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BASICS ABOUT BEGINNING BDSM, FOR OUR NEWBIES! · CALL ME MISTRESS

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Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me Madame Liv.
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Good morning. Madame Liv and I, we haven't
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gotten to do an episode in quite some time and we right now today
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we want just to talk about some basics.
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And I thought, I just thought, hey, Liv, let's get on Grok and
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ask Grok. What are the most common BDSM
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questions that people ask about on the Internet?
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And the number one question was, what does BDSM stand for and
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what does it involve? Oh, that.
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Was easy. That's easy, right?
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So bondage, domination, sadism and masochism.
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So Liv and I always do bondage, you always do discipline.
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I try to. Yeah, and I know I'm a sadist.
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I'm pretty fucking mean sometimes.
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Liv's been really fucking mean at times.
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Too, It depends who comes in. It depends, yeah.
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It's like I would that be considered a switch if I can
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switch between sadist or dominant?
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Yeah, I mean, I'm a switch because I mean, I think you
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could be dominant no matter what, But you know, sadist is if
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you really want to hurt someone. And there's been times where.
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Sometimes I do get turned on. Yeah, by really hurting someone.
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Yeah, I don't know why, but it's only if they want it though,
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Yeah, otherwise I feel guilty belly and my feelings will get
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hurt for them. I think it's just the power
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aspect of things. I think it's power, yeah, it's
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the high. Yeah, it's high, for sure.
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And then masochism, where honestly, you want to get hurt,
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you want to feel pain. And we've had a lot of people
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that are like that, yeah. So.
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Yeah, so that's the easy enough question now #2 it says why do
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people practice BDSM? So why do you think?
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Liz, I wouldn't say that's an as easy to answer as the other
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question. No.
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Because I feel like everybody goes for it for different
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reasons, obviously, to be one with themselves, yeah.
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So Grok basically said common curiosity, right?
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Endorphin rushes, emotional intimacy, stress relief, or
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exploring fantasies. Yes.
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All of the above. All of the above.
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Yeah, we see just people on a more of a professional basis
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with a lot of things. That's true because you know, in
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your last episode you had Master Cauldron.
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He even said if it's for 5 minutes or five years, I put my
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all into it. He does.
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He's emotionally put into himself into it, and a piece of
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him is with his sub. I believe that in all ways.
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I can say. That to watch them go through
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that, you know. I can say.
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You're the one in charge of how much they can go through in it
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where the line is drawn. You know, I agree with you in
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that aspect. So yeah, so yesterday a lot of
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people, they wish me happy birthday and they were super
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sweet. And there was people obviously
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that we've seen professionally. And, you know, I look at them
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and I'm like, like Sir Doofus, I love him, love him, love him.
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And you're right, that is an emotional connection.
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That whole Abd that whole ABDL scene, it's, it goes beyond that
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because if you were to call me tomorrow and say, Mia, I'm out
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of gas, I'm on the side of the road, I don't know what to do,
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blah, blah, blah, blah. I would be there in a heartbeat
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for him, you know? So I think that you developed
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this, this friendship and this connection with people that you
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see obviously. Absolutely.
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So. Or you're not doing it right.
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Yeah, yeah, very true. Or they're total asshole we.
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Don't we still develop some sort of connection?
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It'll just be those are the ones you become a sadist and make
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them eat their pubes. Yeah, our Pew beaters.
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The ones that you remember though, I mean, he might not
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have been connected to in the way that we normally connect
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with ourselves, but he definitely is remembered.
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Man, he has reached out to me, I told you, and he's all about.
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Yeah. He's losing weight, he's doing
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really well, so. Yes.
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Which means we resonated with them.
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Huge, huge yes. So here's the next question.
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What are the most common BDSM activities or fetishes?
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So common in general or common for us?
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I think in general. Well, I don't know.
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Well, it says spanking, blindfolding, bondage or
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role-playing. So and then it says and how they
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differ from more advanced ones. So we've had some really like
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big role plays. We had one, one time and you
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know, he came in and he was told us that when he was 30, he went
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to swim in his apartment pool at 2:00 in the morning.
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And we basically spanked him and did a role play with him the
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whole time. And it was almost like his face
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even went back 40 years. He was in that mindset.
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Yes, and after the session Liv looked at me and she's like, at
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first I didn't think you were playing with.
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At first I thought he wasn't playing.
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I thought he just went senile and didn't know what was going
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on. I was like, wait, aren't we
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supposed to be doing this? But he was just got into
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character just as fast as you did.
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So I was like, OK. And that was so fun.
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That was fun to watch. Now I wouldn't be able to do
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those things. I'm not very talkative.
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I am not able to do. That is because you could hear
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my submissiveness in my voice. Oh, I didn't think about that.
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So I just don't talk. I speak with my actions.
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Yeah, I get that. I understand that.
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I had a gentleman ask me the other day, he's like, I like
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verbal humiliation and degradation.
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And I said, well, I think I'm going to stay in the session
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because you'll be coming here for the first time.
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I said I'll be there anyway. I said, but I'll tell you nasty
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mean to you verbally the whole time.
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And he's like, oh OK, that works.
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So I told him I'm like, So what time do you want to come you
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little dried up faggot? And it's like, now that's what
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I'm talking about. So anywho, so #4 is BDS in the
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same as abuse? And how is consent?
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Handled it can be it's teetered, you know, teeter into abuse real
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easy. It's all about communication,
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and consent isn't always communication.
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You can say, yeah, I want you to do this, but you're not actually
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sharing what you like. We don't like, you know, it's
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about communication. Yeah, and that's why we give
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people safe words. You know, we had a gentleman not
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too long ago and you said, oh, do you know the safe words?
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But I've seen him before. But he told you no, he didn't
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know the safe words. And I was like, motherfucker,
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you making me look bad? We're like green.
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You're not going to be saying green because we're going to see
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you. And you might say, oh, I'm
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green, everything's good. He might not say that at all, or
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she might not say that at all. But then Yellow will stop and
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assess. We'll slow down with the scene
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and handle it and then read everything stops and we're done.
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It's all over. And yeah, so I mean, I don't
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think we've ever gotten to a point where it's like we've
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never talked to them about everything.
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It's just something that we always do.
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But I'm like you, I think I've watched people in the lifestyle
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and I've seen it online and there's a lot of people that I
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mean, even colder. And we were talking about that,
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you know, we, we did that interview together.
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And he was the first to say, you know, there's people that do
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abuse people. And some people consent to the
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abuse. Yeah.
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You know, so it's just how far are you willing to go?
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Yeah, that's true and. Making sure you choose the right
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Dom for you, because you know you could have a soft Dom when
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you're needing something a little bit hard and.
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Just depends on who it is and I guess the connection you develop
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you know? You know, it's just like going
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to for your first day of school you're not going to be friends
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with. Everybody.
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No, you're not. Each person is not for you.
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Yeah. Each Dom isn't for you.
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You can try out different Doms and see how well they work for
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your personality and your preferences.
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You know, I did, I'm going to say I did a session with someone
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a few months back. It was just me late at night,
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blah, blah, blah. Anyway, I said, so Are you ready
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to start your scene? And he's like, let's not call it
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that. And I'm like, OK, what do you
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want to call it? And he's like, just you and me
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doing our thing. Like, no, it's a scene, you
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little weirdo. No, he wasn't weird.
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He wanted to not think of it as being an actual profession.
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Yeah, and he didn't want to think about as being
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role-playing or anything. A lot, you know, I noticed that
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was, I don't remember who asked that said that they just wanted
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it to be about me and and him. And I didn't understand that
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whenever we said it, he wanted it to move beyond professional.
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But like this is professional and I just couldn't wrap my head
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around it. But maybe you're talking about
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the same thing of, hey, we just want it to feel like we're doing
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this together. Yeah, we are.
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It's not just a professional, it is a professional setting.
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But we are doing this together. I'm going through things just as
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much as you're going through things.
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Yes, the next question is how do I start exploring BDSM as a
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beginner? Inquiries about safe, safe entry
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points like communication with partners, trying light
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activities, or finding communities.
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Yeah, that's that's pretty much it, you know.
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I would also put in there research.
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Yeah. A lot of research, a lot of
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reading to get to know what you're kind of stepping into
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versus just coming in and thinking, oh, it's just abuse or
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oh, it's just, you know, handcuffs, you know, like to
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really dig in and what it means. So research joining the
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community, I wouldn't even practice with your partner until
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you get enough research in your head for it and try out
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something light. For instance, being blindfolded
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while having sex or being blindfolded while doing a task
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and being made to complete that task.
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Very light. You can't really hurt somebody.
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You can't hurt them mentally. You don't want to put anything
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mental strains on anybody just yet, just to things light.
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Yeah, we always try to go slow with people.
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Yeah, absolutely. And, you know, just like you
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said, blindfold during sex, you know, when you're with your
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partner at home doing things like that, you know, I think
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that's that's one of those things where people always ask
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me. There was a question between
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Tony and I. He'd asked me.
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He'd called me one day. First time I got to talk to him,
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you know, and he told me that his wife really wants to explore
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her spot, her bisexual side. Who's Tony?
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Tony is the gentleman that lives in New York and we've had, you
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know, multiple e-mail exchanges over the last three years and I
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never got to talk with him. And so he called me one day and
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he, he's opened up a little bit to his wife, but you know, he
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told me that he doesn't really desire anymore to be bisexual,
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to explore with men or anything because he's very content in his
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marriage. His thing is he wants to submit
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and be submissive and he can't be that with his wife because
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she's not a Dom. She's very much submissive and
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they just don't have that connection.
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So I told him, I said, well, I asked him what does she want to
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do as far as her, you know, personal exploration.
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And he said that she wants to explore her by side.
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And I said, well, you know, if you want to do that for her, if
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she's not ready, as far as, you know, seeing a woman or anything
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like that, I said, put some really soft clothes on.
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Don't let her feel your body hair, but you know, restrain her
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gently with something very soft, you know, make it very erotic
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blindfolder so to do a lot of sensory play and like make it
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like, you know, rubbing her with feathers or you know, very just
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light. Stuff but soft.
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Now it depends on their dynamic. But dressing up like a woman
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with her blindfolded, that could mess up a little bit too.
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You got to shoot. He'd have to, really.
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No, I wasn't saying dress up like a woman.
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We said put on something soft. Yeah, I, you know, I was
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thinking. I guess I was thinking of like a
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negligee for some reason. Yeah, Silky.
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No, I was just thinking like soft so he so that she couldn't
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feel his like body hair or anything masculine per SE.
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Because I said, you know, wear gloves, you know, even if it was
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latex gloves or something, you know, just something that she
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didn't feel any roughness on his hands or anything like that.
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And use a lot of words. Yeah, imagine you touching her
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or. Imagine that, yes.
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A lot of mind fuckery. Yes, exactly.
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All right, Liv, next question, what is the difference between
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Dom sub, top and bottom? You know I struggle with this
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one. OK well I'll answer this for you
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then. I'm a Dom in real life
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throughout my whole life, and you are switch because you sub
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in your your personal life, your sub.
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Now, if we have someone who comes to us and says, Hey, I
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want you to teach me how to be a dominant, We can't teach anybody
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because it's kind of ingrained that like you either have or you
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don't, but we can teach them to top someone.
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OK, I see. You know, just like if you were
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a Dom in the dungeon, but somebody wants to come in and
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top you, you could be a bottom to someone.
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I see. Yeah, honestly, those those two
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words, top and bottom, we didn't use those those words 15 years
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ago in the lifestyle at all. Maybe they just wanted something
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else have as a middle ground. Yeah, yeah.
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You know, it's like, it's like something else.
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It's kind of like years ago we didn't have, you know, we only
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had like nurses, RNS and LPNS then, well, who else would take
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care of patients? Well, then we had Cnas and it's
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like, oh, we're CNA certified nursing assistants.
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OK. Then after that, now they have
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Med techs. So it's like it's like they
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develop new roles to minimize little middle.
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People that they're needing, yeah.
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Exactly. Next question, what question
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should I ask a potential BDSM partner?
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Oh, that's a good one. So it says focus on negotiation
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like limits, aftercare needs, preferences for dominance and
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submission, and past experiences.
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What do you think? Past experiences, making sure we
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journal to keep track of all the information.
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You know, things are easily forgotten when you read it back
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over, you're able to remember it better.
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OK, yes, I remember what you were like in that moment versus
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not remembering everything. So I would say making sure we
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have a journal, definitely negotiation talk about their
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mindset at that particular time. That's a good one.
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Because you know what, sometimes you might be, maybe you're a
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pain slut. And then today you're just,
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you're really wanting something a little more softer.
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You can't just come in and have a hard scene, so you need to
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negotiate that as well, which I guess would be negotiation.
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Yeah, yeah, that's very true. I like that, you know, we're,
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you know, because I've been in the dungeon with you and you
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always tell them after you ask them after you say where's your
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where's your mindset right now? How do you feel?
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Yeah, and just to make sure I didn't cross any lines.
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Oh, absolutely. No.
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Do I need to give you a little more aftercare and not, you
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know, like, did I hurt your mental state or did I hurt you
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physically? Where is the aftercare going to
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be? All right, the next question why
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do people enjoy pain or humiliation in BDSM?
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Is that it's explanations often tie into psychological aspects
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like subspace or endorphins or emotional release.
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Debunking myths of pathology, so.
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I mean, I agree with that as well, but you know, everybody's
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reasons are different. So in some ways, some people
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want to be punished for things that they've done in the past.
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Yeah. To be released from that or
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because, you know, whenever you have guilt that you've done
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something, it'll sit with you and you can't release it into
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the world. And this can help you release
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it. Yeah, which is, I don't know if
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that's a good thing or a bad thing, but I know it's possible.
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But yes, it does help with the traumas, reliving things and
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being able to work through that in a safer environment.
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Yeah, I agree. I agree with that.
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The next question is what is aftercare and why is it
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important? It says post play emotional and
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physical support is a reoccurring topic including
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cuddling, hydration, or just debriefing.
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I know that it was funny. I did this really heavy scene
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before you and I met and I went to give the guy a piece of
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chocolate and he's like I can't have chocolate, I'm allergic.
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I'm like, go with that and really bad aftercare, then fine,
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because he was like, he was blindfolded.
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You know, we're ending the scene.
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So I was like, here's a piece of candy if you want some candy.
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I said, you know, just relax, you know, we'll take the
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blindfold off, blah, blah, blah. And I was just helping him
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because I thought maybe he had a little low sugar.
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That's what my rationalization was because a lot of times, you
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know, how people fast before they come in, before they were
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doing like pegging or anything like that.
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Yeah. Be a little light headed not
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feeling this. Yes.
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Maybe we'll keep those little packs of crackers if they make
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those salads or keeping that in there.
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Yeah, that'd. Be a good idea.
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Here's you some cracker. Peanut do a fucking snack
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basket. Yeah, with crack packs of
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crackers and take your water or some crackers, put smells of
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peanut butter in it would be really good juice and peanut.
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Butter, definitely. Be really good for sugars and
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stuff. Yeah, that, that's a great idea.
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That's fine. I have to care, be happy.
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Speaking of strap on, I got a new strap on just for me and my
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personal use. That's cool.
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I'm thinking about is your partner's beauty hole opening.
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But that's beautiful hands around those waist.
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But I got something better. I got an actual belt harness so
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I could put right there around his waist and I don't even have
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to hold on to him. Especially if it's a hot and
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sweaty scene, I could just hold on to the handles.
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Oh, that's cool. Yeah, like he's my little.
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So you don't. It doesn't feel like you're
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grabbing a female, it feels like you're just grabbing the ring.
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Yeah, I like that. That's actually really good.
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Isn't that cool? Yeah.
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Yeah, $9, cheap and easy. But yeah, I got instead of an
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harness, I got actual strap on panties to wear because not only
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am I going to give it to you know who, but I told my Sissy
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I'm stretching that little cunt hole.
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You're going to be humiliated, you're going to be degraded, and
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I'm going to stretch you open like you're my filthy little
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whore. Love that for you, so happy.
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All right, remind me. I have to show you a video of
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what I did. I don't want to see no booty
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holes. There's no booty holes.
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I promise it's I did a a demo of a toy.
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Oh. OK.
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It's funny. And the last question, Liv, any
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you would have eaten this up. Normally when I bring this up,
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you're like, oh, tell me. No, what?
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I've been just kind of on the slump side.
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I'm firing. Bummer.
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I love you when you're pegging life.
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Thank you. I should have a bumper sticker.
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The peg life. The peg life better.
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Oh, beg for it, peg for it. Yes, there you go.
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Beg for the peg. That's a good one, I like that.
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One really good one. I like that one the best.
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All right, and the last question, how has media like 50
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Shades of Grey influence perceptions of BDSM?
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It says discussions about inaccuracies, increased interest
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and the need to separate fiction from real, safe practices.
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So we've often brought this up about 50 Shades of Grey and to
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me it's not realistic. I think it can be I.
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Can be, yeah. I don't think that.
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I think people kind of sit on a lot because they're like, oh, we
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don't have 50 Shades of grey because it gives the wrong
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impression of the community. But, you know, if you really
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look at it through the community's eyes, not through
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vanilla's eyes, it's like, I could see that working.
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They should just gave a little more context, some for some
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things, explain things a little bit better.
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Yeah. That would be because.
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It gives the vanilla world a little bit of a misconception,
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but you know that's only because there's not any explanation.
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People said they really loved the books and there was a book
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outside of the traditional 50 Shades and it was just about
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Christian being a submissive. Yes, that came out.
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Yeah, and I didn't, I didn't read those, but.
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Me neither, I watched the I watched the movie when it came
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out. Though, OK.
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Yeah. Because a lot of people, they
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raved about the books and they liked the movies.
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And there was a lot of, you know, my friends that I was able
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to meet because of 50 Shades and that they actually got into the
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swinging lifestyle and the BDSM lifestyle.
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I just said, you know, during 50 Shades, there's a point where
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Christian Grey flips her over and he's got a spreader bar on
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her ankles. And all I could think was, Oh my
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God, he's going to break her ankles because you just can't
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flip. You know, she was kind of
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unknown at this point, like. What was going to be?
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What was going to happen She. Couldn't move her body properly,
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but. Exactly.
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You know, that's, again, misperceptions of things.
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Yeah, but it's for a movie. We it's still a movie, still not
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real life. And you know, there's things
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about murder too. You know, Nothing's always
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correct. Yeah.
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Have you ever watched people give birth on movies?
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You're like, that is not how that fucking happens.
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Wow, You know what I mean? It's kind of the same thing.
23:28
It's like they're just telling a story.
23:31
It doesn't have to be exactly the way it needs to be.
23:33
That's true. They're probably another story
23:35
that's going to come out. Maybe a?
23:35
Little bit better. You know, except now and you see
23:37
somebody like, wow, that look, really look like she gave birth.
23:40
And sometimes you'll be like she sweat.
23:43
Her makeup didn't even run down her face.
23:44
You and I have watched a lot of different types of genre but
23:48
specific about BDSM and I was still more impressed with Nicole
23:54
Kidman in Baby Girl. Yes, I think that had a really
23:57
good take on BDSM. Yeah.
24:00
It's all silent. It didn't explain anything.
24:01
It was just actions that you could see.
24:03
Yeah, like and it explained it through the actions.
24:06
Yes. And it was it's, you know.
24:10
I think you were able to relate to it too, because it was so
24:14
relatable, because it was like, that's how I want to feel.
24:18
Talk about me specifically. Yes, you specifically.
24:21
I didn't know we were talking about me as a who.
24:23
No, because you've talked about being a sub before and you're
24:26
like, I want to feel like a puppy.
24:29
I want to feel like you know. Feel like I want to work for
24:32
something and a dog, you know? Works for it, begs for it.
24:36
You know he jumps on you when he gets excited.
24:39
And I'm not saying I want to jump on them, but just the the
24:42
idea of puppy play does it. I don't think puppy play as in
24:46
like furries. No.
24:48
I'm not thinking that type of puppy play, but definitely if I
24:52
was to look at how I would sub, I would say puppy because of how
24:56
I want to be praised and treated.
25:00
Yeah, you know, Bri often told me this, and this is before I
25:04
always had one Chihuahua. I had one Chihuahua for 18 years
25:07
and I could always picture this because she would wait by the
25:11
window until I returned home and I would put Brie in a scene and
25:16
leave her locked up in the dungeon for days, days.
25:21
And she would say to me, you know, I feel like your lost
25:24
puppy waiting and just hoping because I don't know how long
25:28
it's been, but just waiting for you to come back.
25:32
And I've often read stories like that on the Mistress Mia's
25:36
Dungeon podcast show. But that's, and that's what
25:42
always resonated with me because you've said, yeah, I want to
25:45
feel like a puppy in a sense, not the actual dog, but it's
25:49
their mindset. Yeah.
25:52
So I just thought it was interesting and I loved and baby
25:55
girl how we ordered her a milk here.
25:59
They're at dinner. It's a dinner party.
26:00
It's a work a work party. Everybody's drinking wine and
26:03
champagne. At the end of the night.
26:05
He orders her milk and her Co workers.
26:08
Like, you're not going to drink that, are you?
26:09
And she's like, yes. And she just starts gulping it
26:13
down. Yeah, yeah.
26:16
Being a puppy in a sense for BDSM, you know, it's almost like
26:21
whenever you learn a new trick or what the Dom wants you to
26:23
learn, then you get treated with, you know, little.
26:27
Treats. Be a dog treat or you get
26:29
treated with good girl or things like that.
26:32
These it's all puppy esque. Yeah, and I love the exchange
26:37
when he's like, come here, just come here.
26:40
And then he's going to give her that piece of candy, I mean.
26:43
And he he told her to eat it out of his hand and then spit it
26:46
back out. Yeah, you can't have it
26:48
completely. Yeah, that was so good.
26:50
It was hot. It was so fucking hot, and it
26:53
was like this nasty hotel, you know, and she's crawling on this
26:58
nasty fucking floor. And it's like, oh, that's all I
27:01
could think about because it was just hot.
27:04
And I was thinking of myself being a Dom myself and making my
27:09
sub do that. Yeah, I guess that's how you
27:13
know if you're a Dom or sub. Which one do you resonate with?
27:15
Exactly. Do you resonate with the guy or
27:18
the girl? But I liked that it wasn't about
27:20
him. Yeah.
27:22
And I still want to know what he got out of it.
27:24
And I love the fact that he wasn't all that.
27:27
He wasn't some hot, you know, I mean, he to me, yeah, I liked
27:31
him because he kind of had that thug way about him.
27:35
You know, wannabe. Yeah, like a wannabe thug, you
27:38
know, he just had like, the rough look, like you could
27:41
imagine him with, like, a tattoo under his clothes, body art, you
27:45
know, and. Even through that rough
27:47
toughness, he still saw her. Yeah, he did.
27:50
And. What she needed.
27:51
Yeah. And I think he started getting
27:54
frustrated with her at that one point in the hotel.
27:57
And I don't remember what he said to her, but he was like, do
28:01
you want to do this? Do you want to do that?
28:03
Look, what are you doing? Because she kept like going back
28:06
and forth on. It Yeah.
28:08
It's like you got to make up your mind, yeah.
28:10
Yeah, that was great. And she didn't want to
28:12
relinquish that control. Well, she was going to just try
28:16
and sleep with him, but then he like, grabbed her wrist and be
28:18
like, no, this is not what we're doing.
28:20
Yeah. And then I, you just see her
28:21
crave it more and more and more. Yeah.
28:24
It makes her work for it more and more and more.
28:28
Exactly. Exactly.
28:31
Anywho, you know, I often get a lot of emails and I've gotten a
28:36
lot of emails in the past month from Subs and it's pretty much
28:41
all male Subs. I think I've had one or two
28:43
women writing. There's one hot woman and she's
28:48
she's in Brooklyn, I think. But you know, she's Latin.
28:54
You can, she's beautiful. But you know, she writes me.
28:56
We talk periodically. She's very much a submissive and
29:01
but I thought, oh, she's, she's hot.
29:03
I would dominate her in a heartbeat.
29:05
But then I think about all these sub males and then I'm like,
29:11
gosh, it'd be so great to just have a, you know, farm a farm.
29:17
Like an Ant farm, you just watch them through the glass.
29:20
Male slaves. Well, you know, I keep saying,
29:23
you know I live. You just look at me like what
29:27
the fuck? A farm.
29:30
It makes me think of like Egypt when they built the pyramids.
29:33
Yes, exactly that. Was not good for our history
29:36
though. Hope you know Moses saved a
29:38
bunch of people that way. Yes, yes, however you're wanting
29:42
to. Restart Dark History.
29:45
Well, you know, slaves still exist today in all parts of the
29:49
world still in existence. However, I would want willing
29:53
participants to be my slaves. But.
29:56
Joining of it is white, so I mean, there are blacks and
29:59
Mexicans and every now and an Asian.
30:02
Yeah, but I guess it's primarily white.
30:05
So yeah, let's bring in this farm.
30:07
Can't call us racist. We'll just beat them.
30:12
Oh, too fun. All right, yeah, let's beat the
30:15
fuck out of them. Who wants to be in line?
30:17
And someone messaged us and left a review on the podcast.
30:22
They want some fucked up Fridays.
30:25
Like they want them. They want them bad.
30:27
So Kylie has graciously agreed that she is going to tribute
30:33
herself to come in and going to dominate her and, you know,
30:38
ridiculousness. I just watched an episode
30:40
yesterday. Fucking hilarious.
30:43
The guy and another guy, they were like, like brawling right
30:48
there in the driveway by a car and they were kind of like
30:50
pressed up against the car. Well finally the guy got him in
30:52
a headlock and he was hitting him with a dildo and then
30:55
hitting him with the dildo in the face.
30:58
He ends up flipping him over, pulling his pants down and they
31:01
couldn't show it. But he started.
31:03
Fucking him with the dildo in the driveway up against this.
31:07
Car, my God. It was.
31:10
Ridiculous, yes, but they? Couldn't show the penetration,
31:13
they only showed it to the audience and I was like holy
31:16
fuck balls. Wow.
31:18
Yeah, I think it was an episode with Matt Rife on it.
31:20
I fucking love Matt Rife. You do too.
31:24
Yes, of course I. Do Oh my God, I didn't know.
31:26
I didn't know if you like to do in stand.
31:28
Up I love how he does stand up. I love how he singles out
31:32
disabled people in like the best way.
31:35
Yes, and they love it yes, of course, because it's great
31:37
notice just like everybody else, you know, and not for being oh,
31:41
they're just like everybody else.
31:42
No, they're fucking not. And that's what's great is he's
31:45
literally, you know, I don't know, he just does things in
31:47
such a great way. He does, he does.
31:50
I I totally love it. He's got.
31:51
To be really smart to be able to handle it all too.
31:53
Oh my God, yeah. Come back at things without it
31:57
and sometimes he will be a little bit either racist or
32:00
sexist or something, but he just does it so like gracefully that
32:04
it just works. Yes, yeah, he's awesome.
32:07
You know he's been doing stand ups since he was 14.
32:10
I know that cool is on while in and out.
32:13
Oh, OK. And he would not the cutest
32:15
little kid on Wildin now. Oh my God, that's funny, I have
32:18
to watch that. He was a little weirdo.
32:21
That is hilarious. He actually, there was actually
32:23
one that was going around that he touched Zendaya's face during
32:27
one of their, their, their, they're going back and forth,
32:29
touched Zendaya's face to get her to spit out the water.
32:32
And all of her teammates came out and said, no, don't touch.
32:35
Nobody touches her. And no, it was, I don't know, it
32:38
was just funny. That is funny.
32:40
But yeah, he was not always cute.
32:43
Yeah, well, he's hit his. He's hit his time.
32:46
Though he's hit his peak, hasn't he?
32:48
Yeah. Well, I don't know.
32:49
He's still peeking. He's still going up.
32:52
You know, I love it that he's so transparent too.
32:55
He went and he was talking about how we actually had kind of like
32:59
a breast job done because he said yeah on one of his.
33:03
He was talking about how he was always self-conscious about like
33:06
his nipples and his areolas and he had all that redone.
33:11
I think they were big and pointy.
33:13
Like a girl nipple. Yeah, maybe I I don't, I don't
33:15
think he was that. So he had.
33:17
About it. One flaw.
33:18
Well. No, he doesn't have any more.
33:20
He wouldn't have plastic surgery.
33:21
He thought he had one flaw and couldn't hold that one.
33:23
No, couldn't do it. He's like, no, I got to be par
33:25
banged. It's great.
33:29
All right, Liv, I think we've bored them enough with our silly
33:32
antics. So until then, Liv.
33:35
This has been the latest episode of.
33:37
Will me, mistress?