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- 0:00Speaker 1: In the photograph, she sits perfectly still. Her eyes are open.
- 0:05Speaker 1: Her hands are positioned just so. There's only one problem.
- 0:09Speaker 1: She's been dead for three days. Imagine this. There's a
- 0:14Speaker 1: dusty old box tucked away in your great-great-grandmother's attic. Inside,
- 0:18Speaker 1: carefully wrapped in silk ribbons, the color of old bone
- 0:23Speaker 1: are dozens of photographs. You pick one up. It's a
- 0:26Speaker 1: family portrait. Mother. Father. Three small children, all dressed in
- 0:32Speaker 1: their finest Sunday clothes. Everyone is staring directly at the
- 0:35Speaker 1: camera with that unsettling stillness that only very old photographs
- 0:39Speaker 1: seem to possess. But I want you to look closer.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Look at the little girl standing in the center. Do
- 0:45Speaker 1: you see how she's almost propped up between her two siblings?
- 0:48Speaker 1: Notice how her eyes, even though they're open, have a strange,
- 0:53Speaker 1: glassy quality to them. How her skin seems just a
- 0:55Speaker 1: little too waxy, a little too perfect. a little too still.
- 1:00Speaker 1: That's because she isn't sleeping. She isn't just resting. She's dead.
- 1:06Speaker 1: And this photograph wasn't taken to celebrate a moment of life.
- 1:09Speaker 1: It was taken to remember death. This is the strange,
- 1:12Speaker 1: forgotten world of post-mortem photography. It was a practice so
- 1:16Speaker 1: widespread in the 19th century that almost every family, from
- 1:20Speaker 1: the richest to the poorest, participated in it. Yet, It
- 1:24Speaker 1: has so completely forgotten today that most of us have
- 1:27Speaker 1: no idea these haunting images might be hiding in our
- 1:29Speaker 1: own family albums. For nearly a century, across America and Europe,
- 1:35Speaker 1: an entire industry of photographers made their living from one
- 1:38Speaker 1: very specific, very haunting specialty. Making the dead look alive.
- 1:43Speaker 1: They developed incredible, almost macabre techniques to achieve this. They
- 1:48Speaker 1: would pose corpses in special stands and chairs, meticulously prop
- 1:52Speaker 1: open their eyelids. and sometimes even paint pupils onto the
- 1:56Speaker 1: closed eyelids of the developed prince. They arranged entire families
- 2:00Speaker 1: around their deceased loved ones as if nothing was wrong,
- 2:03Speaker 1: as if death was just another family member sitting down
- 2:05Speaker 1: for a portrait. These weren't pictures of coffins or funerals.
- 2:09Speaker 1: These were intimate, carefully staged scenes designed to preserve one final,
- 2:14Speaker 1: fleeting moment of togetherness. They were meant to create the
- 2:17Speaker 1: illusion that death was merely a deep sleep, that the
- 2:20Speaker 1: person they loved hadn't really left them at all, Think
- 2:23Speaker 1: about it. In an era before snapshots, before everyone had
- 2:27Speaker 1: a camera in their pocket, photography was a monumental event.
- 2:31Speaker 1: It was expensive and difficult. For many families, especially those
- 2:35Speaker 1: who weren't wealthy, a person might live their entire life
- 2:39Speaker 1: without ever having their picture taken. So, when a loved
- 2:43Speaker 1: one died, especially a child, the post-mortem photograph was unjust
- 2:47Speaker 1: a memento. It was often the asterisk-only asterisk photograph the
- 2:51Speaker 1: family would ever have of them. It was their only
- 2:53Speaker 1: chance to capture a face they never wanted to forget.
- 2:55Speaker 1: The most common subjects, heartbreakingly, were infants and young children.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Child mortality rates in the 19th century were staggeringly high.
- 3:04Speaker 1: Diseases we barely think about today, like diphtheria, scarlet fever,
- 3:09Speaker 1: and measles, were death sentences. When a child died, the
- 3:13Speaker 1: grief was immense, and the desire to hold on to
- 3:16Speaker 1: their memory was overwhelming. Photographers had specialized props just for
- 3:20Speaker 1: these situations. They had tiny chairs and cots. They would
- 3:23Speaker 1: often pose the deceased child with their favorite toys, or
- 3:27Speaker 1: nestled in their mother's arms, a style known as the
- 3:30Speaker 1: mother with sleeping child pose. In these images, the mother
- 3:34Speaker 1: gazes down at her child, her face a mask of sorrow,
- 3:37Speaker 1: while the child appears to be peacefully asleep. It's an
- 3:40Speaker 1: incredibly powerful and deeply sad image, capturing both the love
- 3:44Speaker 1: and the loss in a single frame. They also used
- 3:47Speaker 1: other family members to create a sense of life. siblings
- 3:51Speaker 1: would be posed holding their deceased brother or sister's hand,
- 3:54Speaker 1: or leaning against them as if they were all just
- 3:56Speaker 1: playing together. These compositions were meant to portray continuity, the
- 4:01Speaker 1: idea that even in death, the family unit remained unbroken.
- 4:05Speaker 1: The techniques evolved over time. Early digerotypes, the first commercially
- 4:10Speaker 1: successful photographic process, required very long exposure. times sometimes several minutes.
- 4:17Speaker 1: This is why people in very old photos often look
- 4:20Speaker 1: so stern. They were trying to hold perfectly still. This
- 4:24Speaker 1: long exposure time actually made it easier to photograph the
- 4:27Speaker 1: dead than the living. A deceased subject, of course, wouldn't
- 4:31Speaker 1: move or blink, resulting in a much clearer, sharper image
- 4:35Speaker 1: than their living, breathing relatives. Sometimes, the only person in
- 4:39Speaker 1: a family photo who is perfectly in focus is the
- 4:42Speaker 1: person who has passed away. As technology improved and exposure
- 4:46Speaker 1: times got shorter, photographers had to become more creative. They
- 4:50Speaker 1: built elaborate posing stands, metal contraptions that could be hidden
- 4:53Speaker 1: behind the body to hold it upright. Arms could be
- 4:56Speaker 1: bent and fixed in place, and a head clamp could
- 4:58Speaker 1: hold the head steady, tilted at a natural angle. It
- 5:02Speaker 1: was a strange mix of art history and engineering, all
- 5:05Speaker 1: in service of denying the reality of death. They would
- 5:07Speaker 1: even add touches of life after the photo was taken.
- 5:10Speaker 1: Rosy tints were often hand-painted onto the cheeks of the
- 5:13Speaker 1: corpse in the final print. Sometimes, if the eyes were closed,
- 5:17Speaker 1: the photographer or a retoucher would painstakingly paint open eyes
- 5:21Speaker 1: directly onto the photograph. The results can be incredibly uncanny.
- 5:26Speaker 1: You see a person who is clearly meant to be
- 5:28Speaker 1: a part of the scene, but there's just something. Of today,
- 5:31Speaker 1: when we stumble across these images, our modern sensibilities are
- 5:35Speaker 1: often shocked. We find them morbid, Creepy and unsettling. Our
- 5:40Speaker 1: culture has pushed death far into the background. We see
- 5:43Speaker 1: it as a medical event that happens in hospitals, something
- 5:46Speaker 1: to be sanitized and hidden away. The idea of bringing
- 5:49Speaker 1: a deceased family member back into the home, Drazine Tim,
- 5:53Speaker 1: and posing them for a photograph seems almost unthinkable. But
- 5:56Speaker 1: for our ancestors, death was a constant and very visible
- 6:00Speaker 1: part of life. It happened at home, surrounded by family.
- 6:04Speaker 1: The rituals of mourning were public and communal. Washing and
- 6:08Speaker 1: dressing the body, holding awake in the parlor, these were
- 6:11Speaker 1: all normal parts of the grieving process. The post-mortem photograph
- 6:15Speaker 1: was simply an extension of that. It was a way
- 6:17Speaker 1: to confront grief-headen, to honor the deceased, and to create
- 6:22Speaker 1: a tangible link to the person who was gone. So,
- 6:27Speaker 1: what happened? Why did this widespread practice completely disappear by
- 6:32Speaker 1: the early 20th century? there were a few key reasons. First,
- 6:36Speaker 1: medicine improved dramatically. Child mortality rates began to fall. So
- 6:41Speaker 1: the Sudan. Tragic loss of a child became less common.
- 6:45Speaker 1: People began to live longer, healthier lives. Death was still
- 6:49Speaker 1: a certainty. But it wasn't the constant, lurking presence it
- 6:53Speaker 1: had once been. Second, and perhaps most importantly, photography itself changed.
- 6:59Speaker 1: With the invention of the Kodak Brownie camera in 1900,
- 7:02Speaker 1: Photography became accessible and affordable for everyone. Suddenly, you didn't
- 7:07Speaker 1: need to hire an expensive professional. People could take their
- 7:10Speaker 1: own picture snapshots of birthdays, holidays, and everyday moments. The
- 7:15Speaker 1: family album began to fill up with images of life,
- 7:18Speaker 1: not death. People now had dozens of photos of their
- 7:21Speaker 1: loved ones while they were alive, smiling and vibrant. The
- 7:25Speaker 1: need for that one final, somber image faded away. The
- 7:29Speaker 1: entire culture around death shifted. As the funeral industry grew,
- 7:34Speaker 1: the care of the deceased moved out of the home
- 7:36Speaker 1: and into the hands of professionals. The intimate, hands-on grieving
- 7:40Speaker 1: process was replaced by a more distant, organized one. We
- 7:44Speaker 1: began to fear death, to see it as a failure
- 7:46Speaker 1: of medicine rather than a natural part of life. And
- 7:49Speaker 1: as that fear grew, the images that reminded us of
- 7:52Speaker 1: its reality became taboo. The story of post-mortem photography is
- 7:56Speaker 1: more than just a macabre footnote in history. It's a
- 7:59Speaker 1: mirror that reflects our own changing relationship with mortality. It
- 8:03Speaker 1: forces us to ask some profound questions. What have we
- 8:06Speaker 1: lost by sanitizing death, by pushing it out of sight?
- 8:10Speaker 1: Our ancestors looked death in the face and tried to
- 8:12Speaker 1: capture a piece of it to hold onto. We look Hawaii.
- 8:18Speaker 1: These photographs are a powerful reminder that the way we
- 8:21Speaker 1: view the world, and even the end of life itself,
- 8:24Speaker 1: is not fixed. It's shaped by our culture, our technology,
- 8:28Speaker 1: and our fears. The question isn't just why they did this.
- 8:32Speaker 1: The real question is, what does the fact that we
- 8:34Speaker 1: find these images so disturbing say about us? What made
- 8:38Speaker 1: us forget this practice so completely? And in forgetting, have
- 8:42Speaker 1: we also forgotten how to grieve? Next time you're looking
- 8:44Speaker 1: through old family photos, look a little closer. You might
- 8:48Speaker 1: find a hidden story, a silent figure propped up in
- 8:51Speaker 1: a chair, a testament to a time when saying goodbye
- 8:53Speaker 1: meant holding on to one last hauntingly beautiful image. Thanks
- 8:58Speaker 1: for watching. If you found this story as fascinating as
- 9:01Speaker 1: I did, consider subscribing for more journeys into the forgotten
- 9:04Speaker 1: corners of history. See you next time. Imagine for a
- 9:08Speaker 1: moment you reliving in a world where you've never seen
- 9:11Speaker 1: your own face. Not really. Maybe you've seen a distorted
- 9:15Speaker 1: ripple in a pond or a blurry, dark reflection in
- 9:18Speaker 1: a piece of polished metal. But a clear, perfect image
- 9:21Speaker 1: of yourself. It doesn't exist. Now, imagine never having a
- 9:27Speaker 1: single picture of your mother. your child, your partner. When
- 9:31Speaker 1: they're gone, all you have left are your memories, which
- 9:34Speaker 1: fade and change over time. This was reality for almost
- 9:37Speaker 1: all of human history. Then, in 1839, everything changed. Louis
- 9:42Speaker 1: Duguay introduced his invention, de Duguay-typed, to the world. And suddenly,
- 9:48Speaker 1: for the first time ever, death could be stopped. Not
- 9:52Speaker 1: death itself, but the erasure that came after. The face
- 9:56Speaker 1: that would normally fade from memory could now be frozen
- 9:59Speaker 1: in silver and glass permanent. Unchanging. Forever. The timing couldn't
- 10:04Speaker 1: have been more perfect, or more tragic. The mid-nineteenth century
- 10:08Speaker 1: was a brutal time to be alive. Cholera swept through
- 10:11Speaker 1: cities like an invisible scythe. Tuberculosis the consumption. Consumed entire families.
- 10:18Speaker 1: One coughing. blood-spotted victim at a time. Scarlet fever took
- 10:22Speaker 1: children by the thousands. Childbirth was a death sentence for
- 10:26Speaker 1: countless women. An infant mortality was so common that parents
- 10:29Speaker 1: often waited years before even naming their children, afraid to
- 10:32Speaker 1: get too attached to someone who probably wouldn't survive. In
- 10:35Speaker 1: this world, death wasn't something that happened in a sterile
- 10:39Speaker 1: hospital room, handled by professionals and hidden from view. Death
- 10:43Speaker 1: happened at home. In the bedroom, interparlor. Death was a constant,
- 10:51Speaker 1: intimate companion. And into this landscape of loss, photographers arrived
- 10:56Speaker 1: like a miracle. But here's the part that most people
- 10:58Speaker 1: don't understand. Back then, the dead were often easier to
- 11:02Speaker 1: photograph than the living. Early cameras required long exposure times,
- 11:07Speaker 1: sometimes several seconds, even minutes. You had to remain absolutely still,
- 11:12Speaker 1: or you'd appear as a ghostly blur. Children fidgeted. Adults breathed.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Eyes blinked, but the dead. The dead were perfect subjects.
- 11:23Speaker 1: They didn't move. They didn't breathe. They held their poses
- 11:28Speaker 1: with an inhuman stillness that the living just couldn't match.
- 11:31Speaker 1: In many early family portraits, if you look closely, the
- 11:35Speaker 1: dead are actually the clearest, sharpest figures in the frame.
- 11:39Speaker 1: In a strange way, they look more present than the
- 11:42Speaker 1: living people surrounding them. Photographers learned this quickly, and in
- 11:46Speaker 1: an era where a single photograph could cost what a
- 11:49Speaker 1: laborer might earn in a week, and most families would
- 11:52Speaker 1: only ever own one or two photographs in their entire lives,
- 11:55Speaker 1: a difficult question arose. Should we wait until everyone is
- 11:59Speaker 1: alive and healthy, knowing we may never afford another chance?
- 12:02Speaker 1: Or should we take the picture now, while we still
- 12:05Speaker 1: have something left to remember? The photographers who specialized in
- 12:08Speaker 1: this post-mortem work developed techniques that were theatrical, even grotesque. Today,
- 12:14Speaker 1: They feel disturbingly close to something out of a horror movie.
- 12:18Speaker 1: They weren't just taking pictures of boaties and coffins, though
- 12:21Speaker 1: that was the simplest approach, and many families chose it. No,
- 12:25Speaker 1: the truly skilled memorial photographers were artists of illusion. They
- 12:29Speaker 1: were craftsmen who could make you believe, just for a moment,
- 12:34Speaker 1: that the person in the photograph might suddenly draw a breath.
- 12:37Speaker 1: They would rush to a family's home within hours of
- 12:39Speaker 1: a death. trying to capture the image before the body
- 12:42Speaker 1: began to show the unmistakable signs of decay. They brought
- 12:45Speaker 1: specialized equipment hidden stands and frames that could be tucked
- 12:48Speaker 1: under clothing, metal clamps to hold a head upright, wires
- 12:52Speaker 1: to position arms and hands. They posed the dead in chairs,
- 12:56Speaker 1: standing against mantelpieces, or seated at pianos with their fingers
- 13:00Speaker 1: resting on the keys. Children were positioned with their favorite toys,
- 13:04Speaker 1: as if they had just paused their play for a moment.
- 13:06Speaker 1: Mothers were photographed holding their deceased infants, who appeared to
- 13:09Speaker 1: be peacefully sleeping in their arms. Entire families gathered around
- 13:13Speaker 1: a lost loved one as if they were assembling for
- 13:16Speaker 1: any other family portrait, everyone pretending that death was just
- 13:20Speaker 1: another guest in the room. The eyes were the hardest part.
- 13:23Speaker 1: If you left them open, they had that terrible glassy stare,
- 13:27Speaker 1: the unmistakable emptiness of death. But if you closed them,
- 13:31Speaker 1: it looked like sleep, which was better. but it also
- 13:35Speaker 1: admitted what everyone was trying to deny. So photographers got creative.
- 13:41Speaker 1: Some specialized in painting pupils directly onto the person's closed
- 13:45Speaker 1: eyelids or onto the photographic plate itself. Others propped the
- 13:49Speaker 1: eyelids open with tiny wires or pins, then retouched the
- 13:53Speaker 1: images to make the eyes seem alive. Perhaps the most
- 13:56Speaker 1: disturbing technique involved taking two different photographs, one with the
- 14:00Speaker 1: eyes closed, one with the eyes pried open then cutting
- 14:03Speaker 1: and pasting the open eyes onto the final image. This
- 14:06Speaker 1: created a chilling hybrid where the dead appeared to be
- 14:09Speaker 1: looking directly at the camera, directly at you, from across
- 14:13Speaker 1: the gulf of death itself. They would add blush to
- 14:15Speaker 1: the cheeks to imitate the flush of life. They positioned
- 14:19Speaker 1: boaties near windows to catch the most flattering light. They
- 14:22Speaker 1: often photographed the dead alongside the living, and unless you
- 14:25Speaker 1: knew what to look for the too perfect stillness, the
- 14:28Speaker 1: slightly odd posture, the subtle wrongness in the eye zoo,
- 14:32Speaker 1: might not even realize you were looking at a corpse.
- 14:34Speaker 1: These photographers were selling comfort. They were selling families the
- 14:39Speaker 1: beautiful lie they so desperately wanted to believe. That death
- 14:43Speaker 1: was gentle. That death was peaceful. That death was just
- 14:47Speaker 1: another kind of sleep from which the beloved might somehow, impossibly,
- 14:51Speaker 1: wake up. But why? That's the question that haunts us now.
- 14:56Speaker 1: Looking back at these deeply unsettling images, why would anyone
- 14:59Speaker 1: want to remember their loved ones this way? Why pose
- 15:02Speaker 1: with bodies? Why create these elaborate, theatrical scenes around death?
- 15:07Speaker 1: To understand, you have to completely step outside of our
- 15:10Speaker 1: modern relationship with mortality and enter a world where death
- 15:14Speaker 1: meant something entirely different. In the Victorian era, death wasn't
- 15:18Speaker 1: hidden away. There were no funeral homes to whisk the
- 15:21Speaker 1: body away. No professionals to handle everything while families grieved
- 15:25Speaker 1: at a comfortable distance. When someone died, they died at home.
- 15:29Speaker 1: The body was washed and dressed by family members' mothers
- 15:32Speaker 1: prepared their children, wives prepared their husbands, daughters prepared their parents.
- 15:37Speaker 1: The body would then remain in the home for days,
- 15:40Speaker 1: often in the parlor, while family and friends came to
- 15:43Speaker 1: pay their last respects. You sat with death. You touched death.
- 15:48Speaker 1: You lived with death in your house until the burial.
- 15:51Speaker 1: Children grew up understanding mortality not as an abstract concept,
- 15:55Speaker 1: but as a physical reality they had witnessed many times.
- 15:58Speaker 1: In this context, post-mortem photography wasn't macabre, it was practical,
- 16:03Speaker 1: and even seen as beautiful. These photographs served several purposes. First,
- 16:08Speaker 1: they were memorial images, often the only photograph a family
- 16:11Speaker 1: would ever have of the deceased. For many working-class families
- 16:14Speaker 1: who couldn't afford the luxury of regular photos, a death
- 16:17Speaker 1: in the family was sometimes the first and only opportunity
- 16:20Speaker 1: to capture a person's image. Second, These photos were sent
- 16:24Speaker 1: to distant relatives who couldn't attend the funeral. They were
- 16:27Speaker 1: a form of visual proof of death, a way to
- 16:30Speaker 1: share grief across long distances in a time before telephones
- 16:33Speaker 1: and easy travel. Third, and perhaps most importantly, they were
- 16:37Speaker 1: tangible objects. They could be held, looked at, kept in
- 16:42Speaker 1: a pocket or a locket. They were physical anchors for
- 16:44Speaker 1: grief in a world where people understood that memory fades,
- 16:48Speaker 1: that faces blur, and that without something concrete to hold
- 16:51Speaker 1: on to, The dead eventually vanish completely. But there's something
- 16:55Speaker 1: even deeper here. Something about control. Death in the 19th
- 16:59Speaker 1: century was random, sudden, and cruel. It took children in
- 17:03Speaker 1: the night, mothers in childbirth, strong young men in their prime.
- 17:08Speaker 1: People had no control over when or how death would strike.
- 17:13Speaker 1: But they could control the memory of death. Through post-mortem photography,
- 17:17Speaker 1: they could choose how to remember the departed. Not as
- 17:20Speaker 1: a body wasted by disease or twisted in pain, but
- 17:24Speaker 1: as someone peaceful, dignified, surrounded by family, frozen in a
- 17:29Speaker 1: moment that suggested sleep rather than an ending. It was
- 17:32Speaker 1: their one small act of defiance against the finality of death.
- 17:36Speaker 1: Thank you for watching. If you found this glimpse into
- 17:39Speaker 1: the past as fascinating as I did, don't forget to
- 17:42Speaker 1: like this video and subscribe for more stories. See you
- 17:45Speaker 1: next time. Of all the thousands of post-mortem photographs that
- 17:49Speaker 1: have survived, certain images stand out, not just for their
- 17:53Speaker 1: technical quality or their historical significance, but for the stories
- 17:57Speaker 1: they tell and the emotions they still manage to evoke
- 18:00Speaker 1: more than a century after they were taken. These aren't
- 18:03Speaker 1: just pictures of dead bodies. They're windows into a kind
- 18:06Speaker 1: of grief so profound that it transformed entire families, entire communities,
- 18:11Speaker 1: entire eras. Consider the sleeping children. There are hundreds of
- 18:16Speaker 1: photographs showing infants and young children arranged in their cribs
- 18:19Speaker 1: or in small beds, surrounded by flowers, and posed as
- 18:23Speaker 1: if they're in a peaceful sleep. Parents chose this illusion
- 18:26Speaker 1: very deliberately. They dressed their children in white christening gowns
- 18:31Speaker 1: or their Sunday best. They arranged their small hands so carefully,
- 18:35Speaker 1: sometimes folded in prayer, sometimes holding a flower. They desperately
- 18:39Speaker 1: wanted to remember their children as angels. as innocent souls
- 18:43Speaker 1: who were just resting before heading to heaven. What these
- 18:46Speaker 1: images don't show, of course, is what came before. The fever.
- 18:52Speaker 1: The desperate, midnight runs for doctors who could do nothing.
- 18:55Speaker 1: The small body, convulsing or struggling to breathe. The exact
- 19:00Speaker 1: moment when the child's eyes stopped focusing on their mother's face.
- 19:04Speaker 1: The photographs erased all of that suffering, replacing it with
- 19:07Speaker 1: a quiet tranquility. It was a mercy, A lie, and
- 19:11Speaker 1: an act of incredible love, all at once. Then there
- 19:15Speaker 1: are the mother and child portraits, which are perhaps the
- 19:18Speaker 1: most heartbreaking of the entire tradition. In some, dead mothers
- 19:22Speaker 1: hold living infants who would now have to grow up
- 19:24Speaker 1: without them. In others, living mothers hold dead babies they
- 19:27Speaker 1: carried for nine months, felt to move inside them, birthed
- 19:31Speaker 1: in agony. and then lost in just hours or days.
- 19:34Speaker 1: If you look at these mothers' faces, some of them
- 19:37Speaker 1: stare at the camera with an expression of such emptiness
- 19:39Speaker 1: that the photograph Kuhun fully capture it. Others look down
- 19:42Speaker 1: at their dead children with an expression you can't quite
- 19:45Speaker 1: read Is it love? Is it denial? Is it madness?
- 19:50Speaker 1: The human face wasn't built to hold that much contradiction,
- 19:53Speaker 1: that much impossible emotion all at once. And occasionally, you
- 19:57Speaker 1: find photographs that are even more unsettling. Images where the
- 20:01Speaker 1: living and the dead are posed together in such a
- 20:03Speaker 1: way that it takes you a few seconds to even
- 20:05Speaker 1: figure out who has died. A father, a mother, three children.
- 20:10Speaker 1: Everyone dressed formally. Everyone positioned carefully. But one figure is
- 20:14Speaker 1: just slightly too still. Slightly too perfect. Your eye might
- 20:19Speaker 1: pass over them at first, just assuming they were better
- 20:22Speaker 1: at holding still for the camera. Then you realize that
- 20:25Speaker 1: isn't stillness. That's death. And everyone else in the photograph
- 20:30Speaker 1: knows it. They're sitting there with a corpse, pretending it's
- 20:33Speaker 1: a person. Because this is the only family portrait they
- 20:36Speaker 1: will ever have. and they refused to exclude the one
- 20:39Speaker 1: who just left them. The business of death photography created
- 20:42Speaker 1: its own culture, its own economy, and its own specialists.
- 20:46Speaker 1: Photographers who built their entire careers around their ability to
- 20:50Speaker 1: make the dead look presentable, memorable, almost alive. These weren't
- 20:55Speaker 1: your mainstream portrait photographers who were just dabbling in memorial work.
- 20:59Speaker 1: These were dedicated professionals who advertised their services, who developed reputations,
- 21:05Speaker 1: and who were called upon in the absolute darkest moments
- 21:07Speaker 1: of a family-est life to perform a very specific kind
- 21:11Speaker 1: of magic. The advertisements they placed in newspapers are remarkable
- 21:15Speaker 1: documents on their own, photographing the dead a specialty. We'll
- 21:20Speaker 1: attend residences day or night. The special attention given to
- 21:24Speaker 1: photographing deceased children. These weren't hidden services whispered about in shame.
- 21:29Speaker 1: They were openly advertised, publicly acknowledged. and socially acceptable. A
- 21:35Speaker 1: good post-mortem photographer was a valuable person in a community,
- 21:39Speaker 1: someone you wanted to know about before you needed them.
- 21:42Speaker 1: Because when death came and it always cameo wanted to
- 21:45Speaker 1: act quickly, the pricing structures revealed just how complex the
- 21:48Speaker 1: work was. A simple photograph of a body in a
- 21:51Speaker 1: coffin cost less than elaborate poses with the deceased seated
- 21:55Speaker 1: or even standing. Photographs that included living family members cost
- 21:58Speaker 1: more still, retouching work like painting eyes to look opened.
- 22:02Speaker 1: adding color to the cheeks, or removing visible signs of
- 22:06Speaker 1: disease or injuriated to the price, and rush services, arriving
- 22:10Speaker 1: within just a few hours of death, commanded premium rates.
- 22:14Speaker 1: Some photographers even offered packages, multiple copies of the same image,
- 22:19Speaker 1: at a reduced rate, allowing families to send photographs to
- 22:22Speaker 1: relatives or keep extras as backups in case the original
- 22:25Speaker 1: was damaged. But behind all the business arrangements was genuine skill.
- 22:29Speaker 1: These photographers had to work fast. often in very difficult conditions.
- 22:34Speaker 1: They were in poorly lit homes, surrounded by grief-stricken families,
- 22:38Speaker 1: and dealing with bodies that were deteriorating. They had to
- 22:41Speaker 1: be part artist, part psychologist, and part mortician. They had
- 22:46Speaker 1: to pose bodies that had gone rigid with rigor mortis,
- 22:49Speaker 1: bodies that had begun to settle in ways that nature
- 22:52Speaker 1: intended but art required them to correct. They had to
- 22:55Speaker 1: work with families who were in shock, often dealing with
- 22:58Speaker 1: people who had never even been photographed before and didn't
- 23:01Speaker 1: understand the process. People who might break down sobbing in
- 23:04Speaker 1: the middle of a session, or who might refuse to
- 23:07Speaker 1: believe their loved one was really gone, and they had
- 23:09Speaker 1: to get it right the first time. There were no
- 23:12Speaker 1: second chances. No calling the family back next week for retail.
- 23:15Speaker 1: This was the only opportunity to capture this image. And
- 23:18Speaker 1: if the photographer fell deaf, the camera malfunctioned. If the
- 23:22Speaker 1: plate was damaged, if the exposure was wrong there was
- 23:25Speaker 1: no fixing it. The weight of that responsibility must have
- 23:28Speaker 1: been absolutely crushing. As we cross into the 20th century,
- 23:32Speaker 1: something begins to shift. The photographs change. The practice itself
- 23:37Speaker 1: starts to fade away. And in that fading, you can
- 23:41Speaker 1: trace the evolution of how Western society relates to death
- 23:44Speaker 1: itself a transformation, so complete that by the end of
- 23:47Speaker 1: the century, these photographs would seem not just outdated but incomprehensible.
- 23:51Speaker 1: almost obscene. The first blow to post-mortem photography was also
- 23:55Speaker 1: one of its greatest gifts. Photography became cheaper and more accessible.
- 24:00Speaker 1: The Kodak Brownie camera, introduced in 1900, cost just one
- 24:04Speaker 1: dollar and used roll film that anyone could load and shoot. Suddenly,
- 24:09Speaker 1: families could afford to take multiple photographs. You didn't have
- 24:12Speaker 1: to wait for death to justify the expense of a
- 24:15Speaker 1: portrait anymore. You could photograph birthdays, holidays, ordinary Sundays. Living
- 24:21Speaker 1: photographs became common, which meant death photographs became less necessary.
- 24:25Speaker 1: If you already had dozens of images of your child smiling, playing,
- 24:30Speaker 1: and alive, did you really need one more of them dead?
- 24:32Speaker 1: But something deeper was changing. The way Americans and Europeans
- 24:36Speaker 1: dealt with death was being systematically professionalized and sanitized. The
- 24:41Speaker 1: funeral industry emerged, offering to take care of everything removing
- 24:44Speaker 1: the body from the home, preparing it in special facilities.
- 24:48Speaker 1: and returning it in a sealed coffin for brief viewings.
- 24:50Speaker 1: Hospitals became the new places of death, replacing the home.
- 24:54Speaker 1: Death moved from the family parlor to institutions, from a
- 24:58Speaker 1: family responsibility to professional management. And as death moved away
- 25:02Speaker 1: from the home, it moved away from everyday life, away
- 25:05Speaker 1: from children, and away from open acknowledgement. By the 1920s,
- 25:10Speaker 1: the Victorian comfort with death photography was being reframed as morbid,
- 25:14Speaker 1: as unhealthy. as something that mentally sound people just didn't do.
- 25:18Speaker 1: Psychology was entering popular culture, bringing with it new ideas
- 25:22Speaker 1: about grief, trauma, and the proper way to mourn. Looking
- 25:26Speaker 1: at photographs of dead loved ones was now considered obsessive,
- 25:30Speaker 1: a sign that someone wasn't moving inappropriately. The very same
- 25:33Speaker 1: images that Victorian families had treasured began to seem embarrassing, disturbing,
- 25:38Speaker 1: something to hide away or throw away entirely. World War
- 25:41Speaker 1: I played its part, too. After millions of young men
- 25:44Speaker 1: died in trenches, often with no bodies recovered and no
- 25:48Speaker 1: photographs possible, the idea of elaborate death rituals for individual
- 25:52Speaker 1: people seemed almost quaint. The scale of death had changed.
- 25:57Speaker 1: Mass death, industrial death, death without ceremony or dignity, this
- 26:03Speaker 1: became the new normal. Individual memorial photographs just couldn't compete
- 26:07Speaker 1: with that magnitude of loss. By the 1950s, post-mortem photography
- 26:11Speaker 1: had become so rare that most people had never even
- 26:14Speaker 1: heard of it. The photographs themselves were being discarded by
- 26:17Speaker 1: inheritors who found them. Disturbing and didn't understand why their
- 26:21Speaker 1: grandparents had kept such things. An entire cultural practice, common
- 26:25Speaker 1: for nearly a century, was being actively forgotten. Thanks for watching.
- 26:30Speaker 1: And if you found this history interesting, don't forget to
- 26:33Speaker 1: like and subscribe for more. But the photographs survived. Hidden
- 26:36Speaker 1: in attics, stored in boxers, marked old pictures, mixed into
- 26:41Speaker 1: family albums where they passed as regular. portraits until someone
- 26:44Speaker 1: looked closely enough to see the truth. And in recent decades,
- 26:48Speaker 1: these images have re-emerged, not as treasured family memories, but
- 26:52Speaker 1: as historical curiosities, as dark artifacts that fascinate and repel
- 26:57Speaker 1: us in equal measure. The internet brought post-mortem photography back
- 27:01Speaker 1: from obscurity. In the early 2000s, collectors and historians began
- 27:05Speaker 1: scanning and sharing these images online. Suddenly, Thousands of photographs
- 27:10Speaker 1: that had been scattered across attics and antique shops were
- 27:13Speaker 1: available to anyone with an internet connection. People started collecting them.
- 27:17Speaker 1: Not as memorials, but as examples of Victorian culture. As
- 27:22Speaker 1: evidence of how radically our relationship with death has changed.
- 27:25Speaker 1: Museums created exhibits. Books were published. And with each article,
- 27:30Speaker 1: each gallery, each discussion thread, the same reaction. This is
- 27:36Speaker 1: so disturbing. Why would anyone do this? How could they
- 27:41Speaker 1: bear it? But here's what's fascinating. We're disturbed by the
- 27:44Speaker 1: wrong things. We look at these photographs and think we're
- 27:47Speaker 1: upset by the presence of death. By seeing corpses. By
- 27:51Speaker 1: the idea of posing with dead bodies. But that's not
- 27:54Speaker 1: really what bothers us. What bothers us is the intimacy
- 27:58Speaker 1: with death. It's not the body itself, but the closeness
- 28:01Speaker 1: to it. The touching. The arranging. The sitting beside it
- 28:05Speaker 1: for the length of a photographic exposure. We've built such
- 28:08Speaker 1: a powerful wall between ourselves and death, but seeing it breached,
- 28:12Speaker 1: seeing people in regular clothes, in home settings, calmly interacting
- 28:17Speaker 1: with corpses, is what truly unsettles us. Consider this. We
- 28:22Speaker 1: see images of death constantly. News, photographs of disaster victims,
- 28:27Speaker 1: crime scenes, war zones. Movies show us death in graphic detail,
- 28:31Speaker 1: and we watch for entertainment. But those deaths are distant, abstract.
- 28:36Speaker 1: not ours. The people dying are strangers, actors, pixels on
- 28:41Speaker 1: a screen. Postmortem photographs are different because they're domestic, familial, intimate.
- 28:47Speaker 1: They show us death in the home, death in the family.
- 28:51Speaker 1: Death is something that happens to people like us, that
- 28:54Speaker 1: we might have to touch and handle and sit beside.
- 28:56Speaker 1: That's the real horror for modern viewers. Not death itself,
- 29:02Speaker 1: but the possibility that death might come back into our homes.
- 29:06Speaker 1: Our lives are physical reality in a way we can't
- 29:09Speaker 1: maintain a comfortable distance from. And there's something else worth considering.
- 29:13Speaker 1: We've developed an entire vocabulary of euphemisms to avoid saying dead.
- 29:18Speaker 1: People pass away, are lost, go to a better place,
- 29:22Speaker 1: move on. We talk about death in the passive voice,
- 29:26Speaker 1: as if it's something that happens vaguely and abstractly. But
- 29:29Speaker 1: Victorian post-mortem photographs are aggressively honest. Here's a body. Here's
- 29:34Speaker 1: a dead person. Here is what death looks like. No euphemisms.
- 29:40Speaker 1: No distance. No pretense. Maybe that directness is what really
- 29:44Speaker 1: disturbs us. Now, we need to address something uncomfortable. Many
- 29:49Speaker 1: of the post-mortem photographs circulating online are U.N.T. actually post-mortem
- 29:54Speaker 1: photographs at all. There's a mythology that's grown up around
- 29:58Speaker 1: these images, a set of false beliefs that have become
- 30:00Speaker 1: so widespread they're accepted as fact, even though historians and
- 30:04Speaker 1: photography experts have debunked them repeatedly. The most common myth
- 30:08Speaker 1: is that you can identify a dead person in a
- 30:10Speaker 1: Victorian photograph by finding the clearest, sharpest figure, the person
- 30:15Speaker 1: who looks most focused, most still. The logic seems sound.
- 30:21Speaker 1: The dead don't move. so they'd be clearer than living
- 30:23Speaker 1: subjects who might have shifted during the long exposure times.
- 30:27Speaker 1: But this is backwards. Yes, exposure times were long in
- 30:32Speaker 1: the early days of photography. But by the 1860s and 70s,
- 30:37Speaker 1: the peak era of post-mortem photography, exposure times had shortened dramatically.
- 30:42Speaker 1: Living people could hold still for the second or two
- 30:44Speaker 1: required for a clear image. The idea that Victorian families
- 30:48Speaker 1: routinely included dead people in portraits... pose them as if
- 30:51Speaker 1: alive is largely exaggerated. Most genuine post-mortem photographs are obvious.
- 30:57Speaker 1: The deceased is clearly deceased, lying in a coffin, arranged
- 31:01Speaker 1: on a bed, eyes closed, positioned in ways that acknowledge
- 31:05Speaker 1: death rather than denying it. The elaborate standing poses, the
- 31:09Speaker 1: dead people with open eyes painted on, the corpses at pianos.
- 31:13Speaker 1: These existed, but they were rare, expensive, technically difficult. and
- 31:18Speaker 1: usually only attempted with very recently deceased individuals, often children,
- 31:23Speaker 1: where the body was still flexible enough to position. So
- 31:27Speaker 1: why does the mythology persist? Partly because it makes a
- 31:30Speaker 1: better story. The idea of hidden death of corpses secretly
- 31:34Speaker 1: present in old family portraits is more disturbing, and therefore
- 31:38Speaker 1: more shareable than the reality, that most death photographs are
- 31:41Speaker 1: exactly what they appear to be. Formal memorial portraits of
- 31:45Speaker 1: bodies and coffins. We want the unsettling detail. The secret
- 31:49Speaker 1: knowledge that lets us look at an old photograph and
- 31:51Speaker 1: think maybe that person is dead. The same impulse that
- 31:55Speaker 1: drives people to believe every old photograph with someone looking
- 31:58Speaker 1: stiff or strange must be a post-mortem image. But there's
- 32:02Speaker 1: also a commercial element. Online sellers of antique photographs realized
- 32:06Speaker 1: years ago that labeling something as a Victorian post-mortem photograph
- 32:10Speaker 1: dramatically increases its value. So suddenly... Thousands of ordinary portraits
- 32:17Speaker 1: of living people, people who maybe looked a bit stern
- 32:19Speaker 1: or held very still or had pale skin, were being
- 32:22Speaker 1: sold as death portraits. The market incentivized false identification, and
- 32:27Speaker 1: the mythology spread. The real post-mortem photographs are powerful enough
- 32:31Speaker 1: without embellishment. We don't need to imagine hidden corpses in
- 32:34Speaker 1: every Victorian portrait to understand that these people had a
- 32:37Speaker 1: fundamentally different relationship with death than we do. Let's talk
- 32:40Speaker 1: about what happens to grief when you can photograph it.
- 32:43Speaker 1: Because that's really what post-mortem photography was. Not just photographing bodies,
- 32:49Speaker 1: but attempting to capture and preserve grief itself, to create
- 32:52Speaker 1: a physical object that could hold and contain the overwhelming
- 32:56Speaker 1: emotions that death brings. Grief in the 19th century was
- 33:00Speaker 1: a public, structured, highly ritualized experience. There were rules for mourning.
- 33:06Speaker 1: How long you wore black. When you could return to society.
- 33:10Speaker 1: What jewelry was appropriate. How you decorated your home. These
- 33:14Speaker 1: weren't arbitrary traditions. They were frameworks that helped people navigate
- 33:18Speaker 1: devastating loss in an era when death was constant and overwhelming.
- 33:21Speaker 1: The rituals gave grief a shape, a timeline, a socially
- 33:25Speaker 1: acceptable form of expression. Post-mortem photography fit perfectly into this structure.
- 33:32Speaker 1: The photograph became a mourning object, like black crepe or
- 33:35Speaker 1: mourning jewelry made from the deceased's hair. But it was
- 33:38Speaker 1: more powerful than those objects, because it held the actual image,
- 33:43Speaker 1: the face. the specific physical reality of the person who
- 33:46Speaker 1: was gone. You could look at it when grief felt
- 33:48Speaker 1: abstract and remember exactly who you'd lost. You could show
- 33:52Speaker 1: it to children who were too young to remember and say,
- 33:55Speaker 1: This was your sister. This is who we lost. You
- 33:58Speaker 1: could send it to relatives and say, This is how
- 34:00Speaker 1: we said goodbye. But photographs also do something strange to memory.
- 34:04Speaker 1: They freeze Italiano. Before photography, memories of the dead evolved
- 34:08Speaker 1: over time. Faces softened in recollection. Painful details faded. The
- 34:14Speaker 1: story you told yourself about who they were could change
- 34:17Speaker 1: as you changed. But a photograph doesn't evolve. It's static, permanent, unchanging.
- 34:24Speaker 1: The dead person remains exactly as they were at the moment.
- 34:27Speaker 1: The shutter clicked, while everyone else ages, changes, and moves
- 34:32Speaker 1: forward through time. In a way, post-mortem photographs created a
- 34:36Speaker 1: new kind of haunting. Not by ghosts, but by images.
- 34:40Speaker 1: By frozen moments that never age, never change. never let
- 34:45Speaker 1: you forget exactly how things were. And there's a paradox here.
- 34:50Speaker 1: These photographs were meant to provide comfort, to preserve memory,
- 34:55Speaker 1: to help people grieve. But did they help? Or did
- 34:59Speaker 1: they make grief harder by providing a permanent image of
- 35:02Speaker 1: death that couldn't fade naturally, that couldn't be softened by time?
- 35:07Speaker 1: We don't really know. The Victorians didn't have the psychological
- 35:10Speaker 1: frameworks to analyze it. And by the time psychology developed
- 35:13Speaker 1: those frameworks, The practice was dying out. What we do
- 35:16Speaker 1: know is that people treasured these photographs intensely. They were
- 35:19Speaker 1: kept close, looked at frequently, and shown to others. Whether
- 35:24Speaker 1: that was healthy or helpful by modern standards is perhaps irrelevant.
- 35:30Speaker 1: It's what people needed at the time. Thank you so
- 35:32Speaker 1: much for watching. If you found this glimpse into the
- 35:34Speaker 1: past as fascinating as I did, consider subscribing and hitting
- 35:37Speaker 1: that like button. It really helps the channel grow. See
- 35:41Speaker 1: you in the next one. Here's what might be the
- 35:44Speaker 1: most disturbing thought of all. We still do this. We've
- 35:48Speaker 1: never stopped. We've just changed the medium and convinced ourselves
- 35:52Speaker 1: it's different. Think about how death appears in our current
- 35:55Speaker 1: media landscape. We photograph the scenes of accidents, the flowers
- 35:59Speaker 1: left at tragedy sites, the makeshift memorials. We post about
- 36:03Speaker 1: deceased loved ones on social media often, using their photographs,
- 36:08Speaker 1: sharing memories. creating digital monuments. We keep their profiles active,
- 36:13Speaker 1: sometimes forever, creating strange ghost accounts where people post birthday
- 36:18Speaker 1: wishes to the dead, where the deceased's final posts remain
- 36:21Speaker 1: frozen in the timeline like digital tombstones. When celebrities die,
- 36:26Speaker 1: we share their images everywhere, not photos of their bodies, no,
- 36:31Speaker 1: but photos of them alive, photos that remind us what
- 36:34Speaker 1: we've lost. We create tribute videos, compilation images, Memorial posts
- 36:39Speaker 1: that circulate across platforms. We're doing exactly what the Victorians
- 36:43Speaker 1: did trying to use visual media to preserve memory. To
- 36:46Speaker 1: make death somehow less final. To create objects that let
- 36:49Speaker 1: us hold on to what's gone. The difference is the distance.
- 36:53Speaker 1: Victorian post-mortem photographs were intimate. Physical. Personal. They showed but.
- 37:00Speaker 1: They acknowledged death. Directly. Our memorial posts are sanitized. Distanced. acceptable.
- 37:07Speaker 1: We share images of life to memorialize death. We crop
- 37:11Speaker 1: out the coffin, the hospital room, the actual moment of ending.
- 37:15Speaker 1: We've found ways to memorialize that don't require us to
- 37:18Speaker 1: confront physical death, that let us grieve without ever having
- 37:21Speaker 1: to look directly at what we've lost. But is our
- 37:24Speaker 1: way better? We've gained comfort, distance, the ability to avoid
- 37:28Speaker 1: confronting the physical reality of death. But we've lost something, too.
- 37:32Speaker 1: Maybe honesty, maybe acceptance, maybe a kind of courage that
- 37:36Speaker 1: came from being willing to sit beside the body. To
- 37:38Speaker 1: touch it to acknowledge that this is what death looks like,
- 37:41Speaker 1: and we're not going to pretend otherwise. And here's something else.
- 37:45Speaker 1: Victorian post-mortem photographs were taken once, and then the body
- 37:48Speaker 1: was buried. The photograph existed, but the body was gone. Today,
- 37:54Speaker 1: images never die. They circulate indefinitely, cupped endlessly, appearing and reappearing,
- 38:01Speaker 1: searchable forever. In a strange way, we've created something more
- 38:05Speaker 1: permanent than Victorian death photographs digital immortality, where images and
- 38:09Speaker 1: posts and profiles persist long after the physical body is gone,
- 38:13Speaker 1: where you can Google someone S's name and find their
- 38:16Speaker 1: entire life spread out in photographs and posts and comments,
- 38:20Speaker 1: a kind of haunting that the Victorians couldn't have imagined.
- 38:23Speaker 1: We look back at Victorian post-mortem photography with judgment, with disgust,
- 38:28Speaker 1: with fascination, thinking we're so much more enlightened now. But
- 38:32Speaker 1: maybe we're just different. Maybe every era finds its own
- 38:35Speaker 1: ways to deny death. To preserve memory. To pretend that
- 38:39Speaker 1: the people we love don't really leave us. The Victorians
- 38:42Speaker 1: use cameras and corpses. We use smartphones and social media.
- 38:47Speaker 1: The tools change. The need doesn't. So what do we
- 38:51Speaker 1: do with this knowledge? What does it mean that this
- 38:54Speaker 1: practice existed? That it was normal? That thousands of these
- 38:57Speaker 1: photographs still exist in attics and albums and online archives?
- 39:01Speaker 1: What does it mean that we find them so disturbing?
- 39:03Speaker 1: Maybe it means we need to reconsider our relationship with
- 39:06Speaker 1: death itself. We've built such an elaborate structure of denial
- 39:10Speaker 1: death happens in hospitals and nursing homes, handled by professionals,
- 39:15Speaker 1: kept at arm's length from daily life. We say Pippel
- 39:18Speaker 1: passed away instead of died. We have a closed casket
- 39:22Speaker 1: funerals where the body is hidden, or cremations where the
- 39:25Speaker 1: body disappears entirely into ash. We've made death invisible. abstract,
- 39:31Speaker 1: something that happens somewhere else to other people. The Victorians
- 39:35Speaker 1: couldn't afford that luxury. Death was too present, too constant,
- 39:40Speaker 1: too unavoidable. So they developed rituals and practices that helped
- 39:44Speaker 1: them face it, directly mourning clothes, elaborate funerals, mourning jewelry.
- 39:49Speaker 1: And yes, post-mortem photographs. They didn't deny death. They integrated
- 39:56Speaker 1: it into life. They made space for it in their homes,
- 40:00Speaker 1: their families, their daily routines. Children grew up understanding that
- 40:04Speaker 1: death was part of existence, not some terrible aberration that
- 40:08Speaker 1: only happened occasionally and should be hidden away. There's something
- 40:11Speaker 1: we can learn from that, even if we don't want
- 40:13Speaker 1: to return to photographing corpses. Maybe it's simply this. Death. Israel.
- 40:20Speaker 1: Los Israel, grief, Israel. And pretending otherwise, hiding, eat away,
- 40:28Speaker 1: treating it as somehow improper or morbid to acknowledge that
- 40:31Speaker 1: doesn't make it easier. It just makes it more terrifying
- 40:34Speaker 1: when it finally comes for someone you love. Post-mortem photography
- 40:37Speaker 1: was many things a memorial practice, a business, an art form,
- 40:43Speaker 1: a psychological coping mechanism. But at its core, it was
- 40:47Speaker 1: an acknowledgement. An acknowledgement that death happens, that people you
- 40:51Speaker 1: love will die, that you will die. And that there
- 40:54Speaker 1: is no shame in looking directly at that reality and
- 40:58Speaker 1: finding ways to make it bearable. When you look at
- 41:00Speaker 1: those old photographs, now the children arranged in beds, the
- 41:04Speaker 1: mothers holding infants, the families gathered around their dead try
- 41:08Speaker 1: to see past the strangeness, past the discomfort. Try to
- 41:12Speaker 1: see the love, because that is what these images really are.
- 41:18Speaker 1: Proof that people loved so much they could unbear to
- 41:20Speaker 1: let go completely. That they were willing to do this uncomfortable, intimate,
- 41:25Speaker 1: difficult thing to preserve one final moment together. And maybe
- 41:29Speaker 1: centuries from now, when our descendants look back at our
- 41:33Speaker 1: digital memorials, our social media posts, our ways of dealing
- 41:37Speaker 1: with death, they'll find us just as strange, just as disturbing,
- 41:41Speaker 1: just as incomprehensible. They'll wonder why we did things the
- 41:44Speaker 1: way we did, what we were thinking. what we were
- 41:47Speaker 1: trying to accomplish. And maybe someone will make a video
- 41:50Speaker 1: about us trying to understand the bizarre death practices of
- 41:53Speaker 1: the early 21st century, trying to explain to a future
- 41:57Speaker 1: audience why we believed the things we believed and feared,
- 42:00Speaker 1: the things we feared. Every era gets the death practices
- 42:05Speaker 1: it needs. The Victorians needed photographs. We need digital immortality.
- 42:10Speaker 1: Future generations will need something we can't even imagine yet.
- 42:14Speaker 1: But underneath all of it, the cameras, the pixels. The fear.
- 42:18Speaker 1: The denial is the same thing. Love. And the desperate,
- 42:23Speaker 1: impossible desire to make that love last beyond death itself.
- 42:27Speaker 1: That's what these photographs show us. That's what they've always
- 42:30Speaker 1: shown us. If you can look past the Bodhi's and
- 42:32Speaker 1: the strangeness and the distance of time, that's what you'll see.
- 42:37Speaker 1: People who loved so much, they tried to photograph death itself,
- 42:42Speaker 1: hoping to prove that love was stronger.