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Gabe always feels like somebody's watchinggggg hiiiiim · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: I Gabe, I thanks for taking my call.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I just I need an outside opinion. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I'm going a little nuts and starting to mess
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  Speaker 1: with my head. But so my girlfriend and I we
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  Speaker 1: have these little cameras in the apartment just for a
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  Speaker 1: peace of mind, to watch the dog. I could just
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  Speaker 1: like nothing crazy. But recently she brought up that when
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  Speaker 1: I'm gone or I'm sorry, when she's gone, that she
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  Speaker 1: she watches me on them, not just like a quick
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  Speaker 1: check in, but like watches watches what I'm doing a lot.
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  Speaker 1: And she's brought up specific things I've done when I'm home,
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  Speaker 1: like what I'm eating when I nap. Sometimes I change
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  Speaker 1: out of clothes. She calls that out and comments on
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  Speaker 1: the outfit. Like one time I was I was heating
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  Speaker 1: up leftovers and she texted me while I was eating
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  Speaker 1: them up, being like, don't eat that, order something else.
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  Speaker 1: So she's watching me in real time.
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  Speaker 3: It's not like she's not telling you about it though.
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  Speaker 3: It's not like she's being But that's.
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  Speaker 4: So weird, Like nobody wants to be watched constantly. You
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  Speaker 4: know what's the funny is my husband, he works from home,
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  Speaker 4: but he used to have a camera in his office,
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  Speaker 4: and like when I would call him and he wouldn't
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  Speaker 4: pick up, I would look to see what he was doing,
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  Speaker 4: and he'd just be like saying there working, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: what are you doing? She'd be picking up by phone call,
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  Speaker 4: and he moved the camera.
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  Speaker 1: So maybe that's.
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  Speaker 4: An option for you.
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  Speaker 3: You can just move the spot.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the comfort she has with watching me, it's
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  Speaker 1: like it's a non issue for her. But the thing is,
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  Speaker 1: like I've I've already been having some doubts about her relationship.
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  Speaker 3: That's why.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, the thing is it's relevant because she has
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  Speaker 1: she's a little controlling, you know, to say, and she
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  Speaker 1: always needs to know where I am, who I'm with,
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  Speaker 1: what I'm doing. And now it's like that has been
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  Speaker 1: transferred to my own home. I feel like I can't
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  Speaker 1: even relax in my own house.
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  Speaker 4: Oh that's not good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels I don't know if I'm well, listen,
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  Speaker 1: that's why I called. I don't know if I'm overreacting, overthinking,
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  Speaker 1: or if this is a genuine huge red flag.
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  Speaker 2: I think you got to set some sort of camera
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  Speaker 2: boundaries or something, or you know, do some things on
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  Speaker 2: camera that's gonna bother the hell out of it, Like
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  Speaker 2: what like, maybe you got a little excited watching a
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  Speaker 2: rerun a euphoria and you like grab the tissues out.
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  Speaker 2: You're like, oh, sorry, you don't want to see.
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  Speaker 4: That, and now she has a hate first or Sidney Sweeney,
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  Speaker 4: I think the biggest red flag is the controlling part.
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  Speaker 4: And this is taking into like a whole new level
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  Speaker 4: for you. So I think if the relationship is going
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  Speaker 4: to move on in any sort of healthy way, that
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  Speaker 4: has to be addressed.
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  Speaker 3: Don't you think that the line would be somewhere like
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  Speaker 3: you're heating up a leftover and she's like, don't eat that,
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  Speaker 3: order something else that's weird. Okay, hold on, tell me,
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  Speaker 3: let me live my life here, go do whatever it
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  Speaker 3: is that you're supposed to do.
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  Speaker 2: You know, the other person I know that has cameras
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  Speaker 2: like that in their house. I don't know if you do, Rich,
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  Speaker 2: But is Kyle, what's that like said? Is that that
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  Speaker 2: has cameras in their house? Do you have cameras in
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  Speaker 2: your hospital?
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  Speaker 3: I don't have cameras in my house, but I know
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people that do.
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  Speaker 2: Really I kind of want that, but I'm too lazy
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  Speaker 2: to do it.
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  Speaker 3: I do, but I very rarely check them for anything.
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  Speaker 2: You have cameras in your house in your house, Wow,
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  Speaker 2: what's like for you, Kyle? Like you ever? I wonder
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  Speaker 2: there cameras in your house that you don't even know
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  Speaker 2: about your husband.
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  Speaker 4: Has probably I don't know how they all are. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I mean to me, it's not really weird because like
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  Speaker 4: we only really look at them like if actually they're
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  Speaker 4: pretty awesome. Because we've lost a couple of things and
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  Speaker 4: we go back and look at the camera and be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: last time we know we had it, it was this time,
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  Speaker 4: we'll go back and we found it several times. Several times.
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  Speaker 4: That's been actually very helpful. But we don't generally use
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  Speaker 4: it to spy on each other. Only sometimes I have it.
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  Speaker 2: We have cameras all outside my house, and it is
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  Speaker 2: so complicated I have to make a huge effort to
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  Speaker 2: rewind and watch something. Yeah, like you guys, I love
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  Speaker 2: the cameras you guys have someday anyway, A Gabe, thanks
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  Speaker 2: for sharing that with us. Man, that's frustrating game.
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  Speaker 3: We think it's a red We'd like to watch you though,
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  Speaker 3: as well.
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  Speaker 2: If you could go there the password to get in,
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  Speaker 2: I Gabe, Thanks brother,