came on the show.
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: Let me see.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: You ain't lying, TK.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: Look.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Look, I got hair.
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: That is not how he met me.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: No, you didn't look attractive there.
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: No, I had above the day I met you.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I'm frowning looking at that picture.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: I had above the day I met you.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Don't play me. Don't frown it.
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: The interview is, let's wrap this up.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Like, they paid you good. You look amazing now, you know?
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: I'm actually making the same thing now that I was
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: making that.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: No, you were not. No, you weren't.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: Don't even tell that guy a damn lie.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: Black effect kicked in a little bit.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: A lot of it. Okay. But you do it, and
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: you got a wonderful personality. That guy's going to marry you.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's going to marry. No, no, no.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Don't say you know.
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: I do know.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: No, no, no. Listen to your OG. Never assume that
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: that's going to happen.
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: But if that's what he's saying, why not?
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Listen to what I'm telling you. Never assume that's going
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: to happen.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: Why, OG?
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Because life just takes turns. Life is unpredictable. You hope
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: that he keeps his word. You hope that he doesn't meet.
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: I don't even like that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: Listen to your OG.
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: The hope is a lie.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, listen to me. Because you girls go through life
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: with this fairy tale. I'm trying to tell you the truth.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: The Lord sent me here to deliver this message.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: I'm not really like a fairy tale type, though.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: No, no, no. It's not about you being fairy tale.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: Call 10 women. Nine of them have been lied to. Yeah.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: That's my point. So just because this guy said he's
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: going to marry you It's not definite, sweetie.
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: I'm going to put a ring there. I'm not worried
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: about it. The ring going to be there or it's not.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: If it happens, it happens. How long you been together?
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: Two years now.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't push it. I don't see it happening. I
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: see this ending by the end of the year.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: Jesus.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: This interview might do it.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I see it. I see it. I don't see it.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I don't see it going past November.
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: I thought we were friends when you brought these flowers
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: in here.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Now you can take these flowers. I don't see it
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: going past November, baby. I'm sorry. See, now you mad
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: at me. Now when I come back, you're like, how
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: did you know?
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: When you come back, I'm going to call out.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: July 16th.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: How did you know?
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: He's in Philly.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: Boston, July 17th. New York City, July 19th.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Pittsburgh, July 25th. And Chicago, all six.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: You got two shows in New York on July 19th.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: This Sunday coming up.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: City Winery.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: City Winery.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Please get the tickets. Go get your tickets ASAP. Yes.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: And Wednesday in Philadelphia, make sure you get your tickets
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: to see the OG TK Kirkland. And just like this
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: beautiful lady, I told the truth and she's a little offended.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: Don't sit in the front row, y'all.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: But that's what I'm going to do on my show.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you the truth. I'm either going
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: to intimidate you or inspire you. And we hope that
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: she gets married. That's right. We pray that you get married.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get married. But if you don't, I
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: need his number. For what? If he doesn't marry you,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: I'm going to have a conversation with him. Because I'm
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: going to be mad that he led you on. Because
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: you can see the glow around you. You really are
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: praying that this happens. And I think that you would
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: be devastated if he said that it was over. I
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: don't know what you're doing. I'm kind of nervous. I
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: don't know what you'll do. I think you might go
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: back to that hairstyle. I think you might have. I
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: think you might go back. It's TK Kirkland. It's the
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning. Love y'all. Love y'all.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: If he drive you back to the hairstyle.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Oh, man. I don't want you to go back, babe. Oh,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: my God. Hold up. Every day I wake up. Wake
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: your ass up. The Breakfast Club. Y'all finished or y'all done?