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Nothing more tangled than other people's Love Triangles and Scandals · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Ja and Rich. Hi Karina, Hi, thanks for holding. What's
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  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm calling in because I've been dating this guy
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  Speaker 2: like he's my boyfriend for two months now, but god,
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  Speaker 2: the situation is honestly just a total disaster. The thing is,
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  Speaker 2: my boyfriend lives in a serious, like five year relationship
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  Speaker 2: right before me and this girl. His ex is actually
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  Speaker 2: a close friend of my best friend, and everyone in
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  Speaker 2: their group knows that that relationship ended because he's a
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  Speaker 2: massive cheater, right and my best friend she keeps like
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  Speaker 2: cornering me. She's like trying to protect me and like
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  Speaker 2: warn me against him, and you know, going on all
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  Speaker 2: those you know, those best friend rans Like he's a
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  Speaker 2: total villain. He treats one like garbage. I want better
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  Speaker 2: for you. The problem is she doesn't know I'm the
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  Speaker 2: girl he cheated with.
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  Speaker 3: Twist.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I feel like I'm just living a double
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  Speaker 2: life right now. And you know, like if my best
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  Speaker 2: friend ever finds out that I was the other woman,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm gonna lose her and that whole
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  Speaker 2: group of friends since I know they were together and
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  Speaker 2: I still did it. But it's not like he's she
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  Speaker 2: did like before or like in general. It's just like
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  Speaker 2: I really think, like, you know, we both are like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: this is the one, Like it was like worth potentially
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  Speaker 2: destroying our lives. But now I'm just like I just
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  Speaker 2: don't know how long I can just take this.
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  Speaker 4: Let me, let me resay, let me resay. Can you
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  Speaker 4: guys explain it? She's the guy she's dating. What's the
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  Speaker 4: connection her?
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  Speaker 5: His ex girlfriend is friends, it's her best friend, and
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  Speaker 5: she's such a.
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  Speaker 4: Cheating Okay, then you just go, I think you just go, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: he's good to me.
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  Speaker 1: I can't tell if he'scheating.
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  Speaker 5: Well, and then you also have to like give a
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  Speaker 5: heads up to your boyfriend, like you better not ever
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  Speaker 5: say anything that I was the one.
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  Speaker 1: Did you know when you were when you were cheating
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  Speaker 1: with him that he had a girlfriend? Yes, I look
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  Speaker 1: at you.
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  Speaker 2: He told me about it.
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  Speaker 1: So he told you he was in a relationship and
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  Speaker 1: you were okay being the other woman.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. But also like once I put it together, you know,
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  Speaker 2: like on Instagram and stuff, like I knew you looked,
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  Speaker 2: you know, familiar before I met and met him.
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  Speaker 4: But he wasn't lying to you. You got into the
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  Speaker 4: relationship knowing he was in another relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we just had that instant connection, and.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, it reminds me of the hit TV show Scandal
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  Speaker 4: with Olivia Pope. She knew the president was married and
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  Speaker 4: she was the president's mistress for years.
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  Speaker 1: But she's But no, Korea, I watched it.
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  Speaker 4: You're living it. Unless your boyfriend, your boyfriend becomes the
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  Speaker 4: president of United States, you're living in it.
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  Speaker 6: He has a good job, But it's not like that,
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  Speaker 6: like Karina, do you ever feel though sense your boy
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  Speaker 6: like they always say, like how you get them is
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  Speaker 6: how you lose them. Do you ever feel like like
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  Speaker 6: worried that maybe he'll he will step out on you
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  Speaker 6: because he's done it before.
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  Speaker 4: No, not at all.
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  Speaker 2: That's why we had all of the commonsas you know,
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  Speaker 2: That's why I made sure like to breakface this. It's
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  Speaker 2: like you guys, like, it's not like he is like this.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like one of those like our situations. You know.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't like Leeann Rhyme's and somebody where they got
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  Speaker 2: divorced and then they marry each other's exits and then
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  Speaker 2: they all left happiaver afterna happen again.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I wonder if this is one of
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  Speaker 3: those things that you try to take to the grave
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  Speaker 3: with you, because you'll be much happier if it doesn't
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  Speaker 3: get out.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I just want my friend to let it go already.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, keep it to the grave.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you might as right. It might not blow
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  Speaker 3: up in your face, and you might as well just
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  Speaker 3: ride it out until it does.
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  Speaker 4: There's a lot of relationships to start off like that.
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  Speaker 4: And now everyone's happening. Have a great day. Thanks for
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  Speaker 4: calling in.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks guys, Hayden, what's up man, you're on the air.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: So I see a part of this friend group in
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  Speaker 7: college that kind of intermingled a lot, if you know
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  Speaker 7: what I mean, and we all kind of sort of
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  Speaker 7: hooked up with each other, but there was always like
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  Speaker 7: one or two strong couples.
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  Speaker 1: So that's forward.
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  Speaker 7: One of those strong couples was getting married, and you know,
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  Speaker 7: there's super solid. We were at the reception. I'm just
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  Speaker 7: sitting at my table, people watching, and I look over
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  Speaker 7: at the dance floor and I see the happy couple dancing,
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  Speaker 7: and all teems a while until I noticed the groom
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  Speaker 7: kind of looking over one of our other female friends
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  Speaker 7: who was dancing with another one of our guy friends,
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  Speaker 7: and it felt like they were kind of longly looking
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  Speaker 7: at each other, and I don't think too much of it. Recently,
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  Speaker 7: I just saw that the couple announced at the separating
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  Speaker 7: and I haven't seen the groom and that girl who's
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  Speaker 7: looking at in the same city a bit often, so
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  Speaker 7: I'm starting to wonder what's going on.
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  Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, that shay that actually kind of reminds me.
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  Speaker 8: So I saw the weird saying. I on the side,
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  Speaker 8: I like work for a photo booth company and we
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  Speaker 8: like I like help without weddings and stuff. And one
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  Speaker 8: of the weddings that I did, the groom actually was
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  Speaker 8: an NBA player and the new wife was in the
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  Speaker 8: photo booth with everyone, and she took one with the
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  Speaker 8: best man and they like turned towards each other and
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  Speaker 8: they like kissed, and I saw it. I took the
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  Speaker 8: picture and I was like, that was weird, like that
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  Speaker 8: was us, and they both like got super shady for
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  Speaker 8: the rest of the night, they wouldn't talk to each other.
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  Speaker 8: I was like, they've definitely hooked up.
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  Speaker 3: I was like one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: They popped up well how like a like a peck
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  Speaker 1: or like it was like.
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  Speaker 8: No, like they were so drunk and they kissed, and
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  Speaker 8: I was like, and I remember I texted kiddim.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, photographic evidence. I was like, I literally
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  Speaker 1: just took this picture.
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  Speaker 3: Was so awkward, and so you wouldn't be okay with
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  Speaker 3: that if that was No.
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  Speaker 4: My wife has a friend group, a friend group adjacent,
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  Speaker 4: if you will, and in that friend group is also
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  Speaker 4: an NBA player, and the same thing happened, except they're
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  Speaker 4: at a bar and the one guy. One guy wasn't
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  Speaker 4: drinking and he caught two of the people from the
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  Speaker 4: friend group, the NBA player's wife, and a thing, a glance,
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  Speaker 4: and all hell broke loose and it turned out there
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  Speaker 4: was they've been having an affair forever. Oh those people
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  Speaker 4: got divorced, and the people from other friend group.
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  Speaker 1: It turned into the thing.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I don't like to have friends.
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  Speaker 3: Just one look. And if that guy had been drinking
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  Speaker 3: and buzz he probably would have missed the whole thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but he was sober and caught the glance.
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  Speaker 8: M I feel like it happens more often than we
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  Speaker 8: probably like to let ourselves thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're probably right, Hayden.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, probably that was the reason of the demise of
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  Speaker 5: that relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you hanging out now too, so you were you
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  Speaker 3: were right.
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  Speaker 1: He's got a story that he finds odd.
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  Speaker 4: But yet Peyton has a story like that, and I
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  Speaker 4: have a story that odd.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Thanks dude, thanks for calling in a good day.
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  Speaker 1: I want to get into Peyton saying how you get
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  Speaker 1: him is how you lose them.
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  Speaker 4: I think that only works really whenever there's cheating involved,
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  Speaker 4: because if you're like, yeah, I met him at the
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  Speaker 4: grocery store.
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  Speaker 1: Five years later for the groc store, I can't find him. No,
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  Speaker 1: it's totally like it only works for cheating.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, but that's like literally what they say. When it's
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  Speaker 8: like you're looking at the mistress, They're like, you better
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  Speaker 8: watch your back because that's going to be your karm mind.
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  Speaker 4: It only works for cheating. It doesn't when you say,
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  Speaker 4: how you got him is how you lose them. No,
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  Speaker 4: it's not. I was in school when I met her
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  Speaker 4: at school wor out, I don't know the campus, can't
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  Speaker 4: find her doesn't make sense now she's dating somebody else