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WHAT HE SAYS VS WHAT SHE HEARS · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe our wives. Yeah, my wife.
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  Speaker 1: I asked me the other day if we want to
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  Speaker 1: bring ployees in the bedroom ship and I said.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck yeah. I said, about time. I've been waiting for this.
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  Speaker 2: This tool needs a rest.
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  Speaker 1: What are we gonna call it?
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  Speaker 2: We were gonna hide it from the kids.
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  Speaker 1: Relatable The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Daddy and my.
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  Speaker 2: Partner in crime like a KA, Mummy is mummy because
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  Speaker 2: he's when you go to when you want talk.
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  Speaker 1: About you, and Jake is Daddy because he can't say
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  Speaker 1: no to.
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  Speaker 2: You baddies, and you guys are the baddies. So big announcement.
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  Speaker 2: I dare say you've seen us wearing them throughout the past.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I would say a couple of months, even it's
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  Speaker 2: been a while.
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  Speaker 1: It's a long process, long process, but worth it, worth
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  Speaker 1: the way. Yeah, I'm sure we have our merch guys. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: our first official merch is here. All us, all us.
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  Speaker 2: As you know, we have done a couple drops in
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  Speaker 2: the past where they were in collaboration with our friend Harry.
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  Speaker 2: This is all us.
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  Speaker 1: Body designed it, got it made, got it shipped here
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  Speaker 1: I've made the website and it is live tonight at
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  Speaker 1: six pm Australian Eastern Standard Time, Sydney. Oh yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: this is called the Staples Collection. Yes, we've got three
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  Speaker 1: items that are dropping.
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  Speaker 2: Or do you go first? What we got?
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  Speaker 1: We got my fave, which is the gray hood Have
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  Speaker 1: a look at this bad boy. The gray zip up
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  Speaker 1: says relatables on the front, love heart zipper, love heart
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  Speaker 1: on the sleeve.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously you're wearing.
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  Speaker 1: The same and I'm wearing the same thing, and in
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  Speaker 1: my opinion, in this looks amazing.
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  Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, I do love that one.
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  Speaker 1: This is the hoodie where it's so very similar design,
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  Speaker 1: but this one's just just a hoodie and it's black.
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  Speaker 2: We've gone with black. We've gone for like the baseball theme.
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  Speaker 2: The thing I like is how there's I like how
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  Speaker 2: the hoods aren't like a spool string, a drawstring. I
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  Speaker 2: love that.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta love hard on the sleeve as well. I
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  Speaker 1: love the fucking tags that Oddie got made. Everything's complete custom.
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  Speaker 1: Everything's custom. It's got a tag where you can scan
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  Speaker 1: this barcode and it takes you to the pod. And
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  Speaker 1: even just like the little tag here that says, Relatables
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  Speaker 1: stay bad. It's fucking made with love.
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  Speaker 2: So sick, and we got one more thing.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, this turned out really good.
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  Speaker 2: This actually might be my favorite. I don't know. We
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  Speaker 2: were gone for simple. Yeah, we want it.
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  Speaker 1: Because the staple Drop want to be simple to everyone
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  Speaker 1: can wear. So I wanted to leave this one in
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  Speaker 1: the bag to show you the bag that it's going
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  Speaker 1: to come in. We've got Irrelatable's tea. I'll take it
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  Speaker 1: out for you. Yeah, it's just a risk. Why the
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  Speaker 1: fit is so good?
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  Speaker 2: I was. I love them. That looks good.
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  Speaker 1: It's got like a little love heart at the bottom
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  Speaker 1: and again the same tag, like the same, same everything.
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  Speaker 2: It's so so sick. I love it. When if you've
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  Speaker 2: seen me wearing one the last couple months, that's a
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  Speaker 2: sample and that one had purple embroidery, but we wanted blue.
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  Speaker 2: The manufacturer stuffed up and so we were like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: well it looks good, but it needs to be but
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  Speaker 2: no very exciting.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, tonight if you're listening to this in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: or if you're listening to this to right now the
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  Speaker 1: day of this episode comes out, These are dropping at
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  Speaker 1: six pm Eastern Standard time. Sydney, And if you're listening early,
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  Speaker 1: Patreon does get early access.
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  Speaker 2: Patreon does get early access. If you're listening to this
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  Speaker 2: right now, as it's come out before six pm over
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  Speaker 2: on Patreon, they already have access.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you'll be sure to get your hands on them.
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  Speaker 1: And they also might be a chicky little discount coat.
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  Speaker 2: I believe there will be. Yeah, I'm still I need
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  Speaker 2: to go on Squarespace.
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  Speaker 3: I can fucking see if I do what I've just
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  Speaker 3: been like the last couple of drops we've done with Harry.
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  Speaker 2: And I was just like, can we do just Concay's
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  Speaker 2: like yes, and I was like sick. He was through Shopify. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we're going through Squarespace, And to be honest, I do
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  Speaker 2: like the look of it better, but back end stuff
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  Speaker 2: is like I obviously never did any back end stuff
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  Speaker 2: for the last time.
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  Speaker 1: I also think it's cool how a lot of podcasts
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  Speaker 1: or in quotes influences when they do merch or clothing drops.
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  Speaker 2: It's not one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: Then, No, every single thing, every part of this, every
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  Speaker 1: single part of this is Jake and I. Yeah, which
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  Speaker 1: is really really cool. So we're recording right now in
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  Speaker 1: one half of the garage. The other half of the
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  Speaker 1: garage is fully set up just for me.
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  Speaker 2: It's fucking sick. We bought like a white backdrop of
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  Speaker 2: vinyl white backdrop to do the photo shoot. We were like,
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  Speaker 2: fuck hiring a place again. We bought all these boxes
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  Speaker 2: to put on the merchant. We filled them, printer everything
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  Speaker 2: for like stamps, bags, everything. It's gonna be hectic. It
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  Speaker 2: was kind of surreal.
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  Speaker 1: I had a little bit of a moment because on
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  Speaker 1: the wall Jake's put a couple of the things from
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  Speaker 1: our old setup in the other side of the garage
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  Speaker 1: just to make it look a bit prettier, and our
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  Speaker 1: old seats, if you guys remember from the Wooden Lodge,
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  Speaker 1: are there, and then all the new merch It's just like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, depis.
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  Speaker 2: Our journey really well, mate, I'm telling you when we
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  Speaker 2: go to Queensland, I'm voting for a maybe a Wooden Lodge.
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  Speaker 1: Back to the Wooden Lodge, go by some guys, love
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  Speaker 1: you Love you alrighty guys, if you're joining us here
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  Speaker 1: for the first time, this is very exciting because it's
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  Speaker 1: a new concept and it involves not only the baddies.
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  Speaker 2: But their boyfriends. Yes, those with.
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  Speaker 1: So we have currently picked two wonderful baddies. One is
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  Speaker 1: named Tara, the other is named bridget yep, and we
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  Speaker 1: have asked them to basically go on a secret mission
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  Speaker 1: and test their boyfriends with a challenge that we've asked
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  Speaker 1: them to do.
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  Speaker 2: What is the challenge? Shake?
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  Speaker 1: The challenge was to ask your boyfriend if they would
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  Speaker 1: still love you if you were a worm.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're a worm. And the winner is the one
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  Speaker 2: with the best response. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So these boyfriends are competing unknowingly, so it's very good
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  Speaker 1: on the baddies' parts to get all the information. So
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  Speaker 1: what's going to happen now is we are going to
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  Speaker 1: call each of the baddies, talk through how they went
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  Speaker 1: with the challenge, a bit about them, a bit about
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  Speaker 1: their relationship, a bit about their boyfriends, and then we
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  Speaker 1: are going to play the results of how their boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: went with the question the age old debate would you
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  Speaker 1: still love me if I was a worm?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? So first we are going to call Tara. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: this is exciting.
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  Speaker 4: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Hello is that Tara?
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  Speaker 4: Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the boyfriend o limp.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, the whole day of work for this No way,
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  Speaker 4: let's go.
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  Speaker 1: That's what we want.
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  Speaker 2: Let's go. So, how are you going? How are you going?
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  Speaker 4: I'm doing so good. How are you boys doing?
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  Speaker 1: We are going great. We are super excited about this.
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  Speaker 2: I am over the moon.
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  Speaker 1: First things first is we just wanted to ask you
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  Speaker 1: about you and your relationship. How long have you been dating?
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  Speaker 1: What's his name?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? Of course, so his name is Simon.
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  Speaker 2: He's smart.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, big guys everywhere give him a gay metal.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 4: So basically we met through high school, but we we
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  Speaker 4: were sort of mutual friends, but we didn't start dating
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  Speaker 4: until after school. We actually started off as friends and benefits.
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  Speaker 4: And I know you guys have been like you've never
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  Speaker 4: seen like what's called your speptical Yeah, that's the word
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  Speaker 4: I'm looking for about like friends of benefits. But we
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  Speaker 4: are living proof that it actually can work.
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  Speaker 1: Well, maybe that could be your mission to win the
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  Speaker 1: gold medal and prove us wrong. Exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 2: I put my hands up when I'm proven wrong. I'm
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  Speaker 2: proven wrong. That's great. How long have you guys been
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  Speaker 2: dating now?
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  Speaker 4: We've been dating for a year and eight months now.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, definitely proven us wrong. Good great, Chuck.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but we yeah, we just like, yeah, I guess.
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  Speaker 4: I saw him at a party, saw him in his
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  Speaker 4: Domino's uniform and all his glory. I just couldn't resist.
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  Speaker 2: That will get you?
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  Speaker 1: Do you still work a Dominoes?
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  Speaker 4: Likely he's does not anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, and we posed you with a challenge to ask
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  Speaker 1: your boyfriend if he would still love you if you
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  Speaker 1: were a worm. What did you think about it when
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  Speaker 1: I first.
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  Speaker 4: Told you, well, I was kind of kep, oh my god,
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  Speaker 4: not that word again.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway.
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  Speaker 4: I was kind of scared because he he's a very
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  Speaker 4: like what's it called, like smartish person as I was
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  Speaker 4: really expecting him to be like, on the more reasonable
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  Speaker 4: side'd be like, know what the hell like?
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  Speaker 3: Oh as if would you ask me that you're a
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  Speaker 3: work exactly?
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  Speaker 4: I was so scared. But ten hours wrong, which is good.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, how do you how it's going to work
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  Speaker 1: is after we talked to you, We're going to play
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  Speaker 1: it after we hang up.
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  Speaker 2: How do you think he went?
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  Speaker 4: I think he did.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: He did say that I was his pet at the end,
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  Speaker 4: so I was like, oh, but but I mean he
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  Speaker 4: said that he would put me in his favorite flower,
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  Speaker 4: so I guess.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he had a good response. Jake hasn't listened listened
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  Speaker 1: to it, so this is exciting.
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  Speaker 2: Do you haven't? Yeah, I'm excited. And how is it
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  Speaker 2: going to work on our end is?
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  Speaker 1: Uh, we'll hang up, play the phone call with your boyfriend,
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  Speaker 1: and then we'll deliberate what we think and then call
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  Speaker 1: the other baddie do the exact same process, and when
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  Speaker 1: the episode goes live, we're going to ask all the
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  Speaker 1: baddies to comment which boyfriend had a better response. You're
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  Speaker 1: not going to know till the episode comes out, and
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  Speaker 1: we won't need it.
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  Speaker 2: It'll be what we're going to give, like the voting
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  Speaker 2: obviously one week, so the night before or the day
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  Speaker 2: we record the next episode is when we'll do the
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  Speaker 2: count and so that will be who goes on to
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  Speaker 2: the next phase.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, into the metal matches, which is exciting. So Tara,
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  Speaker 1: thank you very much for competing and we'll see how
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  Speaker 1: you both go.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you so much, boy By.
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  Speaker 2: Alrighty, that went brilliantly to start. Tara is funny, she's
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  Speaker 2: fun and now big everywhere. That's what you want.
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  Speaker 1: We've got her challenge results in front of me right now.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 1: So how did her boyfriend, go, would would you still
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  Speaker 1: love me if I was a one.
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  Speaker 2: Still and put in my favorite plan? Put me in
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  Speaker 2: your favorite plan? That's you man?
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  Speaker 5: Is that what?
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  Speaker 2: I have? A pet? He was at the end. I
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  Speaker 2: love that they were talking in baby voices. Okay, time
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  Speaker 2: to critique.
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  Speaker 1: I think initially, great answer.
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  Speaker 2: I think the the straightaway of course I would love you.
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  Speaker 1: I would put you in my favorite flower. That's almost
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  Speaker 1: ten out of ten. But then my favorite plan, he
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  Speaker 1: should that's not get we gotta we got technical here,
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  Speaker 1: we're getting.
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  Speaker 2: But then at the end he stuffed it up a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. He'd be my little pet. Yeah, he shouldn't stop.
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  Speaker 2: He was scared when he said that.
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  Speaker 1: And then he was like, overall, great result, overall results.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so glad we didn't have to like rated out
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  Speaker 2: of ten. We just have to wait for the next
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  Speaker 2: one and say who wants so much easier to compare
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  Speaker 2: it to something. Okay, that's hilarious Tara's boyfriend. I gotta say, still,
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  Speaker 2: good answer. Straight away he said, of course I love you. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think he did really well. No deliberation, no none
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  Speaker 1: at all.
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  Speaker 2: He just was like yes, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: There was no like what are you talking about and
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  Speaker 1: I just like she was worried about it too.
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  Speaker 2: She was obviously just kind of like recording it under
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  Speaker 2: he didn't see and they were just like she was
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  Speaker 2: like baby the baby voice.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that was competitor one, Yes, okay, Competitor two is
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  Speaker 1: Bridget Bridget. Let's give her a ring.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hello, is that Bridget?
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  Speaker 1: Hi?
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday, Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics. How are you going?
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  Speaker 1: Firstly, Well, we just wanted to ask how you're going.
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  Speaker 4: I'm thanks, How are you?
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  Speaker 2: We are both going swimmingly.
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  Speaker 1: You are the second competitor, so we are very excited.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we have something to judge your boyfriend's attempt against Yeah, ready,
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  Speaker 2: which is good.
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  Speaker 1: Before we get to his results, we wanted to ask
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  Speaker 1: just a little bit bit about yourself and your boyfriend.
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  Speaker 2: How long have you been dating? How isy? What's his name?
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  Speaker 4: His name is Matt.
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  Speaker 2: Matt.
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  Speaker 6: We met at school and we've been dating for three
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  Speaker 6: years in September.
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  Speaker 2: Three years.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so you've got a longer period of time on
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  Speaker 1: the other competitor.
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  Speaker 2: They were one year and eight months. Yeah, so you're winning, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 2: but how old are you now to?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 6: Well, I'm nineteen. I'm twenty in January, and here's twenty
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  Speaker 6: in a month.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and we pose you with the challenge to
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  Speaker 1: ask would you still love me if I was a worm?
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  Speaker 1: How do you think when I asked that? And how
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  Speaker 1: do you think your boyfriend went well?
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  Speaker 6: When the question came through, I was like, okay, that's
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  Speaker 6: I was like expecting that.
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  Speaker 4: I was on the point.
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  Speaker 6: You were like announcing it on the episode. I was like,
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  Speaker 6: it's definitely going to be would you love me if
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  Speaker 6: I was.
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  Speaker 2: Basic?
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  Speaker 6: Checked out? That's fine? And then I was like I
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  Speaker 6: had to, Like I asked him and I was like,
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  Speaker 6: oh god, he's gonna reply and be like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I always say yes because I always ask him the
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  Speaker 6: stupid ship like.
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  Speaker 2: That, Ah, he's ready for it.
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  Speaker 6: Then, yes, he was ready, but I hadn't asked him
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  Speaker 6: what I loved? Would you feel love me if I
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  Speaker 6: was went for a while like, I haven't actually asked
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  Speaker 6: him that specific question. Yeah, it's a one time so
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  Speaker 6: I mean his response was not.
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  Speaker 1: Not terrible, Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Openly hilarious, but it was. It wasn't bad. It wasn't
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  Speaker 6: like he was like, no.
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  Speaker 2: That's all right. So the way this is going to work.
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  Speaker 2: Bridge it is, so we've heard the first one, yours
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  Speaker 2: is going to be this your boyfriend would be the
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  Speaker 2: second one. And then when we're done, so we're going
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  Speaker 2: to hang up with you, We're going to play the
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  Speaker 2: or like the results of your boyfriend's answer, and then
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  Speaker 2: from there we're not going to know the results until
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  Speaker 2: this episode comes out, and we're going to get everyone in.
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  Speaker 2: All the baddies are going to in the comment's going
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  Speaker 2: to be the people who vote.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so very exciting. We're going to leave you there
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  Speaker 1: and we're going to play Matt's results. Yes, thank you, bye,
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  Speaker 1: thank you?
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  Speaker 2: Would you love me if I was aware?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the most real Yeah yeah yeah, would you love
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  Speaker 2: me if I was aware? But let's replay that. Replay
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  Speaker 2: Yeah he was slow, but the end my too cute.
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  Speaker 2: That was cute. Two very different responses. So so the
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  Speaker 2: the thing I'm happy with is like, straight away both
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  Speaker 2: of them, no deliberation, just said yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so well this is highlighting the best of the
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  Speaker 1: best boyfriends fair so no one really loses.
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  Speaker 2: But the baddies know how to choose a boy Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: What's exciting about this is usually on the pod me
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  Speaker 1: and Jake will deliberate and pick one, but we don't
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  Speaker 1: really have any power.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, we have zero sway here. I don't even think
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  Speaker 2: our votes should count. We can just say what we think. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: they don't even count at all, So like, whatever we
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  Speaker 2: vote for, I don't even think should go towards. The
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  Speaker 2: only time count our votes should count is if it's
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  Speaker 2: a draw in the comments, and then you and I
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  Speaker 2: have to then deliberate with each other and agree on one.
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  Speaker 2: Who do you think? I like both of them. I
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  Speaker 2: liked both of them.
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  Speaker 3: The baby voice of the first on Tara's boyfriend, Oh,
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  Speaker 3: I gotta say, though, fuck Bridget's boyfriend Matt, and so
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  Speaker 3: he's like, yeah, you just ca He's like, yeah, I would,
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: I would, and he's like, too cute.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: That thing sent me too cute.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, otherwise I would have gone Tara like light and day.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Even Tara said in the phone call, like if he
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: didn't say Pete, he said, it's funny.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: So the first one at the end he like kind
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: of stuffed up, but then dumbled. At the end of
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: the Bridges one he did even better.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm going to lean towards Bridget. I
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: was gonna say Tara, Okay, so disagree. Okay though, that's
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: fine because we mean nothing. We're just here as the host.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so, batties, it is now up to you, guys.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Comment below who you thought one Tara's boyfriend, the plant
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: one or Bridget's boyfriend. You're too cute, You're too cute
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: in the comments below, and if you want to get involved,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: there will be a link in the top of the description.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: And there's two more rounds of challenges and then the
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Metal matches.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can still submit yourself and your boyfriend
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: to be part of the first round of challenges and
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: then we will announce the Metal matches. All right, baddies,
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: I will say one thing before we get into the
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: rest of the episode, and that is, if you haven't already,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: go head over to Patreon. Because first things first, you're
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: going to get book Club early on Monday. Sure. Second thing. Second,
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: you're going to get Thursday extra episode just like this one.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Third thing. Third, you now get the merch early. Oh yeah,
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: and it's going to be and more coming here, buddy,
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: to be announced in this episode. But I have an update.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: What is it? Or I should say? Should I say?
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Like thereof an update, the Dickhead note update I'm talking
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: about for a few weeks.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went with the will we waiting for?
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: To be fair, I think we did say that we'll
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: see what the baddies saying in the comments about how
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: what was your idea? Leave? Quick backstory. I parked outside
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: my friend Justin's house and then the next day I
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: left my car there over night. The next day there
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: was a note on it that said, don't park here again. Dickhead.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I said to him, this had to be you. He said, no,
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: it wasn't. I came, spoke about it in the podcast,
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: went home, went back to his house to pick something up,
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: and then I said to him, like, oh, how's I
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: spoke about that note on the pod because I texted
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: him and I was like, it's crazy that someone did
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: that and it wasn't you. And he goes, oh, no,
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: it was me. He didn't Beth tell you. And so
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: now the whole thing is like he's told Beth at
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: the dog park. I wasn't there that day, and Beth
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: said she was going to tell me, but she chose
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: not to tell me. I was she was fully gonna
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: let me, like go through this whole rigamarole of making
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: a fake account to go to the DERMOI community page
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: and say sorry, like try and make someone feel bad,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: even though it was just justin that did that note.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: So now we were trying to get back at Beth. Right,
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: quick backstory. Now, Oddie had a pretty good idea I
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: think where he said, when you and Beth go to
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: like a cafe or something, have a pre written note
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: where so she walks off, you just put the note
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: under her windshield and it says something like your fucking
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: beautiful call me when you want to leave, that fucking
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: wimp or whatever. Yeah, and don't forget the whimp takes
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: the wi I'm the whimp.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And so then it was going to be like
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: a thing where she's like, well, what the fuck? And
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I was like gonna try and film a reaction, so
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: like full honesty. I actually just like forgot about.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: But Oddie sends me a picture of a comment on
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: was it Patreon yeah or was Spotify? And someone goes
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: and I think this is what I will actually do.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: So they said, go create the fake account on the
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: community page, right, and what you should do is take
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: a photo of best car either like on the street
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: while she's driving, like just try and catch her out,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: or like where it's parked somewhere, and on the fake account,
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: do a post in the community page and be like
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: watch out for this horrendous driver, or something like be
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: careful on the streets of Dremoyne. Just see what she does.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: I love it.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: I've also had a thought as well, like she will
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent go on the account and suck this
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: person out. And if it's a brand new account that's
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: made in twenty twenty five, she might be like nah,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: she'll be like this has she knows. I think I
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: can help you here because I was thinking I need
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: to go join. I can help you. I can help you.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Back in the day, I used to prank my mates
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: on Marketplace and when they had items up for sale,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I made a fake account and I'd message him and
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: pretend to buy it. I think it was made twenty
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: twenty three, and his name's like Pheil. Okay, his name
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: might be film Tits, but you can change it.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: But you can change it.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I got one of my friend's ones when he was
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: selling a car that might have been was it me?
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: I might have done you too? I did everyone. Yeah,
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: I just I have a feeling, like when you said
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: film film of tits, I have a feeling. I remember
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: that and I remember being like, what the fuck? And
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: then I was selling a car. But that's hilarious. That's
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: a good idea, because I was. My other plan was
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: join the community page and then just like try and
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: message someone and just be like I hope they're fucking cool,
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: and be like, hey, I want to do it to
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: my girlfriend. Can you be the one who posted? Oh shit?
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Because it would be legit, legit.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: I'll see if I can find this account, and yeah,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: you will say it's made twenty twenty three.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: You can find this account. That's what I'll do. Okay,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: good updates. But so that's the update. And then the
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: other thing I had was I've spoken about my mum
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: a couple of times, obviously, and now she sends me
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: the weirdest shit.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Like reels your mom's it's like she's just it's almost
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: like she's he doesn't get it. No, it's almost like
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: my mum is trying too hard to be a mum,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: if that makes any sense.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, this morning I wake up to a photo
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: just in text messages, like she just sent me a photo.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: She saved it from Facebook and sent it to me
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: on text message because you don't reply all the wise
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: because I don't know why, and it's just sixteen etiquette rules.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: You probably didn't know, but should etiquette rules. Etiquette rules?
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right, And I was like, okay, thank you as if,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: like thanks for looking out for me, just talking like
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: etiquette rules. And I was like, fuck, I'm gonna read
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: these out. Number one, you should rise when someone enters
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: the room.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Stand up.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: She's looking out for you, man, she wants you to
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: be a bad person. You let others exit before you enter.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: You say my pleasure instead of no problem. You listen
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: before you speak. You keep your phone off the table.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: You keep your shoes polished at all times. You lower
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: your voice and serious moments. You wait to be addressed
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: in formal settings. You hold eye contact during handshakes. You
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: ask about others before talking about yourself. You walk beside
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: your guest and not ahead. Right handwritten thank you notes.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: You leave space in group conversations. You wait until everyone
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: is served. You compliment character, not appearance. You dress for
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: the context, not attention.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: And I was I read this once and then it's
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: the second I read it, and I just wanted to
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: say to my mum, when have you done any of these?
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: I was thinking, this is the person. Yeah, what I
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: said thank you was if like thanks looking out for me,
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: you send me that. It was the weirdest thing. It
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: made me think I want to start like maybe a
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: segment where we react to the reels she sends me
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: because they are tragic.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Bro well, thinking about her, it might be it must
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: be slightly hard to be like a mother on the
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: other side of the world. It definitely would, and like
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: to actual to actually like mother mother. Oh yeah, she
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: can't mother because she's not impossible.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I also have you to be fair, like,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: at what age do you stop being I guess mothered
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: and fathered or child did because I feel like my
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: dad I hang out with him now more and more
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: instead of him like you know, he didn't take me
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: to places. I don't rely on him for certain things,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: like he's still my dad, but like, at what point
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: do you does he stop fathering me? Because my mom,
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: to be fair, she like it's still she's my mom,
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: but like she stopped mothering me a long time ago
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: because I moved to Australia and she lived in Canada.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an actual good question, hey, because I'm thinking
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: about my relationship with my parents and it's definitely changed
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: where they don't do as much for me, if not anything.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: But yeah, like there's still that like father and mama, mama,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: mama mother instinct.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: There isn't there.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's just it's just slightly there. It's interesting you,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: but it's really nice now when we're like twenty four
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: to twenty five, when my mom or dad will do
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: like something that's stereotypically like a father or mother thing.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: She's out of the blue, and you're like, oh, thanks,
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I forget about this. Yeah, funny.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: I mean I guess I would go to my dad
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: for advice for sure.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's what I was thinking a lot for
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: like life advice. I suppose it changes, though the sort
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: of like challenges we face as young adults are way
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: harder challenges than driving me to the movies when I'm fifteen.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, now we're.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Going for loan advice or ye place to buy a property. Yeah,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: like talking to them and that doesn't seem like parental advice,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: but it still.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: Is from him, isn't it though. You're right? Yeah, I
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: guess they never stop. Actually, yeah, parenting. You parentings are
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: what I was looking for earlier.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so, it's interesting, funny, dynamic, Yes.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Shit stopped because she definitely Yeah, I don't know, like
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: I'm like really thinking about like I see my dad
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: as my dad, and I see my mom as my mom.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: But you know, no more permission, no more fucking like
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: like I could say to either one of them, I'm
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: moving to Germany. Yeah, if they say no, I'm going
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: to say I wasn't asking, you know what I mean, Like,
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: isn't it. It's so weird?
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, when was that shift? Yeah, I'm the same too. Yeah,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: it's funny too because.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Some people, but we're different. Some people's parents would hold
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: sway over their life for a while due to just
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: like cultural differences. And then also, yeah, dynamic, great point.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: We were both in a lucky position where our parents
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: were both very stand offish, whereas especially getting out of school,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: for a lot of young people, their parents are like
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: you have to go to union, Yeah, you have to
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: get a trade. Where I think our parents were lucky
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: to have the same mindset as they're like, you'll figure
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, And I guess that just comes down
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: to parenting approach and how they were brought up and
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: what they believe is right. Yeah, and I think ours
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: just happened slightly earlier because the older you do get
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: like when you do finish union, in your parents' eyes.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: You're successful.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, then they step away, and in reality, they could
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: have stepped away anyway.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah. We both were lucky enough to have parents where
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: it's like, oh, that's their life. You know, they get
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: to choose what they want to do with their life.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to have like a Well there's a
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: fine line thinking about being a parent too, because initially
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I was always like parents.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Who tell their kids what to do, Like that's so harsh.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but also being a if you were a parent,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: they love them, yes, but also like your worst nightmare
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: is you say you figure it out self and your
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: kid does nothing exactly.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that could be a massive and I see that.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Whereas I guess our parents must have done it
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: because they saw some type of drive in us, Like
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: we were doing shit. It wasn't like we're just like
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: smoking bongs and skating.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: It's a good point. Yeah we're doing it's a good point.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: But it all comes down to also how they were
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: brought up and what their parents did to them, and
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: it's like goes down different generations. So now you think,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: but the kids who were told they have to go
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: to university will have learned from that and be like,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: well I fucking hate it. I'm not going to tell
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: my kids to do it.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, fair, I'm pretty my dad's parents were mad chill.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure my dad's parents weren't. That's what he is.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Oh really, so he's gone opposite and then my dad's
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: parents are like mad child, I'm pretty sure they did.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: They were just like, yeah, do what you want. Yeah,
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: And so that's also just been like he's probably thinking
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: all that worked out for me. Yeah.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: So my dad's parents were mad religious, so he was
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: just like that like sort of made him be like
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: because that's so structured.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just like, no, you can do whatever you want. Yeah.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: To be fair, best's parents were, they were quite strict. Yeah,
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: and she she has said that, Yeah, like because of
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: how strict her parents were, there's different things that she knows,
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: like she wants to do when she has a kid,
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: like simple simple things, right, So, uh, they were one
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: of their like super healthy kind of almond parents where
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: it was like I haven't heard that, Yeah that super
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: healthy bro Like a treat for them was like half
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: a buck. Like they would mix two boxes of cereal together,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: one cocoa pops, one fucking rice bubbles, and that was
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: like a treat really, so you got like half of
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: the bowls rice bus Like I'm talking like, yeah, that
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: like healthy, healthy, that type of thing, like lots of
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: sports and shit. And Beth said that I one time
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: was thinking, like, oh, that's really good that they like
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: did that. You know, they taught you about healthy And
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: she said, the only bad thing is that so you
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: and I we could we could buy a cupboard full
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: of lollies, ice cream in the fridge and everything, and
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: intuitively just because we were like one reason is because
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: we were allowed to have it as a kid, like
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: intuitively just eat some of it sometimes. But one thing
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: that Beth thinks that her parents, being so strict on
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: that stuff had done. I don't want to speak for her,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: but she has said this for is that it like
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: has made it so deep in her like if there's
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: chocolate and fruits that fucking shit needs to be eating. Yeah,
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: that's fine because she can be allowed to do it
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: too now because now she buys it, she makes her choices,
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: and so it's like, yeah, it's big, sweet sweet tooth
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: has become yeah, like a thing where if it's in
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: the house. Yeah, like she it's yeah.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: I've heard that before people I know they're from really
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: big families and when they bought food, if there was
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: food there, they would eat as much as possible because
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: if they would go out for the day, there's seven
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: or eight kids that eat all the food. You to
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: come home and there's no food there, Exactly, you wouldn't
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: have because we I was from two, I could have
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: one portion of ice boxes, have one icebox.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Ya, they're there, they're having three or four Yeah exactly. Yeah.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: They need to like just make sure they can save
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: her this.
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: Moment literally Yeah, yeah, hilarious. So that's just like one thing. Yeah,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I might ask be about it again and get like
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: a more solid answer. She said to me once, and
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I was like, that does make sense, Like I don't
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: get food thought really and like, yeah, portion controls are thing,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: and I've it's it's funny. It's sort of like a
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: balancing act.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it also makes you think because like her parents
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: obviously were great parents. Like all of the kids have
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: grown up to get like go into like good jobs
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: and like have good work ethic and shit. And they're
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: all healthy, like none of them are like unhealthy. But
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: at the same time, my parents who honestly let me
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: have the freedom of everything and I can do whatever
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I want, and I've ended up pretty much the same. True,
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: So it's like it's nothing's wrong, like each each one
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: of them actually is probably the right thing true too
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: true exactly, Yeah, yeah, there is no wrong. It's sort
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: of like you also have to work around how your
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: kid acts. Yep, not saying your brother's bad, but he
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: has a few struggles from a similar upbringing.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: I will say the Oh, here's actually one thing I
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: will say, I think what im One factor of why
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: my younger siblings are different to my sister, my older
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: sister and myself is because when Juanna and I were
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: their age or actually no, not their age now they're
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: all older now, but like when we were younger, like
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: when Joanna and I before before ten and going into
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: early teens, my mom and my stepdad had no money,
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: and my dad and my stepmom had no money, and
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: so it was more of like a there was freedom,
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: but also it was kind of like there was a
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: cap on what could be bought. So it was like
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: you just have to wait for Christmas and birthdays to
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: get stuff, which is still super lucky. But when we
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: started to get a bit older, that's when my parents,
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: my dad started to make good money, and then my
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: mom and my stepdad they also started to make good money,
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: just like well off and yeah, like they just like
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: figured it out and like business did well or whatever.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: And so my younger siblings from when we Joanna and
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: I weren't allowed to have stuff at that age, but
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: when my younger siblings got that age, they were allowed
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: to have everything. And so it was a thing of
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: like being allowed to just like get a new fucking computer,
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: play video games until two am every day. And that's
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: what Ethan does now. And it's just one thing that
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: I never tell my parents, like I never say you
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: need to stop it from doing this shit, but fuck,
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: I just want to break everything, every bit of technology
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: in that little fucker's roommate.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I think it's also a bigger problem outside obviously your family,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: just younger kids. Oh, it's huge, and technology and the
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: addiction to it.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like we'll have.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: To figure out strategies.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: Like I don't want my kid to be an iPad kid.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: No, Like I don't want to be at a dinner
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: and like I know, like there might be a time
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: and a place to do it.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like they don't need the iPad. I went out
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: for dinner the other night.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: It's so normal it is. And I don't judge either,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: but I don't.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Want my kid to do it. There was a table
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: on my left, big table, five kids all on iPads, right,
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: and I was like, oh shit, look at that. And
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: I was thinking, to be fair, it's like if they
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: were absolute shits, you'd want them to shove up so
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: you can enjoy your dinner. Table to my right, family
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: of four, two parents, two kids. They were playing you know.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I was like, that's one way to keep him busy. Yeah,
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Cassie's brother.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: They draw, They bring drawing books.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: That's what do you mean? That's what you see. Every
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: restaurant I went to as a kid was like, do
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: you want some coloring and pencils?
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: What happened to that?
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. And I think it's so much better for
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: developmental stage. And I don't want to judge either, because
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: kids are shits, and like, if you just want to
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: have an enjoy your pub feed, like fair enough, if
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: you gotta do what you gotta do.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Us being parents, like I.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Can't speak now, but like hopefully we figure out some
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: type of strategy. But also all of these conversations the
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: complexities around being a parent.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: Obviously, yeah, it's so hard.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: You can't be it can't be perfect, no, because every
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: single scenario right there, our parents or their parents or
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: anyone's parents would have thought they're doing the right.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: Thing and they love their kids as much as every
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: other parent. It's like, it's it's hard. It's hard, And
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: when I get there, I guarantee you I'm going to
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: do something and I'm going to be like, I know
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: when my dad did that? Yeah, why my mum did that?
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: This fucking sucks. But it's also good to think about
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: it too, because a lot of people don't, especially men.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: A lot of men wouldn't think about the complexities about
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: being a father, a father figure.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: Baddies, it is time for the I G Question, i
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: G Question baby. This week, the IG question was girls,
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: tell us what he says versus what you hear? First
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: one I got was, wouldn't you like to know whether
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: boy I forgot about that? Me may but no good answers, Yeah,
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: great answers. Yeah.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Actually, like a lot of them, I reckon seventy five
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: percent of the ones I saw were girls here that
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: someone says they're fat.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, one hundred percent.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Somebody do with sweet treat yeah, and something to do
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: with feeling fat, yeah, which is hey.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Relatable, It is relatable. It is what it is. But okay, girls,
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: tell us what he says versus what you hear. Classic
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: I'm fine equals I hate you.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Oh I believe that one, dude, I'm fine.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: Hey, that also goes both ways. Don't say that to me.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Ye, that also goes yeah your vocabulary, Yeah, all right him, No,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like ice cream. What she hears, I
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: think we should break up?
• 34:47
  Speaker 5: Oh okay, I was about to say I've got one similar.
• 34:51
  Speaker 5: I no, no, because I've got one that says you
• 34:56
  Speaker 5: can get a sweet treat, but I don't want one.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: What she hears, you don't love me, and you think
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: I'm a big back. A big back. What's a big back?
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: I've heard this big back thrown around like a big bum?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Is it?
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Throw it back?
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I've heard big back gets thrown around the internet for
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: a while now, and I don't know.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: What it is. We might be getting old day. I
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: swear it's a big bum. That's a compliment then, but
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: maybe it's not.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: If she said it interesting, please let us know big back?
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: All right? What he says, I need some space. What
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: she hears, I don't love you anymore?
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: Use your words? Why do you? Okay? What he says,
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: just a few beers. What she hears see you at
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: three am?
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: She shouldn't hear that, but she's picked up on the queues,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: that's for sure.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: What he says, I don't want to snack. What she hears,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: pick me up a special snack without me asking?
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'd still lead it to me. Reading between the lines,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: that was good.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, girls, tell us what he says versus what you hear. Yeah,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: you look good equals he doesn't care and has been
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: ready to go for ten minutes. Fuck'm so I do care.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I do, but I have been ready to go for
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes, probably longer. Okay, this one's the classic. What
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: he said, did you finish off that cake? Or is
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: there still some left. You ate all that cake, didn't you?
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Little fatty? Oh fuck, you may as well stab me
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: in the fucking guts.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: No, this is good to learn though, because we know
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: what not to say, because me being a stupid boy
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: like and that's me wanting cake.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, he's the only cake left?
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Or did you eat it all? And I'm just like
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: wanting cake personally, not having any attack on you. She
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: takes it that way exactly.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Here's here's where I want to test you because I
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: have a feeling I know what to do in that situation,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: but I want to know what would you do to
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: make it so she doesn't think you're insulting her.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm not insulting her, so she thinks I just
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: called her fat exactly?
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, how do I How do I stop that? I
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: don't know? Okay, here's what I think. The answer is,
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: you don't ask anything. There's no way you can word
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: it without insinuating that she has eaten all the cake.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: All right, So all you do is you go, you
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: take a little sneak peek for the cake.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: If it's gone, you don't say a thing. If it's there,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: you have a piece, offer to share it too.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay, okay, I think that's the answer. Okay, so
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: you just have the social initiative. Interesting, okay, okay, here,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: don't even ask a question. Yeah, because you can just
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: go look for the cake yourself with your own eyes.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: Good point. Yeah, Okay. What he says, I won't Lady
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: in the Tramp style eat a hot dog with you. Okay.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: What she hears, I hate you.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I read that and I was like, it's a Lady
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: in the Tramp. Oh if you do not watch the
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Lady in the Tramp. No, No, that is classic movie, bro, girlfriend.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: It's like an old Disney movie animated one, but it's
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: so lady. It's the two dogs Lady in the Tramp.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: The lady is like the dog that has an owner,
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: and the tramp is the one that's like a hound
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: dog like out in the streets like Barry Be. And
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: then they fall in love, and he, like the tramp dog,
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: kind of lives his hectic life where he just like
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: goes around. He knows all the restaurant owners. They give
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: them food out the back of their restaurant and shit.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: So he takes a lady on a date.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: At the back of an Italian but is there a
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: scene with spaghetti And there's a scene with spaghetti where
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: they both spaghetti and then they're eating the same one
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: and they go up and they kiss.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Oh I'm how old? Is that old? I might have
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: seen it when I was a kid, early two thousands.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: You haven't seen it? Yeah, old old old? Yeah, Okay, what.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: He said, you can come if you want. What she hears,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: I feel obligated to invite you.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Oh, i'd be hearing you want me to punch in
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: the face.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: No fair, though, what I would hear is, yeah, you
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: feel obligated to invite me yeaheah, I would hear like,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: you don't want me to come exactly. I've been getting
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: really good at more of the instead of saying that
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: because you can come if you want is like a
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: thing where it's like you could argue I'm being considerate,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: where it's like you can come, like I want you there,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: but it's if you want to come, you know.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: But instead I've been going more of would you like
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: to come? It's more of a would you like to
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: that's on them, Yeah, would you like to come? And
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: then it's just like, yeah, I love it. That's some
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: really top shit. Yeah, I love it if you could
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: be there. Yeah, what he says, I don't want anything serious.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: What she hears, you're the girl for me and I'll change.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: And then she wrote delusional girls hand check emoji.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Sometimes they will hear what they want to hear. Yeah, okay,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: what he said, I'm one hundred and eighty five centimeters tall.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: What she hears, a solid one seventy three.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Then this one's good. Girls. Tell us what he says
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: versus what you hear. What he says, you're dramatic. What
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: she hears, I'm too immature to acknowledge that emotions exist
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: and people feel them. Oh shit, Yeah that was a bar.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: That was one that Baddy was articulated. All right, this
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: one is my girlfriend too, a fucking team really so
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: so me.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: I'm busy tonight her Oh so you hate me?
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: That is.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: She says it all the time. Really.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: If I'm like, oh, I can't do it, I'm recording,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: She's like, oh so you hate me. Funny what he says,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: you look nice today. What she hears you look shitty
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: every other day. That's funny. We can't wear we can't Yeah, okay,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: now what he says, I've got to go. What she hears,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: I can't stand being with you.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: What he says, This doesn't look good on you.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: What she hears or he cares or he cares delusional
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: one both yeah, negative?
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: Okay him, I love you.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: What she hears, I will pay for everything because my
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: money is down money A good one, fucking I I'll
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: pay for everything. Okay, this is my last one, and
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: this one is a little slightly confusing for me.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: But I'll see if you can get it and if
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: the girlipops can get it or the baddies. What he says, Sorry,
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: my phone died. What she hears, fourteen different sex positions
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: at my ex's house. Oh, I get it. Yeah he's
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: out cheating. Yeah. Oh what she hears.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: It's just like blank, she is all the fucking has
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: like a that's so ravening.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: They were good, they were cold. It was actually so funny. Okay,
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: time for dilemmas, guys. There was a lot of new
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: dilemmas in there. Thank you very much. If you want
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: to submit a dilemma, it is linked in the description
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: of this video, or it is in our Instagram bio
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: and they're all anonymous. Completely. I got a good one. Hi,
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: I'm a male twenty four. We love our mail Baddy,
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: we do, we do. We like to help him out
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: because Green Flags. I started listening to your podcast after
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: hearing YouTube on ships and gigs. Yeah, or they were
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: on us that we didn't go on them unless they
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: gave us a shout out an episode, which Yeah, it's
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: very refre rushing hearing a more stable male view on
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: relationships as opposed to the toxic viewpoint that is perpetuated
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: online and in some of my friendships. Oh and when
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: I read this first time, I was I was thinking,
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Easy's saying that, like shits and gigs, James and Fuu
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: had a toxic and then I was like, oh, they're
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: not too bad. But then I was like, they actually kind.
• 43:18
  Speaker 6: Of well.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: Not the show throw shading, but I've listened to it forever.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: My dilemma is the following. I ended a nearly three
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: year relationship almost a year ago due to the way
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: I treated my now ex girlfriend and the events that
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: transpired whilst we were together. Physical infidelity from me and
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: emotional infidelity from her. As far as I know, what's
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: emotional infantility, so like emotional cheating and physical cheating, infidelity
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: is cheating Oh yeah, okay, I was gonna say something,
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: what do you think infertelity was kind of have kids? No? No,
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: what's that? Isn't that?
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: No?
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: Infidelity is cheating? Oh I've been wrong. He had a
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: the source next to him because he used the word
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: perpetuated and infidelity because there's easier one. I don't know, way,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: what's in my head? Infidelity? What's the words in my head? Infertile?
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Right, they're pretty similar to me. To be fair, I
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: was like, so, it's been some time I've had the
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: opportunity to be by myself, but I've come to realize
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: that I would love to be with her. Still, I
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: missed the way we were together, and I wish I
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: had never made that choice. My question to you guys
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: is do I make some sort of herculean effort to
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: win her back? Or do I cut my losses and
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: try to move on and find happiness elsewhere. Help My
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: friends say, if I miss her, I should try, but
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I want to disturb her life.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, so that is tough. Let's break that
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: down because there were some big words in there.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: Basically me to.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: Look up infidelity definitions to be sure. It's definitely cheating, but.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: I swear, but fertile.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: But then you couldn't have Yeah, I don't know physical
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: infidet like because you can't emotionally not have a kid.
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: I guess you could because you just said don't want
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Where is it?
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: It needs to be a rare occasion where I don't
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: think I'm right, but I would love to be meaning
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: being unfaithful to a partner. Okay, the more you know University.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: He sat there with the sours, I'm telling you that
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: was funny. So he's broke up with his girlfriend of
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: three years a year ago.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: A year ago, so it's been a long period of
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: time and he's had a lot of time to reflect
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: on it and realize.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: What he's done or what his wrongs were.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: And he's now kind of regretting his decision, but he
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: kind of needed the time as well.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: To realize what was wrong. Yeah, fuck it is tough.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I think it is a simple answer, and he sort
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: of said it there at the end. Yeah, cut your losses, Yeah,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: cut your losses. It's kind of like three years. I'm
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: going to assume you're it was your first love, like
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: proper love too, which twenty to twenty three because he's
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: twenty four, Yeah, which is always the hardest to get
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: over and it always eats up in the back your
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: mind slightly. And that's relatable, and that's fair because it's
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: all you ever knew and all you ever loved. Yeah,
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: And it's good that you've taken the year to reflect
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: on your wrongdoings and potentially wanted to better yourself in
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: the relationship. But my personal opinion would be cut tires
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: completely and.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Go elsewhere. Yeah, I would agree.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: The only reason I agree with that as well is
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: because so I remember the one time that I so
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: I had a relationship where I wasn't heartbroken because it
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: ended for a good reason. And then the one where
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: I was heartbroken, I was with for three years, and
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: then I remember it fucking took forever to.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Fucking get over it. Yeah.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: And I remember seeing this thing where someone goes a
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: pretty kind of you know, decent rule of thumb is,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: however long you're with someone, it's probably going to take
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: about half that amount of time to get over them,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: you know fully.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: And I was thinking about it and I was like,
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: I reckon, it took me a year and a half.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: A Yeah, I honestly reckon. It took me a year
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: and a half. A full year later, I was good,
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: Like I was okay, but I definitely I reckon. I
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: would have had thoughts where I was like, I still
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: want to be with her.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, very true and glass half full. You're in a
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: lucky position. I've said it before. It's easier to get
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: over that, I know, than the what if. But right
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: now you can make the decision that this is never
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: happening again, because it's already been a year. Yeah, and
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: she's not like messaging you and saying let's try again. Yeah,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: you have complete control of the situation right now and
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: of your life. And to be fair, another six months,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: going off Jake's timeline there, it should be all right.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: And also another glass half full thing. Take what you
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: learned from that relationship into the next one. Yeah, as
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: cliche as it is, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point. Like the only way, Yeah,
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: I would say give it six more months and see
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: how you feel, because like just so, I would say,
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: make a decision now, whatever you do, make a decision
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: and don't and just like go through that door. Like so,
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: if you want to go fight for her by all means, Like,
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you to not do it.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: There's no real right or wrong answer. What I would say,
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: what I would do is go through the door of
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: no contact, cut your losses, and then in six months
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: to a year, if you still feeling the exact same,
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: then maybe there is something that's drawing you back to
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: it and you should try. But here's the thing, Like,
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: it's a risk. You could try and she'll shut you.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Down and then it hurts, but at least then you
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: know it's never going to happen, so you can have
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: another year and a half to get over it. Yeah,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: it's also better to come from him though that he
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: knows himself exactly.
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he just makes the choice.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I also want to say too, he's twenty four, right,
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: definitely in the last like six months especially, Yeah, prior
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: to that, I think a lot of men have tunnel
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: vision into their lives and how much they see not
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: only like work wise, but also relationship wise and where
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: they grew up. There aren't that many people or options
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: and not saying that there's like plenty of girls out
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: there who want him, But the older you get, you
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: kind of start to realize that you are more in
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: control of your life and you can do whatever you want,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: and there's millions of people who could potentially be your partner. Yeah,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: but when you're so young and immature, you kind of
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: only see the ten girls you know.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just relatable too, and like the more people
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: you know and you have complete control of your life
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: to do whatever.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: You want and go wherever you want to exactly, you
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: might end up with someone that still was one of
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: the ten people you know, but isn't your ex girlfriend
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: you never know, yeah, exactly, And it kind of just
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: happens with age that the tunnel vision starts to open
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: and you're like, Wow, the world is fucking huge. I
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: can do whatever I want. I think you got this, mate, Yeah, same,
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: I think you're I think you'll be all right already.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: Let us know how you go. I'm actually interested.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, give us an update for sure. My dilemma bit
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: of a fun short one. Okay, thirty year old female
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: baddie thinking of buying a sex toy to introduce to
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: the bedroom, but don't know how to start with my husband?
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: Help?
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: Okay, this man that's thirty bit older than us.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: Hey, apparently thirty is the age that women are their horniests, oh,
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: early thirties, because that's when their peak like ready their bodies,
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: like ready to have baby. I think, yeah, interesting. Yeah,
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: so we said the other day on Patreon, didn't we
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: that we're very vanilla in the bedroom? Yeah, I think
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: we said it. Well, we recorded Patreon before this. It's
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: actually going to come out on Thursday. Yeah, that we
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: said it. We recorded Patreon yesterday, So on Thursday you
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: are if you're on Patreon, your heroes talking about vanilla.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: But also, I'm not scared of sex toys neither. That
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: vibrator goes a long way.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: It's it's a tool.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: It's not saying I'm bad at what I'm doing. It's
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: a tool to help.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: One's smaller than his doodle.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you to start off with one of the
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: smalleranness doodle if you think he's like an insecure guy, true,
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: and just start off with one that's smaller and it's
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: really small.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: If his is really small, Yeah, that's pretty small fucking vibrator.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: And I don't I don't know from experienced, the big
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: ones are easy to grab button. It's a good point.
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: You don't lose them. Yeah, so okay, thing like, what's
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: the reason you want to bring me in the bedroom?
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: Is he satisfying you or not? Well, I think it
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: just comes with age. They've been having sex with the
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: same people for ten years. You just want to splush
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: it up exactly. Yeah, pleasuring yeah, exactly, pleasurable for him
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: too to be able to be the one doing it,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: and then she's kind of like enjoying it.
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: That's what I like as a man, is just like
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: if she says something and then I do it for
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: the first time or to do something different, and you
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: can see she's enjoying it, I'm like, oh, yeah, here
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: you go.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Tactic hid him with the I want to add another
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: person to the bedroom, right, He's going to say no, no, no,
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: no no, and she goes, okay, I'll start small, like
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: how about a toy, and it'll be like, you know what, compromise. Yeah, Honestly,
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: I think you can't really go wrong. You could just
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: say if we had toys in the bedroom, what would
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: you want to see? What he says?
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: But some dude are stubborn. We know stubborn dudes. We're
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: very open to trying new things.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: But I feel like all dudes are kind of like,
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: want a toy in the bedroom?
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Sure, I don't know, because we're okay with making it
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: full of it self, for not knowing what to do
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: and like laughing about it and figuring it out. But
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: a lot of dudes are stubborn and not saying this
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: bad his husband is.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: But a lot of dudes are like, I'm the king
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: of the bedroom. I make you finish. I don't need
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: no toy.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: Fair, But how could you bring it up if you
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: are in like a relationship like that and you just
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: want to say, I don't know. They just have that
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: toxic masculine any side in the bedroom. Because it's funny
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: though too, because the dynamic of a person. I've been
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: heaps of people outside the bedroom completely normal, and then
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: inside the bedroom they've got like this different persona and
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: they're like freaky.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: Or like they think they're beasts or whatever. I think
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: if he's the type to be, if you're scared to
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: ask him because of his reaction, sorry, but red flag true?
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: It is the red flag. Yeah.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: I think I think you can't go wrong at all
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: if you just say, how'd you feel if I brought sex.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: Toys into the bedroom, which one would you like? Yeah,
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: and maybe you have a couple of you've picked out
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: a couple. We've done a deal of love.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: Honey, they've got cute ones that look like love hearts,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: roses bro look like paper weights. Or you can get
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: some big one to have a couple on your phone
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: and just be like like this one. What do you
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: think you'd be like? Sure, order it bang here. Next week,
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: let's go to town.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: And I start small. You also want to like it too,
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: don't do something intense. Yeah, just try something smaller if
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: you like it, and then build up and you guys
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: will just have the freaky sex out. Well, yeah, I
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: think it's fun. We'll get there one day.
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes dudes do need baby steps. Give me five
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: years and we'll be there talking about we're talking about
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: we're talking about how our girlfriends asked us.
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe our wives.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy word my wife. I f ast me the
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: other day if we want to bring toys in the
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: bedroom ship and I said, fuck yeah, I said, about time.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: I've been waiting for this. This tool needs a rest.
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: What are we going to call it?
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: Where we're going to hide it from the kids?
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, guys, As I said earlier, we have another cheeky,
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: little small announcement for Patreon, one thing to make a
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: little bit better. If you're listening to this today the
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: day came out, it's going to be coming out tomorrow.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: But if you're listening to this after that, on the
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: twenty sixth of August Tuesday, we will be dropping our
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: live reactions to the season finale of Season one of
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: the Summer I turned pretty and let me just tell you,
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: it was a fucking tear jerker. If I could drop
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: this mic and it wasn't on a stand, I would We.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: Should unscrew them? Yeah, drop them, bro, it was a
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: tear jerker. We I forgot how fun that was.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Me and Jake had it was late money as well. Yeah,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: late night movie night.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: It was great.
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: We were laughing, Yeah, we were laughing, eating popcorn and.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: Emotions we were and then we were sobbing fun on Yeah,
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: then we were sobbing.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, another purchase for five dollars aud a month.
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: Yes, fuck having tears. Now we're just going to Everything's
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: all right? Bad? Is you know?
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: How we and the episodes we've comments from you guys.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: If you want to get your comment read, just comment
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: in one of the episodes and we might get to him.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I got Charlotte Darling from Spotify first. I cannot wait
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: to watch your opinion of Jeremiah changed to season three. Ooh,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: I hope you comment on the song choices for the
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: climatic parts of each episode.
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: Two okay, sligh interesting. I got YouTube Vittoria Susa. I'm
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: team quote Belly, get your shit together. Facts, Conrad deserves
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: better and Jerre really needs to grow more. Oh shit.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: To be fair, we'll saying that in the finale, Belly
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: was gone between both brothers.
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go again a bit dangerous.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: So from Rock's anna, this could be an even better
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: thing to do to Beth about the Dickhead updates.
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: I'll share the notes she goes. How about you put
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: a note on her car saying I'm sorry or I'm
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: sorry again, So then she'll just start looking for some
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: non existing damage.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, I've seen that before. That's a good one. It's
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: less work for you.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: So I could It could be as simple as I'm
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: sorry and I put on I even put like fucking
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: your phone number or like someone's phone number that she knows,
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: and just like fuck with her to her own phone
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: number I don't know. How about come back to us
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: next week? Okay? And my final one s B j
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: C T Okay. The boyfriends who listen to this podcast
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: ey as emoji. Yeah, they're all like, fuck, I'm getting
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: tested maybe Okay, Jacqueline, Oh, I think you replied to
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: this quote. I'm going to stop saying unbeknowns because it
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: sounds stupid because you said it. Okay, what have I got?
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: One last one from Emma Hope. I love that you
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: guys are watching the summer I turn pretty. I've always
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: been hardcore Team Jeremiah, but I honestly think it's just
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: because I personally don't like Conrad. Definitely nothing against those
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: who do, though. Okay, funny that's up to season three. No,
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: that's caught up on season three. Really know what she's saying?
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: What She's still Team Jeremiah. Really, all I've been hearing
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: is that by then people are usually team Comrade. Let's
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: go with the we and see about perfon personal preference
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: the whole way through.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I say interesting, interesting, And now to completely finish the episode,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: the cherry on top, we will now call one of
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: you lovely baddies if you want to get called and
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: sign off an episode.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: The link will be in the description. Today we will
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: be calling Angel. Hello, Hello Angel, This is Jake and
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: Oddy from the Relatables. How are you.
• 57:25
  Speaker 4: Oh, I'm great.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: What do you want to.
• 57:35
  Speaker 6: I am about to go and start my school.
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, well, I'm glad we caught you before that
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: because we wanted to see if you could sign off
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: our episode for us.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: Oh, how do I do that?
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: You can say some advice, you can say stay bad,
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: You could say anything anything you want.
• 57:55
  Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I have a perfect thing to say to
• 57:58
  Speaker 4: that to the women watching, which is most of them,
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: stay away from.
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: Most men, advice from most.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: Men except one.
• 58:13
  Speaker 6: Jake, thank you so much.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: Thanks listening. Guys, stay bad.