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(51) 4 MONEY RULES THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE✨ Money Manifestation Masterclass · Alignment With Jenn

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  There is something very fascinating about money.
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  Some people can make millions and lose it.
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  Some people can make millions, lose it and remake it.
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  And this tells us something very important about money, that it
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  was never about the money. It is about the vessel, the
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  person who creates the wealth. And in this episode, we're going
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  to go into the mindsets behind creating a very wealthy life and
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  how to attract and build your vessel to create more money than
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  you currently have to reach that next level of income.
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  And then that next, next, next level of income.
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  Because wealth is all about your beliefs about wealth and your
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  beliefs about money. And I want to teach you the
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  mindsets and the practices that you can cultivate in order to
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  attract more money into your life.
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  So I've done one other episode on money.
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  And this is basically taking it deeper into the teachings, the
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  spirituality, the mindsets, the psychology behind creating
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  money. So I hope that you absolutely
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  love this episode. And if you're not familiar with
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  me, I am Jen. This is the Alignment with Jen
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  podcast where I help women become the best possible
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  versions of themselves. I want to start with a little
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  story about George Foreman. So George Foreman is notorious
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  for having made massive wealth and then completely lost it all
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  and then remade it. And what I find so interesting
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  about these stories, particularly George Foreman's,
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  is that he had this experience where he got really, really
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  successful. He made a ton of money through
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  boxing. Then he lost it.
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  Then at 45 years old, he became the heavyweight champion again,
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  made money, but he didn't even make his fortune through boxing.
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  He made it through the form and grill.
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  And what's so interesting about that is it wasn't the vehicle.
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  It wasn't like that He was super, super good at boxing and
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  he just did that again and made the money that way again.
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  He made some of it, but he completely pivoted into an
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  entirely different realm and made his money through that
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  completely different realm. And for you, this is a really
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  important thing to notice for all of us because money isn't
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  about OK, I just need to find one way to make money.
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  I actually think that creates a lot of scarcity and fear if we
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  only know how to make money one way, like through a job, because
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  then we're very dependent upon that job to make money, right?
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  But when you learn the psychology and the energetics
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  behind money, you are able to create it in many ways.
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  Wealthy people see opportunities for wealth creation in
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  absolutely everything. I will go to dinner with some of
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  my friends who have done extremely well for themselves.
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  And it's like the entire conversation, they're just like
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  naturally noticing all of these ways to make money, right?
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  One of my friends is telling me he was at dinner with one of his
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  mentors who is a billionaire. And this man has done so many
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  businesses success in every single industry.
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  And they're sitting at dinner and he calls the owner of the
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  restaurant over and he starts telling the restaurant owner
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  like, oh, you could this is what you should do basically with
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  your business. He asks him all these questions,
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  He gets an understanding and the restaurant owner implements
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  these changes and they go back a couple months later and the guy
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  is like, yeah, my profit margin is up, our revenue is up.
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  All of these changes, right? This man, because he understands
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  how to make money, he understands how money flows.
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  He was able to advise this other person and create wealth for
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  this other person. And that's what's really, really
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  cool is as you develop this understanding, I believe it
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  creates such a liberation because you're never dependent
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  on anyone thing to help you make money, right?
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  If tomorrow suddenly like all of my business was just kaput, I
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  would know how to make money and I could be making a similar
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  amount of money, if not more money within a few weeks, right?
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  Because it's a skill, it's a mindset, right?
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  And so I want to help you understand what is the
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  psychology behind that. So that way you can liberate
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  yourself from fear and scarcity around money and bring yourself
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  to that next level financially. Because that next level is all
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  about your consciousness. It part of it is going to be
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  some skill or some strategy or some action that you have to
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  take. But that will not work if your
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  consciousness is not in the right place.
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  It will be much more difficult. So you have to work on your
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  consciousness, right, your thoughts, your energetics before
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  taking those actions. Most people think, and this is
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  like level 1, is that I need more money.
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  When I have more money, then I will have, you know, the peace
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  that I want. Then I will have the experiences
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  that I want. Then I will have the life that I
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  want. But it's actually the reverse.
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  We have to have the nervous system capacity.
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  We have to have the thought processes.
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  We have to think and be in a certain way before the money can
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  flow, right? I've shared this metaphor before
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  of the light and the vessel. So the vessel is your vessel.
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  It's your capacity to hold the things that you want, your
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  capacity to hold millions and billions of dollars.
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  That is what has to grow because in the field, in the quantum
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  field, or we can call it, the light is always present.
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  So there's always this ability to attract in money.
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  The money is always available, right?
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  The money is always there, but it's your ability to hold it
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  that is going to change. And as you shift your thought
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  processes and your understanding of money and how it flows, your
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  vessel expands, but also as you shift your nervous system
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  capacity. If you're constantly getting
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  into fear and scarcity and gripping.
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  Someone told me the other day that someone was going to pay
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  her for work that she had completed.
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  And she felt this like knot in her stomach and she felt anxiety
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  and she wanted to turn the money away energetically.
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  Like that's literally her body physically pushing the money
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  away, right? And we do that on unconscious
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  levels, right? I see whenever I go on Reddit, I
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  don't like to go on Reddit. I feel like Reddit is like low
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  vibe sometimes. I'll go on there because I'll
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  need to. Like I want to look at reviews
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  or whatever. People are always talking about
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  being scammed. They're so afraid of being
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  scammed. If you're always afraid of being
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  scammed, that is your own mindset, right?
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  You're going to attract experiences that prove that to
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  be true. Versus like a lot of the people
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  that I know who do really well, they're not always afraid that
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  they're going to be scammed, right?
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  They know that sometimes investments they make will pan
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  out, sometimes they won't. That's the nature of the game.
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  Understanding that first we must expand our vessel in order to
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  receive more. The version of you that is
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  making that next level of income that you want to make.
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  She thinks differently, she shows up differently.
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  Her nervous system responds differently to money.
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  She believes different things about money, right?
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  And that can change rapidly. Those pieces must change in
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  order for you to be able to hold and allow in that greater level
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  of wealth. I want to get into the specific
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  teachings around this. OK, so the first one is taking
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  money off of a pedestal. A lot of people have this
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  relationship where they overvalue, I guess you could say
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  money. They make it this psychology and
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  Society of chasing money or needing to have money or feeling
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  like happiness is tied to money or I must reach this new level
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  of success and this new level of wealth in order for me to feel
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  like enough. And so there's a lot of energy
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  and a lot of story wrapped up in money, when in reality, money
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  itself is completely neutral. It's completely neutral.
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  It's an energy just like everything else.
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  Everything in the universe is 99.99999% empty space and
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  energy. Same with money.
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  When we put money on this pedestal and we make it above
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  us, we make ourselves not equal to that experience.
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  And people do this with certain amounts of money, right?
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  There's certain amounts that you're like, I'm cool with that.
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  For me, for years it was like $150,000 for like when I was in
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  my sales career, I thought getting above that, like I put
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  that above amount 200 or 300K on a pedestal.
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  As soon as I took it off the pedestal and I was like, no,
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  it's no different. It's not any different.
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  It's just a little bit more money.
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  I was able to reach those amounts of money, right.
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  And so understanding what level of money are you putting on a
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  pedestal and saying like, Oh, I wish I could do that or I, I
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  want to reach that and making it seem like it's so different when
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  in reality, it's no different. It's neutral.
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  It's just more, right? It's more of the same of what
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  you already have. And when you create this
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  pedestal, in effect, what happens is you create this
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  energetic distance and you make yourself inferior to that amount
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  of money. And so when you can bring it
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  down and you can allow yourself to just be neutral about it,
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  right? It is or it isn't.
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  And that is easier said than done, right?
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  Because we have these stories around money and we have these
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  experiences grow growing up where our parents will say
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  things about money, right? A lot of the scarcity around
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  money comes from experiences and hearing things that went growing
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  up or watching TV shows and just seeing how people interacted
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  with money. And a big part of this piece is
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  parsing out a lot of people connect money to their worth.
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  Like this whole phrase of charging your worth.
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  I'm sorry, but that's literally impossible.
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  There's no amount of money that is worth you your energy, your
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  time, right? You're charging, not you're
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  worth. You're charging for a service,
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  right? You're charging for something
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  that you provide, so separating your worth from the amount of
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  money that you make and stopping that connection because what
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  happens then is OK. I must either work harder or I
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  must become more, or I must be different in some way in order
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  to reach that new level of money, when in reality that
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  doesn't necessarily have to be the case.
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  So I want you to think of money as a tool.
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  That's all it is, right? If you have a hammer, a hammer
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  is a tool that gets a job done. The same thing with money.
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  Money is a tool that gets a job done and it creates a lot of
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  opportunity in your life. It's an amazing, amazing thing,
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  but it's still a tool, right? It's not a representation of
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  your worth. It's not a representation of
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  anything. It's fun to achieve higher
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  levels of income, right? That allows you to have more
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  experiences, that allows you to have more ease in your life
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  typically. But it's a tool, that's all it
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  is, and you've got to understand your own relationship with it.
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  What stories are you ascribing to it?
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  What are you believing about it that's creating this current
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  dynamic? And what do you need to change
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  in order to shift that dynamic so that way money flows in an
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  easier way? There's a huge, I see this with
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  like 99% of my clients and it's this belief that I must struggle
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  and work harder in order to achieve a new level of income.
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  So this leads me to the second piece, understanding that money
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  is made-up. It is completely made-up, right?
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  Money began as a barter system back in the day, way back in the
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  day, people would trade goods and services, right?
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  I would trade you some flour or like shells or something for
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  your cow or whatever, right? We would trade what we needed.
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  That was before money. And then what happened is we
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  started to need money because it, it became more and more
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  difficult as society became more complex to always just be
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  trading things, right? And that's when money came in.
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  It's literally made-up. Somebody made it up.
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  And so the beliefs, the stories around money are also made-up.
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  What you believe about money is literally just what you've
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  continuously heard and been repeating about money.
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  But I guarantee the people who you know who do extremely well
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  with money or the people that you can see in the media, they
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  have different beliefs and stories about money, right?
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  One of the biggest ones I see is that you have to work harder in
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  order to make more money, right? And this comes from that nine to
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  five mindset of, OK, I get paid for a certain amount of hours.
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  So if I'm going to make more money that I have to work more
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  hours, that is completely false, right?
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  Jeff Bezos is not working the most hours out of anyone in the
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  world to make his billions. It's just completely false.
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  If you can look for examples all over the place.
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  It's not true. But that becomes ingrained,
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  right? And that's a story that is also
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  made-up. So what stories about money are
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  you making up and then applying to money?
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  Start to ask yourself these questions.
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  The reason that this is important, and this might be the
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  most important thing I say in this episode, is money is
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  made-up and our stories about it are made-up.
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  And typically, it's not the actual money that we want,
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  right? The actual money isn't that
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  exciting. It's what we believe that that
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  money will give us. It's going to give me more time
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  with my children. It's going to give me more
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  flexibility. It's going to give me the
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  ability to pursue my purpose, to travel more, to see the world,
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  to buy beautiful clothing. It's what we believe leave the
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  money will give us. So a really good starting point
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  for you is understanding what is that that I actually want,
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  right? What's the feeling that I'm
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  actually seeking from money and then in order to become a
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  vibrational match for it, how can you start to live in that
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  frequency more and more? So if it's freedom that you want
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  and you're feeling really confined by your work, then how
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  can you begin to cultivate more freedom?
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  Because freedom starts in the mind.
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  Freedom is in the mind. You can be completely free and
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  feel completely shackled if your mind is not free, if you do not
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  believe in your ability to be free.
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  So ask yourself, okay, I want this amount of income, why do I
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  want that? I want it so I can buy more
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  beautiful clothes. Why do you want more beautiful
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  clothes? Because I want to feel more
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  beautiful. What will feeling more beautiful
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  give you? Keep asking yourself that.
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  Take yourself down that rabbit hole to really understand what's
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  the driving force behind why you want more money.
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  Because when you understand that, you can begin to match
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  that frequency, right? You can begin to cultivate more
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  experiences in your life to create that frequency and expand
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  your ability to match that and attract that in.
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  Another thing to notice is that a lot of the things we believe
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  about money are just basically agreements that we've made with
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  the world around us. There are things that we have
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  picked up from stories, from psychology, right, from the
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  media, from family relationships, from our own
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  careers, things like that. And so understanding what these
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  agreements are is very, very helpful for you to start to
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  shift your money story. So I want to share the most
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  common ones that I hear in my work working and coaching women
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  because I hear a lot of them. So one of them, and the biggest
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  one, as I mentioned, is money is hard to make, right?
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  It's this belief that it's difficult to make money when I
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  change this because I used to believe that kind of when I
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  changed it to believing that money just flows easily and
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  effortlessly. And I did this through the
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  subconscious hiring work that I teach.
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  I changed it at that deeper level of the mind because you've
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  probably, you can say these things to yourself, right?
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  You can affirm them, but you can feel that disconnect if you
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  really don't believe it. That disconnect is because we
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  need it to be unconscious part of that subconscious mind.
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  And that's that deeper part of our mind that's really running
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  the show. And so that's what I help people
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  with in my coaching programs. And if you want help with that
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  rewiring those deeper beliefs, you can message me the word
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  Podcast on on Instagram and I'll send you a 5 minute video about
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  my community, my program or I help you with that.
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  So that's one. Money is hard to make.
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  Money leaves as soon as it comes.
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  A lot of people will tell me like, yeah, I'll make all this
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  money, but then a bill will come or an unknown expense will come,
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  right? That's a belief you have that
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  you are literally rolling out the red carpet of your life to
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  manifest that belief. That's how powerful you are, and
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  that's how powerful it is to change your beliefs because your
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  reality will literally change to meet you there.
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  I have to struggle to deserve it.
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  This was one that I had for such a long time and I had to really
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  work to release it. It was like if I didn't have to
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  work too hard for something, it couldn't happen.
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  I had to work a certain amount of hard in order to receive it.
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  I wonder if that resonates with you.
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  Let me know in the comments. People like me do not make that
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  much if your family hasn't made that much money.
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  This is a common belief. It's not safe to receive more.
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  So there's this fear of the increase in responsibility or
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  that maybe people will try to take things from you or people
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  you'll lose people you care about if you make more money.
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  I really encourage you to dig into your own beliefs around
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  money, and I do actually. I have a mini program.
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  I'll link it in the show notes. It's called Everything I Touch
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  Turns to Gold and I go way deeper into these money
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  concepts. And that's like a little mini
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  program. Ioffer.
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  If I charge more, people will judge me.
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  And also if I make more, if I become too successful, people
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  will judge me, right? It's all these unconscious fears
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  we operate off of, and they influence even our most subtle
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  actions. If I have more, I will lose
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  connection. If I become wealthy, I will
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  become selfish. I find this belief to be true
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  for a lot of my clients that were really raised in religious
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  faiths. So Christianity or Catholicism,
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  there's a Bible verse that's love of money is the root of all
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  evil. And so that can become
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  internalized as this belief that if I love money and if I want
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  money, then I am evil, right? And if you're a good person,
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  that's going to cause you to unconsciously repel money.
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  But the reality is that money is neutral.
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  The person who has the money is who determines if the money does
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  good or bad in the world, right? I look at Tony Robbins.
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  He's a billionaire now, probably a multi billionaire.
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  And he has done so much good. He's fed over a billion meals to
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  hungry people. He's constantly making
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  donations, doing so much good, right?
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  He's able to have that level of impact because he has money.
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  Somebody with not as much money as him couldn't have that same
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  kind of impact that he has, right?
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  But then you have people who have money and they use it to
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  create products that harm people, right?
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  That's a different breed. And so you as a good person,
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  right? I believe the people who listen
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  to this podcast are good. People are going to do good with
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  money, right? And so understanding,
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  understanding how these beliefs are operating with it.
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  Another one is I am bad with money.
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  This happens a lot if you are not good with your money, right?
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  If you are overspending or you don't know how much money you
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  have or if you're never budgeting and creating
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  consistency and creating a safe container for your money.
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  And So what happens unconsciously is your
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  unconscious mind looks at that and sees and is like, oh, she's
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  not really managing this well. It's creating this low level of
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  stress and chaos. So we don't want more 'cause
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  that'll just get to be more right.
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  So a big part of these beliefs is also how you are showing up
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  with your own money. Are you spending your money in
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  ways that vote for what you want?
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  Something my brother said to me when I was little and I was
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  like, Dang, this was really wise.
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  He must have been like 13 when he said this to me.
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  He's like every dollar you spend is a vote for what you want.
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  And so he's like, don't vote on things you don't want.
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  And I was like, what? Mike dropped 13 year old Danny.
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  But it's true. Every, it's the same with every
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  minute you have in the day. It's a vote for what you want,
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  the kind of life that you want. Same with how you are
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  distributing your money. So look and understand, am I
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  spending my money on things that don't make me feel good like
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  McDonald's? Like I'm not a big McDonald's
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  person, right? Maybe some people it makes them
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  feel good. But notice what am I spending my
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  money on #3 is understanding that value is subjective.
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  This is important when you are negotiating how much money
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  you're going to make. So whether it's at a job or
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  whether it is at in your own business with your own prices.
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  I give this example in one of my courses where I show like a
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  Louis Vuitton bag and then I show this brown leather bag and
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  I say, OK, how, which of these bags do you think is more
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  expensive? And most people will say the
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  Louis Vuitton bag because they know about Louis Vuitton, right?
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  Typically they're a few $1000 worth of a bag.
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  And then I tell them about the story of how the bags are made.
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  So the Louis Vuitton bag is made in a factory.
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  It's very simply made. It's made with relatively cheap
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  materials. It's there's not much time or
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  energy that goes into making this bag.
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  It's mass produced. So that individual bag, OK, Then
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  I tell him about this other bag and I was like, this other bag
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  is from a leather Smith in Italy.
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  And he only makes a certain amount of these bags every
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  single year. And he puts all of this time and
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  effort, his family has been making these bags for hundreds
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  of years. He goes and sources the leather
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  specially all this whole story right about this bag.
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  And then I say, OK, which of these bags do you think is
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  actually worth more? And then they're like, Oh my
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  gosh, like the leather smithing bag.
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  And then I say, OK, tell me how much you think these are priced.
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  And they're like, OK, probably a few thousand for the Louis
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  Vuitton bag. And I don't, I really don't
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  know. Maybe a few thousand for the
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  leather smithing bag. I don't even know if leather
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  smithing is a word, but you know what I mean.
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  But the leather smithing bag is worth he sells it for $150.00
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  and Louis Vuitton sells it for 3000.
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  Value is subjective. It is assigned, and typically
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  it's assigned through the marketing and the sales of that
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  product. And so understanding for
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  yourself, what value am I assigning to myself?
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  And this gets really deep. It's not just about money.
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  It's about how we're treated. It's about how we spend our time
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  and energy and how we take care of ourselves.
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  But what value am I assigning to myself and the work that I am
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  producing? And if I'm undervaluing myself,
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  I'm always going to under earn. It's just inextricable.
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  And even if you're earning well, you could be earning more the
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  more you value yourself because that will be reflected back to
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  you. And I think this is really
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  common in how a lot of women will do the same jobs as men and
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  they'll make less money. Right.
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  And they say the same thing is true about women won't negotiate
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  as much. And I have a lot of clients who
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  all say they'll say they want to make more money and they'll be
• 22:56
  like, OK, have you asked for a raise?
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  No, no, no, like, I couldn't ask for a raise.
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  A lot of them will tell me that. Why?
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  Oh, I don't know. Like, I just, it's
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  uncomfortable. I don't want to ask for that.
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  That's part of this whole thing of really valuing yourself and
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  expecting a certain amount. And that will be reflected back
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  to you. An analogy I love to use, this
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  is the fourth piece, is that money behaves like electricity.
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  And if you even think about the words that we use as a society
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  to describe money, we use banks. Electricity is also held in a
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  bank currency, right? Like a current charge, like an
• 23:35
  electrical charge, but a charge on your credit card, revenue
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  stream, income stream, right? These are all references to
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  electricity, water to flow of something, circulation, cash
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  flow. And so understanding that there
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  is this flow, there is this current, and there's this way in
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  which money flows like electricity or you could even
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  think of it as water. And I always think of in order
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  to make more money, you want to become a more powerful conductor
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  of energy, just like certain metals are really powerful
• 24:09
  conductors of electricity and some of them are not, right?
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  And so you're going to have a really great lamp if you use the
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  right materials in order to conduct that, and you're going
• 24:19
  to have a really poor lamp if you use the wrong materials.
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  The same is true for you. You want to be a powerful
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  conductor of money. And so how do you become a
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  powerful conductor of money? I want to walk you through
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  basically like this three-part system.
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  And I go way deeper into this, into my programs, but I want to
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  give it to you so you have it. And it's really this three-part
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  framework of how to become that better conductor.
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  So at the bottom level, we have the roots.
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  So it's, I'm going to use a little garden metaphor.
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  We have the roots. The roots of your relationship
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  and your experience with money are your subconscious beliefs
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  and your nervous system patterns around money.
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  The roots affect everything, right?
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  You can't have a solid, healthy oak tree if you don't have an
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  extensive, powerful root system. And as soon as that root system
• 25:07
  starts to die, that entire tree begins to die.
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  Same with when your beliefs around money suck.
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  Your whole money tree is going to struggle to grow some of the
• 25:18
  things that you want to think about.
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  Do I feel safe receiving more money?
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  How do I actually feel when I think about making an extra X
• 25:26
  amount every single year? Do I feel safe being seen?
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  Being seen is a big part of creating more money.
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  Do I feel safe charging more? Do I feel safe holding more?
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  How do I feel about investing? How do I feel about charging for
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  my services? How do I feel about checking my
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  bank account? Noticing all of these behaviors
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  that you have around money and do I tip people well, what are
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  your relationships with money? Notice that because underneath
• 25:56
  there's your beliefs about money, and if you're not where
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  you want to be financially, there's things in there that are
• 26:02
  not serving you. And as you change those, the
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  entire tree strengthens and can grow much taller.
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  So that's the first piece. Then the second piece are the
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  nutrients. So the nutrients that feed the
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  trees, right? The nutrients in the soil.
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  And those are your conscious beliefs about money.
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  So our subconscious mind is 95% controls 95% of our reality.
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  I really think it's more, I think it's like 99, but that's
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  what research has shown is 95%. Your subconscious mind is really
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  running the show. But consciously what we are
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  aware of. So the thoughts that we are
• 26:37
  aware of, that's our conscious mind.
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  So the nutrients are what am I consciously telling myself about
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  money, right? Am I repeating to myself, money
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  is a struggle. I'm never going to have the kind
• 26:49
  of money that I want, right? Or am I saying money is a
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  renewable resource? Money is abundant, money is a
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  current. I am my greatest asset.
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  Every time I pour into myself, I make more money.
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  Money loves me. I am an excellent steward of
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  money, right? What are you consciously telling
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  yourself about money? Then we have the gardener who
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  takes care of the tree and that is your aligned behaviours.
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  So how am I showing up around money?
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  How am I taking care of my money?
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  Am IA good steward of money? Because your subconscious mind,
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  that root system is always observing your behaviors.
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  And so if you are not showing up, well, if you're like, I
• 27:34
  believe I'm a money magnet and you tell yourself that all day,
• 27:37
  but you also are constantly overspending or you're
• 27:40
  constantly never, you know, tipping people and not wanting
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  to, you know, split the bill with your friends and being like
• 27:45
  cheap with money. That's a strong disconnect.
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  So understanding those aligned behaviors, are you really taking
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  care of your money? A lot of my clients will tell me
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  like, I really don't like checking my bank account.
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  It really stresses me out, so I don't do it.
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  That's not being a loving steward of money.
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  So understanding that, how are you saving your money?
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  How are you investing your money?
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  Do you have a healthy money machine that you've created for
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  yourself, right? Really treating it like a
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  relationship. That is where I want to leave
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  it. With this episode, I have so
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  much more to say, right? We could speak about money for
• 28:21
  literally months and months on end.
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  What I want you to do is I want you to start really just
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  noticing your behaviors and reflecting on your relationship
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  with money. And if you want to change this
• 28:32
  relationship, I highly recommend reaching out to me and learning
• 28:36
  more about my community where I help you rewire these deeper
• 28:39
  beliefs around money. And I teach you how to manifest
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  more in your life, how to become that strong conductor of money
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  and creating in your life. So if you want to learn about
• 28:49
  that, send me the word podcast on Instagram and I will send you
• 28:53
  a 5 minute video about that. All right, see you in the next
• 28:57
  episode.