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- 3:06Speaker 5: Yes, good afternoon, Hope you guys are doing amazing and
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- 3:34Speaker 5: My name is Joby, and this is the Rhythm Scoopture
- 3:37Speaker 5: every Friday and Monday, right here on the middle of
- 3:40Speaker 5: the twenty first century black or Finital from four to
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- 3:43Speaker 2: So yes, right along with us on this conversation as
- 3:47Speaker 2: we entertain you. My name is Jobish. Money in the building.
- 3:51Speaker 6: Amazing, You're good afternoon, good evening. Welcome to the Rhythm
- 3:55Speaker 6: Scripture and Money.
- 3:58Speaker 4: I'm happy to be here.
- 3:59Speaker 2: How are you doing.
- 4:00Speaker 6: I'm okay, tired, just tired, exhausted, exhausted, I don't know,
- 4:05Speaker 6: maybe like running around, Oh yeah, running around learning imagine
- 4:11Speaker 6: I always money.
- 4:11Speaker 4: I don't know how. Yeah, that's crazy, always money. I
- 4:14Speaker 4: can't tell myself.
- 4:16Speaker 6: If I live there, I'll be back by this time,
- 4:19Speaker 6: only if I don't have like a lot of stuff.
- 4:21Speaker 4: To do because music.
- 4:23Speaker 2: Oh for that's crazy.
- 4:25Speaker 4: And I came back minute to for really I need
- 4:28Speaker 4: to go there.
- 4:29Speaker 5: Just seen some really nice perfilms they're selling there, and
- 4:31Speaker 5: I need to go grab me some that I've been wanting.
- 4:35Speaker 2: Yeah, the.
- 4:39Speaker 1: Ship.
- 4:40Speaker 2: You can't tell me anything.
- 4:42Speaker 5: I'm grow up Like in Islando, you just know, like kings,
- 4:45Speaker 5: I supposed actually need to It's like you'll get everything
- 4:50Speaker 5: you wanted.
- 4:51Speaker 2: And again I know, yeah I'm great. Just feeling chilled. Yeah,
- 4:56Speaker 2: I just feels amazing you too, people blue white.
- 5:03Speaker 4: It's it's an I don't know.
- 5:11Speaker 6: Sometimes I use words in my head and I think
- 5:14Speaker 6: the mean what I mean, and then I find it
- 5:16Speaker 6: don't mean that.
- 5:17Speaker 2: It happens that. Actually I make up my own one,
- 5:21Speaker 2: so really and people will understand me.
- 5:24Speaker 6: And Luca has been easy, beautiful, Luka has been excited,
- 5:29Speaker 6: Maybek has been amazing successful.
- 5:33Speaker 2: Yeah, I was yours being chilled. Yeah, but I think
- 5:37Speaker 2: started with a very high note. Yeah. The middle just
- 5:39Speaker 2: felt like nah, I just need to rop this week.
- 5:43Speaker 5: I mean the moment the week. Actually, in the middle
- 5:45Speaker 5: of the week, I feel some type of way. I'm
- 5:47Speaker 5: just like, let's rop this shit happen. I'm ready to
- 5:50Speaker 5: start next.
- 5:50Speaker 4: Week flancholy like this.
- 5:53Speaker 5: Yeah really, oh really, I think especially Akata actually triggered
- 6:00Speaker 5: to then like then I need.
- 6:02Speaker 2: To really did talk and really I was really you,
- 6:06Speaker 2: I was really really crazy, but poor you to the
- 6:10Speaker 2: whole day, don't put I loves actually a.
- 6:18Speaker 4: Journey I used to get.
- 6:21Speaker 2: So that really leads to love your energy drinks Carney.
- 6:29Speaker 5: Then because Caronica Andalus, like I was really ge only
- 6:35Speaker 5: like when I was coming.
- 6:36Speaker 2: I love after away your.
- 6:44Speaker 4: Polite you're from the start of the.
- 6:51Speaker 5: Last that's definally remember what if I were back to
- 6:57Speaker 5: bad because the modes actually didn't.
- 7:03Speaker 4: Come. And I'm doing.
- 7:08Speaker 7: I'm going because like I because like maybe imagine, let's
- 7:14Speaker 7: who feel honestly, but before they because Wednesday the last
- 7:21Speaker 7: time I get there, not even we can do the
- 7:24Speaker 7: weekend me.
- 7:26Speaker 2: You come on and so I just want a chill.
- 7:31Speaker 5: And actually I think that chilling is going to make
- 7:33Speaker 5: me reflect on a lot and I'm.
- 7:35Speaker 4: Sorry for it.
- 7:36Speaker 5: I'm giving myself to month this next month and get
- 7:39Speaker 5: driving for also the next month.
- 7:44Speaker 2: I'm trying to mind then maybe take now break it.
- 7:49Speaker 4: Imagine what imagine it's in ours as long as you
- 7:52Speaker 4: go to.
- 7:53Speaker 5: This mentally clock around find out no do that and
- 7:59Speaker 5: of course we you love someone up here around me.
- 8:03Speaker 5: It's always good with me, like it was not just
- 8:06Speaker 5: any tempt just go do it somewhere else, like that's.
- 8:10Speaker 2: The agreement somewhere else next to me.
- 8:16Speaker 5: Support you, thank you, but you're splain about things someone
- 8:19Speaker 5: should not do or things should not be done. There's
- 8:22Speaker 5: a bit by a cute for this week. Yeah it's
- 8:31Speaker 5: really lately in because something is just.
- 8:34Speaker 2: Not okay with me?
- 8:40Speaker 4: Yeah about.
- 8:48Speaker 5: But yes, So this lady is talking about some habits
- 8:50Speaker 5: actually that she had to drop and she has no
- 8:52Speaker 5: excuse for. And I was actually relating to this so
- 8:55Speaker 5: much because I feel like it gets to a certain
- 8:56Speaker 5: age you like now could not be choosing to. I've
- 9:00Speaker 5: been listening to like videos for the last one now
- 9:02Speaker 5: on TikTok, and most of the videos, like any, people
- 9:08Speaker 5: have different opinions about they think about things, even if
- 9:12Speaker 5: something didn't work for you or it affected you. That
- 9:16Speaker 5: people don't know how to move on from stuff like
- 9:19Speaker 5: That's what I've understood from a toxic how do I
- 9:23Speaker 5: say toxic? Toxic traits and also toxic relationships of friends
- 9:29Speaker 5: and relationship too, And because of maybe such experiences, most
- 9:34Speaker 5: of the people hoop out their traumasia and not in
- 9:36Speaker 5: a healed way. This is from a very bitter way.
- 9:39Speaker 5: So now you start giving us advice from your experience.
- 9:45Speaker 4: And money, No, you keep your lessons to yourself.
- 9:48Speaker 5: And if that is gonna stop you from not wanting
- 9:50Speaker 5: to desire life apart from what you've experienced, then you're
- 9:55Speaker 5: very mind You're a very limited person in the mind.
- 9:57Speaker 5: That is according to me, Like I'm topping it, who
- 10:00Speaker 5: evolved apart from all of experience and believe you can
- 10:03Speaker 5: get better?
- 10:06Speaker 4: I agree with it.
- 10:07Speaker 6: I definitely feel like it's important job people share to
- 10:11Speaker 6: give your experience from your perspective. Yeah, but it's supposed
- 10:14Speaker 6: to come from a perspective like the moment you could
- 10:17Speaker 6: you any advice, because then I can't.
- 10:19Speaker 4: Give you advice from a hanger perspective.
- 10:21Speaker 6: It's negative, yeah, you know, but the moment I can
- 10:24Speaker 6: tell you, Okay, this is my experience, I went through this.
- 10:28Speaker 6: This person did me that, or this job did me that,
- 10:32Speaker 6: or this lifestyle did me dirty. But everything is possible.
- 10:35Speaker 6: Look at me now, this is abode is coming from
- 10:37Speaker 6: a space so that when you see it and you're
- 10:40Speaker 6: in that position and you're losing, are people like if
- 10:43Speaker 6: this person went through this and not alone, meaning there
- 10:47Speaker 6: is light in the other side.
- 10:50Speaker 5: Yeah exactly, So let me find let me share this video,
- 10:53Speaker 5: and then I'm gonna share the video. Actually that has
- 10:54Speaker 5: made me think about it because act, and it's crazy
- 10:59Speaker 5: to see that men have came also like to a
- 11:01Speaker 5: mama learning, you know, and it was really bad that
- 11:04Speaker 5: you're giving actually talking from a women's perspective, not even
- 11:07Speaker 5: from a men's perspective.
- 11:09Speaker 2: It's just crazy.
- 11:09Speaker 4: But let's listen to this one.
- 11:10Speaker 5: I really love this one because there are some of
- 11:12Speaker 5: the things I can relate to and being this grown
- 11:15Speaker 5: and still life doesn't stop. What about the plants last year,
- 11:18Speaker 5: It doesn't stop. You might have all that information or
- 11:21Speaker 5: knowledge from even there. So listen to this and let
- 11:24Speaker 5: us know what are some of the things you had
- 11:26Speaker 5: to say no and at what age? Specifically? Someone like
- 11:30Speaker 5: it for him thinks club according to MIZI twenties talking
- 11:39Speaker 5: about your tackle club. Who you are twenty five something?
- 11:43Speaker 2: Mister?
- 11:44Speaker 4: Will you no?
- 11:45Speaker 2: I don't.
- 11:46Speaker 6: I think it's like I think person I think I
- 11:49Speaker 6: personally think out depends which guy, because like you can't
- 11:56Speaker 6: also be we're looking about this music loud we got
- 12:03Speaker 6: like I remember, I remember before men we used to
- 12:09Speaker 6: be crazy men and club hope. Yeah, and right, I
- 12:13Speaker 6: can't remember the last time I went to a club
- 12:16Speaker 6: literally doing that.
- 12:18Speaker 4: It's just like, Hey, I'm.
- 12:19Speaker 6: Hanging out with my people, and I like that, but
- 12:23Speaker 6: I like that more. I'm going to the club sweaty
- 12:28Speaker 6: use a lot of money.
- 12:29Speaker 4: You might, but I don't.
- 12:34Speaker 6: But I don't think like having funs should never stop.
- 12:38Speaker 6: Your funds should continue the way you prefer it.
- 12:41Speaker 2: That's so true. So let's listen to this lady here,
- 12:44Speaker 2: say Linda mud telling the modern for my kids and
- 12:49Speaker 2: for my financies and also something else.
- 12:51Speaker 4: I'm allowed to change my line.
- 12:53Speaker 2: This is just what's working for me right now.
- 12:56Speaker 4: I working for me out.
- 13:00Speaker 2: I love the fact she says she's allowed to change.
- 13:04Speaker 5: Because people need to understand that first experiences or experience
- 13:07Speaker 5: you had before, let them not limit you from living
- 13:10Speaker 5: your fullest because actually minimal and you call it actually
- 13:12Speaker 5: can I say my very very bitter life, very sad
- 13:16Speaker 5: lives because they they they have refused to wanna live.
- 13:22Speaker 2: Life past what treat that there stack at and attack again?
- 13:30Speaker 2: I say it. I have been married, by the way,
- 13:32Speaker 2: but someone who didn't even love me.
- 13:34Speaker 5: Live, I won't even love me. I don't think if
- 13:36Speaker 5: they even liked me. Part of die okay, because I
- 13:40Speaker 5: knew like it did me in my sense, and like nigga,
- 13:42Speaker 5: you're not gonna treat me this way. I'm not to
- 13:44Speaker 5: your they're the children's ReLit yet Yeah, eat and run,
- 13:48Speaker 5: but I'm gone.
- 13:49Speaker 4: I'm gone.
- 13:49Speaker 2: You think you're gonna'm gone?
- 13:51Speaker 5: And they're not gonna make me set because I don't
- 13:53Speaker 5: have I don't know what I want and I'll get
- 13:56Speaker 5: it ship.
- 13:59Speaker 2: And I I don't know why to double.
- 14:01Speaker 8: Playing perform for the propaganda that my nurs need to
- 14:04Speaker 8: have a foreign object on them or ala for them
- 14:07Speaker 8: to be considered.
- 14:09Speaker 2: So she's refused.
- 14:10Speaker 5: She stopped doing her nails like she just stays with
- 14:13Speaker 5: her natural nails. She said, it's almost a year, right,
- 14:17Speaker 5: like a car nails is okay. And I'm like, that's
- 14:19Speaker 5: actually some discipline, you know, because I feel like us
- 14:22Speaker 5: as ladies personally, Yeah, there at times I need a
- 14:24Speaker 5: break off tip to be honest, especially when I seem
- 14:26Speaker 5: because I can notice on my nails are getting weaker,
- 14:29Speaker 5: and I'll give them a break and give them a
- 14:31Speaker 5: break literally for me, it was my chap of.
- 14:35Speaker 2: Just for a few weeks or days. But it's okay.
- 14:38Speaker 5: I like for me, just to maybe add on top
- 14:42Speaker 5: of what she's saying, I feel like women need to
- 14:44Speaker 5: understand it's okay to give your nails.
- 14:46Speaker 2: A break, and it's okay to embrace your natural nails.
- 14:49Speaker 2: You know, because I'm looking.
- 14:54Speaker 5: This as some muggly she take care of them, take
- 15:00Speaker 5: care of your nails. Actually that is negligence.
- 15:02Speaker 2: Then you can causes. So take care of your nails.
- 15:07Speaker 5: Even if you're not applying anything, because it's enough for peddiculen.
- 15:13Speaker 4: You wash up me, by the way, I didn't ever
- 15:15Speaker 4: feel in take you about not making my nails.
- 15:17Speaker 6: And if if I ever think about people even rice
- 15:22Speaker 6: for me, like if you're noticed miss angy nails, honestly,
- 15:30Speaker 6: like honestly, I don't. I don't like, yes, I do
- 15:33Speaker 6: make my nails, but most of the times I'm honest
- 15:36Speaker 6: with my natural nails. I believe if you wash your
- 15:38Speaker 6: hands well and every woman in their classes they have
- 15:41Speaker 6: a cute call remove and who goes FI.
- 15:47Speaker 4: It doesn't have to be I think, like people got so.
- 15:49Speaker 6: Much into esthetics and what esthetics is supposed to be,
- 15:53Speaker 6: like even even lashes now not do like it's okay
- 15:57Speaker 6: to embrace you naturally. It's not like it's not a
- 16:01Speaker 6: master you know, it's competing without clashes and ship like
- 16:04Speaker 6: trust me, you're not.
- 16:13Speaker 4: You're not course if I'm damn my.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Own kittle for a whole year, usually by leving like
- 16:24Speaker 2: are you kidding? Like me, compare attention to think.
- 16:31Speaker 4: Even my chocolate.
- 16:35Speaker 2: Something the necklace and what next? Exactly this time I
- 16:42Speaker 2: noticed it's so crazy because like.
- 16:45Speaker 6: As people like esthetics, this is how you're supposed to
- 16:48Speaker 6: look like without this, and and even even like like
- 16:53Speaker 6: because I don't care, I like very weak when I
- 16:59Speaker 6: never like secret builders, it was strong. But I can't
- 17:06Speaker 6: put on chips as.
- 17:07Speaker 4: Tips all the time.
- 17:10Speaker 6: And it's okay sometimes to let it be breed still
- 17:13Speaker 6: as we can make up kill as equal still as
- 17:16Speaker 6: even as you find because all these things also you're
- 17:19Speaker 6: body and look at.
- 17:20Speaker 2: Men are natural men, and we're gonna talk about in my.
- 17:23Speaker 6: Food that they're belowing their but not like they're in
- 17:29Speaker 6: the very natural strets and they still look like it's
- 17:34Speaker 6: okay still as they may be super complicated anything.
- 17:37Speaker 5: I've just I've listened to another woman. It's crazy how
- 17:41Speaker 5: women think you know, it's aesthetic man. You make a
- 17:47Speaker 5: man think you actually are, and they don't care you're
- 17:51Speaker 5: talking about men actually don't like bbyls. And if you
- 17:56Speaker 5: have a bbyl, you are trapped to come and niggers
- 17:59Speaker 5: drunk Like there's a textually talking about your body.
- 18:02Speaker 2: There's a type of men you attract. So if you
- 18:05Speaker 2: don't take care of.
- 18:06Speaker 5: Your body as a woman or go for this synthetic
- 18:10Speaker 5: or whatever procedures, you're thinking you're fitting a certain caliber,
- 18:14Speaker 5: you're actually you're actually putting yourself in a certain caliber
- 18:17Speaker 5: of also men, because a woman who's natural has a
- 18:20Speaker 5: natural body, like you're gonna attract a man who has career,
- 18:24Speaker 5: was ambitions, who has money, to someone who was.
- 18:28Speaker 2: Like intentions with you.
- 18:30Speaker 5: But biblsd all that wanna be an extra body, extra
- 18:35Speaker 5: thing meaningly lash what ages eyebrows for eyebrowses basil eyebrows?
- 18:45Speaker 5: There's really classic ages and there's exaggerated why you're being
- 18:49Speaker 5: exaggerated ones?
- 18:51Speaker 2: You don't look like a whole for real, I don't
- 18:54Speaker 2: like that ship.
- 18:55Speaker 4: And also.
- 18:59Speaker 2: I feel little you go on everywhere everything, that's for sure.
- 19:04Speaker 4: I couldn't feel like you was going to glue.
- 19:09Speaker 5: I'm not trying understand. Actually, growing up things change. You
- 19:12Speaker 5: remember personally, we both we bought that the same whatever
- 19:16Speaker 5: and then me mind is always glued. I don't even
- 19:19Speaker 5: you don't yeah, afraid it looks way better even a
- 19:26Speaker 5: guy who was selling with on I didn't come for
- 19:29Speaker 5: not gonna call it.
- 19:31Speaker 2: And I need a week.
- 19:32Speaker 5: Some need my days with the econa, the lace and
- 19:38Speaker 5: see a glue. Actually, if you think about it, it
- 19:42Speaker 5: does a lot of damage. I don't mind it once
- 19:45Speaker 5: a while, being honest, because it could not look thing
- 19:48Speaker 5: and depends what you're doing.
- 19:50Speaker 2: You literally have to do that ship down but could
- 19:52Speaker 2: if you come up. Who grew? I mean, but I
- 19:59Speaker 2: was much as I understood.
- 20:00Speaker 5: It's the laces that matter week, but it's also the
- 20:14Speaker 5: last and you understand it's the lace because there are
- 20:16Speaker 5: different type of places. There are really light laser and
- 20:19Speaker 5: there's there's this is by z isn't even z A.
- 20:23Speaker 5: There's really like actually melt s comp you and light
- 20:28Speaker 5: because it's human, so you feel like you literally have
- 20:30Speaker 5: nothing on your head. So I understand the difference because
- 20:33Speaker 5: I've also been doing studying aw for the result when
- 20:37Speaker 5: I was learning about glueing whatever, So I understood a
- 20:40Speaker 5: lot of stuff.
- 20:41Speaker 2: But yeah, so embrace the natural self. It's really really important.
- 20:46Speaker 4: It's beautiful. I lost to go.
- 20:49Speaker 8: I want to see if I can get to air
- 20:50Speaker 8: and then we'll see second thing excessive skin care products.
- 20:55Speaker 9: Me.
- 20:56Speaker 2: I sorry, but I don't do skin care prod. I
- 21:00Speaker 2: don't do skin care. I have no skin care.
- 21:02Speaker 5: As a matter of fact, my skin care where you
- 21:04Speaker 5: go first. And I've said this a couple of time
- 21:07Speaker 5: Rose Water. That's because after me, when I was doing
- 21:10Speaker 5: advertisement of a certain brand as skin care product, those
- 21:14Speaker 5: are the things I tried and I saw them working.
- 21:17Speaker 5: Not really care but what I managed to clients RELI
- 21:21Speaker 5: on a commission like I had to. First, you have
- 21:23Speaker 5: to try something on yourself because connect the person two
- 21:29Speaker 5: clients like me Gela and Ilqualter that who you to
- 21:35Speaker 5: Jela and mess around around finders. And that's why people
- 21:38Speaker 5: say and look at most of the skin brands we
- 21:41Speaker 5: have nowadays, they are careful. They're careful selling your product
- 21:46Speaker 5: because if it damages your skin or a console.
- 21:50Speaker 4: Because you have to connect like professionals.
- 21:53Speaker 6: You have to go like you have to go see
- 21:55Speaker 6: like thematology, Yeah, like a skin whatever wind your skin, yes,
- 22:00Speaker 6: type of skin you have because sometimes you're skinny hour
- 22:03Speaker 6: and some people have literally soft smooth skin.
- 22:06Speaker 4: They still do a thousand stuff. I think this thing's job.
- 22:09Speaker 6: I think it's mostly women, whomen have gotten into social
- 22:12Speaker 6: media and anesthetics and start selling esthetics and it's okay,
- 22:17Speaker 6: trust me, maybe maybe one younger sunscreen and just that
- 22:21Speaker 6: it was like primer, young primer, So just use sunscreen.
- 22:25Speaker 6: That's the only thing that I shanga woo. So literally
- 22:28Speaker 6: then I'll got twice and twice and twice a day.
- 22:30Speaker 6: Literally I could not start immediately. Yeah, do this to
- 22:34Speaker 6: this because those are some those of these things.
- 22:36Speaker 4: There's a skin. Yeah, and then and then you start
- 22:43Speaker 4: asking yourself when did this that?
- 22:45Speaker 2: Because I feel like if it's a.
- 22:49Speaker 6: Coffee, but you have to look to keep byes of
- 22:53Speaker 6: you to look level my nabor academy. You know your
- 22:59Speaker 6: coronium because thank god, a melanie, you peel.
- 23:08Speaker 5: The sand band times I used to peel. Actually now
- 23:13Speaker 5: sometimes it's because of water.
- 23:15Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll tell you.
- 23:16Speaker 5: Maybe I'm maybe Tom to me, I'm a jack and
- 23:21Speaker 5: maybe it's too salty or maybe maybe mostly but.
- 23:25Speaker 2: Literally yeah, yeh, never.
- 23:29Speaker 4: Salt.
- 23:30Speaker 6: Let mess your white booking millions see now and probably
- 23:35Speaker 6: maybe because you know more that yeah, so you can't
- 23:38Speaker 6: even see you were like sports.
- 23:42Speaker 4: Into light skin a kill on a pampus, I mean
- 23:44Speaker 4: you're on a pampers.
- 23:45Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's true, because I'm more DK and it
- 23:50Speaker 6: tells men it's crazy.
- 23:52Speaker 5: Personally, I recommend the only because understood skin routines as well,
- 23:56Speaker 5: very well. The only thing I recommend when you're doing
- 23:58Speaker 5: actually shower, come maybe shower, scrab and shower is enough.
- 24:04Speaker 4: It is nice, exactly.
- 24:06Speaker 2: Yeah. Otherwise subscriber as a boony, your cousin here, here.
- 24:12Speaker 4: Your clubs and the gloves in glove.
- 24:20Speaker 2: I know bathing.
- 24:22Speaker 4: I love bathing gloves.
- 24:25Speaker 2: Get you this spongey spongy stuff. It's too soft, like.
- 24:31Speaker 4: No, no, look at what I used to I used
- 24:41Speaker 4: to shower with her. I used to shower with the.
- 24:45Speaker 6: Normal one and whatever or whatever equal buyer and then.
- 24:54Speaker 4: And then my man, is it gloves? It's I bought.
- 24:59Speaker 5: Man.
- 25:00Speaker 6: Really, there's a difference, like I could notice the difference
- 25:05Speaker 6: this gloves superstition that you.
- 25:11Speaker 2: I love the gloves so and then I love though, yeah,
- 25:16Speaker 2: I love.
- 25:16Speaker 6: I love me some shoe because it's not gonna be
- 25:18Speaker 6: a player younger what I mean, because like SABOONI I'm
- 25:24Speaker 6: very choosing.
- 25:25Speaker 2: I'm not. You're gonna keep tried to keeping up ships
- 25:29Speaker 2: for really, yeah, I tried it's not just my ships.
- 25:32Speaker 2: Like most I'm gonna buy like maybe.
- 25:35Speaker 4: She's not.
- 25:38Speaker 9: For you.
- 25:41Speaker 6: To me.
- 25:42Speaker 4: I don't buy soap. I just make the charge.
- 25:44Speaker 6: I have a big like a five litter one shaggy
- 25:47Speaker 6: apple and then I shower with it. I don't buy
- 25:49Speaker 6: soap since I maybe back I'm a basketbak girl.
- 25:53Speaker 4: I don't mind. Imagine we're gonna like three liters four hundred.
- 26:02Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not expressed.
- 26:04Speaker 4: It's nice.
- 26:05Speaker 2: Yeah, it depends what.
- 26:06Speaker 6: You like, and it's also defends are It's not supposed
- 26:09Speaker 6: to be from a point I feel like, it's not
- 26:10Speaker 6: supposed to be from a point of pressure.
- 26:12Speaker 4: Supposed to be and you really definitely like yeah, yeah,
- 26:20Speaker 4: okay that you have whatever and the house and then
- 26:26Speaker 4: I'm just a girl. That's not just being. That's a
- 26:29Speaker 4: pressure like left the show, like what do you like?
- 26:36Speaker 4: Because you you white?
- 26:40Speaker 6: I see as it's supposed to be. It's supposed to
- 26:43Speaker 6: move with your personality and what you like. When if
- 26:46Speaker 6: you could your UK job, when you're a job, it
- 26:51Speaker 6: goes with you.
- 26:52Speaker 4: That is who you are that you can go up in.
- 26:58Speaker 6: Yeah, because you're definitely you know, this is what they
- 27:01Speaker 6: genuinely like this goes with their personality and this is
- 27:04Speaker 6: them without pretending young.
- 27:05Speaker 8: But that's I'm not interested in having a tensted skin care.
- 27:11Speaker 2: I can't keep up, and I said, I'm working. I
- 27:14Speaker 2: want to do again. In the eyes came I ask
- 27:17Speaker 2: us to do.
- 27:25Speaker 10: Early.
- 27:25Speaker 6: Bye, give a good off season scrab you're going to
- 27:31Speaker 6: six months later? And that's to me, what is in
- 27:34Speaker 6: a scrab after six months?
- 27:37Speaker 4: Like the scrab? I'm so sure.
- 27:41Speaker 6: And the only person who visited me what was my brother.
- 27:43Speaker 6: My brother is for a soft boy. He does skincare,
- 27:47Speaker 6: so I was like, it's just him. Yeah, that's how
- 27:49Speaker 6: you can do. It's not your things here.
- 27:52Speaker 11: And if that changes, I will be sure to another
- 27:56Speaker 11: thing I think, and this has been something that I
- 27:59Speaker 11: haven't been doing for a very long time. What I
- 28:01Speaker 11: do every month, whatever dispossible in come I have, I
- 28:05Speaker 11: will give this to a worthy cause. So maybe someone
- 28:08Speaker 11: I know specifically is struggling financially, or I can sell
- 28:11Speaker 11: it to a children's whome as opposed to just giving.
- 28:14Speaker 6: It to that because I believe in writing. Okay, yeah,
- 28:21Speaker 6: I definitely believe. Yeah, I do try it, Okay, I.
- 28:26Speaker 4: Like, oh you know, yeah I do.
- 28:32Speaker 6: Because of somebody okay, all right, yeah, yeah, so like
- 28:38Speaker 6: I like, for me, I feel like if I believe
- 28:41Speaker 6: in that thing like this, if I want something or
- 28:43Speaker 6: im if i'm if I'm prig and pressing for something. Yeah,
- 28:47Speaker 6: maybe like my business. Yeah I want to do something
- 28:49Speaker 6: for Yeah, I put something on it. It doesn't have
- 28:53Speaker 6: to be charged.
- 28:54Speaker 4: I can give the poor.
- 28:56Speaker 6: Like for me, that's my type of tithing. I don't
- 28:58Speaker 6: have to give you to the charge. Maybe watch many
- 29:09Speaker 6: So for me, I just give.
- 29:12Speaker 4: I just give it.
- 29:13Speaker 6: Like what if I get paid, Like if I get
- 29:14Speaker 6: paid for something, I'm sure you're a lipa still luly
- 29:23Speaker 6: to launch into something like I have given. It might
- 29:28Speaker 6: not ten, but I've given something for.
- 29:30Speaker 5: Me, I say, it's not even when I get paid
- 29:33Speaker 5: or anything. It's like something I've embraced. Every time I
- 29:37Speaker 5: go to that guy for chipple, there was always those kids. Yeah,
- 29:40Speaker 5: I know they ask you for money, and of course
- 29:43Speaker 5: I'm not gonna give you money. You're gonna do with
- 29:46Speaker 5: the money or my money. And I'm very conscious of
- 29:49Speaker 5: actually giving someone money.
- 29:51Speaker 2: I'd rather I believe in energy. Some also when it
- 29:55Speaker 2: comes to money for the rest of your life, So
- 30:01Speaker 2: I do I buy them chapel. For enough money, I'll
- 30:05Speaker 2: buy them chiple. I just tell that.
- 30:09Speaker 5: Because maybe a person but dies to do it. I
- 30:12Speaker 5: might die, but they say thank you, thank you for
- 30:15Speaker 5: me is enough. That's just enough. I found I have
- 30:18Speaker 5: that tendency. If someone they ask me this idea money
- 30:21Speaker 5: by you, I will just Lisa, but they could get
- 30:25Speaker 5: a collect Yeah.
- 30:28Speaker 4: Like I feel like it's it's really important to be back.
- 30:31Speaker 6: I feel like try thing depends like on your on
- 30:34Speaker 6: your it's it's really important to give back. Giving back
- 30:37Speaker 6: is important because that more comes from exactly because like
- 30:41Speaker 6: my good you will never go again.
- 30:43Speaker 4: That is what you will never like food too, and
- 30:46Speaker 4: if you want something to always because you give back.
- 30:49Speaker 6: I feel like thing is that it's just very they
- 30:53Speaker 6: they give it like in religion, they give it thee
- 30:56Speaker 6: giving back and they believe it not but it's giving backwards.
- 31:03Speaker 5: So tell us your ways of giving back to your
- 31:05Speaker 5: love to hear from you every single aesthetics, friendship, aesthetics,
- 31:11Speaker 5: other pink yellow vera.
- 31:15Speaker 6: To me one thing, I know, one thing, I know
- 31:20Speaker 6: one thing I know. My friends allways dress up so
- 31:23Speaker 6: I don't need to tell people.
- 31:25Speaker 4: Now you do that.
- 31:27Speaker 2: I like every meeting anyway. Just have to match Carlos.
- 31:30Speaker 2: You have to be matching.
- 31:34Speaker 4: Because like it's it's supposed to be. Like for example,
- 31:36Speaker 4: we're going somewhere right and.
- 31:38Speaker 6: Let's say it's an official thing, and I'll just tell
- 31:40Speaker 6: you have a go for a corporate meeting. Yeah, you
- 31:43Speaker 6: will show up corporate and you will always look like
- 31:45Speaker 6: I will not tell you violingual no, because I just
- 31:49Speaker 6: I have to say if there has to be like
- 31:51Speaker 6: a team, because like sometimes also you might be cause
- 31:54Speaker 6: me I love that man like.
- 32:02Speaker 4: Within a heal your money. That's like never looking at it. Okay,
- 32:10Speaker 4: we're going this. You don't have to tell me the
- 32:13Speaker 4: place a place that looks like I'm in team and
- 32:16Speaker 4: the no, but I never tell. And I don't like that. Things.
- 32:19Speaker 4: I love talking and say born I'm not you. That's things.
- 32:29Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like it's the best basic like
- 32:33Speaker 4: it's off to me by days of child here and
- 32:40Speaker 4: here you Meani.
- 32:41Speaker 8: I'm callings down for a good kicking in a dimly
- 32:44Speaker 8: lit restaurants, some cocktails, happy our pallet. But in every
- 32:48Speaker 8: single time I see you, I see you outside country
- 32:51Speaker 8: out and subscribe me.
- 32:53Speaker 2: You can keep the friendship.
- 32:54Speaker 12: I don't follow gossip pages, gossip vlogs, gossip.
- 32:59Speaker 2: Content in general. For me, that is not my history,
- 33:02Speaker 2: it has never been. I'm not interested who has a
- 33:05Speaker 2: phonowed and as a kind as a really that in
- 33:08Speaker 2: no way contributes to my mental health, not as it's multiplied.
- 33:12Speaker 2: And I feel like I used to.
- 33:15Speaker 5: I feel like for me relating about social media following trance, first,
- 33:19Speaker 5: we can't keep on we are.
- 33:21Speaker 9: This is work.
- 33:24Speaker 2: This is what we talk. You know, we are social media?
- 33:28Speaker 4: Are we have?
- 33:30Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 33:30Speaker 6: You know, I feel like as it depends also with
- 33:32Speaker 6: your job, because like there although it depends on job,
- 33:35Speaker 6: I feel like if it goes back to the human
- 33:37Speaker 6: if it's not your work. Yeah, also your and your
- 33:40Speaker 6: jobs like f I P a job.
- 33:45Speaker 4: Your own.
- 33:48Speaker 6: Apart from work, apart from big or whatever, because that
- 33:52Speaker 6: is our work. But again your f I pick can
- 33:55Speaker 6: not only be that alone. That's true, because I'm sure
- 33:58Speaker 6: if I go to you for if you do it,
- 34:00Speaker 6: could you all meet makeup, I'll meet food if you're
- 34:04Speaker 6: not wrong, hair right, And that's just me knowing you.
- 34:08Speaker 6: And then now there is the work part, now the
- 34:10Speaker 6: normal stuff. If you go to mine, of course, fashion, food, music,
- 34:15Speaker 6: a lot of a lot of music.
- 34:17Speaker 4: I guess those are my media three personality.
- 34:22Speaker 6: I feel like it's supposed to be like that, like
- 34:24Speaker 6: I U think, because it shows also you're not smart enough.
- 34:31Speaker 6: That is just living in a cocoon and you think
- 34:35Speaker 6: you're a damn person if all you know, because if
- 34:37Speaker 6: people now talk about changing the world or things that.
- 34:41Speaker 4: Are off, but there's nothing, you know, there's not a
- 34:44Speaker 4: dumb person.
- 34:45Speaker 2: I feel like for me to talk on what she's saying.
- 34:47Speaker 5: Now, my perspective of understanding our point is the the
- 34:51Speaker 5: the cons the cons.
- 34:54Speaker 2: Yeah, the cons of.
- 34:56Speaker 5: Following those pages is where you have to keep up
- 34:59Speaker 5: with people's businesses, don't you know, because like them, was
- 35:03Speaker 5: this necessary?
- 35:04Speaker 9: You know?
- 35:05Speaker 5: This is just of course that's scroll, but you call
- 35:08Speaker 5: it then why did I have to meet with this
- 35:10Speaker 5: kind of bullshit?
- 35:10Speaker 4: You know?
- 35:11Speaker 5: But because you follow the same pages that you have
- 35:13Speaker 5: to feed on for certain information.
- 35:15Speaker 2: Definitely will see them. But I just wish.
- 35:20Speaker 4: Because younger, damn I know, was any better about the weekend.
- 35:27Speaker 5: Will be both Honestly, you have been saying the freedom
- 35:31Speaker 5: of people just have been the ability to open accounts
- 35:34Speaker 5: and then I can just talk on tictok or Instagram
- 35:36Speaker 5: or your platform is just so crazy because people love
- 35:39Speaker 5: critical thinking in today's world, they just say, I.
- 35:45Speaker 4: Thank god that I have been released from the.
- 35:49Speaker 2: Dam score.
- 35:52Speaker 4: Something. I want to ask, what do you think about?
- 35:55Speaker 6: Because I cannot follow somebody's always going notibly follow, like
- 36:02Speaker 6: be friends with Like if everything I see you you're
- 36:05Speaker 6: always out?
- 36:08Speaker 2: Uh depends.
- 36:10Speaker 5: Number one, are you always outside and you're not working?
- 36:15Speaker 5: That's that for me is a big red flag because
- 36:17Speaker 5: if you always parting now, maybe that's a big red flag.
- 36:28Speaker 5: It depends because nowadays I'm talking outside now your cousin
- 36:33Speaker 5: not from the host clubs, so outside because get when
- 36:39Speaker 5: you're called outside now and host him waiter, Yeah you look.
- 36:48Speaker 4: Your content.
- 36:49Speaker 2: I feel like it's just reckless outside that I have
- 36:52Speaker 2: a problem with. Yeah, an adult, you're indebted to your
- 36:58Speaker 2: own choice.
- 36:59Speaker 6: But woice, Like from this conversation, everything is about it's
- 37:03Speaker 6: about growing stuff. Yeah, it's about age also, Yeah, everything
- 37:09Speaker 6: goes that certain fifteen because you're dressing like if you're fifteen,
- 37:14Speaker 6: I'm not a pink water.
- 37:15Speaker 4: That's good.
- 37:15Speaker 2: Trust that's even today I'm so brun believe like me
- 37:24Speaker 2: and I'm comfortable. Yeah, ye, like I mean I just
- 37:32Speaker 2: woa even.
- 37:34Speaker 5: You're like wow, I'm proud of myself because if I'm
- 37:37Speaker 5: really comfortable in being in that zone, that's really really amazing.
- 37:41Speaker 2: Normally to be cropped.
- 37:42Speaker 4: Top exactly every day, you know, doesn't have to.
- 37:47Speaker 2: I was looking at my pictures that you like, what
- 37:51Speaker 2: isn't that about?
- 37:53Speaker 5: Course I was in my era, that age, you know,
- 37:56Speaker 5: like dance, icy wazy, but like, I'm uncomfortable. But I'm
- 38:04Speaker 5: just genuinely uncomfortable. I'd rather do that in my house
- 38:07Speaker 5: for balconia. Come to cango like it is, I'm going
- 38:12Speaker 5: somewhere important unless I'm very not driving fine, literally, yeah,
- 38:16Speaker 5: I'm not gonna wear some stuff respectfully.
- 38:20Speaker 6: Man, when people a girl and you can never use
- 38:24Speaker 6: I know, things happen like honestly, things happen, and you're
- 38:29Speaker 6: just like everything changes, it is naturally changes, forcefully automatically.
- 38:36Speaker 2: That research speaking about changes.
- 38:38Speaker 5: This lady talking about she wants to live with a man,
- 38:42Speaker 5: and she's talking about the pros and constantly with the man.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Have you ever lived with a man? Yes? For how long?
- 38:50Speaker 4: Are too? How is it?
- 38:54Speaker 5: Honestly from my perspective and not being biased on just
- 38:59Speaker 5: your story.
- 39:00Speaker 4: But from my perspective, he needed help.
- 39:06Speaker 2: Okay, this is how it okay, okay, And we didn't.
- 39:12Speaker 4: Talk about it.
- 39:13Speaker 6: He was running away from home. I think home had
- 39:15Speaker 6: a pressure. Old home had a lot of pressure on him.
- 39:18Speaker 6: So when I met him, he was broken. So I'm
- 39:23Speaker 6: the one that had a place, and then we just
- 39:26Speaker 6: had We didn't talk about living to together. I never
- 39:30Speaker 6: thought we were living together in my mind, but looking
- 39:33Speaker 6: at it, I'm like, whoa, all your things are here.
- 39:36Speaker 4: I'm like, we are living together. What it was like?
- 39:40Speaker 6: Because at first it was like so nice, I see
- 39:42Speaker 6: you because I like that. I like I don't like
- 39:44Speaker 6: a man on my face. I like seeing you over
- 39:47Speaker 6: the weekend. I like to see you after two weeks.
- 39:50Speaker 6: I like to see a month. But a month is okay,
- 39:54Speaker 6: like if in the country, please, A month is okay.
- 39:57Speaker 6: Mostly in a Robbie, a month is okay, like let
- 39:59Speaker 6: me see you on anti basics. We can't be narrow
- 40:02Speaker 6: and I'm seeing the three months doesn't make sense to.
- 40:05Speaker 2: Me the whole man.
- 40:06Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't like three.
- 40:08Speaker 2: Weeks say that. I can't.
- 40:11Speaker 4: I can't.
- 40:12Speaker 2: I can't joby every day A girl forever.
- 40:15Speaker 4: I am a lover a girl. I really am a
- 40:18Speaker 4: love a girl.
- 40:19Speaker 6: I get men who are more love at that love
- 40:22Speaker 6: men than me because I think I'm more I show love.
- 40:25Speaker 2: I am tag love yeah.
- 40:27Speaker 4: Yeah, like my love is my love language.
- 40:32Speaker 6: No I am. I'm soft, like I'm really soft with
- 40:36Speaker 6: my people, but like I show love, and my my
- 40:40Speaker 6: love language is not mostly quality time, not because like
- 40:46Speaker 6: lang include quality time. Yeah. For me, my love language
- 40:50Speaker 6: the first word quality time, Nico, but it's not the
- 40:53Speaker 6: first for me is affect. It's like out of service.
- 40:57Speaker 6: So I'll do stuff even saying I love you joby dance.
- 41:00Speaker 6: It's hard for me, not hard for me, like I
- 41:02Speaker 6: don't say it, but I just don't miss a mini.
- 41:07Speaker 6: I love you too, you understand. So I always get
- 41:11Speaker 6: I always get the opposite of me. I get people
- 41:14Speaker 6: who have quality time. I get people who love affection
- 41:18Speaker 6: like kidia, catchy, catchy affirmations. They will always they're on
- 41:24Speaker 6: your face, and for me me, I'm not on their faces.
- 41:28Speaker 6: I think it works for me because it's opposites. I
- 41:30Speaker 6: get both sides. But for me, it's out of service.
- 41:33Speaker 6: So I'll do stuff for you like I'll do I'll
- 41:37Speaker 6: do anything for you. I'll do and it's I'm not
- 41:40Speaker 6: questionable like up like I'm not you don't even doubt
- 41:47Speaker 6: me because like, I know she's gonna do it if
- 41:50Speaker 6: I ask. So that's my love language number one. I
- 41:54Speaker 6: think for me, it's out of service, gives. Gives is
- 41:58Speaker 6: also my love language elect.
- 42:02Speaker 2: Giver.
- 42:02Speaker 6: Yeah and then now maybe a little quality, a little quality,
- 42:07Speaker 6: a little quality.
- 42:07Speaker 4: Okay, so that's what I like. I'm opposite. Yeah, I
- 42:12Speaker 4: don't know what your love language.
- 42:13Speaker 5: The one you give quality time number one, and I
- 42:17Speaker 5: expect the same reprocated. I'm a giver to I'm such
- 42:21Speaker 5: a gift and I feel like for me, i've actually
- 42:25Speaker 5: met the same.
- 42:26Speaker 2: I've never met someone who's into stingy too.
- 42:29Speaker 5: Yeah, because me actually love I love unexpected gifts and
- 42:32Speaker 5: it always I love that Japan like too many. But
- 42:38Speaker 5: am only to pictures something you've gotten from me and.
- 42:42Speaker 2: Ask me if I like it. I just love that
- 42:44Speaker 2: so much.
- 42:48Speaker 4: You're an apple of service.
- 42:49Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 42:50Speaker 4: Yeah, you cook for your friend, so welcoming your love language.
- 42:54Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 42:55Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm such a host. I realized that I don't
- 43:00Speaker 5: people come into my house and cooking. That's my major thing, cooking,
- 43:05Speaker 5: cool school, you know.
- 43:11Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 43:11Speaker 5: So yeah, I think quality time, out of service and gifting. Yeah,
- 43:18Speaker 5: I don't think mean him too complicated. I love being touched,
- 43:23Speaker 5: you know, like.
- 43:24Speaker 4: Back, but not in public.
- 43:26Speaker 6: I never see you know, so like it's not public
- 43:29Speaker 6: displace like yes, with your personal private.
- 43:32Speaker 4: Yeah yeah yeah because me and I mean yeah, caddles.
- 43:39Speaker 2: And I'm just chilling.
- 43:41Speaker 5: I said, I'll put up an attitude for me to
- 43:43Speaker 5: just be I'm okay.
- 43:45Speaker 2: I love that because I'm throwing yeah. Yeah, so believe
- 43:50Speaker 2: it is the man.
- 43:51Speaker 4: Yeah, I was saying, yeah.
- 43:53Speaker 6: So he so like we we now I had a place,
- 43:57Speaker 6: right yeah, And then he said, so, this is the
- 44:01Speaker 6: one thing I learned at a younger and I'll tell
- 44:03Speaker 6: people about living together with the man. First and foremost,
- 44:08Speaker 6: don't let a man in your house. First, from my
- 44:10Speaker 6: perspect if you're not ready to live with a man,
- 44:12Speaker 6: to take that step of him. From my perspective of
- 44:15Speaker 6: you living, coming to your place, a man coming to
- 44:18Speaker 6: your house not for me, I don't think for him
- 44:22Speaker 6: coming to your place. It's kind of that is what
- 44:25Speaker 6: happened to me. And my experience was not was not
- 44:28Speaker 6: all that bad, but was not also all that good.
- 44:31Speaker 6: So he didn't have a job. He had a job
- 44:37Speaker 6: that jobs I was a contract I could see contracts
- 44:46Speaker 6: next month, and then who started hanging out at my place?
- 44:53Speaker 6: So it was like over the weekend, you would come
- 44:56Speaker 6: with chill. Right then when I go to work on Monday, listen,
- 45:00Speaker 6: he goes back to his whole. So I think he
- 45:04Speaker 6: he had had like a financial break because he actually
- 45:07Speaker 6: heard this place and then all things got bad, so
- 45:09Speaker 6: they had to move.
- 45:10Speaker 4: He had to move back to his folks. So he
- 45:13Speaker 4: used to live.
- 45:15Speaker 6: Wow, like like I'm a younger, Kuo, I'm a younger
- 45:19Speaker 6: con my younger, but to do it the compound yours
- 45:23Speaker 6: as so.
- 45:28Speaker 4: But again also like living with the family, I think
- 45:30Speaker 4: it was the environment was so oxic for him.
- 45:33Speaker 6: He couldn't manage to live with the family. So many
- 45:36Speaker 6: two mans are going out. One day, I'm coming, I'm
- 45:39Speaker 6: going to work, and then Basi because me and you's
- 45:49Speaker 6: gonna call it chalks Nicosmatu. You know that he's always
- 45:58Speaker 6: thinking because like honeymoon, when I'm appendana the cattle the
- 46:03Speaker 6: whole day and I'm like, hmm, you to come water
- 46:09Speaker 6: Monday after Commnday.
- 46:12Speaker 2: I think he left on Tuesday. So the next time
- 46:14Speaker 2: we're waiting a.
- 46:16Speaker 6: Sub Mandy and belim a thing what even younger, it's
- 46:20Speaker 6: like small dozes do. And then now he's at my
- 46:24Speaker 6: place like four days, at this place like three days.
- 46:29Speaker 6: Eventually he carries his bag like change your clothes, and
- 46:34Speaker 6: I can't go to It's like I am not a
- 46:37Speaker 6: poem introduced like yo, a six months, can you come down?
- 46:44Speaker 6: Because I want to go to your place, but i'll
- 46:47Speaker 6: meet your mom, so dramatically, you have to.
- 46:49Speaker 4: Introduce me to your path, which is kind of complicated.
- 46:53Speaker 4: So it was easy for him to come to my place.
- 46:55Speaker 6: So we he got three cancer and then boom, I
- 46:59Speaker 6: realized all is closer at my place and now we're
- 47:03Speaker 6: living together, right, and remember I'm the only the sustainable job, yeah,
- 47:07Speaker 6: and a job feeding sanaa unsustained. So for me, it
- 47:12Speaker 6: was like one thing at land at a land is
- 47:15Speaker 6: we never talked about because like when you move, like
- 47:18Speaker 6: in modern what understand when you move or what I
- 47:22Speaker 6: do when I'm moving, And it's a modern relationship, it's
- 47:25Speaker 6: not traditional.
- 47:26Speaker 4: I'm working, my man's working, right, we have to talk
- 47:29Speaker 4: about her.
- 47:30Speaker 6: We're gonna leave, how bills are gonna be plaid? That
- 47:33Speaker 6: is one thing we never talked about. Son a patter,
- 47:35Speaker 6: I'm cattering for two people and I'm on a budget salary,
- 47:41Speaker 6: so it's kind of hard because now I have to
- 47:43Speaker 6: cook every day. So the finances were not matching well
- 47:47Speaker 6: for me, like when because I'm goes in a delay
- 47:50Speaker 6: because the money of the blues there. Now I have
- 47:52Speaker 6: a grown as man as a baby, so finances. We
- 47:55Speaker 6: never talked about living together, but you know we're living together,
- 48:02Speaker 6: and it's it got so comfortable with just a certainly hit.
- 48:08Speaker 4: When I could.
- 48:11Speaker 6: On the weekend and I'm like, this man really lives
- 48:14Speaker 6: here because his friends are coming to see him here
- 48:19Speaker 6: not his place, and it's it stopped being now my place,
- 48:23Speaker 6: now it's home.
- 48:24Speaker 4: I get a key and I'm like, okay, now we
- 48:26Speaker 4: started living. So when for me it was like the
- 48:29Speaker 4: finances because he did it didn't.
- 48:33Speaker 6: Match and then it got really but my worst experience
- 48:36Speaker 6: was like sometimes I'd go really broke and then I
- 48:39Speaker 6: know he don't guard it, so he has to go home,
- 48:43Speaker 6: Nadia going home. He'd come back with stuff because he
- 48:47Speaker 6: was like you know, the sweet kids to us. I
- 48:51Speaker 6: felt like he was at a certain point inn I
- 48:53Speaker 6: was like is because.
- 48:57Speaker 1: Because you go to.
- 49:00Speaker 4: This is equal to three.
- 49:04Speaker 6: Young and to me in fact and expected to me
- 49:08Speaker 6: but you and you come back to shopping with my
- 49:12Speaker 6: jas a girl. In fact, I drop ahca a freed
- 49:16Speaker 6: major food dissorted, mamac America. That's Marty, Like this is
- 49:22Speaker 6: bad because one day when things are never going back
- 49:24Speaker 6: to you and I started reasoning, I was like, if
- 49:27Speaker 6: I lose my job.
- 49:30Speaker 4: And I'm not ready to live with your mom.
- 49:32Speaker 6: Because I'm also looking at my lifetile, I still want
- 49:34Speaker 6: my freedom for I don't really want to to to
- 49:40Speaker 6: to live my life under your mom because I want
- 49:44Speaker 6: to experience like my life not to cover the weekend shallow.
- 49:53Speaker 6: I can't get out of your mom's compound here for
- 49:56Speaker 6: And then Mama, when you what would you forty lears,
- 50:01Speaker 6: tackys or ship? And I saw it for me it
- 50:03Speaker 6: was it was you didn't talk about so it was
- 50:05Speaker 6: not more. But the best experiences was cause one thing
- 50:09Speaker 6: he was good at he was never choosy about es
- 50:13Speaker 6: that I like, okay, Like he was a modern man
- 50:15Speaker 6: because like i'd calm with the dance stuff, like sometimes
- 50:18Speaker 6: I'd be like can I talk?
- 50:21Speaker 4: I never wash to be clothes.
- 50:24Speaker 6: He did laundry man, that side of it, Like like
- 50:28Speaker 6: this man, you've done a lot of times you did this,
- 50:31Speaker 6: nigga wash all this in a pellicle, laundry remaining.
- 50:35Speaker 4: He washed my shoes everything, and then I don't like
- 50:39Speaker 4: men cooking for me, so.
- 50:43Speaker 6: May you do anything like That's what I'm saying, Like
- 50:45Speaker 6: he didn't do anything for me, and I like that
- 50:48Speaker 6: because because I was like, I was like, man, this
- 50:52Speaker 6: man is not because like Angelia, he looks at me.
- 50:55Speaker 6: It's like I'm doing most of the visual and his ding,
- 50:59Speaker 6: like because I when you asked, man, now, the worst
- 51:01Speaker 6: thing is I knew where his money is coming from.
- 51:03Speaker 4: I've pet I live on his money and he's coming
- 51:06Speaker 4: all back to like.
- 51:10Speaker 6: You know o young thirty five clean, young fi yacky
- 51:15Speaker 6: and it used to work because I don't tell you
- 51:17Speaker 6: to give me the money. But he would do everything
- 51:20Speaker 6: around else God, do shopping even for like two months
- 51:23Speaker 6: and stuff, listening up with your like twenty K, I'm
- 51:27Speaker 6: not you live a thircticke and a sister like you two.
- 51:31Speaker 6: I like, I'm working at you five kyak now your
- 51:34Speaker 6: five K you're wiki lever.
- 51:38Speaker 4: So he wasn't stingy that those are the good side.
- 51:41Speaker 6: But the hand side was like, yeah, me managing because
- 51:46Speaker 6: we hadn't planted. I believe living with the man can
- 51:51Speaker 6: be if well planned, because what I'm gonna live with
- 51:54Speaker 6: my husband of course, le it works like if it's
- 51:57Speaker 6: twelve planned and it's more than because you know the
- 52:00Speaker 6: finances are coming, you know the finances are going, everybody's
- 52:04Speaker 6: doing that part and you're a building together.
- 52:06Speaker 4: It works.
- 52:09Speaker 2: So before I share story, yeah, before I share, of
- 52:12Speaker 2: course I'm living.
- 52:14Speaker 5: I've lived with men a couple of times once and
- 52:18Speaker 5: it's not my first time experience for me.
- 52:20Speaker 2: I feel like even with maybe the current stitution personally
- 52:23Speaker 2: i'm in.
- 52:25Speaker 5: It's even more easier for me because my past experiences
- 52:29Speaker 5: were so bad and like what I have today really
- 52:32Speaker 5: really bad. Again, it's so bad when you're doing.
- 52:35Speaker 2: Such a person and they are not ambitious and at
- 52:38Speaker 2: a command a job.
- 52:39Speaker 4: They're not.
- 52:41Speaker 2: W Yeah, they're not trying for life.
- 52:48Speaker 5: My first that was when I was working as a maid.
- 52:51Speaker 5: I said it, I was not I didn't go to
- 52:53Speaker 5: work as a maid because I wanted to Numbe was
- 52:56Speaker 5: kicked out of my dad's house for the bads I
- 52:59Speaker 5: don't know how many time, and this time it was
- 53:01Speaker 5: because I was being pushed to go get married at
- 53:04Speaker 5: an early age and I'm not ready for this marriage
- 53:07Speaker 5: just because someone was living somewhere and you see them
- 53:09Speaker 5: spoiling me, I would do as a parenting circle, aady,
- 53:16Speaker 5: those are some of the things personalist is that if
- 53:17Speaker 5: I'm to have a kid, I'm a kid.
- 53:19Speaker 4: To go through.
- 53:20Speaker 5: And also you as a parent, if you then you're
- 53:22Speaker 5: pushing your kids to do those kinds of Bush didn't
- 53:26Speaker 5: of killer marriage my quotations area, which is very pathetic
- 53:32Speaker 5: and very disgusting. By the way, So for me, I
- 53:34Speaker 5: was pushed to go out to settle with this guy
- 53:38Speaker 5: because so this was its monacular m dupeking to pay.
- 53:44Speaker 5: We're not in this relationship as a family, like you
- 53:49Speaker 5: want to fucking or I would be the one to fuck.
- 53:51Speaker 2: What the hell do you want to know?
- 53:53Speaker 6: And it's a young relationship, yeah, and I yes, come
- 53:59Speaker 6: out in a shock tumor.
- 54:02Speaker 2: What it is.
- 54:03Speaker 5: So so the guy again may be similar to your guy,
- 54:09Speaker 5: to your ex or the other guy gonna applad So
- 54:17Speaker 5: long story short, and Rudy, I'm a cousin. I may
- 54:22Speaker 5: talk to me at those to put up a business
- 54:25Speaker 5: because we're think in my.
- 54:26Speaker 2: Head and again.
- 54:29Speaker 4: Away to.
- 54:32Speaker 5: So to me such a shower by the time, it's
- 54:35Speaker 5: gonna pick up, you know, managed, so he mismanages money
- 54:46Speaker 5: very bad. Had to go work as a house gun
- 54:50Speaker 5: because it became the same bullshit. It became the same
- 54:52Speaker 5: bullshit of going back to his parents to take food.
- 54:56Speaker 5: Then I knew for me that was a red flag
- 54:59Speaker 5: like Melcon normally, like we're really seen.
- 55:04Speaker 4: And you know, because it would me in my mind,
- 55:06Speaker 4: what mean my man?
- 55:07Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 55:08Speaker 4: Man in you yeah, like you.
- 55:13Speaker 6: Can't hassle as a man, you can't figure out your
- 55:16Speaker 6: way out of honestly in the jobby and be with
- 55:19Speaker 6: a man who finds his way way, ye find your
- 55:22Speaker 6: way like the last of your figures find not one
- 55:26Speaker 6: and you I know, And that's that will tell you
- 55:29Speaker 6: the type of man the future this man has because
- 55:32Speaker 6: you are like man, this man will survive to man's
- 55:34Speaker 6: and I kind of and you will survive toture things
- 55:37Speaker 6: and okay, you're okay, okay, and they will find why.
- 55:41Speaker 5: Not actually remember like just see my okay mas to
- 55:45Speaker 5: someone like my okay poor.
- 55:49Speaker 2: It's worries them.
- 55:51Speaker 5: That's a big green flag for me, like whether you
- 55:54Speaker 5: go out of the way to just and show me
- 55:57Speaker 5: nour like and I'm okay with that. So worked as
- 56:03Speaker 5: a maid, then got my I worked there for like
- 56:07Speaker 5: two months. So the first month took a green my
- 56:10Speaker 5: first salary gonna six k my first salary. All we're
- 56:15Speaker 5: gonna do is I'll give you the whole money. Actually
- 56:18Speaker 5: it was five k. Need to buy it to be
- 56:21Speaker 5: to pay and there just analisha before a money sausage
- 56:29Speaker 5: population salmon miss money to doorne Saskia, sassa from that's.
- 56:37Speaker 2: What I jumped to me from your cagia. So many
- 56:39Speaker 2: themes to me on a six k, so look for
- 56:43Speaker 2: you top up up to me a five k. They
- 56:48Speaker 2: come to mire. I could lip parents money.
- 56:51Speaker 4: Stupid.
- 56:52Speaker 5: Now the time I'm taking off the Saturday time, I
- 56:55Speaker 5: was going to take off in the south where the
- 57:00Speaker 5: guy I should she call my market?
- 57:03Speaker 2: Now I lose a kill like you too. I am.
- 57:07Speaker 5: In the middle of s was doing advertisements and all that.
- 57:10Speaker 5: I was getting some few commissions here and they're there
- 57:13Speaker 5: three k. Within a course of less than a month.
- 57:16Speaker 5: Nick come to me and Nick coome one bere pass
- 57:18Speaker 5: a man at a tracky band that and rend and
- 57:20Speaker 5: shab is Ganny the same one be younger at that time.
- 57:25Speaker 5: So now them gone journey she call my market.
- 57:28Speaker 2: Now you have and we are not gonna I'm not
- 57:31Speaker 2: gonna stay there with you.
- 57:33Speaker 5: You know, I'm prettious talker, Nikka, come to me a
- 57:38Speaker 5: three K sony square. I'm about your baby from work, remember,
- 57:43Speaker 5: and I'm calm mambo.
- 57:49Speaker 2: And rather oh.
- 57:51Speaker 5: Scle show you're going to your yeah show, really your
- 57:58Speaker 5: commade And the time she didn't call so copy long
- 58:04Speaker 5: story shots this hour, Mimi Astrona. Next time they come
- 58:11Speaker 5: make aquakata mean because it was a lot for in
- 58:15Speaker 5: a minute, like let me.
- 58:16Speaker 2: Go there off come.
- 58:20Speaker 5: Avokata Nikka. Then something day I was going back to
- 58:24Speaker 5: work and take up Nasa soul. I don't need to
- 58:29Speaker 5: qui banda to grow nigga at aliquat. I may lose
- 58:43Speaker 5: was and do you feel disgusted and it's slim.
- 58:47Speaker 2: I really don't like. I really don't.
- 58:50Speaker 4: So I really don't Ali.
- 58:55Speaker 2: By Nicole like well shy angle, Mimi mimims so many
- 59:02Speaker 2: of the job schoo cutter like a man.
- 59:07Speaker 5: Journey made and they dream to really theils training mother, I'm.
- 59:11Speaker 4: Gonna like.
- 59:13Speaker 2: My talker, Milica talker. Now that's the first guy. The
- 59:20Speaker 2: second guy certainly matter as you much.
- 59:23Speaker 5: I think months after almost close to a year after
- 59:26Speaker 5: he left my was it almost close to you? Months
- 59:29Speaker 5: after two months after I met another guy after I
- 59:34Speaker 5: joined Black ca Fire. I remember think it was after
- 59:39Speaker 5: I think it was after you d I'm close to
- 59:41Speaker 5: joining black or Fire.
- 59:43Speaker 2: So I meet this guy and now were like, you know,
- 59:47Speaker 2: learn by So it was he was yes day.
- 59:51Speaker 5: Is that this girl was obsessed with me, like obsessed
- 59:56Speaker 5: I may and at meets in youngle and at cacolettter Dowerry.
- 1:00:00Speaker 5: Actually this guy was pushing for marriage and it's serious,
- 1:00:03Speaker 5: very I got to push him and then not be
- 1:00:11Speaker 5: on boor not secure maybe addressing at home like some
- 1:00:16Speaker 5: rements a job here like long story shots, I just
- 1:00:19Speaker 5: discovered the guy was obsessed with.
- 1:00:20Speaker 2: Me and I had to quit. I had to like
- 1:00:22Speaker 2: quit the relationship. But he was really really obsessed.
- 1:00:25Speaker 5: So for me, that on the red flags that got
- 1:00:28Speaker 5: with the first guy is because I had to go
- 1:00:30Speaker 5: out of my way to pay rent and him not
- 1:00:33Speaker 5: misusing the money this is the funds was a big.
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: Problem to me. So now.
- 1:00:39Speaker 5: With my now situation, it's been easy. I'm not gonna
- 1:00:45Speaker 5: lie of course now not really ups and downs. The
- 1:00:49Speaker 5: times at first I'm at some point. I used to
- 1:00:51Speaker 5: feel like I'm really financially pressed, but it gets to
- 1:00:54Speaker 5: appoint you know how to balance, and of course we
- 1:00:56Speaker 5: came to an agreement, so like, hey, even but I
- 1:00:59Speaker 5: was something I didn't have to say.
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: It was just obvious and person and this is a
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: compensation because you did this, and and this like even
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: more concert because because Nico like something yourself balancing but
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: not at the end.
- 1:01:23Speaker 6: Of the day, I feel like if you have a
- 1:01:25Speaker 6: real man who knows and who is the go getter,
- 1:01:29Speaker 6: they will always find a way.
- 1:01:30Speaker 4: They will they will always find a way to sure
- 1:01:34Speaker 4: things are done right.
- 1:01:35Speaker 6: It's like so long as I could because him to
- 1:01:39Speaker 6: and I do a comfort and it never goes low
- 1:01:42Speaker 6: by the way.
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:01:45Speaker 6: Goockoo, you googoo. Yeah, like nothing really stops. They're always
- 1:01:54Speaker 6: to find and that is worse. And I feel like
- 1:01:57Speaker 6: it's comforting, like it's it's it's it's very yeah, and
- 1:02:00Speaker 6: it's Lizia because now when you imagine when dogs open
- 1:02:05Speaker 6: and things to work and everything, I feel like you
- 1:02:08Speaker 6: get to save a lot.
- 1:02:09Speaker 4: Honestly, you get to save a lot like many like
- 1:02:13Speaker 4: not now, not now, because like no, I've not pictured
- 1:02:18Speaker 4: myself married. Yeah even.
- 1:02:22Speaker 5: Kay, but i'd say able to like come as for
- 1:02:30Speaker 5: me like my my guests to uper Moja, but not
- 1:02:33Speaker 5: a Japan But you of course to get your own space,
- 1:02:37Speaker 5: you know, which I'm a bigger looking for you know,
- 1:02:40Speaker 5: like your face.
- 1:02:41Speaker 4: It's important.
- 1:02:42Speaker 5: But we stuck at your month two weeks, Thomas Corn
- 1:02:48Speaker 5: every day despite you being away, you know you happy
- 1:02:53Speaker 5: because I'm saying.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: Sing, I don't know I used to date. I used
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: to date someone from my back, you know, I know artists,
- 1:03:12Speaker 2: what's money like job on time? Don't play with me?
- 1:03:19Speaker 4: It's crazy.
- 1:03:20Speaker 5: So this lady talks about now for me, which I
- 1:03:24Speaker 5: feel like, I don't know why women experience this.
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: This is totally the opposite of me.
- 1:03:28Speaker 5: Now of the things she's mentioning, like because me, like
- 1:03:34Speaker 5: I'm not the sex And every time any day we
- 1:03:39Speaker 5: go down.
- 1:03:40Speaker 10: Anywhere we go down dream you know of your latest
- 1:03:44Speaker 10: it comes upon the worst on heat you have to
- 1:03:47Speaker 10: do on heat like me, you know, every like I'm
- 1:03:51Speaker 10: not tally force it to me.
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: I could just like, so it's crazy homes.
- 1:04:00Speaker 12: Let me say one of the is why I not
- 1:04:03Speaker 12: wants to leave with a man again, or why I
- 1:04:05Speaker 12: don't see that the future is because as we call
- 1:04:09Speaker 12: all that women hold split and sometimes you have such
- 1:04:14Speaker 12: a and I knows that, but I tells to actually
- 1:04:18Speaker 12: really really of course.
- 1:04:20Speaker 2: I never have a That's why I never ever.
- 1:04:24Speaker 4: I think it goes back to this and somebody who
- 1:04:27Speaker 4: has the same.
- 1:04:28Speaker 2: Sexual drive.
- 1:04:31Speaker 4: Absual. Yeah, your because I can.
- 1:04:38Speaker 5: Because this only this is the only time now when
- 1:04:42Speaker 5: I had the guy was who want to live with
- 1:04:44Speaker 5: his mom? That's the only guy's being doesn't get happen.
- 1:04:47Speaker 9: But you.
- 1:04:50Speaker 2: What's turning me on about you? I'm talking about you
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: come to my younger person. I want.
- 1:04:57Speaker 9: Yeah, you're a boy, but as you older homes sometimes
- 1:05:07Speaker 9: aspects sometimes.
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: You're not okay.
- 1:05:10Speaker 12: And for me, I don't want to be that man
- 1:05:13Speaker 12: when I'm having a down season, I don't want to
- 1:05:16Speaker 12: be the man.
- 1:05:18Speaker 6: I feel like, then you're not ready to live with
- 1:05:20Speaker 6: the man exactly because I feel like you have to be.
- 1:05:24Speaker 4: Ready also, Joey, you have to be ready to forever.
- 1:05:28Speaker 4: Seven women who think then yeah, who man, I do
- 1:05:36Speaker 4: monomotical because because.
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: Yes, why.
- 1:05:47Speaker 6: Those type of things shows you are not because I
- 1:05:50Speaker 6: feel like living together marriages, it is these things, is
- 1:05:53Speaker 6: these things like you go through them together.
- 1:05:56Speaker 4: It doesn't mean when he's rich today now you're with
- 1:05:58Speaker 4: when he's poor.
- 1:06:01Speaker 2: Only take you, I would say.
- 1:06:02Speaker 5: It takes a mature man to understand also your emotions
- 1:06:06Speaker 5: and how you feel. Because me, I loved a period, because.
- 1:06:17Speaker 2: Nicole, just like you talk exactly, I'm in pain. Just
- 1:06:21Speaker 2: let me be like grop me, you know all those things.
- 1:06:25Speaker 12: No, I want to be alone in my own space
- 1:06:28Speaker 12: and in your own bed one or thinking that someone
- 1:06:32Speaker 12: somewhere like any time, or you know, giving me things
- 1:06:36Speaker 12: and insinuations about.
- 1:06:38Speaker 2: This when I'm not in the most topics you know.
- 1:06:41Speaker 5: Not only that, I'm so sorry, man, this is also
- 1:06:44Speaker 5: something women will never openly say.
- 1:06:47Speaker 2: And as rewind that this is the reason.
- 1:06:49Speaker 5: Maybe sorry and this is just honest, And I've seen
- 1:06:52Speaker 5: some women were talking about it. We're in the luck
- 1:06:54Speaker 5: when at about Amenia umpare this hour at the Patamia.
- 1:07:00Speaker 2: Um there sadly, that is just so true. This is
- 1:07:02Speaker 2: one of the things that leads may be meant to cheat.
- 1:07:04Speaker 5: Maybe I'm just saying because if you're doing this repeatedly, repeatedly.
- 1:07:08Speaker 5: I saw a video of our lady was saying one
- 1:07:10Speaker 5: a man of will come twenty one times a month
- 1:07:14Speaker 5: twenty one times, so for you twenty one times, womanimma
- 1:07:17Speaker 5: twenty times, rememberer only ten.
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: Times, who expects her do twenty one times? Not clear
- 1:07:25Speaker 2: our fight who twenty one times? Well keep it one
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: o do rainer who goeszackle.
- 1:07:33Speaker 5: So you're supposed to push a certain amount, certain amount
- 1:07:38Speaker 5: every month.
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: I know it's crazy, it's so please just honestly, man, just.
- 1:07:52Speaker 4: Be ready for me.
- 1:07:54Speaker 6: Just be like when you take that step of dating
- 1:07:56Speaker 6: in a relationship, bring with somebody, you have to be ready.
- 1:07:59Speaker 4: Yeah, you go like you go right now when you
- 1:08:03Speaker 4: do here, you come on the poor lazim. I could
- 1:08:08Speaker 4: not have IG every day and I keep it fifth.
- 1:08:13Speaker 5: Maybe trust me, there's something that can tell me of
- 1:08:16Speaker 5: quick name tramas sectional tribe.
- 1:08:21Speaker 2: Would die. General you you're making me thing conboys of
- 1:08:27Speaker 2: cheating already.
- 1:08:29Speaker 5: I'm gonna like usually miss week like, oh I die,
- 1:08:33Speaker 5: couldn't die, sang.
- 1:08:36Speaker 2: That's just the truth.
- 1:08:38Speaker 5: That's a beautiful weekend. That's when we come to the
- 1:08:41Speaker 5: end of today's conversation. That has been our time, and
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