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92: Donkey Punch · Wine & Audacity

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  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, h.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So how was that? What are you hold on?
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: What are you doing?
• 0:31
  Speaker 1: Chilling?
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  Speaker 2: What you're looking at? Oh?
• 0:34
  Speaker 1: You know talking to Kitty?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Katy, you but you see shooting gigs? Game ship? Yeah,
• 0:45
  Speaker 2: thank you for ruyding me. She's saying, she started saying
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  Speaker 2: shipping gags. I was about to say gags. I mean,
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: I was.
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  Speaker 3: No pun intended this time. You sure since huh huh, No,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not sure, but I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Sure that would be a fire day for a porn
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  Speaker 2: a movie though.
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  Speaker 1: Ships and gugs, Ships and gags. Nah, He's so stupid me.
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  Speaker 4: No, but I mean I think I talked about this
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  Speaker 4: point when I went to see them back in a
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  Speaker 4: early August I think October now. But it was cool,
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  Speaker 4: but it was kind of like watching your younger brothers
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  Speaker 4: try to be sexy.
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  Speaker 3: Oh god, I saw some videos of James says something
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  Speaker 3: to dance and be sexy the pony, and yeah, did
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  Speaker 3: absolutely nothing for me.
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  Speaker 4: They took the shirts off and they would they would,
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  Speaker 4: you know how So back years ago when on social
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  Speaker 4: media there were videos of all these like teenage boys
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  Speaker 4: grinding on the floor, like hopping up, doing stripper moves.
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  Speaker 2: And like grinding trying to look off.
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  Speaker 4: They did that on the tour, and it just reminded
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  Speaker 4: me that while I enjoy you know, the content, I
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  Speaker 4: am not there talking audience at all, like all.
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  Speaker 2: No, thank you.
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  Speaker 4: So but I mean the concept was good, but it
• 2:09
  Speaker 4: was like they played games at the show and they
• 2:11
  Speaker 4: basically like like talked about like more their history like
• 2:17
  Speaker 4: how they met and they show pictures, which I enjoyed
• 2:19
  Speaker 4: the first segment of the show where they show pictures
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  Speaker 4: like how they met and like them from back in
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  Speaker 4: college and them traveling and told a lot of stories
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  Speaker 4: about Toby and you know, it was a really good part.
• 2:27
  Speaker 4: But they played games with circus center around music and
• 2:29
  Speaker 4: like again, I think I mentioned this when I talked
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  Speaker 4: about less Time. Where as a person who's you know,
• 2:34
  Speaker 4: I've seen several podcasts live from The Read, the friend Zone.
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  Speaker 2: Those podcasts are more about like.
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  Speaker 4: Current events, like they have like actual subject matter aside
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  Speaker 4: from just reacting to things. So I know, especially I'll
• 2:48
  Speaker 4: get use the Read as an example. When the Read
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  Speaker 4: is live. Their live show was pretty much just like
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  Speaker 4: a like a record like a version of their recorder
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  Speaker 4: show where they have a whole segment about pop culture
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  Speaker 4: current events, news whatever, and they talk about it and
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  Speaker 4: they like talk about current events and stuff and it's funny.
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  Speaker 4: And then they go into an extended Q and a
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  Speaker 4: segment from the audience and then theyre going to they read,
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  Speaker 4: whereas James and Food had show or ships and gigs
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  Speaker 4: rather because they mainly are a reaction show based off
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  Speaker 4: of like my girlfriend said this, ha ha ha ha ha,
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  Speaker 4: and the.
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  Speaker 3: Show like Tonight's Conversation. No, they did the questions to
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  Speaker 3: the audience mostly.
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  Speaker 2: But they didn't do questions to the audience. They just
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  Speaker 2: did something completely.
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  Speaker 4: It wouldn't reacting to video clips. It doesn't translate to
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  Speaker 4: a live a live show because you're gonna have a
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  Speaker 4: sitting there watching the screen and y'all, I mean, the
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  Speaker 4: commentary is funny, sure, but they're mainly known for clip
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  Speaker 4: like posting clips and react the reaction to clips into questions. Again,
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  Speaker 4: so that doesn't really translate to a live audience where
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  Speaker 4: you have people in front of you and it's like,
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  Speaker 4: well I saw this clip on Instagram, you know, like,
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  Speaker 4: and it's not to show the show was amazing. I
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  Speaker 4: would merch like I really enjoyed myself, but it just
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  Speaker 4: showed me that for one, I was not the target audience.
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  Speaker 4: So because it was mostly like women. There were a
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  Speaker 4: lot of older folks there, like us my our age
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  Speaker 4: and older. A couple people w there with like their parents,
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  Speaker 4: who like maybeen in like their forties and fifties because
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  Speaker 4: they liked the their content.
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  Speaker 2: But the show was.
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  Speaker 4: Mostly like for women in like the twenties to like
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  Speaker 4: maybe early to mid twenties and like maybe early thirties
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  Speaker 4: at the most. And whenever they took a shout, they
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  Speaker 4: were screaming, oh my god, Jesus fun. And we were
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  Speaker 4: sitting there, me and my friend Jess, who I was
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  Speaker 4: sitting next to, we were like, fie fie.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, yo, this this that's so so sexy.
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  Speaker 3: Well, okay, you know I'm messy. So I asked that
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  Speaker 3: question kind of for a reason. So it's been a
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  Speaker 3: little little controversy apparently, oh Lord about something that they
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  Speaker 3: did back in uh September. We didn't get a chance
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  Speaker 3: to talk about it, kind of slipped out minds about
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  Speaker 3: them being on what was his name Andrews podcast and
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  Speaker 3: he was making some rather derogatory comments about black women
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  Speaker 3: and jameson who Hide found it quite funny.
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  Speaker 4: I just so, okay, there were two things. So the
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  Speaker 4: one thing they were on rewind James and Who Hired.
• 5:21
  Speaker 4: If you're not familiar with Shits and Gigs, it was
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  Speaker 4: one of my favorite still one of my favorite podcasts
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  Speaker 4: to this day. Yeah, but they're mainly know for this
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  Speaker 4: clips on social media where they're they're posing questions to
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  Speaker 4: each other or they watch like they do like reactions
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  Speaker 4: of like videos on the Internet, and the sauce social
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  Speaker 4: sauce there so is their reactions, their relationship with each other.
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  Speaker 4: They tell stories, but their reactions are hilarious and people
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  Speaker 4: have drawn to them because of that and because of
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  Speaker 4: the fact that they seemingly aren't misogynistic. They're just like
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  Speaker 4: two funny guys who are friends from college and whatever whatever.
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  Speaker 4: When they were on their first North American tour, first
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  Speaker 4: of all, they sold out the O two Arena in London,
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  Speaker 4: I think for one night or two nights, and I
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  Speaker 4: think that's a venue of like twenty thousand seats.
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  Speaker 3: That's a podcast.
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  Speaker 4: To sell out a fucking arena is a feat unto itself.
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  Speaker 4: So they actually after that it went well. They sold
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  Speaker 4: out I think one or two nights of the Old
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  Speaker 4: two Arena in London. They then embarked on a North
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  Speaker 4: American tour called Daddy's Home. And I believe I actually
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  Speaker 4: because I mean i'm I'm I'm a member of their
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  Speaker 4: Patreon and I got early accesses to tickets. The tour
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  Speaker 4: sold out pretty much the day of or the day after,
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  Speaker 4: tickets were don't sell Like every stop was basically sold out,
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  Speaker 4: and they had to add second shows in, you know,
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  Speaker 4: to meet to keep up with demand. And it was
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  Speaker 4: it was a damn good show. But again it's like
• 6:41
  Speaker 4: you realize you're not absolutely not I'm not the talk
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  Speaker 4: at audience. So then they're they're young. They're definitely younger
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  Speaker 4: than us. I think James who had to make it
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  Speaker 4: somewhere in the early thirties, maybe thirty two thirty three,
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  Speaker 4: so they're in their thirties with their younger and but
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  Speaker 4: then their target audience was, like I said, mostly women
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  Speaker 4: twenty to twenty to like thirty two that would be interested.
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  Speaker 2: In stuff like that. But I mean, it was cool.
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  Speaker 4: But last month, while they were on their tour here
• 7:07
  Speaker 4: in the States, they were here for in States Flag
• 7:08
  Speaker 4: maybe two months, two and a half months. They did
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  Speaker 4: a lot of guest appearances on like a lot of podcasts.
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  Speaker 4: They were on Horrible Decisions, they were on Poor Minds.
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  Speaker 4: They did Andrew Salter's podcast, I have poor minds and
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  Speaker 4: horrible decisions because I watched their stuff into every once
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  Speaker 4: in a while. I have those episodes saved and I
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  Speaker 4: haven't had a chance to watch them yet. But last month,
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  Speaker 4: first the first thing, the first not Red Flag, but
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  Speaker 4: the first issue popped up where they were on Poor
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  Speaker 4: Minds and the host asked him, like asked them what
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  Speaker 4: their thoughts were of like black women in Atlanta, Like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: y'all seen some baddies, Like, but like, what are your
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  Speaker 4: thoughts on the women in Atlanta? They were like, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we really haven't seen any, seen any boddy since we've
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  Speaker 4: been here, Like, we haven't seen any Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: For me, are their baddies in Atlanta? Yes? Course.
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  Speaker 4: But my thought process, I could kind of excuse that
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  Speaker 4: because again, if they're in town for a tour stop
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  Speaker 4: and they went from the airport to their hotel and
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  Speaker 4: then to a to a venue to record for a
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  Speaker 4: podcast or for to take the show, maybe they weren't
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  Speaker 4: out at like a restaurant or at a bar to
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  Speaker 4: go see the look at women so that I could
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  Speaker 4: kind of kind of understand. You're just at the CBS,
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  Speaker 4: so you're going to you know, quick trip was going
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  Speaker 4: to grab some value wash you serially at the spot
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  Speaker 4: to see like the Lori Harvey's walking around. You know,
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  Speaker 4: you're not out on the scene that I could, I
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  Speaker 4: could understand and forgive that face.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead, you'll go to You'll go to for like
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  Speaker 1: baddies with Lori Harvey?
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  Speaker 2: Is she not? I mean she final? Okay, straight man,
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  Speaker 2: you hold on.
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  Speaker 1: Because subject.
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  Speaker 4: To anyway before we continue. Welcome to this episode of
• 9:02
  Speaker 4: Wine and Audacity the podcast. I'm your host, Brain is
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  Speaker 4: the card, and I'm jump by two of my favorite
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  Speaker 4: people in the world. How are you feeling this week?
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  Speaker 3: I'm cool and I'm chilling.
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  Speaker 2: I'm straight trying to hear cool. I'm sorry, brother, Then
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  Speaker 2: what were you saying?
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like, I don't know me personally.
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  Speaker 1: It's like she wouldn't like she don't really do it
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  Speaker 1: for me.
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  Speaker 2: However I do underside.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Harvey is a that's not bad not bad, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I mean she looks a little man and she she
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  Speaker 1: ate something. She ate a little bit more and.
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  Speaker 4: She gains this nigga like this nigga like big women
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  Speaker 4: like man.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she gave a little way, you know, she
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  Speaker 1: gave about like twenty pounds maybe.
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  Speaker 4: But okay, who said you women that are on social media,
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  Speaker 4: who would you consider to be like baddies like that.
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  Speaker 2: You see on social media?
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  Speaker 5: Uh?
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  Speaker 4: Sullivan, she's a singer, she's not.
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  Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I mean yeah Lynx yeah dsha.
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  Speaker 2: Plunka yeah yeah from Orange is the New Black. I
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  Speaker 2: had to think who that was for a second.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I had to get the picture in my head.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. She just looked I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: mean me personally, like Sean said, like, yeah, I like
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  Speaker 1: I like the thick women's.
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  Speaker 3: Bro you know, they like they're women with some some
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  Speaker 3: some some some some some some fluff.
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  Speaker 2: I was for the record.
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  Speaker 4: I did not say that Lori Harvey Harvey was the
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  Speaker 4: only baddie or the only type of baddie.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 4: But people will say, well, that's right, but you didn't
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  Speaker 4: say the women he just named so, you know, like
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  Speaker 4: the women, but it ain't like.
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  Speaker 2: The discriminated batty is a baddy baby.
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  Speaker 1: If you heard, you know, it's not exclusive. I was
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  Speaker 1: like damn, you know that should go like you know
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  Speaker 1: when you when you think baddie, that's just like that's.
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  Speaker 2: Your that was the first person that popped in my head.
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  Speaker 1: That's all I mean. I mean it's but it isn't tricky,
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  Speaker 1: but it is intriguing too. I mean it is intriguing,
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  Speaker 1: you know, with different people who pop up, like what's
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  Speaker 1: the first like what's the first thought to pop in
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  Speaker 1: your head? Just like whenever you hear whenever you hear music,
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  Speaker 1: like what's the first thing you know, what's the first
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  Speaker 1: thing to pop in your head when you hear whatever song?
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, as far as jameson Wool, I'll go, it's
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  Speaker 1: it's ah for me. Yeah, it's I mean, yeah, they
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  Speaker 1: said they ain't saying they ain't saying no bodies yet.
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  Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like or subjective because
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  Speaker 1: where they've been at you know where they are. It's
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  Speaker 1: it's a plethora of I mean, it's just like it
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  Speaker 1: is in Atlanta. It's a proth it's a plethoro of women.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, we don't know what tickels stay fancy mm.
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  Speaker 2: Hmm, yeah, hm, I get it.
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  Speaker 3: I guess.
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  Speaker 4: So, yeah, they so essentially. I think I mentioned this previously.
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  Speaker 4: I can't remember what I was talking about a couple
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  Speaker 4: seconds ago pre intro. But they while they were in
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  Speaker 4: the States. I can excuse the commons they main no
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  Speaker 4: poor mars because they literally could have not been out
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  Speaker 4: and about to.
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  Speaker 2: Look at women.
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  Speaker 4: They could have literally went to the airport, been to
• 12:05
  Speaker 4: the airbab that didn't start recording stuff. And I have
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  Speaker 4: seen anybody, so that I can understand. But the comments
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  Speaker 4: on Andrew Schutz or they are rather lack of defending
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  Speaker 4: of black women and laughing when he's he's making clear
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  Speaker 4: anti black commentary is concerning.
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  Speaker 2: Agreed.
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  Speaker 3: And I we were talking about this previous to us recording. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and we decided to continue the conversation, and I said
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  Speaker 3: to Brandon, you know, no disrespect to anybody. And you know,
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  Speaker 3: the listeners we may have outside of the United States,
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  Speaker 3: you know, who are you know black like we are
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  Speaker 3: or whatever. But it has been my experience that a
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  Speaker 3: lot of the times black men outside of the United
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  Speaker 3: States don't feel the need to defend American black women. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: that's just my person. Don't come trying to fucking attack me.
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  Speaker 3: That's just my personal experience. I can't speak for anybody else,
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  Speaker 3: but that's just been my personal.
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  Speaker 1: Experience because I mean, well, I understand it because it's
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  Speaker 1: like what y'all got going on over here isn't what
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  Speaker 1: we all going on over there? Like what we all
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  Speaker 1: going on over here is? I mean, I mean, well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's completely different. Like they do they over
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  Speaker 1: there on that side of the on that side of
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  Speaker 1: the pond, they do treat they do treat treat Black
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  Speaker 1: women differently than then then we treat them in America.
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  Speaker 1: How so, I mean, it's it's it's treatment mannerisms like
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  Speaker 1: they don't when they don't have the they don't have
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  Speaker 1: the stereotypical black women, you know, the black women tropes
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  Speaker 1: like we do over here. Like I mean, I believe
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  Speaker 1: that they might, but it might be different for them.
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  Speaker 1: It might be different. Started like it might be different
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  Speaker 1: stereotypes like and Shorts were saying that the dude grew
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  Speaker 1: the beer girls girls beer, They grow their beers out
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  Speaker 1: because you know, to protect themselves to getting hit.
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  Speaker 3: The black women are painted as aggressive and that's not
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  Speaker 3: always the case, and it's not it's not fair at all.
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  Speaker 2: It's not fair. I also think I learned this. I
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  Speaker 2: don't beat on men. You don't. I didn't think about
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  Speaker 2: it for a second. No, I don't. What if you
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  Speaker 2: ever known me to beat on the men, I might
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  Speaker 2: have thought about that.
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  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna hold you episodes that you slapped over
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  Speaker 4: I did.
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  Speaker 2: That was different. I wasn't abusing him. The way it happened,
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  Speaker 2: that was that was assault. What had happened was that
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  Speaker 2: was assault.
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  Speaker 3: That was definitely was already apologized.
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  Speaker 2: I said, I was sorry.
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  Speaker 3: Well, what happened was What I mean by that is
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  Speaker 3: that he's he's speaking of like against domestic violence or whatever,
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  Speaker 3: relationship wise and stuff like that. That's never been something
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  Speaker 3: that as bad as I wanted to smeck the dog
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  Speaker 3: ship out of some body, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 3: that's not something I've ever experienced in a relationship like
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  Speaker 3: I smke because I don't agree with you always make
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  Speaker 3: because you hurt my feelings, or I don't like the
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  Speaker 3: way you talk to me, or some ship like that.
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  Speaker 3: That that that that that situation was isolated, isolated situation.
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  Speaker 2: It was. I would never do that again. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: do it. That man had he hauled off back joy,
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  Speaker 2: What could I have done? What could I done?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we fuck him up and then had the
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  Speaker 1: conversation like him up, and then we had a conversation
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  Speaker 1: with you on the way home like hey listen.
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  Speaker 2: Brad and saying we bitch.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sitting in the car to y'all come out with Look,
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  Speaker 3: we're gonna have that's between you.
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  Speaker 2: But you hit him first.
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  Speaker 3: We saying something else that needs to be highlighted. You
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  Speaker 3: can't go around putting your hands on folks. Because again,
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  Speaker 3: if that man had fucking reacted and hold off, and
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  Speaker 3: even though my intention was not to.
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  Speaker 2: To hit him, that damn.
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  Speaker 3: Heart the situation, the actual at the point I actually
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  Speaker 3: embarrassed that man in front of all the people, and
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  Speaker 3: he could have reacted and fucking in my hands and
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  Speaker 3: I could have flew across the restaurant and.
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  Speaker 2: Then old boy hit hit soil.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely knocked my hands right across the counter.
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  Speaker 2: Looks about. I would have been like, what did you learn?
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  Speaker 2: Says what did you learn?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 2: You know you heard this ship You shouldn't put your
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  Speaker 2: hands on what did mind his business?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 2: You? Right? Friends, just go ahead and get me somebody's
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  Speaker 2: put me in the car. Come on, I'll help you
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  Speaker 2: with brother, I ain't got no beat.
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  Speaker 3: Look I got him like damn. I was only playing.
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  Speaker 2: She hits you once, you hit her once, it's over. Over,
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  Speaker 2: keep beating on them.
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  Speaker 3: Often the stereotype is that black women are aggressive or
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  Speaker 3: masculine or you know, things like that. So I'll get
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  Speaker 3: what Aaron is same way. But I don't think that's
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  Speaker 3: not always the case.
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  Speaker 1: So my my my stunts on Andrew Shorts.
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  Speaker 2: Can I make a real quick aside.
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  Speaker 4: It has nothing to do to do what we're talking
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  Speaker 4: about right now, but it just popped in my brain
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  Speaker 4: and I want to say this. Shout out to t
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: der Moses, one of my favorite Aren't beingcers of all time?
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: Underrated, totally underrated.
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: This year is the twentieth anniversary of Complex Simplicity, her
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: debut album with songs such as be a Girl. So
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: I just wanted to give her her flowers because she
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: does she deserving.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: She is very, very talented. You are Paula Campbell, baby, y'all, y'all,
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: you gotta take ship too far, Paula, you gotta take
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: ship too far from the Baltimore.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Paula Campbell, once upon a time had a hit call
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: How does it feel?
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: How the song goes saa, the tables turned your breaches
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: bad in the wow and dry.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Time to say goodbye.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: God? Anyway, I said, just like a don Yeah, So
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: how does the chorus go?
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: How does it be? Hello?
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: How does it be? Stop lying?
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: How does it be?
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Who? How does it fed?
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: Then? Never tell you about what happened to be listening?
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: So can I just say something Stollica?
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Can I say something for the record? You loud live
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: and the color.
• 18:53
  Speaker 6: See in this airs.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Ship?
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: How Annis? Oh you said Patty Bitch.
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: Super Patty Bitch on Patty Bitch Patty five. Patty with
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: Schultz is different like damn and Shorts is a dick.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: He's a Brobocca tour that says stuff to get a
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: rise out of people.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, and yo, and it's like, yo, that's his that's
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: his brand, Like yo, that's his brand. Like you.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: I noticed that when he was on the when that
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: damn roast to Tom Brady he like and.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Then but it's like, yo, if you go to it,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: and and I know, I know a lot of women
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: will upset, but it's like if you go to the show,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: you go to like one of his on his stand ups.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Oh, it is worse I.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Believe it because getting the people in the audience. And
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: this is why I learned my lesson from sitting too
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: close to the front comedy shows and coming in later
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: comedy shows.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: I got got a couple of times mm hmmm.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: But you know, and y'all looking at it like, you know,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: like it's like the racism and like racism, and it's like, yeah, unfortunately, yo,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: that's his like Brandon said, he's that's his that's his
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Brandon comedy. Like that's his Brandon Comedy.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Says offensive ship he does.
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: I feel like he is he is anti black because
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: he has a lot of anti black sentiments.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: I think that he does.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Hey, I mean if the shoot fit laced them out
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: the fuck up and wear it.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Hey, you hear me. But and then it's like, yo,
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: but you got what like like Shanna said, you got
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: you got two guys from England, you know, from across
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: the pond, across the pond, and they don't you know,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: and it's like that that sentiments and you know that sentiment.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: It's like yeah, you know, it's like yo, it's funny.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's comedy, but I can understand how you feel,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: like how you feel like you know, you weren't protected.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: But like Shauna said, it's like, yo, they don't they
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: might not deal with that shit over there, like they're standard,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Like you know, they're standard. I mean, it's just it's
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: just common conversation right now.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: And I also.
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: Have to remember, and like you brought up a point earlier,
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: but James and food High, they are from the UK.
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: It's a whole different country but totally different relations to blackness.
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: Whereas here in the States, and you know, and here
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: in the US you have millions of black Americans, people
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: who are you know, descendants of slaves who were here
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: in the States, you have West Indians. My mother's Black American,
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: my father's Haitian. I'm hard of both of those worlds.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Dogs and cats and ship.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Fuck that bitch.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Fuck him the long dogs they're eating the cats.
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: I hope his hair plucks fall out. Pussy ass bitch.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: He's her best friend.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: You know what.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: They're eating dogs and cats.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Was promised.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: I hate a cat.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: It's like, I'm not fucking with them, I said.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: For me.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: He today, no, turn I put my phone down. I
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: was like, I looked. I looked at it because kids
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: was like, He's like, is that the phone going on, say, yeah,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: that's probably I'm not looking I'm not looking at it.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Fun that fuck that and that looked that was like this.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: God damn Brandon bro.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: God damn brand I haven't eaten cat in fifteen years.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: We went to bunch on today.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Probably did No, I wasn't talk about that kind of cat,
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: know what kind of you about recently? Because he's married
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: to that one. Yeah, that's how he got that baby.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Here's the function, right, because you know, because you under
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: said girl was like he I mean it was all right,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: It was all right.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: You know, wouldn't say I recommended you don't trust him
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: to You gotta see it you like it.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: In my opinion, sometimes you know ship you know that
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: you don't like something, but sometimes you gotta try it
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: out to make sure you you're sure about.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Your SI right, you're right.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta pop out the show niggas, show show
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: somebody else you know.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: You're right for you gotta get get the feeling first
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: to be like I just slip a slide.
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: You gotta you know, you gotta you gotta hit it,
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: hit it like a pistol a couple of times to
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: make sure you don't like it.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: You know that's not a fist.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: That was you know this nigga.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Demonstrations. Okay, all right, I'm not sorry. This is a donkey.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: Like that.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Not you like that.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: I have never fisted anybody before. That's not my speed.
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: I mean, but if you have friends, it's my business.
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: And now y'all would know. But that that was supposed
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: to be a penis going into a vagina. That was
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: supposed to be a fist.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: We okay, we take it.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: We take that explanation.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Episode titles fists across America.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Oh Ship, God, damn it, oh ship, old donkey punch.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: That hold on this, I don't think how does it
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: feel about Paula Campbell is on? But donkey punch? What
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: was that this song be referencing Paula Campbell and Moses
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: be We'll be Your Girl by t Moses the t
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: Der again. Happy twentieth anniversary to.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: Complexitess it's much more success. You deserve this title donkey punch.
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: But the point I was trying to make was, you
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: know again, I've said it before, I'm now the gold
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: star gay.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I have dabbled in the coach. You tabbled in the
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: coach because I had to make sure it wasn't for
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: me now saying.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: Now I am.
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: I am a proponent of saying never say never. It's
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: been a couple of decades. But if I happen to
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: fall back into one at some point, if the situation
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: works out, it's like riding the bike?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Is that one Instagram's Facebook?
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: But yeah, but yeah, we'll find out, you know, if
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: I so happen to just slide up into one and
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: give y'all a natural born niece and nephew.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Because I didn't.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: So I'll telling y'all something. Yeah, y'all, y'all, y'all gotta
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: need some nephew.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: In a way. It better than Joe what's going on
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: right now? It better bean Jim Child.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: No, it's gonna be like uh will be referenced in
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: the last episode when it asked how medication child, I don't.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Even know what happened?
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Like I had too much, John led to enough Hendrix
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: singing that, God damn Paula Campbell does, And I can
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: tell you.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Incent memory, I now know how it feeds.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Jesus.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I'm looking at her. She's looking at me like, oh goodness, Graci,
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: so do you want to do that? Again, No, no,
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: what's what's good for you? Because I'm I'm I.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Don't know.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Sexuality exists on a spectrum, y'all.
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: Homosexual, So let's just leave that, Okay, if the if
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: the mood strikes, so if the right situation comes from
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: I mean, never say never.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: Like Brandy said, oh mister baby, m hm, mister telephone man,
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: there's something wrong with your line.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: I thought my baby number I get a kid can't be.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Oh man, how does it feel.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: You? Sort of the comment that Nick just left.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: Shout out to Nick, one of our favorite listeners, say, Nick.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: He just left us a comment m recording. So yeah,
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: so yeah, what was I about to say?
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: But you also have to understand And this kind of
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: goes into the conversation about like Tyler, how but she
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: came to the US. She identifies he identifies as colored
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: in South Africa, but in the UK she would be
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: considered mixed race, and here in the US she's considered black.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: And because she's from a country where black has a
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: totally different connotation of meaning, she uses a term in
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: her home country that.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Is outdated or even not in use here in the US.
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: And stuff gets lost in translation, especially for people with
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: different from different countries. I think any initial point I
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: was trying to make if I went on that side
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: was you have to understand that it's like Black Americans.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: We have here in the States, one large community of
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: millions of African Americans who are descendants of slaves, who
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: are wuts this country.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: A lot of our ancestors have been in this country
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: for hundreds of years.
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: We as black people have been here in the United States,
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: a lot of us since the country, or our ancestors
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: rather since it was founded, but before it was founded.
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: Black people in the UK have only really been in
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: the UK for the past what seventy eighty years since
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: when rush happened after World War Two and Britain was bombed.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: The UK government put together a program called don't forget
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: the name of the program, but they put together a
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: program basically where they imported hundreds or thousands of West
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: Indian immigrants from a lot of like the Commonwealth countries
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: such as Barbados, Jamaica, from British African countries like Nigeria,
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: I think Ghana, and a lot of the countries where
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: you know, the Queen Elizabeth at the time was the
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: head of state and they gave them a chance to
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: come to Britain to help rebuild the country after it
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: had been bombed during the Blitz in World War Two.
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: The first ship that arrived from I think it was
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: Jamaica in the UK with a whole bunch of immigrants
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: was called the wind Rush, and a lot of those
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: people are considered what is we are considered our publb
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: of them, and a lot of those people are considered
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: the wind the wind Rush generation because they moved to
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: essentially an all white countries with little to no immigrants,
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: and they helped to essentially rebuild Great Britain or you know,
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: England from ruin to the prosperous nation that it is today.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: They have their own relationship with race and racism, being
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: told to go back to their countries and things that
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: we did not deal with here in the States. Because
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: you may have racist white people or racist people that
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: you know make comments about black people. But I've never
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: been told I've never been called no never, huh. Fuck,
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: I can't speak today.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: You have.
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: Comments, especially if you hear or see a lot of
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: the racist commentary online up from Americans. You'll hear people say, oh, well,
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: blah blah blah, blah blah. But I've never been called
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: not an American because I'm a black person, right true.
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: Whereas over in the UK, because there are people that
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: have only been in the UK since what the nineteen forties,
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: early fifties, at the earliest wave of immigrants came in
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: right after the war ended in nineteen forty five nineteen
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: forty six.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: They've Black people have been largely in.
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: Britain for less than one hundred years at this point,
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: So they don't have HBCUs, they don't have a huge
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: ethnic enclaves where their families live for hundreds of years.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: They don't have share crop, and they don't have all
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: the things that we have here. So there's certain things culturally,
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: in my opinion that may be lost in translation. No,
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: it does not absolve James and Fuuhai from checking and
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: Andrew Schultz for his clear anti black sentiments and things
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: that he said in their faces. But to me, that
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: is the deeper understanding as to why maybe for them
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: it may not have been something to react to.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: In the moment.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree. We'll say it,
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: best friend.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: And again sometimes you pop up I'm shore niggas, Yep,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: that'll be mine for everything. Sometimes they be like why
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: they do it? I mean shit, sometimes you got pop
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: bottle show niggas so like it just happens.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: But but it it's.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: It is a matter of I mean it is a
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: matter of perspective. I mean there is a matter of perspective.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: And you know for something like you know, you can't
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: get mad because you can't get mad because they, like
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Brandon said, they life is different, but life is different
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: for them. And I mean, you know the shit you
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: deal you know, shit you deal with over here and
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: there isn't maybe isn't.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: What they deal with over there.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Hell what they deal with over there, probably worse, could
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: be worse, couldn't, could be, could could not be. I
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: don't know. But you are you can decide whether or
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: not you wanna you know you you know you wanna
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: deal with you know you still support them or whatever
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: you support them, go you know, good good show, good fear.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: If you don't, you know, good fear cause what they
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: eat don't make me shit.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: And they also they're also adult.
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: So sometimes especially when you start dealing with people from
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: different countries who have different understandings of things, sometimes like
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: like they learning right now, you get deemed for stuff.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because what may be offensive to us is
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: not necessarily offensive or even a thing to them. But
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: they learn when you start having, you know, conversations with
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: people from different countries who have different senses of humor,
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: different sensibilities, sometimes it don't always work, so agree. So yeah,
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: moving on from that. Also, I want to bring up
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: one thing and we did not talk about this last
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: month when happened, but we have to give another shout out.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: You know, we just shout out to Dromoses, but we
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: definitely have to give a shout out to one of
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: our legends. Shout out to Frankie Beverly. Shout out to
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Frankie Beverly, rest in peace East to him. Yes, God,
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: what can you say about.
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: Legendary Maize feature with Frankie Bevan legendary?
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: These men have not put an album out since.
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: Ninety three, It's been thirty one years since their last
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: album came out, and they could still sell out a concert.
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: They could still get you up on your feet when
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: that damn.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Dune dune dude, that is a black put it on.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, the is y'all doing? I had play that
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: birthday body?
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Okay, he's sixteen. It was he know what it was, okay,
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: because that is the music that we grew up on.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: It in turn, we raised, you know, our children, knowing that's.
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: That's barbecue music, that's reunion music. That's Saturday morning, get
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: your ass up, clean his whole house music. That's washing dishes,
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: doing laundry. Music, that's washing the car in the backyard music. God,
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: that's feel good for going off for Robert, your uncle
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: in his freshly wast colored supreme Baby music, Baby Lake.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: South and the White Wall.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, absolutely, you cannot. And you know I'm gonna
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: be perfectly honest. I am Brandon is part of the behive.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: I am a fan, but I'm not in the behive.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: But I am a fan. I am a fan.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: Can't take that woman's town lit away from her. I
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: went to my first year concert, well last year, Baby,
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: I was intrigued, mess marized. I think I sat there
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: on maybe twice, and that's because my feet started amazing.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: I would go to another show. But when she did
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: that remake, I initially did not like it.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: I didn't.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I was, I was, I was.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: I was a little upset because what's going on right
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: now ma'am, I didn't. I didn't care for it.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: It grew on me, and now they are mixing them together.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: Last party I went to, it started out with be
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: On saying the transition into Frankie by m hmm. For
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: those of y'all youngins who thought that was Be's original song,
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: y'all wasn't raised right. That is Frankie Belly, and it
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: wasn't raised right. Wasn't raised right?
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: They was because their parents is our age.
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: They clearly wasn't raised right if they thought that wasn't
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: the double her original song, they don't know no better AnyWho.
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: All it grew r remake grew on me like it.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: It's a little more up Uh, it's possible. It's a
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: little more up temple upbeat. You know, different dances to
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: the original. Come on, we're doing the electric slide. Black
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: folks to do electric slides to anything. I'm gonna be
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: honest with you. They ain't never been to a black being,
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: a black birthday party, or a timement party, a cookout
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: just because.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: Barbecue or first fry. Baby.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: They even play that at the church picnic. Okay, that's
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: that's what it's safe. They played at church picnic because
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: you can't.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: Because you can't. You can't secular and play that. But
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: you might. You might get a little bit of Luther,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: a little bit of Ma.
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: Do you gonna get you a step in? You're gonna
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: look over in the past. The shoulders gonna be moving
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: when that Frankie Beverly and mais come on, because he
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: ain't always been saved, you hear me?
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, looking, I'm looking at sister Patterson like, hey, sister
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: with the with the child bearing hips.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: Hey, sister pat with a little bit of meat right
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: here on the she makes some bom masks. Take.
• 37:20
  Speaker 4: Let's let's get back on topic. We go down the
• 37:23
  Speaker 4: rabbit hole again, doing down the rank. Name two of
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: your favorite songs by May's featuring.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Frankie Beverly without naming before I let go without naming
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: before I let go, Oh h have the Golden time
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: of day.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: And happy people, happy feelings, happy feelings, You have feelings.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: I've been calling that song happy people for years and
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: because people right here when I hear the song. But yes,
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: that's of my favorite songs. And for a bonus, I'm
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: throwing in.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: What is it?
• 38:07
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Go is it? I can't get over you?
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: O Oh, I'm trying to get it in my head.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Oh lord, I can't get the words to come to
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: my fucking mind right now. I ain't even been drinking today, y'all.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: Right, damn it. We did have bonch now and was
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: fire fighting.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Finally got it for the first time, y'all. Absolutely never
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: had it, never made it fantastic.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: And joy and pain. Let me throw that in as
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: a bonus. What are your two favorite? Your favorite?
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Golden happy feeling and joy and pain? Okay, I mean
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: golden time to day was cool, but golden.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Time they got up just relax and feel to make
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: you do a little little happy feelings that that that's
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: a hit though, Happy feelings come on.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: So two of my favorite maids future Frankie Beverly songs.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: All while I'm alone and backing stride, So back in Stride,
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: I did not remember.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: I kept seeing somebody talk about it on They did
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: a tribute to him on Rocky Smiley Show the other day.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: You know, I really listened to the radio these days.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: But we were out working driving and we were driving
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: the company vehicle, and it was on the radio when
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: we got in the car, so I caught part of
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: the tribute they did to him on ROCKIY Smiley shout
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: out to Rookie for doing that, which I'm not surprised
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: because you know, Ricky always.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Pay homage for the legends.
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: And they somebody called in and requested that he was
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: letting people call in and give their feelings on Frankie
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: Beverley and everything, and I was like, have I never
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: heard this?
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: I like, yeah, I like that. I think that is
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: the first frank the Maids.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: First Maids video I remember seeing as a kid on
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: B E C or maybe maybe it was probably be
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: ET when they were saw aaring music videos, and I remember.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: It because the whole group and era I know the
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: the whole group.
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: Was walking down the street wherever they might have been
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: La or San Francisco, but they were in converse.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: They were Chuck Taylors. That's not a song. I was
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: trying to say. It can't get over you. That's what
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: I was trying to get out.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: Since you mentioned third, my my honorable mention is joy
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: and Pain. But the live version from that live version
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: of Unmatched from the nineteen eighty one album live in
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: New Orleans and they performed at the Singer the Singer
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: Theater in New Orleans in nineteen eighty one.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: That live version of Joint Pain.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Unmatched, the instruments, the saying his throat out on that song.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: Do you hear me that that's unmatched?
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Unmatched?
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Listening to the function when they performed live, Oh.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: Man, ain't nothing like hearing that live.
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: And that's another song that was remade nine You know
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: how it was gonna feel about It was we made
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: more than once actually.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Love Strain okay, and and that was was it Anderson
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: poking for them. It was Drew Hell I prefer to.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: I mean.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: SLK Sonic did an okay job on Love Loves Train,
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: but I still preferred that's something the original you can't
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: out now.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: DREWI did a great job. DREWI did a great job,
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: and Sonic did a great job. Of course, nothing is
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: ever going to be as good as the original. It's
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: several songs has been remade and be like, yeah, okay ya,
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: you did great, But you know what I'm saying.
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: If anything, I look at it as maybe not trying
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: to be better than the original. But I always I
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: appreciate when newer artists, especially if you using Beyonce as
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: an example, when she made before I let go.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: It's exposing newer people who are younger than us.
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: Gen Z Jen Alpha, fucking gen Alpha, who may love
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: Beyonce but may not know about Frankie Beverly, and they
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: love Bruno Mars and Silk Sonic, but.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: May not know about Compunction and these covers.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: But like we were just before we started recording, I
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: was scrolling on Instagram a talking shit and the original
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: version of Venus came on. I forget the name of
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: the group, but we were scrolling when we were talking
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: about Frankie Beverly and one of my favorite Instagram pages
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: called voice so voce e Au is an account where
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: they post a cappella versions of performances from all different genres,
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: all different artists. And they posted a live of recording
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: or rather a performance of Frankie Beverly and Mays or
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: May's featuring Frankie Beverly, however you say it. He was
• 42:28
  Speaker 4: performing Joy and Pain, but it was just the a
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: cappella version of his just his post and they started
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: the call and response before the clip ended, and I
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: scrolled to the next video and it was the song Venus,
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: but the song I've heard the song Venus before it,
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: But I'm familiar Banana ramas version if you can't tell
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: by now. I have a very eclectic taste in music.
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: I listened to a lot of random shit. Eighty simppop
• 42:51
  Speaker 4: is one of those things from me, and he.
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: Puts me onto some good stuff. Yeah, some awesome playlist
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: thanks to branding. Thank you.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: But one of my favorite eighties you know, pop songs
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: is Venus Bob Banana Rama, and I didn't know that
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: that was a cover.
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: The original version from the sixties came. I was like,
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: wait a minute, I know this song, and I started
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: sing to the rest. I'm like, dang this that was
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: a fucking cover.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: So so yeah, I appreciate when newer artists take older
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: songs and cover them because they exposed a newer generation
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: those who weren't like us. Where we can we have
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: you know, all these apps at our fingertips tips who
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: had parents who listened to all.
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: Of that stuff, who had us listening to it? Oh yeah,
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: these kids men, I had a lot of them, don't
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: have pop up video and don't have.
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: Video.
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: V H one Soul and MTV actually airing hours of
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: music videos on end to know to go back to
• 43:46
  Speaker 4: look for that stuff. So when these artists, you know,
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: coveredy songs, it exposes a new generation to and I
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: appreciate that same. So let's get on to another topic.
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: While we added a few people, other people I don't
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: think that we acknowledge who also passed around the same time.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: It's Frankie Beverly. We have to pay homage. She was
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: a legend.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: May not have agreed with some of his earlier views
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: on things, but rest in peace to the legendary James
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: Earl Jones. We lost him a couple of days before
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: Franky moved daph.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Vada King King.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: Uh, the boys look the boy stud the Bible and
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: the commercials and he he he is a legend, legend.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Resting peace to him. He loved a long life. Job
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: well done.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Sorry ninety four years, job well done, sir and Fens. Yes,
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: Courtney looking playing absolutely. Also, we need to say rest
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: in peace to a legend.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: Baby. If you hear that voice, you know exactly.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Who he is.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: Rest in peace to fat Man's School, who we lost
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: maybe a couple of weeks before.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Uh, Frankie Beverly.
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: Maybe he was a part of you, was a part
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: of your baby back in the day you heard that
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: name screaming on somebody track, baby, from Sierra to Missy
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: Elliott to Faith Evans. He was on somebody's track telling
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: you what the fuck to do and your ass was
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: gonna do it.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: He was Okay.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: That's a freaking lightly resting piece of that man. And
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: also resting peace to uh our guy rich Homi Kahan Man.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: That that one was truly heartbreaking, such.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: A young man.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: You know, he only thirty four, only thirty.
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: Four years old, you know, you know, condolences to him
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: and his family, baby because he had us in the
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: chokehold baby in mid earlier than mid two thousands.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: Baby, because I sure.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: Learned that God damn flex danced at walk and he
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: ain't the only ones that was saying along to They're
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: a lot of ship just to live this head lifestyle.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: My favorite.
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: Also, I want to give a shout out to for
• 46:10
  Speaker 4: those of y'all from down south who may know who
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: he is. Shout out and resting peace to.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Beat King y.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, you know he was.
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: He was our age too, and he pa. They didn't
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: really pack post his cause of death. He was married,
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: he had kids and you know, losing somebody that young.
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: He's been making parties jump for about a good fifteen
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: years now, especially if you listen to a lot of
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: down South rap he had. He and a song that
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: came out that went viral few his back call, get
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: that break at the head and leave.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: That is my ship. Yeah, y'all know that's my that's
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: my ship. Yeah, that's that's my gym.
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: I did know originally that he was that was him,
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: but yeah, baby, that was that was my my joint.
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: They put that on any damn way, I'm like, that's
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: my ship resting piece to him as wild my it's
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: been so much lost.
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: So just just love on people.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: While they hear y'all.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Just don't be for nobody. It ain't worth it.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: You ain't got to deal with them. The more, I
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: wish them the best and let them going about their life.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: But don't live with no regrets. Y'all lived life because
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: life is meant to be lived and enjoyed.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: And I will also say, if you are a fan
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: of a lot of the music, music that we grew
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: up on, elder millennials listening to the Patties and the
• 47:24
  Speaker 4: Aretha's and the Gladys and the you know, amazed feature
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: of Frankie Beverly and stuff that we grew up on
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: before we just got our own feet well with hip
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: hop and the Golden era going into the eighties and
• 47:34
  Speaker 4: nineties and jay Z and everything. If you are a
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: concert person, go see these legends live, because.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: I've had many regrets who I did not get to see,
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: Like I think my biggest is Tina Marie, Like Michael
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: Jackson lives.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: I would love to have seen Mikee. I have seen Prince,
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: I would love to have seen Luther Teddy, Uh, Tina
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: Whitney like. These are all people who I didn't get
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: the opportunity to see.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: Read the.
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: Like you know who else?
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: Why do you check it for that? I honestly wonder
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: if May's will continue. Know that Frankie Beverly is going.
• 48:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: James Ingram, yeah he passed.
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: To you know, James Ingram passed like it's it's it's
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: so many of them who we never got the opportunity
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: to see live.
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: But there are still so many who are living. Sean
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: and I was the last year we want to see
• 48:24
  Speaker 4: Patty Bell.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: Absolutely it was worth every penny, fuck every pencil. Ya,
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: but you weren't were you, Oh you were here. We
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: had already had the tickets. Were sorry them. Yeah, this
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: show was like scheduled. The show was during COVID and
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: it got the scheduled.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like early martch of twenty twenty three. Sorry,
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: I mean we saw I need that.
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: But if she come back with we saw she had
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: to on too, and she was changed the shoes on stage,
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: did about three fold wardrobe changes and perfume.
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: The lady in the front row perfume too. I want
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: to run up there so bad, like Pi. She came
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: walking through the audience, but she came.
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: Looking on stage. We hear her boys and be like
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: and then you hear people, we see a spotlight all
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: of a sudden go towards me. Was like, amazing show, amazing.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: So if you get the chance, even if you're not
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: a concert person, if you take the chance to see
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: our legends, like even like for the example, Diana Ross,
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: Diana Ross just turned eight. Diva diva us, even though
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: if she may not be your speed, Diana, just for
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: the fact that she is a legend and that woman
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: has been making music for over fifty years and.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: This one she is.
• 49:40
  Speaker 5: Over.
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: Went to school kidstuck.
• 49:44
  Speaker 4: Okay, we're not gonna say, but she is the last
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: living supreme, Absolutely yes, and she is one of the few,
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: not one of the few, but she is probably one
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: of the big last big Mozart Motala Bah. She along
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: with uh Stevie Wonder and Smokey Robinson are like some
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: of the last big Motown stars left that are still
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: performing and are still really even alive.
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: I go see Smoky, but Smoky gonna be on stage grinding.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: You don't want to hear aboutgasms minutes smoke. What is
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: going on right now? Smoky?
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Can you have a smoky don't don't don't, don't, don't
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: do that, don't do that, don't do that.
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: I was I was deeply just but we heard that.
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: But oh lord, you didn't bot that.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: You didn't shut up baby.
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: When I when I saw the merch drop, I said,
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: you know what, because.
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: It's his, that's what That's what sheelle saying. That's what
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: she said. I'm gonna say, we don't know if it's
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: and we don't know, sir.
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: All I'm gonna say is you got to press about
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: four or five buttons to go live on Instagram saying
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: actually go live.
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: What made me what I respect him for is when
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: his team released that them that THEMN they didn't say
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: that he was hack And Shannon came back like, nor
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: was it baby the way I squelled I said, Shannon said, no,
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: the funk I was? And I did it?
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: It was me my bad, Sorry all I was saying.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: I don't picture Shannon like that. Shannon is like the
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: cool uncle that might slide you a couple of dollars
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: at the cookout. He might let you sip a little,
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: yet when you're under age, that that that's what I
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: see Shannone.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: I was a little disturbed, just a smidge.
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: Now met the man dress and somebody down there and
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: played that video.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: Some of the damn times like the Campra slide, got
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: the Camra slide? Did she she's orgasm in y'all? She's
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: she's organic.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: You sounded just like I thought you were saying, Just
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: like you sounded my fantasies and in my dreams.
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: Side. Thank you.
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: That's disgusting, So I appreciate. I definitely don't want to
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: think absolutely not.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: Next topic.
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: This is a little bit of a departure after what
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: we've been talking about for the past few minutes, so
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: past a couple of minutes, really, So let's talk about sleep.
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: Have you been getting any because we talked about that
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: a lot. Good.
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: I have been getting a lot of sleep. Actually, proud
• 52:21
  Speaker 4: of you. I need it because I honestly have been
• 52:24
  Speaker 4: averaging like five five and a half hours of sleep
• 52:27
  Speaker 4: at night. And that's from the fact that I can't
• 52:29
  Speaker 4: put my fucking phone down and get off of the
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: internet because I started doing it to y'all now, including
• 52:36
  Speaker 4: your key and Aaron and our group chats and in
• 52:39
  Speaker 4: the morning sending sending TikTok video. So I'm sitting there
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: in my bed with one eye cocked open.
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: I know, you fucking lie. We just talk about this,
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: we did.
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: So I forced myself to actually improve my sleep hygiene
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: because I think, I mean, we mentioned in a previous
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: episode where there's a link between lack of sleep and
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: like dementia and Alzheimer's as you get older, and I
• 53:02
  Speaker 4: don't want to be, you know, going down that path
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: when I'm in my fifty sixty, seventies, eighties. I want
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: to live and be shot all the way up to
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: my last day. So I had to, honestly, you go
• 53:14
  Speaker 4: check myself and say, Brandon, you need to start you know,
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: checking out, not checking out, and start shutting down and
• 53:19
  Speaker 4: start winding down for bed around eight nine o'clock because
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: I wait until eleven eleven thirty.
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: All right, well, let me get up and.
• 53:24
  Speaker 4: Wash these dishes and start closing down, making show me
• 53:27
  Speaker 4: what my work bag is ready for working flor And
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: then by the time I get in the bed, I
• 53:30
  Speaker 4: get in the shower, it's one thirty two o'clock in
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: the morning.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: Same.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: So I pushed that process back by like two hours,
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: and I started listening to LOFI or as I heard
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: somebody ever so correctly call it millennial smooth.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Jazz, millennial smooth jaz. It is Lofi is millennial smool jazz. Wow.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: So I got my sleep LOFI playlist on on on
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: the Spotify shout out to Spotify. And this playlist literally
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: is thirteen hours and fifty four minutes long. Oh, And
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: I put it on shuffle while I start getting ready
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: for bed and everything and cut off. When I clean
• 54:09
  Speaker 4: my kitchen, my lunch is ready and everything done, this
• 54:11
  Speaker 4: playlist starts and then you know, I started to brush
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: my teeth and getting the shower, and the playlist is
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: going and I get in my bed and I started
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: doing meditation to night. You know, you get your deep
• 54:21
  Speaker 4: breaths in for about ten minutes, you know, right, ten
• 54:30
  Speaker 4: minutes a hard breathing.
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: Not from that. Of course, I wouldn't mind that either,
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: That's definite. I wouldn't mind it. Sometimes you got one
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: before you go to sleep, that's before the shower. That's
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: when we heard.
• 54:41
  Speaker 4: You gotta be able to clean yourself off. You don't
• 54:43
  Speaker 4: want to get in the bed all crusty for that too.
• 54:47
  Speaker 4: But the flesh light works. But flesh light works best.
• 54:49
  Speaker 4: You can do that in the shower. But you just
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: print it off anyway to sex toys and sex toys,
• 54:57
  Speaker 4: the next person might be might be a set of cheese.
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: Did we talk about that? Brother the cheeks? Thank you,
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: thank you for the idea for your birthday Christmas. If
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: you buy me that, don't buy me that, please don't.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: That ain't real weird. We have birth my birthday, brunch
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: of birthday done, and this this big ass box come in.
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: Like Shauna, I'm just gonna send it straight to the house.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: Please don't please somebody that that's weird. I can buy
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: my own sex toys. I don't we close. But that's
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: that's that's weird. Please don't buy me no sex toys.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Send me your ass.
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: And then it is next gonna be like that damn
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: Jeanna phone like hello, no hold on sis, thank you,
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: fuck you, goodbye, thank you, but thank you. I just
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: uber eating you some food, something plenishment. I got you
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: some food in the gate way. O, happy birthday, look
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: your head call me tomorrow.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: Please don't buy me no six sweets. I think that's
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: what I could buy my own sex. But the cheeks.
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: Maybe they be going in the videos on on on
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: on Wikipedia on and on Wikipedia. Yeah, in Wikipedia, they
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: be going to town. They were taking the cheeks up.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: Okay. Then then they ribbed on the inside. To us,
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to invest in something like that's fancy.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: Yoh not theybed on the side.
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: You ain't ever seen the cross section, bro That things
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: look look like caves, bens and flexes and turns and
• 56:43
  Speaker 4: drops and sometimes pop out of show some I'm gonna
• 56:49
  Speaker 4: pop out if you keep stroking ay thing about five
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: more minutes.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: Jesus to sleep Mercy, so sleep high, Genie.
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: So after I do that, like I said, I got
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: the shower and while I'm, you know, putting on my lotion,
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: making sure my feet ain't ask you. Before I get
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: to bed, I do my little timmate, my sleep meditation
• 57:07
  Speaker 4: on pelotons.
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: It's a listening thing. So I put the phone on.
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: The charger, doing my heavy greening and ruping down my elbows,
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: in my knees and my angles because I'll be ashy,
• 57:18
  Speaker 4: you know, I got dry skin.
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: A little bit, and then after that, I'm literally sleep
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: within five minutes.
• 57:26
  Speaker 4: And I've been pushing myself to get seven hours at
• 57:29
  Speaker 4: least seven hours of sleep. Before it was five five
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: and a half and now I'm averaging seven or more
• 57:35
  Speaker 4: hours of sleep per night.
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, I need this because I don't want
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: no health issues. So what do y'all sleep?
• 57:42
  Speaker 4: If you have one? What are your sleep routines at night?
• 57:45
  Speaker 4: And it doesn't have to be like mine, But what
• 57:47
  Speaker 4: do you want to go to sleep at night?
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: I usually wait to the lisbon do every goddamn thing same.
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: I'll be sitting on the couch like, all right, I'm
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: gona get up and go upstairs. I'm gonna get up
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: and go upstairs. I'm gonna get up and go upstairs.
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: Then I get up and go upstairs. And then I'm
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: sitting on the side b look stupid thirty minutes and
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: then I'm like, all right, shaying to take your clothes
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: out for tomorrow, for the days that I go in
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: to the office. All right, go ahead and take your
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: clothes out, all right, go ahead and take you close out.
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: All right, go ahead and take your clothes out.
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: Take a cap there, Take your fucking clothes out. Shawana.
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: Then it's uh. Then it's sorry.
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: All right, I'm gonna slay here, and I put my
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: phone in charger, put my iPad on the targia, plug
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: my headphones in if I have it's or whatever, alright,
• 58:28
  Speaker 3: and turn TV on. Put on something that I already
• 58:31
  Speaker 3: seen that way, you know, if I fall asleep, I'm good.
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: Then I'm laying there watching it like I ain't never
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: seen it before, laughing, and I'm like, all right, I'm
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: just pick my phone up for a little bit. Pick
• 58:42
  Speaker 3: my phone up and I'm scrolling.
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: I've twenty twelve, twenty five, all right, I'm gonna put
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: it down in like ten minutes.
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: And then one time the bitch on TikTok got me,
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: and I'm sorry to call you a bitch man, this
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: is how how I talk. But uh, I'm scrolling. Lady,
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: pops up. I bet you've been scrolling for a while. Huh,
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: it's time to get some rest.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: Man. Who sent you? Who sent you? She said, why
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: are you in my business? Who sent you? Girl? Put
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: this guy damn phone?
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: I said, all right, So I'm gonna put the phone down,
• 59:17
  Speaker 3: and then I'm a lady and I'm ana lay there
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: and then at some point I fall asleep and down
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: realized some sleep till I wake up, like damn when
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: when I finally go to sleep. So it's not like
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: that every night. Sometimes nights I'm really I'm tired. I
• 59:28
  Speaker 3: end up Like the other night we were talking on text.
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: I woke up to about four or five texts in
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: the in the group chair in our family group chat.
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck? There's her names? Yo? Okay?
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, so it's it's getting a little better.
• 59:50
  Speaker 3: That was something that I used to talk to missus
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: Howard about about my sleep routine, and she gave me
• 59:54
  Speaker 3: like some tips and stuff.
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: I use them sometimes, not all the time. She do
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: the same things. She like, can you sleep without the
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: TV on?
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: And it was like I try the only time I've
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: ever found myself being able to sleep without the TV
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: on is like, uh, when I was on vacation because
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: I was in the room my cousins day don't sleep
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: with the TV on, but did it lasts very long.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: I couldn't fall asleep one night and I got my putt,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: put my hand pullets in, turn something on on.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: To hear something it too.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: She turn it? What she doing?
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: What she doing?
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: She'll turn it on, and then she lay the other way.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: No, I actually turned it on. I had the face
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 3: to me, but I fell asleep, like and I don't
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: know if it's because I wasn't home or something. And
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 3: then sometimes my TV goes off at night when I
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: go to sleep, and I'll sleep through it sometimes, but
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: if I happen to wake up, or I happen to
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: the bathroom or something like that, I'll turn the TV
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: back on and then go back off, you know, eventually.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know what it is. I don't
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: know if it's a noise thing or the light store.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: I've always been like that since I was young. I've
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: never really been able to sleep with I'm a TV on.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: And I'm the opposite because the TV in my bedroom
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 4: is rarely on. If I'm yeah, it's one, but other
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 4: than that, or if like like folding clothes or something
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 4: that needs needs for me to be in my room.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: But if other than that, my TV.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: But then you're more than a music guy anyway, so
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: you'll have your music, Yeah, did you? I can do
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: that at your house when you're at your house and
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 3: you got your music playing. And of course, because I
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: always hear something I never heard before, I'm like, oh,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: what's that? Yeah, something like that, and I look at
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: the TV and like to playlist and Apple Music.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, it's different.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it depends.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 3: Sometimes if I'm really dog tw you, my body tells
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 3: me and I'm like Leiia is just being out followed.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 3: And also another thing, I realized I need a new
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: mattress and new pillows too. That's probably that probably will.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: Help, I think, yeah, possibly, Yeah, what do you think,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 4: like maybe you have like the Apple Music app on
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: your TV or maybe like I think so maybe maybe
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 4: trying one night you're just having like the visualizer on
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 4: and have music playing.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: So it's something I try to music play. See how
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: it work out. I'll try mm hmm.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: It might be something different and let's but don't be
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: in there listening to like like Drew Hill or something,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: because you'll be in being half sleep doing the choreography.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: Tell no, no, no, I think.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: No.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: I think it's I think it will help. And what
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: helps it is like Brandon said, like like low five,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: like you gotta you just gotta listen to like that
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: that that rural world like chill low.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 4: It's slow, it's instrument it's all instrumentals. It's just millennial
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 4: smooth jazz.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: He's doing some moment in time.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: No bullsh thunderstorm like rain and thunderstorm sounds so funny.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: You should say funny you say that. That's how we get.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: That's how like all right, so for me the Epp music, right.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, I'm gonna appreciate you.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: For me, it's uh for me. We I want to say,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: like I get home, I can usually get home like
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: seven thirty, seven thirty or so. So by that time,
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: like by the time I get home, like seven o'clock,
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: that's aj uh aj been up all day. Then he
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: take he'll take like he'll take like a seven o'clock
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: that sleep down late no no, no, no, no, he'll
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: like when I get home, he like he usually like
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: kind of like fussy because he's been up all day.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: Then it's like soon as I'm like soon as we
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: laid back, you know, pattis but laying like laying my
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: chest patters, but he I like my butt pat.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: Same. Does he sleep all night or does he still
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: wake up?
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: Like not, he'll wake up sometimes sometimes he'll wake up
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: like around So our routine is getting him in a
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: tub of like eight and then from eight he'll then
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: at the eight we rub him down. Uh like like
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: I said, like I said previous, like we rub him down,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: we lay him down, we rub him down. Then now
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: we get now he in that space where we can
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: just well he already know he kind of know what
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: it is, and he'll lay down, like he'll lay down
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: and he'll lay down in the crib and I can
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: just leave him, like I'll leave him the gold, like
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: leave him the fall asleep on his own. But then
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: on the other nights where he still seems like a
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: little fussy, will will turn YouTube on, like well we'll
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: get on YouTube and it'll be like the little like
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: just sometimes it's instrumentals like we'll do like the Disney
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: naptime instrument like like naptime instrumentals, or we'll do excuse me,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: we'll do or it'll be like just atmospheric music. He
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: likes the because down at the daycare, the daycare downtown
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: that that I was that I was working at, they
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: when they put the kids and they get they put
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: them in there with a soundbox with the little atmospheric
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: sounds and sometimes they'll play they'll play either like a
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: beach storm or heartbeat. I hate the heartbeat, Like that's
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: not relaxing.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: No, I mean no.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah to me, is like to me that that ship
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: is annoying as fuck. And I'm like, like you know,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: and it's like but then when you got like when
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: you got like for baby sleep and then each of
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: them got a soundbox, two of 'em is like one
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: is like a store and one is the beach, and
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: then like two of 'em might have a heartbeat, and
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: it's like, yo, why the heartbeat because of being in the.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: Womb that but listen to like waves though, like waves,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: that's that's real relax I'll.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: Turn on so yeah YouTube, uh. We we got like
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: we have like the little frequent list that w W
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: that does like like I said, Disney is like the
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: soft smooth Disney instrumentals, or they'll do or it's the
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: or it's just the picture of a beach and you know,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: like the little Ai and like the AI pictures like
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: mushrooms dripping and it's like atmospheric music or low like
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: low ambient music. And he usually if you wake up
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: with one to eat and then like eat, we might
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: change him and then he'll go back to sleep and
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: he probably won't wake up again until when it's almost
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: time for me to go to work. So it was
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: like like like like sometimes five thirties, like six of them,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: like six thirty, and I'll be looking at him like
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: well up now so and then he looking at me
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: smiling and ship and then yah, it's nothing more devious
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: than a baby than a baby smiling and smiling at
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: you knowing they should be sleep and went in the
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: in the dim light of the TV and everything else
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: is off and he like eyes wide open, boy, go
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: to bed. Oh, also turn on books. It's like the
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: visual books that ship. Yeah, that should put me to
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: sleep because it's like trying to get him to go
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: to sleep. And then I'm saying here like laying like
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: laying my head on the little I'm laying my head
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: on the crib pat and I'm like.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: M and then as soon as he know he'll make it,
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: he'll make it all.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: It's like he's signing up a bit go.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: To sleep in front of a bitch.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: No no, but it's like, no, no, you know that,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: you know that, not.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: To go that night else and he.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm looking through the I'm looking through the little
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: mession like I'm like this, nigga's really watching TV, watching it,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: watching it right now. But yeah, they should implement that
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: time and and and they should have did that in
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: the school.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: We shouldn't even do it in the workplace. Ship, true ship, like, YO,
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: give me a pillow when the sleeping bag man, They'm
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 3: gonna give me a knee?
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, give me, give me yo, just give me give
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: me one hour, like you know, a little hour, little
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: power that get back to work.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: I haven't been in my car and took me a
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: net before. Who you telling?
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: So I ain't doing that, no, Ship, when I got
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 3: to go into the office, you know, my lunch break
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 3: out and take that little hour, give it a call.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: I was in the car knocked out.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 4: So I didn't tell y'all this. Well, I told y'all
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 4: this in the group chat. But I actually took a
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: nap one day earlier this week.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: Did you wake up at eight o'clock? Oh? Stuff? Like
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: a hour? So it was like it was like seven
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: seven thirty. There was a day we had to flood
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: my office.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: They this nigga at worked part in the seas like
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: Moses bro. I was like, because somebody out, you know
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: when you said it now, I just wanted to make
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: it at first. I wanted to make sure everybody was
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: safe because when you said flood, I'm like, okay, so
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: are we talking no what's art or Moses in the
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: red sea?
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 2: Nigga? I wasn't part in the sea. That water was
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: rising like I was at the beach.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: I was like, uh, yeah, that's no, what's art?
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 3: Get the out, like, save yourself, out the.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: Door, get out the office, get down the offense, save yourself.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 3: I'd been floating on a piece of door some ship
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: like it's electrical ship in here, bitch.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: It might be a current like bring it's an inch
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: of water. It don't matter the damn it's electric in here.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: It was a thing like a credibull, and my my
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: boss was teleworking at day and he was actually online
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 4: but in meetings with his bosses and doing like you know,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 4: briefings and stuff. So I was like the senior supervisor
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 4: in office and I had to evacuate two offices full
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 4: of people and put in an emergency call and and
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 4: had to fucking send people home to telework. And I
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 4: was like, and while I'm dealing with the ship that's
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 4: happening in my office the office next door, who is
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 4: our people branding our hard water heat or somethinging.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, okay, y'all, hold on, y'all leave.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: I was like I did everybody on the inside of
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: the building to get to the outside of.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: The building immediately.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is you was looking for? Grab your
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: ship and get out.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: I had some of my people when they saw me
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 4: come by something we got it back in the y
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 4: was like sh say less than backing the ship up?
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 4: And they got they got outside.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: Who was already paid?
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 2: What you got that?
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: I heard you when you was down there. I'm good,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 3: I'm out of here.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: But some people were taking the sweet time, and I.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: Was like, I'll be waiting for them to tell us
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 3: because thy home where we can leave early.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 4: So I at first I told them before before I
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 4: talked to my boss, I had to evacuate the buildings.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 4: So they were standing outside and like in the area
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 4: between our buildings and in the parking lot. So it
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 4: was maybe five five literally five to seven minutes they
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 4: were standing outside and I went back in the building
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, the admins.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: Our admins are older ladies.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 4: I think our one admin is like ninety four and
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 4: the other one, yeah, she's still working.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 2: Why she loves it the same reason why my grandma
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 2: is still powerlifting.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 4: My god that she still works. And then our other admin,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 4: I think it's in her eighties. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 4: eighty wan still powerlifting. We saw that before we started
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 4: recording to day. I'll look at her name.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 2: Before my back I was trying to move boxes.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 4: But you can start powerlifting now, my goodness. But they're
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 4: older women, and they were also clear on the other
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: side of our office is pretty pretty large. They were
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 4: on the other side of the office, by by our
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: front door, away from where the issue was going on
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 4: with the water, so they were fine.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 2: So people were hanging out our side.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 4: I got my boss on the phone final he called
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 4: me back because he was still to me he had
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 4: deposit and he called me and I was like, I
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 4: don't know what to do. He was at brandon Sndering
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 4: right home, so I was like, all right, y'all go
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 4: home and tell it work now. A couple of people
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 4: on my team was like, other folks were center around
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 4: other folks like, Okay, what the hell's going on?
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 4: And I went back in and was trying to get
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 4: people to move stuff, like away, pick up stuff off
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 4: the floor in the area that was flooding, because the
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 4: flooding started in our mechanical room, got into our serf.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 4: This is the mechanical room. It's at the back corner
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 4: of the building. In front of the this where my
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 4: team Syster's all hupels. But to the left of it,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 4: it's our server room and the office it's a hallway
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 4: and then our big conference room. So the water started,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 4: this flooding started in our mechanical room, got into our
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 4: server room, and then one of my coworkers offices, like
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 4: half of his office floor was way. He had stacks
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 4: of drawings and paperwork and stuff that he was basically
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 4: stuff that he had to toss but just didn't toss.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 4: He had had it stacked up like in piles on
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 4: this floor, so a lot of that stuff that was
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 4: on the bottom got wet. So I said, y'all, y'all
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 4: day on the phone racking, I said, y'all evacuate. That
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 4: means get out now. If you not cop off your
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 4: phone call, get out of the building. So I'll go
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: next door to lock up that office. They standing there
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: talking and shit, Hey, yeah, so you know we got
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 4: this meeting at eleven thirty. But I guess I said,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 4: y'all out, office closed, round up, packing stuff up outside.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: Now we got it. You ain't moving fast enough.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 3: Needs the chest.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: Shit. So after that day I had I sent everybody
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: home to telework. It was just me. My boss was
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: teleworking the day she came in to the office. Thankfully
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: he doesn't.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 4: He lives a couple of miles from the office, so
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 4: it took him no time once his meeting and then
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 4: he came right in and then left back because he
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 4: had to go back to the other meetings that he
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 4: had to telework for. But he came into survey the damage.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 4: But I sent them text messages and stuff and I
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: would show you off. I had my actual workfrone, which
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 4: is at home, so the flooding was contained to the
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 4: other side of the office where my team sits. My
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 4: office is on one one side of the other side
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 4: of the building along at the front. Mine is in
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 4: the back. That's Adman's at the front by the front door.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 4: So it was just three of us in the office
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 4: the rest of the day. And I was like, well,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 4: it's quiet. They came. They bought those them high pressure
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 4: suckers that they extracted to pull water out of any
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 4: and everything.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: Them think.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 4: Pour water out all the carpets, and we had people
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 4: throw papers away and they had the high power fans
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 4: going for three days. That's to happen Wednesday. The high
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 4: power fans were on all day Wednesday, all day Thursday.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 4: When I got to the office on Friday morning, they
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 4: were going so but it was dry. So I saw
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 4: people didn't come back office and starting on Monday.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: That's that's that was a great question.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 4: And after all that happened, I got home. I had
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 4: plans to go to the gym and work out and
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 4: you know, go home, and I said, fuck this. I
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 4: got home, I stripped, laid my fat ass on my
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 4: couch and went to sleep.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: I don't blame you. I said I need to do
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: because I'm stressed. You need not my whole now they
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: came now i'm your.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 3: Your that's what you need to do.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: But I don't know.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 4: Sometimes if it's big enough, they do make numbing and
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 4: cream for that, and if it's big enough, if it's
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 4: big enough, it might tear, So you might need to
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 4: spray a little numb and cream on the round the program.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 2: But the other out of yeah, out of the situation.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: So when the train goes into the tunnel, you won't
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: just feel pain.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: Oh the spray.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: It's called go dick. I mean I think they have
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: a for throats too.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they got go de loss of Just.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 4: So you know, have you seen the gift of the
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 4: train going into the too small tunnel and it cracks
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: the openings as the train goes deeper into the tunnel.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing. So sometimes if you if you
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: use the numb and cream it all. I'll just say
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: this as much real taking.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 6: I'll say this, you'll feel full, don't fuck up.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: I'm done moving on from there.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 4: So bro, tell us about your sleep, I geene, what's
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 4: your sleeper, and now you was different because again we
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 4: and our be it's by our lonely as selves.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 3: But you married, he got something. You got a wife
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 3: and a sun.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: At the foot of y'all being in his crib and
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 4: you sleep with the missus. So but how much did
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 4: you get every night?
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 2: Like on average, I.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: Mean ship since he like well always been like always
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: been up, like like up crazy because I work all
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: It's like I work all day. Then I come home
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: then it's like yo, sometimes it's like hard for me
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: to like wind down. So usually now unless when I
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: was working at the swim school yard, like I come
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: home like I'll come home, take a shower, water, you know,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: take a shovel wa excess chlorine off of me, and
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: then like right at that eat, I'm out, like you know,
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: like might watch TV or whatever, or I might, I might,
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: I might. I might have played the switch, but then
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: I end up falling. Then I have the falling sleep
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: switching in and like damn, like god damn. But now
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: it's I base my like I based I based my
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: sleep on like you know, like when he when AJ
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: go to sleep, because sometimes it's like you know, he
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: will be up with him all day and then when
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: I come home, I'm only up with him for a
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: little bit. So I'm like, all right, cool, we'll give
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: him up, We'll get my bath, feed him. I'm not
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: giving you nothing.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 2: Get with me.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: Well, hey, Chase, we'll give my we'll give my bad,
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: feed him, change them, and then he'll be in. He'll
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: be in uh, he'll be in his grip. But then
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: I'm in front playing the game and something like. That's
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: my way of wounded down. So sometimes like I'll be
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: on the game, probably like a good hour. I'm I
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: think I'm at that age. I'm I'm I'm at that
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: age where if I sit down and I get com
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: I'm out.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 4: That's me when I get my hair cut every real Friday,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 4: when that ship, when that buzzed on my ears.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah, young kid, you used to come out when we
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 5: went on our day going, when we went on our
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 5: field trip the other day that we were talking about
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 5: in the last episode.
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 2: We was riding in the car. I knowed it off
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 2: a couple of times while you was driving. I don't
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: know what it is.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 3: If I'm in the calling somebody else is driving, and
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 3: somebody who driving them comfortable with baby. At one minute,
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 3: especially when we ain't talking or nothing. When you having
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: the conversation, I'll be like, you.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: Know, we're getting over.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 3: I'm like a kid when it comes to stuff like
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 3: give somebody else, I'm like a kid. I will fall asleep.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 3: So goddamn path shure.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: But yeah, it's funny because the dude I'll see you
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: on Facebook that he'd be like, yo, when when you
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: were at thirty and you know, when you want to
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: get thirties, the things that you can't do the things
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: that you did in get twenties. And one of them
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: was like when you when you were you can't stretch
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: too you can't stretch too hard. Or when you sit down,
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: you know usually you used to you know, you used
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: to just PLoP down on the couch or in the chair.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: And it's like no, He's like, now you got rubbing
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: your knees, and ship like, eh that that knee rubbed
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: that you're sitting there, Like you're sitting there as soon
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: as you sit down, and it's like yo, like you
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: just even if you even if your ain't hurting, you know,
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: you just sit down, you just start rubbing your knees
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: and you're like then that that start relaxing you then
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: you just laid back.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: Look, you're young. You take one blink and it's out.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: Oh don't let Martin be on.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: I can't fall asleep with TV on.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: I told you.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: I like, So, when you were younger, did you have
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 2: a TV in your bedroom?
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 3: No?
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: I did.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 4: That's why I didn't have a TV in my bedroom
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 4: until I was an adult at growing up from my
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 4: mother's house. When I was in college. Even so, when
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 4: I was a late teenager, like maybe from like fifteen
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 4: sixteen on, I've had a TV in my room, but
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 4: I would I listened to music. I always when I
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 4: got my iPod, I had the bows, the sound doock,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 4: and I would listen to music. The TV will be
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 4: in my room and I would watch TV in my room,
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 4: but I wouldn't watch it, like go to sleep. Don
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 4: you think of a way that you would want to
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 4: improve I guess yours is dependent on the fact that
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 4: you have a new born at home that you have
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 4: to be up for. But in what ways could you
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 4: improve your your sleep hygene? Or do you want to
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 4: improve your sleep hyagene?
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: Honestly, I doesn't. I mean Sunday Sundays are really Sunday
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: Sundays are really like like a really good day, like
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 1: really good days, like weekend days, because I don't, like,
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: I don't really do anything on the Sunday, so it's
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: like whatever, you know, on the weekends if I'm not
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: like yo, you know, I'm not running around like usually
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: between seven seven in seven, I'm like, I'm up. But
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: then it's like after that, like I do sometimes I
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: go to bed early, like I find myself falling asleep,
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: you know, going to bed early, and it's crazy as
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: hell because I wake up like one o'clock and like,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: damn in the afternoon, in the morning, at one o'clock
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: in the morning, I damn.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 4: You see to one o'clock and afternoon I used to
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 4: I wish that was when you were younger, like early twenties.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 4: I could literally and this is one thing I actually
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 4: missed about like being younger, I could be in class
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 4: all day, coming home at like four o'clock, getting a
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 4: bed from like five thirty to eight thirty, get up
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 4: east something, be it for like an hour or two
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 4: to go back to bed and sleep.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: Into the following Yeah, yeah, now you should well now
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: we wake up and I mean, but no, but I
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: feel like I feel like because you know, we got everything,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: you know, we got everything coming towards and coming towards
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: to our poems. It's like, yo, it's it's it's a
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: little bit it's a bit distracting. Now, Like, yo, you
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: could you could, like Seana said, like Shanna said, you
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: want shying to said, like you can be in the
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: bed and then it's like, yo, you got your phone
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: in hand, and you like, damn that's interesting. Yeah, I
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: mean no, it's it's just like it's just like being
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: when we first started playing on the on the web.
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: It's like we're playing. It's like, yo, it's like when
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: we when we when we first got internet and then
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: you know, we or and we're supposed to be working
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: on like working on like our reports or whatever, and
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: then it's like, yo, you get on you get on
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: Wikipedia and you start looking. You look up one thing
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: and then be like then they give you suggestions and
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: Ship it's like, oh, damn, yo, what what year did
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: what year? Did More Community stop stop running?
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: Eighty three? You know?
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying. But you be sitting
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: there like and then it's like, oh, you're using Google
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: and Ship. Then it's like, yo, how much? How like?
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 2: How much does the pennyway?
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: Ship? That sounds like anxiety to me?
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 3: How much does a pennyway?
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: Now? That so much copper? It is actually in a penny?
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 2: Did I leave the fridge open down? Where is my
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: birth certificate? Did I turn the stove?
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: How much copper is in there?
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: How much do you even turn the stove on it?
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 2: I think my pinky to the blanket, I really do
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 2: need to wash.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: Then you start looking that ship.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: Up like I put that food away, my pinky to
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: my pinky? To is you ain't cooked to day? You
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 2: had to take out? What did you put it away? So?
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 2: I wore two black shirts this week? But if I
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: wear a third, would that be doing too much? Or
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: should I just wear a different color? That was a
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: good combo.
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: We got questions this episode about your favorite thing, sleep
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  Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna leave it to you.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not, and y'all know I wasn't. So the first
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  Speaker 3: question today, okay, it's gonna come from rudd it and
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  Speaker 2: Ask Meen.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 3: I do threads, you know, questions from X men and
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  Speaker 3: ex women, but they are usually universal questions.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I try to stick to. So that's when
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  Speaker 2: it is for anybody to answer. It is.
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  Speaker 3: Those of you who have been cheated on and forgave
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  Speaker 3: them and tried to continue the relationship.
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  Speaker 2: How did it end?
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  Speaker 4: We're still broken And I told myself once that ended,
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  Speaker 4: I'd never go back and never did good.
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  Speaker 3: But you initially forgave them and trying to work it out.
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  Speaker 2: Low self esteement time, I understand.
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  Speaker 1: For me, I didn't even know, like I had suspicions.
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  Speaker 1: But like once we broke Like once we broke up,
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  Speaker 1: that's when all you know, that's when all the stories
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  Speaker 1: and shit came out. And then you start putting two
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  Speaker 1: and two together and it's like, ain't that a bitch?
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  Speaker 1: So then when you're saying, it's like, y'all hope you tripped.
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  Speaker 2: And I hope you tripped.
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  Speaker 3: You they stuffed their baby toe when the end of
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  Speaker 3: the order, do you know how mad?
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  Speaker 2: Nope? I just hope.
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  Speaker 1: I just hope you tripped. Fall break your nose like
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  Speaker 1: Marshall and like Marshall Brady.
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  Speaker 3: Oh damn well she got hit by a football though
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  Speaker 3: every every show crazy poor Marsha Marshall, Marshall, Marshall.
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  Speaker 2: Poor thing for me? Uh, I finally opened my eyes.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna mirror what Brandon said about the whole low
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  Speaker 3: self esteem thing. I wanted to keep my family together.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to work work it out. It was a
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  Speaker 3: bunch of I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it,
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  Speaker 3: forgive me, they mean nothing, a bunch of bull crap.
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  Speaker 2: Or it was to deny. On first, it was denial.
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  Speaker 3: It was I ain't do that, you overreact and blah
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  Speaker 3: blah blah, and then I hit that ass what evidence? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: couldn't deny that ship then, But whatever the way it
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  Speaker 3: finally ended, it is one day I woke up and
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  Speaker 3: realized that I needed, I wanted it, and I and
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  Speaker 3: I deserved more. And I finally walked away kindly told
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  Speaker 3: him to pack his shit and get the fuck out
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  Speaker 3: up then where you're going, But you won't be laying
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  Speaker 3: your head and here the night, bitch, fight me on
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  Speaker 3: it because all this motherfucker is in my name, your
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  Speaker 3: name in the here, No, god damn where your mail?
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  Speaker 2: So go to your mama house. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, I finally woke up and opened my eyes
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  Speaker 3: and I told myself I would never forgive it again.
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  Speaker 3: And the two relationships I was in after that, I didn't.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't forgive it. If I had an
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  Speaker 2: inkling a suspicion and it Nah, A nope, I feel
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  Speaker 2: it can't do it. Next question.
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  Speaker 3: Grown her head back, going over to six brown chicks
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  Speaker 3: because what is a wine in her? That's the episode
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  Speaker 3: without some fuckery. AI, righty, I know the cougar dating rules.
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  Speaker 2: I'm twenty.
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  Speaker 3: Bernard is forty eight and sexy as fucked Bernadette.
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  Speaker 2: We met at the gym.
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  Speaker 3: Bernadett is financially secure and situated. Her kids are grown,
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  Speaker 3: and she wants sex. But when I ask her for things,
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  Speaker 3: she snaps, you gotta do that on your own, baby.
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  Speaker 3: I raised my kids already.
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  Speaker 2: She's not patient.
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  Speaker 3: She refuses to invest in my dream, and she doesn't
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  Speaker 3: listen when I explain what I can do with the
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  Speaker 3: proper funding and her financial support. When I ask for money,
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  Speaker 3: she asks like I'm bothering her. But when she wants sex,
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  Speaker 3: I race to meet her. I require a upkeep. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not just her dick on demand. I'm a whole person.
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  Speaker 3: I need things she can provide, A whole person. Oh shit,
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  Speaker 3: I need things that she can provide. She never lets
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  Speaker 3: me stay overnight. I told her I'm practically unhoused and
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  Speaker 3: that I loved her and I would like to stay
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  Speaker 3: with her. Berna that said, no one falls in love
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  Speaker 3: faster than the narcissist with no place to stay. You
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  Speaker 3: are you can come through and eat my pussy. Like
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  Speaker 3: I said, I know the cool rules. My friend has
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  Speaker 3: an old lady who takes care of him and she
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  Speaker 3: gives him her call. Why is Bernada doing me like this?
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  Speaker 3: How to train her?
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  Speaker 2: You can't advice.
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  Speaker 1: You can't train her because she do. You not the
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  Speaker 1: only one. Ooh, you're just the Monday. You ain't never
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  Speaker 1: been able to stay to night, not never every time,
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  Speaker 1: like every time you need, every time you need some
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  Speaker 1: kind of help.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: She always telling you Na, but you can come through
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  Speaker 1: and eat the box. And she said, you're not the
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  Speaker 1: only one, bro. And the one that and the one
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  Speaker 1: that she is taking care of of, he the one
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  Speaker 1: that stands to night or she.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but.
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  Speaker 1: That's what That's what it is, Bro. You're not the
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  Speaker 1: only one. There ain't no training because she been here
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  Speaker 1: before and she already knows. She don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: like She don't want to be like silly ass gerald Dane,
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  Speaker 1: not silly as gerald Geraldine gerald Dane wanna be be
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  Speaker 1: Russell Russaving, not me, bitch you're getting you get in
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  Speaker 1: I get that head and leave.
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  Speaker 2: Get that head. You ain't get no bread, now leave.
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  Speaker 1: And the fuck up thing is. And if you got
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  Speaker 1: a problem with it, like you got a problem with
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  Speaker 1: how she's treating you like real shit, you just stop going.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she gonna do grab you right back here
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  Speaker 2: neck and track you back to her house, right like
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  Speaker 2: what you gonna do?
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  Speaker 1: Like you sitting here trying to put all this time
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  Speaker 1: in trying to get on, trying to get her to
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  Speaker 1: trying to get her to invest in your business, like
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  Speaker 1: you go to kickstarter, not kickstart. I'm just saying, like
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  Speaker 1: kickstart of whatever, you know, go fund me, do something,
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  Speaker 1: like do something or like she she already told you
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  Speaker 1: what she is, what she here for?
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  Speaker 2: She ain't she not here for nothing?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah for a good time, not a long time. That's
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  Speaker 3: basically what's going on right now. Sorry, unfortunately, but fortunately
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  Speaker 3: you are not able to secure the kind of cougar
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  Speaker 3: that your homeboy secured. Get a fucking job. Yeah, stop
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  Speaker 3: trying to get this woman to take care of you,
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  Speaker 3: your clown. You are dick on demand, because when she
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  Speaker 3: demanded you take your dumb as over there, you leave
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  Speaker 3: with the same results.
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  Speaker 2: Your bitch is right, only you miss no step. I'm
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  Speaker 2: on my white baby. You leave with a wet dick
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  Speaker 2: and you're feeling hurt. Yeah, so I'm on away baby.
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  Speaker 3: Go do something.
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  Speaker 2: Don't work for it, like the Bible said, Man, it
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  Speaker 2: don't work, don't eat. Was that the Bible was that?
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  Speaker 4: Was that your grandma, because that's something like old granny
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  Speaker 4: wisdom too, that's learned the ship, My motherfucker.
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  Speaker 2: Don't that don't work, don't eat it don't work for.
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  Speaker 1: Me, that's what they say. But I mean, but the
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  Speaker 1: crazy party, I mean, but the crazy part is it's
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  Speaker 1: like you you hitting her with so I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: got I'm trying to get her to invest in my business,
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  Speaker 1: like invest in my business.
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  Speaker 2: And it's like she said, it ain't no future in
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  Speaker 2: that ship exactly.
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  Speaker 1: You yo, you probably you probably you probably forty years old.
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  Speaker 2: She said.
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  Speaker 3: She she's not going to god damn pension. Well, he said,
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  Speaker 3: so she probably still working. How good government Joe got
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  Speaker 3: her pension.
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  Speaker 1: For walk, Yeah, she probably can. She makes some money.
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  Speaker 3: She ain't about to give you her good sold security
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  Speaker 3: money that like, yeah, she's not gonna do it. She
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  Speaker 3: probably got twenty years and already.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, she has grown. The bad part that
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  Speaker 2: part the bad part about it.
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  Speaker 1: But the bad part about about about the about these
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  Speaker 1: ladies now is that you know they've been here before,
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  Speaker 1: like you know, they've been here before, and Yo, they
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  Speaker 1: they already had everything.
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  Speaker 2: Yo.
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  Speaker 1: Now they just need they just need a little rise
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  Speaker 1: of dazzle like on the weekend, like Yo, she and
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  Speaker 1: she got.
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  Speaker 3: She just wanted to be folded like a prexel. And
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  Speaker 3: again that's it, that's all.
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  Speaker 1: She ain't asking. And then that's why I ask you.
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  Speaker 1: She ask you for sure, she ain't even know. She
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  Speaker 1: ain't even tricking on you, like now she really.
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  Speaker 2: Liked you murder.
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 3: That ain't tricking She ain't.
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that's how this song was shown.
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  Speaker 1: It's remixed, I mean, but truth be told, that's what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. But really that's what it is. It just
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  Speaker 1: like yo, she she.
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  Speaker 2: Don't give a fuck at all, not one like yo.
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  Speaker 1: If you if you ain't talking about coming over there
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  Speaker 1: to fold her like a lawn chair, she ain't trying
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  Speaker 1: to hear none of that.
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  Speaker 2: Ship sounds like.
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  Speaker 3: The fold like or Gomi. She's trying hearing after you.
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  Speaker 2: Help bird this said, it sounds like.
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  Speaker 7: I'm just saying in order to me, I'm just get
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  Speaker 7: y'all bird of that shout out dog sending that wholebo
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  Speaker 7: sexual back on where you got him from, exactly whole
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  Speaker 7: bow sexual.
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  Speaker 2: Guys, whole bow h o b.
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  Speaker 1: All. They can't hear My question for them other people,
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  Speaker 1: same a question for the for these, for these, for
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  Speaker 1: these guys out here looking for these cougars.
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  Speaker 3: Yo, you may go get your an alley cat, get you,
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  Speaker 3: you might get it coming out with all cats.
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  Speaker 2: What's the alley cat? Alley cat?
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: Since that's one of them ladies that be hanging down.
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  Speaker 1: I'm hanging out at.
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  Speaker 2: The larger amount they find, like the cougar not in.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't want to.
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  Speaker 2: There used to be a silver shadow. Silver shadows closed
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  Speaker 2: twenty years ago. Since that's what it was. That's an
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  Speaker 2: all cat.
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  Speaker 3: They ain't quite got it, No, they ain't quite gott No. No,
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  Speaker 3: that is cool, because she doing she's supposed to do.
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 3: She getting their heads and giving on no bread, and
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 3: is she leaving? That's what them all cats having somebody
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 3: paying them some dad attention. They gonna pay a phone Bill.
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 3: They're gonna buy you them new Jason just came out.
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  Speaker 3: They're gonna do something.
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  Speaker 2: She go get your allo cat.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's the bad yo. She's gonna take the top
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  Speaker 3: teeth out.
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  Speaker 2: Baby.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, all, why did you always seem to bring up
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 4: like missing benches on.
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  Speaker 2: Like this happens all the time. You're always bringing up
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 2: somebody missing teeth for a dog eating teeth or something
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 2: that happened.
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  Speaker 3: The last time.
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  Speaker 4: Jok Wow, I'm just saying I heard without no teeth.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's spectacular. You're the dog I heard through the
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 2: great mind. I got all my original teeth, y'ad. I
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 2: don't know, Oh goodness, grazios. How would you know? What?
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 2: Don't you know what?
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 1: You said?
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 2: You got all your original t so you wasn't no,
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 2: But how would you know?
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 1: You ain't feeling it?
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 2: I ain't feeling it. But nigga, I react.
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 3: I see the reaction. Niggah, that nigga gripping coffee eating claws.
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 3: She got all kinds of carpet fiber stuff between his toes.
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying.
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: Her niggas funny.
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 2: Rahen go get you all cat. Mm hmmm. Because Burner
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 2: that ain't with the ships.
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 3: But I think that I feel like you shouldn't fool
• 1:37:04
  Speaker 3: with the lady's name Berna, that they might set some
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 3: ship on fire. Okay, I need you to go watch
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 3: a movie called Wait Next.
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 2: Lee burn that alone. Let her go buy the business.
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 3: Okay, she ain't giving me no money, baby, but that's
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 3: the She is not going to give you the startup
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 3: money for your record label.
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, she's not gonna help you.
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 1: Start your car wash pushback records.
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 2: She she's not going to do any of that.
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, you're going full paper.
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 2: But now full paper, they ain't gonna gum wrapper.
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 5: You know what.
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 3: No, I'm saying Lee Burnie alone, Honey, I got an
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 3: aunt TV Burner that she't be played with. Yeah, Lee,
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 3: Lee Burnie alone, Okay, all right, go find you some
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 3: stable house and they got men shelter this baby.
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 2: They'll help you out. You said, Nigga said he on house,
• 1:37:58
  Speaker 2: That's what he said.
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 3: But put his ass up and the burn of that
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 3: three big room that she worked her ass off to
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 3: get on the first Home Byas program when she first
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 3: started herself back in the seventeen. The house was fifty
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 3: thousand dollars you just not moving your ass and burn
• 1:38:14
  Speaker 3: of that house.
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 1: You here and all her kids are gone.
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 3: My mama passed that house down to her. She didn
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 3: maintained that house and took good care of the house.
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 2: She ain't about to move you up in there. Sorry,
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 2: her kids, I don't let that no more. She can
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 2: put thathing she put them, niggaw, What made you think
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 2: you bring your hand's name? Yeah, yo, yeah, it works somewhere, let.
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 3: It go Safeway, however, shipless.
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 2: Advance Auto Parts, Chick fil A somewhere.
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 1: But I mean something you try and get in the
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 1: like you're trying, you trying to get in her place
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 1: and again established but you, oh, come on, yo, grow up,
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: grow up all her kids unless she said all her kids?
• 1:38:59
  Speaker 1: Is her kids grown?
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 2: Grown? Grown?
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well sorry for you, sir, Not really not really
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 3: that sounded like the appropriate thing to say. Well, we try,
• 1:39:16
  Speaker 3: we're not and no actuality start go to hell.
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 2: Well that's it, I'm sorry, brother, go to hell. We not?
• 1:39:25
  Speaker 2: I mean, hey, we're not. Well, he's gonna get a
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 2: mail at the mission.
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  Speaker 2: At Wine and Audacity the podcast podcasts. Any closing words
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 2: the mission, give hot meals. If you can get us,
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  Speaker 2: you gotta get you, get standing line, you gotta get there.
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  Speaker 3: Give you some hot souper little bread, you know, get
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  Speaker 3: your little cock sleeping for the night. You know, try
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  Speaker 3: to help you with a few programs, you know, get
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