Latest / Authentic Living / How Leaders Can Be More Effective Regarding Mental Health in the Workplace (Part II) with Bernie Dyme
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- 0:01Welcome to authentic living with Roxanne, a place where we have as conversations about
- 0:08things that really matter in our lives.
- 0:11And now here's your host, Roxanne Derhodge.
- 0:37Our interview last week was so good that we decided to turn it into a 2 part series.
- 0:42If you missed last week, you'll find the link in the show notes.
- 0:46It's not mandatory that you listen, but we wanna make sure that you don't miss out on this
- 0:52amazing conversation.
- 0:54You talked about some strategies, and I I like it.
- 0:57So if you have lived experience, if you've had, you know, like I say, normal things that would
- 1:02cause you to need to speak to someone to get that support.
- 1:06Right?
- 1:08I often say it's start you said it starts with a leader.
- 1:11Right?
- 1:11So we want, like, you know, I talk about authentic leadership.
- 1:14We want that leader to have an awareness that Here she's living their truth, in this space,
- 1:21in this time around mental well-being.
- 1:24So telling their story, What are some other steps that leaders could consider taking to to
- 1:31create that more of that, that alignment with perceptions about a mental health and reality
- 1:36in some of these workplaces.
- 1:38I'm gonna talk about these top tier EAPs and how important that is EAPs are are have been a
- 1:45little they've been beaten down a little bit, and that's because I think the partnership,
- 1:50EAPs in a vacuum don't do well.
- 1:52Nothing in a vacuum does well.
- 1:54It needs to be a partnership.
- 1:56So working with leadership and EAPs to really kind of develop and it starts with a strategic
- 2:02approach to doing this.
- 2:03And in some cases, it's really about coaching the leaders on how to be comfortable with that.
- 2:08Or if they're not comfortable, which is fine, having other members of leadership team talk
- 2:14about these things.
- 2:15But leaders have to show up As you say, authentic leadership is about showing up.
- 2:20When I walk down the hall of my organization, I know that's that doesn't happen that often
- 2:26anymore.
- 2:26But when I walk down the hall of my organization, I know that people are watching,
- 2:31and I may have just had something bad to eat that's giving me a little indigestion, but if
- 2:35I'm making faces, everybody is thinking the horrible things are happening.
- 2:39So being available, being there showing up to work in an authentic way is really important.
- 2:46The other is figuring out ways to communicate with people, not lies, not minimize, you know,
- 2:52being able to sort of stand up in front of the group and say, here's what's going on.
- 2:57To, react to questions in an honest, direct way.
- 3:01The worst thing you can do is overpromise something when, you know, when you can't really
- 3:06give the right answer, that's not a good thing.
- 3:09It's always better to say, you know what?
- 3:11I don't know, but I'm gonna find out and then make sure you find out and get back to them.
- 3:16So creating a communications plan, some kind of an employee engagement plan, Right?
- 3:22So in our company, when this started, I don't even remember how many months ago, we
- 3:28instituted a 15 to 30 minute every other week, town hall meeting for all of our employees.
- 3:35Some of those meetings are merely saying Everything's fine.
- 3:39Nothing's going on.
- 3:4015 minutes were in and out of there.
- 3:42They asked it gave gave people an opportunity to ask questions.
- 3:45Here's the irony.
- 3:47We never, in all of our history of perspectives, had a 95 to 100% participation.
- 3:54At these meetings, which are also We were averaging 95 to 98%.
- 3:59People are interested, and they wanna know that you're gonna be able talk to them as leaders
- 4:04and that they're gonna be able to have access to you.
- 4:07The other thing is to try and figure out in in any way you can to simulate activities that
- 4:13normally would occur in your workplace, virtual.
- 4:17So how do you do that?
- 4:18We have virtual cocktail allowance.
- 4:21Right?
- 4:21We don't advocate drinking, but we do advocate getting together and everybody's in their home.
- 4:27Just, you know, and we break into breakouts.
- 4:29Is it perfect far from it, but we're keeping connected.
- 4:33We have actually, we have a committee, a social committee that came up with a topic called the
- 4:38water cooler.
- 4:40Meetings.
- 4:40And that's just basically where every week for about 15 minutes, people can sort of come to
- 4:45the water cooler.
- 4:46Right?
- 4:46It's a digital or an electronic one.
- 4:49We had a a a florist delivered to all of our employees these, terrariums.
- 4:57I don't have mine anymore because I have a black thumb, but they literally then we took it
- 5:02out of the box They had an expert Flores teach us how to do it.
- 5:05It was a lot of fun.
- 5:06It was connect.
- 5:07So those kinds of things, mixing fun with the ability to share your feelings, some kind of a
- 5:14strategic reentry or engagement plan, those are things that make a huge deal difference.
- 5:20And the other is to really, ensure that you're promoting mental wellness, mental health, and
- 5:27wellness.
- 5:28I think part of the way to get out of this stigma of mental health is, especially now,
- 5:32we're talking about it being national, worldwide, su suicide awareness day, tomorrow
- 5:38is is that, you know, we make it okay for people to talk about.
- 5:43There are so many misconceptions that If you talk about suicidal cause people to to do it,
- 5:48that is not true.
- 5:49There's research that categorically shows that, in fact, the opposite is true.
- 5:54That it gives people more comfort to talk about it, and they're more likely to get help.
- 5:59Same thing happens in general.
- 6:01So I I just think dealing with mental health mental wellness, we want a mentally fit
- 6:06workplace, a place where not where people aren't perfect, but where people feel
- 6:11comfortable not being verbal.
- 6:14You know, that that old saying that's going around, and I think it's wonderful is we've
- 6:17gotta train everybody in our organizations that it's okay to not be okay.
- 6:23Absolutely.
- 6:24And, you know, the thing is I I think that that's that permissiveness to to discuss
- 6:29things.
- 6:29Right?
- 6:29Like, you know, when you're going through change and we've been in flux.
- 6:33We we're enrolling change.
- 6:35Right?
- 6:35So let's talk about what's uncomfortable.
- 6:37Let's talk about what we're not doing well.
- 6:39What's You know, we're gonna talk it.
- 6:41We yes.
- 6:41We can talk about the champions and who's done what.
- 6:44But what is it that you did kind of poorly that you've learned from?
- 6:47And how could you share that to say, you know what?
- 6:50I realized?
- 6:51Wow.
- 6:51You know, when I haven't slept, let's say, and how many people are having problems with
- 6:55sleeping right now?
- 6:57Absolutely.
- 6:57You know, what how do I kinda take care of myself through the day, even though I've still
- 7:01got my 8, 10 hour day, how do I kinda how am I can I be gentle and kind you know, to be able
- 7:08to say, well, you know, I'm going to maybe be off camera a little bit more or maybe I'm going
- 7:13to you know, have my meetings in quiet?
- 7:16I'm gonna come back in and out.
- 7:18So just sharing those things, I think, is so helpful And I think as the leader does that
- 7:23more, and that, you know, and they see when the leader says, you know, I've I haven't had that
- 7:28kind of, good week, and this is kind of what I've been doing just care for myself, I always
- 7:32talk about is how is the leader showing or demonstrating his or her capacity to understand
- 7:38that I'm under massive pressure I generally am pretty good, but, you know, what I what I've
- 7:44learned this year or this month is, wow.
- 7:47I need to do this, this, this, more or this a bit less.
- 7:51And in that sharing, like you said, normalizing it, I think then people go, wow.
- 7:56The CEO just went through that.
- 7:59And he or she is sharing this, how amazing does that get?
- 8:03And that modeling and that that, you know, sharing what people start to recognize is if if
- 8:09I'm a human being and my CEO or my senior leaders of human being and my manager's a
- 8:13normal person, it's okay for me to also share.
- 8:17Absolutely.
- 8:17And I think, you know, that's another thing that
- 8:20I think we need to really change quickly is this whole notion that the leader has to be
- 8:26above it all.
- 8:27Right?
- 8:27And and, you know, look, I don't I wanna advocate.
- 8:30I I don't wanna sound like I'm saying, just let it all hang out.
- 8:33I'm not.
- 8:34I think there is decorum, and I think there are boundaries that all leaders have to think.
- 8:38But you know what?
- 8:39Being more, being genuine, being somewhat self disclosing, there's nothing wrong with that.
- 8:45In fact, that gets people much more invested in engagement.
- 8:49So you're absolutely right.
- 8:50And it's it's it's one thing to read from a script and say dot, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot,
- 8:54dot, dot.
- 8:54But if the words don't match the deeds, people are not stupid.
- 8:58People know that.
- 8:59People know when you're lying to them.
- 9:01You know, I do a lot of work with labor.
- 9:03I love labor because if you lie to labor, If you are the union guys, they've got you smelled
- 9:08out right away.
- 9:09Oh my goodness.
- 9:10So do they ever they they have the the radar off.
- 9:13They sure do.
- 9:14So you know what?
- 9:15You can and you can disagree with that, but don't ever lie.
- 9:18And I think that's you know, look, I there have been leaders.
- 9:22The best examples of leaders are during crisis times.
- 9:25I mean, anybody can be a good leader when things are going well.
- 9:28During crisis times is when really good leaders really come to the fore.
- 9:33You know, you think about some of the work that good to great, Jim Jim Collins.
- 9:37But, you know, when he talked about what he called the level 5 leader, These are people who
- 9:43were real, who were authentic, and who also demanded, you know, that people were
- 9:49accountable.
- 9:49So we hold other people accountable as leaders.
- 9:52We need to allow ourselves to be held accountable too.
- 9:55So I agree with everything you're saying Roxanne about, you know, people have to show up
- 10:00as leaders at work really being authentic.
- 10:02Their authentic selves are it's a hard thing to define, but it's a critical thing to define.
- 10:06But what I love about what you weren't your sighted.
- 10:09And in my book, that's coming out in the fall on it's basically return on relationships, how
- 10:14to, you know, work how to amplify how authentically this can amplify resilience on
- 10:19their teams.
- 10:19And I talk a little bit about transparent see recognition, you know, problem solving, all
- 10:25those things, but not just that the leader, okay, the leader has to assess his or her
- 10:29skills, but is how is the team perceiving the leader in those areas?
- 10:34And then going through different trainings, it's ongoing kind of analysis.
- 10:39I often say, right?
- 10:40We all know performance evaluation time.
- 10:42Everybody covers and get that one objective that you have to kinda meet.
- 10:46But, really, why is it just it has to be one time a year?
- 10:50Because we expect optimal.
- 10:51We know about presenteeism where you get 65% of productivity, but if we're constantly talking
- 10:57about things, there's the opportunities to understand what are my expectations of you as
- 11:02my leader and vice versa.
- 11:04What are your expectations of the frontline person for the leader ongoing, and, you know,
- 11:10the more we open up that channel, then people are able to share and be more collaborative
- 11:15with an with an overall outcome in mind.
- 11:17Sometimes you're gonna miss the mark.
- 11:19Absolutely.
- 11:19But at least you'll have opportunities to discuss why you've missed the mark.
- 11:23I haven't said it any better, Roxanne.
- 11:25You know, I mean, leaders are called out to make hundreds of decisions every day.
- 11:30And usually, they don't have the time to go, well, let me think about this for a week.
- 11:34Right?
- 11:34They're making snap decisions.
- 11:36It's really tough to do that.
- 11:37And, you know, when you're making a 100 decisions in a day, if you're getting 700,
- 11:42you're doing really well, but those are the 30% of the time that you fail It's okay.
- 11:49And if you yourself can't allow yourself to say it's okay to fail, but what if I learned from
- 11:54this failure?
- 11:55How can I move on?
- 11:56I guarantee you other people that work with you and for you are not gonna be able to do it
- 12:01either.
- 12:01I mean, people look at you as a leader, we have an an extra obligation to understand where
- 12:08people are at and to make it easier for them.
- 12:13To be transparent with us too.
- 12:15So don't walk into a room and go, I'm gonna be honest with you.
- 12:18I expect you all to be honest.
- 12:19They're just not gonna do So they will do that more if you've demonstrated your ability to do
- 12:25that if you've shown your vulnerability as well.
- 12:27They're more likely to be vulnerable.
- 12:29So you you're you're absolutely right.
- 12:31And we're all reading each other.
- 12:32Right?
- 12:32You're reading, I'm reading your body language, your mirror neurons, we're calibrating.
- 12:37We know this stuff.
- 12:38People are, you know, intuitively.
- 12:40That's how we're wired.
- 12:41So we're constantly we're judging.
- 12:43We're we're you know, we're kind of adapting our behaviors, those types of things.
- 12:47So I think, the more that authentic that people come to work I like to your point.
- 12:53Yes.
- 12:53I'm not talking that you're gonna it's not gonna be verbal diarrhea, but being aware that
- 12:59there's a certain you know, expectations of yourself as the leader.
- 13:03And when you set that poise, you have certain expectations.
- 13:07And in turn, you know, a flow that you want things to go in.
- 13:10And then you like you said, that overall corporate culture gets defined versus kind of
- 13:15thinking it's gonna happen in those quarterly meetings and a 1 year retreat, and we're all
- 13:19good, and we're gonna wrap it up, and we're gonna go off again.
- 13:22We know that so much more.
- 13:23And I I think that's the beauty the the positive of the pandemic that has brought to
- 13:28light is that, okay, transparency has been a concept we've been talking about, but this is
- 13:33really put our feet to the fire in that we it it we have no choice now but to be transparent.
- 13:39If not, you know, people are using their feet to to leave and you're losing your talent.
- 13:44You're not able to, you know, attract good talent.
- 13:47You're not able to retain them.
- 13:49And then ultimately, keep the people productive as well.
- 13:53And that's the main thing.
- 13:54And right now, you're absolutely right.
- 13:55We are in an employee's market, and that'll change.
- 13:59It shifts back and forth, but employees and this is the other thing I think leaders need to
- 14:03realize.
- 14:04It's not just about the money, especially for younger work I'm not saying money is
- 14:08unimportant.
- 14:09Everybody wants more money.
- 14:10They wanna earn more.
- 14:11They wanna grow.
- 14:12I get that, but it's really about the organization And what you do during these
- 14:17crisis times as a leader is gonna set the stage for your future.
- 14:21And believe me, people talk, especially now with social media.
- 14:25So think about yourself as getting Yelp reviews all the time, and it's gonna go on.
- 14:31So, you know, if if you're trying to start over and create a culture that's been negative now,
- 14:38you're really pushing a boulder uphill.
- 14:39It can be done, but it's gonna take some work.
- 14:42Really, it's important to use this time to really create a culture of caring of
- 14:47transparency of safety, of of, you know, of collegiality those things are what people in
- 14:55the future will make use as decision makers for either staying, leaving, or going to your
- 15:02place.
- 15:03More than a couple of extra bucks.
- 15:05We've we've seen this in some of our organizations where people have been recruited
- 15:09away because there is a labor shortage right now.
- 15:12And they've been asked for more money.
- 15:14And in many situations, they've come back to their employers and said, look, I don't wanna
- 15:18leave.
- 15:19They were offering me this ridiculous moment.
- 15:21I'll take a little less, can I stay?
- 15:23Cause I really like this organization.
- 15:25I think that says something, and I think that's really you know, it it you know, you said it
- 15:30about the job performance evaluation too.
- 15:32That one shot deal is almost bad because it gives leaders and managers an excuse to not do
- 15:38what they need to do all year round.
- 15:40Exit interviews to me are the same thing.
- 15:42I always ask when somebody says, let's do an exit interview.
- 15:44I always say, well, isn't that a little late?
- 15:47You know, shouldn't we have had this interview beforehand?
- 15:50Shouldn't we we should not, as leaders, be surprised when somebody's leaving us?
- 15:55We really should
- 15:57We should know.
- 15:58You know, I I wanna ask you one thing.
- 15:59I know I'm we're almost at time, but I I'm curious.
- 16:02This is my concept in my brain, not living in the EAP world.
- 16:06As much anymore.
- 16:08You know, when traumatic responses, you have trauma, response teams, I, you know, when I my
- 16:14early career, I would go out as part trauma team.
- 16:17So trauma happens within 24 hours.
- 16:20You get in.
- 16:21You educate.
- 16:22You educate.
- 16:22You educate 72 hours.
- 16:24You do a debriefing.
- 16:26And then you identify kind of what are the facts, what's happening.
- 16:30With the pandemic, right?
- 16:33We've been in an ongoing need for trauma responses.
- 16:37So from a bigger level, how does that kind of impact companies now, right?
- 16:44Because They've had they've had to educate, educate, educate.
- 16:48They've had to look at employee.
- 16:50Well, virtually, connect with employees enough to identify who needs more support.
- 16:58So after or I shouldn't say after because to your point that this is not gonna end.
- 17:03How does companies think about that?
- 17:05We've been in a traumatic, I'm gonna see Stance for well over 2 years, and it's not going away
- 17:13as we can see as we get into the fall with some of the numbers with the different strains
- 17:17coming.
- 17:18What's what recommendations would you give from that frame to to leaders?
- 17:23That's a great question.
- 17:26So I I think it begins with I think what you're talking about, and for the benefit of your your
- 17:31listeners and and viewers, so we're talking about critical incidents response right, where
- 17:36something occurs at the workplace, which requires an intervention that's almost
- 17:42organization.
- 17:42Somebody's on-site, unfortunately, because people don't go on-site anymore, a lot of these
- 17:48are being done by Zoom.
- 17:49By the way, it can be done and has been done effectively.
- 17:52I think though that those are related to or responses to traumas or incidents, that people
- 17:58have have had a reaction to.
- 18:00I think we have to define trauma very different.
- 18:03I think we have to broaden the definition of trauma.
- 18:06So, again, I'm gonna go back to what these top tier EAPs do.
- 18:09Right?
- 18:10The cops you're reusing and not the ones where you check the box, these are the ones that are
- 18:14basically saying, look, we're here.
- 18:16If you're having an issue, call us We'd rather say, you know what?
- 18:20That doesn't require a group response.
- 18:23In most cases, it probably will, but call us.
- 18:26Let's have a conversation about that.
- 18:28So we've been doing a lot more of that.
- 18:30And and what traditionally was we go on-site, we meet groups, we do education, now is a
- 18:37little different.
- 18:38We may be doing with 2 or 3 people.
- 18:41We may be going on-site or doing a Zoom thing.
- 18:44We may be doing these on an ongoing basis.
- 18:47We have we have a lot of health care institutions.
- 18:49We've developed a program using technology where These are people who are working on COVID
- 18:54units.
- 18:55And so they don't have the time to sort of sit down, make an appointment, or talk by phone, or
- 19:00get to a computer, So we now have text based stuff that is a way to just do in the moment
- 19:06counseling.
- 19:06I would consider that response to trauma.
- 19:10We also talk about professionals who are working on this stuff and say, you know what?
- 19:13People who are exposed to repeated trauma need help.
- 19:18And I don't care if they say I'm okay.
- 19:20I do this all the time.
- 19:22You see this in the news all the time.
- 19:24If you want people to burn out, don't respond to them and don't be proactive.
- 19:28If you want them, however, not to burn out, create a proactive problem that requires them.
- 19:34To take time on, that requires them to speak with people, that requires them to meet in a
- 19:39group, and use your top tier EAP to do that.
- 19:42I don't know if that if that exists.
- 19:44No.
- 19:44No.
- 19:44I I love it.
- 19:45I love it because I I often thought.
- 19:47Right?
- 19:47How do you extrapolate, you know, that concept?
- 19:50Because It's it's not going away.
- 19:53You people still have to go back to those COVID units.
- 19:55People still, you know, have just lost a family member.
- 19:58Somebody family member is in the hospital or they're recovering or somebody's isolating
- 20:03because
- 20:03somebody in school that
- 20:04it's going on.
- 20:04It's like you know, it's not plate, like, the plates of the circus.
- 20:09It's constantly.
- 20:10It's it's been twirling and twirling.
- 20:12And you look over here and it's, oh, it's slowing down.
- 20:14I gotta look over here, and it's we've been in that state.
- 20:17So that's what my concern was, what, thinking about the, you know, what is it that's being
- 20:21done, and it's good to hear that the top tier EAPs I'm not the assessor refer and go on to,
- 20:27you know, get 3 sessions.
- 20:28I'm talking about the re real core fundamental people that are saying, what change do you
- 20:34need?
- 20:35How can I support you and how can I be available really 247, which is really what I
- 20:41would see that people would need on an ongoing basis, you know, to to to to get through this
- 20:46time?
- 20:46And I know we're running out of time.
- 20:47We're out of time, but let me just say one last thing.
- 20:50Your EAP should be a hub.
- 20:52It should be the place that everybody goes for to when they need a resource counseling
- 20:59childcare, elder care, any kind of wellness resources.
- 21:02And you're reading a lot about these single point solutions where you know, you can get CBT
- 21:07on on on on your phone or, artificial intelligence.
- 21:11I'm not against any of those things.
- 21:13I just feel like sometimes what you're doing is you're you know, what do they say if, you know,
- 21:17to a hammer, everything everything looks like a nail or vice versa.
- 21:20I always get that wrong.
- 21:22We're we kinda see ourselves as being, as having a quiver with all of those things in
- 21:28there.
- 21:28But when you call me, Roxanne, I'm gonna try and figure out what quickly, what you need,
- 21:33what many resources you might need, and then I'm gonna get you that that's where your top
- 21:38tier EAPs are.
- 21:39We're not a 1800 assessment referral.
- 21:42I I could get my my son who owns a floral business to do that.
- 21:46That's not what we're looking for.
- 21:47These are people that can help sort of modify.
- 21:49So that's, I think, where EAP is coming in.
- 21:51Right.
- 21:52And because, you know, prevention is so important.
- 21:54And I think we really, really that's where some of the assess and refer, companies really
- 22:01unfortunately, didn't help the field of behavioral health because we re we recognized
- 22:08Yes, it's 20 fourseven, but people are for people to actually pick up the phone, Bernie,
- 22:13and you know this, and I know this.
- 22:14It takes so much strength to be able to do that.
- 22:17And to say to them now, oh, by the way, that's done.
- 22:19We don't, you know, we need to send you somewhere else.
- 22:22That's hard for any human being to be able to do to open up, say, I'm really struggling.
- 22:27Oh, and by the way, oh, you're at your 3rd session.
- 22:29It's time to send you off, and we know that the at this point, that people would disconnect.
- 22:35So I'm so glad to hear that that's available and to for leaders to hear that when you are
- 22:40making choices to make the choice to decide okay, where can I offer support ongoing?
- 22:45Because the earlier you get people on a preventative level, you're gonna you're gonna
- 22:49to keep people.
- 22:50You're gonna they're gonna be emotionally healthier.
- 22:52They're gonna get support.
- 22:54They're gonna learn how to communicate.
- 22:55They're if it's trust management that's needed within your organization, all those things are
- 22:59gonna be identified under one umbrella.
- 23:02So, these kind of services are something that, you know, I'm sure through this time has, you
- 23:07know, been invaluable for, companies.
- 23:09And I would say most companies need to get educated about what are they buying to support
- 23:15people's mental health right now?
- 23:17Amen.
- 23:17Amen.
- 23:18You are absolutely correct.
- 23:19Thank you, Roxanne.
- 23:20You said So I would love you and I, like I said, when Bernie and I met, we both belong to
- 23:25Forbes.
- 23:25I said, and I listened to one of trainings.
- 23:27I said, oh my goodness.
- 23:28I have to meet this man, and I knew we would have an amazing conversation.
- 23:32So, Bernie, for anyone listening, any leadership leadership teams, or anyone, looking
- 23:37to, you know, explore things for further with the AP services, or the organizational
- 23:42consulting tool, everyone where they can reach you.
- 23:45Sure.
- 23:45So you can always go to our website www.perspectivesltd.com.
- 23:52I'm available at BSD.
- 23:54That's Bob sam Dine@perspectasltd.com, please feel free to reach out with an email, and I'll
- 24:02be glad to answer any questions you might have.
- 24:05And and if we can help you, great.
- 24:07If not, I'll be glad to tie you up with a resource that can because I really do feel
- 24:11passionate about people and organizations and leaders doing the right thing for their
- 24:15employees.
- 24:16It really, you know, it's gonna make a lot more sense in the long and and that's what that's
- 24:20what I've always wanted to do.
- 24:21And I'm I've been very blessed to be able to.
- 24:24So I hope that helps, Roxanne.
- 24:25Thanks so much.
- 24:26So for anybody you're listing out there, if you're a leader, share, you know, even if it's
- 24:32something that you may think is insignificant.
- 24:34And, you know, if you're needing, more information on authentic leadership and
- 24:39resilience for your teams.
- 24:41Please connect with me.
- 24:41Just go to chat with roxanne.com and book a call to meet with me.
- 24:45And, again, Bernie, thanks so much again for your time.
- 24:47And for everyone, hang in there, and we'll talk to you next week.
- 24:51Thanks for tuning in to authentic living with Roxanne.
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- 25:08We'll see you next time on authentic living with Roxanne.