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A Love Fest with Your Loved One in Spirit - Signs, Connection & Continuing the Relationship · Mediumship Sparks-The Next Chapter

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to mediumship Sparks, where we connect more deeply with
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  Speaker 1: spirit and source and follow the sparks of insight and
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  Speaker 1: inspiration that bring us greater awareness, healing, and just more
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  Speaker 1: flow into our lives. I'm Noel dean intuitive medium, licensed therapist,
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  Speaker 1: and your host. A quick note before we begin. This
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  Speaker 1: podcast is for educational purposes only and provides general information.
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  Speaker 1: It is not medical or psychological advice and is not
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  Speaker 1: a substitute for care from a licensed health professional. I'm
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  Speaker 1: so grateful we get to step into this together. Let's
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  Speaker 1: dig in. Today we are spending time with my sister
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  Speaker 1: in spirit, Lisa. I was driving home earlier today and
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  Speaker 1: listening to some music I had done, said she was
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  Speaker 1: with me, so I was looking for a song that
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  Speaker 1: she would enjoy. Iw eighties songs were coming up, and
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  Speaker 1: then she brought up her wedding song at Last by
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  Speaker 1: Edna Jaans. So I put her wedding song on and
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  Speaker 1: I think she really enjoyed that and shared stuff about
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  Speaker 1: the things that she misses from being here, specifically in
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  Speaker 1: her relationship with her husband, and played it again. We sang,
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  Speaker 1: and the idea was worth of doing things that would
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  Speaker 1: be I want to say a favor, but also a
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  Speaker 1: really positive experience for your loved one in spirit. We
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  Speaker 1: would all enjoy learning more about this. Asked her to
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  Speaker 1: go get some intel and to bring it back and
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  Speaker 1: we would record. So here we are. She came up
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  Speaker 1: with having a love fest with your spiritual loved one.
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  Speaker 1: That's beautiful. So there are probably things that you're already
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  Speaker 1: doing that would have you think of your person or
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  Speaker 1: people in spirit. An example, using like a grandmother's recipe
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  Speaker 1: to make something that she would have made maybe many times,
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  Speaker 1: and the smell of it reminds you of her, The
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  Speaker 1: taste of it reminds you of her, and you're thinking
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  Speaker 1: about her a lot. And there's a pretty good chance
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  Speaker 1: that she is right there with you because you're telegraphing
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  Speaker 1: out to the universe about her and your connection with her.
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  Speaker 1: Those that were connected with in spirit experience sensory input
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  Speaker 1: through their connection with us. So if you're smelling those onions,
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  Speaker 1: she can tune into you and smell the onions you
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  Speaker 1: want them to have these experiences with you and thinking
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  Speaker 1: about them and doing these little things that could just
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  Speaker 1: be a hello, I love you to them, or my
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  Speaker 1: sister saying an emotional or sensory hug to them. Let's
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  Speaker 1: start with where we started, which is smells. Lisa is
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  Speaker 1: showing an example smelling somebody's perfume, if you still have
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  Speaker 1: their bottle of perfume. Other smells. She's saying, Marcily cut
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  Speaker 1: wood chips, if that would be something that that maybe
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  Speaker 1: was a part of their lifestyle or something that would
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  Speaker 1: cove them reminisce in a positive way and feel sentimental
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  Speaker 1: about having some of their favorite foods. It's just occurring
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  Speaker 1: to me. She suggested that I make no key for myself,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't really that, but I guess she really
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  Speaker 1: liked noki. That's cute. I'll make some of that and
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  Speaker 1: make sure that I'm thinking of her when I'm eating
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  Speaker 1: it in an inviting way, so that she'll know that
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing something for her and to show up for it.
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  Speaker 1: And music, let's talk about music for a moment. Music
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  Speaker 1: from the generation that everybody was brought up in would
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  Speaker 1: be music they would be very sentimental about. Most likely
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  Speaker 1: that could be a beautiful thing to play for them,
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  Speaker 1: Like for my sister it was her wedding song, usually
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  Speaker 1: eighties music. I feel her come around. If I'm going
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  Speaker 1: a little crazy in the car by myself. I get
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  Speaker 1: a sense of her being there with me. If she's
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  Speaker 1: in the car with me, that I tend to put
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  Speaker 1: eighties music on so that she can enjoy it all.
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  Speaker 1: This one I hadn't really thought about. She brought up touch,
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  Speaker 1: and she was showing like touching your own skin and
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  Speaker 1: how they might be able to feel a part of
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  Speaker 1: that experience with you, but also like petting an animal.
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  Speaker 1: My sister was a cat person. It never occurred to
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  Speaker 1: me that maybe she would experience petting a cat through
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  Speaker 1: me petting my cat. My sister saying about also being
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  Speaker 1: very mushy with our cats definitely one of her signature moves.
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  Speaker 1: She also brought up about going to the beach, like
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  Speaker 1: the sand on your feet, maybe the sun is out,
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  Speaker 1: the water, feeling the coolness, maybe going swimming. I'm hoping
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  Speaker 1: that these are generating some ideas for you of who
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  Speaker 1: you want to have more of this kind of connection with.
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  Speaker 1: She's saying, you could also consider it quality time together
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  Speaker 1: because they're not just a passing thought. You're doing an
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  Speaker 1: activity in honor of them. She's bringing up like the
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  Speaker 1: combo as an example, something we had done many times
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  Speaker 1: when we were younger, is driving music turned up, windows open,
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  Speaker 1: wind blowing in our hair, and just loving that. It's
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  Speaker 1: always a winn. In my book, she was also bringing
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  Speaker 1: up about thoughts and expressing yourself. Thoughts could be maybe
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  Speaker 1: missing them or there's something that you miss about them,
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  Speaker 1: or how much you love them, or qualities about them
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  Speaker 1: that you admire and mis experiencing. Also memories thinking about
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  Speaker 1: sometimes together that you enjoy and they get to have
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  Speaker 1: that experience. Also like reminiscing with you, talking to them,
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  Speaker 1: just maybe suspending disbelief if you don't feel their presence
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  Speaker 1: and you're not quite sure, you could just talk as if,
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  Speaker 1: act as if. I do that too. Sometimes I believe
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  Speaker 1: that when let's say my sister is around me, that
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  Speaker 1: I have a visual sense of her in my mind's eye.
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  Speaker 1: I don't physically see anything that tells me that. You know,
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  Speaker 1: when you can feel somebody's in the room or in
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  Speaker 1: the house with you, you just know you're not alone,
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  Speaker 1: an awareness that you have. She's bringing up speaking with
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  Speaker 1: other people about them, like talking about like the glory
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  Speaker 1: days or the good old times or these positive memories,
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  Speaker 1: and especially she's showing laughter, really enjoying even things that
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  Speaker 1: might have been hard at that time, but talking about
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  Speaker 1: them in a way like, oh my gosh, we were
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  Speaker 1: just so ridiculous when we did this, or how upset
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  Speaker 1: I got about that, or I couldn't believe she's spilled
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  Speaker 1: peanut butter everywhere, like something that even might seem pretty
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  Speaker 1: bad back in the day, but now you can just
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  Speaker 1: laugh about it. They would get to enjoy that she's
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  Speaker 1: showing this very loving image of two people talking about
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  Speaker 1: some incident that happened that now is funny and just laughing,
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  Speaker 1: And there's such a release about the laughter, especially when
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  Speaker 1: it's somebody that both you and the person that you're
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  Speaker 1: talking with may be still mourning or in a lot
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  Speaker 1: of grief. It's also a relief to the person on
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  Speaker 1: the other side to have a chance to see you laugh,
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  Speaker 1: to experience the joy of that with you, the release
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  Speaker 1: and the freedom of that alongside you. So just keep
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  Speaker 1: that in mind when you're feeling the grief and you're
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  Speaker 1: thinking of them there maybe right there alongside you, supporting
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  Speaker 1: you also and also having compassion for you. She also
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  Speaker 1: was bringing up another point about gaining wisdom and maybe
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  Speaker 1: even feeling that from their perspective, they can still look
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  Speaker 1: out for you. So if you're not comfortable with that,
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  Speaker 1: or you haven't found something that you really connect with
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  Speaker 1: in that kind of way, a lot of people ask
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  Speaker 1: for signs, and that is a very powerful way to
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  Speaker 1: get answers and feel that connection and the synchronicity of
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  Speaker 1: all of us still being very connected, and that can
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  Speaker 1: be amazing. People ask for signs. I'm seeing like a rainbow,
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  Speaker 1: a stuffed elephant, whatever that first thing is that comes
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  Speaker 1: to mind, go with that. Maybe they gave you that
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  Speaker 1: visual of what that thing is because they know they
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  Speaker 1: can deliver on that. I'm seeing like a red rose,
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  Speaker 1: pink tulip, It's endless. It could also be something that
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  Speaker 1: you associate with them. That could also be a song.
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  Speaker 1: There are a lot of ways to get signs. It's
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  Speaker 1: not just visual things or physical things. I've heard people
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  Speaker 1: ask for signs for physical things and then they end
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  Speaker 1: up seeing pictures of it on the Internet and they
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  Speaker 1: weren't searching for it. It's just organically showed up for them.
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  Speaker 1: And there's always the caveat of please don't dismiss that
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  Speaker 1: when it happens. In some ways, it still occurs in
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  Speaker 1: my mind like surreal to be disconnected with people who
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  Speaker 1: have passed and are no longer in a body. We
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  Speaker 1: are so programmed to believe that they are unreachable and
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  Speaker 1: we are untouchable to them, and clearly that is not
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  Speaker 1: the case. But we have to remember to suspend our disbelief. So,
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  Speaker 1: just as an example, if you ask for a sign
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  Speaker 1: I'm seeing like a striped caterpillar. You see it. If
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  Speaker 1: you're like, no, that was too easy, or maybe you
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  Speaker 1: have pictures on your phone of a striped caterpillar, and
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  Speaker 1: then you ask for a sign if you think I
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  Speaker 1: should do this, or if it's a yes that you're
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  Speaker 1: here with me, please show me the striped caterpillar. And
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  Speaker 1: then you open your phone. This is how she's showing
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  Speaker 1: it to me. And then I have an iPhone. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if it happens on the other phones, but
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  Speaker 1: it'll say memories from twenty sixteen, and then maybe that
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  Speaker 1: caterpillar just pops up. You might say, Nah, that couldn't
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  Speaker 1: have been it. That was too easier. Maybe I looked
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  Speaker 1: at that caterpillar. It's so easy to discount that phenomenon
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  Speaker 1: because maybe it still seems surreal to you that you're
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  Speaker 1: that connected, that they are in certain ways still a
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  Speaker 1: very active part of your life, and you do what
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  Speaker 1: feels right to you. But I am really encouraging you
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  Speaker 1: to not throw away those opportunities to feel connected to
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  Speaker 1: not just assume that they're a part of your life
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  Speaker 1: and that they're trying to support you, but to have
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  Speaker 1: a knowing that they are because those things show up
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  Speaker 1: and you didn't create that. I've done all of that
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  Speaker 1: just so you know. So I've doubted and doubted because
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  Speaker 1: it's natural to do that, and it's normal to not
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  Speaker 1: assume that we are like a radar for people on
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  Speaker 1: the other side. But good news is that we certainly
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  Speaker 1: are and can be. And if I can do it,
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  Speaker 1: please believe you can. From the bottom of my soul
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  Speaker 1: and root chakra. There's nothing special about me that I'm
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  Speaker 1: allowed to do this or I can enjoy this in
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  Speaker 1: the way that I do. I've just spent the time
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  Speaker 1: working at it. That's it. So you have to figure
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  Speaker 1: this out for yourself and what you feel comfortable with.
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  Speaker 1: This is what she shared for today. She really wanted
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  Speaker 1: you to feel a bit more inspired that you could
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  Speaker 1: do more if you so chose to have more connection.
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  Speaker 1: She's remind you That also includes pets or animals that
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  Speaker 1: you've known, just thinking about them, if you want to
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  Speaker 1: haul their energy to you in your own mind, like it's, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I miss you, I wish you were here. If you
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  Speaker 1: can just come next to me, I would just love
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  Speaker 1: that so much. And whether you feel it or not,
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  Speaker 1: it's still you reaching out to them, and maybe that
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  Speaker 1: just makes your heart feel a little softer and a
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  Speaker 1: little less grief stricken when you have those moments. We
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  Speaker 1: all have those moments. I have those moments too. I'm
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  Speaker 1: having one right now. That's just part of being human.
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  Speaker 1: And sometimes it's easier to gloss over the sadness and
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  Speaker 1: the natural grief of those that have crossed when you
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  Speaker 1: focus on mediumship. I tend to do that because I
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  Speaker 1: am way more excited about the connection and the relationship
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  Speaker 1: that we get to keep, and I focus on that
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  Speaker 1: because that's the whole point of me opening my mouth
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  Speaker 1: about this stuff. But just know that I have that too.
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  Speaker 1: When I think about my cat Tiger and how long
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  Speaker 1: it's been since I've held him in my arms and
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  Speaker 1: kissed him and felt his fur, I can flash back
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  Speaker 1: to the memory of that very easily. It's right there
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  Speaker 1: for me right now how soft his hair was. But
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  Speaker 1: it's not the same as cuddling with him or having
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  Speaker 1: him on my lap, no matter how much communication I
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  Speaker 1: work to have with him now. So I'm with you
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  Speaker 1: on that part, and let's focus on and celebrate the
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  Speaker 1: maintaining of the relationship that we really do have the
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to do and still share our love with them
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  Speaker 1: and hopefully experience their love for us, because that is
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  Speaker 1: what it's all about. I wish there you, whoever you're missing,
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  Speaker 1: that you find your way to feel more connected and
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  Speaker 1: loved in all the best ways possible. So if you
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  Speaker 1: have any questions you want my sister and I to answer,
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  Speaker 1: or anything they're pondering that you want to learn a
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  Speaker 1: little bit more about, and she'll go do the footwork
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  Speaker 1: apparently because she did for this. Please let me know
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  Speaker 1: that would be such a joy to connect with you
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  Speaker 1: in that way and then hear what's on your heart
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  Speaker 1: and see what we can do with it. Okay, thank
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  Speaker 1: you to Lisa, and Lisa says, thank you very much
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  Speaker 1: for listening, Thank you so much for listening. And she's
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  Speaker 1: making a joke, a terminator joke that will be back
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  Speaker 1: and we will joyfully. So until next time, take care.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for spending this time with me on Mediumship Sparks.
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  Speaker 1: to provide as you navigate your spiritual path, please feel
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  Speaker 1: look forward to being with you again soon