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FULL SHOW: Help! I See Red Flags! · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to Air
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Speaker 1: on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. I don't know, excuse
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Speaker 1: I you know, I love to hear the different trends
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Speaker 1: in the styles and the things that people are talking about.
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Speaker 1: Wasn't there like Nana Chic or Nana Beach.
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Speaker 2: Or something something with Diane keatoncial Grandma, Yeah, we got
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Speaker 2: we got there eventually.
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Speaker 1: Now Ruby was saying, there's the latest trend. Now, you
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Speaker 1: tell me if you think I should do this. I
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Speaker 1: don't know if I show what's the latest trend now
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Speaker 1: after Coastal Grandma.
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Speaker 3: Dad's shirts are in.
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Speaker 4: Apparently they're the key to dressing effortlessly cool this spring.
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Speaker 4: And I've been actually thrifting a bunch of dad shirts
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Speaker 4: for a while.
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Speaker 5: Now.
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Speaker 1: What qualifies to be a so this for women dad shirts?
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Speaker 1: What qualifies to be a dad shirt?
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Speaker 4: It is an oversized button up shirt with like a collar.
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Speaker 4: So that's basically the effortless look of a dapt Hasn't.
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Speaker 1: That been a look over the course of the years.
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Speaker 1: I feel like I've seen that look in movies before.
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Speaker 3: For sure.
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Speaker 1: Go By.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like Julia Roberts would rock this look
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Speaker 4: like an effortless, like button up that just you kind
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Speaker 4: of throw it over. It's actually really good to use,
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Speaker 4: I think by the beach and pool.
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Speaker 1: Well, hold on for sec This is not just about
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Speaker 1: dad shirts. This is about everything from the nineties is back.
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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what it is, like the video game,
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Speaker 1: the classic video games, the arcades, the shirts. Anything from
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Speaker 1: the nineties is back. And I think we said Julia Roberts,
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Speaker 1: there must have been movies where she was wearing Yes,
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Speaker 1: one of these shirts.
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Speaker 3: Lays comes back for sure.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so not a trend for me, This is a
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Speaker 1: trend for Cystanty and Tania Sysney. Was this something that
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Speaker 1: you think you would be part of the dad shirts?
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Speaker 6: Yeah?
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Speaker 7: And funny you say that because I actually got one
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Speaker 7: for Christmas from my aunt and I had it just
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Speaker 7: draped over the chair in our bedroom and Michael picked
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Speaker 7: it up the other day thinking that it was his shirt.
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Speaker 3: He's like, I do you realize that I got one
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Speaker 3: of these? I got this for Christmas.
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Speaker 1: I mean the other one that I hear about is
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Speaker 1: poet core. You know this is poet cor. You look
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Speaker 1: like a poet, like somebody that writes poetry. Right, you're
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Speaker 1: supposed to wear oversized sweaters and Jordan you've seen this before, right,
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Speaker 1: aspire to be that.
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Speaker 7: I don't know what they're called, but they're like the
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Speaker 7: parish looking hats that are kind of likes forraise.
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Speaker 1: Yes, I can't, my hair's.
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Speaker 7: Too puffy to do so, but I aspire to wear
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Speaker 7: something like that.
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Speaker 1: Beret, oversized sweater, glasses, a laced collar like this is
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Speaker 1: the like goody goody two shoes. That's the look, right,
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Speaker 1: So that becomes cool everything that everything that was cool
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Speaker 1: looking is now no longer cool. Everything that was uncool
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Speaker 1: from the nineties is now cool. This is the way
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Speaker 1: I look at Oh. I can't try any of those trends.
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Speaker 1: I think it's all for y'all. Tany invited to a
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Speaker 1: birthday party on the invitation it had an end time,
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Speaker 1: it's a big deal time you, Uh.
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Speaker 8: It's not a big deal. But I've never been invited
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Speaker 8: with an end time before.
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Speaker 1: I think I have invited you to things and said
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Speaker 1: when it's going to wrap up, haven't I No.
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Speaker 5: Usual when you used to throw like the Christmas parties
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Speaker 5: or the holiday parties, you would say starts at whatever time.
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Speaker 8: You did not give us an ending.
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Speaker 1: Well, I'm made a mistake, so my money. Kurt wanted
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Speaker 1: to come over for dinner a couple of nights ago,
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Speaker 1: and I was very clear. It wasn't like a formal inventation,
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Speaker 1: but in my text, I was very clear to say, hey,
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Speaker 1: i'll see at six thirty, you'll be home by eight.
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Speaker 1: I was just like really clear to set you'll be home,
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Speaker 1: not even like you'll be finished, meaning you'll be out
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Speaker 1: the door by seven thirty. I think, like I've done
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Speaker 1: that before with you guys said no, you just you
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Speaker 1: just wrap.
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Speaker 7: It up in the middle of us all hanging out
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Speaker 7: on your porch or your patios, and it's time to go.
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to my pajam.
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Speaker 5: But I think I think an intimate dinner is different
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Speaker 5: than like a birthday party. I've never like, you know
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Speaker 5: what I mean, Like, I've never had an ending tok.
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Speaker 7: I put end times on an invitation just so people
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Speaker 7: don't get there super late, especially if you have things
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Speaker 7: that are happening like late, you're gonna miss the whatever.
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Speaker 1: I think framing the expectation is right, and then there's
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Speaker 1: no awkwardness when the music stops, the lights come on,
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Speaker 1: and people have to leave, like it's already predetermined.
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Speaker 5: I actually really appreciate it because the imitation was from
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Speaker 5: five to eight pm.
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Speaker 8: So we were like, yeah, we're like that's in our
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Speaker 8: we love that.
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Speaker 5: And then by seven fifteen we were like, we're not
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Speaker 5: really leaving that early because it's going to end in
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Speaker 5: forty five minutes anyway.
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Speaker 1: Can't They started at four thirty?
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Speaker 8: No.
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Speaker 1: I have friends they're like, all right, dude, are you
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Speaker 1: are you planning on coming to this? Because if you're coming,
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Speaker 1: we're going to start at thirty minutes earlier. And uh,
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Speaker 1: because they're just used to that whole vibe of like
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Speaker 1: get going because we've got to get up.
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Speaker 8: That's nice.
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Speaker 1: Such a bad thing. I know, it is very nice
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Speaker 1: of them. Of course I couldn't go.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you didn't show up, you know I did.
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Speaker 1: I showed up even before the early part. Let's go
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Speaker 1: to Witty or Sarah. How are you Sarah and Whittier
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Speaker 1: this morning?
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Speaker 2: Hi?
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Speaker 1: Good? Thank you good. So your cousin wants to buy
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Speaker 1: your car, but you're not sure you should sell it
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Speaker 1: to your cousin. What's the issue.
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Speaker 9: Well, it's a cheap. The problem is it's old, so
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Speaker 9: things tend to go wrong in old cars and she
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Speaker 9: gives me sixteen thousand for it, which is what it's worth,
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Speaker 9: and then something goes wrong. It's going to be awkward
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Speaker 9: and she might ask for her money back. Yes, and
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Speaker 9: it could really ruin a relationship and be like a
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Speaker 9: whole family thing.
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Speaker 1: So I think you're right. How do you tell her this?
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Speaker 9: I don't know, Like I kind of wanted to sell
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Speaker 9: out the car masks or Carvana and then I don't
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Speaker 9: have to deal with anything like that, you know.
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Speaker 1: I think it's can't you just say you have a
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Speaker 1: house rule that you don't do business with family so
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Speaker 1: that it doesn't ever get awkward.
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Speaker 3: I mean that right there is going to make it awkward.
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Speaker 1: No, because it's not just she really wanted to buy it,
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Speaker 1: but you have a choice. What's worse just saying you've
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Speaker 1: got this rule that you you know that you always
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Speaker 1: stand by, or taking the risk and having it get
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Speaker 1: awkward if the car breaks down after you make the deal.
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Speaker 1: I think it's better just to be straightforward and say, look,
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Speaker 1: you don't want it to ever get uncomfortable out of
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Speaker 1: respect for your relationship as family, and you don't want
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Speaker 1: to make the deal. Okay, Yeah, it's it's either the
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Speaker 1: other way. It's definitely easier that way than the other way.
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Speaker 7: What can't you sign a contract or something like, hey,
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Speaker 7: else the car. If anything happens, you can't blame me
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Speaker 7: or be very transparent, like if there's anything ever been
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Speaker 7: issues with the car.
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Speaker 1: This is all the stuff you want to avoid with
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Speaker 1: family members, all of everything you just said.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, all right.
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Speaker 1: Sarah, anything else we can do. Good luck with the sale,
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Speaker 1: I think yourself.
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Speaker 9: Thank you so much.
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Speaker 1: If anything else, it shows it it's a hot commodity. Right,
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Speaker 1: cousin wants a car, somebody else gonna want the car. Okay, FM,
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Speaker 1: So I got a quote of the day. And if
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Speaker 1: you're on a app and it's not going well, it
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Speaker 1: could be your name. They really are pushing this the
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Speaker 1: most attractive names for men and women. They put these out,
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Speaker 1: and they did they put these out. These these names
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Speaker 1: get more tractions. So Michayla, see how they sound to you. Alex, Daniel, Lucas, Carlos, James,
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Speaker 1: those are the male names that get the most traction
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Speaker 1: on any of the dating apps.
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Speaker 3: Okay, Lucas the way, I don't think.
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Speaker 8: Lucas.
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Speaker 1: I will agree with Tanya. I try to avoid meeting
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Speaker 1: anyone named Lucas because they're always super hot.
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Speaker 3: But like Daniel, doesn't do anything for me.
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Speaker 1: Well, here are the women. Carlos the most swipes. These
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Speaker 1: women names get the most swipes. Whatever you do on
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Speaker 1: those things on dating apps, Maria, Laura, Anna, Sarah.
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Speaker 3: And Fia. I'll end with as, Is that true, Sophia, Yeah,
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Speaker 3: it is true.
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Speaker 1: You know what, Tony, I want to I want to
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Speaker 1: be Lucas some days too.
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Speaker 6: I know.
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Speaker 8: I could picture him as a Lucas.
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Speaker 1: Thank you, Lucas Seacrest. Oh my gosh, I'd be so dude.
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Speaker 1: Like yes, today's quote. Discipline is choosing between what you
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Speaker 1: want now and what you want most. Oh my gosh, yes,
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Speaker 1: One of two pointy seven Kiss FM. So, good morning, Nicole,
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Speaker 1: it's Ryan. How are you hi.
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Speaker 10: I'm good, all right.
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Speaker 1: So your fiance doesn't want to move in together after
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Speaker 1: you get married?
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Speaker 10: Yeah, so what getting married in August?
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Speaker 1: Yeah?
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Speaker 10: And so I own a house in Norwalk. He owns
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Speaker 10: one in Linnwood. So naturally I assume that we would
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Speaker 10: sell one this summer and then move in together, because
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Speaker 10: like that's what married people do. So I brought it up,
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Speaker 10: and then he said we should keep both.
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Speaker 1: I think I'd want to live with the person I'm
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Speaker 1: marrying step right.
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Speaker 10: Well, at first, I thought like it sounded a little
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Speaker 10: bit practical. We both have really low interest rates, and
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Speaker 10: so he said we'd be kind of nuts to sell
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Speaker 10: right now, and so like fine, I get that, And
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Speaker 10: so then I said, what's your plan? Do you want
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Speaker 10: to rent one? Out and he said, no.
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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's the problem here. Again. I understand the
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Speaker 1: practical economics of it, but I just think that I
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Speaker 1: don't know if the person I'm going to marry doesn't
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Speaker 1: want to like be with me right away, I feel.
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Speaker 7: Like that's a bad first step, unless it's a different situation,
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Speaker 7: like if you guys have kids and they have to
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Speaker 7: finish school in their cities, then I could see that
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Speaker 7: making sense for those couple of years.
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Speaker 1: It's hard. Can you wait to get married?
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Speaker 10: Well, I mean we're supposed to get married in August.
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Speaker 3: That's already an next year. What's that gonna do?
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Speaker 1: I just think what you get married you're not living together,
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Speaker 1: could cause problems. Maybe being engaged in trying this is better.
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Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't know. I mean he kind of just
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Speaker 10: feed around the bush about it and was being kind
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Speaker 10: of wishy washy. I was like, well, why would you
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Speaker 10: want to rent one out that feels like, you know,
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Speaker 10: good income, and he just said he didn't want to
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Speaker 10: like deal with tenants and like it's a headache or something.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm no expert on relationships and marriage, but I
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Speaker 1: think I would rather stay engaged and try this out
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Speaker 1: before married. Yeah, alien, Yeah, it's my sixteen cents.
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Speaker 10: Yeah, good luck, Nicole, thank you, thank you.
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Speaker 1: Bye. I think there's something more to that. Guys, be excited.
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Speaker 1: I was so excited when I saw other people getting
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Speaker 1: married that we're going to live together.
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Speaker 3: Merging everything.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, back with five hundred dollars and back to school
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Speaker 1: cash in this thing. So Sisany has a little detail
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Speaker 1: on this. But there's a guy this all over the
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Speaker 1: news here in La. There's a guy he's a landlord
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Speaker 1: in La who runs this apartment group and his rental
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Speaker 1: process is a bit wild. Instead of obsessing over your
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Speaker 1: credit card scores or the typical stuff, he screens potential
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Speaker 1: tenants by asking for their astrological signs. Yes, so, like
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Speaker 1: you roll in and you tell me you're a Leo
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Speaker 1: or a virgo. I don't know if that's good or
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Speaker 1: like what would be good? If I guess it's legal,
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Speaker 1: But if this were your filter, what would be good
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Speaker 1: signs you'd want to rent to?
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Speaker 7: Well, I don't know exactly when it comes down to,
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Speaker 7: like being a tenant based on your sign. But for him,
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Speaker 7: he says he has experience with this because he thinks
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Speaker 7: that you know, he loves Leo's, for example. He thinks
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Speaker 7: Leo's are self sufficient and so they make really good tenants.
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Speaker 7: And then apparently he is not a fan of Virgosh,
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Speaker 7: saying because he finds them to be nitpicky.
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Speaker 1: So we looked and he can do this. There's no
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Speaker 1: law that says he cannot do this. He describes it
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Speaker 1: as a vibe check. He claims his vibe check method works.
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Speaker 1: He can tell a lot by the person based on
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Speaker 1: the vibe, based on the sign, and he's only evicted
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Speaker 1: a few people in decades. Yeah, I mean, I don't
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Speaker 1: know if it works for him, and he can do it,
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Speaker 1: I guess why stop. But you know what if you
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Speaker 1: roll up in a listening to loud music and you're,
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Speaker 1: you know, a little bit seeming like a loud person,
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Speaker 1: you can't you can't do anything there. But I guess
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Speaker 1: you could ask. You can't say, nobody could ask for.
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Speaker 7: Their sign, sure their sign, and then you have all
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Speaker 7: the other information on the person.
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Speaker 3: So I think at the end of the day, you
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Speaker 3: just make the best decision. It's going to work. His
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Speaker 3: apartments are really cool.
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Speaker 7: Actually, I was looking them up and they're all like
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Speaker 7: historical apartments that famous celebrities lived in like the thirties
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Speaker 7: and forties, and like they're they've been obviously like some
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Speaker 7: of them restored and whatnot. And so I can see
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Speaker 7: why he wants to really like find the perfect tenant
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Speaker 7: because he doesn't want anybody like track these places. But
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Speaker 7: I actually thought it was a genius idea when I
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Speaker 7: read this.
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Speaker 1: In what city in La was your first rental?
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Speaker 7: It was in Studio City and Tanya Sherman oaks mine
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Speaker 7: right down the street, right.
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Speaker 1: Down the street, Park Point Burbank. I think Mario Lopez's
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Speaker 1: picture is still up in the rental office that. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I was soap operas and Mario Lopez living in that
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Speaker 1: apartment complex. It was so cool to see them sometimes
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Speaker 1: on P one. So all right, we were talking about
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Speaker 1: this La landlord who runs our deco apartments and instead
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Speaker 1: of focusing on credit scores or resumes, he screens potential
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Speaker 1: tenants by asking for their astrological signs. This is totally legal,
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Speaker 1: we checked on it. He's convinced that certain signs make
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Speaker 1: better neighbors. Right, he's in the Vibes's business.
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Speaker 3: Hmm.
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Speaker 1: So he loves Leo's because he thinks Leo's are self sufficient.
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Speaker 1: Apparently he's not a fan of virgos. He finds them
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Speaker 1: to be nitpicky and he doesn't want to deal with
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Speaker 1: their headaches. So I think Jane is or was a
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Speaker 1: tenant of this Landlords Jane in Los Feels. So you
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Speaker 1: lived in the Zodiac Landlords building?
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Speaker 6: I sure did, with art deco, Dave.
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Speaker 1: Art deco Dave. All right, and how was it? Did
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Speaker 1: this screening process of signs make for a good living environment?
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Speaker 6: I felt like, you know, it was like pretty chill.
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Speaker 6: There was like a lot of women with dogs, and
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Speaker 6: we all got along. It wasn't really upfront that he
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Speaker 6: uses your zodiac sign, but then it was like a
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Speaker 6: rumor within everyone. And then once we finally moved out,
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Speaker 6: he did ask me what my zodiac sign was and
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Speaker 6: my part and my.
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Speaker 7: Husband, Wow, he did, and what signs are are you guys?
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Speaker 6: I am a cancer, which he loves because he said
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Speaker 6: you were very nurturing and we take care of the home.
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Speaker 6: And then he asked what my husband was, and my
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Speaker 6: husband is a Gemini, which he doesn't like. And I
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Speaker 6: asked him why it's so much Gemini flander and he
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Speaker 6: said because his ex wife was a Semini.
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Speaker 1: But it worked out. You enjoyed your experience.
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Speaker 6: I mean it work. I kind of knew what kind
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Speaker 6: of person he was. I mean, his buildings are really beautiful.
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Speaker 6: The tenant clause is like really strict, so I made
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Speaker 6: sure not to ruffle his feathers and we got along well.
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Speaker 6: But I knew he could be, you know, just like
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Speaker 6: difficult at times for a protective of his building. But
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Speaker 6: I cannot unscathed.
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Speaker 1: You did got it all right? Well we'll see. We
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Speaker 1: thought there was a very unique story about him. Thank
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Speaker 1: you for listening. Jane. I'm glad you're unscathed from the event.
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Speaker 6: Thank you so much.
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Speaker 1: You take care of bye bye you. Landlord there taking
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Speaker 1: his tenants based on their signs doesn't want to deal
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Speaker 1: with the headaches of nitpicky people. On air with Ryan Seacrest,
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Speaker 1: now Sophia since college, she met a guy on Halloween.
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Speaker 1: They have been hanging out quite a bit. Actually we
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Speaker 1: call him Skeletor because that's what he was dressed as,
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Speaker 1: and they've been in the gray area for about two months.
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Speaker 1: I think he's not great to exist in the gray area,
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Speaker 1: but my view is, as long as you're not pushing it,
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Speaker 1: he's not going to bring it up. What are the
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Speaker 1: red flags sisant tany we should listen this. What are
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Speaker 1: the red flags you've seen, Sophia And are they symbolic?
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Speaker 1: Are they significant?
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Speaker 11: Okay, I've noticed that this one's kind of in the middle.
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Speaker 11: But he doesn't use any social media, Like he has
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Speaker 11: an Instagram account, but he tells me I don't have
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Speaker 11: notifications on. And he also never sees my stories or
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Speaker 11: likes my pos and.
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Speaker 1: You want him like you put these things up there,
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Speaker 1: so he.
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Speaker 11: Yeah, like, I'm not like sending him like the Q
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Speaker 11: photos that I take, so I post him on Instagram.
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Speaker 1: All right, well, there's questionable. Give me the others. How
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Speaker 1: many are there? There's honestly a couple.
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Speaker 11: He every time he gets a phone call, he always
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Speaker 11: kind of like hides the phone and then he's like, oh,
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Speaker 11: give me one second, and then he goes and takes
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Speaker 11: the phone call.
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Speaker 3: That found's weird.
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Speaker 8: It might be work.
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Speaker 11: But every phone call, even if it's like a long
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Speaker 11: phone call or a short phone call, he's like, yeah,
18:25
Speaker 11: hold on.
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Speaker 1: If it's work, that's weird. You want to show that
18:29
Speaker 1: you're working, you know, that's like a double life.
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Speaker 5: No, not if he has a job that's discretionary.
18:37
Speaker 1: For example, what do you mean by that? I don't know,
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Speaker 1: like like a double life kind of thing.
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Speaker 8: No, Sophia can't know.
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Speaker 1: Oh he's in the CIA. Maybe I don't know, all right?
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Speaker 1: And is there any other red flag with this guy?
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Speaker 11: So I am like the worst person at making decisions.
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Speaker 11: I'm so indecisive. And every time we're like, oh, what
18:58
Speaker 11: should we do today? Where should we go? Where should
19:00
Speaker 11: we eat? And I give him options, He's like, I
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Speaker 11: don't know, you choose or you choose?
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Speaker 1: What do you want? What do you want the most?
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Speaker 11: And I'm like, I got far enough to give you options.
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Speaker 3: You give me the final.
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Speaker 1: Decision, land the plane.
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Speaker 11: And sometimes I want him to just like make decisive
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Speaker 11: and make the decision for me.
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Speaker 1: I think that's hot.
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Speaker 7: That's hot when when anybody is the bad when Michael
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Speaker 7: says like, get ready, I'm picking you up in five
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Speaker 7: minutes or whatever, I'm wait, do.
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Speaker 1: You remember the Do you remember the date I went on?
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Speaker 1: This is a while ago. Now remember the date I
19:31
Speaker 1: went on and it went well? And I said, what
19:33
Speaker 1: are you doing for the next forty eight hours?
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Speaker 6: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Yes, it worked. I mean we dated for five years
19:39
Speaker 1: from like twelve years ago. Yeah, yeah, from when I
19:42
Speaker 1: was in college. Drop out facebo when I dropped out.
19:46
Speaker 1: So anyway, Sofia, I'm just going to say this to you.
19:48
Speaker 1: You know, you got to go with your instinct, but
19:50
Speaker 1: these can be things that are so clear when you
19:52
Speaker 1: look back in hindsight and didn't follow through on them
19:56
Speaker 1: being red flags. So just be careful. You get the
19:59
Speaker 1: gray area. I don't know what he's hiding, but he
20:01
Speaker 1: can because he's in a gray area. So if you
20:03
Speaker 1: want to sift through this, you need to be decisive
20:07
Speaker 1: and tell him probably that you want to be out
20:09
Speaker 1: of the gray or you need to move on.
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Speaker 3: It's time.
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Speaker 1: It's been too long time. I'm even ready for it.
20:16
Speaker 8: I'm embarrassed now.
20:18
Speaker 1: But thank you for vulnerably talking about that.
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Speaker 3: Right, I hope you're not listening.
20:22
Speaker 1: Ruby, step up to the mic here for a second.
20:24
Speaker 1: I think this is interesting. You were given a gift
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Speaker 1: certificate and then you need to get a gift for
20:30
Speaker 1: somebody else, and you're wondering, is it okay to use
20:34
Speaker 1: a gift certificate to get a gift for someone? Correct?
20:37
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I got a gift card, a Sephora gift card, actually,
20:40
Speaker 4: during our kiss why elephant exchange from Jewey and me
20:45
Speaker 4: and my sister share a birthday week, so last week
20:47
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I need to get her something.
20:48
Speaker 4: I was on the Sephora website going to buy her something,
20:52
Speaker 4: but then I kind of paused, and I was just curious,
20:56
Speaker 4: is it okay to buy a gift for someone, in
20:58
Speaker 4: this case my sister a gift card?
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Speaker 1: Yes? You think so?
21:02
Speaker 3: And it's money money money, you can spend your own money.
21:05
Speaker 4: I found guilty, though I didn't end up doing it,
21:08
Speaker 4: but I was like, is it wrong?
21:09
Speaker 1: But do why carry guilt on that? Like so many
21:11
Speaker 1: other things to carry guilt about, that's not one of them.
21:14
Speaker 1: I mean, look the fact that it was a gift
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Speaker 1: from us, Okay, maybe talking about it with us. Oh,
21:20
Speaker 1: and it was cheue white, I'll think gift. Yeah, I
21:23
Speaker 1: don't think you think twice about this. You don't even
21:25
Speaker 1: tell her it was a gift that you got from
21:29
Speaker 1: kiss to give to her. But there's no guilt to
21:32
Speaker 1: be carried with that. I just am all for not
21:34
Speaker 1: carrying guilt on things. You're doing something nice, you're doing
21:37
Speaker 1: something awful. We need to stop overthinking stuff like that.
21:40
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess you're right.
21:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, it's and Sydney. It's dope. I mean,
21:45
Speaker 1: it's credit, it's money, it's the same. It's the equivalent
21:49
Speaker 1: Happy birthday to your sister.
21:50
Speaker 3: Thanks, I'll let her know.
21:52
Speaker 1: Anybody else were good. So when you leave or lose
21:58
Speaker 1: your phone, can you breathe? Can you survive? Now? If
22:02
Speaker 1: you cannot, then we need to discuss the problem. Sisiny,
22:05
Speaker 1: this happened to you, and I'm.
22:07
Speaker 7: Really ashamed that I couldn't survive. Essentially, yesterday, I left
22:15
Speaker 7: the station kind of late and it was about five
22:18
Speaker 7: o'clock and so I'm like done, I'm like, I'm getting home.
22:23
Speaker 7: And that's when I realized that I don't have my phone,
22:26
Speaker 7: and so I go, oh, I can get all my
22:28
Speaker 7: messages on my laptop, every text message I can get
22:32
Speaker 7: on my I messages.
22:33
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. In that moment, there's two things. Number One,
22:36
Speaker 1: I would have a problem not knowing if it was
22:40
Speaker 1: lost or not. Did you know it was at the station?
22:42
Speaker 1: Did somebody find it?
22:43
Speaker 7: I knew exactly where it was. It was on my
22:45
Speaker 7: charging pad, on my desk in my Now it's a blessing. Now,
22:49
Speaker 7: it is a blessing now that you know where it
22:50
Speaker 7: is and you don't have it. It is a blessing. You
22:52
Speaker 7: have every excuse not to be on it and use it.
22:54
Speaker 1: And you could just send an email to anybody here
22:57
Speaker 1: Mark saying hey, guys, don't on my phone, talk to
22:59
Speaker 1: you tomorrow. Good night.
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Speaker 3: No I should have, and I didn't.
23:01
Speaker 7: I turned right around and I and thirty minutes back
23:04
Speaker 7: to Burbank and rushed hour.
23:06
Speaker 1: Like one of the gurus, one of the gurus that
23:08
Speaker 1: I spend time with, one of these gurus has has
23:10
Speaker 1: said to me, Hey, when those things happen, it's it's
23:13
Speaker 1: meant to be that, like you're you are needed to
23:16
Speaker 1: focus on something else. I don't spend time with gurus,
23:19
Speaker 1: but I'm just saying, like it seems like a guru
23:21
Speaker 1: thing that if that happens, then the world, the universe
23:24
Speaker 1: to plant something is requiring your attention, so don't fight it.
23:29
Speaker 3: And like I really didn't even need it, by the way,
23:30
Speaker 3: no one called me. I did not. I did not
23:33
Speaker 3: need it at all, and I went to bed four
23:34
Speaker 3: hours later. So it was just a waste.
23:37
Speaker 1: And I lock mine away. I have I have that
23:39
Speaker 1: little cubby hole that we put it away for certain
23:41
Speaker 1: dealers and meals, and when I am traveling many times
23:44
Speaker 1: I will luck it away. And I'm here advocating that.
23:48
Speaker 1: When you are not a quick response person, and I've
23:51
Speaker 1: been a quick response person all my life, when you
23:53
Speaker 1: are not, it's so cool. It's so cool these days
23:56
Speaker 1: when you're not a quick response person.
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Speaker 10: Not for you, you.
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Speaker 3: Don't think it's cool.
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Speaker 1: I do. I want to be a non response person.
24:05
Speaker 3: But for us, to you, the tables are turned. You
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Speaker 3: text me about something, I don't hit you back.
24:11
Speaker 1: You look.
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Speaker 6: Laid.
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Speaker 1: I questioned, mark, question mark, kiss Kiss. That's it, guys,
24:20
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Speaker 1: sure you're here for it. I have a great day, Assistant.
24:28
Speaker 1: I like the La Dodger cap you got on today.
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Speaker 8: Thank you, see.
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