Latest / The Big Gay Radio Show / The Big Gay After Show: April 28th, 2026 - Ron DeSantis is Begging!
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- 0:00The views expressed on The Big Gay After Show may not
- 0:02necessarily reflect the views of the Nathan B Stubblefield
- 0:05Foundation or those of the staff or management of WM and F Tampa.
- 0:09Listener discretion is advised. Where the T's hotter, the laughs
- 0:16are louder, and nothing's off limits, this is the Big Gay
- 0:20After show. Welcome to the big Gay After
- 0:28show. My name is Chris Gorman.
- 0:30I'm your show twink here, joined by Esme Russell, who doesn't
- 0:33know where she's at. I do know where I'm at, but I
- 0:36don't know where I'm going. Where?
- 0:40Where do you come from? Where do you go?
- 0:41Yeah, Where do you come from? Where do you go?
- 0:43We're also joined by the vivacious Vince Suasian.
- 0:46We're also joined by Jesse, Harley and Danielle from the
- 0:50event Fat, the fashion event Ink and Lace.
- 0:53Hey, guys. Thanks for having us.
- 0:55We are so glad to have you guys on the after show.
- 0:58So, miss, are you acting ladylike today?
- 1:03I never act ladylike. I'm on air.
- 1:06Neither do we. Please a lady ish.
- 1:10Lady adjacent. A lady adjacent, definitely.
- 1:12Yes, lady adjacent so. What's the question?
- 1:14Well, that was the question. Are you behaving?
- 1:17I I am, I can I be honest with you, Chris, I keep looking at
- 1:20the calendar and I keep missing the marijuana cigarettes, not
- 1:25the. Same.
- 1:26Without the IT was like the marijuana in the dog's mouth
- 1:30really made me happy even though I'm not a pot smoker.
- 1:34I personally just thought it was just a It was just a nice look
- 1:38on the dog. I.
- 1:38Thought he was happy. The dog was a joy.
- 1:42The marijuana looks. Better in the picture.
- 1:44The dog the the marijuana cigarette in the dog's mouth
- 1:47made the dog look high as hell. Doesn't he look sad now?
- 1:51He just looks sad now he does. I.
- 1:54Don't know why they took it away.
- 1:56All right, well, I got some topics.
- 1:58I got some tea for you guys. So a Minnesota teacher withdrew
- 2:02from the 2026 Teacher of a Year competition after photos of him
- 2:06in a leather themed context contest.
- 2:10No, it was at a leather themed contest.
- 2:12But he was wearing a harness. Wearing a harness.
- 2:14But I mean, he was there, he was at a, he was in a leather themed
- 2:17contest. Laying on a Bale of hay.
- 2:20And they were shared by a right wing.
- 2:22As other men kissed on him, calling him good boy.
- 2:27Esme like a. Fun time I.
- 2:29Feel like you're kink shaming so Esme.
- 2:33I'm not. Esme, are you going to just go
- 2:35ahead and kink shame this poor man?
- 2:36No. I just think that.
- 2:38You are. It sounded enticing, honestly.
- 2:40You. Sound.
- 2:41Very everything that's. Right, everything that he did
- 2:45was fine, but I don't know if I would want this man teaching my
- 2:47children. Why?
- 2:51I don't know. I'm challenging you on that.
- 2:53I don't know. I just, I don't know.
- 2:56I just they're 12 year 1211 and 12 year old kids.
- 3:00I don't know he's. Not doing that.
- 3:02At school. School.
- 3:03No, I know. I agree.
- 3:04I agree with that part. I just don't know.
- 3:05I'm so conservative. When it comes to school, you
- 3:07know, you know exactly the So you know something that's really
- 3:10funny. I'm glad.
- 3:11I think that's really funny that you say that.
- 3:12'Cause I have something to add to this.
- 3:14No, I have something to add to this too.
- 3:16That's why I'm trying to speak. Why would you go ahead and say
- 3:20the exact same thing that they say about trans people about
- 3:25this person who does leather? So.
- 3:27I would. Would you go ahead and teach?
- 3:29So hold on, I would never teach children.
- 3:32First of all, I'm too controversial to teach children
- 3:35so. Would a So let me rephrase trans
- 3:37people. Should a trans person teach?
- 3:41If she's, if she wants to, I just couldn't do it.
- 3:44So I wouldn't. I don't read books to children.
- 3:47People have asked me and I have a very specific mindset about
- 3:51that. Number one, I'm not qualified to
- 3:53read books to children. I don't like kids that much
- 3:56anyway. This guy's.
- 3:57Qualified. Yeah, so he's a teacher, but I
- 3:59am not. So I just don't read books to
- 4:02kids. I've just never been one of
- 4:03those people. I've just trans people just so
- 4:06I'm so controversial that I don't put myself in a position
- 4:09where I have to. That's a layer of protection,
- 4:11yeah. Right it.
- 4:12Is for me, but I come from a different generation so I'm glad
- 4:16you worded it that way instead of the way he's tried to word it
- 4:18'cause you are. It is you personally, but do
- 4:21you? Think it's it is a layer of
- 4:22trans. No, 'cause I know trans teachers
- 4:24and they're wonderful, yeah, so I have no problem with.
- 4:27That I know a lot of things, but.
- 4:28They know a lot. Of people in the leather pig
- 4:30community that are teachers too. But they also live very.
- 4:33More than qualified. But they also, but they also
- 4:35live without, but they leave that out.
- 4:37But they also live very conservative lives.
- 4:39Yeah, I have a personal experience to share with this,
- 4:41so I have I, I went to school up in Georgia.
- 4:45Yeah, in Gwinnett County. I'm just going to leave it at
- 4:47that, OK? I'm going to leave it at that.
- 4:50Had an excellent librarian, OK. And I'm talking about this
- 4:53person was like a safe space for for me.
- 4:55I was not, I didn't discover that I was trans yet.
- 4:58I was still like a little lesbian in school.
- 5:01And this person was a safe space for me.
- 5:03Awesome librarian really introduced me to some profound
- 5:06awesome books, right? And that like provided
- 5:09confidence and safety for my mind, my body and my spirit,
- 5:11right? And I grew up, I started doing
- 5:15nightlife work in Atlanta. I started doing dragon Atlanta.
- 5:19So and like 20 like 22 now at at this point and I meet the same
- 5:27person at a bar and realize this is my old librarian.
- 5:32We get to talking and I find out that she has for like decades,
- 5:37nightlife as a dominatrix. That's so.
- 5:41And made way more money as a dominatrix as she ever did as a
- 5:44librarian. Oh, 100% for sure, you know, but
- 5:47she. Never knew.
- 5:48But I never knew. She kept it separate.
- 5:50Exactly. I never knew she was so modest
- 5:52and she was so kind and, and you, you just never expect
- 5:56something like that from from this image of a person that I
- 5:59experienced in school. So I think this teacher, if he
- 6:02would have, if it wouldn't have been uncovered, which by the
- 6:04way, I think a right wing, a group or organization or
- 6:07something uncovered it. They kind of revealed him,
- 6:10right? Wing Publication.
- 6:11Alpha News Minnesota. Yeah, so if maybe if you 'cause
- 6:15my father used to say. Don't they like that?
- 6:18My dad used to say. Yeah.
- 6:19I do, my dad used to say oho Cano vecora song Cano siente
- 6:23heart. Eyes that do not see the heart
- 6:26will not feel OK. So in other words, if your eyes
- 6:29don't see it then it's good. So the revealing of it is what
- 6:33messed everything up for him. 'Cause there's some people.
- 6:35Cause 'cause we live, 'cause we live in a very conservative
- 6:39country, Sadly, not everybody, but there's a lot of people that
- 6:42would be weirded out you. Think you have to be
- 6:44conservative to be a good teacher?
- 6:45No, I don't think so. I think I'll.
- 6:47And I'm sure there's a lot of teachers I know that have kinks.
- 6:50I'm sure of it 'cause I dated teachers.
- 6:52Oh, I do. Too.
- 6:53I feel bad for him. 'Cause I think he's probably a
- 6:55really good man. And naturally just experiences
- 6:58there, there's a, there's a space of privacy and of safety,
- 7:01of confidence that's supposed to happen in those experiences.
- 7:04Yeah, I've, I've worked with, with fetish communities and the
- 7:08BDSM community. I've worked and and there's
- 7:11different. Like as my partner.
- 7:13Right. And, and there's so much consent
- 7:16that has to happen and so much respect that has to happen in
- 7:19communities like that. So for him to be to have been
- 7:22violated in a space where he thought he was going to be safe,
- 7:25I hope for his sake that he signed an NDA.
- 7:29It's really weird because Minnesota is a very progressive
- 7:31state, so I'm very surprised. The thing about these sort of
- 7:36situations, it's not locals a lot of the time that will go
- 7:41ahead and contact these school districts.
- 7:44A lot of the times it's these these conservative individuals
- 7:49from other states sending in complaint emails, putting fire.
- 7:53Yeah, exactly. So honestly, at the end of the
- 7:55day, I don't really give a shit whether or not you wear leather
- 7:59if you can teach well. And this person, somebody going
- 8:03ahead and being teacher of the year, being nominated to be
- 8:07teacher of the year, clearly he was doing fucking well.
- 8:10Yeah, clearly he was qualified. Yeah.
- 8:12So this man should still have this nomination.
- 8:16And he's the later. The district later confirmed he
- 8:19is no longer working. So they don't work the district.
- 8:22Yeah, they don't know if they don't know if he stepped down or
- 8:24if he was asked to step down. Probably asked to step down.
- 8:28I hope he won another. Competition like if they're.
- 8:31All. Guys, I hope people then, yeah,
- 8:33they probably asked him to step down from that position.
- 8:35I I, you know, I was, I just wouldn't put myself like right
- 8:39now. I.
- 8:39Think you're thinking too much into it though.
- 8:41Yeah, I do, but I do think 'cause I'm worried.
- 8:42Yeah. Yeah, but I think it's my
- 8:44background. You, you, but you nailed it.
- 8:46It is a protection mechanism, right, 'cause of my of my kids.
- 8:49But. Just like you had a safe space
- 8:50with your librarian, you had no clue because there was a level
- 8:53of privacy. But also correct, she was a good
- 8:56person, right? It doesn't make you a bad person
- 8:57just 'cause you have a a social life outside of.
- 9:00Your work, your private life. I can't.
- 9:02I mean, you know, like anybody else.
- 9:04Yeah, I can't. I understand the layer of
- 9:05protection, though, as a trans man as and, and as a business
- 9:08owner. I, there's a line where we, that
- 9:12I don't touch with guests and clients, you know, and there
- 9:16once and I've, I've lost clients with them finding out who and
- 9:20what I am. So there's, I, I don't touch
- 9:23that. Very unfortunate.
- 9:24And mind you, this is something that this happened.
- 9:27The images came from a 2019 contest.
- 9:31It was not even 20. Something like 6 years.
- 9:35He even relevant. So he may not even be doing that
- 9:38anymore, right? That's.
- 9:39Shameful. That could have been a past
- 9:41life. But even if he is doing it, it's
- 9:43not. Wrong.
- 9:43There's no shame in it. He's not.
- 9:46He's not doing anything against. Children, he's not, you know,
- 9:48he's not a disgusting person. He's just a person.
- 9:50If I'm going to be honest, I distinctly remember a lot of
- 9:55male teachers staring down the shirts of my female colleagues,
- 10:00and those people are the people that I'm more disgusted and I
- 10:03want out of our schools as opposed to somebody putting on
- 10:06leather. At the end of the fucking day.
- 10:09You can walk around with them, walk around with a pup hood and
- 10:12all that fucking shit in your free time.
- 10:15You don't get fucking paid a lot.
- 10:17How can we go ahead and dictate how you live your life outside
- 10:22of school if you don't even get paid a living wage?
- 10:25Yeah. And kind of going back to you, I
- 10:27understand like when the like where you're coming from and
- 10:29everything, but at the same time you kind of have to, you know,
- 10:32understand that they're not going in and saying, hey, you
- 10:34should wear leather and you should do all these things.
- 10:36They're just doing it in their private life, so.
- 10:38I know you're saying. You think?
- 10:39Like coming from that background, you think like, oh,
- 10:41it's being pushed on my children, but it's actually not,
- 10:43you know? You know, it's definitely not
- 10:44being pushed, you know? Well, it doesn't even say.
- 10:47I think I'm, I'm harsh on myself, so I think I'm harsh on
- 10:50other people. Does that make sense?
- 10:52Yeah. Yeah.
- 10:52So I'm really hard. I'm really hard.
- 10:54I'm really hard. On I can relate to that.
- 10:56I'm hard on myself, so I'm thinking, well, if I if I'm not
- 10:59gonna do that, then you know what I mean, 'cause let's face
- 11:02it, let's let's say that I was a teacher, OK, so I do drag at
- 11:05night. Yeah, but what the hell does
- 11:07that have to do with my students?
- 11:08Yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't make me a, it doesn't
- 11:10make me a dangerous person. No, I'm not the scary bula
- 11:13monster hiding in the closet. Rated correct, You know what I'm
- 11:16saying. Yeah.
- 11:19I think it's almost like I'm trying to make it that the
- 11:23reason I wouldn't do it is because I wouldn't want someone
- 11:26to bring it to light and shame me publicly.
- 11:30So that's the reason I'm thinking he should not have done
- 11:32it. But he wasn't even doing
- 11:33anything wrong. He did nothing.
- 11:35It was in his private life. You come in full circle.
- 11:38I love. Well, yeah, This is why, Well,
- 11:40This is why the military said there was a protection
- 11:42mechanism. Something kind of click.
- 11:45A dead click. And This is why having these
- 11:47group conversations is therapeutic, you know what I
- 11:51mean? And and your story and your
- 11:53story been clicked as well, 'cause that teacher that you
- 11:57would have never thought you. Just need a little perspective
- 12:00sometimes. Yeah.
- 12:01And you know, honestly. I went oh.
- 12:03Shit, honestly, drag culture taught me duality.
- 12:06So like, 'cause I've, I've worked with a lot of different
- 12:09church organizations and I work profoundly in custom in like I
- 12:13used to work a lot in retail and profoundly in community service,
- 12:16right? And I still do now, but in the
- 12:18community service aspect. But drag taught me duality.
- 12:22Drag taught me I could go to church and I could go entertain,
- 12:26you know, and, and it still, it didn't change the fact that I
- 12:29was a good person. It didn't change the fact.
- 12:31I always get mad when people go, well, you, you believe in God?
- 12:33I go, yeah. Same same same.
- 12:37It's like you're shocked that someone that's trans or does
- 12:40drag or whatever would it would be a person.
- 12:42That believes in God, right? It's always the people that want
- 12:45like equality and like, you can believe whatever you want and
- 12:48all this stuff, but they're like, wait, why do you believe
- 12:50in God? And it's like, well, that's the
- 12:51whole point. It's like we can believe
- 12:53whatever we. Want and do whatever, right?
- 12:55Right. There is AI do think that there
- 12:57is a congruence and also a separation between understanding
- 13:02queerness and equality and understanding faith.
- 13:05It's not the same for everybody, and not everybody calls it God,
- 13:08but I think it's awesome to. Be Call it the universe, it must
- 13:11call it Buddha. Some others, yeah.
- 13:13But say God as a term. Too sometimes.
- 13:14Exactly. Exactly.
- 13:16I don't think that it's impossible to believe in
- 13:19equality and also have faith. Yeah, I don't think that, no.
- 13:23But that's cool. Yeah, I don't like this story,
- 13:26to be honest. It's a.
- 13:27Complicated. But listen, it's a good
- 13:29conversation that we're having and.
- 13:30I hope he goes to, I hope he goes to a pup competition, like
- 13:35a pup pageant, a leather pageant, and I hope he wins and
- 13:38I hope he reigns for a whole year.
- 13:39I feel like I bro just by having this conversation.
- 13:42I hope that the leather community has embraced him.
- 13:45I hope that I don't. I, I mean, I'm not the
- 13:47community. I'm no longer on social media,
- 13:50so I can't see anything. So I don't know.
- 13:54I just like that. Like that?
- 13:55I'm sorry. Chris is being traumatized by
- 13:58these people. He is going through it I.
- 14:00Don't know what life is like anymore anyways, as May so the
- 14:04demo a Democratic pack is to invest over $20 million into
- 14:08Florida congressional races this year.
- 14:11The spending is going to target several Republican held seats,
- 14:14including districts represented by Corey Mills, Anapolina Luna,
- 14:18Laurel Lee, Maria, Elvira Salazar and Carlos Jimenez.
- 14:25Anapolina Luna is actually my representative and I've had the
- 14:30pleasure to talk to a couple of the different people that are
- 14:33trying to go ahead and go against her.
- 14:35And honestly, I think that there's some really good
- 14:38candidates. I really hope that they they can
- 14:41figure out some some good stuff can figure it out.
- 14:44But of the total, 9,000,000 is going to be an earmarked from
- 14:49for Miami, including 2.3 million for Spanish language
- 14:53advertising. Republicans currently hold 20 of
- 14:57Florida's 28 congressional seats and are looking to expand.
- 15:02So Esme, what's the what? What's your opinion?
- 15:05Well, I think it's good. I'm I'm all for expansion, I'm
- 15:07all for everybody being a participant, I'm all for voting,
- 15:11I'm all for everything. It says this marks the first
- 15:14major influx of National Democratic money into Florida
- 15:17since Nikki Freed became state party chair in 2020.
- 15:20Three, I think that's good. I think it's going to change
- 15:24things. I really hope that we get to
- 15:26move on from Nikki Freed, to be honest.
- 15:30I love her to death. But, you know, the fact that she
- 15:33is the, she's been the Democratic, you know, party
- 15:36leader in Florida for so long. And she's not really done much.
- 15:40And we haven't gotten any other people elected other than her.
- 15:45I just, I would like to see other Democrats elected.
- 15:48Good for you, Nikki. I'm proud of you.
- 15:51Like, I'm glad that you you broke that ceiling.
- 15:53She did great. Yeah.
- 15:54And kudos for. Stepping up to it too.
- 15:55Absolutely, and I would never want to negate that.
- 15:59But if you can't handle the job, it's time to fucking move on.
- 16:03Let's go ahead and do something anyways.
- 16:06It's. Time for other people to step up
- 16:07too, so. Give somebody else a chance,
- 16:09right? New perspective, new
- 16:11perspective, right? Give somebody else a chance to
- 16:13kind of see what they can do with it right now.
- 16:15What's your perspective over there?
- 16:17You guys are going ahead and being a little bit too quiet for
- 16:20my for my liking. A.
- 16:22Lot of listening I listen. I don't have too much a chime in
- 16:27on that. I think it's great, but I, I'm,
- 16:34I'm not I, I don't know enough about it really.
- 16:36No, it's OK. I respect that.
- 16:37See, that's I love you for being honest.
- 16:40Yeah, I definitely, you know, politics do affect me.
- 16:43I, I'm very political, but I, I just don't know specifically
- 16:48locally what's going on. Yes, I just know when and where
- 16:51I need to be to vote. Good, that is Well, that's the
- 16:54best. That's all you need to know.
- 16:56That's all you need to know. As the regular voter, as the
- 16:58regular individual, you won't necessarily.
- 17:00Need to go vote. That's what people need to do.
- 17:03Exactly. And I just I think it's a really
- 17:05good thing that we finally got money to spend in Florida.
- 17:10You know, it's, it's, I always like to say money doesn't win
- 17:15elections, but it certainly fucking helps.
- 17:18Certainly sure as shit. Everyone wants to come here
- 17:20where they don't want to support.
- 17:21Exactly. Exactly.
- 17:24Miss Esme, what's the T? Yeah, well, you want me to do
- 17:27another one? Yeah, we got time.
- 17:28So a child's party balloon? Oh.
- 17:31I got to hear this. This is Jordan.
- 17:33Has burned down more homes. One balloon I saw this then any
- 17:39then all the fires that they've had in Georgia history.
- 17:43Okay, this one balloon hit an electrical power cord which set
- 17:48off a series of fires throughout the countryside of Georgia.
- 17:54It has now burned down 87 homes to the ground. 7500 acres of
- 18:00land. Yeah.
- 18:02Whoa, is everybody OK? Right.
- 18:04That's the question, yeah. Like.
- 18:06So far, no death. No deaths, right, But a?
- 18:08Lot of loss of. Property.
- 18:10OK. I mean, it is, it is, it is made
- 18:13of Georgia history as the biggest fire in Georgia.
- 18:16Maybe we could use this to kind of like, help advocate like, no
- 18:20more balloon releases. You know, we lost 87 homes.
- 18:25Can we stop? Animals.
- 18:27Eating the earth with these balloons.
- 18:28So, Esme, yeah, I will answer you that yes, animals will go
- 18:33ahead and eat them, specifically turtles.
- 18:35They will go ahead and fall. They will start to sink into the
- 18:39water and the turtles will mistake them as Jelly jellyfish
- 18:42and I have any time that I'm out on the boat.
- 18:46I have a little bag that I use to pick up any types of plastic,
- 18:51but it's majority. Balloons.
- 18:53That's just terrible. So I I think and it's almost.
- 18:56Like a memorial. I don't believe I hate to the.
- 18:59I know that's so real. I hate to say this, but we
- 19:02outlaw so many things, we really should just outlaw them out.
- 19:05I think that I can't. Make the bio deer memorial.
- 19:08Create biodegradable balloons. If I remember.
- 19:11Correctly, that would be the option.
- 19:13If I remember correctly, it is illegal to go ahead and and
- 19:16release a balloon. It's just not really that
- 19:18enforced because it's hard to go ahead and do it.
- 19:20They're hard to. Pinpoint that.
- 19:21Yeah. Where did it come from?
- 19:23Right, right. And people do it behind in their
- 19:25backyards. They do it from their homes like
- 19:27it's. How can you say that?
- 19:29Do you know what? Area, I don't know.
- 19:31I didn't. I didn't get to say the coaster.
- 19:34But it's, it's in, it's internal Georgia.
- 19:36Brantley County, So Hwy. 82. Yeah.
- 19:42So, Vin, I don't know. Are you a soccer fan?
- 19:47You know, I like to play it more than I like to watch the sport.
- 19:50Yeah, I'm not I'm not really a soccer fan, but I kind of want
- 19:53to get your guys's perspective on this a little bit more.
- 19:56So a individual was held given a six match ban for anti-gay
- 20:01conduct against another player, Viniscus Junior, during their
- 20:07Champions Champions League match in.
- 20:09February the veniscus went ahead and accused the player of saying
- 20:18mono, which is Spanish for monkey but then went ahead and
- 20:24it actually went ahead and came out that he called Veniscus the
- 20:28anti-gay slur and I I don't know if you guys are familiar with
- 20:34this maricon which which. Translates into faggot, yeah.
- 20:40Yeah, so and under the what what I love about the UAEFAUEFAI
- 20:48think I said that right the first time.
- 20:50Both racist and anti-gay abuse is the same.
- 20:56So so you saying oh I wasn't racist, I was homophobic?
- 21:00It doesn't really clear exactly. It doesn't really clear your
- 21:05case. Yourself here.
- 21:06So I want to so I'm not familiar with that terminology.
- 21:11Mono is monkey. Yeah, I know mono I was talking
- 21:14about it's pronounced. Mole.
- 21:16Mono. Mono.
- 21:17Mono, mono Mono not mono, but. Mono Mono, I was gonna.
- 21:21Say yeah, no, mono. Is that kissing?
- 21:22Mono's, yeah. Mono no more.
- 21:26Soy gringo, anyway. Yeah, yeah.
- 21:28Just just so you know, it's just just to pronounce you mono,
- 21:32Yeah. So but the other word.
- 21:34I Mariko. Mariko means faggot.
- 21:37So it's so it's a bad word. Yes, it's a very bad word.
- 21:40Even in Spanish it's a bad word. I hear it, my head turns around.
- 21:43Yeah, you know what I'm saying? Like, to a point that they don't
- 21:46say it to each other, yeah. So now we say it.
- 21:49No, we do say it in dressing rooms to each other as a like.
- 21:54Like I'm gonna. Use it jokingly.
- 21:55So I'm gonna use. So I'm gonna use it in a
- 21:57sentence. I'm gonna use it in Spanish 1st
- 21:59and then I'll do it in English. I'll go.
- 22:00Oh, you say Marigon, Calinda say way.
- 22:02Yeah, that bag it looks. Beautiful.
- 22:04Yeah, so. But you have to but I, I make
- 22:06it, you have to be like really good with them.
- 22:08We're. Talking about it amongst the
- 22:09family, right? It's like the N word, OK?
- 22:13I always tell people, don't use it ever.
- 22:15If you're not, I'm black, don't use it, period.
- 22:19I don't want to hear well, I'm Puerto Rican, I'm cute.
- 22:21I don't care. If you're not a black skin,
- 22:25don't use it right, ever. I don't care if it's in your
- 22:29favorite rap song, I don't care. I don't care.
- 22:32Just don't use it. It's not that difficult to
- 22:35understand. And don't ask, well, why can
- 22:38they use it? They're black, they can use it's
- 22:41the whether it makes you weird or not.
- 22:43We do the same thing with big fag word.
- 22:46You know listen, we'll call each other fags.
- 22:48But let me tell you, if you go into a gay club and a straight
- 22:51person says that word girl, y'all gonna see the surprise of
- 22:54your life when when all them gay men I'm telling you it's
- 23:00Showtime at the Apollo girl, I'm telling you.
- 23:04So I got one more follow up question on that.
- 23:06What is your guy's reaction for the anti-gay slurs?
- 23:10Is being treated as the same as the racist slurs?
- 23:13I think it's good. I think it's a good thing.
- 23:17I think I hate is I like Who said hate is hate?
- 23:20Hate, hate is hate. It's exactly correct.
- 23:22Real quick, TikTok could not handle our conversations right
- 23:25now and just turned off my live because we were talking about
- 23:28hate speech. Why?
- 23:30You're gonna get banned. I think I am straight to.
- 23:36Jail could not handle the heat. Couldn't handle the heat.
- 23:40That's crazy. That is welcome to the club,
- 23:43Vin. That's.
- 23:44So crazy. What a Oh my.
- 23:46Gosh, and we were talking about anti hate.
- 23:50That's. So funny it's.
- 23:51The word is. It probably just like.
- 23:53Anti Yeah, and then they take you off.
- 23:56This is crazy. I mean, we were using a gay
- 23:58anti-gay. So here's another little story.
- 24:01Yeah, Michael, a cat. A cat is dead after an Amazon
- 24:07driver steals the pet off the owner's porch while delivering
- 24:11package. Is this a local story?
- 24:13I feel like this is a local. Is this Florida?
- 24:15It was. It's gotta be Florida.
- 24:17It was not local pet, but pet. The family says that it would.
- 24:21The cameras caught it from the side, I guess the neighbors when
- 24:25she couldn't figure out where her cat was, the neighbors
- 24:28looked on their cameras which I want to ask the neighbors why is
- 24:31your camera put it at her porch her.
- 24:34Why? I mean, thank goodness.
- 24:35Breaking News Breaking News Vince Suasion has been banned
- 24:40from going until May 1st. Starting from May 1st he always
- 24:51says you own us as you can go live and join as a live guest
- 24:53starting May 1st. So until May 1st I'm made OK.
- 24:57You're in time. They just put baby in the
- 25:01corner. So I thought of Chris when I saw
- 25:03the the article about the cat. Only because you know Chris.
- 25:06Chris has cats, right? Yes, so your.
- 25:09Cats don't wander in the front yard and all.
- 25:10That no so the only one that goes ahead and and goes outside
- 25:14is Conrad, the big fat large one.
- 25:17And he, he. Always.
- 25:18Comes back he and well, no, he doesn't actually go outside.
- 25:22So when I when I'm going out and loading up my car with my bag,
- 25:25like, 'cause I got that big. Follows you out there.
- 25:27He goes ahead and he comes out there.
- 25:29He'll sit on the porch and start munching on grass, but he won't.
- 25:33Like he doesn't usually go into the actual grass itself.
- 25:36He stays on the concrete. And while I load up my car, he
- 25:40just sits there and just kind of watches everything.
- 25:43And then when I come back, he immediately runs back inside.
- 25:46And if he doesn't, he'll just kind of sit there, keep eating
- 25:50grass. And Sean taught him the words
- 25:53kennel up and he moves. He goes immediately inside.
- 25:57If someone tried to steal him, they just hurt their back so
- 26:00they put him back down. Yeah, yeah, definitely.
- 26:02But the kid, the cat is fucking fast.
- 26:06I've had him, I've had him got. So I took him to Bel Air once to
- 26:10visit some other cats that he was living with.
- 26:13And that was not a good idea. But and he eventually he started
- 26:16running like he got out and he ran from car to car and I'm
- 26:22chasing him. I'm like, you're fast as fuck,
- 26:24man. I didn't realize.
- 26:26So this cat, this cat that was kidnapped, he was a senior cat,
- 26:31which makes it even sadder because while he was in
- 26:34captivity, he died. That's so sad.
- 26:37So they couldn't even get their cat back.
- 26:39So they've been, so they've been.
- 26:41So they've been sending messages to Amazon and Amazon is
- 26:44responding with what we're investigating it.
- 26:48But you know, you know, last week I told the story of the
- 26:51Amazon worker that died on the on the line while he was loading
- 26:55up packages. Yeah, he was loading up packages
- 26:58and he died. And the other Amazon workers,
- 27:02we're told, do not offer assistance, just leave him on
- 27:05the floor. Only a man only management team
- 27:08can do any kind of reviving. For liability.
- 27:11Somebody told me I can. So he.
- 27:13Performed first aid to somebody. So he laid on the floor for you
- 27:17know who knows how long until. Sounds crazy.
- 27:20I know. And they just had to watch him
- 27:22and the man died there. And, you know, they had to
- 27:24continue to work even with the dead body there until they came
- 27:28to pick up the body. So they didn't even say like
- 27:31move this moved from this air. So the conveyor belts were just
- 27:34moving along. And I'm thinking somebody
- 27:35would've had a hold, you know, Amazon.
- 27:37Amazon would've. Had hold me back.
- 27:38You need to do some work. Because I would not too.
- 27:41Worried about liability there too.
- 27:43Worried. Liability.
- 27:45Somebody died just. That is a liability, yeah.
- 27:50Anyway, we got a break coming up.
- 27:52Yeah, So what are we going to talk about after the break,
- 27:53Misasmin? We'll talk about identical
- 27:55twins. We're fatally something.
- 27:58I'll tell you what it is. Girl, what a mess.
- 28:00And I got. I call her Malaria, but I don't
- 28:04know if that's her name. Malaria.
- 28:05And Donald Trump. I don't even know what her name
- 28:07is anymore. I've been calling her Malaria
- 28:09for years. Is it malaria?
- 28:10Is it malaria disease? We just call her failed sugar
- 28:13baby. Anyway, malaria and Donald Trump
- 28:17asked for Jimmy Kimmel to be fired over some hateful stuff
- 28:22that they said that Jimmy Kimmel said the problem is.
- 28:25That can leave this. Can we write a list of things
- 28:28that Donald says that are hateful?
- 28:30Right. I mean man, God, man.
- 28:32Can we fire him? The ego.
- 28:34That's the question. That's just a few of them.
- 28:37Is the ego just so fragile? Anyway, we'll be right back,
- 28:40right? Yeah, we got all that and more.
- 28:43I got a Palm Harbor man who is a rested after he did something to
- 28:48the Scientologists. We're going to go ahead.
- 28:51We're going to talk about that after the break.
- 28:53But first, let's go ahead and throw it over to Claire Leeson
- 28:55from Project No Labels for our big gay news.
- 28:58Then our community calendar. Joe on the go from Joanna
- 29:01Grasso. We'll be right back.
- 29:06I'm Claire Leeson from Project No Labels and this is your LGBTQ
- 29:09plus news from around the country and right here in Tampa
- 29:12Bay in Orlando from West. No charges will be filed against
- 29:16six people arrested for using chalk to repaint the Post
- 29:20Memorial Crosswalk. The rainbow crosswalk honored
- 29:22the 49 lives lost in the 2016 Pulse nightclub shooting, but it
- 29:26was removed overnight in August 2025 under a directive requiring
- 29:30roadways to be free of what officials called distractions or
- 29:33political messages. After its removal, protesters
- 29:37used chalk to recreate the rainbow.
- 29:38State Attorney Monique Worrell says the arrest that followed
- 29:41amounted to selective enforcement, noting that some
- 29:44individuals were detained while others, including public
- 29:47officials, were not. Orrell also said there was no
- 29:50evidence of property damage, calling it a cleaning operation,
- 29:54not a damage remediation, and ultimately declined to file
- 29:57charges. Also in Orlando from Watermark
- 29:59Out News, Anthem Orlando is facing a 30 day suspension
- 30:03impacting its hours of operation following issues to a third
- 30:07party security vendor. Owner Mike Visarca says the
- 30:10vendor failed to follow proper protocols on one evening and was
- 30:14immediately terminated. The venue has since brought in a
- 30:17new security company and says safety remains its top priority.
- 30:21Under the suspension, alcohol sales must stop at midnight,
- 30:24followed by a structured closing timeline.
- 30:26Anthem is now working with the city to revise its mitigation
- 30:30plan after previous proposals were denied.
- 30:33In Florida State News, also from Watermark, Governor Ron DeSantis
- 30:36has signed new legislation targeting diversity, equity and
- 30:39inclusion efforts at the local level.
- 30:41The law, said to take effect in January 2027, will prohibit
- 30:45local governments from funding or promoting DEI related
- 30:49initiatives, eliminate inclusion officer roles and give the state
- 30:53authority to remove officials found in violation.
- 30:56Advocates warned the measure could impact community events
- 30:58like Pride, while some local leaders are already signaling
- 31:02legal challenges. And finally, in sports from
- 31:04ESPNUEFA has issued A6 match ban to Benfica's Gianluca Priestiani
- 31:11for anti-gay conduct during a Champions League match against
- 31:15the Real Madrid. Three of those matches are
- 31:18suspended, meaning he is expected to miss two additional
- 31:21games beyond a provisional suspension already served.
- 31:24The incident followed A confrontation with Vincius
- 31:27Junior, who initially reported racist abuse.
- 31:30However, Cristiani later admitted using an anti-gay slur
- 31:34instead. Under UEFA rules, both racist
- 31:37and anti-gay abuse fall under the same disciplinary framework.
- 31:41Please remember to stay safe and treat yourself and others with
- 31:43kindness. This has been your LGBTQ plus
- 31:46news for the Big Gay radio show. I'm Claire Leeson on 88.5 WMNF
- 31:50Tampa. Hey Tampa Bay, it's Joanna
- 31:57Grosso with Joe on the Go Tampa Bay, your weekly guide to what's
- 32:01happening around the city. Here's what's coming up this
- 32:03week. Starting on Saturday, May 1st
- 32:05and 2nd, Cocktail Saint Pete is hosting a Dirty John's Fairy
- 32:09Tale. It's an interactive show within
- 32:11limited seating, so if you're looking for something a little
- 32:14different and more immersive, this is definitely one to plan
- 32:16ahead for. Then on Sunday, May 3rd, head
- 32:19over to Ybor for the 2020 Sixth Mix Saint Pete Pride at 1920
- 32:24Ybor. This event celebrates
- 32:26creativity, self-expression, and talent within the community as
- 32:30contestants take the stage for a night that's all about
- 32:32individuality and artistry. Looking ahead, on Saturday, May
- 32:3616th, the Equality of Florida's Saint Pete Gala returns to the
- 32:40Saint Petersburg Coliseum with this year's theme, Rainbow
- 32:43Disco. This annual event brings
- 32:45together community leaders, supporters, and advocates for a
- 32:48night that includes full dinner, awards program, and celebration
- 32:51supporting LGBTQ plus initiatives across the state.
- 32:55For more information behind the scenes and weekly updates,
- 32:58follow along on Instagram at Joe on the Go Tampa Bay.
- 33:02Have a great week, Tampa Bay, and I'll see you out and about.
- 33:09You're listening to the only LGBTQ radio show in Tampa Bay,
- 33:13The Big Gay Radio Show on 88.5 WMNF.
- 33:19Welcome back to the Big Gay After Show.
- 33:21My name is Chris Gorman. I'm your show twink here, joined
- 33:23by the vivacious Vince Suasion, the trans queen of radio, Miss
- 33:27Esme Russell, Jesse Harley, Danielle from Incan Lace.
- 33:32Welcome in the studio, everybody.
- 33:34Thank. You.
- 33:34Thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- 33:36Thank you guys so much. I'm going live on my Instagram.
- 33:41One fails, another one open. Exactly.
- 33:44Well, Miss Esme, let's talk about malignant tumor.
- 33:47I mean Melania Trump. I'll tell.
- 33:52You what? She got a rude awakening the
- 33:53other day when they pushed her to the ground and took Trump
- 33:56away and left her on the ground. They really did.
- 33:58I was. I couldn't understand.
- 34:00I hate to be that guy, but. They just left her there.
- 34:04What do you expect? I mean, she's not the president.
- 34:06She's not the person that they're going to protect.
- 34:09So his first lady Malaria. Trump is asking for ABC to fire
- 34:13Jimmy Kimmel over his hateful language on Monday after the
- 34:17liberal late night host referred to her as an expected widow.
- 34:20He meant because he's bad in health though.
- 34:23Yes, he's bad in. Health He's old and decrepit.
- 34:26Kibbles hate more. Dementia.
- 34:28Kimmel's hateful and violent rhetoric is intended to divide
- 34:32our country. No malaria.
- 34:34That's not what's dividing. Our country.
- 34:36What's dividing our country is when he insults journalists
- 34:40while they're trying to ask him valid questions.
- 34:42What divides our country is his threats to other foreign leaders
- 34:47and other countries. That's what divides our country.
- 34:49What divides our country is his hateful commentary about people
- 34:53of different races and different cultures, in particular black
- 34:57people and Latinos. He has a particular hatred
- 34:59towards them. So I could write to a list of
- 35:02things that divide our country. The fact that he can go on and
- 35:07be charged with sexual assault and be convicted for it and
- 35:12still become president. Any one of us in this room, if
- 35:15we had sexual assault on our resume, we would not be able to
- 35:21get a job, OK? It would be we have to be
- 35:25cleaning bathrooms or doing something that, you know what
- 35:28I'm saying, not president. As a felon, it is hard to get a
- 35:32job. He has a he's he has been
- 35:34convicted not only of that, but he's also been convicted of of
- 35:39what is it charity fraud, stealing million him and his
- 35:43sons millions and millions of dollars not allegedly.
- 35:46That's that's a fact from New York.
- 35:49In New York City, he can't even run a charity.
- 35:52My favorite was when he went on 60 Minutes just this past week
- 35:57and the the reporter was asking about the manifesto that the the
- 36:03shooter went ahead and released. And she talked about how he
- 36:07mentioned that he wouldn't be a a hand in his crimes and his
- 36:11like sex crimes, correct? Or something along those lines
- 36:14that he would and that he was a rapist.
- 36:15And a pedophile or? No, the administration.
- 36:18No, the administration, let's make that clear, never mentioned
- 36:21Trump. Never mentioned Trump by name.
- 36:23Nev did not. And then he they went ahead and
- 36:25he got offended. And then he starts defending
- 36:28himself and starts saying I'm not a rapist.
- 36:31Telling on himself. He said that he was.
- 36:34He said that he was exonerated. That is a lie, yeah.
- 36:40No. He was not exonerated, OK, Not
- 36:43a. Sexual predator.
- 36:44Yeah, he was. He was convicted of sexual
- 36:46assault. The unfortunate thing about
- 36:48freedom of speech, though, is that he's not under oath, so he
- 36:51can lie so. He can lie, yeah.
- 36:53He's allowed to lie. I wouldn't put it past him to
- 36:55lie under oath, I mean. Ohh, he's delusional.
- 36:59Absolutely, absolutely. But once you go ahead and get
- 37:03called out on those lies and actually held into that court, I
- 37:08think that that would actually go ahead and and have some
- 37:11actual, you know, meaning. But I don't think we've actually
- 37:14gotten to that point. No, everybody looked past all
- 37:17the crimes and perjury is going to be the one where like, oh,
- 37:20that's the one. I'm going to say this about
- 37:22malaria cause Donald is also now joining in asking for the firing
- 37:25of Kimmel. Here's what I call her malaria.
- 37:28I don't know why I call her, but she kind of just kind of like.
- 37:30I called it malignant tumor but. Anyway, here's what I'm going to
- 37:32say about about all of this. We cannot, and I said this a
- 37:36couple of weeks ago. We had maybe it was last week
- 37:39when we had the comedian on here, the comic here, Jeff.
- 37:43Jeff, yes, I said we cannot start censoring people from
- 37:48their comedy. The comics scare me the most in
- 37:51the sense that there's a lot of comedy that offends me, but I
- 37:55don't want to silence that comedy.
- 37:56That's within yourself to deal with, yeah.
- 37:58OK, I don't want that comic to say, even though it offends me,
- 38:00you know what I do? I just change the channel.
- 38:02I don't listen to it, OK? It's offensive.
- 38:04I'm just not going to listen. To be a joke.
- 38:06OK, because, because to somebody it is funny.
- 38:09And if we're going to have a First Amendment, which is
- 38:11freedom of speech, then that's now Chris said something the
- 38:15that week too, that I loved. He said.
- 38:17We're we're free to speak, but we're not free from the
- 38:21consequences. Right, that's.
- 38:24True so when he said that I went right.
- 38:26I was so good when he added that on there, but I still want
- 38:29somebody to have that freedom. If you want to do that that's
- 38:32your joke. I don't I.
- 38:34Don't deal with the consequences I.
- 38:35Don't see, I don't see what Kimmel said as offensive.
- 38:38He was. He wasn't talking about killing
- 38:40anybody. It wasn't that.
- 38:42It wasn't a threat. It was just a comedy.
- 38:45It was just funny. And by the way, the.
- 38:46Compliment. She was glowing.
- 38:48The audience. Right.
- 38:50She's so much younger. Audio.
- 38:51The audience laughed. Right.
- 38:53The audience thought it was hilarious, you know, But you
- 38:56know, he's got liberal audiences, but.
- 38:58I love Jimmy. But I mean, they're so
- 38:59hilarious. It sounds like they're just so
- 39:01sensitive. Isn't that what they say about
- 39:03liberals? They say, oh, you're just so
- 39:04sensitive. Like you can't take a joke.
- 39:06That's crazy that you can dish it out.
- 39:08Call us. What is it?
- 39:10I forget that they have so many names for us, but.
- 39:14I like Levitard. Levitard is hard Levitard and I
- 39:19call them maggots. Yeah, that's so good.
- 39:21That's my favorite. That's.
- 39:22My favorite, so I swear to God that's pretty my most favorite
- 39:27one I've heard so far. I'm a levitard, yeah.
- 39:30I have to correct myself sometimes because that you
- 39:33rubbed off on me with that because I have to correct myself
- 39:36sometimes. I.
- 39:39Love. It well anyways.
- 39:41Esme, a 19 year old Palm Harbor man, was arrested after police
- 39:45say he fired a BB gun at a Scientology building in a in
- 39:49downtown Clearwater, shattering a glass window and alarming a
- 39:54nearby pedestrian. It happened about two 12:32 in
- 39:58the morning on April 20th. Investigators say he fired
- 40:02multiple rounds from a CO2 powered BB gun while driving a
- 40:072019 Volkswagen Jetta. The shots had the apparently
- 40:12damaged the glass door, which has a repairs cost over $1000.
- 40:18He said that he targeted the building because he dislikes
- 40:22what the organization represents.
- 40:23He faces felony charges including throwing a deadly
- 40:27missile into a building, aggravated assault and criminal
- 40:31mischief. No injuries reported.
- 40:34It was a Glock 19X style CO2 powered weapon and the suspect
- 40:40turned it over voluntary. So I want to go ahead and get
- 40:42y'all's perspective. Look, it doesn't matter.
- 40:45It doesn't matter if they disagree.
- 40:47Violence is violent. I I don't agree.
- 40:50I don't agree. Scientology's great like I my
- 40:53opinion. That's not the way to handle it.
- 40:56Is not. It's not the way to handle.
- 40:58It's the same thing with the guy that went into the
- 40:59correspondence gender with the gun.
- 41:01No, that's not the way to handle.
- 41:02It not the way to handle it. Yeah, violence is violent
- 41:05violence. Is violent.
- 41:06I agree with Ben, but all the way.
- 41:07They were the ones who were walking around with guns back in
- 41:10the 70s and, you know, waving them around.
- 41:13The Scientologists. Yeah, Oh yeah, the
- 41:16Scientologists. Which two wrongs on the?
- 41:18Scientologists absolutely so many different have.
- 41:21You been to downtown Clearwater anytime?
- 41:23It is crazy. Don't stop.
- 41:25You might never be seen again. I I agree.
- 41:27With. You I agree I I have driven down
- 41:30there and. Scientologists have destroyed
- 41:34Clearwater's freedom. It is literally only
- 41:37Scientologists there it. Looks like, it looks like one of
- 41:41those movies where when you go down the street, what happened
- 41:43to all the people and then the people that are there, they're
- 41:47very zombie like. Yes.
- 41:49Yes, it's really You haven't been down there.
- 41:52That's because nobody downtown, nobody goes.
- 41:54Down scary. The downtown Low Clearwater
- 41:56area. Yeah, it's scary down.
- 41:58I remember back before can. You imagine, Can you imagine
- 42:01breaking down in downtown at night?
- 42:03No, I used to ride my bike through there, take it to
- 42:05Clearwater Beach for work, and one time at their main building
- 42:09there's all these people and they were frozen in motion and
- 42:11it freaked me the fuck out. But then I looked and there's a
- 42:15photographer. So they were doing this weird,
- 42:18like, let's walk up to the door and pretend you're opening the
- 42:20door. This guy's drinking coffee.
- 42:21But everybody was frozen in motion, and it scared the shit
- 42:23out of me. Yeah.
- 42:23But yeah, you just have to ride my bike through there.
- 42:25And I was like. I wouldn't.
- 42:26I'll tell you what, I wouldn't go there at night.
- 42:28I've seen photos of what that place looks like at night and
- 42:31there's no cars on the street. It looks like, you know, those
- 42:34Utopia, those what is it? No utopian but.
- 42:38You know how you walk those? Movies.
- 42:39Those movies where it looks. Like a zombie apartment.
- 42:41Yeah, 28. Days later, you woke up in
- 42:43every. Everything or like when you walk
- 42:45through I, I think of like those scenes when you walk through
- 42:48amusement parks where they make up the scenes and then you just
- 42:51walk through it. That's what I think of.
- 42:53I'm like. Really, really scared.
- 42:55Maybe that guy just ended up giving all his money to them,
- 42:57that's why he's pissed off and shooting on Windows.
- 43:00That's what happens. I mean, if it's a personal.
- 43:02Experience. Yeah, a personal experience
- 43:04happens very bad. But yeah, that's not the answer.
- 43:07But I mean, maybe we this will spark some like some actual.
- 43:11But I'm gonna tell, I'm gonna tell you.
- 43:12I don't advise anybody to use weapons or knives or.
- 43:15Anything. No, no, no.
- 43:16You know what I mean? Don't do that stuff, man.
- 43:18You're just getting, you're just creating drama.
- 43:20And, and it all it does is it, it only helps them because they
- 43:24'cause they're gonna, the law's gonna protect them because
- 43:26they're, they're not there illegally.
- 43:28They're there. As an opportunity to be like,
- 43:30oh, Chris. They've literally bought up the
- 43:32entire downtown all those buildings belong to.
- 43:35Them, and that's why they have so much energy and so much power
- 43:39down there. They have property.
- 43:40Now they're in Eborn too, you know they're.
- 43:42Vampire y'all want to try to get?
- 43:43Rid of them, let's get some money.
- 43:45Let's make some money. Let's so.
- 43:46I would buy their building one time and I walked by and they
- 43:49came out and, and they, they were trying to like give me some
- 43:53pamphlets or whatever, some young kids.
- 43:56But they were like I said, listen, I'm a man in a dress.
- 43:58They turn around and walk. They did.
- 44:01They ran. They ran back inside, but I
- 44:04didn't speak. I said I'm a man in a dress.
- 44:06Yeah, they ran in soda. Probably said the same thing.
- 44:09You said it just like that. Yes, I'm a man in a dress.
- 44:12Leave me alone. Yeah, they ran inside.
- 44:14They were ran. They.
- 44:15Used that. Yeah, and then the security
- 44:18guard was? Gonna know, let's use it.
- 44:20Listen, this exactly. The security guard was looking
- 44:22through the window at me and stuff.
- 44:23It was like, I guess they ran inside and said there's some guy
- 44:25out there dressed up as a woman. I mean, it's crazy, but I just
- 44:30was scared. They scare me, they really do.
- 44:32They're very like those movies. Where has anybody seen the old
- 44:36Stepford Wives? I was thinking Stepford wives
- 44:39and he said it right onto this Oh.
- 44:41God, what a great movie. Robot.
- 44:43They all robot, that's what he looks.
- 44:45Like Esme, you're going to go ahead and get a new wig store
- 44:47coming into town. What is it called?
- 44:50Party City is making a comeback. 700 locations.
- 44:55I don't want kid no damn wig at Party City, but you know what
- 44:58they have Gray Halloween. Costumes.
- 45:01Well, there you go. I like party.
- 45:02City I did enjoy. Not their wigs though, Chris.
- 45:06It'll instead of standalone stores, Party City will operate
- 45:09as an in store experience inside Staples locations and online.
- 45:14There's one in Tarpon Springs already.
- 45:16Shoppers can expect balloons, decorations, banners, cards and
- 45:20other party supplies. Staples bought all their
- 45:22supplies. Basically.
- 45:25Well, honestly, I just wanted to make the joke about Esme's wigs.
- 45:29So here's a, here's a, here's a final one that I have, which is
- 45:32that. I got a lot more.
- 45:34I got identical twin brothers in Italy, 22 years old, were
- 45:39fatally electrocuted while we while retrieving a bird that had
- 45:43escaped from its cage. So they ended up grabbing the
- 45:47bird when they got up on the telephone pole.
- 45:51One of them touched the wire and when he started to get
- 45:53electrocuted, the other one was. Went to go grab him.
- 45:56To it to grab him and he got electrocuted too and they both
- 45:59died in. This terrible.
- 46:01I know. And they were like they, I guess
- 46:03they lived in a very small village in Italy.
- 46:06And then the mayor said that they were wonderful kids and
- 46:09that he had known them since they were little.
- 46:11And it's just so sad. And by the way, the photo of
- 46:14them, it's just beautiful. They're both beautiful boys.
- 46:16I mean, you could just. To be fair, I feel that though,
- 46:19I would definitely sacrifice my soul for an animal.
- 46:22But they. Probably weren't even thinking
- 46:23they were doing that, they just thought that they were going to
- 46:25be able to save the animal you. Know what a terror, what a
- 46:27tragic and I guess the cold community is like in mourning.
- 46:30But you know, in Italy, things like that have spiritual
- 46:33significance. I wouldn't imagine if they end
- 46:36up being like canonized or something in the near future as
- 46:39twin Saints. You know what I mean, 'cause I
- 46:42know that one boy that got old. Were they?
- 46:4522 years old. God, they were so young babies.
- 46:49Well, I got I got another story for you guys.
- 46:52So, and I, I'm going to go out and call back on something that
- 46:56I said last week in that the the renaming of the Trump high, the
- 46:59Trump, excuse me, President Donald J Trump highway that
- 47:03happened in South Florida was a little bit of a Trump's ego from
- 47:08Ron DeSantis totally called that.
- 47:10I called it because within two hours of us leaving the studio,
- 47:15Axios posts an article saying DeSantis is reportedly begging
- 47:21Donald Trump for a prime role in his administration, saying that
- 47:25he is apparently asking to be attorney general or possibly
- 47:29even a Supreme Court seat. So you might be seeing Supreme
- 47:34Court Justice De Santis coming up to the bench.
- 47:36Who knows? Goodness, please.
- 47:38But honestly? Acting Attorney.
- 47:40General Todd Blanche is currently in place and under
- 47:43pressure to prove himself within the 90 days that he's currently
- 47:46there. So who knows?
- 47:48And honestly doing this so he can get off from all of his
- 47:50wifes like crooked. Work so I, I am we, I worth the
- 47:5410 million. Dollars, it's busy.
- 47:56Exactly. We're still.
- 47:57Trying to answer that, and we're still trying.
- 47:59To figure out what happened to the 10 million.
- 48:01Dollars, OK, 'cause that's a lot of money that just comes up
- 48:04missing, right? So who's got it?
- 48:06Does she got it? Does he have it?
- 48:08She ended her, her, her campaign to be governor because of that
- 48:11scandal. Cause oh, but we're apparently,
- 48:14I mean, cause apparently she can't.
- 48:15Explain it volumes. So 'cause if I'm.
- 48:19Running for governor. I get accused of theft.
- 48:21I will just say, look, this is where the money's at.
- 48:23But apparently she hasn't been able to.
- 48:24I don't know what's where is it at?
- 48:26They sue up and answered it. Where's the money?
- 48:28Where's the money? That's a lot of money.
- 48:30Allegedly he's he's not. Seriously.
- 48:33Pursuing attorney general and this is according to some
- 48:35sources outside of this the the original source and the they're
- 48:40saying that he wants something related to defense or possibly
- 48:44the specifically the Supreme Court position.
- 48:47I'm going to be very honest with you.
- 48:49I know. Again, I can't believe I'm
- 48:50saying this. I'm going to play devil's
- 48:52advocate. He is more qualified.
- 48:56To be in any of those. Positions than the people that
- 48:59are currently in those positions right now.
- 49:01I feel that, and that's scary, that.
- 49:03Doesn't make me happy. But it is.
- 49:05True. And it is true.
- 49:06I'm so. Scary that I have to say.
- 49:08That, yeah. But it's the truth.
- 49:10It's scary that that's true, that is.
- 49:12The truth, yeah, that's the scary part.
- 49:14It's. The truth I.
- 49:16Mean it sucks. 'Cause there there's a couple.
- 49:19On the on the bench that have very good qualifications,
- 49:22Katanji Brown Jackson, Elena Kagan, as well as honestly and
- 49:27I, I know this is a little bit more controversial and in terms
- 49:29of certain things, but you know, Amy Coney Barrett has been
- 49:33consistently towing the constitutional line and staying
- 49:37towards that center ground. So there's a lot more smartness.
- 49:40She surprises me a lot. She has, really.
- 49:42Gone ahead and surprised me she. Surprises me a lot because I
- 49:45thought that her. Catholicism I did too.
- 49:48Was going to override. Genuinely thought she was going
- 49:51to be a Clarence. Thomas on the bench.
- 49:53She is not. She is absolutely not.
- 49:55And I. Knew that when When?
- 49:56The gay marriage thing came. When she said I cannot, I cannot
- 49:59do this, I I have taken a step back and I.
- 50:02Truly, you know, I, I should be critical of her a little bit.
- 50:06I I I don't want to deny the fact that I'm not critical of
- 50:09her, but she has definitely done substantially worse or excuse
- 50:13me, less damage than where I actually thought she was going
- 50:17to go. She's actually gone ahead and
- 50:19been that flip fog vote gay rights thing really shocked me.
- 50:22The gay marriage. Thing I it shocked me because,
- 50:25you know, she's so hardcore Catholic.
- 50:27I thought she's going to overturn it.
- 50:30She's just good. She said no, I'm not doing that
- 50:32well right now. I think the the total is about.
- 50:34Six. I've I've said it months from
- 50:36NPR, that was loud and live from NPR News.
- 50:41But I've said it multiple 60% of Donald Trump's executive orders
- 50:46that were pending court cases. He has lost.
- 50:49We have we have won 60% of the time.
- 50:51Yeah, yeah. So this court has been doing its
- 50:54job, generally speaking. Then you got people like
- 50:57Clarence Thomas and Alito who and and Kavanaugh, who, you
- 51:00know, kick rocks anyways. An appeals court has ruled that
- 51:05Trump's asylum ban at the border is illegal.
- 51:08He has. They have blocked Trump's
- 51:10executive order that suspended asylum across the access at the
- 51:14southern border, saying it violated US immigration law.
- 51:18The judges said the law clearly gives migrants the right to
- 51:21apply for asylum, and the president cannot override that
- 51:24authority on its own. The ruling centers on Donald
- 51:28Trump's 2025 ordered declaring the border situation an invasion
- 51:32and halting entry and asylum claims.
- 51:35So again, the courts have been, generally speaking, you know,
- 51:41fairly, fairly doing their thing.
- 51:43They're doing their thing, but. Again, this is an.
- 51:45Appeals court, this isn't the Supreme Court.
- 51:48So this is going to be appealed, most likely to the Supreme
- 51:50Court, which, you know, always is a question.
- 51:53But I genuinely have gotten at like, as time when Donald Trump
- 51:59got elected, Esme was very much, you know, convincing me a little
- 52:04bit more that this court system will not hold up the law.
- 52:10And as time goes on, I'm glad that I defended my mindset in
- 52:15saying that the courts will go ahead and prevail.
- 52:17The Constitution will prevail because throughout the entirety
- 52:20of the time, I've been, generally speaking, right.
- 52:23There's been times where I'm wrong.
- 52:24Yeah. No, but the court has held up.
- 52:26But the court. Has been holding up for the
- 52:28most. Part I would I I would have to
- 52:30agree. I was.
- 52:30Wrong. I and and I really feel like I
- 52:35really got. Researched with hope.
- 52:38When I saw the Hungarian people turn on Orbach, Victor Orbach,
- 52:42when I saw that, that's when I, I last week, a couple of weeks
- 52:47ago. And when I saw that I said OK,
- 52:50He did everything he could. He amended the, the
- 52:52constitution, he put judges in place to work.
- 52:56He had everything to work for him.
- 52:59And he still lost the election. 80% of the electorate came out
- 53:03and voted against him. And the man that was running
- 53:07against him, the one solitary man was not allowed to do TV
- 53:11interviews, was not allowed to do radio interviews, was not
- 53:15allowed to do newspapers interviews, was not allowed to
- 53:18do any kind of public square. Imagine that.
- 53:21So basically you, how do you do it?
- 53:23He had to go door to door to door person to door to door to
- 53:27door person and. That's how he was.
- 53:31He went door to freaking door representing your community, you
- 53:35know? And I said it's the Hungarian.
- 53:38People, after 16 years of fascism, authoritarianism,
- 53:42because that's what it was, can do this.
- 53:44We can do it. Yeah, OK.
- 53:47Because Donald Trump is not as far as Victor Orbach was, and he
- 53:50won't be. And he won't be right.
- 53:53The reason he. Won't be is because our courts
- 53:54are. Holding up correct and slowly
- 53:56people are waking. Up.
- 53:58Slowly, very slowly, I do see them.
- 54:00I do. See the.
- 54:01Magma movement? Well, they're only waking up
- 54:03because their bubbles. Are becoming disturbed.
- 54:06I feel a shift the tide. Definitely 100% people now
- 54:11they're saying that there's things happening that they
- 54:13actually. Right.
- 54:13So the people who thought that they were like.
- 54:16Invincible. It's not like you're watching
- 54:18the interruptions, my friends. Yeah.
- 54:20We have guests. We want them to talk.
- 54:22Yeah. Yeah.
- 54:22No, but I'm waiting. I I'm just happy that I.
- 54:25Know for a. Fact that I will see the fall
- 54:28and demise of Donald Trump in my lifetime.
- 54:31I will see his names, pride off of those buildings and I will
- 54:35see. I will see that in my lifetime,
- 54:37right? And that that's what keeps me
- 54:38going. Real shit.
- 54:40I don't care how they vote. For why they're voting, as long
- 54:43as the vote is done, You know what I'm saying?
- 54:46When these MAGA people go against Trump, a lot of people
- 54:50jump in and say, oh, it's 'cause they're, they're, I don't care.
- 54:52The reason, I'm just glad that they're going against him
- 54:55because for a long time they were supporting him.
- 54:58You know what I mean? It's blindly supported.
- 55:00Blindly. Then there's still a lot of
- 55:02blind Marjorie. Taylor Green was.
- 55:04The first. Break right.
- 55:05She was the first one that said, oh, this is that's crazy how all
- 55:09these women in that are. In office are all of a sudden
- 55:12being turned on they're like what sudden what hi yeah I
- 55:17thought they weren't for you that's.
- 55:19That video. Of the exit of that.
- 55:22Of that correspondents dinner. If anybody that watches that
- 55:24video and sees the women being left behind, it should be oh, I
- 55:27was so enraged it should tell you.
- 55:28Did anybody see? The woman in the diamond dress
- 55:30like. Crawling.
- 55:31On the floor like that was so sad.
- 55:34It breaks my heart because it really and.
- 55:37You would think that like the Secret Service would go ahead
- 55:40and have that priority to go ahead and also get the wives.
- 55:44But at the end of the day, their their job is the president,
- 55:47their job is get your point when you said that earlier.
- 55:49I get that. But at the same time, it just,
- 55:51it's still just a husband. I thought it was one of the
- 55:54Secret Service goes for husbands that I was like, there you go,
- 55:56I'd be. That's where my brain protector
- 55:58and a provider. That's where my.
- 56:00Brain went to be Secret Service. Now the husbands.
- 56:03Are there to the the husband's not having any reaction.
- 56:06And the, the cash Patel's hiding under the the the table right
- 56:09and it being reported that his wife was holding hands with
- 56:13another man. That's insane.
- 56:15That's cock behavior. And then hug and then we and
- 56:18then. We hit.
- 56:19A bar when he heard shots. And then?
- 56:21We have salad guy eating his cups.
- 56:25But he's. He's an icon.
- 56:27He really is the icon of the whole thing.
- 56:29And not a flinch. He just kept going and he kept
- 56:31staring at the stage while they're rushing.
- 56:34Did you guys see that photo? I can't remember who it was it.
- 56:36Was one. It was someone obviously in
- 56:38office. I can't remember who it was, but
- 56:40he was like holding his pregnant wife, Miller.
- 56:43Stephen Miller. Yeah.
- 56:43OK. I can't remember who it was
- 56:44usually her as a human shield. OK, so everybody was.
- 56:47Talking about that, but if you look in that.
- 56:48Photo in the background, you see Trump just standing behind.
- 56:51He's standing, Yeah, surrounded. They didn't take him to a.
- 56:54Bar yes. I'm still standing there.
- 56:56Watching everyone and I was like.
- 56:58I didn't care about that whole situation.
- 56:59He was trying to protect his wife.
- 57:01But like, yeah. And because everyone like, oh,
- 57:03he's using him as a shield. I'm like, I don't care about any
- 57:05of that. Look at Trump in the back.
- 57:07Just stand there and by himself, not surrounded by security, by
- 57:10the way. Yes.
- 57:11So the video of Trump. And de Santa, or excuse me, not
- 57:15de Santas. Trump and Vans.
- 57:17Literally shows Vance getting pulled away before Donald Trump.
- 57:21Yeah. And I think I thought that was.
- 57:23That was definitely very telling as well because I feel like like
- 57:27kind of a, I wonder when it comes.
- 57:29To that kind of stuff. I wonder who's really in charge
- 57:30now. So I keep saying.
- 57:32It and I'm going to continue to say it.
- 57:33Trump will not finish this term. Yeah, he will not.
- 57:38All the health experts say I. Believe that I've I wonder.
- 57:41I wonder who said it first? But I've already.
- 57:43Got my dress picked. Out.
- 57:46When he's gone, he will not make it.
- 57:47I don't think he'll make it. I do not.
- 57:49But the. Thing is, is like JD is younger.
- 57:51Just, I know. Yeah.
- 57:52Worse. That's what I've always said
- 57:54too, yeah. Yeah.
- 57:55Just and he's like the the face of Project 20. 25 so see we're
- 57:59not much better what I really don't like about Vance it's.
- 58:03Like flip flopping nature, one bad person at a time.
- 58:06Exactly. Yeah, is it's like it's.
- 58:08What you have to do, you have to take one day one.
- 58:10Day at a time, 1 bad person at a time, you got to deal with the
- 58:13one that we got right now and then once the other one then.
- 58:16So it's it's national superhero. Day right Then it was National
- 58:20Superhero Day. It is National Superhero Day I.
- 58:23Think the best example would. Be you know.
- 58:25Superheroes. They always have another villain
- 58:28to go after Yes yes. So I the the the.
- 58:31Battle for good. Doesn't go ahead and stop with
- 58:34Donald Trump. No, it goes ahead and, and not
- 58:36only that, I think that's a, a trap that a lot of people fell
- 58:41in that during the Confederacy, because they're the when, when
- 58:45the Confederates fell, they went ahead and didn't prosecute
- 58:49against the, the, the war criminals and the people who
- 58:53went ahead and, and betrayed the United States.
- 58:55They went ahead and just let them live.
- 58:57They just went ahead and let them live their lives.
- 58:59And that's why we had such a strong racist population and
- 59:03they continued to go ahead and go into to Jim Crow era.
- 59:07And so I, I genuinely believe that, you know, Donald Trump, he
- 59:13didn't start this fight. This fight's been fought since
- 59:17the Civil War. He's just the current poster
- 59:20board. You can.
- 59:23There's parts of this that. You'll make him look like a
- 59:25genuine puppet, yes. No, he is.
- 59:28There is nothing he. Won't say or do.
- 59:30He's got like, same with JD Vance.
- 59:34I can't write my mind around. It like JD.
- 59:36Vance went from being JD. Vance is.
- 59:38A shapeshifter, he. Literally went everything from
- 59:41his school. To his styles.
- 59:43To his choice of friends, he is a shapeshifter.
- 59:46He will say whatever the people in the room are saying to fit
- 59:49in. He has.
- 59:50He's at total cognos. Exactly.
- 59:52I mean, JD Vance went was. Literally saying how Donald
- 59:56Trump is Satan. He's literally Hitler.
- 59:59I have this theory. What's the theory?
- 1:00:01So I have a theory that JD sees him doing all this stuff,
- 1:00:04getting all the like I said the I mean, you can say what you
- 1:00:06want, but the Project 2025 thing is actually something really to
- 1:00:09be scared about, in my opinion. Obviously like to create
- 1:00:12hysteria, but like, you know, he should be watching out for it.
- 1:00:15But a lot of Trump is doing a lot of these things.
- 1:00:18Trump, quote, UN quote, is doing all these things and he's taking
- 1:00:20the fall for all of these things that he's getting passed and
- 1:00:22done. And I think JD actually wants
- 1:00:24those things done, but he's sitting in the background.
- 1:00:26So when something does happen to Trump or if he when he does get
- 1:00:28when obviously like we're not going to allow a third, third
- 1:00:32term for him, but whenever he steps up, he's like, oh, I
- 1:00:35didn't know, you know, like he's going to step away and he's
- 1:00:38going to separate himself. And he's.
- 1:00:40Going to be like, oh, well, he did all that stuff.
- 1:00:42And then when he, if he ever got in, he would, you know, continue
- 1:00:46that. No for sure.
- 1:00:48I think he'll just do. It with a hidden agenda.
- 1:00:50Exactly. Yeah, he'll just.
- 1:00:51Do it with a more. Convincing face and not as much
- 1:00:56of AA rambling tangent. Right, right.
- 1:00:58And be able to do it more. What seems logically, but he'll
- 1:01:01let Trump take the fall for all the stuff that people were
- 1:01:03complaining. About right now, he's like, I
- 1:01:05had nothing to do. I'm just the vice president.
- 1:01:06Absolutely. Yes, absolutely.
- 1:01:09Well AUS soldier involved in the Maduro raid was charged with
- 1:01:14betting on the Operation U.S. special forces.
- 1:01:19Soldier is. Accused of using classified
- 1:01:21information about the raid to place bets and profits, he made
- 1:01:24more than $400,000 on the prediction market or prediction
- 1:01:29platform Poly Market. He was identified as Gannon.
- 1:01:33Ken Van Dyke allegedly placed $33,000 in vets tied to the
- 1:01:38operation. He was directly involved in the
- 1:01:42planning and the execution of the US mission to capture
- 1:01:45Nicolas Maduro. He is charged with multiple
- 1:01:48crimes, including using confidential government
- 1:01:50information for personal gain, fraud, and unlawful financial
- 1:01:54transactions. He placed 13 bets between late
- 1:01:59December and early January. He allegedly moved most of the
- 1:02:04proceeds into foreign cryptocurrency and and then
- 1:02:07later into a brokerage account. Wow, that's actually that's a
- 1:02:13lot. Something something about Apple
- 1:02:15not falling fall. From the tree.
- 1:02:16Isn't that what our president does?
- 1:02:18He makes money off of everything.
- 1:02:20Yeah, yeah. So that's a huge.
- 1:02:23I'm glad that. Polymarket.
- 1:02:25And these betting platforms are going ahead and paying attention
- 1:02:28to this because Polymarket was the one who identified the
- 1:02:30suspicious activity and referred the case to the Justice
- 1:02:34Department. So it's good that they're going
- 1:02:36ahead and, you know, checking on that, but I, I feel as though
- 1:02:43it's going to be impossible to regulate that in a proper
- 1:02:47fashion into like just outright, I'm just going to say it, It's,
- 1:02:52it's, it's going to be, it is, it's probably impossible to go
- 1:02:56ahead and regulate because honestly, people within those, I
- 1:02:59mean, we can't even get Congress to stop insider trading.
- 1:03:02We can't even get them to stop doing.
- 1:03:04Using the stock. Market for personal fucking
- 1:03:06gains, let alone what they're going to go out and do in terms
- 1:03:09of toppling a fucking government.
- 1:03:12So, Esme, what's your what's your opinion?
- 1:03:16I think we. Need to stop putting people in
- 1:03:18office that. We can't trust is what I think.
- 1:03:21And I think when you are, when you violate that trust even one
- 1:03:25time, you should be removed from office immediately.
- 1:03:27Or if there's even the preponderance of the thought
- 1:03:29that maybe you might be up to something, you know what I mean?
- 1:03:32There's just, there's just too many people getting away.
- 1:03:35There's just too many people getting away with stuff and
- 1:03:38nobody's doing anything about it.
- 1:03:40Danielle, what's your what's your opinion?
- 1:03:42There's a lot of information thrown around there.
- 1:03:46I'm trying to take pieces from everybody because it's just,
- 1:03:48it's a, it's a lot. I'm not too familiar with this,
- 1:03:52with this story. We're getting you guys some news
- 1:03:56stories. We're.
- 1:03:57Getting you guys on this on this like what's going on here?
- 1:04:00Like I really I feel. So out of touch.
- 1:04:03No, you're good. You're absolutely perfectly
- 1:04:05fine. This is like, it's good to have
- 1:04:07your raw reaction, to be honest. It's a hard thing to go ahead
- 1:04:10and make the opinion on though, Yeah, you know, I will admit.
- 1:04:14I didn't start thinking about this.
- 1:04:15Stuff as deep until I got on the show.
- 1:04:18Yeah, well, for real, man. Exactly.
- 1:04:20I'm like. Man, it takes me a.
- 1:04:22Moment to really like process. Certain things and well, I'll
- 1:04:25throw it to Vin 1st and then we'll we'll go ahead.
- 1:04:27And go around the room. Oh, so my brain.
- 1:04:30I I have ADHD and I just decided that we haven't talked about
- 1:04:34very much good news. So I started looking up good
- 1:04:37news. Oh good.
- 1:04:38Well that's a nice change. Well, I'll be honest.
- 1:04:40And I feel like I. Should start betting on these
- 1:04:43like, different world events because I've been predicting a
- 1:04:46lot of stuff happening on the big gay radio show that have
- 1:04:50been coming. You're not a politician, so and
- 1:04:51I'm not a politician. I'm a political science.
- 1:04:54Major I feel like I I've already got this.
- 1:04:57I've already got this. You could make some good money,
- 1:05:00man. I'm just saying.
- 1:05:02I feel like a gambling is bad. OK, I think it's meant for you
- 1:05:05and not those. I would not be good at it but
- 1:05:09you. Would be, you know, demographic.
- 1:05:11So what's your good? News story, buddy.
- 1:05:14OK. So I just found this thing.
- 1:05:16On goodnewsnetwork.org, there's a mystery of the golden orb
- 1:05:20found 2 miles deep on the ocean floor.
- 1:05:23It is finally resolved. Apparently a golden orb.
- 1:05:28Yeah, US. Researchers from NOAA.
- 1:05:30National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration were left
- 1:05:33confused and excited by the sighting in 2023, made during
- 1:05:37their Ocean Explorative program. It's it says it's like a
- 1:05:42beginning of a horror movie, another person commented.
- 1:05:44I'm pretty sure this is how the first episode of The X-Files
- 1:05:46started. I'm still reading onto the thing
- 1:05:50but it says mystery solved. The golden orb is not an egg, a
- 1:05:53sponge, or remnants of a space alien, but a relic of a deep sea
- 1:05:56anemone. OK interesting.
- 1:05:59I I've. Got another?
- 1:06:00I've got a good news story that came out of the the
- 1:06:03correspondence shooting. Which is a better, you know,
- 1:06:06for, for honestly better than going ahead and giving a bunch
- 1:06:10of lobsters and steaks to a bunch of journalists and
- 1:06:13politicians. The Hilton has donated 2600
- 1:06:18uneaten meals from the White House Correspondents Dinner to
- 1:06:22local shelters after the shooting.
- 1:06:24Great, great. Plenty of.
- 1:06:27Flash. I'm so glad they're like.
- 1:06:29Flash. Froze the.
- 1:06:31They freeze. Dried the meals to extend.
- 1:06:33The shelf. Life before distributing to the
- 1:06:35shelter. That's what we should be doing.
- 1:06:37Absolutely. Those are things that we should
- 1:06:39be focusing on and it's feeding, you know, the hungry.
- 1:06:41We're finally feeding the hungry y'all.
- 1:06:46Not my country. They're eating good, too.
- 1:06:49That's right. Exactly I'm.
- 1:06:51Serious. And that's why that guy kept.
- 1:06:53Eating, you know. That's the food was expensive
- 1:06:55and tasty. Let me and the.
- 1:06:57Wine. I'm gonna eat all these leaves.
- 1:07:00I'm taking the wine with me. That's for.
- 1:07:01Sure, I got another story. Should be the next.
- 1:07:04The wine in the back. Yeah, she's like, the kids don't
- 1:07:07need these. So Esme.
- 1:07:09I got one last story for. You and it's about the save act.
- 1:07:15Esme, do you remember a couple weeks ago when you go when you
- 1:07:18expressed a little bit of of stress about the save act
- 1:07:22passing the house? Yeah, but it didn't pass.
- 1:07:24But it didn't pass the. Senate so.
- 1:07:26I I want to go ahead and. And continue.
- 1:07:29To to highlight the fact that, you know, our, our system is
- 1:07:32working. The media might not want you to
- 1:07:36go ahead and say see that, but that's honestly Donald Trump's
- 1:07:40playbook. They Donald Trump, I think it
- 1:07:42was Steve Bannon, I think it was, I think it was Mike Lindell
- 1:07:45even said it is that they are wanting to swarm the media with
- 1:07:51as much information and as much news as possible.
- 1:07:55So people become desensitized from the the the different
- 1:07:59things that they're doing and every single thing that you
- 1:08:02should that you see in terms of the news, you should be asking
- 1:08:06yourself, what are they trying to cover up?
- 1:08:08What is else is out there? Because you know, honestly, the
- 1:08:13save Act has I am I've, I've said it since the day that it
- 1:08:17was, it was introduced. I didn't think it was going to
- 1:08:19ever pass the Senate. I explicitly said that it might
- 1:08:22and most likely would pass the House, but it wasn't going to
- 1:08:25pass the Senate. And that's exactly what
- 1:08:29happened. And so I feel like more people,
- 1:08:32we just have faith in the system and actually go ahead and target
- 1:08:36our energy. Yeah, I think, I think a lot of
- 1:08:39people see the system. Sometimes obviously will fail
- 1:08:42sometimes. So I think that's why people,
- 1:08:44you know, get discouraged or, you know, they see, they see a
- 1:08:48lot of the influence that Donald Trump has as well.
- 1:08:51And that's very discouraging. But it is good to highlight the
- 1:08:54the positives of our system working very much so.
- 1:08:58And it's, it's scary. To me that people think that,
- 1:09:01you know, wave the magic wand Donald Trump's president, that's
- 1:09:06not ever going to be the case. Never.
- 1:09:09And honestly, I, I feel like there's a, there's a distinct
- 1:09:14fear of things taking time nowadays.
- 1:09:17Everything's so instantaneous. You can look up anything on your
- 1:09:21phone. I mean, your phone has more
- 1:09:22power in it than we got when we used to send people up to the
- 1:09:26moon for the first time. So I, I feel like if we can go
- 1:09:30ahead and focus our energy on getting people elected, we can
- 1:09:34not only impeach Trump, we can impeach Vance.
- 1:09:37We can impeach every other asshole on the fucking planet.
- 1:09:40A lot more of us than there are. Exactly.
- 1:09:42Exactly. I mean.
- 1:09:43There, I think it was a an entire third of the population
- 1:09:47just simply did not vote. It's crazy.
- 1:09:49Absolutely, I think. I think young people need to get
- 1:09:53get out there and vote. And I think more celebrities
- 1:09:58need to tell their audience to vote.
- 1:10:02I agree. I mean, it doesn't matter which
- 1:10:04way you vote. Just do it.
- 1:10:06Yeah. I believe in any space of
- 1:10:08influence. If you have a.
- 1:10:09Space of influence and you're knowledgeable also, especially
- 1:10:12for us adults like realistically I believe the children are the
- 1:10:14future. This is their.
- 1:10:16Plan well and let them lead the. Way so that's.
- 1:10:20Not. So something.
- 1:10:21Another thing that I want to go ahead and give out.
- 1:10:23Hope for is because I'm in I'm obviously in political science
- 1:10:26classes. It's my last semester actually
- 1:10:29taking political science classes.
- 1:10:31I'm I'm I'm I'm all caught up. I only have electives after
- 1:10:35after this semester. But throughout the entirety of
- 1:10:38the time that I was in these classes, I felt like the dumbest
- 1:10:42person in the room. But most of the time, I was also
- 1:10:46the oldest person of the peer group.
- 1:10:48The the teacher obviously was older.
- 1:10:50But these are young kids that are trying to get involved in a
- 1:10:54political spectrum and trying to learn how politics works.
- 1:10:58So, and I wish that was available to me, but hey.
- 1:11:02If you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong
- 1:11:04room. Right.
- 1:11:05You've got a lot to learn from that.
- 1:11:07Exactly. I.
- 1:11:08Learned a lot. Yeah, that's.
- 1:11:09Oh, that's so perfect, 'cause I I really did.
- 1:11:11I really learned a lot and honestly, you know, I failed.
- 1:11:15I had an intro to political theory class.
- 1:11:17I failed this 3 * 3 times. And I've taken this class with
- 1:11:22this professor, this now with this professor this last
- 1:11:24semester. And I don't know what it was
- 1:11:27about his teaching, but he taught it so perfectly and
- 1:11:32everybody was so engaged. It it just, it really makes me
- 1:11:35excited for the next generation to go ahead and get into power.
- 1:11:40But it also, you know, makes me hyper critical over the older
- 1:11:44generation because there's a changing of the guard that needs
- 1:11:47to happen. That's not David Hogg was a
- 1:11:51perfect example where he said that he needed that we needed to
- 1:11:54get rid of these older politicians who are career
- 1:11:57politicians. And then he got removed from
- 1:11:59being vice president of of the Florida Democrats or whatever he
- 1:12:03was in charge. I forget what caucus or
- 1:12:04something, but those are the types of things that we
- 1:12:07shouldn't be suppressing. People should be able to have a
- 1:12:09voice and be critical of their politician.
- 1:12:12Anyways, Vin, I ranted. What's your opinion?
- 1:12:15I really believe. That children are the future.
- 1:12:20Teach them well and let them lead the way.
- 1:12:22Like I, I, there's a Children are the future.
- 1:12:26Really. You know.
- 1:12:30But in All in all seriousness. Like.
- 1:12:32There's a This is coming from being an immigrant, right?
- 1:12:37And having parents that they did their best to protect me not
- 1:12:41just as an immigrant child, but also as like, like my stepdad is
- 1:12:45white and 100% Polish from Brooklyn, NY, married to a
- 1:12:49Filipino woman with three girl with three young girls at the
- 1:12:52time before I transitioned, right?
- 1:12:54So like they did their best to protect us from what was
- 1:12:58happening in politics, in the outside world and racism, but
- 1:13:01they couldn't do that. You know what I mean?
- 1:13:02We experienced it for ourselves. It happened to us and getting
- 1:13:07involved in politics is not like, it's not a it's not a
- 1:13:11privilege, It's a right, you know, and we, and we got to be
- 1:13:14conscious and we have to be aware of that.
- 1:13:16And we have to create an openness for our future and our
- 1:13:19kids to be able to have a confidence in having those
- 1:13:22conversations too. Absolutely.
- 1:13:24I absolutely agree. Very.
- 1:13:26Well said. Thank you.
- 1:13:27That's why I'm pushing that like I'm not political.
- 1:13:29Rhetoric is not always positive. It's like, it's more so like
- 1:13:31protect your mental health to a certain extent, but also be
- 1:13:33involved, be aware, be conscious.
- 1:13:36Yeah, and if you're if and if. Anybody's listening to this,
- 1:13:40right? Now, if you like, of course,
- 1:13:42there's a lot of people listening to this, actually.
- 1:13:44And if you're listening to this and you're thinking politics
- 1:13:48does not affect you, you are wrong.
- 1:13:50Like, you are your bubbles going to get popped.
- 1:13:52Just start paying attention, like, give yourselves an
- 1:13:55opportunity to be knowledgeable. Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:13:58I used to not be. Too involved in politics and not
- 1:14:02know enough. And I just said I, I I'm not
- 1:14:05educated enough to talk about politics.
- 1:14:07And then I realized how fucking privileged I am and that I need
- 1:14:13to get involved because I need to be that voice for the people
- 1:14:16who don't have the privilege I have.
- 1:14:18And and now I find it very kind of frustrating when people say
- 1:14:24that like I used to say, because you're conscious now.
- 1:14:26Yeah. Yeah, it does.
- 1:14:28Affect you, It will. Affect you think at a certain
- 1:14:30once you hit a certain age. You end up starting to pay
- 1:14:33attention a little more to for sure, because again, like you
- 1:14:36said, your parents tend to protect you from all of those
- 1:14:39things and try the best that you can.
- 1:14:41And you know, when you grow up privileged, as you said, or as I
- 1:14:44as I did as well, you know, my parents were able to kind of
- 1:14:47hide those things for me a little bit.
- 1:14:49So I didn't get a chance to really get into politics a
- 1:14:52little bit and so until I got older, Right.
- 1:14:53Yeah. And when I when I say
- 1:14:55privileged, what? I mean by that is when it's when
- 1:15:00you say an issue doesn't affect you or isn't an problem because
- 1:15:04it doesn't affect you. And that's why I'm saying
- 1:15:07there's all these. Issues in the world.
- 1:15:09And I'm just too stubborn to learn about them because they're
- 1:15:12not affecting me. That sounds kind of shitty.
- 1:15:15I don't like that. Very well put.
- 1:15:17That is very well put. Well, circling back to the
- 1:15:19children of the future like we have.
- 1:15:21To help prepare that future for them.
- 1:15:23So we have to do the work now for them and then pave the way
- 1:15:26for you can't hide them from everything.
- 1:15:28You have to at least. Be able to teach them, then get
- 1:15:30them ready for what kind of world that they're going to be
- 1:15:32into. Any of the millennials in the
- 1:15:34room. You see how they prepared our
- 1:15:37futures. How many of you own homes,
- 1:15:41exactly? No, this is true.
- 1:15:43So we need to set this up for our children.
- 1:15:45I don't care. About my future, but I care
- 1:15:46about what's going to happen to this world for my son and my
- 1:15:50grandkids and whatever may come down the line.
- 1:15:52Right? Chris?
- 1:15:53Can I just say it's been awesome to have?
- 1:15:55Beauty and brains in the room. It's been what I've had fun this
- 1:15:59has. Been a fun episode.
- 1:16:00I've had fun, but no. And honestly, you know,
- 1:16:03piggybacking off that, I, I really hate the idea that
- 1:16:07there's nothing that people can do in terms of the fact that my
- 1:16:11generation has been growing up in this area and has to move
- 1:16:16away just so that they can either move back or just not
- 1:16:19move back at all. And I'm very lucky because I, I
- 1:16:25had a lot of people around me that was able to support me and
- 1:16:28that's why I'm still here. But I very much could have ended
- 1:16:32up in a completely different environment if I didn't go ahead
- 1:16:36and have those people around me. I mean, fuck, I got a six figure
- 1:16:39scholarship to Ohio State University, but I chose not to
- 1:16:43go. And it was a very privileged
- 1:16:45reason why I chose not to go is because like, fuck, am I going
- 1:16:48to live in Ohio? It smells up there.
- 1:16:52But and and and granted that. That that's something that a lot
- 1:16:56of other people can't really have they they don't necessarily
- 1:16:58have that ability to oh, I got I got it I got a scholarship to
- 1:17:02college. I can go to I have to go to this
- 1:17:04school. We love our Ohio listeners.
- 1:17:06Our. Ohioans that listen rodging like
- 1:17:09your land, tell your land to take a shower.
- 1:17:15Anyways, Esme, what's the tea? You got?
- 1:17:17Any final thoughts? No, but I did.
- 1:17:19Like what? This young?
- 1:17:20Lady said about if you're not eating at the table, you're what
- 1:17:24you're eating. Yeah, you're not at the table
- 1:17:26eating. You're eating if you're.
- 1:17:27Not at the table. Yeah, eating.
- 1:17:29You're the dinner, honey. Well, Jesse, Harley, Danielle,
- 1:17:32thank. You guys for joining us today.
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- 1:18:41thirst trap do you have on? Your phone going on right now.
- 1:18:44I'm looking at this kid. He's gorgeous, gorgeous.
- 1:18:48Like I'm not, not me just peeping over like standing up on
- 1:18:51my dead. Loops trying to see.
- 1:18:52Everyone wants to see. I turn my head.
- 1:18:54And I see a. Man, putting a collar on, I'm
- 1:18:57like, I didn't know you swung that way.
- 1:18:58Yeah, I know. He's gorgeous.
- 1:19:00I've been watching for the last two.
- 1:19:01Minutes. We're like, why is this video an
- 1:19:06hour? Long he's so He's so pretty that
- 1:19:08I don't even know what to tell. I don't even know what to say.
- 1:19:11He's just beautiful. She's stunned.
- 1:19:13Well, just to. Clarify, you said kid.
- 1:19:16Over age, right? Oh yeah.
- 1:19:18Oh yeah. OK, well.
- 1:19:21From my perspective. Well, my perspective, he's a.
- 1:19:23Kid, but no, he's definitely in his 20s.
- 1:19:28Just checking as many just checking.
- 1:19:29Oh yeah, he's definitely getting you off that list.
- 1:19:32But yeah, he's good. He's gorgeous.
- 1:19:34Open any last minute thoughts? I'm hungry.
- 1:19:36Just looking at him, I'm also. Hungry.
- 1:19:39Start at. Lunchtime I'm ready for.
- 1:19:41Lunch. I think you.
- 1:19:42Guys are just a bunch. Of thirsty hoes.
- 1:19:44I'm valid also I have. To repent to my life coach after
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