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Different Places · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Already you guys, ready, it is time for a second
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  Speaker 1: date update. We're going to Middletown. We have got Kelly
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  Speaker 1: on the line. She apparently went on a great first date.
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  Speaker 1: She's getting ghosted and wants to know why. Hey Kelly, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: so welcome to the show. Tell us what's going on.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So basically I met up with this guy Steven.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, he took me.
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  Speaker 2: So he took me to Flemmings and it was amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Ooh yeah, he's like gorgeous, great job, really really cute.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like we had a lot in common and
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to see him again and I texted him,
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  Speaker 2: but he's kind of ghosting me, and I'd love to
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  Speaker 2: know why.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So you go to That's a really nice rest.
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  Speaker 4: It really is. Yeah, that's a big first date right there.
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  Speaker 3: That's nice. All right.
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  Speaker 1: So you you reached out to him and he's ghosting you.
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  Speaker 1: But did you feel like there was a connection? Was
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  Speaker 1: there like a little bit of flirting and good conversation
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  Speaker 1: during the date?
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  Speaker 2: I thought there was. I thought we had really a conversation. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: like I thought that, you know, the energy was good,
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  Speaker 2: he was cute.
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  Speaker 5: Did you I was cute like.
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  Speaker 4: I was cute.
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  Speaker 3: Uh did you offer to pay? Did he pay? Was
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  Speaker 3: it something with the bill?
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  Speaker 2: I mean he just paid like like.
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  Speaker 3: A gentleman, like drinks.
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  Speaker 4: Weren't you weren't outrageous with the drinks or anything like that?
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  Speaker 3: Great question?
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't think so.
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  Speaker 4: All right, hmm, all.
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  Speaker 3: Right, well this is what we're gonna do. Let's just
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  Speaker 3: jump right in, Kelly. We're gonna call Steven.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna ask him about the date, and I'm just
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  Speaker 1: gonna ask him to be honest.
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  Speaker 3: Are you ready to hear what he asked to say
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  Speaker 3: about the date?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, because it could just be a misunderstanding, yeah, definitely possible.
• 1:42
  Speaker 1: Or maybe he went on a business trip.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, summer vacation yes.
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  Speaker 1: And maybe he's gonna get back to you. All right,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you on whole kell. You're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: listening in. Feel free to jump in at any time. Okay, Okay,
• 1:53
  Speaker 1: who knows guys are cuckoo anyway?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, guys and girls, we're all weird. We're all
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  Speaker 3: just a mess. Honestly.
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  Speaker 4: No, don't forget she looked cute on the date. Remember
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  Speaker 4: that that's important.
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  Speaker 3: And I look cute too.
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  Speaker 1: Confidence Maybe Hi is Steven there, Stephen, Steve, Hey, Stephen,
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  Speaker 1: it's Courtney, Steve, it's Walmart.
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  Speaker 4: Jeff.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, it's Savannah, and we're calling from kiss ninety five
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  Speaker 1: to seven.
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  Speaker 3: How are you Stephen?
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  Speaker 5: Hey, I'm all right.
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  Speaker 1: No shocker, shocker this early in the morning. Welcome to
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  Speaker 1: the show. You're actually on something called second date update. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: It's a future we have if somebody goes on a
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  Speaker 1: first date and they have a great time, but they
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  Speaker 1: get ghosted and they want to know why. They call
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  Speaker 1: us and we try to get the answers. So this girl,
• 2:41
  Speaker 1: all right, this girl, Kelly called us. She said, you
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  Speaker 1: guys went out, went out to dinner. She felt there
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  Speaker 1: was a connection. I think she said, you're really cute
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  Speaker 1: and she's cute too. That's what she said.
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  Speaker 3: You're really cute. You guys had a lot in common,
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  Speaker 3: you had good conversation.
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  Speaker 1: She's reached out to you because she'd really like to
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  Speaker 1: see you again, but you're ghosting her.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Honestly, I think we're just h we're like in
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  Speaker 5: different places in our lives.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, all right, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I don't. Honestly, she's kind of she acts like a
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  Speaker 5: lot younger than me, and uh, I think that kind
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  Speaker 5: of just throws me off.
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  Speaker 4: You know, oh, what what do you mean? She acts
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  Speaker 4: like what did she do? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Wait, what happened?
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  Speaker 5: She doesn't like have a good sense of For instance,
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  Speaker 5: she we went to this awesome state put swinter of
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  Speaker 5: Flemings and she comes in wearing a crop top and
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  Speaker 5: she kind of like looks a stripper for lack of
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  Speaker 5: a better word, like she just didn't realize where she
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  Speaker 5: was going. I guess I don't know what she was.
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  Speaker 5: Just she dressed like, you know, like a young woman
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  Speaker 5: would dress. It was, it was. She seems kind of immature,
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  Speaker 5: and I don't mean to be like mean or anything,
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  Speaker 5: but she's kind of She's really loud and had nothing
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  Speaker 5: going on upstairs, if you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so Stephen, she dressed like she was going
• 4:02
  Speaker 1: to the club.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, like she had no idea. It's like she hadn't
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  Speaker 5: gone out to a dinner before, you know.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, not much to bring to thee.
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  Speaker 2: I need to jump in.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead, Kelly, she's on the phone. Maybe she's never
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  Speaker 1: gone out to who you don't know, Go ahead, Kelly.
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  Speaker 1: Do you heard what Steven said?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Look like. First of all, how I dress is
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  Speaker 2: how I express myself, and I don't really like to
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  Speaker 2: be judged for it. Second more, I didn't even know
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  Speaker 2: Flemmings was fancy Like Flemmings sounds like a birder place.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't know, Okay, And I think we're honestly
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  Speaker 5: just a different places, that's all I don't. I don't
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  Speaker 5: mean to be rude. I just think you know you.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So maybe you are listen, I understand, Stephen.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like maybe you guys are at different points
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  Speaker 1: in your life, and that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 5: I just wasn't a match for me. We can say that.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, Stephen, she said, I did say you guys
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  Speaker 4: had good conversation. Was a conversation at least good? Okay,
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  Speaker 4: I mean.
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  Speaker 1: All right, you don't need to answer, Steven, taking you
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  Speaker 1: that long to answer, just don't answer.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like at this point this is a wash.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like there's just not a connection here, but
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  Speaker 1: different stages in life maybe or just not a connection.
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  Speaker 3: And that's okay, that's okay. Are you okay with that?
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  Speaker 2: Kelly?
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  Speaker 5: I kind of misjudged you, I guess okay.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Stephen, thank you for being honest with us. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you for you know, being honest. And Kelly, thank you
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  Speaker 1: so much for calling us. And I'm glad you got
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  Speaker 1: your answers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, And I.
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  Speaker 5: Still talk to you guys.
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  Speaker 4: Thanks nice talking to you too, man.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate it all right, Kelly, Stephen, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks, sure had a good look.