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Molly-Mae’s Break Up Sparks TikTok Fury · Outspoken the Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken, it's your dose of the
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  Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm
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  Speaker 1: Sophie Torber and coming up on today's show, Sophie Keisha
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  Speaker 1: addresses speculation about her sperm donor, Indy Clinton hires a
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  Speaker 1: sleep nurse and everything you need to know about Molly
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  Speaker 1: May and Tommy Fury's shock split. But first, we have
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  Speaker 1: a special guest joining us fresh from maternity leave. Kate,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't think you'd be back this quickly. Well, I've
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  Speaker 1: been called in at the last minute because Amy is
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  Speaker 1: not well. And Sophie, you couldn't do a solo episode
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  Speaker 1: and I jumped at the chance. I'm very excited to
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  Speaker 1: be back for this episode. Yeah, I need to talk
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  Speaker 1: to someone about the Molly Mae breakup. I just couldn't
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  Speaker 1: do a monologue of it on my own. No, I
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  Speaker 1: am so excited because whilst I've been feeding Jack, I
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  Speaker 1: have a spare hand. So I have been on TikTok.
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  Speaker 1: I am up with all the goss on this and
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  Speaker 1: I am devastated. Oh. We are going to get into
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  Speaker 1: that one later, but it is just shocking news coming
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  Speaker 1: out of the UK. I also have to apologise because
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  Speaker 1: this episode is a day late. So we have switched
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  Speaker 1: up our main shows to come out on Tuesday and Thursday,
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  Speaker 1: but because of Amy's sickness, we thought we'd wait until today,
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  Speaker 1: but she's still not better. I think it's because she
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  Speaker 1: did pop up on Four Corners this week. It has
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  Speaker 1: been a big week for her. Yeah, so she was
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  Speaker 1: a part of the Louise Milligan investigation into the Seven Network.
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  Speaker 2: It is one of the most soul-crushing places you can
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  Speaker 2: work in.
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  Speaker 1: Smoke and mirrors. Channel 7 likes to portray itself as
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  Speaker 1: a family. It's a very dysfunctional family. Breaking 7 silence.
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  Speaker 3: The fear is visceral.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't seen anything like it. I wouldn't just call
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  Speaker 1: it the second chance club, I'd call it the third,
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  Speaker 1: fourth and fifth chance club. They shouldn't be in business
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  Speaker 1: if that's what they're doing to young women. How do
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  Speaker 1: they sleep it? It is a really important story that
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  Speaker 1: I don't think is getting enough traction in the media
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  Speaker 1: at the moment. There are so many outlets that haven't
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  Speaker 1: covered it, I assume because of their connection with the
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  Speaker 1: Seven Network. That being said, go and check it out.
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  Speaker 1: It is on ABC, iview and also YouTube. And we'll
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  Speaker 1: put a link in the show notes to it because
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  Speaker 1: it is a very powerful report and one that more
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  Speaker 1: people should be talking about. It's also very surprising that
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  Speaker 1: social commentators haven't jumped on this one either, but I
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  Speaker 1: think it just demonstrates the power that this network yields. Yeah, well,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of the social commentators who would normally talk
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  Speaker 1: about these topics do have links to certain networks. So again,
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  Speaker 1: it is disappointing. I think a lot of people are
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  Speaker 1: just in protection mode.
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  Speaker 3: I've been around this long enough to know that there
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  Speaker 3: was going to be a lot of conversation around it.
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  Speaker 1: Sophie Keisha has been forced to comment on rampant speculation
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  Speaker 1: that her ex-husband, Jared, is her sperm donor. Ever since
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  Speaker 1: the pyjama mogul announced last month that she's having a
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  Speaker 1: baby on her own, She has been bombarded with questions
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  Speaker 1: about the father's identity. Now, Sophie has been holidaying in
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  Speaker 1: Fiji with her daughter, Florence, when a follower's question tipped
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  Speaker 1: her over the edge. Yeah, so she was relaxing by
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  Speaker 1: the pool and she must have been checking her DMs
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  Speaker 1: and she came across this one. So a follower wrote,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so interested in your conception. Sperm donor, Jared, plan
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  Speaker 1: to co-parent, family parent, not to be judgy, but to
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  Speaker 1: learn and then support. Respect privacy completely. It's a little
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  Speaker 1: bit ironic that they're saying they respect privacy, but have
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  Speaker 1: asked about five questions within that DM. There's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of invasive questions in there. Now, Sophie hit back on
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  Speaker 1: her Instagram story, confirming that Jared is not the father.
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  Speaker 1: She wrote, I knew I'd face questions and intrigue, and
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  Speaker 1: that's totally fine. And perhaps one day when I'm ready,
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  Speaker 1: I will discuss everything. However, something I wasn't prepared for
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  Speaker 1: was the many assumptions and questions around my ex-husband being
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  Speaker 1: the father. Do you know how many people have kids
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  Speaker 1: with their ex six years after separation? Lol. Just because
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  Speaker 1: we have an amicable family relationship co-parenting our amazing Bobby
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  Speaker 1: and Florence doesn't mean we're making more babies together.
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  Speaker 4: Wild.
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  Speaker 1: Leave him and his personal life out of it. believe
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  Speaker 1: it's been six years since they split up. That has
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  Speaker 1: flown by. It is crazy. Now, the reason why there
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  Speaker 1: has been so much speculation around Jared potentially being the
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  Speaker 1: father is because Sophie has previously revealed that she asked
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  Speaker 1: him to be her sperm donor. So she was married
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  Speaker 1: to the former AFL player for four years before realizing
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  Speaker 1: that she was attracted to women. And following the split,
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  Speaker 1: they have continued to be in one another's lives as friends,
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  Speaker 1: and they have a very amicable co-parenting relationship. Now, Sophie
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  Speaker 1: made this revelation a couple of years ago and created
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  Speaker 1: a series of Instagram stories where she explained that Jared
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  Speaker 1: had politely declined to be her sperm donor, and she
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  Speaker 1: laughed off the fact that he said no. So it's
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  Speaker 1: not clear how serious this discussion was or if it
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  Speaker 1: was a bit of a joke, but this is where
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  Speaker 1: this speculation and rumor is coming from. I did actually
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  Speaker 1: wonder if Jared was the sperm donor when I saw
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  Speaker 1: this news pop up, because I did remember her saying
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  Speaker 1: something about it. But again, it's so murky and so
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  Speaker 1: much happens in this influencer space that you kind of
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  Speaker 1: only remember little details of it. So I can understand
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  Speaker 1: why one of her followers would ask.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And Jared does have a new partner now. So I
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  Speaker 1: wonder if they have asked Sophie to address the speculation.
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  Speaker 1: They're probably over all of the rumours. The irony is
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  Speaker 1: though that addressing it has meant that there are a
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  Speaker 1: ton of headlines and photos of Sophie and Jared together
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  Speaker 1: all over the media. So it kind of makes it
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  Speaker 1: even more awkward. It would be so awkward for Jared
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  Speaker 1: and his new partner. I do feel for them being
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  Speaker 1: dragged into this story. And normally I would say it's
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  Speaker 1: really none of anyone's business, but Sophie has really gone
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  Speaker 1: out of her way to share information about this pregnancy announcement.
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  Speaker 1: She's launched her YouTube channel, off the back of this announcement,
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  Speaker 1: she's been sharing very personal videos announcing the news to
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  Speaker 1: her kids. So you can see why people feel like
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  Speaker 1: they're entitled to know. Yeah. Well, Sophie did say she
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  Speaker 1: wasn't surprised that there was a lot of interest and
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  Speaker 1: intrigue around it, particularly because she has announced that she's
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  Speaker 1: doing this on her own. But she pointed out that
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  Speaker 1: heterosexual couples aren't faced with these types of invasive questions
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  Speaker 1: and that this line of questioning is really only reserved
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  Speaker 1: for queer people. Here's what she said.
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  Speaker 5: My point is Let's not be invasive to the queer community.
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  Speaker 5: Let's not be invasive to women who want to pursue
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  Speaker 5: this on their own. Let's not be invasive to the
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  Speaker 5: two dads that are having a baby together.
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  Speaker 1: And say, so whose is it? Which one's sperm? Made
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  Speaker 1: the magic.
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  Speaker 3: Let's just be happy that there's babies coming into the
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  Speaker 3: world and that's beautiful. It doesn't matter how they got here.
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  Speaker 3: I just think, picture yourself asking that question to straight couples.
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  Speaker 3: How'd you do it?
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  Speaker 1: Did you suck?
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  Speaker 3: Did you need medication?
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  Speaker 1: Anyway. She also created a series of stories saying that
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  Speaker 1: it's interesting that so many people online felt comfortable asking
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  Speaker 1: her this question, but no one in her close circle
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  Speaker 1: asked her where the baby came from. Well, it's good
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  Speaker 1: that people in her own personal circle haven't been questioning
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  Speaker 1: her and haven't been invasive. But do you think that's
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  Speaker 1: because they already know that she's doing IVF? You know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? Because obviously she's probably had more conversations
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  Speaker 1: with with them around what her plan of attack is.
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  Speaker 1: It is good to know that she's not getting this
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  Speaker 1: line of questioning from people within her circle, but that's
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  Speaker 1: most likely because they already know the details.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I do think she made a good point generally about
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  Speaker 1: the queer community though, because I don't think that anyone
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  Speaker 1: has the right to question the circumstances around same-sex pregnancies
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  Speaker 1: or ask those who choose to do it on their
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  Speaker 1: own very invasive questions. I think that Pregnancy is so
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  Speaker 1: complex and it should always be approached with a lot
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  Speaker 1: of sensitivity and respect. Yeah, but it's not just queer
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  Speaker 1: people who get invasive questions when they're pregnant. It's quite
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  Speaker 1: a common thing. I was obviously pregnant recently and people
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  Speaker 1: just think they can ask you whatever they like. But
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  Speaker 1: I also think with queer couples, people are more brazen
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  Speaker 1: and almost act like it's their right to know. But
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't take this as a blueprint of what normally
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  Speaker 1: happens because it's a very different situation. Sophie Keisha is
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  Speaker 1: clearly trying to resurrect her mummy blogging career and she's
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  Speaker 1: made a fortune off oversharing about her life. I always
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  Speaker 1: think it's a positive because she can actually show people
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  Speaker 1: what the process is like for a queer woman having
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  Speaker 1: a child through IVF and going through the sperm donor process.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's a very hot topic at the moment
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  Speaker 1: after that Netflix doco about the guy that had a
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  Speaker 1: thousand children just dropped. Yeah. I mean, I would be
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  Speaker 1: so intrigued to learn more and I do really think
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  Speaker 1: it's a great chance for Sophie to share about her experience,
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  Speaker 1: one that we don't see all the time on the internet. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I think she has every right to set
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  Speaker 1: boundaries and urge people to stop the speculation, particularly around
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  Speaker 1: her ex-husband, because that would be tough to deal with.
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  Speaker 1: She did point out that when she's ready, she will
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  Speaker 1: open up more about her IVF experience, but that has
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  Speaker 1: led to people speculating that she's building intrigue purposely around
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  Speaker 1: her conception path So she can monetize it on her
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  Speaker 1: channel because her whole pregnancy reveal so far has been
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  Speaker 1: very strategic in terms of the information that is being
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  Speaker 1: drip fed on a YouTube account. I mean, we've seen
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  Speaker 1: her announce, like there's been two separate videos for her
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  Speaker 1: announcing it to her kids. So she did one announcing
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  Speaker 1: it to Flossie, one announcing it to Bobby. So people
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  Speaker 1: are thinking maybe she's going to come out with a
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  Speaker 1: partnership with an IVF clinic or it's going to be
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  Speaker 1: built into something that gets a lot of traction and
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  Speaker 1: a lot of eyeballs on it. It is an interesting
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  Speaker 1: shift of gears because Sophie has been quite open about
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  Speaker 1: the fact that she wants her private life to be private.
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  Speaker 1: And that was around the time she split up from
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  Speaker 1: her fiance, Maddie Garrick. Now, I personally think what has
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  Speaker 1: caused this change is that the cost of living is
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  Speaker 1: catching up with everyone. And she was building a house
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  Speaker 1: with Maddie and obviously she thought Maddie was going to
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  Speaker 1: move in and actually help her pay the mortgage off.
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  Speaker 1: That hasn't happened and the interest rates have gone up.
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  Speaker 1: So I think she needs to monetize. her personal life. Well,
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  Speaker 1: she's put up on Keisha, her pajama brand site, that
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  Speaker 1: there's a huge announcement coming soon. I'm expecting that she's
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  Speaker 1: going to be bringing out baby pajamas or maternity pajamas,
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  Speaker 1: something along those lines. So again, monetizing her life situation.
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  Speaker 1: What did Tommy do to my Molly Mae?
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  Speaker 4: What did Tommy.
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  Speaker 2: Do then?
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  Speaker 4: Because I know my Molly's a saint, yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Let me in a fucking room with him.
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  Speaker 1: Let me in there.
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  Speaker 4: Love you, Molly Mae.
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  Speaker 2: We stand with the Molly Mae. We stand with Miss Mae.
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  Speaker 1: Fucking distraught for her. Molly Mae Haig has sent shockwaves
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  Speaker 1: around the world by announcing her split from fiancé and
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  Speaker 1: baby daddy Tommy Fury. Fans of the high-profile couple who
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  Speaker 1: met five years ago on Love Island are struggling to
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  Speaker 1: deal with the news and are convinced a cheating scandal
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  Speaker 1: is brewing. Sophie, I can't quite believe it. I feel
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  Speaker 1: genuinely shattered about this announcement. This has hit so many
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  Speaker 1: people so hard. And I have to go into how
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  Speaker 1: I found out this news because everyone knows that I'm
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  Speaker 1: a massive Molly Mae fan. I did see someone comment
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram that they'll remember the spot they were when
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  Speaker 1: they found out this news. It's quite similar to when
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  Speaker 1: you found out about Princess Diana passing away. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's quite that big, but people are
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  Speaker 1: saying it's that big at the moment. Well, people are
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  Speaker 1: calling Molly Mae the people's princess and that is what
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  Speaker 1: Princess Diana used to be called. Well, I have to
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  Speaker 1: reveal that I was actually on the toilet when I
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: found out this news. As most people do, I was scrolling.
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  Speaker 1: I was just getting ready to go to bed. It
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  Speaker 1: was about 12.30. Oh, God, this would have set you off.
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  Speaker 1: And I saw this post appear on Tea Time and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what's this about? It's about a breakup.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like... holy fuck, is that St. Molly May?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, no way. And my partner was in
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  Speaker 1: the shower. I rushed in to tell him. He could
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  Speaker 1: not care less, but I needed to talk to someone
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  Speaker 1: about it. I quickly threw something up on our Instagram,
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: even though I was like, this is the dead of
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  Speaker 1: the night. People won't be consuming this. But I was
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: surprised how many people were still up and how many
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  Speaker 1: people were dying to talk about this. Well, I was
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  Speaker 1: asleep and I woke up at 5.30 to this news
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  Speaker 1: and I looked at my phone and it said there
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  Speaker 1: were 38 people messenger notifications and I was like holy
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  Speaker 1: shit what's gone down and I saw you know when
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  Speaker 1: you scroll the messages up and only a few pop
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  Speaker 1: up and it said Kate will be shocked when she
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: wakes up to find out this and I was like
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  Speaker 1: oh my god what's happened who's died yes anyway I
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  Speaker 1: can see why you thought I would be shocked I
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  Speaker 1: was relieved it wasn't any sort of you know more
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  Speaker 1: sinister news but this really did floor me yeah I
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  Speaker 1: know it sounds lame to be invested in this couple
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  Speaker 1: that you don't know But I bought into this so
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  Speaker 1: hard because even though there's been rumours for the past
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  Speaker 1: year about potential infidelity, I just think that they gave
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  Speaker 1: off previously such wholesome couple vibes. And because I love
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  Speaker 1: Molly so much, I wanted to believe that things were
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  Speaker 1: fine at home with them. Well, I was devastated when
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  Speaker 1: the recent series of Love Island ended because that was
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  Speaker 1: my show. When I had, you know, an hour of
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  Speaker 1: free time, that's what I was watching. So I have
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  Speaker 1: started watching the Love Island series that Tommy and Molly
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  Speaker 1: were on recently. And we're only a few episodes in,
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  Speaker 1: but Tommy came in as one of the first bombshells.
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  Speaker 1: And I just was watching it and I'm thinking, he
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  Speaker 1: is just so nice because he's like, oh, everyone thinks
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  Speaker 1: of me as this, you know, big boxer, but I'm
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: not like that. I love Hannah Montana. And, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I remember watching their vlogs and thinking how perfect they
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  Speaker 1: were together because He seemed to just get Molly. Yeah,
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: the fact they would play with those toys together. And
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: who gets Ellie Belly in this split? Well, Molly clearly does.
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  Speaker 1: I think Molly gets everything in this split. I know
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  Speaker 1: it sounds pathetic, but I couldn't fall asleep last night thinking, one,
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  Speaker 1: how heartbroken Molly must be feeling. And two, how is
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  Speaker 1: she coping with this in the public eye? Because not
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: only was this all over socials, but this announcement was
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  Speaker 1: breaking news on BBC. And That sort of treatment is
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  Speaker 1: usually reserved for A-listers or the royal family. Well, it's
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  Speaker 1: also trending on TikTok at the moment. And I do
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  Speaker 1: think we need to get into Molly's statement because it
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  Speaker 1: speaks volumes. So she was the first to break the
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  Speaker 1: news and she released a statement on her Instagram story,
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  Speaker 1: which read, never in a million years did I think
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  Speaker 1: I'd ever have to write this. After five years of
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  Speaker 1: being together, I never imagined our story would end, especially
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  Speaker 1: not this way. Molly May. This was so loaded. There
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  Speaker 1: is so much to unpack here. I think the most
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  Speaker 1: telling part of this statement is Molly saying, I never
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  Speaker 1: imagined our story would end, especially not this way. Because
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  Speaker 1: to me, this implies that a lot of shit has
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  Speaker 1: gone down. Yes. This is not a we fell out
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  Speaker 1: of love or we parted mutually. This comment suggests that
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  Speaker 1: Tommy has fucked up and that there's cheating involved because
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  Speaker 1: I do not think for a second that that Molly
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  Speaker 1: Mae has done anything wrong. She's a fucking saint, that woman. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and also the fact that she was the first to
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  Speaker 1: break the news. It's not like her and Tommy released
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  Speaker 1: the statement at the same time. Often when couples are
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  Speaker 1: trying to push that this is a mutual thing, they'll
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  Speaker 1: release the same statement and they'll talk quite glowingly about
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  Speaker 1: each other. Particularly when the kids are involved, they'll sugarcoat
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  Speaker 1: it and be like, we're still going to be a
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  Speaker 1: family and we love and respect each other. It does
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  Speaker 1: feel like her hand was forced in this situation and
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: she had to come out with this announcement quite quickly
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: because the timing is interesting. Her sister Zoe Haig's wedding
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  Speaker 1: made big headlines a couple of weeks ago and she's
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  Speaker 1: currently on her honeymoon. So you would think that you
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  Speaker 1: might wait for your sister to be back, be a
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  Speaker 1: support there for you. Also, I don't think she'd want
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  Speaker 1: to impact her sister's honeymoon. She wouldn't want to ruin
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  Speaker 1: that time for her because, you know, if I was
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  Speaker 1: on my honeymoon and I found out that one of
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  Speaker 1: you guys were going through this shock divorce and It
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  Speaker 1: would dampen my time. I'd feel like I'd need to
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  Speaker 1: rush back and be there with you. Yeah, it was
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  Speaker 1: not a divorce. They actually haven't been married. Sorry, I
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  Speaker 1: forget that they actually haven't been married. I just, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it'd be so tough to be facing this public scrutiny, though,
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  Speaker 1: without your support based by your side. Now, bizarrely, hours
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  Speaker 1: before Molly made her statement, Tommy shared a compilation of
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  Speaker 1: old clips of the couple together on his Snapchat story
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  Speaker 1: of all places. And in the vision, it showed them
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  Speaker 1: on a holiday together when their daughter Bambi was very young.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: It also portrayed Tommy as being this doting dad who
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: was very hands-on. And there was also vision of Molly
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: surprising Tommy with balloons after one of his big fights.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: And there were also lots of shots of them hugging
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: and being all over each other. He also included vision
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: of him surprising Molly on her work trip last year
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: to celebrate their anniversary. It was almost like he was
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: trying to stop Molly from making this announcement public and
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: show her what she'd be missing if she does make
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: the announcement. Yeah, there seemed to be a lot of
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: emotional blackmail within that Snapchat compilation. He did end up
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: deleting it. And around an hour after Molly made her statement,
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Tommy released his saying, I am heartbroken to share that
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: Molly and I have decided to end our relationship. The
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: past five years have led us to having our beautiful
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: baby girl, Bambi, and I'll be forever thankful to Molly
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: for making me a dad. Bambi is our priority. Please
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: respect our privacy and our family's privacy as we navigate
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: our way through this difficult time. Don't you think it
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: seems like he kind of copy and pasted Molly's? Yeah,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: but fans have pointed out that there were some key
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: differences between the two statements because Tommy kept saying our
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: daughter whilst Molly was saying my daughter. And I also
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: thought it was interesting that Tommy started by saying that
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: he's heartbroken and He also tried to make it sound
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: like they'd come to this decision mutually, but it's clear
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: from Molly's statement they did not. To me, the couple's
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: social media activity also suggests that this breakup is happening
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: in real time because often celebrities will announce a breakup
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: to their followers once time has passed and once they've
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: had a bit of time to heal privately. But only
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: two weeks ago, Molly shared a post about the anniversary
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: of their engagement and referred to Tommy as the love
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: of her life. And also in early May at Zoe
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Haig's wedding, Tommy also shared a photo of him and
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Molly and Bambi and wrote my everything in a photo
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: to which Molly replied, love this pic so much. So
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: a lot has gone down in a couple of weeks.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: And I was only just watching Molly May's YouTube and
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: she put out a vlog recently and she did speak
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: about the fact that she was solo parenting. And she
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: had said that the reason why was because Tommy was
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: recording his audio book. Let's go to more of what
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: she said.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I have been solo parenting pretty much the entire week
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: and I should have been solo parenting for like two
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: weeks now basically because Tom has just been so busy
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: and when he's home from doing work and stuff like
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: he's so incredible and so helpful like I can't say
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: any different like he's such an incredible dad but I
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: have been this week like just really mum life has
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: been mum life thing and I know I say that
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: a lot but like I just feel like at the
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: minute I've been struggling a little bit.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: And then during the vlog, she also mentioned that there
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: was a lot going on and that she had been
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: crying a lot. Let's throw to that.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: So much going on in my life right now. If
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I had a pound for every time I'd say that,
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: I'd be a quadrillionaire. The crying fit that I had
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: because I was having a really stressful day and it
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: just completely tipped me over the edge. And I was like,
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: you know what? This is not my week. I need
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: to do a really big Q & A just to
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: catch you all up on life and explain everything that's
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: going on. So yeah, hopefully I will see you in
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: that video.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Bye. She just looks so broken in this clip. You
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: know when someone's trying to put on a brave face?
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: but you can just tell beneath it they are so
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: like dead behind the eyes, so sad. Yeah. There's just
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: a real feeling that Molly had to act quickly with
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: this announcement as though she'd found something out or something
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: was going to hit the press soon and she needed
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: to get in first. Well, there is a rumour on
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: TikTok that is gaining a lot of momentum and that
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: rumour is, and I want to redact just a rumour,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: that Tommy has impregnated a boxing trainer's daughter. Now, the
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: woman in question is 22-year-old Lisey Rhodes, and she gave
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: birth to a baby just days ago. Now, she has
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: not revealed on social media who the father is, and
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: by the looks of it, it looks like she's been
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: doing it on her own. It's a baby boy, which
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: also hurts because Tommy wanted a boy initially. Now, the
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: reason that this rumor is gaining so much traction on
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: TikTok is because people are convinced that that she was
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: one of the women partying with Tommy and Chris Brown
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: in Dubai. So if you cast your minds back to
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: nine months ago, Tommy was spotted in a nightclub with
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: an unidentified girl and Chris Brown. It was so bizarre.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: So he was seen in a video getting really close
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: to this woman and the girl squeezed his face before
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: he turned his head away and laughed. Now, it's not
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: this woman in the clip that Lacey looks like, but
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: another woman standing next to him. So they've taken a screenshot.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I'm not convinced that it's the same woman, but they
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: both have blonde hair. Well, people think that the woman
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: that squeezed Tommy Fury's face is Lisey's sister, Ellie. Now,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Tommy actually follows Ellie on social media. Yeah, well, the
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Furies and the Rhodes are linked together because they're both
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: in the boxing world. And there's also a rumour going
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: that there's been a DNA test on this baby and
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: that's why the shit is hitting the fan now because
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: potentially maybe Tommy was saying, no, this baby is not mine.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: This is all a rumor. I've got nothing to do
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: with it. Well, as you can imagine, Lacey's social media
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: has been absolutely flooded with comments. She's actually set her
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Instagram to private, but her TikTok is still very public.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Some of the comments she's been copying are, deny Tommy
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Fury isn't your baby daddy before I pop. I did
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: also see a comment that someone wrote, which I think
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: won the internet for today. It said, I'm Tommy furious.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: People have also been tagging their friends saying, This is
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: apparently Tommy Fury's prego mistress and saying, sis, we need
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: the tea. Now I feel very sorry for Lisey if
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: this actually has nothing to do with her because we
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: have to remember that this is a woman who has
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: just given birth days ago and this sort of attention
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: would be so awful, particularly if you legitimately had nothing
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: to do with it. What I want to know is
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: how does a rumor like this get so out of control?
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Because it always makes me think where there's smoke, there's
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: fire and someone obviously has come out of the woodwork
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: because would this really be attracting that much attention if
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: it wasn't true? I don't know. I potentially think it's
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: just one of those TikTok rumours that has gone too far.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Someone has probably trawled through every single person that Tommy
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Fury has been following and is trying to draw this
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: connection with the sister. I'm hoping it's not true. I
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: think that one of the reasons people are assuming this
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: breakup has something to do with cheating and also Tommy
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Fury's partying is because in Molly Mae's memoir, She said
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: that drinking was one of the problems that plagued their relationship.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: So she has spoken out about the fact that she
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: doesn't really like to drink. She doesn't like clubbing and
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: she doesn't like what alcohol does to people. And one
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: of the first questions that Molly actually asked Tommy when
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: they met on Love Island is whether he drunk. Now
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: in her book, she wrote the only major arguments Tommy
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: and I have had have been to do with him drinking.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: which he only does a few times a year. He
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: won't even do anything wrong. I'll just lose it at
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: him because I hate it. I do have this anxiety
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: around alcohol and the things I've seen it do to
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: the people around me. I personally don't think that alcohol
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: adds anything good to a situation. Now, this is also
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: followed up by the fact that in a YouTube video
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: last year, Molly said that she began to fear that
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Tommy was cheating on her because he started to hide
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: his phone and And if my memory serves me correctly,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: this is because he was actually planning to propose to Molly.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: So he had all of this going on in the background,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: all the planning. So she said, my mind did somersaults.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I thought, why is he being shady about his phone?
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Who is he talking to? My mind went to the
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: worst option. I was staring out the window like I
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: was in a sad movie. On the engagement, I'm always
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: sus on couples, particularly those in the public eye that
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: are so over the top with things. And that proposal
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: was extremely over the top. And every time there's Valentine's
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Day or a birthday or any sort of special moment
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: in this couple's lives. They have always celebrated to the
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: extreme and shared a lot about it on social media.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: I think that comes down to them being rich though. No,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: but I also think in real life, those couples that
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: you see being so over the top on social media,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: often the ones that are having issues. And in terms
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: of red flags in this relationship, I think Tommy's upbringing
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: has actually a lot to play in this relationship breakdown.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: So he is a traveller. And he has spoken about
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: how he wants a lot of kids and also he
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: didn't actually want to educate Bambi. So I don't know
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: if you– you watched Tommy Fury's Brothers Doco. I watched
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: a bit of it because– In traveller families, typically if
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: you're a girl, you leave school very early and you
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: train to be a homemaker. Yeah. And Molly was very
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: against that and she was also against having a large
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: number of children. She only wanted to have two. Recently
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: she was speaking about how she might be open to
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: having a second baby. So this would be even more
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: heartbreaking for her. Yeah, but that doco, Tyson Fury's doco
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: that was very popular on Netflix, I think it was
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: last year, like late last year, you got a real
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: insight into what the Fury family are actually like. Now,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: I don't think Tyson Fury came across as that nice.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: His wife, Paris, she's had 10 of his kids. She
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: very much just rushed around after him and I think
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: that Tommy would look at that relationship and it always
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: made me think, was that what he wants from Molly Mae? Yeah,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: there's speculation also that Tyson Fury has been unfaithful to
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: his partner. I don't know if that's been proven or not.
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: But I also think it was quite telling in her
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: vlogs because Tommy has always been MIA, particularly since Bambi
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: was born. I mean, his fight with Jake Paul seemed
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: to trump the fact that he just had a newborn.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I also think the fact that they hadn't set a
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: date for the wedding or one that we'd heard about,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I initially thought maybe they were trying to be mindful
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: of the fact that Zoe was coming up and Molly
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: didn't want to steal her thunder, which is why it's
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: so sad because I thought maybe we'd start seeing hen's
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: party videos of Molly and a look into her planning
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: because I'm sure behind the scenes, she's probably been looking
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: at dresses and, you know, she's probably locked in a location.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I do wonder how this is going to play out
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: on Molly's social media, particularly on YouTube, because she is
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: very open with her YouTube audience. And while it appears
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: that Molly was trying to be quite pointed in her
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: statement and say something has happened, I think that those
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: are just her emotions coming out. But I think when
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: push comes to shove, she's not going to come out
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: and say what's happened. because I think she is the
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: type of person that will want to protect her child's father. Yeah.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Molly May is one of those people who doesn't go
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: into the gutter. She'll throw out a few hints here
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: and there, but she doesn't like to get murky with it,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: which is something I do respect about her. But in
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: saying that, if there is another party involved, potentially we're
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: going to be hearing their side of the story. Yeah.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: And I think that's why these statements have come out,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: because I think something is about to break. We are
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: recording this on Thursday afternoon. So Who knows what's going
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: to happen overnight? As predicted, there is an update to
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: this story since we've recorded. Apologies for the quality of
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: this audio. I am recording on voice memos at 10
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: o'clock at night. Now, the woman accused of having Tommy
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: Fury's baby has denied the claims. Lacey Rhodes responded to
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: a TikTok comment writing, Tommy Fury is not my baby's dad.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Her father also came to her defense, slamming the claims
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: on his Instagram story. He shared a family photo of
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: his daughter with her son's real baby daddy, captioning the photo,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: happy families. He then said this.
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: It's 10 to 7 and I'm on my way to
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: the gym and I can't believe what I'm reading. I
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: can't believe it. The speculation, the hearsay, tickle tackle. Guys,
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: Lise and Barry and Ashok are so happy. So happy.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: We've got a life.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: You need to get one.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: Let's have it.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: After hearing that, I really feel for Lisey and her family,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: particularly because she has just had a baby. This is
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: supposed to be a really exciting and happy moment for
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: the family. But unfortunately, I think that this witch hunt
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: is going to continue. There is an insatiable thirst for
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: people to find out why this couple really broke up.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I wonder whether this will encourage Molly Mae to come
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: forward in the next couple of weeks and put any
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: of these rumors to bed.
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: Ma'am, have a good day.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Bye, Bams. We're going to miss you today. TikToker Indie
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Clinton has hired a sleep nurse for her daughter Bambi,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: saying her sanity needed it after experiencing months of broken sleep. Now,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I'm new to this whole baby world with the UK,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: but I had never heard of a sleep nurse before,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: and I had no idea that they actually spend the
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: night at your house. and provide such a hands-on experience. Well,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: it sounds like a great idea to me. I am
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: eight weeks into sleep deprivation. And when I saw Indy
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: talking about this, I was like, how much does this cost?
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Well, you're following the Dr. Golley method at the moment,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: and he is a pediatrician and he's written a very
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: popular sleep training book. It's like your Bible at the moment.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: And This nurse that Indy Clinton has invited in, she
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: seems to follow the same sort of process. So she
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: has a book, but she also offers this service where
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: she can come into your house and spend a couple
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: of nights there. Well, this sleep nurse seems to be
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: working absolute wonders because apparently Bambi got 11 hours of
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: sleep the first night that she was there. And by
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: night two, Indy was singing her absolute praises, even sharing
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: this on her Instagram story. We've had the most beautiful
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: sleep nurse come in and just take over. I was
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: worried Bambi would be a nightmare at 22 months and
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: unable to train back to old habits, but the sleep
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: nurse is so gentle with her approach and consistent and firm,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: which we weren't. Now, by the end of night three,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Indy wrote, can confirm she's a changed little lady and
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: bedtime isn't a fight anymore. Just read her a book,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: pop it into her cot and walk out. Is it
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: just me or is three nights a little bit too
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: early to be calling it? Maybe, but I also think
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: that Indy probably didn't want to pay more for this
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: service because she pointed out that this hasn't been gifted
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: to her. It's not sponsored. She has paid for it.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: And I immediately ran to this website to see how
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: much this costs because the company is called Swoop Baby Co.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: And Indy said she found it through her sister-in-law who
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: recommended her. So for Indy to have this sleep nurse
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: there for three days from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m.,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: it cost her $ 3, 200. Oh my God.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: What?
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, to have her there for five nights, that
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: would have cost her $ 5, 000. And for just the one night,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: it's $ 800. So it is pretty X-y. But in saying that,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: what amount of money do you put on your sleep? Well,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, I would love to be getting a lot
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: of sleep right now, but I couldn't afford $ 3, 200 for
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: three nights of sleep training. I mean, I thought Dr.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Golley's course was quite expensive. That's a couple of hundred
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: bucks just for the guide. I have so many questions
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: around the logistics of this because as a sleep nurse,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: when you rock up, you're supposed to be there from
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: 6pm to 6am. Where do you sit? Do you just
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: sit outside the kid's room? Do you make yourself comfortable?
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: And also, where do the parents go? Because clearly they
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: want to be out of the sight of the child
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: because the child will ignore the nurse and go to
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: them instead. Well, as you can imagine, my TikTok at
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: the moment, the algorithm is just sending me newborn content,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: motherhood stuff. And I've come across these videos of these
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: postnatal doulas. So it's a little bit different to a
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: sleep trainer. And it's someone you bring in to feed
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: your baby and essentially do the night shift for you.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: Is that like the old school version of a wet nurse? Yeah,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: except they're not actually breastfeeding. They're feeding with express milk. Oh,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I thought you meant they actually breastfed. I was like, geez.
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: No, no.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: So it's just someone like you've got either formula or
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: express bottles and they take the shift for you overnight.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: So you get a night's sleep. And I had similar
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: questions because at one point in one of the videos,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Their doula had to go knock on the parents' door
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: and get the mum to express some milk. And I'm like,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: how does that go? Like, what's the conversation? Like, do
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: you come into the room? And in the comments, people
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: were discussing it. And one of the doulas actually commented
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  Speaker 1: saying it can get quite awkward because she's gone into
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  Speaker 1: one of the mother's rooms and the husband's forgot to
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  Speaker 1: put pyjamas on or husband has come out in his
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  Speaker 1: jocks and forgotten that she's there. Well, maybe that's why
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  Speaker 1: they're getting paid so much because of these awkward moments.
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  Speaker 4: Exchanges.
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  Speaker 1: These people aren't getting paid as much. So I think
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: it was about, someone said between $ 300 and $ 500 a night. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: They need to up their prices. Well, that's a lot
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: more affordable if you think about it. I mean, again,
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I still could not afford that, but maybe for a
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: baby shower, that's a great idea. Everyone put money together
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  Speaker 1: and get someone a doula overnight. Surely it's confusing for
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: the child though, because they're like, who is this stranger? Well,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: it kind of reminds me of that show The Supernanny.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember Jo Frost? Oh, yeah, like the one
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  Speaker 1: who did The Naughty Spot. Yeah, so she was great.
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  Speaker 1: She'd come in and she would tell all the kids
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  Speaker 1: off and implement all these rules and then they'd come
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  Speaker 1: back like six months later and a lot of the
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: time the kids were still misbehaving. Yeah, it was the parents' fault. Yeah,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: so I do wonder what is going to happen after
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: three nights of the training. Is Bambi going to go
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: back to her ways? Let's get into our highs and
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: lows of the week and I'm going to kick it
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: off with my high. And that is that McDonald's is
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: giving away collector's glasses again. Oh, I haven't seen this. Yeah.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: So they used to run this promotion in line with
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: the Olympics, but now that they're no longer a sponsor,
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: they have kicked it off straight after the games, which
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: I thought was interesting. And I love it because there's
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: six different glasses that you can collect and they all
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: feature different eras of McDonald's. So there's a Barbie one,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: there's a Hello Kitty one and a Shrek one. Do
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: they have a Snoopy one? Because I vividly remember, I
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: think I was around 12. And they had this Snoopy series.
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  Speaker 1: It was like around the world was Snoopy. And each
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: week it was a different Snoopy. I think I got
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: the Irish one and you got one. Oh, it was
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: the best giveaway. They do have a Snoopy one. But
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you can like, I don't think
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: you can pick which one you get. You sort of
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: get given one. I just feel like these glasses are
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: a staple in every 90s kid's kitchen cupboard though. Because
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: like even at family dinner, mum and dad still pull
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: out the Olympics ones. This is just giving me the
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: best excuse to get Maccas this weekend because I haven't
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: had it since I gave birth to Jack eight weeks ago.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: So it was actually my pre-caesarean meal. So the night
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: before I knew I was having him, I was like,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: what do I get to eat? And I actually Googled
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: like what's a good meal to have? Would it be
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: bad to have a greasy meal? And people were like,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: just get what you want. So that was delightful. Well,
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: the thing is you have to order a quarter pounder meal,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: which I feel like McDonald's knows me too well because
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: that is my go-to order, a quarter pounder meal. I've
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: never had a quarter pounder. Oh, my God. It is
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: so good. So I think I heard because we often
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: put up like people send us in what your go-to
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: order is and someone said to try it. So I
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: have it. It has to be with a steamed bun.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I get the meat removed and I get a hash
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: brown put in. It is fucking good. Obviously have to
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: have sweet and sour sauce. And it's so funny because
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: my husband knows my weird order from memory now because
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: he's always driving to get takeaway. And I just love
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: watching him recite it so confidently at the box. I
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: think we should point out that we are vegetarian because
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are like, hang on, why am
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I removing the meat from a quarter pounder? Yes. Now
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: my low of the week is that I am still
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: in the process of selling my old car. So if
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: anyone is looking for a Mazda, please hit me up.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: It was a great car. My car is actually called
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Conrad after Lauren Conrad. And sadly, I was actually almost
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: too embarrassed to point this out on the podcast, but
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: I feel like it is quite telling now that we've
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: had the Molly Mae story. But I have named my
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: new car Molly Mae. Well, Amy's rabbit is called Tommy
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: after Tommy Fury. Anyway, but, yes, so I'm in the
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: process of trying to sell my car. I should have
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: just traded it in and listened to everyone, but I
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: thought I'm going to get a better deal if I
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: sell it privately. And now I'm like, fuck, I've got this–
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: And now I'm like, fuck, because I got a letter.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I've got to register it for the next three months. Again,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get the fucking insurance in the mail soon.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: And it's just too difficult. Look, I hate to say it,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: but I told you to trade it in. It's such
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: a hassle. Maybe I'll just have to take it on
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: the weekend. So I'm going to just take this off
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: my hands. Kate, what about you? I feel like you
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: must have a high and a low saved up. Well,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: I'll do just this week because the last eight weeks
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: are a little bit hazy. So we had an absolute
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: breakthrough last night. Last night, Jack slept through the night.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: He dropped one of his night feeds. And as we
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: mentioned earlier in the podcast, I have been doing the Dr.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Golly sleep guide, and I would highly recommend it because,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: so in his guide, he kind of makes a little
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: promise that your baby will be sleeping through the night
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: at six weeks. And from the get-go, Rhys and I
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: were like, it's okay, just get to six weeks. But
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: there is a little bit of an asterisk. It's supposed
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: to be six weeks, but your baby has to be
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: five to six kilos in order for you to try
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: and drop this night feed. So we got Jack Wade
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: the other day at CAFS and which is like a
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: nursing program here in South Australia. And he had put
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: on 600 grams in two weeks and he was 5.2 kilos,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: which was very exciting. They're very happy with how he's going.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: And we were like, perfect, let's try it out. So
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: on Tuesday night, we tried it. He woke up at
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: 3am crying and then I had to feed him and
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: then he wouldn't, he didn't want to go back to sleep.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: So that was a bit of a fail. So last
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: night I was like, oh, do we try it or
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: do I just wake up and start reducing the amount
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: of milk that he's having in that stage? Anyway, I
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: kept waking up. He wasn't awake. He got to 5.30.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: So he slept from 11 p.m. to 5.30. That's pretty good.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I had to get up and pump because my boobs
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: were absolutely, felt like they were about to explode. But
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: it was an absolute win. Who knows what's going to
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: happen tonight? But it's just good to know that he
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: can actually do it. So I was very proud. It
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: was a very proud moment for me. My low of
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: the week, again, I'm just sounding like I'm absolutely obsessed
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: with my son, but it has been my life for
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: the last eight weeks. Just everything is focused on him.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: So my low would be that he had a vaccination
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: yesterday and for his six weeks vaccinations, Rhys actually held
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: him while he got his injections because I was getting
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: checked out by the doctor. So he said this time
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: I had to hold him and it was quite heartbreaking
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: seeing his little face just burst into tears. So that
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: was very sad, but I'm glad that's all done. I'm
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: surprised your high this week isn't being back on the
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: podcast because you said you've been raring to go. You've
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: been missing it. Well, I already thought that was just
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: a given. Yeah, true. Well, I think that is all
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: we have time for today. This has been a big
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Friday episode. If you have enjoyed today's show, could you
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: please make sure you are subscribed on Apple Podcasts and
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: also Spotify and leave us a five-star review. I would
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: also love to see where people are listening from. I
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: think we need to start that up again. So if
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: you are going through McDonald's and getting your nostalgic glass. Oh, please.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: And also let us know if you're stoked about them
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: like me because it makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with me. Again, just another
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: excuse to go there. Now, this episode was recorded on
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: the traditional land of the ghana people of the adelaide
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: plains we pay respect to elders past and present