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Scotty went to a wedding with his EX! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is made nine.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Scotty and Abbey Unfiltered. It
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  Speaker 2: was a very adventurous weekend twice. I will go ahead
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  Speaker 2: and just say right now, I almost made an absolute
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  Speaker 2: fool of myself at one of my best friend's weddings.
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  Speaker 3: You make a fool of yourself, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I like to unwind, but I don't think I understood
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  Speaker 2: how much older I've gotten since the last time. I
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  Speaker 2: like fully turned up and I went hard on Saturday
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  Speaker 2: at this wedding.
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  Speaker 3: So you embarrass yourself.
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  Speaker 2: I well, I had definitely I had anxiety where on
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  Speaker 2: Sunday I was like replaying things in my mind of like,
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  Speaker 2: what the hell did I do? What did I say?
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  Speaker 2: I'm so grateful I'm alive. That's kind of how I
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  Speaker 2: felt on Sunday morning. Gotcham but I was also very surprised.
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  Speaker 2: I felt I was definitely hungover, but I didn't feel
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  Speaker 2: as bad as I thought I would. Come Sunday morning
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  Speaker 2: like a quick walk, a quick shower, a little bit
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  Speaker 2: of water, and I was like, but it hurts a
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  Speaker 2: lot more now, like that I'm getting close to thirty.
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  Speaker 1: I had, well, I did have a lot of drinks.
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  Speaker 2: Like two glasses of champagne and a couple of cocktails,
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  Speaker 2: and damn it wore me down. Yeah, I probably shouldn't
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  Speaker 2: just cut it off after like maybe one cocktail that
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  Speaker 2: would have been actually the better thing you.
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  Speaker 3: Could have had two or three.
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  Speaker 1: You're a good dude. Four or five like it.
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  Speaker 3: Five is not bad for a guy your size.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't drink often, so when I drink, it
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  Speaker 2: hits like a rocket ship going off to the moon.
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  Speaker 3: You say you don't drink often, but I drink with
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  Speaker 3: you a lot.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I'm trying to be cool
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  Speaker 1: and a hit by abby.
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  Speaker 3: Like I never go out. I'm like, I've been out
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  Speaker 3: with you, like like several times.
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  Speaker 2: I will say this year, I have gone out, and
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  Speaker 2: I've done more things like that than I probably have
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  Speaker 2: in the past like three years. Yeah, just because I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I want to go, Like step back
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  Speaker 2: into the city. There's a lot of things that I
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  Speaker 2: want us to go and check out. Yeah, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: I can indulge.
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  Speaker 1: In one or two cocktails.
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  Speaker 2: Now a wedding where it's just unlimited bar access and
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  Speaker 2: there's champagne as soon as you walk in that's a
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  Speaker 2: different story, but.
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  Speaker 1: I will get to that in just a second.
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  Speaker 2: But I do want to also talk about your weekend
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  Speaker 2: because you got to spend some time with your fam.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I had the most treacherous drive to Jacksonville. This
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  Speaker 3: is this is how thrilling my weekend was. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: talk to you about traffic. So basically, there's usually a
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  Speaker 3: three to four hour drive, depending on traffic, from Tampa
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  Speaker 3: to Jack's. And so my brother's couple shower.
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  Speaker 1: Was this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: It was Masters themed. I was very excited at a
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  Speaker 3: new dress to wear, and I left with thinking, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to drive to my parents' house and then
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  Speaker 3: uber to this to the shower, and I leave probably
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  Speaker 3: around ten thirty. I did not get to Jacksonville until
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  Speaker 3: about four.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what was happening on the roads, but
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  Speaker 3: every single pocket of Florida I ran into some kind
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  Speaker 3: of bumper of bumper traffic. It wasn't just Orlando, it
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  Speaker 3: was Tampa and then Orlando, and then the back roads
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  Speaker 3: outside of Orlando, and then the back rounds outside of
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  Speaker 3: Saint Augustine until I was like, I don't even really want.
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  Speaker 1: To go to the shower and it's exhausting.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, after five to six hours in the car,
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  Speaker 3: I'm sweaty, I'm gross. And then the worst part of
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  Speaker 3: it is I literally so I'm so ex I had
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  Speaker 3: to wear this dress. I got it on sale and
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  Speaker 3: finally I wiped all the sweat off of my body.
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  Speaker 3: And I go into this party and literally the first
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  Speaker 3: person I see when I walk in, she's wearing the
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  Speaker 3: same fucking dresses. No way, which is fine, Like, it's
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  Speaker 3: not there's no offense.
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  Speaker 1: To that, you know what I mean, It's just a coincidence.
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  Speaker 3: But I walk in all this way. The only thing
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna be through is I have my fabulous
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  Speaker 3: dress when I have an afparo sprits And the first
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  Speaker 3: thing I see, I'm like, this is not a hoe
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  Speaker 3: put my dress on, which is fine, sweet oul, but yeah,
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  Speaker 3: there's nothing wrong with wearing the same dress as somebody else, Like,
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  Speaker 3: no one's planning to do that. The only thing that
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  Speaker 3: sucks about it is then for the entire party, everyone's going,
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  Speaker 3: oh my god, you guys are wearing the same I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm looking at her, I'm literally looking at her.
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  Speaker 1: What you saw? I saw too, Like I get it.
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  Speaker 3: People are taking photos of it. I'm like, dude, like
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  Speaker 3: I know, let's just pretend like they're different dresses.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like slightly different colors.
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  Speaker 3: Really different colors.
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  Speaker 1: Was yours one of those that you could Did you
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  Speaker 1: actually buy it? Did you rent it?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 3: I bought it?
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, so now you got to find another
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  Speaker 1: outing for it.
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  Speaker 3: No, I know.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I have to wear again for another
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  Speaker 1: golf event.
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  Speaker 3: What works is? I loved wearing the dress and I
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  Speaker 3: got a good Instagram photo on it.
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  Speaker 1: People I was. I texted Ay, I was like, people
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  Speaker 1: are loving that outfit.
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  Speaker 3: People are loving the dress.
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  Speaker 2: I need moments like I actually I posted up a
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  Speaker 2: picture of me in my suit because I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I want to have an outfit moment too.
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  Speaker 3: We should start posting like each other on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: I copy each other's out there, Like.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna start dancing with old women.
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  Speaker 1: I thrive.
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  Speaker 2: I literally, I tell you know, there's people in my
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  Speaker 2: life that I'm like, I want you to know, you know,
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  Speaker 2: especially like I'm talking to someone and I let them
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  Speaker 2: know and they're super cool with it.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm like I thrive with older women.
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  Speaker 2: Like if you catch me at a party and there's
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  Speaker 2: an older woman like there's something in me that just
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  Speaker 2: wants to make sure that they have the best time ever.
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  Speaker 1: And so that's it.
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  Speaker 2: That's actually what happened at this wedding is one of
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  Speaker 2: my good friends, Miguel, had his mom at this wedding,
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  Speaker 2: and his mom and I, like, we've had so many
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  Speaker 2: conversations over the year because I used to work with Miguel,
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  Speaker 2: and so as his mom's there, I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: love her and I was like, I'm on dance with her.
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  Speaker 1: I brought her out, I'm twirling her all around.
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  Speaker 2: I watched the video on my Instagram though, and this
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  Speaker 2: is how you knew I was a little tipsy, like
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  Speaker 2: my hand like graced her back. Oh, and I like
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  Speaker 2: I saw it in the video. I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: hope she didn't get like weirded out by that. Like
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  Speaker 2: I I was just trying to twirl her.
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  Speaker 3: Does she have a mister mcguel's dad? Okay, so she's single.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I was just saying, it's not
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  Speaker 2: my Migul's like, you better tell your mama said, hey
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  Speaker 2: posted that video up.
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  Speaker 3: What Scotti? I was like, why do I feel like
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  Speaker 3: you and Miguel's mom's because I could just picture this
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  Speaker 3: woman like taking him for such a ride.
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  Speaker 2: Scotty's like, oh my god, I cannot, I can't keep.
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  Speaker 1: She is such a fabulous woman.
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  Speaker 2: But that's why it's like there's certain people in your
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  Speaker 2: life that just anytime you get around them, you just
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  Speaker 2: can't help but smile. You're laughing, and like it just
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  Speaker 2: brings the best side out of you. And so it
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  Speaker 2: was a lot of that.
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  Speaker 1: Like the wedding was.
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  Speaker 2: It's like forty people like that where everyone knows each other.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like this big reunion of you're just going
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  Speaker 2: from pocket to pocket, catching up here, talking radio, here,
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  Speaker 2: talking about love, here, doing karaoke in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: the night. Here's where I messed up though, Okay, because
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  Speaker 2: when we got there, immediately a couple of glasses of champagne.
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  Speaker 1: I love it, but I knew I was giving a
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  Speaker 1: speech later that night.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had the honor of giving the toast,
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  Speaker 2: and I'll tell you what I was. As somebody that
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  Speaker 2: professionally speaks, this is like the most nervous I've ever
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  Speaker 2: been because.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot at stake.
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  Speaker 2: They could have picked anybody, they picked me, so I
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  Speaker 2: knew that there's a couple of rules when it gives
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  Speaker 2: a speech for a wedding. I knew it couldn't be
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  Speaker 2: too long. So I was like, all right, we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: cap it at two minutes. But in two minutes, how
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  Speaker 2: do you make an impactful moment, a memorable moment, a
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  Speaker 2: moment that you're worthy of speaking for. So I sat
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  Speaker 2: on this for probably two months of like what the
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  Speaker 2: hell am I going to say? And I'm very grateful
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  Speaker 2: that my ex, like her and I were like working
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  Speaker 2: on some of the notes. I was like asking, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, what are some of the things like? Because
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  Speaker 2: my brain just was not working because I was so
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  Speaker 2: anxious about it. She gave me a couple of the
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  Speaker 2: good memories that we've had, and so I kind of
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  Speaker 2: jotted it down down and as it's leading up, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: don't drink another drink because I got to obviously give
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  Speaker 2: this talk and I don't want to be stumbling over
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  Speaker 2: my words. Like have you ever gone to a wedding
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  Speaker 2: and someone's like pissed drunk giving a talk?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: That was me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you got to be the one doing it.
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  Speaker 3: Me and my cousin. I mentioned this at my cousin's wedding.
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  Speaker 3: They told me the day before, They're like, you're give
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  Speaker 3: me a speech, right, I'm like i am, And I
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  Speaker 3: was so stressed out leading up to that wedding. It's
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  Speaker 3: stressful that the second the ceremony was over, I was
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  Speaker 3: guzzling champagne like it was water.
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  Speaker 2: Oh shoot, yeah, I want to see a video of
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  Speaker 2: this speech.
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  Speaker 3: I can't find it anywhere. Well, the first of all,
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  Speaker 3: I told you the only part of that speech that
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  Speaker 3: made it was the tragger grill when I was talking
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  Speaker 3: about the turkey, how good the turkey was.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember how long you went on?
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  Speaker 2: For?
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  Speaker 3: Not long two minutes? Because I'm like you, I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: let's get in, let's get out. Nobody wants to hear
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  Speaker 3: me drag on on on for thirty minutes. If they
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  Speaker 3: want to hear that, they can turn on the Unfiltered podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly right.
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  Speaker 3: But these people are at a wedding. They want to
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  Speaker 3: get to the alcohol, They want to get to the
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  Speaker 3: dance floor. They want to see them dance.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. Well.
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  Speaker 2: I was trying to stay as sober as I could
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  Speaker 2: leading up to it, because I had it all written down,
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  Speaker 2: but I didn't want to go up there reading it.
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  Speaker 2: So my goal was I was trying to remember the
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  Speaker 2: bullet points in my head and see where I wanted
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  Speaker 2: to go with it. And I get up there and
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  Speaker 2: let me just see. How do you know if a
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  Speaker 2: speed each was impactful for a toast? Because I went
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  Speaker 2: up there, I had a moment of silence for everyone,
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  Speaker 2: and then I jumped into it.
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  Speaker 1: I left my phone in my pocket.
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  Speaker 2: I just let it rip, and I will say, I
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  Speaker 2: think I freaking nailed it. Okay, everything was smooth and
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  Speaker 2: didn't bumble over any words. I had a laugh, I
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  Speaker 2: had a couple of cheers up in the airs, and
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  Speaker 2: I believe I got tears from.
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  Speaker 1: The bride and green here we go. So that's what
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  Speaker 1: I was looking for.
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  Speaker 3: What was the emotional pull? What was the story you
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  Speaker 3: told again him to cry?
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  Speaker 2: Well, there's been a couple of chapters of their lives
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  Speaker 2: that like I've just gotten to watch them go through
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  Speaker 2: of like making they're conjoining families together and seeing that
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  Speaker 2: beauty and I like, they're sitting next to their families
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  Speaker 2: like their daughters, and I'm like, look at what you
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  Speaker 2: have done and the strength that it took to get here,
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  Speaker 2: and knowing that it's not just love that we're celebrating,
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  Speaker 2: it's that everybody here has been able to feel that love,
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  Speaker 2: like they're friends that have literally opened their doors to
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  Speaker 2: me so I could stay at their place, and I
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  Speaker 2: brought those little stories up, and then I talked about
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  Speaker 2: our karaoke sessions and all the fun that we've had
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  Speaker 2: venturing around Tampa Bay. And then I gave a nice
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  Speaker 2: moment for everyone to acknowledge that we're celebrate any love
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  Speaker 2: but adventure, but in friendship, but also in joining families.
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  Speaker 2: And it was such a beautiful moment. I will say
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  Speaker 2: that I felt it was the cherry on top. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it was a nice And usually I'm so obnoxious that
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  Speaker 2: I would usually.
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  Speaker 1: Be like, and everyone cheers on three what?
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  Speaker 2: This time I felt it was like a different pocket
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  Speaker 2: of me. I was like, you know what, and cheers
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  Speaker 2: to the bride and groom. You're reading the room, And
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  Speaker 2: everyone gave a nice cheers and they had tears in
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  Speaker 2: the rise and I went over and hugged him, and
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  Speaker 2: so I was pumped.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, did it nailed it? Didn't read it?
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  Speaker 1: I loved it.
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  Speaker 2: But then I went to the bar and that's when
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  Speaker 2: I was like gin and tonic, vodka, soda, load me up,
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  Speaker 2: let's turn up.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: So I was having a great time, but all of
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  Speaker 2: a sudden, one of the things I wanted to do
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  Speaker 2: in the night they had a hot tub, and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, oh yeah, I'm getting in that freaking hot tub.
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  Speaker 1: It's time.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm pretty tipsy and I get in the hot
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  Speaker 2: tub and immediately that's where I noticed, like I hit
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  Speaker 2: the wall boom.
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  Speaker 1: I just all of a sudden, I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta go, I gotta go home.
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  Speaker 3: Scotty's woo, I will.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what it was. It's like I got
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  Speaker 2: extremely tired. Like immediately I was like, I'm just gonna
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  Speaker 2: I could have fallen asleep in the hot tub.
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  Speaker 1: Luckily we all got out, but I was like, guys,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go.
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  Speaker 2: And so I actually I went to this wedding with
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  Speaker 2: my ex. Like we literally ubered together.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, we.
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  Speaker 3: Buried the lead. Well He's like, I embarrassed myself. You
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  Speaker 3: went to a wedding with your ex.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing that's so cool about that situation that
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  Speaker 2: it's hard for the outside world to understand if you
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  Speaker 2: don't fully like my ex and I are like really
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  Speaker 2: good friends. So it's like we had this whole plan.
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  Speaker 2: We know the couple the same amount of time together,
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  Speaker 2: so we're gonna uber to the wedding together. We had
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  Speaker 2: a great conversation in the car. Here's what's interesting is
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  Speaker 2: like the whole car ride we just talked about the
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  Speaker 2: people that we're now with.
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  Speaker 3: So I know you're dating somebody that I was m
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  Speaker 3: M and then she's seating somebody else.
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  Speaker 1: Correct, there's somebody that's like she's interested in.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so it's casual.
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  Speaker 2: It's casual, but it was so interesting because how many
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  Speaker 2: ex'es do you talk to about their new partners.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never had that. Usually when someone's in ex like,
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of it. We don't really talk ever again.
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  Speaker 3: But you didn't have some big blow up. You didn't cheat,
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  Speaker 3: she didn't cheat you guys, nothing wrong. Both just wanted
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  Speaker 3: different things out of life and that sucks, but it's
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  Speaker 3: not anything to ruin a relationship over.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what's kind of fun is because as soon
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  Speaker 2: as we get in you could definitely tell like our
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  Speaker 2: friendship is starting to just grow in that comfort level. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's like she's telling me about her situations and we're
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  Speaker 2: kind of like talking about it so openly. And what's
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  Speaker 2: fun is it's not like it doesn't hurt. It's kind
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  Speaker 2: of like I just I care about the person and
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  Speaker 2: I want them to be happy, and so I want
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  Speaker 2: whatever they're working on right now, whoever they're talking to,
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  Speaker 2: Like literally, it's almost like a now. It's like a
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  Speaker 2: productive like brother kind of feel where I'm like, they
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  Speaker 2: better work for you, they better treat you right, don't
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  Speaker 2: be playing games. And I felt that in the car.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, Wow, I'm looking out for this person.
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  Speaker 2: That's really cool, and I genuinely want that for them.
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  Speaker 2: I want them to be super happy. And so we
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  Speaker 2: go to this wedding. We're talking, we're having a great
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  Speaker 2: time together, but the plan for the end of the
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  Speaker 2: night is we were going to Uber back together and
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  Speaker 2: then I was gonna go home. Well, I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: was like just very drunk at that point. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I gotta go, and she's like, well, I'm gonna hang
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  Speaker 2: out for a little bit. So I'm trying to order
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  Speaker 2: an uber and they keep canceling for like an hour.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: So in that time, period. Luckily, Scott didn't throw up
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  Speaker 2: anywhere because he wanted to. He wanted to do real bad,
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  Speaker 2: real bad.
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  Speaker 3: That's what happens when you mixed gin with vodka.
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  Speaker 2: Well they ran out well, I think actually at that
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  Speaker 2: point I just kind of want to switch it up.
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  Speaker 1: But I was like, all right, I need to go.
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  Speaker 2: But then I got talking to a couple of friends again,
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: and an hour later, I'm like, oh, I sow it
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: up just enough.
• 12:32
  Speaker 3: Oh you need is a good glass of water and
• 12:33
  Speaker 3: a good song.
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: I had a good song, I had some Tara Masou,
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: I brought in the water, a good conversation. Next thing
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: you know, I'm like back to a plus Scott. Luckily
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: we got driven back. Everything was fine. So I was
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: three seconds away from falling asleep in a hot tub
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: throwing up in a bush. None of that happened. I
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: think that's maturity. As I've grown up and I can
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: handle myself and.
• 12:52
  Speaker 3: May get your liver. You're pushing it to failure was
• 12:54
  Speaker 3: a gym, but you're coming back stronger.
• 12:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it works like that, but I
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: definitely was proud of my because I don't think I
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: said anything to anybody that was inappropriate, huh. And I
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: don't think I made a move on anybody except for
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: Miguel's mom.
• 13:08
  Speaker 3: Here's what I want to know, though, What was it
• 13:10
  Speaker 3: like attending a wedding with someone you thought you would
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: marry one day you're not marrying.
• 13:14
  Speaker 2: You know, it's a very interesting feeling. No, it's actually
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: it's it's truly beautiful that we could be in the
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: same rooms together. Yeah, like that's part like I took away.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: I was like, I love this side of our chapter.
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: I love that there's no like animosity toward each other,
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: there's no anger built up. I hear her talking about
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: her situations with a group of friends and I'm like,
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: that's really cool, and I hope I can give her
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: any support that she needs. And then I'm at my
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: table talking about my situation that I'm in and people
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: are getting to hear that side, and usually that would
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: feel so awkward, Like there's still a part of me
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: that even I said this to a friend, I was like, well,
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: I know, I just want to respect, you know, boundaries,
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: and they're like stop, like you guys are fine. She
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: does not care, Like, oh, okay, I guess that's true
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: because I don't really care either like I want her
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: happy and I think she wants the same.
• 13:59
  Speaker 3: It's easy for you to talk about it because you
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: also have someone. If you were single and she had
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: somebody else, would that hit you differently?
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I think so, But at the same time, no,
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: I think it would just be more like that would
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: just be the ego taking over. Yeah, because when I
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: noticed after we broke up and there was somebody that
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: she was flirting with, like my ego tried to speak
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: up and was like, wow, already moved on from you?
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: Does you not even care? And then my brain was like,
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: you're so lonely. Look at you lonely, nobody need to
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: smooch you on New Year's you with? And I was like,
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: shut up, brain, like what the heck do I care?
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: Like I'm on my own journey. Let me not just
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: find somebody to.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: Find my own journey with seven other girls.
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: But she also got and there's you know, eventually I'll
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: be able to dive into some of these stories. But
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: she also got thrown into a weird world and the
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: beginning of my dating journey, which that wasn't fair to her,
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: But I think that definitely helped us understand, like we
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: want what's best for each other. And that ripped the
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: band aid off of what it would be like to
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: know that the other person has seen somebody else.
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: Gotcha the whole radio podcasting thing, because there's really no secrets,
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: Like you can't really hide from her if she's listening
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: or hearing things from other people.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, And that's what happened.
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: I mean, as soon as we start talking about things here,
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: like of course, either she listens or a friend will
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: listen and report back. And I hope that it's never
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: somebody tries to put her name in ill Will or
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: my name in ill Will.
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: How does she feel about your new lady?
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Well, she doesn't know her yet.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: Well what have you told her about her?
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: Honestly, not much. I told her.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: I'm, you know, really enjoying it. I haven't told her
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: a name, having showed her a picture.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, because I just.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: It's the first time ever I kind of wanted to
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: just hold things close for a while, and I want
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: to let things just build and I don't want to
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: pick there feel like there's any pressure from anyone.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: Like I just wanted to just just exist, just exist.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: It's very very enjoyable, but it is one thing she
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: said because she listened my ex. She's listened to the podcast.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: She's like, oh, so you're paying for everything now, And
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, because when we went on our
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: first dates, like we would split everything right down the lape.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: Are you in a different financial position than you are now?
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: I'm definitely in a different financial position. But I also
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: told her, I was like, when we started dating, you
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: were very adamant about us splitting everything, yeah, and so
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: I it was honestly like a respect thing. But now
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: there's a feeling internally I've really leaned into the side of.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: Like I want to provide.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm the one that's setting up the dates,
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: so I'm going to pay for her. And even though
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: she tries, I'm like, I don't want her to I
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: don't want.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Her to pay. I want to pay.
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: It's a different dynamic for you very much. You felt
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: more like you want more stereotypical roles.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: Correct, And that sounds weird, Like I don't want people
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: to take that in a weird way, but like there's
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: some rules like that I wanted to step into as
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: a man, like as a protector, as a provider, Like
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: these are things that I wanted to really lean into
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: and it. Here's what's crazy. And I know there's anybody
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: listening you could connect with that. But a lot of
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: men also, if they hear that, they're like, I get it,
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: because it's not something I turn on and off. It's
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: a feeling where I want to really be the one
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: to step up exactly. And I'm sure eventually, you know,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: I will split dates again. I'm sure eventually, And I've
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: let you know the person I'm seeing, well, only pay
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: once for one thing. But for the most part, I
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: like doing it. It just feels really good. There's something
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: she might.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: Just have more of that polarity to where she's more
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: comfortable in that position, to where she has different levels
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: to where you guys kind of match up better. Yea,
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Does that make any sense?
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: It does.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Well. I've did a lot over the past couple of
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: months of like trying to understand the feminine and the masculine.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was something I didn't really understand.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: I knew of the words, I knew the terms, but
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: I dove into it to kind of understand, like, what
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: is that feeling.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: That I have in me?
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's that, and then understanding you know, a lot
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: of the feminine sides, like what does that look like
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: and feel like? And how do you keep that safe
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: and protected and warm and wanting to be embraced.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I needed to learn those things. I didn't know those things.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, in the past four years, I had no idea
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: how to truly make sure that you could live fully
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: in your feminine.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Now I do, and I'm still learning.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: But I also am first off making sure that I
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: could live comfortably in my masculine and I love it
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: actually good.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: I'm sick of going out with all these princesses. I'm like,
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I feel like I'm a man every time I go
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: out with them.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I'm The problem is there's so many guys that get
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: it mixed up now though, because now there's the whole
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: toxic culture of like what it looks like to be masculine.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: It has become this toxic masculinity, like this alpha male
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: where it's like what you want to putting someone down
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: or degrading someone.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that is not it controlling somebody.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: That is not what that is supposed to look like.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: That's what these dumb asses online try to portray to
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: get young boys to believe in what that Looked's completely wrong.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's as easy as just knowing this, like
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: I'm looking out for my partner.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: It's repackaged misogyny.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Absolutely.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: So that was one of the things that she brought
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: up in the car, and I was like, fair point,
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: I get it. That was not my best when we
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: first started going on dates.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: So would she have wanted you to pay for more things?
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: Like do you think she felt like the balance was
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: off there? Like, do you think she wanted you to
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: take care of her more?
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: I think I definitely could have.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know if she necessarily wanted it, but I
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: should have stepped up in much bigger ways, like even
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: just as in the middle of the relationship, toward the ends,
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: I definitely took my foot off the gas because I
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: started to get like slightly even like resentful. Yeah, instead
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: of being who I want to be as a man
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: and being like, it is my job to step up
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: in this area. Step up, don't complain about it, don't
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: whine about it.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: Step up.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: I could look back on that now and be like, Okay, yeah,
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I miss stepped.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: But it was also a sign that the relationship was
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: needed to come to an end, because if you didn't
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: have those feelings and you would have just stayed in it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Correct, Oh, it would have.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: There's things were just festering, and now I look back
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: on them, like that's why, Like even certain things I
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: could help around the house with or step up with
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: or make her feel comfortable with, definitely reflected back on
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: that and like, Yep, that was me not being the
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: best man that I could be, and I want to
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: be for my partner, and so for that, I apologize.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: So you survived the wedding with your ex.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: We did, and we had a great time and it
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: was very nice. It's so nice because we sit there
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: and we talked together. It's kind of like when we
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: were not married, we didn't have kids. But I like
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: when I see couples that like go through a divorce
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: but they could still go to functions together and they're
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: just still friends.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: It's like, we know, we're not supposed to be romantic
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: partners together, but we'll still go. Her and I were
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: talking like a lot of the night, just catching up.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: We could go in the same friend group.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: I love that. Honestly, I think this wedding brought a
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: lot of comfort to that.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, well that's good. So maybe you have some good closure.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: So much good closure where it's now it's like wow.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Now the next thing is I wonder when you're gonna
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: meet the person that I'm talking to.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Ah, that will be a whole new situation.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, are you nervous about the meeting?
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: No, because they're both extremely friendly people. I think they'll
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: get along. I think what's going to happen is like
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: I'll get just kicked off the side.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Do you think they're gonna besties?
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: They could be.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: I think they'll connect a lot better and it won't
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: be as awkward as to think it could have been. Okay,
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: I think it's not something that needs to be besties,
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Like they don't need to be, but it'll be nice
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: if I could bring this person around and we could
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: go to all these big friendly you know, let's say
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: if I would have brought them to the wedding, Like
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: those would be future moments that would be really cool.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: If everybody could just get together and there's no weirdness
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: and they could talk shit about me.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, that sounds awesome.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: I don't think your a new lady's going to talk
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: shit about you, not yet, but I'm.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: Sure it will come. I'm sure there's a down the line.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Now it's too fresh. I don't know if there's anything
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: to like spill the tea on yet, but I'm sure
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: what I've always wondered, and I wanted to ask this
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: on Instagram, like if you could write a letter to
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: your ex's new partner, Like, what would you say?
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good question. Yeah, would you write to
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: your lady's new partner?
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: That's it? I love it?
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: Should it be tomorrow's prompt?
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Ooh? What would I say? I would have to think.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: Your love letter to your to your to your exes.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: New lady, because I'm wondering, like what are the things
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: that they would say? And I think I got this
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: idea because what is that movie Dear John?
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: Have you seen that? Yeah?
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Isn't that like he writes a letter or like he
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: dies and he's like, here's the letter for like how
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: to treat my wife or something like that.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: No, I think he's out off that war and she's
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: writing him letters.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Then I missed the concept though, of like let's anyway
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: die and you write like a letter to your partner's
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: new person. Yeah, and like what are all the things
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: that you would want them to know about them.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: That's a really good prompt. You have to do that tomorrow.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Then I'll sit on that and think on it because
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I always wonder, like what she would say to my
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: new person on me work.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: To your new lady.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: That feels so awkward. I feel I think she would
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: be too, But I don't know. We'll see.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: I don't think about me about you to your new lady.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Mm let's think. I think there would be a lot
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: of sweet things that I do. Step up. I'm a
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: huge help.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: I like to support. I also am not huge on
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: the nightlife stuff. She'd probably say, you know, don't expect
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: him to want to go out every you know, every weekend.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Uh. He's a great dog dad, that's for sure.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I am. I sing and whistle a lot. I could
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: be very annoying, that's for sure. I have a lot
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: of energy. You gotta be able to handle that when
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: we go out. I have a good family. They're a
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: lot of fun. We're also weird. I think there'll definitely
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: be a part in there that's like, you're going to
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: love his family, but also prepare yourself because if you
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: think Scott's a bit obnoxious, wait, till you meet his
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: dad and his brother and they.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: All get together. You've been warned.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: I think that would be a big part of it, noted,
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: And now I'm very curious and I want to hear
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: it from her. And that's why I think I thought
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: of this because I was like, what should they be
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: warned about or enlightened about or look forward to. But
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: then it also kind of felt weird, and I thought
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: if I posted online, people would just bash their X
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: be like, well, they don't pick up anything, and they
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: suck and they can't get a job, and they always
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: crash the car and they never fill.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Up my gas.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: I was like, well that would kind of be funny.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: But they also want the sweet moments too. Yeah, Like
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: it's like respectful. You know, if I was to write
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: one for her and say, you know, she has a
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: huge heart, she'll do anything for her friends. She loves
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: very deeply, Like you always know that you're supported. Yeah,
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: doesn't really get jealous. You have to make sure that
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: you're willing to sit and listen, don't give up when
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: things get quiet.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Well, don't give us all the good stuff.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I got just the thought process there.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I'd be very curious, but also maybe i'd like, should
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: wait on that one that one might win and wait
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: for a couple a couple months.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: No, it'll be out tomorrow. I chat you bet right,
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: you got this.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: I want to tap into.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: On the last podcast, we got to have a celebration
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: for you, Abby, which is super cool.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: Same celebration for me, though, it's a celebration for us.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Hell yeah, Well here's what's exciting though, because we didn't
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: get to dive into the explanation at the end of
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: the podcast because we're like, we got a pop champagne.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: Also like, did you miss Alexia? Alexei has been in
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: here for like five minutes.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Holy crap. That's scared the crap of me. I was like,
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: what is moving and we're about to step all over
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: a show. Great, if you're don't talk about it, get
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: on the podcast. Alexi just walked in. Okay, here pop
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: on the mike. Good morning Alexia, come on in there
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: you go, you can get on that mike. I'll turn
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: you up. I was gonna just talk about the meaning
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: of what happened on that last podcast where they came in,
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: we popped champagne, and we got to announce that it's
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: now Magic Mornings with Scotty and Appy.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: It was a huge moment because that doesn't happen.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: We just talked about this in a sales meeting like
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: thirty minutes ago, where they do not do that in
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: this industry. They do not just come in and say,
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: you know what, we're gonna throw your name on. It's
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: crazy to think that it takes so long to make
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: the right decision. And I will give credit where credit
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: is due that they know the talent that you bring
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: to anywhere that you go, Abby, And I hope you
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: understand that too, that you're a powerhouse and you're being
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: seen for that powerhouse things.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's about Danton.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: That's right. Should I like that as you should appreciate that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's funny. I think me and you have very
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: similar stories because I was with this company before I
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: left for my job in Atlanta, and it's just it's
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: just crazy sometimes how slow moving things can be. That
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: it feels weird to me that it's a celebration, Like
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: when we were talking about it in the sales meeting
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: that they were like, yeah, Abby's name is going to
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: be on the morning show. I was like, well, duh,
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Like why I was like, this shouldn't be as big.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: It shouldn't have to be as big of a deal
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: as it is, And I'm grateful that they're celebrating it
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: and they're making a big deal out of it, but ultimately,
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you believe this is revolutionary the fact that
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: they're going to add me to a morning show and
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: they're gonna put my name on it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm appreciative that one. They've done it so quick.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: But also because there's a note in the last podcast
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: too that are are boss Jena made. It's especially with women,
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: like there are so many our colleagues that are just
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: like male dominated show, but they have a powerhouse as
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: a co host.
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  Speaker 1: Their name's not on the show.
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  Speaker 3: I know. Well, it just happened to I mean kind
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: of just happened to Kristen from the show I just left.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, she was fully expecting to take over for
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: Bert when he retired, and you know, she has the
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: Kristin Show, but they moved her to afternoons, which just
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: in radio is seen as I mean not that I
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: think it is, because I think she's still doing incredible
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: work over there, but mornings is the spot you work
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  Speaker 3: your entire career to get.
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  Speaker 1: To m H and especially when she was doing it
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  Speaker 1: alreadty yes.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, after so long with that company,
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: I was just so angry for her, genuinely, so in
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: that sense, like I'm incredibly grateful that I get to
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: be on mornings and my name is on it. But
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: it's also like one of those things where it's.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Like, duh, how it should be.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: It should be. It just it's crazy that that has
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: that we have to celebrate that, and I'm so thankful
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: that we're celebrating it. I'm so grateful to our leadership
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: who has been advocating for us and pushing for this.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: But yeah, like just just that's just how it should be.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like to make the right move, yeah, and
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: that's it's like you've made the right move.
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  Speaker 1: Hell yeah. Especially in a big.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: Company absolutely, because you get up to like the corporate heads,
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: like the way up to the top, and sometimes you
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: feel like they just don't get it and you're like,
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: how are we not seeing the same thing? Yeah it's cool,
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: and it's like, okay, cool, we're seeing the same thing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So ultimately, I just want to make sure that
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: we carry on their expectations because you know, if there's
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: anybody coming up behind us, I don't want them to
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: have to wait three years to get their freaking name
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  Speaker 3: on the show. That's crazy to me, you.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Know, absolutely outrageous. But now it looks really good.
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  Speaker 2: So if you are able to hop over to our
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: My Magic ninety four to nine web page, you'll see
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  Speaker 2: our new logo.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Magic Mornings with Scottie and Abbey.
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  Speaker 2: And now it's taken over. And so now we just
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: got to keep it going. Now we got to make
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: some noise, and now we got to make it rain,
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: give out some cash. And now we also got to
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: get out of here so Alexia could do her incredible show.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: A very exciting week as we get to continue to
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: grow the show can grow Magic. And also like it's
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: fun being on this trio because this trio is just
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: so good.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we've got this pool party coming up, seeing
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: go to Mayo to our first like trio pool party.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if you're mentally.
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  Speaker 1: Prepared for that. I'm literally not.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, I forget that it's happening. So that's a good
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: thing that you brought it up. So I want to
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: keep reminding you. We'll put it in the notes right
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: now that we do have a massive pool party coming
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: up in the beginning of May.
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  Speaker 1: I believe it's May third, the third, I'm gonna turn
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: the leep up.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: Sounds incredible, all right, Abby, What is your Instagram at
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: the b Murphy.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Alexia is about to take over? What's your Instagram? Alexia
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: at the Gala Life?
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: And then mine is at Scott Tablin and again follow along,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: appreciate all the support like this has been incredible. And
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: also when you listen all the way through and you
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• 28:35
  Speaker 2: or you subscribe because now that corporate is looking at
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: all our numbers because we're bad bees up in this thing. Yeah,
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: we just want to show off and be like see
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: told you we're good. Yeah.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: If you haven't left a review on Spotify, I think
• 28:46
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• 28:47
  Speaker 3: leave something nice on Apple Music and just be like, wow,
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: this is great.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I love that.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: This is great, great media to consume.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Thank you for being a part of this.
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  Speaker 2: We'll be back with another episode of Scott and Abby
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