Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / SMNTY Classics: Sex and Gender Based Violence in the Democratic Republic of Congo
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Aye and Samantha and welcome to stuff
- 0:07Speaker 1: I Never told your protection of I Heart Radio. Today
- 0:18Speaker 1: we have an episode we wanted to rerun because we
- 0:21Speaker 1: recently talked about the d r C, the Democratic Republic
- 0:25Speaker 1: of Congo UM in in Activists around the World segment
- 0:29Speaker 1: and it made us remember a really good episode, fantastic
- 0:33Speaker 1: episode we did in the Before Times Before Times, Yes
- 0:37Speaker 1: UM about gender based violence and in that country, and
- 0:43Speaker 1: we had two interviews on there that were just fantastic,
- 0:48Speaker 1: and it was one of the last things we did
- 0:50Speaker 1: in the studio. But COVID was happening at that point
- 0:55Speaker 1: because we talked about it in there, UM, and we
- 0:58Speaker 1: also talked about um so off care and uh, we
- 1:03Speaker 1: should check we should check back in on them. I
- 1:04Speaker 1: would love to see see what they're doing now, where
- 1:06Speaker 1: they are now. But this was also a listener helped
- 1:09Speaker 1: us bring this all together. So we always love suggestions
- 1:13Speaker 1: like this about who we should be talking to, things
- 1:15Speaker 1: we should be talking about, So really appreciate it, UM,
- 1:19Speaker 1: and please enjoy this classic episode. Hey, this is Annie
- 1:28Speaker 1: and Samantha and welcome to stuff I'll never told your
- 1:30Speaker 1: production of I Heart Radio. So today's episode I'm very
- 1:45Speaker 1: excited to present to you and it's actually, um, it
- 1:49Speaker 1: was a listener that got in touch with us and
- 1:51Speaker 1: facilitate this whole thing. And we'll get more into that
- 1:54Speaker 1: and in a second, but we're going to be talking
- 1:55Speaker 1: about sex and gender based violence or STVV in a
- 2:00Speaker 1: Democratic Republic of CONGO or the DRC and trigger warning
- 2:05Speaker 1: for a discussion of sex and inner based violence, sexual
- 2:08Speaker 1: assault and suicidality. And um, this one is so valuable
- 2:14Speaker 1: and worth listening to. But though the topics that we
- 2:17Speaker 1: discuss with our guests in this one are are very intense. Um,
- 2:22Speaker 1: So just keep in mind your mental health when choosing
- 2:27Speaker 1: to listen or not listen, are what time, because you
- 2:30Speaker 1: know sometimes you're just not a good place right now,
- 2:31Speaker 1: which you might be later. I just want to put
- 2:34Speaker 1: that out there, and just to put it out there,
- 2:36Speaker 1: I guess are really optimistic, yes, in such dire circumstances,
- 2:41Speaker 1: it seems, and they had put a lot of positivity
- 2:43Speaker 1: and what they're talking about as well. So it is
- 2:46Speaker 1: it is heavy, but at the same time, it is
- 2:48Speaker 1: still hopeful, Yes, absolutely, and it is not all bad
- 2:51Speaker 1: at all. And so okay, this was a suggestion from
- 2:57Speaker 1: a listener named Rebecca, who volunteers with a nonprofit organization,
- 3:01Speaker 1: Global Outreach Doctors, and she said, I'm going to use
- 3:06Speaker 1: her words now. This organization quote deploys volunteer medical doctors
- 3:09Speaker 1: and nurses, at mental health professionals and midwives and integrative
- 3:12Speaker 1: health professionals like trauma trained acupuncturists to high need, low
- 3:16Speaker 1: resource global regions affected by natural disasters, refugee crises, war zones,
- 3:21Speaker 1: and famine, such as the Democratic Republic of Congo, Kenya, Ethiopia, Bangladesh, Iraq, Nepal, Lesbos,
- 3:27Speaker 1: and the Syrian border. She went on, the organization just
- 3:31Speaker 1: completed an assessment mission dealing with a gender based violence
- 3:34Speaker 1: in the Democratic Republic of Congo. The d r C
- 3:37Speaker 1: has been labeled by several organizations, including the UN as
- 3:40Speaker 1: quote one of the worst places in the world to
- 3:42Speaker 1: be a woman. During focus groups. In the assessment of
- 3:45Speaker 1: current medical capabilities in the eastern part of the country,
- 3:48Speaker 1: the go docs assessment team found that mental health care
- 3:51Speaker 1: for victims of sexual and gender based violence in the
- 3:53Speaker 1: DRC is severely lacking. According to the WHO as often,
- 3:58Speaker 1: there were only points zero eight psychiatrists and zero point
- 4:02Speaker 1: five psychiatric nurses per one hundred thousand people in the
- 4:05Speaker 1: d r C are less than sixty five psychiatrists and
- 4:07Speaker 1: four hundred five psychiatric nurses in a country of seventy
- 4:11Speaker 1: eight million people. So Rebecca put us in touch with
- 4:14Speaker 1: Cocotaine the go docs VP of Planning and Logistics, and
- 4:18Speaker 1: Kim Spray bs N r n c N, who are
- 4:20Speaker 1: both on the assessment team. Before we get into that,
- 4:23Speaker 1: we want to do a brief rundown of the situation. There.
- 4:25Speaker 1: Officially established as a Belgian colony in nineteen o eight,
- 4:29Speaker 1: what was then the Republic of Congo gained independence in
- 4:32Speaker 1: nineteen sixty. The region has since experienced political and social
- 4:36Speaker 1: unrest and instability, violence and periods of civil war, and
- 4:39Speaker 1: millions have been displaced. Rape and sexual violence are frequently
- 4:43Speaker 1: employed against women and violence as a method of control, intimidation,
- 4:46Speaker 1: and humiliation, so for most survivors, justice isn't really an option.
- 4:51Speaker 1: The perpetrators ranged from soldiers to teachers to neighbors, and
- 4:55Speaker 1: partly because of that, most women and girls don't report it.
- 4:59Speaker 1: Those that do might be cast out from their homes
- 5:01Speaker 1: and families. And on one day in noven between the
- 5:04Speaker 1: twelve hundreds were raped and schools are frequent targets. According
- 5:09Speaker 1: to Congolese women's groups, things like an ineffective justice system,
- 5:13Speaker 1: poor governance, and women's inferior social position all play into
- 5:17Speaker 1: the sexual violence in the d r C, and while
- 5:19Speaker 1: it is under reported, the numbers we do have are disturbing.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Recent obtained statistics revealed that about eleven cases of sexual
- 5:28Speaker 1: violence are documented each month in various health zones, which
- 5:32Speaker 1: amounts to an average of thirty six victims a day,
- 5:35Speaker 1: and the most affected population is comprised of girls aged
- 5:38Speaker 1: between ten to seventeen, although ten percent of the victims
- 5:41Speaker 1: are less than ten years old. Congolese women constitute the
- 5:45Speaker 1: DRC population. Their visibility and contribution to food security for
- 5:49Speaker 1: the survival and running of the Congolese society is undeniable
- 5:52Speaker 1: and internationally recognized. However, studies and recent investigations show that
- 5:56Speaker 1: the position of Congolese women in several dominions of national
- 5:59Speaker 1: life remains low in comparison with men. Access of women
- 6:03Speaker 1: to decision making tables, as well as to national economical
- 6:07Speaker 1: resources and production factors remains very limited. The situation has
- 6:11Speaker 1: deteriorated in latter years with the negative effects of wars
- 6:13Speaker 1: in repetition to the current persistent insecurity. In fact, sixty
- 6:18Speaker 1: one point two percent of Congolese women live underneath the
- 6:21Speaker 1: poverty threshold against fifty one point three percent of men,
- 6:24Speaker 1: while forty four percent of women cannot attain economical timeliness.
- 6:28Speaker 1: And Furthermore, in the d r C, the situation of
- 6:30Speaker 1: gender based violence, particularly domestic violence on women and young girls,
- 6:34Speaker 1: is very worrying. Collected national data on various forms of
- 6:38Speaker 1: violence against women demonstrates how it strongly correlates with the
- 6:41Speaker 1: under development in conflict battered DRC. Gender based violence, including
- 6:46Speaker 1: sexual violence, has reached epidemic levels. In alone, close to
- 6:50Speaker 1: twenty six thousand, eight hundred cases were registered, but many
- 6:53Speaker 1: more have not been reported for fear of retaliation, because
- 6:56Speaker 1: of the limited monitoring and reporting systems in place, which
- 6:59Speaker 1: don't cover all affected areas in the country, and because
- 7:02Speaker 1: of security and access constraints. Humanitarian partners have been advocating
- 7:06Speaker 1: for more funds to be able to provide survivors with
- 7:09Speaker 1: post rape kits within seventy two hours in safe spaces
- 7:12Speaker 1: where they can get dedicated psychosocial support. In the twenty
- 7:16Speaker 1: nineteen Humanitarian Response Plan requires one point seven billion dollars
- 7:20Speaker 1: to reach nine million people. Of those, five point seven
- 7:23Speaker 1: million people require protection services. To date, the appeal remains
- 7:27Speaker 1: only twelve percent funded. And we can't forget the consequences
- 7:31Speaker 1: beyond the trauma of rape, like dropping out of school, pregnancy,
- 7:33Speaker 1: forced marriage, s t I S. Things like that. And
- 7:36Speaker 1: just so you know, early marriage is a common practice
- 7:39Speaker 1: and an estimated seventy four percent of women between fifteen
- 7:42Speaker 1: and nineteen years of age are married, and mostly in
- 7:44Speaker 1: the rural area. The legal minimum age of marriage is
- 7:47Speaker 1: fifteen for women in eighteen for men, and because of this,
- 7:50Speaker 1: in the more rural areas, girls as young as thirteen
- 7:53Speaker 1: are forced into marriages in order to provide for their families.
- 7:56Speaker 1: So clearly this is something we should be talking about.
- 7:59Speaker 1: But it's one sing reading the statistics and it's another
- 8:03Speaker 1: thing being on the ground talking to those who are impacted.
- 8:07Speaker 1: We talked with two amazing women, Coco Tang and Camplice Spray. Seriously,
- 8:12Speaker 1: there are resumes outstanding, astounding about what they experienced when
- 8:20Speaker 1: they went on an assessment mission around sex and gender
- 8:23Speaker 1: based bilence in the DRC. And we're going to get
- 8:25Speaker 1: right into that, but first we're gonna take a quick
- 8:28Speaker 1: break for word from our sponsor and we're back. Thank
- 8:43Speaker 1: you sponsor. So let's let our guests introduce themselves. My
- 8:48Speaker 1: name is Coco. I'm a paramedic. I'm currently the operations
- 8:52Speaker 1: director for Global Outreach Doctors. UM. I also worked with
- 8:55Speaker 1: a few other different NGOs. I'm usually practice over so
- 9:00Speaker 1: I'm just getting out of my Afghanistan contract, kind of
- 9:03Speaker 1: my way to Norway before I go back to the US,
- 9:07Speaker 1: and then I'll throw the ball over to Kim. Hey. Yeah,
- 9:11Speaker 1: my name is Kim and I'm an emergency nurse by
- 9:14Speaker 1: training volunteer with Global Outreach Doctors and have a little
- 9:18Speaker 1: bit of experience working in West Africa as well. Yeah,
- 9:24Speaker 1: you both were kind enough to send along your resumes
- 9:27Speaker 1: and they were super impressed. They were very impressed. It
- 9:30Speaker 1: made me feel very very Um. I'm not accomplished or something.
- 9:34Speaker 1: I'm just gonna leave at that. Um. But how did
- 9:38Speaker 1: you How did you get into this line of work?
- 9:44Speaker 1: So I first became an emergency medical technician when I
- 9:48Speaker 1: was in undergrad UM partly because both my very Asian,
- 9:52Speaker 1: very Chinese parents are m d pH ds and wanted
- 9:56Speaker 1: me to be a doctor. So I had to have
- 9:57Speaker 1: some kind of exposure to medicine, but also because being
- 10:00Speaker 1: e m T paid better than other minimum wage college jobs.
- 10:03Speaker 1: So that's what I did. And then when I got
- 10:05Speaker 1: my born, I'm full Bright scholarship and fellowships to the
- 10:09Speaker 1: Middle East. I was living in Jordan and then I
- 10:11Speaker 1: was doing research on this Yeraron refugees and the ISIS issue.
- 10:14Speaker 1: So I was working in this year and refugee camps,
- 10:16Speaker 1: and then someone heard that I have medical skills, so
- 10:18Speaker 1: I was like, do you want to volunteer for the
- 10:19Speaker 1: border metavacs? And I was like sure, And that's how
- 10:22Speaker 1: I kind of got started. And then I walked out
- 10:24Speaker 1: of UM sort of that experience, realizing that there are
- 10:28Speaker 1: these huge international crises that I can be a part of.
- 10:31Speaker 1: And then that winter the typhoon Hyan hit the Philippines UM,
- 10:36Speaker 1: so then I immediately signed up to volunteer there. And
- 10:38Speaker 1: then as soon as I graduated, I went to Sierra
- 10:40Speaker 1: Leone UM at the height of the Bowla crisis to
- 10:43Speaker 1: do this community outreach thing, and then it just kind
- 10:46Speaker 1: of snowballed from there. I think can can attest to
- 10:49Speaker 1: this too, like once you kind of meet someone in
- 10:51Speaker 1: this weird little community. You get networked and sucked in
- 10:54Speaker 1: and then before you know it, all these organizations are
- 10:57Speaker 1: asking if you are available for this mission or just
- 10:59Speaker 1: some or availability for this other vision and stuff like that.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Very true, yep. UM. So for me in terms of
- 11:07Speaker 1: global health, UM, I actually was finishing my Bachelors of
- 11:11Speaker 1: Nursing UM and was working full time as an e
- 11:15Speaker 1: our nurse, which is three twelve hour shifts a week,
- 11:18Speaker 1: and finishing my BS and I felt all of a
- 11:20Speaker 1: sudden I had all this free time on my hands
- 11:22Speaker 1: and was kind of bored and UM. So it was
- 11:25Speaker 1: the beginning of the fourteen A bowler crisis. And I
- 11:28Speaker 1: put my appetition out the U S A I D
- 11:31Speaker 1: and I was accepted by an m g O UM
- 11:34Speaker 1: and signed on for six weeks and ended up staying
- 11:36Speaker 1: for two years in mist Africa. UM. And so that's
- 11:40Speaker 1: kind of how this whole thing has started for me. UM.
- 11:43Speaker 1: And now I'm getting multiple master's degrees in the field
- 11:47Speaker 1: UM helping to continue. That's awesome. And UM. One of
- 11:52Speaker 1: the reasons we brought you on today that we wanted
- 11:56Speaker 1: to hear from you, is I one of your coworkers.
- 12:00Speaker 1: I guess Rebecca reached out to me and said, you
- 12:02Speaker 1: should really be talking about sex and gender based violence
- 12:06Speaker 1: in the d r C, which is something that both
- 12:09Speaker 1: of you have experienced with have seen firsthand. Um, could
- 12:13Speaker 1: you give us sort of a for for listeners, maybe
- 12:17Speaker 1: a one on one of what's going on there? Yes,
- 12:23Speaker 1: but sort of before we jump into that, I think
- 12:25Speaker 1: it'll be good to preface this with, you know, like
- 12:28Speaker 1: for us, we were just kind of there for like
- 12:31Speaker 1: a two week thing, like, this isn't our reality, and
- 12:34Speaker 1: we're not you know, like the experts on it by
- 12:36Speaker 1: any means. They're certainly a lot more people who are
- 12:39Speaker 1: more qualified to speak about it than us. Um, So
- 12:41Speaker 1: we're just kind of coming at it with the perspective of,
- 12:44Speaker 1: you know, like a two week medical mission volunteer type
- 12:47Speaker 1: of point of view, if that makes any sense, Right,
- 12:49Speaker 1: That's why you were sent there, right, sort of a
- 12:52Speaker 1: mission to to understand the scope of the problem. Perhaps, Okay,
- 12:58Speaker 1: So and Kim obviously feel for to jump in whenever
- 13:00Speaker 1: you like. The original sort of idea for the mission, um,
- 13:05Speaker 1: Like when this idea with birth was that we would
- 13:08Speaker 1: go in for some kind of healthcare assessment and see
- 13:11Speaker 1: where the gaps are UM in sort of like the
- 13:14Speaker 1: healthcare infrastructure in health Hebrew, and this was something that
- 13:17Speaker 1: Go Duck has done in other countries, so like earlier
- 13:19Speaker 1: the year we did something similar for Ethiopia UM, but
- 13:23Speaker 1: our local partner that we were working with UM it's
- 13:26Speaker 1: called SUFFCO and it's this French acronym that I'm not
- 13:29Speaker 1: going to try to pronounce because I'll mess it up,
- 13:30Speaker 1: but it basically works with like these local girls and
- 13:33Speaker 1: women and empowering them giving up skills sort of like
- 13:36Speaker 1: navigating the social landscape of being a woman in DRC.
- 13:41Speaker 1: So we kind of approached it with maybe like focusing
- 13:45Speaker 1: on STDV, which is like sexual gender based violence, but
- 13:49Speaker 1: obviously we didn't really know what we would find until
- 13:51Speaker 1: we actually got on the ground and started doing our assessment.
- 13:55Speaker 1: Can't we have anything to add? Yeah, no, I was
- 13:57Speaker 1: just gonna go further from that, and then you know,
- 13:59Speaker 1: once we arrived on the ground and realized UM, there
- 14:03Speaker 1: are quite a lot of people, as Poco said, that
- 14:05Speaker 1: are much more experienced in this and actually doing a
- 14:08Speaker 1: lot of work in UM SGBV UM, which is a
- 14:11Speaker 1: sexual gender based violence area, including Dr Mucuig who's there
- 14:16Speaker 1: in um Mukabo, who's won the Nobel Prize and he's
- 14:19Speaker 1: there doing all the like physical problems. So, um, we
- 14:22Speaker 1: realized that the mental health issues related to both the
- 14:26Speaker 1: SGBV and the ongoing war in um the d r
- 14:30Speaker 1: C where how global outreach doctors could add some support
- 14:35Speaker 1: to the area. Yeah, So I think one of the
- 14:38Speaker 1: key issues that like became like immediately urgently apparent was
- 14:42Speaker 1: that there was kind of like no psychosocial support for
- 14:45Speaker 1: all of these like women or just victims of STVV
- 14:49Speaker 1: in general. And I mean, God knowes it doesn't have
- 14:50Speaker 1: to be female, but like I think the statistics are
- 14:54Speaker 1: right now something like point eight like psychologists for like
- 14:58Speaker 1: a hundred thousand people in Congo, And I think when
- 15:01Speaker 1: we were there, there was maybe like one psychologist that
- 15:04Speaker 1: was working in the entire South Keybrew area. So this
- 15:07Speaker 1: was like a completely kind of like foreign territory for
- 15:11Speaker 1: I think the healthcare providers there. Um. And even in
- 15:14Speaker 1: some of the interviews that we were doing, it's like,
- 15:16Speaker 1: you know, what are you doing after your assault to
- 15:18Speaker 1: kind of help you get over this? And a lot
- 15:20Speaker 1: of the answers we got were just, oh, you know,
- 15:22Speaker 1: maybe some support groups or sometimes I can talk to
- 15:25Speaker 1: my friends, but it was just like a complete lack
- 15:29Speaker 1: of this particular support, even so much so that the
- 15:33Speaker 1: providers realize that this was an issue. People would show
- 15:37Speaker 1: up to the hospitals and our clinics complaining of kind
- 15:40Speaker 1: of generalized body aches or just your attention was another
- 15:44Speaker 1: big one. Yeah, And really, if you dialed down, you
- 15:47Speaker 1: found out that there was some trauma. Whether it was
- 15:51Speaker 1: s GBV or related to the war, UM doesn't really matter.
- 15:54Speaker 1: It was just a trauma. And really the the underlying
- 15:58Speaker 1: problem was the mental health issues that nobody had been
- 16:00Speaker 1: addressing there at all. In any way. Um, they don't
- 16:03Speaker 1: have the medicines available, they have very limited UM support.
- 16:07Speaker 1: The women don't really feel like they can even discuss
- 16:10Speaker 1: it with each other very much. UM and certainly across
- 16:14Speaker 1: gender lines, there's really no discussion on this problem. Yeah.
- 16:20Speaker 1: When we were doing the research for this, they were
- 16:23Speaker 1: just so so so many stories, UM so many women
- 16:27Speaker 1: who were talking about it. And I do think that
- 16:29Speaker 1: it's something that UM, we don't think about a lot.
- 16:32Speaker 1: Is the mental trauma, like people who have experienced it do.
- 16:37Speaker 1: But if if you haven't, then it just doesn't occur
- 16:41Speaker 1: to people that this is a huge gap that that
- 16:43Speaker 1: would cause all these other things. And I think in
- 16:47Speaker 1: sort of that region in general, I mean, I think
- 16:51Speaker 1: people kind of treated as like a tired or talked
- 16:54Speaker 1: out topic almost. You know, like it's known that DRC
- 16:58Speaker 1: is like the rage capital of the world just because
- 16:59Speaker 1: of it's like violent in recent history. Um. But also
- 17:02Speaker 1: like this issue has been eclipsed by a lot of
- 17:05Speaker 1: other issues, you know, like the M twenty three rebellion
- 17:09Speaker 1: or like the recently Bowl of crisis, Like this has
- 17:11Speaker 1: sort of kind of become like a bad burner topic. Um.
- 17:15Speaker 1: And even when I was coming off of the mission
- 17:16Speaker 1: and reaching out to some of my journalist friends to
- 17:18Speaker 1: see if there might be potential interest um on writing
- 17:22Speaker 1: about kind of like what's going on with these women
- 17:24Speaker 1: sort of like how years, decades after these conflicts, like
- 17:27Speaker 1: there has been no respite for them, and the response
- 17:30Speaker 1: has been, you know, there there will be no interest
- 17:32Speaker 1: for such an article. It's like a talked out issue. UM.
- 17:36Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just like very sad that is
- 17:39Speaker 1: so disappointing that it's something can be talked out when
- 17:41Speaker 1: it's people's lives that we're talking and how they are
- 17:44Speaker 1: affected on a daily basis in such an awful dramatic
- 17:48Speaker 1: la that's really saddening. Yeah, and that does actually bring
- 17:54Speaker 1: me to your question. I was going to ask later,
- 17:55Speaker 1: but since it's a good segue, how what ways do
- 17:59Speaker 1: you think the media could improve when talking about this?
- 18:04Speaker 1: And um, what ways have they failed? Which might dovetail
- 18:09Speaker 1: into each other probably oh, um, like in Congo in
- 18:16Speaker 1: general or kind of like sexual violence as a broad
- 18:20Speaker 1: topic both honestly, um and cann't if you don't mine,
- 18:25Speaker 1: I'll start with sort of like a personal experience. So actually, um,
- 18:30Speaker 1: before this Congo mission, I was in Ethiopia on a
- 18:33Speaker 1: different mission, and I was actually sexually assaulted by Ethiopia
- 18:36Speaker 1: and local there um. And it's like still an ongoing
- 18:39Speaker 1: issue that I'm dealing with a lawyer in Ethiopia to
- 18:42Speaker 1: try and see this case through even though like no,
- 18:44Speaker 1: des might not be in Ethiopia, which is a complete nightmare.
- 18:47Speaker 1: And I had just like reaching out to some of
- 18:51Speaker 1: the local newspapers to see if there might be interest
- 18:54Speaker 1: in sort of like outing this guy that lives among
- 18:57Speaker 1: their midst and it is a well known sexual assaulter
- 19:01Speaker 1: and you know, like thief of like foreign tourists. Um,
- 19:05Speaker 1: I got like zero response. UM. And I think it's
- 19:08Speaker 1: just like it's not popular news or it's like talked
- 19:12Speaker 1: out news like I was saying before, like oh another
- 19:14Speaker 1: person got assaulted. What were they thinking? You know? Or
- 19:17Speaker 1: the other end of the spectrum is like who cares
- 19:20Speaker 1: about that? Like that's so like a non issue and
- 19:25Speaker 1: that I guess that's sort of like Ethiopian media. I
- 19:27Speaker 1: can't really make a broad comment about like US media
- 19:31Speaker 1: with writing a book about it or guess how much
- 19:33Speaker 1: time three can What thoughts do you have? I don't know.
- 19:40Speaker 1: I don't have really great thoughts on on that. UM
- 19:43Speaker 1: too much really, Um, it is a huge topic and there's, um,
- 19:47Speaker 1: you know, so many different parts of it right that
- 19:49Speaker 1: you know, people need to be feel free to address
- 19:53Speaker 1: their issues and recognize that there are issues. We also
- 19:56Speaker 1: need to recognize that it's a problem in the world. UM.
- 20:00Speaker 1: But UM, you know, our our DRC mission UM was
- 20:05Speaker 1: kind of more focusing on how can we get the
- 20:09Speaker 1: local providers to help recognize that this is a problem
- 20:13Speaker 1: and then treated as such. I do kind of just
- 20:17Speaker 1: want to add also, um, and this really hit hard
- 20:20Speaker 1: for me when I was asked this question so one
- 20:22Speaker 1: of the local women, I can't remember which one of
- 20:25Speaker 1: us did her interview, um, but she was asking like,
- 20:29Speaker 1: so are you she she you don't like recounted for us,
- 20:32Speaker 1: like her probably her worst moment in her life, like
- 20:34Speaker 1: talking about her sexual assault. I think she was getting
- 20:36Speaker 1: raped or something. Um. And then she was like, so
- 20:38Speaker 1: are you going to do something? Like are you going
- 20:41Speaker 1: to help me with it? And you know, we had
- 20:44Speaker 1: to give her a very painful answer of like no,
- 20:48Speaker 1: we're here for the assessment, Like all we can do
- 20:50Speaker 1: right now is collect your story. And it kind of
- 20:55Speaker 1: like reminds me of the times that, like I've worked
- 20:58Speaker 1: in other refugee camps or in like vulnerable populations where
- 21:01Speaker 1: my job wasn't not as a journalist, but even as
- 21:05Speaker 1: like a humanitarian worker, My job was to collect their
- 21:07Speaker 1: stories m or like turn them into data and numbers.
- 21:12Speaker 1: And you know, in the same vein that journalists just
- 21:13Speaker 1: turned them into like names and words on a page,
- 21:17Speaker 1: but for them that's like their lives, like they're telling
- 21:20Speaker 1: you their worst moments and then not knowing if they'll
- 21:23Speaker 1: ever kind of see any recourse from the information they
- 21:26Speaker 1: give you, and even if it does, you know it
- 21:28Speaker 1: could take years, months, what have you. And I just
- 21:31Speaker 1: think that's like a very painful thing for them, right, Yeah, absolutely,
- 21:36Speaker 1: And um, I know a lot of cases go unreported
- 21:40Speaker 1: because there is a fear of of retaliation or just
- 21:45Speaker 1: almost like well it's going to be painful and I
- 21:49Speaker 1: don't know what else get out of it. Yeah, that's
- 21:53Speaker 1: very true. Um. And but the other part of this
- 21:55Speaker 1: is the problem with um, you know, Western medical missions
- 21:59Speaker 1: kind of issue of you know, like we show up
- 22:02Speaker 1: and then you know, the white doctors are there, and
- 22:04Speaker 1: everybody wants to get seen. And because we're going to
- 22:06Speaker 1: solve the day, and that's not the way that this
- 22:09Speaker 1: is gonna the world is going to get better. The
- 22:11Speaker 1: world is going to get better by m empowering locals
- 22:14Speaker 1: to do the work, the same work, because we are
- 22:18Speaker 1: not the you know, all powerful people. Um, We're just
- 22:22Speaker 1: the same as everybody else, right. And I just I
- 22:24Speaker 1: just want to add like one last point, like one,
- 22:27Speaker 1: I just like recalled and instance, when I was working,
- 22:30Speaker 1: uh like a refugee camp in Jordan's and this group
- 22:35Speaker 1: of I forget which newspaper they're working from, they wanted
- 22:38Speaker 1: to come in and interview the children and they were
- 22:41Speaker 1: working on like a specific topic, Like their question was
- 22:44Speaker 1: like what do you dream about? And like in sort
- 22:48Speaker 1: of organizing this and watching how the children failed to
- 22:51Speaker 1: comprehend this question because they were just like, what do
- 22:54Speaker 1: you mean what we dream about? Like we dream about
- 22:56Speaker 1: our old homes, like being at home, like we left
- 22:58Speaker 1: our houses like um. And I think that's kind of
- 23:01Speaker 1: where maybe Western media fails a little bit, is like
- 23:05Speaker 1: taking these questions that we think our audiences are would
- 23:08Speaker 1: be interested in, but are completely out of context for
- 23:11Speaker 1: the population that they're trying to interview. And I don't
- 23:14Speaker 1: know if I'm like articulating this correctly, but like that
- 23:17Speaker 1: question was like so out in left field for those refugees,
- 23:20Speaker 1: like they were like, I don't even understand what you're asking.
- 23:23Speaker 1: But for us audiences, like a Western audiences, like oh,
- 23:26Speaker 1: what do you dream about? It's like such a high consciousness,
- 23:30Speaker 1: like surreal topic that for them, you know, they can't
- 23:33Speaker 1: even get food or water, Like what does it matter
- 23:35Speaker 1: what they dream about? Yeah? I think that's perfect cook of. Yeah, well,
- 23:40Speaker 1: now you have any two questions I need to ask?
- 23:44Speaker 1: You're putting so much out here. Um. The first question
- 23:46Speaker 1: I did, I want to ask how many. Did you
- 23:48Speaker 1: have a lot of women that were willing to come forward? Um?
- 23:52Speaker 1: Wasn't easy to obtain that information because obviously they probably
- 23:56Speaker 1: all interact with again, groups of people that come, they're
- 24:00Speaker 1: trying to get an assess in or maybe try to
- 24:02Speaker 1: help or not. How often would you have pushed back
- 24:06Speaker 1: and how often would you have like a flood of
- 24:07Speaker 1: people coming in, Yes, I want to talk, I want
- 24:09Speaker 1: you to know what's happening. I think we had mostly
- 24:13Speaker 1: like floods of people who are willing to talk to us.
- 24:15Speaker 1: But I think it was more under the assumption that
- 24:17Speaker 1: we were there to do something or like fix it. Yeah, no,
- 24:21Speaker 1: I agree, and um, working with our partners Safeco, UM,
- 24:25Speaker 1: they kind of, um you know, said hey, they're coming
- 24:28Speaker 1: and they want to talk to you. And so we
- 24:29Speaker 1: would have you know, hundreds of people there in the morning,
- 24:32Speaker 1: UM that wanted to talk to us, and we're willing.
- 24:35Speaker 1: But again the problem was that we really could do
- 24:38Speaker 1: very very little for them, and some of them like
- 24:41Speaker 1: walked from nearby villages like just to be seen. Um.
- 24:44Speaker 1: And I mean we we did whole you know, like
- 24:46Speaker 1: clinical hours where like we did clinical work, like we
- 24:50Speaker 1: asked them what their ailments were and then we you know,
- 24:52Speaker 1: had sent them to our little traveling pharmacy. Um. But
- 24:56Speaker 1: you know, by and large for like this huge, large
- 25:00Speaker 1: a myth of an issue of like s GBV, Like
- 25:02Speaker 1: we really could only just talk to them, right, And
- 25:06Speaker 1: that was really sad. Yeah, and that could be especially
- 25:10Speaker 1: if you're in the medical field and you want to
- 25:11Speaker 1: fix things as well. Um. And then the other part
- 25:15Speaker 1: was as you were talking about people coming in and
- 25:18Speaker 1: this Western nice idea one of the big issues that
- 25:21Speaker 1: I've had for so long when it comes to mission
- 25:23Speaker 1: trips and we know Western civilizations saying we're gonna go
- 25:26Speaker 1: fix things. Guy, I want to go to Africa. The
- 25:28Speaker 1: whole white savior complex. How often have you been running
- 25:31Speaker 1: into that? And can you kind of speak on the
- 25:34Speaker 1: damages that can do constantly? And I think so, like
- 25:41Speaker 1: it's really sexy. I think for organizations to be like, oh,
- 25:44Speaker 1: we're gonna go for two weeks and like do this thing,
- 25:46Speaker 1: and these are our benchmarks, key performance indicators, how many
- 25:50Speaker 1: people serve, how you know, how much drug supplies we delivered.
- 25:54Speaker 1: But like there's very rarely kind of a plan for
- 25:57Speaker 1: sustainability because you know, that's a long term investment. It
- 26:00Speaker 1: requires money, it requires like investments and energy, like supplies
- 26:05Speaker 1: and stuff. It could be like years, whatever. And I
- 26:07Speaker 1: think a lot of organizations just don't have the capability
- 26:11Speaker 1: for that type of long term vision. And it's not
- 26:13Speaker 1: necessarily their fault, right Like, you know, we're volunteer organizations,
- 26:17Speaker 1: were by nature limited in the scope and our funding.
- 26:20Speaker 1: I think lacking this makes this kind of industry sort
- 26:25Speaker 1: of very myopic in its application, because when we arrived
- 26:30Speaker 1: in some of these places, they were like, oh, so
- 26:32Speaker 1: you brought us drugs, right, Like, you're here to see
- 26:35Speaker 1: our patients, so our doctors don't have to work for
- 26:37Speaker 1: the days that you're here, Like they really just expect
- 26:40Speaker 1: you to do this work for them and then they'll
- 26:42Speaker 1: just go back to life as normal, and then another
- 26:44Speaker 1: group will come do that work and then they'll go
- 26:46Speaker 1: back to life as normal. Yeah. No, I completely agree
- 26:50Speaker 1: with that on all sides, right um, Because you know,
- 26:54Speaker 1: as the Westerners going, you know, people think, oh I'm
- 26:57Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna go help for two weeks, um, but
- 27:00Speaker 1: that's really just barely aband aid, right um. And really
- 27:03Speaker 1: what needs to happen is a longer term solution. I
- 27:07Speaker 1: mean and of course, there are emergency situations two weeks
- 27:10Speaker 1: is perfect, right, like a typhoon or a hurricane or
- 27:13Speaker 1: an earthquake. You know that that's no problem. You can
- 27:16Speaker 1: do that acute care. But for the most part, you
- 27:18Speaker 1: need longer term care. And you know that's why Global
- 27:21Speaker 1: Outreach Doctors has been able to UM, you know, connect
- 27:24Speaker 1: with these thirty plus you know psych advisors from the
- 27:27Speaker 1: United States to start doing some education UM in the
- 27:31Speaker 1: Congo with the providers that have joined us as part
- 27:35Speaker 1: of our DRC group. UM. So that helps. So I think,
- 27:40Speaker 1: like what makes sort of our outlook on this Congo
- 27:43Speaker 1: mission a little bit unique is like we are trying
- 27:46Speaker 1: to implement like a much longer term plan UM and
- 27:49Speaker 1: not necessarily in terms of like sending teams over and
- 27:52Speaker 1: over again, but sort of like empowering the like the
- 27:55Speaker 1: local providers to take charge and ownership of like their
- 27:59Speaker 1: own health care system, like we've with like suffrago UM
- 28:03Speaker 1: and like our local partners have to help, you know,
- 28:05Speaker 1: nominate these community champions who could potentially apply this clinical
- 28:09Speaker 1: psychology training to their own communities and like hold workshops
- 28:13Speaker 1: for their own people instead of you know, having these
- 28:16Speaker 1: muzbu doctors come in and speak to them and then
- 28:19Speaker 1: leave for two weeks. Um. And I think sort of
- 28:22Speaker 1: if this idea could be more widely adopted by other organizations, UM,
- 28:26Speaker 1: it could really like change the face of humanitarian work. Yeah, definitely.
- 28:32Speaker 1: And UM, I mean I remember one example for me was, UM,
- 28:35Speaker 1: we were inundated with hundreds of people wanting to be seen,
- 28:38Speaker 1: and I was kind of doing my ear nurse triage
- 28:41Speaker 1: and there was one lady who was completely concerned about
- 28:44Speaker 1: UM and said, you know, she has to come next.
- 28:46Speaker 1: She just was not acting right in any way. And
- 28:49Speaker 1: I didn't really know what was going on in terms of, oh,
- 28:51Speaker 1: this was the one that fainted in the middle of
- 28:53Speaker 1: the line. No, no, no, not that lady, and this
- 28:55Speaker 1: is actually stories. Yeah. But and so I said, you know,
- 29:00Speaker 1: we have to see her next, and and all the
- 29:02Speaker 1: locals just came up to me and said, oh, no, no,
- 29:04Speaker 1: don't worry about her. She's just crazy, you know. And UM,
- 29:08Speaker 1: they kept saying, okay, yeah, she's crazy. UM, and we
- 29:12Speaker 1: I finally got I pulled her in next to be seen, right,
- 29:15Speaker 1: So she kind of slipped ahead in the line because
- 29:17Speaker 1: she definitely looked the sickest in the line. Um. And
- 29:21Speaker 1: as an ear nurse, that's what I'm used to doing,
- 29:23Speaker 1: is peaking the worst and um, you know, and and
- 29:27Speaker 1: it became quite obvious that she was schizophrenic. Um and
- 29:31Speaker 1: you know, I was having some major problems and we
- 29:32Speaker 1: don't know why because she's just not able to communicate
- 29:35Speaker 1: in that way at all at that point. Um. But
- 29:39Speaker 1: but more than getting her any help, it was the
- 29:42Speaker 1: other Congolese realizing that, like, she was a real person
- 29:46Speaker 1: and did have real problems. It wasn't just oh, she's
- 29:49Speaker 1: crazy and we can leave her there, um, and we
- 29:51Speaker 1: all get to get seen because you know, we have, um,
- 29:54Speaker 1: some other issues that you know, those are the major
- 29:57Speaker 1: issues that need to get dealt with, right. But I
- 29:59Speaker 1: mean you think about it in sort of their point
- 30:01Speaker 1: of view, like how often does a person get dismissed
- 30:04Speaker 1: for just like being a little off or like crazy,
- 30:07Speaker 1: But it's actually like maybe having like PTSD or like
- 30:11Speaker 1: some really serious underlying medical issue that they just you know,
- 30:14Speaker 1: get brushed off as like oh, she's crazy, don't worry
- 30:17Speaker 1: about her or whatever. Right. Yeah. One of the first
- 30:23Speaker 1: episodes we did together, we did a mini series on trauma.
- 30:26Speaker 1: When we first started. UM, so we've we've talked about
- 30:29Speaker 1: those kind of health those negative health outcomes that can
- 30:33Speaker 1: be associated with it. A lot of the stories I
- 30:36Speaker 1: read just seeing like things like STI is in pregnancy,
- 30:40Speaker 1: all these just things, Um, that's sort of yeah, yeah,
- 30:45Speaker 1: I mean women used to get burned for existing pretty much, right.
- 30:50Speaker 1: I Mean that was definitely one of our big conversations.
- 30:52Speaker 1: And that's. Um. I've been in social work before this world.
- 30:56Speaker 1: And one of the things that Georgia and the US
- 30:58Speaker 1: has finally started talking about is trauma based and evidence
- 31:02Speaker 1: based therapy instead of just diagnosing with random things here
- 31:06Speaker 1: and there and saying, oh, that's just their behavior, understanding
- 31:09Speaker 1: a majority of their diagnosis and their behavior is due
- 31:12Speaker 1: to trauma, and knowing that that's only starting now for
- 31:16Speaker 1: the U. S can't imagine what that looks like for
- 31:19Speaker 1: the rest of the world. Kim, do you remember that
- 31:22Speaker 1: one patient, She was like an elderly lady and she
- 31:25Speaker 1: came to us like genuinely fearing for her life because
- 31:28Speaker 1: she was like ostracized by her village because some kind
- 31:31Speaker 1: of like sexual trauma happened to her. And then I
- 31:33Speaker 1: think she had a family member dies within her village.
- 31:36Speaker 1: Like I thought she was a witch or something, and
- 31:39Speaker 1: then she was like ostracized in her tent, like people
- 31:42Speaker 1: don't approach her, um, Like sometimes they threw stones her,
- 31:45Speaker 1: like do you remember that one? And she was like
- 31:47Speaker 1: begging us, like please help us, like I can't stay
- 31:49Speaker 1: here and I'm gonna die, like they're gonna kill me.
- 31:52Speaker 1: Remember that? And I think that that's I mean, that
- 31:55Speaker 1: wasn't the only time I heard that. You know, after
- 31:57Speaker 1: some sexual based violence happens, that then you're considered you know,
- 32:02Speaker 1: um ostracized, untouchable. I mean even so much so that
- 32:07Speaker 1: the children of rape cannot go to the normal schools
- 32:11Speaker 1: you know have to um, you know, are are also ostracized.
- 32:14Speaker 1: So it's a it's a continual process. Yeah, And so
- 32:19Speaker 1: we had we had this one like super young teenage girl.
- 32:22Speaker 1: Um she was getting raped and then to the point
- 32:25Speaker 1: that she had like a rectal anal fistula um. And
- 32:29Speaker 1: she like did not speak for I think two years,
- 32:32Speaker 1: and even at like our interview, like she refused to
- 32:35Speaker 1: say anything to us, like she I think her mother
- 32:39Speaker 1: or her aunt or something like talked for her and
- 32:41Speaker 1: recounted her experience, and she was just like catatonic, like
- 32:44Speaker 1: zero aspect UM. Yeah, it was. It was really depressing. Yes, yes,
- 32:53Speaker 1: I think that we're going to backtrack a little bit
- 32:56Speaker 1: just to get all the information. But can you because
- 32:58Speaker 1: you've said it a few times and obviously it was
- 32:59Speaker 1: we were with the can you explain Global Outreach Doctors
- 33:03Speaker 1: and what it doesn't what its mission is? Sure, so
- 33:06Speaker 1: Global Outreach Doctors we are a nonprofit medical organization. UM.
- 33:12Speaker 1: We send volunteer teams of healthcare providers to you know,
- 33:17Speaker 1: like high needs, low resource areas parts of the world.
- 33:20Speaker 1: And our missions range from like healthcare augmentation to like
- 33:25Speaker 1: various responses to like assessments. Really so I can name
- 33:29Speaker 1: a few like recent ones. Obviously this Congo one, it
- 33:33Speaker 1: was a healthcare assessment. UM. We did another assessment in
- 33:38Speaker 1: the Gonder Mountain region in Ethiopia last year. UM we
- 33:42Speaker 1: also went on like supplied volunteers for there was a U. S.
- 33:47Speaker 1: Southcom Navy trip in and around the Caribbean and South
- 33:50Speaker 1: America sort of to help out with the Venezulan refugee
- 33:53Speaker 1: crisis and all the IDPs and refugees that were displaced
- 33:56Speaker 1: from that conflict. UM we've also like sent people to
- 34:00Speaker 1: a most whole in two thousand seven during the anti
- 34:02Speaker 1: isis offensive. Currently we're like working on a project to
- 34:07Speaker 1: support the Dangai fever outbreak and like the Marshall Islands.
- 34:11Speaker 1: So I mean there's a variety of missions that were
- 34:13Speaker 1: involved in and they're not always sort of like in
- 34:15Speaker 1: the same sphere um, but I think in general we're
- 34:18Speaker 1: sort of moving more towards like this long term sustainable
- 34:22Speaker 1: development like local empowerment type, whereas I think a lot
- 34:26Speaker 1: of our like pure organizations sort of are more into
- 34:30Speaker 1: like the quick in, quick out, like high speed, low
- 34:33Speaker 1: drag type of like two weeks patch, patch, patch, and
- 34:36Speaker 1: then get out type missions. And if you're interested in
- 34:39Speaker 1: more information, obviously we have a website shameless plug. It's
- 34:42Speaker 1: www dot Global Outreach Doctors dot org. Awesome normal spellings.
- 34:50Speaker 1: That's great, exactly what we need. Okay, So going back
- 35:07Speaker 1: to to this mission in the DRC, could you get
- 35:11Speaker 1: what was kind of a general just day like there
- 35:15Speaker 1: and then what data did you end up with if
- 35:19Speaker 1: you can have is there any like analysis or like
- 35:22Speaker 1: from what age to what age? How many women did
- 35:24Speaker 1: you see? Are people I can talk a little bit
- 35:27Speaker 1: more about like the day to day stuff because I
- 35:29Speaker 1: managed the legistics and then I'll kick it over to
- 35:31Speaker 1: Kim to talk about the data stuff because she was
- 35:33Speaker 1: definitely more involved with that part. Um. I wouldn't say
- 35:35Speaker 1: that we had any day in like the two weeks
- 35:38Speaker 1: in some extra days mission that were the same. Like
- 35:41Speaker 1: every day was either moving from one place to another,
- 35:43Speaker 1: We're seeing patients at this one place, We're getting ready
- 35:46Speaker 1: to go to another place. At one point, like we
- 35:48Speaker 1: had questions about our security because the area we were
- 35:51Speaker 1: going into, you know, there's been known rebel activity and
- 35:55Speaker 1: violence in that area. Um So, then we had to
- 35:57Speaker 1: take a flight in. But then it had to be
- 35:59Speaker 1: like a minuscal helicopter because like the charter flight cancel
- 36:03Speaker 1: so that our team got split. Um So, then like
- 36:06Speaker 1: the people who had flights out of Rwanda really early
- 36:08Speaker 1: went on the un helicopter, but the rest of us
- 36:11Speaker 1: were like stuck in this enemy surrounded mountain village for
- 36:15Speaker 1: like a few days with internet. I don't know if
- 36:18Speaker 1: you've ever seen like this movie called like the Tears
- 36:20Speaker 1: of the Sun, but one of my security contractor friends,
- 36:22Speaker 1: when I told him about it, he was like, Cocoa,
- 36:25Speaker 1: that's literally the plot. Like if you were there for
- 36:30Speaker 1: a few more days, and I didn't hear from you
- 36:32Speaker 1: like we would have sent several bearded men to go
- 36:35Speaker 1: rescue you guys. I mean, obviously it didn't come to that. Um.
- 36:39Speaker 1: I mean it was a beautiful place to be stranded
- 36:42Speaker 1: and like the locals treated us like family and it
- 36:44Speaker 1: was amazing every day dealing with some aspect of the
- 36:47Speaker 1: logistics of being in that part of the world. Early. Yeah,
- 36:52Speaker 1: So then UM, talking about the data, So, UM, we
- 36:56Speaker 1: did assessments in all the different hospitals are clean X
- 37:00Speaker 1: that we went to on both depression and mental health. UM.
- 37:05Speaker 1: So the the scoring systems we used for the pH
- 37:10Speaker 1: Q two UM in PHQ nine, which are both regularly
- 37:13Speaker 1: used in the United States for depression, and we also
- 37:17Speaker 1: use something called the Refugee Health Screening fifteen UM, which
- 37:20Speaker 1: has obviously been studied only for refugees and or traumatized patients.
- 37:26Speaker 1: So people would come to us and we would say,
- 37:28Speaker 1: you know, are you a refugee or do you have
- 37:30Speaker 1: some serious trauma? And if they said yes, then we
- 37:32Speaker 1: would use that RHS fifteen. If they said no, then
- 37:35Speaker 1: we would just use the PHQ two. And if the
- 37:38Speaker 1: PHQ two is positive, then you move on to the
- 37:40Speaker 1: PHQ nine. So obviously to add that like refugee is
- 37:44Speaker 1: a broad term, also like including I d p s
- 37:46Speaker 1: because a lot of these internally, these people you know,
- 37:49Speaker 1: moved around DRC because of like nearby violence and stuff
- 37:53Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, that's very sorry, continues that thinks. Um so,
- 37:56Speaker 1: but most people said yes to the been I they're
- 38:00Speaker 1: a refugee, I d P or had some severe trauma,
- 38:02Speaker 1: and so we would score them on the um RHS
- 38:05Speaker 1: fifteen and UM a hundred percent of the people that
- 38:09Speaker 1: we use that on scored positive for severe trauma. And
- 38:14Speaker 1: then the PhD. You were like at one point you
- 38:16Speaker 1: like ask you got to question for and that just
- 38:19Speaker 1: like didn't bother asking the rest of the question because
- 38:21Speaker 1: you were like, they're positive, let's move on. Yeah, very crue. Yeah,
- 38:25Speaker 1: we were so overwhelmed and so busy with so many
- 38:28Speaker 1: people that I didn't we didn't always get to every
- 38:31Speaker 1: single question because once somebody was positive had a positive
- 38:35Speaker 1: score for it, then I was just like, they're positive.
- 38:37Speaker 1: I don't care for the rest of the questions, and
- 38:39Speaker 1: we just need to get them to some assistance if
- 38:41Speaker 1: we can. UM And really, again, this was more about
- 38:44Speaker 1: teaching the local providers, UM, that these are important questions
- 38:48Speaker 1: to ask on every single patient because you don't know
- 38:52Speaker 1: if the lady who shows up with belly paine is
- 38:54Speaker 1: really there because she has um some mental health issue um,
- 38:59Speaker 1: rather than just you know, giving her some medicine for
- 39:01Speaker 1: her supposed belly paint and sending her on her way. UM.
- 39:04Speaker 1: So that was I think the big learning experience. And
- 39:08Speaker 1: for me, sitting with local nurses and teaching them how
- 39:11Speaker 1: to ask these questions appropriately and realizing why it was
- 39:15Speaker 1: important was really the highlight. You know, getting to know
- 39:17Speaker 1: these nurses and getting them to understand that this is
- 39:20Speaker 1: important to their community and how they can help their community. Yeah.
- 39:25Speaker 1: And I think so we also did like gendered focus
- 39:28Speaker 1: groups um. And obviously we had larger groups of women
- 39:30Speaker 1: who are involved with these focused groups and like the
- 39:32Speaker 1: men's groups, but like even being able to explain to them,
- 39:36Speaker 1: like you know, in like in a safe like crowd setting,
- 39:39Speaker 1: that like, not all of your symptoms are because you're sick,
- 39:42Speaker 1: like you're you could be like semantic sizing your psychological issues.
- 39:46Speaker 1: And I think a lot of that a lot of
- 39:47Speaker 1: them just didn't know that that was a thing. So
- 39:51Speaker 1: you know, you might not have headaches because you have
- 39:53Speaker 1: a brain tumor or something. You could be having headaches
- 39:55Speaker 1: just because you have psychological trauma and it's manifesting as
- 39:59Speaker 1: this physical issue. You right, what was the age range
- 40:04Speaker 1: of people you saw right right wide? Yeah, I mean,
- 40:08Speaker 1: you know, I would say it was the entire range.
- 40:11Speaker 1: I mean in terms of STBV. Obviously, the babies weren't,
- 40:15Speaker 1: you know, nobody mentioned that, although I think we had
- 40:17Speaker 1: four year olds or stuff with STBV, but we just
- 40:20Speaker 1: certainly saw you know, babies with malnutrition and malaria and
- 40:24Speaker 1: other things. But then all the way to as old
- 40:27Speaker 1: as as possible, I mean, like definitely post menopausal age um.
- 40:33Speaker 1: And like they you know, whatever age range, like they
- 40:36Speaker 1: had legit questions, Like there were elderly ladies who asked
- 40:40Speaker 1: us questions about like what to do about certain sexual situations,
- 40:45Speaker 1: like just as like the young ones do um, and
- 40:47Speaker 1: you know, mothers who were asking like what should I
- 40:49Speaker 1: do for my six year old daughter who was a
- 40:51Speaker 1: getting rape? Like so and and one lady so like,
- 40:54Speaker 1: she didn't ask this to me, she asked my colleague.
- 40:56Speaker 1: So like her question was so like, well, can you
- 41:00Speaker 1: what advice can you give us you know, as a
- 41:03Speaker 1: Congolese woman in this environment, like what can I do?
- 41:07Speaker 1: And so our colleague answered this question and I wasn't there,
- 41:11Speaker 1: but maybe you were like she handled it very well,
- 41:13Speaker 1: because I definitely I would not have had any idea
- 41:16Speaker 1: what to say. Um, but she was like, you know,
- 41:19Speaker 1: I know your situation looks really bleak, but it's important
- 41:22Speaker 1: to have this kind of solidarity, feel open with each
- 41:25Speaker 1: other and support each other. I can't like replicate her
- 41:29Speaker 1: super eloquent answer, but it was just like a lot
- 41:33Speaker 1: of those types of questions that made you turn your
- 41:37Speaker 1: head a little bit and do a double take on yourself.
- 41:40Speaker 1: Hm hm yeah. And I sort of going off of that,
- 41:46Speaker 1: I m a lot of news media called the DRC,
- 41:50Speaker 1: like you know, the rap capital of the world or
- 41:52Speaker 1: the most dangerous place for a woman, And I did
- 41:56Speaker 1: read a lot of articles from written by Congolese women.
- 41:59Speaker 1: You were saying like, yes, the situation is really bad,
- 42:02Speaker 1: but there's also a lot of sisterhood and solidarity and
- 42:05Speaker 1: strength here and resilience. Do you have one of like
- 42:09Speaker 1: the enlightening, eye opening things I think we encounter was
- 42:13Speaker 1: how many kind of like just informal women's support groups
- 42:17Speaker 1: there were right, because like one of the questions we
- 42:19Speaker 1: asked on these like interviews was like, um, so, what
- 42:22Speaker 1: are some activities that you do to kind of like
- 42:25Speaker 1: seek support? And I think most of them said that
- 42:29Speaker 1: there's some kind of like a local community like women's
- 42:33Speaker 1: group that they go to. But obviously the issue is
- 42:36Speaker 1: like that if there was a leader for these groups
- 42:38Speaker 1: you or they're not really trained in clinical psychology, they
- 42:40Speaker 1: might not be giving out appropriate advice. But I mean
- 42:43Speaker 1: there was like what I felt was like this hunger
- 42:46Speaker 1: for like something better or like something to improve the
- 42:51Speaker 1: current situation with within this like gender meeting group, support
- 42:55Speaker 1: group thing. Would you agree with him? Yeah, definitely, Um yeah,
- 42:59Speaker 1: there seemed to be a lot um you know, and
- 43:01Speaker 1: I don't think that there has to be some really
- 43:03Speaker 1: specific training. I think, you know, just sometimes you know,
- 43:05Speaker 1: sitting down and and listening to each other is all
- 43:08Speaker 1: that's really needed, and and having that ability to say, hey,
- 43:12Speaker 1: I have had these problems. But the problem with that
- 43:15Speaker 1: in the congo, what I was told was that then
- 43:18Speaker 1: you know, then you become a victim for you know,
- 43:21Speaker 1: more violence because you have ostracized yourself of you know,
- 43:24Speaker 1: talk with other women sort of thing. So that's actually
- 43:28Speaker 1: I can't remember which religion was, but like someone was
- 43:30Speaker 1: telling us how, um, she was being targeted because she
- 43:34Speaker 1: was like championing this effort and then that was kind
- 43:37Speaker 1: of like a target on her back because she was
- 43:38Speaker 1: sort of sticking her neck out on behalf of these
- 43:41Speaker 1: other women. Right. Well, we even had that one woman
- 43:43Speaker 1: who had been just attacked and michett ied um uh
- 43:47Speaker 1: just you know, in the last week because she was
- 43:50Speaker 1: a champion for it. Yeah. Um. But the other part
- 43:53Speaker 1: of that I also want to mention is, I mean, although,
- 43:56Speaker 1: you know, going back to the Western media kind of question, is,
- 44:00Speaker 1: although it's important to discuss all these things and realize
- 44:03Speaker 1: that this is happening in the world, I think it's
- 44:05Speaker 1: also important to discuss how beautiful and great the Congo is.
- 44:11Speaker 1: I loved it there. Um. Recently I was asked where
- 44:14Speaker 1: is my favorite place in the world, and I said
- 44:16Speaker 1: bukabu um which is in South Kivu, Congo. Um. I
- 44:20Speaker 1: really really enjoyed the country. It was beautiful, that people
- 44:23Speaker 1: were amazing, and so you know, I think we need
- 44:26Speaker 1: to also realize that good things happen in these places. Um.
- 44:31Speaker 1: It's just not all the trauma and badness, and I
- 44:33Speaker 1: think some of the stuff is forgotten. Yeah. So actually
- 44:37Speaker 1: two things I want to add to that where I
- 44:39Speaker 1: think back to your question about where media fails. I
- 44:41Speaker 1: think we're so eager to highlight all of these like
- 44:43Speaker 1: negative problems and paint this like shocking picture almost kind
- 44:47Speaker 1: of you know, like people stopping on the side of
- 44:49Speaker 1: the road to stare at this grotesque accident. But like,
- 44:53Speaker 1: I don't think we do enough to sort of highlight
- 44:55Speaker 1: all these amazing initiatives that are coming out of this place,
- 44:58Speaker 1: like telling stories of these champions who are like willingly
- 45:02Speaker 1: making themselves a target in order to stand up for
- 45:04Speaker 1: their sisters, or you know, these amazing women in these
- 45:07Speaker 1: communities who are empowering like the local girls to do
- 45:12Speaker 1: this thing, or you know, like being the person that
- 45:15Speaker 1: they can go to, or like providing housing and like
- 45:18Speaker 1: a safe place for other women to speak up. I
- 45:20Speaker 1: don't think we do enough to highlight those stories. And
- 45:23Speaker 1: then the second thing is I'm going to make a
- 45:24Speaker 1: shameless plug for tourism because I got to go to
- 45:29Speaker 1: Arunga Park um the companies Viega Park and also as
- 45:33Speaker 1: part of the Arunga Park trip, I got to hike
- 45:35Speaker 1: Narago Volcano, which is the largest persistent lava lake volcano
- 45:39Speaker 1: in the world. Um and I have been to a
- 45:43Speaker 1: lot of African countries and I have never experienced amazing
- 45:47Speaker 1: hospitality at the level that I experienced it when I
- 45:50Speaker 1: did my Arunga trip. Like the tourism industry there is
- 45:55Speaker 1: really really starving for tourists and for obvious reasons, you know,
- 45:58Speaker 1: the violence, like the people people. They know that people
- 46:00Speaker 1: don't want to go there. So when they have tourists
- 46:03Speaker 1: who you know, are I guess crazy, you're brave enough
- 46:06Speaker 1: to visit there, they're like they express their gratitude in
- 46:10Speaker 1: such a genuine, almost heartbreaking way that like I don't know,
- 46:15Speaker 1: like I bought a stuffed guerrilla even though I like
- 46:18Speaker 1: rarely buy souvenirs, I bought the stuff guerrilla just because
- 46:22Speaker 1: it supports like the local community there, because like the
- 46:25Speaker 1: women there, they make it and they you know, the
- 46:27Speaker 1: money goes back to the rangers who protect the guerrillas
- 46:29Speaker 1: and stuff. So it's you know, your audience, whoever is listening, Like,
- 46:35Speaker 1: visit Congo. It's perfectly safe. You will have an amazing trip,
- 46:38Speaker 1: and the hospitality there is amazing, and you will not
- 46:42Speaker 1: regret it. Like literally I was within feet distance of
- 46:46Speaker 1: the guerrillas and it was like a spectacular experience. And sorry,
- 46:53Speaker 1: I forgot that it is much cheaper to do this
- 46:57Speaker 1: like guerrilla trek uh in Congo than Rwanda, for example.
- 47:02Speaker 1: So like my entire four day itinerary for the Ruina
- 47:06Speaker 1: Park and the New York and Volcano costs maybe, whereas
- 47:09Speaker 1: in Rwanda just the permit, the trekking permit itself costs,
- 47:14Speaker 1: not including accommodations all that. So it is very like
- 47:19Speaker 1: cost like your value for money, you definitely get more
- 47:23Speaker 1: bang for your buck if you do this in Congo.
- 47:26Speaker 1: All right, there we go side notes, So yeah, I
- 47:29Speaker 1: love this. We got too shameless plugs. And then off
- 47:34Speaker 1: of that, what else can listeners do UM if they're
- 47:39Speaker 1: interested in in helping out in any way supporting anyway
- 47:44Speaker 1: UM the situation and dear c well, I mean certainly
- 47:48Speaker 1: go docs always needs UM support, so both UM tears
- 47:54Speaker 1: and from so financial support. So you're welcome to visit
- 47:57Speaker 1: our website again, will Lota doctors dot org UM doesn't
- 48:02Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be It doesn't have to be us,
- 48:04Speaker 1: you know, like if you're passionate about a particular issue
- 48:07Speaker 1: like there, I'm sure there's no shortage organizations that are
- 48:10Speaker 1: working on that issue. UM. I would say, like, do
- 48:12Speaker 1: your research. I always try to support like sort of
- 48:15Speaker 1: more grassroots local organizations than like large international ones like
- 48:19Speaker 1: I c r C or Red Cross, just because like
- 48:22Speaker 1: I want my money to go where I wanted to go,
- 48:24Speaker 1: as opposed to like overhead UM. And if you can
- 48:27Speaker 1: find if you do your research in a particular area
- 48:31Speaker 1: or issue that you're interested in, you find an organization
- 48:33Speaker 1: that works, and you know, I would just reach out
- 48:35Speaker 1: to them. Maybe you are you maybe you run a
- 48:39Speaker 1: podcast that could highlight some of these issues. If you
- 48:44Speaker 1: have deep pockets, you know, like you know, money goes
- 48:47Speaker 1: a long way in parts of the world like that.
- 48:49Speaker 1: And also if you have skills and will like to volunteer,
- 48:52Speaker 1: you know, like go Dogs and some of the other
- 48:54Speaker 1: organizations that work with We're aways looking for like volunteers
- 48:57Speaker 1: who can come on and join us on these trips. UM.
- 49:00Speaker 1: So there's there's definitely an abundance of ways to get involved. Yeah,
- 49:06Speaker 1: And it's just important to realize what's important to you
- 49:08Speaker 1: and how you want to use your time and resources
- 49:11Speaker 1: UM In terms of you know, do you want to
- 49:13Speaker 1: work on saving grillas to you know, want that help
- 49:17Speaker 1: with STBV. I mean there's thousands and thousands of different
- 49:20Speaker 1: groups out there who each help in their own little
- 49:23Speaker 1: teeny way. Yeah. And also I think just like keeping
- 49:27Speaker 1: the conversation alive goes a long way too. As a society.
- 49:31Speaker 1: There are certain topics that we kind of shy away
- 49:34Speaker 1: from talking about just because it makes people uncomfortable or whatever.
- 49:38Speaker 1: Sometimes when I mentioned instances of like sexual assault that
- 49:41Speaker 1: happened to me, like a lot of my guy friends
- 49:43Speaker 1: are like, what that happens? And it's like, yes, I'm
- 49:47Speaker 1: a woman, um, but like, you know, keeping that topic alive,
- 49:52Speaker 1: like bringing awareness to it, not just as people who
- 49:55Speaker 1: live in the West, but like, you know, did you
- 49:57Speaker 1: know that in Congo blah blah blah happens or in
- 50:00Speaker 1: this other part of the world blah blah blah happens.
- 50:02Speaker 1: I'm like, what are we doing about it? You know,
- 50:04Speaker 1: if if you keep it in someone's you know, like
- 50:07Speaker 1: the back of someone's mind, like and they happen to
- 50:10Speaker 1: be in a position where they can do something like
- 50:12Speaker 1: influence policy in any way, you really never know when
- 50:15Speaker 1: some of these topics and connections may come in handy. Yeah,
- 50:19Speaker 1: I mean, and another part that reminded me is um
- 50:22Speaker 1: eve in slur with the vagina monologues came out of
- 50:26Speaker 1: the drc UM. That's where she originally worked with Dr mccoige. So,
- 50:30Speaker 1: I mean even that has standard the conversation a little
- 50:33Speaker 1: bit awesome. Yeah. So one of the things we we ask,
- 50:40Speaker 1: as you've been sharing with what you do, I can
- 50:44Speaker 1: see I would say it's very stressful. It can be
- 50:46Speaker 1: very stressful over apps. What are things you do to
- 50:50Speaker 1: take care of yourselves? Actually, so I'm not very good
- 50:56Speaker 1: at this. My strategy for coping is just to myself
- 51:01Speaker 1: as busy as possible to the point where I don't
- 51:03Speaker 1: have any time to dwell. Um. So, like I finished
- 51:07Speaker 1: my contracting Afghanistan a few weeks ago, and since then
- 51:10Speaker 1: I've just been on the road NonStop, and in fact,
- 51:13Speaker 1: I'm calling you from Moldova right now. Appreciate that. Yeah,
- 51:17Speaker 1: And the day after tomorrow I'll be doing the medical
- 51:20Speaker 1: like a polar medical or anything in Norway, and then
- 51:23Speaker 1: I'll go back to the U S. And then literally
- 51:24Speaker 1: the day after I get back, I go straight to work.
- 51:28Speaker 1: So my strategy which personally works for me, but I
- 51:31Speaker 1: can't prescribe to anyone else. Is that I keep myself
- 51:33Speaker 1: literally so busy that I don't have any time to
- 51:36Speaker 1: dwell at anything else. Yeah, um, And I mean I
- 51:39Speaker 1: think this is a huge problem, um, you know with
- 51:43Speaker 1: medical professionals, even in the United States, even that don't
- 51:46Speaker 1: you know, adventure to any other place. And so I
- 51:49Speaker 1: think that's another huge topic that needs to be discussed,
- 51:54Speaker 1: you know, because I don't think we do a very
- 51:55Speaker 1: good job as a culture. UM. I certainly spent twenty
- 51:58Speaker 1: years in them are jency room and reached a burnout
- 52:02Speaker 1: phase and um and had to leave bedside nursing for
- 52:06Speaker 1: a while because of that problem. So, you know, recognizing
- 52:09Speaker 1: that it is a real thing, that it affects everybody. Um.
- 52:13Speaker 1: And it may not hit you on the call or
- 52:16Speaker 1: the situation or the mission that you think it's going to,
- 52:18Speaker 1: but you know something else it's going to hit you then, UM.
- 52:21Speaker 1: So recognizing it and just as we suggested with you know,
- 52:25Speaker 1: the women in the DRC seking, I think it's important
- 52:28Speaker 1: for us to talk that it happens to everyone. And
- 52:32Speaker 1: absolutely I think so you know, we should normalize conversation
- 52:37Speaker 1: about these types of issues, like people are not comfortable
- 52:40Speaker 1: talking about the state of their mental health because they're like, oh,
- 52:43Speaker 1: if I mentioned that I'm having, you know, feeling down
- 52:46Speaker 1: or suicide whatever, Like are my friends going to call
- 52:48Speaker 1: the cops enough or whatever? Because I've definitely had that
- 52:51Speaker 1: happened to my friends, and I've even had it happened
- 52:53Speaker 1: to me, you know. But like, I think we should
- 52:56Speaker 1: be more open about talking about these things, and we
- 52:58Speaker 1: shouldn't sort of like assume everyone who talks about it
- 53:03Speaker 1: is in some kind of dire emergency state. Maybe they
- 53:06Speaker 1: just want someone to vent to, Maybe they just needed
- 53:09Speaker 1: to get this off their trust, and if you just
- 53:10Speaker 1: listen to them, I was like, yeah, dude, like that
- 53:12Speaker 1: freaking sucks. No, I mean that makes perfect sense, because
- 53:15Speaker 1: you know, I know that I walked into the er
- 53:17Speaker 1: one day to work and um was crying hysterically and
- 53:21Speaker 1: told a friend, you know, I want to kill myself
- 53:24Speaker 1: right now. Um. And so then of course it became
- 53:26Speaker 1: a huge issue, and as she said, you know, police
- 53:29Speaker 1: and all that were involved, and it was just I
- 53:32Speaker 1: was burnt out and could no longer watch the parade
- 53:36Speaker 1: of car accidents and guns shooting victims come in the
- 53:39Speaker 1: door anylong. I actually so like I joke about sort
- 53:44Speaker 1: of maybe like some people consider morbid, but like I
- 53:47Speaker 1: joke about sort of morbid topics a lot. Like I
- 53:49Speaker 1: recently made a post that was like, does anyone get
- 53:51Speaker 1: this feeling where it's like, I'm not trying to actively
- 53:55Speaker 1: kill myself, but like if I walked on a grenade
- 53:58Speaker 1: or you know, if I stepped on a landline or
- 54:00Speaker 1: grenade landed in my lab, I wouldn't exactly be mad. Um.
- 54:03Speaker 1: And like a ton of people actually like message me privately,
- 54:05Speaker 1: I was like, dude, yeah, I know exactly how you feel.
- 54:08Speaker 1: And I think so many of us. It's not that
- 54:11Speaker 1: we're necessarily just like suicidal, but we have these kind
- 54:15Speaker 1: of self destructive, realistic feelings and we have no outlet
- 54:18Speaker 1: for it because we're so afraid of being ousted. Do
- 54:22Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, I completely agree. Yeah,
- 54:27Speaker 1: We've talked about that many, many, many times in this
- 54:29Speaker 1: show Burnout and especially especially in the medical profession. Yeah.
- 54:35Speaker 1: So yeah, normalizing it it's definitely something we should be
- 54:39Speaker 1: doing and hopefully moving that way. Okay, so what are
- 54:43Speaker 1: now that you've done this assessment mission? What are the
- 54:48Speaker 1: next steps what happens now. So now we have UM
- 54:51Speaker 1: the thirty plus advisor groups that are medical professionals mostly
- 54:56Speaker 1: psychiatrists from you know, places like Harvard, Columbia, Mountain, I
- 55:00Speaker 1: and I UM at their prestigious universities and medical centers
- 55:04Speaker 1: that are doing telehealth education providers in the DRC to
- 55:09Speaker 1: help them learn how to address some issues. We're trying
- 55:13Speaker 1: to gather a supply of medicines to provide them also,
- 55:16Speaker 1: but that's you know, a little bit harder, but at
- 55:19Speaker 1: least teaching them how to assess, um diagnose and then
- 55:24Speaker 1: treat people at a very basic level. Yeah, I think
- 55:28Speaker 1: so our long term goal with this project is to
- 55:33Speaker 1: sort of like be able to build up the local
- 55:35Speaker 1: indigenous capacity, like help them help themselves, like teach the
- 55:38Speaker 1: trainer or train the trainer initiatives if you will, UM,
- 55:41Speaker 1: And with these like weeklier monthly engagements, hopefully we can
- 55:45Speaker 1: build up the capacity and then those people can take
- 55:48Speaker 1: their training to other communities and be able to deliver
- 55:52Speaker 1: that information there. And you know, it is a bit
- 55:55Speaker 1: of a lofty goal UM in a place like Congo,
- 55:58Speaker 1: but we're i think pretty optimistic about it. And you know,
- 56:02Speaker 1: of course there's always the potential for future teams to go,
- 56:06Speaker 1: particularly like working in clinical psychology, like a little more
- 56:09Speaker 1: on hands training, like bringing up these community champions um
- 56:14Speaker 1: and giving them not only like the in person tools
- 56:17Speaker 1: that they need, but maybe also sort of like some
- 56:19Speaker 1: of the clinical knowledge like prescriptions or like pharmacology and
- 56:23Speaker 1: stuff like that. That brings us to the end of
- 56:26Speaker 1: our interview. But we do have a little bit more
- 56:28Speaker 1: for you listeners, but first we have one more break
- 56:31Speaker 1: for a word from our sponsor, and we're back. Thank
- 56:46Speaker 1: you sponsor. And we did want to end on some
- 56:48Speaker 1: positive things on the horizon for the d r C
- 56:51Speaker 1: that will hopefully improve the sex and gender based violence
- 56:55Speaker 1: going on there. One thing is getting more women in
- 56:58Speaker 1: positions of power. To that end, in a group of
- 57:01Speaker 1: NGOs and their local partners formed a movement called Nothing
- 57:04Speaker 1: Without the Women to advocate for the Parity Act to
- 57:07Speaker 1: get more women involved in all aspects of public life,
- 57:10Speaker 1: although it did not come with specifics, and to push
- 57:13Speaker 1: for a law that required at least one woman be
- 57:16Speaker 1: listed on electoral ballots or the ballot cannot be registered.
- 57:20Speaker 1: They received over two hundred thousand signatures after a march
- 57:23Speaker 1: that drew more than six thousand people. The Parody Act
- 57:26Speaker 1: was signed that same year, which is awesome. So just
- 57:29Speaker 1: a little history of the Congolese women and politics. So Congress,
- 57:33Speaker 1: women are not effectively represented and have never really participated
- 57:37Speaker 1: in the governance of the countries ninety which is the
- 57:39Speaker 1: year of the independence of the country. No woman has
- 57:42Speaker 1: ever been head of State or head of government slash
- 57:44Speaker 1: Prime minister, which neither have they in the US. So
- 57:48Speaker 1: there's that um And there are a lot of reasons
- 57:50Speaker 1: behind the lack of participation from women, including the mere
- 57:53Speaker 1: family responsibility and sometimes the general fear in running for leadership.
- 57:57Speaker 1: Although women constituted six a DRC electorate, the current overall
- 58:02Speaker 1: representation of women is only seven point two percent in
- 58:04Speaker 1: the high positions of recently established institutions Parliament as well
- 58:08Speaker 1: as in the government. The DRC, Government, National Assembly and
- 58:12Speaker 1: major institutions are all essentially run by men. Ironically, several
- 58:16Speaker 1: of the organizations that are for women and support women
- 58:18Speaker 1: are largely run by men as well, and according to sources,
- 58:21Speaker 1: right now, there's no woman member of the Office of
- 58:23Speaker 1: the Senate and there's only one woman among the seven
- 58:26Speaker 1: members of the Office of the National Assembly. Out of
- 58:28Speaker 1: the eight senators are only six women. There are forty
- 58:32Speaker 1: three elected women out of five hundred elected members of
- 58:35Speaker 1: the DRC National Assembly. Out of the forty five members
- 58:38Speaker 1: of the government, there are only five women, of which
- 58:40Speaker 1: four ministers and one vice minister, and there's no woman
- 58:44Speaker 1: governor or vice governor of the eleven current provinces of
- 58:47Speaker 1: the Republic. Getting more women in politics is really important
- 58:50Speaker 1: for several reasons. Several things we touched on, one being
- 58:54Speaker 1: finding from the International Peace Institute that when women are
- 58:57Speaker 1: included in peace talks the chance of lasting peace goes
- 59:00Speaker 1: up by thirty and also having women's spearhead these movements
- 59:06Speaker 1: or laws around women's issues just kind of makes sense,
- 59:12Speaker 1: right And as we know as we were having the
- 59:14Speaker 1: interview with both Kim and Coco, there are women that
- 59:17Speaker 1: are gathering together and it's incredible what you can see
- 59:21Speaker 1: when women gather together. So hopefully we'll see even bigger progress. Shoot,
- 59:25Speaker 1: they might exceed us on the levels absolutely, and we
- 59:29Speaker 1: wanted to end on this quote from Justine Massica Biamba
- 59:34Speaker 1: from The Guardian, we do not see ourselves as the
- 59:38Speaker 1: capital of the world. Instead, I agree with Liberia's noble
- 59:41Speaker 1: Prize Laureate Lima Wilbe, who called my nation the world
- 59:46Speaker 1: capital of sisterhood and solidarity. Congolese women have decided to
- 59:50Speaker 1: take our future into our hands. We have few resources,
- 59:52Speaker 1: but we have an enormous amount of No how it
- 59:55Speaker 1: really does seem like they do, just in the conversations
- 59:58Speaker 1: and the glowing law of the Coco income had for
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: that community. That sounds a powerful, powerful group of women,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: very much so, and it was so worthwhile to to
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: have this conversation. We would love to have further conversations. UM.
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: I know frequently we focus on the United States because
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: we're based in the United States, but we don't want
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: to be limited in that scope. So yes emails send
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: us suggestions of what issues around the world we should
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: be talking about, and you can send those to our
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: email at Stuff Media, Mom Stuff at iHeart meia dot com.
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