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Is Payton ANY more prepared for her wedding than last time? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 2: talking about last year. If the one and only.
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  Speaker 3: Rich wakes it's John Jay and Rich on this beautiful Wednesday.
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  Speaker 3: his wife Blake, so he will join us in a
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  Speaker 2: But we are we are all here.
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  Speaker 3: I was actually kind of reading this article Kyle that
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  Speaker 3: reminded me of something that you told us yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: In the headline is it's in People magazine.
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  Speaker 3: A woman is annoyed that her husband gave his coworker
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  Speaker 3: a three hundred dollars gift despite not being invite to
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  Speaker 3: the wedding. And the person got married was his work wife,
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  Speaker 3: not invited to the wedding, low work wife three hundred
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  Speaker 3: dollars and his actual wife not workwife. Real wife is like,
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  Speaker 3: well you weren't even invited to the wedding. That's kind
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  Speaker 3: of sucking.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like that's real messy territory.
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  Speaker 5: Like if your wife doesn't want you buying a gift
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  Speaker 5: for your work wife, there's a problem there. Yeah, if
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  Speaker 5: you're spending three hundred dollars on your work wife, there's
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  Speaker 5: probably a problem there.
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  Speaker 3: Now he's saying that they've got like this work this
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  Speaker 3: work email, like it's like Slack where you can all
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  Speaker 3: jump in. And her registry was posted on snap on
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  Speaker 3: that that that that website like Monday or workday or
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  Speaker 3: whatever it is, and he just clicked on the registry
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  Speaker 3: and like, oh, this would be kind of cool even
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  Speaker 3: though we're not going. She's nice enough, let's buy her
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  Speaker 3: a present.
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  Speaker 5: I think No, I think it's totally nice to get
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  Speaker 5: someone like I did. Like that's what I shared with
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  Speaker 5: you guys. I actually bought someone that I know a
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  Speaker 5: wedding gift. I wasn't invited the wedding, but I wanted to, like,
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  Speaker 5: you know, gave a congratulations and just like say I'm
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  Speaker 5: so happy for you too.
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  Speaker 4: And that kind of thing.
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  Speaker 6: And you guys all thought it was so weird.
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  Speaker 5: Except Peyton, who was like I want people to get this.
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  Speaker 6: I want more friends. Like Kyle, we are not invited
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  Speaker 6: to the wedding, but she still said gift.
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  Speaker 3: Oh god, I can't invite everybody heard.
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  Speaker 5: So I shared the whole story on her afterwards podcast,
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  Speaker 5: which you can get anywhere you listen to podcasts, and
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  Speaker 5: it's actually a pretty cool podcast that we did.
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  Speaker 4: It was it was a talking stick Resort, which is
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  Speaker 4: the first time we've ever.
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  Speaker 5: Done the podcast off campus, which was kind of fun.
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  Speaker 4: It was it was adventurous for me. You're too high.
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  Speaker 5: Right after we did the podcast, I went and actually
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  Speaker 5: delivered that wedding gift to this person who got married,
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  Speaker 5: and she texts she was at work, so I just
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  Speaker 5: left it. She was busy at work, so I just
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  Speaker 5: left it there and I got a text from this
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  Speaker 5: morning and.
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  Speaker 4: She was like, Wow, I'm so grateful, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 4: And I think, like, that's like my love language. She's
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  Speaker 4: like giving gifts.
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  Speaker 5: So maybe that's in the article that you read, that's
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  Speaker 5: his love language. But the problem is when your wife
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  Speaker 5: has an issue with it and your wife wasn't in
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  Speaker 5: on that decision, Yeah, that's shady, Like that's where I
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  Speaker 5: would have it an issue.
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  Speaker 3: Have you, Kyle, ever done that before? Got a present
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  Speaker 3: for somebody? Are present apprized for a wedding that you
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  Speaker 3: weren't invited to or is this the first one?
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  Speaker 4: No, I've done that before.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that I ever have.
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  Speaker 6: I've never heard that, and honestly, I kind of into it.
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  Speaker 7: Do you think that a couple that you did get
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  Speaker 7: the gift for that you didn't get invited to the wedding?
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  Speaker 6: Do you think they felt bad? They're like, I hope not.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, I hope not.
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  Speaker 5: No, No, I don't think so, because it's not like
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  Speaker 5: we are friendly. But it's not like we are the
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  Speaker 5: friends that go to lunch together or do things together,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: It's just like this is someone who does a lot
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  Speaker 4: for me.
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  Speaker 5: But then also at the same time, it's like we're
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  Speaker 5: not We're not on that level.
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  Speaker 4: So I never expected an invite to the wedding. But
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  Speaker 4: I'm also very happy for them.
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  Speaker 7: So I'm like, here, here, you're such a good person.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so just out of curiosity, just because I want
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  Speaker 3: to know if I'm not asking you what you spent,
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  Speaker 3: but say you are getting a gift for a friend,
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  Speaker 3: like you know, the same sex friend or a couple
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  Speaker 3: you know, like, and you're not invited the wedding. What's
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  Speaker 3: the price tag for that? What do you what would
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  Speaker 3: you go up to for a present for a wedding
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  Speaker 3: A gift?
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  Speaker 5: I feel like a good wedding gift is like around
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  Speaker 5: one hundred dollars. I think that's a pretty good wedding
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  Speaker 5: gift because you know, like weddings are extremely expensive. They're
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  Speaker 5: spending a lot of money to have you there, So
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, I feel like around one hundred dollars is.
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  Speaker 4: A good wedding gift budget. So when you.
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  Speaker 5: Said that guy spent was three hundred dollars, I was like, geez.
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  Speaker 5: And I think I actually read that same article and
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  Speaker 5: that same coworker had gone to the wife's baby shower
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  Speaker 5: and gotten her like a twenty dollars gift. But it's
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  Speaker 5: not about the money, like maybe she doesn't make that much,
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  Speaker 5: but the wife made the comparison like she got as
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  Speaker 5: a twenty dollars gift, you got her a three hundred
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  Speaker 5: dollars gift, And I think that was one of the
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  Speaker 5: reasons the wife was upset. But then also I secretly
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  Speaker 5: think that the wife's got a problem with their relationship.
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  Speaker 6: And iably I'm sorry, I'm not letting my man have
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  Speaker 6: a work wife.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I could get icy water. It's kind of
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  Speaker 3: out these days. However, is it tacky for her on
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  Speaker 3: her work website people aren't gonna be invited to put
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  Speaker 3: her wedding register?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: It is, yeah that No.
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  Speaker 5: Come on Amazon, have you registered yet?
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  Speaker 4: Like, where are you at for your wedding?
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  Speaker 2: No? I have not.
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  Speaker 4: Have you guys talked to it, because honestly, like registering
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  Speaker 4: was really fun, we.
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  Speaker 7: Haven't gotten to that point. I've like brought up to Katine.
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  Speaker 7: I would be like, so, like what color suit are
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  Speaker 7: you gonna wear? How are you gonna do your hair?
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  Speaker 7: Are you gonna wear it out? Are you gonna grow
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  Speaker 7: it out and do braids? And He's like, I feel
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  Speaker 7: like we should get a venue first.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna ask you that because we were
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  Speaker 3: in a media aboucher wedding last week. Other than the
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  Speaker 3: date that you would like to be married, that you're
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  Speaker 3: going to send out save the dates for? Is anything
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  Speaker 3: locked in beside your groom?
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  Speaker 4: No, you'rerriam okay, I mean anything at all? Your next
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  Speaker 4: step is go register.
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  Speaker 5: I honestly think because like it was like you literally go, well,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know where I mean you guys, You guys
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  Speaker 5: are at the point where you are eventually going to
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  Speaker 5: move into a new home, and that's the goal. You
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  Speaker 5: guys have to go get any You're gonna need everything
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  Speaker 5: for your house. So you go to Target and write
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  Speaker 5: and they literally give you like a scanner and you
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  Speaker 5: just go scan.
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  Speaker 6: All the stuff they like you.
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  Speaker 5: You you could do it online too, but I think
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  Speaker 5: it's more fun to go in person.
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  Speaker 4: Oh I would love yes, And.
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  Speaker 3: Then you can cross one thing off your list. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: Like you might even put on your wedding registry a
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  Speaker 3: venue to get married.
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  Speaker 2: Well.
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  Speaker 5: And there's also like in that meeting when we were
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  Speaker 5: talking about like the honey fund, if you want to
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  Speaker 5: give your your wedding guests the option of like instead
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  Speaker 5: of a new crock pot, which you might want the
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  Speaker 5: crock pot, you may not want to deal with the
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  Speaker 5: honeymoon stuff. But they have this thing called honey fund
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  Speaker 5: where you pick out, Oh, we're gonna go to Hawaii
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  Speaker 5: for our honeymoon, and on that honeymoon, we want to
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  Speaker 5: do a jet ski excursion and so people can pay
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  Speaker 5: for said justsursion or that kind of thing too.
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  Speaker 6: That's so fun.
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  Speaker 7: No, I definitely need to like lock in and get moving,
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  Speaker 7: but I just really haven't. I think I just like
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  Speaker 7: am not waiting for the stress. But I think the
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  Speaker 7: one thing I need to check off is our save
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  Speaker 7: the dates. But I'm having this issue because I so
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  Speaker 7: diamond in my ring, so I don't want to go
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  Speaker 7: and get the professional pictures taken yet because if I
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  Speaker 7: give them my ring, it's still gonna take them forever
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  Speaker 7: to get it back.
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  Speaker 6: It's all kinds of drama. So I found in.
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  Speaker 7: Gilbert there's like those like vintage photo booths, and I
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  Speaker 7: told kadem on sat on Sunday, I said, let's get
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  Speaker 7: dressed up and let's go try and see if we
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  Speaker 7: can do this vintage photo booth get away with.
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  Speaker 6: It was five.
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  Speaker 7: Dollars to get this picture pointed and then do our
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  Speaker 7: save the date. So these are the pictures.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 6: So it's like one of the half.
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  Speaker 7: And then I was thinking on the backside, that's where
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  Speaker 7: you do the save the date. You put all the
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  Speaker 7: info and then that's what you get in your mail.
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  Speaker 7: You can put that up on your fridge.
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  Speaker 6: Isn't that so cute.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, do you know you know that audio? And it's perfect? Yes,
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 7: I love it because one of the very first pictures
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  Speaker 7: Kadem and I took, we weren't even dating yet, we
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  Speaker 7: went on a date to like Dave and Busters, and
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  Speaker 7: we took it in the photo booth, and there's pictures
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  Speaker 7: of that date on my parents fridge, on my grandma's bridge,
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  Speaker 7: his parents bridge.
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  Speaker 6: So I thought that was like a little nod to us.
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  Speaker 3: This is super fun and every one of these pictures
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  Speaker 3: captures your personality.
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  Speaker 2: We need to stick it up. Can we put it
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  Speaker 2: up on the air.
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  Speaker 6: I'll put it up on John Jaye Rich.
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  Speaker 7: I don't like the bottom one because I feel like
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  Speaker 7: my botox is working too good.
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  Speaker 3: I look crazyble Let's say hello to man who's been
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  Speaker 3: holding to talk about the rudest thing he's ever seen
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  Speaker 3: it a wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead, matt.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. So it was my sister's wedding and
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  Speaker 1: it was in it was a destination wedding and Dominican Republic,
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  Speaker 1: and the ceremony was right next to this beautiful, big
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  Speaker 1: giant pool, and before the reception and all that, my
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  Speaker 1: sister had kind of talked about like, oh, afterwards, we
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  Speaker 1: should like jump into the pool. So we went through
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  Speaker 1: the ceremony, had the reception, and then as we were
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  Speaker 1: getting ready to go over to the pool so that
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  Speaker 1: she and her husband can jump in, one of her
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  Speaker 1: friends already jumped in and was like, everybody, come on,
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  Speaker 1: jump in, like kind of coming away from her. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It was actually unbelievable. So my sister and still jumped
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  Speaker 1: in with her husband. She made sure that the photographer
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  Speaker 1: didn't get her friend in the photo. They actually still
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  Speaker 1: have like a lot of animals. Yeah, but after they
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  Speaker 1: jumped in, the bridal party jumped in, and then more
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  Speaker 1: and more people started jumping in, and eventually all seventy
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  Speaker 1: six people that had attended attended the wedding were in
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  Speaker 1: the pool.
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  Speaker 3: That's cool, and we just we just c g I
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  Speaker 3: out the forget her well it turned out, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 3: think about that. So we're all going into pool at
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  Speaker 3: Peyton's wedding.
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  Speaker 6: I don't even go in public pool, so I don't
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  Speaker 6: think that'll be happening.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Hey man, thanks for your call.