Latest / Reformed Thinking / Sorrow and Sin in the Shadow of the Covenant (Genesis 35:16-22)
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- 0:00Welcome to Reformed thinking. We are really glad you are
- 0:03tuning in today. Yeah, absolutely.
- 0:05Thanks for being here with us. So imagine reaching the absolute
- 0:09spiritual climax of your life. I mean, you have just met with
- 0:12God. You cleanse your House of all
- 0:14foreign idols. Right, you got a new name, a
- 0:16fresh blessing, and absolute clarity on your calling.
- 0:20Wait. I mean precisely.
- 0:21You pack up your family to head home expecting nothing but
- 0:24peace. You assume the road ahead will
- 0:26be paved with divine favor. Yeah, you would naturally think
- 0:29that. But then, almost immediately
- 0:31upon leaving, your beloved wife dies in agony and your oldest
- 0:35son commits an unspeakable treasonous betrayal.
- 0:38It is just a massive shock to the system.
- 0:40It really is. So today we're doing a deep dive
- 0:43into a text that shatters the widespread illusion that
- 0:46obedience buys a pain free life. We are looking at a brief but
- 0:50incredibly weighty section of historical reality from Genesis
- 0:54chapter 35, specifically verses 16 through 22.
- 0:58And we have two incredibly thorough theological
- 1:00commentaries open on the table today.
- 1:02Our goal is to give you a pristine view of these events.
- 1:05So just to give you a quick overview, Jacob and his family
- 1:08are traveling from a place called Bethel toward Ephrath.
- 1:11Right. And in just a handful of verses,
- 1:13we witnessed the birth of Benjamin, the death of Rachel, a
- 1:16horrifying sin by the first born Reuben, and then the final
- 1:20census completing the 12 tribes of Israel.
- 1:23It is a lot to process in such a short section of scripture.
- 1:26It really is, and our core thesis for this deep dive is
- 1:29clear. We want to show you that God's
- 1:32covenant promises are secured by sovereign grace alone, not by
- 1:36human merit. Because, you know, the
- 1:38patriarchs themselves are shown in states of severe frailty and
- 1:41active rebellion right here in the text.
- 1:43Yeah, if you have grown up around the church, you might be
- 1:45used to these sanitized flannel graph versions of the
- 1:49patriarchs. Oh for sure.
- 1:51You think of Jacob and the 12 tribes as these flawless pillars
- 1:54of faith. But look at what is actually
- 1:56happening in their tents. I mean, the reality is just.
- 1:58Shocking. It is entirely shocking, and to
- 2:01grasp the absolute whiplash of the events on the road to
- 2:04Ephrath, you have to understand the massive spiritual high that
- 2:07immediately precedes them. Right, because Moses wrote this
- 2:10historical narrative under divine inspiration for the
- 2:13Israelites in the wilderness. Yeah, and we must state clearly
- 2:17right at the outset that this is literal space and time history.
- 2:22Absolutely. We completely reject liberal
- 2:24critical scholarship that treats these biblical figures as myths
- 2:28or ancient folklore. Yeah, God gave this account to a
- 2:31wilderness generation who needed to understand the genuine
- 2:35historical origin of their nation.
- 2:37So in the preceding verses, Jacob experienced a massive
- 2:40spiritual peek at Bethel, which, by the way, translates to the
- 2:44House of God. Right.
- 2:45He obeyed the Lord, He ordered his household to put away the
- 2:48foreign gods, he built an altar, and he received the renewal of
- 2:51his name, Israel. But then the geographical
- 2:54movement following that event is just stark.
- 2:56The Hebrew verb used in verse 16 is a vaish.
- 3:00Yeah, which translates to and they traveled, but it literally
- 3:03means they pulled up their tent pegs.
- 3:05Wait, so it is a very physical, decisive action?
- 3:08Yeah, exactly. I mean, yes, precisely.
- 3:11This specific verb signals a massive transition.
- 3:15They are pulling up stakes from the spiritual height of Bethel
- 3:18and heading toward. Efra, which is Bethlehem, right?
- 3:21Moving directly through Canaanite territory.
- 3:23I am kind of stuck on that transition though, because the
- 3:26theological tension is just severe.
- 3:29Oh, it is. Jacob did everything right at
- 3:31Bethel. He cleansed his house.
- 3:33He worshipped correctly. Yeah, he literally buried the
- 3:35foreign idols under the oak tree at Shechem.
- 3:39Following that incredible spiritual peak, any reader
- 3:42naturally expects a season of visible peace.
- 3:45You expect smooth travel for sure.
- 3:47Instead, the family walks right into a valley of shadows.
- 3:50It makes me think about walking out of an incredible Sunday
- 3:53worship service, right? Where you feel completely
- 3:55aligned with God. Yeah, the singing was glorious.
- 3:57The preaching convicted your soul.
- 3:59Yeah, and you walk out to the parking lot feeling a supreme
- 4:02sense of spiritual clarity. And then the second you reach
- 4:05your car, you get a devastating phone call.
- 4:07Yes, that is the feeling. Yeah, the tension is jarring.
- 4:10Why does God arrange events this way?
- 4:12Well, walking in obedience to God's covenant clearly does not
- 4:16insulate the believer from the curse of the fall.
- 4:18Tan analogy strikes right at the heart of the modern prosperity
- 4:21gospel illusion, doesn't it? It totally does.
- 4:24That false teaching promises ease to the faithful, suggesting
- 4:29that obedience purchases a life free from pain.
- 4:33But the historical reality of Genesis refutes that entirely.
- 4:37God arranges events this way to teach his people that His
- 4:41promises are not dependent on our earthly comfort.
- 4:44Right. Nor do they bypass the miseries
- 4:46of a fallen world. So, as we move from the
- 4:49theological expectation of suffering into the physical
- 4:51reality of the curse manifested on the road, we confront the
- 4:55agony of a froth. The family is advancing, but
- 4:58they meet intense affliction. Rachel, the beloved wife of
- 5:01Jacob, goes into intense labor. And the commentaries highlight
- 5:04the Hebrew root Quasha here. Oh, right.
- 5:06In the text, this verb is placed in the peel stem.
- 5:09Yeah. And Hebrew grammar.
- 5:11The peel stem denotes an intensive action.
- 5:13So this was not just a standard difficulty.
- 5:15No, not at all. This was an agonizingly severe,
- 5:19violent labor. Rachel dies giving birth to the
- 5:22final tribal head. The juxtaposition is incredibly
- 5:25intense. The Covenant family is
- 5:27advancing. The promises made to Abraham and
- 5:30Isaac are physically growing right there on the road.
- 5:32But the growth comes through tears and literal death.
- 5:36And the text notes that her soul was departing, which is a clear
- 5:39proof of the biblical dichotomy of body and soul.
- 5:41Yeah, the material body ceases to function, but the immaterial
- 5:44soul departs. And as she is dying, she names
- 5:47the child Benoni, which means son of my sorrow.
- 5:52Right. She interprets the entire event
- 5:54through the lens of her present agonizing affliction.
- 5:57But Jacob immediately steps in and renames him Benjamin, which
- 6:00means son of the right hand. He does.
- 6:02I want to push back on that moment a bit, or at least ask a
- 6:04hard, hard question about it. Is Jacob's renaming of the child
- 6:08a denial of Rachel's pain? That is a fair question to.
- 6:11Ask, I mean, is he just trying to erase the trauma of the
- 6:14moment or is this a necessary theological correction, you
- 6:17know, to anchor the families hope in God's future promises
- 6:19rather than their present grief? Well, Jacob is not suppressing
- 6:23the reality of her death. He actually builds a memorial
- 6:26pillar over her grave to mark the sorrow permanently.
- 6:31Oh, right, so he acknowledges the tragedy.
- 6:33Yes, but using his patriarchal authority, he refuses to let
- 6:37grief be the final word over the child's identity.
- 6:41That is a crucial distinction. Rachel's naming reflects the
- 6:44immediate crushing weight of the curse.
- 6:47Yeah, and Jacob's renaming looks forward.
- 6:50He recognizes that this child completes the promise line.
- 6:53So he anchors the child's identity in strength and future
- 6:57hope. Because the right hand and
- 6:59ancient Near Eastern thought is the seed of authority and
- 7:02strength. And if we connect this to the
- 7:04broader reality of life east of Eden, we see the curse of
- 7:07Genesis 3 verse 16 fully active here.
- 7:10The judgment pronounced in the Garden that childbirth would be
- 7:13marked by pain is violently realized in Rachel's death.
- 7:16The patriarchs, despite carrying the promises of God, are not
- 7:19exempt from mortality. Right.
- 7:21The wages of sin affect the covenant household just as they
- 7:24affect the rest of humanity. So the family leaves a literal
- 7:28grave on the side of the road, they pack up the tents they
- 7:30travel on, and somehow they face an even darker reality.
- 7:34Yeah, we transition from suffering originating on the
- 7:37outside, the physical frailty of the human body, to a horrific
- 7:42sin erupting from the inside of the camp.
- 7:44Jacob pitches his tent beyond Megdul Eater, which translates
- 7:48to the Tower of the Flock. And we learned from the sources
- 7:50that this was a historical watchtower built to protect
- 7:53sacrificial sheep from predators in the region.
- 7:56But the predator in this narrative is not an outside
- 7:59marauder. It is Reuben, the first born
- 8:01son. He commits incest with Bilhah,
- 8:03his father's concubine. And Jacob's reaction is recorded
- 8:06with this chilling brevity. It just says and Israel heard
- 8:10of. It it reads like a massive shock
- 8:11to the system honestly. It is a deliberate shock and we
- 8:14must clarify the cultural context to grasp its full
- 8:17severity. Right, because in the ancient
- 8:19Near Eastern social structure, concubinage was a recognized
- 8:23custom. Albeit one that consistently
- 8:25brought disorder to the biblical family.
- 8:28Always. But Bilhah was not a random
- 8:30servant. She was Rachel's handmaid and a
- 8:33recognized concubine of the patriarch.
- 8:35Therefore, Reuben's action is not a simple lustful lapse of
- 8:39judgement. No, it is calculated cosmic
- 8:41treason. Wow, cosmic treason.
- 8:44By defiling his father's bed, he is attempting A blatant power
- 8:47grab. Yeah, he is striking at the
- 8:49patriarchal authority, attempting to usurp the
- 8:52leadership of the family and seize the birthright by force.
- 8:55He acts as a rival to his own father.
- 8:57Because Reuben knows that with Rachel dead, Jacob might favor
- 9:01Rachel's other son, Joseph. So Ruben is taking pre emptive
- 9:05action to assert his dominance over the entire household.
- 9:08It is like a Prince launching a violent coup against his father,
- 9:11the king. It is the ultimate disastrous
- 9:14example of succession planning gone wrong in the ancient world.
- 9:16He is not just breaking a moral rule, he is launching A
- 9:19deliberate strike at the very order and honor of the Kingdom.
- 9:22He is trying to force his father off the throne before the
- 9:25appointed time and the text handles this massive betrayal in
- 9:29such an unusual way. How do you mean?
- 9:31I am stunned by the lack of immediate retribution if a son
- 9:35did this to a king. In any other ancient text you
- 9:38would read about an immediate execution or banishment.
- 9:41Oh absolutely. Instead we just get Israel.
- 9:43Heard of it? Well, the Hebrew syntax here is
- 9:46incredibly specific and vital to understanding the tone.
- 9:49What do the commentaries say about the syntax?
- 9:52Scribes copying this text throughout history maintained A
- 9:56Pisca Bienza pasuk. A Pisca Bienza pasuk that sounds
- 9:59very technical. It is a rare sudden paragraph
- 10:02break right in the middle of the verse, immediately following the
- 10:05phrase and Israel heard of it. Oh wow, imagine reading a
- 10:08manuscript and right after the most horrifying revelation
- 10:11imaginable, there is a literal blank space.
- 10:14Yes, this intentional gap in the manuscript creates a deafening
- 10:18rhetorical pause. It represents the Father's
- 10:21ominous restraint. Jacob does not speak a word in
- 10:23the immediate narrative. The silence hangs over the text
- 10:27like a heavy storm cloud. Representing a judgment that is
- 10:29delayed but absolutely certain. And we see that judgment finally
- 10:32fall years later in Genesis 49, when Jacob strips Reuben of his
- 10:37preeminence. Systematically, this exposition
- 10:40aligns Florida State with the Westminster Confession of Faith.
- 10:43Specifically chapter 6 on the fall of man and sin.
- 10:46Yeah, this act exposes the total depravity lurking within the
- 10:50Covenant community. It proves that original sin
- 10:53corrupts every part of the human nature.
- 10:55Even the chosen line, the family carrying the very promises of
- 10:58God, has a desperately wicked heart.
- 11:00Now wait, I am stuck on verse 22.
- 11:03We just read about a tragic death and a horrific moral
- 11:05failure, and Moses follows it up with now the sons of Jacob were
- 11:0912. It feels so incredibly jarring
- 11:12and out of place, right? Extremely jarring.
- 11:14Why drop a census count right in the middle of a tragedy?
- 11:17After walking through the valley of death with Rachel and then
- 11:20wading through the swamp of moral failure with Ruben, the
- 11:23text provides a sudden, shocking statement of stability.
- 11:27The family is structurally complete, even though it is
- 11:29morally and emotionally shattered.
- 11:31So how does this brief statement the Sons were 12 function as the
- 11:35theological center of gravity for the entire chapter?
- 11:38It functions as the center of gravity because it proves the
- 11:40doctrine of divine Providence. Right, if we look at the
- 11:44Westminster Confession, chapter 5 concerning Providence and
- 11:47chapter 3 concerning God's decree, we find the framework to
- 11:50understand this. The framers of the Confession
- 11:53articulated these doctrines to explain how God ordains
- 11:56whatsoever comes to pass. And how he preserves his
- 11:59purposes through his sovereign Providence.
- 12:02God's purposes stand because God preserves them.
- 12:04Not because human beings execute them.
- 12:06Florida State. Exactly.
- 12:07I mean, yes, if the continuation of the Covenant relied on the
- 12:11moral purity of the Patriarchs, the entire redemptive plan would
- 12:15have collapsed right there at Migdel Etter.
- 12:17The family was broken by death and stained by cosmic treason.
- 12:21Yet the text says the sons of Jacob were 12.
- 12:25The tribal structure is intact. The original audience, the
- 12:29Israelites wandering in the wilderness, desperately needed
- 12:32this truth to crush any ethnic pride.
- 12:34Moses is showing them their true origins.
- 12:36They were stiff necked people who constantly rebelled.
- 12:39And they needed to know their ancestors were just as flawed.
- 12:41They could not boast in their lineage.
- 12:43They were not chosen because their ancestors were morally
- 12:46superior. They were sustained by sovereign
- 12:48grace alone. The preservation of the 12
- 12:51tribes is a witness to God's steadfast loyalty to His own
- 12:56Word. Because the Patriarchs are
- 12:58proven completely insufficient by their death and their sin
- 13:01forced to look forward. We need someone who can actually
- 13:04secure salvation because Jacob's family clearly cannot do it
- 13:08themselves. And all of Scripture points to
- 13:10Christ. This text provides massive
- 13:13redemptive historical types that point directly to the Savior.
- 13:16Let us look at the names again. Benoni, the son of my sorrow,
- 13:21and Benjamin, the son of the right hand.
- 13:22This points to the dual nature of Christ's mediatorial work.
- 13:26He is the Man of Sorrows prophesied in Isaiah 53, the one
- 13:29who bore the curse of the fall and suffered under the wrath of
- 13:32God. But he is also the exalted King,
- 13:34resurrected and seated at the right hand of the Father in
- 13:37glory. He moves from sorrow to absolute
- 13:40sovereign rule. And then you look at the
- 13:41geography. Rachel is buried near Ifrath,
- 13:44Bethlehem. The Tower of the flock Miggle
- 13:47Eater is the specific location where the prophet Micah in
- 13:50chapter 4, verse 8 prophecies the arrival of the Good
- 13:54Shepherd. The sheer irony is astonishing.
- 13:56The physical soil holding Rachel's grave, a monument to
- 14:00the curse of death, becomes it's a geographical stage where the
- 14:03Conqueror of death will take his first breath centuries later.
- 14:06The true bread of life is born on this precise soil.
- 14:09And that geographical mapping is not speculative allegory.
- 14:13It is the deliberate, redemptive historical design ordained by
- 14:16the Holy Spirit. God orchestrates history so that
- 14:20the place of immense sorrow becomes the birth place of the
- 14:23ultimate king. We must also look at Reuben in
- 14:25this Christological light. The failure of Reuben is
- 14:28necessary for the proper understanding of the gospel
- 14:30narrative. Reuben is the natural first
- 14:32born, the son of privilege, and he fails entirely.
- 14:35His failure proves that the natural man is an absolute
- 14:38bondage to sin. Flesh and blood cannot inherit
- 14:41the Kingdom of God, and natural lineage cannot produce the
- 14:44Savior. We require a better first born.
- 14:46Christ is the true first born over all creation.
- 14:49As Paul states in Colossians one Christ perfectly honored his
- 14:53Father. Where Reuben sought to usurp the
- 14:56throne through a despicable act of rebellion, Christ submitted
- 14:59to the Father's will. Even to the point of death on a
- 15:02cross, we see the ruin of the natural first born to prepare
- 15:06our hearts for the perfect obedience of the heavenly first
- 15:09born. So Reuben commits cosmic reason,
- 15:12essentially launching a coup. Naturally, you would expect
- 15:15Jacob to explode in anger or banish him immediately.
- 15:18But look at what actually happens next.
- 15:21The application of these historical realities hits the
- 15:24modern believer directly. We are looking at pastoral
- 15:27application and the moral. Law.
- 15:29The commentators draw three specific applications from this
- 15:31text. Let's break down the uses of the
- 15:34law conceptually before we assign numbers to them.
- 15:37First, there's comfort for the afflicted.
- 15:39As we saw with Jacob, affliction does not mean God has abandoned
- 15:42you. Walking faithfully does not
- 15:43guarantee a life free from severe pain.
- 15:46You can be right in the center of God's will and still face the
- 15:49devastating reality of a fallen world.
- 15:51Second, there is a severe warning for the presumptuous.
- 15:55This is what theologians call the first use of the law, which
- 15:58acts as a mirror to expose our sin.
- 16:00Reuben's sin warns the Church against complacency and secret
- 16:04rebellion. Covenant privilege does not
- 16:06grant a license for immorality. Being raised in the Church does
- 16:10not give you permission to defile it.
- 16:12We must challenge the seeker sensitive movements of our
- 16:15modern era that refuse to call out sexual sin.
- 16:18The text demands holiness and vigilance.
- 16:22Reuben's fall shows us that proximity to holy things does
- 16:25not equal a holy heart. The Church must maintain a
- 16:27severe discipline regarding sin, treating it with the gravity it
- 16:31warrants rather than covering it up with superficial grace.
- 16:34Furthermore, the text gives us a guide for obedience utilizing
- 16:37the third use of the law as defined in Westminster
- 16:39Confession, Chapter 19. For the justified believer, the
- 16:42law acts as a guide to proper living.
- 16:45We are called to the mortification of sin and serious
- 16:47sanctification. However, this pursuit of
- 16:50holiness is driven by gratitude for grace, not by a legalistic
- 16:54fear of losing our justification.
- 16:56We look at the law to understand how to please the God who has
- 17:00already secured our salvation. I'm stuck on a specific tension
- 17:03here though. What is that?
- 17:05How do we hold these two truths at once?
- 17:08On one hand, we must maintain a severe vigilance against sin in
- 17:12our own homes, actively mortifying the flesh, right?
- 17:15On the other hand, we are called to rest completely in the fact
- 17:19that our salvation relies entirely on Christ's
- 17:22righteousness, not our family's purity.
- 17:24Yeah. How do we reconcile the
- 17:26brokenness of our own families with the call to holiness?
- 17:29Because Jacob's household was filled with rivalry, grief, and
- 17:32absolute disgrace. Yet God worked through it.
- 17:35God does not need an ideal, tidy family to accomplish His
- 17:39sovereign will. We hold those truths together by
- 17:41recognizing the specific functions of law and gospel.
- 17:44The law commands our obedience and exposes our failures,
- 17:47driving us to repentance. We discipline our homes because
- 17:50God is holy and commands us to reflect His character.
- 17:53We do not tolerate sin. However, when we inevitably
- 17:55fail, when our families reflect the fractures of the fall, much
- 17:58like Janeb's family did, we do not despair.
- 18:01We turn to the gospel. We recognize that God's
- 18:04redemptive decrees are not fragile.
- 18:06He executes his will through flawed instruments, so that all
- 18:09the glory belongs to him alone. Your justification is anchored
- 18:13in the perfect obedience of Jesus Christ, not the moral
- 18:16success of your household. You fight sin vigorously, but
- 18:19you rest your soul entirely upon the finished work of the
- 18:22mediator. That brings us to our final
- 18:25synthesis. The core take away from this
- 18:27deep dive into Genesis 35 is that the covenant stands firm.
- 18:32The history of redemption advances right through the
- 18:34middle of human tears and catastrophic moral failures.
- 18:38It is entirely sustained by the faithful hand of God.
- 18:41Human merit contributes nothing to the security of the divine
- 18:44promise. So as we close, look at the
- 18:46Reuben within your own heart. Acknowledge that quiet, depraved
- 18:50urge to usurp God's authority to run your life according to your
- 18:54own dictates. Now consider that God knew this
- 18:57specific inclination within you from before time began.
- 19:00He knew the depths of your rebellion, and yet he still
- 19:03decreed to bring forth the son of his right hand to secure your
- 19:05pardon. What if God is using the very
- 19:07things you view as your greatest ruins to display the absolute
- 19:11necessity of His grace? That is a stunning reality to
- 19:15consider. It is, and that is the truth we
- 19:17leave you with today. Thank you for joining us for
- 19:20this deep dive into the Word. Keep resting in the sovereignty
- 19:23of God.