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Eric needs CHEATING advice · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: What's up?
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  Speaker 2: Very good morning, Good morning. I just need advice. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: So my boyfriend, we've been together for two years, and
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  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, you know, he you know, our
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  Speaker 2: relationship was great and everything, but all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 2: one day he decided to take a trip for Florida
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  Speaker 2: because apparently somebody passed awaying his family. Okay, the trip
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  Speaker 2: was just completely weird because even though he's really responsible
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  Speaker 2: text messages when he was there, he wasn't. He will
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  Speaker 2: call me from like weird areas, like on FaceTime and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden he told me he
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  Speaker 2: was then thinking of going to school there, but he
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  Speaker 2: was just going to go there for another three days
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  Speaker 2: to see the school. After that, I kind of, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking something went wrong, and I kind of
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  Speaker 2: made him confess that, you know, he was actually going
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  Speaker 2: in there to live with some other guy he met.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so what advice do you need?
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  Speaker 2: Well, honestly, you know part of it. You know, the
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  Speaker 2: reason he told me is pretty much he did it
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  Speaker 2: because I never wanted to go live with him, because
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't ready, honestly, but I decided to block him
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  Speaker 2: because it's just I don't take well, you know, kind
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  Speaker 2: of like sheeting and stuff for right now. But he's
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  Speaker 2: still trying to find ways to contact me to tell
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  Speaker 2: me he loves me. I'm not really sure if he
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  Speaker 2: even came back. Apparently. Last thing I heard is he
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  Speaker 2: told the guy he was not going to be with
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  Speaker 2: him anymore. So I just don't know if it just
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  Speaker 2: didn't work out and he's just looking for like a
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, take an option. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Can't trust America. You know you can't trust him.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So what advice do you need?
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  Speaker 2: Should I unblock him? I kind of continue the conversation
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  Speaker 2: or just like.
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  Speaker 1: Well, did you find out if a family member did die?
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  Speaker 1: Who died?
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  Speaker 2: No one died? He was actually there with the guy.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the fact that he lied to you about that,
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty dramatic kind of I think it's
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  Speaker 1: almost like I want to talk to him and give
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  Speaker 1: him better lying advice. Could you either lie about someone
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  Speaker 1: dyeing or lie you're gonna go to school there? I
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  Speaker 1: think you can't do the true pick one pick.
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  Speaker 3: And if you let him back in, you're giving you're
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  Speaker 3: giving him permission to treat you the same way he
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  Speaker 3: treated you before, which some does sound like you like.
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  Speaker 1: Did he admit to you that he lied? Did he
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  Speaker 1: admit to you he lied about the family member dying?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Did you find out?
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  Speaker 2: Because I'm I make him. It's so weird because when
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  Speaker 2: he left, I didn't go to his house for that
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  Speaker 2: whole week because I was busy with work, so I
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  Speaker 2: didn't got the time to go to his house and
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  Speaker 2: tell everyone, Hey, I'm sorry for your loss. So when
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  Speaker 2: he was leaving, I told him, you know, pretty much
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  Speaker 2: his family and their families like, what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: We don't even have to.
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  Speaker 1: Terrible life? Did you ever see what the guy look
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  Speaker 1: like that he cheated on you with?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, he's actually older, so I don't I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if he like just he's gonna provide for him or
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  Speaker 2: something because I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Not Is he good looking? Was it worth it? Like?
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  Speaker 1: Was it worth? Like you can go? I can see
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  Speaker 1: why he would go for that guy. That guy's really looking.
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  Speaker 2: Have you don't want to say anything? You know he's
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  Speaker 2: getting into hell, you know, like, honestly, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: he is. My friends obviously are going to support me.
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  Speaker 2: They take you. He's really bad looking and old, but.
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  Speaker 1: You know, right, Okay, Well, I think you know the
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  Speaker 1: answer to everything you're asking. You know that you did
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  Speaker 1: the right thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, right, right, It's just hard after two years
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  Speaker 2: there was like it just came all of a sudden
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  Speaker 2: with it two days that I'm like, hey, have.
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  Speaker 1: You have you hooked up with anybody since you and
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  Speaker 1: him kind of broke up since you blocked him.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I found out on a Thursday, and we decided
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  Speaker 2: to be like still together because I wanted to get
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  Speaker 2: him back, and to be honest with you, I did it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel okay about it, but I did hook
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  Speaker 2: up with my ex before he left, so I can
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  Speaker 2: show him pictures and.
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  Speaker 1: Why send the pictures here? First go Eric.
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  Speaker 2: Now he's saying that he's gonna forgive me and gotta
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  Speaker 2: come back with me because I cheat it on him,
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  Speaker 2: and he's telling all my family members that I cheated
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  Speaker 2: on him, but he's not telling his story.
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  Speaker 1: You need to get away from him, you know you
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  Speaker 1: that's toxic. Here's bad news. Eric. Hey, Eric, thank you
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  Speaker 1: for listening, Thank you for calling in. Really appreciate that
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  Speaker 1: you wanted our advice, and thank you for listening.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Bye. Eric,