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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: A reading from scripture, Proverbs 25, 9-15.
- 0:07SPEAKER_00: Argue it out with your neighbor and don't give away someone's secret.
- 0:11SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, the one who hears it will vilify you.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: The slander against you will never stop.
- 0:17SPEAKER_00: Words spoken at the right time are like gold apples in a silver setting.
- 0:22SPEAKER_00: Wise correction to an ear that listens is like a gold earring or jewelry of fine gold.
- 0:28SPEAKER_00: Like the coolness of snow on a harvest day are reliable messengers to those who send them.
- 0:34SPEAKER_00: They restore the life of their master.
- 0:37SPEAKER_00: People who brag about a gift never given are like clouds and wind that produce no rain.
- 0:43SPEAKER_00: A commander can be persuaded with patience and a tender tongue can break a bone.
- 0:56SPEAKER_00: This passage is steeped in wisdom about relationships,
- 0:59SPEAKER_00: how we handle one another in conflict,
- 1:02SPEAKER_00: how we keep confidence with one another,
- 1:04SPEAKER_00: how we speak wisely or unwisely, and how we influence one another through patience.
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: The common thread in all of this is that a healthy community depends on all
- 1:15SPEAKER_00: of its people using each of their strengths to build one another up.
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: There is no one person doing all the work or owning all the gifts and skills.
- 1:25SPEAKER_00: There is a community full of people using individual gifts to bring about a solid structure.
- 1:32SPEAKER_00: Some people are gifted listeners.
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: Some have the gift of gab.
- 1:37SPEAKER_00: This is not to say that we as God's children aren't called to grow and learn
- 1:41SPEAKER_00: and seek out new ways to connect with others.
- 1:43SPEAKER_00: But it is assurance that not one person is destined to have it all.
- 1:48SPEAKER_00: Not everyone has the gift of saying the right thing at the right time.
- 1:52SPEAKER_00: Some people are encouragers.
- 1:55SPEAKER_00: Some are patient peacemakers, while others are dependable servants.
- 2:00SPEAKER_00: God doesn't expect one person to excel in every area,
- 2:04SPEAKER_00: but God does expect each of us to discover and use our gifts to build up rather
- 2:09SPEAKER_00: than tear down.
- 2:11SPEAKER_00: God designed us all to live in community,
- 2:14SPEAKER_00: where each person contributes unique gifts, wisdom, and perspectives.
- 2:20SPEAKER_00: When we try to do everything ourselves, we often become exhausted.
- 2:25SPEAKER_00: But when we trust one another and allow others to use their God-giving strengths,
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: everyone benefits.
- 2:32SPEAKER_00: These verses remind us that our words, actions, and character affect the people around us.
- 2:40SPEAKER_00: A trustworthy friend,
- 2:42SPEAKER_00: a wise counselor,
- 2:44SPEAKER_00: a patient encourager,
- 2:46SPEAKER_00: and a faithful messenger all play different but equally valuable roles.
- 2:51SPEAKER_00: Together we reflect God's wisdom more completely than any one of us could alone
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: So stop trying to do it all or be it all.
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: That's a personal rubber man, by the way.
- 3:02SPEAKER_00: And open yourself today to the gift you have that is unique,
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: timely, and very needed in the building of the beloved community around you.
- 3:16SPEAKER_00: Consider this response.
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: Where are you trying to be everything for everyone?
- 3:22SPEAKER_00: How might God be inviting you to lean on the gift of others to And
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: to offer your own gifts with humility.
- 3:31SPEAKER_00: Join me in prayer.
- 3:34SPEAKER_00: Lord of all gifts, thank you for creating us to need one another.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: Help me to celebrate the gifts you've given others instead of feeling like I have
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: to do everything myself.
- 3:45SPEAKER_00: Teach me to use my own strengths faithfully,
- 3:48SPEAKER_00: encourage those around me,
- 3:50SPEAKER_00: and build relationships marked by trust, wisdom, and patience.
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: May our community reflect your love as we serve one another.
- 3:58SPEAKER_00: Amen.
- 4:03SPEAKER_00: This podcast was written by Catherine Piper and recorded
- 4:07SPEAKER_00: by Reverend Elizabeth Troyer with audio engineering and editing assistance
- 4:11SPEAKER_00: from Jermaine Taylor.
- 4:12SPEAKER_00: This podcast will always be free.
- 4:15SPEAKER_00: But if you would like to donate to our online ministry,
- 4:17SPEAKER_00: you can do so at wakeforestpres.org slash give.
- 4:38SPEAKER_01: Thank you.