#14 - The Mother Wound or How to love someone without expectations (and suffering)
Love is connection, attachment. When we love someone, we are attached to them. And that attachment, makes us to want the relationship to be a certain way. That attachment creates expectations, and when these expectations are not met, we suffer. We are in pain. Our expectations create our pain.
Letting go of these expectations is the detachment we need to be in a peaceful relationship. It might sound counterintuitive to be detached in a relationship where we feel attached to someone... but it is key.
Especially in the mother-daughter relationship. My relationship with my mother has had its ups…
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