Latest / CLA+ / The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men - 749. 1 John 4:1 - Spiritual Kick Off
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- 1:05Chris Grainger: Welcome to the Lion Within Us, a podcast serving Christian men who are hungry to be the leaders God intends you to be.
- 1:10Chris Grainger: I'm your host, Chris Granger.
- 1:11Chris Grainger: Let's jump in.
- 1:12Chris Grainger: All right, guys.
- 1:13Chris Grainger: Spiritual kick off.
- 1:14Chris Grainger: Let's kick it off.
- 1:15Chris Grainger: All right.
- 1:16Chris Grainger: So scripture of the week this week is in the book of 1 John.
- 1:19Chris Grainger: So not John, but 1 John chapter 4.
- 1:22Chris Grainger: And looking at the first verse, it says, Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.
- 1:32Chris Grainger: Because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
- 1:35Chris Grainger: Okay, guys.
- 1:36Chris Grainger: So that's the verse.
- 1:37Chris Grainger: We're going to see how we can simplify and apply it to our life as Christian men right here today in 2026.
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- 2:36Chris Grainger: So where is 1 John?
- 2:38Chris Grainger: We don't want to just assume anything, okay?
- 2:40Chris Grainger: So when we study God's word, we need to know where where to look.
- 2:44Chris Grainger: And for some new believers, this is a little bit challenging, okay?
- 2:47Chris Grainger: First John is in the New Testament.
- 2:50Chris Grainger: You're going to find it after 2 Peter.
- 2:52Chris Grainger: So if you go first and 2 Peter, then you get to 1 John.
- 2:55Chris Grainger: But 1 John, 2nd John, and 3rd John, they all run together.
- 2:58Chris Grainger: So it can be kind of challenging.
- 2:59Chris Grainger: It's going to be towards the back of your Bible, though.
- 3:02Chris Grainger: That's the main thing.
- 3:03Chris Grainger: Just kind of go towards the back.
- 3:04Chris Grainger: It's probably easiest to go to the back and then work backwards, okay?
- 3:07Chris Grainger: All right.
- 3:08Chris Grainger: So we're going to be talking about this week's going to be a very interesting week.
- 3:11Chris Grainger: I'm going to be straight up with you guys.
- 3:12Chris Grainger: We've never had a topic like this on for our Wednesday guest that uh that we're going to be unpacking, but I'm not going to be a spoiler.
- 3:19Chris Grainger: But this right here, this verse, kind of it really dovetails nicely into that conversation.
- 3:24Chris Grainger: And we're going to talk about testing spirits.
- 3:28Chris Grainger: Okay, because we need to understand, as men, we need to have discernment.
- 3:33Chris Grainger: And we also need to recognize we live in a very distracted time, don't we?
- 3:36Chris Grainger: I mean, it's just, it's, it's, it's everywhere.
- 3:38Chris Grainger: Distraction is constant, deception is profitable.
- 3:41Chris Grainger: It's profitable, be deceptive, y'all.
- 3:43Chris Grainger: I mean, it just is.
- 3:44Chris Grainger: And everywhere we turn, somebody, somebody, everywhere, they're trying to capture our attention.
- 3:50Chris Grainger: And then what they're trying to do is shape what you believe.
- 3:53Chris Grainger: They're trying to sell you what they what they believe to be true, or pull us down some other type of rabbit trail.
- 4:00Chris Grainger: And headlines, let's just face it, headlines are loud, bro.
- 4:03Chris Grainger: They are.
- 4:04Chris Grainger: And theories out there, they're just nonstop.
- 4:07Chris Grainger: And the internet, if you look how the algorithms work, it's very interesting.
- 4:12Chris Grainger: They really reward speculation.
- 4:14Chris Grainger: It just does.
- 4:15Chris Grainger: People love this stuff: controversy and conspiracy theories and all this stuff.
- 4:20Chris Grainger: And many people are, at the end of the day, they're just trying to pull wool over our eyes.
- 4:25Chris Grainger: And for a Christian, as a Christian man, this matters.
- 4:29Chris Grainger: It matters.
- 4:31Chris Grainger: Because we're not just dealing with bad information.
- 4:33Chris Grainger: Scripture tells us that we live in a world where spiritual deception is real.
- 4:41Chris Grainger: Okay, it is.
- 4:42Chris Grainger: The Bible doesn't present a reality that's just physical.
- 4:46Chris Grainger: No.
- 4:47Chris Grainger: The Bible tells us directly that there is a visible world and what?
- 4:51Chris Grainger: An invisible world.
- 4:52Chris Grainger: You have earthly powers, yep.
- 4:55Chris Grainger: And you have spiritual powers.
- 4:56Chris Grainger: You got human lives and you have demonic doctrines.
- 5:00Chris Grainger: Because Paul tells us right here in Ephesians 6.12 as well, we don't wrestle against flesh and blood, but against what?
- 5:06Chris Grainger: The spiritual forces of evil and the heavenly places.
- 5:10Chris Grainger: So, fellas, that doesn't mean every strange event that happens or every mystery or anything that's unexplained phenomenon is automatically demonic.
- 5:20Chris Grainger: We have to be cautious about this.
- 5:22Chris Grainger: Okay, because we don't want to overstate what we know.
- 5:26Chris Grainger: Because some things are just natural.
- 5:27Chris Grainger: They just do.
- 5:28Chris Grainger: I mean, some things are happening, some things are man-made, uh, some things are just quite frankly misunderstood or exaggerated, or maybe they're just unknown to us.
- 5:37Chris Grainger: But scripture, if we want to use the lens of scripture to help us, scripture is clear right here that deception, deception, that's real.
- 5:46Chris Grainger: Okay?
- 5:47Chris Grainger: And not all deception is merely intellectual.
- 5:51Chris Grainger: Because there is a spiritual dimension to this falsehood that we have to understand.
- 5:55Chris Grainger: And that's why John's words right here in the gospel and 1 John are so important.
- 5:59Chris Grainger: It says, do not believe every spirit.
- 6:03Chris Grainger: So that command should do what for us?
- 6:05Chris Grainger: It should probably cause us to pump the brakes.
- 6:07Chris Grainger: Because John assumes that not every claim deserves us to trust it.
- 6:13Chris Grainger: Okay, that's a pretty good assumption.
- 6:15Chris Grainger: Right?
- 6:15Chris Grainger: Not every teacher deserves your ear, boys.
- 6:17Chris Grainger: I'm telling you, not every teacher does.
- 6:20Chris Grainger: And because and not every supernatural claim is from God.
- 6:25Chris Grainger: It's just not.
- 6:26Chris Grainger: So the Christian, for us as men, we're not commanded to be naive.
- 6:32Chris Grainger: We're commanded to be discerning.
- 6:34Chris Grainger: And there's a problem with chasing all these rabbit trails.
- 6:38Chris Grainger: Because you have these topics out there now that are just very pervasive.
- 6:41Chris Grainger: You have topics like UFOs and aliens and knowledge and hidden civilizations and government cover cover-ups and this unexplained phenomena that's out there.
- 6:52Chris Grainger: And it can capture our imaginations.
- 6:54Chris Grainger: And we and it can also trip us up.
- 6:56Chris Grainger: And it trips us up because these unexplained things quite often create a vacuum.
- 7:02Chris Grainger: Okay.
- 7:02Chris Grainger: And this is where people are rushing it into it because they want to try to find it with meaning.
- 7:20Chris Grainger: Because it starts reshaping their theology around what God has not clearly shown us, but it's it starts really changing the way they think about it.
- 7:29Chris Grainger: And it's not the danger is not in asking questions, okay?
- 7:32Chris Grainger: Christians should ask questions.
- 7:34Chris Grainger: The danger is letting the speculation become more authoritative in our minds than God's word.
- 7:41Chris Grainger: That's it.
- 7:42Chris Grainger: When we start giving more, here's straight up.
- 7:45Chris Grainger: When you start giving more emotional weight to a podcast or a documentary or some short that you saw, like then when you start giving that more weight, then you give the word of God.
- 8:01Chris Grainger: You've totally stepped out of the realm of discernment at that point because you're being discipled by a mystery.
- 8:08Chris Grainger: And that's a terrible master to serve.
- 8:11Chris Grainger: So John tells us test the spirits.
- 8:15Chris Grainger: He doesn't say ignore them.
- 8:17Chris Grainger: No, he doesn't say panic over them or believe every every supernatural claim.
- 8:22Chris Grainger: He says test them.
- 8:23Chris Grainger: So we need to think about this.
- 8:25Chris Grainger: How do we do that?
- 8:26Chris Grainger: Look, first of all, let's test what Christ said.
- 8:30Chris Grainger: Because John gives us the first test immediately.
- 8:33Chris Grainger: He's like, test you'll by this you'll know the Spirit of God, that every spirit confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh from God.
- 8:43Chris Grainger: So the first question is not, is this interesting?
- 8:47Chris Grainger: Or is it convincing?
- 8:49Chris Grainger: The first question is, what does this do with Jesus?
- 8:51Chris Grainger: Okay, what does it do with Jesus?
- 8:54Chris Grainger: Does this claim lead me to worship Christ as Lord?
- 8:57Chris Grainger: Does it affirm the truth of the incarnation?
- 9:00Chris Grainger: Does it submit Jesus to Jesus rather as the Son of God?
- 9:04Chris Grainger: So any spirit or or teaching or system or theory that diminishes Christ, that's not from God.
- 9:12Chris Grainger: And this matters because deception often doesn't really begin by openly denying Jesus, but it will, it does have a way of distracting us from him, doesn't it?
- 9:23Chris Grainger: Right?
- 9:24Chris Grainger: It shifts the center, it makes something else feel larger.
- 9:28Chris Grainger: And that should cause us to pump the brakes.
- 9:31Chris Grainger: And then it tells us to test it against the scripture.
- 9:33Chris Grainger: That's the second way to do it.
- 9:35Chris Grainger: Because the Bible is our final authority, it's not speculative.
- 9:41Chris Grainger: Isaiah tells us to the teaching and to the testimony, if they will not speak according to this word, it's because they have no dawn.
- 9:51Chris Grainger: It says that directly.
- 9:54Chris Grainger: And it's interesting in Acts that the Bereans, they were called noble because they examined Paul's teaching by the scriptures daily to see whether it was true.
- 10:04Chris Grainger: So even if uh the the preaching was examined by scripture, how much more should like these theories that we read on the internet uh be tested?
- 10:16Chris Grainger: I mean, really?
- 10:16Chris Grainger: We're talking about uh comparing preaching versus what's was found on a viral YouTube clip?
- 10:22Chris Grainger: Yeah, I think we need to do a little bit more testing.
- 10:24Chris Grainger: We've got to start asking better questions.
- 10:26Chris Grainger: They've got to ask, does this contradict what God has revealed?
- 10:30Chris Grainger: Does this lead you towards obedience or takes you down the path of being obsessed with something from this world or not from this world, right?
- 10:37Chris Grainger: Does this produce a fear inside of you?
- 10:39Chris Grainger: Does this make the scripture clearer or less necessary?
- 10:43Chris Grainger: So see how all this works.
- 10:45Chris Grainger: So God has not told us everything there is to know.
- 10:47Chris Grainger: We need to recognize that to be true.
- 10:49Chris Grainger: But he has told us everything we need to know for life, for godliness, for salvation, for discernment.
- 10:56Chris Grainger: And then it also talks about testing the fruit.
- 10:59Chris Grainger: Remember what Jesus says in Matthew, you will recognize him by the fruits, right?
- 11:02Chris Grainger: So a belief is not harmless simply because it's interesting.
- 11:07Chris Grainger: Okay, ideas bear fruit.
- 11:09Chris Grainger: So does this belief produce love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, general, self-control, all the fruit of spirits, right?
- 11:15Chris Grainger: That's in the right out of Galatians.
- 11:17Chris Grainger: Or does this belief produce fear or pride or arrogance or an obsession or suspicion?
- 11:22Chris Grainger: You see how you see how that works?
- 11:24Chris Grainger: Because some rabbit trails do not make men stronger than the Lord, they make them anxious or combative or suspicious or distracted.
- 11:32Chris Grainger: And that's bad fruit.
- 11:33Chris Grainger: And as a Christian man, we need to be honest enough to ask, hey, is this making me more like Christ?
- 11:42Chris Grainger: Or is it just feeding my need to feel like I know something that someone else doesn't know?
- 11:47Chris Grainger: I'm telling you what, but you start asking that question, it really hits you.
- 11:50Chris Grainger: And then you have to test whether it leads to fear or sober-mindedness.
- 11:54Chris Grainger: Because scripture repeatedly calls to believers to be what?
- 11:58Chris Grainger: Sober-minded.
- 11:59Chris Grainger: And to tell 1 Peter tells us, be sober-minded, be watchful.
- 12:03Chris Grainger: So biblical discernment is not panic or paranoia, it's clear-eyed faithfulness.
- 12:10Chris Grainger: And there's a difference, fellas, between being awake and being consumed.
- 12:16Chris Grainger: Right?
- 12:17Chris Grainger: And there's a difference, a big difference between being watchful and being fearful.
- 12:22Chris Grainger: And God does not give us a spirit of fear.
- 12:24Chris Grainger: He tells us that right here in 2 Timothy.
- 12:26Chris Grainger: So if a claim is consistently driving us into fear or instability or obsession, you should slow down and test it carefully.
- 12:35Chris Grainger: And we have to see as this testing, and this and through the process of this testing, rather, is it distracting us from our calling?
- 12:43Chris Grainger: Because one of the enemy's greatest strategies, and quite frankly, one of the oldest strategies, is distraction.
- 12:50Chris Grainger: Because if he can't get you to outright deny Christ, what's he gonna do?
- 12:55Chris Grainger: He just wants to keep you busy, Bo.
- 12:57Chris Grainger: That's it.
- 12:58Chris Grainger: I just want to keep you busy because if a busy Christian is not an effective Christian, right?
- 13:02Chris Grainger: Well, he's definitely busy on the things of this world, to be to be clear there.
- 13:07Chris Grainger: Because a man can we can spend hours studying theories.
- 13:11Chris Grainger: And at the same time, while we're studying those theories, what are we neglecting?
- 13:15Chris Grainger: Sometimes we just neglect prayer.
- 13:17Chris Grainger: Or you debate, you get into these debates on these mysteries, and while you're doing these debates, who's leading your family?
- 13:25Chris Grainger: Or I just see you see how this works.
- 13:29Chris Grainger: And if we go down these rabbit trails too far, we miss what God has really called us to.
- 13:35Chris Grainger: And that's not discernment and that distraction.
- 13:38Chris Grainger: And that's distraction is wearing a spiritual mask.
- 13:42Chris Grainger: And God has called us to something more.
- 13:44Chris Grainger: So you know, you're gonna see more and more as as we unpack in and in the Christian worldview as well, on the topic of like UFOs and aliens.
- 13:53Chris Grainger: And we're gonna talk straight up, we're gonna talk about that some on our podcast on Wednesday, but look, it's not a time to panic.
- 14:00Chris Grainger: Particularly in the things that are unexplained phenomena.
- 14:04Chris Grainger: Because here's the reality: if something is natural, God made the natural world.
- 14:09Chris Grainger: If it's technical, if it's a technological type of advancement, right?
- 14:14Chris Grainger: Man remains accountable to God.
- 14:15Chris Grainger: So we know that.
- 14:16Chris Grainger: If it's psychological, guess who understands the mind?
- 14:20Chris Grainger: God.
- 14:21Chris Grainger: If it's deceptive, well, God is the God of truth, so we know that's not from Him.
- 14:25Chris Grainger: If it's demonic, we have to remember that Christ is Lord.
- 14:29Chris Grainger: Still, He's on the throne.
- 14:31Chris Grainger: So a Christian worldview, our Christian worldview is not threatened by any mystery.
- 14:38Chris Grainger: But we have to be careful.
- 14:41Chris Grainger: We have to be careful.
- 14:42Chris Grainger: Because Scripture does not give us permission to build doctrine on speculation.
- 14:48Chris Grainger: We should not quick be quick to baptize every unexpected and to to claim rather every unexpected, unexplained event as demonic.
- 15:00Chris Grainger: Nor should we accept them at face value.
- 15:04Chris Grainger: So when we start thinking about it, the right posture is not being gullible or fearful.
- 15:11Chris Grainger: The right posture is being biblically discerning.
- 15:15Chris Grainger: And at the end of the day, whatever we encounter in this world belongs to one of two categories.
- 15:22Chris Grainger: It's either part or part of the created earthly order or the spiritual realm.
- 15:31Chris Grainger: Either way, it's not ultimate.
- 15:33Chris Grainger: God is ultimate.
- 15:35Chris Grainger: That means we don't need to be shaken by the unexplained.
- 15:39Chris Grainger: We test everything under the authority of the one who explains reality himself.
- 15:44Chris Grainger: So at the end of the day, slow down.
- 15:47Chris Grainger: Just slow down and be skeptical, but in the right way.
- 15:52Chris Grainger: Because there is a type of skepticism that is sinful, because it refuses to believe God.
- 15:57Chris Grainger: But there's also a type of skepticism that's wise because it refuses to believe things too quickly.
- 16:03Chris Grainger: And John is calling us to be that second kind.
- 16:06Chris Grainger: Okay?
- 16:06Chris Grainger: He's really calling us.
- 16:08Chris Grainger: Do not believe every spirit.
- 16:10Chris Grainger: That means ask your questions.
- 16:12Chris Grainger: Open your Bible.
- 16:13Chris Grainger: Pray for wisdom.
- 16:14Chris Grainger: Look for evidence of the fruit.
- 16:16Chris Grainger: Consider the source that you're getting information from.
- 16:19Chris Grainger: Examine it to see what it says about Christ.
- 16:21Chris Grainger: And ask whether this is helping you obey God or me, or simply just maybe feeding your curiosity.
- 16:28Chris Grainger: And we, as guys, we've got to have this type of discipline.
- 16:32Chris Grainger: We just do.
- 16:33Chris Grainger: Because we're called to be watchful, not impulsive.
- 16:37Chris Grainger: We have to be steady and courageous and curious, yes, but submitted to truth.
- 16:42Chris Grainger: And this world is going to keep throwing these mysteries at us, fellas.
- 16:46Chris Grainger: It's just going to happen.
- 16:48Chris Grainger: The more and more, the longer it goes, we're going to get more and more of this stuff.
- 16:52Chris Grainger: And the internet's never going to be empty of theories.
- 16:56Chris Grainger: There's going to be plenty of theories out there.
- 16:57Chris Grainger: There's going to be plenty of false teachers out there.
- 16:59Chris Grainger: There's going to be lots of spiritual deception out there.
- 17:02Chris Grainger: But God has not left us helpless.
- 17:05Chris Grainger: We got his word.
- 17:07Chris Grainger: He's given us his spirit.
- 17:09Chris Grainger: We have the church.
- 17:11Chris Grainger: And he's given us the command to test.
- 17:14Chris Grainger: So do that testing.
- 17:16Chris Grainger: Not because you're afraid of the world, but because you belong to Christ.
- 17:20Chris Grainger: And Christ is the truth.
- 17:22Chris Grainger: So, fellas, I mean that's it.
- 17:23Chris Grainger: And look, at the end of the day, though, the testing and submitting to the Spirit only works when you yourself have submitted your life to the Lordship of Jesus Christ and He is Lord over your life.
- 17:35Chris Grainger: So you're listening to the Lion, and we love unpacking God's word, and we love bringing these incredible guests on and trying to just give you an insight from a biblical worldview of what it means to be a Christian man today, to be the leader he intends you to be.
- 17:49Chris Grainger: And I'm so thankful you're here.
- 17:50Chris Grainger: But if you yourself don't have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, the testing of the Spirits is outside of your capability.
- 17:59Chris Grainger: It's outside of your capability because you do not have the Holy Spirit working within you to give you this wisdom and discernment that I've been talking about on this whole entire episode.
- 18:09Chris Grainger: So you have to have wisdom and discernment, but that only comes from God, and you only get it from God when you confess Him as Lord and Savior.
- 18:17Chris Grainger: That starts with just having a basic understanding of who you are as a sinner, someone who is who's separated from God.
- 18:24Chris Grainger: That's all the sin is, anything that separates us from God.
- 18:26Chris Grainger: That is a sinner.
- 18:27Chris Grainger: Every single one of us are.
- 18:52Chris Grainger: Whatever the word is, right?
- 18:53Chris Grainger: And if I can do enough of these things, then I'll probably, when I get to that point, I'm I'm earning a right standing before God.
- 19:02Chris Grainger: And I'm like, bro, you completely missed it.
- 19:03Chris Grainger: You can't earn a right, you can't buy that.
- 19:05Chris Grainger: The penalty of sin is death.
- 19:07Chris Grainger: So no, you can't you can't overcome the sin of your life by trying to be some version of good.
- 19:14Chris Grainger: It just doesn't work that way.
- 19:16Chris Grainger: No.
- 19:17Chris Grainger: So it's like, okay, well, if I can't be good and earn my salvation, how in the world do I get it?
- 19:25Chris Grainger: Well, you get it by submitting to a savior.
- 19:28Chris Grainger: You need a savior to come in and do for you what you can't do for yourself.
- 19:31Chris Grainger: That's why we make such a big deal about Jesus.
- 19:35Chris Grainger: Because this is exactly what he did when he left heaven on the mission for us to come save the entire world.
- 19:42Chris Grainger: So this is Jesus.
- 19:43Chris Grainger: He was born of a virgin and performed all the miracles and the signs and fulfilled the prophecies and all that stuff that he did in his earthly ministry was for us.
- 19:53Chris Grainger: And then he willingly, willingly went to the cross to pay the penalty for our sins, to die the most gruesome death for the sin of the world.
- 20:03Chris Grainger: Because he loves us so much.
- 20:06Chris Grainger: And when Jesus was hanging on that cross, he was thinking about you.
- 20:10Chris Grainger: He just he was.
- 20:11Chris Grainger: He was thinking about every single one of us.
- 20:14Chris Grainger: And I don't know about you, but I will not leave on a mission when I know that the outcome is my demise.
- 20:20Chris Grainger: But this is what Jesus did.
- 20:23Chris Grainger: He came and he paid the penalty on that cross.
- 20:26Chris Grainger: And he died.
- 20:27Chris Grainger: He didn't faint or go to sleep or anything silly like that.
- 20:30Chris Grainger: He died on the cross.
- 20:31Chris Grainger: They laid him in a tomb.
- 20:33Chris Grainger: But the God we worship, Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior, did not stay in that tomb.
- 20:39Chris Grainger: Three days later, it's like an Airbnb for Jesus, man.
- 20:42Chris Grainger: That's all he needed was a weekend.
- 20:44Chris Grainger: He overcame death.
- 20:45Chris Grainger: He defeated death.
- 20:47Chris Grainger: And he walked out of that tomb.
- 20:49Chris Grainger: And he lives.
- 20:50Chris Grainger: And there's no other name under heaven that's been given among men by which we must be saved.
- 20:55Chris Grainger: It is Jesus and Jesus alone.
- 20:58Chris Grainger: And this is where he's at.
- 20:59Chris Grainger: He ascended to the right to heaven.
- 21:01Chris Grainger: He's at the right-handed Father right now.
- 21:02Chris Grainger: No one comes to the Father except through him.
- 21:04Chris Grainger: This is it.
- 21:04Chris Grainger: He's the way, the truth, and the life.
- 21:06Chris Grainger: It's Jesus.
- 21:07Chris Grainger: So look, maybe you've been doing life your way for quite a while.
- 21:11Chris Grainger: I get it.
- 21:12Chris Grainger: We got lots of guys listening to the show.
- 21:14Chris Grainger: Guys love to have the I got this mentality.
- 21:16Chris Grainger: We just want to bootstrap it and get things done.
- 21:18Chris Grainger: I'm with you.
- 21:19Chris Grainger: I was that way for a long time.
- 21:21Chris Grainger: I will tell you one thing.
- 21:23Chris Grainger: You will hit a point, and I don't know when that point is.
- 21:26Chris Grainger: Maybe you're at that point right now where you don't.
- 21:29Chris Grainger: You can't do it.
- 21:30Chris Grainger: You're going to reach your limits.
- 21:32Chris Grainger: And at that moment, either you're going to uh uh keep pushing and burn out or keep getting more and more frustrated, or you're going to start recognizing, you know what?
- 21:44Chris Grainger: My way hasn't been really the best way.
- 21:47Chris Grainger: And I want to invite you in to a relationship with Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
- 21:52Chris Grainger: Is it going to make things magically instantly improve?
- 21:56Chris Grainger: No.
- 21:57Chris Grainger: You're still going to, because we live still live in a fallen world, but it is better.
- 22:01Chris Grainger: It's 100 times better because you have the Holy Spirit dwelling within you.
- 22:06Chris Grainger: And at that point, it's guiding, it's directing, it's showing you the steps to take.
- 22:10Chris Grainger: So I would invite you, if you haven't accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, and you're listening to the Lion within us right now, take the step today.
- 22:21Chris Grainger: Take the step today.
- 22:22Chris Grainger: Don't put off for tomorrow what God's calling you to do right now.
- 22:25Chris Grainger: Because quite frankly, you're not promised tomorrow.
- 22:27Chris Grainger: I'm not trying to scare you, but none of us are.
- 22:29Chris Grainger: I'm not promised tomorrow.
- 22:31Chris Grainger: But I'm promised right now, and right now, God is asking me to ask you to confess Him as Lord of your life and surrender.
- 22:39Chris Grainger: Just give it all to Him, submit to Him, and watch how the peace that passes all understanding just floods your mind, just fills your body because you now be walking with the Lord.
- 22:52Chris Grainger: So if that's you, you want to make that decision to follow Christ right now, let's just pray it up.
- 22:58Chris Grainger: Let's make it happen.
- 22:59Chris Grainger: So, Lord, I don't know who this one listener is right now.
- 23:01Chris Grainger: And they're surrounded.
- 23:02Chris Grainger: They are surrendering their life to you, Father.
- 23:04Chris Grainger: They're calling out to you.
- 23:05Chris Grainger: They're recognizing that they are a sinner in need of a savior, and they recognize that you are that savior.
- 23:10Chris Grainger: No one else.
- 23:11Chris Grainger: No one else can do this for them.
- 23:13Chris Grainger: They're doing this for themselves.
- 23:14Chris Grainger: They're not being pushed into this.
- 23:16Chris Grainger: They're not trying to be coerced into this.
- 23:18Chris Grainger: They're making this personal decision to follow you.
- 23:21Chris Grainger: And I'm so thankful that they're doing this, Lord.
- 23:23Chris Grainger: We welcome them into the kingdom.
- 23:25Chris Grainger: I know you welcome them in.
- 23:26Chris Grainger: And I know one thing.
- 23:27Chris Grainger: I'm going to pray and hedge protection around them because the evil one is very frustrated right now that they are making this decision.
- 23:33Chris Grainger: So I'm just praying for their protection.
- 23:35Chris Grainger: I'm praying that for wisdom, for guidance, and discernment.
- 23:38Chris Grainger: And I'm so thankful for this ultimate decision they're making as confessing you as Lord and Savior of their life.
- 23:44Chris Grainger: We love you, God.
- 23:45Chris Grainger: We praise you so much in Jesus' name.
- 23:47Chris Grainger: Amen.
- 23:48Chris Grainger: So look, if you just confess Jesus as Lord and Savior, look, I'd love to hear from you.
- 23:52Chris Grainger: We have a bunch of resources at the Lion.
- 23:54Chris Grainger: We would just love to send you a couple of scriptures to just help kind of get you down a track of memorization because memorizing God's word is a big deal.
- 24:02Chris Grainger: It really is a big deal.
- 24:04Chris Grainger: And look, wherever you're located, we have guys all over the country.
- 24:08Chris Grainger: We'd love to at least give you some input or some guidance on how to what to look for, rather, in a church.
- 24:15Chris Grainger: Okay.
- 24:15Chris Grainger: Not all churches are created equal by far.
- 24:17Chris Grainger: Trust me, I know this firsthand way too well.
- 24:20Chris Grainger: Lots of lots of uh wolves and sheep's clothing out there.
- 24:24Chris Grainger: Okay.
- 24:24Chris Grainger: So you got to be careful.
- 24:26Chris Grainger: We want to help you discern that.
- 24:28Chris Grainger: So if you like, if you'd like help from that, look, send us an email, support at the lionwithin.us.
- 24:33Chris Grainger: You can email Chris at thelionwithin.us.
- 24:35Chris Grainger: Either one of those gets to me.
- 24:37Chris Grainger: Happy to look at that and reach back out.
- 24:39Chris Grainger: Also just want to give you a virtual high five and just give you a little encouragement because this is a major step in your life.
- 24:44Chris Grainger: I'm so happy that you took it.
- 24:46Chris Grainger: Okay.
- 24:46Chris Grainger: So the question of the week this week is do you tend to test the truth or chase distractions?
- 24:51Chris Grainger: Think about that one.
- 24:52Chris Grainger: Okay, because we're if we're testing, that's good.
- 24:55Chris Grainger: It's good to test.
- 24:56Chris Grainger: Be careful about the chasing those distractions.
- 24:59Chris Grainger: Okay, because that can that can throw us off.
- 25:01Chris Grainger: So anyway, fellas, thanks for listening.
- 25:03Chris Grainger: Look, this next episode would be straight up.
- 25:05Chris Grainger: It it's it's baller.
- 25:06Chris Grainger: You're going to want to listen to it on Wednesday when this thing comes out.
- 25:09Chris Grainger: So make sure you don't miss that.
- 25:12Chris Grainger: Thelionwithin.us is where you find all our resources at, guys.
- 25:15Chris Grainger: So if you go to thelionwithin.us, sign up for the daily spiritual kickoff.
- 25:19Chris Grainger: Hey, just hop if you want to.
- 25:21Chris Grainger: The easiest thing, just hop on the weekly roar.
- 25:24Chris Grainger: We have guys who sign up for that thing every day.
- 25:26Chris Grainger: Thousands upon thousands of guys now are on that email list.
- 25:29Chris Grainger: And the weekly roar comes out every Monday.
- 25:32Chris Grainger: So when the Spiritual Kickoff episode comes out that same day, a weekly roar email comes out.
- 25:38Chris Grainger: And look, this is not, we're not trying to push something.
- 25:40Chris Grainger: We're not trying to get you to do anything.
- 25:43Chris Grainger: We just want to encourage you with that weekly roar.
- 25:45Chris Grainger: So that's in your inbox.
- 25:47Chris Grainger: It's not a bunch of fluff.
- 25:48Chris Grainger: It's just direct talk that my guys, quite frankly, seem to get a lot of value out of.
- 25:52Chris Grainger: So I'd love to get you on that.
- 25:54Chris Grainger: And also you have our Lion's Den.
- 25:57Chris Grainger: So you can go to alignwithin.us.
- 25:59Chris Grainger: You can see join the Lion's Den.
- 26:01Chris Grainger: So that's a great way to plug in with us.
- 26:03Chris Grainger: Or maybe you want to put it, you're considering a leadership mastermind, put it in application.
- 26:08Chris Grainger: I'm not going to guarantee you that you're going to be accepted, but we will definitely entertain it.
- 26:12Chris Grainger: We'll see if it's a good fit.
- 26:13Chris Grainger: If there's an opportunity, we would love to walk with you and show you what that path looks like.
- 26:18Chris Grainger: Okay.
- 26:18Chris Grainger: So that's the that's the first step for a mastermind is doing the assessment.
- 26:22Chris Grainger: Maybe you want to open up the Bible app.
- 26:25Chris Grainger: So open up the Bible app.
- 26:27Chris Grainger: Inside the Bible app, search for the LionWithin.
- 26:29Chris Grainger: Just search not for the Lion Within.us, just search for the Lion Within Us in the Bible app.
- 26:34Chris Grainger: You'll see all our plans.
- 26:35Chris Grainger: Tons and tons and tons of plans out there, fellas.
- 26:38Chris Grainger: Our I'm Just a Guy series.
- 26:41Chris Grainger: Guys love that series, so you may enjoy it as well.
- 26:44Chris Grainger: So just go check all that stuff out, guys.
- 26:46Chris Grainger: It's all again, just open up the Bible app, you'll find it right there.
- 26:49Chris Grainger: If you like what we're doing and you want support in the Lion Within Us, you can go to thelion within dot us slash donate.
- 26:55Chris Grainger: Okay, so slash donate.
- 26:57Chris Grainger: Again, we're a 501c3 fellows, nonprofit.
- 26:59Chris Grainger: We would love to have your support and helping us do this ministry that we feel and the feedback we're getting from others is also they feel it's helping so many men in their discipleship journey.
- 27:11Chris Grainger: Right.
- 27:12Chris Grainger: We're just doing our part.
- 27:13Chris Grainger: Do we have all the answers?
- 27:14Chris Grainger: No.
- 27:15Chris Grainger: But we I know one thing.
- 27:16Chris Grainger: I'm seeing changed lives.
- 27:18Chris Grainger: I'm seeing how the men that are coming into the lion, who are who are engaging and having conversation and really leaning in to grow, how it's impacting their life.
- 27:28Chris Grainger: I don't take any credit for it.
- 27:29Chris Grainger: God gets all the credit and glory.
- 27:31Chris Grainger: We're just we're trying to build something that focuses 100% on him and helps you be the leader that he intends you to be.
- 27:40Chris Grainger: So if that sounds interesting, go check out any of those resources at the Lion Within Us, okay?
- 27:44Chris Grainger: All right, guys.
- 27:45Chris Grainger: We'll see you next time on the next episode.
- 27:47Chris Grainger: Give us a rating and review if you don't mind.
- 27:48Chris Grainger: That really does help wherever you're listening.
- 27:50Chris Grainger: And if you're listening on Spotify now, you can comment.
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- 27:56Chris Grainger: Uh, other than that, fellas, thanks so much for hanging out today.
- 27:59Chris Grainger: Have a great day.
- 28:00Chris Grainger: Get after it, and just keep unleashing the Lion Within Let's just say it out loud.
- 28:08Chris Grainger: Marriage is one of the greatest gifts that God can give a man.
- 28:11Chris Grainger: And one of the most consistent places where we can feel unsure of what we're doing.
- 28:16Chris Grainger: Even the strongest marriages have moments where you look at your wife and you think, you know what?
- 28:20Chris Grainger: I love you.
- 28:21Chris Grainger: I'm so committed to you.
- 28:22Chris Grainger: But right now I have no idea what I should do next.
- 28:25Chris Grainger: And that's why we launched something new inside the line within our community.
- 28:29Chris Grainger: It's our very first support group.
- 28:31Chris Grainger: And it's for husbands.
- 28:32Chris Grainger: And we're calling it committed and occasionally confused.
- 28:36Chris Grainger: This isn't just a place for men in crisis.
- 28:38Chris Grainger: So if you're there, hey, you're welcome.
- 28:41Chris Grainger: This is for any man who refuses to coast and wants to take his marriage from good to great.
- 28:47Chris Grainger: So inside you'll find an active chat and a feed and honest conversation and brotherhood that says, hey, you're not alone.
- 28:55Chris Grainger: We've been there.
- 28:56Chris Grainger: Let's bring this to God and grow.
- 28:59Chris Grainger: And we're also doing a monthly couples night where your wife is invited because we're not letting the world set the agenda for our homes.
- 29:06Chris Grainger: Now, if you want access to this support group, it's very simple.
- 29:10Chris Grainger: Go to the lionwithanity.us and join the Lions Dan.
- 29:13Chris Grainger: Okay, that's the LionWithEntby.us.
- 29:16Chris Grainger: Start your 30-day free trial of the Lions Dan community, and boom, you have instant access to the committed and occasionally confused support group.
- 29:26Chris Grainger: We'll see you inside the day.