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Romeo In The Morning 8-19-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It was going on everybody, it's Romeo and it's Wednesday.
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  Speaker 1: We made it halfway through the week. We talked about
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  Speaker 1: child support. We also talked about keeping tabs on your spouse.
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  Speaker 1: Then about hooking up, you know, hooking up easy today,
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  Speaker 1: easy for men, easy for women. Right, let's get going.
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  Speaker 1: Lady texting about cosmetic surgery. I guess she can't afford
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  Speaker 1: to get it, so she's little insecure about the fact
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  Speaker 1: that most men in cleaning your husband all like cosmetic surgery.
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  Speaker 1: In that that's kind of making women feel insecure. Well
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  Speaker 1: or maybe, I mean, yeah, I could see that already.
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  Speaker 1: Four two four or seven seven?
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  Speaker 2: Hot?
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  Speaker 1: What's going on? Hey, rome My wife got a boob
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  Speaker 1: job because she wanted to because after having our kids,
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  Speaker 1: they were a bit saggy. But it's a win win
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  Speaker 1: because now I enjoy them the most. That's funny. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know. I think when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery, I think the people that hate the most
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  Speaker 1: are the ones that can't afford it, you know, kind
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  Speaker 1: of like the woman saying not everybody can afford it,
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  Speaker 1: and it kind of you know, upsets her. Hey, room,
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  Speaker 1: the husband is expressing what he wants why is that bad?
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  Speaker 1: If they get divorce, she should be losing weight and
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  Speaker 1: getting her lips done tomorrow. A woman can say her
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  Speaker 1: husband needs to lose weight and wait. A woman can
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  Speaker 1: say her husband needs to lose weight or needs to
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  Speaker 1: make more money, and that's fine. But as soon as
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  Speaker 1: a man says something about the appearance he prefers he's
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  Speaker 1: a dirt bag. That is one hundred percent true. And
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  Speaker 1: that's why, you guys, within reason, don't be it. Don't
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  Speaker 1: be you know, don't say that in in a mean
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  Speaker 1: aggressive way. But if you want your wife or you
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  Speaker 1: know your girlfriend a certain way, then you should be
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  Speaker 1: able to say that, right, especially if they were that
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  Speaker 1: way to begin with. But hey, women could do it
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  Speaker 1: all day long. But that's but that's only because you
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  Speaker 1: guys accept it. He's trying to stay in a relationship.
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  Speaker 1: He's trying not to cheat. These ladies need to put
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  Speaker 1: their feelings to the side and give the man that
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  Speaker 1: proba that provides for them what they want. No questions asked, well,
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  Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying. I wouldn't necessarily say it
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  Speaker 1: is those words, but yeah, why wouldn't you want to?
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  Speaker 1: You know, a woman has no problem telling her husband
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  Speaker 1: to cut his hair a certain way. Wear these clothes
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  Speaker 1: look like this for me? You know why? Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you look better for me? But the minute you tell
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  Speaker 1: a woman that, or your wife that, you're absolutely right,
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  Speaker 1: you're being a jackass, you're a dirt back. You're absolutely right.
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  Speaker 1: But part But here's what I'm gonna say to that
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  Speaker 1: is this. You guys don't need to accept it. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you guys believe for some reason that you have to
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  Speaker 1: accept however a woman treats you and you don't because
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  Speaker 1: there's a woman out there who won't treat you that
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  Speaker 1: way and will have everything that you want. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it works both ways. So there's no reason for you
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  Speaker 1: to stay in a relationship where you're not getting what
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  Speaker 1: you want to the extent that she just says no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it, and you're wrong for
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  Speaker 1: asking you to. Okay, all right, I mean, but you
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  Speaker 1: should have a reasonable conversation about it. You shouldn't just
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  Speaker 1: start throwing out ultimatums. You should have a reasonable conversation.
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  Speaker 1: And if it's not gonna work, it's not gonna work.
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  Speaker 1: What did you send me.
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  Speaker 3: A rome?
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  Speaker 1: Imperfections make a woman hot? Well, I mean, okay, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: everybody likes what they want, so I get it. Sure
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  Speaker 1: that's what you like. Hey, good morning Rome or good
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  Speaker 1: morning Rome. Yeah, ready to rob here. The guys that
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  Speaker 1: like that need to remember that they have to maintain
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  Speaker 1: and all that, because I know ladies who had cosmetic
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  Speaker 1: surgery at once. At once it looked good, but now
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  Speaker 1: it's uh, it's not. Uh it first looked. It first
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  Speaker 1: looks saggy, but maybe it's who does it. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what the uptake or what the upkeep is
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  Speaker 1: on plastic surgery. So look, man, some people like it,
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  Speaker 1: some women want it, some women don't. Some women think
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  Speaker 1: that they're better because they're all natural. And even though
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  Speaker 1: they don't look as good as some women who have
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  Speaker 1: gotten plastic surgery, plastic and cosmetic surgery does not is
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  Speaker 1: not bad, Okay, people who do it. A lot of
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  Speaker 1: women who do it look amazing. Okay, And just because
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  Speaker 1: you can't get it doesn't mean that you know it's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you can't. You shouldn't be a hater because you
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  Speaker 1: can't afford something. If that's the case, Okay, don't be
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  Speaker 1: a hater because of that, because I'll tell you right
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  Speaker 1: now you can take you can take a woman who's
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  Speaker 1: got cosmetic surgery and put him next to a woman
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  Speaker 1: who looks great naturally, and they could both look great. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so it's one's not better than the other. You just
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  Speaker 1: you guys have formed your opinions on it and for
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  Speaker 1: your own whatever reason, maybe because you can't afford it,
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  Speaker 1: or maybe because you I don't know, I'm not really
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  Speaker 1: sure what your justification is for it. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: for the woman that started this whole thing about, you know,
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  Speaker 1: feeling insecure because she can't get it and her husband
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  Speaker 1: likes it, is is an issue, you know, is an
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  Speaker 1: issue in your marriage that they need to work out.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, already four two, five, four, seven to seven? Nah, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: what did you send me here? Good morning Rome, brah.
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  Speaker 1: If her husband making her feel bad, divorce him, get
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  Speaker 1: the cash, go taj, get them surgery she needs, and
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  Speaker 1: get another one. Uh case closed, next topic, all right,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, what's going on? What's going on?
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna just say it like this, like he knew
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  Speaker 4: what he was getting into, Like my husband beforehand, I
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  Speaker 4: already had my mommy pooch from having a kid. I
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  Speaker 4: had a second year with him, and.
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  Speaker 3: He already know he was getting here.
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  Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong.
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  Speaker 4: He still is another woman who I have buysic surgery
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  Speaker 4: and I'm like.
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  Speaker 5: Dang, they looks great.
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  Speaker 4: The turnover time when you have by surgery.
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  Speaker 6: I know mm hmm.
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  Speaker 7: I can't do that.
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  Speaker 1: I could, I could barely handle it.
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  Speaker 6: In my opendance removed.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, let me ask you this question.
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  Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you a serious question.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: Is he knew what he was getting himself into? Like
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  Speaker 1: you said, okay, what if it's the other way? What
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  Speaker 1: if what if he marries some hot you know tone
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  Speaker 1: you know, piece said you know what and she changed
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  Speaker 1: into something different? Can he say the same thing? Can
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  Speaker 1: we have the same argument? Well, hey, I married you
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  Speaker 1: like this and you got like that.
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  Speaker 4: I would say, yeah, I mean postpartum real, okay, And
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  Speaker 4: that happens sometimes.
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  Speaker 8: To some women.
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  Speaker 6: It happened to me.
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  Speaker 9: But I mean, you already knew I was it.
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  Speaker 8: Let's just say b because.
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  Speaker 4: You know, like I was, like, you already knew it
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  Speaker 4: he was getting themself into without I cannot.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to argue with you argue. I want
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  Speaker 1: to argue with that. If he knew if if he
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  Speaker 1: got with you one way, he already knew it. But
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  Speaker 1: it's got to go the other way too, then, right
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  Speaker 1: if he got with you as a time.
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  Speaker 4: I was getting myself into his him, I'm going to say,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, when.
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  Speaker 1: You want gosh, okay, okay, all right, thanks for going later.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's gotta work both ways, right, Well, for
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  Speaker 1: some reason they well for her, I guess it does.
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  Speaker 1: But the hypocrisy and women, it doesn't work both ways, hey, roam.
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  Speaker 1: Her insecurities come from her own internal dialogue, her wanting
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  Speaker 1: to look like other women who get work done or
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  Speaker 1: look better, and feeling bad because she doesn't look like that.
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  Speaker 1: How is that her husband's fault. She can always hit
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  Speaker 1: the gym, take care of herself and better herself, but
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  Speaker 1: that takes hard work, and that's something women don't like
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  Speaker 1: to do. It's easier to just get in debt ten
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  Speaker 1: k for a BBL than to be disciplined to work
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  Speaker 1: out and eat. Right. Yeah, I mean, you're right, I
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  Speaker 1: just working out doesn't I don't really know what the
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  Speaker 1: situation is, to be honest, you know, I mean, different
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  Speaker 1: people have different reasons for plastic surgery. Or cosmetic surgery. Right,
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  Speaker 1: you can't work out and get bigger boobs. Right, you
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  Speaker 1: can't really work out and get a bigger butt. You
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  Speaker 1: can get toned, but it just depends on what you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to accomplish. Right, But I agree with you. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's just you're always going to have that argument, right.
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  Speaker 1: I would venture to say, though, how would I put this?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know without actually knowing, you know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: That's I mean, you're absolutely right. It doesn't cost much
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  Speaker 1: to exercise. You run around the block, do some spots,
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  Speaker 1: do some burpies. I mean, it doesn't ask any fool
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  Speaker 1: that's been locked up. You know what it costs to
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  Speaker 1: get in shape, you know what I'm saying. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I agree with you. But people are lazy in general.
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  Speaker 1: They just don't want to do the work. Why do
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  Speaker 1: you think he's everybody's on the shot and seven Oaks? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: brome Uh, Let's see I was if we uh, let's
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  Speaker 1: see if we was feeling bad about if we was
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  Speaker 1: feeling bad about herself or has low self esteem at
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  Speaker 1: least she started a conversation on Romeo in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: Current County to talk uh Current County talk show that
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  Speaker 1: brings common sense to all these dumbasses out there. Now,
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  Speaker 1: let's help the dude, because we don't know how she is.
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  Speaker 1: Proposed they start working out together. Oh that's one, two
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  Speaker 1: a threesome first birthday or three if he's still in
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  Speaker 1: love with her, paying for them damn surgeries, he's already
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  Speaker 1: married or sure. I'm okay. I don't know where the
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  Speaker 1: threesome comes. And I always think it's funny when people
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  Speaker 1: bring up a threesome because ninety nine percent of you,
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  Speaker 1: if you have one, you're gonna lose your relationship. It's
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  Speaker 1: not going to work out for you. So there's only
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  Speaker 1: a small percentage of people that can handle that in
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  Speaker 1: their lives work out. But honestly, I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: the problem is. That's the I don't know what her
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  Speaker 1: what cosmetic surgery is making her feel insecure because there's
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  Speaker 1: a lot of things that can be done. I mean, boobs,
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  Speaker 1: but liposuction. I mean, I don't know what her problem is.
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  Speaker 1: If it's weight, then that's something that can be fixed
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  Speaker 1: without surgery. If it's boobs or butts, then I don't
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  Speaker 1: we gotta have a different conversation. So I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what her problem is to give her an answer on
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  Speaker 1: what why she feels insecure. And she's saying all men
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  Speaker 1: like past, all men like cosmetic surgery. That is not
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  Speaker 1: totally true. Her husband likes it. But the problem is this,
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  Speaker 1: and I think you have to have a real conversation
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  Speaker 1: about this. When you be in a marriage for over
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  Speaker 1: ten years, people change, things happen, and you know it's
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  Speaker 1: not all just going to be communication. I mean, that's
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  Speaker 1: what everybody wants to say. Well, as long as we
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  Speaker 1: communicate it as long it's that's not that's not real.
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  Speaker 1: When you've been with somebody for a long time, you
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  Speaker 1: cannot be expected on either side, husband or wife, whichever
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  Speaker 1: partner you are. You cannot just say to yourself, well
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  Speaker 1: you're just you just need to accept me the way
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  Speaker 1: I am. That's an idiotic idea. You want to be
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  Speaker 1: attracted to the person you're with. Unfortunately, when you're not,
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  Speaker 1: that's when cheating occurs. And it's and I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you should cheat. I'm not that's not at all what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. But what I'm saying is, at what point
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  Speaker 1: do you have to look at your spouse and go
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  Speaker 1: Not only do I want to be attractive to him
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  Speaker 1: or her, but I want him or her to be
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  Speaker 1: attracted to me. And with all the things that change
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  Speaker 1: over the years. You know, life takes a toll on you, kids,
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  Speaker 1: marriage bills, It takes a toll on you. At what
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  Speaker 1: point if you really want to be with somebody and
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  Speaker 1: be happy for the rest of your life, at what
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  Speaker 1: point do you get to look look at your partner
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  Speaker 1: and go, look, we need to make some changes to
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  Speaker 1: where we're both attracted to each other again like we
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  Speaker 1: were when we met. Nobody wants to have that conversation.
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  Speaker 1: But why would you want to be unhappy? Why would
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  Speaker 1: you want to be with somebody you're not attracted to?
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  Speaker 5: Is in the eye of the beholder, Okay, you know,
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  Speaker 5: because uh, a lot of these beautiful, fine, gorgeous women
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  Speaker 5: are beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: On the outside but ugly in the inside.
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  Speaker 5: So if you're looking for happiness, a lot of people
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  Speaker 5: will agree with me some of their most happiest times
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  Speaker 5: where with people that weren't so attractive were a little
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  Speaker 5: bit ugly. Because you're not having this waste time watching
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  Speaker 5: what you eat or watching what you wear.
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  Speaker 2: You're just having fun.
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  Speaker 5: You're living in the moment, You're able to enjoy yourself.
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  Speaker 5: Take it for me, Romeo. I'm with one of those
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  Speaker 5: hot babes right now, and all we do is argue
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  Speaker 5: about steam, rice and water and exercising, and I mean,
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  Speaker 5: it gets good, but it's got its complications.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So what you're saying is, I actually know a
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  Speaker 1: guy who I went to college with made a lot
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  Speaker 1: of money. He purposely married an ugly woman because he
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  Speaker 1: thought all attractive women were just going to be after.
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  Speaker 1: For he didn't trust attractive women because he thought they
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  Speaker 1: were all just going to be after. He's rich, he's got,
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  Speaker 1: he's got millions, he's a millionaire. He so he dated
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  Speaker 1: an ugly woman who's a little on the bigger side
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  Speaker 1: because he believes that she didn't want him for just
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  Speaker 1: as money already four two pop fowards seven to seven yo,
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  Speaker 1: Rome Cosmetic surgery looks good depending on the surgeon, though, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: my ex my ex girlfriend's cousin got a mommy makeover
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  Speaker 1: and she looks good. Ended up cheating on my girlfriend
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  Speaker 1: with her. There you go win when huh, this is
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  Speaker 1: what I got? Good morning, Romeo. So my father, so
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  Speaker 1: my children's father gets paid good money. This man pays
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  Speaker 1: his child support every month, never late. I have to
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  Speaker 1: admit there's some months where I need more money than
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  Speaker 1: the child support. My children's father never wants to give
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  Speaker 1: me more money then the children than the child support
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  Speaker 1: is required. Yesterday I asked my child's father for some
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  Speaker 1: more money because I needed help with certain things. And
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  Speaker 1: this man had the audacity to bring about four hundred
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  Speaker 1: dollars worth of food, toiletries, groceries, et cetera. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I asked for money room, not groceries. How do I
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  Speaker 1: convince my child's father to give me more money instead
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  Speaker 1: of stuff that he brings. I don't know what did
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  Speaker 1: you need the more money for? What is what was that?
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  Speaker 1: What did you need more money for? Because if you
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  Speaker 1: need more money for yourself, then that's not his responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: His responsibilities to those children. And it sounds like he's
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  Speaker 1: taking care of his responsibility. So what do you bring
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  Speaker 1: to the table financially? I don't know. Hey, Romeo, tell
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  Speaker 1: that be to shut up. She's lucky she got groceries. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: he is one of the doves women I've ever heard of.
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  Speaker 1: She needs she needs host support. What it's spousal support? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need some more details. I need to know
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  Speaker 1: what exactly you need more money for, okay, because it
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  Speaker 1: sounds to me like you're trying to take advantage of
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  Speaker 1: your children's father. But unless you can give me some
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  Speaker 1: more specific details, that's what I'm gonna have to go with.
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  Speaker 1: So let me know. So I'm gonna read you what
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  Speaker 1: I got here. Good morning, Romeo. So my child's fought
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  Speaker 1: my child. My children's father gets paid good money. This
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  Speaker 1: man pays his child support every month, never late, and
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  Speaker 1: I have to admit there are some months where I
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  Speaker 1: need more money than the child support. My children's father
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  Speaker 1: never wants to give you more than he's required to give. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: should I ask my children's father for some money because
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  Speaker 1: I needed help with certain things? What are the certain things?
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  Speaker 1: This man had the audacity to bring me about four
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  Speaker 1: hundred dollars worth of food, toilet, trees, groceries. You know
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  Speaker 1: I asked her for money, Romeo, not groceries, Romeo. How
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  Speaker 1: do I convince my child's father to give me money
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  Speaker 1: instead of the stuff that he brings? Is there one
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  Speaker 1: person listening right now that's on her side? Because it
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  Speaker 1: seems yeah, it doesn't seem right. Good morning. Now, what's
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  Speaker 1: going on.
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  Speaker 5: So she didn't tell you any more information because she
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  Speaker 5: knows she's in the wrong.
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  Speaker 6: That he brought over four hundred dollars some groceries.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's something going on. He knew what to bring
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  Speaker 1: for some I think he a guy just doesn't go,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, let me go get groceries and toilet trees.
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  Speaker 1: When she's asking for money. I think he's had this,
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  Speaker 1: had to deal with her before, and he knows what
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  Speaker 1: these kids aren't.
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  Speaker 8: Getting exactly because my brother's maybe mom does the same thing.
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  Speaker 6: She asks for money, but yeah, the kids aren't said,
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  Speaker 6: the kids aren't roll. Even though he says child support.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm just guessing here. You can either verify or
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  Speaker 1: you know, confirm or deny if you've seen this before.
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  Speaker 1: I'm guessing that she spends the child support on herself
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  Speaker 1: and then asks him for more money for the kids
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  Speaker 1: because oh and so okay, I'm guessing that's what she does.
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  Speaker 8: So that's more than lestly what happens.
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  Speaker 6: My thing is like, you can't ask for more child
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  Speaker 6: support if your hair is done and your nails are done,
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  Speaker 6: because that money works.
• 19:14
  Speaker 9: Because now, let's say there's seventy eighty dollars that could
• 19:17
  Speaker 9: have gone to your kids, your hair.
• 19:19
  Speaker 10: You could have gone to the store, goin of blox Side.
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: And then that other money could have gone to your kids.
• 19:25
  Speaker 6: But I've seen it a whole bunch of times.
• 19:27
  Speaker 10: Where they take care of themselves.
• 19:29
  Speaker 8: And their kids are running around with Walmart clothes.
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: All right, there's nothing wrong with Walmart clothes.
• 19:33
  Speaker 8: But still, all right.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: I wish I had Walmart clothes and I was a
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: kid because I was embarrassing. All right, well, thanks for
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: holy all right, I had pay less payless shoes and
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Kmart clothes. All right, eight four two four seven seven.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Let's tato five right now. So let's talk about this lady.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: She sent me this text message. She wants some help
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: from me. I don't know if I could help her
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: because I'm not really sure. I need some more details.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: Good on to Romeo. So my children's fa gets paid
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: good money. This man pays his child support to everyone,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: never late. I have to admit there's some months where
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I need more money. Why do you need more money
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: than the child support? My children's father never wants to
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: give me more money the child than the child support
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: is he required to give. Yesterday, I asked my children's
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: father for some more money, and instead he brought This
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: is how she writes it, This man had the audacity
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: to bring about four hundred dollars worth of food, toiletries, groceries.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: You know, I asked for money, Romeo, not groceries. How
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: do I convince my children's father to give me more
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: money instead of bring me that stuff? Yeah? Is anybody
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: on her side? First of all, just one of you?
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Is they're one of you that thinks she's in the
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: right cause I'm gonna tell you what I think, and
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: I'm just reading in between the lines of what she
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: sent me. I think the reason that man brought over
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: the food and grow or the groceries and stuff is
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: because in the past his children have not had food
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: and toiletries, and she used the child support for something else.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: And so now this man smart enough to go, you
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: know what, I gotta take care of my kids. Sounds
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: to me like the guy's taking care of his kids.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: She wants him to take care of her as well.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: But unless she clarifies, that's what we gotta go with.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Right already four two five, four, seven to seven Arobio.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: The lady said that's she's mad. Her baby daddy brought
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: her groceries and not money is dumb. Groceries are expensive.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: I'll take the groceries. Groceries are expensive. You're right, they
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: have gone up in price, Aerom. She needs money to
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: get her nails done so she can go out looking
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: for a new man this weekend. Maybe something doesn't add up.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: There's something that's not adding up, Aerom. That's why some
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: dads should have full custody of the children, but they
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: always favor the moms in every situation. Okay, well, yeah,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Something doesn't add up, Something doesn't add
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: up with her story. Just let me tell you this story.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Good morning, Romeo. So my children's father, he gets paid
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: good money. This man pays his child support every month,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: never late. And I have to admit there are some
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: months where I need more money than child support. Well,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: what do you need more money for the children or
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: for you? My children's father never wants to give me
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: more money than the child support is required. Yesterday I
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: asked my children's father for some more money because I
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: needed help with certain things. And this man had the
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: audacity to bring about four hundred dollars worth of food,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: toiletries and groceries. You know, I ask for money, Romeo,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: not groceries. How do I get this man to give
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: me money instead of bringing stuff? I don't know. I
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: really don't know. Good morning. How what's going on?
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: What a man?
• 22:57
  Speaker 10: Hey? The whole lady man about the whole money situation.
• 23:01
  Speaker 10: She was probably pissed man because she probably receives food stamps, which, hey,
• 23:05
  Speaker 10: there's something want with that. But you're probably like, man,
• 23:09
  Speaker 10: I could use a four hundred dollars for something else.
• 23:11
  Speaker 10: I gonna buy my own food with you know what
• 23:14
  Speaker 10: I mean, just being a little man.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I don't know. There's some there's maybe you're right. I
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: don't know, man, but there's something going on. There's some
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: fishy happening here. I don't know what that is, but
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: there's something fishy happening. Oh, I lost it already four
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: two or seven to seven, Hey, room, tell us a
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: woman to go get a job and take care of
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: your herself. He's paying the children the child support. He
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: went above and beyond when he brought that four hundred
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: dollars worth of groceries and toiletries for her and the kids.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: And she's complaining. The woman's a lunatic. I don't know
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: something eate right here, something ate right already four two five,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. And Romeo, I don't understand these
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: females wanting to sit on their behinds getting things handed
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: to them. Well, let's be honest. Who doesn't want to
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: sit around and get things handed to them in the
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: right situation already four two seven to seven. Yeah, some's
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: not added up. I don't know what it is. I
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: don't know what it is. It's gonna well.
• 24:15
  Speaker 8: I mean, I think people are delusional about child support,
• 24:20
  Speaker 8: speaking from my experience that's on exent that I have.
• 24:24
  Speaker 11: I feel like guys schools that people we live off
• 24:29
  Speaker 11: of child support.
• 24:30
  Speaker 8: Like if you separate from a woman and you guys
• 24:33
  Speaker 8: have two or three, four whatever kids, you go get
• 24:36
  Speaker 8: your one bedroom apartment, you.
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: Have to get maybe a school bedroom because your kids
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: lived with.
• 24:42
  Speaker 12: Her, so that increases her housing costs. So don't I
• 24:45
  Speaker 12: don't see how people say, oh, they're going to retain
• 24:48
  Speaker 12: a rent or more dian, Yes they should because the
• 24:50
  Speaker 12: kids require more space.
• 24:52
  Speaker 6: So you should be responsible for half of that space
• 24:55
  Speaker 6: because they're your kids.
• 24:57
  Speaker 8: Two For food, everybody don't get foods down and kids
• 25:01
  Speaker 8: are little, their little crumbsnats to be dripping up all
• 25:04
  Speaker 8: my the a free count and all that, so I
• 25:07
  Speaker 8: mean you got to pay for half of that as well,
• 25:09
  Speaker 8: in addition to school stuff.
• 25:12
  Speaker 6: And you know, kids don't never take care of.
• 25:13
  Speaker 8: Them and they mess up shoes, they mess up clothes
• 25:16
  Speaker 8: constantly coming home.
• 25:17
  Speaker 6: With oh mom, I want to do this programmer.
• 25:20
  Speaker 8: They got this at school, paying for games and football stuff,
• 25:23
  Speaker 8: and you know, get.
• 25:28
  Speaker 6: Mad about it when it's it. Really, her life is on.
• 25:32
  Speaker 9: Twenty four to seven for your kids.
• 25:34
  Speaker 6: She's a she's a twenty four seven on call South
• 25:37
  Speaker 6: Pay Provider nerves referee. I don't understand. I would rather
• 25:44
  Speaker 6: my takes full custody and you deal with these kids
• 25:48
  Speaker 6: twenty four seven and.
• 25:49
  Speaker 10: Shut up about the town support because baby.
• 25:51
  Speaker 6: I can tell you their little sum change.
• 25:54
  Speaker 11: Okay, okay, there's no amount of money that can fight
• 25:59
  Speaker 11: for a woman's.
• 26:01
  Speaker 6: Dealing with her children, and it does not you know,
• 26:04
  Speaker 6: you're not paying for the stress.
• 26:05
  Speaker 10: What's that?
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: Teenagers?
• 26:06
  Speaker 10: What are the one who's dealing with the boys.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you this question. Let me ask you
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: this question. What's the child support for them?
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: It's for the child to support the child, but sometimes
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: it is not enough, and that's just the truth. You
• 26:20
  Speaker 6: can't be paying four hundred dollars a month, but you
• 26:22
  Speaker 6: know it's who your Your apartment is nine hundred, her
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: house is maybe twenty two hundred, and you're paying four hundred.
• 26:29
  Speaker 6: You should be paying half of that.
• 26:31
  Speaker 8: To have a bigger house because your kids meet a
• 26:33
  Speaker 8: room and if you got boys and girls, they can't
• 26:35
  Speaker 8: share rooms.
• 26:37
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. I don't completely agree with that,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: but I see where you're trying. What you're trying to
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: finagle out of it.
• 26:44
  Speaker 8: Well, they should not be responsible for their child to
• 26:48
  Speaker 8: have a bigger.
• 26:48
  Speaker 6: Face and me not being able to get a one
• 26:50
  Speaker 6: bend versus then having an apartment and me having a.
• 26:53
  Speaker 8: House because I need my kids to be separated with
• 26:55
  Speaker 8: all your kids. I can't have two boys in a woom.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: With well yeah, but the but the government is the
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: one that makes the child support. You can't have it
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: both ways. You can't have the government force a father
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: to pay child support and then get mad when they
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: don't give you enough.
• 27:10
  Speaker 6: But when they weren't giving you on the first place.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Well, but that's what I'm saying, But that's what I'm
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: saying you can't. You can't. You can't have it both ways.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: That's my point. You could find a better system. Okay,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: but I'm going to disagree with the I should pay
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: half or the father should pay half because of your
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: lifestyle is a little more expensive than.
• 27:33
  Speaker 13: I agree.
• 27:34
  Speaker 6: You can disagree, but it's true.
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: Like for me, I have boys and girls.
• 27:38
  Speaker 6: Me and my going to be a cousin. If I
• 27:40
  Speaker 6: have to have a bigger house because I need the.
• 27:44
  Speaker 8: Boot room, and you get an apartment, that's not me
• 27:48
  Speaker 8: because I can get an apartment too, Come and get
• 27:50
  Speaker 8: the kids.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Oh well, you know what I mean. But see you're
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: offering a solution. You're not saying just you're saying, look,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: either help me because I need a bigger house, or
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: take these kids and to pay you child some word.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: See that. So we're having a conversation here that is
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: a little bit different because your attitude is different. And
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: so yeah, true.
• 28:09
  Speaker 8: And then another thing too, like people need to understand
• 28:12
  Speaker 8: like though child sport is like it's actually like a
• 28:14
  Speaker 8: reimbursement because by the time you get it, you don't
• 28:17
  Speaker 8: pay everything that you needed to pay for the children.
• 28:19
  Speaker 8: I can't say wait till we get the chound support.
• 28:21
  Speaker 8: Wait did the child sport come? But I'm not on
• 28:23
  Speaker 8: child report right now because you know that I find it.
• 28:26
  Speaker 8: And when he's seen them numbers, he was like, for
• 28:28
  Speaker 8: what for that? Because my act makes good money. So
• 28:31
  Speaker 8: he was gonna want to pay that four thousand.
• 28:33
  Speaker 6: So you're gonna run what I asked.
• 28:34
  Speaker 8: Before when they need it, or you're gonna be consistently
• 28:36
  Speaker 8: pen a good amount.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, So if he paid four thousand, you
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have a problem with it.
• 28:43
  Speaker 6: I don't want the four thousand dollars because to create
• 28:45
  Speaker 6: a negative atmosphere between he and I was coparing in
• 28:49
  Speaker 6: our children. I did that as a power play because
• 28:52
  Speaker 6: he was being to me. I was like, okay, let's go.
• 28:56
  Speaker 8: And since you keep on thinking that it's all daisy
• 29:00
  Speaker 8: when you sing that number, he was like, okay, what
• 29:01
  Speaker 8: you're saying? Good miss. I told you they're gonna they're
• 29:04
  Speaker 8: gonna get you.
• 29:05
  Speaker 6: I'm not trying to get to you. I don't.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Alright, alright, perfect, all right, thanks for calling. Thanks for calling.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: You know, I mean, she's got more common sense than
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: a lot of people. I mean, then a lot of women.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: She's got. Uh, she seems to be reasonable with what
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: she's saying. Is she completely right about what she's saying. No,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: but she's very reasonable in a lot of aspects of
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: child Support's got a text message from a woman who
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: says her child's father makes good money, never laid on
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: child support, always pays it, but sometimes she needs more
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: money than the child support, and so she asked him
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: for money. The other day, he brought four hundred dollars
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: worth of groceries, toilet tries, things like that to the house.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: She wants to know what she can do to get
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: the money. She doesn't want the groceries. Okay, Yeah, sounds
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: a little suspect right there already four two five, four,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. What's going on?
• 29:59
  Speaker 10: Even more?
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: He oh, the lady that just called her the lady. Yeah,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I mean she's kind of right, I guess.
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: Just kinda well. No, no, child's the poor is the
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: government at the end of the day.
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: The judges don't see it and then say, you know what.
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: You're gonna have to pay for this much and it's
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: not I mean, they don't like it and stay together.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean that is that you can't, like I said,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: you can't have it both ways. Okay, you can't run
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: to the government and tell tell the father to pay
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: for the child and then when they don't give you
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: what you want and your lifestyle costs more than that,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: then that's that, you know, because child support, you guys,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: it's for the children, not for you. All right, ladies,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: SORRYI bag no right. All the saying is yeah, but
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: I will tell you something. I will tell you a
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: story real quick. You know, a little hustle I know of.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: The mother got child support and then instead of spending
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: her child support on her children's clothes, you know, what
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: she would do is she would send she would send
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: the kid. When the kid went to visit the father,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: she would send them. She would send the child shorthanded.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: So the father would have to end up buying the
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: child clothes, jackets, things like that that the child didn't
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: have in his bag, you know that he would need
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: for his for his stay with his father. So that's
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: how she got the money. That's how she got more
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: money out of them. That's how she got cash. Right,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: she got the cash. She sent the kid to the
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: far unprepared for the things, you know, unprepared, and then
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: the father would have to buy the things that the
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: kid needed, and then he'd take them home with him
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: back to the mother's house and he'd have what he needed.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: The mother kept the child support. I'm just saying, you
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: don't pull a little hustle like that might be able
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: to do it. But yeah, I got a text message
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: from a woman who says her child's father makes good money,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: never laid on child support, always pays it, but sometimes
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: she needs more money than the child support, and so
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: she asked him for money. The other day, he brought
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: four hundred dollars worth of groceries, toiletries, things like that
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: to the house. She wants to know what she can
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: do to get the money. She doesn't want the groceries. Okay, Yeah,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: sounds a little suspect right there. Already four two five, four,
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. What's going on?
• 32:43
  Speaker 10: He wrong?
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: What's happening man?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Whatever?
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: Brother?
• 32:46
  Speaker 5: What's going on under child support thing?
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 32:49
  Speaker 5: A lot of these women, man, they are wrong.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: Bro.
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: I was saying, where two thousand dollars a mint for
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: my child and she still wouldn't let me see my child.
• 32:58
  Speaker 5: We had a court order that I get visitations on
• 33:01
  Speaker 5: every other weekend, and she's found out that if she
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: didn't let me see her. The more time that she
• 33:08
  Speaker 5: kept away from me, the child support would go up
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: because it goes off actual money you make and the
• 33:13
  Speaker 5: time you spend with your child. So she was with
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: holding my child problem, taking me back to child support
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: and thinking that, oh, well you didn't see her this
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: but wow money yes, because in the court system. And
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: then when I told her Jeff, he says, well, I
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: don't anythink I can go off how much time you
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: spend with the child.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Not the reason for it to me, like, wow, we.
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: Need to do family things. And I told her were
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: the timely?
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not with you, get over it.
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: If I can't go, then she can't go.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: That's a hustle right there. Nice yeah, nice? Nice.
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: Years I went through that and I kept taking to
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: the court and if only the Jeff got tired and
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: gave me a runner percent custody. And know she's saying,
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: because you kept breaking the court order, I had to
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: take her to uh what do you call that? When
• 34:03
  Speaker 5: they all to call the complaint on her content the
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: court court, they found her guilty go for three days
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: in jail and one hundred dollars of community service, and
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: she turned her out and stilled it again. And then
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: when they took the tired and gave the child to me,
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: then I'm I'm terrible. I'm the worst father in the world.
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: I'm the worst person. But she was only one of
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: the money. She quit her job and mont from me. Wow.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Well, that's a nice little hustle she had there. It's
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: a nice little hustle.
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, boy, when the hustle's over now because I've had
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: my child five years. Now over there, Now you got.
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: To go to work.
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: She's to get extra that hundred. That's terrible that the
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: South support would actually allow these women to sit on
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: their books. And she tigure what you're supposed to take here? No,
• 34:53
  Speaker 5: it's a two party team. You're supposed to put in two.
• 34:57
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I was more and more and more. I'm
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: giving you two a month.
• 35:01
  Speaker 10: But she's going to the club.
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: She's asking to get rid of looking like a bomb.
• 35:07
  Speaker 14: All right, Hey, you're still a little you're still a
• 35:11
  Speaker 14: little wound up, considering you want at the end of
• 35:13
  Speaker 14: the day, you might want to get over that women.
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: They would have the fun. I think you killed me.
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: If you take me back, you won't have to pay
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: any talk for.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: All right, man, thanks for calling he's all he's like
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: he's harboring some feelings still about the whole situation. We
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: had to we had to let him go. Four seven
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: to seven I got a text message from a woman
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: who says her child's father makes good money, never laid
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: on child support, always pays it, but sometimes she needs
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: more money than the child support, and so she asked
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: him for money. The other day. He brought four hundred
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: dollars worth of grocery's, toilet trees, things like that to
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: the house. She wants to know what she can do
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: to get the money. She doesn't want the groceries. Okay, Yeah,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: sounds a little suspect right there already. Four two five,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. What's going on? Yeah?
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: I want to talk to Romeo about the child support?
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up?
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: What's going on?
• 36:16
  Speaker 13: Hey?
• 36:16
  Speaker 5: So I don't know about the other lady that calls,
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: but she had it all wrong. She had it all wrong.
• 36:23
  Speaker 5: A lot of these women nowadays, they're using child support
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: support their own lives and their own lifestyle, you know
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: what I mean? Okay, So yeah, so nowadays, here's what's
• 36:35
  Speaker 5: going on. Is maybe back in the day when the
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: first starting years ago, and child support was the thing.
• 36:40
  Speaker 10: They were using it for the kids.
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: But nowadays, a lot of the child support because there's
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: a lot of the court cases they're going on, a
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: lot of these women realize they can you knowlate system,
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: they get more money, so they're used to, you know,
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: living off the child sport. So now more and more
• 36:57
  Speaker 5: they're just having kids to support their own lifestyle, you
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: know what I mean?
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, man, alright, all right, thanks
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: for calling. I appreciate it. You know, based on his logic,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: how many if you had to guess, I mean, and
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: be honest with me, don't bring your own biases into it. Okay,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: if you had to guess, how many women do you
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: actually think are taking advantage of the system like that
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: guy just said, And how many women versus the number
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: of women that are just honest and straight up about it?
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: You know, what would you say? Fifty to fifty sixty forty? What?
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I got a text message from a woman who says
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: her child's father makes good money, never laid on child support,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: always pays it, but sometimes she needs more money than
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: the child support, and so she asked him for money.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: The other day, he brought four hundred dollars worth of groceries, toiletries,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: things like that to the house. She wants to know
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: what she can do to get the money. She doesn't
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: want the groceries. Okay, yeah, sounds a little suspect right there.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Already four two five, four seven to seven. What's going on?
• 38:00
  Speaker 9: Okay? I have two things to say. My first thing
• 38:02
  Speaker 9: is there's a reason that that girl's baby's God doesn't
• 38:06
  Speaker 9: trust her with cash. And he went on felt they
• 38:10
  Speaker 9: he needed to go buy him thought she must have
• 38:11
  Speaker 9: broke that trust. So trust somewhere along the line where
• 38:14
  Speaker 9: he doesn't test her to get her cask and she
• 38:16
  Speaker 9: will go buy what she means and he just pays
• 38:18
  Speaker 9: off before days it on time, and then that's that's
• 38:21
  Speaker 9: filippic or ordered. He does what he got to do,
• 38:23
  Speaker 9: and he do nothing wrong. I needs more money, he
• 38:25
  Speaker 9: needed to go to work or pick pick up some
• 38:27
  Speaker 9: extra shifts or something.
• 38:29
  Speaker 6: Because it's not his issue. Is he's providing on his side.
• 38:33
  Speaker 9: Some of these women think that the man has to
• 38:37
  Speaker 9: pay their child to live with the mother. So if
• 38:39
  Speaker 9: the father is saying for God's booty clothes, what does
• 38:42
  Speaker 9: the mother paying just because the kid lives with you?
• 38:45
  Speaker 9: Doesn't mean you're doing your part. You got to pay
• 38:47
  Speaker 9: for your kids rent to live with their.
• 38:49
  Speaker 7: Mothers basically, okay, and for them to live with their parents.
• 38:52
  Speaker 9: And I think that's where it's unfair. It is a
• 38:56
  Speaker 9: fifty fifty thing.
• 38:57
  Speaker 15: Like I have a kid.
• 38:58
  Speaker 9: I have a nine year old daughter, and I never
• 39:00
  Speaker 9: asked for dad for nothing. He never asked me saying
• 39:02
  Speaker 9: we do I do my part. He does his part,
• 39:05
  Speaker 9: you know. And and I believe a lot of situations
• 39:08
  Speaker 9: are different, you know, it just depends on what it is.
• 39:11
  Speaker 9: But I do believe if the mother, just because the
• 39:14
  Speaker 9: mother has a kid, a lot of women think, well,
• 39:15
  Speaker 9: I have a kid with me, so you're going to
• 39:17
  Speaker 9: pay the rent, the food and everything.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: When that based based on what you're saying, I'm going
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: to say this, and I think I think you make
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: a great point. Is so when the child is with
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: the father for the weekend, does that mean the mother
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: should subsidize the electricity that costs more the food the
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: father has to buy every day.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 39:39
  Speaker 6: I'm not even kidding you.
• 39:41
  Speaker 9: If you spend the count with the kids with their
• 39:43
  Speaker 9: dad for the weekend, you better go send some gas money,
• 39:46
  Speaker 9: some food and all that with it because you want
• 39:49
  Speaker 9: that same treatment, but.
• 39:50
  Speaker 6: You're not entitled. You want to everyone that wants to
• 39:54
  Speaker 6: be equal the quality, but you don't want to be
• 39:56
  Speaker 6: equal when it comes to parenting your kids.
• 40:00
  Speaker 5: And she doesn't at it.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Well, thanks for calling, right next message from a woman
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: who says her child's father makes good money, never laid
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: on child support, always pays it, but sometimes she needs
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: more money than the child support, and so she asked
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: him for money. The other day, he brought four hundred
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: dollars worth of groceries, toiletries, things like that to the house.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: She wants to know what she can do to get
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: the money. She doesn't want the groceries. Okay, Yeah, sounds
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: a little suspect right there. Already fourteen five, four, seven
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: to seven.
• 40:32
  Speaker 9: What's going on here on the house, so you know
• 40:35
  Speaker 9: about that whole like you're talking.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: About, Yeah, what's up?
• 40:39
  Speaker 5: So my girl, my girlfriend's sister.
• 40:42
  Speaker 8: She has four kids right now, she's pregnant. Was another
• 40:47
  Speaker 8: one from another guy. Okay, she gets like a pretty
• 40:52
  Speaker 8: good amount of uh what is it, the benefits?
• 40:55
  Speaker 6: Okay, the cacade.
• 40:58
  Speaker 9: She not only gets that, but she also sells her
• 41:01
  Speaker 9: food stamp.
• 41:02
  Speaker 8: To get more money, and the kids come to the
• 41:04
  Speaker 8: house with like.
• 41:06
  Speaker 9: Dress or clothes or like old clothes we're not wearing
• 41:09
  Speaker 9: they want it.
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: But she'll come and she'll be like, mom, look I
• 41:13
  Speaker 5: got any shoes?
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Really?
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: Yes?
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: Wow?
• 41:19
  Speaker 8: Yeah, And it's crazy like and I feel back because.
• 41:22
  Speaker 9: The kids are wearing like her old shoes because they
• 41:24
  Speaker 9: now fit into her.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Oh, so she's taking care of herself and not so
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: much your kids.
• 41:29
  Speaker 9: Her and her new man that is jobless.
• 41:32
  Speaker 8: And yeah, that's the that's the picker she got.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, well thanks for calling oh h
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: winning hashtag winning? Are they four two, five, four, seven
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: to seven? Room? Tell her to stop complaining. I would.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I would take whatever my kids dad would give us.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: Plus it's not like she's not getting money at all.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Sure a good morning, Romeo. Does that be not know
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: how much groceries cost? Because I would. I would be
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: in heaven if someone came to my doorstep with groceries.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: I'm glad he doesn't have her. I'm glad he doesn't
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: give her extra money. No surprise, he left her. Okay, hey, Romeo,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: the guy had the right idea, because the kids won't
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: get anything and she'll end up with nails, shoes, stuff
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: like that, clothes. Okay, she is a complete more on.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: He brought her four hundred dollars food, so technically wouldn't
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: that mean you have four hundred dollars more? Or were
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: you looking for thousands get a better job? Yeah, she's
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: never explained to us why she needed more money. Hey, Rome,
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: why wouldn't you help out and just send her money?
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: Because once you're not a couple, it's not the guy's
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: job to take care of you anymore or to give
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: you money. Okay, the child support is for the child.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: That's why I wanted to get into this. I forgot
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: to talk to it about with a therapist, but I
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: wanted to ask you about keeping tabs on your spouse.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I've always said that you should pay attention to your relationship,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: all right, and know what's going on. But a guy
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: I know has his wife drives one of those Tesla cars.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't know this, but he showed me the app
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: while we were out golfing one day that you can
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: go on the app and a map comes up of
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: the city and it shows exactly where the car is.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: And he goes, hey, look at my coel you know,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: let me show you thiss so cool. I can show
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: you where my wife is right now. And she was
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: supposed to be at work, but apparently the car was
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: driving down the road and he was like, oh, where's
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: she going? Like you can see you can see his
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: kind of a question what was going on? And I thought, okay,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: why you got to believe that he's checking that app right,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: more than once or twice a day. Another friend of mine,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: this guy's a friend of mine. He once again, we're
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: out playing golf and his wife buys something and it
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: pops up on his phone, so she he's tracking her
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: spending and what that's going too far? Right? Keeping paying
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: attention to your relationship and doing things to protect it,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: to me, is different than like these people are basically
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: these du dudes are basically keeping tabs on their wives
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: on their wives.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: I don't that you shouldn't be keeping tab on tabs
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: on your spouse, should you? That seems a little a
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: little crazy to me already? Four two, five, four, seven
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: to seven. What do you guys think about that? I
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: know a guy actually at his cameras in his house
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: inside the house, not just outside but inside also so
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: he can see who's there. And so he can keep
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: an eye on his wife. That's doing too much, right, right,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: keeping tabs on your spouse. Do you think it's okay
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: to do that? Do you do it? Thirty four two
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: five four seven to seven? What's going on?
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: Hey?
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: What up?
• 45:09
  Speaker 13: Man?
• 45:10
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 45:11
  Speaker 5: So well we're kind of not together anymore, but the
• 45:15
  Speaker 5: girl the girl.
• 45:17
  Speaker 11: Doing we had we had each other's locations and uh, hey,
• 45:24
  Speaker 11: I'd be on my water house or like I'll be on.
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: My weather but I stop by the gas station or.
• 45:31
  Speaker 6: That anything.
• 45:32
  Speaker 5: He literally takes me on the dot, Hey what are
• 45:35
  Speaker 5: you doing?
• 45:36
  Speaker 10: What's going on?
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: And I'm like, bro, can I not like that?
• 45:39
  Speaker 10: Go pissed out to you?
• 45:40
  Speaker 6: Like you see my location?
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: There's no reason, but why would you have that? Why
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: would you have that location?
• 45:50
  Speaker 6: You know, my previous lass border we didn't show locations,
• 45:53
  Speaker 6: and that was fine because you know each other each others.
• 45:55
  Speaker 11: But you know, I guess she's been through some things
• 45:58
  Speaker 11: in her patil and I read it, mind it, but
• 46:01
  Speaker 11: now like it got to the point where I was like, okay,
• 46:03
  Speaker 11: like you're kind of doing too much, Like I can't
• 46:06
  Speaker 11: even feel like I can't being was really on it,
• 46:10
  Speaker 11: and no, maybe not probably no, we're not gether right now.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: So okay, all right, man, thanks for colling. I appreciate it,
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: all right, But that's what I mean, that's doing too
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: much right already? Four to two, five, four seven to seven.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: It just reminded me. Now, you guys know Tom Holland, right,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Spider Man, and he's going out with Zendia. He said
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: that he will actually google her every once in a
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: while to find out that if she's okay, if she's
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's keeping tabs or maybe if that sounds
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: like a jealousy to me. But is it okay to
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: keep tabs on your spouse? Is that right? Alrighty? Four
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: two five, four seven to seven. Like I have this
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: buddy that I hang out with regularly and his wife
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: will FaceTime him, like who face times? Well, I don't FaceTime,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: I just take a phone call. But his wife will
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: FaceTime him cause she wants to know where he's at.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: That's her way of sneaky, sneakily sneaky, that's her way
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: of keeping tabs on him without you know, letting everybody
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: know because oh we just FaceTime. No, she's face timing
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: him so she knows where he's at. What's in the background.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: She can that's why she's doing it. She wants to
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: see him. So that's doing too much. Comes to keeping
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: tabs on your spouse. You guys are doing it. I
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: know you guys are doing it. I have people have
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: showed me. You know, my friends do it. I don't
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: get it. I don't think it's right. I don't think
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: it's healthy.
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: But you know, m.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like my buddy just sent me a text message.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, well we you know, we get alerts
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: on our phones because as we've had fraud before in
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: our bank accounts. Okay, so I get that. But one
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: of my friends, he, you know, actually gets an alert
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: whenever his wife buys anything. You don't think that's doing
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: too much. Come on out, what's going on?
• 48:15
  Speaker 6: Well, I mean it sounds more like a Cowboy fan
• 48:18
  Speaker 6: that controller's going to be doing behavior like that. Oh
• 48:21
  Speaker 6: what you know, a raider fan.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not tracking my girl.
• 48:25
  Speaker 6: I'm not I'm not worried about what she spends and
• 48:28
  Speaker 6: she wanted to leave him by and he's just you know,
• 48:32
  Speaker 6: I can see a Cowboys or a Chiefs fan, you know,
• 48:34
  Speaker 6: tracking his girl on his phone. She's late.
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: Oh why were you you know here and there so.
• 48:41
  Speaker 10: But it's technology.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Technology has made it easier for this.
• 48:44
  Speaker 11: I know.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: That's why I said, doesn't make it okay. I think
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I think younger couples today are growing up with this
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: technology and they think it's normal or they're making it normal.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's normal to do that.
• 48:58
  Speaker 6: I don't think it's healthy behavior because it's almost like
• 49:01
  Speaker 6: you're expecting something to happen and you're waiting for it
• 49:03
  Speaker 6: so you can say, look, see you.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: Did it, gotcha? Yeah, alright, alrighty to day, all right, man,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: alrighty fourteen five, seven to seven A roam that's doing.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: That's too much work. Rome. If I got to do
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: all that, then I'm gonna have to cut her loose.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: You mean keeping tabs on her. It's not too much work,
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: though you do it to the comfort of your own phone.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: In fact, it's not. It just it pops up. Remember
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: back in the day before cell phones, you had to
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: actually get dressed, get in your car and go follow
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: your spouse, follow whoever you were dating. That was too
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: much work. Nowadays, you just get a notification of what
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: your spouse is doing, so you think it's okay. Track
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: your spouse. You know, you got these apps that'll that'll
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: follow their cars, picture where their car is located. You
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: got these find my phone apps. You can track their phones.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: You can you know, get alerts with their spending. You
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: can cameras everywhere. You can FaceTime any moment to see
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: if they're where they say they are. I mean, there's
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: all kinds of options now to keep tabs on your spouse.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: You think it's okay? Come on now, what's going on? Hey,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: what's hey, Rube? What's going on?
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 50:14
  Speaker 6: Hey, I'm gonna let it.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: Let raider David will know what crack and see the problem.
• 50:17
  Speaker 6: Raider David, half of your women have let you for
• 50:19
  Speaker 6: a cowboy back?
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: Could you locked up?
• 50:22
  Speaker 12: And the other half, you guys can't track You can't.
• 50:24
  Speaker 10: Track them on your Obama boom. You know what I mean?
• 50:29
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 50:30
  Speaker 10: Could you know their mom don't want to put them
• 50:31
  Speaker 10: on the.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 50:36
  Speaker 10: So sorry, Raider David. And you can't come out on
• 50:39
  Speaker 10: us like that, bro, you know what I mean.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: We just got money. We take care of our people.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: Oh jeez, all right, all right already four two seven
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: to seven. I do have I do know a guy though,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: like you guys all put those cameras outside your houses.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I do know a guy that has a has cameras
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: inside his house, and one time he showed me while
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: his wife was at home. He goes, oh, see, I
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: can check on the wife and the kids, and she
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: was just sitting there. To me, that's a little aggressive, right,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Is that not too aggressive? I just what are we
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: doing here? Folks? Alrighty four two five four seven to
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: seven eight Romeo, I like I have an app so
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: I know where my kids are. My wife thinks that's
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: too evasive, that I need to give them their space
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: and respect their privacy. They are teenagers, rome I'm not
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: going to respect their privacy at all. Hell, now, your
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: wife's one hundred percent rom What do you mean Your
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: teenagers don't have no privacy. They don't get they don't
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: have no right to privacy in your house. Not only
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: should you be tracking their phones and where they're at,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: you should be going through their phones. You should be
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: cloning their phones so you know what's going on. You
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: should be going through their rooms to see what they're height.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: Teenagers don't have rights. Come on now, when it comes
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: to track in your spouse. You think it's okay, there
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: find my phone app, or you can follow their cars
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: now things like that, or track their spending. You're getting
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: alert every time they run their credit card or your
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: credit card or whatever it is. You think that's okay?
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: Hey four two, five, four or seven to seven? Now
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: what's going on morning? What's up.
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: To about?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Say, I'm sorry, we're talking about keeping tabs on your partner,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: on your spouse. If that was okay? Because I have
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: some fresds like some guys showed me. He's got he's
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: got an app that he can see where his wife's
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: car is and a map Baker's field actually comes up
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: when he looks for it, or a map of wherever
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: the car is. And I thought that was a little
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: doing too much.
• 52:47
  Speaker 7: Yes, what my car.
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: Forever?
• 52:56
  Speaker 12: It comes with that?
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: You know he can?
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: He can.
• 53:01
  Speaker 6: They won't the phone keep telling him to hook it up,
• 53:04
  Speaker 6: and he tells me that we need to do this
• 53:06
  Speaker 6: needs to be.
• 53:11
  Speaker 5: Funny. I didn't go where I say I was going. Now,
• 53:21
  Speaker 5: yeah what that faith timing and all that stuff to.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah he can knowing that I know, but I know
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: you I know a guy's wife does that for him.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: That's how she finds out where he is and what
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: he's doing.
• 53:38
  Speaker 5: He be telling you the white lies.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Exactly you FaceTime you, you're gonna get declined.
• 53:49
  Speaker 7: Jacking you and following you.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: That it is crazy, it's wild and these people. But
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I think it's becoming more and more normalized for these
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: people to keep tabs on each other with the technology
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: like and they do it under the guys of safety. No,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: I'm looking out for you.
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: No, you're not.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: You're trying to keep trying to figure out where I'm at,
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: what I'm doing exact.
• 54:09
  Speaker 5: I'm all right later, Like.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: I said, you think it's doing too much. I think
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: it's doing too much keeping tabs on your partner, on
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: your spouse. I mean, and you guys can say whatever
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: you want. No, I just do it because I want
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: to make sure they're safe. No, you don't, Hey, Rome,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: you can't trust females today. You can't trust women today.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: Could you trust them yesterday? Could you trust them ten
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: years ago? Could you trust him twenty years ago? You
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: think fundamentally women have changed to be untrustworthy over the decades.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, you think you think women are fundamentally different now,
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: they're less trustworthy than they were I don't know, thirty
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: years ago, the eighties, the nineties. Were women more trusting
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: in the eighties and nineties or the two thousands than
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: they are in the twenty twenties. I mean, come on, man,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: women haven't changed fundamentally. The women have not changed. If
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: you couldn't trust them today, you couldn't trust them back then.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: The only thing that you could say is they were
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: you knew what they were looking for. I don't yeah,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how you could say that,
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: but okay, good morning. Now, what's going on?
• 55:35
  Speaker 5: Brought me all proud of my day?
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: Oh God?
• 55:39
  Speaker 5: Maybe me the man I am today?
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: And you know my reason for the whole not wanting.
• 55:44
  Speaker 5: To be tractor because I didn't want to be tracked
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: in on the ankle monitor. It wasn't right then, it's
• 55:49
  Speaker 5: not right now.
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: Some bighead rubens.
• 55:53
  Speaker 10: Don't get me started.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Must have a good morning, ok. I don't know, I have.
• 56:01
  Speaker 4: I have.
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: Quite a few friends at track their spouses, quite a few,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: And I don't know why. I think they're doing it
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: out of I think they think they're doing it out
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: of love, but I believe they're doing it out of insecurity.
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know what a big boy send me. Big
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: boy said, Hey, Rome, did you hear about the license
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: plate camera readers they're putting up around town in all
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: the cities. Well, three police officers under investigation for illegally
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: using those cameras to track their wives slash girlfriends. One
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: got terminated already in different cities. The audacity, dude, sounds
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: like a perk of the job. Bro, mean, you just
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: got to go check the cameras to stalk your acts.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: What the hell? Why you hate big boy? I mean
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: you remember when you remember, big boy, stocking used to
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: be difficult, bro stoking You used to have to actually
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: get up, get dressed, call your best friend and drive
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: around and actually stock somebody. Yeah, got cameras, social media,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: license plate cameras. What the hell? Goodr or not? What's
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: going on?
• 57:17
  Speaker 10: Good morning, Romeo?
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: Hey, what's up?
• 57:20
  Speaker 8: I believe that if you're tracking anybody, especially if you
• 57:23
  Speaker 8: are just a boyfriend and girlfriend, that's an easy breakup
• 57:26
  Speaker 8: right there.
• 57:31
  Speaker 6: That's that's some weird that's some weird stuff.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: Like actually, I actually think you're wrong about that. I
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: think most people today find it very common track each
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: other like it's no big deal and that's weird. I'm
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: with you. I think you're one hundred right, that's weird,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: and nobody you're a grown adult, nobody should be, you know,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: doing that. But I think that I would say, probably
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: ninety of couples today. I think it's appletely fine.
• 58:01
  Speaker 6: Oh, how cute you're.
• 58:09
  Speaker 8: I'm you ain't eating, I'm eating.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think it's creepy. I would
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: never I mean, I would never be tracked nor track anybody.
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: So I don't know.
• 58:25
  Speaker 6: It ain't gonna have fall all right.
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: Thanks, I appreciate it. I mean, I think a lot
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: of you do it. Though. I think a lot of
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: you do. I think you a lot of you think
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: it's okay to track your to track your spouse or
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: your girlfriend or whoever it is. I think I think
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: you think it's sweet.
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: It's not.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: It's insecure and weird. Good morning, Romeo. Nah, bruh. You
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: should be able to track your kids and pets. Not
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: sure about significant other. I'll let her know I'm gonna
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: drink with the crew after work, and she tells me
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: before she goes anywhere. Either way, if they're gonna cheat
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: on you, they will, Yeah, I mean tracking, How does
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: tracking your partner prevent you from getting cheated on. I mean,
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: it's like those stupid ring cameras. Are those cameras you
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: put out in front of your house. I mean you
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: just watch, you just watch yourself. Whatever happens, It's never
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: stopped anybody. I mean, when has anybody ever got caught
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: from a from a camera outside of house?
• 59:27
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: I mean really all that does is make you, uh,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: you know, stare at your phone all day long, seeing
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: what's going out, seeing what's going on around your house.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: You never you know, already four to popo or seven
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: to seven. So yeah, I don't. I don't think tracking
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: your spouse or your partner is a good idea. Why
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: would you Why would you care? You know, it's a
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: problem with a lot of you guys. I don't know
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: why I don't. Here's what I understand when it comes
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: to and exactly what this person said is if they're
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: gonna cheat, they're gonna cheat. If that's why you're doing
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: it because you're worried about cheating, which I think most
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: of you are. I think you track your partner because
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: you're it's secure. But here's the problem with getting cheated on.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: It If it happens. It happens, Okay, so be upset
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: for a little while, you know, try to figure out why.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: If you need closer, try to figure out why it happened,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: and move on. There's plenty of people out there, that's
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: the problem. I was just having this conversation. I don't
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: know if it's yesterday or the day before. We're talking about,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: you know, breakups. People were talking about breaks up set. Yeah,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be upset if you break up. You're gonna
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: be upset if you get divorced. You're gonna be upset
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: if you get cheated on. But as a guy, there's
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: plenty of women out there. It's not I mean, it's upsetting,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. But if you can find one woman,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: you can find another. Okay. It's not that complicated. If
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: one woman's really willing to go out with you or
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: marry you, or be your girlfriend or whatever, another one's
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: also willing to do that, Okay. So I just take
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: whatever time it takes for you to get over it
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: and move on. I would rather be cheated on and
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: know that they're doing it so I can move on
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: and start over somewhere else, as opposed to always trying
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: to prevent it and live that lifestyle.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 12: Man.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 13: That's like having a security guard with a flash flight.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 5: When I was a milk man.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 13: One time I went early to Albertson's on Panama and
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 13: there was a guy you know that was kind of
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 13: looking in the cars and stuff some stuff. Security guard
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 13: kept hitting a flash flight button, you know, like flashing
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 13: off and on.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: What's that gonna do?
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 13: I mean, not unless you work for for Dollar Tree,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 13: because uh, that's been proven. The guy ends up killing
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 13: the robbers. Yeah, he took the knife away.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 5: From him and stabbed him. What corporate was gonna say, Man, you're.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 13: Employer of the year, But I will tell you this
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 13: that knife has sold out since then.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: You're crazy going on?
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 15: All right, Romeo, what is doing?
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 4: Bro?
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: You know I believe it's not in the beauty sent
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: du jaon will that. I know my brother queen, you know,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: by prepared for it ahead. We heard lost my mind always.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: All I'm gonna say is, uh, the whole factory ain't
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: closing anytime soon. They ain't going out of business, So
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be good. There's another woman out there. In fact,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: I would guarantee this any good man out there right now.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: There's a woman waiting for him to get cheated on
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: so she could slide in there and pick up the pieces.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 10: Man, that's what I'm saying. That's the whole reason I
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 10: ain't clipped.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 3: I ain't shut down the shop.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 5: You know, we can keep going because I'm not catching
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 5: the other one.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: They got numb.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 15: But that's what you want, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 15: So I almost be preparing for that situation. You know,
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 15: I can't down the factory, beautiful children, I got you.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: Oh man, I would almost guarantee it, by the way,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: that if you're a good man and you pay a mortgage,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: there's some woman waiting for her to cheat on you.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 5: Hey, what's up?
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 10: Hey hope we just call you.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: Sound like you was being stopped. Here lady in the
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: background talking.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: Oh that's his old lady.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, and you gotta watch your brothers.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 5: M he might be stocking you.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: Who's that he's old lady?
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 10: She stocking him.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: Oh no, they're just hanging out.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: I know, I know, I gotta give him a hard time.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 9: I know.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 6: I heard her.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 10: I heard her the background putting her two cents.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 5: And I was like, I got okay, but hey, but hey,
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 5: you ain't lying room.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: I mean, but it works both waiting room, like the
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: way you're saying, because for every girl too, there's a
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: guy out there waiting.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean, every girl too.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: No, it's different, it's different.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 10: Hey, but it's and it's like I told you before,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 10: a room.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: It's a lot easier for a girl to pull a guy.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 10: Um, what are you gonna do?
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: Walk around and have a paper on the back and say, oh,
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: I own the house.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 5: Uh yeah, you know what I mean.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: These girls walk around, they get hit on them. But
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, guys, I mean, let's let's
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: like you said, they know them and they already know
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: they have them, they have a house, and they already
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: know them.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 10: Then that's probably one of your girlfriends, you know what
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 10: I mean.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: Probably Yeah, I could agree with that, but it's not.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: It's just as girls are easy today. They're not hard
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: to get there, they're everywhere. It's not they're not hard.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: It's not easier for a girl to get a guy
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: than a guy to get a girl today.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: You know, you know, right, you know you're wrong on that,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: because a guy could walk up to a girl and
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: be turned and turned away and every every girl walks
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: up to a guy, they're all excited, ready to go,
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: act like they've never seen a.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: Girl in their No, not even not today, No way,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: it's not the same. It's not the same.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know where you're hanging out around, but the
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: foods over here where where I go, you know what
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: I mean? Yeah, I know, I know there's one point
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: we don't go together, you know what I mean. I
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 10: It only happens there.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: But yeah, now it's easy. It's easy for a guy
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: to get because girl, because because women today are are
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: women today I think are dumber. I don't and not
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: from like an educational standpoint, I just mean from a
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: here's the problem. If you want to talk about how
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: all of these these kids don't have no social capabilities,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: you know they're not they're anti social or they don't
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: know how to deal with people socially in a social
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: city situation. It goes both ways for women as well.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: It's not just boys or men who are because who
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: don't got game, so to speak to put in your
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: term reuben women in the same way. It's not the same.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: I mean they are the same. So like when you
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: were out in the dating scene. In let's say the nineties,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: okay or early two thousands, women had game. Women knew
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: what they were doing. When you used to go to
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: a club, that it was on the toy costed, the
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: clock had started. Both men and women were you know,
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: put me in coach, they were both in the game
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: had started. Okay, So women had just as much game
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: back then. When you used to go to a night club,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: they knew the game. They were looking for you, You
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: were looking for them. You had to look good, you
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: had to have something to say to them. But they
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: also knew what they wanted. So no, it's today's it's different.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: Today's just different. So I believe it's absolutely just as
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: easy for a guy to get a girl as it
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: is for a girl to get a guy. You know,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: I think Ruben's wrong. Hey, Roam, it's headbutt raider here.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: Since you're talking about women, ask them why they got
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: a Facebook page called is this year?
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: Did they really think all men cheat? Yes, women think
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: all men cheat, just like men think all women should
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: eating bakers in Bakersfield. Uh, most men and women don't
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: trust either one of them. Okay, and they say they do.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: But yeah, but that's small town mentality. Bakersfield is still
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: small town mentality. Morn no what's going on?
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 5: Of course, mumor is wrong. You don't know nothing about
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: being a player.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: Late.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 10: You don't know what's going on out.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: Here, all right, I'll let him know.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 7: Grind Daddy don't know nothing about nobody out here being
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 7: a player either. I don't know what they're doing in
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 7: Rosewood and the other coals home, but.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 13: As the radius, Okay, I'll let him know.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: Damn all right, Yeah, eighty four four or seven to seven. Yeah,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: they both crazy. They don't know what they're talking about.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: Things have changed, man, I just they're different. The game
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: is different, okay. Social media dating apps has changed the game.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: It's not complicated. It's it's so much easier nowadays to
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: get a guy to get a girl. Guys have no problem.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever told you this story.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: One time I was out with some friends and one
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: of the friends had a client. He was from out
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: of town. Not a client, a distributor or something that
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: he worked with, was visiting, you know, checking up on
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: the company. H And we're just all out drinking. One night,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: he says, I'm gonna go back I'm gonna go. Some
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: girls shows up, I'm gonna go. He just went on
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: some app, met some girl, they left. I mean, it
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: wasn't uh and it was a day. I don't think
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: it was a hooker app. Did they have apps for
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: prostitute or is it just dating that you don't need it.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: You don't even need to get prostitutes anymore. You could
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: just go on Bumble or Twitch or hinge or whatever
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: it is and just pick up somebody, tell them you're
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: ready to hook up. They'll hook up, you know. I mean,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: has the prostitute game dropped? Are hookers losing losing business?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Because these girls don't even make you buy them a
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: drink anymore. You can just go to an app and
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: say hey, I'm ready to hook up, and then you
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: meet somewhere and that's that. I never even considered that.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: But no, the game's different, man, It's just a different
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: game everybody's playing today. And you're right, Ruben and Raider
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: Dave don't know what the hell they're talking about already
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: four TUPA or seven to seven. But I will say
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: this that the problem when Ruben says, oh, it's hard,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: you know, girls can just go out and get a guy,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: they can't. Guys are much more cautious nowadays then they
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: used to be, because you don't know if you're getting
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: set up. You know, back in the day, when you
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: were at what was that nightclub? Pick your nightclub in
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: Bakersfield Rock and Road deal, let's say, because that was
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: old enough before the internet, when you were there and
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: some girl hit on you, Oh you were down, good
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: to go. If it happens the day, you don't know
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: if she's trying to set you up or what's going on,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: you know. So things are a lot different for women
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: as well. Women can't just go out and grab dudes
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: like and if they can, dudes can just go out
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: and grab women. It works both ways now much easier
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: for both for both to get whatever they want.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 5: Haen other women need love and two no raider days.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 5: Don't discriminate short tall that skinny raider.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 10: Dave takes them all.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 5: I don't have no problem. Like you said, it's very
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 5: easy to.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 10: Hook up these days than it was back in the days.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 10: You had to go out of your way, whine and
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 10: dine them. Now it's just the numbers game.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: Now, it's just a numbers get okay.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 5: You send out enough dms, eventually you might get one
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 5: or two back, and then you sort to them and
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 5: then before you know it, you're hooking up.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, bye.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 9: Roam.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: Nowadays you can probably find someone on Wasco cheesemoscos they're everywhere.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: You can find somebody everywhere. It's not it's it's the
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: game's different. Now, Hey, bro, you you ain't lying about that.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: The problem is these lanes out here sending a couple
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: of hundred bucks to some random female they meant online
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: and they ain't even hit yet. Female is always out
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: there trying to get the best they can. That's why
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: they spend so much time getting ready, because it's all
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: about act. Because it's all an act. That's why you
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: get these dudes flex and stuff they don't got. That's
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: why dudes goes females when they see them when they'll makeup,
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: and females leave dudes when the cash runs out. Yeah,
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, the problem is this. Here's why Ruben's wrong
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: when he says that any woman can get a guy
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: easier than a guy can get a woman. If you're
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: on a dating new and you got fifty women in
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: a queue, if the one don't work out, you just
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: go to the next So these women, I would even
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: venture to say that women have to try a little
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: harder nowadays, you know, then they used to back in
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: the day. Okay, so it's a different game. I'm gonna
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: tell you a story. A friend of mine, he got
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: divorced a couple of years ago, and he had to
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: stay at home wife, a couple of kids, and he
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: worked hard, made good money, made real money, you know,
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: you know, made a lot of money actually, and his
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: wife cheated on him. But they were living that high
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: citity lifestyle. She was at stay at home, you know,
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: desperate housewife, and she ended up messing around with one
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: of the dudes in the neighborhood and he was heartbroke.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 5: I get it.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: They've been together since college and he was heartbroke. But
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: you know, we talked about it. Dude. There's another woman
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: out there who doesn't want to pay mortgage. Okay, there's
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: another woman out there who doesn't want to work. Why
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: are you worried about the next you know, why are
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: you worried about the past when the reality is there,
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: The next one is out there. She's just waiting for
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: you to tell her she don't got to work. No, more.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's pretty simple already fourteen five for seven
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: to seven. Hey, Rome, it's funny that you're talking about this.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: A few years ago, my wife, she tried to throw
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: an ultimatum on me about working too much, spending too
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: much time, and or spending too much time at work
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: and not enough time with her. I told her, while
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: I make good money, I gotta do what I gotta
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: do to provide this lifestyle. So she thought she was
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: just gonna Oh, she thought she was just gonna play me,
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: and I let her go. Rome, You're right, there was
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: another one waiting, and it was actually her friend. Welcome
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: to Bakersfield. The friend is always waiting, right. The problem
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: with this is it's not a problem, It just it
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: is what it is. Nowadays, there's so many there are.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: I would venture to say that the good men have
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: a line waiting for them because a lot of these
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: dudes today, I mean, they're just not good dudes, you know.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, they're just not dudes that know how to provide.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: They're not dudes that know how to how to run things.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. They're a bunch of insecure
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: little you know, TikTokers or insecure little you know, want
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: to be influencers, video game players. I mean those there's
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: some of those guys that make a lot of money.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: So don't get me wrong. I'm just saying that everybody's
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: trying to do something that is, you know, kind of soft.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: Women still don't want soft man.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 5: What's up?
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: What brother?
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: I got a question? Bro, this is Seke.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 10: Do you guys?
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 5: Do you is there an app on like the iPhone
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 5: to listen to your should.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: Yes, the tune in app, tune in app? Yes?
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: Do you to U?
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 9: N E?
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 10: I N I think okay?
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: And it's all one word, uh yes, all one word
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: tuning radio.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 10: How you been man?
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 5: Good?
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: Good, good? Everything solid man. Sorry, I was thinking about something.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about what was next, but yeah, no,
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: everything's good. Brother.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 5: How are you okay? Good brother?
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 10: Just out You're getting oil man trying to.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 5: Listen to you again?
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: Bro, Well why did you stop?
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 10: Well? Because I was been working.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 5: Man was almost hurt.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: It don't got radio, no right, no.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 5: I do nothing but Apple music. Man.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: So I'm out here now in the words, clus I
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: listen to you and I'm not here.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna have my phone on.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 2: Listen to you.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 3: There is.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 13: That, brother, man, Romeo, not just change the subject, but
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 13: Nick sounds Dematale.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: You left colored? Oh what's rolls?
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 12: He said, Yeah, No, you don't have a radio, but
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 12: he listens to his app, Apple Apps.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 5: The phone is the radio. That's how I listened in
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 5: the morning.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 9: Oh.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 5: On the other hand, for.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: The women that are listening, that's that's that's what You're
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: gonna end up with the oil field worker, that Dematale.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 10: But he's gonna pay the bills well.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 15: In hand.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 5: Bravo is.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: Already four seven to seven. What do you got here?
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: Good morning Rome, Good morning Rome. I was just gonna
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: tell your last caller that I use the Hot ninety
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: four to one app and it works great. Streaming from
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: Santa Cruz. Oh, that's Gilrod. He's out there doing it right,
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: all right, brother, thanks for colling. Where are we at?
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: What is going on here? I don't know what's going on.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: I lost my I lost something. I don't know what
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: are we talking about with somebody? Oh, I don't know.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: Something's going on with my with my text messaging. Sorry,
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: what if I was gonna tell you guys. Let's get
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: you guys to Monster truck tickets. Let's go to monster trucks,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: Hot wheels, monster trucks. I got a pair of tickets
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: for you right now. Where is it?
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 10: It is at.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: Dignity Health right I got a four pack of tickets
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: for you right now, Colling number twenty nine. But he
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: said about the monster trucks tickets. Hey, does a text count?
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: Your line is busy? No, a text does not count.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: I do not do contest over the of our text message.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: Well there's one contest I do. But no, what aren't help?
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: What's going on your college? What you mean, Rosa, Linda?
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: You got tickets for back of tickets to Hope those
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: monster trucks. Okay, thank you. So I want to talk
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: about this. I don't really know how this conversation is
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: going to go, if it's even a conversation. But yesterday
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: some friends of mine that I went to college with
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: them and they live out in Palm Springs now, so
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: him and his wife stopped by. We had lunch before
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: they you know, were heading home because they were coming
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: back from we all went to college up north together,
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: and we got to talking about I know, you got
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: to remember these are old friends. So she was telling
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: me how what her exercise regime is how she getting
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: in shape. She's been doing this high rocks. Do you
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: guys know what this high rocks is? I guess Or
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: and her husband have been doing these high rocks competitions.
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: And so they were telling me how great you know,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: how better they feel they're training, blah blah blah. And
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: she says, man, she goes, I look better than I
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: ever have. And I said, no, you don't. I knew you,
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: and I knew you in college. You were hot. She
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: was hot in college. I mean, she's still hot, but
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: she's older hot. So in her mind, older hot was
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: better than younger hot. And I said, no, you're not,
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: because you were a smoke show in college. There's no
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: way of you. And then we pulled up some old
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: pictures that say, see look at yourself. You think you're
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: hotter today than you were you in college? And uh,
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: she agreed with me that I was right, and I
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: am right. You know, I mean, there's a And she said, well,
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: why don't you think why do you think? I said
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: you don't. I said, you think you're hotter today because
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: you're older, you're still working out, you're in great shape,
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: you're a little more you're more worldly, you got more
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: experience in life. I mean the way you look. Your
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: physical attractiveness was better when you were in college, but
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: you were dumber then. Now you're more worldly, you got
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: more common sense, you're you know, you've seen more things.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: So you feel like the education you have of you know,
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: just worldly experience makes you hotter, and it doesn't. We
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: were just talking about, you know, being hot. So I
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: just thought it was funny. There's a lot of you
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: out there today. I think that especially when these you
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: know now that these phones, when you have your phone,
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: it'll tell you, you know, to show memories, pictures of
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: old you know whatever. I don't even know how they
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: pop up. I don't know if you said it or not.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: But every once in a while, some pictures will pop
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: up from the past. And I have a friend who
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: actually has photos in her phone for like maybe twenty
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: years of photos, fifteen years a photo, something wild, and
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: so things will pop up from ten years ago and
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: she'll be like, you know, look how we look turn
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: her husband, look how we look back then versus today,
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: and blah blah. So when were you the hottest? You know,
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: maybe you are hotter today than you were. Maybe. I mean,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of people out there who grew up
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: you know where you were the chubby kid and you
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: didn't like it. So you work your ass off now
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: and you're hotter today than when you were younger. You
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: should be the hottest in your twenties is when you
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: should be the most attractive, the most fit, the most everything.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: For some people, it didn't work out that way. Do
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: you remember when you were the hottest? Oh? Are you
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: talking about my friend? No, bruh, you're cold blooded. You
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: straight up pim slapped her self esteem.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 2: No I did.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: We've been friends forever. We've been friends since college. Man,
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't pim slap nobody. I didn't say she was ugly.
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: She just she thinks she's hotter. If if you think
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: you're hotter in your forties than you were in your twenties,
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: that means you look terrible in your twenties, Okay, And
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: that's what she thinks. So no, I didn't. I mean,
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: your friends are your friends. You can talk to your friends.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: I've known her a long time, so her husband even
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: agreed with me. We're all good. She's not worried about
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: her self esteem. She's fine.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 5: But you know, just.
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, already four two, five, four, seven to seven
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: should be I, hey, rom, that was kind of rude
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: what you said to your friend. I'm with the last
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: guy that texts you. That is kind of cold blooded.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: She was probably proud of herself and what she's doing. Well, okay,
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: so what she's still I was just telling her she
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: didn't look as you don't look as good a day
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: as she did back then. Okay, that didn't mean she
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: was ugly, didn't mean she still don't look good. It
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: just come on, now, don't you? Oh, don't your friends
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: let me finish this? Uh, don't your friends get mad
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: at you when you talk about him on the radio. No,
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: my friends don't. My relationship with my with my close friends,
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: anybody that's gonna come visit me uh on their way
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: home or passed through Bakersfield to visit me, or is
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: so such a close relationship. We've probably been telling each
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: other the truth forever. So now you I don't know,
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of fake asks God, but
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: me and my friends are just very honest and fun
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: with each other. We don't move.
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if I told you some of the things that
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: we've said to each other, they fire me from the
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: radio station or the FCC would be after me, all right,
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: e four two five, four, seven to seven. We'd all
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: be in therapy together.
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 5: Throw over the morning every morning morning.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: Four one