Ransom Kong: What’s Really Hiding Beneath a Man’s Anger?

Hidden Secrets in Books · Sep 3, 2026 · 28m

For 27 years, Ransom Kong has sat across from men who were court-mandated to confront anger, violence, and the consequences of their actions. Some arrived angry, defensive, and in denial. But beneath the anger, Ransom repeatedly discovered something deeper: men who were hurting, exhausted, disconnected, and still capable of love.

As a former perpetrator who broke his own cycle, Ransom brings a deeply personal perspective to the work. His journey led him to develop Purpose Over Pain, a platform helping men understand the emotions underneath their anger and develop greater emotional fluency.

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