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Snap Yo Fingers · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, we're going to Glastonbury. We've good Jared on
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  Speaker 1: the line, who went on a first date and I
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  Speaker 1: was getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Jared, Hey, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Hey. All right, so welcome to the show. Tell us
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  Speaker 3: about this great first date.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So I went on a great date with a woman.
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  Speaker 2: Her name is mel short from Melissa, and I took
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  Speaker 2: her to a really nice Italian restaurant. Okay, we sat outside,
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  Speaker 2: the weather was perfect, and the conversation was smooth, was great.
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  Speaker 2: I honestly felt a real connection, and you know, I
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  Speaker 2: reached out to her after the date. But I'm totally
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  Speaker 2: getting ghosted, and I kind of want to know why.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, here's one.
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  Speaker 1: When you guys are at dinner, did you ask anything
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  Speaker 1: about her?
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  Speaker 3: Did you try to get to know her?
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  Speaker 1: Or did you talk about yourself for hours on end
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  Speaker 1: like the last time I ever went out on a
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  Speaker 1: date with a guy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I asked her everything. We Uh, okay, I'm
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  Speaker 2: good at that. I promise you know. I'm not like
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  Speaker 2: just like me, me me, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And you didn't do anything gross like blow your nose
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  Speaker 1: in the napkin or anything, right, because I've seen something.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, of course you didn't hug the free breadsticks and
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  Speaker 3: salad and soup that they give you the Olive Garden.
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  Speaker 2: Nope, nope, nope, not at all. You didn't do too
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  Speaker 2: many bread sticks?
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Please tell me to bring you to the Olive Garden? Please?
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  Speaker 2: Did you it was not the Olive Garden? Thank? Okay?
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  Speaker 2: It nice Italian restaurant.
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  Speaker 1: Okay that the don't as the resident Italian, I don't care.
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  Speaker 3: The Olive Garden is fabulous anyway, I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Just a little more updale.
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  Speaker 3: That God ever shared? Did you pay for the day? Okay? Man?
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like to me, you're you're outside, You're you're
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  Speaker 1: having wine, you're.
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  Speaker 3: Eating fabulous food, the conversations full. It sounds like a
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  Speaker 3: great date. It was all right, Ron, we're gonna call
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  Speaker 3: her up.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to be listening in and you can join
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  Speaker 1: in on the conversation at any time. But we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: ask her why she's ghosting you. Are you okay with that?
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  Speaker 2: Please?
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  Speaker 3: I think he's nervous. Can you tell he was?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 3: I think he's nervous.
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  Speaker 4: I think you guys got a step saying that the
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  Speaker 4: Olive Garden is like good Italian food.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's where we're going for lunch. Not stop. Thank you, Courtney.
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  Speaker 3: I know she's wrong with me. It's wrong with the food.
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  Speaker 2: There.
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  Speaker 3: Hi is Mel, There, Hi Mel, it's Courtney, Mel. What's
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  Speaker 3: going on? It's Walmart, Jeff. Hey, Mel, it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
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  Speaker 1: the radio this morning.
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  Speaker 3: Mal.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, all right, you're on second date update.
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  Speaker 1: If somebody gets ghosted after a first date, they call
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  Speaker 1: us when we get answers, I will tell you.
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  Speaker 3: Jared called us. He said he had a great date
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  Speaker 3: with a woman named Mel short for Melissa.
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  Speaker 1: You guys, went out to dinner like an Italian restaurant,
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  Speaker 1: drank wine and sat outside. He felt a connection, and
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  Speaker 1: you're ghosting him.
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  Speaker 3: Well, okay, how how was the date for you?
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  Speaker 1: Because there's always two sides, mostly three sides to a story,
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  Speaker 1: but we want to hear your side.
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  Speaker 4: I mean the date was mostly good, okay, Like it
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  Speaker 4: was going well for a while, okay, And you know, yes,
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  Speaker 4: I at the beginning of it, okay, you know, I
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  Speaker 4: did no a connection and I thought I probably would
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  Speaker 4: see him again and all that, but then he just
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  Speaker 4: did something that just really kind of put me off.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so I was wondering this. He said, he paid,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't overdrink, he was polite. What did he do
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  Speaker 1: that turned you off?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: So I'm a server and you know, like I said,
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  Speaker 4: most of it was fine, but that at one point
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  Speaker 4: he was he like snapped, get the we get our
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  Speaker 4: service attention.
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  Speaker 3: And wait, did he.
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  Speaker 1: Snap his finger or snapped like yelled at somebody snapped?
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  Speaker 4: Had he put his hand up in the air, like
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  Speaker 4: snapped his fingers like oh, waiter type of move, you
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean? And it just like it was
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  Speaker 4: really off putting, Like I hate when people do that
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  Speaker 4: to me. I just feel like it's so rude, Like
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  Speaker 4: I kind of just wait a minute, like you know
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  Speaker 4: what I mean, like, don't come back, you don't melt
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  Speaker 4: snapping your fingers.
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  Speaker 2: Mal nab Mels, Jared, I don't remember snapping my fingers
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  Speaker 2: at at the server, but I just raising my hand.
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  Speaker 1: Mel, I should like, you know, Jared's on the line.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead, Jared. Did you really snap your fingers at
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  Speaker 1: the waitress?
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  Speaker 2: Jared, No, I don't remember snapping my fingers. I just
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  Speaker 2: just raised my hand. She was she was walking around
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  Speaker 2: with wine and our glasses were empty. I just wanted,
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  Speaker 2: you know, to get her attention. I apologize if I
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  Speaker 2: snapped my fingers.
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  Speaker 4: It's not like obviously it's all I'm saying, like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: you're a terrible person that hates your and it's just
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  Speaker 4: like I don't think I would date somebody that I
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  Speaker 4: like that at all.
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  Speaker 2: No, I get it. I did not mean to do that.
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  Speaker 2: I was just you know, having a really great time
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  Speaker 2: and I just, you know, I saw that we didn't
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  Speaker 2: have any wine. I just raised my hand and now
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  Speaker 2: I realized that, you know, I've never worked in restaurants before,
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  Speaker 2: so I I mean.
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  Speaker 3: The guy was just trying to get you drunk.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Mel, do you accept Jared's apology?
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  Speaker 4: I mean I do. Like it's not it's not the
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  Speaker 4: biggest deal in the world. It's just like, at the time, okay,
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  Speaker 4: it's a little you know, it was, yeah, maybe I
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  Speaker 4: did actually over rats a little bit. Like I feel
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  Speaker 4: actually kind of bad now that work talking about it
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  Speaker 4: and I'm saying it loud.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, oh, maybe I did. It's kind of that
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  Speaker 2: a proportion a.
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  Speaker 1: Little, but well, it sounds like it was a trigger
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  Speaker 1: for you, mal like you know, sometimes you get triggered
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  Speaker 1: by things.
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  Speaker 4: Jared exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Here's what I.
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  Speaker 1: Want to do, because I feel like it was just
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  Speaker 1: like a misunderstanding. You both said the date was great
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  Speaker 1: up until that point. Mal you thought it was a
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  Speaker 1: great day too. So I would love for you guys
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  Speaker 1: to try again, go on another date, and we will
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  Speaker 1: pick up the tab and pay for it.
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  Speaker 3: How about that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm okay with you. Yeah, I mean that's great. You
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  Speaker 2: guys really don't have to pick up the tab. I
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  Speaker 2: can do it. But that's that's so nice of you.
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  Speaker 2: Smell please.
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  Speaker 4: Sure okay, he.
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  Speaker 3: Said, please?
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  Speaker 2: Yay.
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  Speaker 1: I like that because I was gonna jump in and said, Jared,
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  Speaker 1: whann't you just ask her? And you jumped in and
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  Speaker 1: you asked her. So I love that you guys are
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  Speaker 1: going to go on another date. We're going to pick
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  Speaker 1: up the tab, and you guys keep us posted on everything.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Hey, thanks,