Latest / Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz / Confidence in Your Intuition

Transcript

Confidence in Your Intuition · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

0:04
Welcome to the Spunky Spirit podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium Carrie Mugs.
0:10
This is where we learn all things spirit, everything from spiritual gifts,
0:14
awakenings, ghosts, aliens and star seeds. Nothing is untouchable but always fun
0:21
and spunky. I am honored to be on this virtual journey with you,
0:24
so make sure you get the subscribe button so you never missed an episode.
0:28
Welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. I am psychic medium, Carry Mugs
0:32
and today we are going to talk about confidence. So, as you can
0:35
see, last week we didn't have an episode. I was supposed to have
0:38
a guest on. He's well known in the UK as the psychic medium.
0:44
He's been on lots of different shows, mediumship shows. His name is Tony
0:50
Stockwell. So we had to reschedule that so he should be coming up anytime
0:54
soon. But before I took before, I the day before I was supposed
0:59
to do that interview, so I took a class with him because I wanted
1:02
to see what he had to say about. It was called the Confident Medium,
1:06
and so I kind of thought, it is hard because confidence in our
1:11
intuition, we really have a hard time. A lot of people have a
1:15
hard time having confidence in themselves anyways, So they're going to have a hard
1:19
time having confidence in their intuition, right because we don't know sometimes the difference
1:26
between our own thoughts and what Spirit is trying to talk to us about.
1:30
So today we're going to talk about building confidence, but mostly on your intuition
1:34
or spiritual realm parts of confidence. So the one three things, I mean,
1:38
the three things I do want to talk about the a little bit before
1:41
we go into this on how to build your confidence spiritually is the best way
1:46
to honestly build your confidence is to practice what you're scared of. Practice,
1:51
Like I've done so many readings. I've been doing this work since two thousand
1:56
and nine, like or even before that, even I was doing in high
2:00
school, but professionally or being paid for. It's been a long time and
2:06
the only reason that I get to where I'm at now is because I've been
2:10
doing it every readings, every day, and the practice practice practice, So
2:16
your confidence and your intuition is like having a gym membership. You have to
2:21
practice and you have to keep working on it for it to become better.
2:23
And the more you practice, the better you get, and the more confident
2:27
you get in it. But to begin with, the best way to figure
2:30
out what is actually your thoughts and what is actually your spirit talking to you
2:35
or your intuition is a couple things. One intuition doesn't come with emotions.
2:39
Intuition comes with just no emotions attached. Just to do this, just to
2:45
really fast do this. So, for instance, I had a friend who
2:51
was super who woke up one night and she checked on the baby, and
2:54
the baby wasn't breathing for a minute, and then she went to move the
2:59
baby, and the baby all of a sudden went and took a breath.
3:01
Well, she had PTSD about that instance for like the next week. Every
3:07
night before bed she'd stress about whether, which is totally understandable, right,
3:13
the intuition is when she found the baby, because it was like, right,
3:16
check on the baby, check on the baby, or check on the
3:19
daughter. And then then anxiety for the rest of the week was not intuition,
3:24
it was So anxiety comes with emotions. Anxiety comes with fear, Anxiety
3:30
comes with worry. Intuition is just a fleeting thought for just a second and
3:34
there's no emotion to it. It's just do this. So that's kind of
3:38
how you can. You can kind of base anxiety against intuition, and the
3:44
more that you practice honoring your intuition or honoring those feelings or not feelings because
3:50
that's intuition, the better you get out of the more you trust yourself.
3:54
You've got to trust yourself, and sometimes you're gonna be wrong. There is
3:59
no reading out there that anybody can ever give you that it's going to be
4:02
one hundred percent accurate. There's going to be some misinterpretations. There's going to
4:06
be because we are interpreting for spirit, and sometime sometimes even the best mediums
4:13
don't always do it accurately or one hundred percent accurately. We get bets and
4:16
pieces because we don't get to choose the information we get right. We can't
4:19
be like that's why when you go to a medium and you're like, well,
4:23
why didn't she say this? Or why didn't can you tell me this?
4:26
It's because they tell us what you need to know, and we don't
4:30
just get to pick and choose. We can ask questions, but sometimes they
4:32
won't give us that information because it's detrimental to or going to affect your personal
4:39
growth. So so confidence and intuition you have to trust. Once you start
4:44
trusting your intuition more and more and more, then the better you'll be at
4:48
it. And sometimes you will choose the wrong way or go in the wrong
4:51
direction, but it's going to be okay. So long before I became a
4:56
medium, I wanted to build confidence in women. I wanted to build that
4:59
confidence, and little did I know I had a lot to still learn,
5:01
And that's probably why it never really I went from I had like a self
5:08
help being called Confidentwomen dot org. And I remember having like a big vinyl
5:13
sticker on the back of my car that said it, and my son would
5:15
refuse to drive the car because he was so embarrassed that I had that on
5:18
there. It was so funny. He was a teenager. And I just
5:21
for always always wanted to build people up or help them feel good about who
5:27
they are. And little did I know at the time that I had lots
5:31
to still learn or lots to still do before I got to this point.
5:35
So I also became like I helped the coach, and I didn't really.
5:40
It was actually beach body, and I wanted to support women and help them
5:43
to be more confident in who they are and their self image and reality.
5:46
I was still not there where I needed to be. So and all of
5:51
those places they weren't actually wrong, they weren't the right choice for me,
5:57
and one of them I was super miserable in after a while, but they
6:00
led me to be where I am now. So if I wouldn't have become
6:04
because in a beach body coach, because even though that was hard for me
6:10
and I didn't have the self confidence I needed in myself or in my physical
6:14
appearance, I were surrounded by women who were amazing and they believed in me
6:21
and my gift. And that's where it kind of all started. Like even
6:26
though before I do like readings in high school or I would see things in
6:30
high school, I was definitely partnered up with somebody who believed in this spiritual
6:35
realm and got me to believe in myself. And that's so the steps.
6:41
Sometimes we think we chose the wrong decision, and really sometimes we didn't.
6:45
Sometimes we needed that step to go further. So I don't ever feel like
6:49
because that you're going in the dark direction, because sometimes you have to go
6:54
off on a tangent, You're still going to go to your divine purpose.
6:57
What is meant for you. It just might take a little bit more time,
7:00
and that's okay. But I honestly think I mean, even though I
7:03
was doing readings back then, I didn't have the confidence that I needed,
7:05
and these steps left led me to the confidence that I needed. Another way
7:12
to get confidence in what you're getting is meditation. Meditation. It will help
7:16
you realize what your It helps you sort between your own thoughts and what spirit's
7:21
telling you. So that's what meditation is. It's not you can talk to
7:26
spirit. That's what prayer is. But then meditation is listening and you have
7:30
to when you meditate, kind of sort between what is mine and what is
7:34
spirits. And meditation is good is so good for that and you don't have
7:40
to do it. I started meditation when I started running, so I would
7:43
get in a meditative state. And because when you run, or you dry
7:46
or you blow dry your hair, you can get into a meditative state.
7:49
You don't always just have to sit in quietness, because to quiet your mind
7:54
completely is almost impossible for the average person. But you can start to decipher
8:01
between between what's yours and what spirits and and what is meant for you and
8:07
what's not. The more you meditate. The more practice you have you can
8:11
understand that and you can become more aware of your surroundings, which will help
8:15
you see signs and symbols from your spirit guides and your ancestors. Anyways,
8:20
So then also too, automatic writing is a really good way to be able
8:26
to decipher what is yours and what is spirits. And so if you don't
8:30
know what automatic writing is, I suggest you google it because I've talked about
8:33
it a lot, and I don't want to spend a lot of time going
8:35
over how it works. But it's like journaling, but you just keep writing
8:39
and writing and writing your thoughts down, and so sometimes that helps you sometimes
8:45
even I have a friend of mine who automatic writes when she wants to communicate
8:50
with her son who's passed over, and she swears by it. She the
8:56
first couple of times, she was like, what is mine and what is
8:58
his? But now now she swears that they can have full conversations and he
9:03
will tell her things that she should that she doesn't know about other family members,
9:09
and she knows that it's him and so and she sometimes even her handwriting
9:16
will change and it'll be his handwriting. So automatic writing practice, that practice
9:22
Now this is the same thing as going to the gym. Intuition and confidence
9:24
has to be practiced. It's not something that you're just like, Okay,
9:28
bring it, I'm going to be you know, just they have to be
9:31
practiced, and they have to be built, and they have to be worked
9:35
on all the time. So confidence, especially confidence in the spiritual realm,
9:39
because there's no evidence. Now confidence in like a physical realm or confidence in
9:45
your work can be honored or can be validated by achieving. So when you
9:52
achieve a goal, like if you have a goal at work and you achieve
9:54
it, your confidence can raise like two or three percent because you achieve that
9:58
goal. And same with if you're doing something in the physical realm and like
10:03
you're trying to lose weight and you lost five pounds, then that's achieving that
10:09
gives you more confidence. Spiritually, the validation is a little bit harder to
10:13
come by because you don't know are you Sometimes you think is that me?
10:16
Or is that spirit? And it's not really validated. But the more you
10:20
do it and the more you practice it, the more you will be validated,
10:24
and the the more you will know without a shadow of a doubt that
10:26
this is spirit and growth. The growth is like a lot of people think
10:31
that spiritual growth is so supposed to be like rainbow and roses, and it
10:35
kind at first it is, but then you have to dig deep and do
10:41
some shadow work, and you have to love every part of yourself. And
10:46
so to gain confidence in the spiritual realm, you have to see the bad.
10:48
You have to love the dark and the light together. You have to
10:52
love who you are in the light and in the dark. And lots of
10:56
spiritual work is your own personal work, your own personal growth, your own
11:03
personal counseling, anything that you do that's going to help you be a better
11:09
person spiritually and process things that have happened to you through traumas and things that
11:13
have happened to your life. So spiritual growth, like you've always said,
11:16
is not super easy, and it just kind of sucks because to give that
11:20
confidence, you have to go through that shits right. So it's like and
11:24
some people don't want to, and that's okay, But to get that confidence
11:30
in spirit or in about your intuition, you really have to really look at
11:37
yourself and be honest with yourself. And it's easy for people to say you
11:41
have to love yourself because that's kind of the cliche, but you really do.
11:43
You have to really love, and not in an egotistical way and not
11:46
in an arrogant way, just that you're not perfect and neither is anybody else
11:52
and that's okay. You have to still love that anyways. So the first
11:58
thing I want to talk to you about in gaining confidence and in your intuition
12:03
is you have to have a growth mindset. You have to think that you
12:07
can do it. You have to think that it's possible. You have to
12:11
believe in it. You can't just think, well, I'm not gifted,
12:15
I can't be a medium, because everybody can be a medium. Everybody can
12:18
communicate to the other with the other side. It's not just a God picks
12:22
special people. That's not how it is. We are all on this earth.
12:26
We all have this God given gift of Some of the people are just
12:30
better at it than others because they've practiced more, or they understand it more,
12:33
or they just were born with like a third eye, being more open.
12:37
But that doesn't mean. I mean, I've told this story all the
12:41
time. I think the reason why my spiritual gift was when I was so
12:45
young is because I kind of grew up in a household where I had to
12:48
always with an alcoholic you know, we were we were always. I was
12:52
always I was the peacemaker, and I always had to be on. I
12:56
always had to feel my environment. What's going on, Who's gonna be mad?
13:00
What's going on right now? Is this a safe place? Can?
13:03
I always had to like have my feelers on. So I always was able,
13:07
like my empathy. I had to always feel the room, make sure
13:11
everything was okay. And so that's kind of so I practiced every day really
13:16
not knowing what I was doing. And so that's kind of what you have
13:22
to do. But maybe you didn't. You grew up in a safe environment,
13:26
or you grew up in a very safe home and so you didn't always
13:30
have to use your intuition, or you didn't always have to tap into that,
13:33
or maybe you were taught that that was evil and so you didn't do
13:35
it. And that's okay, because what you have to do is you have
13:39
to believe that you can do it. Don't believe any any spiritual people out
13:43
there or mediums that tell you that you don't have the gift or you can't
13:48
do it. Guarantee you you practice enough, you do it enough, you
13:52
set your intentions, you work hard, you can do it. And it's
13:56
not something easy. It's like going to the gym. If you want to
13:58
lose fifty pounds, it's going to be hard, hard work. If you
14:00
want to tap in and start to communicate with the other side, it's going
14:03
to be some hard work. So you have to be able to believe that
14:05
you can do it, because if you're just like, this is impossible and
14:09
I can't do it anything else. If you believe you can lose fifty pounds,
14:13
you probably will. If you believe that you can make this monetary goal,
14:16
you will. So same thing with spiritual stuff. Next one, make
14:22
sure you're surrounded with good people who believe in it too. Don't be surrounded
14:26
with people who tell you that's evil, you can't do it, you're so
14:33
stupid, or you were wrong, or you're always wrong. You have to
14:37
be around people who lift you up and support you and love you regardless and
14:45
want your successes because a lot of times when you start to communicate with the
14:50
other side, a lot of people can get jealous because they don't understand why
14:52
they can't and they don't understand that it just takes work. They can It
14:56
just takes work, and so people can really drown your confidence, especially And
15:03
this is I'm going to talk about. I'm going to skip one and go
15:05
to to Oh what is it called comparing? Comparing yourself to other people?
15:13
If you compare your spiritual gifts to somebody else, to a medium who's worked
15:18
twenty years, of course you're going to feel like you fall short, right,
15:22
But you have to remember that medium or that person, that spiritual person
15:26
has been doing it for years. They're a different chapter in their book.
15:28
Their journey is different than yours. So you can't compare yourself. And a
15:31
lot of times too, you think it's going to be like Hollywood. Do
15:35
you think it's going to be like just right in front of you see a
15:39
spirit And it's not how it works. So it's something that you have to
15:43
work on inside of you and you can to process on the outside. So
15:48
don't compare yourself and be around people. Surround yourself with good people. Surround
15:52
yourself with people who love you and support you and want the best for you
15:58
and don't always bring you down, because people who are like that can really
16:03
tear down your confidence. And really you can always tell those people that are
16:08
around you that don't want you to succeed, And it doesn't mean you have
16:11
to cut them out of your life. It just means you have to create
16:14
boundaries. We've talked about boundaries all the time too. You need to create
16:18
boundaries around them. And sometimes I have to block people off of my social
16:23
media for a little bit. And that's another one too. Every time I
16:27
take us, every time I take a class, every single class has been
16:32
like, be off social media because that is a comparison. We go and
16:36
look at what other people are doing, and it's great to have mentors,
16:38
and it's great to be like, oh, that would be fun for me
16:41
to do. But when you start comparing yourself to other people and you're like,
16:44
oh, my gosh, she's talking about having this big dream and her
16:47
father came to her and that would never happen for me, then we go
16:51
into the growth mindset. We don't think we can do it, we don't
16:55
believe in it, and we are comparing and so that makes it that takes
17:00
it away. And so this spiritual growth and commune I don't communicating with the
17:04
other side really has a lot to do with loving yourself honestly and living in
17:10
the now, because you have to be in the now and enjoy where you're
17:14
at and know that you're in the right part of the journey, because if
17:17
you're too busy comparing yourself to others and you have anxiety or you're too worried
17:21
about what you did in the past, spirit can't conform or concentrate on the
17:25
now. So be in the now. That's a big one too. The
17:29
next one is to challenge yourself. Make certain goals. Tell yourself, I'm
17:33
going to meditate for ten more minutes today or I'm going to and if you
17:38
don't make it, that's okay. Just try your best. Challenge yourself to
17:42
It's like sometimes it's to me, the spiritual journey is a lot like running.
17:48
And so when I ran my marathon, there was like super There were
17:51
times when I was like on top of the world. During the marathon.
17:55
I was like, this is so awesome, this is so great. And
17:56
then there were times during the marathon that I was like, I cannot do
17:59
that anymore. This sucks, this is this is freaking hard. The spiritual
18:03
journey is just like that, and sometimes you'll hit blocks and sometimes you'll you'll
18:08
just want to quit, and it's just it's kind of life in general.
18:11
And so running, to me and spiritual growth is kind of the same thing
18:17
because you have to believe in yourself and you have to surround yourself by positive
18:21
people. You don't want to be running and have people have upsided to say
18:23
you are never gonna make it. I am better than you. And with
18:27
running, you can't compare yourself to other people either. Same thing. Some
18:32
people are gonna be faster than you, some people have trained longer than you,
18:34
and that's okay. So that's that's kind of where we're at, Like
18:38
it's it's that journey. That's that running a marathon's kind of like life and
18:44
your spiritual journeys. Sometimes it's gonna be super fun and you're gonna be on
18:47
cloud nine and you're gonna have all this second win. And sometimes you're just
18:51
gonna be like, I cannot take another step and I'm gonna have to stop
18:53
and walk for a minute. Okay. Another way to gain confidence is to
18:57
stand up for yourself. Sometimes as spiritual workers, we are so empathic and
19:03
we are people pleasers, and we let people walk all over us. And
19:07
so when I say stand up for yourself. It doesn't mean be mean and
19:11
be like, no, I did this. It just means that have these
19:15
boundaries. Take care of yourself first. It's that whole airplane mask thing.
19:21
If you don't take care of yourself, who is going to If you don't
19:23
put your mask on first, You're not going to be able to get enough
19:26
oxygen to help anybody else. So take care of yourself first, Stand up
19:30
for yourself. Tell people no. If people ask you to do certain things,
19:34
say no, I can't do it. If you can't do it,
19:37
no if it's not if it doesn't, if it doesn't help you or better
19:41
you. It's not selfish if you say no, it's just your time is
19:47
Your time is valuable too. Just you deserve to take up space too.
19:52
I remember, like a long time ago, well not even that long ago,
19:56
when I would go on the highway, I would be so nerve when
20:00
people were behind me because I'd be like, oh, I'm going too slow,
20:03
they need to pass me. And then my daughter told me, Mom,
20:06
you can take up space two. You deserve to take up space too.
20:08
And then I thought, you know what I do, I'm just as
20:11
important as them. I'm not more important I'm not less important, and I
20:15
can take up space two And this is the space that I'm taking up.
20:18
But they don't like it, they can pass me. I'm not gonna worry
20:21
about that. So same with you. You deserve to take up space and
20:26
you deserve to be where you're at, and if somebody else doesn't like it,
20:29
they can pass you. So and honestly too. The next one is
20:33
to be honest with yourself. Really be honest with yourself. Do there are
20:38
so many times when I'm like, Okay, I didn't like that reading.
20:44
But did I like it because I felt I could do better? Or did
20:47
I not like it because they didn't like it? And that's one of the
20:51
things that I learned in this class with Tony Stockwell two is he said not
20:55
to measure your self worth, and I think we're going to talk about that
20:57
too, your self worth on what other people think the reading, how the
21:03
reading went, because you know, you know what your limits are, you
21:07
know what is what you expect. But that's kind of hard too, because
21:11
I really have a high expectation of myself and so sometimes when I think,
21:15
Okay, I could have done better or I feel like it should have gone
21:18
better, but you have to realize everybody does this. Everybody does this at
21:21
their work or they're running or whatever hobbies they have. There are going to
21:26
be days where you think, okay, I should have You're gonna be hard
21:29
on yourself and you're going to think you could have done it better. So
21:32
just know that there's going to be just like in the marathon, there's going
21:36
to be highs and lows, and that's okay. You just the truth.
21:38
The thing is, you just got to keep going. You got to keep
21:41
going, keep working on it, and know that it's never going to be
21:44
perfect because it just isn't. And that's okay. So my foot is starting
21:48
to fall asleep really bad right here, so I got to move it else
21:51
there we go. Okay, sorry about that. Okay. The next one
21:56
is to do things that make you happy. If you're trying to do this
22:00
and it's if whatever it is that you're trying to build your confidence in,
22:03
or if you're trying to do something spiritual and it's just not making you happy
22:10
and it's just taking the joy out of it, then it's time to reevaluate,
22:14
and it's time to relook at things, and it's time to reconsider things,
22:18
And yes, there's been many times throughout my career that I have been
22:22
like, do I really want to do this? Is this worth that?
22:25
But most of the time, the only times I did that is when I
22:27
let other people measure my self worth. Because you have to realize your self
22:33
worth is not measured on how spiritually gifted you are. It's not measured on
22:38
your job, it's not measured on how good of a mom you are.
22:42
Your self worth is measured on you and your heart and your intentions. And
22:49
so a lot of people measure their self worth on other things like how good
22:53
this book sells, or how good I was at teaching this class, or
22:57
how good the reading was. Can't measure your self worth on those things,
23:02
because then they do become anxiety and they do become not fun anymore. And
23:07
so that's when you got to take a reevaluation and think, Okay, why
23:11
am I doing this? Am I doing this because I want to have fun?
23:12
Or am I doing it because I want to help people? Need to
23:15
reevaluate because you got to take the you got to keep the fun in it.
23:21
That's kind of hard sometimes because like I started this as a hobby or
23:25
fun and it has turned into sometimes a lot of pressure. It's a lot
23:30
of pressure to sometimes when you're thinking about when I think about what the client
23:36
thinks, it's a lot of pressure instead of because I want it to be
23:40
perfect for my client. That sometimes it gives me anxiety. And if you
23:45
have anxiety during the reading, you can't relax and you can't communicate as well.
23:49
So now it's like, once I got past that, then now it's
23:52
like I can relax during all the readings, and my readings are like fun
23:57
and awesome and great. That there was a couple, you know, five
24:00
or six years ago that I was like when I first started out, that
24:03
you're you base that self worth on the reading itself, and it's really hard
24:10
to get past that. But if you're just trying to communicate on your own,
24:15
you still get hard. You still will get hard on yourself because you're
24:17
meditate and maybe not have a profound experience and think that you're doing it wrong
24:21
or there's something wrong with you and you're not spiritually gifted, and that's not
24:25
true. You just have to invest in yourself and you have to take the
24:29
time to learn how to do those things and find a great mentor that you
24:33
don't compare yourself to but you learn from okay, and also to the next
24:40
one, see your failures. My biggest growth was from my failures. The
24:45
thing that sucks, though, is I would replay them in my head and
24:48
replay them in my head and replay him in my head, and it would
24:52
consume me, and I finally had to just get to the point where I've
24:55
got to let this go, which still I can still fall into that pattern
24:57
sometimes depending on what it is. But I have to set boundaries that I
25:03
don't that I you know, that's the comparison one when I was going to
25:07
say, I have to set boundaries that I don't look at social media and
25:11
I don't look at what people say about mediums, because that's the one where
25:15
you can't care about what other people think. But this is see your failures
25:18
as opportunities, and so what other people think is an a failure. But
25:22
if you do something and you think you failed, you really didn't. Because
25:27
I could look at my I could look at my Confident Women thing, and
25:32
I could look at my Beach Boddy thing and think that I failed because I
25:33
quit those, but I didn't because now I'm doing something completely different entirely different
25:40
and very very much love it. So but it took me a time a
25:42
while to get to love it because in the first stages there was a lot
25:47
of anxiety that came with it. So it's just but I stick with it,
25:51
and I kept practicing and practicing, and this feels right. This feels
25:56
this career path feels like I'm going to a stream and I'm not trying to
26:02
go up current. I'm not trying to go upstream. I'm not trying to
26:04
paddle and make it and force it to work. Whereas the other two kind
26:08
of did. I was finding and so that's kind of how you can find
26:11
that you're in alignment. I kind of did Carry Connects was about being in
26:15
alignment and music. And so when it kind of just goes and you feel
26:21
in alignment, anxiety comes. But when you feel like this is your purpose
26:26
or you feel like you're aligned to that's when you kind of know when you're
26:27
not just constantly. Now, I'm not saying that when you do find your
26:30
purpose it's going to be easy and everything's going to be fine. You're still
26:33
going to work and you still have to work hard. And I want to
26:38
say work hard as in work on yourself, not like bust your butt to
26:42
you just have to work hard on yourself, okay. And that's not a
26:45
chaotic thing. That's a beautiful thing. So see your failures, be honest
26:52
with yourself, and look at your failures as opportunity. Because the beach body
26:56
thing turned into an opportunity for me because I was surrounded by people who believed
27:00
in me and made me go and it helped me go forward. Most of
27:06
all, this is the last one, is take care of yourself. You
27:08
can put you first. I've said this and said this and said this.
27:12
It's okay to put you first. It's not selfish now, it's this is
27:15
hard for people who have little kids. But you know what, it's okay
27:21
to put your family first right now. It might not be a season for
27:23
you to spiritually communicate with past loved ones when you have little kids, because
27:29
it's chaotic and it's crazy. So maybe this is something you pick a season.
27:36
And so I don't. I mean, even though I had this gift
27:37
when I had little kids, it very rarely would show up for me because
27:41
I was so so invested in the kids and being a mom and so but
27:47
now it shows up for me constantly because I work on it constantly, Whereas
27:51
before I was always working on being a mom and being there for others and
27:56
doing all of that stuff. And then I went into lots of self care,
28:00
lots of self valid self looking at whatever you want, self awareness.
28:06
And then so those of you who are like, Okay, I want to
28:08
do that one day, but you have little kids. I'm not saying you
28:11
can't, but you gotta. Let's just be honest. I feel like a
28:18
woman can. This is really thin territory here. I feel like you can
28:22
do both. But honestly, one's going to suffer. One will suffer because
28:27
I don't think and maybe that's just me, maybe not for you. But
28:33
if I was doing this well, I had kids, little tiny kids,
28:37
it would be a lot harder. So give yourself some grace here, if
28:40
that's your plan, give yourself some grace and know that it's okay. So
28:45
my season was now. My season to do this was now, and there's
28:48
always a time and a season. Your purposes or are not always going to
28:52
be the same. When my purpose when I was twenty five was to be
28:56
a good mom, now my purpose is to still be a great Graundma not
29:00
a great grandmother, but a grandmother and a mom, but also to to
29:03
build myself and to build this thing. So every purpose has a time and
29:08
a season, and there's not just one, so always be aware of that.
29:11
Some people are like, what's my main purpose in life? Sometimes there's
29:15
lots of different purposes that you have on this lifetime. They just come at
29:18
different times. So I really hope that helps you, guys, I do.
29:26
It's confidence and intuition and confidence in yourself is so hard. It's one
29:30
of the hardest things. But you just have to trust, trust in spirit,
29:33
and trust yourself. That's why if you can see I got this,
29:37
well you can't see, but those of you who are watching, I got
29:40
a tattoo. It's three three three, And then underneath is the symbol of
29:44
spirit because it symbolizes to trust myself and trust my guides and trust spirit because
29:52
you just have to because no one. You just have to trust in you.
29:56
You have to have the confidence in you and not in an arrogo way
29:59
and not an ego. I just know that you're being guided in the right
30:02
direction and that you can do these things. Everybody we all have this,
30:07
these gifts inside of us and just because somebody else may claim that they that
30:12
you don't doesn't mean you can do anything. You can do anything you want
30:18
to and you can create what you want to. Is it just going to
30:22
compound your lap? No? Is it going to take some work? Yeah,
30:25
it's going to take some work sometimes, And that's what manifesting is.
30:27
Some people think that you can just say I'm gonna manifest this, and sometimes
30:30
it does happen. But in my case, in my reality, I have
30:34
to work for it because then I have to show spirit I'm ready for it.
30:37
So I hope this helps you guys. I love you guys so much.
30:41
Today is actually April. Second shout out to one of my friends.
30:48
It's a birthday for her today, So happy birthday to friend I've known since
30:52
high school and new since along that I've had this gift and always supported me,
30:56
and so happy birthday to you. And I have some stuff coming up
31:02
and this month. Last month, I did an event and I did a
31:04
class. I'm going to have two classes in April, so watch for those.
31:07
I think one's gonna be a mediumship class and one's gonna be an online
31:11
class. I just haven't decided what yet, So watch for those and know
31:15
that I love you guys so much, and I seriously mean it because I
31:18
know I wouldn't be here without you. And I'm so humbled that you guys
31:22
support, support my classes, support my events, and support this because I
31:26
know I wouldn't be here without you and your belief in me, and it's
31:32
just amazing. So and also too, always, always, always remember that
31:36
you have everything you need already inside of you. I'll see you guys next week