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- Lucas: So we've talked a lot about Marcus Aurelius as a philosopher, as a general, as an administrator. But there's one figure who looms large in his personal life that we've barely touched on — his wife, Faustina the Younger. Luna: Faustina — she's the one who was rumored to have had all those affairs, right? Lucas: Exactly. She's one of the most controversial women in Roman history, but also one of the most important. She was the daughter of Antoninus Pius, so she was born into the purple, as they say. And when Marcus married her in 145 CE, it wasn't just a love match — it was a dynastic consolidation. She was the link that connected Marcus to the previous emperor, legitimizing his rule. Luna: So she was more than just an empress consort. Lucas: Absolutely. She held the title Augusta, and later, during the Marcomannic Wars, she was given an unprecedented honorific: mater castrorum, 'mother of the camp.' That meant she was officially recognized as the patron of the Roman army. No empress before her had received that title while her husband was still alive. And it wasn't just symbolic — she actually accompanied Marcus to the front lines, living in military camps along the Danube. Luna: That's remarkable. A Roman empress on the battlefield frontier. Lucas: It was almost unheard of. Roman elite women generally stayed in Rome or in their country villas. But Faustina was with Marcus at Carnuntum and other military bases. The sources — especially Cassius Dio and the notoriously unreliable Historia Augusta — paint her as a scheming, unfaithful woman. They claim she had affairs with gladiators, sailors, even her own son-in-law. But we have to take these accusations with a grain of salt. Luna: Because a lot of it is political slander. Lucas: Right. The Historia Augusta in particular, writing a century later, is full of salacious gossip. It's part of a tradition of smearing powerful women. And let's not forget — Faustina was deeply involved in the succession. She bore Marcus at least thirteen children, though only a handful survived to adulthood. That included Commodus, who would become emperor after Marcus — and a disastrous one. Later historians may have tried to tarnish Faustina's reputation to explain Commodus' failings. Luna: So they blamed the mother for the son's tyranny. Lucas: Exactly. There's even a story — probably apocryphal — that on the night Commodus was conceived, Faustina had a dream that she gave birth to a snake. That's clearly invented to foreshadow his villainy. But we do have some more reliable evidence. For instance, Galen, the famous physician, treated Faustina for a uterine ailment. And there are inscriptions from across the empire honoring her as mater castrorum and even as 'mother of the fatherland,' a title usually reserved for the emperor. Luna: So she had genuine popularity, at least in the provinces. Lucas: Absolutely. Cities competed to build temples and statues in her honor. And when she died in 175 CE, while accompanying Marcus on campaign in Cappadocia, he was devastated. He had her deified — she became Diva Faustina — and he founded a city in her memory: Faustinopolis, near modern-day Başmakçı in Turkey. He also established a new order of priestesses, the Faustinianae, to tend her cult. Luna: That's a lot of grief for a man who supposedly knew she was unfaithful. Lucas: Which is one reason to think the rumors were exaggerated. Marcus himself, in his Meditations, never mentions any scandal. He writes about her with respect and gratitude. In one passage, he thanks the gods for 'a wife so obedient, so loving, so straightforward.' That doesn't sound like a man nursing suspicions. And remember, Stoicism teaches us to focus on what we can control, not to dwell on rumors. Luna: So for Marcus, she was a partner in his philosophical and political life. Lucas: Exactly. She was a partner in every sense. In fact, there's a letter from Marcus to his old rhetoric tutor Fronto, where he mentions that Faustina shares his interest in philosophy. And she was politically active too — she managed correspondence and even intervened in legal cases. One story: when a prominent senator was accused of conspiracy, Faustina personally vouched for him, and Marcus spared his life. Luna: She sounds like a force in her own right. Lucas: She was. And her influence extended beyond the palace. For example, she was deeply involved in the marriage alliances of her children. She arranged the marriage of her daughter Lucilla to Lucius Verus, Marcus' co-emperor, and later, after Verus died, to the Syrian general Tiberius Claudius Pompeianus. These were political moves that required finesse. Luna: And they also kept power within the family. Lucas: Exactly. But the most dramatic episode involving Faustina came in 175 CE, when Avidius Cassius, the governor of Syria, rebelled and declared himself emperor. Cassius claimed that Marcus was dead and that he was acting to protect the empire. Some sources — again, the Historia Augusta — allege that Faustina encouraged Cassius, because she feared Marcus was dying and wanted to secure a protector for herself and Commodus. But that seems unlikely, given that she was with Marcus at the time. Luna: So more slander, probably. Lucas: Almost certainly. Marcus crushed the rebellion quickly — Cassius was killed by his own soldiers before Marcus even reached Syria. And then, just a few months later, Faustina died suddenly. The cause is unknown. Some say suicide, others natural causes. Marcus mourned her deeply. He wrote in his Meditations: 'She was such a woman — so loving, so modest, so straightforward.' He had her statue placed in the Temple of Venus and Roma, and he issued coins with her image and the legend 'Diva Faustina' long after her death. Luna: It's hard to square that with the scandals. Lucas: Right. And that's the challenge of history — we have to weigh the sources. The hostile accounts come from writers who had an agenda: to discredit Commodus and, by extension, his mother. The inscriptions, coins, and Marcus' own words paint a different picture. They show a woman who was publicly honored, who shared her husband's burdens, and who was mourned as a partner. That doesn't mean she was perfect — no one is — but the caricature of the adulterous empress is probably a distortion. Luna: And speaking of distortion — it's funny how often history reduces powerful women to their sexuality. Lucas: It's a pattern. Look at Livia, Agrippina the Younger, Messalina — the same tropes. Faustina fits that mold. But when we look past the gossip, we see a woman who was a key player in Antonine politics, who helped stabilize the dynasty during the Marcomannic Wars, and who was genuinely loved by her husband. In a way, she's a testament to the limits of our sources. We know so much about Marcus because he wrote — but Faustina left no writings, so her voice is filtered through others. Luna: So we're left with fragments — coins, statues, a few letters, and a lot of rumor. Lucas: Exactly. But even those fragments tell us something. They show an empress who was publicly celebrated, who was present on the frontier, who was called 'mother of the camp.' That's not a passive figure — that's someone who mattered. And for Marcus, she was clearly a source of stability. In his Meditations, he often reflects on the shortness of life and the need to cherish what we have. I think that philosophy helped him endure her loss. Luna: And it's a reminder that even Stoics grieve. Lucas: Absolutely. Stoicism isn't about not feeling — it's about not being ruled by feelings. Marcus felt deeply. He mourned Faustina, he mourned his children, he mourned friends. But he channeled that grief into action. After Faustina's death, he established the puellae Faustinianae, a charitable foundation for orphaned girls. It was a practical, compassionate response to loss. That's very much in line with Stoic ethics: do good, even when you're hurting. Luna: You know, if you've been stepping into history with us episode by episode, you might have noticed that we try to bring these figures to life — their real, complicated humanity. And that takes time and research. A couple of dollars a month on buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo is genuinely what keeps these conversations going. It helps us keep the show ad-free and focused on what matters: the story. Lucas: Yeah, and we really appreciate everyone who chips in. It makes a tangible difference — it covers hosting, transcription, and the occasional book we need to fact-check something. So if you've gotten something out of these episodes, that's where you can support them. Luna: And it's easy. Just buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. Lucas: So back to Faustina — one more detail I find telling. After her death, Marcus reduced the number of public festivals and games, but he increased the honors for her cult. He wanted her memory to be dignified, not sensational. That says a lot about his character and his respect for her. Luna: It's a quiet gesture, but a powerful one. Lucas: It is. And it's consistent with everything we know about Marcus. He wasn't a man for grand displays — he valued substance over spectacle. And in Faustina, he found a partner who shared that sensibility. So when we think of the Antonine dynasty, we should remember that it wasn't just Marcus ruling alone. It was Marcus and Faustina, for better or worse, until death parted them.