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A Quick Stop At Johnny's House: Being Liked · Johnny's House

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  Speaker 1: Is it cool to be liked? What did you gov say? Man?
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  Speaker 2: So, they did this big poll about people liking people,
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  Speaker 2: and they asked, is being liked overrated? Eighty percent of
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  Speaker 2: people said yes, and being liked is overrated? So the
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  Speaker 2: only twenty percent are really care that you like them?
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  Speaker 2: And then they asked, you know, do you think people
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  Speaker 2: generally like you? Most people said yeah, but eighty percent
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  Speaker 2: say the idea of being liked it's just overrated.
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  Speaker 1: So what do you think, Brian? How do you feel
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  Speaker 1: about yourself? You know, it's so weird. It fluctuates. It
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  Speaker 1: depends on the situation.
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  Speaker 2: Generally speaking, if I meet someone and they don't like me,
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  Speaker 2: it really bothers me.
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  Speaker 1: Really, yeah, because how could you not like me?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm friendly, I'm funny, I'm I'm nice, I'm awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Like what now if we have a thing and you
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  Speaker 2: don't like me, I don't give a dam because now
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  Speaker 2: we got a thing and there's probably a reason you
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  Speaker 2: don't like me, and that's cool. But when someone just
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  Speaker 2: meets me and they don't like me, I really have
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  Speaker 2: a problem with it.
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  Speaker 3: It really really messes with me. Wow, I'm I'm I'm
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  Speaker 3: I won't say I'm the opposite. I used to want
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  Speaker 3: people to like me. But if I meet someone and
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  Speaker 3: I've done nothing wrong and I'm just being myself and
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  Speaker 3: i've and that's happened before, and you can tell they
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  Speaker 3: got that whatever it is, that's on you, broth. I've
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  Speaker 3: been nice, I've extended my hand, how you doing it,
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  Speaker 3: what's up? And you're good? Good boom. At that point,
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  Speaker 3: you don't exist to me. I've just erased you off
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  Speaker 3: my map in the workplace. I'm nice to everybody, but
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  Speaker 3: if you got a little chip on your shoulder for me,
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  Speaker 3: you're done. I don't care. You know, I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 3: as nice as I can because that's that's how I am.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, if I made a point to just coming, hey,
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  Speaker 3: how you doing, because you know, there's some people in
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  Speaker 3: our building now you just like what's up? And they
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  Speaker 3: like I just like if they have some dirt, they
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  Speaker 3: kick it on me. I've done nothing to these people.
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  Speaker 3: I don't really know them, So for me, I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: and I just I just keep it moving. I keep
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  Speaker 3: it moving.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, there's if I butt heads with you on
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  Speaker 2: anything and you don't like me, I don't care that
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  Speaker 2: means nothing to me.
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  Speaker 1: But if you don't.
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  Speaker 2: Know me and you just start don't like me, I
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  Speaker 2: just come to.
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  Speaker 1: Like, what's wrong with you? Like I want to do
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  Speaker 1: some card tricks? What you're going to do? Oh my god.
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  Speaker 4: I think I'm more of like the same as you. Like,
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  Speaker 4: if I just meet you I don't like me, I'm
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  Speaker 4: kind of like, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Nothing to you.
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  Speaker 1: That's a use situation.
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  Speaker 4: I think that if we have like some sort of
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  Speaker 4: history or some sort of like you know, well you've
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  Speaker 4: known me for a long time and then you don't
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  Speaker 4: like me, then I'm kind of just like, well.
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  Speaker 5: What, yeah, you know, what did I do wrong? Is
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  Speaker 5: what I kind of question.
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  Speaker 4: But if I'm just meeting you, I'm kind of just
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  Speaker 4: like I don't need any more people in my life,
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  Speaker 4: to be honest, and I feel like if I feel
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  Speaker 4: like I'm doing a good job, then it doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 3: I've got a point. Okay when you just said that. Now,
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  Speaker 3: if we know each other and every time I go like,
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  Speaker 3: what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Man? Because you know, when I see people, I give
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  Speaker 1: them a hoo, what's upping? What's up?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, obviously something's in your brain, man, what's up? It's
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  Speaker 3: all good. Oh now, so if you don't want to
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  Speaker 3: tell me, then okay.
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  Speaker 2: So the people that I know already that don't like me,
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  Speaker 2: I know why they don't and I'm cool with that,
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  Speaker 2: and that usually is of them, not to me, and
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  Speaker 2: that's why I don't care. But if we're off the
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  Speaker 2: street and we're together for ten minutes and you don't
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  Speaker 2: like me that I have, it gives me a complex.
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  Speaker 1: Really, I know.
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  Speaker 4: Like I said, I feel like I already have enough
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  Speaker 4: people in my life that care about me, and I'm confident.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be friends with you. I like me.
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  Speaker 3: I got a situation, a scenario that we're all in
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  Speaker 3: and especially us the guys on the show, And how
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  Speaker 3: do you feel about that? There's a lot of women
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  Speaker 3: that listen to our show, we're women based show, and
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  Speaker 3: they're excited when they see us. If they're with their
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  Speaker 3: husbands and their boyfriend, that's the first person I'll say
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  Speaker 3: hello too. But that guy sometimes automatically don't like me
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  Speaker 3: because his girl's excited to say hello, and I'll be like, Hey,
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  Speaker 3: what's up?
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  Speaker 1: So, okay, does that bother you?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 2: Because I can, I can, I can put a label
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  Speaker 2: on that I know why, Like, I get it.
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  Speaker 1: But like if I just meet.
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  Speaker 2: You out somewhere for the first time and I get
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  Speaker 2: the vibe you don't like me, it really bothers me.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to like me. I don't.
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  Speaker 2: That makes no sense. If we've had a problem in
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  Speaker 2: the past, then I get it. There's a reason you
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  Speaker 2: like me, and that's fine. I'm the villain in a
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  Speaker 2: lot of stories. That's cool with me. Yeah, But if
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  Speaker 2: I just meet you and you don't like me, I
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  Speaker 2: will it will bother me for days.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll walk away. Guys, what's that cat's problem?
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  Speaker 4: So I think that like for me, when the question
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  Speaker 4: is being liked overrated, I would say yeah, unless it's
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  Speaker 4: like you have you know them, then I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 4: then I need to have some sort of understanding and
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  Speaker 4: then you could tell me like whatever the fallout was.
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  Speaker 5: But like being liked by new people and in general.
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  Speaker 1: I'll say, oh, I say it's important, but in some
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  Speaker 1: cases it can be over eighted.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, if you don't like me for no reason, man,
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  Speaker 3: get out of them. Whatever it is. I just I
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  Speaker 3: just look at them as a that's a youth situation.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what I have not done to you
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  Speaker 3: that made you think I've done something to you, But
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  Speaker 3: that's a you thing. And if you don't want to
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  Speaker 3: talk about like grown ass men, then just be mad
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  Speaker 3: at me.
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  Speaker 1: I won't give it Now.
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  Speaker 3: I want to find out from you. Do you feel
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  Speaker 3: that being liked is overrated? Are you one of those
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  Speaker 3: if someone doesn't like you, you don't care or you're
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  Speaker 3: like Brian, Okay, I just met you. How could you
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  Speaker 3: not like me and it bothers you? I mean, being
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  Speaker 3: liked is important. People people love to be liked. But
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  Speaker 3: my thing to you is is it overrated? And what
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  Speaker 3: are you doing? How do you handling when someone doesn't
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  Speaker 3: like you? Four O seven now one nine one O
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  Speaker 3: live streams social media. We're gonna read some stuff that
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  Speaker 3: you said, but if we talk to you, we open
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  Speaker 3: ourselves up to you. Now is your time to open
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  Speaker 3: yourselves up to us. We want to find out how
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  Speaker 3: you feel is being liked overrated? Or is it important
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  Speaker 3: to you? Four O seven not one nine one O
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  Speaker 3: six seven want to talk to you on Johnny's House
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  Speaker 3: Friends or being liked? Is that overrated? Is it something
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  Speaker 3: that is important to you or you feel that it
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  Speaker 3: is overrated? We want to find out what you're thinking
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  Speaker 3: about it. Calling us from Mountain Dora is a million, Hey, a.
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  Speaker 6: Million good morning guys.
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  Speaker 1: You good good? Being liked? Is it overrated?
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  Speaker 6: I feel like in high school it was such a
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  Speaker 6: big deal to be liked by everyone and be popular
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  Speaker 6: and say with the popular and everything like that, and
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  Speaker 6: that was something that like I harped on in high school.
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  Speaker 6: But as I got older, I'm just like, you know what,
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  Speaker 6: if you don't like me, it is what it is,
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  Speaker 6: Like I'm going to go on about my day anyway.
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  Speaker 6: So I didn't think now it's overrated.
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  Speaker 3: You think because you got a little bit older, you
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  Speaker 3: realize that, you know what, those people, they gonna have
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  Speaker 3: an opinion one way or another. I don't care. Or
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  Speaker 3: what happened to made you change?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, like moving around a lot as a kid,
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  Speaker 6: I realized, like, you know, if you don't like me,
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  Speaker 6: I don't have to have you a part of my
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  Speaker 6: life and I don't have to harp on that and
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  Speaker 6: it doesn't have to bother me for the rest of
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  Speaker 6: my life if you don't like me, because some people
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  Speaker 6: like me, some people like me, and some people don't.
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  Speaker 6: So it was, you know, just one of those things.
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  Speaker 6: And I will say my husband, everyone likes him. No
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  Speaker 6: matter where we go, he makes friends with everyone. We'll
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  Speaker 6: be at the bowling alley. Next thing, I know, some
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  Speaker 6: random person's coming up in at bottom of shot and
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  Speaker 6: I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: How did you get a shot?
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  Speaker 7: And he's like, oh, we were talking over by.
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  Speaker 6: The bathroom or whatever. I mean, he miss social butterfly.
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  Speaker 3: My dad was like that he never met a stranger.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know what that term meant when I until
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  Speaker 3: I got older. You know, maybe he just had that
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  Speaker 3: look some people had that looked the leaguing alone.
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  Speaker 6: That's what I say. I think it's the RBF. I
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  Speaker 6: must have an RBF or something, because I guess I'm
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  Speaker 6: just not as approachable as him. But opposite the track,
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  Speaker 6: I guess he gets all the friends and I just
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  Speaker 6: hang around.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he said, You're like, he didn't get me a shot. No, No,
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  Speaker 3: he just bought me one. He didn't give you one. Well,
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  Speaker 3: thank you for sharing that, and Emeli, you have a
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  Speaker 3: beautiful day.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, Johnny, I want to just say really quick, I've
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  Speaker 6: known I've listened to you since I was in elementary
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  Speaker 6: school and my first concert I ever went to was
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  Speaker 6: tickets my mom bought or my mom won by listening
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  Speaker 6: to to you back when I was in fourth grade,
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  Speaker 6: and that was meet and greet for plaining White Te's
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  Speaker 6: and Jim Class here.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been here for a long time, and Brian
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  Speaker 3: Ray will tell you every day that I have been.
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  Speaker 1: I was even here for Jim Class.
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  Speaker 6: I still listen to you and my kids.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 6: I appreciate you being here in the morning and making
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  Speaker 6: our morning.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thank you. You just made the day. I appreciate that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad we had two generations in your household. Well three, yes, sir,
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  Speaker 1: three generations.
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  Speaker 6: We'll take its.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. Well, thank you million. Thank you for calling. We
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  Speaker 1: appreciate you.
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  Speaker 6: Have a great day, guys, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Jim Class.
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  Speaker 2: Heroes was the show at uc Eparina where Taby McCoy
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  Speaker 2: pulled the shower the couch into the.
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  Speaker 1: Shower in the green room.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, and then we hung out with him in
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  Speaker 2: the shower of the green room on a couch.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because he was trying to get rid of the
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  Speaker 3: marijuana's mill, and he thought that the water would mast
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  Speaker 3: all that.
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  Speaker 5: Gosh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Jennifer Orlando, good morning, Hi.
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  Speaker 8: Good morning guys. First time caller.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Jina your family girl, don't you have a You
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  Speaker 1: gotta keep calling now because you're part of the group
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  Speaker 1: and come out to one of our events every now
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  Speaker 1: and then.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, right, right, we'll do okay, okay, being like, what
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  Speaker 3: do you think I think it's important.
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  Speaker 8: I think we are humans are are built to be
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  Speaker 8: social and to be liked, and I think it's important.
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  Speaker 7: So I definitely don't.
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  Speaker 8: Think it's overrated. I want to be liked by the
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  Speaker 8: people I work with, the people that I'm surrounded with,
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  Speaker 8: and you don't like me, or if I meet you
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  Speaker 8: for the first time and you don't like me, it's
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  Speaker 8: gonna make me wonder, well, what did I do wrong?
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  Speaker 8: I mean, am I not good enough? Did I say
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  Speaker 8: something that I shouldn't had? It's gonna make me wonder.
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  Speaker 7: So, so yeah, I want.
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  Speaker 6: To be.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, maybe it's because I'm a scorekeeper and like
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  Speaker 2: and so when you don't like me, that's.
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  Speaker 1: A margin the wrong column, you know. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I just like I'm like, what, what, what's wrong with you?
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  Speaker 2: I'm a man, I, Gina, you lucky work.
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  Speaker 5: Wrong with me?
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  Speaker 1: Say what's wrong with that? You have a good person, Gina.
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  Speaker 3: My thing was, if you worked here and you ain't
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  Speaker 3: the guy like you like what I have to do,
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  Speaker 3: I'd say, pound cake two times a week, I'll.
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  Speaker 1: Like you well.
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  Speaker 8: And it's weird for me because if if it's just
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  Speaker 8: like a cashier that I'm interacting with and she has
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  Speaker 8: an attitude and it's just the first time you know
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  Speaker 8: that I'm eating her, I know for in fact, I'm
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  Speaker 8: not gonna see forever again, so I don't really care
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  Speaker 8: at that point. But if it's so much that I
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  Speaker 8: work with or no just day to day people or
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  Speaker 8: somebody that I need for the first time that I
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  Speaker 8: know we're going to be seeing each other around, then yeah,
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  Speaker 8: it's gonna make me wonder what did I do? What
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  Speaker 8: should I do?
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  Speaker 3: I just blink, turn my head, keep walking. Not not
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  Speaker 3: another thought, not one other thought inside of the ring.
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  Speaker 1: I get it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: We are who we are, Gina. We are who we are,
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  Speaker 3: and thank you, thank you for sharing that. We appreciate
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  Speaker 3: that that. Honestly, guys, hey, you too, right, what's over there?
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  Speaker 5: Somebody said that I feel like it's overrated.
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  Speaker 4: I'm the kind that if you don't like me, cool,
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  Speaker 4: most likely I probably don't like you either.
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  Speaker 5: So it's kind of like, well, if you don't.
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  Speaker 1: Like me, I don't like you either. Okay, two people
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  Speaker 1: don't like each other.
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  Speaker 2: Most people say it's overrated. Someone said, this is basically
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  Speaker 2: what we talked about in my therapy session yesterday.
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  Speaker 7: Good for you.
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  Speaker 1: It just crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Uh and then so and and this makes total sense
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  Speaker 2: to me too, because I agree. Someone said, I don't
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  Speaker 2: really care if people like me or not, but it
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  Speaker 2: really bothers me when people like other people that are
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  Speaker 2: just terrible people, because.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, how are you like them? You know that me?
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  Speaker 1: That to me is that even worse than you're not
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  Speaker 1: liking me.
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  Speaker 6: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: See I would say, well you must be terrible too,
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  Speaker 1: but people just don't know, right, well, that's why you
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  Speaker 1: like that person or it's like you'll wow, okay, listen,
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  Speaker 1: we come back.
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  Speaker 3: I want to find out if you're this type of person.
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  Speaker 3: We get back on Johnny. I want to find out
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  Speaker 3: if you are a talker. And when I say that,
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  Speaker 3: are you one of those that love to engage in
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  Speaker 3: conversations with people. We had a couple of people I
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  Speaker 3: don't think they're here anymore that if you saw.
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  Speaker 1: Them coming, oh my god, you knew you had to.
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  Speaker 3: Move because that was at least a ten minute conversation
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  Speaker 3: about nothing. I talk. I like talking to people that
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  Speaker 3: I know that if we haven't like like Ryan, and
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  Speaker 3: if we're engaged in the conversation, I mean we're well,
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  Speaker 3: we're talking to each other. Yeah, but just to roll
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  Speaker 3: up on me and just start talking, that ain't my thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: And uh I never had a house, I mean a condo.
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  Speaker 3: I rent it and uh my tenant was like, there's
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  Speaker 3: something wrong with sudden such So I knew this this
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  Speaker 3: handy person.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, listen, whatever you.
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  Speaker 3: Do, don't ask him how he's doing, say hello, and
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  Speaker 3: just ask him you need anything. And he said, man,
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  Speaker 3: whatever he did it, he said, bro, he talked to
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  Speaker 3: me for an hour and forty. He did more talking
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  Speaker 3: to me than fix it. I you and I don't
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  Speaker 3: know if people know if they talk that much, you
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  Speaker 3: don't have.
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  Speaker 4: Any like personal like cues, like they're not giving the
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  Speaker 4: cues that.
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  Speaker 1: You can still be can be on your keyboard, I know.
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  Speaker 4: But there's somebody that like still works here. I just like,
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  Speaker 4: I cannot.
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  Speaker 1: You got to tell me who that is. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know who that is.
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  Speaker 5: Dear God, I'm winded and I'm not doing anything.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this one person that said, oh lord, oh lord, oh,
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  Speaker 1: here that person comes.
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  Speaker 2: We have a person that doesn't work here, but we
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  Speaker 2: work with from outside the building. They do other things
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  Speaker 2: for us. And they didn't tell me upfront until it
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  Speaker 2: was too late that and then they just told me
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  Speaker 2: to call them. And then I instantly called them back
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  Speaker 2: and said, hey man, why didn't you tell And then
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: it became like a joke, like every time I needed
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: to call them, it's like, oh and I was like, Okay,
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: well I've got I've got a block out and I'm
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: not exaggerating. Forty five minutes, yes, and maybe five of
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: those forty five minutes were substance like what we needed
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: to get through the arrest of it was nonsense.
• 13:31
  Speaker 3: There was another person that we both know. It's kind
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: of work related. You knew that it was going to
• 13:38
  Speaker 3: be at least a thirty minute conversation at least thirty minutes,
• 13:41
  Speaker 3: and maybe eight of that thirty minutes is about what
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: you're supposed to talk about. Yeah, and it's like here
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: we go and you're like yeah, and then you had
• 13:48
  Speaker 3: to you had to prepay yourself, all right, all right,
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: because you got to make that call. You have to
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: talk to this person. You have to how you doing,
• 13:57
  Speaker 3: and then you try to get into it real quick.
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: A so let's try to oh, what's happening?
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: Ah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I am not that person.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: I don't give information if I don't know you, if
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: I don't work closely to you, I know nothing agar
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: about so and sos.
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: I ain't heard about nothing. I don't know about nothing.
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: I don't know nothing. I talk to y'all and that's
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: about it. And when the talkers come, my desk is
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: in the corner. You got to make a point to
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: get to me.
• 14:20
  Speaker 4: I don't mind talking to them because, like I feel
• 14:22
  Speaker 4: like I get a lot of insight and I get
• 14:24
  Speaker 4: a lot of scoop because they are involved in everything.
• 14:27
  Speaker 4: Usually the talker is involved with everything.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: And they don't want stuff back.
• 14:31
  Speaker 4: No, you can just sit and listen and so That's
• 14:33
  Speaker 4: why I'm like, okay, awkward.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: Why are you telling me this?
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: The ones, the ones I don't want to talk to,
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: are the ones who do want stuff back.
• 14:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, they're dishing.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: I've avoided them, but there are some who just would
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: love to tell you everything, yeah, with nothing in return.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: Is like, okay, I know what I got to do.
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: Don't you have something to do?
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: Because we're talking at least a thirty minute, thirty to
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: forty minute block of just talking. Yeah, and you're going yeah,
• 14:56
  Speaker 3: and I'll be on my Yeah. That's really man, really,
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, you're not getting a message. I'm not
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: even looking at you.
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: I feel like in my head, I'm always like, are
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: you tired?
• 15:07
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 15:07
  Speaker 5: Are you tired?
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: My wife and I share an office at home, and
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: so I had to do the call to this outside
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: person while she was there.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: She packed up her computer and left, and then she came.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: When she came back, she goes it, next time you
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: have to call that person, could you please tell me
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: ahead of time.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm like, I'm sorry, I don't are you
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: guys what it is?
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: I want to find out are you a talker or
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: do you have someone in your life. It could be
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: a relative, it could be a coworker, it could be
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: a friend that you know you love them to death.
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: But you know, if you get into a conversation, it's
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: gonna be at least thirty to forty minutes of non
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: stop talking, and most of the time you're going, huh really, oh,
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: it's crazy, that's what that's your part of it? Is
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: there someone like that? And when you admit you're that person,
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: you just like to talk because I think those people
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: don't know.
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: They don't they can't, they don't know, they can't.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Know, they know, they cannot know.
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: Four oh seven now on nine one o six seven
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: eight seven seven now one nine one o six seven
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: will always read your text if you text us. The
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: XL mobile is four one o sixty seven. Live stream
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: and social media want to hear from you. Are you
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: a talker or do you know one? If you're a talker,
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: we want to find out why. We want to find
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: out if you're that person. Now here's somebody who's eleven
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: years old want to talk about their dad. Uh, hey Cindy, Hello, Hello,
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: hey Cindy. Now, who's a talker?
• 16:22
  Speaker 9: My dad?
• 16:23
  Speaker 6: But then it's often me awful really.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Now, why do your dad talk so much?
• 16:29
  Speaker 9: So when I get in trouble, my dad, oh, E
• 16:33
  Speaker 9: give me like a vulture life lessons.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: Yes, I guess in that sense, I'm a talker. Yeah,
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: because that's all you can hear it. Oh yes, Oh,
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: my son would tell you. I'm you can hear it.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: And even after I'm done with my point, I need
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: to make sure that you heard my point. So I
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: give you another angle of my point.
• 16:48
  Speaker 9: Yes, yes, and then and then after that, after that,
• 16:53
  Speaker 9: when I when when I, when I get warned, it
• 16:57
  Speaker 9: is also the same thing. And then also that it
• 17:00
  Speaker 9: becomes another thing. And then he's like add on to
• 17:04
  Speaker 9: chapter one to chapter two.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Movies, Cindy, all dads are like that. They are.
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: Yeah, did your mom think the same way as you?
• 17:13
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's shorter.
• 17:15
  Speaker 9: It's like a thirty minute, one hour, that's it.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Cindy has made me realize that I'm probably, in
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: some people's eyes, a talker.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Dag Roy, You just not realized until she said it.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: No, I I just realize that your dad's like, I
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: got to get my point across, and he's his thing
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: is if I talk to you long enough, you'll get it.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: And you won't repeat it. What you did, that's what
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: you're thinking. Yeah, yeah, okay, well all right, well thank
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: you for sharing that with us. Okay, okay, you have
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: a good day. Have a good day.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I can see it in my son's face.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: He's like, all right, Dad, Land the plane, Like, I see,
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: you've been circling for twenty minutes.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: You got to hear me. You got to hear me,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Land a plane man from Ocala. Amanda, good morning, good morning.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I can hear in your voice you're talking.
• 18:07
  Speaker 7: Yes, I am, And I think it's actually a good strength.
• 18:10
  Speaker 7: That's how you network, that's how you meet people. And
• 18:13
  Speaker 7: this day and age, I feel like so many people
• 18:15
  Speaker 7: are stuck in their heads and their phones. You go
• 18:17
  Speaker 7: to dinner, head en the phone. There's no real genuine
• 18:19
  Speaker 7: connections and no talking, Like how do you get back
• 18:23
  Speaker 7: through life not talking to anybody? Just I mean, sometimes
• 18:26
  Speaker 7: there is too much talking, because I could talk your
• 18:28
  Speaker 7: head off, but I don't like when people talk my
• 18:30
  Speaker 7: head off about nonsense. So I think there is too much.
• 18:34
  Speaker 7: But then I think I am one that does too much.
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: So I mean I just think overall the way everything
• 18:40
  Speaker 7: goes these days, and even people who are lonely things
• 18:43
  Speaker 7: like that. I just try to listen out and just
• 18:45
  Speaker 7: be a lending ear, even if I'm not paying attention,
• 18:47
  Speaker 7: because you know, everybody.
• 18:49
  Speaker 6: Wants to be heard.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, we just let you go. We let you go.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Hang on, I was just taking a breast.
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: I understand, Like I feel like I'm a listener, but
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: I'm not a talker.
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: Like I'll sit and listen to you all day long.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Now that I'm reassessing my conversations with Ray, you probably
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: think I'm a talker because I keep going.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: No, I'll keep going with.
• 19:13
  Speaker 7: Everything that goes on today. There's not enough of it.
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: Everybody's with their heads and their phones on social media
• 19:18
  Speaker 7: and everything. Nobody really makes any connections. I mean, I
• 19:22
  Speaker 7: don't think.
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: It's a bad thing.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, is that it?
• 19:27
  Speaker 7: Yep, that's it. That's it, unless you want me to
• 19:29
  Speaker 7: talk to you some more.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: No. No, I like the fact that you understood how
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: radio works. It's beautiful. There's a space.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: You keep it till I make friends with everybody. I'm
• 19:40
  Speaker 7: a big personality, so I made a lot of connections
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: and everything just by talking to people. They love talking
• 19:46
  Speaker 7: to me, they enjoy laughing. I'm a joker too, so
• 19:49
  Speaker 7: that adds into helping with the talking.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: Have you ever in your where you work, if you
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: see somebody walk towards you go, oh man, I forgot something,
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: they turn around.
• 19:59
  Speaker 7: No, they actually come port me. I actually had a
• 20:01
  Speaker 7: sign on my dad before says please don't stop and
• 20:04
  Speaker 7: talk to me because my dad is actually all the
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: way in the front, and they would come from BF
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: me to come talk to me in the in the front.
• 20:11
  Speaker 7: So no, they love talking to me. I'm a big joker,
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: so I just talk and joke and they love laughing
• 20:17
  Speaker 7: love laughing neither.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: So I mean, all right, well, listen, sometimes were a
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: little short on calls. You call any time, Sit back
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: and let you go. We'll let you go.
• 20:26
  Speaker 6: Thank you guys.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: All right, Wenda, you have a beautiful day. Thank you
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: for sharing that. All right? She did for a minute,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Timothy Texas, She kept going, Yes, kept going, it's ray
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: what you got.
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: Somebody said absolutely on all my report cards growing up,
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: said that I talked to you too much. And my
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: dad used to write back and say to take my
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: recess away so I.
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: Didn't have to talk to anybody.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: Oh wow, So it just says I have residents that
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: loves to talk to me to death.
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: M hm.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: Well, if they're residents, like if it's a senior citizen community,
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: they got nobody else talk to, they want to talk
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: to you.
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: They get three.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: Wow, that's crazy. Then I get to have a then
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: I have to go to a meeting.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Three that's crazy.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: When I did work in the apartment office, there are
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: residents who they I think it's says they don't have
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: anyone to talk to. They will come stet in the
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: office and just talk your ear all day. They got
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: nothing to do, and they think that they're keeping you company. Yeah, Brian,
• 21:11
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• 21:17
  Speaker 2: is a talker, talk talk talk talk talk talk o MG,
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: And then someone said, OMG, it's my husband. Twenty four
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: years we've been married, and I often wonder how he
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: hasn't used up all his lifetime allotment of words.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Dad, that's all cool, you're out of words. Be quiet.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: It is ova all right, boss daughter