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Control Your Thoughts: Push Yourself to Achieve What You Deserve · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: It's time to do something significant. It's time to get up,
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  Speaker 1: It's time to get back into being significant. Just woke up.
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  Speaker 2: Gotta do what you gotta do.
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  Speaker 3: What are you gonna do today to walk towards your goal?
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  Speaker 1: Everybody wants to price, but nobody loves the processes.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody wants to be a.
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  Speaker 1: Champion for nobody's wanting to put in the work that
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  Speaker 1: it takes to be a champion. Everybody wants to hold
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  Speaker 1: up the trophy and say, man, I get it, but
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  Speaker 1: nobody's wanting to put in the work that it takes
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  Speaker 1: to do it. I love the process. I love the
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  Speaker 1: thought of working for what I want. And I've barely.
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  Speaker 3: Believe you never supposed to wish for it.
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  Speaker 1: Or you're willing to work for it.
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  Speaker 3: Your expectations never supposed to acceed your epence.
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  Speaker 1: But a lot of people they wish and they're not
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  Speaker 1: willing to work.
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  Speaker 3: And a great thing about life, Life has a funny.
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  Speaker 1: Way of just in all of us and seeing how
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  Speaker 1: bad we really want what it is that we say
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  Speaker 1: we want. If you still talking about your dreams, if
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  Speaker 1: you still talking about your goals but you have not
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  Speaker 1: done anything, just take the first step, come ask me
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  Speaker 1: to take the first step. The first step is stop
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  Speaker 1: talking about it. The second step is just take one
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  Speaker 1: step toward it, and then the next day take another
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  Speaker 1: step toward it. You become the right person. I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 1: You can make whatever kind of money you want to make.
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  Speaker 1: You can have whatever you want to have. You can
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  Speaker 1: do whatever you want to do. Like there are no limitations.
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  Speaker 2: See, average people are too scared.
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  Speaker 1: To shine the light, too self conscious to be phone.
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  Speaker 3: But it's from that.
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  Speaker 1: Place of vulnerability that you find greatness. That you find
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  Speaker 1: no idea, that you find power, the kind of power
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  Speaker 1: that it takes to shame.
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  Speaker 3: Change the world deeps where the living is.
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  Speaker 1: And if you want to taste the glatness, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: be willing to fetch him to the unknown, to that
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  Speaker 1: place that scarce shoe. Stop tiptoeing into your destiny, get
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  Speaker 1: out of that comfort zone and beat all that God
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  Speaker 1: made you the feed whatever dream you have, use all
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  Speaker 1: your energy to make it into reality. Push yourself to
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  Speaker 1: become the person you are destined to become.
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  Speaker 3: It's not easy, it's hard changing your life.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about a problem in my life, so for you,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. But that poblem. You
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  Speaker 1: cannot ignore it. Why it will not go away. It
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  Speaker 1: will not go away on its own. It will not
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  Speaker 1: You won't just wake up one day and it.
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  Speaker 2: Won't be there anymore.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to be there and it will haunt you
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  Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. So I'm telling you
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  Speaker 1: from personal experience, deal with it. Deal with it, and
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  Speaker 1: the sooner you deal with it, and the sooner you
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  Speaker 1: overcome it, the sooner you get to your rewards. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: the sooner you get on the other side of it,
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  Speaker 1: the sooner you begin to feel fulfillment. The sooner you
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  Speaker 1: get on the other side is self actualization, your dreams
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  Speaker 1: become a reality. The sooner you get on the other
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  Speaker 1: side of the problem is a wealth of success. The
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  Speaker 1: sooner you deal with the fact that you have testing
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  Speaker 1: side it. Deal with it. It's not the end of
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  Speaker 1: the world. Deal with it because when you deal with it,
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  Speaker 1: you can create a solution for it and you can
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  Speaker 1: get over Deal with it that that you and your
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  Speaker 1: children don't have the best relation. Deal with it. Deal
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  Speaker 1: with the fact that you are procrastinated. Deal with the
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  Speaker 1: fact that it's hard for you to execute. Deal with
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  Speaker 1: the fact that every time something happens, you worried about it.
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  Speaker 1: Deal with the fact that you had this anxiety that
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  Speaker 1: every time you were about to reach another level of success,
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  Speaker 1: every time you're about to go to another level, deal
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  Speaker 1: with the fact that's just trouble with your success, that
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  Speaker 1: you feel like why me?
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  Speaker 3: And why not?
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  Speaker 1: My sister will why me? Why not?
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  Speaker 2: Other people?
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  Speaker 1: It was the fact that you feel guilty that you're exact.
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  Speaker 1: Deal with it.
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  Speaker 3: And I was sleeping in my office. It was hard
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  Speaker 3: when just over three years ago in the Pinopscot building
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  Speaker 3: in Detroit, Michigan, where I was operating my business, and
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  Speaker 3: I fell on some hard times. It was hard coming
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  Speaker 3: into the lobby and the security said, excuse me, mister Brown,
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  Speaker 3: can we see you for a moment, And I said yes,
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  Speaker 3: And I walked up to the counter and he gave
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  Speaker 3: me an envelope and he said, would you mind reading
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  Speaker 3: it here? And I opened the envelope and the envelope
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  Speaker 3: was from management that said this is an office tower,
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  Speaker 3: it's not a hotel. Please do not sleep in your office.
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  Speaker 3: And I said, excuse me, sir, I said, I just
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  Speaker 3: work long hours and creating my business. I'm an entrepreneur
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  Speaker 3: and right now things are bad for me, but they're
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  Speaker 3: not going to be this way always. I'm not trying
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  Speaker 3: to make this my home. And it was hard coming
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  Speaker 3: through the lobby, and sometimes they would laugh. There's a
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  Speaker 3: guy talking about becoming successful, and look at him. He's
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  Speaker 3: bathing in the bathroom upstairs on the twenty first floor.
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  Speaker 3: He sleeps on the floor, him and two other dreamers
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  Speaker 3: up there. Look at him. It was hard, ladies and
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  Speaker 3: gentlemen coming to speak to people, and I was facing
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  Speaker 3: financial difficulties in my own life. I was behind on
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  Speaker 3: my bills and my dreams, and I'm saying to them,
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  Speaker 3: you can live your dream. It was hard, ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 3: It was very difficult to pick myself up each day
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  Speaker 3: believing that I could do it. There were times that
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  Speaker 3: I doubted myself. I said, God, why why happening to me.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just trying to take care of my children and
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  Speaker 3: my mother. I'm not trying to steal a rock from anybody.
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  Speaker 3: How did this have to happen to me? It was
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  Speaker 3: rough when I lost my job and I could not
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  Speaker 3: find a job. It was humiliating, an embarrassing borrowing money
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  Speaker 3: and then I couldn't pay the money back when I
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  Speaker 3: told them I would. That's rough, how people look at you,
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  Speaker 3: how they respond to it. It's very hard. Here's what
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  Speaker 3: I discovered that happens to your life. That you will
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  Speaker 3: go through things and while you're going through them, you can't.
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  Speaker 1: Understand why it's happening.
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  Speaker 3: But after you go through it, you get back and
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  Speaker 3: you look at it and you say, oh, now I
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  Speaker 3: understand why I needed that lesson. Then I saw that
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  Speaker 3: that was preparing me for bigger and better things. See,
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  Speaker 3: most people want it easy. See easy come easy, go
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  Speaker 3: learning those things that you don't like to do. But
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  Speaker 3: you know that in order for you to get where
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  Speaker 3: you want to go, this is one of the hoops
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  Speaker 3: that you have to flip through. And I'm saying to you,
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  Speaker 3: whatever you gotta do, do it because if you don't,
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  Speaker 3: life is gonna whoop you and tell you surrender. How
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  Speaker 3: do you hang in there during the hard, difficult times?
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  Speaker 3: Lest you must have faith. You've got to believe in yourself.
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  Speaker 3: You've got to believe in your abilities.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to believe.
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  Speaker 3: In your service, your company, your ideas. Unquestionably, you've got
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  Speaker 3: to have faith, and that faith gives you patience. That
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  Speaker 3: is not gonna happen as quickly as you want it
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  Speaker 3: to happen. A lot of things gonna happen that will
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  Speaker 3: catch you off God, and so therefore you've got to
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  Speaker 3: deal with and handle it as it comes. And not
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  Speaker 3: only that, but that faith and patience drives you in action.
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  Speaker 4: You've got to keep moving, be yourself. Everyone else is
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  Speaker 4: taken well. That really speaks to the power of being
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  Speaker 4: an original. It speaks to this concept of authenticity, being yourself.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, we live in a world where there has
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  Speaker 4: never been so much of a seduction to be like
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  Speaker 4: everyone else. There's never been so much influence and hypnosis
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  Speaker 4: through the social media and through society, to talk in
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  Speaker 4: a certain way, to walk in a certain way, to
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  Speaker 4: buy certain things, to measure your success by the same philosophy.
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  Speaker 4: And what I'm encouraging you to do, based on this
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  Speaker 4: Oscar Wild quote is to be yourself. I mean, talk
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  Speaker 4: your talk, walk your walk, take the time to reflect
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  Speaker 4: on your dream, be true to your own values, because
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  Speaker 4: life's greatest heartbreak is self betrayal.
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  Speaker 2: Never underestimate the power of influence. What an important statement.
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  Speaker 2: The influence of those around us is so powerful. Many
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  Speaker 2: times we don't even realize we're being strongly influenced because
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  Speaker 2: it generally develops over an extended period of time. Peer
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  Speaker 2: pressure is an especially powerful form of influence because it
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  Speaker 2: is so subtle. If you're around people who spend all
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  Speaker 2: they make, chances are excellent that you'll spend all you make.
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  Speaker 2: If you are around people who go to more ballgames
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  Speaker 2: than concerts, chances are excellent that you'll do the same.
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  Speaker 2: If you're around people who don't read many books, chances
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  Speaker 2: are excellent you won't read many books. People around us
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  Speaker 2: can keep nudging us off course a little at a time,
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  Speaker 2: until finally, ten years from now, we find ourselves asking
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  Speaker 2: how did I get here? Those subtle influences need to
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  Speaker 2: be studied carefully if we really want our lives to
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  Speaker 2: turn out the way we've planned. Now, on this major point,
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  Speaker 2: let me give you three key questions to ask. This
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  Speaker 2: may help you to make a better analysis of your
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  Speaker 2: current associations. Here is the first question, Who am I around?
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  Speaker 2: Good question? Make a mental study of the major people
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  Speaker 2: with whom you most often associate. You've got to evaluate
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  Speaker 2: everybody who is within the circle of being able to
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  Speaker 2: influence you. So major question, who am I around? Next question,
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  Speaker 2: what are they doing to me? That's a major question
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  Speaker 2: to ask. What have they got me doing? What have
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  Speaker 2: they got me listening to? What have they got me reading?
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  Speaker 2: Where have they got me going? What have they got
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  Speaker 2: me thinking? How have they got me talking? And how
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  Speaker 2: have they got me feeling? What have they got me? Saying?
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  Speaker 2: You've just got to make a serious study of how
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  Speaker 2: others are influencing you, both negatively and positively. Now, maybe
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  Speaker 2: the influence of all all goes around you is okay,
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  Speaker 2: but just ask yourself it doesn't hurt the ass. Who
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  Speaker 2: am I around and what are they doing to me?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 2: Here's the final question, is that okay? Maybe the people
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  Speaker 2: you associate with and their collective influence is okay, But
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  Speaker 2: then again maybe it's not. All I'm suggesting here is
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  Speaker 2: that you take a close and objective look. Everything is
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  Speaker 2: worth a second look, especially the power of influence. Positive
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  Speaker 2: influence can have an incredible effect on your life, but
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  Speaker 2: so can negative influence. Both will take you somewhere, but
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  Speaker 2: only one will take you in the direction you truly
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  Speaker 2: wish to go. It's so easy just to dismiss the
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  Speaker 2: things that influence our lives. The man says, I live here,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't think it matters. I'm around these people,
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  Speaker 2: but I don't think it hurts. I would take another
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  Speaker 2: look at that. I've got a good phrase for you.
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  Speaker 2: Everything matters. Now, sure, some things matter more than others,
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  Speaker 2: but everything matters. Everything weighs something. So you've got to
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  Speaker 2: keep checking to find out whether associations are tipping the
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  Speaker 2: scales toward the positive or toward the negative. It doesn't
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  Speaker 2: hurt to look right. Ignorance is never the best policy.
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  Speaker 2: Finding out is the best policy. Remember, part of the
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  Speaker 2: purpose of this program is to get us to say,
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  Speaker 2: the days of kidding myself are over. I really want
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  Speaker 2: to know what I have become and what I am becoming.
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  Speaker 2: I want to know where my strengths and my weaknesses lie,
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  Speaker 2: what has power over me, what's influencing me? What have
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  Speaker 2: I allowed to affect my life.