Latest / Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems / Let famine family fir there to be a world 21824
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- 0:02After everything said and done, and after all the exploration, uh research,
- 0:22experimentations, endeavors, sacrifices, achievements, work participations, contribution, competition,
- 0:43commitments, triumphs, and tribulations, one thing that stays is family. The
- 1:03family what's in the beginning and shall be in the end. In the beginning
- 1:17of your conception was family in the womb of a mother, biologically natural or
- 1:30surrogate, and from that womb the journey of family begins. Letting the human
- 1:49being now that the human being is not an island, where the community and
- 2:01the family reminds the human being that the human being is not alone, and
- 2:13we'll never be alone. After all, it's sad and done. The family
- 2:30is a different type of relationship. It's a relationship that is true, objective,
- 2:46realistic, kind, caring, loving, humane, tender, compassionate,
- 3:06affectionate, sometimes sympathetic, and and true family love is very important and vital
- 3:29in the life of a human being. You can be disown, rejected,
- 3:39disrespected, minimize, outcast, thrown away the value the humanizes them, or
- 3:58hurt by anything else, and it wish to turn to the family and find
- 4:06love and find open hands, open mind and open heart. But if you
- 4:19are rejected by the family, life will be very painful, very empty,
- 4:32and very futile. If the family turn it's back on you, you will
- 4:47find yourself homeless, papast less, helpless and unachieved. When we thrive in
- 5:06life, in everything that we do in life, we do it for the
- 5:15family. In terms of graduation, we expect the family to to be there.
- 5:26In terms of sickness, we expect the family to be there. In
- 5:34terms of celebration, we expect the family to be there. In terms of
- 5:44marriage, we expect the family to be there. In times of tribulation or
- 6:00accident or death, who expect the family to be there. The family is
- 6:19a type of love that is no transactional you. You participate and contribute our
- 6:44support from the heart and with sensity and trueness of your being. The cultivation
- 7:13of personhood, of personality, of character, attitude, habits, affection,
- 7:29feelings starts in the family or from the family. Our first first education,
- 7:50our first growth, process of partner from sleeping, the sitting to crawling,
- 8:05to creeping, the standing, the working to jumping or running starts in the
- 8:16family. Our first mumbled speech, and all our biological physiological can I take
- 8:30the processes begin or begins in the family. Our temperament, our anger,
- 8:45rage, spikee fights, quarrelers, yelling, screaming, our tenderness of beach
- 9:01or acting up or dramatizing stuff starts or start aim from the family. The
- 9:18who are the person that we are cannot be dissociated from our family. This
- 9:31family can be organic, It can be nuclear, or it can be a
- 9:46community or a village, uh society, a club, a school, a
- 10:01group at work, the church, hospital, in prison, in space,
- 10:20or anywhere else away from the biologicerl or natural family. I know that the
- 10:45family, the biologicer family, or the home, the home, staff,
- 10:56family, or family hurt of being related by biology of our kingship as sometimes
- 11:11troubling, difficult, antagonistic, and sometimes characterized characterized by rivalries, negative or
- 11:28positive competition. Sometimes we hatred, abeuse, and neglect, trauma, or
- 11:48name it. And if that family is broken, you get a broken human
- 11:58being and a broken society and a broken world. Is that family is loving
- 12:11and caring, kind of compassionate, intelligent, positive, and constructive, you
- 12:28have a human being that is the sign and a society that benefits from those
- 12:37values. Within and without that human being. So therefore, in a society
- 12:54itself begins post start from the family. And uh, once we get to
- 13:11know how important and dear and valued the family is for our sense of sufficiency,
- 13:31our sense of adequacy, or our sense of security, our pride,
- 13:41we turn to appreciate family more and we learn to forgive forgivable scenes or wrongs
- 14:03don't to us within the family of our family members, no matter how hurtful
- 14:16it might be. But sometimes it's difficult to forget. If the heart you
- 14:28get from a family member or members, it's traumatic and crue and unforgivable.
- 14:46And when humans go through the traumatic heart from family, it's very painful to
- 14:58the because love was taken away when it was needed most and from the place
- 15:13that is supposed to be given the most for nothing, and it hurts.
- 15:28It hurts, and at the end, so we get over it to forgive
- 15:46and let go and move on. And it's advisible sometime that if the if
- 15:58the biological family wasn't that good to you, you are free to adopt or
- 16:07crackt new families because family is where love is, and love's word chaos.
- 16:32When we see that care, you find security. And when that security is
- 16:41established, you find beauty, it's artist version and happiness. When new family.
- 16:53It gives you a sense of belonging, a sense of importance, importance,
- 17:04a sense of being at all idolized, idolized, a sense of being
- 17:15venu, uh, venerated, vindicated, UH, the sense of being treated
- 17:26with dignity, with UH value and UH. It gives you a sense of
- 17:40being that you belong, that you are enough. The family gives you the
- 17:52sense of self, the trueness of being in the arc of being you and
- 18:04loving you, trust in you and liking you, and seeking to be the
- 18:14best of you, and wanting to be nothing else but yourself. Unwilling to
- 18:25learn from others what are compromise in your true self? Because when push come
- 18:34to sheriff, there is always a family to call home, and society should
- 18:48be careful not to take away that family hurt or that family leanness. Who
- 19:03does the right word from people is a job of the family of the society
- 19:15to keep family together and break them apart through separation or true hardship to unemployment
- 19:32through low wages, higher course of living that might lead to domestic squabbles and
- 19:42abuse, fights and lack destitutional poverty that in turn leads to divorce, separation,
- 19:56our conviction, and imprisonments. Society should do more to promote parents being
- 20:08there for their children. A mom and dad needs to be there. Every
- 20:18kid needs needs a mom and dad to be there for them, to take
- 20:29care of them, to teach them, direct them, love them unconditionally,
- 20:37and make them to be better human beings and better citizens for better humanity.
- 20:48The family is very vital and essential, necessary and sometimes sufficient and the life
- 21:00of a human being. We should be doing everything to promote that rather than
- 21:11take it away. A great family creates a great human being, and a
- 21:25great human being creates a great society, and a great society creates a great
- 21:33word. Remember that the successful and peaceful, loving family creates a human being
- 21:56that has contained for itself and find pace within and gives pace without. It's
- 22:12upon us to teach family kind of love, family kind of care, and
- 22:23if we do, they will reduce more. They will reduce cry illicit behaviors,
- 22:40loneliness, seclusion, negativity, self heart, self depletion, self deification.
- 22:53He will leads our reduce co party Naziism. Uh who takes away the
- 23:11apparty or anti social behaviors. Family teaches you to belong. Family teaches you
- 23:29to work. Family teaches you to be active. Family teaches you to contribute.
- 23:42Family teaches you to be part of a team. And the family teaches
- 23:51you to be dependent, to care from one another. The family teaches you
- 24:03to show up, never to quit. The family teaches you to tolerate because
- 24:15sometimes family squabbles can be messy. And the family teaches you to keep giving
- 24:26and to careful and least among us. And the family teaches you to believe
- 24:34in yourself and it's something bigger than yourself. The family teaches you to have
- 24:42fight, to have fight. It teaches you to have hope, to prayer
- 24:56for him. The family teaches you to hold hands together, to learn to
- 25:04be part of somebody, to eat with somebody or dine with somebody, to
- 25:11work with somebody, to love somebody, to care for somebody, to marry
- 25:18somebody, and to have a child with somebody. Family teaches you how to
- 25:26resolve problems or crisis or not to be arrogant. Family violence tease you to
- 25:38be humble, to be generous sometime, to be pushful and tough and for
- 25:49but respectful. Family teaches you to fight back, not to be weak.
- 26:04The family teachers to to learn to be vulnerable. Sometimes the teachers you to
- 26:15create, to start something, start a business, starty life, starty your
- 26:22job. The family, it's always there for you. The family. I
- 26:33should always be that for you. In the beginning, what's the family and
- 26:41in the end should always be family. After all that shall be done,
- 26:55After all I shall be given back. With all the successes, failures,
- 27:07greatness, achievements, name, recognition or titles, accolades, epaulets, monuments,
- 27:19bout for us. With all that is made and other is given.
- 27:32The only thing that's just the unders manner, the most sharp family, And
- 27:41whatever you do, try not to mess it up, Try not to destroy
- 27:48it, Try not to take it away from somebody else. Try not to
- 27:59run away from fam Try not to be so negative, so bitter with family.
- 28:08Try not to blame all your problems in the world in the family.
- 28:17When you see the family as a source of your heart, or you don't
- 28:22do everything to fix it, you gonna hurry you more, You gonna destroy
- 28:30your life. A family, A person from a bitter family that's seek to
- 28:41find no peace and reconsolation and restoration, rehabilitation or region or rejuvenation or repairth
- 28:52or regrowth or redemption or repentance. A person that does not seek that from
- 28:57the family. And it's not given that such such people or persons are broken,
- 29:07are resentful and sad. I'm angry. And when they go out in
- 29:15the world because of such love lack of love from the family, they will
- 29:25do harm. If you see all the mass shootings, all the racism,
- 29:32sexism, bigotry of height, it mostly come from people who do not see
- 29:40or find true love from their family. They were talk to hate, they
- 29:49we talk to no care. They will talk to be crue or brutal.
- 29:56They were taught to discriminate or great terror or her mothers or her others.
- 30:06I should number what the family teaches, the family and the parents and blessed
- 30:21upon or giving a child to teach that child to teach itself to be a
- 30:30good human being, a good citizen and intelligent and kind person. The family
- 30:40teaches that kid common sense, intuition, common knowledge. That's for the family
- 30:53to create a better human being for the sake of society. Who when lovers
- 31:03will come together to be a partners, to let her get into union,
- 31:11to be married and decide to have children that you know that that little child
- 31:22that they bring forth is a society and the macan. If that parent fails,
- 31:33then society fails. If that parents succeed, then society succeeds. Remember
- 31:44that, Remember that, and take away family from a child because that child
- 31:56just won't be a teenager. That teenager sherd some groom into an adult and
- 32:04lead to be or to destroy. That wish was not given to that child.
- 32:15The family, love, family, care, the family type of being
- 32:24that's good for everyone. And we'll go out and we're happy to come home
- 32:35because there should be nothing like home. Homis home. Homis home, and
- 32:46at home, this family's family. And when you have time to be with
- 32:55family, celebrate. When you talk to family, reconcile, apologize, sympathize
- 33:07and empathize. Ask for forgiveness. I'm willing to give the sign. Don't
- 33:19the bitterness and height cross cross. That gift of family a natural bond that
- 33:34you have. Keep it because you will need it when the world turns against
- 33:43you, when things go wrong, when there is nothing, when you're better,
- 33:53where your friends walk away, the family will be there for you.
- 34:00When things fall apart, the family will be there for you. The family
- 34:08should not be a source of leakage or liability or drainage or a swamp the
- 34:17family. It should be the seed that became the tree to the best fruits
- 34:29and bear for their seeds. Family it's all you have. And when you
- 34:37have a child with you today, that's the best time of your life.
- 34:45Bringing up a child. It's not of work, good work, it's nothing
- 34:57better than that. Do your best to make family, to be family,
- 35:06a place to call home. Fix it if it's broken, fix it,
- 35:17fix it. Learn to love and to care and to forgive and to contribute
- 35:27to your family. Don't be a grifter and be a grifter. Don't be
- 35:35the one that divide the family. Don't be the red ship in it that.
- 35:42Don't be the red ship in the house that cheer people apart. Don't
- 35:50be that one that envy the progress of a lot of family members. Don't
- 35:58be the one that's seek to disunite. Be the one that brings family together.
- 36:07Because we are here and one day we shall not be here. As
- 36:14so long as we are here, we should celebrate family. Families, You
- 36:21unite families, You come together and be family. Let family be family,
- 36:32and let the world be the world. For with that family there is no world,