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Spiritual Biz Pep Talk: The Energy You Need To Actually Grow in 2026 · Feminine Fire with Bec Cuzzillo

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  Hi.
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  Hi.
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  Hi.
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  I am so excited to be here.
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  I have a fiery little episode for you today if you are feeling stuck, stagnant, a little unsure.
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  This episode is for you.
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  We are moving into Aries season right now.
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  And if you don't know, I am a very proud Aries.
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  I love Aries season.
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  This is my time and I'm calling it.
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  It's your time too, no matter where in the zodiac you fall.
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  And I wanted to really harness this fiery Aries energy today to share a bit of a pep talk with you.
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  A fiery loving kick up the ass pep talk.
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  Because I wanna see you move.
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  I wanna see you stop overthinking, stop circling the same decisions.
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  Stop sitting in the, I just need to learn a little bit more before I can do anything kind of energy and actually start moving, actually start doing the thing that you really wanna do.
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  Because the longer you hesitate, the longer that you sit in that resistance, the harder it is to move out of that and the heavier it starts to feel.
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  And this year the energy is not about sitting still, it's the year of the horse.
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  It's about movement, momentum, action.
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  And so today I wanna talk about the energy that is actually required if you want to grow your business this year.
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  It is going to be short and sharp and a little bit fiery, maybe a lot fiery.
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  If you're feeling stuck or resistant or just a little bit off about things, maybe you are overthinking, you're unsure.
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  This is the episode for you and it's one to listen to now, and then also bookmark to come back to in the future whenever you are needing a little bit of that fire, a little bit of that oomph energy to get up and go and move.
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  I am going to anchor you back into your truth, your vision, your purpose, what it is that you are here to do.
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  So let's get into it.
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  I have split this up into three.
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  I've got three energies I wanna speak to specifically today.
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  Three energies that you need to actually grow in 2026.
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  Number one is the energy of deciding.
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  At some point, you just have to back yourself and make a decision.
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  This is what I'm doing, this is what I'm focusing on.
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  This is the offer I'm selling.
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  You've just gotta stop waiting.
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  Stop wishing.
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  Stop hoping for clarity to miraculously drop in or everything to be absolutely perfect and organized and ready before making the decision.
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  You sometimes just need to buck up and make the decision.
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  I see so many of you.
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  Just circling around things and uming and ahing, and sitting in this loop of, should I do this?
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  Or What about this strategy or this offer, or maybe I should focus on this first instead.
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  But you never actually make a decision, and you keep circling, and then you stay exactly where you are.
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  You need to make that decision.
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  Just decide this is what you're gonna do.
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  Stop worrying about whether it's the quote unquote right decision.
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  Because no decision is still a decision.
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  It's just the decision not to move and to be fair, that is the only wrong decision you could make.
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  No decision at all is the wrong decision.
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  Any other decision at this point is going to be the right one.
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  So I want you to choose to be in this energy of deciding practice making decisions.
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  What decision have you been circling around that you just need to make?
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  Decide on it right now, practice making that decision, and then practice making decisions faster.
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  It doesn't mean that you don't think about things.
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  It doesn't mean that you don't consider your options, but it means that you think about them.
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  Maybe you have a conversation with your coach or your team.
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  Not every man and his dog, because you don't need that many opinions.
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  You just might need a few, a couple from some trusted people in your life, and then make a decision move.
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  Give yourself a deadline.
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  You would create.
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  So many more results, so much faster.
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  If you made decisions faster and no one else can make the decision for you.
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  It's gotta be you.
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  You are the boss, you are the leader, you are the business owner.
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  You are in the driver's seat here.
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  No one is coming to save you.
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  No one is coming to make that decision for you.
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  It all comes down to you.
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  So you need to be in the energy of deciding that is number one.
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  Number two is the energy of implementation.
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  This is you actually moving and doing the thing and following through and not sitting in the information gathering phase for too long.
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  I see this all the time.
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  You are consuming, you are learning, you are gathering information.
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  You are listening to the podcast, you're reading the books.
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  You, you're doing the courses, but then you are not doing anything with it.
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  You've got a saved folder on your phone or in your Instagram full of inspiration, but you are not actually going out there and creating the post or creating the offer or doing the thing.
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  All of that information, all of that inspiration only works if you work it.
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  And so often I see this hold spiritual business owners back.
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  You think you need to know more before you act?
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  You think you need another qualification, another course, another something before you'll be ready.
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  I'll be ready.
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  Then I'll be ready after I do X, Y, Z.
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  No.
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  How about we use what you've got right now and we make it work for you?
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  It doesn't mean that courses or learning or information is bad.
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  We wanna be doing our research.
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  We wanna be well resourced.
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  We wanna be inspired, we wanna be continuing to improve our craft.
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  But there comes a point where more information, more learning is not the answer, and it is the thing that is holding you back.
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  And it's really sneaky.
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  It's a really sneaky way that your brain is trying to keep you safe, because researching and information gathering is safe.
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  You're not pushing the boundaries.
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  You're not putting yourself out there in a new or different way.
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  You're not doing something new.
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  Doing that is scary.
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  So our brain goes, let's just stay safe in our little bubble of learning.
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  It'll feel good.
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  It'll feel like we're still being productive.
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  It'll feel like we're still moving towards our goals.
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  It'll still feel like we are doing the right thing, the smart thing, the strategic thing, when actually you are just cock blocking yourself from doing what you really wanna do.
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  At some point, you need to stop information gathering and actually move.
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  You need to actually implement what you already know.
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  Do the thing you are too scared to do right now, and I bet you know what that is.
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  What is it that you are afraid to do?
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  What is it that you have been too scared to put out there?
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  What is it that you have been too afraid to say?
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  What if instead you just bet on yourself and you trusted that you know enough right now as you are to get out there and do it, try put some effort in.
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  Push those boundaries and trust me, you will still learn.
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  You will still learn in the doing, and it will actually move you forward.
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  That is where you build your confidence.
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  That is where you learn what works, what doesn't, what feels good, what doesn't feel good, what's aligned, what's not aligned in the actual doing.
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  You've gotta stop just thinking about it and actually go and do it.
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  That is number two, the energy of implementation.
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  Number three is the energy of doing it.
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  Scared because honestly, the mindset stuff, the mindset wobbles, they're not going anywhere.
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  As a business owner of 10 years, trust me, there will always be mindset work to do.
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  Being in business is going to stretch you, and then it will stretch you again and again and again.
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  I was actually just chatting about this with a client today.
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  Even when we've got the evidence, even when we've had the results, we think that's going to mean next time our mindset would calm the fuck down, but our brain, our inner critic, it is a sneaky little thing.
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  It often finds other ways to bring up that fear, like, oh, you did it once, but maybe that was just a fluke.
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  Could you really do that again?
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  I don't think you could do that again.
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  I don't think that's possible for you.
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  Maybe you've kind of run out your luck.
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  I think that's it for us.
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  We are done and you have to be able to catch yourself in that moment and go, yes, brain.
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  Thank you for that very unhelpful thought.
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  I hear you, but I have decided that I am doing this anyway and I am choosing to focus on the fact that I have in fact done this before and I have learned some things and what if instead I can actually do it again, and maybe I can do it even better this time.
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  You need to be able to have that conversation with yourself.
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  You need to be able to coach yourself through these moments and know that you are bringing that fear along for the ride anyway.
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  You are doing it, so you're doing it scared and that's okay.
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  It's okay for that fear to exist.
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  It's okay for those thoughts to come up, but are you letting that hold you back?
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  Absolutely not.
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  Girlfriend, you are moving and you are not waiting until you've done the mindset work or until you are not scared to do it anymore.
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  No, it does not work like that.
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  Absolutely do the mindset work.
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  Absolutely lean on your practices.
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  Absolutely have a conversation with your coach or with a trusted person.
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  Just make sure that they are someone who can hold that for you without making it mean anything.
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  But also at the same time as all of that, keep moving.
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  Do it Scared.
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  Contrary to popular opinion in the spiritual space.
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  I don't think you need to be fully in alignment in all of the ways before you move forward.
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  You don't need to clear the fear or clear the self-doubt first.
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  You don't need to feel 100% ready or 100% confident first.
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  That will only slow you down or it will stop you in your tracks altogether.
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  Fear, self-doubt, overthinking.
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  It rarely means that anything is actually wrong.
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  Sometimes there might be a few strategy tweaks that do come out of it, but for the most part, it's our brain trying to keep us safe.
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  We have been wired to stay in our comfort zone, but as business owners, we are constantly pushing that envelope.
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  So feel those feelings, have those thoughts.
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  It doesn't mean that anything is wrong.
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  It doesn't mean you need to stop what you're doing until you can clear it all away.
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  It doesn't mean that whatever it is that you're doing is not working.
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  It means that you are growing and that can be uncomfortable, but you can't let it stop you.
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  So that's number three, the energy of doing it scared.
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  If you wanna actually grow your business in 2026, this is the energy you need to be in.
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  You need to be in the energy of deciding of implementation and of doing it anyway.
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  Doing it scared, doing it with the self-doubt, doing it no matter what.
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  And I know I haven't exactly been gentle with this today, but I really wanted to just come in and give it to you straight.
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  So if you are listening to this and you are feeling maybe a little called out, maybe you resonate with some of this behavior, please know that I do see you and I do feel you.
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  I have been working with women for 10 years now.
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  There is very little I haven't seen when it comes to the mindset staff that our brains can throw at us.
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  There is nothing wrong if any of this has been happening, but I want you to move.
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  I wanted to share this with you today because I want you to move.
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  This is why the mindset piece is such a big part of the work that I do with my clients inside the mistress mind.
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  Yes, I support you with your strategy, your offers, your marketing, all of those very important business things.
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  But I also support you with your mindset and your energy and your identity, making those decisions.
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  Actually implementing, having the support to follow through and keep moving when you do have those mindset wobbles, because those mindset wobbles do happen.
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  They happen to all of us, and my clients regularly ask me for a pep talk.
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  One of my clients this week just said, Beck, I need a bit of a pep talk.
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  I need to know that this is actually possible for me.
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  And of course, I told her.
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  Yes, it is.
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  It is absolutely possible for you, just like it is you, the listener.
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  You don't need to gather more information at this point.
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  You likely need the support to execute and move forward on your goals.
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  So if that's something that you do want support with, if you are ready to stop sitting on the sidelines.
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  If you are ready to actually build the business that you say you want, then come and join us inside the mistress mind.
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  This is the space for you.
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  The space for spiritual business owners who are ready to grow in 2026.
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  Doors are open now.
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  We have a special offer running for this week only.
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  So you can head on over to bec zillow.com/mistress mind and jump in.
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  Or if you wanna have a conversation about it first, come and send me a DM at Beck Zillow.
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  My dms are always open.
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  I would love to chat with you about how I can support you to actually get moving.
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  And that brings us to the end of this fiery little episode for you today.
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  I hope that you are feeling inspired, lit up, ready to decide and move and get out of your own way and make it happen because it is so possible for you.
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  You do not need any more information at this point.
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  You need to go out there and I. I am here to support you if you want support with that.
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  Now, don't forget to bookmark this episode.
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  Save it for a future date when you might need a little pep talk.
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  Again, we all have those days and let me know if you enjoy these kinds of pep talk episodes.
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  Let me know if you did feel called out at any point.
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  Please know that if that is the case, you did likely need it.
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  And I trust that you will have received this in the loving fiery energy that I am sending it out to you because I am sharing this with so much love.
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  I see you, I feel you.
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  But I also know that we all need a KickUp the bum sometimes.
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  So please receive this in the energy that it is being sent out and know that it is so possible for you.
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  I am sharing this because I want you to move.
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  I want you to get out of your own way and make it happen.
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  Thank you as always for tuning in.
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  I love you.
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  I appreciate you and I will see you next time on the Feminine Fire Podcast.