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Empower Your Inner Judge - Hypnosis for Boundaries, Clarity and Confident Decision-Making · The Hypnotist

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  Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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  access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing genuine
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  issues. Brought to you by the
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  Hypnotherapist, Demanded by celebrities, CEOs and even
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  royalty Adam Cox. These recordings took place live
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  from Evans Clinic in London's world famous Harley Street.
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  So get yourself comfortable and enjoy today's episode of The
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  Hypnotist. Hi, Adam here.
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  And you're about to listen to a hypnosis session to activate
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  more authority, status, boundary setting and confidence.
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  And it's going to be particularly useful for those
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  people that want to evolve as a leader, a manager, or someone
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  that wants to be more confident and controlling their life.
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  Because the client that I was working with was a very smart,
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  very intelligent person, but felt that they were too
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  agreeable sometimes, that they would avoid conflict.
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  They weren't necessarily holding even people that worked under
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  them. They weren't really being
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  accountable with them. Sometimes they wouldn't really
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  clarify what are real boundaries and.
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  You know, agreed. Upon.
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  Rules of what's? OK.
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  And what isn't OK and. Because of that.
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  It felt that to them that was putting a limit on how people
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  perceive them, but also their. Ability to get.
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  More from other people. They had a very good brain that
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  was great at problem solving that like to get on with people,
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  but they felt that in order to evolve to the next level in
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  their life and their career. Would.
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  Require an elevated level of fairness, justice, but also
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  clarity. Now, you might recall a previous
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  session that I released. About the Strategist.
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  King and these are two archetypes fused as one, the
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  king archetype and the strategist because they wanted
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  more vision, they felt they had more vision now.
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  Now what we needed to do is to empower the judge and they felt
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  that all of these qualities linked to the.
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  Judge archetype like clear. Boundaries and resolutions and a
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  sense of clarity weren't really in their life, though.
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  It was suppressed. So this uses a Kingdom and a
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  castle metaphor, and we're introduced to a downtrodden, you
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  know, let's say feeling very low.
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  Judge A suppressed. Judge.
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  And what this does is it takes that almost neglected part and
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  empowers it, really supports it, gives it authority, gives it
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  respect. Gives it responsibilities.
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  And has it working alongside the strategist king.
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  So now they've got these two parts working in harmony.
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  They've got a part responsible for vision and another part
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  responsible for the execution and doing what's required to
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  turn that vision. Into reality.
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  So if there's a part of you that kind of knows that you're
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  destined for great things, but you feel like in your current
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  form at the identity level, you're impeding your ability to
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  get to that place, you might get some value from this.
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  Now, it is possible that the king and the judge with the
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  exact archetypes that was beneficial for the client that I
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  was working with. It might be that you have a
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  different archetype, a different side to your personality that
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  needs developing in order for you to get to that next level.
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  So if you would like to have a conversation with me about that
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  and we can explore that on a free consultation call, have a
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  look in the description of this show and you're about halfway
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  down, you'll see a link. To book.
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  A completely free consultation call over Zoom.
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  We'll have a chat and who knows, we might end up working
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  together. For now, though, find a quiet,
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  comfortable place that you won't be.
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  Disturbed. Relax.
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  And enjoy the session. Take a deep breath in, and as
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  you breathe in, breathe in that slow, relaxing breath, a feeling
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  of resourcefulness. As you breathe in and as you
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  exhale, feel a wonderful feeling of release, as if tension,
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  stress, even doubt. Start to.
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  Leave your body in your outward breath, each breath taking you
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  deeper and deeper. Relaxed.
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  That's it. And the deeper you breathe, the
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  more relaxed you feel. And the more relaxed you feel,
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  the deeper you breathe. As you imagine your jaw
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  relaxing, that's it. Tiny muscles in your forehead
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  relax. You can imagine a yawn, but
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  don't need to yawn because imagining A yawn can make you
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  feel like you're releasing tension in that moment there can
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  shoulders relax. That's it.
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  Almost like each breath is taking you to a whole new level
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  of relaxation. And as you start to drift, just
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  allow your imagination to take you back to a place you've been
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  in your imagination. Perhaps a familiar shoreline on
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  that Aegean coast of Turkey, where the white sand is warm
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  beneath your feet and the water is still and clear, so still
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  that it reflects the sky as though the world above and the
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  world below. Are perfectly.
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  Aligned in that mirror on the waves.
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  And imagine walking slowly along that beach, your breath
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  softening with each step, perhaps imagining the gentle
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  sound of waves slowing your thoughts, as though the world
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  itself. Is exhaling.
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  With you on every outward breath.
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  And I wonder if you could imagine a hammock perhaps
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  between 2 trees. And just imagine placing
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  yourself in the hammock and maybe you're in the shade or the
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  warmth of the sun. I just get a sense of sinking
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  into that hammock. Maybe there's a breeze, the
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  temperature of the air, the sound of waves gently crashing
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  on the shore. And with each wave, your body
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  relaxes even more deeply. With each breath your mind
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  drifts deeper inwards and with each moment feel like you're
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  entering that dreamlike space. The place where?
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  Deeper transformations happen naturally and elegantly.
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  So give permission to yourself to drift now, drifting off into
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  that space between waking and dreaming, where your unconscious
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  mind becomes receptive, curious, and ready to evolve.
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  And as your body drifts to that place and your mind begins to
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  move. Inward.
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  I wonder if you could imagine a vast inner Kingdom, A Kingdom
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  with a big. Castle Castle walls.
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  And imagine that that Kingdom represents your identity.
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  Imagine a Kingdom with a vision. Imagine a strong strategic king
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  and somewhere a judge that has been suppressed, pushed down,
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  hiding in the. Shadows just waiting.
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  To be discovered floating deeper now, almost like you're floating
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  into that inner Kingdom from above, drifting down as the
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  landscape of this Kingdom forms around you like a dream
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  unfolding while it's happening. That's it.
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  I want you to make your way, perhaps into the grand hall in
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  the castle in the very centre of this Kingdom.
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  Tall pillars, glowing torches, perhaps a long stone walkway
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  leading to a raised platform. And maybe at first, this whole
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  feels dim, not dark, just muted, as though something or somewhat
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  essential has not yet fully awakened.
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  And as you walk forward, they're in the middle of the Great Hall.
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  You see the suppressed judge, a wise figure that looks tired,
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  their robes worn. Their shoulders slightly
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  stooped. And their eyes.
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  Clouded with hesitation. This charge isn't broken or
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  defeated, just suppressed, underutilized, forgotten.
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  And maybe this charge represents a part of you that keeps
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  yourself small to avoid conflict, to stay agreeable, to
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  stay safe. And as you stand before them
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  now, I want you to feel a sense of compassion because this judge
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  has always had the potential. To be.
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  Valuable to be wise, clear, decisive, authoritative.
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  They've just been neglected. They never really.
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  Have been given permission to fully be who they were always
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  meant to be. And now as you look at the
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  judge, I want you to imagine a light beginning to glow within
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  them. You are setting the intention to
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  empower disjudge so that light starts in the chest and then
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  spreads through the shoulders, and then rippling outwards
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  through the robes. The worn fabric begins to mend.
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  Stitch by stitch. Becoming clean, strong, elegant,
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  a symbol of authority and clarity.
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  The judge retains the wisdom, but is looking more youthful.
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  The judge's posture straightens, their breath deepens, their eyes
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  sharpen, awakening a whole new level of wisdom and certainty.
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  And as they rise to their full height, see them reach for a
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  staff. A tall carved staff with a
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  glowing crystal as its head. And just imagine this crystal
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  illuminates with a bright, pure light.
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  A light that reveals truth, cuts through ambiguity, and brings.
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  Clarity to situations. That once felt undefined or
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  overwhelming. See that?
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  Judge. Confidently gripping the staff,
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  raising that glowing crystal way above their head, signifying
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  their transformation is completing.
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  Tired becomes energized, hesitant becomes confident and
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  decisive, quiet becomes. Authoritative and suppressed.
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  Has become empowered because this is now the empowered judge,
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  the highest advisor to the strategist king, the one
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  responsible for clarity, boundaries, accountability,
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  principled decision making. This isn't a rule.
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  Follower. This is a part of view that is
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  fair, that carries calm authority.
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  That oozes. Confidence earned through
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  experience and wisdom. And as they stand tall, their
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  staff glows brighter, symbolizing your new ability to
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  discern clearly, to define and set the standards, to protect
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  your time and energy. Without guilt.
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  And without fear. And now imagine the strategist
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  king entering the hall, and inside the hall is a throne.
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  And imagine the king sits on the throne, and the empowered judge
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  is there by their side to advise.
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  So you can see that strong, calm, commanding king as the
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  central figure of your identity. And the judge approaches the
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  king as an advisor, and the king approaches the judge not as a
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  ruler to subordinate, but as a sovereign meeting their most
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  trusted advisor. See them?
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  Side by side. Equal in importance and aligned
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  in purpose, the King provides the vision, but it's the judge
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  that provides clarity. The king sets the direction, but
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  it's the judge that enforces standards.
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  The King leads with presence and the judge ensures accountability
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  and together they form the complete leadership within you,
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  strategic power guided by wisdom and principled judgement.
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  I want you to imagine one of your hands represents the King
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  and the other the empowered judge and just slowly allow the
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  two hands to meet and maybe you interlock your fingers or clasp
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  your hands together and as they connect feel this partnership
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  settling into you as a new identity begins to.
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  Take root. A self who is calm, clear,
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  confident, decisive. Someone that enjoys boundaries.
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  You want to know what people expect of you and what you
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  expect of others. But not rules for the sake of
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  rules. This.
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  Partnership is principled. Grounded.
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  Authoritative and wise. Allow these qualities to sink
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  deep into your unconscious mind, rippling from within to every
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  cell in your body, becoming your new default state for how you
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  move through the world and your work, and as you allow those
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  changes to start to calibrate and synchronize.
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  Like you're. Updating your firmware.
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  I wonder if you could imagine yourself in the days and weeks
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  ahead. Maybe it's seeing yourself buy a
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  coffee or ordering. Food.
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  In a restaurant, I'd like you to imagine situations where you.
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  Once felt hesitant. Maybe it's work?
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  Conversations. Where you were worried about
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  conflict or requests that drained your time.
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  Moments where you tolerate. It too much.
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  But now something is different, and whenever you want to harness
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  the power of the King and the Judge, just clasp your hands
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  together and feel that all parts are working in harmony for you
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  to be your most confident, empowered self.
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  The self where the Judge stands beside the King.
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  In your mind, the staff glows whenever clarity is needed.
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  And you're able to speak. With calm authority, you hold
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  boundaries. With confidence and ease, you
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  can say no without guilt, and you can choose decisively
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  without overthinking. You feel strong, centred and
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  grounded because the judge is no longer suppressed.
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  The judge is awakened, empowered and aligned with the King, the
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  guardian of your standards and the.
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  Source of your. Calm clarity.
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  So imagine yourself thriving at work, making decisions
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  efficiently, using conversations to set boundaries clingly,
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  holding others accountable with elegance and ease.
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  Imagine yourself. Outside of work.
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  Still grounded, still confident, still clear.
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  Moving through life as someone who no longer fears conflict
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  because you no longer fear your own authority.
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  And don't be surprised if you notice subtle changes things
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  used to tolerate. You no.
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  Longer tolerate discussions you would avoid.
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  You initiate because this identity grows stronger each
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  day. The king leads, the judge
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  protects, and you grow. And once you feel those changes,
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  calibrate, resonate, and update, and it's time to return.
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  So imagine yourself no longer in that dream, like in a state.
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  Imagine yourself leaving the hammock on that beach, floating
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  up into the sky all the way back to where you are now.
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  Take a deep breath. In through your.
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  Nose and out through your nose, wiggle your fingers, wiggle your
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  toes connect and. Calibrate into the.
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  Here and the now as I now count from 1:00 to 10:00 to awaken you
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  starting to count 123 waking up 456 more alert 7-8.
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  Open your eyes. Open your eyes, 910.
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  Wide awake. Wide awake.
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  Wide awake. Thank you.
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