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This Is How Your Marriage Ends — The Hidden System of Trust Erosion

What if the fight was never really about the dish, the sandwich, or the chore?

Welcome to Crisis in Perception, where we examine the systems shaping our world.

In This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships, Matthew Fray explores how long-term relationships often break down through ordinary behaviors that appear harmless in the moment. Drawing from his own divorce and later work with couples, Fray argues that good people can become damaging partners when they repeatedly miss, minimize, or invalidate the pain they cause.

This episode uses Fray’s work to…

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