Latest / Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast / 💎 RHOBH "Mourner's Mixer"
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Drama, Darling Drama, Darling Drama, Darling.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Hello, welcome back in everybody. It's Friday. Oh my goodness.
- 0:24Speaker 2: We are getting into the weekend, so close to Christmas
- 0:27Speaker 2: those of you who are celebrating Hanakah, Happy Hanukkah and
- 0:31Speaker 2: happy holidays to all. So we're doing Beverly Hills and
- 0:35Speaker 2: Deanna Chang is joining me. Hello, Deanna.
- 0:38Speaker 3: Oh hi, how are you hi? Festive? Oh?
- 0:41Speaker 2: Thank you? Oh you noticed my necklace? Thank you. This
- 0:43Speaker 2: is a gorgeous, gorgeous statement necklace, a La Luan that
- 0:49Speaker 2: was gifted to me from one Jules Marlowe, who is
- 0:52Speaker 2: a Darling over on the Patreot. We had our holiday
- 0:56Speaker 2: get together over on a Zoom and Jewles show and
- 1:00Speaker 2: she had a gorgeous statement necklace on and I was
- 1:03Speaker 2: like wow. I pinned her up on that zoom and
- 1:06Speaker 2: I said, everyone take it in because look at this gal.
- 1:10Speaker 2: And so you know what she did. She went ahead
- 1:14Speaker 2: and sent me one like god damn it. The next day.
- 1:17Speaker 2: I mean, I got it. I mean, and we were
- 1:20Speaker 2: joking because I said, I can't believe I even opened it,
- 1:23Speaker 2: because like, I've got a lot of packages that are
- 1:26Speaker 2: being sent to me in preparation for the season. Right,
- 1:30Speaker 2: so things are coming for Brett's ordering things. I'm ordering things.
- 1:34Speaker 2: My parents are ordering things to my house, you know,
- 1:37Speaker 2: like it's nuts. So I happen to get this little
- 1:41Speaker 2: package and I said to myself, now it was this,
- 1:44Speaker 2: let's just open it because it's real small. Let's get
- 1:46Speaker 2: in here. I wasn't planning on sitting there and opening
- 1:49Speaker 2: them all up. Happened to open it there it was boom.
- 1:52Speaker 2: How about that? Now that's Christmas spirit, That's manifestation. That
- 1:56Speaker 2: is what Amanda is talking about, the psychology of money,
- 2:00Speaker 2: the psychology behind statement necklaces and getting them to you
- 2:05Speaker 2: without you having done anything. You know, Amy, What I
- 2:09Speaker 2: would like to see and I don't know if this
- 2:11Speaker 2: is available, okay, but what I would like to see
- 2:15Speaker 2: with that particular piece, is you in like a boostdie
- 2:21Speaker 2: of some kind something we're should I want to see
- 2:24Speaker 2: skin Okay, yeah, you're gonna need skins and I just
- 2:27Speaker 2: will like.
- 2:28Speaker 3: That, e well whatever, really like I need that thing
- 2:32Speaker 3: to just present, do you know what I mean?
- 2:35Speaker 1: Like?
- 2:35Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So Deanna's what she's essentially sayings, I'm wearing
- 2:38Speaker 2: a right now, I'm wearing Yes, Okay, So now I've
- 2:42Speaker 2: unbuttoned it and now it's over my shoulders.
- 2:45Speaker 3: I mean I'm bearing the shoulds. Oh my god. I mean,
- 2:48Speaker 3: now that's giving a piece. That's a piece, you know,
- 2:51Speaker 3: it is giving it?
- 2:52Speaker 2: So like, yeah, I mean, did I have a fancy
- 2:56Speaker 2: shirt to wear with this?
- 2:57Speaker 1: No?
- 2:57Speaker 2: I didn't. I threw on a buffalo plaid red and
- 3:00Speaker 2: black flannel and then I put on this statement necklace, thinking,
- 3:04Speaker 2: you know, look, I think it's kind of like class
- 3:07Speaker 2: me cash. But you're right, Dana, you know, really is.
- 3:12Speaker 3: It's just that there was just too much fabric. I
- 3:15Speaker 3: needed to see the peace. You know. Now, obviously make
- 3:19Speaker 3: yourself at home, Amy, because this might.
- 3:22Speaker 2: Do it like the whole hour, but I can't.
- 3:24Speaker 3: It is fabulous like that, and that could be, you know,
- 3:28Speaker 3: some sort of buffalo plaid gown if we didn't know better,
- 3:33Speaker 3: you know.
- 3:35Speaker 2: As I undress for y'all, Okay, well, thank you for that.
- 3:39Speaker 3: I mean, you can wear that to any holiday party
- 3:42Speaker 3: and you're going to be the top of the town,
- 3:43Speaker 3: you know.
- 3:44Speaker 2: All Right, We've done enough about that. We've just spoken
- 3:46Speaker 2: at it. We've got business to discuss. Thank you. As
- 3:53Speaker 2: we as we jump into Beverly Hills. You know, I
- 3:56Speaker 2: want to say this was a nice episode. It just
- 3:58Speaker 2: you know, not a ton happened, but it was you know,
- 4:01Speaker 2: people making connections. We we got to see Bows and
- 4:05Speaker 2: Amanda sit down with Derit. We got to see Rachel
- 4:10Speaker 2: with Sutton at Rachel's house, so mena that. Yeah, these
- 4:14Speaker 2: gals they're mixing up, they're doing their showing up. They're
- 4:17Speaker 2: they're doing what they need to do to get to
- 4:20Speaker 2: know each other. And I really enjoyed it. Now, what
- 4:23Speaker 2: a fun speed dating unexpected scene at boss.
- 4:28Speaker 3: We I was like, thank god, someone is looking in
- 4:32Speaker 3: their rolodax yes and getting something together where the girls
- 4:37Speaker 3: can meet and greet and get some eyes on some guys.
- 4:40Speaker 3: I mean, that whole scene was hilarious. It was the
- 4:44Speaker 3: black outfits. The black outphits alone were amazing.
- 4:52Speaker 2: You can't write this like now that what one after
- 4:56Speaker 2: another after another after another. I mean when they continue
- 5:01Speaker 2: to show up through that door, it did look like awake,
- 5:04Speaker 2: It look like we are grieving widows, widowers, whatever have you.
- 5:11Speaker 2: Who need to draw the curtains.
- 5:14Speaker 3: Yeah, you know for sitting shiva.
- 5:17Speaker 2: Yeah, sitting shiva. We're going to put black ribbons on
- 5:19Speaker 2: the doorknobs, so the town knows that we are, you know, grieving.
- 5:24Speaker 2: By the way, I saw this thing on TikTok. Now,
- 5:28Speaker 2: my TikTok is all like a lot about like design
- 5:30Speaker 2: and interior stuff. And one of the things was a
- 5:34Speaker 2: living room. Is called a living room because back in
- 5:38Speaker 2: like the Victorian era, when somebody died, they would have
- 5:43Speaker 2: a death room and everyone would sit around and they
- 5:46Speaker 2: would draw the curtains. They would put like the signals
- 5:50Speaker 2: of things outside of the door so that everybody knew
- 5:53Speaker 2: that someone had passed. Flowers would be brought in in
- 5:57Speaker 2: order to you know, I beg my own pardon, you know,
- 6:01Speaker 2: help cover up the smell.
- 6:02Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:03Speaker 2: This was before embalming and such. So yeah, yeah, so
- 6:07Speaker 2: then it is. And they would do that for twenty
- 6:09Speaker 2: four hours. Okay, so you know, they didn't do it
- 6:12Speaker 2: for a long time, just a good time.
- 6:15Speaker 3: Good no.
- 6:19Speaker 2: So after that was over, they opened the curtains and
- 6:23Speaker 2: the death room no longer is the death room. It
- 6:25Speaker 2: is the living room. And here we are.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Wow, you know, wow, thank you for that education. It
- 6:31Speaker 3: makes sense. It's the flowers make sense. All of It's tough, yeah,
- 6:37Speaker 3: but we live in times and no matter how difficult
- 6:41Speaker 3: they are, like, we don't have to do that, you know.
- 6:44Speaker 2: Yes, thank goodness. We got to keep it moving like
- 6:47Speaker 2: speed dating, which brings me back to Rachel Zoe on
- 6:51Speaker 2: these speed dates is exactly what you'd want to see.
- 6:55Speaker 2: First of all, this guy who's like cold Play, No, sir, please,
- 7:00Speaker 2: I am so with Rachel zo I know Deanna's maybe
- 7:04Speaker 2: she looks like she's on the fence. I'm a big
- 7:06Speaker 2: cold Play fan. Huge love Chris Martin. Oh, I love
- 7:10Speaker 2: the music. Oh loved the concert. I went to one
- 7:13Speaker 2: of the best concerts. Okay, so we're just gonna leave
- 7:17Speaker 2: it there, Tianna.
- 7:17Speaker 3: Okay, no, listen. I remember there was a time where
- 7:21Speaker 3: he was wearing that one jacket many years back. It
- 7:24Speaker 3: was a multi colored jacket that he wore. We were
- 7:28Speaker 3: with that jacket for what felt like three years. And
- 7:33Speaker 3: that period of time with that jacket and his little dance.
- 7:37Speaker 3: I loved it.
- 7:39Speaker 2: Oh, you loved it.
- 7:40Speaker 3: Oh.
- 7:40Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say something different.
- 7:43Speaker 3: Okay, No, I enjoyed it. I think in the world
- 7:47Speaker 3: they've entered a more a corny space in terms of
- 7:51Speaker 3: like just vibes.
- 7:52Speaker 2: Okay, So then now you're saying it moved into a
- 7:54Speaker 2: CORNI your place.
- 7:55Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't. I can't cite any reasons why.
- 7:59Speaker 3: This is just vibes. You know.
- 8:02Speaker 2: You know, I think I hear you loud and clear.
- 8:04Speaker 2: And what I'll say about that is I'll meet you
- 8:06Speaker 2: halfway and say, you know, I think that's something. That's
- 8:08Speaker 2: what happens sometimes when bands stay in the spotlight for
- 8:12Speaker 2: so long and then and so and they get older,
- 8:16Speaker 2: you lose your touch with Well, that's your job. The youths.
- 8:19Speaker 2: You know, you can spot it from a mile away,
- 8:22Speaker 2: sub stack, how to be less old? Check it out?
- 8:24Speaker 2: Know what she's talking about. But that man, that aside.
- 8:29Speaker 2: When Galeb, he was like, how do you feel about comics?
- 8:33Speaker 2: I started comic Con? And Rachel's like, no, no, no,
- 8:38Speaker 2: but he's there and he started comic Con. It's huge.
- 8:43Speaker 2: I wonder if he's talking about Do you think he's
- 8:45Speaker 2: talking about comic Con like the actual like San Diego,
- 8:47Speaker 2: New York City. You think he's talking about Comickzi, the
- 8:50Speaker 2: other one that's like downtown, the stan Lee. Okay, well
- 8:54Speaker 2: I think he's talking about.
- 8:55Speaker 3: Comic Con like I think he's talking about the big one.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Wow, that's a that is that's my head turned around fast,
- 9:03Speaker 2: and I was even and I was already looking at
- 9:06Speaker 2: the screen, you know, I mean that was impressive. Wow.
- 9:10Speaker 3: Yeah, listen, Bose is going to have a nice book
- 9:12Speaker 3: to pull from me.
- 9:13Speaker 2: He's a comic book if it were, you know.
- 9:17Speaker 3: I mean, what made me laugh so much about Rachel
- 9:20Speaker 3: was like, Oh, this girl really thinks who she is,
- 9:23Speaker 3: you know, and I don't know, like if I'm looking
- 9:27Speaker 3: at that lineup, you know, I don't know where she
- 9:30Speaker 3: thinks she falls. But in terms of just like an option,
- 9:34Speaker 3: like a hot option, you know, I think she's a
- 9:38Speaker 3: specific taste, you know, like she's you know, you know
- 9:41Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, but good on her. She
- 9:46Speaker 3: feels like the shit and I'm like, that'll get you everywhere.
- 9:50Speaker 2: You know, And she's being true to herself. And that's
- 9:54Speaker 2: where women are these days, and that's well, actually I
- 9:56Speaker 2: should say the younger generation, yes, which I am. I
- 10:00Speaker 2: absolutely love. That's why I really do enjoy watching shows
- 10:04Speaker 2: like a Southern charm likes vander Pump A New One, Yes, Yeah,
- 10:09Speaker 2: because they are unapologetic in their needs and and I
- 10:14Speaker 2: didn't have that. I wasn't like that. It was the
- 10:16Speaker 2: other person the other person, and I don't think, yeah,
- 10:19Speaker 2: that's also my own baggage, but it's but it's also
- 10:22Speaker 2: generational and it's also of the time. So it's really
- 10:26Speaker 2: exciting when you see that happen for women as they
- 10:29Speaker 2: get older, and it does happen, and I feel that's
- 10:32Speaker 2: happening with me, and I feel like I love seeing
- 10:35Speaker 2: it and it's inspirational. So when Rachel's like, no, you
- 10:39Speaker 2: can't help, but.
- 10:40Speaker 3: Oh I loved it, I love And she's funny, like
- 10:43Speaker 3: she's legitimately funny. By the way, I said, gen X,
- 10:46Speaker 3: I met next jests thank you.
- 10:47Speaker 2: I was twitch and I was like, I'm not gonna
- 10:52Speaker 2: have because I don't know. I'm like, wait, yeah, gen X.
- 10:55Speaker 3: Gen X, No, I meant next time, I'm sorry.
- 10:59Speaker 1: No.
- 10:59Speaker 3: Every the whole seeing Erica get nervous was hilarious. These guys,
- 11:06Speaker 3: you know, mixing in with these mourners and just everything
- 11:09Speaker 3: about it. The fact that they mix. It was a
- 11:14Speaker 3: mourner's mixer. I mean, to see not a color amongst
- 11:18Speaker 3: except for the most was like wow.
- 11:21Speaker 2: And they were so they were so buttoned up and
- 11:25Speaker 2: so closed off, you know, they just suits.
- 11:30Speaker 3: Was in a full you know like business casual suit.
- 11:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's what she would wear. Is Erica
- 11:39Speaker 2: Girardi at a general right at Well, yeah, we know.
- 11:46Speaker 3: She has it as a backup. She's ready, I will
- 11:49Speaker 3: say that much. She's ready. But darit was pulling.
- 11:53Speaker 2: She looked great, she did, and she.
- 11:56Speaker 3: Was able to be flirtatious, giraffe charming. All the things
- 12:02Speaker 3: she said she was able to do, she was.
- 12:05Speaker 2: And you know when Rachel said or somebody said, like,
- 12:08Speaker 2: if you wear a little black dress on a first date,
- 12:10Speaker 2: that means like you're ready to play. I don't know
- 12:14Speaker 2: about this gang. You know, they were running in each direction,
- 12:19Speaker 2: they were putting on veils like I mean, I just thought, wow,
- 12:22Speaker 2: this is crazy. Now we are going to talk about
- 12:24Speaker 2: Southern charm in another episode here androma Darling. But I
- 12:28Speaker 2: want to mention as I because I watched that episode
- 12:30Speaker 2: first before I watched Beverly Hills and Charlie in her confessional,
- 12:35Speaker 2: I said to myself, she looks like a fifty year
- 12:39Speaker 2: old woman at a funeral in that black dress. It
- 12:43Speaker 2: looked exactly like Dart's except the neck was even a
- 12:46Speaker 2: little higher. And now, don't get me wrong, I'm fifty.
- 12:51Speaker 2: So the insults coming right back at me. If there
- 12:54Speaker 2: even is one. I don't think there is one. I'm
- 12:56Speaker 2: just saying, you know, Charlie is like in her early
- 12:59Speaker 2: twenties or you know, couldn't be younger, and she is,
- 13:03Speaker 2: and she looks absolutely gorgeous, but she completely looks not
- 13:08Speaker 2: her age.
- 13:09Speaker 3: No, it's event and the glam is is it?
- 13:13Speaker 2: She looks pretty.
- 13:14Speaker 3: It's just the glam is very older. Like she'd you know,
- 13:19Speaker 3: show her in those long jorts and a tank and
- 13:23Speaker 3: she's good to go.
- 13:24Speaker 2: But meanwhile, she could pop over to this scene in
- 13:26Speaker 2: two seconds flat.
- 13:28Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh, she'd be right in there marching around. You know.
- 13:32Speaker 2: I did think it was funny that Kyle was like
- 13:34Speaker 2: talking to a real estate agent and Erica was talking
- 13:37Speaker 2: to a lawyer. I was like, are you guys kidding
- 13:39Speaker 2: me right now with this? This seems ridiculous?
- 13:42Speaker 3: And Kyle thinking Mooe could be there as one of
- 13:46Speaker 3: the suitors really.
- 13:48Speaker 2: Made me laugh.
- 13:51Speaker 3: That was laughing.
- 13:53Speaker 2: Also, I love the way Jennifer Tilly, well, actually because
- 13:55Speaker 2: I was watching some of the After Show, but Jennifer
- 13:58Speaker 2: Tilly always refers to Maurice always Maurcio.
- 14:05Speaker 3: That's crazy. Maurice there's so many versions of him, like, yeah,
- 14:12Speaker 3: Maurice Mo. There's Maurice, Maurice, Maurice, Mauricio, Maurice Mo and Mauricio,
- 14:20Speaker 3: and I think there's more, Like there's more douchebag ne'er
- 14:26Speaker 3: do well.
- 14:29Speaker 2: And I love it the end when Erica was like,
- 14:32Speaker 2: in the spirit of kindness, here's this lawyer's number of Sudden.
- 14:37Speaker 3: Which I'm like, well, he didn't give it to her,
- 14:38Speaker 3: he gave it to you, So I don't think. I
- 14:41Speaker 3: don't know, you know, I think doesn't work that way
- 14:46Speaker 3: as I.
- 14:47Speaker 2: Don't want to keep that lawyer's number because the things
- 14:49Speaker 2: are happening, she's gonna need another one.
- 14:52Speaker 3: Yeah, just take a picture of that before you catalog it.
- 14:58Speaker 2: This the motivational speaker and jury seemed like you said
- 15:02Speaker 2: they were getting along well and Geri had a real
- 15:04Speaker 2: pep in her stuff at the end. I loved that
- 15:06Speaker 2: for her.
- 15:06Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, listen, Dorwit's got it going on. You know,
- 15:11Speaker 3: she's not gonna have any problems in that area.
- 15:14Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, Bo's laying down the questions for Kyle, and
- 15:20Speaker 2: Kyle's like, fine, I'll play the game, all right, go
- 15:22Speaker 2: ahead and ask me your fake questions and one just
- 15:25Speaker 2: got through this. It's just now was just so stupid
- 15:28Speaker 2: to watch. At this point, Kyle wants to get remarried again. Okay,
- 15:33Speaker 2: Kyle was in love, but not now. And then she
- 15:38Speaker 2: starts to get a little feisty and says, why don't
- 15:41Speaker 2: you ask what you really want to ask? I could
- 15:43Speaker 2: go bra I can go, Angeline.
- 15:45Speaker 3: We've heard it now four one hundred and thirty seven times,
- 15:51Speaker 3: whether be it in previews, in Tiktoks, in upcoming episodes,
- 15:57Speaker 3: in you know, so it didn't land anymore, which it was.
- 16:05Speaker 3: It's one of those things like a lot of times
- 16:06Speaker 3: Bravo will hold something back and then we'll get it
- 16:11Speaker 3: and it's exciting, or they tease it just enough. This
- 16:13Speaker 3: one just felt like it landed flat because we've seen
- 16:17Speaker 3: it so much.
- 16:18Speaker 2: It did land, and not only that, but it was
- 16:21Speaker 2: given every opportunity to land well in the trailers, right
- 16:26Speaker 2: because you don't see Bose's reaction. Yeah, but now we
- 16:30Speaker 2: see Bose's reaction and it is like a deflated basketball
- 16:34Speaker 2: and she's like, oh, is that serious? I mean her
- 16:38Speaker 2: response was not at all. I think what Kaya wanted,
- 16:40Speaker 2: which is to you know, breathe a little humor into
- 16:43Speaker 2: this situation in order to get out of it, and
- 16:45Speaker 2: it just did not hit. And you know, it's tough because,
- 16:49Speaker 2: like we all know, she's talking about Morgan, but it
- 16:52Speaker 2: is like Voldemort. You can't say the name, the name
- 16:54Speaker 2: will not be spoken. And now, like last week, I
- 16:59Speaker 2: really did feel a different way where it was like, looks,
- 17:03Speaker 2: she's given us a lot over the years, give us
- 17:04Speaker 2: a break. It's not her fault. Morgan clearly doesn't want
- 17:07Speaker 2: to be involved in this anymore at all. And who's
- 17:11Speaker 2: to say that there isn't a possibility that there's something
- 17:14Speaker 2: legal in place where she can't say her name, and
- 17:17Speaker 2: that well does feel like that, doesn't it. Yeah, Yeah,
- 17:21Speaker 2: so that could be very well possible. And Kyle's doing
- 17:25Speaker 2: if that's true, Kyle's doing Morgan a service by saying
- 17:29Speaker 2: by not saying I legally can't say anything, because if
- 17:32Speaker 2: she said that, then we'd all be like so mad
- 17:35Speaker 2: at Morgan and we'd be so pissed off that Morgan
- 17:41Speaker 2: would ever put that onto Kyle after everything that they did,
- 17:45Speaker 2: like Morgan coming on the show and doing this video
- 17:48Speaker 2: and all this stuff. So she wouldn't exploit her like that.
- 17:51Speaker 2: She just wouldn't do it.
- 17:52Speaker 3: I can't imagine that that's the case. It feels crazy
- 17:56Speaker 3: that Morgan would. But it feels like that feels like that,
- 18:01Speaker 3: but that maybe Kyle just that her own set of
- 18:06Speaker 3: whatever their discussion was, and this is her box that
- 18:10Speaker 3: she's created that she's moving inside of, you know, right right.
- 18:14Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, She's like, I'm half joking. But and then
- 18:17Speaker 2: she says like gender doesn't matter, which I appreciated that conversation.
- 18:20Speaker 2: We did get from her what I think we've already knew,
- 18:24Speaker 2: which is that she doesn't you know, love is love.
- 18:26Speaker 2: You know, she doesn't care. He she they like, she
- 18:29Speaker 2: does not care at this point, and now that it's
- 18:31Speaker 2: very clear to us, I really don't think it's necessary
- 18:34Speaker 2: to talk about anymore, which is why I was like,
- 18:36Speaker 2: this is a silly conversation. And I kind of wish
- 18:39Speaker 2: Bos wouldn't have even brought it up because we've kind
- 18:42Speaker 2: of already talked about it. We have there's no new information.
- 18:47Speaker 3: Well, I mean, Bo's wasn't at the Oprah sit down
- 18:49Speaker 3: under the oak trees, so she might have made it.
- 18:52Speaker 2: That's right, that's true, little clarity. She wasn't under the
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- 28:16Speaker 2: Erica and Durit and Sutton talk and that was nice
- 28:19Speaker 2: that they were checking in with Duran about the Florida situation.
- 28:22Speaker 2: But I was also like, that was such a horrific
- 28:25Speaker 2: moment for Durret. Last week not one of y'all's texted
- 28:29Speaker 2: her and said what happened with Florida? Right? I don't know.
- 28:33Speaker 2: It just felt weird because I'm like, you guys really
- 28:35Speaker 2: aren't friends. Like even just texting her that night or
- 28:39Speaker 2: the next day, like give me an update is just strange.
- 28:43Speaker 2: She was falling apart. This was like the epitome of
- 28:47Speaker 2: the beginning of like a custody, major intense situation. And
- 28:51Speaker 2: so and then we didn't get any details. Durit's like
- 28:54Speaker 2: they had a blast. They're having a blast. I'm like, well,
- 28:59Speaker 2: so did PK stay down there? Did they end up
- 29:02Speaker 2: staying with PK? Are they your parents' house? Nothing? Don't
- 29:07Speaker 2: you find that? And again is that a legal thing?
- 29:09Speaker 2: Because I could also see that too, But that really
- 29:13Speaker 2: pisses me off. I kind of needed that buttoned up.
- 29:16Speaker 3: I think, yeah, I accepted whatever was said, but god,
- 29:21Speaker 3: you're so right. It's like there was so much disgust
- 29:25Speaker 3: and how are we not getting down into it?
- 29:29Speaker 2: Right?
- 29:29Speaker 3: Yeah, and like what advice worked, what didn't? What happened right?
- 29:35Speaker 2: It was such a big deal that I think it
- 29:37Speaker 2: deserved a follow up instead of going back to Kyle's
- 29:41Speaker 2: ambiguous situations. Totally totally, But I did enjoy sut and
- 29:46Speaker 2: encouraging Derete, and I thought that was a nice moment
- 29:49Speaker 2: for them me too, So I really want to talk about,
- 29:52Speaker 2: like at regarding Derete and the lunch she had with
- 29:57Speaker 2: Bo's and Amanda and everyone's getting to know each other
- 30:00Speaker 2: here like Amanda and stuff, and well, but Bose is like,
- 30:03Speaker 2: what can she do because obviously Durit has no prenup
- 30:07Speaker 2: because at that point PK had nothing. She doesn't there's
- 30:11Speaker 2: no retirement accounts that she knows of, she doesn't know
- 30:14Speaker 2: of any investments, so we need to discuss that. Yeah,
- 30:18Speaker 2: that's insane, it is insane. It's insane, and unfortunately she's
- 30:25Speaker 2: not the first woman in this situation, right, and just
- 30:30Speaker 2: see it keep happening and again and again is like
- 30:33Speaker 2: crazy to me.
- 30:34Speaker 3: I mean, her entire positioning of PK was bananas bananas, Like,
- 30:43Speaker 3: he's an alpha male.
- 30:45Speaker 2: He's very complex, is he? Yes? He may not seem
- 30:52Speaker 2: like it, but he is very complex creature. He's not
- 30:57Speaker 2: from this planet you see. Yeah, I don't know what
- 31:01Speaker 2: so exactly. I would really like to know how she
- 31:04Speaker 2: can you paint the picture because we don't.
- 31:07Speaker 3: See I don't have it. No, he seems like a
- 31:11Speaker 3: fairly straightforward in terms of just like I don't know.
- 31:15Speaker 3: I don't see him as complex. I don't see him
- 31:18Speaker 3: as He's never said anything that's taken me back out
- 31:21Speaker 3: of my heels and gone like, wow, that's interesting. It's
- 31:24Speaker 3: a take I've never heard before. Wow, look at you go,
- 31:27Speaker 3: you know.
- 31:28Speaker 2: Never not once, and we've seen him many times. Bipe, Bipe.
- 31:34Speaker 2: Here's what we're gonna do, bipe, all right, We're gonna
- 31:36Speaker 2: meet at this bar. All right, I'm soba okay, And
- 31:40Speaker 2: now what we're gonna do is we be fine, We'll
- 31:43Speaker 2: ride this out. I'll film with you, yes, then after
- 31:46Speaker 2: the end of the season, I'm gonna leave behind and
- 31:48Speaker 2: dry one bit of one, one bread crumb at time.
- 31:51Speaker 2: I'm not gonna pay more. It's he's the most straightforward,
- 31:56Speaker 2: it is.
- 31:57Speaker 3: It's so bad he like literally walks us through everything
- 32:01Speaker 3: in a list formation, in a to do list formation. Yes,
- 32:07Speaker 3: there's nothing nuanced about pe K. I mean I think
- 32:14Speaker 3: the nuance is he's a scam artist.
- 32:18Speaker 2: Well, there you go. Is that what she's saying when
- 32:23Speaker 2: she says she knows, No, she doesn't, but let's pretend
- 32:26Speaker 2: that she does. And that's her way of saying he's
- 32:30Speaker 2: a scam artist. That she's saying. He's a very complex person.
- 32:36Speaker 3: Yeah he looks normal, but he is scamming me and
- 32:40Speaker 3: everyone around him and boy.
- 32:42Speaker 2: George, right, but he is. He couldn't be more straightforward,
- 32:48Speaker 2: so straightforward that he is kissing another woman on the
- 32:52Speaker 2: streets of Beverly Hills, so all for all to see,
- 32:55Speaker 2: so that the paparazzi can snap those pictures, and then
- 33:00Speaker 2: for DURII to say, you know, when that happened, I
- 33:04Speaker 2: filed for divorce.
- 33:06Speaker 3: Ida.
- 33:07Speaker 2: It was interesting because it sounded like I wonder, like
- 33:10Speaker 2: why p K didn't file for divorce? Then you know
- 33:14Speaker 2: why didn't he file.
- 33:17Speaker 3: He was definitely out first, right, So that's what you
- 33:19Speaker 3: mean because he was the one who had he knew
- 33:22Speaker 3: this was over. Yeah, ran Duri has been playing catch
- 33:26Speaker 3: up in every way, maybe because you know, he maybe
- 33:29Speaker 3: didn't have a scams in order yet, Like how are we?
- 33:33Speaker 3: What am I? You know he put the stuff in
- 33:36Speaker 3: her name? Okay, well you got that right, and yeah
- 33:43Speaker 3: she is. I mean, but amy, the amount of spending
- 33:46Speaker 3: she did, the thousand dollars bajillion dollar ticket items in
- 33:51Speaker 3: the clothing in the car, in the you know, decor,
- 33:55Speaker 3: in the in the flatware, and the t in.
- 33:58Speaker 2: The chicken plates. Thank you. I'll never forget those places.
- 34:01Speaker 3: You can't. It can't because so you're just spending with
- 34:06Speaker 3: a bandon and you don't know and you know he
- 34:10Speaker 3: lost all Okay, the man lost. He came to you broke.
- 34:17Speaker 3: That feels like a really big deal. And so what
- 34:21Speaker 3: gave you the impression that you could run up these bills?
- 34:28Speaker 3: What money presented itself? Like, I just don't understand it.
- 34:32Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not clear on the lay of the
- 34:35Speaker 3: land where all of a sudden she has a seven
- 34:37Speaker 3: million ben tell us you came broke and then.
- 34:43Speaker 2: Oh wait, you let you you're cutting out? Hold one second.
- 34:46Speaker 3: Oh you were a little too throughout and I don't
- 34:49Speaker 3: know if you were for you.
- 34:55Speaker 2: I didn't see it, but that's good to you, Okay?
- 34:58Speaker 3: Is that I assumed it was just something over here?
- 35:02Speaker 2: But okay, oh my god, well, why don't we have
- 35:06Speaker 2: you go and come back might as well? And you
- 35:09Speaker 2: know what, let me before I'm going to all text
- 35:12Speaker 2: you when to reconnect again because I'm going to do this.
- 35:16Speaker 2: Was prompting me for an update, So let me do
- 35:18Speaker 2: the update on ECAM.
- 35:19Speaker 3: Okay, okay, perfect, okay, perfect, and I'm going to fully
- 35:22Speaker 3: shut down. Oh okay, great, I'll do a computer okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. Yeah,
- 35:30Speaker 3: it seems like I saw something where their house was
- 35:33Speaker 3: like seven point five million, and I just, let's just
- 35:37Speaker 3: say a number that's pretty extraordinary, that's not regular. So
- 35:42Speaker 3: you know, that's not a three million dollar house, a
- 35:44Speaker 3: four million dollar house, of five million dollar house, that's
- 35:47Speaker 3: a different number. You know, that's extraordinary wealth. I would like,
- 35:52Speaker 3: I don't know how we got there when?
- 35:54Speaker 2: Yeah, when did he accumulate at the beginning of his start,
- 36:00Speaker 2: when he had to like reboot everything after he lost
- 36:03Speaker 2: everything quickly, was he able to bounce back. She must
- 36:08Speaker 2: have been under the impression that they didn't have anything, obviously,
- 36:11Speaker 2: so she knew what she was getting into, you know.
- 36:14Speaker 2: And obviously, as we said, her name is on the house,
- 36:17Speaker 2: so everything is you know, affecting her. And I think
- 36:20Speaker 2: to your point earlier, it could be very true that
- 36:23Speaker 2: He's didn't file for divorce because of the money and
- 36:28Speaker 2: tied up in the money with her and her names
- 36:30Speaker 2: on stuff and blah blah blah. You know, when Amanda
- 36:33Speaker 2: didn't give the ab season one two threes about the
- 36:37Speaker 2: financial climb back to having some stability. I understood what
- 36:42Speaker 2: bos was saying, But I also understood where Amanda was
- 36:47Speaker 2: coming from because that's her niche. Her niche is this
- 36:50Speaker 2: psychology of money, which I think is extremely important, and
- 36:55Speaker 2: that is something that I don't think everybody believes in,
- 36:58Speaker 2: and certainly Bo's is not going to wrap her head
- 37:00Speaker 2: around it in that moment. There's no way, like, you
- 37:03Speaker 2: can't just say that and think that people are going
- 37:04Speaker 2: to understand what you're saying. But I think that Amanda
- 37:08Speaker 2: was saying the right things from her standpoint of how
- 37:12Speaker 2: she can give advice like figure out, like take a
- 37:14Speaker 2: step back, look at the big picture about how you
- 37:18Speaker 2: want to move forward forward with all this, because what
- 37:21Speaker 2: are you willing to do to provide for yourself so
- 37:25Speaker 2: that like, in a way, when you get with the
- 37:28Speaker 2: real financial people, you can have a better understanding of
- 37:32Speaker 2: where you are moving forward and how you're going to
- 37:35Speaker 2: handle your life and not just make it about he's
- 37:38Speaker 2: taking this away, he's taking that away. I need to
- 37:41Speaker 2: get this back from him. She's not directing her to
- 37:43Speaker 2: come from a place of needing from PQUE. It's more
- 37:46Speaker 2: like an empowered place of how are we going to
- 37:50Speaker 2: handle this situation as your own apart from him? Because
- 37:56Speaker 2: obviously the courts and the lawyers are going to work
- 37:59Speaker 2: all that stuff out. But in the meantime, you have
- 38:01Speaker 2: to ask yourself what's going on with you? Right? That's
- 38:04Speaker 2: a hard thing to ask in a situation when you
- 38:06Speaker 2: feel like you're drowning in a confusion of potential custody
- 38:11Speaker 2: battle money issues. So you may not she may not
- 38:15Speaker 2: be able to see that as beneficial, but I do
- 38:19Speaker 2: because I'm not in that situation at you know, like
- 38:21Speaker 2: she is. What were your thoughts on that? I?
- 38:24Speaker 3: Yes, I thought in the beginning of the conversation. Amanda
- 38:28Speaker 3: did have what I would say is like financial literacy
- 38:32Speaker 3: and an ability to kind of ask the right questions
- 38:36Speaker 3: and find out what the situation was. And she was
- 38:39Speaker 3: astute and banged off the right questions. Now, yeah, when
- 38:45Speaker 3: Bose asked her to give the lay of the land,
- 38:48Speaker 3: like a plan, she's going to do? You brought me in.
- 38:51Speaker 3: This is my work. I'm a she's you know, she's
- 38:55Speaker 3: a manifestation person. That's what she's doing. I actually started
- 39:01Speaker 3: listening to the audiobook.
- 39:03Speaker 2: Great, I'm going to do that over vacation. How is
- 39:05Speaker 2: it so far?
- 39:06Speaker 3: Well, okay, so I'm listen. This is my overall takeaway.
- 39:10Speaker 3: I'm about three chapters in. The audio is a little tough.
- 39:16Speaker 3: So it's as somebody who has been accused of vocal fry,
- 39:21Speaker 3: you know. It's it's it's listening to like a millennial.
- 39:28Speaker 3: Like she's like, okay, so what's going on? So it's
- 39:33Speaker 3: in the ear.
- 39:34Speaker 2: I might just read the book. Then I think you'd.
- 39:36Speaker 3: Be better off reading than listening.
- 39:39Speaker 2: Right, yeah, yeah, oh I gotcha, I hear you.
- 39:42Speaker 3: But here's the thing that I'm I'm I'm listening to
- 39:45Speaker 3: a lot of these people, right, So what's kind of
- 39:48Speaker 3: cool is I think that a lot of the information
- 39:51Speaker 3: is the same, whether you're going to a you know, Gabrielle, Uh,
- 39:57Speaker 3: what's your face union?
- 39:59Speaker 2: No? I I know what you're talking about? The manifestation, Yeah,
- 40:02Speaker 2: lady Gabrielle. Yeah, there's so many.
- 40:04Speaker 3: Bob Proctor, there's this, Kathleen Cameron is another one. There's
- 40:10Speaker 3: so many. They're all saying the same stuff. So it's
- 40:14Speaker 3: like who which I kind of feel great about because
- 40:17Speaker 3: it's like, this is the way, this is the information.
- 40:21Speaker 3: There's several people who are experts in it, and they're
- 40:25Speaker 3: all delivering it in their own.
- 40:27Speaker 2: Special life, right, But that's the formula.
- 40:30Speaker 3: That's the formula, and you're going to hear the same
- 40:33Speaker 3: things from all of them by and large. So it's
- 40:36Speaker 3: like whatever delivery system works for you, that that resonates,
- 40:42Speaker 3: whatever person resonates, that's the person you listen to. And
- 40:45Speaker 3: I can see why she's really successful because she's hitting
- 40:49Speaker 3: a younger female demographic.
- 40:51Speaker 2: Yeah, is this great point?
- 40:53Speaker 3: Never heard this sort of stuff before? And is Uh? Yeah,
- 40:57Speaker 3: so I and I do think it's an important conversation
- 41:01Speaker 3: what she said to her in terms of how are
- 41:04Speaker 3: we framing this. It's like, are you going to be
- 41:06Speaker 3: in the backseat just having to play defense, or are
- 41:10Speaker 3: you going to sit in the driver's seat, even just
- 41:12Speaker 3: in your mind, yes, and decide how this life is
- 41:17Speaker 3: going to look and how you're tackling this because right now, yeah,
- 41:22Speaker 3: she's just receiving the balls that are coming at her face.
- 41:27Speaker 2: Oh my god. You couldn't have said it better. And
- 41:29Speaker 2: that is the perfect metaphor, the perfect encapsulation of everything
- 41:35Speaker 2: that I believe that she teaches and I completely agree with.
- 41:40Speaker 2: And I wish that we could all understand that. I
- 41:43Speaker 2: think that I should say, I should speak for myself.
- 41:46Speaker 2: I wish I could understand those things earlier in my
- 41:49Speaker 2: life and now just trying to begin to understand these concepts,
- 41:55Speaker 2: it's like such a game changer.
- 41:58Speaker 3: It's changing the parrot. Like that is what they all
- 42:01Speaker 3: talk about, and we all have it. We're all born
- 42:04Speaker 3: into certain paradigms, and it's like, you know, it's a life.
- 42:09Speaker 3: It's listen to cut yourself some slack, because it's genuinely
- 42:12Speaker 3: like lifelong work, you know, to kind of yeah, change
- 42:18Speaker 3: up how you've been doing things and like see things differently.
- 42:22Speaker 3: How do you see yourself all of that, you.
- 42:24Speaker 2: Know, I mean, And so it's great that she's giving
- 42:27Speaker 2: her this advice. And she's only giving it because Bose
- 42:31Speaker 2: is like, give her something. She was asked. She didn't
- 42:34Speaker 2: come in and say here's what you got to do,
- 42:36Speaker 2: you know, she was asked. She laid it out. She
- 42:39Speaker 2: gave like three great she asked her three great, great questions. Really,
- 42:44Speaker 2: what I think Dori would need at this point is
- 42:46Speaker 2: a nice, good session with her, you know, to try
- 42:51Speaker 2: to reframe the situation. And that's really hard because I'll
- 42:56Speaker 2: tell you, when you're in the weeds like that, you
- 43:00Speaker 2: don't have the time.
- 43:02Speaker 1: You know.
- 43:02Speaker 2: She's trying to show up for her job, which is
- 43:05Speaker 2: Beverly Hills. She's trying to show up for her kids.
- 43:08Speaker 2: She's got to look great. That's gonna take a lot
- 43:11Speaker 2: of time. You know. It's so for her to have
- 43:14Speaker 2: to kind of now work her head around a complete
- 43:19Speaker 2: concept that is foreign is really hard to do. And
- 43:23Speaker 2: so I just hope the best for her. But I
- 43:26Speaker 2: loved how Amanda said, I've been thinking about you all
- 43:28Speaker 2: weekend and praying for you. That was really nice, really nice.
- 43:34Speaker 3: Yeah, And to Bose's point, she also was correct, which
- 43:39Speaker 3: is like that that is one piece of the pie
- 43:42Speaker 3: is having your mental game plan together and strategy. And
- 43:48Speaker 3: the other massive piece, which I don't think she has
- 43:51Speaker 3: a clue about, is what money do we have? What money?
- 43:56Speaker 3: Like somebody has to get in there and like get real.
- 44:00Speaker 2: And that's not dorit should know the steps at this point,
- 44:04Speaker 2: you know, Amanda's not going to be able to be
- 44:07Speaker 2: a financial planner or a financial or like and I'm sorry,
- 44:11Speaker 2: what is it called an accountant who does like investigating?
- 44:14Speaker 2: What do they call that?
- 44:15Speaker 3: Yeah, Sutton had it. It's like you go in and
- 44:18Speaker 3: you look at you get you can't hide a baseball
- 44:21Speaker 3: team from me, you can't, you know, I forget what
- 44:23Speaker 3: the name is too. But it's a full investigate financial
- 44:28Speaker 3: investigation that uncovers everything and so no matter whose name
- 44:33Speaker 3: is and what it's all put on the table, you
- 44:36Speaker 3: can sort it out and stare at it.
- 44:37Speaker 2: That happens in a divorce like they do that, so
- 44:42Speaker 2: especially in a situation like this, if her lawyer's any
- 44:45Speaker 2: good yeah to.
- 44:46Speaker 3: Read is just in a confused spot, like even saying
- 44:49Speaker 3: the alpha male and the fact that he is a
- 44:53Speaker 3: good guy and all of that, I'm like, he's about
- 44:57Speaker 3: to put.
- 44:57Speaker 2: You, He's about to put you in hell. Yeah, it's
- 45:00Speaker 2: really really sad. I think she is in denial still
- 45:04Speaker 2: and it's going to be a really tough run for her. Okay, Well,
- 45:10Speaker 2: how about Alexia and Kyle at the flower shop looking
- 45:13Speaker 2: at arta chunks? Oh my god, super cute, very cute. Yeah,
- 45:20Speaker 2: it's wild to see how Kyle's like while she did
- 45:23Speaker 2: her wedding really traditional, and Alexi's got her vibes and
- 45:26Speaker 2: stuff like that. I just how things change, you know,
- 45:30Speaker 2: as the generations move on and then you you know,
- 45:34Speaker 2: traditional flowers and a country club and that's what you do.
- 45:37Speaker 2: And it's amazing how Kyle's life has changed into something
- 45:42Speaker 2: so different. Yeah, it's good. It's nice to see the growth.
- 45:45Speaker 3: Meanwhile, the little bouquet she had together, which I thought
- 45:48Speaker 3: was lovely, is a pretty you know, there's nothing that
- 45:51Speaker 3: outrageous about it. You know, it's like, oh cute. You know,
- 45:55Speaker 3: it's like we weren't dealing in we were in flowers,
- 45:58Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, that's a really good, cute little bouquet.
- 46:02Speaker 3: Right right, Kyle did break my heart with being like,
- 46:07Speaker 3: you know, I hope he still looks at her like
- 46:10Speaker 3: he does today. I mean, so sad.
- 46:13Speaker 2: It's it's the reality. I think a lot of parents
- 46:17Speaker 2: think that of their kids when their kids get married
- 46:20Speaker 2: and they've been through something, and they just hope that
- 46:23Speaker 2: they don't have to go through what they've gone through,
- 46:26Speaker 2: and because it's just the slow burn of that, you know.
- 46:29Speaker 2: I mean, Mauricio and Kyle being together for as long
- 46:32Speaker 2: as they were, with as many as kids as they have,
- 46:35Speaker 2: and then to end up like this, it's so painful
- 46:39Speaker 2: and you just don't want that for your kids. Scary.
- 46:42Speaker 2: It's scary as a parent.
- 46:44Speaker 3: The fact that she's you know fully, I think he
- 46:50Speaker 3: hurt her throughout the years a lot, and I think
- 46:54Speaker 3: that she's dropping the mask on that, you know it,
- 47:00Speaker 3: and it's just painful.
- 47:02Speaker 2: Yeah, poor Kyle man. My heart goes out to you know,
- 47:06Speaker 2: people in similar situations. And then you look at all
- 47:09Speaker 2: these ladies of the speed dating thing, and Bo's is like,
- 47:12Speaker 2: you know, she's got a bird's eye view on this.
- 47:13Speaker 2: She's like everyone here is single, you know, and look
- 47:16Speaker 2: at all of their marriages. It's like Tom Girardi, you
- 47:21Speaker 2: couldn't you couldn't have married a worse person. Well, you
- 47:24Speaker 2: maybe could have married a murderer, but like, what a deceitful,
- 47:29Speaker 2: horrific person. And Kyle's husband, he's just kind of a douchebag.
- 47:34Speaker 2: In the end. It was probably cheating all the time.
- 47:37Speaker 2: Sutton's husband. We don't really know anything that he did
- 47:40Speaker 2: in the marriage, but so that's not that's neither here
- 47:45Speaker 2: nor there.
- 47:46Speaker 3: He's wiping her off the the who said when you
- 47:51Speaker 3: take it to the Vatican? Who said that? I don't know, Oh,
- 47:55Speaker 3: maybe it was like an after show or something. Oh,
- 47:57Speaker 3: I think whoever said and maybe it was Erica, I
- 48:01Speaker 3: don't know. Someone said, when you've taken it to the Vatican,
- 48:04Speaker 3: it's a rap, you know, Oh, oh my god, wow,
- 48:09Speaker 3: he's out.
- 48:10Speaker 2: Yeah. And then of course Rachel z oh and Durit.
- 48:16Speaker 2: You know, these ladies are going through it and we're
- 48:18Speaker 2: watching it.
- 48:19Speaker 3: It's just unbelievable, you know, Amy, Yes, last night I
- 48:23Speaker 3: took a swing through X to just see just you know,
- 48:27Speaker 3: sometimes I like to see what's going on over there
- 48:29Speaker 3: after a show, see what people are saying. And a
- 48:32Speaker 3: lot of people are not watching this season because of
- 48:37Speaker 3: Garcel's treatment and exit, which I was like interesting. In addition,
- 48:45Speaker 3: a lot of people are like bose is doing exactly
- 48:49Speaker 3: what Garcel was doing in terms of her questioning and
- 48:54Speaker 3: her probing. Why is that getting treated differently.
- 48:58Speaker 2: From the fans, from the from the cast interesting?
- 49:04Speaker 3: Which I did think was interesting. I'm going to throw
- 49:07Speaker 3: out my thought on it, which is that Bose comes
- 49:11Speaker 3: at it with a little bit of a different energy.
- 49:13Speaker 3: It's lighter, it's like more like a fun it's more
- 49:19Speaker 3: jovial in some ways, like she when she's probing. It's
- 49:23Speaker 3: not like Garcel. Client came in very straight and serious
- 49:27Speaker 3: on her probes and she.
- 49:29Speaker 2: Was doing a job and there was no veil there.
- 49:33Speaker 2: She didn't sweeten it up at all.
- 49:35Speaker 3: Right, it knew now, not that that's right or wrong.
- 49:38Speaker 3: I miss Garcel, But I'm just saying, like I was
- 49:41Speaker 3: just trying to because I think that's a great point
- 49:44Speaker 3: that she is doing a lot of those the probes.
- 49:49Speaker 3: You know, she's taking on that role of.
- 49:53Speaker 2: Prober, yes, and other women aren't, which is because no
- 49:57Speaker 2: other women are going to do that, right, Yeah, So
- 50:01Speaker 2: why is it left?
- 50:03Speaker 3: Yeah, it does seem like part of the job. But
- 50:06Speaker 3: that's where Beverly Hills get sneaky.
- 50:08Speaker 2: Yeah they did. They don't want to say anything.
- 50:11Speaker 3: Rachel, maybe different Okay, Rachel's a straight shooter. I feel
- 50:17Speaker 3: like in this, in this these last two apps, like
- 50:20Speaker 3: I feel she's coming in with some heat, not necessarily,
- 50:26Speaker 3: like she's not probing yet hard, but she is. I
- 50:30Speaker 3: think she's going to get everyone a little bit on
- 50:32Speaker 3: their toes.
- 50:33Speaker 2: You know, I would love that because no one's going
- 50:38Speaker 2: to say anything, and we're going to get under the
- 50:39Speaker 2: oaks with Kyle and Erica, but we're not going to
- 50:43Speaker 2: get you know, no one's going to be the firing
- 50:47Speaker 2: squad of questions anymore. And and we really do need
- 50:51Speaker 2: to move on from it. But like, so to for
- 50:55Speaker 2: to have bows be questioning Kyle at this point, it's
- 50:58Speaker 2: just not it's not really necessary. But it's also kind
- 51:02Speaker 2: of part of the job because we are coming off
- 51:04Speaker 2: off of a season and we're all coming off of
- 51:08Speaker 2: the breakup between Kyle and Morgan, So somebody does have
- 51:11Speaker 2: to say something and so why but why does it
- 51:16Speaker 2: have to be Bose? Why did it have to be Garcel?
- 51:18Speaker 2: You know, look alive over to the other ladies.
- 51:22Speaker 3: Yeah, well, the Beverly Hills is very like measured in
- 51:28Speaker 3: that area. Yeah, right, Anyway, I just thought that was interesting,
- 51:35Speaker 3: you know, to see where people were saying, and just
- 51:38Speaker 3: to think about it from that point of view, I
- 51:40Speaker 3: also do think this is who Bose is. I do
- 51:43Speaker 3: think she brought Amanda in to ask the questions on
- 51:46Speaker 3: camera that she wants to ask to Ead like. I
- 51:49Speaker 3: do think she wanted her to like she wants to
- 51:52Speaker 3: be like her, you know, to jerread, but she can't
- 51:56Speaker 3: really do that on camera because that's her girl, you know.
- 52:00Speaker 2: Oh right, wow, good point.
- 52:04Speaker 3: So I think she was like, Amanda, can you Yeah.
- 52:06Speaker 2: And that's good because the new girls come in and
- 52:09Speaker 2: they're the ones who seem to do the heavier lifting. Yeah, yeah,
- 52:13Speaker 2: good point, good point. You know, look, why don't we
- 52:17Speaker 2: go put on some Coldplay music and uh and have
- 52:22Speaker 2: a get our treat, Yeah, get our tickets to Comic
- 52:25Speaker 2: Con and just have a great holiday weekend. Now, thanks
- 52:28Speaker 2: for listening, you guys. If you don't see it up
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- 52:44Speaker 2: There is a gorgeous podcast companion podcast to the substack
- 52:49Speaker 2: and see what she's got cooking over there, and thanks
- 52:53Speaker 2: for listening, y'all, have a great weekend.
- 52:56Speaker 1: Bye, Darling Drama, Darling Drama, Darling