Latest / Barnyard Language / Lost Socks, Homeschooling, and Coaching w/ Deena Stout
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- 0:01Caite: Welcome
- 0:01Caite: to
- 0:01Caite: Barnyard
- 0:01Caite: Language.
- 0:02Caite: We
- 0:02Caite: are
- 0:02Caite: Katie
- 0:02Caite: and
- 0:03Caite: Arlene
- 0:03Caite: and
- 0:03Caite: Iowa
- 0:04Caite: sheep
- 0:04Caite: farmer,
- 0:04Caite: and
- 0:05Caite: an
- 0:05Caite: Ontario
- 0:05Caite: dairy
- 0:06Caite: farmer
- 0:06Caite: with
- 0:06Caite: six
- 0:06Caite: kids,
- 0:07Caite: two
- 0:07Caite: husbands,
- 0:08Caite: and
- 0:08Caite: a
- 0:08Caite: whole
- 0:08Caite: lot
- 0:08Caite: of
- 0:08Caite: chaos
- 0:09Caite: between
- 0:09Caite: us.
- 0:10Caite: So
- 0:10Caite: kick
- 0:10Caite: off
- 0:11Caite: your
- 0:11Caite: boots,
- 0:11Caite: reheat
- 0:11Caite: your
- 0:12Caite: coffee,
- 0:12Caite: and
- 0:12Caite: join
- 0:13Caite: us
- 0:13Caite: for
- 0:13Caite: some
- 0:13Caite: barnyard
- 0:13Caite: language.
- 0:14Caite: Honest.
- 0:14Caite: Talk
- 0:15Caite: about
- 0:15Caite: running
- 0:15Caite: farms
- 0:16Caite: and
- 0:16Caite: raising
- 0:16Arlene: families.
- 0:17Arlene: In
- 0:17Arlene: case
- 0:18Arlene: your
- 0:18Arlene: kids
- 0:18Arlene: haven't
- 0:18Arlene: already
- 0:19Arlene: learned
- 0:19Arlene: all
- 0:19Arlene: the
- 0:19Arlene: swears
- 0:19Arlene: from
- 0:20Arlene: being
- 0:20Arlene: in
- 0:20Arlene: the
- 0:20Arlene: barn,
- 0:20Arlene: it
- 0:20Arlene: might
- 0:21Arlene: be
- 0:21Arlene: a
- 0:21Arlene: good
- 0:21Arlene: idea
- 0:21Arlene: to
- 0:21Arlene: put
- 0:22Arlene: on
- 0:22Arlene: some
- 0:22Arlene: headphones
- 0:22Arlene: or
- 0:22Arlene: turned
- 0:23Arlene: down
- 0:23Arlene: the
- 0:23Arlene: volume.
- 0:24Arlene: While
- 0:24Arlene: many
- 0:24Arlene: of
- 0:24Arlene: our
- 0:25Arlene: guests
- 0:25Arlene: are
- 0:25Arlene: professionals,
- 0:26Arlene: they
- 0:26Arlene: aren't
- 0:26Arlene: your
- 0:26Arlene: professionals.
- 0:27Arlene: If
- 0:27Arlene: you
- 0:27Arlene: need
- 0:27Arlene: personalized
- 0:28Arlene: advice,
- 0:28Arlene: consult
- 0:29Arlene: your
- 0:29Arlene: people.
- 0:30Arlene: Another
- 0:31Arlene: episode
- 0:31Arlene: of
- 0:32Arlene: Barnyard
- 0:32Arlene: Language.
- 0:33Arlene: It
- 0:33Arlene: is
- 0:33Arlene: summertime,
- 0:34Arlene: so
- 0:34Arlene: that
- 0:34Arlene: means
- 0:35Arlene: none
- 0:35Arlene: of
- 0:35Arlene: us
- 0:35Arlene: know
- 0:36Arlene: what
- 0:36Arlene: day
- 0:36Arlene: it
- 0:36Arlene: is,
- 0:36Arlene: what
- 0:36Arlene: time
- 0:37Arlene: it
- 0:37Arlene: is,
- 0:37Arlene: or
- 0:38Arlene: even
- 0:38Arlene: what
- 0:38Arlene: month
- 0:38Arlene: some
- 0:39Arlene: of
- 0:39Arlene: the
- 0:39Arlene: time.
- 0:39Arlene: So
- 0:40Arlene: I'll
- 0:40Arlene: ask
- 0:40Arlene: as
- 0:40Arlene: usual,
- 0:41Arlene: Katie,
- 0:41Arlene: what's
- 0:42Arlene: going
- 0:42Arlene: on
- 0:42Arlene: in
- 0:42Arlene: Iowa?
- 0:42Arlene: What's
- 0:43Arlene: happening
- 0:43Arlene: on
- 0:43Arlene: the
- 0:43Arlene: farm?
- 0:44Caite: Arlene,
- 0:45Caite: this
- 0:45Caite: is
- 0:45Caite: already
- 0:45Caite: our
- 0:45Caite: second
- 0:46Caite: take
- 0:46Caite: at
- 0:47Caite: trying
- 0:47Caite: to
- 0:47Caite: record
- 0:48Caite: this
- 0:48Caite: update
- 0:48Caite: because
- 0:49Caite: the
- 0:49Caite: girl
- 0:49Caite: child
- 0:50Caite: waited
- 0:50Caite: literally
- 0:51Caite: until
- 0:52Caite: I
- 0:52Caite: hit
- 0:52Caite: the
- 0:52Caite: record
- 0:52Caite: button
- 0:53Caite: to
- 0:53Caite: come
- 0:53Caite: in
- 0:53Caite: and
- 0:54Caite: inquire
- 0:54Caite: about
- 0:54Caite: a
- 0:55Caite: fan
- 0:55Caite: for
- 0:55Caite: her
- 0:55Caite: bedroom,
- 0:56Caite: which
- 0:57Caite: was
- 0:57Caite: clearly
- 0:58Caite: something
- 0:58Caite: that
- 0:59Caite: needed
- 0:59Caite: to
- 0:59Caite: be
- 0:59Caite: addressed
- 1:00Caite: at
- 1:00Caite: this
- 1:01Caite: very
- 1:01Caite: moment.
- 1:02Caite: Yes,
- 1:03Caite: for
- 1:03Caite: sure.
- 1:04Caite: I
- 1:04Caite: believe
- 1:05Caite: today
- 1:05Caite: is
- 1:05Caite: Tuesday,
- 1:07Caite: maybe.
- 1:07Caite: Sure.
- 1:08Caite: And
- 1:08Caite: it
- 1:08Caite: looks
- 1:08Caite: like
- 1:08Caite: it's
- 1:08Caite: getting
- 1:09Caite: dark
- 1:09Caite: out,
- 1:09Caite: so
- 1:09Caite: I'm
- 1:09Caite: gonna
- 1:10Caite: say
- 1:10Caite: it's
- 1:10Caite: probably
- 1:11Caite: evening
- 1:11Caite: time.
- 1:12Caite: But
- 1:13Caite: you're
- 1:13Caite: correct.
- 1:13Caite: That's
- 1:14Caite: about
- 1:14Caite: all
- 1:14Caite: I
- 1:14Caite: know
- 1:15Caite: about
- 1:16Caite: times
- 1:16Caite: or
- 1:16Caite: days
- 1:17Caite: or
- 1:17Caite: anything
- 1:17Caite: else.
- 1:19Caite: So
- 1:20Caite: far
- 1:20Caite: this
- 1:20Caite: week
- 1:21Caite: we've
- 1:21Caite: had
- 1:23Caite: a
- 1:23Caite: waterline
- 1:24Caite: fixed
- 1:25Caite: because
- 1:25Caite: there
- 1:25Caite: was
- 1:26Caite: water
- 1:26Caite: from.
- 1:28Caite: By
- 1:28Caite: this
- 1:29Caite: morning
- 1:29Caite: from
- 1:29Caite: our
- 1:29Caite: barn
- 1:31Caite: to
- 1:31Caite: the
- 1:31Caite: road
- 1:32Caite: and
- 1:33Caite: not
- 1:33Caite: flowing
- 1:34Caite: into
- 1:34Caite: the
- 1:34Caite: house
- 1:35Caite: as
- 1:36Caite: it
- 1:36Caite: is
- 1:36Caite: meant
- 1:37Caite: to
- 1:37Caite: be.
- 1:38Caite: And
- 1:38Caite: then
- 1:38Caite: when
- 1:39Caite: they
- 1:39Caite: did
- 1:39Caite: fix
- 1:39Caite: that
- 1:39Caite: water
- 1:40Caite: line
- 1:42Caite: I'm
- 1:42Caite: hoping
- 1:42Caite: it
- 1:42Caite: was
- 1:43Caite: a
- 1:43Caite: coincidence,
- 1:43Caite: but
- 1:44Caite: our
- 1:44Caite: dishwater
- 1:45Caite: dishwasher
- 1:46Caite: started
- 1:49Caite: refusing
- 1:49Caite: to
- 1:50Caite: stop
- 1:50Caite: filling
- 1:52Caite: and
- 1:52Caite: poured
- 1:53Caite: a
- 1:53Caite: substantial
- 1:54Caite: amount
- 1:54Caite: of
- 1:54Caite: very
- 1:54Caite: hot
- 1:55Caite: water
- 1:56Caite: onto
- 1:56Caite: my
- 1:56Caite: kitchen
- 1:56Caite: floor
- 1:57Caite: and
- 1:57Caite: into
- 1:57Caite: the
- 1:57Caite: basement
- 1:58Caite: and
- 1:58Caite: a
- 1:58Caite: item
- 1:59Caite: on
- 1:59Caite: Oh,
- 1:59Caite: great.
- 2:00Caite: And
- 2:00Caite: the
- 2:00Caite: living
- 2:00Caite: room.
- 2:01Caite: Thank
- 2:01Caite: goodness
- 2:02Caite: for
- 2:02Caite: hardwood
- 2:02Caite: floors.
- 2:03Caite: Yeah.
- 2:04Arlene: So
- 2:05Arlene: I'm
- 2:05Arlene: guessing
- 2:05Arlene: you
- 2:05Arlene: have
- 2:06Arlene: probably
- 2:06Arlene: have
- 2:06Arlene: an
- 2:06Arlene: old
- 2:06Arlene: farmhouse
- 2:07Arlene: like
- 2:07Arlene: me.
- 2:07Arlene: Some
- 2:07Arlene: of
- 2:08Arlene: that
- 2:08Arlene: water's
- 2:08Arlene: going
- 2:08Arlene: then
- 2:08Arlene: through
- 2:09Arlene: the
- 2:09Arlene: cracks
- 2:09Arlene: in
- 2:10Arlene: the
- 2:10Arlene: hardwood
- 2:10Arlene: floors
- 2:10Arlene: down
- 2:11Arlene: into
- 2:11Arlene: the
- 2:11Arlene: basement.
- 2:12Arlene: Yeah.
- 2:12Caite: Yeah.
- 2:12Caite: It
- 2:12Caite: runs,
- 2:13Caite: yeah,
- 2:13Caite: the
- 2:13Caite: floor's
- 2:13Caite: at
- 2:14Caite: enough
- 2:14Caite: of
- 2:14Caite: an
- 2:14Caite: angle
- 2:14Caite: that
- 2:14Caite: it
- 2:15Caite: runs
- 2:15Caite: right
- 2:15Caite: under
- 2:15Caite: the
- 2:16Caite: wall.
- 2:16Caite: And
- 2:17Caite: Right.
- 2:17Caite: Yeah.
- 2:17Caite: Into
- 2:17Caite: the
- 2:18Caite: basement,
- 2:18Caite: which
- 2:18Caite: is
- 2:18Caite: handy
- 2:19Caite: at
- 2:19Caite: least,
- 2:19Caite: and
- 2:19Caite: it's
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- 2:20Caite: floor
- 2:20Caite: basement,
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- 2:21Caite: not
- 2:21Caite: like
- 2:21Caite: it's
- 2:21Caite: gonna
- 2:22Caite: hurt
- 2:22Caite: anything
- 2:22Caite: once
- 2:22Arlene: it
- 2:23Arlene: gets
- 2:23Arlene: better.
- 2:23Arlene: Sure,
- 2:23Arlene: yeah.
- 2:23Arlene: Then
- 2:24Arlene: it's
- 2:24Arlene: like
- 2:24Arlene: you
- 2:24Arlene: got
- 2:25Arlene: a
- 2:25Arlene: mopping,
- 2:26Arlene: pre
- 2:26Arlene: mopped
- 2:27Arlene: wash
- 2:27Arlene: situation.
- 2:28Arlene: Yeah.
- 2:28Arlene: Was
- 2:29Arlene: it
- 2:29Arlene: clean
- 2:29Arlene: water
- 2:29Arlene: or
- 2:29Caite: dirty
- 2:30Caite: water?
- 2:30Caite: It
- 2:30Caite: was
- 2:31Caite: clean.
- 2:32Caite: It
- 2:32Caite: was
- 2:32Caite: just
- 2:32Caite: a
- 2:33Caite: lot
- 2:33Caite: of
- 2:34Caite: it
- 2:34Caite: because
- 2:34Caite: I
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- 2:35Caite: up
- 2:35Caite: having
- 2:35Caite: to
- 2:35Caite: go
- 2:35Caite: into
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- 2:36Caite: basement
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- 2:37Caite: find
- 2:37Caite: a
- 2:37Caite: step
- 2:37Caite: ladder
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- 2:38Caite: climb
- 2:39Caite: up
- 2:39Caite: to
- 2:39Caite: turn
- 2:40Caite: the
- 2:40Caite: water
- 2:40Caite: off
- 2:40Caite: at
- 2:41Caite: the
- 2:41Caite: supply
- 2:41Caite: line,
- 2:42Caite: because
- 2:42Caite: I,
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- 2:42Caite: course,
- 2:43Caite: assumed
- 2:43Caite: that
- 2:43Caite: it
- 2:43Caite: was,
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- 2:44Caite: water
- 2:44Caite: was
- 2:44Caite: not
- 2:44Caite: draining,
- 2:45Caite: and
- 2:45Caite: indeed
- 2:45Caite: it
- 2:46Caite: was
- 2:46Caite: that
- 2:46Caite: the
- 2:46Caite: water
- 2:46Caite: was
- 2:46Caite: not
- 2:47Caite: shutting
- 2:48Caite: off.
- 2:48Caite: Even
- 2:49Caite: when
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- 2:49Caite: dishwasher
- 2:49Caite: was
- 2:50Caite: turned
- 2:50Caite: off,
- 2:50Caite: there
- 2:51Caite: was
- 2:51Caite: still
- 2:52Caite: water
- 2:53Caite: coming
- 2:53Caite: in.
- 2:53Caite: Oh,
- 2:53Caite: I
- 2:53Arlene: kept,
- 2:53Arlene: just
- 2:53Arlene: kept
- 2:54Arlene: coming
- 2:54Arlene: in.
- 2:54Arlene: Yeah.
- 2:55Caite: Yeah.
- 2:56Caite: And
- 2:56Caite: there's,
- 2:57Caite: the
- 2:58Caite: water
- 2:58Caite: goes
- 2:58Caite: through
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- 2:58Caite: softener
- 2:59Caite: first
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- 2:59Caite: so
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- 3:03Caite: have
- 3:04Caite: had
- 3:05Caite: any
- 3:05Caite: impact
- 3:06Caite: on.
- 3:08Caite: How
- 3:08Caite: things
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- 3:12Caite: I
- 3:12Caite: already
- 3:13Caite: replaced
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- 3:14Caite: on
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- 3:15Caite: then
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- 3:17Caite: afternoon
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- 3:19Caite: had
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- 3:21Caite: of
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- 3:21Caite: bottom
- 3:21Caite: of
- 3:21Caite: the
- 3:21Caite: pasture.
- 3:23Caite: My
- 3:23Caite: father-in-law
- 3:24Caite: never
- 3:24Caite: did
- 3:24Caite: offer
- 3:25Caite: a
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- 3:27Caite: explanation
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- 3:28Caite: to
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- 3:45Caite: but
- 3:45Arlene: Right.
- 3:46Arlene: Yeah.
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- 3:47Arlene: all
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- 3:48Arlene: incidents
- 3:48Arlene: are
- 3:48Arlene: happening
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- 3:49Arlene: week.
- 3:50Caite: Yes.
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- 3:53Caite: daughter
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- 3:54Caite: evening,
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- 4:00Caite: family.
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- 4:02Caite: home
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- 4:03Caite: eye,
- 4:04Caite: which
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- 4:10Caite: with
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- 4:11Caite: them.
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- 4:22Caite: which
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- 4:25Caite: a
- 4:26Caite: lot
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- 4:27Caite: family
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- 4:28Caite: Maybe
- 4:28Arlene: not
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- 4:29Arlene: I
- 4:29Arlene: think
- 4:29Arlene: maybe
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- 4:29Arlene: the
- 4:30Arlene: intent
- 4:30Arlene: of
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- 4:31Arlene: but
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- 4:32Arlene: a
- 4:32Arlene: good
- 4:32Arlene: way
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- 4:33Arlene: Yeah.
- 4:34Caite: Yeah.
- 4:34Caite: So
- 4:34Caite: that's
- 4:35Caite: about
- 4:35Caite: how
- 4:35Caite: things
- 4:35Caite: have
- 4:36Caite: been
- 4:37Caite: going
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- 11:34Arlene: Dena
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- 11:36Arlene: Ohio
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- 11:37Arlene: Dina,
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- 11:40Arlene: way
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- 11:41Arlene: yourself
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- 11:41Arlene: listeners.
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- 11:42Arlene: we
- 11:42Arlene: always
- 11:42Arlene: ask,
- 11:43Arlene: what
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- 11:44Arlene: that
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- 11:50Arlene: Dina,
- 11:50Arlene: what
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- 12:02Deena: six
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- 12:10Deena: moms
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- 12:11Deena: journey
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- 12:13Arlene: That's
- 12:14Arlene: great.
- 12:14Arlene: So
- 12:14Arlene: as
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- 12:15Arlene: farming
- 12:15Arlene: podcast,
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- 12:17Arlene: details.
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- 12:28Deena: cows
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- 12:56Deena: it.
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- 12:59Deena: that.
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- 13:06Arlene: Yes.
- 13:07Arlene: Anyone
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- 13:10Arlene: good
- 13:10Arlene: good
- 13:10Arlene: intro.
- 13:11Arlene: What
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- 13:13Arlene: guessing
- 13:13Arlene: there's
- 13:13Arlene: a
- 13:13Deena: three-year-old.
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- 13:20Deena: yearold
- 13:22Deena: old.
- 13:23Deena: A
- 13:23Deena: 12
- 13:24Deena: year
- 13:24Deena: old
- 13:24Deena: and
- 13:24Deena: 15
- 13:25Deena: year
- 13:25Deena: old.
- 13:26Deena: Five
- 13:26Deena: boys.
- 13:27Deena: One
- 13:27Deena: girl.
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- 13:29Arlene: is
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- 13:29Arlene: lot
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- 13:30Arlene: little
- 13:30Arlene: people
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- 13:30Arlene: your
- 13:30Arlene: house.
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- 13:32Arlene: positive
- 13:32Arlene: cause
- 13:33Arlene: that's
- 13:33Arlene: what
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- 13:38Arlene: has
- 13:38Arlene: always
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- 13:38Arlene: birthday,
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- 13:39Arlene: make
- 13:39Arlene: sure
- 13:40Arlene: I
- 13:40Arlene: get
- 13:40Arlene: this
- 13:40Arlene: right.
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- 13:41Deena: They're
- 13:41Deena: all
- 13:41Deena: mostly
- 13:42Deena: in
- 13:42Deena: the
- 13:42Deena: spring,
- 13:42Deena: so
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- 13:44Deena: all
- 13:44Deena: in
- 13:44Deena: their
- 13:45Deena: birthday
- 13:45Deena: month.
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- 13:46Deena: what
- 13:47Deena: age
- 13:47Deena: now?
- 13:48Arlene: Yeah,
- 13:48Arlene: that's
- 13:48Arlene: right.
- 13:49Arlene: How
- 13:49Arlene: old
- 13:49Arlene: are
- 13:49Arlene: they
- 13:50Arlene: today?
- 13:51Arlene: Yes,
- 13:52Deena: exactly.
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- 13:54Deena: are
- 13:54Deena: all
- 13:54Deena: on
- 13:54Deena: a
- 13:55Deena: 94
- 13:55Deena: acre
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- 13:57Deena: actually
- 13:58Deena: have
- 13:58Deena: farmed
- 13:58Deena: in
- 13:58Deena: two
- 13:59Deena: states.
- 13:59Deena: West
- 14:00Deena: Virginia
- 14:00Deena: is
- 14:00Deena: where
- 14:01Deena: the
- 14:01Deena: family
- 14:01Deena: farm
- 14:02Deena: like
- 14:02Deena: the
- 14:02Deena: heritage
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- 14:03Deena: beef
- 14:03Deena: farming
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- 14:05Deena: And
- 14:05Deena: then
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- 14:07Deena: moved
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- 14:07Deena: family
- 14:08Deena: and
- 14:08Deena: farm
- 14:08Deena: operation
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- 14:10Deena: Ohio
- 14:11Deena: and
- 14:11Deena: that's
- 14:11Deena: where
- 14:12Deena: we
- 14:12Deena: are
- 14:12Deena: now.
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- 14:15Deena: a
- 14:15Deena: lot
- 14:15Deena: of
- 14:15Arlene: farms.
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- 14:17Arlene: be
- 14:17Arlene: tied
- 14:18Arlene: to,
- 14:18Arlene: like
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- 14:19Arlene: said,
- 14:19Arlene: the
- 14:19Arlene: family
- 14:20Arlene: farm.
- 14:21Arlene: How
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- 14:21Arlene: that
- 14:21Arlene: transition
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- 14:24Arlene: the
- 14:24Arlene: state
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- 14:24Arlene: but
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- 14:25Arlene: one
- 14:25Arlene: state
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- 14:25Arlene: another
- 14:26Arlene: and
- 14:26Arlene: starting
- 14:27Arlene: a
- 14:27Arlene: new
- 14:27Arlene: spot?
- 14:28Arlene: How
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- 14:28Arlene: that
- 14:28Arlene: happen?
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- 14:31Deena: a
- 14:31Deena: lot
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- 14:35Deena: all
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- 14:36Deena: memories.
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- 14:38Deena: generations
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- 14:45Deena: heritage.
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- 14:57Deena: heritage
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- 14:58Deena: that
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- 15:06Deena: creating
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- 15:06Deena: own
- 15:07Deena: memories.
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- 15:08Deena: land
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- 15:08Deena: four
- 15:09Deena: years.
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- 15:11Deena: woods.
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- 15:23Deena: experience
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- 15:32Deena: memories
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- 15:33Deena: their
- 15:33Deena: families
- 15:33Deena: about.
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- 15:34Deena: been
- 15:34Deena: nice.
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- 15:37Caite: who
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- 15:38Caite: on
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- 15:40Caite: the
- 15:40Caite: fifth
- 15:40Caite: generation
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- 15:41Caite: farm.
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- 15:43Caite: you,
- 15:44Caite: who
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- 15:47Caite: stupid
- 15:47Caite: decision?
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- 15:52Caite: just
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- 15:59Caite: probably
- 16:00Caite: one
- 16:00Caite: of
- 16:00Caite: my
- 16:00Caite: most
- 16:01Caite: common
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- 16:03Caite: complaints
- 16:03Caite: to
- 16:03Caite: the
- 16:04Caite: universe
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- 16:04Caite: who
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- 16:05Caite: hell
- 16:05Caite: thought
- 16:05Caite: this
- 16:06Caite: was
- 16:06Caite: a
- 16:06Caite: good
- 16:06Caite: idea?
- 16:06Caite: Yeah.
- 16:06Caite: Or
- 16:07Caite: who
- 16:07Caite: did
- 16:08Caite: this?
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- 16:08Caite: I
- 16:08Caite: think,
- 16:09Caite: I
- 16:09Caite: feel
- 16:09Caite: like
- 16:09Caite: I'd
- 16:09Caite: really
- 16:10Caite: have
- 16:10Caite: a
- 16:10Caite: tough
- 16:10Caite: time
- 16:11Caite: with
- 16:11Caite: this.
- 16:11Caite: Yeah.
- 16:11Arlene: We
- 16:11Deena: just
- 16:12Deena: blame
- 16:12Deena: it
- 16:12Deena: on
- 16:12Deena: the
- 16:12Deena: previous
- 16:13Deena: owners.
- 16:14Deena: What
- 16:14Deena: were
- 16:14Deena: they
- 16:14Deena: thinking?
- 16:15Deena: Why
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- 16:15Deena: they,
- 16:16Deena: do
- 16:16Deena: the
- 16:16Deena: drain
- 16:16Deena: tile
- 16:17Deena: this
- 16:17Deena: way?
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- 16:17Deena: like
- 16:18Deena: I
- 16:18Deena: said,
- 16:18Deena: there
- 16:18Deena: was
- 16:19Deena: really,
- 16:19Deena: there
- 16:19Deena: were
- 16:19Deena: no
- 16:20Deena: buildings,
- 16:21Deena: so
- 16:21Deena: there
- 16:21Deena: was
- 16:22Deena: only
- 16:22Deena: just
- 16:22Deena: some
- 16:23Deena: underground
- 16:24Deena: elements,
- 16:25Deena: like
- 16:25Deena: gas
- 16:25Deena: lines
- 16:26Deena: like
- 16:27Deena: unburied,
- 16:28Deena: gas
- 16:28Deena: lines.
- 16:29Deena: Through
- 16:30Deena: the
- 16:30Deena: trails.
- 16:30Deena: So
- 16:31Deena: we've
- 16:31Deena: hit
- 16:31Deena: those
- 16:32Deena: a
- 16:32Deena: time
- 16:32Deena: or
- 16:32Deena: two
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- 16:34Deena: natural
- 16:35Deena: gas
- 16:35Deena: just
- 16:36Deena: spewing
- 16:36Deena: everywhere.
- 16:37Deena: So
- 16:37Deena: that's
- 16:38Deena: been
- 16:38Deena: fun.
- 16:39Deena: So
- 16:39Deena: yeah,
- 16:39Deena: we
- 16:39Deena: have
- 16:39Deena: a
- 16:39Deena: few
- 16:40Deena: people
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- 16:40Deena: blame
- 16:41Deena: for
- 16:41Deena: that.
- 16:41Deena: But
- 16:42Deena: yeah,
- 16:42Deena: it
- 16:42Deena: makes
- 16:43Deena: things
- 16:43Deena: interesting
- 16:45Arlene: for
- 16:45Arlene: sure.
- 16:48Caite: So
- 16:48Caite: did
- 16:49Caite: you
- 16:49Caite: also
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- 16:50Caite: up
- 16:50Caite: on
- 16:50Caite: a
- 16:50Caite: farm,
- 16:51Caite: or
- 16:51Caite: how
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- 16:51Caite: you
- 16:52Caite: I
- 16:52Caite: did
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- 16:53Deena: How
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- 16:53Deena: you
- 16:54Deena: get?
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- 16:55Deena: to
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- 16:55Deena: on
- 16:55Deena: a
- 16:55Deena: farm.
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- 16:56Deena: was
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- 16:56Deena: a,
- 16:56Deena: just
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- 16:57Deena: small,
- 16:58Deena: typical
- 16:58Deena: town
- 16:59Deena: and
- 17:00Deena: I
- 17:01Deena: loved
- 17:01Deena: horses
- 17:02Deena: and
- 17:03Deena: so
- 17:03Deena: my
- 17:03Deena: sister
- 17:04Deena: and
- 17:04Deena: I,
- 17:04Deena: we
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- 17:05Deena: our
- 17:05Deena: horses.
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- 17:07Deena: the
- 17:07Deena: farm
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- 17:08Deena: New
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- 17:11Deena: acre
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- 17:21Deena: sister
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- 17:24Deena: the
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- 17:26Deena: and
- 17:26Deena: eight
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- 17:29Deena: lessons.
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- 17:31Deena: in
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- 17:35Deena: husband
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- 17:38Deena: my
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- 17:40Deena: cattle
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- 18:11Deena: how,
- 18:11Deena: where
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- 18:12Arlene: So
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- 18:14Arlene: intro
- 18:15Arlene: that
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- 18:16Arlene: support
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- 18:17Arlene: I
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- 18:17Arlene: that
- 18:17Arlene: wording
- 18:18Arlene: right?
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- 18:20Arlene: I
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- 18:20Arlene: podcast
- 18:21Arlene: yourself
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- 18:22Arlene: been
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- 18:25Arlene: of
- 18:25Arlene: the
- 18:25Arlene: things
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- 18:27Arlene: parents
- 18:28Arlene: how
- 18:28Arlene: to
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- 18:29Arlene: how
- 18:30Arlene: to
- 18:30Arlene: move
- 18:31Arlene: beyond
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- 18:31Arlene: into
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- 18:33Arlene: Can
- 18:33Arlene: you
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- 18:34Arlene: of
- 18:34Arlene: the
- 18:34Arlene: first
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- 18:36Arlene: even
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- 18:41Arlene: thriving
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- 18:43Arlene: days
- 18:43Arlene: that
- 18:43Arlene: feels
- 18:44Arlene: impossible.
- 18:46Deena: Yes.
- 18:46Deena: So
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- 18:48Deena: me,
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- 18:59Deena: in
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- 19:00Deena: we
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- 19:00Deena: really
- 19:00Deena: have
- 19:01Deena: any
- 19:01Deena: control
- 19:01Deena: over
- 19:02Deena: the
- 19:02Deena: situation.
- 19:03Deena: And
- 19:03Deena: sometimes
- 19:04Deena: what
- 19:04Deena: happens
- 19:05Deena: is
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- 19:07Deena: expectations
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- 19:16Deena: by
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- 19:21Deena: that.
- 19:23Deena: Okay,
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- 19:27Deena: child
- 19:27Deena: that
- 19:27Deena: day.
- 19:28Deena: Maybe
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- 19:31Deena: weren't
- 19:32Deena: expecting
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- 19:32Deena: now
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- 19:33Deena: late
- 19:33Deena: for
- 19:33Deena: your
- 19:33Deena: appointment.
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- 19:35Deena: taking
- 19:36Deena: the
- 19:36Deena: time
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- 19:41Deena: can't
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- 19:47Deena: not
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- 19:48Deena: ourselves
- 19:49Deena: so
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- 19:53Deena: compassion
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- 19:57Deena: great
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- 20:04Deena: perfect
- 20:04Deena: plan,
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- 20:06Deena: now
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- 20:24Deena: for
- 20:24Deena: myself,
- 20:24Deena: I
- 20:25Deena: started
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- 20:27Deena: I
- 20:27Deena: always
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- 20:28Deena: that
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- 20:35Deena: expectations
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- 20:42Deena: could
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- 20:49Deena: like
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- 20:49Deena: struggling.
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- 20:50Deena: else
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- 20:56Deena: going,
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- 20:57Deena: so
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- 20:58Deena: I'm
- 20:58Deena: so
- 20:58Deena: tired,
- 20:58Deena: I'm
- 20:58Deena: so
- 20:59Deena: frustrated.
- 21:00Deena: Why
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- 21:00Deena: nobody
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- 21:04Deena: I
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- 21:05Deena: say,
- 21:06Deena: Hey,
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- 21:06Deena: exhausted.
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- 21:08Deena: do
- 21:08Deena: this.
- 21:09Deena: And
- 21:09Deena: then
- 21:09Deena: say,
- 21:10Deena: will
- 21:10Deena: you
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- 21:11Deena: me
- 21:11Deena: in
- 21:12Deena: this
- 21:12Deena: way?
- 21:13Deena: And
- 21:14Deena: when
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- 21:14Deena: do
- 21:14Deena: that,
- 21:15Deena: it
- 21:15Deena: really
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- 21:15Deena: our
- 21:16Deena: loved
- 21:16Deena: ones
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- 21:17Deena: the
- 21:17Deena: opportunity
- 21:18Deena: to
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- 21:18Deena: they
- 21:19Deena: care
- 21:19Deena: for
- 21:19Deena: us,
- 21:20Deena: how
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- 21:21Deena: us.
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- 21:22Deena: we
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- 21:23Deena: going
- 21:23Deena: along
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- 21:23Deena: saying,
- 21:24Deena: I'm
- 21:24Deena: fine,
- 21:25Deena: it's
- 21:26Deena: fine.
- 21:26Deena: I
- 21:26Deena: got
- 21:27Deena: this.
- 21:28Deena: Then
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- 21:29Deena: up
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- 21:34Deena: Towards
- 21:34Deena: our
- 21:34Deena: loved
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- 21:37Deena: mad
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- 21:38Deena: not
- 21:38Deena: helping,
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- 21:50Deena: I
- 21:50Deena: feeling?
- 21:51Deena: What
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- 21:52Deena: me
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- 21:52Deena: feel
- 21:52Deena: this
- 21:53Deena: way?
- 21:54Deena: And
- 21:54Deena: what
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- 21:55Deena: actually
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- 21:56Deena: feel
- 21:56Deena: different?
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- 21:58Deena: actually
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- 21:59Deena: me
- 21:59Deena: feel
- 22:00Deena: better?
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- 22:07Deena: then
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- 22:08Deena: say,
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- 22:08Deena: help.
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- 22:10Deena: I'm
- 22:10Deena: thinking,
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- 22:14Deena: go
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- 22:16Deena: by
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- 22:18Deena: And
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- 22:19Deena: husband
- 22:19Deena: does
- 22:19Deena: the
- 22:19Deena: dishes.
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- 23:58Deena: house.
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- 24:15Deena: mood.
- 24:16Deena: I
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- 24:17Deena: a
- 24:17Deena: lot
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- 24:17Deena: times
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- 24:43Deena: a
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- 24:45Deena: I'm
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- 24:46Deena: emotions.
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- 24:53Deena: mood
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- 25:33Deena: nutrition,
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- 25:36Deena: I
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- 25:38Deena: my
- 25:38Deena: mood.
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- 25:41Deena: everybody
- 25:42Deena: else,
- 25:42Deena: I
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- 25:44Deena: had
- 25:44Deena: lunch
- 25:44Deena: today.
- 25:45Deena: So
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- 25:46Deena: those
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- 26:14Caite: way
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- 28:20Deena: you
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- 28:35Deena: you
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- 28:35Deena: make
- 28:35Deena: some
- 28:35Deena: suggestions,
- 28:37Deena: but
- 28:38Deena: it's
- 28:39Deena: a
- 28:39Deena: lot
- 28:39Deena: of
- 28:39Deena: giving
- 28:40Deena: and
- 28:40Deena: taking
- 28:41Deena: because
- 28:41Deena: Exactly.
- 28:42Deena: As
- 28:42Deena: women,
- 28:42Deena: it's
- 28:43Deena: oh,
- 28:43Deena: come
- 28:43Deena: load
- 28:43Deena: the
- 28:43Deena: dishwasher.
- 28:44Deena: Okay,
- 28:44Deena: now
- 28:44Deena: wait,
- 28:45Deena: you
- 28:45Deena: need
- 28:45Deena: to
- 28:45Deena: do
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- 28:45Deena: this
- 28:45Deena: way,
- 28:46Deena: that
- 28:46Deena: way.
- 28:46Deena: I
- 28:46Deena: don't
- 28:46Deena: like
- 28:46Deena: this.
- 28:47Deena: I
- 28:47Deena: don't
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- 28:47Deena: that
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- 28:49Deena: likes
- 28:49Deena: to
- 28:49Deena: be
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- 28:50Deena: and
- 28:51Deena: it's
- 28:51Deena: it
- 28:51Deena: important
- 28:52Deena: to
- 28:52Deena: just
- 28:53Deena: look
- 28:53Deena: at
- 28:53Deena: the
- 28:53Deena: big
- 28:53Deena: picture.
- 28:54Deena: Look
- 28:55Deena: at
- 28:55Deena: the
- 28:55Deena: big
- 28:55Deena: picture,
- 28:56Deena: and
- 28:56Deena: we
- 28:57Deena: have
- 28:57Deena: to
- 28:57Deena: pick
- 28:57Deena: like
- 28:58Deena: what
- 28:58Deena: we're
- 28:58Deena: willing
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- 28:59Deena: and
- 28:59Deena: what
- 29:00Deena: we're
- 29:00Deena: willing
- 29:00Deena: to,
- 29:02Deena: give,
- 29:02Deena: to
- 29:02Deena: have
- 29:03Deena: a
- 29:03Deena: ba
- 29:03Deena: a,
- 29:04Deena: a
- 29:04Deena: bigger
- 29:04Deena: response
- 29:05Deena: and
- 29:05Deena: a
- 29:05Deena: bigger
- 29:06Deena: oh,
- 29:06Deena: what's
- 29:06Deena: the
- 29:06Deena: word?
- 29:09Deena: Fulfillment
- 29:10Deena: in
- 29:10Deena: that.
- 29:12Caite: I
- 29:12Caite: think
- 29:12Caite: too,
- 29:12Caite: there's
- 29:12Caite: so
- 29:13Caite: much
- 29:15Caite: power
- 29:15Caite: in
- 29:17Caite: learning
- 29:17Caite: to
- 29:17Caite: give
- 29:17Caite: yourself
- 29:18Caite: some
- 29:18Caite: grace
- 29:18Caite: on
- 29:18Caite: those
- 29:19Caite: days
- 29:19Caite: that
- 29:20Caite: let,
- 29:20Caite: letting
- 29:21Caite: your
- 29:21Caite: four
- 29:21Caite: year
- 29:21Caite: old
- 29:22Caite: help
- 29:23Caite: wash
- 29:23Caite: dishes
- 29:24Caite: is
- 29:24Caite: just
- 29:25Caite: not
- 29:25Caite: gonna
- 29:25Caite: happen.
- 29:26Caite: And,
- 29:27Caite: you're
- 29:27Caite: not
- 29:27Caite: going
- 29:27Caite: to
- 29:27Caite: ruin
- 29:28Caite: your
- 29:28Caite: child's
- 29:29Caite: ability
- 29:29Caite: to
- 29:29Caite: be
- 29:29Caite: useful
- 29:30Caite: forever.
- 29:31Caite: If
- 29:31Caite: there's
- 29:32Caite: one
- 29:32Caite: day
- 29:32Caite: that
- 29:33Caite: you're
- 29:33Caite: just
- 29:33Caite: like,
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- 29:34Caite: tv
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- 29:36Caite: go
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- 29:38Caite: Yep.
- 29:39Caite: And
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- 29:40Caite: me
- 29:40Caite: alone.
- 29:40Caite: Exactly.
- 29:41Caite: So
- 29:42Caite: because.
- 29:43Caite: Sometimes
- 29:44Caite: they
- 29:44Caite: have
- 29:44Caite: to
- 29:44Caite: learn
- 29:44Caite: to
- 29:44Caite: just
- 29:45Caite: back
- 29:45Caite: off
- 29:45Caite: too.
- 29:45Caite: Yes.
- 29:46Caite: That's
- 29:46Caite: a
- 29:46Caite: valuable
- 29:47Caite: skill
- 29:47Caite: for
- 29:47Caite: humans
- 29:47Caite: to
- 29:48Caite: have
- 29:48Caite: is
- 29:48Caite: to
- 29:48Caite: just
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- 29:49Caite: away.
- 29:50Caite: Yes.
- 29:50Caite: I'm
- 29:50Caite: a
- 29:50Caite: great
- 29:51Caite: mom,
- 29:51Caite: obviously.
- 29:52Caite: No
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- 29:53Caite: a
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- 29:53Caite: and
- 29:54Caite: this
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- 29:54Caite: the
- 29:54Caite: other
- 29:54Caite: thing
- 29:54Caite: is,
- 29:55Caite: it's
- 29:55Caite: so
- 29:55Caite: hard
- 29:55Caite: to
- 29:55Caite: say
- 29:55Caite: I'm
- 29:56Caite: a
- 29:56Caite: good
- 29:56Caite: mom.
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- 29:56Caite: I
- 29:57Caite: am,
- 29:57Caite: my
- 29:57Caite: kids
- 29:57Caite: are
- 29:57Caite: happy,
- 29:58Caite: they're
- 29:58Caite: well
- 29:58Caite: adjusted,
- 29:58Caite: they're
- 29:59Caite: decent
- 29:59Caite: humans.
- 30:00Caite: They
- 30:00Caite: haven't
- 30:00Caite: said
- 30:00Caite: anything
- 30:01Caite: on
- 30:01Caite: fire
- 30:01Caite: yet,
- 30:02Caite: and
- 30:02Caite: they're,
- 30:02Caite: six
- 30:03Caite: and
- 30:03Caite: almost
- 30:03Caite: five.
- 30:03Caite: So
- 30:04Caite: I
- 30:04Caite: feel
- 30:04Caite: good
- 30:04Caite: about
- 30:04Caite: that.
- 30:04Arlene: Yeah.
- 30:05Arlene: You're
- 30:05Arlene: teaching
- 30:06Arlene: them
- 30:06Arlene: to
- 30:06Arlene: read
- 30:06Arlene: the
- 30:06Arlene: room.
- 30:06Arlene: It's
- 30:06Caite: embarrassing
- 30:07Caite: how
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- 30:07Caite: is.
- 30:08Caite: Yeah.
- 30:09Caite: Yeah.
- 30:09Caite: And
- 30:09Caite: sometimes
- 30:10Caite: what
- 30:10Caite: the
- 30:11Caite: room
- 30:11Caite: is
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- 30:12Caite: go
- 30:12Caite: away.
- 30:12Caite: Yeah.
- 30:13Caite: That's
- 30:13Caite: right.
- 30:13Caite: Now
- 30:14Arlene: is
- 30:14Arlene: not
- 30:14Arlene: the
- 30:14Arlene: time
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- 30:15Arlene: the
- 30:15Arlene: kitchen.
- 30:15Arlene: No,
- 30:16Caite: You
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- 30:17Caite: it.
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- 30:17Caite: have
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- 30:18Caite: very
- 30:18Caite: small
- 30:18Caite: kitchen
- 30:19Caite: too,
- 30:19Caite: and
- 30:19Caite: it's
- 30:20Caite: the
- 30:20Caite: only
- 30:20Caite: bathroom
- 30:20Caite: in
- 30:20Caite: our
- 30:21Caite: house
- 30:21Caite: is
- 30:21Caite: on
- 30:22Caite: the
- 30:22Caite: far
- 30:22Caite: side
- 30:22Caite: of
- 30:22Caite: the
- 30:22Caite: kitchen.
- 30:23Caite: Oh,
- 30:23Caite: perfect.
- 30:23Caite: And
- 30:24Caite: we
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- 30:24Caite: big
- 30:24Caite: dogs.
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- 30:25Caite: the
- 30:25Caite: kitchen
- 30:25Caite: is
- 30:25Caite: the
- 30:25Caite: first
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- 30:26Caite: you
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- 30:27Caite: and
- 30:27Caite: it's
- 30:27Caite: just
- 30:28Caite: no.
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- 30:30Deena: out.
- 30:30Deena: Oh,
- 30:30Deena: I
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- 30:30Deena: that
- 30:31Deena: so
- 30:31Deena: much
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- 30:32Deena: kitchen
- 30:32Deena: right
- 30:32Deena: now
- 30:33Deena: and
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- 30:33Deena: eight
- 30:33Deena: people
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- 30:34Deena: in
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- 30:35Deena: refrigerator,
- 30:35Deena: water
- 30:36Deena: dispenser,
- 30:37Deena: I
- 30:37Deena: can
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- 30:37Deena: like
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- 30:38Deena: refrigerator
- 30:39Deena: and
- 30:39Deena: I
- 30:40Deena: can
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- 30:40Deena: the
- 30:41Deena: sink
- 30:41Deena: and
- 30:41Deena: the
- 30:41Deena: stove
- 30:42Deena: all
- 30:42Deena: at
- 30:42Deena: one
- 30:42Deena: time.
- 30:43Deena: So
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- 30:43Deena: eight
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- 30:45Deena: the
- 30:46Deena: water
- 30:46Deena: dispenser,
- 30:47Deena: everybody
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- 30:47Deena: in
- 30:48Deena: and
- 30:48Deena: I'm
- 30:48Deena: like,
- 30:48Deena: I'm
- 30:48Deena: out
- 30:49Deena: of
- 30:49Deena: here.
- 30:50Deena: But
- 30:50Deena: Katie,
- 30:51Deena: you
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- 30:51Deena: you
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- 30:52Deena: a
- 30:52Deena: good
- 30:52Deena: mom.
- 30:53Deena: And
- 30:54Deena: that's
- 30:54Deena: what
- 30:54Deena: we
- 30:54Deena: need
- 30:54Deena: to
- 30:55Deena: tell
- 30:55Deena: ourselves
- 30:56Deena: because
- 30:57Deena: I
- 30:57Deena: think
- 30:57Deena: that's
- 30:57Deena: the
- 30:57Deena: number
- 30:58Deena: one
- 30:58Deena: thing
- 30:59Deena: when
- 30:59Deena: you
- 31:00Deena: start
- 31:00Deena: feeling
- 31:00Deena: like
- 31:01Deena: mom,
- 31:01Deena: guilt.
- 31:03Deena: It,
- 31:03Deena: that
- 31:03Deena: right
- 31:03Deena: there
- 31:04Deena: proves
- 31:04Deena: that
- 31:04Deena: you're
- 31:04Deena: a
- 31:04Deena: good
- 31:04Deena: mom
- 31:05Deena: because
- 31:05Deena: you're
- 31:06Deena: worried
- 31:06Deena: that
- 31:06Deena: you're
- 31:06Deena: not
- 31:06Deena: doing
- 31:07Deena: it
- 31:07Deena: right.
- 31:07Deena: So
- 31:08Deena: you
- 31:08Deena: know
- 31:08Deena: that
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- 31:11Deena: it
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- 31:12Deena: And
- 31:13Deena: that's
- 31:13Deena: something
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- 31:15Deena: I
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- 31:17Deena: because
- 31:18Deena: when
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- 31:18Deena: times
- 31:19Deena: where
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- 31:19Deena: felt
- 31:19Deena: like
- 31:19Deena: I
- 31:20Deena: was
- 31:20Deena: messing
- 31:20Deena: up
- 31:21Deena: as
- 31:21Deena: a
- 31:21Deena: mom,
- 31:22Deena: what,
- 31:22Deena: let's
- 31:22Deena: say,
- 31:23Deena: the
- 31:23Deena: kid
- 31:23Deena: back
- 31:24Deena: when
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- 31:24Deena: kids
- 31:24Deena: went
- 31:24Deena: to
- 31:24Deena: school,
- 31:25Deena: let's
- 31:25Deena: say
- 31:26Deena: they
- 31:26Deena: forgot
- 31:26Deena: something,
- 31:27Deena: or
- 31:27Deena: I
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- 31:28Deena: appreciation
- 31:29Deena: week
- 31:29Deena: or
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- 31:30Deena: like
- 31:30Deena: that.
- 31:31Deena: And
- 31:31Deena: I
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- 31:32Deena: myself,
- 31:32Deena: oh,
- 31:32Deena: I'm
- 31:33Deena: such
- 31:33Deena: a
- 31:33Deena: terrible
- 31:33Deena: mom.
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- 31:37Deena: And
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- 31:39Deena: mantra
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- 31:40Deena: I
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- 31:42Deena: doing
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- 31:42Deena: best
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- 31:43Deena: can.
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- 31:44Deena: doing,
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- 31:48Deena: response
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- 31:49Deena: body
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- 31:51Deena: best
- 31:51Deena: I
- 31:52Deena: can,
- 31:53Deena: just
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- 31:54Deena: the
- 31:54Deena: nerves
- 31:55Deena: and
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- 31:56Deena: no
- 31:56Deena: pressure.
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- 31:58Deena: this.
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- 31:59Deena: gonna
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- 32:00Deena: the
- 32:00Deena: best
- 32:00Deena: we
- 32:00Deena: can.
- 32:00Deena: That's
- 32:01Deena: all
- 32:01Deena: that's
- 32:01Deena: expected
- 32:02Deena: and
- 32:03Deena: it
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- 32:04Deena: a
- 32:04Deena: big
- 32:04Deena: difference
- 32:04Deena: in
- 32:05Deena: our
- 32:05Deena: bodies.
- 32:07Caite: I
- 32:07Caite: think
- 32:08Caite: too,
- 32:08Caite: for
- 32:08Caite: myself,
- 32:09Caite: taking
- 32:09Caite: that
- 32:10Caite: one
- 32:10Caite: step
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- 32:11Caite: really
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- 32:12Caite: best
- 32:12Caite: I
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- 32:14Caite: now,
- 32:15Caite: right
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- 32:16Caite: because
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- 32:16Caite: so
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- 32:17Caite: myself
- 32:17Caite: going
- 32:18Caite: well,
- 32:18Caite: but
- 32:18Caite: I
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- 32:19Caite: this
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- 32:20Caite: But
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- 32:20Caite: yesterday.
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- 32:25Caite: to
- 32:25Caite: the
- 32:25Caite: best
- 32:25Caite: that
- 32:25Caite: I
- 32:26Caite: can
- 32:26Caite: reasonably
- 32:26Caite: give
- 32:27Caite: right
- 32:27Caite: now?
- 32:28Caite: Yes.
- 32:29Caite: And
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- 32:31Caite: myself
- 32:32Caite: that
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- 32:33Caite: I
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- 32:33Caite: so
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- 32:34Caite: people
- 32:34Caite: are
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- 32:39Caite: go
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- 32:40Caite: That's
- 32:40Caite: not
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- 32:40Caite: me.
- 32:41Caite: If
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- 32:45Caite: worried
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- 32:46Caite: judging
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- 32:46Caite: your
- 32:46Caite: house
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- 32:47Caite: clean
- 32:47Caite: enough,
- 32:48Caite: they
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- 32:49Caite: broom
- 32:50Caite: or
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- 32:50Caite: home.
- 32:51Caite: Yes.
- 32:51Caite: That's.
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- 32:53Caite: not
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- 32:53Caite: problem.
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- 32:54Caite: That's,
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- 32:56Caite: that.
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- 32:57Caite: It's,
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- 33:00Caite: much
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- 33:01Caite: my
- 33:02Caite: children
- 33:02Caite: are
- 33:02Caite: my
- 33:02Caite: problem.
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- 37:56Deena: years
- 37:56Deena: ahead
- 37:57Deena: of
- 37:57Deena: you,
- 37:58Deena: because
- 37:59Deena: sometimes
- 38:00Deena: I've
- 38:01Deena: heard
- 38:01Deena: that,
- 38:02Deena: some
- 38:02Deena: women
- 38:02Deena: have
- 38:02Deena: a
- 38:02Deena: struggle
- 38:03Deena: with.
- 38:04Deena: Either
- 38:04Deena: their
- 38:04Deena: in-laws
- 38:05Deena: or
- 38:05Deena: their
- 38:05Deena: parents'
- 38:06Deena: age,
- 38:06Deena: because
- 38:07Deena: life
- 38:07Deena: is
- 38:07Deena: so
- 38:08Deena: different.
- 38:08Deena: Life
- 38:09Deena: is
- 38:09Deena: so
- 38:09Deena: different
- 38:09Deena: now
- 38:10Deena: from
- 38:10Deena: what
- 38:10Deena: it
- 38:10Deena: was
- 38:10Deena: when
- 38:11Deena: they
- 38:11Deena: were
- 38:11Deena: raising
- 38:11Deena: kids.
- 38:12Deena: I
- 38:12Deena: think
- 38:12Deena: about
- 38:13Deena: it
- 38:13Deena: with
- 38:13Deena: my
- 38:13Deena: mom.
- 38:14Deena: I'm
- 38:14Deena: like,
- 38:14Deena: she
- 38:14Deena: never
- 38:14Deena: had
- 38:15Deena: to
- 38:15Deena: deal
- 38:15Deena: with
- 38:15Deena: all
- 38:15Deena: of
- 38:15Deena: the
- 38:16Deena: electronic
- 38:16Deena: bombardment
- 38:18Deena: that
- 38:18Deena: I
- 38:18Deena: deal
- 38:18Deena: with
- 38:18Deena: today
- 38:19Deena: with
- 38:19Deena: my
- 38:19Deena: children.
- 38:20Deena: And
- 38:21Deena: so
- 38:21Deena: there's
- 38:22Deena: can
- 38:22Deena: be
- 38:22Deena: some
- 38:23Deena: sort
- 38:23Deena: of
- 38:23Deena: a
- 38:24Deena: disconnect.
- 38:24Deena: Like
- 38:24Deena: I
- 38:25Deena: love
- 38:25Deena: the
- 38:25Deena: values
- 38:26Deena: and
- 38:26Deena: there's
- 38:26Deena: a
- 38:26Deena: lot
- 38:26Deena: of
- 38:26Deena: great
- 38:27Deena: resources
- 38:28Deena: and
- 38:28Deena: knowledge
- 38:29Deena: that
- 38:29Deena: they
- 38:29Deena: can
- 38:29Deena: impart,
- 38:30Deena: but
- 38:30Deena: then
- 38:31Deena: there's
- 38:31Deena: also
- 38:31Deena: circumstances
- 38:32Deena: that
- 38:32Deena: they
- 38:32Deena: haven't
- 38:33Deena: dealt
- 38:33Deena: with
- 38:33Deena: yet.
- 38:34Deena: So
- 38:34Deena: when
- 38:34Deena: you
- 38:34Deena: find
- 38:35Deena: someone
- 38:35Deena: that's
- 38:35Deena: three
- 38:35Deena: to
- 38:35Deena: five
- 38:36Deena: years
- 38:36Deena: ahead
- 38:36Deena: of
- 38:37Deena: you,
- 38:37Deena: or
- 38:38Deena: even
- 38:38Deena: 10
- 38:38Deena: years,
- 38:38Deena: it
- 38:39Deena: can
- 38:39Deena: really
- 38:39Deena: help
- 38:40Deena: cuz
- 38:40Deena: they,
- 38:40Deena: it's
- 38:40Deena: still
- 38:41Deena: fresh
- 38:41Deena: in
- 38:41Deena: their
- 38:41Deena: mind.
- 38:42Deena: Sometimes
- 38:42Deena: I
- 38:42Deena: would
- 38:43Deena: ask
- 38:43Deena: my
- 38:43Deena: mother-in-law
- 38:43Deena: about
- 38:44Deena: things
- 38:45Deena: and
- 38:45Deena: my
- 38:45Deena: husband's
- 38:46Deena: the
- 38:46Deena: youngest
- 38:46Deena: of
- 38:47Deena: four
- 38:47Deena: siblings
- 38:47Deena: and
- 38:47Deena: they
- 38:48Deena: were
- 38:48Deena: like
- 38:48Deena: 12
- 38:48Deena: years
- 38:48Deena: apart.
- 38:49Deena: So
- 38:49Deena: I
- 38:50Deena: would
- 38:50Deena: ask
- 38:50Deena: her
- 38:50Deena: some
- 38:50Deena: things
- 38:51Deena: and
- 38:51Deena: she
- 38:51Deena: would
- 38:51Deena: be
- 38:51Deena: like,
- 38:52Deena: I
- 38:52Deena: don't
- 38:52Deena: remember.
- 38:54Deena: So
- 38:55Deena: I
- 38:55Deena: was
- 38:55Deena: like,
- 38:55Deena: okay,
- 38:55Deena: try
- 38:56Deena: to
- 38:56Deena: look
- 38:56Deena: for
- 38:56Deena: somebody
- 38:56Deena: else
- 38:57Deena: then
- 38:57Deena: to
- 38:57Deena: ask
- 38:57Deena: about,
- 38:58Deena: so
- 38:58Deena: yeah,
- 38:59Deena: just
- 38:59Arlene: ask.
- 39:01Arlene: Yes.
- 39:01Arlene: Or
- 39:01Arlene: they're
- 39:01Arlene: looking
- 39:01Arlene: back
- 39:02Arlene: with
- 39:02Arlene: rose
- 39:02Arlene: colored
- 39:02Arlene: glasses
- 39:03Arlene: and
- 39:03Arlene: they're
- 39:03Arlene: like,
- 39:03Arlene: oh,
- 39:04Arlene: everything
- 39:04Arlene: was
- 39:04Arlene: perfect.
- 39:06Arlene: They're
- 39:06Arlene: like,
- 39:06Arlene: that
- 39:07Arlene: can't
- 39:07Arlene: be
- 39:07Arlene: true.
- 39:08Deena: Exactly.
- 39:11Deena: Oh
- 39:11Deena: my
- 39:11Deena: goodness.
- 39:11Deena: Yes.
- 39:12Deena: That
- 39:12Deena: is
- 39:12Deena: so
- 39:12Deena: true.
- 39:13Deena: For
- 39:14Deena: sure.
- 39:14Arlene: Yeah,
- 39:14Arlene: I've
- 39:14Arlene: heard
- 39:14Arlene: that.
- 39:15Arlene: And
- 39:15Arlene: anyone
- 39:15Arlene: who
- 39:15Arlene: still
- 39:16Arlene: has,
- 39:16Arlene: yeah,
- 39:16Arlene: anyone
- 39:17Arlene: who
- 39:17Arlene: still
- 39:17Arlene: has
- 39:17Arlene: kids
- 39:17Arlene: in
- 39:17Arlene: their
- 39:18Arlene: house,
- 39:18Arlene: like
- 39:18Arlene: if
- 39:18Arlene: they've
- 39:18Arlene: got
- 39:19Arlene: teenagers
- 39:19Arlene: and
- 39:19Arlene: you've
- 39:19Arlene: got
- 39:19Arlene: little
- 39:20Arlene: ones,
- 39:20Arlene: then
- 39:21Arlene: they're
- 39:21Arlene: not
- 39:21Arlene: gonna
- 39:21Arlene: judge
- 39:22Arlene: your
- 39:22Arlene: parenting
- 39:22Arlene: because
- 39:22Arlene: they
- 39:23Arlene: don't
- 39:23Arlene: know
- 39:23Arlene: what
- 39:23Arlene: they're
- 39:23Arlene: doing
- 39:24Arlene: either.
- 39:24Arlene: They're
- 39:24Arlene: at
- 39:25Arlene: a
- 39:25Arlene: whole
- 39:25Arlene: different
- 39:25Arlene: stage
- 39:25Arlene: and
- 39:26Arlene: they're
- 39:26Arlene: struggling
- 39:27Arlene: with
- 39:27Arlene: different
- 39:27Arlene: things
- 39:27Arlene: than
- 39:28Arlene: you
- 39:28Arlene: are.
- 39:29Arlene: Oh,
- 39:29Arlene: yes.
- 39:30Deena: Absolutely.
- 39:33Arlene: Katie,
- 39:34Arlene: did
- 39:34Arlene: you
- 39:34Arlene: have
- 39:34Arlene: anything
- 39:34Arlene: else
- 39:34Arlene: you
- 39:35Arlene: wanted
- 39:35Arlene: to
- 39:35Arlene: say
- 39:35Arlene: before
- 39:35Arlene: we
- 39:35Arlene: moved
- 39:36Arlene: on
- 39:36Arlene: to
- 39:36Arlene: my
- 39:36Arlene: homeschooling
- 39:37Arlene: question?
- 39:39Caite: I
- 39:39Caite: was
- 39:39Caite: gonna
- 39:40Caite: say
- 39:40Caite: that
- 39:41Caite: quite
- 39:41Caite: possibly
- 39:42Caite: the
- 39:42Caite: kindest
- 39:43Caite: thing
- 39:43Caite: that
- 39:43Caite: anyone
- 39:44Caite: has
- 39:44Caite: ever
- 39:44Caite: done
- 39:44Caite: for
- 39:44Caite: me
- 39:45Caite: as
- 39:45Caite: a
- 39:45Caite: parent
- 39:45Caite: was
- 39:46Caite: my
- 39:46Caite: husband
- 39:47Caite: and
- 39:47Caite: I
- 39:47Caite: took
- 39:47Caite: the
- 39:47Caite: girl
- 39:48Caite: child
- 39:48Caite: to
- 39:48Caite: a
- 39:48Caite: tractor
- 39:49Caite: show
- 39:49Caite: when
- 39:49Caite: she
- 39:49Caite: was
- 39:52Caite: eight
- 39:52Caite: months
- 39:52Caite: old,
- 39:52Caite: probably.
- 39:54Caite: And
- 39:55Caite: I
- 39:55Caite: wanna
- 39:55Caite: say
- 39:55Caite: it
- 39:55Caite: was
- 39:55Caite: right
- 39:56Caite: before
- 39:56Caite: I
- 39:56Caite: got
- 39:56Caite: pregnant
- 39:57Caite: with
- 39:57Caite: our
- 39:57Caite: second
- 39:57Caite: kid.
- 39:57Caite: Our
- 39:57Caite: kids
- 39:58Caite: are
- 39:58Caite: 16
- 39:58Caite: months
- 39:59Caite: apart,
- 39:59Caite: but
- 39:59Caite: we
- 39:59Caite: were
- 40:00Caite: at
- 40:00Caite: a
- 40:00Caite: restaurant,
- 40:01Caite: we
- 40:01Caite: had
- 40:01Caite: been
- 40:01Caite: in
- 40:01Caite: the
- 40:01Caite: car
- 40:02Caite: for
- 40:02Caite: five
- 40:02Caite: hours
- 40:03Caite: and
- 40:03Caite: then
- 40:03Caite: we
- 40:03Caite: went
- 40:03Caite: to
- 40:03Caite: a
- 40:03Caite: tractor
- 40:04Caite: show
- 40:04Caite: and
- 40:04Caite: we
- 40:04Caite: stayed
- 40:04Caite: in
- 40:05Caite: a
- 40:05Caite: hotel
- 40:05Caite: and
- 40:06Caite: we
- 40:06Caite: went
- 40:06Caite: to
- 40:06Caite: a
- 40:07Caite: restaurant
- 40:07Caite: and
- 40:07Caite: she's,
- 40:07Caite: throwing
- 40:08Caite: stuff
- 40:08Caite: and
- 40:09Caite: acting
- 40:09Caite: like
- 40:10Caite: a
- 40:10Caite: baby.
- 40:10Caite: And
- 40:10Caite: we're
- 40:10Caite: trying
- 40:11Caite: to
- 40:11Caite: eat
- 40:11Caite: and
- 40:11Caite: we're
- 40:12Caite: both
- 40:12Caite: exhausted.
- 40:12Caite: And
- 40:13Caite: finally
- 40:15Caite: a
- 40:15Caite: fam,
- 40:15Caite: a
- 40:16Caite: group
- 40:16Caite: of
- 40:16Caite: older
- 40:16Caite: folks
- 40:17Caite: that
- 40:17Caite: had
- 40:17Caite: been
- 40:17Caite: at
- 40:17Caite: the
- 40:17Caite: same
- 40:18Caite: tractor
- 40:18Caite: show
- 40:18Caite: because
- 40:19Caite: small
- 40:19Caite: town
- 40:19Caite: Minnesota.
- 40:20Caite: Everybody's
- 40:20Caite: wearing
- 40:20Caite: a
- 40:20Caite: bright
- 40:20Caite: orange
- 40:21Caite: shirt,
- 40:21Caite: it's
- 40:21Caite: obvious
- 40:22Caite: who
- 40:22Caite: they
- 40:22Caite: are.
- 40:23Caite: This
- 40:23Caite: woman
- 40:24Caite: comes
- 40:24Caite: over
- 40:24Caite: and
- 40:24Caite: she's
- 40:25Caite: probably
- 40:25Caite: in
- 40:26Caite: her
- 40:26Caite: seventies
- 40:26Caite: and
- 40:26Caite: she
- 40:27Caite: goes,
- 40:27Caite: that
- 40:28Caite: baby
- 40:28Caite: needs
- 40:28Caite: a
- 40:28Caite: grandma.
- 40:30Caite: And
- 40:31Caite: she
- 40:31Caite: held
- 40:31Caite: out
- 40:31Caite: her
- 40:31Caite: arms
- 40:32Caite: and
- 40:32Caite: I
- 40:32Caite: just,
- 40:32Caite: I
- 40:33Caite: was
- 40:33Caite: so
- 40:33Caite: shocked
- 40:34Caite: and
- 40:34Caite: exhausted
- 40:35Caite: that
- 40:35Caite: I
- 40:35Caite: just
- 40:35Caite: handed
- 40:36Caite: her
- 40:36Caite: my
- 40:36Caite: kid.
- 40:36Caite: I'm
- 40:36Caite: like,
- 40:37Caite: we're
- 40:37Caite: in
- 40:37Caite: a
- 40:37Caite: family
- 40:37Caite: restaurant.
- 40:38Caite: She's
- 40:38Caite: not
- 40:38Caite: gonna
- 40:38Caite: kidnap
- 40:39Caite: her.
- 40:39Caite: Like
- 40:40Caite: this
- 40:40Caite: woman's
- 40:41Caite: fairly
- 40:42Caite: old.
- 40:42Caite: I
- 40:42Caite: could
- 40:42Caite: take
- 40:43Caite: her,
- 40:43Caite: I
- 40:43Caite: could
- 40:43Caite: chase
- 40:43Caite: her.
- 40:44Caite: She's
- 40:44Caite: not
- 40:44Caite: gonna
- 40:44Caite: run
- 40:45Caite: with
- 40:45Caite: my
- 40:45Caite: baby,
- 40:45Caite: okay.
- 40:46Caite: And
- 40:46Caite: she
- 40:47Caite: did.
- 40:47Caite: She
- 40:47Caite: just
- 40:47Caite: took
- 40:48Caite: her
- 40:48Caite: over
- 40:48Caite: to
- 40:48Caite: their
- 40:48Caite: table
- 40:49Caite: and
- 40:49Caite: they
- 40:49Caite: all,
- 40:49Caite: this
- 40:50Caite: was
- 40:50Caite: obviously
- 40:50Caite: pre
- 40:50Caite: pandemic
- 40:51Caite: and
- 40:51Caite: they
- 40:51Caite: just
- 40:52Caite: passed
- 40:52Caite: her
- 40:52Caite: around
- 40:52Caite: and
- 40:53Caite: we
- 40:53Caite: ate
- 40:53Caite: our
- 40:53Caite: supper
- 40:53Caite: in
- 40:54Caite: peace.
- 40:54Caite: And
- 40:54Caite: it
- 40:55Caite: was
- 40:56Caite: like,
- 40:56Caite: there's
- 40:57Caite: a
- 40:57Caite: lot
- 40:57Caite: to
- 40:57Caite: be
- 40:57Caite: said
- 40:57Caite: for
- 40:57Caite: having
- 40:58Caite: those
- 40:58Caite: friends
- 40:58Caite: where
- 40:58Caite: you
- 40:59Caite: can
- 40:59Caite: just
- 40:59Caite: raid
- 40:59Caite: their
- 40:59Caite: diaper
- 41:00Caite: bag
- 41:00Caite: for
- 41:00Caite: wipes
- 41:00Caite: or
- 41:00Caite: snacks
- 41:01Caite: or
- 41:01Caite: whatever.
- 41:01Caite: But
- 41:02Caite: there's
- 41:02Caite: also
- 41:02Caite: a
- 41:02Caite: lot
- 41:03Caite: to
- 41:03Caite: be
- 41:03Caite: said
- 41:04Caite: for
- 41:04Caite: those
- 41:05Caite: folks
- 41:05Caite: who
- 41:05Caite: have
- 41:05Caite: the
- 41:05Caite: capacity
- 41:06Caite: to
- 41:06Caite: just
- 41:07Caite: help.
- 41:08Caite: Yeah.
- 41:08Caite: And
- 41:09Caite: as
- 41:10Caite: my
- 41:10Caite: kids
- 41:10Caite: are
- 41:10Caite: getting
- 41:10Caite: older,
- 41:11Caite: being
- 41:11Caite: able
- 41:11Caite: to
- 41:11Caite: pass
- 41:12Caite: that
- 41:12Caite: on
- 41:12Caite: even
- 41:12Caite: a
- 41:12Caite: little
- 41:13Caite: bit
- 41:13Caite: to
- 41:13Caite: newer
- 41:14Caite: parents
- 41:14Caite: to
- 41:15Caite: be
- 41:15Caite: like,
- 41:16Caite: your
- 41:16Caite: baby's
- 41:17Caite: not
- 41:17Caite: wearing
- 41:17Caite: socks
- 41:18Caite: and
- 41:18Caite: I'm
- 41:18Caite: not
- 41:18Caite: gonna
- 41:19Caite: comment
- 41:19Caite: on
- 41:19Caite: it.
- 41:20Caite: Or
- 41:20Caite: I'm
- 41:20Caite: just
- 41:20Caite: gonna
- 41:20Caite: say
- 41:20Caite: that
- 41:20Caite: your
- 41:21Caite: kid's
- 41:21Caite: real
- 41:21Caite: cute
- 41:21Caite: and
- 41:21Caite: I'm
- 41:21Caite: not
- 41:21Caite: gonna
- 41:22Caite: go,
- 41:22Caite: that
- 41:22Caite: baby's
- 41:22Caite: gonna
- 41:22Caite: freak.
- 41:23Caite: Yes.
- 41:24Caite: Cause
- 41:27Caite: you
- 41:27Caite: know,
- 41:27Caite: no
- 41:27Caite: child
- 41:28Caite: has
- 41:28Caite: died
- 41:28Caite: yet.
- 41:29Caite: Lack
- 41:29Caite: of
- 41:29Caite: socks.
- 41:29Caite: Yeah.
- 41:30Caite: But
- 41:31Caite: just
- 41:31Caite: to
- 41:31Caite: be
- 41:33Caite: open
- 41:33Caite: about
- 41:33Caite: that
- 41:33Caite: community
- 41:34Caite: because
- 41:34Caite: there's
- 41:34Caite: so
- 41:35Caite: much
- 41:35Caite: that
- 41:36Caite: if
- 41:36Caite: no
- 41:37Caite: one
- 41:37Caite: tells
- 41:37Caite: you
- 41:37Caite: that
- 41:38Caite: everybody
- 41:38Caite: is
- 41:38Caite: struggling
- 41:39Caite: because
- 41:39Caite: everybody
- 41:39Caite: assumes
- 41:40Caite: they're
- 41:40Caite: the
- 41:40Caite: only
- 41:40Caite: one.
- 41:41Caite: Then
- 41:42Caite: you
- 41:42Caite: don't
- 41:42Caite: know
- 41:42Caite: that
- 41:42Caite: everybody
- 41:43Caite: else
- 41:43Caite: is
- 41:43Caite: having
- 41:43Caite: the
- 41:44Caite: same
- 41:44Caite: problems.
- 41:44Caite: And
- 41:44Caite: I
- 41:44Caite: think
- 41:45Caite: the
- 41:45Caite: more
- 41:45Caite: we
- 41:45Caite: can
- 41:46Caite: just
- 41:47Caite: be
- 41:48Caite: out
- 41:48Caite: there
- 41:48Caite: with
- 41:48Caite: it,
- 41:49Caite: the
- 41:49Caite: more
- 41:49Caite: useful
- 41:49Caite: it
- 41:49Caite: is
- 41:50Caite: to
- 41:50Caite: folks.
- 41:50Caite: Yeah.
- 41:51Caite: I
- 41:51Deena: think
- 41:51Deena: there's
- 41:53Caite: for
- 41:53Caite: just
- 41:53Caite: putting
- 41:53Caite: my
- 41:53Caite: personal
- 41:54Caite: stuff
- 41:54Caite: all
- 41:54Caite: over
- 41:54Caite: the
- 41:54Caite: end,
- 41:55Deena: so
- 41:56Deena: I
- 41:56Deena: won't
- 41:56Deena: tell.
- 41:58Deena: I
- 41:58Deena: think
- 41:58Deena: too
- 41:59Deena: that
- 41:59Deena: there's
- 41:59Deena: a
- 41:59Deena: fine
- 42:00Deena: line
- 42:00Deena: between
- 42:02Deena: unwanted
- 42:03Deena: advice
- 42:04Deena: and
- 42:04Deena: then
- 42:05Deena: sharing
- 42:06Deena: a
- 42:06Deena: good
- 42:07Deena: experience,
- 42:08Deena: I
- 42:08Deena: think
- 42:09Deena: it
- 42:09Deena: can
- 42:09Deena: be
- 42:10Deena: so
- 42:10Deena: tricky
- 42:11Deena: as
- 42:11Deena: far
- 42:11Deena: as
- 42:12Deena: I've
- 42:12Deena: seen
- 42:12Deena: both
- 42:13Deena: sides.
- 42:14Deena: Sometimes
- 42:14Deena: women
- 42:15Deena: don't
- 42:15Deena: wanna
- 42:15Deena: say
- 42:16Deena: anything
- 42:17Deena: when
- 42:18Deena: someone
- 42:18Deena: is
- 42:18Deena: looking
- 42:19Deena: for.
- 42:19Deena: Answers
- 42:20Deena: and
- 42:20Deena: advice
- 42:21Deena: because
- 42:21Deena: they're
- 42:21Deena: like
- 42:22Deena: I
- 42:22Deena: don't
- 42:22Deena: wanna
- 42:23Deena: come
- 42:23Deena: across
- 42:23Deena: as
- 42:23Deena: pushy.
- 42:24Deena: I
- 42:24Deena: don't
- 42:24Deena: wanna
- 42:24Deena: let
- 42:25Deena: them,
- 42:25Deena: I
- 42:25Deena: don't
- 42:25Deena: wanna
- 42:26Deena: make
- 42:26Deena: them
- 42:26Deena: feel
- 42:26Deena: like
- 42:27Deena: I'm
- 42:27Deena: pushing
- 42:27Deena: my
- 42:27Deena: opinions
- 42:28Deena: on
- 42:28Deena: them,
- 42:29Deena: so
- 42:29Deena: I'm
- 42:29Deena: just
- 42:30Deena: not
- 42:30Deena: gonna
- 42:30Deena: say
- 42:30Deena: anything.
- 42:31Deena: And
- 42:32Deena: I'm
- 42:32Deena: going,
- 42:32Deena: but
- 42:33Deena: wait
- 42:33Deena: they
- 42:33Deena: wanna
- 42:34Deena: know
- 42:34Deena: I
- 42:34Deena: wanna
- 42:35Deena: know
- 42:35Deena: your
- 42:35Deena: secret.
- 42:35Deena: This
- 42:36Deena: worked
- 42:36Deena: for
- 42:36Deena: you.
- 42:37Deena: Why
- 42:37Deena: did
- 42:37Deena: it
- 42:37Deena: work
- 42:38Deena: for
- 42:38Deena: you?
- 42:38Deena: Tell
- 42:38Deena: me
- 42:39Deena: about
- 42:39Deena: it.
- 42:40Deena: And
- 42:40Deena: so
- 42:41Deena: it's
- 42:41Deena: that
- 42:41Deena: whole
- 42:42Deena: fine
- 42:42Deena: line
- 42:42Deena: of
- 42:43Deena: sharing
- 42:43Deena: and
- 42:44Deena: helping
- 42:45Deena: to
- 42:45Deena: offer
- 42:45Deena: support.
- 42:46Deena: In
- 42:46Deena: a
- 42:46Deena: positive
- 42:47Deena: way,
- 42:48Deena: without
- 42:48Deena: the
- 42:48Deena: judgment,
- 42:48Deena: I
- 42:48Deena: think
- 42:49Deena: no
- 42:49Arlene: judgey.
- 42:49Arlene: Yeah.
- 42:50Arlene: I
- 42:50Arlene: think
- 42:50Arlene: that
- 42:51Arlene: loops
- 42:51Arlene: back
- 42:51Arlene: to
- 42:51Arlene: what
- 42:51Arlene: you
- 42:51Arlene: were
- 42:52Arlene: saying
- 42:52Arlene: before,
- 42:52Arlene: though,
- 42:52Arlene: being
- 42:53Arlene: willing
- 42:53Arlene: to
- 42:53Arlene: ask
- 42:54Arlene: for
- 42:54Arlene: help.
- 42:54Arlene: Because
- 42:54Arlene: if
- 42:55Arlene: you
- 42:55Arlene: have
- 42:55Arlene: those
- 42:55Arlene: people
- 42:55Arlene: in
- 42:56Arlene: your
- 42:56Arlene: life,
- 42:56Arlene: the
- 42:56Arlene: ones
- 42:56Arlene: who
- 42:56Arlene: you
- 42:57Arlene: most
- 42:57Arlene: want
- 42:57Arlene: the
- 42:57Arlene: advice
- 42:58Arlene: from
- 42:58Arlene: are
- 42:59Arlene: the
- 42:59Arlene: non
- 42:59Arlene: judgy
- 43:00Arlene: ones
- 43:00Arlene: who
- 43:00Arlene: are
- 43:00Arlene: gonna
- 43:00Arlene: hold
- 43:01Arlene: back
- 43:01Arlene: until
- 43:01Arlene: you
- 43:01Arlene: ask.
- 43:02Arlene: Yeah.
- 43:02Arlene: So
- 43:02Arlene: if
- 43:03Arlene: you
- 43:03Arlene: say
- 43:03Arlene: so
- 43:03Arlene: true,
- 43:04Arlene: I
- 43:04Arlene: am
- 43:04Arlene: actually
- 43:04Arlene: asking
- 43:05Arlene: a
- 43:05Arlene: question
- 43:05Arlene: here,
- 43:06Arlene: what
- 43:06Arlene: would
- 43:06Arlene: you
- 43:06Arlene: do?
- 43:06Arlene: Or
- 43:06Arlene: what
- 43:07Arlene: did
- 43:07Arlene: you
- 43:07Arlene: do?
- 43:07Arlene: Ask
- 43:08Arlene: the
- 43:08Arlene: question.
- 43:09Arlene: And
- 43:09Arlene: as
- 43:09Arlene: the
- 43:09Arlene: person
- 43:09Arlene: who
- 43:10Arlene: might
- 43:10Arlene: have
- 43:10Arlene: some
- 43:10Arlene: advice,
- 43:11Arlene: it's
- 43:11Arlene: also
- 43:11Arlene: important
- 43:11Arlene: to
- 43:11Arlene: ask
- 43:12Arlene: the
- 43:12Arlene: question
- 43:12Arlene: first.
- 43:12Arlene: If
- 43:13Arlene: they
- 43:13Arlene: don't
- 43:13Arlene: explicitly
- 43:14Arlene: ask,
- 43:14Arlene: do
- 43:14Arlene: you
- 43:15Arlene: want
- 43:15Arlene: to
- 43:15Arlene: know
- 43:15Arlene: what
- 43:15Arlene: I
- 43:15Arlene: did?
- 43:17Arlene: Are
- 43:17Arlene: you
- 43:17Arlene: looking
- 43:17Arlene: for
- 43:17Arlene: advice?
- 43:18Arlene: Like
- 43:18Arlene: those
- 43:18Arlene: are
- 43:18Arlene: valid
- 43:19Arlene: questions
- 43:20Arlene: and
- 43:20Arlene: the,
- 43:20Arlene: and
- 43:21Arlene: then
- 43:21Arlene: you
- 43:21Arlene: have
- 43:21Arlene: to
- 43:21Arlene: listen
- 43:21Arlene: to
- 43:21Arlene: the
- 43:21Arlene: answer.
- 43:23Arlene: But
- 43:23Arlene: to
- 43:23Arlene: be,
- 43:24Arlene: but
- 43:24Arlene: to
- 43:24Arlene: start
- 43:24Arlene: with,
- 43:25Arlene: I
- 43:25Arlene: have
- 43:25Arlene: something
- 43:26Arlene: that
- 43:26Arlene: might
- 43:26Arlene: work.
- 43:27Arlene: Do
- 43:27Arlene: you
- 43:27Arlene: want
- 43:27Arlene: to
- 43:27Arlene: hear
- 43:27Arlene: it
- 43:27Arlene: right
- 43:28Arlene: now?
- 43:28Arlene: Are
- 43:28Arlene: you
- 43:28Arlene: in
- 43:28Arlene: a
- 43:28Arlene: place
- 43:29Arlene: to
- 43:29Arlene: hear
- 43:29Arlene: what
- 43:29Arlene: I
- 43:29Arlene: have
- 43:30Arlene: to
- 43:30Arlene: say?
- 43:30Arlene: Because
- 43:30Arlene: if
- 43:31Arlene: they
- 43:31Arlene: say
- 43:31Arlene: no,
- 43:31Arlene: then
- 43:31Arlene: that's
- 43:32Arlene: fair
- 43:32Arlene: too.
- 43:32Arlene: They
- 43:32Arlene: might
- 43:33Arlene: have
- 43:33Arlene: tried
- 43:33Arlene: a
- 43:33Arlene: million
- 43:34Arlene: things
- 43:34Arlene: and
- 43:34Arlene: they
- 43:34Arlene: just
- 43:35Arlene: don't
- 43:35Arlene: want
- 43:35Arlene: to
- 43:35Arlene: hear
- 43:35Arlene: one
- 43:35Arlene: more
- 43:36Arlene: piece
- 43:37Arlene: of
- 43:37Arlene: advice
- 43:37Arlene: and
- 43:37Arlene: they
- 43:38Arlene: don't
- 43:38Arlene: want
- 43:39Arlene: what
- 43:39Arlene: you
- 43:39Arlene: have
- 43:39Arlene: to
- 43:39Arlene: say.
- 43:39Arlene: And
- 43:40Arlene: that's
- 43:40Arlene: fair
- 43:40Deena: too.
- 43:41Deena: Yeah.
- 43:42Deena: Absolutely.
- 43:42Deena: I
- 43:43Deena: love
- 43:43Deena: the
- 43:43Deena: way
- 43:43Deena: you
- 43:43Deena: phrased
- 43:44Deena: that.
- 43:44Deena: Are
- 43:44Deena: you
- 43:45Deena: in
- 43:45Deena: a
- 43:45Deena: place,
- 43:45Deena: would
- 43:45Deena: you
- 43:46Deena: like
- 43:46Deena: to
- 43:46Deena: hear
- 43:46Deena: the
- 43:46Deena: advice?
- 43:47Deena: Yeah.
- 43:48Deena: Because
- 43:48Deena: it's
- 43:48Deena: so
- 43:48Deena: true.
- 43:48Deena: It's
- 43:49Deena: just
- 43:49Deena: a
- 43:49Deena: common
- 43:49Deena: courtesy.
- 43:52Caite: Yeah.
- 43:52Caite: I
- 43:52Caite: feel
- 43:52Caite: like
- 43:53Caite: for
- 43:53Caite: myself
- 43:53Caite: too,
- 43:54Caite: if
- 43:54Caite: I
- 43:54Caite: can
- 43:54Caite: couch
- 43:55Caite: it
- 43:55Caite: in,
- 43:55Caite: I
- 43:55Caite: really
- 43:55Caite: struggled
- 43:56Caite: with
- 43:56Caite: X,
- 43:57Caite: Y,
- 43:57Caite: and
- 43:57Caite: Z,
- 43:58Caite: or
- 43:59Caite: I
- 43:59Caite: just
- 43:59Caite: found
- 43:59Caite: out
- 44:00Caite: about
- 44:01Caite: this
- 44:02Caite: thing.
- 44:02Caite: At
- 44:02Caite: least
- 44:02Caite: with
- 44:02Caite: folks
- 44:03Caite: that
- 44:03Caite: you
- 44:03Caite: don't
- 44:03Caite: know
- 44:03Caite: well
- 44:04Caite: enough
- 44:04Caite: to
- 44:04Caite: just
- 44:05Caite: go
- 44:05Caite: ahead
- 44:05Caite: and
- 44:05Caite: ask
- 44:05Caite: 'em
- 44:05Caite: your
- 44:06Caite: stupid
- 44:06Caite: question,
- 44:06Caite: knowing
- 44:07Caite: that
- 44:07Caite: they're
- 44:07Caite: gonna
- 44:07Caite: laugh
- 44:08Caite: at
- 44:08Caite: you,
- 44:08Caite: but
- 44:08Caite: that
- 44:08Caite: they're
- 44:08Caite: laughing
- 44:09Caite: because
- 44:09Caite: they've
- 44:09Caite: totally
- 44:10Caite: dealt
- 44:10Caite: with
- 44:10Caite: the
- 44:10Caite: same
- 44:11Caite: thing.
- 44:11Caite: But
- 44:11Caite: that
- 44:12Caite: if
- 44:12Caite: you
- 44:12Caite: can
- 44:13Caite: say,
- 44:13Caite: oh,
- 44:13Caite: my
- 44:13Caite: kids
- 44:14Caite: love
- 44:14Caite: to
- 44:14Caite: be,
- 44:15Caite: they
- 44:15Caite: loved
- 44:15Caite: it
- 44:15Caite: when
- 44:15Caite: I
- 44:16Caite: wore
- 44:16Caite: them,
- 44:16Caite: or,
- 44:18Caite: we
- 44:18Caite: found
- 44:18Caite: this
- 44:18Caite: kind
- 44:18Caite: of
- 44:18Caite: jammies
- 44:19Caite: that
- 44:19Caite: were
- 44:19Caite: totally
- 44:19Caite: better
- 44:20Caite: than
- 44:21Caite: the
- 44:21Caite: ones
- 44:21Caite: with
- 44:21Caite: the
- 44:21Caite: snaps.
- 44:22Caite: Or
- 44:22Caite: like
- 44:22Caite: what,
- 44:23Caite: whatever
- 44:24Caite: it
- 44:24Caite: is.
- 44:24Caite: If
- 44:25Caite: you
- 44:25Caite: can
- 44:26Caite: bring
- 44:26Caite: it
- 44:26Caite: back
- 44:26Caite: to
- 44:26Caite: your
- 44:27Caite: own
- 44:27Caite: experience
- 44:28Caite: of
- 44:28Caite: struggling
- 44:28Caite: with
- 44:28Caite: things
- 44:29Caite: rather
- 44:29Caite: than
- 44:29Caite: just
- 44:29Caite: did
- 44:30Caite: you
- 44:30Caite: not
- 44:30Caite: know
- 44:30Caite: about.
- 44:32Caite: Have
- 44:32Caite: you
- 44:32Caite: heard
- 44:33Caite: of
- 44:33Caite: zippers?
- 44:33Caite: Like
- 44:34Caite: maybe
- 44:34Caite: you
- 44:34Caite: didn't
- 44:35Caite: know
- 44:35Caite: this.
- 44:36Deena: Yeah.
- 44:36Deena: Maybe
- 44:37Deena: you've
- 44:37Deena: been
- 44:37Deena: living
- 44:37Deena: under
- 44:37Deena: a
- 44:38Deena: rock,
- 44:38Deena: but
- 44:39Deena: yeah.
- 44:40Caite: Maybe
- 44:41Caite: you
- 44:41Caite: are
- 44:41Caite: actually
- 44:42Caite: as
- 44:42Caite: stupid
- 44:43Caite: as
- 44:43Caite: an
- 44:43Caite: empty
- 44:44Caite: soup
- 44:44Caite: can,
- 44:45Caite: but
- 44:46Caite: yeah.
- 44:48Caite: Just
- 44:48Caite: stay
- 44:48Caite: away
- 44:48Caite: from
- 44:49Caite: those
- 44:49Caite: people.
- 44:49Caite: Yes.
- 44:50Caite: Anyone
- 44:50Caite: who
- 44:50Caite: starts
- 44:51Caite: a
- 44:51Caite: sentence
- 44:51Caite: with
- 44:52Caite: maybe
- 44:52Caite: you
- 44:52Caite: didn't
- 44:53Caite: know,
- 44:54Caite: just
- 44:54Caite: Yeah.
- 44:55Caite: I
- 44:55Caite: feel
- 44:55Caite: like
- 44:55Caite: I
- 44:55Caite: can
- 44:56Caite: categorically
- 44:56Caite: say
- 44:56Caite: stay
- 44:57Caite: away
- 44:57Caite: from
- 44:57Caite: it.
- 44:57Caite: Yes.
- 44:58Caite: Nothing
- 44:58Caite: that
- 44:58Caite: is
- 44:58Caite: gonna
- 44:59Caite: happen.
- 44:59Arlene: Exactly.
- 45:00Arlene: And
- 45:00Deena: follow
- 45:01Deena: your
- 45:01Deena: guide.
- 45:02Arlene: Yeah.
- 45:03Arlene: Until
- 45:03Arlene: your
- 45:03Arlene: kids
- 45:04Arlene: get
- 45:04Arlene: old
- 45:04Arlene: enough,
- 45:04Arlene: Katie,
- 45:04Arlene: that
- 45:05Arlene: they
- 45:05Arlene: start
- 45:05Arlene: to
- 45:06Arlene: actually,
- 45:07Arlene: you
- 45:08Arlene: so
- 45:10Arlene: actually
- 45:10Arlene: mom.
- 45:11Arlene: Yes.
- 45:12Caite: Also,
- 45:14Arlene: then
- 45:14Arlene: you
- 45:14Arlene: have
- 45:14Arlene: the
- 45:14Arlene: girl
- 45:15Arlene: child,
- 45:15Arlene: then
- 45:15Arlene: you
- 45:15Arlene: have
- 45:15Arlene: to
- 45:15Arlene: live
- 45:15Arlene: with
- 45:16Arlene: the
- 45:16Arlene: other
- 45:16Arlene: day.
- 45:16Arlene: You
- 45:16Arlene: got
- 45:17Caite: actually,
- 45:18Caite: yeah.
- 45:19Caite: Yeah.
- 45:19Caite: She's
- 45:20Caite: six
- 45:20Caite: now.
- 45:20Caite: She
- 45:20Caite: knows
- 45:20Caite: a
- 45:21Caite: lot
- 45:21Caite: of
- 45:21Caite: stuff.
- 45:21Caite: That's
- 45:21Arlene: right.
- 45:22Arlene: So
- 45:22Arlene: speaking
- 45:22Arlene: about
- 45:23Arlene: knowing
- 45:23Arlene: a
- 45:23Arlene: lot
- 45:23Arlene: of,
- 45:24Arlene: yeah.
- 45:24Arlene: Speaking
- 45:24Arlene: about
- 45:24Arlene: knowing
- 45:25Arlene: a
- 45:25Arlene: lot
- 45:25Arlene: of
- 45:25Arlene: stuff,
- 45:26Arlene: you
- 45:26Arlene: said
- 45:26Arlene: you're
- 45:26Arlene: a
- 45:26Arlene: homeschooler
- 45:27Arlene: and
- 45:27Arlene: I
- 45:27Arlene: know
- 45:28Arlene: that
- 45:28Arlene: lots
- 45:28Arlene: of
- 45:28Arlene: people
- 45:28Arlene: are
- 45:29Arlene: curious
- 45:30Arlene: about
- 45:30Arlene: homeschooling.
- 45:32Arlene: Homeschooling,
- 45:32Arlene: curious.
- 45:32Arlene: Is
- 45:33Arlene: that
- 45:33Arlene: a
- 45:33Arlene: thing?
- 45:33Arlene: Yeah.
- 45:33Arlene: But
- 45:34Arlene: not
- 45:34Arlene: really
- 45:35Arlene: sure
- 45:35Arlene: how
- 45:35Arlene: to
- 45:35Arlene: do
- 45:35Arlene: it
- 45:36Arlene: or
- 45:36Arlene: what
- 45:36Arlene: it
- 45:36Arlene: would
- 45:36Arlene: look
- 45:37Arlene: like.
- 45:37Arlene: So
- 45:37Arlene: I
- 45:37Arlene: was
- 45:37Arlene: wondering
- 45:38Arlene: what
- 45:38Arlene: brought
- 45:38Arlene: you
- 45:39Arlene: to
- 45:39Arlene: homeschooling,
- 45:39Arlene: cuz
- 45:39Arlene: you
- 45:39Arlene: did
- 45:40Arlene: mention
- 45:40Arlene: your
- 45:40Arlene: kids
- 45:40Arlene: were
- 45:40Arlene: in
- 45:40Arlene: school
- 45:41Arlene: before.
- 45:41Arlene: Yeah.
- 45:41Arlene: And
- 45:42Arlene: how
- 45:42Arlene: does
- 45:42Arlene: that
- 45:43Arlene: look
- 45:43Arlene: day
- 45:43Arlene: to
- 45:43Arlene: day
- 45:43Arlene: with
- 45:44Arlene: the
- 45:44Arlene: number
- 45:44Arlene: of
- 45:45Arlene: people
- 45:45Arlene: in
- 45:45Arlene: your
- 45:45Arlene: house
- 45:45Arlene: and
- 45:46Arlene: the,
- 45:46Arlene: all
- 45:46Arlene: the
- 45:46Arlene: things
- 45:46Arlene: that
- 45:46Arlene: you've
- 45:46Arlene: got
- 45:47Arlene: going
- 45:47Arlene: on?
- 45:48Deena: So
- 45:49Deena: first
- 45:49Deena: off,
- 45:49Deena: my
- 45:49Deena: confession
- 45:50Deena: is
- 45:50Deena: I
- 45:50Deena: never
- 45:51Deena: went
- 45:51Deena: to
- 45:51Deena: school.
- 45:52Deena: I
- 45:52Deena: never
- 45:53Deena: went
- 45:53Deena: to
- 45:53Deena: a
- 45:54Deena: public
- 45:54Deena: school.
- 45:54Deena: I
- 45:55Deena: was
- 45:56Deena: pulled
- 45:56Deena: out
- 45:56Deena: with
- 45:57Deena: a
- 45:57Deena: group
- 45:57Deena: of
- 45:57Deena: about
- 45:58Deena: 25,
- 45:59Deena: maybe
- 45:59Deena: 30
- 46:00Deena: kids.
- 46:00Deena: As
- 46:01Deena: soon
- 46:01Deena: as
- 46:01Deena: it
- 46:01Deena: was
- 46:02Deena: made
- 46:02Deena: legal
- 46:03Deena: in
- 46:03Deena: our
- 46:03Deena: state
- 46:03Deena: of
- 46:03Deena: Ohio,
- 46:05Deena: my
- 46:05Deena: mom
- 46:05Deena: and
- 46:05Deena: her
- 46:06Deena: group
- 46:06Deena: of
- 46:06Deena: friends
- 46:07Deena: pulled
- 46:07Deena: us
- 46:07Deena: out.
- 46:08Deena: So
- 46:08Deena: I
- 46:08Deena: was.
- 46:09Deena: Raised
- 46:10Deena: homeschooling.
- 46:11Deena: So
- 46:11Deena: for
- 46:11Deena: myself,
- 46:12Deena: it
- 46:12Deena: just
- 46:12Deena: always
- 46:13Deena: seemed
- 46:13Deena: natural
- 46:13Deena: that's
- 46:14Deena: what
- 46:14Deena: I
- 46:14Deena: was
- 46:14Deena: going
- 46:14Deena: to
- 46:14Deena: do
- 46:15Deena: when
- 46:15Deena: I
- 46:15Deena: had
- 46:15Deena: kids.
- 46:16Deena: And
- 46:18Deena: growing
- 46:18Deena: up
- 46:19Deena: it
- 46:19Deena: availed
- 46:20Deena: itself
- 46:20Deena: to
- 46:21Deena: so
- 46:21Deena: many
- 46:21Deena: opportunities
- 46:22Deena: for
- 46:22Deena: me
- 46:23Deena: that
- 46:23Deena: I
- 46:24Deena: was
- 46:24Deena: able
- 46:24Deena: to
- 46:24Deena: have
- 46:24Deena: so
- 46:24Deena: many
- 46:25Deena: different
- 46:25Deena: experiences.
- 46:26Deena: I
- 46:26Deena: was
- 46:26Deena: able
- 46:27Deena: to
- 46:27Deena: be
- 46:28Deena: way
- 46:28Deena: more
- 46:29Deena: involved
- 46:29Deena: with
- 46:30Deena: our
- 46:30Deena: taking
- 46:31Deena: care
- 46:31Deena: of
- 46:31Deena: our
- 46:31Deena: horses.
- 46:32Deena: And
- 46:33Deena: it
- 46:33Deena: opened
- 46:34Deena: up
- 46:34Deena: to
- 46:34Deena: different
- 46:34Deena: work
- 46:35Deena: aspects
- 46:36Deena: because
- 46:36Deena: I
- 46:36Deena: had
- 46:37Deena: a
- 46:37Deena: lot
- 46:37Deena: of
- 46:38Deena: life
- 46:38Deena: experience
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- 1:01:19Deena: the
- 1:01:20Deena: hard
- 1:01:20Deena: physical
- 1:01:20Deena: work.
- 1:01:21Deena: There's
- 1:01:21Deena: nothing
- 1:01:21Deena: wrong
- 1:01:22Deena: with
- 1:01:22Deena: the
- 1:01:22Deena: kids
- 1:01:22Deena: working
- 1:01:23Deena: hard.
- 1:01:23Deena: And
- 1:01:25Deena: I
- 1:01:25Deena: think
- 1:01:25Deena: I
- 1:01:25Deena: love
- 1:01:26Deena: so
- 1:01:26Deena: much
- 1:01:27Deena: the
- 1:01:27Deena: family,
- 1:01:29Deena: the
- 1:01:29Deena: farm
- 1:01:29Deena: family
- 1:01:30Deena: comradery
- 1:01:31Deena: of
- 1:01:32Deena: we're
- 1:01:32Deena: in
- 1:01:32Deena: this
- 1:01:32Deena: together,
- 1:01:33Deena: we're
- 1:01:33Deena: working
- 1:01:34Deena: on
- 1:01:34Deena: this
- 1:01:34Deena: together.
- 1:01:35Deena: We're
- 1:01:35Deena: a
- 1:01:35Deena: family
- 1:01:36Deena: unit.
- 1:01:36Deena: This
- 1:01:36Deena: is
- 1:01:37Deena: how
- 1:01:37Deena: we
- 1:01:37Deena: do
- 1:01:37Deena: things.
- 1:01:38Deena: This
- 1:01:38Deena: is
- 1:01:39Deena: our
- 1:01:39Deena: goal
- 1:01:39Deena: as
- 1:01:39Deena: a
- 1:01:39Deena: family
- 1:01:41Deena: and
- 1:01:41Deena: let's
- 1:01:42Deena: all
- 1:01:42Deena: stick
- 1:01:42Deena: together.
- 1:01:43Deena: I
- 1:01:43Deena: really
- 1:01:43Deena: like
- 1:01:44Deena: that.
- 1:01:45Caite: So
- 1:01:45Caite: sorry
- 1:01:46Caite: then
- 1:01:46Caite: What
- 1:01:46Caite: have
- 1:01:47Caite: the
- 1:01:47Caite: challenges
- 1:01:47Caite: been
- 1:01:48Caite: for
- 1:01:48Caite: you?
- 1:01:48Caite: Besides
- 1:01:49Caite: what
- 1:01:49Caite: I
- 1:01:49Caite: can
- 1:01:50Caite: only
- 1:01:50Caite: imagine
- 1:01:51Caite: is
- 1:01:51Caite: a
- 1:01:51Caite: tremendous
- 1:01:52Caite: amount
- 1:01:52Caite: of
- 1:01:52Caite: laundry.
- 1:01:54Caite: Cause
- 1:01:54Caite: if
- 1:01:55Caite: I
- 1:01:55Caite: have
- 1:01:55Caite: this
- 1:01:55Caite: much
- 1:01:55Caite: laundry
- 1:01:56Caite: with
- 1:01:56Caite: four
- 1:01:56Caite: people,
- 1:01:57Caite: I
- 1:01:58Caite: feel
- 1:01:58Caite: like
- 1:01:58Caite: eight
- 1:01:59Caite: people
- 1:01:59Caite: is
- 1:01:59Caite: probably
- 1:02:00Caite: more
- 1:02:01Caite: than
- 1:02:01Caite: twice
- 1:02:01Caite: as
- 1:02:02Caite: much
- 1:02:04Caite: with
- 1:02:04Caite: kids.
- 1:02:04Caite: It
- 1:02:04Caite: does
- 1:02:04Caite: not
- 1:02:04Caite: seem
- 1:02:05Caite: to
- 1:02:05Caite: be
- 1:02:05Caite: Oh,
- 1:02:06Caite: yes.
- 1:02:06Arlene: Attitude.
- 1:02:07Arlene: Oh
- 1:02:07Arlene: yes.
- 1:02:07Arlene: And
- 1:02:07Arlene: the
- 1:02:07Arlene: clothes
- 1:02:08Arlene: get
- 1:02:08Arlene: bigger
- 1:02:08Arlene: too.
- 1:02:09Arlene: Kg?
- 1:02:10Arlene: Yes.
- 1:02:11Deena: Oh,
- 1:02:11Deena: don't
- 1:02:11Deena: that.
- 1:02:11Deena: Yes.
- 1:02:12Deena: Yes.
- 1:02:12Deena: Because
- 1:02:13Deena: I,
- 1:02:13Deena: I
- 1:02:13Deena: have
- 1:02:13Deena: teenage
- 1:02:14Deena: boys
- 1:02:15Deena: and
- 1:02:15Deena: so
- 1:02:16Arlene: it's
- 1:02:16Arlene: and
- 1:02:16Arlene: huge
- 1:02:16Arlene: shoes.
- 1:02:17Arlene: Those
- 1:02:17Arlene: jeans
- 1:02:17Arlene: are
- 1:02:17Arlene: these,
- 1:02:17Arlene: they're
- 1:02:18Arlene: huge.
- 1:02:18Arlene: Yes.
- 1:02:18Arlene: Yeah.
- 1:02:19Arlene: Huge
- 1:02:20Arlene: footwear
- 1:02:20Arlene: boots
- 1:02:20Arlene: everywhere.
- 1:02:22Arlene: Yes.
- 1:02:22Arlene: Yes.
- 1:02:22Arlene: The
- 1:02:23Arlene: boots.
- 1:02:23Arlene: Boots
- 1:02:23Caite: are
- 1:02:23Caite: huge.
- 1:02:26Caite: Yes.
- 1:02:26Caite: We're
- 1:02:26Caite: all
- 1:02:26Caite: just
- 1:02:26Caite: gonna
- 1:02:26Caite: have
- 1:02:26Caite: to
- 1:02:26Caite: go
- 1:02:27Caite: barefoot.
- 1:02:27Caite: Yes.
- 1:02:27Caite: When
- 1:02:28Caite: my
- 1:02:28Caite: kids
- 1:02:28Caite: get
- 1:02:28Caite: into
- 1:02:28Caite: the
- 1:02:29Caite: gir
- 1:02:29Caite: size.
- 1:02:30Caite: Cause
- 1:02:30Caite: there's
- 1:02:30Caite: already
- 1:02:31Caite: so
- 1:02:31Caite: many
- 1:02:31Caite: boots
- 1:02:32Caite: that
- 1:02:32Caite: it's
- 1:02:32Caite: just
- 1:02:32Caite: this
- 1:02:33Caite: yeah.
- 1:02:33Caite: It's
- 1:02:33Caite: a
- 1:02:34Caite: whole
- 1:02:34Caite: thing.
- 1:02:34Caite: Yeah.
- 1:02:35Arlene: Okay.
- 1:02:35Arlene: So
- 1:02:35Deena: the
- 1:02:35Deena: biggest
- 1:02:36Deena: challenge,
- 1:02:37Deena: oh
- 1:02:37Deena: my
- 1:02:38Deena: goodness.
- 1:02:38Deena: Yeah,
- 1:02:39Deena: I
- 1:02:39Deena: think
- 1:02:39Deena: it's.
- 1:02:41Deena: Just
- 1:02:41Deena: the
- 1:02:42Deena: day
- 1:02:42Deena: to
- 1:02:42Deena: day,
- 1:02:42Deena: we
- 1:02:43Deena: can
- 1:02:43Deena: get
- 1:02:43Deena: caught
- 1:02:43Deena: up
- 1:02:44Deena: in
- 1:02:44Deena: just
- 1:02:44Deena: the
- 1:02:44Deena: hard
- 1:02:45Deena: work
- 1:02:45Deena: and
- 1:02:46Deena: the
- 1:02:46Deena: to-do
- 1:02:46Deena: list
- 1:02:47Deena: of
- 1:02:47Deena: what
- 1:02:47Deena: has
- 1:02:48Deena: to
- 1:02:48Deena: be
- 1:02:48Deena: done.
- 1:02:49Deena: So
- 1:02:49Deena: the
- 1:02:49Deena: challenge
- 1:02:50Deena: of
- 1:02:52Deena: balancing
- 1:02:53Deena: that
- 1:02:54Deena: there's
- 1:02:54Deena: work
- 1:02:55Deena: and
- 1:02:55Deena: there's
- 1:02:55Deena: play
- 1:02:56Deena: and
- 1:02:57Deena: they're
- 1:02:57Deena: both
- 1:02:57Deena: important
- 1:02:58Deena: because
- 1:02:59Deena: if
- 1:02:59Deena: we
- 1:02:59Deena: don't
- 1:02:59Deena: have
- 1:02:59Deena: the
- 1:03:00Deena: play,
- 1:03:01Deena: then
- 1:03:01Deena: that's
- 1:03:01Deena: when
- 1:03:01Deena: the
- 1:03:01Deena: burnout
- 1:03:02Deena: and
- 1:03:02Deena: the
- 1:03:02Deena: frustration
- 1:03:04Deena: builds
- 1:03:04Deena: up.
- 1:03:05Deena: And
- 1:03:05Deena: so
- 1:03:05Deena: I
- 1:03:06Deena: think
- 1:03:06Deena: that
- 1:03:06Deena: is
- 1:03:06Deena: one
- 1:03:07Deena: of
- 1:03:07Deena: the
- 1:03:07Deena: hardest
- 1:03:07Deena: things
- 1:03:08Deena: to
- 1:03:08Deena: keep
- 1:03:09Deena: level.
- 1:03:10Deena: But
- 1:03:10Deena: we're
- 1:03:10Deena: working
- 1:03:11Deena: on
- 1:03:11Deena: it.
- 1:03:11Deena: We're
- 1:03:12Deena: working
- 1:03:12Deena: on
- 1:03:12Deena: it.
- 1:03:14Arlene: We're
- 1:03:14Arlene: all
- 1:03:14Arlene: a
- 1:03:14Arlene: work
- 1:03:14Arlene: in
- 1:03:14Arlene: progress,
- 1:03:15Arlene: right?
- 1:03:16Arlene: Yes.
- 1:03:16Arlene: Yes.
- 1:03:17Arlene: So
- 1:03:17Arlene: you
- 1:03:17Arlene: have
- 1:03:18Arlene: a
- 1:03:18Arlene: pretty
- 1:03:18Arlene: wide
- 1:03:18Arlene: range
- 1:03:19Arlene: of
- 1:03:19Arlene: ages
- 1:03:20Arlene: of
- 1:03:20Arlene: kids.
- 1:03:20Arlene: What
- 1:03:20Arlene: are
- 1:03:20Arlene: some
- 1:03:21Arlene: of
- 1:03:21Arlene: the
- 1:03:21Arlene: practical
- 1:03:21Arlene: ways
- 1:03:22Arlene: that
- 1:03:22Arlene: you
- 1:03:22Arlene: get
- 1:03:23Arlene: them
- 1:03:23Arlene: involved,
- 1:03:24Arlene: whether
- 1:03:24Arlene: it's
- 1:03:25Arlene: during
- 1:03:25Arlene: their
- 1:03:25Arlene: school
- 1:03:25Arlene: day
- 1:03:26Arlene: or
- 1:03:26Arlene: outside
- 1:03:26Arlene: of
- 1:03:27Arlene: kind
- 1:03:27Arlene: of
- 1:03:27Arlene: the
- 1:03:27Arlene: formal
- 1:03:28Arlene: school
- 1:03:29Arlene: hours?
- 1:03:29Arlene: What
- 1:03:29Arlene: kinds
- 1:03:29Arlene: of
- 1:03:30Arlene: tasks?
- 1:03:31Arlene: Cuz
- 1:03:31Arlene: I'm
- 1:03:31Arlene: always
- 1:03:31Arlene: looking
- 1:03:32Arlene: for,
- 1:03:32Arlene: ways
- 1:03:33Arlene: for
- 1:03:33Arlene: people
- 1:03:33Arlene: to
- 1:03:33Arlene: help
- 1:03:34Arlene: out.
- 1:03:34Arlene: Age
- 1:03:34Arlene: appropriate
- 1:03:35Arlene: ones.
- 1:03:37Deena: Yes.
- 1:03:37Deena: Yes.
- 1:03:38Deena: So
- 1:03:38Deena: the
- 1:03:39Deena: oldest,
- 1:03:39Deena: typically
- 1:03:40Deena: he
- 1:03:41Deena: goes
- 1:03:41Deena: and
- 1:03:41Deena: helps
- 1:03:41Deena: dad.
- 1:03:42Deena: He,
- 1:03:42Deena: my
- 1:03:43Deena: husband
- 1:03:43Deena: does
- 1:03:44Deena: farming
- 1:03:44Deena: and
- 1:03:44Deena: he
- 1:03:45Deena: does
- 1:03:45Deena: a
- 1:03:45Deena: construction
- 1:03:45Deena: business
- 1:03:46Deena: as
- 1:03:46Deena: well.
- 1:03:47Deena: So
- 1:03:47Deena: he
- 1:03:48Deena: has
- 1:03:48Deena: been
- 1:03:49Deena: busy
- 1:03:49Deena: learning
- 1:03:49Deena: the
- 1:03:50Deena: construction
- 1:03:50Deena: trades
- 1:03:51Deena: and,
- 1:03:52Deena: but
- 1:03:53Deena: as
- 1:03:53Deena: far
- 1:03:53Deena: as
- 1:03:53Deena: helping
- 1:03:53Deena: out
- 1:03:54Deena: around
- 1:03:54Deena: the
- 1:03:54Deena: house,
- 1:03:54Deena: it's
- 1:03:55Deena: the
- 1:03:55Deena: typical
- 1:03:55Deena: helping
- 1:03:56Deena: with
- 1:03:56Deena: dishes
- 1:03:57Deena: and
- 1:03:57Deena: laundry
- 1:03:57Deena: and
- 1:03:57Deena: childcare.
- 1:03:59Deena: That
- 1:03:59Deena: has
- 1:03:59Deena: been,
- 1:04:00Deena: that's
- 1:04:00Deena: been
- 1:04:01Deena: a
- 1:04:01Deena: really
- 1:04:01Deena: big
- 1:04:01Deena: gift
- 1:04:02Deena: when
- 1:04:02Deena: it
- 1:04:03Deena: comes
- 1:04:03Deena: to
- 1:04:03Deena: the
- 1:04:04Deena: large
- 1:04:04Deena: family
- 1:04:04Deena: aspect.
- 1:04:06Deena: It
- 1:04:06Deena: is
- 1:04:06Deena: so
- 1:04:06Deena: special
- 1:04:07Deena: to
- 1:04:07Deena: watch
- 1:04:08Deena: your
- 1:04:08Deena: teenager,
- 1:04:09Deena: who
- 1:04:10Deena: always
- 1:04:11Deena: was
- 1:04:11Deena: rough
- 1:04:11Deena: and
- 1:04:11Deena: tough,
- 1:04:12Deena: be
- 1:04:12Deena: kind
- 1:04:13Deena: and
- 1:04:13Deena: gentle
- 1:04:13Deena: and
- 1:04:14Deena: loving
- 1:04:14Deena: with
- 1:04:14Deena: a
- 1:04:14Deena: baby,
- 1:04:15Deena: and
- 1:04:16Deena: to
- 1:04:16Deena: have
- 1:04:16Deena: the
- 1:04:17Deena: child's
- 1:04:17Deena: eyes
- 1:04:18Deena: just
- 1:04:18Deena: light
- 1:04:19Deena: up
- 1:04:19Deena: when
- 1:04:19Deena: the
- 1:04:19Deena: teenager
- 1:04:20Deena: walks
- 1:04:20Deena: in
- 1:04:20Deena: the
- 1:04:20Deena: room.
- 1:04:21Deena: It's
- 1:04:21Deena: so
- 1:04:21Deena: precious
- 1:04:22Deena: to
- 1:04:22Deena: watch.
- 1:04:23Deena: So
- 1:04:23Deena: the
- 1:04:23Deena: teenager
- 1:04:24Deena: helps
- 1:04:24Deena: out
- 1:04:25Deena: a
- 1:04:25Deena: lot,
- 1:04:25Deena: but
- 1:04:25Deena: I
- 1:04:25Deena: try
- 1:04:26Deena: very
- 1:04:26Deena: hard
- 1:04:26Deena: to
- 1:04:27Deena: ask
- 1:04:28Deena: and
- 1:04:28Deena: not
- 1:04:28Deena: expect.
- 1:04:29Deena: Because
- 1:04:30Deena: I
- 1:04:30Deena: never
- 1:04:30Deena: want
- 1:04:30Deena: him
- 1:04:31Deena: to
- 1:04:31Deena: feel
- 1:04:31Deena: like
- 1:04:32Deena: I
- 1:04:32Deena: didn't
- 1:04:32Deena: have
- 1:04:32Deena: these
- 1:04:33Deena: kids.
- 1:04:33Deena: I
- 1:04:33Deena: don't
- 1:04:33Deena: want
- 1:04:33Deena: kids.
- 1:04:34Deena: I'm
- 1:04:34Deena: always
- 1:04:34Deena: being
- 1:04:34Deena: dumped
- 1:04:35Deena: on.
- 1:04:36Deena: And
- 1:04:37Deena: so
- 1:04:37Deena: then
- 1:04:38Deena: the
- 1:04:38Deena: other
- 1:04:38Deena: ones
- 1:04:38Deena: they
- 1:04:39Deena: help
- 1:04:39Deena: with
- 1:04:39Deena: laundry
- 1:04:41Deena: and,
- 1:04:42Deena: farming.
- 1:04:43Deena: Farming
- 1:04:44Deena: has
- 1:04:44Deena: a
- 1:04:44Deena: long
- 1:04:45Deena: list
- 1:04:46Deena: of
- 1:04:46Deena: chores,
- 1:04:48Deena: and
- 1:04:48Deena: so
- 1:04:48Deena: they
- 1:04:49Deena: help
- 1:04:49Deena: a
- 1:04:49Deena: lot
- 1:04:50Deena: with
- 1:04:50Deena: that.
- 1:04:51Deena: They
- 1:04:51Deena: have
- 1:04:51Deena: helped
- 1:04:51Deena: a
- 1:04:51Deena: lot
- 1:04:52Deena: with
- 1:04:52Deena: our
- 1:04:53Deena: with
- 1:04:53Deena: the
- 1:04:53Deena: building
- 1:04:53Deena: of
- 1:04:53Deena: our
- 1:04:53Deena: new
- 1:04:54Deena: house.
- 1:04:54Deena: They
- 1:04:54Deena: did
- 1:04:55Deena: hardwood
- 1:04:55Deena: flooring.
- 1:04:56Deena: The
- 1:04:56Deena: little
- 1:04:56Deena: ones
- 1:04:57Deena: helped
- 1:04:57Deena: carry
- 1:04:58Deena: the
- 1:04:58Deena: pieces,
- 1:04:59Deena: and
- 1:05:00Deena: they
- 1:05:00Deena: were
- 1:05:00Deena: so
- 1:05:00Deena: happy
- 1:05:00Deena: to
- 1:05:01Deena: be
- 1:05:01Deena: helpful.
- 1:05:02Deena: And
- 1:05:03Deena: they
- 1:05:03Deena: helped
- 1:05:03Deena: a
- 1:05:03Deena: little
- 1:05:04Deena: bit
- 1:05:04Deena: with
- 1:05:04Deena: some
- 1:05:04Deena: of
- 1:05:04Deena: the
- 1:05:05Deena: painting
- 1:05:05Deena: where
- 1:05:06Deena: it
- 1:05:06Deena: was
- 1:05:06Deena: suitable,
- 1:05:07Deena: where
- 1:05:07Deena: they
- 1:05:07Deena: could
- 1:05:08Deena: be
- 1:05:08Deena: messy
- 1:05:08Deena: and
- 1:05:09Deena: it
- 1:05:09Deena: not
- 1:05:09Deena: be
- 1:05:09Deena: an
- 1:05:09Deena: issue.
- 1:05:10Deena: And
- 1:05:11Deena: yeah
- 1:05:11Deena: just
- 1:05:12Deena: helping
- 1:05:12Deena: them
- 1:05:12Deena: like,
- 1:05:13Deena: Hey,
- 1:05:13Deena: this
- 1:05:13Deena: is
- 1:05:13Deena: the
- 1:05:13Deena: big
- 1:05:14Deena: picture.
- 1:05:14Deena: This
- 1:05:14Deena: is
- 1:05:15Deena: our
- 1:05:15Deena: project
- 1:05:15Deena: that
- 1:05:15Deena: we're
- 1:05:15Deena: working
- 1:05:16Deena: on,
- 1:05:16Deena: and
- 1:05:16Deena: this
- 1:05:17Deena: is
- 1:05:17Deena: how
- 1:05:17Deena: it's
- 1:05:17Deena: going
- 1:05:17Deena: to
- 1:05:18Deena: benefit
- 1:05:18Deena: you
- 1:05:18Deena: in
- 1:05:18Deena: the
- 1:05:19Deena: long
- 1:05:19Deena: run.
- 1:05:20Deena: And
- 1:05:20Deena: I
- 1:05:20Deena: think
- 1:05:20Deena: that
- 1:05:20Deena: really
- 1:05:21Deena: helps
- 1:05:21Deena: them
- 1:05:21Deena: too
- 1:05:21Deena: because
- 1:05:22Deena: like
- 1:05:22Deena: I
- 1:05:22Deena: said,
- 1:05:23Deena: building
- 1:05:23Deena: our
- 1:05:23Deena: house
- 1:05:23Deena: has
- 1:05:24Deena: been
- 1:05:24Deena: almost
- 1:05:25Deena: two
- 1:05:25Deena: years,
- 1:05:26Deena: so
- 1:05:26Deena: they've
- 1:05:27Deena: been
- 1:05:27Deena: through
- 1:05:27Deena: this
- 1:05:28Deena: process
- 1:05:28Deena: and
- 1:05:29Deena: we're
- 1:05:29Deena: all
- 1:05:29Deena: tired,
- 1:05:30Deena: but
- 1:05:30Deena: we're
- 1:05:30Deena: all
- 1:05:30Deena: getting
- 1:05:31Deena: it
- 1:05:31Deena: done.
- 1:05:31Deena: And
- 1:05:31Deena: it's
- 1:05:32Deena: a
- 1:05:32Deena: whole
- 1:05:32Deena: heap
- 1:05:33Deena: of
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- 1:05:52Caite: chores
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- 1:07:20Arlene: Yes.
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- 1:07:32Deena: That's
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- 1:07:33Deena: good
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- 1:08:11Arlene: Yeah,
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- 1:08:12Arlene: Yes.
- 1:08:14Arlene: All
- 1:08:14Arlene: right.
- 1:08:14Arlene: So
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- 1:08:16Arlene: and
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- 1:08:21Arlene: entry.
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- 1:09:20Arlene: Yeah,
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- 1:09:20Arlene: right.
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