Latest / truthunedited / Stop Venting_ Start Asking _ James 1_5 Explained(M4A_128K)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: When the storm hits, who do you call first? Your
- 0:03best friend, your group chat, a mentor, therapist's spouse, or
- 0:07maybe you just curl up in silence, scrolling through social media,
- 0:11hoping someone else's chaos will distract you from your own.
- 0:15We've all been there, scrolling instead of praying, venting instead
- 0:19of seeking, googling instead of listening. Because deep down, though
- 0:23we believe in God, we often act like he's not
- 0:27our first call but our last resort. And here's the
- 0:31uncomfortable truth. Many of us are spiritually exhausted, not because
- 0:36God hasn't spoken, but because we never asked. We've built
- 0:41our lives on second hand wisdom. We treat divine direction
- 0:45like a back up generator, only activated when the power
- 0:48goes out everywhere else. But James one five doesn't say
- 0:53if any of you lacks wisdom, go poll your friends.
- 0:58It says, lets him ask God directly first, with confidence.
- 1:07But asking God requires something we don't like, to give, surrender.
- 1:12It's easier to get opinions than to wait for revelation.
- 1:16It's more comfortable to hear from people who think like
- 1:19us than a holy God who may challenge us. You've
- 1:24probably done it too, that moment when something goes wrong,
- 1:28and before even whispering a prayer, you're already texting three
- 1:32people about what happened. You say, pray for me, but
- 1:35you've already made your decision. You weren't really seeking God,
- 1:40you were seeking confirmation for what you already planned to do.
- 1:44We say we want answers, but what we really want
- 1:47is control, and prayer isn't control. It's submission. That's why
- 1:53we avoid it. That's why we delay it. That's why
- 1:56we drown ourselves in noise instead of kneeling in silence.
- 2:01Think of the people of Israel in First Samuel eight.
- 2:04They were under God's leadership, divinely guided through judges and prophets,
- 2:09but it wasn't enough for them. They looked at the
- 2:12nations around them, at their kings, their thrones, their parades,
- 2:16and said to Samuel, give us a king like the
- 2:19other nations. They weren't asking for better leadership, they were
- 2:23rejecting God's leadership. The tragedy. God gave them what they
- 2:29asked for, and they paid for it with generations of warfare, idolatry,
- 2:34and ruin. Sometimes the worst thing God can do is
- 2:38say yes to what you demanded outside of him. That's
- 2:42why the invitation in James is so radical. Let him
- 2:45ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and
- 2:49it will be given him. No shame, no delay, Just
- 2:54ask directly. Sincerely. God isn't reluctant to guide you. He's
- 2:58just waiting to be your first call, not your back
- 3:01up plan. Consider King Jehoshaphat in Second Chronicles twenty, when
- 3:07faced with a massive army coming against him, he didn't
- 3:10strategize first. He didn't seek an alliance with another kingdom.
- 3:14He set himself to seek the Lord and proclaimed a
- 3:17fast throughout all Judah Veight three. And God responded not
- 3:22with a battle plan, but a declaration. You will not
- 3:26need to fight in this battle. Stand firm and see
- 3:31the salvation of the Lord on your behalf. What would
- 3:34have happened if Jehoshaphat had panicked and acted on instinct?
- 3:39What battle are you fighting right now alone? Because you
- 3:42forgot to ask God? In every day life? This looks
- 3:47like more than just prayer in crisis. It's when you
- 3:50feel the pull to quit that job, and instead of praying,
- 3:54you scroll job listings for hours. It's when the relationship
- 3:58feels distant, but instead of asking God what to say,
- 4:03you rehearse arguments in your mind. It's when money is tight,
- 4:07but instead of seeking God for provision or wisdom, you
- 4:10spiral into worry or over work. You forgot to ask,
- 4:14You consulted yourself. You leaned on your logic. But James
- 4:18says the opposite. Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
- 4:22and do not lean on your own understanding in all
- 4:25your ways. Acknowledge Him, and he will make your paths straight.
- 4:31Proverbs three five dash six. God never called us to
- 4:35figure it out, He called us to follow. There's one
- 4:38more story worth remembering. In Joshua nine, the Israelites are
- 4:42approached by strangers pretending to be from a distant land.
- 4:47They offer a peace treaty. The bread in their bags
- 4:50is moldy, the sandals on their feet are worn out.
- 4:53It all looks legit. So the men took some of
- 4:56their provisions, but did not ask counsel from the Lord Vifendatin.
- 5:01They signed the treaty, made a covenant. Days later, they
- 5:05discovered they'd been deceived. Don't miss that they did not
- 5:09ask counsel from the Lord. It looked right, it felt safe,
- 5:12but it was still wrong because it wasn't God led.
- 5:16Some of us are suffering right now, not because we
- 5:18weren't sincere, but because we made decisions without God's voice.
- 5:24The question isn't just did it work, it's was it God?
- 5:28So before we moved to the next lesson, pause, what
- 5:31are you seeking answers for right now? Where have you
- 5:34been running Instagram podcasts, people plans? And where is the
- 5:39altar in all of this? Have you asked God? Not flippantly,
- 5:43not once, but with open hands and surrendered heart. Because
- 5:47the next section will show us what happens when we
- 5:50keep chasing empty wells instead of going to the source
- 5:54of living water. And once you see that, you may
- 5:57never seek answers the same way. Again, let's continue. They
- 6:02were thirsty, but not for water. They were spiritually dehydrated,
- 6:07but too prideful to admit it, and so they dug
- 6:11not wells, not rivers, cisterns, cracked hollow cisterns carved by
- 6:16human hands. That's the indictment God gave through Jeremiah. My
- 6:21people have committed two evils. They have forsaken me the
- 6:26fountain of living waters and hewed out cisterns for themselves
- 6:31broken cisterns that can hold no water Jeremiah two thirteen.
- 6:37This wasn't about infrastructure. It was about intimacy. It wasn't
- 6:41about clay containers. It was about covenant betrayal. God had
- 6:46rescued them, provided for them, led them through deserts, and
- 6:49fed them with bread from heaven. He poured himself out
- 6:53like living water. But when things got comfortable, they started
- 6:56crafting their own solutions. They didn't outright with jack God.
- 7:01They simply stopped depending on him. And that's where the
- 7:04heartbreak lives. That this passage was delivered early in Jeremiah's
- 7:08prophetic ministry. Israel had entered a time of spiritual compromise,
- 7:14entangling themselves with foreign idols and political alliances. They weren't
- 7:19necessarily rebellious in obvious ways. They were simply distracted, drifting
- 7:24into a self made religion of convenience and cultural approval.
- 7:29They carved cisterns, they gathered advice, they borrowed practices, but
- 7:34it couldn't hold the real presence of God. Now bring
- 7:39that forward. Imagine a woman named Erin. She's in her thirties.
- 7:44She used to pray, She used to journal about what
- 7:47God was teaching her. But somewhere along the way, life
- 7:51got louder. She downloaded more podcasts, joined more productivity groups,
- 7:57got therapy, started intermittent fasting, even tried manifesting goals, and
- 8:03all of it helped for a moment. But she still
- 8:07feels dry. She still can't hear God. She still wonders
- 8:12why everything that once worked no longer satisfies. She doesn't
- 8:17realize she's sipping from a broken cistern. Or a man
- 8:21named James. He used to ask God for direction in
- 8:23every decision, but now as his career grows, the stakes
- 8:28are higher. There's no time to wait on God. So
- 8:32he builds networks, reads leadership, books, studies analytics, optimizes schedules
- 8:38on paper. He's crushing it. But late at night, he
- 8:41lies awake, wondering why he still feels so insecure, so anxious,
- 8:47so exhausted. He's drinking sand and wondering why he's still thirsty.
- 8:53So broken cisterns in our day don't look like stone jars.
- 8:57They look like hustle culture. They sound like self help cliches.
- 9:01They hide behind phrases like I'm just trying to be practical,
- 9:05or God helps those who help themselves or this season
- 9:09is just really busy right now, But deep down they're dry.
- 9:14Because the truth is this, Any source other than God
- 9:17will eventually leak. Your career can't hold you. Your relationships,
- 9:23though meaningful, can't refill you. Your own intelligence, effort, therapy,
- 9:29and even ministry, if not rooted in God, will become
- 9:33empty vessels. They'll carry residue of meaning without the power
- 9:37of life. This is what Jeremiah wept over. Israel was
- 9:42performing the motions of religion. They had temples, they had traditions,
- 9:47but they weren't drinking from the fountain. They were building
- 9:50systems around absence instead of anchoring themselves in presents. And
- 9:56we do the same. How many of us are running dry?
- 9:59Whilst sitting beside the well. Jesus told the woman at
- 10:03the well in John four, whoever drinks the water I
- 10:06give them will never thirst. But she had to first
- 10:10leave her jar behind. She came for water and walked
- 10:14away with worship, because once you've tasted the sauce, you
- 10:17stop searching for substitutes. But don't miss this. The first
- 10:23evil in Jeremiah two thirteen wasn't just the building of
- 10:27broken cisterns. It was the forsaking of God. Substitutes only
- 10:32thrive when the real thing is neglected. Your Instagram scrolling
- 10:37isn't evil on its own, but it becomes a cistern
- 10:41when you stop opening your Bible. That job isn't your
- 10:45idol until you stop trusting God with your provision. Even
- 10:50community can become counterfeit comfort when it replaces communion with
- 10:55the Creator. This isn't about guilt, It's about invitation God.
- 11:00God wasn't condemning Israel just to shame them. He was
- 11:03calling them back to himself. He's not angry because they
- 11:06dug cisterns. He's heartbroken because they walked away from the spring.
- 11:12So here's the question for us today. What cisterns have
- 11:15you carved? Where are you pouring your energy, your hope,
- 11:18your trust. Are you checking your phone more than you
- 11:21check in with God? Are you expecting your job to
- 11:25satisfy a need only joy can fill? Are you trading
- 11:29prayer for podcasts, discernment for data presents for performance. God
- 11:35isn't asking for your perfection, He's asking for your return.
- 11:40Come back to the fountain. The water is still flowing.
- 11:43It's because the next section will take us deeper, not
- 11:47just into how we abandon God, but how sometimes we
- 11:50replace him with something spiritual looking, something religious, something moral,
- 11:56but not him. And in the next part we'll explore
- 11:59one of the most tragic and overlooked examples in scripture
- 12:03of someone who did just that and how their misplaced
- 12:07trust cost them everything. He didn't pray, he polled. When
- 12:12Rehoboam inherited the throne of Israel, stepping into the sandals
- 12:17of Solomon himself, he stood at a fork in the
- 12:20road that would decide the future of a nation. His
- 12:23people came to him, bruised by years of heavy labor
- 12:27under Solomon's grand ambitions. They came humbly asking for lighter burdens,
- 12:33and re Heboam did something that looked like wisdom. He
- 12:37asked for advice. But not all counsel is created equal.
- 12:43First Kings twelve and Second Chronicles ten tell the story
- 12:48Rehoboam first went to the elders, wise men who had
- 12:51served his father, Solomon, the wisest man in history. They
- 12:56told him plainly, if you will be kind to these
- 12:59people and please them and speak good words to them,
- 13:02they will be your servants. Forever. In other words, lead
- 13:07with mercy, and your lead with strength. Then he went
- 13:12to the second group, his peers, his friends, the men
- 13:15he grew up within the palace, the ones shaped more
- 13:18by privilege than pain, more by status than sacrifice. They said,
- 13:23tell them, my little finger is thicker than my father's waist.
- 13:27My father scourged you with whips, I will scourge you
- 13:31with scorpions, flex harder, rule, harsher. Show them whose boss.
- 13:39Rehobum chose the second voice. And in doing so, he
- 13:42didn't just reject human wisdom. He rejected divine mercy. He
- 13:47crowned pride, and the kingdom split, the ten northern tribes revolted.
- 13:53Israel was torn in two, all because one man listened
- 13:57to good friends instead of God. And here's where it
- 14:01hits home. Sometimes we don't reject God outright. We just
- 14:06slowly replace his voice with a chorus of others. We
- 14:09say things like I'm just getting advice, or I need
- 14:13more perspectives, or let me talk to my circle first.
- 14:17And that's not wrong until it becomes routine, until wise
- 14:22counsel becomes a crutch, until our decisions are no longer
- 14:26soaked in prayer. But shaped by people's opinions. Take Jordan,
- 14:30for example, he's considering a move, new job, new city,
- 14:35new chapter. He calls three friends. One says it's a
- 14:39smart financial move, another says he deserves better opportunities. A
- 14:44third says the new place has a better weather and
- 14:47life style, perks. All logical, all thoughtful, all kind. But
- 14:51in all of this, Jordan hasn't once opened his Bible,
- 14:56hasn't once asked God, is this where you're sending me.
- 15:00He's polling, but he's not praying. Or Take Mia, she's
- 15:04thinking about ending a relationship. Her friends say, girl, if
- 15:08he's not making you happy, walk away. Another friend sends
- 15:12a tik tok about protecting your peace, and everything sounds empowering,
- 15:17but deep in her spirit there's a check. She hasn't
- 15:20asked God what he wants. She's following vibes, not the voice,
- 15:24and she doesn't realize she's one decision away from spiritual fracture.
- 15:32What happened to Rehrboam still happens to day. Not because
- 15:36we're rebellious, but because we're relational. We crave connection. We
- 15:42trust people who know our story, but the problem is
- 15:46they don't always know our calling Rehoboam's friends knew his habits,
- 15:51his humor, his history, but they didn't know Heaven's agenda.
- 15:55They gave advice from familiarity, not from fear of the Lord.
- 16:00And the tragedy is that it all felt right. It
- 16:04felt bold, it felt protective, it felt strong, But it
- 16:07was spiritual sabotage. She says, here's the deeper warning. Advice
- 16:12without alignment to God's word is just noise, and not
- 16:17all noise is neutral. Some of it is deceptive, some
- 16:21of it delays destiny, some of it splits what God
- 16:24wanted to keep whole. When you trade divine direction for
- 16:28human affirmation, you don't just risk bad outcomes, you risk
- 16:33missing God entirely. And yet we do this all the time.
- 16:38We let YouTube influencers disciple our desires. We let productivity
- 16:42gurus define success. We let cultural trends redefine morality. We
- 16:48go to coaches before we go to Christ, we chase
- 16:51mentors before we bow to the Master. And somewhere along
- 16:55the way, we stop recognizing the Shepherd's voice, not because
- 16:59he stopped speaking, but because we stopped seeking. So how
- 17:04do we come back? It starts with the discipline of
- 17:07silence before you post poll or plan, pause, ask God
- 17:14is this from you? Measure every opinion against the word,
- 17:18weigh every decision in the spirit, and don't confuse strong
- 17:23opinions with spiritual authority. Sometimes the most spiritual thing you
- 17:27can do is stop listening to people for a moment,
- 17:31not because people are bad, but because people are limited.
- 17:35They see your now, God sees your next, They see
- 17:38your personality. God sees your purpose, They see your history.
- 17:42God sees your harvest. And in the next part of
- 17:45this teaching, we'll dive into one of the most countercultural,
- 17:48almost forgotten practices in scripture, where breakthrough came not because
- 17:53someone got more advice, but because they got alone, alone
- 17:57enough to hear God again, alone enough to be changed,
- 18:02alone enough to follow fire instead of familiar and maybe,
- 18:07just maybe that's what you need to He started strong,
- 18:11He even tore down idols, He reformed worship, he sought God,
- 18:15But in the end he died with the disease he
- 18:18never prayed about. King Aesa is one of those lesser
- 18:22known names buried deep in the Old Testament. If you
- 18:26blink while reading, you might miss the warning. His life
- 18:29screams into the modern soul. His story isn't about rebellion
- 18:34like Saul or adultery like David. Aesa's downfall came through
- 18:39a quieter enemy, self reliance, not loud sin, just silent pride.
- 18:47In Second Chronicles fourteen to sixteen, we watch Aesa rise
- 18:51with spiritual power. In the early years of his reign,
- 18:55Judah faced a million man army from Ethiopia led by Zira.
- 18:59Aesa did what few kings remembered to do. He cried
- 19:02out to God, help us, O, Lord, our God, for
- 19:07we rest on you, Second Chronicles fourteen eleven. And God
- 19:13answered with stunning victory. Then the prophet Aserriah gave Usa
- 19:17a word, The Lord is with you while you are
- 19:20with him. If you seek him, he will be found
- 19:24by you. Second Chronicles, fifteen two. Assir took it to heart.
- 19:29He launched a national revival, He cleaned house spiritually. He
- 19:34even deposed his own grandmother for idolatry. For thirty five years,
- 19:38his reign was marked by peace and obedience, But then
- 19:43he changed. In chapter sixteen, a smaller enemy arose. Basha,
- 19:49king of Israel, fortified Rama to cut off trade with Judah.
- 19:53This time, Assa didn't cry out to God. He didn't
- 19:57remember the past miracle. He reached for silver and gold.
- 20:01He broke it a deal with ben Hadad of Syria.
- 20:04Politically it worked, but spiritually it broke something. God sent
- 20:09another prophet, Hanani, who confronted him boldly, because you have
- 20:14relied on the King of Syria and not relied on
- 20:17the Lord your God. Therefore the army of the King
- 20:21of Syria has escaped you. The eyes of the Lord
- 20:25run to and fro throughout the whole earth to give
- 20:28strong support to those whose heart is blameless toward him.
- 20:32You have done foolishly in this, for from now on
- 20:35you will have wars. Second Chronicle, sixteen seven through nine.
- 20:39Instead of repenting, Usa imprisoned the prophet. The next verse
- 20:44is heartbreaking. In the thirty ninth year of his reign,
- 20:48Usa was diseased in his feet, and his disease became severe.
- 20:53Yet even in his disease, he did not seek the Lord,
- 20:57but sought help from physicians twelve. It's not that seeking
- 21:02physicians was wrong, it was that he replaced God with them.
- 21:08He never even asked. The one who once cried out
- 21:11to Heaven now died without a prayer. And if we're honest.
- 21:17His story feels familiar. How often do we start our
- 21:21spiritual life dependent on God only to drift into quiet
- 21:25self sufficiency. We pray when the war is big, but
- 21:29when the problem feels manageable, we move fast and consult
- 21:33our networks. We seek advice, google strategies, text friends, make moves,
- 21:41but we don't kneel. We don't ask, we don't wait.
- 21:46We become people who once depended on God, but now
- 21:49only involve him when we hit a wall. Consider Lauren.
- 21:53In college, she had nothing, no job, no direction, barely
- 21:57enough to make rent. She prayed every night, she saw
- 22:01God provide in supernatural ways. But now, five years into
- 22:06her career, when stress mounts, she doesn't pray. She overworks,
- 22:11she doesn't ask for clarity. She makes more coffee. She
- 22:14relies on her spreadsheet and strategy deck, but never stops
- 22:18to ask, Lord, what do you want? Or Marcus, he
- 22:23used to cry out to God when anxiety crushed his
- 22:26chest at night. Now he's built a routine early jim
- 22:31long meetings, scroll before bed. The anxiety is still there,
- 22:36but it's buried under noise. He doesn't call it sin.
- 22:40He calls it being busy. But really, it's Ace's disease,
- 22:46silent self reliance. Just ASA's tragedy. Wasn't that he sinned wildly,
- 22:54It's that he stopped seeking God sincerely. He still looked wise,
- 22:59he still ruled, he still functioned, but the fountain of
- 23:02his strength had dried. And the worst part, he didn't
- 23:06even notice. It's possible to die spiritually long before your
- 23:12story ends. So see, So here's the mirror. Where are
- 23:16you relying on your own plans more than God's presence?
- 23:20Where are you consulting physicians, experts, systems, routines without even
- 23:26asking the spirit what he thinks. God isn't against wisdom
- 23:30or medicine or planning. He's against being your last resort,
- 23:34the one you run to after everything else fails, the
- 23:38final voice when your first steps already walked you into chaos.
- 23:43The longer we live without prayer, the more it feels
- 23:46normal to operate without power. Good you see, But what
- 23:51if Ace's story doesn't have to be your ending? The
- 23:55prophet told him, the eyes of the Lord run to
- 23:58and fro to give strong support to those whose heart
- 24:02is blameless. That promise still stands right now. The eyes
- 24:07of the Lord are looking not for perfection but for surrender,
- 24:11not for talent, but for trust. And as we shift
- 24:15into the next moment of this teaching, we're going to
- 24:18look at a forgotten moment where someone did seek God first,
- 24:23without a plan, without allies, without fall back, and because
- 24:28they did, the impossible happened. Sometimes the miracle isn't in
- 24:32what you do, it's in who you ask first. It
- 24:36was the darkest night of Saul's life and he knew it.
- 24:40The once chosen king, anointed by the prophet Samuel and
- 24:44empowered by God, now stood trembling in the shadows. His
- 24:48enemies had surrounded him, his courage had left him, and
- 24:53worst of all, God was silent. No dreams, no prophets,
- 24:58no answers, just silence. But Saul couldn't handle silence. He
- 25:03wanted certainty, not surrender. So in one of the most
- 25:06haunting moments in all of Scripture, Saul turned not to
- 25:09God but to a medium first. Samuel twenty eight records
- 25:13the chilling story. Saul had outlawed spiritists and mediums earlier
- 25:18in his reign as God commanded. He knew what was forbidden.
- 25:23He knew that necromancy seeking the dead was an abomination
- 25:28before the Lord Leviticus nineteen thirty one, Deuteronomy eighteen ten
- 25:34through twelve. But desperation will lead people to what they
- 25:38once denounced. When the Philistines amassed against him, Saul inquired
- 25:44of the Lord, but God did not answer, not by
- 25:47dreams or urim or prophets first Samuel twenty eight six.
- 25:53Instead of repenting or waiting, Saul disguised himself and went
- 25:58to endoor. He asked a medium to summon Samuel from
- 26:01the dead. She did. What followed is strange and terrifying. Samuel,
- 26:06by God's mysterious allowance, actually appears, and he doesn't bring comfort.
- 26:12He brings confirmation of judgment. Why do you ask me
- 26:17since the Lord has turned from you and become your enemy,
- 26:21Samuel says verse sixteen. He declares that Saul's kingdom will fall,
- 26:26that he and his sons will die, that it's too
- 26:28late to turn back. The man who once stood in
- 26:32prophetic authority was now groveling at the feet of a witch.
- 26:37It's easy to distance ourselves from this story. After all,
- 26:42we're not consulting mediums, we're not dressing in disguises and
- 26:46seeking the dead, but spiritually many of us do exactly
- 26:50what Saul did when God seems silent. When the pressure builds,
- 26:55when we feel abandoned, we start searching for answers in
- 26:59all the wrong places. We scroll through forty seven Instagram
- 27:04reels from Christian influences, hoping one of them gives us
- 27:07the breakthrough word we're looking for. We binge a YouTube
- 27:11rabbit hole of prophetic updates instead of spending one honest
- 27:16hour in prayer. We text ten people for advice but
- 27:19don't ask God once. Or we self medicate with busyness, distraction,
- 27:24or escape, filling the silence with noise because we can't
- 27:29handle divine delay. Saul didn't go to end Or because
- 27:33he was evil. He went because he was afraid. But
- 27:36fear is a terrible compass, and when we choose insight
- 27:40over intimacy, we end up deceived. Consider Jenna. She had
- 27:46been waiting for clarity from God about a career decision.
- 27:50Doors weren't opening, prayers seemed unanswered, so she went to
- 27:55her horoscope just for fun, she said, then to a
- 27:59life coach, then to a friend who believed in the universe.
- 28:03What started as curiosity turned into dependency. One year later,
- 28:08Jenna couldn't discern truth from trends, and she felt farther
- 28:12from God than ever. Or Marcus, who got desperate after
- 28:16a long season of depression. He used to journal his prayers,
- 28:21but now he just listens to random tik tok's tagged
- 28:25number faith. He tells himself its inspiration, but really he's
- 28:30addicted to emotionally charge opinions that contradict scripture. His faith
- 28:35isn't being fed, it's being deformed. Saul didn't lose his
- 28:40life at Endor. He lost it long before when he
- 28:43stopped seeking God with his whole heart. The visit to
- 28:47the medium was just the final symptom of a deeper sickness.
- 28:51He wanted answers more than he wanted God. The story
- 28:56ends sombrely. Saul returns to the battlefield, and as Samuel said,
- 29:01he dies not just because of his enemies, but because
- 29:05he sought help from someone other than God. One Chronicles
- 29:09ten thirteen to fourteen sums it up plainly. Saul died
- 29:15for his unfaithfulness. He did not inquire of the Lord.
- 29:21Pause there, because here's the heartbreak. God never said he
- 29:25wouldn't answer eventually, just that Saul had to wait but
- 29:29instead of sitting in the silence, Saul sprinted to sorcery.
- 29:34And we must ask ourselves, where do I run when
- 29:37God goes quiet? When the job doesn't come, the relationship
- 29:40doesn't change, the healing doesn't happen. Where do I turn first?
- 29:46Do I wait in worship? Or do I grab for
- 29:49whatever is near by? Popular voices, trending philosophies, comfortable habits.
- 29:55Sometimes God is silent because he wants your attention, not
- 29:59your pan, And silence isn't absence, it's invitation. Now imagine
- 30:05if Saul had waited, if he had fasted, repented, asked
- 30:10the Lord with tears instead of tactics, what might have happened.
- 30:14We don't know, but we do know what did happen,
- 30:17and it's a warning. So before you make your next
- 30:21decision in fear, ask am I turning to end or
- 30:25or to el Shadai? Because the next voice you consult
- 30:29might shape your entire future. Let's now shift to one
- 30:33more powerful story, not of failure, but of faith, a
- 30:37lesser known figure who didn't chase voices in the dark,
- 30:40but waited for God in the silence and saw the
- 30:44hand of Heaven move. Because it's not just about what
- 30:48you don't do, it's about who you choose to trust.
- 30:52It was the seventh day, just as Samuel had said,
- 30:55but still the prophet hadn't shown up, and Saul was panicking.
- 31:00In First Samuel thirteen, we find King Saul standing on
- 31:03the edge of war against the Philistines. His soldiers were
- 31:06melting away, hiding in caves, thickets, cisterns, running for their lives.
- 31:12His army, once proud and poised, had turned into a
- 31:16trembling mob. And Samuel, the man of God, who had
- 31:19promised to come and offer the sacrifice, had not arrived.
- 31:22Time was ticking, fear was rising, and Saul had a
- 31:27choice wait or take matters into his own hands. He
- 31:31chose the latter. Saul, though he was king, was not
- 31:34a priest. He knew he wasn't authorized to offer burnt
- 31:37offerings to God. That was Samuel's role, God's appointed prophet.
- 31:42But anxiety doesn't care about boundaries. It whispers, just do something,
- 31:49fix it. Now. You've waited long enough. And so Saul,
- 31:54driven by fear and urgency, lit the fire. He offered
- 31:58the sacrifice, crossed the line. The moment the smoke cleared,
- 32:03Samuel walked up. What have you done? He asked. Saul's
- 32:06reply was hauntingly familiar. When I saw the people were scattering,
- 32:11and you didn't come when you said you would, I
- 32:14forced myself and offered the burnt offering First Samuel, thirteen
- 32:19eleven to twelve. It was classic justification. He blamed the circumstances,
- 32:24the people, the prophet. But Samuel wasn't moved by Saul's excuses.
- 32:30You have done foolishly, he said. The Lord would have
- 32:34established your kingdom, but now your kingdom shall not continue
- 32:40Verses thirteen to fourteen. And with that one rash act,
- 32:45Saul lost the legacy God had intended for him. Now
- 32:49pause and look at your own life. How many times
- 32:52have you felt like God was late? You prayed, waited, believed,
- 32:57but then nothing happened. The ill stacked, the door stayed closed,
- 33:03the person didn't call, the healing didn't come, and everything
- 33:07inside you started screaming, May be I need to handle
- 33:11this myself. So you texted your ex, took the job
- 33:14that didn't sit right, compromised your values because something is
- 33:18better than nothing, or you gave up entirely on God,
- 33:23on prayer, on hope. We call it survival, but sometimes
- 33:28it's actually sabotage. Because God's delays are not detours, they
- 33:34are directions. They are part of the training. They expose
- 33:38what we trust and what we fear, and most of all,
- 33:42they reveal whether we want God's will or just his speed.
- 33:46Consider Melissa, a single mother who had been trusting God
- 33:49for provision. Her hours at work were cut. She tithed faithfully,
- 33:55prayed daily, and held on to Psalm twenty three like
- 33:58it was her life line. But weeks passed, then months,
- 34:03nothing changed. Finally, in frustration, she started working side gigs
- 34:09that conflicted with her values. She told herself it was temporary, necessary,
- 34:14but soon her peace disappeared. Her kids noticed her anger,
- 34:19her prayers dried up, and though she had more money,
- 34:22she and she had less joy. Why because she moved
- 34:26when God hadn't. Or Take Jordan, a young man waiting
- 34:29to launch his ministry. He had prophetic words, dreams, the passion,
- 34:33but no platform. Doors weren't opening, so he forced them,
- 34:38bought followers, created viral content, got the likes, but lost
- 34:41the anointing because like Saul, he built an altar God
- 34:45never asked for. Waiting is not passive, Its warfare. To
- 34:50wait on God is to resist the temptation to rush
- 34:54into flesh born fixes. It's to say I'd rather have
- 34:58nothing with you than something without you. It's to declare
- 35:02that timing matters because obedience matters. Saul's story is not
- 35:09just about a bad decision. It's about a heart that
- 35:12couldn't handle the unknown, a man who feared the absence
- 35:16of control more than the absence of God, and the
- 35:20tragedy he was just one breath away from breakthrough. Samuel
- 35:25came right after he sinned. If Saul had waited just
- 35:29a few more moments, history would have changed. And that's
- 35:33where this hits us hardest, because many of us are
- 35:36one decision away from either seeing God move or manufacturing
- 35:41a counterfeit move ourselves, one choice away from peace or panic,
- 35:47one yes away from God's best or another cycle of delay.
- 35:53So ask yourself, what offering are you tempted to make
- 35:55without God's permission? What decision are you rushing because you're
- 36:00tired of waiting. God's silence is never without purpose, His
- 36:04delay is never random. It's shaping something in you that
- 36:09short cuts will never produce. Don't light the fire. He
- 36:13hasn't asked for. Don't try to birth a breakthrough with
- 36:16your own hands. The sacrifice God wants is not your performance,
- 36:21it's your patience. Now, let's walk forward in this truth
- 36:25into a story not of panic, but of persistence, a
- 36:30lesser known example of someone who waited, trusted, and saw
- 36:34God reward what no one else could see. Because while
- 36:38Saul shows us what's lost in haste, there are others
- 36:41who show what's gained in faith. Let's look at one
- 36:44of them. Now. There is a subtle danger that doesn't shout.
- 36:48It whispers. It sounds like confidence. It wears the mask
- 36:52of maturity. It cloaks itself in logic, reason and common sense.
- 36:57But beneath it all is a quiet eye, idle, bowing
- 37:01not to bail or golden calves, but to self. It's
- 37:06the belief that you know best, and it has destroyed
- 37:09more destinies than open rebellion ever could. Proverbs three five
- 37:15through seven calves straight through this deception. Trust in the
- 37:19Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your
- 37:22own understanding. In all your ways. Acknowledge Him, and he
- 37:26shall direct your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes,
- 37:31Fear the Lord, and turn away from evil these verses
- 37:36aren't poetic suggestions. They are spiritual surgery. Because there's a
- 37:40kind of wisdom that the world applauds, one that calculates risk,
- 37:45maximizes advantage, and moves without waiting. It's the kind of
- 37:50self assured decision making that says I've got this without
- 37:55ever consulting God. And in our results driven cult, this
- 38:00isn't just tolerated, it's celebrated. But scripture makes it clear.
- 38:06Spiritual pride doesn't look like arrogance. It looks like independence
- 38:11from the voice of God. In the time when Proverbs
- 38:14was written, kings and rulers were expected to consult oracles, prophets,
- 38:19or spiritual advisers before major decisions. To lean not on
- 38:24your own understanding was to resist the natural temptation of
- 38:28power to assume you're wise enough on your own. Solomon,
- 38:33the very author of this proverb, had seen first hand
- 38:36what happened when people trusted their instincts over God's instruction. Ironically,
- 38:41even Solomon himself, blessed with supernatural wisdom, fell into this trap.
- 38:48In First Kings eleven, it says that though God had
- 38:51appeared to him twice and warned him, Solomon allowed his
- 38:56heart to be drawn away by foreign wives and their gods.
- 39:00He leaned on his understanding of political alliance, cultural strategy,
- 39:05and personal pleasure, and it fractured the kingdom. But it's
- 39:09not just kings who fall prey to this. Take Amnon,
- 39:13a forgotten prince in two Samuel thirteen. He was the
- 39:17son of David, the heir to a throne, and yet
- 39:21he let his own twisted desire and the counsel of
- 39:24his cousin Jonadab drive him into a tragic sin. Instead
- 39:29of seeking God, he plotted with another man's logic. Instead
- 39:32of resisting, he rationalized he trusted his hunger more than
- 39:37God's holiness, and it ended in violation, vengeance, and death.
- 39:44I bring this into our day. Picture a young woman
- 39:47named Leah. She's been praying for clarity about a relationship.
- 39:50The guy isn't godless, but something feels off. Her heart
- 39:54says yes, but her spirit says wait, And rather than
- 39:58seek God, she screw Roll's Instagram, reels about red flags,
- 40:02and listens to a dozen podcasts. She starts to convince
- 40:06herself she can handle it, after all, She's prayed before,
- 40:11but she no longer listens. She analyzes she weighs pros
- 40:16and cons, she leans, and soon she falls. Or imagine
- 40:21mark a man offered a lucrative job across the country.
- 40:24It would uproot his family, pull them from their church,
- 40:27and put him in an environment known for compromise, but
- 40:31the salary life changing the title impressive. He prays once,
- 40:39but doesn't wait. He figures God opened the door, so
- 40:45he walks through it, never realizing it wasn't a door,
- 40:49it was a trap. Spiritual pride doesn't always feel like rebellion.
- 40:55Sometimes it feels like momentum. It looks like initiative. It
- 41:00dresses itself in good intentions, but it's still idolatry because
- 41:06it refuses to bow the decision before the throne of God.
- 41:09So what does it look like to not lean on
- 41:12your own understanding. It looks like pausing when everything in
- 41:16you says move now. It looks like praying when everyone
- 41:20else is giving advice. It looks like fasting when logic
- 41:24gives you the green light. It looks like refusing to
- 41:28trust a plan you haven't prayed over, even if it
- 41:30seems air tight and it means this. Before you send
- 41:34that text, sign that contract, say yes to that person
- 41:37or walk through that door, Ask yourself, did I acknowledge God?
- 41:43Did I invite him into all my ways? Or just
- 41:46the ones I couldn't figure out? Because the most dangerous
- 41:50lies are the ones that wear Truth's vocabulary. And when
- 41:54we become wise in our own eyes, we stop being
- 41:57sensitive to God's voice. We stop it expecting correction. We
- 42:01silence conviction. We develop spiritual blindness and call it clarity.
- 42:08But clarity without God is still deception. This is why
- 42:12proverb says, feel the Lord and turn away from evil.
- 42:16It's not saying your evil, it's saying your wisdom apart
- 42:20from reverence, can lead to evil. Your discernment without God
- 42:25becomes deception. Your best thinking without the spirit will always
- 42:30fall short. So what do we do? We repent not
- 42:33just of sin, but of self reliance. We confess not
- 42:37just what we've done wrong, but how long we've done
- 42:40right in our own strength. We surrender not just our outcomes,
- 42:44but our methods, our logic, our timelines. Because God is
- 42:48not obligated to bless what you didn't invite him into. Now,
- 42:53let's keep walking. We've seen what happens when we ignore
- 42:57God's voice. When we chase quick counsel and when we
- 43:00rely on ourselves. But what about those moments when the
- 43:04silence of God feels more frustrating than the noise of people.
- 43:09What do we do when we've prayed, waited and sought
- 43:12him but he hasn't said anything. That's where we go next.
- 43:17Before Ne'emiah ever rebuilt a wall, he wept. Before Jehoshaphat
- 43:22ever led an army, he bowed. Before Anna ever saw
- 43:26the Messiah, she fasted and prayed for decades. These were
- 43:30not impulsive heroes. They were intercessors seekers. They were people who,
- 43:36in moments of desperation or divine assignment, turned to God first,
- 43:41not last, not after strategy failed. First, and when they did,
- 43:48Heaven moved. Naemiah wasn't a prophet, He wasn't a warrior.
- 43:53He was a cupbearer, a glorified butler for a pagan king.
- 43:57And yet when he heard about the broken wall of Jerusalem,
- 44:01something shattered inside him. He didn't start a go fund me,
- 44:06he didn't post about it. In frustration. He sat down, wept, mourned,
- 44:13and then he prayed. The book of Nehemiah opens not
- 44:19with action but agony. Chapter one reveals a man broken
- 44:23in private before he ever stood in public. His prayer
- 44:27is raw, Lord, the God of Heaven, let your ear
- 44:31be attentive. I confess the sins we Israelites. We have
- 44:35acted very wickedly toward you Naemiah one five through seven.
- 44:41Before he requested favor, he repented, before he asked for help,
- 44:46He acknowledged his people's history. This wasn't manipulation, it was surrender.
- 44:54Then only then did he speak to the king. And
- 44:58because he had asked God first, the King released him,
- 45:01gave him letters, sent resources, appointed him governor. But it
- 45:06all started with prayer. If Neemiah had rushed into action
- 45:10without intercession, he would have had ambition, but not anointing. Instead,
- 45:16he asked God first, and a wall that lay in
- 45:19ruins for decades was rebuilt in fifty two days, or considered.
- 45:23Jehoshaphat in Second Chronicles twenty, a terrifying word reaches the king,
- 45:30A vast army is coming against you. The natural instinct
- 45:34would be to gather troops, draw up strategy, prepare defenses.
- 45:39But verse three says Jehoshaphat resolved to inquire of the Lord,
- 45:43and he proclaimed a fast for all Judah. He didn't move.
- 45:48He didn't panic, he didn't calculate odds. He inquired. Then
- 45:53he gathered the people and prayed one of the most
- 45:56transparent prayers in scripture. We we do not know what
- 46:01to do, but our eyes are on you Second Chronicles
- 46:07twenty twelve. That kind of confession would be political suicide
- 46:11in modern leadership circles. But God called it faith, and
- 46:16through a prophet named Jehaziel, the Lord answered, you will
- 46:21not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions,
- 46:25stand firm, and see the deliverance the Lord will give you.
- 46:28Jehoshaphat inquired, So God intervened. The battle belonged to the
- 46:33Lord because the posture belonged to humility. And then there
- 46:37was Anna, just a few verses tucked away in Luke Too,
- 46:41but a lifetime of devotion. She was a widow eighty
- 46:44four years old, and the text says she never left
- 46:48the temple but worship night and day, fasting and praying.
- 46:53When Joseph and Mary brought Jesus into the temple, Anna
- 46:57saw him. She saw what others missed, not because she
- 47:01was qualified, but because she was watching. Anna didn't have
- 47:04a title, she didn't hold a microphone, She wasn't a
- 47:08known prophet like Simeon, but she had lived decades of quiet,
- 47:13consistent surrender, and when the time came when the Messiah
- 47:18entered the building, God made sure she was there to
- 47:22witness it. What if the breakthrough you long for doesn't
- 47:26come from doing more, but from inquiring more. In a
- 47:31world of noise, of instant access to information, we often
- 47:36forget that wisdom isn't found in Google searches, It's found
- 47:40in God's presence. How often do we text a friend
- 47:44before we pray? How often do we post our frustrations
- 47:48before we kneel in them? How often do we ask
- 47:51for feedback before we ask for fire from heaven? Picture Olivia,
- 47:56a small business owner who just received an offer to
- 47:59expand her company. It promises growth, exposure, and double the revenue,
- 48:05but something feels off. Everyone around her says, this is
- 48:09the opportunity you've been waiting for. But Olivia, remembering what
- 48:15it means to ask God, first, takes a day to fast.
- 48:19She quiets the voices, She goes to her knees, and
- 48:23in the stillness she senses a hesitation. She says no,
- 48:28and three months later, the company offering the deal collapses
- 48:31from fraud charges. Her obedience didn't make sense in the moment,
- 48:36but it saved her destiny. Or think about Jamal, a
- 48:40college student offered a prestigious internship across the country. He'd
- 48:44be separated from his church, his family, his spiritual mentors.
- 48:49The position looks perfect, but before saying yes, he prays.
- 48:55Days pass, then weeks. He feels tempted to accept before
- 48:59the offer expires, but instead he waits. Finally, God gives
- 49:04peace about another door, one with less prestige but more purpose,
- 49:09and through that path, Jamal discovers his calling as a
- 49:13youth pastor, changing hundreds of lives. His lesser choice became
- 49:17the greater one because he asked God first. This isn't
- 49:21about legalism, It's about alignment. Inquiring of God doesn't mean passivity.
- 49:27It means priority. It means you place his voice above
- 49:31the noise, his word above opinions, his timing above opportunity.
- 49:38Too often we look for open doors and call it confirmation.
- 49:42But not every open door is from God, and not
- 49:46every closed one is from the devil. That's why we
- 49:50must ask, So, what would happen if you paused right
- 49:53now and invited God into the decision on your mind,
- 49:58before you accept that job, before you walk away from
- 50:01that relationship, before you say yes to that move, before
- 50:05you launch that ministry, before you retaliate, before you reply,
- 50:10ask because the ones who ask God first don't just
- 50:14avoid disaster, they walk into destiny. And now, with this
- 50:19in mind, we must ask the final question, what happens
- 50:23if you don't ask? What happens when you lean on alternatives, intuition,
- 50:28or your own emotions and it leads you somewhere God
- 50:32never called you to go. That's where we go next.
- 50:35Google has become our first responder the minute life shakes us,
- 50:40when the diagnosis comes, when the relationship breaks, when the
- 50:44anxiety creeps in, we don't reach for our Bible. We
- 50:48reach for our phones. How to heal from heartbreak? What
- 50:54does it mean when I feel numb? Spiritually? Why they
- 51:00do bad things happen to good people? We search, we scroll,
- 51:05we consume, But at the end of our digital rabbit hole,
- 51:09we often find ourselves more overwhelmed than when we started.
- 51:13Because what we're facing isn't just a question, It's a crisis,
- 51:17and spiritual crises were never meant to be solved by algorithms.
- 51:21We're more informed than ever, but less transformed, more connected
- 51:26than ever, but lonelier in our souls and the reason
- 51:30We've replaced the sacred with the searchable. When our spirits ache,
- 51:35instead of going to the living word, we go to
- 51:38trending blogs. We watch reaction videos instead of entering into revelation.
- 51:44We binge watch content, trying to find comfort that only
- 51:47the comforter can give. Now, don't misunderstand tools like Google
- 51:52have their place. God can use information, He can even
- 51:56use technology to point us toward truth, but are too
- 52:00often we don't use them as tools, We use them
- 52:04as replacements. We turn to digital knowledge, hoping to avoid
- 52:07divine surrender because googling doesn't ask anything from us the
- 52:11Bible does. Googling doesn't convict us the Holy Spirit does.
- 52:16Googling doesn't call us into obedience. Scripture does. There's a
- 52:21lesser known story tucked into Second Kings, one that exposes
- 52:25this tension with startling clarity. King Ahaziah, the son of Ahab,
- 52:31had fallen through the lattice of his upper room and
- 52:34injured himself. He lay there, wounded and uncertain. He wanted
- 52:39to know would he recover, But instead of calling for
- 52:42a prophet. Instead of seeking God, he sent messengers to
- 52:46inquire of bal Zibub, the God of Ekron. This wasn't
- 52:50just idolatry. It was a fence to the God of Israel.
- 52:54So the Lord sends Elijah with a direct message, Is
- 52:58it because there is no god in Israel that you
- 53:01are going off to consult baal Zebub? Second Kings one
- 53:06three God's question echoes like thunder, am I not enough
- 53:13for you? That question still confronts us to day. When
- 53:17heart break hits, do we turn to God? Or do
- 53:20we type into a search bar? When we're wrestling with doubt,
- 53:23do we press into prayer or do we watch ten
- 53:26videos by influencers who've deconstructed their faith. When the depression
- 53:31won't lift, do we go to our knees or scroll
- 53:35until the numbness settles? Like a hazir. We often bypass God,
- 53:40not because he's silent, but because we don't want his answer.
- 53:44His word might call us to wait, to repent, to forgive,
- 53:49to change, and sometimes we'd rather know about God than
- 53:54surrender to him. Picture Lisa, a mum of three, newly divorced,
- 54:00scrolling through articles on how to co parent with the narcissist.
- 54:03Her heart aches, she doesn't sleep. Every headline promises peace,
- 54:10but nothing soothes the storm inside. One night in the kitchen,
- 54:14tears fall into the sink as she types one more
- 54:17phrase into Google why does God allow abandonment? And for
- 54:23a moment she pauses, not because of the search results,
- 54:26but because she realizes she hasn't spoken to God in weeks.
- 54:31She searched the world for answers, but not once sat
- 54:34in silence to hear from her father. Or consider Marcus,
- 54:39a college senior crippled with anxiety over his future law
- 54:42school missions work. Should he date her or not? He
- 54:47makes pros and cons lists, watches reels, listens to six
- 54:51different podcast pastors. But in all of his searching, he's
- 54:55never fasted, never cracked open proverbs, never just asked law
- 55:00Lord speak. He's drowning an input, but starving for intimacy.
- 55:05God's question to our Hassiah is his question to us.
- 55:09Am I not still the God of Israel? Am I
- 55:12not still the wonderful counselor the Prince of peace, the
- 55:16healer of broken hearts, the anchor of storm tossed souls.
- 55:20The truth is, we don't need more information. We need revelation.
- 55:25We don't need more voices, we need his voice. Because
- 55:29spiritual crises are not solved with clearer facts, they're solved
- 55:33with deeper faith. There's a reason Paul told Timothy all
- 55:37scripture is God breathed, tewod Timothy three sixteen. Not trending,
- 55:43not viral, not widely accepted. God breathed, And when God breathes,
- 55:48things live. But we're trying to resurrect our purpose with
- 55:52recycled quotes from pinterest. We're trying to cast out demons
- 55:56of despair with digestible self help, and it's not working.
- 56:01Jesus didn't say man shall not live by blogs alone.
- 56:06He said man shall not live by bread alone, but
- 56:09by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God
- 56:13Matthew four four. So what's the solution. It's not complicated,
- 56:18but it is costly. Close the tab, open the book,
- 56:22power down the phone, turn up the worship, shut out
- 56:25the noise, seek the spirit. Replace your search history with
- 56:30a prayer history. Because God doesn't want to be your
- 56:34last resort, he wants to be your first response. So
- 56:38now we move forward. Because the problem isn't just distraction,
- 56:42its deception. When we don't run to God, will inevitably
- 56:47run to substitutes. And in the next part of this
- 56:51journey we confront one of the most dangerous spiritual counterfeits.
- 56:55We face the false peace of self help, the kind
- 56:59that sueooths your emotions but never saves your soul. Let's go.
- 57:04Most people don't deny God exists. They just delay him.
- 57:08They know he's there, they just assume he'll still be
- 57:11waiting when everything else they try collapses. God isn't hated.
- 57:16He's often just held us back up, a spiritual fire extinguisher,
- 57:20a last minute rescue line. And this is exactly how
- 57:25we end up exhausted, broken, and faith frustrated. We treat
- 57:31the God of the universe as the if nothing else
- 57:34works option, instead of the very foundation of the answer.
- 57:38Hezekiah didn't think like that. Historian Two Kings eighteen to
- 57:43nineteen doesn't usually get the front page spotlight, but it
- 57:47holds a secret many desperate people miss. When threatened by
- 57:51the strongest empire of his day, Hezekiah didn't panic. He
- 57:56didn't strategize a war plan or call Egypt for help.
- 58:00He ran to the temple. He took the enemy's letter
- 58:03literal evidence of fear, and laid it before God. He
- 58:07didn't just say pray for me or toss a verse
- 58:10at his anxiety. He put it all in front of
- 58:13the Lord and prayed. The context of this moment matters.
- 58:17Assyria wasn't a joke. It had already crushed Israel to
- 58:21the north and now came for Judah. Sir Nacarib, the
- 58:25king of Assyria, mocked Hezekiah's trust in God, saying no
- 58:29other God had saved the nations he conquered. The threat
- 58:33was real, the logic was convincing, the pressure was suffocating.
- 58:38But Hezekiah didn't run to logic. He ran to the Lord.
- 58:42And when Isaiah came to deliver God's response, it wasn't
- 58:46just poetic, it was prophetic. God himself defended the city.
- 58:53One angel, just one wiped out one hundred eighty five
- 58:59thousand a Centian soldiers in one night. God didn't give
- 59:03Hezekiah a strategy. He gave him victory. But it came
- 59:07because Hezekiah didn't use God as a last resort. He
- 59:11used him as the only source. Fast forward to today.
- 59:16The enemy may not be at your city gates, but
- 59:18he's prowling around your peace. Fear emails you every morning.
- 59:23Doubt speaks through culture's megaphone. Your assyria might be bills, diagnosis, rejection, deadlines, depression,
- 59:32or just the rising panic that nothing's working and time
- 59:35is running out. And the temptation is the same. Look
- 59:39for relief before you seek the redeemer. Search Google, before
- 59:43you search scripture, Call a friend before you call on Heaven.
- 59:47Try everything, then pray. But prayer wasn't made to mop
- 59:50up what your hustle couldn't handle. Prayer was meant to lead.
- 59:55Scripture wasn't designed to be background music. It was the blueprint.
- 59:59God does just want to be the God you run
- 1:00:02to when plans fail. He wants to be the one
- 1:00:05who gives you the plan in the first place. Let's
- 1:00:09bring this to where most of us live. You get
- 1:00:11bad news, a job falls through, a loved one's in crisis.
- 1:00:16Your emotions scream, your brain races, and within minutes you've
- 1:00:22texted five people, scanned two blogs, and told yourself you've
- 1:00:25got to figure this out. But you haven't breathed one
- 1:00:28word to God. Sound familiar. We don't mean to ignore him.
- 1:00:33We just assume there's something more immediate, more actionable, more available,
- 1:00:38but there isn't. Maybe God has allowed the pressure not
- 1:00:41to break you, but to expose what you really lean on.
- 1:00:45Maybe the delays and rejections weren't punishments but spiritual pauses,
- 1:00:52divine invitations to say this time, I'm not reaching for
- 1:00:57a short cut. I'm going to the throne room first.
- 1:01:02Think about it. How much peace have we forfeited because
- 1:01:05we prayed last How many breakdowns did we suffer because
- 1:01:09God wasn't our starting place. It's time we stop treating
- 1:01:14faith like a life jacket we wear only when the
- 1:01:17boat's sinking. Faith is the boat. God is the anchor,
- 1:01:23and he's not just available when we're desperate. He's available
- 1:01:27now for decisions, for daily direction, for the little things
- 1:01:33that seem beneath his attention, and the big things that
- 1:01:36keep us awake at night. There's one more piece of
- 1:01:39Hesekia's story worth noting. When he prayed, he didn't beg
- 1:01:43God to change his mind. He reminded God of who
- 1:01:46he was. You alone are God over all the kingdoms
- 1:01:51of the earth. That's not just trust, that's worship. Hezekiah
- 1:01:58knew that when you exult God, your enemies start to shrink.
- 1:02:03So here's the confrontation. Who do you run to first?
- 1:02:07Where do you go when pressure rises? If you really
- 1:02:11believed God was your only source, how would your actions
- 1:02:14look different? Because He doesn't want to be your last resort.
- 1:02:18He already is the answer, the breakthrough, the wisdom, the rest,
- 1:02:24the healing, the plan, but you have to come to
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- 1:03:09find everything in the description below. Now back to the word,
- 1:03:14and with that we pivot not to a new idea,
- 1:03:17but a deeper one. If God is the only source,
- 1:03:21why do so many still feel dry? Maybe it's because
- 1:03:24even after we go to him. We don't stay. Maybe
- 1:03:28we start the conversation but then wander back to worry.
- 1:03:32Maybe we've asked but haven't waited the next move learning
- 1:03:37how to listen, Let's go there. Pain isolates not just
- 1:03:42from comfort, but from clarity. When you're crushed under sorrow, confusion, betrayal,
- 1:03:48or just the ache of something unanswered for too long,
- 1:03:51the temptation is to find someone who will just sit
- 1:03:54with you, nod their head, agree with your frustration, and
- 1:03:58hand you a spiritual powerfire. And don't get me wrong,
- 1:04:02comfort matters. God cares about compassion. But there's a danger
- 1:04:07we rarely talk about. It's this In our darkest moments,
- 1:04:11we often seek pity when we actually need prophecy. We
- 1:04:15want agreement when we desperately need alignment. Job didn't lose
- 1:04:20everything because he was reckless or sinful. Scripture says he
- 1:04:24was blameless, a man of integrity, and yet in a
- 1:04:28flurry of divine permission, his world collapsed. Children died, wealth vanished,
- 1:04:35skin blistered, reputation shredded, silence from heaven. And in that
- 1:04:39unimaginable grief, Job's friends showed up. They started strong, They
- 1:04:44sat with him in silence. For seven days, they mourned
- 1:04:46with him. But then the shift happened. Their comfort turned
- 1:04:51into commentary, their empathy twisted into arrogance. One by one,
- 1:04:56they started diagnosing Job's pain like theologians in a courtroom.
- 1:05:01You must have sinned, you must have hidden pride. God
- 1:05:06doesn't allow this unless you deserve it. But here's what
- 1:05:11makes this story so unnerving. Their words sounded right, they
- 1:05:16even quoted truths about God. Yet they were rebuked by
- 1:05:20God himself in the end, not Job. Why because they
- 1:05:25spoke from assumption, not revelation. They offered advice without God's permission,
- 1:05:31and that's the line too many cross in today's spiritual culture.
- 1:05:35We offer emotional alignment with someone's pain instead of truth
- 1:05:40that anchors them beyond it. This is where the story
- 1:05:45takes a twist. After wave upon wave of flawed human advice,
- 1:05:50a young man named Elihu speaks up. He had waited,
- 1:05:54he had listened, and unlike the others, he doesn't start
- 1:05:58by blaming Job. He starts by restoring the weight of
- 1:06:02God's majesty. He reminds Job that even in pain, God speaks,
- 1:06:08sometimes through whispers, sometimes through suffering, sometimes through dreams. Or silence,
- 1:06:14but always with purpose. It was after Eli who spoke
- 1:06:19that God finally enters the conversation. That's the prophetic pattern.
- 1:06:24Comfort alone didn't open the heavens. Correction did not cruelty,
- 1:06:28but divine confrontation, not scolding, but reorientation. It was then
- 1:06:35that God thundered from the whirlwind and essentially said, job,
- 1:06:39where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth.
- 1:06:43Not to humiliate him, but to remind him to lift
- 1:06:46his eyes to recenter his heart. Job didn't need more sympathy,
- 1:06:51He needed a sight of God again, and maybe so
- 1:06:55do you. To day, too, many of us are surrounded
- 1:06:58by voices who mean well, but echo what we already feel,
- 1:07:02instead of what God already said. We want someone to
- 1:07:06feel our pain, But what if God is trying to
- 1:07:09redeem it. What if what we need most in suffering
- 1:07:13is not someone to validate our anger, but someone to
- 1:07:16usher us back into alignment with Heaven. Because your pain
- 1:07:20might need a listener, yes, but more than that, it
- 1:07:24needs a voice from above, a voice that will not
- 1:07:28let your wounds become your world view, A voice that says,
- 1:07:32there's more beyond this moment. A voice that calls you
- 1:07:36out of the ashes and into perspective. And don't miss this.
- 1:07:39God did rebuke Job's friends. He told them, essentially, you
- 1:07:44didn't speak what is right about me. But then, in
- 1:07:48the grace of all graces, he asked Job to pray
- 1:07:51for them. And when Job prayed, not when he was healed,
- 1:07:55not when he got answers, not when everything made sense,
- 1:07:58but when he prayed for his friends, the Lord restored him,
- 1:08:02not just financially, not just physically, spiritually, eternally. So here's
- 1:08:08the question. In your pain, are you surrounding yourself with
- 1:08:12comforters or prophets. Are you scrolling through opinions or pressing
- 1:08:17into God's presence? Are you listening to empathy that keeps
- 1:08:21you where you are or to truth that calls you
- 1:08:24where God is leading. Real love doesn't just sit beside
- 1:08:28you in sorrow. It points you toward the Savior. And
- 1:08:32when Job stopped listening to the echo chamber and tuned
- 1:08:35into heaven, God didn't just give him back what he lost,
- 1:08:39He gave him double. That's not a formula. It's not
- 1:08:43a guarantee that every pain will be reversed, but it
- 1:08:47is a promise that no pain is wasted, that every
- 1:08:51scar has a story, that every tear God collects becomes
- 1:08:56part of the rain that water some one else's delivery.
- 1:09:00The people in your life matter, but their voices must
- 1:09:03always bow to His. Underneath the noise of every decision
- 1:09:08you make, there is always a voice your following. The
- 1:09:11question isn't whether you're seeking counsel, it's where you're getting
- 1:09:15it from. We've all been there. You hit a wall emotionally, relationally, spiritually,
- 1:09:22and the first impulse call some one, Google it, vent
- 1:09:27to a friend, open Instagram and scroll for something that resonates.
- 1:09:32But here's the question you rarely stop to ask. Who
- 1:09:36are you asking and where are they leading you? The
- 1:09:40Bible doesn't just encourage us to seek wisdom, it warns
- 1:09:44us about where we look for it. In One Kings
- 1:09:46twenty two, there's a lesser known prophet named Mikaiah who
- 1:09:51stands alone in a crowd of yes men. King Ahab,
- 1:09:54desperate for affirmation before going to war, surrounds himself with
- 1:09:58four hundred prophets who will tell him what he wants
- 1:10:01to hear. They hype him up, cheer him on, confirm
- 1:10:05his plans. Only Macaiah, the one true prophet who actually
- 1:10:10heard from God dares to say the opposite. He tells
- 1:10:14the king the truth, You're walking into destruction, but Ahab
- 1:10:19ignores him, listens to the crowd, and dies in battle.
- 1:10:24It's a chilling reminder. Being surrounded by voices doesn't mean
- 1:10:27you're surrounded by truth. Confirmation isn't always clarity, and just
- 1:10:32because advice sounds good doesn't mean it comes from God. Now,
- 1:10:36sooom out to your own life. Who do you go
- 1:10:38to when you're overwhelmed? Who gets the first phone call
- 1:10:41when you don't know what to do? Maybe it's that
- 1:10:44friend who always gets it but also never challenges you,
- 1:10:49or that podcast host whose wisdom feels deep but lacks
- 1:10:52the spirit. Or maybe, if you're honest, it's just you,
- 1:10:56your logic, your research, your gut. But here's the danger.
- 1:11:02When we treat people, platforms, or feelings as our compass,
- 1:11:06we might feel supported but still be spiritually misled. It's
- 1:11:12not that God doesn't use people. He does, but when
- 1:11:15their voice replaces his voice, even well meaning counsel can
- 1:11:19become a counterfeit. Remember Eve didn't get deceived by a monster,
- 1:11:24She got seduced by a suggestion. Did God really say,
- 1:11:30that's how it always starts. Doubt that feels like dialogue,
- 1:11:35opinions that feel like wisdom. We follow bread crumbs that
- 1:11:38lead away from the bread of life, yet scripture shows
- 1:11:42us a better way. In Second Chronicles twenty, King Jehoshaphat
- 1:11:47faces an impossible battle. Three armies are coming against Judah,
- 1:11:52and fear grips the nation. But instead of rushing to
- 1:11:56generals or allies, Jehoshaphat does something radical. He calls a
- 1:12:01fast and praise. He doesn't ask God to rub a
- 1:12:05stamp his battle plan. He waits and God answers, not
- 1:12:10with a strategy, but a song. You won't need to
- 1:12:13fight in this battle, God says, stand firm, hold your position,
- 1:12:19and see the salvation of the Lord. That day. Judah
- 1:12:24wins the war by worshiping. No swords drawn, just hearts surrendered.
- 1:12:30And it all started because they asked the right voice. First.
- 1:12:34We must learn to audit our sources. Are we looking
- 1:12:37for comfort or correction, agreement or truth, emotional relief or
- 1:12:42divine revelation? Because you can be surrounded by people and
- 1:12:47still be spiritually alone. If God isn't your first counsel,
- 1:12:51you can post your pain online and get one thousand
- 1:12:54likes and still not get healed. You can receive encouragement
- 1:13:00that feels like peace but isn't aligned with God's word.
- 1:13:04The people in your life may love you, but only
- 1:13:07God formed you. Only he knows the blue print, and
- 1:13:11only He can lead you where you were born to go.
- 1:13:15Maybe this is your moment to pause, to take a
- 1:13:17brutal inventory, to ask who am I really asking? Whose
- 1:13:22opinion carries the most weight in my decisions? Is it culture, comfort,
- 1:13:27convenience or Christ Because in the end, there are only
- 1:13:32two kinds of people, those who seek God first and
- 1:13:35those who turn to Him last. One is led, the
- 1:13:40other is lost. And the difference isn't how spiritual they look,
- 1:13:44but how surrendered they are when it matters most. So
- 1:13:48here's the invitation. Come back, re center. Make God not
- 1:13:52your last resort but your first pursuit. Not the one
- 1:13:56you consult after your plans fall apart, but the one
- 1:13:59you follow before you make them. Don't wait for silence,
- 1:14:04pain or confusion to remind you who you should have asked.
- 1:14:08Let this be the turning point where you exchange noise
- 1:14:12for his whisper, opinions for his voice, and confusion for
- 1:14:15his presence, because the truth is, if you've been following
- 1:14:20the wrong voice, you don't just need advice, you need
- 1:14:24a shepherd and the good news he's already calling your name. Father.
- 1:14:30We confess that we've asked every one but you. We've
- 1:14:33leaned on our own understanding, chaste, comfort instead of clarity,
- 1:14:38and called it wisdom. But now we come back. We
- 1:14:43come tired of the noise, tired of confusion, tired of
- 1:14:47relying on ourselves or those who cannot see what you see.
- 1:14:53You are the God who answers in fire and whispers
- 1:14:56in silence. Speak again, Lord, let us hear you. You
- 1:15:00break every dependence that has replaced your voice, expose every
- 1:15:05counterfeit piece that has numbed us, and train our hearts
- 1:15:08to seek you first fully, faithfully, We release our need
- 1:15:13to be in control. We surrender our addiction to instant answers,
- 1:15:18and we ask for something better. Your presence, your leadership,
- 1:15:22your will lead us. Shepherd of our souls, correct us
- 1:15:26when we stray, counsel us when we're confused, and comfort
- 1:15:31us not with empty phrases, but with eternal truth. Let
- 1:15:35our lives be marked not by how loudly we speak,
- 1:15:38but by how closely we listen. Amen. If you made
- 1:15:42it to the end of this message, thank you. It
- 1:15:45means you're not just looking for inspiration, you're hungry for transformation.
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