Latest / Reality TV Cringe / 183: Welcome to Plathville - How Do I Get Rizz? (S6 E5) - Unexpected (S6 E11)
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- 3:18Speaker 2: We have a message from Kelly Ann and I think
- 3:21Speaker 2: it's a plaithfill okay question.
- 3:23Speaker 3: All right, Hidelia and Beatrice, I had to pause your
- 3:27Speaker 3: new episode and come here to say, Piatrice, no, how
- 3:31Speaker 3: can you have so much grace for Kim in this
- 3:34Speaker 3: moment and dislike Olivia so much? Just from looking at
- 3:38Speaker 3: the two of them together on the show, I think
- 3:41Speaker 3: Kim is a terrible person. She is she doesn't take
- 3:45Speaker 3: any accountability for herself at least Olivia is trying. Sure
- 3:49Speaker 3: she can be stuck up or snotty sometimes. I still
- 3:52Speaker 3: think she has the best intention, and she's the one
- 3:55Speaker 3: on the show who is trying to better herself, as
- 3:58Speaker 3: you ladies know. And I think everything that Kim is
- 4:02Speaker 3: doing is a publicity stunt. She sought out the show.
- 4:07Speaker 3: She is making all these terrible decisions and not talking
- 4:10Speaker 3: about it on camera, and she has all of these
- 4:14Speaker 3: platitudes to say about her children. But I look at patterns.
- 4:17Speaker 3: You had decades to change your behavior. You saw what
- 4:20Speaker 3: it was doing to your older kids, and you didn't
- 4:22Speaker 3: decide to do anything until you didn't have a choice.
- 4:25Speaker 3: All right, Well that's my two cents on Kim Plath.
- 4:29Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Hope you'll have a great day.
- 4:31Speaker 1: What was her name?
- 4:32Speaker 2: Wow, Kelly Ann.
- 4:34Speaker 1: Came for you. She got up in that raccoon as
- 4:40Speaker 1: I love it, she did.
- 4:43Speaker 2: Goddamn well.
- 4:44Speaker 1: I wonder what she thought when she pressed play back
- 4:47Speaker 1: on the episode, because depending on where she stopped it
- 4:50Speaker 1: last week, she might not have heard us or me
- 4:55Speaker 1: get up in the ass of Kim Plath and Olivia
- 4:58Speaker 1: and Olivia. But also, we had a bit of a
- 5:01Speaker 1: fair or you had a bit of a fair or
- 5:02Speaker 1: take for Olivia last week.
- 5:04Speaker 2: I did, yeah, and I actually had grace for her
- 5:07Speaker 2: on this episode too, which we'll get into later. But
- 5:09Speaker 2: I mean, historically, the reason why I've had a problem
- 5:12Speaker 2: with Olivia Plath is because she kind of puts on
- 5:15Speaker 2: an air that she's like better than everybody because she's
- 5:18Speaker 2: so healed and so much more emotionally mature, but like
- 5:22Speaker 2: she's not acknowledging any of her toxic traits. I have
- 5:26Speaker 2: a problem with that. However, Kim Plath is also doing
- 5:29Speaker 2: the same fucking thing. She's not acknowledging any of her
- 5:32Speaker 2: faults and not taking any accountability on camera. I do
- 5:36Speaker 2: think Kim and Olivia both produce themselves on camera, though,
- 5:40Speaker 2: so I think they're kind of one and the same.
- 5:42Speaker 2: The only saving grace for Olivia is that she is young,
- 5:45Speaker 2: and we've talked about this, She's got room to grow,
- 5:48Speaker 2: whereas Kim's old. I mean, she's had a lot of
- 5:52Speaker 2: years to change, and the only reason why she's changing
- 5:54Speaker 2: now is because she's getting her Box eight. So, I mean,
- 5:56Speaker 2: I get it, that's fair, Kim. There's a lot of
- 5:59Speaker 2: criticisms that we can give Kim Plath, and we do,
- 6:02Speaker 2: and we totally do. I mean, I in particular cannot
- 6:05Speaker 2: stand her. She hates her I mean, I just but
- 6:08Speaker 2: I think one of the reasons that you have a
- 6:11Speaker 2: little bit, like a smidge more grace for Kim, at
- 6:14Speaker 2: least recently, is because she does kind.
- 6:16Speaker 1: Of remind you of your mom a little bit. Yeah,
- 6:18Speaker 1: And that might be a relationship that you're currently like
- 6:20Speaker 1: looking at and becoming aware of, and so maybe she's
- 6:23Speaker 1: a little bit archetypal for you, Yeah, and stuff that
- 6:26Speaker 1: you're confronting in your own life right now, So that
- 6:29Speaker 1: might be part of it. But at the same time,
- 6:31Speaker 1: I really do think that you call her out on
- 6:33Speaker 1: her bullshit for the mostly.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:35Speaker 1: Now, the thing about Olivia for me is I will
- 6:37Speaker 1: concede that she does have a lot of intelligence. She
- 6:43Speaker 1: does have a lot of therapized speak. Like on the surface,
- 6:49Speaker 1: one would say, yeah, she's going to therapy and she's
- 6:53Speaker 1: working on herself and she's moving on and having experiences,
- 6:58Speaker 1: and that's what it looks like. I work though, underneath that,
- 7:03Speaker 1: whether it's real, And the thing about narcissist and I'm
- 7:06Speaker 1: not saying that she is and not diagnosing anybody, even
- 7:09Speaker 1: though I'm very spiritual, very spiritual, but the thing about
- 7:14Speaker 1: narcissist is you really don't want to send them to
- 7:16Speaker 1: therapy because they for the most part, can't be helped.
- 7:21Speaker 1: And secondarily, they co opt a lot of the language
- 7:25Speaker 1: and the resources and then start to use that as
- 7:27Speaker 1: another weapon in their toolbox to hurt other people. Now
- 7:31Speaker 1: I'm not saying Olivia's doing that. I am saying I'm
- 7:34Speaker 1: a little worried about it because I think I'm sniffing
- 7:37Speaker 1: with my raccoon nose. Yeah, some narc tendencies. But again,
- 7:42Speaker 1: I say, when I was her age, I was a
- 7:44Speaker 1: complete trash bag. Oh yeah, I was a complete free radical,
- 7:47Speaker 1: just ruining shit and damaging the world at that time
- 7:51Speaker 1: in my life. So I believe in her. I think
- 7:54Speaker 1: she can get her shit together, and I hope that
- 7:57Speaker 1: she does.
- 7:57Speaker 2: I hope so too. And I mean I try to
- 8:00Speaker 2: go back and forth, Like especially this season, I've been
- 8:03Speaker 2: hard on Olivia. The last five seasons, I will be rude.
- 8:07Speaker 1: I have not heleped appropriately, So I.
- 8:09Speaker 2: Mean, she's been terrible, But like this season, I've been
- 8:11Speaker 2: trying to like give her a little bit more grace,
- 8:14Speaker 2: and like especially this episode, I'm like, Okay, I can
- 8:17Speaker 2: see where you're trying to like mend things or trying
- 8:21Speaker 2: to heal things. It's just like you had said, the
- 8:23Speaker 2: therapized speak. I don't like that. I don't like when
- 8:25Speaker 2: people use therapy talk as a way to like come
- 8:29Speaker 2: off like, oh yeah, I'm like so healed or whatever.
- 8:32Speaker 2: You can say all this shit, but if you're not
- 8:34Speaker 2: actually living it and not actually embodying what you're preaching,
- 8:39Speaker 2: it don't mean anything.
- 8:40Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's a bit problematic that on
- 8:42Speaker 1: the nights that the episodes air, like Olivia's up on
- 8:46Speaker 1: her Instagram kind of passive aggressively going after other members
- 8:51Speaker 1: on the show. Yea, And I think she came out
- 8:53Speaker 1: and made a video recently about her father, which I
- 8:56Speaker 1: think is connected to Ethan bringing up her family in
- 8:59Speaker 1: this app and how she can so easily just walk
- 9:02Speaker 1: away and cut ties. And so her response to that
- 9:05Speaker 1: isn't to say, oh, well, let me think about that,
- 9:08Speaker 1: like maybe that strikes up some sort of a truth
- 9:11Speaker 1: in me that I need to look at or talk
- 9:12Speaker 1: to my therapist about. No, on the night of she's
- 9:15Speaker 1: making a post about her dad, and she has every
- 9:18Speaker 1: right to do that, but it's a little problematic to
- 9:21Speaker 1: me as to whether she's going through the process or
- 9:23Speaker 1: whether she just wants us to think that she is
- 9:26Speaker 1: exactly but Kelly and I get it. Yeah, And as
- 9:29Speaker 1: it concerns fucking kim Plath, oh yeah, score of the
- 9:34Speaker 1: wretched eyeliner and lipstick. She is like an old dog.
- 9:38Speaker 1: Like we said last episode, She's not going to learn
- 9:41Speaker 1: any new tricks. She's trying to do what Olivia is
- 9:44Speaker 1: doing so much better than her, which is to pretend
- 9:47Speaker 1: I'm sorry, or just to pretend and put on the
- 9:49Speaker 1: face of somebody who's got a great life, who's in
- 9:52Speaker 1: a great place. But meanwhile she's getting duyse. She's an adulteresst.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Her adult kids are side eyeing her. Her littles are
- 10:00Speaker 1: also sorryed eyeing her, like the world isn't perfect and
- 10:03Speaker 1: kim Plath land.
- 10:04Speaker 2: No, And I mean, on camera, it seems like she's
- 10:07Speaker 2: loving her kids, and I can kind of buy into that.
- 10:10Speaker 2: I am a little naive to that, because I'm like, oh,
- 10:12Speaker 2: I would love for Kim to like grow up a
- 10:15Speaker 2: little bit and like try tomend things with her older kids. Now,
- 10:18Speaker 2: whether she's doing that off camera, I don't fucking know.
- 10:20Speaker 2: I don't know any of these people's real lives. We're
- 10:23Speaker 2: just watching them on fucking TV.
- 10:24Speaker 1: Yeah, And they're all lying, I mean totally except for Ethan.
- 10:28Speaker 1: I mean, and I'm not saying that Ethan's a good person,
- 10:30Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't know that Ethan caroly Ing. Yeah,
- 10:33Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that he can Micah or
- 10:36Speaker 1: Micah Mariah can. But we'll get into the episode. So
- 10:38Speaker 1: I just want to say, Kelly and thank you very
- 10:40Speaker 1: much for the phone call, even though you're getting up
- 10:42Speaker 1: in that ass and I want to. We love to
- 10:47Speaker 1: hear your opinions. We're not always going to agree with them,
- 10:49Speaker 1: but like it starts a conversation and we adore that.
- 10:52Speaker 1: So thank you, Kelly Ann.
- 10:54Speaker 2: Thank you catch me outside though.
- 10:59Speaker 1: She joking. Right, Okay, let's get into the most recent
- 11:05Speaker 1: episode of Welcome to plath Bow Season six, episode.
- 11:09Speaker 2: Six, Episode five, episode five, entitled how do I get Riz?
- 11:14Speaker 2: Oh God, very Planlord, so gringe. So we kind of
- 11:19Speaker 2: start off with the younger girls and Kim motherfucking Plath
- 11:23Speaker 2: and Kim motherfucking Palmer going to taekwondo class and Micah's
- 11:27Speaker 2: there for some reason. I think it's because he's still
- 11:29Speaker 2: there from dealing with her boat or whatever.
- 11:32Speaker 1: I don't think. So I think he's driving up specifically
- 11:35Speaker 1: to film scenes because maybe at this point his girlfriend,
- 11:38Speaker 1: who we haven't really seen, doesn't want him filming there
- 11:41Speaker 1: or doesn't want to be a part of it. But
- 11:43Speaker 1: it's theory, it's a check for Micah Plath, so that's
- 11:46Speaker 1: why he's making sure to insert himself into all these
- 11:48Speaker 1: various and sundry scenes.
- 11:50Speaker 2: Maybe he needs to make money. I think he does.
- 11:54Speaker 2: That's a good point. But this is kind of an
- 11:56Speaker 2: interesting scene because the little girls are doing taekwondo and
- 12:00Speaker 2: Micah is kind of reflecting on his childhood and he's like,
- 12:03Speaker 2: I wish I could have done extracurricular activities. I wish
- 12:06Speaker 2: my mom would have carted me off to sports. I
- 12:08Speaker 2: probably would have been a professional athlete by now. Okay,
- 12:11Speaker 2: I'm like, would you sure?
- 12:14Speaker 1: Sure, babe?
- 12:16Speaker 2: Naive right, But we do kind of hear from Kim
- 12:19Speaker 2: about this, and she's like, well, I mean, I had
- 12:21Speaker 2: nine fucking kids, and I couldn't physically curt all of
- 12:25Speaker 2: them off to all of these extracurriculums.
- 12:26Speaker 1: Then why have nine fucking kids?
- 12:28Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know why did Barry impregnate her
- 12:31Speaker 2: with them?
- 12:32Speaker 1: Both of them? Like, why are you having nine kids?
- 12:35Speaker 1: That I can't fully support and give like a full
- 12:38Speaker 1: and healthy life.
- 12:38Speaker 2: Too, and you're gonna be tivities. Yeah, so like spread thin, right,
- 12:43Speaker 2: I agree, But she does kind of talk about how,
- 12:46Speaker 2: you know, the younger girls didn't get to have the
- 12:48Speaker 2: same childhood experience that the older kids did on the farm,
- 12:51Speaker 2: and so there you go. It just you know, it
- 12:53Speaker 2: even's out, And I'm like, it's a very parent thing
- 12:56Speaker 2: to say, like, oh, you know, I fucked up with
- 12:58Speaker 2: the older kids. Younger kids get it better, but like whatever,
- 13:02Speaker 2: it evens out.
- 13:03Speaker 1: And that's what I think really bothers me about her
- 13:06Speaker 1: is that she doesn't go deep enough with her acknowledgment
- 13:11Speaker 1: around how dysfunctional it was for the kids whatever season
- 13:15Speaker 1: of their lives they were in, whether it was Mariah
- 13:18Speaker 1: and how she dressed and how she was an individual,
- 13:21Speaker 1: whether it was Ethan who didn't want to do his homework,
- 13:23Speaker 1: and like all of the things that she should have
- 13:26Speaker 1: done as a parent, that she could at least acknowledge, like, yeah,
- 13:29Speaker 1: the kids already know this. The kids love you anyway,
- 13:32Speaker 1: but to have you actually say it out loud and
- 13:34Speaker 1: acknowledge it, I think would go a long way with them.
- 13:37Speaker 1: But she can't do it now. She's very very clogged emotionally,
- 13:41Speaker 1: Like it's very hard for I know we're seeing tears
- 13:43Speaker 1: from time to time, but it's very hard for her
- 13:46Speaker 1: to process emotions and certainly to communicate them.
- 13:49Speaker 2: Oh for sure. And like we've talked about before, like
- 13:51Speaker 2: for her to actually sit in all of her shame
- 13:54Speaker 2: and regret, I mean, that would be a lot. That's
- 13:55Speaker 2: why she drinks. Yeah, I mean we assume, yes, And
- 14:00Speaker 2: we have Mariah and Lydia going over to Ethan's apartment
- 14:04Speaker 2: to have coffee. And the only thing that was like
- 14:07Speaker 2: interesting to me about this whole conversation was when they
- 14:09Speaker 2: were talking about magicians and how Ethan was like, if
- 14:13Speaker 2: I could be a magician right now, or if I
- 14:15Speaker 2: could have one, grant me my wish, I would just
- 14:18Speaker 2: wish to disappear, Yeah, and nobody to find me, right yaikes.
- 14:22Speaker 1: Dude, Yeah, depressing. Yeah, he's in a really low point,
- 14:25Speaker 1: yeah for sure. And that's because he's in the process
- 14:29Speaker 1: of divorcing Olivia. And while Lydia and Mariah are there
- 14:33Speaker 1: right now to kind of help him in this last
- 14:35Speaker 1: stage of packing up the apartment, Olivia is soon to
- 14:39Speaker 1: arrive in Minnesota and they're going to have their potentially
- 14:41Speaker 1: final meeting.
- 14:42Speaker 2: Yeah, which we'll get to yeah at the end of this.
- 14:45Speaker 2: And that was fucking sad. And then we have Micah
- 14:48Speaker 2: and Barry going over to one of their rental properties,
- 14:51Speaker 2: which is a really nice untal.
- 14:53Speaker 1: I'm like, god, I know right, because there was that
- 14:56Speaker 1: one rental property where Kim went out on a little
- 14:59Speaker 1: kayak or something. It wasn't this house. No, they have
- 15:02Speaker 1: the farm. Ye, they have the big house. They have
- 15:04Speaker 1: the apartment above the dance studio. They also have the
- 15:07Speaker 1: dance studio yep. So they're holding quite the property portfolio.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I'm very interested to see how they split that.
- 15:15Speaker 2: And that's probably why they're at an impasse, is what
- 15:18Speaker 2: Barry says, or that they're in marriage limbo because they're
- 15:21Speaker 2: having to split all of that, and you know, Kim's
- 15:22Speaker 2: being like, I want fifty percent.
- 15:24Speaker 1: She should get it.
- 15:25Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean they were married for what
- 15:27Speaker 2: fucking thirty years?
- 15:28Speaker 1: Twenty five years?
- 15:29Speaker 2: Like, yeah, she should.
- 15:31Speaker 1: What do we not think that Barry wants to give
- 15:33Speaker 1: up the coins? Do we think that Barry wants to
- 15:35Speaker 1: make it difficult? Do we think because Barry's certainly not
- 15:39Speaker 1: going to say it. Nobody's obviously going to tell us
- 15:41Speaker 1: how they're really feeling. But do we think Barry is
- 15:44Speaker 1: pissed off because his wife left him and cheated on him?
- 15:47Speaker 2: Probably I would be. I would be too, and I'd
- 15:50Speaker 2: be like, I don't want to give you all of
- 15:51Speaker 2: this shit and spousal support and child support, like she's
- 15:55Speaker 2: probably asking for the full thing. I mean, that's typical,
- 15:59Speaker 2: and she she should get some child support. She should
- 16:01Speaker 2: probably get a little spouse not if it's.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Fifty to fifty, which is what Barry is asking for.
- 16:06Speaker 1: He's asking for those littles fifty percent of the time.
- 16:09Speaker 2: I wish we could get more insight in this, but
- 16:11Speaker 2: they're not gonna say shit. No, Barry's being very respectful though,
- 16:14Speaker 2: He's just like we're at an impass, Like he's not
- 16:16Speaker 2: saying anything. He's not talking shit, kind of like how
- 16:19Speaker 2: Ethan's not talking any shit with Olivia.
- 16:21Speaker 1: Oh well, he kind of talked a little shit Beatrice
- 16:24Speaker 1: when they're going over him setting up a dating profile
- 16:27Speaker 1: and he's talking about the kind of woman that he
- 16:30Speaker 1: would like to date. First and foremost, she's got to
- 16:32Speaker 1: have a good sense of humor. We've got to be
- 16:34Speaker 1: able to laugh together, and I would appreciate if she
- 16:36Speaker 1: was at least somewhat fit. Right's somewhat healthy and fit? Yeah,
- 16:41Speaker 1: I'm like And then he smiled kind of a coy
- 16:44Speaker 1: little smile, and Michael laughed, and I felt like that
- 16:47Speaker 1: was just a joke between them that I totally got.
- 16:49Speaker 1: He's talking about Kim not being fit. Oh yeah and healthy.
- 16:52Speaker 2: Well, I like, if we recall in the earlier seasons,
- 16:55Speaker 2: Kim kind of mentioned that, like Kim would talk about
- 16:58Speaker 2: how Barry would call her fat.
- 17:00Speaker 1: What, yes, I.
- 17:02Speaker 2: Remember in earlier seasons.
- 17:03Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, I don't remember that. Did Barry really call
- 17:07Speaker 1: her fat?
- 17:07Speaker 2: I think, yeah, it's according to Kim. According to Kim.
- 17:11Speaker 1: We watched all those seasons. I don't remember that at all.
- 17:15Speaker 1: Maybe I blotted it from my awareness because that's fucked up.
- 17:18Speaker 2: It is fucked up, but true, I need get that sugar.
- 17:22Speaker 4: I mean, when everybody in the family is at their
- 17:25Speaker 4: optimal weight and super physically fit and then the mom
- 17:28Speaker 4: who forbids everyone from having sugar and process fats and
- 17:32Speaker 4: stuff is sixty pounds overweight, Like.
- 17:35Speaker 1: Yeah, there's an issue. I mean, I don't know if
- 17:38Speaker 1: she was drinking. I mean, I have may suspicions she'd
- 17:40Speaker 1: been drinking. Barry didn't know she was drinking, because I
- 17:43Speaker 1: don't think Barry drinks. You can hide it, I don't know, girl,
- 17:47Speaker 1: But yeah, it's just Barry wants somebody different. I think
- 17:50Speaker 1: Barry a can in envisional world for himself where he's
- 17:53Speaker 1: got this tight little aerobics pilates CrossFit mama and they
- 17:58Speaker 1: laugh about stuff for drink their Kumbu chob Totally.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 18:03Speaker 1: I like that for him.
- 18:04Speaker 2: I want that for him. Yeah. And Micah apparently is
- 18:07Speaker 2: getting d MS from people wanting to hook up with Barry,
- 18:10Speaker 2: which do we believe that.
- 18:12Speaker 1: I have a hard time personally believing that, just because
- 18:14Speaker 1: I have my own like pattern of attraction and men
- 18:17Speaker 1: who I think are hot, and Barry's not it. Barry's
- 18:21Speaker 1: not it. Like he's got a nice figure, it's got
- 18:24Speaker 1: a nice physique, but it's that head.
- 18:26Speaker 2: Girl, It's it's from the next to C three po
- 18:29Speaker 2: of it all. And like everybody's been saying, like I've
- 18:32Speaker 2: been saying, just shave off your head, get ahead, transplant, No,
- 18:44Speaker 2: shave off your hair, grow a fucking beard to hide
- 18:47Speaker 2: them lips or non lips, and then you'd be great.
- 18:52Speaker 1: You're such a body shaming bitch. You're calling kid flat
- 18:55Speaker 1: that I am not well jeus we are. I'm sorry,
- 19:03Speaker 1: Please forgive me. I have problems if you're but we're
- 19:07Speaker 1: talking over what we do in Sorry. Yeah, and I
- 19:11Speaker 1: hate Kim, I hate Harsh.
- 19:12Speaker 2: I'm with Kellyan, I agree, I agree. And then we
- 19:16Speaker 2: hear Barry trying to learn what RIZ means, trying to
- 19:20Speaker 2: learn slang. He doesn't know what a DM is. That
- 19:24Speaker 2: made me laugh.
- 19:25Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a nerd, honey, he is a dork goob.
- 19:29Speaker 2: He needs to go on Farmers only dot com probably. Yeah, well,
- 19:32Speaker 2: Christian Mingle, can I just.
- 19:34Speaker 1: Before we move on to whatever's next, can I just
- 19:37Speaker 1: take a moment to suss out my feelings around Barry
- 19:40Speaker 1: sitting there with his master's degree talking to his son,
- 19:45Speaker 1: who's talking about trying to cobble together a business for
- 19:49Speaker 1: himself building fences down in Florida or landscaping because that's
- 19:55Speaker 1: all he can do, or maybe be an actor. But
- 19:57Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sorry, Micah, maybe like if you date
- 19:59Speaker 1: Andy Cohen, maybe something could happened in your career that
- 20:03Speaker 1: oh totally, But I'm sorry, it's not going to happen
- 20:06Speaker 1: you're I don't think you're going to be an actor.
- 20:08Speaker 1: I don't think Mariah's going to be a singer. I
- 20:10Speaker 1: don't think any of these kids are going to make it.
- 20:13Speaker 1: But Barry, how does this feel knowing that your son
- 20:16Speaker 1: is trying to rub two sticks together or two stones
- 20:18Speaker 1: together to make something catch fire, because you've disabled them
- 20:22Speaker 1: from being able to have their own future like you
- 20:24Speaker 1: have with all of your properties, sitting there wondering where
- 20:28Speaker 1: you get to move, and Micah doesn't even have a job.
- 20:31Speaker 1: I mean, it's just glaring to me. It pisses me
- 20:33Speaker 1: off so badly.
- 20:35Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like they rob them of their choice to
- 20:38Speaker 2: do whatever they wanted to do. Now they have to
- 20:41Speaker 2: choose between being an actor or a model or fencing
- 20:46Speaker 2: and landscaping, which are I think those are real jobs.
- 20:48Speaker 2: Of course those are needed and everything, and you can
- 20:50Speaker 2: have a very successful agriculture or whatever business. That's fine.
- 20:54Speaker 2: But does he want to do that? Probably not.
- 20:56Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to build fences, not in South Florida. Absolute,
- 21:00Speaker 1: I mean, but comparing contrast with what Barry's able to
- 21:04Speaker 1: a mass for himself, it's not fair. No, it's just
- 21:07Speaker 1: it's just glaringly unfair and it makes me so so angry.
- 21:12Speaker 2: I agree, And then we have before we get to
- 21:15Speaker 2: Ethan and Olivia will save that for the last. Oh,
- 21:17Speaker 2: we have Mariah going to Kim's houseboat that has no power, that's.
- 21:22Speaker 1: Booty as sewer dog house boat with a burnt out
- 21:28Speaker 1: plug that dingy af I can't humid. She's in Florida, Like,
- 21:34Speaker 1: what are we doing? Got to turn off the AC
- 21:37Speaker 1: to make some toast? I mean, why don't understand she
- 21:43Speaker 1: don't live there?
- 21:44Speaker 3: No?
- 21:44Speaker 2: Well, and like we said a couple episodes ago, right, like,
- 21:47Speaker 2: it's probably because she's boykin kN Palmer and doesn't want
- 21:49Speaker 2: the kids there. But I'm like, couldn't you get like
- 21:51Speaker 2: an airbnb or something?
- 21:52Speaker 1: Yeah, or like a little studio or something, or just
- 21:54Speaker 1: like a little one bedroom Like what are we doing?
- 21:56Speaker 1: The girls can share, like it's super easy. Why a
- 21:59Speaker 1: house boat? Don't so that? We think you have a
- 22:01Speaker 1: sense of adventure and you're quirky, which is what Mariah
- 22:05Speaker 1: seems to think she has in common with you. Yeah,
- 22:07Speaker 1: you know, we're both independent and if we get a
- 22:10Speaker 1: wild hair, we're gonna do it even though people don't
- 22:12Speaker 1: think we should.
- 22:13Speaker 2: Well, I thought that was funny though, that she was
- 22:15Speaker 2: making that comparison, because it's true. They make bad choices.
- 22:19Speaker 2: They do I mean tattoos, I mean tattoos. Her boyfriend's like,
- 22:23Speaker 2: you know, so it totally tracks m M. But I
- 22:27Speaker 2: thought this conversation with Kim was interesting because Kim's like,
- 22:30Speaker 2: really wanting to know how Ethan's doing. Yes, let's get
- 22:33Speaker 2: that back from Minnesota, and she's asking. She immediately asks
- 22:37Speaker 2: about him, like, so, how is he doing? How's he
- 22:39Speaker 2: doing with a divorce? And then Mariah also talks about
- 22:42Speaker 2: her conversation with Olivia, which makes Kim shudder in her
- 22:47Speaker 2: sugar body.
- 22:48Speaker 1: Oh that was interesting to me. She seems really apprehensive
- 22:53Speaker 1: to have Mariah or perhaps any of her children maintain
- 22:57Speaker 1: contact with Olivia. Question would be why, Like Mariah's an
- 23:02Speaker 1: adult now, like Mariah can make her own choices. What
- 23:05Speaker 1: are you so scared of? Like, are you afraid that
- 23:08Speaker 1: maybe Olivia will wield influence again over Mariah and your
- 23:12Speaker 1: other children?
- 23:13Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 23:13Speaker 1: Are you afraid that Olivia will come out with more
- 23:16Speaker 1: information and you don't want to have to deal with that?
- 23:19Speaker 1: Not unlike the credit card situation. Yeah, I think she
- 23:23Speaker 1: wants to completely isolate and kick out Olivia Plath from
- 23:30Speaker 1: not just the family but the television show. And so
- 23:32Speaker 1: the more of her kids that are still involved with Olivia,
- 23:35Speaker 1: the more of a problem it is for her.
- 23:37Speaker 2: She wants her gone, Yeah, And I mean I can
- 23:40Speaker 2: see why though, because Olivia was the one that like
- 23:43Speaker 2: publicly came out with a credit card story which the
- 23:46Speaker 2: family did not want to bring out to light, and
- 23:49Speaker 2: allegedly it was worked out between Kim and Ethan, and
- 23:53Speaker 2: then Olivia drops the bomb on TV for everybody to see,
- 23:56Speaker 2: and then it causes this big old fucking rift. But
- 24:00Speaker 2: Olivia had been causing a lot of divide in the
- 24:02Speaker 2: family as well, So I mean, like, I can't understand
- 24:05Speaker 2: why Kim would be apprehensive, but I do think she's
- 24:09Speaker 2: totally wanting to control the older.
- 24:11Speaker 1: It makes her very uneasy. Yes, I do think she
- 24:14Speaker 1: wants to control it. But then she kind of shifts
- 24:18Speaker 1: in what she's talking about when she starts to get
- 24:21Speaker 1: into marriage and whether love is enough to to keep
- 24:26Speaker 1: a relationship or a marriage afloat or together, and how
- 24:29Speaker 1: Mariah just has all those stars in her eyes. She does,
- 24:32Speaker 1: and she believes that love is enough. But Kim's like
- 24:35Speaker 1: it ain't enough any take it from me, Like, you
- 24:38Speaker 1: can have the feeling of that, but if it's not demonstrated,
- 24:41Speaker 1: if it's not practically applied, then what do you really have,
- 24:45Speaker 1: Like if you're not spending time together, if you're not
- 24:47Speaker 1: you know, sacrificing some of yourself so that you can
- 24:50Speaker 1: showcase your partner, if you're not doing all of these
- 24:52Speaker 1: things that are a demonstration of love, then yeah, it's
- 24:55Speaker 1: not enough. And I agree with.
- 24:56Speaker 2: Her, Oh I do too. When she said love is
- 24:58Speaker 2: an action, I'm like, that's based it's a verb totally
- 25:01Speaker 2: what it is. So yeah, when Olivia told Mariah that
- 25:05Speaker 2: love wasn't enough, Mariah's like, well, then it is. You
- 25:10Speaker 2: can love each other and you can work on it.
- 25:12Speaker 1: But like whatever, that's just a very youthful answer, And
- 25:15Speaker 1: that's a very childlike. Yeah, it's a very childlike answer. Yeah,
- 25:18Speaker 1: very naive, yes, because she.
- 25:22Speaker 2: Doesn't really know, Like she's never been married, she's never
- 25:24Speaker 2: been in a really long term relationship that's worked out.
- 25:27Speaker 1: So I'm wondering if she's connecting it to whoever this
- 25:30Speaker 1: mystery man is who I think she still has feelings for.
- 25:34Speaker 1: And of course we see in the preview that he's
- 25:36Speaker 1: going to make an appearance at her consort.
- 25:38Speaker 2: I know, author, who.
- 25:40Speaker 1: Is it he's going to show up? So I think
- 25:43Speaker 1: she's still got feelings for him, and I'm wondering if
- 25:45Speaker 1: this means she still loves him.
- 25:47Speaker 2: Probably she's writing a whole album about it.
- 25:49Speaker 1: Does she get back together with him? I don't know.
- 25:52Speaker 1: I'm very, very curious to see as we go on.
- 25:55Speaker 2: I bet she will get back together with him. But
- 25:57Speaker 2: then her and Kim kind of share a moment where
- 26:00Speaker 2: she talks about like how she after the breakup from
- 26:04Speaker 2: this last guy, she drove all the way up back
- 26:07Speaker 2: home at four in the morning and stay with Kim
- 26:10Speaker 2: and they cried together, and I thought that was like,
- 26:12Speaker 2: actually a really sweet moment between Kim and Olivia. Yes,
- 26:17Speaker 2: well Mariah but sorry Mariah. Yes, same dive. But I'm like,
- 26:20Speaker 2: you know, I thought that was kind of sweet between
- 26:22Speaker 2: a mom and daughter type of thing. Yeah. I do
- 26:24Speaker 2: think that there is a part of Kim that does
- 26:26Speaker 2: actually love her kids.
- 26:27Speaker 1: Sure, but she does.
- 26:28Speaker 2: Have you know, controlling tendencies, and she's very self centered and.
- 26:32Speaker 1: A hypocrite yes, and an adulteress yes, and a criminal.
- 26:36Speaker 1: But other than that, yes, then they go to the
- 26:40Speaker 1: coffee place, to the restaurant, and they start talking about
- 26:43Speaker 1: Mariah's upcoming video for her song called Devil in a
- 26:48Speaker 1: Suit and Tie or something in her before No, we
- 26:51Speaker 1: have not. I wonder if it's going to release around
- 26:53Speaker 1: the time of her performance, and I'm dying to hear it.
- 26:56Speaker 2: We should react to.
- 26:57Speaker 1: It and react to it on Patreon, honey. But then
- 27:01Speaker 1: they start choreographing the dance moves in the video, and
- 27:06Speaker 1: we've got him being the choreographer, like kicking up her
- 27:11Speaker 1: wide legged, floating him sandals, like right on the right,
- 27:15Speaker 1: on the right, on the chair, and like burlesque movements,
- 27:20Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't need to see this. Where's
- 27:22Speaker 1: the bleach for my eyes?
- 27:24Speaker 2: I mean? And why are we doing this in public?
- 27:27Speaker 1: There's a table right behind you, senior citizens. So we're
- 27:30Speaker 1: just trying to have an omelet and a cup of coffee.
- 27:33Speaker 2: Mariah like to be that confident. I wish I could
- 27:37Speaker 2: never though, I could never do something like that in public.
- 27:41Speaker 1: That's because you're appropriate. I don't know. Is that confidence
- 27:44Speaker 1: or narcissism?
- 27:45Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 27:45Speaker 1: I don't yes, I mean, it's just oh my god.
- 27:48Speaker 1: The TikTok generation just stop wherever you are and do
- 27:51Speaker 1: a dance in the aisle at the target.
- 27:53Speaker 2: Oh my god, there's an Instagram page for that, of
- 27:56Speaker 2: influencers in the wild, of people filming these influencers. It's fantastic.
- 28:01Speaker 1: Yeah, go visit it. Yeah, it gave me a little
- 28:03Speaker 1: bit of that.
- 28:04Speaker 2: Yeah. And then we have Ethan and Olivia in Minnesota.
- 28:09Speaker 2: So Olivia comes up to the apartment. She's there by herself.
- 28:14Speaker 2: Ethan told her to get started going through things, packing
- 28:17Speaker 2: things up, and then he'll join her later because he
- 28:19Speaker 2: doesn't want to be there at all, doesn't want to
- 28:22Speaker 2: deal with it. And Olivia's kind of talking about how
- 28:27Speaker 2: she's like frustrated because Ethan still thinks that they're gonna
- 28:31Speaker 2: get back together, because historically they have. Anytime they've taken
- 28:35Speaker 2: a break, she has come back. But this time she's
- 28:38Speaker 2: done for real, for real, no cap and she doesn't
- 28:41Speaker 2: understand why he doesn't get it.
- 28:44Speaker 1: I don't understand why he doesn't get it either, quite frankly,
- 28:47Speaker 1: and apparently after he told her that it's not gonna work,
- 28:50Speaker 1: and she ends up leaving, she packs her shit and
- 28:53Speaker 1: she goes. She's like, Okay, it's not gonna work. I agree,
- 28:56Speaker 1: I'm done. Like two months later, he reaches out to
- 28:58Speaker 1: her when she's in LA, trying to get back together
- 29:02Speaker 1: with her or trying to like fish around and see
- 29:04Speaker 1: if she's receptive to it. I'm like, Ethan, what are
- 29:06Speaker 1: you doing? Why are you saying all of these final
- 29:09Speaker 1: things because he's mad and then acting surprised, Yeah, that
- 29:13Speaker 1: it's actually happening, and that Olivia said, Okay, I'm gonna
- 29:16Speaker 1: go bye. And I loved when Olivia said during this
- 29:19Speaker 1: scene at some point, she's like, you know, what kind
- 29:22Speaker 1: of work has Ethan been doing? Like he wants me
- 29:25Speaker 1: to take care of him in this moment so it's
- 29:28Speaker 1: not as hard and so that it's not as terrible
- 29:31Speaker 1: for him and his emotions. But that's something he's got
- 29:34Speaker 1: to work on. I can't do that for him.
- 29:36Speaker 2: And word, I mean, yeah, the question is, what the.
- 29:39Speaker 1: Fuck have you been doing, Ethan? Just sitting in your
- 29:41Speaker 1: lonely apartment or going down to the bar and just
- 29:45Speaker 1: being alone and not going to therapy and not doing anything.
- 29:49Speaker 2: I mean, that's what happens when you don't go to therapy,
- 29:51Speaker 2: Like you're stuck in your emotions and you just don't
- 29:53Speaker 2: know how to deal with it, especially as we've called
- 29:56Speaker 2: him in the past, like a repressed or shadow m path,
- 29:59Speaker 2: like he feels a lot, but he doesn't know how
- 30:01Speaker 2: to actually, I don't know could express it. And so
- 30:06Speaker 2: then it's like delayed. I almost felt like it was
- 30:09Speaker 2: like a delayed reaction, like you sail the shit in
- 30:12Speaker 2: the heat of the moment because you're mad and you're
- 30:13Speaker 2: not thinking clearly, and then afterwards you're like, no, but
- 30:16Speaker 2: I really love her, and like maybe we'll just fight
- 30:18Speaker 2: it out and it'll be better. And it's like no,
- 30:20Speaker 2: Like after a certain amount of time of fighting it out,
- 30:22Speaker 2: like that, you're gonna push this girl away, and you did.
- 30:26Speaker 1: Yep.
- 30:26Speaker 2: I mean, and she's been done obviously for a while.
- 30:29Speaker 2: She didn't want to be in this marriage for the
- 30:31Speaker 2: last couple seasons. Let's be real.
- 30:33Speaker 1: I agree with her when she says that she was
- 30:35Speaker 1: fighting for it. I mean in her way. I don't
- 30:37Speaker 1: agree with everything that she did, obviously, but I think
- 30:40Speaker 1: in her way she was definitely fighting for it. I
- 30:43Speaker 1: think she was compromising. She was probably sacrificing because her
- 30:46Speaker 1: values in her belief system was shifting and Ethan's was
- 30:49Speaker 1: not she was still trying to be present though, in
- 30:52Speaker 1: the relationship to see if it could work. But at
- 30:55Speaker 1: some point, Ethan, if you're just going to continue to
- 30:57Speaker 1: hammer it home that she's not the right one, you
- 30:59Speaker 1: don't want to have kids with her, it's not gonna work.
- 31:02Speaker 1: You know this is my list and you don't meet
- 31:04Speaker 1: any of my criteria, Well, then the bitch is gonna leave.
- 31:07Speaker 1: And for him to say in the kitchen, I thought
- 31:10Speaker 1: it was wild, Beatrice when he turns to her and says, Olivia,
- 31:14Speaker 1: I just want you to know that when I said
- 31:16Speaker 1: all those things that day, I didn't know it was
- 31:19Speaker 1: going to be the last day we were together. I
- 31:22Speaker 1: didn't know it was going to be the end of
- 31:24Speaker 1: our relationship. That's called fuck around and find out. Ethan, Yeah,
- 31:29Speaker 1: you don't say these things unless you mean these things.
- 31:32Speaker 1: You can't keep doing this to Olivia and expect her
- 31:34Speaker 1: to come running back to you. She's not going to.
- 31:37Speaker 2: And she calls it out. She's like, you did that
- 31:39Speaker 2: a lot, Like you would just unload on me all
- 31:41Speaker 2: of your emotions and then expect me to come back,
- 31:44Speaker 2: and I did, But then after this last time, I'm
- 31:46Speaker 2: not gonna fucking come back why would I come back?
- 31:49Speaker 2: And so I thought that was totally fair on her part,
- 31:51Speaker 2: Like what she said to him. I thought it was
- 31:53Speaker 2: interesting though when he called her out for moving on
- 31:56Speaker 2: so quickly. It's like, I just don't understand, like how
- 31:59Speaker 2: you can move on so fast. It's like you don't
- 32:01Speaker 2: even care and it's infuriating to me.
- 32:04Speaker 1: And I felt that, Yeah, but why is everything so
- 32:08Speaker 1: infuriating to you? Why is your default position tomato red
- 32:13Speaker 1: face and getting angry, Like if we could just back
- 32:16Speaker 1: up a little bit, and if we could learn how
- 32:18Speaker 1: to use our big boy words and actually express ourselves
- 32:21Speaker 1: and tell people how we feel without escalating, without it
- 32:24Speaker 1: being super overly emotionally charged, so that somebody could have
- 32:28Speaker 1: some space in that conversation, like imagine a world where
- 32:32Speaker 1: you could have a relationship like that. But no, because
- 32:34Speaker 1: he doesn't have the tools, nor is he willing to
- 32:38Speaker 1: get the tools to learn how to express himself. He
- 32:41Speaker 1: goes from I'm just getting worse. I'm under the hood
- 32:44Speaker 1: of my car and this is still getting worse, and
- 32:46Speaker 1: then pow, he just blows up. It's an explosion and
- 32:49Speaker 1: it's a fight. Yeah.
- 32:51Speaker 2: I mean, like it's true what they say, though, anger
- 32:53Speaker 2: is a secondary emotion, like underneath it all, he's hurting.
- 32:57Speaker 2: But I'm giving him a lot of grace when I
- 32:59Speaker 2: say that, Like, I don't know, he could just be
- 33:01Speaker 2: a fucking hot headed piece of shit off camera. We
- 33:04Speaker 2: don't really know. But I just kind of felt for
- 33:08Speaker 2: him in terms of like him not understanding her process
- 33:11Speaker 2: because she is historically a kind of person that cuts
- 33:15Speaker 2: everything and everyone out of her life when she's done.
- 33:18Speaker 2: And whether or not that's healthy, I don't. I don't
- 33:21Speaker 2: think it's very healthy to just cut. I think it's out.
- 33:23Speaker 1: I think it's based if you can do it, Like
- 33:26Speaker 1: if you can remove yourself from a toxic situation and
- 33:29Speaker 1: cut the chords, cut the ties, and then deal with
- 33:32Speaker 1: yourself and heal from that on your own, I think
- 33:35Speaker 1: that's absolutely valid. I think people process shit differently, sure,
- 33:39Speaker 1: I think that's one style of processing. The end of
- 33:41Speaker 1: a relationship is just like peace out. I'm gonna go
- 33:43Speaker 1: over here, I'm gonna sit in the corner. I'm gonna
- 33:44Speaker 1: take care of myself.
- 33:45Speaker 2: You do you if you actually take care of yourself.
- 33:48Speaker 2: But it's like with how she kind of posts passive
- 33:50Speaker 2: aggressively still on Instagram and even when she's like going
- 33:54Speaker 2: through the photos, like she's still emotional, so I think
- 33:57Speaker 2: there's still like a lot of shit that she has
- 33:59Speaker 2: to deal with. It's just like, I don't know something
- 34:02Speaker 2: about it feels weird to me, but I can understand why.
- 34:05Speaker 2: It's the complete opposite for Ethan, where he obviously feels
- 34:09Speaker 2: things pretty deeply and takes a long time to fucking
- 34:12Speaker 2: get it through his head and like actually process it.
- 34:14Speaker 1: It's not good enough, Ethan, Okay, you can't wait till
- 34:17Speaker 1: the eleventh hour and say I have some things that
- 34:19Speaker 1: I'm able to say to you now finally, And she's like, no,
- 34:23Speaker 1: I don't have the bandwidth to listen to your bullshit anymore,
- 34:26Speaker 1: Like that season has come and gone. I mean, write
- 34:28Speaker 1: it in a letter and maybe I'll read it at
- 34:30Speaker 1: some point. Like that's not how life works, Ethan, Like
- 34:32Speaker 1: when you find the time finally to try and have
- 34:37Speaker 1: a conversation, it's not guaranteed that the other person's going
- 34:40Speaker 1: to be able to show up to that conversation. Sure,
- 34:43Speaker 1: this is what you get. And you've spent the last
- 34:44Speaker 1: nine months alone And I know he's reached out via
- 34:49Speaker 1: text a time or two with Olivia, but like, what
- 34:51Speaker 1: else have you been doing if you really want your
- 34:53Speaker 1: wife back, If you really wanted your wife back, you
- 34:56Speaker 1: would have been doing stuff to move in that direction.
- 34:58Speaker 1: I see none of that. And I think he gets it.
- 35:01Speaker 1: I think when he's talking about his mom when he
- 35:05Speaker 1: goes to visit her from a couple of episodes back,
- 35:08Speaker 1: and he's saying, you know, I know that I need
- 35:10Speaker 1: to be more vulnerable. I know that there are parts
- 35:13Speaker 1: of me that I've got to shift and I've got
- 35:15Speaker 1: to fix if I'm ever going to be in a relationship.
- 35:17Speaker 1: Like he gets it, but that doesn't mean he knows
- 35:20Speaker 1: how to do it.
- 35:21Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean, like we give Olivia the same
- 35:24Speaker 2: grace for being young, he's also young too, Like it
- 35:26Speaker 2: takes a while to actually be able to learn how
- 35:29Speaker 2: to communicate effectively for some people, Like it's taken me
- 35:32Speaker 2: a while. I've been in therapy for eight years, and
- 35:35Speaker 2: so the only way, the only reason why I am
- 35:37Speaker 2: the way I am right now is through all of
- 35:39Speaker 2: that therapy. But it took me a while to get there.
- 35:41Speaker 2: And I still have a lot of times where I
- 35:43Speaker 2: struggle to communicate my own emotions. So it's like I
- 35:47Speaker 2: can give them both grace. But when he's like fighting,
- 35:50Speaker 2: not even really fighting her, he's like saying, well, it
- 35:53Speaker 2: could have been healthy, we could have worked on things.
- 35:55Speaker 2: And it's like, you are so idealistic, Like you were
- 35:58Speaker 2: so naive to think that this could ever work because
- 36:01Speaker 2: we've been seeing the writing on the wall for a
- 36:03Speaker 2: few years.
- 36:03Speaker 1: Honey, I mean it's going to idealism or is it
- 36:06Speaker 1: just being completely ungrounded and not in reality, Like the
- 36:10Speaker 1: consequences of your action have arrived. The dildo of consequences
- 36:17Speaker 1: rarely arrived slooped, right, So like this is your consequences
- 36:22Speaker 1: and now you're flailing about because you're trying to do
- 36:25Speaker 1: a last ditch effort to get this girl to feel
- 36:28Speaker 1: how much you love her. And I believe that he does,
- 36:31Speaker 1: and I believe in this moment he's willing to make
- 36:33Speaker 1: a ton of concessions around his value system and how
- 36:36Speaker 1: that's expressed if only she would give him another chance.
- 36:39Speaker 1: But that time has past. I've been Olivia a million
- 36:42Speaker 1: times again and it is sad, but she's just like
- 36:45Speaker 1: I'm over it, and I respected her her disposition because
- 36:50Speaker 1: she was pretty cold with him, and like when he
- 36:53Speaker 1: asks her to look at him, she turns and she's
- 36:56Speaker 1: she's got a cold expression on her face. But I
- 36:58Speaker 1: think she's just guard herself because she does still love
- 37:02Speaker 1: him in a way, and she can clearly see how
- 37:05Speaker 1: much pain he is in. But that's not her fucking problem. No,
- 37:09Speaker 1: she wants to get in and get the fuck out
- 37:11Speaker 1: and back to her life, and she has every right
- 37:13Speaker 1: to do so.
- 37:14Speaker 2: Oh for sure. I agree one percent. And it's like
- 37:17Speaker 2: it sucks because I feel for them both. Like I
- 37:20Speaker 2: feel for Olivia having to be in this apartment with
- 37:23Speaker 2: this man who's hurt her a lot and she's dealt
- 37:26Speaker 2: with a lot of bullshit from him and his family
- 37:28Speaker 2: and her family and leaving this whole fundamentalist cult. And
- 37:33Speaker 2: then Ethan who's like hopelessly stupidly in love with this
- 37:37Speaker 2: girl who's so over him, like so dumb with him. Yeah,
- 37:40Speaker 2: she probably still has some love for him whatever, but she's.
- 37:43Speaker 1: So fucking dune.
- 37:44Speaker 2: When she's gone, she is out the door already, And
- 37:47Speaker 2: so it's just like sad. And then the flashbacks of
- 37:50Speaker 2: like all of their moments over the seasons, like I
- 37:53Speaker 2: felt for that, I got misty.
- 37:54Speaker 1: I was sad, and Olivia looking at the pictures and crying.
- 37:58Speaker 1: I mean, I've got a box of picked for my
- 38:00Speaker 1: second marriage over there that like I don't go through
- 38:03Speaker 1: because I will get very emotional.
- 38:05Speaker 2: Totally.
- 38:05Speaker 1: That doesn't mean she's in love with him. It's just
- 38:08Speaker 1: that she can still cherish the memories for what they were.
- 38:11Speaker 1: And she even says, like, if I could go back
- 38:14Speaker 1: and change the decisions that I made, for example, marrying Ethan,
- 38:17Speaker 1: I would not do that. I would not be the
- 38:19Speaker 1: person that I am today if I didn't go through
- 38:21Speaker 1: these experiences. And they're valuable because I learned. Yeah, which
- 38:25Speaker 1: again I'm paraphrasing, but I think that's a very enlightened
- 38:29Speaker 1: point of view.
- 38:30Speaker 2: I agree. And she was like looking through the photos
- 38:32Speaker 2: and crying and she's like, I just see two kids,
- 38:35Speaker 2: like just figuring it out. And I felt that because
- 38:37Speaker 2: I got married to your daughter at twenty, So like,
- 38:40Speaker 2: it's hard being married when you're young and you're having
- 38:43Speaker 2: to grow up together and learn how to be in
- 38:45Speaker 2: a marriage like that. Shit's fucking hard. It's not for
- 38:48Speaker 2: the fate of heart. So yeah, I'm glad that they
- 38:51Speaker 2: are done because they were never gonna work. I mean,
- 38:55Speaker 2: she's way off this way, he's way off that way,
- 38:58Speaker 2: it was never gonna work. So like, well, could have
- 39:00Speaker 2: been healthy.
- 39:02Speaker 1: Could Yeah, No, not really. If you haven't done anything
- 39:05Speaker 1: to change, then no, it's just gonna go back to
- 39:07Speaker 1: the same old thing.
- 39:08Speaker 2: If you went to therapy, maybe yeah, if you guys
- 39:11Speaker 2: went to colage, you don't want to.
- 39:12Speaker 1: And that's the thing about women like you push us
- 39:15Speaker 1: and push us and push us, and most of us
- 39:17Speaker 1: will tell you like you're fucking pushing me or this
- 39:19Speaker 1: is untenable. I cannot live like this anymore, which Olivia
- 39:22Speaker 1: kept telling him. I can't do this, this is not
- 39:24Speaker 1: working for me. But there comes a point when we
- 39:27Speaker 1: just hit the wall. It's like, Okay, I told you,
- 39:29Speaker 1: I tried to communicate, I tried to work on this.
- 39:32Speaker 1: I am OUTI five hundred yep, five thousand, yeah, five
- 39:37Speaker 1: three thousand whatever, I am out of here. And you
- 39:40Speaker 1: will never ever ever get us back. Yep. We're just done.
- 39:43Speaker 1: And that's where Olivia is yep, and poor Ethan is not.
- 39:47Speaker 2: No. And his letter to her, though, I thought, was
- 39:49Speaker 2: kind of sweet, where he's just like, I apologize for
- 39:52Speaker 2: like the things that I did, and that if she
- 39:54Speaker 2: ever needs anything, I'll be there for her and I'll
- 39:56Speaker 2: always love her, and I hope she can find like
- 40:00Speaker 2: what she needs because I couldn't give that to her.
- 40:02Speaker 1: And I'm like, dang, I couldn't or I didn't. Yeah,
- 40:05Speaker 1: like he could have but he didn't. Yeah, so good
- 40:07Speaker 1: on you for acknowledging the things that you could have
- 40:10Speaker 1: done but that you didn't do to save your marriage.
- 40:13Speaker 2: And I'm glad that he is able to say that
- 40:16Speaker 2: and express that. I think that shows a little bit
- 40:18Speaker 2: from him. It's not much, but it's showing up.
- 40:21Speaker 1: I wish I heard a bit more from Olivia on
- 40:23Speaker 1: that for somebody who's like really wanting a specific apology
- 40:27Speaker 1: from Mariah, like in this moment, she could have been
- 40:30Speaker 1: a bit more specific. But I'm pretty sure they probably
- 40:33Speaker 1: had a multitude of conversations before where maybe these things
- 40:39Speaker 1: got brought up, and she's like, I don't want to
- 40:41Speaker 1: go into that. I just want to stick to the
- 40:43Speaker 1: broad strokes and get my stuff and leave.
- 40:45Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know.
- 40:47Speaker 1: I don't know either, but it's sad.
- 40:49Speaker 2: That's kind of where my problem was with her coping
- 40:52Speaker 2: mechanism of like just cutting everything out. Like she's straight
- 40:55Speaker 2: up said in this episode, I don't want to have
- 40:56Speaker 2: any conversations. I don't want to hear anything else that
- 40:58Speaker 2: he has to say from me, from him. I just
- 41:01Speaker 2: want to get a letter and leave and get all
- 41:03Speaker 2: my shit and leave. And I'm like, well, I mean
- 41:05Speaker 2: he is trying to apologize that, like he's trying to
- 41:08Speaker 2: like own up to some of the shit. But maybe
- 41:11Speaker 2: she didn't want to like be manipulated by his emotions
- 41:16Speaker 2: or like even put herself in a space where she
- 41:18Speaker 2: would be feeling some kind of conflicting way of like oh,
- 41:22Speaker 2: he's saying I'm sorry, so maybe I shouldn't.
- 41:24Speaker 1: Get but he's not owed an audience. I mean, your
- 41:27Speaker 1: apology is for you. It's really not even for her,
- 41:29Speaker 1: Like she doesn't ever have to read that. But you know,
- 41:32Speaker 1: hopefully for you, Ethan, that got you some awareness and
- 41:36Speaker 1: it helped you, helped you to process what's happening. But
- 41:38Speaker 1: like Olivia does not need to be there for that.
- 41:41Speaker 2: No, And we see in the season preview he's dating,
- 41:44Speaker 2: he's getting some other sh his numbers. So I'm like,
- 41:46Speaker 2: she's moving on.
- 41:47Speaker 3: You can move on, d nude.
- 41:48Speaker 2: You don't have to be critical. But whatever it was said,
- 41:51Speaker 2: it was sad.
- 41:51Speaker 1: At the end of the day, it was said, he.
- 41:53Speaker 2: Signs the divorce papers and it's done. So that's great.
- 41:56Speaker 1: Good. Finally, now Olivia, get off my television. She ain't
- 42:01Speaker 1: going nowhere though.
- 42:02Speaker 2: No, Apparently it's like in her contract or something. That's
- 42:05Speaker 2: why she's on the seat. Sure, but everybody's like, why
- 42:07Speaker 2: is she on this show?
- 42:08Speaker 1: Yeah, it's wild yep.
- 42:10Speaker 2: Anyway, so we have the rest of the season preview.
- 42:13Speaker 2: Olivia's wearing a red wig.
- 42:15Speaker 1: For some reason.
- 42:16Speaker 2: I don't know. Probably she's doing burlesque dancing. Okay, She's
- 42:20Speaker 2: in the driver's seat of her own life. She's got
- 42:23Speaker 2: a special guest since the donuts, probably her boyfriend. Well,
- 42:26Speaker 2: maybe it's Lydia.
- 42:27Speaker 1: But they kind of like pull back a curtain or
- 42:29Speaker 1: something and somebody walks out and it looks like a
- 42:31Speaker 1: very thin, armed person. So it's either it's probably Lydia Grace,
- 42:36Speaker 1: Lydia Grace, and or it's somebody else, yeah, with not
- 42:39Speaker 1: a whole lot of muscles.
- 42:41Speaker 2: Producer, who knows. And then Ethan's wrapping with some guy
- 42:46Speaker 2: at the gym.
- 42:47Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know why we got to see this,
- 42:49Speaker 1: don't care.
- 42:50Speaker 2: Why do all the Plath kids have to sing? We
- 42:52Speaker 2: don't need to hear that Mariah books a family concert
- 42:56Speaker 2: and Ken's there and Barry's there, and Kim's hoping for
- 43:00Speaker 2: a fight.
- 43:00Speaker 1: Right, which is great, right, and says a lot about
- 43:03Speaker 1: her personality.
- 43:04Speaker 2: Uh huh, kind of shitty. And then Kim kind of
- 43:08Speaker 2: talks to Ethan about the divorce and he's like, I
- 43:11Speaker 2: don't know how to feel about all this mending shit
- 43:13Speaker 2: with my mom, Like, uh, why do we gotta do this?
- 43:17Speaker 2: I'm intrigued to see that me as well.
- 43:19Speaker 1: And of course he's asking for some pretty woman's number,
- 43:22Speaker 1: uh huh, And hopefully we get to see that.
- 43:25Speaker 2: I would love to see that.
- 43:26Speaker 1: Another great installment on the Welcome to Platform Season six journey, Beatrice.
- 43:32Speaker 1: I love it. I enjoyed it. Now let's get into
- 43:35Speaker 1: some unexpected Are you ready?
- 43:37Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 43:39Speaker 1: Okay, let's get into this week's episode of Unexpected.
- 43:45Speaker 2: Yeah, episode eleven. Okay, So we start with Lily and
- 43:50Speaker 2: Lawrence and this whole bachelor bachelorette party.
- 43:54Speaker 1: I thought we boycotted them. Do we want to talk
- 43:56Speaker 1: about them? I don't care about them.
- 43:59Speaker 2: I literally don't. It's gonna be so stupid because she
- 44:02Speaker 2: tells him no strippers at his bachelor party. But then literally.
- 44:05Speaker 2: The next episode, she has a male stripper at her
- 44:07Speaker 2: bachelorette party.
- 44:08Speaker 1: It reminds me of Clayton with his little hands, the
- 44:11Speaker 1: stripper Gate from ninety Day Yancey and I'm snoring.
- 44:16Speaker 2: Baby, I'm so over it, Laura. Although I did like
- 44:20Speaker 2: how Lawrence was just smoking weed and drinking on.
- 44:23Speaker 1: That ross faded. I go into this steakhouse with two
- 44:28Speaker 1: dads or stepdad and whatever. Yeah, Lily's dads and then
- 44:31Speaker 1: the brother. I thought that was funny.
- 44:33Speaker 2: That was great. Then we have poor Kayley.
- 44:36Speaker 1: Oh my god, girl, this was horrible.
- 44:41Speaker 2: I felt bad for her.
- 44:42Speaker 1: I am not familiar with like the medical vibes, the
- 44:48Speaker 1: medical industry, medical practices, but that seems wiggity whack that
- 44:55Speaker 1: you would keep this kid in the hospital for I
- 44:58Speaker 1: don't know, three days, laboring for three days, putting her
- 45:02Speaker 1: in all of these positions, kicking her leg off the
- 45:06Speaker 1: hospital bed, getting her on all fours, trying to get
- 45:09Speaker 1: this baby to turn around, Like, just give the kid
- 45:12Speaker 1: a CEA section. And how do we not know that
- 45:15Speaker 1: this baby Easton is as big as it is until
- 45:17Speaker 1: the final hour.
- 45:19Speaker 2: I don't freaking know. I don't know if it's because
- 45:22Speaker 2: they induced her, and so maybe they have to wait
- 45:25Speaker 2: for the medication or something. But I'm like, this is
- 45:28Speaker 2: ridiculous torture. It's horrible, Like this poor girl is just
- 45:32Speaker 2: riding around in pain. Becky's in and out doing meth.
- 45:36Speaker 2: Her mom is there trying to help her. Fucking Graham
- 45:40Speaker 2: is like crying and puking on the side or sleeping
- 45:42Speaker 2: in it or sleeping on his phone. I just felt
- 45:46Speaker 2: so fucking bad for her and for all of that
- 45:48Speaker 2: fifty hours of labor, just for her to have an
- 45:50Speaker 2: emergency sea section.
- 45:52Speaker 1: Why couldn't we get there more quickly? Does anybody out
- 45:54Speaker 1: in the audience even know? Like why would they even
- 45:57Speaker 1: do that? She's a very very small girl just generally speaking,
- 46:01Speaker 1: she's only fifteen or sixteen years old. How do we not?
- 46:04Speaker 1: I mean, I thought we could tell how big a
- 46:06Speaker 1: baby was gonna be by the time we gave birth.
- 46:09Speaker 1: And I mean, isn't there like a way to image
- 46:12Speaker 1: and or like digitally tell where the baby is? Like
- 46:16Speaker 1: for me, I mean, even if I'm healthy and my
- 46:19Speaker 1: baby can come down a shoot, I'd prefer sea section.
- 46:22Speaker 1: I means, just put me under. I don't want to
- 46:25Speaker 1: be here. I want to wake up and have a
- 46:27Speaker 1: baby for real? Why did we have to do that?
- 46:29Speaker 1: I felt so bad for her.
- 46:32Speaker 2: I mean, that was so fucking traumatic. And then for
- 46:34Speaker 2: the doctor to be like, yeah, she wasn't ever going
- 46:37Speaker 2: to be able to give birth that baby in the
- 46:39Speaker 2: first place, she's just small.
- 46:40Speaker 1: Was wild. I'm like, why did we do all of
- 46:44Speaker 1: that just to run up the bill or something? To
- 46:46Speaker 1: give her all of this medicine, to have all of
- 46:49Speaker 1: these nurses in there helping her, Like, why are we
- 46:52Speaker 1: doing this to this poor girl?
- 46:54Speaker 2: The only thing I can think of is like maybe
- 46:56Speaker 2: her parents and her were like very opposed to having
- 46:59Speaker 2: a sea section, so like maybe they were just like.
- 47:02Speaker 1: It didn't seem like that.
- 47:04Speaker 2: I know, I don't know, why would you do that?
- 47:07Speaker 1: I don't know. I got scared for people giving birth.
- 47:09Speaker 1: I hope it's not like that at the hospital.
- 47:11Speaker 2: That's fucking horrible.
- 47:12Speaker 1: I mean for me, I got the petocin. I was
- 47:16Speaker 1: induced after I think I was like a week late
- 47:18Speaker 1: or something, and I got the potocin. And from the
- 47:22Speaker 1: time that I got the potocin to the time that
- 47:24Speaker 1: I gave birth, I want to say it was seven hours.
- 47:26Speaker 1: It was super reasonable. It was very painful, but it
- 47:29Speaker 1: was super reasonable. But I'm telling you, if it had
- 47:32Speaker 1: gone on any longer, I'd have been like, cut me off,
- 47:35Speaker 1: b for.
- 47:36Speaker 3: Real, get this baby out of my body.
- 47:39Speaker 1: Seriously, after seven hours, I can't even imagine fifty hours
- 47:43Speaker 1: of Some women they go for days, but it's not
- 47:47Speaker 1: with like hugely terrible contraction, right. It's like while you're
- 47:51Speaker 1: slowly dilating and contractions, but they're not so fucking violent. Right.
- 47:55Speaker 1: It looks like Kaylee is having these terrible, violent, whole
- 47:59Speaker 1: body contracts for hours. People can die from that.
- 48:02Speaker 2: I know. I just can't fucking imagine that she went
- 48:05Speaker 2: through all of that. I just felt so bad me too.
- 48:08Speaker 2: I was like, really sad for this whole thing. But like, yes,
- 48:10Speaker 2: next episode we'll get to actually see baby East in
- 48:13Speaker 2: his big old head. Okay, I mean he must be
- 48:16Speaker 2: like a huge baby or something. But I'm just like,
- 48:19Speaker 2: this sucks. I feel bad for her. And then we
- 48:22Speaker 2: have Anaya and day day yeah, talking about the military.
- 48:27Speaker 1: They have a lunch date. They take little Anias yeah
- 48:31Speaker 1: with them, and he's just a little dream and angels.
- 48:34Speaker 1: He's not crying or anything. So they get to have
- 48:37Speaker 1: a meal together. But essentially they're there to discuss a
- 48:42Speaker 1: day Day going off to boot camp in Texas in
- 48:45Speaker 1: the Air Force, and it really seems like Anaya wants
- 48:49Speaker 1: no part of that life. Yea. She makes a few
- 48:54Speaker 1: bad comments about men in general, for example, all men
- 48:57Speaker 1: cheat and or maybe Day Day's here now, but he's
- 49:02Speaker 1: gonna start disappearing over time, Like you can just tell
- 49:05Speaker 1: that that toxic ass mother of hers, Ashley, has visited
- 49:10Speaker 1: all of her toxicity onto Anaya, and now she's worried
- 49:13Speaker 1: about what's gonna happen with Day Day.
- 49:15Speaker 2: Now.
- 49:15Speaker 1: I'm not saying she's wrong. I mean he's gonna go
- 49:18Speaker 1: into the military, and statistically speaking, he's probably gonna cheat,
- 49:22Speaker 1: and she's gonna probably cheat because you know, Jodie's always around.
- 49:26Speaker 1: Do you know what that reference is? I'll tell you later.
- 49:28Speaker 1: Like it's very common for both parties to cheat when
- 49:31Speaker 1: somebody's in the military, so it's not unlikely to happen,
- 49:35Speaker 1: and she doesn't want it to happen. But at the
- 49:36Speaker 1: same time, don't we want to have a man who
- 49:39Speaker 1: wants to provide for us as a family.
- 49:41Speaker 2: Right And why can't we just like expect that he's
- 49:44Speaker 2: gonna do the right thing, Like it seems like he's
- 49:46Speaker 2: trying to be a present father, He's trying to be
- 49:50Speaker 2: a decent boyfriend, Like he's trying at seventeen, Like he's
- 49:54Speaker 2: literally a child, So like, can we give him the
- 49:57Speaker 2: benefit of the doubt, Like, now do we have to
- 49:59Speaker 2: put him down and be like you're just gonna cheat? Yeah,
- 50:01Speaker 2: all men cheat, not.
- 50:03Speaker 1: In Ashley's world.
- 50:04Speaker 2: I hate that.
- 50:05Speaker 1: I think Anaya really loves him, though, I think she
- 50:08Speaker 1: really wants him to be there. I think she depends
- 50:11Speaker 1: upon him, and her baby is so little she wants
- 50:14Speaker 1: him to be there. So I can see both sides
- 50:16Speaker 1: of that, but I also think like she's just been
- 50:19Speaker 1: programmed to expect the very worst from him and all men,
- 50:22Speaker 1: And it's unfortunate because I do think Data's trying to
- 50:24Speaker 1: do the right thing.
- 50:25Speaker 2: Oh for sure. And I can totally understand Anya's point
- 50:28Speaker 2: of view because your daughter wanted to go into the
- 50:30Speaker 2: military early on in our relationship, and I straight up
- 50:33Speaker 2: told her, I'm like, I can't do that. Like, if
- 50:35Speaker 2: you want to do that, that's totally cool, but like
- 50:37Speaker 2: I can't be a military wife. I literally am so
- 50:41Speaker 2: code bended.
- 50:42Speaker 1: It's a difficult life.
- 50:43Speaker 2: I can't fucking do it. I'm sorry, I didn't want
- 50:45Speaker 2: to do it, and she was like sad. But now
- 50:47Speaker 2: like eight years later, she's like, I could never do that.
- 50:50Speaker 2: I can never be away from you guys for that long.
- 50:54Speaker 2: That would be terrible. So I understand Anaya, but I
- 50:57Speaker 2: just wish she didn't put him down.
- 50:58Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to put him down, like, come on,
- 51:00Speaker 1: you don't have to call into question his innate character exactly.
- 51:04Speaker 1: Give him an opportunity to show you what he can do.
- 51:07Speaker 1: I mean, if he cheats on you, if he leaves you,
- 51:09Speaker 1: then we can criticize dayDay, all day long. But it
- 51:11Speaker 1: seems like he's trying to do the very best that
- 51:13Speaker 1: he can.
- 51:14Speaker 2: Yeah. I agree. In the last, but not at least
- 51:16Speaker 2: we have Jenna and her whole baby daddy drama.
- 51:19Speaker 1: Yeah, not a whole lot changed, No, but.
- 51:21Speaker 2: I guess Andrea JJ's bitch mom got her a new lawyer,
- 51:27Speaker 2: got her a new murder lawyer, right, Yeah, And so
- 51:31Speaker 2: hopefully this better murder lawyer will help Jenna win custody
- 51:36Speaker 2: or whatever, be.
- 51:37Speaker 1: Able to live in myrtle, like, reach a custody agreement
- 51:41Speaker 1: where she doesn't have to stay in out tunea Pennsylvania, yep,
- 51:46Speaker 1: So we'll see how that turns out. I was reading
- 51:49Speaker 1: on Reddit because I'm in the Unexpected subreddit, and there's
- 51:53Speaker 1: lots of conversations about the way Jenna has been pitting
- 51:58Speaker 1: Aiden and JJ against each other because from what I
- 52:02Speaker 1: can glean, and please correct me if I'm wrong, and
- 52:04Speaker 1: if you have the information on this centerr a DM
- 52:07Speaker 1: and let her know because it's not clear to me.
- 52:09Speaker 1: So I'm just going to tell you what my understanding is.
- 52:11Speaker 1: But it sounds like JJ and Jenna had a falling
- 52:16Speaker 1: out at some point in their relationship, and she went
- 52:19Speaker 1: back to Aiden, and Aiden and her even like took
- 52:22Speaker 1: a trip together. She posted pictures of them stop it.
- 52:26Speaker 1: And while she was gone, JJ made a few posts
- 52:30Speaker 1: and or said some stuff to her that was extremely racist,
- 52:35Speaker 1: N word motivated, like super terrible, and I think she
- 52:40Speaker 1: talked about it on TikTok or Instagram, like the shit
- 52:43Speaker 1: JJ was doing. Now all of that is scrubbed off
- 52:46Speaker 1: of the internet so you can't find it anymore. And
- 52:48Speaker 1: now they're pretending that everything's great and it never happened
- 52:52Speaker 1: and they are back together. So it feels like Jenna
- 52:54Speaker 1: actually is bouncing back and forth between Aiden and JJ,
- 52:59Speaker 1: which is very interesting. Don't you think.
- 53:01Speaker 2: That's very interesting? And I'm gonna go uncensored a little bit.
- 53:05Speaker 1: Okay, let's come back from uncensored. By the way, if
- 53:08Speaker 1: you want to hear our uncensored bits, you got to
- 53:10Speaker 1: go to Reality tv Cringe on our Patreon and sign
- 53:13Speaker 1: up because it's only for the Raccoons. But yeah, I
- 53:17Speaker 1: don't know if that's true. I don't know if Jenna
- 53:19Speaker 1: has actually done that, but I think that she has.
- 53:23Speaker 2: I can kind of see it.
- 53:25Speaker 1: So, yeah, Aiden's gonna want to lawyer up, and so yeah,
- 53:27Speaker 1: maybe Aiden had a different expectation of what the relationship
- 53:31Speaker 1: was going to be like, and then you totally went
- 53:33Speaker 1: back to JJ, and now he lawyered up and he's
- 53:35Speaker 1: taken you to court and he's gonna laugh the entire time.
- 53:38Speaker 2: Yikes.
- 53:39Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 53:39Speaker 2: Well, and some people have commented on our YouTube saying
- 53:41Speaker 2: that this is totally Aiden's m O, like he loves
- 53:44Speaker 2: to fuck with Jenna, but it would make a little
- 53:47Speaker 2: bit more sense if he was fucking with her because
- 53:50Speaker 2: they kind of were back and fa.
- 53:51Speaker 1: And she's been fucking with him too in her own way,
- 53:54Speaker 1: so she's not blameless here. If it is in fact true,
- 53:57Speaker 1: y'all tell me what you know, because you know.
- 54:00Speaker 2: We love the trash. We like to eat in the depth,
- 54:02Speaker 2: dir okay, and then we have the preview. I think
- 54:05Speaker 2: we only have like two more episodes of the season.
- 54:07Speaker 2: I think we're almost done. But we have Anaya go
- 54:10Speaker 2: into a party and Day Day won't go with her
- 54:13Speaker 2: for some reason. Okay, I don't care. Kayleie ends up
- 54:17Speaker 2: getting her sea section. Doctor said she would never have
- 54:20Speaker 2: the baby anyway. What the fuck?
- 54:22Speaker 1: I don't know, Fuck you.
- 54:24Speaker 2: Emily moves back in with her dad because her and
- 54:28Speaker 2: Taryn are fighting. I wonder how long she was actually
- 54:30Speaker 2: living with Taran before.
- 54:31Speaker 1: I want to know, and I want to know what
- 54:33Speaker 1: did those fights consist of and or look like, because
- 54:37Speaker 1: you have to have like a whole lot of audacity
- 54:40Speaker 1: to be all the way ensconced in some other woman's
- 54:43Speaker 1: home and she's feeding you and housing you and providing
- 54:45Speaker 1: for you, and you're fighting with her all the time.
- 54:48Speaker 1: And the way Taran describes it as like Emily was
- 54:52Speaker 1: treating her like they don't breathe the same air. I
- 54:54Speaker 1: don't know what that means, but I hope we get
- 54:57Speaker 1: into it.
- 54:57Speaker 2: I bet Taran was trying to help her, like trying
- 55:00Speaker 2: to give her motherly advice, and Emily was like, thank
- 55:02Speaker 2: you you're talking about.
- 55:04Speaker 1: I bet Taren was getting her back up over how
- 55:07Speaker 1: Emily treats Nate and was probably interceding on behalf of
- 55:11Speaker 1: her son, who is a battered wife.
- 55:16Speaker 2: For real, poor Nate. Yeah, and then we have Lily
- 55:19Speaker 2: having a male bachelor, male stripper at her.
- 55:23Speaker 1: Bachelorette party, right sitting on the couch getting all upset
- 55:28Speaker 1: with Lawrence because he might go to a strip club.
- 55:30Speaker 1: And meanwhile some dude is grinding up on her and
- 55:33Speaker 1: she thinks it's great.
- 55:34Speaker 2: Has his dick in her face, and it's like an
- 55:37Speaker 2: old guy.
- 55:37Speaker 1: To you, all of these strippers on all of these
- 55:40Speaker 1: TLC shows, they're old and they're grows yuck. Well that's it.
- 55:45Speaker 1: Could never be me, Beatrice, absolutely not. All right, Well,
- 55:48Speaker 1: is there anything else that we need to say to
- 55:50Speaker 1: these beautiful raccoons before we get up on at of here.
- 55:53Speaker 2: Well, if you love our podcast, I sure hope you
- 55:57Speaker 2: go to your favorite podcast platform and leave.
- 55:59Speaker 1: Us a glowing five star review. It really helps us.
- 56:02Speaker 2: Girl the Potty, we really appreciate it.
- 56:04Speaker 1: Thank you so much, We will be back next week
- 56:07Speaker 1: on Monday to talk sister wives. We are in season
- 56:11Speaker 1: five and make sure to come back for that, But
- 56:14Speaker 1: until then, please do not forget that we have nothing
- 56:17Speaker 1: but love for you and peace.
- 56:20Speaker 2: O Lady, Bye guys,