Latest / The Bechdel Cast / Mean Girls with Jenny Jaffe
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- 0:00Speaker 1: On the dol Cast. The questions asked if movies have
- 0:03Speaker 1: women in them, are all their discussions just boyfriends and husbands,
- 0:07Speaker 1: or do they have individualism the patriarchy? Zef and Best
- 0:12Speaker 1: start changing it with the bel casts. Hello and welcome
- 0:17Speaker 1: to the Backdel Cast. My name is Caitlin, my name
- 0:19Speaker 1: is Jamie. I don't know why did I do that
- 0:21Speaker 1: weird thing at the end. I don't know. I wanted
- 0:23Speaker 1: to match you, though, I love We're so on the
- 0:26Speaker 1: same page. Love you. Well, here we are talking about
- 0:31Speaker 1: women in movies once again thet time. I mean, we've
- 0:36Speaker 1: been doing it for a while. I know, I'm so
- 0:38Speaker 1: proud of us. I you know what it is. It's
- 0:40Speaker 1: a good thing for structure. It's a good thing for
- 0:42Speaker 1: our friendship. It's a good thing for our friendship with Aristotle.
- 0:44Speaker 1: It's a good thing for you know, yeah, exactly, exactly exactly. Man.
- 0:51Speaker 1: I'm really excited a man like man. Sometimes it's like
- 0:56Speaker 1: when we're looking for guests for the show, we're like, Okay,
- 0:59Speaker 1: who's super funny who do we have a friend crush on?
- 1:01Speaker 1: And then let's just make it so so our guest today.
- 1:05Speaker 1: She has been a writer for college Humor, MTV Disney,
- 1:09Speaker 1: and she has a show coming out on i f
- 1:11Speaker 1: C which she is the star and creator of, called Neurotica.
- 1:17Speaker 1: Jenny Jeff Hi, I can't tell you how many times
- 1:21Speaker 1: I've considered starting a podcast with the express purpose of
- 1:24Speaker 1: making friends in l A. And I think that's kind
- 1:27Speaker 1: of a hacky move but at the same time, but
- 1:29Speaker 1: it does work so far, so good. I mean, everybody
- 1:34Speaker 1: out here like just wants to be on podcasts, right,
- 1:37Speaker 1: I mean, well, the thing that, man, I've been having
- 1:40Speaker 1: a rough week with Los Angeles, the city that I
- 1:43Speaker 1: am still not sure if I like or not. Where
- 1:45Speaker 1: it's just everyone's always around, you know, like everyone's like, oh,
- 1:48Speaker 1: I can do a podcast at two pm, because no one.
- 1:52Speaker 1: That's why I have I'm not making the friends though,
- 1:55Speaker 1: is because all the people I would be friends with
- 1:57Speaker 1: are doing shows at night, which is the only time
- 1:59Speaker 1: I'm free, because you've got you have a day job, right,
- 2:02Speaker 1: so or the other thing is I'll be like, come
- 2:03Speaker 1: by and get lunch at the studio or something like.
- 2:05Speaker 1: That's the only other way I can. Well, you should go.
- 2:09Speaker 1: You can go to those shows that the people are
- 2:11Speaker 1: on and then be like, hey, I thought you were funny.
- 2:14Speaker 1: That's true. I'm a very bad comedy audience though. Yeah,
- 2:18Speaker 1: And then you have to go to a show I like,
- 2:22Speaker 1: and I do like going to two shows obviously like
- 2:25Speaker 1: I like comedy a whole lot. But the problem is, like,
- 2:28Speaker 1: if I don't like something, I have absolutely no ability
- 2:31Speaker 1: to pretend that I do. It is all over my face.
- 2:33Speaker 1: And if it's a new friendship and I don't think
- 2:36Speaker 1: they're funny, I won't be able to hide it. It's
- 2:39Speaker 1: something I need to work on. Really, I just don't
- 2:40Speaker 1: have a poker face, man. I mean that's a good problem.
- 2:43Speaker 1: Now if you also honest, there's also just more bad
- 2:45Speaker 1: comedy shows in the world. When they are a good
- 2:47Speaker 1: comedy shows, you really do roll the dice everythingle I
- 2:52Speaker 1: started doing comedy so that I would stop hiding from people,
- 2:56Speaker 1: and then so I would have to be around people
- 2:59Speaker 1: at night because I am not a killing I don't
- 3:02Speaker 1: know if you don't know this about me, I'm not
- 3:04Speaker 1: a party gal. What. I don't go to parties. I
- 3:07Speaker 1: think the one time I showed up at a party,
- 3:08Speaker 1: you were bowled over and I was too, and I
- 3:11Speaker 1: left pretty quickly. The secret to parties is if you
- 3:13Speaker 1: come for twenty minutes, people remember that you're there, and
- 3:16Speaker 1: they'll never remember that you left exactly exactly. And you man,
- 3:20Speaker 1: Caitlin's better at parties, and I I don't. I just
- 3:23Speaker 1: came a social butterfly. You but like, but you're you're
- 3:27Speaker 1: good at it. You do a good job. Thank you.
- 3:30Speaker 1: And sometimes I'll show up and then it's like, but
- 3:32Speaker 1: now I'm not talking to anybody. We should talk about
- 3:35Speaker 1: the movie that we're here to talk about. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 3:38Speaker 1: we watched it together. This week. We're watching more and
- 3:41Speaker 1: more movies together. I love it. It's fine. Couldn't make it,
- 3:46Speaker 1: this one, this one, it's fine. Have you seen this movie? Though? Aristotle?
- 3:50Speaker 1: Oh good, Okay, he's given a big nod. That was
- 3:53Speaker 1: an emphatic knod. We're talking about mean girls, Jennyonine. Did
- 3:57Speaker 1: you first see the movie? Came out when I was fourteen,
- 4:01Speaker 1: which was like the perfect at and my class in
- 4:05Speaker 1: middle in high school, I went to school with basically
- 4:07Speaker 1: the same kids for seven years, was notorious for being
- 4:11Speaker 1: a class of very mean girls. Really yeah. In seventh grade,
- 4:16Speaker 1: one girl told all the rest of the other girls
- 4:18Speaker 1: not to talk to me for a year, and they
- 4:19Speaker 1: all listened. Yeah, I know I had some horrible bullying
- 4:23Speaker 1: stories and she asked me to like retweeter Kickstarter at
- 4:25Speaker 1: one point. So we're all good. Um, I should say
- 4:29Speaker 1: that maybe I should go. He is listening. Um, we
- 4:33Speaker 1: have millions of listeners on our podcast, including Everyone's Time. Yeah,
- 4:37Speaker 1: we have a big high school bully following this is
- 4:40Speaker 1: this is all to say that. Like, so when it
- 4:42Speaker 1: came out in eighth grade, like one of the moms
- 4:44Speaker 1: of one of the girls like sent out an email
- 4:46Speaker 1: being like, we should all go see this movie, Like
- 4:49Speaker 1: all the girls should go see this movie. And I
- 4:52Speaker 1: think I like didn't go because I was too nervous
- 4:54Speaker 1: to be around those girls anymore than I had to be.
- 4:57Speaker 1: So it was a very timely movie for me. And
- 5:00Speaker 1: it is like, maybe the thing I remember most about
- 5:02Speaker 1: it is that when I went to go see it,
- 5:04Speaker 1: it was the first time I had seen the Fandango
- 5:08Speaker 1: Bollywood bag puppet ad do you guys remember? And it
- 5:12Speaker 1: was the hardest I think I've ever laughed at anything.
- 5:15Speaker 1: I was like, this is so funny, this is comedy,
- 5:19Speaker 1: and this is what this is what it means to
- 5:21Speaker 1: be a comedian. So I laughed about that through like
- 5:25Speaker 1: half the movie, which is a great movie, is super
- 5:27Speaker 1: funny anyway, but like, for some reason, just the b
- 5:29Speaker 1: the fact they were bag puppets, it was very appealing.
- 5:33Speaker 1: I really liked it. Yeah, I remember remember about the
- 5:36Speaker 1: actual viewing experience. I didn't. I didn't see this movie
- 5:40Speaker 1: in theaters. I think I too. So I was eleven
- 5:42Speaker 1: when this movie came out, and all the moms at
- 5:46Speaker 1: our church youth group, they were like, Oh, we're gonna
- 5:50Speaker 1: We're going to teach the girls to respect each other,
- 5:52Speaker 1: you know, and all this stuff, and I didn't. I
- 5:55Speaker 1: was sort of fortunate to go to a high school.
- 5:57Speaker 1: Middle school was tough for me because I were bad
- 6:00Speaker 1: brace and so you know, there's no getting around that.
- 6:03Speaker 1: But high school, my high school is so huge that
- 6:05Speaker 1: bullying wasn't really a problem because you could. You know,
- 6:07Speaker 1: someone might bully you a single time and then you
- 6:10Speaker 1: wouldn't see them for weeks, and then they would forget
- 6:12Speaker 1: because there was six thousand kids there. I had a hundred. Yeah,
- 6:17Speaker 1: the smaller high school, it's the worst it is. But yeah,
- 6:20Speaker 1: I just didn't know most of the kids in my
- 6:22Speaker 1: high school, and they had no idea who I was.
- 6:24Speaker 1: So even if it was like, oh, bad Brace girl,
- 6:26Speaker 1: but then you know it was new for them. Every
- 6:29Speaker 1: time they were just like, who is this freak? And
- 6:31Speaker 1: then we're back Brace girl. How many bad brace freaks
- 6:34Speaker 1: go to this school? Uh? So it was it was fine,
- 6:37Speaker 1: and we were sorted into buildings like Harry Potter. And
- 6:39Speaker 1: that's the true thing about my high school. Really. There
- 6:42Speaker 1: are four different buildings and you got put in one
- 6:44Speaker 1: year freshman year at random. No sorting ceremony was in
- 6:48Speaker 1: the azure building. Where did you go to high school?
- 6:50Speaker 1: I went to high school in Bracton, Massachusetts. It's a
- 6:53Speaker 1: ship hole in southern Massachusetts. And there was the red, yellow, green,
- 6:57Speaker 1: and azure for some reason, not for as sure, and
- 7:00Speaker 1: the stereotyped were like Azure was for like brainy losers
- 7:06Speaker 1: and red was for raven cloth well red foot, Red
- 7:10Speaker 1: was like well adjusted cool people. Yellow was for like
- 7:18Speaker 1: idiots and uh yeah, and and and then green was
- 7:22Speaker 1: for the rest fletherin. That's really that works out it.
- 7:27Speaker 1: All it did was affect your cafeteria and like where
- 7:29Speaker 1: you ate and had homeroom, but you were you were sorted. Anyways,
- 7:33Speaker 1: I saw this movie when I was eleven with my
- 7:35Speaker 1: church group. I think I was a little bit too
- 7:38Speaker 1: young for it then, but I liked it. I wish
- 7:41Speaker 1: i'd seen it in theaters, So I don't remember if
- 7:43Speaker 1: I saw in theaters or not. But it came out
- 7:44Speaker 1: like a couple of weeks before I graduated high school,
- 7:47Speaker 1: and I don't remember if I saw it right away
- 7:49Speaker 1: or if it was maybe within the next year after that.
- 7:52Speaker 1: But I saw it pretty soon after I came out.
- 7:54Speaker 1: And then I was like, Oh, my goodness, isn't miss
- 7:56Speaker 1: Mavie Emmer. And then I bought it on DVD and
- 8:01Speaker 1: then everyone else is like, this is the best movie ever.
- 8:04Speaker 1: And then I was like, well fine, and then I
- 8:10Speaker 1: and then I forgot about it kind of. I sort
- 8:13Speaker 1: of outgrew it, and now I have some thoughts which
- 8:18Speaker 1: we will talk not anymore. I don't really I wasn't
- 8:23Speaker 1: getting that read for me when we were watching it. Well,
- 8:26Speaker 1: I'm very difficult to read it, Jenny. I have a
- 8:29Speaker 1: very good poker face. You got exclusively a poker face. Yeah,
- 8:34Speaker 1: and that I don't emote any emotions. I'm just a
- 8:37Speaker 1: weird robot. I am Caitlin a robot. I know we
- 8:42Speaker 1: need to balance each other out and I wish we
- 8:44Speaker 1: could like hold hands and like some of your emotions
- 8:46Speaker 1: could leach into my body. I would love for you
- 8:48Speaker 1: to take something. There's too many and I don't have enough.
- 8:53Speaker 1: So anyway, how about the recap? Let's do it? So
- 8:56Speaker 1: Mean Girls focuses on a character named Kay Dharon played
- 9:00Speaker 1: by Lindsay Lohan. She moves to a new school in
- 9:04Speaker 1: Michigan where she's going to go to school for the
- 9:06Speaker 1: first time. Oh sorry, yeah, my bad. Atting Coston is
- 9:12Speaker 1: like a cool little place place I did the Northwestern
- 9:16Speaker 1: College program. I got to be there first summer, and
- 9:18Speaker 1: the coolest thing about it to me was that it
- 9:19Speaker 1: was where Katie Heron lived. Yeah right, okay, yeah, so
- 9:23Speaker 1: I'm dumb it states anyway, um uh. So she moves
- 9:28Speaker 1: to a new school and she has never been to
- 9:32Speaker 1: like public school before. She's only been homeschooled because her
- 9:35Speaker 1: parents were researched zoologists in Africa. So she's like, oh
- 9:39Speaker 1: my god, I'm in a new school. I don't know
- 9:40Speaker 1: how to be a person. So she meets a couple
- 9:43Speaker 1: of friends, Jane Ian and Damien, and they're like, we're
- 9:46Speaker 1: gonna be friends with you, and we're a teacher of
- 9:48Speaker 1: the lay of the Land, and then she meets the Plastics,
- 9:51Speaker 1: which is this group of three young women who are
- 9:54Speaker 1: mean girls. Hey that's the name of the movie. And
- 9:58Speaker 1: Janice has some beef with the queen Bee of the Plastics,
- 10:02Speaker 1: Regina George. Regina like sort of takes a liking to Katie.
- 10:05Speaker 1: So Jane is like, hey, you should like hang out
- 10:08Speaker 1: with Regina and pretend to be her friend and then
- 10:11Speaker 1: we can like dish on all the stupid stuff that
- 10:13Speaker 1: they say. But things get a little out of hand.
- 10:17Speaker 1: Katie sort of becomes one of the Plastics herself, and
- 10:20Speaker 1: then she has some lessons to learn, some friendships to repair.
- 10:24Speaker 1: There's a boy that she has a crush on, and
- 10:27Speaker 1: Hare and Samuel's that was That's where the October four
- 10:31Speaker 1: joke comes from. Me Where is October because the other
- 10:35Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan October things on October eleventh, My birthdays on
- 10:40Speaker 1: October eleventh. And then they put the picture together we
- 10:42Speaker 1: should do that parent trap. Yeah, Hallie, we're like sisters,
- 10:49Speaker 1: Like we're like twin and then they cry and hug.
- 10:54Speaker 1: That movie definitely passes the backtel time. That movie with
- 10:57Speaker 1: Flying Colors, Lizzy Lowen and herself. Million doesn't count, though
- 11:02Speaker 1: if it's the same woman talking, it does. And then
- 11:06Speaker 1: there's CHESSI Chessie, Yeah, Chessie's awesome. And then Natasha Richardson
- 11:11Speaker 1: is is Dennis Quaid in it? He had dad? And
- 11:15Speaker 1: then there's um Meredith is supposed to be twenty six
- 11:18Speaker 1: in it, which is which makes me upset? That is crazy?
- 11:23Speaker 1: She was that lady? Does that mean we can date
- 11:26Speaker 1: Dennis quaint me? Does that that been sliding scale? I've
- 11:33Speaker 1: been dating Brandy, I want to be quaite and Jason. Yeah,
- 11:40Speaker 1: that's pretty much the stories. I just got sucked up
- 11:42Speaker 1: in parent trapay. Oh yeah, Well going back to mean girls,
- 11:47Speaker 1: um so yeah, Katie she becomes a mean girl herself,
- 11:51Speaker 1: and then Miss Norberry a Ka Tina phase, like you
- 11:54Speaker 1: guys have to learn how to be better to each other,
- 11:57Speaker 1: and then everyone sort of makes up at the end,
- 11:59Speaker 1: and there's a spring laying dance, there's a mathlete competition,
- 12:02Speaker 1: Regina George is hit by a bus by the way,
- 12:05Speaker 1: and one of my favorite plot times, Yeah, so I
- 12:08Speaker 1: out of nowhere suffered that stupid thing. I do like
- 12:11Speaker 1: that they got away with it, Like, what a crazy
- 12:14Speaker 1: thing to have to be like, and then she gets
- 12:16Speaker 1: hit by a bus and they were like, you know what,
- 12:20Speaker 1: We're gonna trust you with this one. It just feels
- 12:22Speaker 1: like a prank that someone got away with, presumably Tina
- 12:26Speaker 1: Fay Right by the way, I was a mathlete in
- 12:30Speaker 1: high school. Did you have a jacket. I didn't have
- 12:34Speaker 1: a jacket. We only did I think like two or
- 12:36Speaker 1: three competitions that I was a part of um. But
- 12:39Speaker 1: we had mathletes at my school. Well, your school might
- 12:42Speaker 1: have been cooler than mine. Maybe maybe it was kind
- 12:45Speaker 1: of like cocarts. Right. Did you have a headmaster named Dumbledore?
- 12:50Speaker 1: We had? Well, no, we had a principal named Dr
- 12:53Speaker 1: zach Owitz. Same thing. She was pretty cool. Oh, I
- 12:57Speaker 1: like that she was a woman. Yeah. Great, Yeah, and
- 13:00Speaker 1: her husband was a history teacher, so she had a
- 13:04Speaker 1: very nice beta husband, who is like, my wife is dope.
- 13:07Speaker 1: Good role models. I love a good beta husband. I
- 13:10Speaker 1: love beta males. Give me where are they? They're everywhere,
- 13:15Speaker 1: but they're just mine's downstairs. You gotta find them your
- 13:18Speaker 1: beta mails downstairs. Man. I think that I've skewed two
- 13:21Speaker 1: alfa recently, and I've really I've got to be like
- 13:23Speaker 1: where you gotta be sneaky. You got sneak up on them.
- 13:28Speaker 1: They school kezy. If you bring your net, you'd be okay,
- 13:32Speaker 1: you can trap them, you can do it. And then
- 13:36Speaker 1: you say, Okay, now I'm going to fix you. Yeah. Anyway,
- 13:41Speaker 1: that's the the story of me and girls. Let me
- 13:46Speaker 1: just start by saying that I have con Okay, so
- 13:51Speaker 1: it's not that I hate the movie, but I definitely
- 13:54Speaker 1: don't think it's aged well and I think it's pretty
- 13:59Speaker 1: problem at it and I'm experience. I experienced it the
- 14:01Speaker 1: same way that I experienced Heathers, which we talked about
- 14:05Speaker 1: on an earlier episode, where it's like, Okay, great, it's
- 14:08Speaker 1: a movie about women, but a lot of them hate
- 14:12Speaker 1: each other and they say horrible things to each other,
- 14:14Speaker 1: and it portrays women in this like very catty, competitive
- 14:19Speaker 1: way where they're really mean and awful to each other.
- 14:23Speaker 1: And I just want everyone to get along. I just
- 14:25Speaker 1: want a movie where everyone gets along and there's no conflict. No,
- 14:28Speaker 1: I'm kidding, Like that was very much my experience of
- 14:31Speaker 1: the women I knew when I was sort of in
- 14:32Speaker 1: my early teens, is that it is very competitive. People
- 14:36Speaker 1: don't get along like it was, and I don't think
- 14:39Speaker 1: that's the case necessarily. I think that it's a bad
- 14:44Speaker 1: stereotype about women, that that's how it always is, and
- 14:48Speaker 1: that I think as you get older, I think that
- 14:51Speaker 1: you start to realize like, oh, like these are my allies,
- 14:54Speaker 1: and these are like the people who I care about,
- 14:57Speaker 1: and like some of the competition dies down, and then
- 14:59Speaker 1: I think it's like what happens is you realize that
- 15:01Speaker 1: you've been pitted against each other at some point, and
- 15:04Speaker 1: then you're like, oh, fuck all, y'all, I'm going to
- 15:07Speaker 1: be with women and men are going to have to
- 15:10Speaker 1: earn my trust, not the other way around it. And
- 15:12Speaker 1: like that was what happened to me. Was like I
- 15:14Speaker 1: felt like there were a bunch of women I thought
- 15:16Speaker 1: just and from and I was like, oh, it's because
- 15:17Speaker 1: like the men in my life were douche bags, and um,
- 15:21Speaker 1: I think that's sort of what happens at some point
- 15:24Speaker 1: is you realize how much a society is built on
- 15:27Speaker 1: making you feel competitive with other women, especially when you're
- 15:30Speaker 1: in like the industry and stuff. Yeah, I mean where
- 15:34Speaker 1: there's days where it still feels that way, and I
- 15:37Speaker 1: don't know, I I guess for me, this is sort
- 15:40Speaker 1: of like portraying like, I think it's a pretty you know,
- 15:43Speaker 1: it's it's obviously it's a movie, but in terms of
- 15:46Speaker 1: portraying something sort of close to what it could actually
- 15:50Speaker 1: look like in real life is important to to get
- 15:53Speaker 1: people to relate because I feel like we if we
- 15:55Speaker 1: just have a movie where you know, like women are
- 15:57Speaker 1: totally supporting each other and getting along, um, doesn't make
- 16:00Speaker 1: for an interesting movie. Not that interesting. But then also
- 16:04Speaker 1: like I don't know, like if it was a movie
- 16:06Speaker 1: about teenage boys not getting along, would we have a
- 16:10Speaker 1: problem with it? Probably not. I don't know. I'm sort
- 16:13Speaker 1: of I've got a specific piece stuck in my head
- 16:16Speaker 1: right now that I read this morning in Harper's Bizarre
- 16:21Speaker 1: by Jennifer Wright, who's writer I really like about how
- 16:26Speaker 1: like the idea of feminism is getting conflated with all
- 16:29Speaker 1: women having to like each other and what Stepford wives,
- 16:33Speaker 1: the kind of environment that that encourages, where it's like,
- 16:37Speaker 1: you don't have to like other women. You can think
- 16:40Speaker 1: other women are stupid and wrong, and you know the
- 16:43Speaker 1: way you could think men are stupid and wrong. You
- 16:46Speaker 1: just need to respect them on a basic level, believe
- 16:49Speaker 1: that they have the same rights that you do, and
- 16:52Speaker 1: you're still like, I don't know, Like being being a
- 16:55Speaker 1: woman who's a feminist doesn't mean that you can't have
- 16:58Speaker 1: a negative opinion of another woman, especially if what they're
- 17:02Speaker 1: doing sucks, like do you or doesn't match up with
- 17:05Speaker 1: with your values or whatever. So that's I haven't like
- 17:09Speaker 1: fully processed it, but it's something that I was thinking
- 17:12Speaker 1: about in relation to this movie, of like, it makes
- 17:14Speaker 1: sense that a lot of the characters in this movie
- 17:17Speaker 1: wouldn't would be pitted against each other. And yeah, and
- 17:21Speaker 1: I don't think it's like portraying anything unrealistic or things
- 17:25Speaker 1: that don't happen, because yeah, these things, like a lot
- 17:28Speaker 1: of women this age do treat each other this way,
- 17:31Speaker 1: There's no doubt about it. Could we argue that maybe
- 17:34Speaker 1: one of the reasons that like women feel that they're
- 17:36Speaker 1: pitted against each other or that they feel it needed
- 17:38Speaker 1: to be competitive in meat to each other, are movies
- 17:42Speaker 1: like this that perpetuate the stereotype. Could we argue that
- 17:46Speaker 1: maybe not? Maybe So, I don't know. Yeah, Well, when
- 17:51Speaker 1: you guys saw this movie for the first time, which
- 17:54Speaker 1: character resonated with you the most? I would say probably
- 17:58Speaker 1: Janice Ian. Yeah, me too. I think of the sort
- 18:02Speaker 1: of mother. I was the girl who said that Regina
- 18:06Speaker 1: George punched her in the face. Like the thing is
- 18:09Speaker 1: like I wasn't even at a level where I thought
- 18:12Speaker 1: I could even try to be popular, like you know
- 18:14Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, nor would I want to, Like
- 18:16Speaker 1: I just wanted to die for most of high school.
- 18:19Speaker 1: But that's like that's the whole separate story. Like I
- 18:21Speaker 1: just did. But it wasn't like a motivating factor for me.
- 18:25Speaker 1: But I really liked this, I guess idea of like
- 18:31Speaker 1: a world where there was redemption possible for whatever this was,
- 18:36Speaker 1: or there was some way to heal or through like
- 18:39Speaker 1: my high school. Like it was weird because like I
- 18:41Speaker 1: went through all of high school where I was like, yeah,
- 18:43Speaker 1: all the movies are correct, Like this high school is
- 18:45Speaker 1: like terrible and there's like a couple of kids who
- 18:47Speaker 1: are like ridiculously popular and attractive and all this stuff,
- 18:50Speaker 1: Like that's how every high school is. I don't have friends,
- 18:53Speaker 1: that's normal. And then I got out of my I
- 18:55Speaker 1: went to a very small, very preppy high school, like
- 18:57Speaker 1: we got mentioned on the o C. Like that's the
- 18:59Speaker 1: level of preppy that my high school was. And um,
- 19:02Speaker 1: because we're known for having cocaine dealers, like we were
- 19:05Speaker 1: really coke high school, really preppy, really rich, Like really
- 19:10Speaker 1: what area I grew up in? Silicon Valley. Um, I
- 19:14Speaker 1: hated my high school. I hated high school, but I also, like,
- 19:18Speaker 1: to be fair, I don't know I would have liked
- 19:20Speaker 1: any high school because I was just going through a
- 19:21Speaker 1: lot of issues at the time. But like when I
- 19:25Speaker 1: graduated and that talked to people who had gone to
- 19:28Speaker 1: anywhere fucking else but my high school, I was like, Oh,
- 19:33Speaker 1: I only thought my high school was normal because high
- 19:35Speaker 1: schools on TV seemed like that too, Like because like interesting.
- 19:40Speaker 1: So there is an aspect of it too that I
- 19:43Speaker 1: think might be reinforcing, but it was also really reflective
- 19:46Speaker 1: of my experience, which was like the weirdest little inselur
- 19:49Speaker 1: bubble where I think, I mean, part of the reason
- 19:52Speaker 1: this movie I don't think it's ever bothered me is
- 19:54Speaker 1: because I don't think I've ever seen a movie that
- 19:57Speaker 1: reminded me of my high school experience, and including this one. Yeah,
- 20:01Speaker 1: Like so for me, it's like entertainment high school and
- 20:06Speaker 1: entertainment and high school in the way I experienced it,
- 20:09Speaker 1: which wasn't great and it wasn't you know there was
- 20:12Speaker 1: a lot of problems, but there it's just it just
- 20:14Speaker 1: seems so separate that it never even like I don't
- 20:18Speaker 1: even think I really tried to relate with it that
- 20:21Speaker 1: much because I was I was like, oh, well, you
- 20:24Speaker 1: know this, everyone knows each other at this high school.
- 20:27Speaker 1: So like, here's the thing. Here's the thing about about
- 20:31Speaker 1: Mean Girls and my high school experience. That's totally separate,
- 20:34Speaker 1: but maybe it maybe interesting. So when I was in
- 20:38Speaker 1: high school, I should have mentioned in my credit So
- 20:41Speaker 1: I founded a mental health nonprofit and I spent two
- 20:44Speaker 1: years out of the comedy world sort of like doing that.
- 20:47Speaker 1: And I have talked a lot about my mental health
- 20:50Speaker 1: stuff and that sort of thing. But one thing was
- 20:53Speaker 1: in high school, I was in really intense um exposure
- 20:56Speaker 1: therapy for this like all encompassing fear of throwing up.
- 21:00Speaker 1: And part of this therapy was that they handed me
- 21:02Speaker 1: a list at the beginning of the thing where I
- 21:04Speaker 1: had to watch movies that included scenes of somebody throwing up.
- 21:08Speaker 1: Guess what Mean Girls has twice is mentioned a vomit,
- 21:12Speaker 1: and I know exactly where it is because I always
- 21:15Speaker 1: get nervous when that part comes on. Even to this day,
- 21:17Speaker 1: just because like it's like an old reaction. But so
- 21:20Speaker 1: I watched Mean Girls a lot because it was a
- 21:22Speaker 1: movie I loved that also had a scene with puking
- 21:24Speaker 1: in it because Katie throws up on like Aaron Samuel's lap, right,
- 21:28Speaker 1: which is like a really tough scene for me. Like
- 21:30Speaker 1: lots of reasons, but like, yeah, so that's an interesting
- 21:33Speaker 1: sort of I know. So I know, like where every
- 21:35Speaker 1: movie has a puke scene, had to mentally clock it,
- 21:40Speaker 1: and Two Things I Hate About You has one too,
- 21:41Speaker 1: which is another movie that I had writing at this age.
- 21:45Speaker 1: My most memorable puke scene is from Do You America
- 21:50Speaker 1: World Police? Oh yeah, fantastic puppet. Just yeah, that's yeah.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Exposure therapy is, man, we should we should talk about
- 21:59Speaker 1: that off because I went through exposure therapy last year.
- 22:02Speaker 1: I should definitely talk about this. Yeah, it's holy fun.
- 22:06Speaker 1: Like I still, man, what a what a fun? Maybe
- 22:09Speaker 1: I need exposure therapy for feelings because I'm so afraid
- 22:12Speaker 1: of them. I mean just regular therapy is the best
- 22:16Speaker 1: thing for that. Yeah, everyone should be in therapy, I agree.
- 22:21Speaker 1: I finally got insurance back. It takes six months through
- 22:25Speaker 1: the Animation Guild working in the Animation Guild to get
- 22:27Speaker 1: insurance through them, which is crazy. I'm just so Monday congratulations.
- 22:33Speaker 1: I am just starting on medica. Unfortunately for my therapist,
- 22:37Speaker 1: because I whatever, like I met him like in the
- 22:42Speaker 1: e R and he was like, I am yours now
- 22:46Speaker 1: like diagnosed me with O c D and bipolar and
- 22:48Speaker 1: all this stuff I really needed and didn't know. And
- 22:50Speaker 1: so now I'm like, I don't. I never want to
- 22:52Speaker 1: leave him because I feel like you saved my life,
- 22:54Speaker 1: but also no insurance covers him. So it's just this
- 22:58Speaker 1: thing where the American system is terrible and steadily getting worse,
- 23:04Speaker 1: and what are you gonna do. I'm never going to
- 23:06Speaker 1: leave him. I'll go into debt. I don't care. I
- 23:09Speaker 1: think that therapy should be free, the way that like
- 23:12Speaker 1: you can get free books at the library. I don't
- 23:14Speaker 1: know why that's not just a social service that we
- 23:16Speaker 1: have because we don't value mental health. That's what physical health,
- 23:21Speaker 1: and we barely value physical health very much. Oh are
- 23:24Speaker 1: you a woman? Do you have a pre existing condition?
- 23:28Speaker 1: Too bad? Go and die. That's what the Republicans say. Boy, okay, wait,
- 23:34Speaker 1: let's go, let's go back. Mean girls, Well, a few things.
- 23:39Speaker 1: One of the few reasons this movie does not hold
- 23:41Speaker 1: up very well. The word retarded gets said three different times,
- 23:47Speaker 1: so that's like, oh, that's a very oh for. I mean,
- 23:52Speaker 1: that's that's another thing where I'm in no way justifying that.
- 23:56Speaker 1: But if we're kicking it too oh for, that mean,
- 24:00Speaker 1: at least in my experience, that was dropped quite a
- 24:03Speaker 1: bit in pop culture and in my middle school. Yeah,
- 24:08Speaker 1: it's pretty remarkable the amount of sensitivity we have acquired
- 24:13Speaker 1: as a culture since the Bush administration. And like it's
- 24:16Speaker 1: I know, it's like dropped off precipitously with the rise
- 24:19Speaker 1: of actual fucking Nazis, but like there is also it's
- 24:23Speaker 1: pretty it's cool. Like legitimately, there are a lot of
- 24:26Speaker 1: kind of like weird gender jokes and stuff in this
- 24:30Speaker 1: movie that I don't think would have been Yeah, well,
- 24:33Speaker 1: I mean whenever, like Janice is going through the cafeteria
- 24:37Speaker 1: and be like, here's where all the clicks sit, and
- 24:39Speaker 1: she's like, this is where the girls who eat their
- 24:41Speaker 1: feelings sit, and here's the girls who don't eat anything.
- 24:44Speaker 1: Basically like body shaming women, mental illness shaming other women,
- 24:50Speaker 1: and then like all these different like racial stereotypes. Yeah,
- 24:54Speaker 1: there's a lot of jokes about Asian people. There's uh,
- 24:57Speaker 1: there's gay jokes. Damien's expect like, there's a lot of
- 25:01Speaker 1: stuff I would need to It's a hard thing because
- 25:06Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to say that any of this
- 25:08Speaker 1: is like okay, but that if we're talking about how
- 25:11Speaker 1: people talk about each other in high school, that doesn't
- 25:15Speaker 1: that's not incredibly unusual where I think of some of
- 25:19Speaker 1: the words that were thrown at me in high school
- 25:23Speaker 1: and it's like, well, you know, this movie is only
- 25:25Speaker 1: one pg thirteen, so you couldn't say, hey, there's the
- 25:29Speaker 1: girl with the ol bow up her asshole. Yeah, I
- 25:32Speaker 1: got a lot of I got a lot of lesbo
- 25:36Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, you're half right, but yeah,
- 25:42Speaker 1: just you know, it's like, um, I think just stuff
- 25:45Speaker 1: that it's partially two thou four and it's partially stuff
- 25:49Speaker 1: that just kids in high school say, and then like
- 25:52Speaker 1: there's a tiny part that's problematic. Fave of Tina Fee,
- 25:56Speaker 1: who I love, even though I think she has some
- 25:59Speaker 1: really huge blind spots when it comes to especially talking
- 26:01Speaker 1: about race and to think you know, it's one of
- 26:05Speaker 1: those things where it's like I think she has net
- 26:09Speaker 1: put more good into the world than bad, but really
- 26:14Speaker 1: really tough listening to her defend certain choices she's made
- 26:17Speaker 1: and thinks she's written and the Native American storyline and
- 26:21Speaker 1: came exactly I'm thinking about too well. I think her
- 26:26Speaker 1: character ms Norberry is poised as being like this wise
- 26:31Speaker 1: woman who like she she's an ally and she's gonna
- 26:34Speaker 1: give you all the answers on how to treat each
- 26:38Speaker 1: other better as a woman. But I would argue that
- 26:39Speaker 1: she is the most problematic character of them all. And
- 26:43Speaker 1: let me explain why. There's a few scenes where she
- 26:47Speaker 1: is talking to a character, usually Katie, and being like, hey,
- 26:52Speaker 1: here's a reason that you should do this, and the
- 26:53Speaker 1: reasons are always problematic. For example, she's trying to get
- 26:57Speaker 1: Katie to join the athletes and she's like, yeah, we've
- 27:00Speaker 1: of to have a girl on the team so that
- 27:02Speaker 1: the team could meet a girl. Not because women need
- 27:06Speaker 1: to be represented in mathematics, not because it would be
- 27:09Speaker 1: good for Katie or because she's good at math women
- 27:13Speaker 1: Is that exactly, um, But it's so that the boys
- 27:18Speaker 1: on the team could have a chance to interact with
- 27:21Speaker 1: a woman. That was her reasoning for Katie joining the maths.
- 27:24Speaker 1: She was joking because she's a female math teacher, Like,
- 27:26Speaker 1: surely she has, yes, but then it keeps happening another scene,
- 27:30Speaker 1: whenever she's like, you, girls, towards the end, when they're
- 27:33Speaker 1: all in the gymnasium, you've got to stop calling each
- 27:35Speaker 1: other sluts and horse, because that just makes it okay
- 27:38Speaker 1: for guys to call you sluts and horse. But like
- 27:40Speaker 1: she's also the reason she's giving is always like how
- 27:43Speaker 1: these women like their experience is related to two men,
- 27:47Speaker 1: because she doesn't say, oh, it's because slut shaming is
- 27:51Speaker 1: wrong and you should like be building each other up
- 27:54Speaker 1: rather than tearing each other down, Like there's that. And
- 27:57Speaker 1: then finally, during the math like competition, whenever they're two
- 28:01Speaker 1: teams are about to go up against each other, Miss
- 28:04Speaker 1: Norberry goes up to Katie's like, you can do this.
- 28:07Speaker 1: There's nothing to break your focus because not one of
- 28:09Speaker 1: those mary Mount boys is cute. Again, bringing her experience
- 28:14Speaker 1: back to like how it relates to men. She didn't say, oh,
- 28:17Speaker 1: you can do this because you're good at math, or
- 28:19Speaker 1: because you've prepared a lot for this, Like it just
- 28:22Speaker 1: bothered me that all the reasons she kept giving for
- 28:24Speaker 1: different things were like it's how, it's how your experience
- 28:28Speaker 1: relates to men in some way. So it bothered to me. Yeah,
- 28:33Speaker 1: I get maybe I'm being nippicky. No, I think that
- 28:36Speaker 1: those are valid points. Um, I don't know. I mean
- 28:39Speaker 1: the thing that the thing that always bothers me about,
- 28:43Speaker 1: especially like mid Odds, Tina fe characters earlier lots Lemon
- 28:46Speaker 1: is just like, do you if they stop pretending that
- 28:48Speaker 1: you look like ship, you don't look like ship, you
- 28:50Speaker 1: look great, stopped like the whole, the whole for where
- 28:53Speaker 1: she's like, I'm not that cute, I do math, I'm
- 28:55Speaker 1: not the games. It's like you're beautiful, Calm down. Um,
- 28:59Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of what she said, for sure,
- 29:02Speaker 1: is in reference to men, but but also seemed clearly
- 29:08Speaker 1: communicated as a joke or a lead into a visual
- 29:11Speaker 1: like the Mary Mount Boys, and it cuts to I
- 29:14Speaker 1: thought that in particular was because Katie had broken her
- 29:17Speaker 1: focus through the whole semester because of Aaron Samuel's So
- 29:21Speaker 1: I thought that particulars just her saying like, well, you
- 29:24Speaker 1: don't get Aaron Samuel's here, so like, and her character
- 29:29Speaker 1: dealt with That's that Aaron Samuel's thing pretty well? Yeah,
- 29:32Speaker 1: in terms of calling her out where that you know
- 29:34Speaker 1: the scene where she's like, well, it's weird because all
- 29:36Speaker 1: your work is correct, but only the answers, and she's like,
- 29:39Speaker 1: you don't have to dumb yourself down to like in
- 29:42Speaker 1: Prescott press a guy. Yeah, I mean she still is
- 29:46Speaker 1: the most problematic character, Like she right off the bat
- 29:49Speaker 1: assumes that the black girl in classes uh who is
- 29:53Speaker 1: from Michigan is the African girl. But yeah, not saying
- 30:00Speaker 1: I don't think your reads are wrong, I just don't.
- 30:02Speaker 1: I think in the context of the movie, they're not
- 30:05Speaker 1: like the most problematic things about the movie, even though
- 30:07Speaker 1: the movie does have a lot of problematic things. I mean,
- 30:09Speaker 1: doing this podcast has basically ruined me. I'm now like like, oh,
- 30:13Speaker 1: this movie isn't fucking perfect, Like I could be more.
- 30:18Speaker 1: It's ripping up the bandon a lot. Well, I don't
- 30:20Speaker 1: know if that's I mean, I think this is like
- 30:22Speaker 1: one of the places that we've come to and like,
- 30:25Speaker 1: I don't even know that slut shaming was a concept
- 30:27Speaker 1: in two thousand and four that people were don't I
- 30:29Speaker 1: don't think we gave it a name at least, I mean,
- 30:32Speaker 1: it was happening, but we weren't like identifying. It's like, oh,
- 30:35Speaker 1: this is there were sluts, but there was not the
- 30:38Speaker 1: concept of shaming yet. People were slut shaming, but we
- 30:42Speaker 1: didn't have it. We didn't have a word for it.
- 30:44Speaker 1: We weren't saying like, you shouldn't do this because that's problematic. Two,
- 30:49Speaker 1: I was getting slush shamed every day. Kid. I don't
- 30:54Speaker 1: know what, like the closest to perfect in that regard
- 30:59Speaker 1: movie is. I'd be interested to try. And because I
- 31:02Speaker 1: think every movie has a pretty huge blind spot, because
- 31:05Speaker 1: every person has a pretty huge blind spot, and they're like,
- 31:08Speaker 1: everybody messes up, and the only thing anybody can do
- 31:12Speaker 1: is when they mess up, and when they're like, oh wow,
- 31:14Speaker 1: I didn't even think about this blind spot that I had.
- 31:16Speaker 1: You're right, and I will do better in the future,
- 31:19Speaker 1: and like then you just keep learning. And that's a
- 31:20Speaker 1: place where I think Tina Fey's failed a little bit.
- 31:22Speaker 1: But everybody gets to have a problematic faith, I think.
- 31:25Speaker 1: And I think she's a good one. She's a good one.
- 31:29Speaker 1: She's a Tina Fey. At least we have a women
- 31:31Speaker 1: writer for this movie, and it was Tina Fey wrote
- 31:33Speaker 1: it and then she adapted it from the book by
- 31:35Speaker 1: Rosalind Wiseman, which is such a cheesy book but I've
- 31:38Speaker 1: never read it. Queen Bee's and Wannabees We that was
- 31:42Speaker 1: a part of the whole church group deals. You also
- 31:44Speaker 1: had to read the book with your mom. I remember, like,
- 31:47Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of stuff like that
- 31:49Speaker 1: where my mom was reading a lot of books like that,
- 31:51Speaker 1: and I don't know how much they really helped her,
- 31:54Speaker 1: because like the real issue for me in high school
- 31:57Speaker 1: was mostly just making sure I didn't kill myself. So like,
- 32:00Speaker 1: I don't know how many of the much any of
- 32:01Speaker 1: those books ended up factoring into how she dealt with me,
- 32:04Speaker 1: But like I do know she or like she watched
- 32:06Speaker 1: like the movie like thirteen and stuff, and I'm like,
- 32:08Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lose my virginity for a solid seven years,
- 32:12Speaker 1: so let's shift the focus, right, Yeah, my mom didn't.
- 32:17Speaker 1: I don't know. I think my mom was sort of
- 32:18Speaker 1: just like, well, I realized things don't look too good.
- 32:23Speaker 1: But my mom what she tried to do, actually, which
- 32:25Speaker 1: is kind of antithetical to the whole mean girls church
- 32:29Speaker 1: group thing, was my mom actively tried to steer me
- 32:34Speaker 1: into what she was in high school, which was a popular,
- 32:39Speaker 1: well liked gal um and I guess I'd really have
- 32:43Speaker 1: to do to dig deep to figure out how I
- 32:46Speaker 1: feel about it. But I guess that she did that
- 32:49Speaker 1: with a small degree of success. Where I, you know,
- 32:54Speaker 1: my interests were reading and playing yobo, and I did
- 32:59Speaker 1: ballet dancing, but usually I was wearing a back brace.
- 33:01Speaker 1: And then my mom started being like, oh, you should
- 33:04Speaker 1: join the drama club. You know, you should join the
- 33:06Speaker 1: dance team. You should do this, you should do this,
- 33:08Speaker 1: and she pushed me in a more conventional direction, which
- 33:12Speaker 1: I wish she hadn't done, but also at the time,
- 33:15Speaker 1: I listened. So I guess what I'm saying is my
- 33:18Speaker 1: mom is my problematic fame. She's yeah, it's it's weird
- 33:23Speaker 1: because and then you think, like the generation before us
- 33:26Speaker 1: was influenced by all this ship as well. And I
- 33:30Speaker 1: don't know what the mean girls for their genera that
- 33:33Speaker 1: it just didn't exist. Oh true, pink ladies. Yeah, I
- 33:39Speaker 1: don't think I need to reach that. Yeah. Oh hold
- 33:45Speaker 1: on one second, let's just chuck the rest of this
- 33:47Speaker 1: and stop that. Right. Musicals and I hate the lift
- 33:50Speaker 1: from Dirty Dancing, that's right. I hated off Joel Schumacher
- 33:54Speaker 1: directed fam of the Opera two thousand and four and
- 33:57Speaker 1: think a terrible adaptation but also a terrible music. But
- 34:01Speaker 1: I love it. I will have the phantom to talk
- 34:04Speaker 1: with you, like anytime please. Okay, this is very bad.
- 34:07Speaker 1: It is mostly a movie about how to run an
- 34:09Speaker 1: opera house poorly, and then has a couple of scenes business,
- 34:14Speaker 1: oh my god, are we yeah, we should talk about it.
- 34:19Speaker 1: Spare me these unending trials. I'm leaving. I don't want to.
- 34:29Speaker 1: And then I enjoy Patrick Wilson's interpretation of role. I
- 34:33Speaker 1: do too. I think he's underrated. It's like, Wow, Christine,
- 34:36Speaker 1: do you want to marry the ugly murderer rapist or
- 34:38Speaker 1: the handsome nice guy who's actually a good act is
- 34:42Speaker 1: actually a solid actor and can sing. And she's still like,
- 34:45Speaker 1: oh this is Butler cannot hit the top note on
- 34:49Speaker 1: music of the night. He can't hit one job. It's
- 34:52Speaker 1: so bad. Okay, that's our shout out, the Schumacher shout out.
- 35:02Speaker 1: The only musical I like is Team America World Police. Yeah.
- 35:07Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep mentioning on this epico. It's got the
- 35:09Speaker 1: best song ever, which is Pearl Harbor sucks. And I
- 35:11Speaker 1: Love You. That's such a good song and I think
- 35:14Speaker 1: about it all the time, the montage song love it,
- 35:17Speaker 1: even though they already did it in an earlier episode
- 35:19Speaker 1: of South Park Fun. You can recycle your material, trade Parker, Well,
- 35:23Speaker 1: have you seen Cannibal to Musical and how do you
- 35:25Speaker 1: feel about it? I have not seen that. No, it's brilliant.
- 35:27Speaker 1: It's there. You'll probably if you like south Park Bigger,
- 35:29Speaker 1: longer than cut and uh and Team America, then it's
- 35:32Speaker 1: a kind of a trilogy. Hell yeah, it's It's got
- 35:35Speaker 1: a lot of the same jokes and you see where
- 35:37Speaker 1: a lot of like really early jokes came from. And
- 35:39Speaker 1: I'll watch it. It's very delightful, cool, good guys, good guys,
- 35:43Speaker 1: love them friends of the cast. I haven't seen that either, fantastic.
- 35:50Speaker 1: I don't have the money to go watch things on stage.
- 35:53Speaker 1: What you have to do is start writing for a
- 35:55Speaker 1: clickbait website and then just be like, hey, I'll write
- 35:57Speaker 1: about it, and then hopefully they forget that. I've seen
- 36:00Speaker 1: Scarlet ears hire me BuzzFeed. I did stand up on
- 36:04Speaker 1: BuzzFeed once and well, I'll put the link in the commice.
- 36:09Speaker 1: It was an experience I'm changed, BuzzFeed, remember suff he changed.
- 36:15Speaker 1: We haven't really talked about the plastics that much, No,
- 36:17Speaker 1: we haven't. So we've got Regina George Rachel McAdams kills it.
- 36:23Speaker 1: She that's so good. I agree with that good, which
- 36:27Speaker 1: is weird. One. I've never particularly drawn to her in
- 36:29Speaker 1: anything else, but she just like, I mean, all three plastics,
- 36:32Speaker 1: and I don't we were talking about this. I don't
- 36:34Speaker 1: like Amanda Seaford that much, or Cyfred. I never like
- 36:37Speaker 1: her in anything becau so I forget it's her because
- 36:41Speaker 1: I like it. She was in the Mamma Mia musical movie,
- 36:45Speaker 1: which was am absolute well. I mean it's not a
- 36:49Speaker 1: great musical, but like it's like, yeah, it's a bad, bad,
- 36:53Speaker 1: bad movie. And then uh whoa uh Lacey Shabert Eliza
- 36:59Speaker 1: Thorny the born Berry as a Gretchen Wieners. She Gretchen
- 37:03Speaker 1: is my favorite plastic mine too. I think if they're
- 37:06Speaker 1: Gretchen is the closest I could get to connecting with
- 37:09Speaker 1: a plastic of she is me too. She's showing up
- 37:13Speaker 1: for the Jewish American princesses. She like well because she's
- 37:17Speaker 1: like she is a subordinate, but she's also just as
- 37:21Speaker 1: smart as her boss as it were. And I man,
- 37:26Speaker 1: I just I have a real soft spot for Gretchen Winers,
- 37:29Speaker 1: especially when she does that speech about Julius, Caesar and Brutus.
- 37:33Speaker 1: That is where I come closest to feeling for her
- 37:37Speaker 1: of like, oh, she just really wants but also that's
- 37:40Speaker 1: the makings of a monster if you give that person power.
- 37:44Speaker 1: But she never gets it because it goes to Lindy Lewen. Yeah,
- 37:48Speaker 1: and really good in this movie. This is like this,
- 37:51Speaker 1: and then she's Freaky Friday kind of in the same year,
- 37:53Speaker 1: and then passions of a teenage drama Queen. We start
- 37:56Speaker 1: to right yea, then we start to lose her and
- 37:58Speaker 1: be fully loaded. She's gone. The Canyons is next. Um, wait,
- 38:03Speaker 1: was that it's the movie she did with James Dan
- 38:05Speaker 1: like three years ago, the porn star. Wait, I was
- 38:09Speaker 1: also a rapist. Yeah, it's like he's not a thing anymore.
- 38:13Speaker 1: He's a bad person. She did this movie, and uh,
- 38:18Speaker 1: the article that was maybe it was in the New Yorker,
- 38:22Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but a really fascinating article by somebody
- 38:25Speaker 1: who basically like hung out on set and like watched
- 38:28Speaker 1: this travesty unfold and I do feel for Lindsay Lohan.
- 38:33Speaker 1: I think she's I feel very bad for her. She's
- 38:36Speaker 1: a casualty because she was delightful in a lot of
- 38:39Speaker 1: these Uh. I thought she was very very delightful in
- 38:42Speaker 1: this movie. She's talented. And and also I think that
- 38:46Speaker 1: this is a and and this has nothing to do
- 38:49Speaker 1: with feminism. However, so many people shine in their roles
- 38:55Speaker 1: that you don't usually see them shining, and it's like, oh,
- 38:57Speaker 1: this movie is very well written beause there are so
- 39:00Speaker 1: many actors that I'm very underwhelmed bying any other movie
- 39:03Speaker 1: who I just this part is written perfectly for them.
- 39:06Speaker 1: And then there's Amy Poehler who's just starting, Amy Poller,
- 39:10Speaker 1: just starting to peak. Thirty Rock hadn't happened, Parking Wreck
- 39:13Speaker 1: hadn't happened. She's still on SNL at this point, I think, yeah,
- 39:16Speaker 1: still in us now. And Tim Meadows is the best
- 39:19Speaker 1: part of the whole movie. His jokes, I think are
- 39:22Speaker 1: the best. When he's like, oh, keep your hair all night.
- 39:26Speaker 1: We can't keep him here past four. I'll keep you
- 39:28Speaker 1: here till four or the first. I have a mind
- 39:32Speaker 1: to get cancel the dance, but we've already paid the
- 39:35Speaker 1: DJ So I'm not going to do that and like, perfect,
- 39:39Speaker 1: you don't have to give a speech. Most people just
- 39:41Speaker 1: take the crown and walk off stage. Also, um, just
- 39:46Speaker 1: to objectify a man as great topless Tim meadows seen
- 39:52Speaker 1: or maybe it's well I think it felt it's close enough.
- 39:56Speaker 1: His arms. Yeah, he's totally built for a comedian. He's tone. Yeah,
- 40:01Speaker 1: I'm just like what, he's a toned man. He doesn't
- 40:04Speaker 1: have to because he's a comedian, but um, don't tell him.
- 40:07Speaker 1: Hopefully he says that way forever. Good looking guy, good
- 40:10Speaker 1: looking man. Yeah. No, we're not passing the back told time.
- 40:14Speaker 1: Shout out to Tim. Listen. Sometimes you've got to be
- 40:18Speaker 1: like this man who could be my father has a
- 40:20Speaker 1: nice bot. Yeah. Yeah, I think it's important for us
- 40:24Speaker 1: to object if my men now and then yeah. So yeah,
- 40:28Speaker 1: that is magic A large part of a large part
- 40:30Speaker 1: of our podcast, honestly because I want to watch. I
- 40:35Speaker 1: also want too, I watched, I haven't seen it either.
- 40:41Speaker 1: I wisht Yeah, that would be amazing. We I have
- 40:44Speaker 1: a fun fact about the Chippendales. What can I say?
- 40:46Speaker 1: It really clean? Okay, So, first of all, friend of
- 40:49Speaker 1: the cast, Sophia ben wat I love Sophia. She's the best,
- 40:53Speaker 1: She's the high Sofia, I hope you're listening. I say
- 40:56Speaker 1: hi to but she's She saw the Chippendale's not too
- 41:00Speaker 1: long ago and was regaling me about all the amazing stunts.
- 41:04Speaker 1: And I would god, I would love to see the
- 41:06Speaker 1: chippen nils life first of all. Second of all, to
- 41:09Speaker 1: the inventor of the Chippendales, there was oh god, I
- 41:12Speaker 1: can't remember her name off the top of my head,
- 41:15Speaker 1: murdered playboy model. Um. I used to work at Playboys,
- 41:18Speaker 1: so I knew a lot about this woman, whose name
- 41:20Speaker 1: I cannot currently remember. She's twenty years old when she
- 41:22Speaker 1: was murdered. Uh she uh was in a bunch of
- 41:27Speaker 1: Bogdanovich movies, or in at least one Dorothy Stratton Dorothy
- 41:31Speaker 1: Stratton shed It's an amazing it's a fascinating story. My
- 41:36Speaker 1: favorite podcast. You must remember this just did a really
- 41:39Speaker 1: good love You must remember this. Yeah, she's the season
- 41:42Speaker 1: finale of their Dead Blonde season. Anyways, she was murdered
- 41:47Speaker 1: by her husband, who knew he was losing her to
- 41:50Speaker 1: Peter Bogdanovitch. In any case, her husband also invented the
- 41:54Speaker 1: chippen nails. You know, he died in the murder suicide
- 41:57Speaker 1: and it was a horrible, horrible, horrible person. And it
- 42:00Speaker 1: came out later that he had invented the Chippendales and
- 42:04Speaker 1: never gotten any credit for it. I would just like
- 42:07Speaker 1: to say that my favorite podcast is the Bechtel Cast,
- 42:09Speaker 1: and sorry you must remember this is a very good
- 42:15Speaker 1: It's the Extreme via Joan Crawford Betty Davis. Run was
- 42:22Speaker 1: that was all about Joan Crawford, But then it had
- 42:24Speaker 1: this like, which, who is a very fascinating person? There's
- 42:26Speaker 1: I've been watching Feud at all, I haven't. I love
- 42:30Speaker 1: Malina Shadow, love a good Melina, beefcake, beef cake. Look,
- 42:36Speaker 1: I love a good Melina. Love the Malines. God give
- 42:39Speaker 1: me more Molina. I really read a think piece the
- 42:42Speaker 1: other day of like Alfred Molina, he wasn't given enough
- 42:46Speaker 1: to do. I'm like, well, no matter what, I agree,
- 42:49Speaker 1: watch him. What were talking? Oh, so that's what I
- 42:53Speaker 1: know about the Chipendales. Why were we talking about the
- 42:54Speaker 1: Jim and DALs magic Mike? And then we're talking about
- 42:56Speaker 1: tim Let Meadows being kind of belt and object buying men. Wow,
- 42:59Speaker 1: six degree is a really talking about male Strippers. I'd
- 43:03Speaker 1: like to shout out one of my top favorite movies
- 43:05Speaker 1: of all time, The Full Monty Oh Well. That was
- 43:07Speaker 1: a musical too, starring Patrick Well. I actually saw, Yes,
- 43:12Speaker 1: I saw like the off Broadway version of it in
- 43:14Speaker 1: State College, Pennsylvania, where I did go to college to
- 43:17Speaker 1: get one of my two degrees in films. Oh my god,
- 43:21Speaker 1: I hate bringing it up. I really don't like to
- 43:23Speaker 1: be the one to mention that I do have a
- 43:25Speaker 1: master's degree in screenwriting. But um, you know, sometimes someone
- 43:28Speaker 1: just so you're like the most qualified person to talk
- 43:30Speaker 1: about this movie. Absolutely not, no, you are, I have
- 43:34Speaker 1: I have, Well, we haven't. We never do our degree
- 43:37Speaker 1: check in anymore. But I still I still just have
- 43:41Speaker 1: people favorite podcasts and radio the people degree in public radio. Yeah.
- 43:47Speaker 1: I went to Everton and they let you do that there.
- 43:49Speaker 1: That's very cool. It was fun. Yeah. I didn't end
- 43:52Speaker 1: up actually doing it, but it was fun. I have
- 43:54Speaker 1: a b f A and TV writing, so I do
- 43:56Speaker 1: not have So I like have a degree, but like
- 43:59Speaker 1: not not to It's not not two degrees. Has anyone
- 44:04Speaker 1: seen Hard Candy with Patrick Wilson. Yes, I love that movie.
- 44:09Speaker 1: So I saw that movie for the first time, We're hard,
- 44:12Speaker 1: Dad watch yeah, because Patrick Wilson gets castraight on like
- 44:16Speaker 1: it's that's why it's hard to watch. She's also a pedophile.
- 44:19Speaker 1: He's a pedophile, but also Ellen Page. I never I
- 44:22Speaker 1: don't know, I think because I haven't ely big crushed
- 44:25Speaker 1: on Ellen Page and like I did, like we I
- 44:28Speaker 1: don't know how old she isn't that that movie, but
- 44:31Speaker 1: there's in life. She'd just remember being fucking like floored
- 44:35Speaker 1: by my She's cut off his deck and my dad
- 44:38Speaker 1: sitting right there. This is why did your dad take
- 44:41Speaker 1: you to see Hard Candy? We watched it together on
- 44:43Speaker 1: i f C. Why I don't know. I do not know.
- 44:47Speaker 1: I could not tell you. First of all, shout at
- 44:48Speaker 1: the DIFC. Second, why did you guys screen this? When
- 44:51Speaker 1: Jay made her dad, I think I like walked in on.
- 44:55Speaker 1: My dad went through real indie film phase, which I
- 44:58Speaker 1: think was he was just like this is where they
- 45:00Speaker 1: show breast on TOPI. My dad's only ever gone through
- 45:03Speaker 1: a James Bond phase, and there was about racing. My
- 45:06Speaker 1: dad likes movies about race cars, race cars, my dad,
- 45:10Speaker 1: and my dad writes about race cars. He contains multitudes. Really,
- 45:12Speaker 1: my dad that's my dad, like hobby, he's really really
- 45:15Speaker 1: drive race cars yet. My my dad, he used to
- 45:18Speaker 1: cover professional race car driving in New Hampshire, So I
- 45:21Speaker 1: used to go with him, what kind, what series or anything?
- 45:25Speaker 1: I it was it was NASCAR, and then it was
- 45:29Speaker 1: also like d really yeah, I remember that. There was
- 45:33Speaker 1: I forget what her name was, but there was a
- 45:34Speaker 1: female truck driver who don't think ever was a very famous,
- 45:37Speaker 1: but she was like my hero when I was so
- 45:39Speaker 1: because she was like this badass female pickup truck driver
- 45:43Speaker 1: and we go and I'd be loud and I'd be scared,
- 45:45Speaker 1: but then I get to touch her hand and it
- 45:47Speaker 1: would be exciting. That's awesome. Did you know one woman
- 45:49Speaker 1: in trucks? Raymond Bork kissed me? You know somebody named Yeah,
- 45:54Speaker 1: he's a famous hockey player in the Boston Bruins. He's
- 45:57Speaker 1: a legend. That's how I would name a hockey player.
- 46:00Speaker 1: A sketch, right, Raymond Bork. And then once when I
- 46:04Speaker 1: was a baby, there's a picture of me kissing my
- 46:07Speaker 1: little baby forehead. And then my dad was like that
- 46:09Speaker 1: was more important than her baptism. Raymond kiss my baby
- 46:14Speaker 1: borke tism my borkedism. Oh shout out to New England
- 46:21Speaker 1: hockey fans and yes, what are we talking about? Was
- 46:25Speaker 1: the podcast Who Knows Anymore? I'm enjoying myself Mike's Harder, Harder,
- 46:32Speaker 1: very sober right now. But in regards to I do
- 46:35Speaker 1: like that they plant the idea in young women with
- 46:41Speaker 1: this script that no one is just ever pure evil,
- 46:45Speaker 1: and Regina George is given some depth as to yes,
- 46:49Speaker 1: she is horrible and we see her do all this
- 46:51Speaker 1: horrible stuff, but then you see her home life and
- 46:53Speaker 1: you see I don't know, like when when I saw
- 46:56Speaker 1: this movie for the first time, the idea that a
- 46:59Speaker 1: popular girl had insecurities was something that had truly never
- 47:04Speaker 1: occurred to me. Um so in in that way, I
- 47:08Speaker 1: think that that was I think a positive thing for me.
- 47:11Speaker 1: Of it doesn't justify the behavior in any way, but
- 47:14Speaker 1: it also is just like, well, everyone has their thinks
- 47:18Speaker 1: that that they're concerned about, and no one is as
- 47:21Speaker 1: perfect as they whatever. Sure, I like that the main
- 47:26Speaker 1: female characters outnumbered the main male characters because if you're
- 47:31Speaker 1: considering all those people, yeah, I mean between Katie, Janice, Regina, Gretchen,
- 47:36Speaker 1: Karen and then likes Kevin Barry, we'll throw in there.
- 47:39Speaker 1: Those are like the main women, and then of the
- 47:43Speaker 1: and then you've also got like Regina's mom and Katie's mom,
- 47:46Speaker 1: and then of the main male characters who have the
- 47:48Speaker 1: most screen time, it's really only Damien and Aaron, Samuel's
- 47:51Speaker 1: a little bit Kevin, You've got yeah, and Shane omen principle,
- 47:56Speaker 1: Coach Car the principle, but those are all more secondary
- 47:59Speaker 1: or tertiary characters. So like we should say, Coach Car
- 48:03Speaker 1: is we're we're too some uhh um, which is hard
- 48:10Speaker 1: because they you know, they do not call that out.
- 48:14Speaker 1: And and that's like a weird little subplot that is
- 48:17Speaker 1: like we are saying, like there's a there's a lifetime
- 48:21Speaker 1: movie going on here, like where it's both racist and
- 48:25Speaker 1: excusing a pedophile. That is one of the things that
- 48:28Speaker 1: bothers me more about this movie, as these two characters
- 48:32Speaker 1: they're basically treated as the same character, and they don't
- 48:36Speaker 1: really speak English, so we never know, and they're just
- 48:38Speaker 1: like caddy girls who are being you know, manipulated by
- 48:42Speaker 1: the same pedophile, which is gross to me because something
- 48:47Speaker 1: like that happened in my high school by my middle
- 48:50Speaker 1: school track coach. Uh. Fortunately, I was a little bit
- 48:53Speaker 1: too young to be his type. But it's but yeah,
- 48:58Speaker 1: like it's somebody like that too. I don't know. Like
- 49:00Speaker 1: the way that that very very tiny storyline is handled,
- 49:04Speaker 1: it feels like normalizing that in a way that like
- 49:07Speaker 1: that's never resolved, and it's almost like, you know, the
- 49:11Speaker 1: coach looks silly, like I've been caught, but the girls
- 49:16Speaker 1: look silly too, and it's like, no, they're they're they're
- 49:20Speaker 1: the victims of this grown man who is the really
- 49:23Speaker 1: funny scene about don't have sex, but they're like the
- 49:27Speaker 1: hilarious irony where he's the guy who's like, never have
- 49:30Speaker 1: sex or he'll die, and he's so that is That's
- 49:36Speaker 1: one of maybe my least favorite part of this movie,
- 49:40Speaker 1: because at least most of the storylines are problematic but
- 49:43Speaker 1: at least handled with a fair amount of humor and irony,
- 49:46Speaker 1: but that one is pretty much just used as a joke.
- 49:51Speaker 1: Down to the Tip Meadows line of like step away
- 49:53Speaker 1: from the teenage girls coach car and it's just like
- 49:56Speaker 1: he's a rapist. Yep, they're is that? So throughout this
- 50:02Speaker 1: we're given the back story that Janice Ian was teased
- 50:05Speaker 1: and she's constantly being called a lesbian and a dike
- 50:08Speaker 1: and all this stuff, and then her moment of redemption
- 50:11Speaker 1: is when she's standing in the gym scene where she's like,
- 50:14Speaker 1: I guess it's because I have a big lesbian crush
- 50:17Speaker 1: on you. So that where at lands as being a
- 50:20Speaker 1: lesbian is still like not good. And Janice it turns
- 50:24Speaker 1: out which you know, is not I think she is
- 50:27Speaker 1: not a lesbian or she's you know, we were never
- 50:29Speaker 1: given the exact story, but the way, the way that
- 50:32Speaker 1: subject is left is she treats being called a lesbian
- 50:37Speaker 1: very sarcastic, and it's an insult. The way it's because
- 50:40Speaker 1: every time Damien's like, oh, this is why she hates
- 50:44Speaker 1: Regina George so much, because she spread this rumor and
- 50:46Speaker 1: eighth great about and then she's like, dude, no, don't
- 50:49Speaker 1: say it. Like yeah, the idea of like anyone might
- 50:52Speaker 1: thinking that she is a lesbian is horrifying administration where
- 50:58Speaker 1: that truly could have Yeah, it made people social, It
- 51:02Speaker 1: made me a social pariah briefly of like wait you yeah,
- 51:08Speaker 1: it's just it's it's it's bad. It's bad. It doesn'tyone
- 51:11Speaker 1: have any final thoughts about the movie. I still like it.
- 51:14Speaker 1: I know that it has an h well in all respects,
- 51:17Speaker 1: but m I still like it. It's still entertaining. Does
- 51:22Speaker 1: the best bactal test does it does? Sure, there are
- 51:26Speaker 1: a lot of scenes where women are talking about a
- 51:28Speaker 1: man um, but there's a lot of scenes where they're
- 51:30Speaker 1: not um. Janis and Katie talk about other women that
- 51:34Speaker 1: you talk about. The plastics a lot, talk about Regina
- 51:37Speaker 1: George a lot they talk about. But then they also
- 51:39Speaker 1: talk about like friendship and and you know, things like that.
- 51:43Speaker 1: Katie and ms Norberry talk about math. The plastics talk
- 51:47Speaker 1: to it almost it sounds almost like a jokey passive effect.
- 51:53Speaker 1: The plastics to each other about you know, clothes, about
- 51:57Speaker 1: their bodies and how they're ashamed of them to some degree,
- 52:00Speaker 1: things like that. So plenty of scenes where the movie
- 52:03Speaker 1: passes a Bucto test. So hey, that's cool. Um, we
- 52:07Speaker 1: can rate the movie on our nipples scale. Let's do it.
- 52:12Speaker 1: We have a scale zero to five nipples where we
- 52:14Speaker 1: write the movie based on his portrayal of women. I'm
- 52:17Speaker 1: gonna give it. I'm gonna give it three and a
- 52:18Speaker 1: half nipples for the reason that I think that it's
- 52:23Speaker 1: a you know, it is not the fairness Bible. It's
- 52:27Speaker 1: a good place to start for young girls, particularly girls
- 52:30Speaker 1: growing up at this very specific time. I think that
- 52:34Speaker 1: it started a lot of important conversations, even though it
- 52:36Speaker 1: didn't handle everything perfectly, just seeing uh, major Hollywood movie
- 52:42Speaker 1: with mostly female leads is important. Does not do great
- 52:47Speaker 1: with race. This is not a very diverse movie. It
- 52:49Speaker 1: certainly has its shortcomings, but most of but by and large,
- 52:53Speaker 1: for your your average teenage girl, I think it is
- 52:56Speaker 1: a good place to start, and it is a good
- 52:58Speaker 1: movie to be in the el. And it also makes
- 53:00Speaker 1: me laugh a lot. Um. So I'll give a three
- 53:02Speaker 1: and a half nipples. Two of them belong to Miss Norbury,
- 53:05Speaker 1: one belongs to Tom Meadows, the one you can see
- 53:08Speaker 1: poking through Jim scene, and then the last half belongs
- 53:14Speaker 1: to an a gas Her because I love her. Yeah,
- 53:15Speaker 1: I don't get to see her enough movies. So I
- 53:19Speaker 1: think I gonna I'll go, I'll skew down a bit,
- 53:22Speaker 1: and I'll give it three nipples because while they all
- 53:26Speaker 1: sort of redeem themselves at the end, it's just a
- 53:28Speaker 1: movie of like ninety minutes of You're a slut, You're
- 53:32Speaker 1: a horror, I'm a horror we're all shitty and you're
- 53:34Speaker 1: a bitch and I'm a bit and spitches and just
- 53:37Speaker 1: like a lot of just women mistreating each other. And
- 53:40Speaker 1: I know the point of the movies to be like,
- 53:42Speaker 1: don't be like this, but I don't know. I think
- 53:46Speaker 1: if this movie was remade or a similar movie was
- 53:48Speaker 1: made today, I would hope that it handles a lot
- 53:51Speaker 1: of the things that this movie does not handle well.
- 53:54Speaker 1: I would hope that it handles those things better. So, hey,
- 53:56Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to that movie. Maybe I'll write it.
- 53:58Speaker 1: Maybe I'll use my master's a green screenwriting for good
- 54:02Speaker 1: for once in I use it for life. You use
- 54:04Speaker 1: it for good all the time. Thing every time we
- 54:07Speaker 1: turn on the mic, and every time we open a
- 54:10Speaker 1: MIC's hard. And so yeah, three nipples, um, Two of
- 54:17Speaker 1: them belong to Aaron Samuel, who I looked up on
- 54:21Speaker 1: Twitter and I was like, man, this guy is still cute,
- 54:23Speaker 1: so good for him. He seemed he seemed like a lifer. Uh.
- 54:30Speaker 1: And then the third nipple I'm gonna give to Damien
- 54:35Speaker 1: because I love Damien. I like, oh, I will say
- 54:38Speaker 1: that I liked that he and Jane's wear the same
- 54:41Speaker 1: like purple tuxedo. I like that she's sort of subverb. Yeah,
- 54:45Speaker 1: you know, the typical I'm a woman, I have to
- 54:47Speaker 1: wear a dress. No, she's gonna wear a tuxedo. I
- 54:50Speaker 1: also just laugh man, when Damian sings beautiful A great moment,
- 54:57Speaker 1: he held the shoe back with them, and then it
- 55:01Speaker 1: gets to get a shoot thrown at him, and then
- 55:03Speaker 1: that he whales it right back at the guy. Well.
- 55:05Speaker 1: The other thing I like about this movie that I
- 55:07Speaker 1: noticed is that, um, the reason they moved from Africa
- 55:11Speaker 1: to Evanston is that it's her mom who gets a
- 55:14Speaker 1: tenure at Northwestern, not her dad. Her mom. I forgot
- 55:18Speaker 1: that detail very quick. Easy and Beta Males. Yeah, yeah,
- 55:24Speaker 1: Katie's dad was with that grandmon podcast called Talking Beta
- 55:28Speaker 1: Males where toilways two women and there's a man sitting
- 55:30Speaker 1: there but he doesn't talk, but or he's a lad
- 55:33Speaker 1: but he can barely talk. Yeah right, and you're just like,
- 55:36Speaker 1: you may know, totally fine, work did it. We'll just
- 55:39Speaker 1: keep going you turn hang in. Yeah, that's our podcast.
- 55:44Speaker 1: Whenever we have a male guest, we only allowed them
- 55:46Speaker 1: to speak whenever we removed the muzzle from their face.
- 55:50Speaker 1: Very steampunky kind of muzzle. Yeah. No, Okay, Oh, just
- 55:54Speaker 1: episode reminder steampunk. No, no, no steampunk. We don't tolerate
- 55:59Speaker 1: steampunk here. Yeah, the final prejudice stands no step punk. Jenny,
- 56:04Speaker 1: would you like to write the movie? Well, the thing
- 56:07Speaker 1: is like, I really like, I don't think I can
- 56:10Speaker 1: be objective in any way. I love this movie. And
- 56:12Speaker 1: it's like, it's also like we didn't even talk about
- 56:15Speaker 1: what kind of a cultural touchstone in Spain as far
- 56:17Speaker 1: as like Mean Girls quotes like characteristic main factory and uh,
- 56:24Speaker 1: here's what I'll say. I don't know that this is
- 56:27Speaker 1: a great portrayal of women, but I think that this
- 56:30Speaker 1: is a great portrayal of white, wealthy, suburban teenagers in
- 56:34Speaker 1: the Bush era. This is a very faithful portrayal of
- 56:37Speaker 1: that specific kind of woman. If we see so much
- 56:40Speaker 1: of that, if we're just talking about that, then it's
- 56:44Speaker 1: five stars or five nipples, were not like two nipples.
- 56:47Speaker 1: And that's all I think this movie is. But yeah,
- 56:51Speaker 1: it is not diverse. It is not particularly sensitive about
- 56:57Speaker 1: women's issues. But it you know, we've over a decade
- 57:00Speaker 1: of other movies that have been made because and in
- 57:03Speaker 1: the wake of Mean Girls, and we have over a
- 57:04Speaker 1: decade of feminist media that's been made kind of in
- 57:09Speaker 1: the wake of Mean Girls. This was at the time
- 57:11Speaker 1: a really important and groundbreaking movie because we did start,
- 57:15Speaker 1: I feel like, having conversations about like the genuine, complicated
- 57:20Speaker 1: feelings of teenage girls. That was like the context we
- 57:24Speaker 1: were brought into the movie of like starting a discussion
- 57:27Speaker 1: with teenagers and their like no matter, because there were
- 57:30Speaker 1: a lot of teenage movies before that, but I think
- 57:32Speaker 1: a lot of them were like dude trying to fuck
- 57:35Speaker 1: in high school, and like there just wasn't a lot
- 57:37Speaker 1: of movies about like girl on girl bullying. Un told
- 57:42Speaker 1: this movie like that did seem like Heathers was the
- 57:44Speaker 1: other one, But Heathers has a whole other set of
- 57:47Speaker 1: things going on. Heathers is very unrealistic, and I felt
- 57:50Speaker 1: like Mean Girls was kind of a movie that did
- 57:53Speaker 1: more to me. I feel like I feel like the
- 57:55Speaker 1: generation after us, we'll be able to see mean girls
- 57:58Speaker 1: clearly and have more weren't the way that I feel
- 58:01Speaker 1: able to separate myself from Heather's. Someone in generation after
- 58:05Speaker 1: me will be able to separate themselves from mean girls.
- 58:07Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like too it's too embedded in. I
- 58:11Speaker 1: feel kind of that way about Clueless too, where it's like,
- 58:13Speaker 1: I'm sure if I could step back from it, I'd
- 58:15Speaker 1: find things to dislike. But as it is, I think
- 58:17Speaker 1: it's um right, a literally perfect film. Blue This is
- 58:22Speaker 1: literally perfect. Hey, listen to that episode of ours. Had
- 58:25Speaker 1: you guys not already done it? That thousands? Because I
- 58:27Speaker 1: can recite that movie and that's that's yeah. I know
- 58:31Speaker 1: what you're thinking is it's like an axiom, a commercial
- 58:33Speaker 1: or wet But I actually have a way normal life
- 58:34Speaker 1: for I mean, I get up and I pick on
- 58:36Speaker 1: my school clothes. Dad is a litigator that keep it rolling.
- 58:41Speaker 1: Even Lucy I made is terrified of him. He gets
- 58:45Speaker 1: paid five an hour dollars an hour to fight with people,
- 58:47Speaker 1: but he fights for me, with me for free because
- 58:49Speaker 1: I'm his daughter. That sounds rights right. Caitlin can do
- 58:53Speaker 1: that with Pirates of the Caribbean embarrassed to him. I
- 58:57Speaker 1: can do that with probably fifteen different movies, Back to
- 59:01Speaker 1: the Future being one of them, with the Robert Durst documentary. Yeah,
- 59:09Speaker 1: that's fucking amazing. People don't like you when you shave
- 59:12Speaker 1: your eyebrows, you look weird. End of episode. Well, we're
- 59:18Speaker 1: all friends now, and we're not mean girls to each other.
- 59:21Speaker 1: We're nice. You guys are. Maybe it's because we're all
- 59:23Speaker 1: in our twenties, all of us, not none of us
- 59:25Speaker 1: are about to be thirty one. It's just we're all.
- 59:27Speaker 1: Caitlin's triggering herself. You're going to be okay. No. I
- 59:30Speaker 1: actually am very proud to be almost thirty one because
- 59:33Speaker 1: as a woman of advancing years, I feel great about it.
- 59:37Speaker 1: You're a woman of advancing, You're you're a badass person
- 59:42Speaker 1: and you're great. Thank you need to call yourself advancing.
- 59:47Speaker 1: I mean they're advancing. You are. I mean you're advancing,
- 59:49Speaker 1: and we're all advancing. We're all advancing in our in
- 59:51Speaker 1: our ways. I'm fourteen years old and I feel great
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