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LOVE STORIES: Jonathan and Harley Knight-Rodriguez, New Kid + Sweet Valley High Star · I Do, Part 2

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  Speaker 1: This is Amy and TJ Love Stories.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome everyone to this episode of Amy and TJ. It's
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  Speaker 2: our special Love Stories series and we have the honor
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  Speaker 2: of being with Jonathan and Harley Knight Rodriguez. I love
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  Speaker 2: a hyphenated last name that speaks to just the union
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  Speaker 2: that we are going to be diving into to find
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  Speaker 2: all about their beautiful relationship Between Jonathan and Harley and
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  Speaker 2: you all. You don't need any introduction because you have
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  Speaker 2: been in our lives for oh so long. But thank
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  Speaker 2: you both for being with us and for being willing
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  Speaker 2: to share all of these private details about your love life.
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  Speaker 2: And everyone listening is so appreciative because we're all more
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  Speaker 2: connected than we think.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true.
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  Speaker 2: We all deal with some of the same stuff, don't we,
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  Speaker 2: in relationships, So we are asking you the same questions
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  Speaker 2: we ask all of our couples. So thank you all
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  Speaker 2: for agreeing. You have no idea what we're about to
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  Speaker 2: ask you.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no, now now, I'm like I'm sweating.
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  Speaker 3: Now oh boy?
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  Speaker 5: All right, and we are going to begin with our
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  Speaker 5: first question. In five words or less, describe your relationship today.
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  Speaker 3: Five words?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, my goodness, amazingly, spectacular, settled.
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  Speaker 1: It could be five or less happy.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: You know, it's just we're at that point in our
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  Speaker 4: age as well as our relationship that you know, it
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  Speaker 4: just feels good. It feels we're not in our twenties
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  Speaker 4: and thirties and battling all the demons that come along
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  Speaker 4: with that.
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  Speaker 3: Like we're in our fifties.
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  Speaker 4: We're settled, we're content, we're happy, we're continually building what
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  Speaker 4: you know, what we started eighteen years ago.
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  Speaker 6: So yeah, all right, so let's go back eighteen years.
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  Speaker 6: So we do that first. Actually, let me get your
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  Speaker 6: five words.
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  Speaker 7: Oh oh god, I'd say I was gonna say settled
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  Speaker 7: as well. Effortless, yeah, content and just growing, growing with
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  Speaker 7: each other. Yeah, growth that the end. Love still love.
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  Speaker 6: So all right, so now let's go back the eighteen
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  Speaker 6: you'll said eighteen years. So I'm curious if you all
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  Speaker 6: can remember this. Who said I love you first?
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  Speaker 7: Oh my god, see it's been that Yeah, it's been
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  Speaker 7: that long.
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  Speaker 4: I don't remember, but I would say it would have
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  Speaker 4: been him, just because I was like in a period
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  Speaker 4: in my life where you know, new kids were.
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  Speaker 3: Getting back together.
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  Speaker 4: I was traveling back and forth to LA I was
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  Speaker 4: really unsure that this would last, you know, just because
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  Speaker 4: of the distance and you know all that, so you
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  Speaker 4: you definitely I'll give it to Hardy.
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  Speaker 7: Well, it took me, yeah, because I was single for
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  Speaker 7: such a long time and I was very just afraid
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  Speaker 7: to get into another relationship. So I've been single part
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  Speaker 7: five years before meeting him, and I was like, I
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  Speaker 7: don't want to meet anyone deal.
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  Speaker 3: My friends had their relationships were you.
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  Speaker 7: Know, on the rocks, and and then I kind of
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  Speaker 7: meet this guy and I was like, oh things have changed.
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  Speaker 7: You know. It was very very unexpected, very and in
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  Speaker 7: pretty much the line.
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  Speaker 3: I was very reserved.
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  Speaker 7: But after a while I would have been the one
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  Speaker 7: to say, okay, here, this is it.
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  Speaker 2: This is Harley. Do you remember the moment. It's funny.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it's you look back eighteen years ago. Do
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  Speaker 2: you remember the moment where you said I love you?
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  Speaker 7: It was it was I remember like the day we
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  Speaker 7: met and everything was so I always say, it's one
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  Speaker 7: of those things that we never That's why I said
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  Speaker 7: effortless at the beginning. It was there was never a
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  Speaker 7: point of like, oh does he really like me? Do
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  Speaker 7: I like him? So it was just seamless, you know.
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  Speaker 7: So There wasn't a significant like I love you, this
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  Speaker 7: is it. I think we always already felt in love
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  Speaker 7: before saying it, so it wasn't almost necessary.
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  Speaker 5: But yeah, so it was just confirmation of what you
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  Speaker 5: already confirmation.
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  Speaker 7: I think we were just older too, and in our
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  Speaker 7: already had been through relationships and it was again I
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  Speaker 7: keep going to effortless, seamless, and yeah, it was just
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  Speaker 7: meant to be.
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  Speaker 6: All right, So we're going to ask you to tap
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  Speaker 6: into the memory again because we're going to go back.
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  Speaker 6: All right, tellas how long how long did you date
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  Speaker 6: before you got engaged? If there was an engagement, how
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  Speaker 6: long did you date before you got engaged? How long
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  Speaker 6: were you engaged before you got married?
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  Speaker 3: Wow, date a long time.
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  Speaker 4: We dated a long time before we go. We got
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  Speaker 4: engaged in twenty sixteen, so that was what's that eight years?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, so we were long distanced for the longest time,
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  Speaker 7: from two thousand and eight all the way up to
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  Speaker 7: twenty eighteen. I mean we were going back and forth,
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  Speaker 7: you know, New York. Yeah, so it was it was
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  Speaker 7: a long process because of our work and we were
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  Speaker 7: on opposite sides of the coast, but we Yeah, twenty
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  Speaker 7: eleven was when we moved to New York and he
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  Speaker 7: was we were going back and forth and then yeah,
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  Speaker 7: we've got engage twenty sixteen.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's it's just funny that, you know, more
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  Speaker 4: than half of our relationship has been not living together.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, if it's if, if it's he you know,
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  Speaker 4: he was in LA for work and then in New
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  Speaker 4: York for work, and I've always had home base here
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  Speaker 4: in Boston. This guy, you know, so and then just
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  Speaker 4: me traveling for work, you know, so you know, thank
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  Speaker 4: goodness for for for patients and trust and understanding that
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  Speaker 4: you know this guy has to you know, go through
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  Speaker 4: all that. And yeah, it's it's been. It's been quite
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  Speaker 4: a journey. And I would say in the beginning I
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  Speaker 4: was worried, you know, because a lot of my past
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  Speaker 4: relationships they just couldn't deal with it. They were like,
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  Speaker 4: what do you mean You're leaving for three months? And
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  Speaker 4: then like, you know, calling every day, what are you doing?
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  Speaker 3: What is the what is that?
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  Speaker 4: So, you know, just to have somebody that's secure, patient,
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  Speaker 4: support of.
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  Speaker 3: It's been amazing.
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  Speaker 1: And the engagement was in twenty sixteen. When did you
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  Speaker 1: actually get married?
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  Speaker 3: We actually are not officially officially married. Oh wait, we
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  Speaker 3: are married, you know, twenty twenty two.
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  Speaker 5: We have in our notes that you got married. What's
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  Speaker 5: up with that?
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  Speaker 4: Well, you know, it's all like we we're married, you know,
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  Speaker 4: it's just you know, we're married.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, but can I ask a question because normally we
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  Speaker 2: don't ask this when you have heterosexual couples, because I
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  Speaker 2: guess maybe wrongly, So we assume the man proposed to
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  Speaker 2: the woman. But was there a proposal? And did one
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  Speaker 2: of you propose to the other? How did you decide
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  Speaker 2: to become fiances? And I guess ultimately yeah, married in air.
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  Speaker 3: Quotes, you know.
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  Speaker 4: And that's funny that, you know, as to man in
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  Speaker 4: a relationship, Like I think we both of us waited
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  Speaker 4: so long because we're like, you know, who.
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  Speaker 3: Proposes, who does this? Who does? Like there's no real rules.
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  Speaker 4: And I just got to a point where we took
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  Speaker 4: a trip to Africa with our with our moms, and
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  Speaker 4: I was like, this is this is the time. So
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  Speaker 4: you know, I ran out and got rings and I
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  Speaker 4: was just like, screw it, you know, let's just do this.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah that's very sweet.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, So now you've been together a long time, so
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  Speaker 6: let's for whatever period of time you would consider your
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  Speaker 6: marriage or maybe even go through your whole relationship. What
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  Speaker 6: segment of it the beginning, maybe you have a specific year,
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  Speaker 6: but over a stretch of time, would you go back
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  Speaker 6: and you point to like, wow, that was the best
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  Speaker 6: time of our relationship and it might be right now,
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  Speaker 6: you know what.
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  Speaker 4: The whole time has been the best, you know, I mean,
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  Speaker 4: I think that's what life's all about, if you you
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean. We go through some hard times
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  Speaker 4: in life and relationships, but personally we've we've never had that.
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  Speaker 4: It's just been since day one, just you know, a
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  Speaker 4: growing and different stages of our relationship.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, the first.
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  Speaker 4: Stage was the long distance and then you know, we
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  Speaker 4: spent a lot of years traveling together. And uh when
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  Speaker 4: we say we're settled now because we just built a
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  Speaker 4: brand new house, uh moved in a couple of months ago.
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  Speaker 3: So we're you know, we're we're we have roots now.
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  Speaker 4: So this is just a whole new journey now of
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  Speaker 4: of you know, having well we've we've had a lot
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  Speaker 4: of homes together.
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  Speaker 7: But yeah, but this was you know how they say,
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  Speaker 7: like building a home, it's almost you get divorced over
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  Speaker 7: over these things. But it was you know, we work
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  Speaker 7: through it. We respect each other's ideas and stuff. And
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  Speaker 7: so this was the house that we just moved to,
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  Speaker 7: was built from the ground up. So you know, there
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  Speaker 7: was a lot of things that were like I don't
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  Speaker 7: like this, I'll but you know, we made it, made
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  Speaker 7: it through, you know, and there's so many other things
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  Speaker 7: that we've gone through that that it's just a mutual
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  Speaker 7: respect and we just well we can get through get
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  Speaker 7: through anything.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm curious, having spent so much time long distance
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  Speaker 2: and now being together. What's harder being a part or
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  Speaker 2: constantly being together?
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  Speaker 3: I hate being a part.
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  Speaker 4: Like He'll go I go away for months at a time,
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  Speaker 4: he goes away for one day and I'm like cry baby,
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  Speaker 4: calling him, like, well.
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  Speaker 7: We get you know, you get into your rituals, you know,
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  Speaker 7: your habits of you know, in the morning, you do
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  Speaker 7: this that that, you know, take the dog out and.
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  Speaker 3: So and so.
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  Speaker 7: When he goes was you know, on tour or something,
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  Speaker 7: it's the first few days it's like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 7: we're already you know, everything gets scrambled up. But then
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  Speaker 7: it's then you settled in. You're like, okay, it's nice
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  Speaker 7: to have a little bit of space, you know, a
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  Speaker 7: time away from each other and then you come back.
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  Speaker 7: So when we were, you know, living apart from each
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  Speaker 7: other for such a long time, every time we saw
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  Speaker 7: each other it was like a honeymoon. You know, it
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  Speaker 7: was like that honeymoon phase every time. So you know,
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  Speaker 7: he would come to LA for two three weeks a
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  Speaker 7: month and it was just bliss and then leave and
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  Speaker 7: so you know, we didn't really fight. Everything was amazing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: but now we understand each other. We you know, there
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  Speaker 7: are times when you know, we we disagree on stuff,
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  Speaker 7: but then and then he goes. You know, he's usually
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  Speaker 7: outside on the tractor, like for eight hours a day anyway,
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  Speaker 7: So we have our space there.
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  Speaker 6: You know, wow, on the tractor. Didn't know the tractor
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  Speaker 6: was just coming into this. That's a different episode.
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  Speaker 1: We'll have to time.
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  Speaker 6: We have a question, all right, we're gonna know now
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  Speaker 6: switch to now a little segment you kind of tee
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  Speaker 6: us up there having to do with fights and disagreements.
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  Speaker 6: Every couple deals with it. But we'll start out with
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  Speaker 6: the light one. What's the do you have a daily disagreement,
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  Speaker 6: a minor little annoyance or something with each other or
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  Speaker 6: a disagreement for us, I like sleeping with the TV on.
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  Speaker 6: She absolutely hates it. We're not fighting about it every day,
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  Speaker 6: But do you have a little thing around that house
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  Speaker 6: that you kind of a little annoyance that a daily disagreement?
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  Speaker 3: Almost? First of all, TV's in the bedroom are the
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  Speaker 3: worst get rid of. That is so bad.
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  Speaker 4: We purposely did not put a TV in our bedroom.
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  Speaker 4: I think, I think, I think the only daily annoyance
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  Speaker 4: is at nighttime, you know, after you know, we're done
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  Speaker 4: working around the farm and we come in light a fire.
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  Speaker 3: We sit for like an hour trying to decide what
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  Speaker 3: to watch.
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  Speaker 4: And that's that's probably the biggest daily controversy that we have.
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  Speaker 7: And then I'll call a seve about five minutes into
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  Speaker 7: it and it's wide away right in to watch, and
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  Speaker 7: I'm just like boom, and then he gets annoyed.
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  Speaker 3: Now you have to rewind it.
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  Speaker 7: You'll watch, you know, two episodes of something.
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  Speaker 3: I have to catch up now.
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  Speaker 6: Is it because you all can't agree, like you like
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  Speaker 6: to watch different things, or it just takes forever to
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  Speaker 6: just make a decision.
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  Speaker 3: No, there's too much on TV now.
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  Speaker 4: I want to go back to the time when I
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  Speaker 4: was eighteen when we had you know, five networks and
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  Speaker 4: what was on and now it's just it's too much,
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  Speaker 4: it's way too much.
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  Speaker 5: What do you usually end up watching? Do you have
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  Speaker 5: a favorite? I'm just curious.
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  Speaker 4: Right now, we're watching land Man, which is amazing, but
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  Speaker 4: the Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: We watch a lot of stuff like true crime.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and then we like the true crime.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, the true crime is good as long as as
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  Speaker 3: long as they're not a documentary made about me. True crime, Oh.
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  Speaker 5: God, exactly, exactly. As long as it's not about you,
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  Speaker 5: it's all it's all good. I'm curious.
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  Speaker 2: So how often do you all fight or have just
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  Speaker 2: an argument or even a disagreement. It doesn't have to
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  Speaker 2: be major, but how often do you squabble?
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  Speaker 3: So rare?
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  Speaker 4: And you know, it's funny because when I met him,
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  Speaker 4: you know, my past relationships they were.
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  Speaker 3: Very volatile and we would fight like crazy.
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  Speaker 4: And met him and he's just so like, you know, whatever,
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  Speaker 4: let's talk about it and let's work through it.
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  Speaker 3: He's so even keeled.
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  Speaker 4: That when I first met him, I was like, there's
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  Speaker 4: something wrong, like this.
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  Speaker 3: Is not normal. And then you know, you're you know, not.
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  Speaker 4: Even a few months in I was like, Okay, this
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  Speaker 4: is this is what relationships about. You know, you you
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  Speaker 4: you have to communicate and you have to be upfront
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  Speaker 4: and and express your feelings, but you don't have to
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  Speaker 4: do it in a way that is mean or you know,
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  Speaker 4: detrimental to your relationship.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you respect exactly.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean the only things that we would like
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  Speaker 7: maybe just like building the house, like colors and stuff
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  Speaker 7: like that, you know what I mean, Like he really
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  Speaker 7: wants this, I'm like, eh, I hate it, and vice versa.
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  Speaker 7: But then we finally figure something out or we just
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  Speaker 7: don't do it and then we'll come back to it
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  Speaker 7: later at a later date.
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  Speaker 6: Now, you all have been together quite a while. Everybody
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  Speaker 6: has bumps in the road, But is there ever a
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  Speaker 6: time it could have been specific or maybe been over
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  Speaker 6: a period of time, that you all actually got close
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  Speaker 6: to calling it quits on your relationship.
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  Speaker 3: We're boring. We are so boring.
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  Speaker 7: If not, wow, after yeah, it's been eighteen years. And
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  Speaker 7: usually they say, you know, like every seven years you
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  Speaker 7: get that that, but we've never gotten to. Maybe it
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  Speaker 7: is because we have the space. You know, he goes
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  Speaker 7: off the tour and we I think maybe if we
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  Speaker 7: were together twenty four to seven, for like a whole year,
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  Speaker 7: we are parted.
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  Speaker 3: You know what.
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  Speaker 4: I know when we lived in Manhattan, we had a
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  Speaker 4: seven hundred square foot one bedroom apartment.
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  Speaker 3: That was tough. That was tough.
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  Speaker 4: And I think if we stayed in New York in
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  Speaker 4: a tiny apartment, like you said, if we're on top
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  Speaker 4: of each other every single day, oh, it would be yeah, game.
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  Speaker 2: On babe, right there, Like wait a minute, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: we know it's crazy. We were like for years fighting
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  Speaker 2: to just hang with each other and just have a
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  Speaker 2: lunch with each other as friends, and now we're like, wow,
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  Speaker 2: we are together twenty four seven. So yeah, there are
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  Speaker 2: child Yeah that right there.
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  Speaker 1: Only provacy I got this week is when I took
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  Speaker 1: a shower. That was it.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, he's not even kidding, Like that's it. Manhattan,
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  Speaker 5: New York City apartment. There's no outdoor space.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, and when it's negative four feels like negative
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  Speaker 2: four outside, you ain't going anywhere. All right.
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  Speaker 6: Let's turn to the household, now, fellas. Some of the
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  Speaker 6: chores that people do around the house, the cooking, the cleaning,
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  Speaker 6: the laundry, how do you all divide it up? Who
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  Speaker 6: those three main categories who's the Okay, I guess that
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  Speaker 6: was either yeah, hand goes up.
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  Speaker 4: No, Well we agree. I do the outside, he does
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  Speaker 4: the inside. So it's you know, and thank goodness he
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  Speaker 4: does because I walk in the closet and them t
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  Speaker 4: shirts are folded up, just amazing.
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  Speaker 3: He's obsessed with me.
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  Speaker 7: He hates the laundry, and I'm like, oh, this is
• 17:50
  Speaker 7: actually yeah, not fun, but Mary's zen for me. I
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  Speaker 7: get into it and then he thank god, he has
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  Speaker 7: a green thumb. He's you know, like I said before
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  Speaker 7: the tractor, he's always, you know, fixing things outside. So
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  Speaker 7: I said, I would never be able to touch that.
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  Speaker 7: So you deal with that and I'll deal with the inside.
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  Speaker 7: So that it works out really well.
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  Speaker 5: That works so well.
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  Speaker 2: I love that strategy inside outside, But that works.
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  Speaker 1: The best and simplest scenario I've heard any couple. I
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  Speaker 1: got the outside.
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  Speaker 5: I love that.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on date nights? Do you all
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: make or prioritize times where you actually go out and
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: focus on your relationship.
• 18:33
  Speaker 7: We haven't done that in a while, especially with a dog.
• 18:38
  Speaker 7: Our son go ahead and get out of here, our needy,
• 18:41
  Speaker 7: our needy dog. But but he's got three But before
• 18:46
  Speaker 7: we would always, you know, we'd go out to dinner
• 18:49
  Speaker 7: and and and that would be like like our date night.
• 18:53
  Speaker 7: We wouldn't we wouldn't set set a certain night, but
• 18:57
  Speaker 7: we would we would go out, you know, in the
• 18:59
  Speaker 7: neighbor would and go to the local restaurant and stuff.
• 19:02
  Speaker 7: But now that we have this one, now we understand,
• 19:07
  Speaker 7: like you know, families with kids, we understand like, oh,
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: date night is seldom. It's very really forced yourself.
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean I I you know, we make
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: a point of every night to sit on the couch
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: and spend time together.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: And you know.
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: Our other house, we have no TVs, no internet, so
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: we just go there, we light a fire and talk
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: and it's it's so amazing, Like I know, we're just
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: out there and.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: It's just us.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I love that two people who made their livings and
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: make their livings in the entertainment industry have chosen to
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: have zero entertainment around them when it comes to downtime.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: I guess that does make sense, because that is kind
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: of like bringing work into your home.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: No, And just nowadays we're just we're bombarded and it's
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: just we need to put that all aside and just
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: really reconnect as humans, and I just I don't think
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: we do that enough, and it's just getting worse.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: And the kids now, I mean, I can't even imagine
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: being a kid now. Like it's just it's too much,
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: too much.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: Now, do you all have any rules in your relationship?
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Some people like, for instance, one of the rules that
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: you hear all the time is.
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: We never go to bed angry.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: Or we never curse when we're upset with each other,
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: or we'll never threaten to leave or end the relationship
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: in an argument. Do you all have any of those
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: types of boundaries or rules in your relationship.
• 20:41
  Speaker 7: It's never been a set rule, but it just kind
• 20:44
  Speaker 7: of came naturally where, especially when he's gone out of
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: town or whatever, we call each other's sa good night
• 20:53
  Speaker 7: every single night. There has maybe there's been one because
• 20:57
  Speaker 7: of something that happened, you know, like he was somewhere
• 21:00
  Speaker 7: there was no reception, like on a cruise or something
• 21:04
  Speaker 7: that they do. But but besides that, every single night
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: we'll say good night, I love you, yeah, And so
• 21:11
  Speaker 7: that that's been a constant.
• 21:14
  Speaker 6: What do you all think about that idea of some
• 21:17
  Speaker 6: say they refuse to go to bed angry.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Some therapists will tell you that's a bad idea. What
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: do you all think about it?
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think you should go to bed angry.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: I mean, and it's it's just you deal with what's
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: making you angry, you know, talk about it. There's no
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: reason in the world you have to be angry. I mean,
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: life is short, so you know, work it out. Communication
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: is key, and.
• 21:46
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you're gonna carry it on the next day. And
• 21:48
  Speaker 7: then it just keeps getting bigger and bigger and bigger,
• 21:50
  Speaker 7: even if it's not. You don't have to say like, oh,
• 21:53
  Speaker 7: I'm sorry and communicate, maybe even just a physical touch
• 21:58
  Speaker 7: before saying you know what, before you know, before you
• 22:01
  Speaker 7: take good night, just a touch or a kiss saying
• 22:04
  Speaker 7: you know it's gonna be okay. You know, it doesn't
• 22:07
  Speaker 7: have to be well for us. It doesn't have to
• 22:08
  Speaker 7: be a big conversation if it's not too big.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: But what I'm just curious because it doesn't sound like
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: you all fight very often, which is pretty awesome, that's remarkable.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: But if and when you do, what is it typically over?
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Do you have a theme or something that you go
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: back to, or is it just silly kind of stuff
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: that you can easily let go.
• 22:30
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's it's like silly stuff and it's.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll be something.
• 22:37
  Speaker 7: Let's say he'll leave clothes on the floor instead of
• 22:40
  Speaker 7: the hamper, you know, right, the hamper's right there, all
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: the dirty clothes.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: A wreck.
• 22:45
  Speaker 7: So it's like, you know, it's like really it's right there,
• 22:48
  Speaker 7: you know. But stuff like that, it's it's it's stuff
• 22:51
  Speaker 7: that you can get over.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: But yeah, it's tiny little stuff like that. There's quirks, no,
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: and it is pretty amazing.
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: And you know, we tell friends and they think we're crazy,
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: but really we don't argue, we don't disagree.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: It's it's really this is a match made in heaven.
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: It's been the most amazing eighteen years of being together
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: as a couple, you know, but still having our separate
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: lives and just loving and respecting and understanding each other
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: and working through issues.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't I don't know.
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: It's you would have to like punch me or through me,
• 23:36
  Speaker 7: like like for it to be like all right now.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: It's a fight.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: You know, I think I might know.
• 23:42
  Speaker 6: This might this next question that we asked every couple
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: seems silly now they don't have a lot of issues.
• 23:46
  Speaker 6: But what do you all think about the idea of
• 23:48
  Speaker 6: couples therapy and have you all ever gone to it?
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: I've gone to a lot of individual therapy, and I
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: think by doing that, I have avoided couple's therapy.
• 24:02
  Speaker 5: I think that's amazing.
• 24:04
  Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, and I believe in it. Yeah, I mean
• 24:10
  Speaker 7: I think at the very beginning it's probably not necessary.
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: I think, if you if you know the red flags
• 24:17
  Speaker 7: and you know you could deal with all right, this
• 24:20
  Speaker 7: is not the right person, we don't have to really
• 24:22
  Speaker 7: go to therapy just but I think down the line
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: in a relationship, I think definitely, you know, because people
• 24:28
  Speaker 7: do change, they evolve and to different people, and maybe
• 24:32
  Speaker 7: you need a therapist to bring it back.
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: And I think you get in a routine where you
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: don't even realize you know your bad behaviors or you
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: know the way you're reacting to your spouse, and then
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: it just escalates and just gets worse and worse. So then, yeah,
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: therapy is good. I think everybody had some therapy.
• 24:56
  Speaker 7: Yeah, have you?
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: And again, doesn't sound like you all fight off And
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: but have there been any aha moments or any great
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: lessons learned about yourself through having any kind of disagreement
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: with the person who you love, this person who you
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: want to spend the rest of your life with. We
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: often talk about being a mirror, like if you really
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: love someone, you can see yourself in a way you
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: didn't before, when you see yourself reflected from the person
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: you love, especially when things aren't going great. Have you
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: learned any lessons as you all have evolved together?
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: We need to start fighting?
• 25:36
  Speaker 7: Yeah, this is this is.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: All foreign to me.
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: That's amazing.
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: Now I'm like, I want to I want to hear
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: the other couples. Yeah, now, any lessons. I mean, I think.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: That this is top.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: But I would say if you had had other it
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: sounds like you, especially Jonathan, may have had other relationships
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: that weren't like the one you have with Harley. Maybe
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: even going through those, what you've learned to appreciate about
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Harley and about and vice versa Harley, about that, maybe
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: you wouldn't have had you not gone through tougher times
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: in other relationships.
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know, I think you know, we're all
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: on a journey in life.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: We all have our own separate journeys.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: Then you put two couples together and you know we
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: are on a journey together, but we're also individuals and
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: we also have, you know, our own journey. If he
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: wants to go to Paris for the week with friends,
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: and I'm kind of like, I don't want to, you know,
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: I'm going to allow him to take the journeys on
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: his life and in the paths and not hold him
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: back and not not hold a grudge or feel left out,
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: you know, And he does the same for me. It's like,
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: you live separate lives, but you also have to live.
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: You you live separate lives, but you also live.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: I hope I'm making sense. You live together. You just
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: have to let your spouse have a life.
• 27:22
  Speaker 7: Yeah, And when you're saying about mirroring. One thing I've
• 27:25
  Speaker 7: learned is is sometimes I guess you're you're maturity in
• 27:29
  Speaker 7: a relationship. Sometimes you think like you want to blame
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: the other person for for something, and then and then
• 27:37
  Speaker 7: I have to take a step back and go, this
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: is something that's it's me, not that that person's living
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: their life. So what is it about me that that
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: that's bothering?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 27:47
  Speaker 7: I mean I've learned that through not even therapy, but
• 27:51
  Speaker 7: online stuff. Online therapy, I guess the things you hear. So,
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: so I've learned, like, you know, he's doing his thing
• 27:58
  Speaker 7: that shouldn't offend me. What's wrong with the way I'm
• 28:03
  Speaker 7: thinking about it?
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: Like, so, so I've learned that as we've gone along,
• 28:08
  Speaker 7: something like bothers me. I'm like, no, he's he's just
• 28:11
  Speaker 7: living his life. He's doing the right thing. Something that's
• 28:14
  Speaker 7: wrong with that I have to deal with? So or
• 28:17
  Speaker 7: not deal with?
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Work on?
• 28:28
  Speaker 6: Where would you say, what's the role of friendship in
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: your relationship? We always asked she and I were literally
• 28:34
  Speaker 6: best friends for years before we ever started dating. And
• 28:37
  Speaker 6: I know friendships can develop after romantic relationships start, But
• 28:40
  Speaker 6: where where's friendship play into ule's romantic your marriage?
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: If you will?
• 28:46
  Speaker 7: Yeah, Well, we always say it's funny because the whole
• 28:49
  Speaker 7: best friend thing. We have our our we don't call
• 28:53
  Speaker 7: each other best friends. You know, we're we have we
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: have our relationship, and but we have of our best friends.
• 29:00
  Speaker 7: There's stuff that we don't tell each other that we
• 29:03
  Speaker 7: tell our best friends. You know what I mean, There's
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: there's different we tell each other stuff, but not every
• 29:08
  Speaker 7: single thing. In that it's almost like your parents. Sometimes
• 29:13
  Speaker 7: you're not your best friend with your parents. No, but
• 29:15
  Speaker 7: do you have a role a different role different?
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: Well it's it's like like parents sometimes when they're like, oh,
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: I'm best friends with my kids. No, you are there.
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: You're the parent and they're the kids. You know, I
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: mean with with friendly.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: But did that come out right?
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: I love that. That's hilarious.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: And in terms of like time apart, I know, Jonathan,
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: you are about to do a Las Vegas residency right, yes.
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: How long is that supposed to last? And how are
• 29:53
  Speaker 5: you all handling that?
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: The Vegas residency is super easy. It's better than tour,
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: you know, tour. I'll get on a bus and I
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: won't be home for three months.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: Vegas two weeks in and out when we're done. So,
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: you know, the past couple of years doing Vegas has
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: just been amazing. You know, it's like you're there, then
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: you get to come home.
• 30:19
  Speaker 7: And then I'll go out and visit or something for
• 30:21
  Speaker 7: a few days. Yeah, so you don't never go more
• 30:25
  Speaker 7: than a month pretty much when he's on the road
• 30:28
  Speaker 7: or doing something that I'll go out and yeah, it's
• 30:31
  Speaker 7: ever been more than a month.
• 30:32
  Speaker 6: So which helps and felts not as a matter of
• 30:35
  Speaker 6: being critical, of any other couple and how they do it.
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: But a lot of people look at successful couples they
• 30:41
  Speaker 6: want to know how they do it, and they also
• 30:42
  Speaker 6: want to know what they're doing wrong. So if you
• 30:44
  Speaker 6: will cam for a moment for couples who are listening,
• 30:47
  Speaker 6: who want a long relationship that doesn't fight, like you
• 30:51
  Speaker 6: will do, what is it you will see in other relationships,
• 30:54
  Speaker 6: maybe one's close to you from a distance, what mistakes
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: do you see other couple making? And you go if
• 31:01
  Speaker 6: they would, just if they would, just do you see
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: kind of a theme these days of relationships that if
• 31:07
  Speaker 6: you could talk to all of them, you would say, hey, guys,
• 31:10
  Speaker 6: be careful of.
• 31:12
  Speaker 7: What Yeah, I see in some couples, like I don't
• 31:16
  Speaker 7: know if you'd considered microaggression, but little things that you're
• 31:22
  Speaker 7: a dinner and in one one person will say to
• 31:24
  Speaker 7: the other little like little jabs.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: So those little.
• 31:27
  Speaker 7: Jabs like there's something there's truth to that, you know,
• 31:31
  Speaker 7: I would say, either talk it out or just because
• 31:36
  Speaker 7: we respect each each other, you know. So so I
• 31:41
  Speaker 7: think mutual respect, if you can find it in each other,
• 31:44
  Speaker 7: would be really important. I would recommend, But that's just
• 31:51
  Speaker 7: my thing. Some some are not meant to be, you.
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: Know, yeah, no, And I mean I think I think
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: communication is a really really big thing. And I think,
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: you know, sometimes couples are afraid to communicate their feelings
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: and they just hold it inside, and then it just
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: builds up. If you can really just express how you
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: feel in the moment or in a situation and just figure.
• 32:17
  Speaker 7: It out, yeah, it becomes passive aggressive. Passive aggressive comments
• 32:22
  Speaker 7: are sometimes okay if there's something bigger there going on,
• 32:25
  Speaker 7: you know.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: A lot of times involved.
• 32:28
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, exactly.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: No one likes to hang out with the Bickersons, just
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: the little verbal jobs that constantly happen. Do you all
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: make any specific effort to keep the spark alive? Do
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: you have to make any special effort to keep the
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: spark alive?
• 32:46
  Speaker 5: After eighteen years.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, every every day, every day, I think
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: is every day is a look at this man. Every
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: day is a spark.
• 33:00
  Speaker 7: We got, like, we'll go on vacations because you know,
• 33:03
  Speaker 7: sometimes like you need to get away with each other,
• 33:07
  Speaker 7: you know, to get away from the daily thing. So
• 33:11
  Speaker 7: you know, we will try to take trips every you know,
• 33:14
  Speaker 7: a couple of times a year as much as we can.
• 33:17
  Speaker 7: But and I think that that keeps some of it alive,
• 33:23
  Speaker 7: like the mundane, because you get into it, you get
• 33:27
  Speaker 7: to the same rituals, the same you know, patterns. And
• 33:32
  Speaker 7: they were like, all right, we need to get out
• 33:33
  Speaker 7: of here. We need some vacation time. Yeah, so that's
• 33:36
  Speaker 7: a good time that we get away. Things are different
• 33:39
  Speaker 7: and it brings back to us, back to like almost
• 33:42
  Speaker 7: when we were at the beginning, you know, like something new.
• 33:45
  Speaker 7: Seeing new things around us too, keeps.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: Fresh a little short honeymoons.
• 33:50
  Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly.
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: What would you say?
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: This sounds like an obvious generic question, but this will
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: kind of wrap it up with this. People look at
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: a couple like you, and to TJ's point, they were like,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: we want to know how to be more like you
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: or how to have a relationship like you. What would
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: you say The key is to your relationship magic, your
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: relationship success. Can you sum it up in any way now?
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: I still do so?
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: No, No, No, I think I think I think we're
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: just both to very laid back people that we don't
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: get rattled much. But also, you know, we make a
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: point of not rattling each other.
• 34:41
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I would say, try not to change the other person.
• 34:46
  Speaker 7: That's one thing that a lot of people going into
• 34:50
  Speaker 7: relationship they already have these expectations of this, this and this,
• 34:55
  Speaker 7: and it's it's not it's not real. So for me,
• 34:58
  Speaker 7: it's just you know, not expectations, but not really high ones,
• 35:03
  Speaker 7: and just yeah, get understanding each other and knowing that
• 35:08
  Speaker 7: I'm not going to change them. I love them for
• 35:10
  Speaker 7: who they are. They have their quirks and like, you know,
• 35:12
  Speaker 7: this gets on my nerves. But besides that, it's let them,
• 35:17
  Speaker 7: let them be. I'm gonna be me, He's going to
• 35:19
  Speaker 7: be him.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: And yeah, well, I mean I think that goes back
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: to the whole thing.
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: Like we're on a journey as a couple, but we're
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: also on journeys individually.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: So you you know, you have to you have to
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: live your life.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: Well, we you all have made our jobs so easy.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: We always we have to do it.
• 35:36
  Speaker 6: Write up to attack, introduce these This is going to
• 35:40
  Speaker 6: be easy. The most loving and boring couple you will
• 35:45
  Speaker 6: ever hear from. You know, it's cool, Look that's awesome.
• 35:53
  Speaker 6: Look exciting is dangerous. Sometimes boring is great.
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: I'm telling you.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: You get like, yes, when you get to a certain age, you're.
• 36:02
  Speaker 5: Like, hallelujah, I want peace. I'll take boring.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: I just want Yeah, loving and boring sounds like heaven
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: to me. So I hear you, We hear you. Once
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: you've lived enough life, isn't that like the goal the
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: dream to understand?
• 36:20
  Speaker 7: Yes?
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: Yes, no, you know, And I look at my life.
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: You know, I was thrown into an adult situation at
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: a very young age, and I learned to like navigate
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: the bs and know who's the bs er.
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: So yeah, you just I don't know where I'm going
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: with this.
• 36:42
  Speaker 7: But when you're younger, yeah, you you want an excitement
• 36:46
  Speaker 7: and this and that and that and yeah, like you're saying, like, no,
• 36:50
  Speaker 7: I want to stay in you.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: Know, don't.
• 36:52
  Speaker 7: It's maybe it's an age thing.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: It's like y'all aren't even Netflix and chilling though you're
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: just five place and talking.
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: I mean, that's a whole other level. I'm impressed. We're
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: both very impressed. But Jonathan and Harley, thank you so much.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: This, by the way, just seriously, because this is something
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  Speaker 2: we really appreciate. We know a lot of people and
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: we understand why don't really want to pull back the
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: curtains into their private lives, into their love lives, because
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: then you open yourself up for scrutiny and people judging.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: So but it's so helpful to see people who have
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: figured it out and made it work and been in
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: crazy situations and been in the positions you all are
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: in and still found a way to make it work,
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: and so we can all learn from you. And we
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: just appreciate you opening up and being vulnerable and being
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: honest and letting us in.
• 37:46
  Speaker 5: So thank you both, and we are.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: So excited to cheer your love on eighteen years in counting,
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: you know, and I.
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  Speaker 3: Love that, the whole vulnerability thing. I mean, so many,
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: like you said, so many people are so afraid of it.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe it's just at my age, like I don't care anymore,
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: Like you got to live your life.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: And we're all.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: Human, we all have we all have our things, and
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: you know, just everybody joined together. And if you hear
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: something you know somebody else is going through this, you're like, oh,
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: I went through that, you know. Just be be together,
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: support each other and just know none of us are perfect.
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: We're all just humans on our journey and support that's
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: that's what one.
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Jonathan and Harley Knight Rodriguez, thank you for being
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: with us.
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  Speaker 5: We appreciate you, guys.
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  Speaker 7: Thank you, guys, all right, thank you.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Really, thank you so much for this.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Valentine's this, this is.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: Really really cool you all.
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  Speaker 6: I think the only other couple it's well, a couple
• 38:52
  Speaker 6: been together longer. We had a couple of all that
• 38:55
  Speaker 6: was married. They've been married seventy five years. He's ninety nine,
• 38:58
  Speaker 6: she's ninety six. So it's cool. It's just such a
• 39:02
  Speaker 6: diversity of couples, and it's the responses are amazing and
• 39:05
  Speaker 6: everybody is gonna feel seen in listening to these. So
• 39:09
  Speaker 6: we are learning a lot from couples because we could
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  Speaker 6: always improve our relationship. So trust me, you all said
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  Speaker 6: plenty that we can apply to our own relationship. Enough
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  Speaker 6: fellas for this, really thank you, thanks, thank you guys.
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  Speaker 7: All right, all right,