Latest / Future Christian / Deconstruction Isn’t Discipleship: Tara Beth Leach on Rebuilding Faith and the Church
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- 0:07>> Loren Richmond: Welcome to the Future Christian Podcast, your
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- 0:37you need for impactful ministry. And now for a
- 0:39little bit about the guest for this episode.
- 0:44>> Martha Tatarnic: Welcome to the Future Christian Podcast. Today,
- 0:47Loren Richmond Jr. Is in conversation with
- 0:50Tarabeth Leach. Tarabeth is a pastor, preacher of
- 0:54the Word and a writer. She formerly served on
- 0:57staff at Good shepherd as a youth minister and
- 1:01most recently as pastor of Servant Ministry and
- 1:03Missional life at Christ Church of Oak Brook.
- 1:07Pastor Terabeth is the author of Emboldened
- 1:10radiant church and 40 days on being a six. Outside
- 1:15of her home church duties. She speaks widely at
- 1:18conferences, retreats and universities, um, across
- 1:21America on church leadership, women in ministry,
- 1:25and the call to be a radiant witness. Tara Beth
- 1:28has two beautiful and rambunctious sons and has
- 1:32been married to the love of her Life, Jack, since
- 1:342006. A reminder, before we start today's
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- 2:00episodes. We appreciate your voice and how we
- 2:03faithfully discern the future of the church.
- 2:15>> Loren: Hello and welcome to the Future Christian Podcast.
- 2:18This is Loren Richmond Jr. You and today I'm
- 2:20pleased to be joined by Tarabeth Leach. Hello and
- 2:23welcome to the show.
- 2:24>> Speaker D: Hey, thanks for having me, Loren.
- 2:25>> Loren: Yeah, thanks for being here. Is there anything
- 2:27else you'd like our guests to know about you?
- 2:29>> Speaker D: Oh, goodness. Uh, I'm a mom of two boys, Caleb and
- 2:34Noah. They're 13 and 15 years old. Been married
- 2:37for almost 20 years and for fun, I ride horses.
- 2:43>> Loren: Wow, that is a fun fact. Yeah, fun fact. Uh,
- 2:48what's a good horse question I could ask you then,
- 2:50like, what's your favorite? I don't know, kind of
- 2:53horse riding? Horse?
- 2:55>> Speaker D: Yeah. Yeah. So I own a 7 year old Dutch warmblood
- 3:00named Sapphire sky and we, uh, compete probably
- 3:06about six times a year in the hunter jumper world,
- 3:08which is we jump courses and get judged off of the
- 3:13jumping and uh, it's a really great outlet for me
- 3:17as a pastor who does not just ministry in a local
- 3:20church setting, but also nationally. And, uh, it
- 3:25is one of the few places that I can go where I am
- 3:28not thinking about work.
- 3:30>> Loren: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Good stuff.
- 3:33Uh, share, if you would, a little bit about your
- 3:35faith journey, what that's looked like in the past
- 3:37and what that looks like today.
- 3:39>> Speaker D: Yeah. So I grew up in a cultural Christian family
- 3:43where we went to church a few times a year. You
- 3:45know, the important days, Christmas and Easter and
- 3:49throwing a Mother's Day there. And around, uh, my
- 3:54sophomore year of high school, I started attending
- 3:56a campus life outreach, uh, through Youth for
- 3:59Christ. And it was there that, uh, Jesus, really,
- 4:04I. I became more aware of the grace of God and
- 4:08Jesus and Scripture, and I started reading my
- 4:11Bible regularly. And it was while I was reading
- 4:14the Gospel of Luke that everything really began to
- 4:16make sense. And while reading the Gospel of Luke,
- 4:19I got down on my knees next to my bed weeping. And
- 4:21just the only words that could come out of my
- 4:23mouth were, thank you, Jesus. Thank you, Jesus.
- 4:26Thank you, Jesus. Not long after that, God called
- 4:29me into ministry, though I had no idea what that
- 4:32meant or what that looked like. This was the 90s
- 4:35when I had no examples of women in ministry except
- 4:38for Mother Teresa. So I thought, oh, my goodness,
- 4:41does that mean I have to become a nun? But I
- 4:45didn't allow that to really hinder me. I really
- 4:48was pretty driven towards ministry since the late
- 4:5190s as a teenager and never looked back, never
- 4:55considered anything else. And went to Olivet
- 4:58Nazarene University, studied youth ministry, was
- 5:00in youth ministry for a long time, and, you know,
- 5:04did a number of different roles within the church.
- 5:06And now I serve as a senior pastor at Good
- 5:09Shepherd Church in Naperville, Illinois, which is
- 5:12just west of Chicago.
- 5:16>> Loren: Awesome. I appreciate you sharing all that.
- 5:18What are some spiritual practices that you found
- 5:20meaningful or that you're willing to share?
- 5:24>> Speaker D: Yeah. So for me, morning prayer is one of the most
- 5:28sustaining things. Uh, my husband and I, we rise
- 5:32early in the morning together and we practice, uh,
- 5:37uh, just a prayer practice that we call the great
- 5:39morning, which, uh, great is an acronym that
- 5:43stands for gratitude, reflection, exaltation,
- 5:46asking, and trusting. And so those are very
- 5:50sustaining rhythms for us in our relationship with
- 5:52the Lord, but also even for one another, because
- 5:55we find that's just our greatest time to connect
- 5:58also with one another as we're connecting with
- 6:01God. And for. For both of us, you know, that
- 6:04morning hour, while our minds are still a blank
- 6:07canvas, his mercies are new in the morning. Being
- 6:09able to offer up our first fruits to the Lord in
- 6:11the morning. Is. It is. I mean, it feels like a
- 6:15matter of life or death for us. Like that's how
- 6:17important those morning practices are for us.
- 6:20>> Loren: Yeah. Yeah, that's good. Thanks for sharing that.
- 6:22So give me that G R E A T again.
- 6:25>> Speaker D: Yeah. Gratitude, reflection, exaltation, asking
- 6:29and trusting. And if anyone wants to learn more
- 6:31about it, I, uh, just released a book called the
- 6:33Great Morning Revolution that is out at your. Any
- 6:37online favorite book reteller.
- 6:39>> Loren: Okay, yeah, absolutely. Let's, uh, I'll make sure
- 6:41I see book in the show notes. Make sure to have a
- 6:45link in the show notes for you.
- 6:49So, Tara, you're one of the, one of the few guests
- 6:52where I feel like I know nothing about you because
- 6:54most guests I have on the show tend to be authors
- 6:57and you're just someone like, I think is going to
- 7:00become more and more the trend who I've found
- 7:02you're writing on Substack and love what you had
- 7:04to say. Really appreciate what you had to say. And
- 7:07today we're going to be kind of talking about a
- 7:10post you made on Substack called When the Wounded
- 7:13Take the Mic. And, uh, it's a conversation that
- 7:16I've been, I suppose, less gracious and thoughtful
- 7:21as you were in your writing. And certainly a trend
- 7:26that I've seen again and again, if only because,
- 7:28like, I feel like I get so many books sent to me
- 7:31that are like, deconstruction based and I'm kind
- 7:33of like, maybe it's because I'm getting older or
- 7:36impatient or whatever, but I feel like I'm getting
- 7:39worn out of this kind of deconstruction thing. Um,
- 7:43so, uh, you're. You're still like, you are. You're
- 7:46in front of people every, every day, every week.
- 7:48You're in church ministry. Like, what is, what are
- 7:52you seeing when it like, is deconstruction as big
- 7:55a thing, I guess to start off, like, as we tend to
- 7:57think it is online?
- 8:00>> Speaker D: No, not locally. Uh, I mean, I believe me, the
- 8:04church that I serve, we do attract a lot of young
- 8:09people, particularly, um, within this kind of
- 8:14church hurt world. We do attract a lot of
- 8:16millennials who are kind of dismantling some of
- 8:21their kind of maybe evangelical systems that they
- 8:26have come to realize maybe is not the framework of
- 8:30Christianity or the telos of Christianity. And so
- 8:32we do kind of attract a lot of those. And I think
- 8:35maybe because we're a sacramental church and, um,
- 8:39you know, maybe. Yeah, I don't know. We do attract
- 8:41A lot of those. But the deconstruction that we're
- 8:43seeing online is very different. And I think it's
- 8:45because it's been monetized and it's because it's
- 8:49become its own little cottage industry. It's
- 8:52become, uh, something that people can, can write
- 8:57books off of and listen like that. Like, I have no
- 9:00problems with authors. Um, I've written several
- 9:04myself and I'm grateful for the opportunities that
- 9:08I have with that. And so it's not that it's that
- 9:12it's writing books that is a problem. It's that
- 9:16the motivation, I think, um, for continuing to
- 9:19deconstruct is because it has become monetized and
- 9:23people have created a, a whole, entire identity
- 9:26with it. And it is causing incredible, I believe,
- 9:30damage to Christians who are maybe freshly wounded
- 9:38and it's maybe striking a chord. And um, I think
- 9:44that it's oftentimes a deconstruction without
- 9:48hope. I think to a degree that every Christian
- 9:53needs to go through some sort of form of
- 9:55deconstruction, you know, uh, of maybe things that
- 10:00we once imagined about scripture or believed or
- 10:04were taught about scripture. Um, because when
- 10:07we're young, like we see things really black and
- 10:09white and so we're going to be taught scripture in
- 10:12a way that is simple. And one of the things that
- 10:15I'm so concerned about is, um, what ends up
- 10:19happening is I see people then turning like angry,
- 10:26like at the church because maybe they were taught
- 10:29something that was simpler. But I, uh, wonder if
- 10:32they weren't quite ready for it. But I think that
- 10:36deconstruction to a degree is important. My
- 10:38concern is when it becomes monetized and then they
- 10:43begin taking people with them.
- 10:45>> Loren: Yeah.
- 10:45So one of the things you write about is this idea
- 10:48to caution that people are making or mistaking
- 10:52deconstruction for discipleship. And I think it
- 10:54certainly gets at to what you're saying, like this
- 10:58idea that like the faithful thing to do is always
- 11:01to deconstruct. And I think you kind of named that
- 11:04point. Like there's, in some ways we do need to
- 11:07like make faith our own. Um, we do need to
- 11:10understand like the simplistic probably things
- 11:13that we were taught as five year olds. There's
- 11:17more complicated or complexity I suppose than
- 11:19that. So how do you discern or differentiate
- 11:24between this idea of like, what is discipleship? A
- 11:29real healthy kind of like making faith your own
- 11:32versus just like a pure deconstruction?
- 11:35>> Speaker D: Yeah, Well, I think part of making faith your own
- 11:39is being able to reconstruct something New, uh,
- 11:45rather than just dismantling, because oftentimes
- 11:48this dismantling becomes a spiraling without end.
- 11:52And, you know, I think if we can begin with.
- 11:55Because a lot of people who are deconstructing
- 11:56will say, okay, Jesus, Jesus is really great.
- 12:00Like, I really love Jesus and love this. You know,
- 12:03I love the Sermon on the Mount and I love the
- 12:05teachings of Jesus. And so if we're going to
- 12:09deconstruct, we at least have to begin there. And
- 12:11we have to then ask ourselves, well, what are the
- 12:15things that Jesus cared about? What was Jesus
- 12:17vision for the church? What was, uh, Jesus's
- 12:20theological framework for the disciple? And we can
- 12:24begin to build there. And I think that, I mean,
- 12:28and I. And I think that there are a lot of
- 12:29churches that are living that out and are calling
- 12:31people to live that out and, uh, with great amount
- 12:34of fear and trembling as both sinner and
- 12:36simultaneously saint. And, um, and I also think
- 12:42that, uh, if we can. If we can begin with the
- 12:46premise that Jesus loves the church and Jesus
- 12:50believes in the church, and Jesus still believes
- 12:52in this project called the church, then ought we
- 12:58not to also believe in the project of the church?
- 13:01>> Loren: Yeah. Yeah.
- 13:03I'm curious because I suppose this is kind of
- 13:06getting off track from what I really wanted to ask
- 13:09you, but these are how these conversations always
- 13:11tend to go. So I'm curious, like, do you think
- 13:15part of it stems from, I don't know if you're
- 13:19familiar with the, uh, author of Theologian Nandra
- 13:22Root, who works out of the Charles Taylor idea of
- 13:26the imminent frame?
- 13:27>> Speaker D: Yep.
- 13:29>> Loren: This idea, like, um, when we've kind of
- 13:33deconstructed Christianity, we've kind of limited
- 13:37faith to the imminent frame. So we're cool with
- 13:40the idea of Jesus being like a moral teacher or,
- 13:43uh, a social activist or an inspiring guy. Uh, so
- 13:50that has practical implications. But in my
- 13:53opinion, it tends to always lead to, like, I don't
- 13:56really need church. And I wonder, have you seen
- 13:59the same? Do you feel the same? What are your
- 14:00thoughts there?
- 14:02>> Speaker D: Yeah, I have certainly seen the same, um,
- 14:04primarily with millennials and younger Gen X. Uh,
- 14:09Gen Z, we are not seeing that at all. Um, Gen Z is
- 14:13not even aware of the conversation on
- 14:16deconstruction. Uh, Gen Z is, um, hungry for
- 14:23something real. And what's amazing also about what
- 14:27I'm seeing with Gen Z is they are a pretty blank
- 14:30slate. Um, they know that they're hungry for
- 14:34Jesus. They know that they want to be part of the
- 14:38church. They know that they want to be engaged and
- 14:39active and involved in the church, and they just
- 14:43do not have the same kind of baggage that
- 14:45millennials have.
- 14:48>> Loren: So this leads me again to another question. I just
- 14:51finished reading the Anxious Generation Jonathan
- 14:54Haidt because my daughter's middle school was
- 14:55given away and I had to. How to read a free book.
- 14:58But, uh, what struck me about, like, it was like,
- 15:00to me, like, it was just like a moral panic book
- 15:04and this kind of like, obsession with behavior
- 15:06modification. And it. What struck me, and I'm
- 15:09curious again, your thoughts here, like,
- 15:10especially around Gen Z, is like. Like Gen Z and
- 15:14younger kids, like, they're. They're neat. They're
- 15:16hungry for purpose, they're hungry for meaning.
- 15:18>> Speaker D: Yes.
- 15:20>> Loren: Yeah.
- 15:20>> Speaker D: And they're hungry for an embodied experience.
- 15:23>> Loren: Yeah.
- 15:24>> Speaker D: Uh, I mean, it's incredible. Our church is. We
- 15:27have just been seeing new, fresh, young Gen Z
- 15:30people every single week. And I'm just like, where
- 15:33are y' all coming from? Like, how'd you hear about
- 15:35us? And, you know, they are just so craving
- 15:39community. They are so craving, uh, spirituality
- 15:43and meaning and purpose. And I think it's because
- 15:47they've grown up on devices and they are ready for
- 15:54an embodied, communal, experiential faith.
- 16:00>> Loren: Yeah. Everything that social media is not. Right.
- 16:04So I want to go kind of go back to this idea of,
- 16:06like, this deconstruction of this reimagination of
- 16:11what faith looks like, which I think when we've
- 16:13kind of taken out, like, the transcendent, there's
- 16:16this idea, at least, as I see, and I'm curious,
- 16:18your thoughts here, that like, really,
- 16:20faithfulness really just comes down simply, like
- 16:24political activism. Like, how do you navigate
- 16:28that? Because I'm thinking of. And again, like, I
- 16:31want to respect your. Your boundaries here because
- 16:33this was such a controversial topic, but
- 16:35certainly, I think we saw that, what, in the
- 16:38summer at the. The awful killing of Charlie Kirk.
- 16:41Right. This idea that, like, he was lifted up as a
- 16:43martyr in some circuses, some. Some contexts.
- 16:47Certainly I don't want to, like, diminish it all.
- 16:49Like, apparently a strong and vibrant faith within
- 16:52him and the absolute awfulness and tragedy of this
- 16:55young man's life being taken. Um, but it was
- 16:58startling to me, as someone not really running in
- 17:01those circles, how much he was lifted up as a. As
- 17:05a religious martyr figure.
- 17:07>> Speaker D: Mhm. Mhm. Absolutely. And I think even more. That
- 17:13was incredibly concerning. And even more
- 17:15concerning was just the even heightened, um,
- 17:20response, um, with, well, to Christian
- 17:25nationalism, um, Christian nationalism became more
- 17:29normalized within Christian spaces and more
- 17:32embraced, and the church became more polarized.
- 17:37And when, I mean, Church, I mean Big C church, the
- 17:40church across America became even more polarized
- 17:42around this. And um, I didn't know who Charlie
- 17:48Kirk was. Uh, I'd heard of Turning Point usa,
- 17:52maybe heard of Charlie Kirk. I had not listened to
- 17:54him. And uh, it was absolutely wild to me once I
- 18:00started to dig into some of his stuff as to that
- 18:03he was seen as a Christian martyr. Um, he was
- 18:07assassinated wrongly. Um, but the ways that he
- 18:12became a figurehead for many Christians was uh,
- 18:16wildly concerned concerning to me.
- 18:18>> Loren: Yeah.
- 18:20So I think this gets into something else you wrote
- 18:22in your substack. This idea that like we need, we
- 18:27don't need to be. Let me get this right. You say
- 18:31that we don't need to be louder, we need to be
- 18:33truer. And I suppose I shouldn't like, I don't
- 18:38want to just criticize like a person who's
- 18:41deceased here, but that certainly, like there's
- 18:43been those kind of people who, of all stripes who
- 18:47are, I feel like just obsessed with yelling at the
- 18:49other side, those we disagree with.
- 18:52>> Speaker D: Mhm.
- 18:52>> Loren: Yeah.
- 18:53>> Speaker D: Because politics has become idolatrous. Um,
- 18:58they're willing to lose family members over it.
- 19:00They're willing, uh, to cause damage, uh, to
- 19:04relationships over it. And um, I think that when
- 19:09we are living for something to that degree, uh, is
- 19:14when it becomes idolatrous. And in particular
- 19:17parts of partisan politics is what has become
- 19:20idolatry. It's uh, not just politics in general,
- 19:23although I do think some people are pretty
- 19:25obsessed with politics in general. But I think
- 19:27what we're seeing is the idolatry of partisan
- 19:30politics.
- 19:31>> Loren: Yeah, I wrote a subset to that point a while back.
- 19:35I think on the same wavelength, this idea
- 19:38certainly I, uh, think it'd be foolish or even
- 19:41unfaithful to suggest that Christianity and
- 19:43Christians should have nothing to do with
- 19:46politics, which as its basic sense is how we
- 19:49enter, interact with one another in society.
- 19:50Right. But I think there has become this, I think
- 19:53you say it well, like this idolatrousness of like
- 19:56what it means to be a faithful Christian is to, in
- 19:59some circles to vote Republican, in some circles
- 20:01to vote Democratic. And I mean again, I, my
- 20:06thought is I kind of bang the same drum all the
- 20:09time. It's this like this loss of sense of
- 20:12transcendency of faith that like that really, it's
- 20:16in God's hands. And I know that can be trite and,
- 20:20and you know, almost in some ways.
- 20:23>> Speaker D: Yeah, go ahead. And I also think that there's,
- 20:25there is a belief that the kingdom of God can
- 20:30somehow be legislated.
- 20:31>> Loren: Yeah.
- 20:32>> Speaker D: That the kingdom of God can be um, enacted through
- 20:38a political leader. And I think that's just an
- 20:42incredibly dangerous view and framework to have
- 20:46among Christians.
- 20:48>> Loren: Yeah. Really good stuff. Sorry to write that down.
- 20:55I feel like we're all over the place. So, um, I'm
- 20:57hoping this is making sense to our listeners.
- 21:00I do want to ask you. Right. About fresh wounds
- 21:03making terrible teachers. And maybe, maybe this is
- 21:07too harsh of a judgment on my end, but I feel like
- 21:11in the last decade there's been this idea like the
- 21:15ones who are the most wounded, like are the most.
- 21:20I'm not sure how to say this right. Like they're
- 21:23the most, um, they have the most offered. I want
- 21:27to, I don't want to like dismiss or disregard like
- 21:32challenges and suffering, like have a lot to teach
- 21:34us in life. Uh, you write that healed scars can
- 21:38bear witness. So certainly, like challenges and
- 21:40suffering in life have a lot to teach us. Like I'm
- 21:42thinking. I don't know if you've seen this quote
- 21:44before from Nadia Bolt Weber. She always talked
- 21:47about like preaching from her scars, not her
- 21:49wounds. And my sense is. And tell me if I'm wrong
- 21:55here or I'm m. Misinterpreting this. Like we've,
- 21:58we've elevated like people who are just wounded
- 22:00and they're spitting out from their trauma to use
- 22:03a word rather than wisdom from learning from their
- 22:07scars.
- 22:08>> Speaker D: Mhm. Mhm. Yeah, for sure. And oftentimes it's
- 22:11unprocessed pain. And uh, oftentimes they're
- 22:15taking the mic as a form of therapy without any
- 22:20sort of self awareness of how that is shaping and
- 22:24forming the people that are around them. You know,
- 22:27you think about one of the things I ended up
- 22:28taking out of the article because it was just
- 22:29getting way too long. I have a problem of being
- 22:32way too long winded on substack.
- 22:35Uh, but is I had a bit in there about family
- 22:38systems theory.
- 22:39>> Loren: Yeah.
- 22:40>> Speaker D: Because I think family systems theory, um, is an
- 22:43interesting thing to think about in this
- 22:45conversation. You know, the idea of family systems
- 22:47theory is that uh, if one person uh, is angry,
- 22:52they can often, if they're unhealthy, often look
- 22:56for the other people in the community to match
- 22:57their anger. And others are afraid to say, you
- 23:01know, maybe, um, there's a different way to look
- 23:04at this. And so there's. There's a feeling of
- 23:07unsafety, that if you don't match that person's
- 23:09anger, then you're not empathetic, that you're not
- 23:11caring that you're. And so what we see is we see
- 23:15this incredible contagion of anger happening in
- 23:18culture. And, um, this is bleeding out into call
- 23:21out culture and cancel culture, which I often say,
- 23:24like, a lot of people think they're being
- 23:25prophetic. I often feel like, um, call out culture
- 23:30and cancel culture has hijacked the prophetic
- 23:32voice. Um, people think they're being prophetic,
- 23:35but I actually think that oftentimes they are
- 23:37being more shaped and formed by call out and
- 23:38cancel culture. And again, a lot of this goes
- 23:41into, uh, an incredible binary way of thinking
- 23:46that there's always a victim and there's always a
- 23:47villain, and there's no nuance to that. And, um,
- 23:52that it's either evil or it's either all good.
- 23:56And, uh, we've lost the inability to think through
- 23:58the nuance, uh, because we're just so obsessed
- 24:01with a clean binary way of thinking. And so in
- 24:04family systems theory, if one person has hurt and
- 24:07they're loud and they expect others to match their
- 24:09anger, well, that, that's contagious. And I think
- 24:11that's what we're seeing happening on a really
- 24:12large scale on platforms, on podcasts. Um, and
- 24:16it's spreading and it's. It is malforming our
- 24:19culture.
- 24:21>> Loren: Obviously, some of this is like we talked about
- 24:23with Jonathan Haidt book, with what you talked
- 24:25about about deconstruction being monetized. Like,
- 24:28the algorithms, like, they reward this kind of
- 24:30thing. Like they reward the anger and the vitriol
- 24:33and the canceling and the call outs and
- 24:35everything. Like that gets. That gets promoted.
- 24:39Like, these are the times, like, I'm thankful.
- 24:42Like, in the height of, like, in the height of
- 24:49like 2021, 2022, or at least 24 election. I'll say
- 24:53like the height of the 2024 election season. Like,
- 24:55I was not leading a church. Um, so, like, I. I
- 25:00can't imagine, like, having to navigate some of
- 25:02these spaces. And I even remember, like in. In
- 25:052020 when I navigating Covid and some of the
- 25:09things, um, among some of my staff who I was
- 25:12leading around, like, the challenges of, like,
- 25:14hey, we don't have to say anything about
- 25:17everything or everything about anything. I mean,
- 25:21m. How do you even. Like, this is one of the
- 25:23things that's always flummoxed me about pastoral
- 25:25ministry and why I have such high regard for
- 25:31people like you who are like, the leaders in
- 25:34ministry. Like, what. How do you counsel other
- 25:37pastors? How do you navigate these tensions
- 25:40yourself when, like, there is the sense of, like,
- 25:42every Sunday a crisis has happened that week and
- 25:45the pressure is like, I gotta say something.
- 25:48>> Speaker D: Mhm. Yeah. And oftentimes saying something can
- 25:51become pretty polarizing and it can become pretty
- 25:55easy then to create a, um, in the echo chamber
- 26:02kind of church because you, you end up
- 26:04marginalizing thoughts and ways of seeing things,
- 26:09um, for people that might see it differently. Uh,
- 26:14and I listen, I do think that pastors and churches
- 26:17need to respond to things in culture. I think we
- 26:19need to speak into injustices. I think that we
- 26:21need uh, to always side with, with the
- 26:25marginalized and the victimized. And like I'm so,
- 26:28so I'm not like saying, saying that, you know, I'm
- 26:32not saying that, that we ignore the voices of the
- 26:34abused and the hurt. And that's one of the things
- 26:36I kept trying to bring back up in when the wounded
- 26:39take the mic is you know, I'm not saying that um,
- 26:43at the same time if you become a statement church,
- 26:47you're going to become either a red church or a
- 26:51blue church. Like if, because your statements are
- 26:54going to sound um, very uh, one sided. And um, so
- 27:01for me like in the church that I pastor, we don't
- 27:03make statements. What we do do is we give people
- 27:09language to pray through our liturgy. And so I
- 27:12think that, and this is, I wrote about this in one
- 27:14of the substacks is um, uh, pastoral response in a
- 27:19divided age through pastoral subversion. I think
- 27:23that we can subvert um, some of the horrible
- 27:28things happening in our culture, in our world
- 27:30through different kind of practices rather than
- 27:32making a statement. And that can happen in the
- 27:34liturgy, uh, that can happen uh, in smaller
- 27:37settings. Ah, because really what we need, because
- 27:40when we make statements, all we're doing is
- 27:43addressing the tip of the iceberg. And we're not
- 27:46addressing all that has led to this like a really
- 27:49terrible kingdom theology or an idolatry to
- 27:53partisan politics or um, an incredibly um,
- 27:58individualized view of my faith and my
- 28:02Christianity that it's just about what happens
- 28:04between God and I and my salvation is just me and
- 28:07God and someday I'm just going to escape. You
- 28:09know, there's just so many things like beneath the
- 28:10iceberg that have to be addressed. Whereas if all
- 28:13that we do is address the tip of the iceberg,
- 28:16we're just going to polarize the people that are
- 28:18lead, that are, that we are leading. And we're
- 28:20never going to really address the terrible
- 28:23theology that led to this atrocious thing that's
- 28:27happened in culture. And so pastors have got to
- 28:30find more creative and slower ways, uh, to address
- 28:33these Things. So one of the, you know, there's, I
- 28:36mentioned that we do that through liturgy. We also
- 28:37do a school of theology here at the church that I
- 28:40lead on Thursday nights. We, we do three semesters
- 28:42of theology and two hours every Thursday night of
- 28:45teaching. And that is, that is a way for me to get
- 28:48at what, um, is what's happening. But what's the
- 28:51thing beneath the thing, right, that's, that's
- 28:53leading to these horrible things happening in our
- 28:55world. Because we've got to dismantle that. And I
- 28:59do think there needs to be a dismantling. One of
- 29:02the things that I often talk about, and this is
- 29:04kind of a heady freight or a meaty phrase, is the
- 29:09work that churches and pastors need to do is we
- 29:11need to do the work of dismantling the demonic
- 29:14malformation of the Christian imagination.
- 29:16>> Loren: Love it.
- 29:19>> Speaker D: And it's demonic, all right. Because we see it in
- 29:22the ways that people are reacting and the vitriol
- 29:25and uh, and we've got to dismantle that before we
- 29:30can really even get to the tip of the iceberg.
- 29:33>> Loren: Okay, give that to me again so I can write it
- 29:35down. Dismantle the demonic.
- 29:38>> Speaker D: Dismantle the demonic malformation of the
- 29:40Christian imagination.
- 29:46>> Loren: You know, as you're talking here and I'm writing,
- 29:49I'm thinking of, since we've already mentioned
- 29:51him, uh, Nandra. And I think it's the, I don't
- 29:54know if you read the congregation in the secular
- 29:55age.
- 29:56>> Speaker D: It's been a long time, but yeah.
- 29:57>> Loren: The speed of time, this sense that like, we just
- 30:00gotta keep. And I think there's so much here that
- 30:02we're talking about this kind of like keeping
- 30:05pace, keeping up, um, where if I'm hearing you
- 30:09like this theology, the school of theology, I
- 30:11mean, that sounds just like so counterintuitive to
- 30:14what we're all trained to do in pastoral ministry.
- 30:16Like, it doesn't sound hip, it doesn't sound
- 30:18relevant, it doesn't sound cool at all. Like a two
- 30:20hour commitment on a weeknight. Like, who's got
- 30:22time for that?
- 30:23>> Speaker D: Mhm. And we give them homework and it's in a
- 30:26church basement with bad church coffee. But man,
- 30:30it's incredible. It's one of my favorite things
- 30:33that I'm seeing happening in our congregation
- 30:35because it's just absolutely incredible what's
- 30:36happening, uh, in these two hours every week.
- 30:41>> Loren: Yeah, I mean, that's really, uh, incredible. And
- 30:44I'm just thinking about again, how do we shift
- 30:48this from just trying to respond badly to culture,
- 30:53to grounding people in faith and theology. So I
- 30:58love that idea. I'm, uh, thinking too of.
- 31:01You talked about liturgy as kind of equipping
- 31:04people. You talked about your school of theology
- 31:06as equipping people. I'm wondering how do you
- 31:10frame sermons or messages to really try to.
- 31:17>> Speaker D: To.
- 31:17>> Loren: Leave room for the Spirit? I mean, I'm a part of a
- 31:20preaching cohort now and one of the things that
- 31:22the leader talks about is like to leave out the
- 31:24lettuce sermons. Like, let us, let us go and do X,
- 31:28Y and Z. Um, because obviously I believe and you
- 31:32can correct me for if, if I'm wrong here. You feel
- 31:34like you want to try to say something, but also
- 31:37don't be too prescriptive. So how, how do you, uh,
- 31:41how do you try to, how do you try to balance that?
- 31:44>> Speaker D: Yeah, well, first of all, I think that preachers
- 31:46need to be really, really, really aware of the
- 31:49language that we are using. Um, people are looking
- 31:54for the gotchas. They're looking for, you know,
- 31:57the phrases, the words that we're saying where
- 31:59they can try to categorize where we might be
- 32:02politically. And, um, we've also got to train our
- 32:06people to think and non binary ways. Um, because
- 32:13oftentimes, like if we say something, people
- 32:15think, well, if you're saying that, then you must
- 32:17not be this. Um, but oftentimes many things can be
- 32:21true at the same time. And so, um, if we can stay
- 32:27in the nuance and very particular issues while
- 32:31also leaving room for the spirit while also not
- 32:34trying to say, okay, here's now your marching
- 32:36orders and here's your next three points that you
- 32:38need to do. Uh, I think, think that that can
- 32:42happen through a plate, through landing the sermon
- 32:46in a way where it causes the listener to walk away
- 32:49asking themselves a question. Yes, right. Um,
- 32:54where they're pondering. Okay, so what does this
- 32:57mean for me? What does it mean for me to move
- 33:00forward in faith in this kind of way? Uh, so that
- 33:04way the Holy Spirit can then begin to do that
- 33:06work.
- 33:07>> Loren: Yeah, yeah, I love that.
- 33:10When we're thinking about speaking well,
- 33:14communicating well, this, this gets back to
- 33:16something that came up in your substack. And I
- 33:18want to, want to talk about, you know, this in
- 33:21this age of, like you said, virality or gotcha
- 33:24clicks, like when it feels like people are
- 33:27crafting sermons to, to really just have a bunch
- 33:31of good, like clips, uh, for social media. Like,
- 33:35how do we, how do we ensure that we're promoting
- 33:39character rather than charisma? Like, this is,
- 33:42this is one of the things that drives me crazy,
- 33:45frankly, in ministry. This, this platforming of.
- 33:48Of charisma rather than character.
- 33:54>> Speaker D: Yeah, that's a great question. How do we do that?
- 33:58Um, well, I think it's gotta begin with modeling,
- 34:02right? Like who. Who are the. Who are the
- 34:04exemplars that were lifting up in our sermons? And
- 34:08you know, oftentimes the exemplars that we're
- 34:11lifting up in our sermons are those with. With the
- 34:14charisma. They're those who are the larger than
- 34:16life personalities. And, and oftentimes they're
- 34:20usually men. Um, and I think that, you know, one
- 34:26way that we can subvert that is in our preaching.
- 34:31And also, who or what are we celebrating? Right.
- 34:36I, um, mean, unfortunately, at conferences we are
- 34:40platforming the people who have the charisma, who
- 34:43have the platform, who have the notoriety. And
- 34:47then I think even we as pastors are being shaped
- 34:49and formed that. And we're tempted then also to
- 34:52platforms form those voices to the people that
- 34:54we're leading. But how might we instead begin to
- 35:00amplify the voices of maybe people who aren't very
- 35:04well known, but are living out the gospel with
- 35:08boots on the ground, not in the auditoriums, not
- 35:12in the platforms, but in their everyday, ordinary
- 35:15neighborhoods?
- 35:16>> Loren: Yeah. Yeah, absolutely.
- 35:18I do want to ask you one more question before we
- 35:20take a break here. You talked about, you know, so
- 35:23often in the ministry we elevate the men. Uh,
- 35:26certainly. Certainly ministry, historically
- 35:31speaking, at least in America, has been dominated
- 35:33by men. What is something that you'd like to lift
- 35:37up, if I can ask you. So, like, as a woman in
- 35:40leadership, as a woman in ministry, that men, uh,
- 35:43especially like myself, could do a better job of
- 35:45encouraging women in ministry or supporting maybe
- 35:48a better way to say it.
- 35:50>> Speaker D: Yeah. So I think a huge thing is, um, we often
- 35:54will call out people, um, who look like us.
- 35:59Meaning, like, if we see potential in someone,
- 36:03potential, ah, to preach or lead, uh, we look for
- 36:06people that look like us. And so one of the many
- 36:10reasons why we're, you know, see more, um, of the
- 36:15voices that are in ministry and in leading
- 36:17churches today are men, is because men tend to
- 36:20call out men, um, and to mentor them and to, um,
- 36:27lift up their gifts and to tell them that they see
- 36:30something in them in a ministry. And so one thing
- 36:33that men, m. In leadership could do would look
- 36:36out, seek out those gifts in women as well.
- 36:38They're there, um, for as many men as there are
- 36:42with gifts to lead and to teach and preach, there
- 36:45are also as many women to lead and to teach and to
- 36:48preach.
- 36:48>> Loren: Yeah. Awesome. Well, thanks for sharing that. Um,
- 36:52let's take a quick break and we'll come back with
- 36:54some closing questions.
- 36:59All right. We're back with Tara Beth Leach. Really
- 37:01appreciate the conversation here. So some closing
- 37:04questions. You're welcome to take these as
- 37:06seriously or not as you'd like to. Okay, so first
- 37:09question. If you're Pope for a day, uh, what might
- 37:13that day look like for you?
- 37:14>> Speaker D: Oh, if I were Pope for a day, what might that day
- 37:17look like for me? I think that I. I would
- 37:24absolutely preach a biblical theology for women in
- 37:28ministry.
- 37:29>> Loren: Love it. Love it.
- 37:31>> Speaker D: And advocate for women in ministry.
- 37:33>> Loren: I guess there was something. I just saw something
- 37:36that there's. Supposedly there's some movement on.
- 37:38And again, I don't mean this question to always
- 37:40be, like, specific to Catholicism, but I guess
- 37:43there was something recently I saw about some
- 37:46movement toward married priests, but still nothing
- 37:49towards female, uh, priests. Yeah, yeah, we gotta
- 37:52get you. We gotta get you there for days.
- 37:54>> Speaker D: Yeah.
- 37:55>> Loren: To do that, um, a theologian or historical
- 37:58Christian figure you'd want to meet or bring back
- 38:00to life.
- 38:02>> Speaker D: M. I would love to meet Christopher Wright.
- 38:07Christopher J.H. wright. He is an Old Testament
- 38:10theologian, biblical theologian, and he has so
- 38:14transformed, um, my thinking and understanding of
- 38:17the Old Testament and really enlivened just a
- 38:20passion of me through the years for Covenant
- 38:22theology and missional theology.
- 38:24>> Loren: Interesting. I'm not familiar. I'll have to check
- 38:26him out. What do you think history will remember
- 38:30from our current time and place?
- 38:33>> Speaker D: I think history is going to remember how divided,
- 38:38uh, and angry we are.
- 38:42>> Loren: Yeah. What are your hopes for the future of
- 38:46Christianity?
- 38:48>> Speaker D: My m. Hopes is for a genuine Holy Spirit renewal
- 38:53and revival of the church. The kind of revival
- 38:57that is unifying, that impacts the culture around
- 39:01her, and, uh, not just an emotive one, but one
- 39:06that transforms and changes lives and raises up a
- 39:09new generation of Christian leaders for impact.
- 39:12>> Loren: Yeah. Awesome. I hope so, man. I hope so. Like,
- 39:16uh, it seems like. And I'm getting off track here,
- 39:18like, I suppose, like there is some, like, legit
- 39:21data, it seems like, coming out around. So I
- 39:25imagine, like, you just. Just pray that. Pray that
- 39:27hearts would be open, I guess, right?
- 39:29>> Speaker D: Yeah, yeah.
- 39:30>> Loren: Pray for the Spirit's spirit, uh, to move and our
- 39:33heart to be open. Share if you would. If, uh,
- 39:36anything you want us about, say, about, um, your
- 39:39book, your substack, how folks can get in touch
- 39:42with you, check you out, any of that stuff.
- 39:45>> Speaker D: Yeah, I'm on substack. It's just Terabeth Leach
- 39:47Um, so you can find me there a number of books on
- 39:52Amazon. If you just do a quick Google you can find
- 39:54them there. Ah, anything from women in ministry to
- 39:59books about the church to uh, morning prayer
- 40:02routine.
- 40:03>> Loren: Awesome. Awesome. Well, I really appreciate your
- 40:05time. We always leave folks with a word of peace.
- 40:08So may God's peace be be with.
- 40:09>> Speaker D: You and also with you.
- 40:18>> Loren Richmond: Thanks for joining us on the Future Christian
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