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New Dirty Little Secret: "She's Been Waiting For A Ring...But Says She Has This Just Incase" · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. Men, you'll feel better. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 2: Chance at that Disneyland vacation coming up next if you
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  Speaker 2: want it to mix one on two point nine and
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  Speaker 2: Bailey a Kid, Canda Slow Pez producer poo is here.
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  Speaker 2: Dirty little Secret and if you got one, bring it
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  Speaker 2: to us anytime you want. You could call us or
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  Speaker 2: at Billy on the radio on Instagram. It could be
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  Speaker 2: a silly secret. I always take it happened five minutes
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  Speaker 2: ago or five years ago. All right, bring them all
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  Speaker 2: you got one?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So this isn't something I would ever say out
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  Speaker 1: loud to anyone I actually know. But I've been in
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  Speaker 1: my relationship for about six and a half years. We're good,
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  Speaker 1: We're solid, we're comfortable, We've built a good life together.
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  Speaker 1: But if I'm being completely honest, I do have a
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  Speaker 1: me Mentally, I have a backup plan, and I don't
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  Speaker 1: really feel that crazy saying it, because, like I swear,
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  Speaker 1: every guy I know has one, and I think women
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  Speaker 1: just don't talk about it.
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  Speaker 2: Now, Okay, now that when you see a backup plan,
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  Speaker 2: do you mean you have like if it all goes bad,
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  Speaker 2: I have a little money stashed to the side, I
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  Speaker 2: can get out. I have a place I can go.
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  Speaker 2: When you mean a back or do you mean like
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  Speaker 2: a person you have a backup plan? As as far as another.
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  Speaker 1: Partner, I'm talking about a backup person.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, we talked about this. See remember this was
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  Speaker 3: a long time ago.
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  Speaker 2: There was a story actually that came out that said
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  Speaker 2: everyone has a backup Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I think you guys said every woman has one.
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  Speaker 2: Every woman has one in their head. Yeah, and you're
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  Speaker 2: saying this is true, because you're right. Women don't admit
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  Speaker 2: this if it's true.
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  Speaker 1: Right, That's what I'm thinking. But I need to, like,
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  Speaker 1: I need to hear about more women. So I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: just putting my foot out here.
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  Speaker 3: So who's the guy? I want to know?
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  Speaker 2: Who?
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  Speaker 3: You're Well, can you tell us about your backup plan?
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  Speaker 3: Who it is? Not specific names and stuff, but who
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  Speaker 3: is the guy?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Of course. So it's the guy that I dated right
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  Speaker 1: before my current boyfriend, and at the time I was
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  Speaker 1: in like a weird headspace. I don't think I gave
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  Speaker 1: him a fair chance, and he was genuinely he's just
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  Speaker 1: a really good guy. He treated me well, he showed up,
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  Speaker 1: he was very consistent and oh.
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  Speaker 2: He's a good guy, get the hell away from me.
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  Speaker 3: Allergic toys. So well, okay, scary, you know, yeah, that
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  Speaker 3: is they know it could be scary. So you go
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  Speaker 3: with the guy you're with now, right, yes, okay?
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  Speaker 1: But fast forward six and a half years later, and
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  Speaker 1: he still hasn't popped the question. He's like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: what's the run? She's just a piece of paper from
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  Speaker 1: before and I have and I loved him. I love him,
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  Speaker 1: I do, but I'd be lying if I said I
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  Speaker 1: don't feel like time is ticking. And if he's not serious,
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  Speaker 1: then like you know, this backup plan and not long ago,
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  Speaker 1: like okay, I did something I probably shouldn't have, very innocent.
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  Speaker 1: I looked up the old guy on Facebook and just
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  Speaker 1: curiosity and that's what I told myself. And and that's it.
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  Speaker 1: Like he's single, and now I can't stop thinking about it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: abou cheating, not even about reaching out, just about the
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  Speaker 1: you know, the what if and about whether I chose
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  Speaker 1: comfort over certainty or about whether you know, I let
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  Speaker 1: a good one go because I just wasn't ready for
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  Speaker 1: him back then.
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  Speaker 3: So well you probably can't, I mean, but don't you.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I think I go I lean towards Well, everything
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  Speaker 2: happens for a reason. Yeah, I'm not with that person
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  Speaker 2: for whatever reason. Maybe I don't get it, but here
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  Speaker 2: I am now Now. I will say though, because I
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  Speaker 2: thought your person you're with now is your husband, because
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  Speaker 2: when you said six and a half years, but this
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  Speaker 2: is your this is your boyfriend. Long boy, that's up
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  Speaker 2: six and a half years.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you're waiting for him to you know,
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  Speaker 4: commit or put a ring on it or whatever, like,
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  Speaker 4: there should be no backup. There should be nobody else
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  Speaker 4: even in the picture.
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  Speaker 2: After a certain time of waiting almost so long, does
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  Speaker 2: it become less like something you want?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it just feels less stable and less secure because
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  Speaker 1: there is there is no proposal. There hasn't been.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: He just keeps like he's you know, I love him,
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  Speaker 1: and he says I love you too, and so what's
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  Speaker 1: the what's the big deal, what's the rush? And like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't there's no rush. This is six and a
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  Speaker 1: half years.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's six and a half years a long time. Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he's obviously been burned. It sounds like he might have
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  Speaker 2: been burned before if he was married.
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: And so he's like, well, it's just a piece of paper.
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  Speaker 2: Been there, done that. But you've never been married. You
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  Speaker 2: want to experience all those things, which is understandable.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think he is. But if he's not,
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  Speaker 1: then you know.
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  Speaker 3: But but you got a backup boo ready to go. Well,
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  Speaker 3: you got a backup boo ready to go.
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  Speaker 4: That's wild.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, at least in my head.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because that guy doesn't even know. He doesn't know,
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  Speaker 4: but he would be like, yeah, cool.
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  Speaker 1: He never will You don't know that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think he'll never know. My gut tells me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying you're gonna break up with your man,
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  Speaker 2: and I hope you don't. If it works out, it
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  Speaker 2: works out, But.
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  Speaker 3: You don't know. Sometimes backup boo is coming into existence.
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  Speaker 2: It comes, you know, if you think about something long enough,
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  Speaker 2: I think you manifested.
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  Speaker 3: I do real that my whole life.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, people say manifesting is real, but I think
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  Speaker 4: it is also Just looking at him on Facebook isn't
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  Speaker 4: exactly manifesting.
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  Speaker 2: No, But if you're thinking about it a lot, you
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  Speaker 2: obviously are if you're looking them up on Facebook and
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  Speaker 2: you're like, well, what if you know you're not fantasizing
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  Speaker 2: about him, and this is not cheating, but you're not
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  Speaker 2: putting the energy in the current relationship, and something's obviously
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  Speaker 2: irritating you and rubbing you the wrong way about your
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  Speaker 2: relationship you're in now. So I mean, I and I
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  Speaker 2: think you should take that guy the backup boo out
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  Speaker 2: of it and think about is this something you really want?
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  Speaker 3: If it's not him popping the question too? And then
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  Speaker 3: you know, because how long, I mean, you'll have to
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  Speaker 3: have a conversation.
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  Speaker 4: That's a long time.
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  Speaker 3: How long do you wait someone to propose?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good question, because I got.
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  Speaker 1: Engaged about question.
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  Speaker 4: You were and a half years. I don't know, three
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  Speaker 4: you waited two and a half years, Yeah, something like that.
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  Speaker 3: That's normal.
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  Speaker 4: But then we had a long engagement, so I yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it was like five years.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, Okay, wow, five years.
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  Speaker 4: Well until we actually got married.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: I think you asked a good question. I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: ask other women. Is this something they have? Is this
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  Speaker 2: something that's real? I know it is, you think it is.
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  Speaker 2: Every girl has a backup booth.
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  Speaker 3: We're not in a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk not Candace, but every other girl has
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  Speaker 2: a just in case.
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  Speaker 3: Break glass just a case of an emergency Breaky.
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  Speaker 4: Married women or do you think they're just girls liter
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  Speaker 4: like dating and how the boyfriend?
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  Speaker 3: I think both. I think they do.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think every woman has it, yeah, but I
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  Speaker 2: think seventy five percent of her. Yeah, most of them
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  Speaker 2: are like most of them are like, what if you
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  Speaker 2: know this one don't work out?
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  Speaker 3: I could always call up.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 4: I think women are okay just being single these days.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you're right. And even if you can
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  Speaker 3: has had one, she wouldn't tell us no. She ain't
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  Speaker 3: gonna tell us no. Maybe it's pooh, No, you hack
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  Speaker 3: up pooh