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Grace That Exposes Hypocrisy (Genesis 38:24-26) · Reformed Thinking

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Welcome to Reform Thinking. I am your host and thank you for
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joining us for this deep dive today.
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And I am the resident theologian here.
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It is really great to be jumping into this one with you.
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Yeah, it's going to be an intense one.
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I want to start by asking you, the listener, to just imagine a
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pretty shocking scenario for a second.
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OK, set the stage right. So picture a highly respected
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community leader we are talking about, You know, the kind of guy
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who sits on city councils, he runs local charities, and he
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just commands absolute respect from everyone in town.
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So a pillar of the community type.
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Absolutely. Now imagine this man standing in
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front of a massive crowd. He's got a microphone in his
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hand and he is publicly demanding the harshest possible
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punishment for a scandalous local crime.
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Wow. Yeah, and he is completely
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fierce about it. He is unyielding.
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He is just the absolute picture of moral outrage, shaking with
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righteous anger about how society has lost its way.
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Right, we have all seen that kind of display.
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We have. But here is the massive catch.
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He is completely unaware that he himself is the chief culprit of
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that very crime. And it gets worse.
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The undeniable physical evidence linking him directly to the deed
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is like minutes away from being dropped right at his feet in
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front of everybody. That is a staggering image to
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start with, and honestly, it sets the stage perfectly for
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what we're looking at today. He really does.
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Because when people think about biblical history, they often
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expect these sanitize, tidy moral fables.
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You know, like where the good guys wear white hats and do
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everything right. Yeah.
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The Sunday School version of the sword.
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The flannel graph version. But the text we are examining
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today is the total opposite of that.
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It is a severe, intensely realistic look at human
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depravity, the messiness of actual history, and the
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unexpected grace that overrides all of our human failure.
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So our mission for this deep dive is to unpack the startling
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events of Genesis 38, zooming in specifically on verses 24
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through 26. It is a phenomenal section of
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Scripture. It really is.
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We're going to examine how hidden sin gets exposed, how
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human hypocrisy is completely shattered, and how divine
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Providence works through some severely flawed people to carry
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out a redemptive plan. And we really need to understand
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the mechanics of this story because it does not happen in a
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vacuum. No, not at all.
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Let's start with the historical and cultural powder keg that
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sets this whole disaster into motion.
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To understand the explosive courtroom scene in verse 24, we
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first have to understand the environment the Patriarch Judah
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created. Right context is everything
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here. So let's look at the patriarchal
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era setting. Who are these people at this
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specific moment in history? Well, at this point in the
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timeline, Israel is not yet a nation, OK?
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They do not have a country. They don't have a capital city
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or, you know, a formal legal code like the 10 commandments
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that all comes way later. Right, they're just a big family
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at this. Point Basically, yeah.
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They are an extended clan living essentially as nomads or semi
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nomads in the land of Canaan. And the mandate for this family,
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the one given to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, is that they are
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meant to remain separate and distinct from the Pagan nations
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around them. So they have a boundary they are
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supposed to maintain. Yes, this separation was a huge
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part of their covenant obligation to God.
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But Judah, one of the leading sons of Jacob, decides to
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compromise this boundary. And he does it pretty blatantly
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right? He does, The text tells us.
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He goes down from his brothers, pitches his tent near a certain
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adulimite, and intermarries with a Canaanite woman named Shua.
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So he essentially leaves the Covenant community.
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He isolates himself from the family structure and immerses
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himself in a completely foreign culture.
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Yeah, he walks right into it. And we should be clear about
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what Canaanite culture was like at this time, because this isn't
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just a difference in like, food or clothing styles.
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It was an entirely different, incredibly dark worldview,
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right? Oh, absolutely.
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By intermarrying with the Canaanites and settling among
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them, Judah immerses his family in a culture that was
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notoriously immoral. How about are we talking?
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We are talking about a society where idolatry was woven, well,
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built into every single aspect of daily life.
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The fertility cults were particularly prominent.
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Right, because it was an Agricultural Society.
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Exactly. I mean spot on.
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These ancient agricultural cultural societies believe that
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in order to ensure their crops would grow and their flocks
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would multiply, they had to participate in rituals that
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stimulated the local gods. And those rituals were highly
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sexualized if I remember correctly.
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Very much so. This heavily involved shrine
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prostitution, and the key thing to grasp is that it was not
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viewed as a shameful underground activity.
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Wow, really? Yeah, it was a sanctioned public
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religious duty. People thought they were doing
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the gods a favor. That is the toxic environment
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Judah brings his family. He plants his family in toxic
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soil and we see the disastrous fruit of that decision almost
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immediately, don't we? We sure do.
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So Judah has three sons, ER, Onan and Sheila.
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He gets a wife for his oldest son ER, and her name is Tamar.
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But the text just bluntly says ER was wicked in the sight of
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the Lord, and the Lord put him to death.
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Just a sudden, severe judgement. Right, so now Tamar is a widow.
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And that brings us to a massive cultural mechanism that modern
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listeners often find pretty confusing.
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The levirate marriage. Yeah, the ancient custom of
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levirate marriage. Can you breakdown how this
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system worked and why it even existed?
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Sure, the levirate obligation is really the socio religious
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engine driving this entire narrative.
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The word itself comes from the Latin word liver, which means
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husband's brother. OK, now, while the formal Mosaic
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Law had not yet been codified at Mount Sinai, this custom was
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already firmly established across the ancient Near East.
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So everyone in that culture knew the rules.
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Right. The system was essentially an
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ancient social safety net. It was designed to protect
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vulnerable widows. Because women back then were in
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a really tough spot if their husband died.
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Incredibly tough in that agrarian society.
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A woman's security, her economic survival, her social standing,
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all of it was entirely tied of the men in her life, first her
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father, then her husband, and eventually her sons.
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So if you don't have a husband or a son.
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If a man died without leaving a male heir, his widow was in a
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horrific position. She had no inheritance rights.
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She was looking at a life of absolute destitution, starvation
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or being forced into prostitution just to survive.
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Man, so the Leviathan marriage was basically a rescue operation
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for these women. Precisely, if a husband died
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childless, his brother was obligated to step in, marry the
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widow, provide for her, and father a child with her.
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And that child wouldn't legally be his.
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Right. That child would legally be
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considered the offspring of the deceased brother.
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This ensured the family inheritance remained intact, the
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property stayed in the family name and the deceased brother's
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name was not erased from history.
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That requires a lot of selflessness.
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It was an act of extreme loyalty and self sacrifice.
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You are raising a kid and giving up your own resources for a
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child that won't carry your name.
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But Judah's second son, Onan, absolutely refuses to fulfill
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this duty. He does.
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He actively thwarts the process. Yeah, and God strikes on and
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down as well for his selfishness.
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So now Judah has lost two sons and he has one left, the
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youngest, Sheila. Right, the last of the line.
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So Judah tells Tamar to go live as a widow in her father's house
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until Sheila grows up. But I mean the text makes it
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completely clear Judah is lying. Oh, he is totally lying.
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He has 0 intention of ever giving Sheila to Tamar.
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He is just terrified he will lose his last son.
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Now I want to push back on Judah a bit here, or maybe play
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devil's advocate for his psychology.
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OK, let's hear it. If I am Judah and two of my sons
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have dropped dead shortly after marrying this specific woman, I
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might be thinking she is cursed. Isn't it just human nature for a
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father to want to protect his last surviving kid from what
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looks like a lethal pattern? It is entirely human nature and
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you are spot on regarding his internal psychology.
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Judah is acting out of fear. It's a pragmatic reaction.
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Exactly. Well, right.
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From a purely human, pragmatic perspective, Tamar looks like
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terrible luck. He is grieving, he is
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traumatized by the sudden death of his two eldest sons and he
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just goes into self preservation mode.
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Which makes sense emotionally. It does, but understanding his
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fear does not excuse his massive failure of duty.
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Judah is the patriarch. He is the head of the Covenant
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family. He has a job to do.
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Right. His obligation is to execute
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justice and provide for the vulnerable under his roof.
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By lying to Tamar and sending her away, he is essentially
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condemning her to a permanent state of limbo.
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Because she can't just move on, right?
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No, she cannot marry anyone else outside the family because she
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is legally bound to wait for Sheila.
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But Judah, make sure Sheila is never given to her.
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I see. So Judah basically commits a
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form of covenantal embezzlement. That is a great way to put it,
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He. Hoards the family resources, in
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this case his surviving son Sheila, while leaving Tamar
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socially and financially stranded.
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He keeps the asset but refuses to pay the debt.
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Yes. Is it fair to say Judah created
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the exact desperate conditions that backed Tamar into a corner,
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leading to her extreme deception later in the chapter?
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I agree with that assessment completely.
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What we are seeing here is the devastating fallout of sins of
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omission. We.
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Don't talk about those enough. We really don't.
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We often focus on active, aggressive sins, but failing to
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do justice and neglecting clear duties often breed just as much
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chaos. Judah's failure to provide for
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Tamar was an egregious breach of trust.
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He chose himself over her. He prioritized his own emotional
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comfort and his fearful self preservation over his righteous
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obligation to a vulnerable woman, and this failure
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destabilized the entire family order.
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And the timeline too, right? Right.
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It created a massive crisis around the continuation of the
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Promised Seed. The lineage that is supposed to
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lead to the Messiah is now bottlenecked.
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It is in danger of dying out because of Judah's selfish
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neglect. Tamar's desperate, deceptive
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actions arise directly from the severe vulnerability that Judah
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forced upon her. That context changes everything
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about how we read the confrontation that happens
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later. But before we get to the
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confrontation itself, I want to talk about how this story is
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placed in the Bible. The.
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Literary structure. Yeah, because the literary
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brilliance here is staggering. Genesis 38 feels like a really
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jarring interruption. It does catch you off guard.
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Right. Genesis 37 gives us the
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thrilling, tragic saga of Joseph being betrayed and sold into
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slavery in Egypt by his brothers and, by the way, a plot led by
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Judah. That's a key detail.
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Then Genesis 39 picks right back up with Joseph arriving in Egypt
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as a slave in Potiphar's house. And right in the middle,
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sandwiched between these fast-paced narrative chapters,
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is this dark, scandalous, uncomfortable story in Genesis
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38 about Judah and Tamar. Just sitting right there in the
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middle. Why disrupt the flow of the
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Joseph story for this? For a long time, modern critical
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scholars looked at this arrangement and assumed it was
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just a clumsy editorial mistake. Really.
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They thought it was a typo basically.
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Yeah, they thought some later editor had a random story about
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Judah and just awkwardly shoved it into the middle of the Joseph
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narrative. That seems like a pretty weak
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explanation. We reject that assumption
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completely. The placement of this narrative
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is orchestrated with absolute precision.
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It acts as a brilliant intentional foil.
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You have to look at the sharp contrasts to see the literary
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genius of it. Give me an example of the
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contrast. Well, look at the theme of
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deception in garments. In Genesis 37, Judah leads his
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brothers in deceiving their father, Jacob.
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They take Joseph's coat of many colors, tear it up, dip it in
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goat's blood, and use that garment to convince Jacob that
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his favorite son is dead. Right, he uses a garment to lie.
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Judah uses a garment to pull off a massive deception.
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Then we turn to Genesis 38. The deceiver becomes the
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deceived. Judah is tricked by Tamar.
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And how is he exposed? He is exposed by his own
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identifying garments and pledges.
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The law of sowing and reaping is on full display here.
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That is a fascinating connection.
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Judah lied with a garment and he is caught by his own personal
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items. The contrast between the
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characters of Judah and Joseph is also incredible when you put
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chapters 38 and 39 side by side. It's night and day.
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It really is. In chapter 38, you have Judah.
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He is an older, established patriarch.
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He has wealth, he has authority, and he should absolutely know.
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Better yet, he intentionally travels to a festival, see
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someone he assumes as a roadside shrine prostitute, and actively
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seeks out sexual sin. He walks right into it
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willingly. Then you flip the page to
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chapter 39 and you have Joseph. He is a young, vulnerable slave
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in a foreign land. He has no rights.
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He is aggressively and repeatedly pursued by Potiphar's
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wife, a woman of extreme status. A.
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Very dangerous situation for him.
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And Joseph literally runs away from sexual sin.
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He leaves his garment behind for the sake of maintaining his
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purity. Judah leaves his garments behind
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to engage in sin. Joseph leaves his garment behind
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to flee from sin. The contrast is so sharp it is
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almost painful, and it reveals the massive theological burden
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of the author. This juxtaposition completely
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shatters the myth of human merit.
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How so? Well, if you read the story
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based on standard human logic, Joseph is the obvious moral
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exemplar. He is the one displaying
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incredible integrity under pressure.
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Right, he is the guy you want to build a nation around.
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Exactly. But Judah, meanwhile, is a
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spectacular moral failure. He sells his brother, neglects
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his daughter-in-law, and sleeps with a prostitute.
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Yet if we look at the a grand sweep of redemptive history, God
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bypasses the morally upright Joseph and chooses the
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compromise broken lineage of Judah to be the royal line.
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Wait, really? Yes, the kings of Israel, David,
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Solomon, and eventually the Messiah himself.
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They come from the tribe of Judah, not Joseph.
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Let me make sure I'm tracking with this.
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You're saying God intentionally chooses the guy with the
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disastrous moral record over the guy with the spotless moral
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record to bring the Savior into the world.
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That is what the text shows us. Why would he do that?
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Doesn't that send the wrong message?
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It sends the perfect message if the goal is to destroy human
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pride. Oh, I see.
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If God made his choices based on human moral perfection, the
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Messiah would have come through Joseph.
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And if that happened, humanity could argue that salvation is
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something we earn. We would totally take the
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credit. We could say that God chooses us
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because we are inherently good or because we perform well.
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By choosing Judah to carry the messianic line, God demonstrates
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that salvation and election are based entirely on his unmerited
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favor. It relies on grace.
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It relies totally on His sovereign grace, not on human
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performance, pedigree or innate superiority.
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It strips away any ground for boasting.
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That is heavy. It means God's grace operates on
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a completely different economy than human merit.
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Our pride is completely unwarranted.
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Absolutely unwarranted. So with that heavy cultural and
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literary background established, let's walk right into the
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explosive confrontation of Genesis 38, verse 24.
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This is where it all comes to a head.
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Right, so Tamar has realized that Sheila is fully grown and
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Judah has broken his promise. So she takes off her widow's
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garments, covers herself with a veil, and sits at the entrance
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to a town she knows Judah's traveling to.
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It's a calculated move. Judah sees her, assumes she's a
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prostitute, and propositions her.
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He promises to send her a young goat from his flock, his
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payment, but she demands A pledge collateral to hold until
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he sends the goat. She needs physical proof.
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She asked for his signet, his cord and his staff.
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He hands them over, They sleep together and she conceives.
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She leaves, puts her widow's garments back on, and goes home.
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And Judah has no idea who she really was.
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None. Judah tries to send the goat to
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get his stuff back, but the woman is gone.
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Now we Fast forward, the text says about three months later,
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Tamar's pregnancy is becoming visible.
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Secret is out. Word reaches Judah that his
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daughter-in-law has played the harlot, and Judah does not waste
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a single second. Without a shred of
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investigation, without asking a single question, he issues a
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swift, lethal decree. He declares bring her out and
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let her be burned. That sentence is the terrifying
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thesis of human hypocrisy. It really is shocking how fast
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he goes to the extreme. Just look at the swiftness of
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his judgement. He does not convene a trial.
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He does not ask for witnesses. He does not even ask her who the
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father is. He just wants her gone.
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He sits on a self appointed throne of judgement, acting as
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this zealous, uncompromising guardian of family purity.
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He is demanding absolute, unmitigated justice for a sin
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that he himself just committed three months prior.
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It is the language of exposed hypocrisy waiting to.
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Happen is projecting intense moral fury to mask his own
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internal rot. I have to say, this looks
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uncomfortably familiar. If you log onto the Internet
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today, this is exactly what modern outrage culture looks.
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Like oh absolutely, the parallels are everywhere.
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You see people projecting this intense moral fury, screaming
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from the rooftops, trying to destroy the lives of others for
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moral failings, while their own private lives are a complete
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disaster. It's the projection.
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Right, it makes you wonder, do we often attack the moral
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failings of others precisely to hide our own?
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Like if I yell loud enough about how terrible someone else is,
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maybe nobody will look in my closet.
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We absolutely do. The human heart is incredibly
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deceitful. When a person harbors a dark,
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unresolved secret, what we might call an unmortified sin, their
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conscience starts to rot from the inside out.
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It eats away at them. To cope with that internal
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guilt, they often become fiercely legalistic regarding
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the sins of others. They use outrage as a defense
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mechanism. So Judah's anger was really
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about his own guilt. Judah's self-righteous zeal was
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a massive smokescreen. Subconsciously, he likely
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believed his position of power as the Patriarch shielded him
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from the very judgement he was so eager to inflict on Tamar.
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He thought he was untouchable. This entire scene exposes the
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blinding nature of legalism. Fall in humanity has a total
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inability to judge righteously. When blinded by pride, we
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presume we can sit in the judge's chair and hand down
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sentences while our own guilt remains totally unexamined.
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And the irony here is devastating, because Judah is
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literally the father of the child he is condemning to death.
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It is horrific when you think about it.
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He is ready to burn his own daughter-in-law and his own
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unborn child just to protect his public image and satisfy his
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self-righteous anger. He is basically acting out the
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worst kind of double standard. It is the ultimate rules for the
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but not for me scenario. Yes, 100%.
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He is a guy screaming at people for double parking while his own
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car is parked on a fire hydrant. That is a great way to frame it,
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and the severity of his proposed punishment burning is telling.
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Because that wasn't the standard punishment, was it?
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No, not at all. Even under the later Mosaic Law,
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stoning was a standard punishment for adultery.
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Burning was reserved for the most extreme, horrifying cases
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of sexual immorality. So he is escalating it on
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purpose. Judah is going above and beyond
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the cultural norm to show how absolutely disgusted he is.
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He is overcompensating massively.
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Which brings maximum tension to Tamar's quiet response.
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Judah's loud, violent condemnation is hanging in the
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air. The crowd is probably gathering.
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The executioners are ready, and in verse 25, as Tamar is brought
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out to face this mob and be executed, she does something
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incredible. She is brilliant here.
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She does not scream. She does not beg for her life.
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She does not shout accusations at Judah.
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Instead, she quietly sends Judah's own pledge back to him,
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the text says. She sends the signet, the cord
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and the staff with a very simple message.
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By the man to whom these belong, I am with child.
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Yes, she says. Please identify whose these are.
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The artifacts she presents are not just random trinkets.
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To understand the gravity of this moment, we need to talk
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about what these three items actually were in the ancient
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world. Yeah, let's break that down.
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Let's look at the signet first. A signet in this era was
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typically a cylinder seal. It was a small piece of carved
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stone, maybe an inch or two long.
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OK, so it's pretty small. Very small.
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It had a unique intricate design carved into it.
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A man would wear it around his neck on a cord.
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Oh, so that's what the cord? Is right the lanyard for his
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signet? When he needed to sign a legal
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document, a contract, or authorize a trade, he would roll
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this cylinder across wet clay to leave his unique signature.
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That's amazing. It functioned as his legal
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identity, his credit card and his biometric scan all rolled
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into one. So it is essentially his ancient
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ID badge? What about the staff?
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The staff was not just a walking stick for hiking.
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In a nomadic tribal society, the patriarch staff was the ultimate
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symbol of his authority. Like a sceptre.
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Very much like that. It represented his leadership
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over the clan, his judicial power, and his status.
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It was highly personalized, often carved with symbols
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denoting his family line. So there is no mistaking whose
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staff this is. Not at all.
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So when Judah left these specific items with a woman on
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the side of the road, he was handing over his entire
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identity. He surrendered his legal
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standing, his credit, and his tribal authority to his base
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lusts. It's wild that he would risk
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that. Kmart does not need to argue her
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case verbally. She does not need to hire a
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defense attorney. The physical evidence speaks
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with undeniable precision. It is exactly like a corrupt CEO
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who thinks he is pulling off a brilliant secret crime, but he
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accidentally leaves his corporate ID badge, his wallet
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and his personal unlocked smartphone on the bedside table
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at the crime scene. Yes, the perfect analogy.
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You cannot talk your way out of that.
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You cannot claim it is circumstantial you to literally
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hand it over the undeniable proof of his own guilt.
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And this highlights the incredible precision of divine
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Providence. Unpack that term for US
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Providence. Providence is the concept that
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God is actively governing all things, every action, every
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object, every timeline to accomplish His purposes.
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He's orchestrating it. God governs the timing of the
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pregnancy, the memory of the individuals involved, and even
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these specific physical objects to ensure that hidden sins are
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brought into the blazing light. Nothing escapes the omniscient
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eye of the Creator. Judah thought his secret was
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safe. He thought he had a private,
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anonymous roadside encounter. He even tried to send his friend
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back with a goat to retrieve the items quietly, but the friend
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could not find her. Right, so Judah assumed the
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problem just faded away. But Providence uses the ordinary
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objects of a private transaction as instruments of absolute
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divine exposure. The Lord ensures that the
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deceiver is trapped by truthful evidence he cannot possibly
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evade. The presentation of that
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evidence forces Judah into an inescapable corner.
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The man who was just acting as the furious judge is now
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suddenly the one on trial. The tables turn instantly.
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All the oxygen is sucked out of the room.
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Judah looks at the signet. He looks at the carved staff.
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He knows immediately that they are his.
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How does he react? Verse 26 gives us his shocking
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response. He recognizes the items, and he
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makes a stunning public admission.
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He says she is more righteous than I since I did not give her
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to my son Sheila. This is the turning point of the
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entire narrative. We have to look very closely at
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the grammar and the meaning of the phrase more righteous than
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I. Because that sounds really
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strange to our ears. For a modern reader, this sounds
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incredibly confusing. You look at Tamar's actions,
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dressing as a prostitute, waiting by the roads to reducing
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her father-in-law, and you think, how on earth is that
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righteous? Right, She basically ran a con
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job on him. This is not a statement about
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moral perfection or ethical purity.
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Tamar was a deceiver. She utilized an illicit act to
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achieve her ends. But the text is using legal
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declarative language. This is a verdict in a
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covenantal dispute. OK, let's slow down and unpack
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this, because this concept of a legal verdict is crucial.
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How can someone be legally in the right if their actions were
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morally questionable? Think of it like a civil court
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case over a broken contract. OK, I'm with you.
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There are two parties, Judah and Tamar.
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The contract is the Leviere obligation.
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Judah is legally obligated to provide a son to continue the
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family line and protect the widow.
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Tamar has a legal right to that provision.
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And Judah broke the contract. Judah breaks the contract
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completely. He defaults on his obligation
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out of selfishness. Tamar takes extreme deceptive
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measures to force the fulfillment of that contract.
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Oh I see. When Judah says she is more
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righteous than I, he is issuing a legal declaration.
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He is saying in this specific dispute between the two of us
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regarding the preservation of the family line, she upheld the
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goal of the covenant and I thwarted it.
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She is in the right and I am in the wrong.
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Right, Judah acted, as the judge declares her, to have the
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righteous legal standing in this specific case.
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That makes a lot of sense. It is a legal standing declared
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by a judge, entirely separate from her inherent moral
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perfection. And this actually points to a
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massive theological concept regarding how humans are saved,
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right? Yes, it lays the conceptual
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groundwork for the doctrine of forensic justification.
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Forensic meaning legal. Forensic means relating to a
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court of law. When we talk about how God saves
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guilty sinners, we have to understand that He does not wait
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for us to become morally perfect people.
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Which is good news for us. If he did, no one would be
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saved. Instead, God the Father, sitting
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as the righteous judge of the universe, looks at a guilty
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Sinner who has faith in Jesus, and he issues a legal
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declaration. He declares that Sinner to be
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legally righteous. But not based on their own
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record. Not because they are infused
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with inherent goodness, but by crediting them with a
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righteousness from the outside, the perfect righteousness of
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Jesus Christ. It's an exchange.
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Their sins are placed on Christ and punished on the cross, and
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Christ's perfect record is placed on them.
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Judah's verdict over Tamar declaring someone legally in the
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right despite their flawed moral state is a faint shadow of how
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God justifies the ungodly. That is incredibly helpful to
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visualize it as a courtroom declaration.
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And looking at Judah's confession itself, it is crucial
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to identify the root sin he admits to.
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Notice what he says. He does not just say wow I am
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guilty of sexual immorality, I am so sorry.
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He specifically says she is more righteous than I since I did not
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give her to my son Sheila. He nails the exact issue.
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He correctly identifies that the root of this entire catastrophe
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was his failure of duty years prior.
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It was his sin of omission. He neglected his covenant
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obligation and everything else cascaded from that one selfish
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decision. That shows genuine
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self-awareness. He finally sees the structural
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failure of his own leadership, and the passage closes with a
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very brief but highly significant note.
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With that, it says that he did not know her.
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Again, in Biblical Hebrew, knowing someone in this context
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refers to sexual intimacy. So the text is telling us he
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never slept with her. Again, this signals A definitive
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arrest of that specific sin. He does not try to normalize the
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dysfunction. He does not take her as a wife
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or make her his concubine. He stalks.
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That really separates genuine repentance from just feeling bad
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about getting caught. He actually alters his behavior.
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Yes, that concluding phrase shows us that this public
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exposure resulted in a genuine moral sobering for Judah.
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He is thoroughly chastened, he is humbled, and this moment acts
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as the catalyst for a massive shift in his character.
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It broke him in a good way. The exposure of his hidden sin
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broke his pride and forced him to live in the truth.
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If you keep reading through the book of Genesis, you see a very
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different Judah emerge later on. Oh, right, with Benjamin.
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When the family is in Egypt and Benjamin's life is on the line,
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it is Judah who steps up and offers his own life as a
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substitute for his younger brother.
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He says take me instead. Wow, what a change.
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The selfish man who sold his brother Joseph and neglected
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Tamar eventually becomes the man willing to lay down his life for
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his family. It's amazing how exposure, which
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feels like the worst thing in the world, was actually the
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medicine he needed to be cured of his pride.
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It was a severe mercy. Now, this bizarre, scandalous
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family feud doesn't just end in the dirt of ancient history.
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It has massive implications that reach all the way to the New
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Testament. The lineage continues from here.
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It does indeed. From the scandalous union
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between Judah and Tamar, twins are born.
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One of them is named Perez. If you trace the genealogical
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line from Perez through the centuries, it goes to Boaz, then
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to King David, and straight down through the kings of Judah all
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the way to Jesus Christ. That is just incredible.
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The Gospel of Matthew opens with the genealogy of Jesus, and in
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chapter 1, verse 3, Matthew unapologetically includes Tamar.
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He writes. It's Judah, the father of Perez
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and Zara, whose mother was Tamar.
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And genealogies didn't usually do.
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That ancient genealogies usually skipped over women entirely, and
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they certainly tried to hide any embarrassing family scandals.
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But the Holy Spirit intentionally highlights Tamar.
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The biblical authors want us to know that the Messiah entered
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human history through a line heavily marked by sin, shame and
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scandal. Now I can imagine someone
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listening to this and thinking, hold on, does this mean God just
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winks at sin as long as the end result is good?
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Does God excuse Judah's hypocrisy and Tamar's deception
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because Jesus eventually comes from their line?
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That is a critical question. How do we make sense of God
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using such brokenness without making him the author of evil?
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The answer is absolutely not. God never approves of evil.
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He never winks at sin. The Scriptures are clear that
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God judges sin severely. What we see here is not God
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excusing evil, but God sovereignly over ruling the evil
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actions of humans to accomplish His redemptive purposes.
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So he works through it, not because of it.
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Humans make their choices, and they are fully responsible for
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the moral weight of those choices.
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But God is so massive, so completely sovereign, that he
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can take the tangled, sinful mess that humans create and,
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well, maneuver it to ensure His promises are kept.
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He is not the author of sin. He is not the author of sin, but
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He is the master over it. He ensures the Messiah arrives
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right on schedule, despite the catastrophic failures of the
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patriarchs. And it sets up an incredible
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contrast between Judah and Jesus.
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Both are central figures in this lineage.
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But look at the difference. The contrast is staggering.
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Look at Judah in Genesis 38. He is a guilty, compromise
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judge. He is entirely willing to kill a
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vulnerable woman to cover up his own wretched sin.
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He wants her to die so his reputation can live.
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Now look at Jesus Christ. He is the absolutely sinless,
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perfect judge, yet he willingly goes to his own bloody death to
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cover the sins of his people. He dies so that guilty people
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can live. That is beautiful.
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Jesus is referred to in the Book of Revelation as the true
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perfect lion of the tribe of Judah.
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Where Judah failed in hypocrisy, fear and lust, Christ succeeded
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in perfect obedience, courage and self sacrificial love.
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Judah hands over his identity, his signet and staff to commit a
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sin. Christ hands over his very life
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to save sinners from their sins. That is a massive perspective
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shift. It changes how you read the
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whole Bible. We have covered the ancient
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history, the cultural mechanisms like the Leverette Law, the deep
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theology of justification and the genealogy of the Messiah,
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but we need to bring this crashing into our everyday
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lives. Is vital here.
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This is not just an ancient history lesson for us to analyze
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intellectually. This text is meant to Pierce the
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modern conscience. It is a severe warning to the
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modern church and to every individual listening.
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We must aggressively deal with our secret sins, which are
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rampant right now. The statistics are horrifying
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when you look at the prevalence of hidden digital sins among
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professing believers. Today we have an absolute
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epidemic of things like pornography, emotional affairs,
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hidden financial corruption and secret addictions.
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Things people do in the dark. The terrifying warning from
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Genesis 38 is that maintaining a facade of outward respectability
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while harboring a secret vice is a lethal game you cannot hide
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from the omniscient eye of God. The Lord sees the modern
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equivalence of the signet, the cord and the staff.
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That is so close to home. Many of us act fiercely Orthodox
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in public. We go to church.
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We nod at the right times. We might even condemn cultural
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shifts and argue theology online.
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You. Love pointing fingers.
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We stand up for traditional morality loudly on social media,
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acting just like Judah in the town square.
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All the while, we are keeping our own signet and staff
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completely hidden in our smartphones.
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We are playing the exact same hypocritical game Judo played.
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We sit in the courtroom of our own minds, demanding justice for
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the people we dislike, while the undeniable evidence of our own
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guilt is sitting right there in our pockets.
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And what this passage teaches us is that the solution to that
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hypocrisy is not to try harder. It's not behavior modification.
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The solution is not to figure out a better way to hide your
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tracks or to delete your browsing history more
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frequently. The solution is to step out of
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the shadows and into the blazing light of the truth.
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Confession. Confession feels like an
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execution, but it is actually a severe mercy.
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God exposes our sin not because he wants to destroy us, but
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because he wants to drive us to repentance.
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To heal us. Bringing your sin into the
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light, confessing it to God and to trusted people in your life
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is the only way to find actual, lasting relief.
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That is where you get to experience the reality of that
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forensic justification we discussed earlier.
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Because when you confess, you stop trying to defend your own
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fake righteousness. Absolutely.
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You abandoned your own filthy rags of self righteousness.
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You would admit that you have broken the covenant just like
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Judah did, and when you do that, you are finally in the position
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to trust entirely in the perfect righteousness of Christ.
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You can't receive grace if your hands are full of your own
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pride. As long as you are pretending to
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be the righteous judge, you cannot receive grace.
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You have to step down from the judge's chair and take your
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place as the guilty party who needs a savior.
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We have covered so much ground today.
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To recap our deep drive today, we started by looking at Judah's
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severe dereliction of family duty, his refusal to provide for
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Tamar under the Lavery custom, which created a desperately
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vulnerable situation. A terrible setup.
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We watched Judah issue a hypocritical, fiery death
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sentence against her, only to have his massive pride
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completely shattered by the undeniable physical evidence of
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his own signet cord and staff. Exposed by his own stuff.
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We saw how this shocking exposure led to a crushing
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public confession of his failure.
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And through it all, we marveled at how God's sovereignly deserve
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the royal lineage that would eventually bring us the Savior,
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Jesus Christ. It is a narrative that
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completely strips away human pride.
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It leaves us with nothing to boast in, entirely dependent on
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the grace of God. God uses undeniable evidence to
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expose the hypocrisy of His people, forcing them to abandon
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their self righteousness so they can actually be saved.
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I want to leave you, the listener, with a final thought
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to Mull over as we close. We spend almost our entire lives
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terrified of being found out. We build massive, intricate
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walls to protect our image, our reputation and our standing in
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the community. We exhaust ourselves hiding.
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We really do exhaust ourselves trying to curate the perfect
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persona. But what if the exposure you are
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so desperately afraid of is the very threshold of your
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redemption? What if dropping the mask and
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letting the evidence fall to the floor is the only way you will
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ever actually be known, and the only way you will ever actually
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be forgiven? Thank you for joining us for
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this deep dive on reformed thinking.