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We Can Talk When Direct Communication Functional Adults 5D Mystics Enlightenment Peeps Come Together · Inspiring Human Potential

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Can we talk? We can talk.
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Direct communication for my lovely I, HP community, those of
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you who are functional adults, 5D Mystics in the Enlightenment
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soul age group, we like to come together and when somebody says
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can we talk we say yes. The ones who do not say yes,
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obviously they're not into the functional adult love language
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and they're not in fact integrated minds.
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Integration of the mind, integrated brains is when you
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have all hands on deck and the default mode network is down
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regulated. So your body brain, you the
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human being you is not scanning others in the self to see if you
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can turn on your ventral vagal nervous system or not.
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So you're always on as a social engagement system, and this is
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person and compassion, my Zen masters.
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This is who I'm talking to, this is who I cater to.
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This is who we support each other, and This is why we talk
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about direct communication. Everything in relationship to
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IHP content is for the ability of you to be yourself as the
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adult version. So the science is catching up
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with the spirituality and I am a 5D Mystic.
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I use the word Mystic not because I like to label myself,
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but because it incorporates all of the different channeling, all
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of the different tools that are part of the journey and that are
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part of also the content. Sometimes we have universal love
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transmission sessions. I'm a Reiki master, sometimes we
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have the tarot cards and Oracle cards, and I love that I have
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some plans. Paid subscription based model
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content for those of you who need or want support questions,
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any aspect on your Lovely Oversole Twin Flame Light
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Workers life and not because others are not light.
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We are all light. Let me get right to it because
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this is an extra episode as our Lovely 88 is coming about.
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So can we talk? Of course we can.
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We can talk. Direct communication, though
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isn't always going to be direct. For those of you who are 5
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domestics and Zen masters, we actually are safe havens and
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secure bases. So we don't need people in our
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life and people don't need us, except for those who are
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adoptive children who are looking for their idealized
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parents and other people. And that's when they find
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themselves in partnerships that are actual, just projections of
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ideas. And what happens when a person
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actually is navigating life from an insecure and in mature
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emotional space is not something that we're going to talk about
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right now. But all I can tell you is Maya
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Land crumbles at some point. And that's always because even
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if they repeat karma cycles, those are the 4D3D planes and
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that's people who think they know everything or they just
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want to see the past come back to life.
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So their direct communication is very clear and we usually know
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exactly how to engage and who's we again, design masters.
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So we will be people that hold space and we're also people that
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don't strategize, we're present. So we don't assume to know
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anything about what you're saying.
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We hear we're present and we attune.
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The integrated mind again has a physiological state of
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compassion for the human being hosting that brain.
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That would be you if you can do it.
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If you can't, the inner growth mindset gets you to start
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working towards it. And then we do have more
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episodes. And again there are plans for
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the functional adult love language and other aspects for
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the YouTube channel. I really, really look forward to
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getting videos at some point. So if it won't be through
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YouTube, I'm thinking about content and how to cater that
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and organize it back to us. I want to read something, and
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that way we can move into the part of how nothing is set in
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stone. Oh, and Purusha Prakriti.
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That's my 5D Mystics in the Enlightenment.
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So if you're here, you're tuning into Pier.
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Welcome aboard. Please reach out to me.
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Maybe we can have a conversation.
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You know your Purusha. If you're aware of everything
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with unconscious love, humanity is great.
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Nobody needs fixing. We reorganize.
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This is what it's called, to evolve.
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Humanly speaking, you've not separated from consciousness,
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which means you are pure. Not because you're clean,
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because you love all. You have the pink tainted
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glasses, and anytime somebody presents you something, you
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don't think of it as broken. You hear you're present.
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You're not assuming shit. You're at 0 in your prefrontal
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cortex. Of course you have memory, so
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you do know you have the past with you.
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And we all have had charge states so our kids can wake up
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anytime. When it happens, it's because of
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aspects that we will address and say we're sorry.
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So, so sorry that I lost it. I really don't like when it has
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happened a few times. I have always apologized because
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we don't like to get into any type of argument with anyone,
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doesn't matter who they are to inflame.
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So mate, we are not fond of it. The only times we don't actually
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say we're sorry is when. Let me think.
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We've been directly addressed with a specific tone, and I will
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use an example which was one of the ones that the guy Patrick
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who talks about the inner child and the adaptive child
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projecting their villain parents on to another human being.
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So when a person has their idea, or it might not be parents, they
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can think a whole bunch of people are villains, they're
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their entire opposite political and they will want to then
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project upon you that you're a villain because you're on the
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opposing political party, for example.
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So when an adaptive child wants to project their own dislike
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upon another human being, but they find in front of them a Zen
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master, meaning a person who's mature, emotionally functional
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adult, that means you're kind inside.
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It means you're pure consciousness, plurusha,
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prakriti, pure energy. You're not assuming shit.
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You're hearing the words that are coming out of the mouth and
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the energy and all of it. You're in complete and not
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control mastery, excuse me, of your mental, emotional and
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physical plane. So you're addressing someone
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with a great softness, which is what triggers people who are
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pissy even more because they don't know how to be here,
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because they don't know how to be safe in their own body.
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It's a very sad thing. There's a very sad thing when
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you meet people who actually think that as they get into
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their sympathetic that they actually are representing
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something to another person who's not in the sympathetic.
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What we learned to do is actually to work with our
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nervous system as those people are getting into it.
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So Long story short, when we're addressed in specific ways, for
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example, we are having and pointing out things that are
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important to us, and somebody wants to make it seem like we're
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making a big deal out of nothing.
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But the reality is we're not making a big deal out of
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nothing. Because if I write you and you
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take, I don't know, seven days to read what I write you, and
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then you don't actually even engage with me.
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And then I write you again, and then I wait another seven days
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and I'm actually trying to get you to reply to me now, some
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people would say you can call. OK, I call and you don't answer.
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OK, By the 4th time and I'm again addressing and this is not
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just some stranger consistent relationship might I add, OK, by
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the 4th time and I know people love to use the word ghosting, I
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don't use that word. And if you're an adult, you're
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not going to use a word with a person.
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Only the adaptive children use words like that with each other
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and they're you're ghosting me. That sounds like a teenage
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party, and we don't do teenage parties, so we're not going to
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be like, let me point a finger at you.
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We're going to very straightforwardly speak our
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thoughts however it comes out. And we'll do our best, of
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course, to present what we're thinking and what's going on and
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our great, great emotional moments as well.
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And by that point, if we are addressed in a way of you're
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making a big deal out of nothing, you better bet that
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that's the minute the Zen master comes out.
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So that is something very specific and it does not involve
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shaming, blaming, faulting or revenging.
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And what is even more so is that these individuals, because you
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know, we are all nervous systems, we all know our two
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year old and a two year old that's been being, let's just
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say not very consistently playful in a way that takes into
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consideration another person's emotions is going to notice.
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So what usually happens, in fact this is always fascinating, is
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those two year olds eventually feel a sense of guilt or shame,
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which we don't really address either because here's where cows
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will betrayal, we don't even use those words.
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That's indirect. All of these indirect
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communication, what you can call them, are insecure attachment
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styles. So whether it be disconnected,
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whether it be preoccupied, or whether it be the fearful
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avoidance, in all of these cases, the Zen Master is none of
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these. We are what is called secure
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attachment style, which means we are functional adults and our
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love language is not going to be shaming, blaming, faulting, or
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avenging. Our direct communication will be
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exactly what we will have gathered.
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We're able to communicate to what is a 2 year old that is not
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even aware of being a person who obviously should address in a
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very specific way what took place once they realize huh I
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think maybe maybe I hurt somebody's feelings that I love.
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So if you can't do that as a grown up, the grown-ups know
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that what that means. It means that you don't know how
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to be a grown up in relationships which means if you
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did care you can learn from Terry real about mindful
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relationships and how to be a grown up.
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Because the Zen masters we do not create adaptive children
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relationships. I am not your parent.
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You are not my parent, and we will not be telling you how to
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be polite to each other. That is not our job.
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You can learn that from the therapist that can then work
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with you on. And again, very seriously and
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with all my hat on. There's a lot of people that
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they do good therapy and it's great to hear them talking about
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how not to use their adaptive child upon other people.
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It's not great to see when people are using gaslighting,
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ghosting and a lot of other labels because they don't know
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what they're talking about. And if they did, they wouldn't
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be doing what they're doing out there.
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They wouldn't be using labels to label each other.
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So all of our relationships, they are very much for the
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functional adults, direct communication.
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That does not mean that you're talking to adults.
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It means that you, the people tuning in here are curious about
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this experience of we can talk when direct communication,
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functional adults, 5D Mystics, enlightenment peeps come
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together. So these people know that
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nothing is set in stone, not even twin flames.
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In fact we know this for sure because twin flame or flames or
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soul mates, they are part of our over soul, but they're in a
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human being's body. That means they have a human
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being story and they got a beautiful personality and we
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love to see their personalities shine and we love to hear their
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stories. That's if they are present and
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if they attune with us. If they attune, then they also
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will resonate. And then they were also be in
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trust, which means we are consistently communicating and
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enjoying in fact each other. So relationships that involve
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part are the only things we get to have any type of direct
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communication. And because the other ones,
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they're not direct, in fact there's not really communication
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because people who don't roar like a true lions roar, they're
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not with the lions, meaning those of us who have the heart
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body aligned with our values, aligned with our physical,
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aligned with our energy and aligned with our mental.
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So we're not in Maya land. We don't actually have anything
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to engage in or with when we meet those who are distorting
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reality according to their adaptive child, which is a
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person who has again, addictive slash compulsive behaviors,
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their safety behaviors, trauma behaviors, we understand this.
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Again, insecure attachment. They don't know how to feel safe
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in their body or with other people and they therefore then
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want to idealize or vilify or rescue.
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And we don't do filters like that.
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And this is distortion. That's a reality that does not
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belong to a playground that is somewhere where we don't know
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what they want, but we know that there's not clarity and and and
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and that's because here's the thing, they're not present.
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Present means you don't assume to know what I'm thinking or
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feeling. Excuse me?
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They don't have integration of the mind.
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They have yet to allow left and right to work equally together
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as the adult that they can be. So when they're assuming to
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recorrect. However, I am trying to express
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something that's not. No, it's OK.
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Direct communication is only taking place when we have
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integrated minds near each other, or at the very least
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people who enjoy each other, that we can have insecure
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attachment styles, enjoy people who are secure attachment, and
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we meet those, Usually they have direct communication, so they
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don't lie to us, they don't go in and out, they don't treat us
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like shit. And there's a lot of different
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ways that people who are not secure and they have an adaptive
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child, but they don't idealize and they don't project their
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villains either and they don't do the whole rescuing either.
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So again, different types of people in our lovely playground,
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the ones that we grow with, there's appreciation.
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And so there's not assuming there's getting to know each
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other and appreciating each other.
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And in fact, there's a very consistent way that people who
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navigate life, sons and masters, some not together.
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It's called, wow, you're so beautiful to have in my life.
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Thank you. And so when we have consistent
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communication with hearts and that's it, that's how you know,
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we're building secure connections, OK.
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And so those communications can be a little bit different
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because as I was giving you the example, the ones who do cows of
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betrayal, we don't call it betrayal because they're not
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betraying anything. If a person has what is
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disconnected, for example, attachment style, they are
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overwhelmed by emotional stuff. So they can't actually tend to
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other people's emotional stuff. So the fact that the two year
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old comes with a guilt trip is something that intuitively is
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present, but it is now a big deal for the person who's the
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Zen master because there's an understanding that you can have
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different love languages. So if somebody stays within
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their disconnected, preoccupied or fearful, avoid and attachment
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style. This is the real, these are
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attachment researchers of the styles is 1 community.
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Then we have categories. We've talked about this.
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So if people don't move out of those attachment styles because
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they don't do personal development, they don't want to
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do therapy. They think they're whatever it
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is, it doesn't matter. The Zen masters aren't going to
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be like, hey, your style doesn't meet my style, I want you to
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change. That's children behaviors.
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Again, if you're doing that, you're not a Zen master.
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You're another adaptive child who's projecting the type of
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person who you want a parent. What do you want?
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Again, as Terry Real points out, he's a therapist.
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Mindful relationships. Any couple should go to good
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therapists. That way they don't have to be
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each other's parents and maybe one day they can become
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emotionally fulfilled people with each other and more.
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And that's our wish, hopefully, because you know, a lot of
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people do not good therapy and writing down little stars.
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That doesn't does not sound like any type of lion roaring
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relationship in my book personally.
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But I do know some people that enjoy getting their scorecards
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and I just I'm 43. Honestly.
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It's not something beautiful. When I see people who are
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controlling their emotions, their body is like a rock.
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I feel no energy. Pulusa Prakriti, I don't see it
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anywhere. Prakriti especially.
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There's like there's not even a fire lit and there's no steam.
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It's something for those who want rocks because they want to.
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I'm not even going to go there. I was going to make a joke.
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I'm going to leave it alone. Let me read this thing before I
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forget. So adoptive children and again,
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all respect, there's great therapists out there.
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I can give you a list. They get to learn how to work
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with their adult and charge states first and then with their
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people as well. And then maybe they'll have
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direct communication. The ones of us who are here,
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basically, we don't get offended and so somebody says fuck you.
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We're like, oh wow, really? Why?
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Can you tell me more? Please?
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I'm curious. So sometimes if they mean it,
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we're like, wait, wait, wait. OK.
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I don't want to offend you. I am curious though.
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Can you share with me the fuck you.
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Why? No, no.
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OK, I'm leaving. I'm out because we don't want to
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get into any physical altercation.
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We do enjoy life. So there's that this thing.
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Let me read it. The in between.
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OK, so I have a lovely, lovely deck of cards.
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It's called In Between Terrell. We're going to be using it at
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some point, but I need to learn them enough to where I can tap
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in with the 5D energy for my 5D Mystics, because 4D has a
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totally different lingo. And that's because they're still
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working to move out of their Maya land.
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And they might, they might not. We don't know.
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It's none of our business. Again, they stay in their state
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of consciousness. We move on into better,
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beautiful worlds and that's great and dandy.
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It's all on earth, by the way. Okay.
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So when people are confused and unclear, they are not their own
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Zen master because they obviously have not achieved the
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integration of the mind. Otherwise they'd be like OK,
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what am I confused about? What am I unclear about?
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What am I feeling? OK, the only people who have
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self doubt are the same ones, have not yet become their adult
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self functional adults emotionally and mentally.
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So when you're emotionally mature, that's self empowerment.
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You don't have a doubt of where you stand on.
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Something is very clear. This is how I feel.
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So when I gave you the example of what I gave you about the
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what was it, the cows. Well betrayal.
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I actually how that one of the stories is what I'm thinking
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about because that was the minute that I was happy that I
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was from afar because had I had my lovely person in front of me
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in that moment I was like yeah, I don't, I don't like what I
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would look like even though that's all hypothetical because
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I'm a four foot nine person. I don't stand a chance, but this
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is where the way that they chose to handle this thing.
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If there's one thing that I have as a pet peeve or one of the
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various things but, and I'm not going to mention it, it's
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unnecessary to mention. But let's just put it this way,
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that person picked the way to address something that was just
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like, I was all over the place with that one inside, not
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outside. So it was good because I got to
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manage that lovely energy and bring it into a space of ease.
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So this individual continues to write.
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Often next moves, OK, are already in stone.
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This is the part that it's like, yeah, that's not how it works
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for 5D Mystics or enlightenment. So Age of nothing sent stone
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based on our previous choices, we just need to move with them
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now. So the fun part of when you are
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a person who knows where you're headed, direct communication
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that gets flexible depending on if we can talk.
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So if we have functional adults, then we know we will be able to
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because we'll have people who are emotionally mature, like
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those lions. And so we're having a good time
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with the fuck yous, fuck yous and hugging it out.
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Nobody's walking on egg shells and nobody is actually in any
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way, shape or form, just creating an unbearable
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situation, OK, because it becomes quite unbearable.
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Although, I have to say, it is because we.
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As people, pure consciousness people, the 5D people, we always
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see the infinite higher human consciousness potential of the
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people we are growing and having in our life.
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So we will know their pure consciousness version.
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OK, so we'll know what they can be as Purusha Prakriti, like the
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one individual that I thought about the other.
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There's a couple of them. Anyways, I won't try to focus
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right now because otherwise I'm going to get lost.
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But this particular individual, I'm going to pinpoint them.
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They have the most amazing personality.
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They're beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.
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And we've been lifelong, lifelong, knowing each other.
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So they're still amazing as always.
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But at a certain point, they stopped moving into their
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expansion. They've made a choice.
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This isn't conscious. Here's where the choices are
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based on the people's idea of what life is.
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OK, so I'm going to leave that one there, because we don't need
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to address individuals. Every person, every one of you
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either moves into, infinite or not.
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And when people instead want to have a way to gauge, they're not
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infinite. That's all.
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And I get it. So I get it because most people
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navigate life only with that left.
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They need linearity. And so when they're in the
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unknowns, they're like, Oh my God, I'm somewhere, I don't
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know. And usually those feelings are
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overwhelming. OK, so here's where our zero to
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1 year old will have wanted to be seen and then sued and that
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will have made the body feel safe.
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And that's when you learn to self regulate.
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But it's only if you have a central vagal nervous system.
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So if you're caregiver and or caregivers, if your household
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was safe, then you got lucky like I did and you will have a
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restorative embodied self. And you will keep moving easily
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towards maintaining that unconditional love, compassion
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beyond a reason and direct communication.
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And you learn how to be a functional adult easier than
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snap and done so when we're around the adoptive children.
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I didn't know that it was transference.
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Now I do and and projection and objective and and all of these.
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And it makes a whole buttload of sense.
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So and be jealousy. Spike, ghosting, gaslighting,
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manipulation, all these things that all these people will have
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done to any person throughout the years of your life.
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You will have met at least some of these casual betrayal people
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saying no, we can't talk or yes, you're bothering me or you know
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this teasing. All of it.
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All of it. All of it.
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And so for pure consciousness, people like for me, is never a
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big deal. Still isn't a big deal.
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Now I know what words to use to tell people, Stop calling them
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evil. They're not evil.
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They just need a good therapist if they want to do though
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personal development. Some of them don't.
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They're the victims of their own karma, and they even use the
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word and they don't know what it means.
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So there you go. Leave it alone.
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There's no point. If you're a functional adult,
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you already know this. If you're not, then I'm telling
22:58
you. But hey, you know, again, I
22:59
already know how adaptive children react when they're
23:02
told, you know, some people, they're not ready to be their
23:06
self because they twist their nose and they think that that's
23:09
actually something that is supposed to be.
23:11
They don't know that the attachment system, we all have
23:15
one in our brain. And if it's not set up in a way
23:19
that has been provided secure attachment in your body, you
23:22
don't feel good about being yourself.
23:24
And there's this heartbreak got wrenched, same thing.
23:26
It's a shame. SHAME.
23:28
And it's a shame that they develop addictive behaviors
23:30
based on a shame cycle. Inner critic.
23:33
And that's where those people who say I have the imposter
23:37
syndrome thing and they're like sitting in there with the inner
23:39
critic, it's a monkey brain outer critic.
23:42
They're busy up. There's the villain of my story
23:44
right over there. It's that Lady who has
23:46
compassion beyond a reason because because of that Lady,
23:49
all people think it's OK to be their self.
23:51
And these are all assholes and they need to be what I'm telling
23:54
them to because I know what the right thing is.
23:56
There's outer critic. Then they deny the feelings from
23:59
their body because they're really not even bothering to
24:01
feel the sensations because they're overwhelming.
24:04
They drink, they go fuck, they go have drugs, they go and eat
24:09
they self sooth. It's called self soothing.
24:11
And this is where an insecure attachment style is not a fun
24:15
joyride. No, it's called this regulated,
24:17
modulated, embodied experiences. It's not the optimized version
24:21
of the person. And you know what?
24:22
The therapists have to negotiate with these people to keep them
24:24
in therapy. Because when you look at the
24:26
movies, they make it seem like it's normal to have a lifestyle
24:29
that is full of compulsive behavior.
24:32
Let's not talk about extreme people cuz the extremists, they
24:35
don't know the wisdom. No, the wisdom as presented to
24:38
my lovely workshop, the lady who does a 12 step program, she's a
24:43
Ayurveda practitioner. She's also somatic experiencing
24:46
practitioner. And as she says, the lady who
24:48
asked her about coffee, it's not the coffee.
24:51
Your relationship to the substance.
24:53
So when you're out of my land you recognize my relationship.
24:57
My name's Maria. My relationship to you, my
25:00
emotional and mental relationship, not you.
25:03
You have nothing to do with what's happening inside my body
25:06
except for you do have a nervous system.
25:08
So I might have to recalibrate if you're hyperactive, because
25:11
that's where we do vibe together.
25:13
That's our mammalian heritage. It's not something that we
25:16
actually opt out of. We get physical mastery, and
25:21
this is for my enlightenment. 5D Mystics.
25:23
That's what we're getting to as we've been talking this nice
25:25
year. Learn, and you're connecting
25:28
more and more to this field of consciousness, Akash.
25:30
OK, so direct communication, easy peasy.
25:34
Can we talk? Of course we can.
25:35
That's what people do when they want to be in each other's
25:38
lives. And not thinking that anything
25:41
is set in stone. No, nothing set in stone.
25:44
We give each other inputs in time.
25:46
TIME is the only way you'll know.
25:48
If somebody in time chooses silence, they don't want to have
25:51
you in their life, period. It's going to be as clear as
25:55
they there is nothing unclear and there is nothing set in
25:58
stone because they're part of your over soul which is where
26:01
the 4D people have a very fascinating thing going on with
26:04
their little sagas. And we're not going to get into
26:06
that one because I don't channel or share for 4D people.
26:11
I share for the people who are going to be their own Zen
26:14
masters. And so that means they know
26:16
clarity and they know relationships are bonus in our
26:18
life. When you have what is called an
26:21
attachment system that is secured, you know how to be your
26:26
own safe haven and secure base, which is why you don't live Maya
26:30
land. And when people are projecting
26:32
and sharing their transference, you're like, this is bullshit.
26:35
But let me see, what can I do about it?
26:38
Oh yes, silence. That's right, the Buddhist
26:42
psychologist. They always talk about the right
26:44
silence. As a teenager, I learned it
26:46
really well. I've explained it to my lovely
26:49
friend, one of my friends, and now I have an even better way to
26:52
explain it to them in the future when we have beautiful
26:54
conversations. Because they consistently have
26:57
seen my compassion beyond a reason.
27:00
And also in a way of thinking that it was malicious at some
27:04
point, but realizing that it was not.
27:06
And it is not that. It is that of a person who's
27:09
does end master of one's own story.
27:12
It's called being a functional adult.
27:14
So we're compassionate because we don't have assumption while
27:17
somebody is in their insecure attachment style, safety,
27:21
behavior, trauma, response to their unresolved trauma, we know
27:26
there's hurt in that body. So we're not going to create
27:29
more hurt. Why would we do that there this
27:31
unnecessary, there's no physical weapon in front of us.
27:34
So the people with integrated minds, this is who I talked to
27:39
most of the time or who is going to be tuning in because they're
27:43
going to understand what I just explained.
27:44
And they'll be like, I think I know what the ladies talked
27:47
about and I'm curious for more because I like to think of this
27:52
type of relationship, but that's because they also have a
27:55
sensation of their emotional plane and they're not
27:58
disregarding it. So This is why the mouth speaks,
28:01
the words sound, but the body of the persons like I'm following
28:06
along and here's why. When people are confident about
28:10
what they do and they're doing it to support people, and in
28:14
this case I inspire human potential, not limited inspiring
28:19
human potential. It's for people who are already
28:21
motivated. The hand holding people.
28:25
I'm not even going to go there. I hand hold.
28:28
No, we walk side by side because I'm a human and you're human.
28:31
And if you don't know how to work with your emotional mental
28:34
plane, then you're choosing not to be a human.
28:37
You're choosing to disengage from your human experience.
28:41
Which is why you're going to be in Maya land, until you realize
28:44
that the body of you is an embodied brain, a brain with a
28:47
nervous system. So yoga, a portfolio, A ventral
28:52
vagal nervous system, toning exercises, mindfulness, gets you
28:56
to work with your cortex, learn some neuroscience, shall you?
28:59
And don't talk about yourself like a machine.
29:00
I've seen people, it's really interesting how much they're
29:04
robotic like and there's no human behind a robot, man.
29:08
I mean, if I want a robot person, I'll go get a real
29:11
robot, not a robot person. So the person who looks like a
29:15
robot, Maya land again, the middle ground is the adult
29:19
ground because we know how to handle our body and it stays in
29:24
this heaven and ventral bagel and it's rich.
29:28
So when we get into charges, it's amazing when you have the
29:32
ability to get into a passionate.
29:34
I haven't had that actual ability yet because I don't have
29:38
enough intellectually and emotionally mature people yet.
29:42
But I look forward to that day where I can get into some type
29:46
of just passionate discourse. Because see, here's where when
29:50
you have direct communication in this way of being a Mystic, a
29:55
functional adult, somebody grounded and then this like the
29:59
lion of The Lion King with honor and just, but just more, even
30:04
more because the part about substance, this is what people
30:07
can't know until they're in their restorative embodied self.
30:10
So I needed to add this one as well.
30:12
Restorative embodied self is very important and when you will
30:15
realize it, it's just it's an emotion that it's unforgettable
30:21
and really like Sad Guru says, but in this case, I don't want
30:25
to switch my body with Sad Guru. I like my body and my brain, for
30:28
example, and he loves his and that's great.
30:30
And anybody who achieves their own enlightenment.
30:33
So age group, Mystic or not because actually there are some
30:37
who only do it from the scientific perspective, but
30:40
neuroscience and the psychoeducators, they all
30:43
actually have access to this plane.
30:47
So, Daniel Siegel, I need to finish my interpersonal
30:49
neurobiology course, but he has this wheel that we get to put
30:55
into practice as we put mindsight into practice.
30:58
And this is an aspect that a person who is able to talk with
31:05
the functional adult direct communication will know about.
31:08
Long story short, nothing set in stone because anything is always
31:14
going to involve people. And that's also why we want to
31:17
create people who are present and who believe in humanity.
31:21
We who the 5D educators, the people who have hope, the people
31:24
who are looking to the future with bright eyes because the
31:27
energy of those who have cocreative ideas.
31:31
It's only because we're not thinking with the past.
31:35
We have a blank brain because the past has already happened.
31:38
We don't need to keep it always in the mind.
31:40
And in fact, we are smart enough to know that we are not trying
31:42
to build something that was from yesterday.
31:44
If it didn't work yesterday, it doesn't need fixing.
31:47
It isn't broken. It doesn't work, period.
31:50
Or we are reinventing it. Obviously.
31:53
We also know that there is a foundation.
31:55
So there's there's a foundation because you need a blueprint,
31:58
that's all. But the blueprint is really just
32:00
a couple of sticks. There is no need for anything.
32:04
You know what's beautiful about being for consciousness and a
32:07
human body? Meaning, like just treating it
32:09
like a person with subject matters.
32:13
Let me specify. So I think of subject matters.
32:15
There's so many out there. Existentialism, sociology,
32:18
Economics. There's the ones for the geology
32:22
ecosystem, and I don't even know half of them.
32:24
Right. Physics, all these different
32:26
subject matters are amazing. I mean, again, spirituality.
32:30
It's the ancients who help you, and it's for people who need
32:34
that. It's for the people who are
32:36
needing to move into if they want, because that's the part
32:40
they get into doing only the elements and you see them out in
32:44
the middle of the nowhere land. Just OK again, I'm going to take
32:49
steps back because I have a restorative, embodied self.
32:51
I would not want to sit in silence for 8 hours singing
32:54
myself to sleep or something like that.
32:56
That sounds very boring. I want to be with people.
32:58
I want to have conversations. I want to see what we're doing
33:01
to help the ocean, like the air. I'm not going to use 8 hours of
33:05
24 hours to sit somewhere and play with my breath, but some
33:09
people, they need to play with their breath because they don't
33:11
know how to engage in their ventral legal system.
33:13
However, as long as nobody tells them what they're doing, they
33:17
are going to tribute their feeling of Satori to the I'm a
33:23
spiritual process. It's like, OK And I'm not
33:26
talking about Sad Guru for example, or any of those who are
33:30
spirituality leaders for real. They are here on purpose and to
33:36
support. I'm talking about the ones who
33:38
get enamored with their own light and they think that
33:41
they're better than others and they think that they're not a
33:44
human experience. And they keep on engaging with
33:47
life and being a human as if they're not the way that people
33:51
separate words when they're not using the word consciousness and
33:54
knowing that science explains how your brain works with it.
33:58
This is why 5D Mystic here as an enlightenment so age you person.
34:03
We are not special, we are not supernatural.
34:05
No one is not the shaman, not the deity, no one.
34:07
It's the brain optimized brain of a person.
34:10
There are pieces of missing of our evolution.
34:13
We know it. No need to create a story for
34:16
it. You can keep it basic and say
34:18
some things we know, some things we don't.
34:21
So there's a spirituality soul, age group and that's for some
34:23
people. This is not the voice of a
34:25
spiritual. I'm an enlightenment.
34:27
So age you person. Not that I don't laugh at, I
34:31
know the importance of it. What I am humored by are the
34:36
people who actually think of themselves as smarter or better.
34:42
And so it's more of there are those who are not.
34:46
Even if a guru were to encounter them, they would tell them to go
34:52
to the mountain and still keep meditating some more.
34:56
There's actually a story, I forget which one it is.
34:59
That said, Guru shares, and it's of one of these disciples that
35:03
kept on wanting to achieve some big whatever with his master or
35:08
something like that. And this person kept sending
35:11
them away because this disciple kept not understanding.
35:15
And this is the part about the spirituality subject matter for
35:22
people who consider themselves a spirituality process.
35:25
When they use the word consciousness, they are
35:26
completely disconnecting from the fact that they're human and
35:29
then they go and insult humans. You are the one reason why
35:33
nature is that you are they. They continue to use,
35:37
erroneously speaking, the masculine energy.
35:39
The left they they dismantle and say you're to blame.
35:42
This is where there is a limited relationship to this pure
35:49
consciousness, and it's because there's a subjective idea, which
35:53
is a personal idea, and we all will have those moments.
35:56
Of course we do, because they're things that are personal.
35:59
However, if you remember the Zen teachings of any one, of the
36:04
whole group of all, there's always the one thing, We are
36:08
one, we are one big ball of energy.
36:11
Everything is part of the flow. So all knowing, all powerful,
36:17
nothing ever out of place. If you put these words
36:21
consistently together, it will mean that you know we are always
36:25
in a moment of now, with yesterday being the past and
36:29
with the now being the possibility, and with the
36:31
tomorrow being the unknown, so to speak, of this lovely human
36:37
species as if they are flawed. We are flawed and imperfect
36:40
because we don't know everything.
36:42
We are not destructive. We evolve.
36:45
In fact, our evolution is actually always recalibrating
36:50
the the, the part of how people navigate this is where they
36:54
already begin to think, but the nature and this it.
36:56
So they begin to put in the pieces of what they see that
36:59
doesn't work and they begin to already create a prejudice and
37:02
opinion. That's where they are no longer
37:05
functional adults clearly aware of being present.
37:09
They're not present. They're making assumptions.
37:13
So they're not in the now when you see that you're always part
37:16
of nature in this state of flow. So it means oneness with the
37:21
earth of our planet right now. Whatever day it is that you're
37:24
tuning in here right this instant to everything yesterday,
37:28
there is going to be a loophole and loopholes.
37:32
We don't fill it in with stories.
37:34
We leave it alone. Leave the loopholes.
37:37
You just sit in the now you'll see what areas we want to dress
37:41
and what areas we need to dress sooner than later, right.
37:45
And and so this is where it's a very clear slate.
37:48
There is no unclear. So there is a very clear slate
37:52
and inequanimity people would be able to achieve the next steps.
37:57
Some they don't like to hear this because they say it's more
38:00
complicated. Those people did not hear the
38:02
word being in the now. They're not in the now.
38:04
They don't know how to. They don't know how to because
38:07
they're choosing to disengage from the word and what the
38:10
explanation is because they don't like what they see.
38:12
So they're consistently living based on yesterday.
38:15
Those people are set in stone, so even if they leave something
38:18
behind, they don't really leave anything behind.
38:20
Cuz really by the way, you don't leave anything behind.
38:22
If you're a person who's smart, stable, mature, adaptive,
38:25
rational, teachable, you're always learning in the past.
38:28
You carry it right here. So humanity is part of nature
38:33
that there are things out of balance?
38:35
Yes. That's because they don't know
38:36
how to maintain their equanimity.
38:38
And that's most people that are not Zen masters.
38:41
So let's get more Zen masters, shall we?
38:43
And not the ones who flaunt their little mantles around.
38:46
And I already know said guru's doing the best he can.
38:48
So we, the 5D Mystics, the 5D educators, continue to do the
38:53
best we can as well. When you have relationships that
38:56
are beautiful, nobody gets confused by the seven of cups.
39:00
There's very much a clarity of when we're dealing with people
39:03
who are functional adults and those who are not, it's always
39:06
going to be can we talk? The functional adult will say of
39:08
course we can, And that is where there's a conversation.
39:12
No shame, no blame, no fault. And definitely we don't do what
39:16
others do. And it's very unfortunate when
39:19
others do revenge, resentment and this whole other stuff which
39:23
is not going to be part of our conversation.
39:26
We easily are able to walk right away from that because we know
39:30
that behind there is a zero to seven month old who has
39:32
heartbreak, gut wrench and is in a state of fear.
39:37
That is because they were not in a safe household.
39:41
Now they unfortunately do not know that they are not defective
39:45
and that they are lovable and beautiful.
39:47
They do not remember the millisecond that they had this,
39:51
and the only way that they can potentially remember, and this
39:55
is not in their mind. It's a sensation.
39:58
The only way a human being can bring themselves to be in their
40:03
restorative and bodied self is if they have a direct
40:07
communication with their heart and their mind and their body,
40:11
and they understand, As Bezel Vanderkok says, to be able and
40:14
sit with your sensations is what is needed first of all, before
40:18
you can maybe evaluate all of those.
40:20
Stories, the predictions and everything that your brain is
40:23
using to translate uncomfortable heartbreak, gut wrench and I'm
40:27
disgusting feelings. And then evaluate all the other
40:30
stuff that might be and and and things like this.
40:32
So at the end of the day, direct communication with yourself.
40:36
Also if you're going to be a functional adult, is going to be
40:40
can we talk? Of course we can and it's always
40:42
in a compassionate tone. Otherwise you can't move beyond
40:48
the trauma fragments because those are the emotions that are
40:52
the sensations that are in an upset.
40:55
So you bring your mind to calm itself, right?
40:59
And you say, OK, left. Let's let the right know.
41:02
It's all good. We're in this unknown space.
41:04
You rhythmically breathe and you have a compassionate
41:07
conversation with yourself and that's where they can be in
41:11
inner growth introspection. It's with Krishna Alita though.
41:14
You want to dress it with curiosity.
41:17
What are these safety behaviors about?
41:18
What are these safety responses about?
41:20
What am I doing with these charge states?
41:23
That's why it's not ideal to only use the word maladaptive
41:27
responses. It's maladaptive as an adult,
41:29
the adaptive child, because you're projecting or they're
41:32
projecting. But the function adults know how
41:35
to handle projection without shaming, blaming, faulting, or
41:39
again, doing anything of saying I'm going to blame you.
41:41
It's OK. Here's where I stand.
41:45
Here's my list of whatever it is, and it's cool.
41:48
Thank you. Thank you so much for your time,
41:51
for everything. Because you know again, we will
41:53
know what we will know. Nobody is flawed or broken in
41:57
that sense that they need fixing.
41:59
No, When there's a charge state, it's a charge state.
42:02
It's called a trigger period. So a person has an emotion comes
42:06
up. They don't know how to handle
42:07
it. The grown-ups, direct
42:08
communication. We know how to handle it without
42:10
saying let me bring to you nasty.
42:14
No, I bring to you love. I bring to appreciation.
42:16
Thank you. And you know now the fun part as
42:19
you'll keep tuning into all the episodes are those ones who roar
42:23
with the compassion and love of the lion.
42:25
And so we do know how to see what we're going to bring in our
42:30
future with us. And that is always the
42:32
functional, the love language and more than masters.
42:35
And as we get to that 88, it'll be fun to see how many of my
42:40
lovely Love Lions come on out. So tune on back for more and
42:45
have a great day.