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Almost Famous OG: The Golden Happy Couple with Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. Hi everybody,
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  Speaker 1: this is Trista with the almost Famous OJI podcast. And
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  Speaker 1: unfortunately Bob can't be here today, but I had to
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  Speaker 1: take the reins because I could not, of course, allow
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  Speaker 1: for this interview to not happen with Joan and Chalk.
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  Speaker 1: Hi guys, congratulations.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so excited. I mean, I of course have talked
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  Speaker 1: to Joan, but Hi Chalk, it's so nice to meet
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  Speaker 1: you officially. Oh well, right back at you. Welcome officially,
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  Speaker 1: not officially, because you've been part of it for you know,
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  Speaker 1: however long you guys were filming. But to our big
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  Speaker 1: crazy Bachelor Nation family, I love having you as part
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  Speaker 1: of it.
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  Speaker 2: He's a great addition, let me tell you.
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  Speaker 1: He is a great addition. Oh my gosh, are you
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  Speaker 1: guys having so much fun today?
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  Speaker 3: We are?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well, you know, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 4: we're hopping on a plane and going to New York.
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  Speaker 4: So this has been a great The press store has
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  Speaker 4: been a may and we've talked to everybody. We're so
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  Speaker 4: happy to be on with you because you and I
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  Speaker 4: go way back. But the rest of this weekend is
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  Speaker 4: just about us having fun.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So how is it going. How has it been
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  Speaker 1: being out in public for the first time. I guess
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  Speaker 1: you've had a couple days now, how is it? How
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  Speaker 1: is it? How's it going?
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  Speaker 5: It's a complete different lifestyle than what I was ever expecting.
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  Speaker 5: After the finale, we came, they moved us to a
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  Speaker 5: new hotel, and Jon's getting out of the vehicle and
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  Speaker 5: these two ladies go.
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  Speaker 3: I know who you are.
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  Speaker 2: We're fans.
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  Speaker 3: We're fans, so uh.
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  Speaker 5: It's actually great to just get on with our What
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  Speaker 5: we want is a normal life and you probably went
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  Speaker 5: through that as well. But we're you know, We're want
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  Speaker 5: to spend time with family, we want to go out
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  Speaker 5: to dinner, we want to.
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  Speaker 4: Just the first time ever, we rode in a car
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  Speaker 4: together yesterday and we did a lot of press yesterday.
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  Speaker 4: So like last night was the first time we were
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  Speaker 4: really kind of out together and we went out to dinner.
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  Speaker 4: We just had a normal dinner with some of his
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  Speaker 4: friends that were in town for the finale. And like
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  Speaker 4: today we're going to get on an airplane together and
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  Speaker 4: like actually be able to be on the same airplane
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  Speaker 4: and maybe even sit together. I'll probably fall asleep on
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  Speaker 4: his shoulder. We have a long ride to New York City.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I love it. And are you guys going apartment
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  Speaker 1: shopping or condo shopping or house shopping or yes?
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  Speaker 3: On Monday, Joan has it?
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  Speaker 1: You love it?
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  Speaker 2: Snilter Monday.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're just gonna enjoy the weekend and then Monday
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  Speaker 4: we're gonna get to work and see what we can find.
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  Speaker 1: I am so excited for you. I know when we talked, Joan,
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  Speaker 1: you were so excited to be able to start your
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  Speaker 1: life together. And this is amazing. I'm I'm just so
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  Speaker 1: happy for you. And of course I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you did you watch the episode talk as it was
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  Speaker 1: happening episode this season, the whole season. Did you watch
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  Speaker 1: the season?
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  Speaker 5: We did watch it, well, we watched together. One we
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  Speaker 5: watched the disney Land and after Disneyland it was all over.
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  Speaker 3: It didn't make any.
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  Speaker 2: Different Tay together.
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  Speaker 4: But the other day the other the rest of it
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  Speaker 4: watched on his own. Yes, And I would talk to
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  Speaker 4: him using them, like what did you think? Because it's
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  Speaker 4: hard to watch, you know, me date other people. But
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  Speaker 4: he's always been like super confident, so we never had
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  Speaker 4: any problems. But we got to watch the Disneyland date together,
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  Speaker 4: which was really fun because whoever gets to watch like
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  Speaker 4: their first date unfold in front of them and watch
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  Speaker 4: it on tay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true. So, Chuck, I don't know if you
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  Speaker 1: know my history, but I met my husband Ryan on
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  Speaker 1: the show, and we've been married. We'll be married twenty
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  Speaker 1: one years in December. And we watched the finale together, right,
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  Speaker 1: so we're gonna do Good Morning America press, you know,
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  Speaker 1: all the press in the morning the night the next day,
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  Speaker 1: and we're watching the finale and he had stopped watching
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  Speaker 1: the episodes after a certain point because he was like,
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  Speaker 1: I just I just don't like watching it. You know,
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  Speaker 1: why would I watch it? I know what happens. So
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  Speaker 1: we're watching in the hotel room, and you know, they
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  Speaker 1: made it seem like I was going to pick the
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  Speaker 1: other guy, because of course they have to, you know,
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  Speaker 1: make it, you know, surprising. And he turned to me
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  Speaker 1: in our hotel room and he goes, so are you
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  Speaker 1: going to pick Charlie? Is there like someone going to
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  Speaker 1: open the door.
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  Speaker 2: He thought that was so impossible. That shows how cute
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  Speaker 2: and innocent he is.
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  Speaker 5: All the benefit that I had, Christa is that I
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  Speaker 5: knew the guys so well, you know, and if she
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  Speaker 5: was going to date someone, at least I knew and
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  Speaker 5: they were friends, so it made it. You know, some
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  Speaker 5: of it you just don't want to see, but it
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  Speaker 5: is part of it, and john't have it. It was so
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  Speaker 5: much class. And there was one time it bothered me
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  Speaker 5: a little bit. One of the guys came back from
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  Speaker 5: a date and he was just glowing, just absolutely glowing.
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  Speaker 5: And you know, I feel like I had this connection
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  Speaker 5: I thought I did, and I'm going maybe it wasn't
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  Speaker 5: as strong as I thought it was, but you know, it.
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  Speaker 3: All worked out.
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  Speaker 1: It all worked out. It always does, right. So is
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  Speaker 1: there anything that didn't get aired on the show that
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  Speaker 1: you wish would have been shown? For whatever reason?
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  Speaker 3: I thought.
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  Speaker 5: I thought they did a great job, especially when my
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  Speaker 5: mother passed, And I want to give kudoos out to
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  Speaker 5: ABC because they handled it with dignity and respect for
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  Speaker 5: me one hundred percent. The one thing with me, because
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  Speaker 5: the connection with Joan, I wish they could have shown
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  Speaker 5: a little bit more of the relationship I had with
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  Speaker 5: the guys.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know.
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  Speaker 5: They've only have so many hours to film and all that,
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  Speaker 5: and I was on the show a lot. But the
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  Speaker 5: guys we great relationships. And with this party that we
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  Speaker 5: had after the finale, we had eight of the guys
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  Speaker 5: there and then six of the ladies from the Golden
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  Speaker 5: Bachelor's show that were there, So you know, we're all
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  Speaker 5: friends and it's just part of the journey. But you know,
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  Speaker 5: it's still a TV show. We all keep in contact,
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  Speaker 5: the guys, and I thought they did a really good
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  Speaker 5: job of putting it together.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, you know, you know how much film that
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  Speaker 4: they have, it's just you know, fifteen hours a day.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I think that Bachelor Nation doesn't realize how
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  Speaker 4: hard it is and how long the days are.
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  Speaker 2: We all, you know, we all look fresh.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, like we just got out of bed
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  Speaker 4: and we had a good night's sleep.
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  Speaker 1: You know how hard the journey.
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  Speaker 4: You have a lot of sleepless nights because you're dealing
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  Speaker 4: with a lot of emotions, and they're late nights anyway,
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  Speaker 4: and then you're getting up early. And I don't think
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  Speaker 4: anybody realizes how difficult it is. And I'm not sure
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  Speaker 4: that makes good TV, but I think that you know,
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  Speaker 4: there's as you know, there's a lot of social media
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  Speaker 4: and you get a lot of hits from people, and
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  Speaker 4: I don't think anybody realizes how hard.
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  Speaker 2: It was doing it.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, you have the emotional side, You're tired,
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  Speaker 4: you're missing your family. How you don't have the support
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  Speaker 4: from you know, the outside people, you're friends and family
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  Speaker 4: that you normally have. Nobody sees any of that and
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  Speaker 4: they don't get you know, like, what a difficult journey
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  Speaker 4: this really is?
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  Speaker 1: Totally I agree. I feel like I fell asleep on
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  Speaker 1: more dates than I didn't like, fell asleep.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: That's hilarious because I was so exciting that.
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  Speaker 2: Were exhausted.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I do, really I do. It's funny because
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  Speaker 1: Ryan and I went to SeaWorld on a day and
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  Speaker 1: I remember I was in the limo and I literally
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  Speaker 1: fell asleep in his lap. I love that able to
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  Speaker 1: do that. You need to do that tonight you can
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  Speaker 1: go to New York and fall asleep and on his
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  Speaker 1: shoulder on the plane. I love it. What are you
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  Speaker 1: guys doing for the holidays?
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  Speaker 5: Going to Maryland both Thanksgiving and Christmas? And with my
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  Speaker 5: kids living on the East Coast, that's going to be
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  Speaker 5: the best and the easiest place for us.
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  Speaker 3: And all meet.
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  Speaker 5: So we're looking forward to it. We're going to have
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  Speaker 5: all of Jones family my family there. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: My kids are so excited about hanging out with his kids.
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  Speaker 4: Like this concept of having like step brother and sister
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  Speaker 4: is really fun.
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  Speaker 2: And they've already connected a lot. They talk. The girls
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  Speaker 2: definitely talk.
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  Speaker 4: My two my two daughters and his daughter have found
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  Speaker 4: like a love of shopping and dirty Martini.
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  Speaker 2: So they're looking.
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  Speaker 1: Forward to me. That is awesome. Where are your kids?
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  Speaker 1: How far are they from where Joan lives.
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  Speaker 5: They're in Charlotte. And actually this one really shown on
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  Speaker 5: the show is I have a brother and sister in
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  Speaker 5: law and nephew that live in DC area, So you
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  Speaker 5: know that there was a connection there right away.
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  Speaker 4: So I mean, you know, uh, he has more than
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  Speaker 4: one person to come see when he comes to Maryland.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. And you guys are going to keep Are
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  Speaker 1: you going to keep your houses in Maryland and Kansas?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, you know, I have kids and grandkids there.
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  Speaker 4: You know I'm not leaving them, and he has a
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  Speaker 4: business and a million friends there. Even though his kids
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  Speaker 4: have left, he's still he still has a life in Kansas.
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  Speaker 2: So you know, I'm looking forward to going there.
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  Speaker 4: I never thought i'd uther those worlds that I'm dying
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  Speaker 4: to go to Kansas, but I am.
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  Speaker 2: It'll be fun.
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  Speaker 1: So have you made your plans for when you're going
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  Speaker 1: to visit Disney Worlds?
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  Speaker 3: Not yet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, that's a lot of logistics. We have
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  Speaker 2: big families.
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  Speaker 4: I have three grandkids, you know, with his kids also, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: that's a that's going to be a logistical nightmare that
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  Speaker 4: I will work out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but we can't.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I'm thinking maybe spring breakish because you know,
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  Speaker 4: Boomer's in school. That's why I can't just take him
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  Speaker 4: out my grandson, So spring break time, like, it feels
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  Speaker 4: like that might be the best time.
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  Speaker 5: But then we're gonna have to schedule two weeks prior
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  Speaker 5: to where we can just sleep and rest up.
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  Speaker 2: It is Disney World, you know, and with grandkids.
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  Speaker 3: It's going to be hectic.
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  Speaker 1: It will be hectic, but I'm sure you both will
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  Speaker 1: embrace it. It's just gonna be so much fun, like
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  Speaker 1: so much joy. That place is full of joy. One
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  Speaker 1: trick that I have for Disney is you just throw
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  Speaker 1: the rules out the window. And this is more for
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  Speaker 1: your kids, but and for their kids. Throw the rules
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  Speaker 1: out the window and just give them as much sugar
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  Speaker 1: as they can handle.
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  Speaker 4: You know, they're going to be tired at the end
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  Speaker 4: of the day no matter what. Because it's Disney World,
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  Speaker 4: so it doesn't matter. Yeah, Mountain Dew, Mountain Dew and mountain.
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  Speaker 1: And all the like Mickey, uh, you know, the the
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  Speaker 1: things that are shaped like Mickey, like the ice cream
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  Speaker 1: cones and all of it.
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  Speaker 2: Everything is shaped like Mickey. I love it. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So they did not cover this on the after the
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  Speaker 1: final rows of the finale, which was fine, but a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people are talking. Bob and I were talking
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  Speaker 1: about it after your finale for who you think would
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  Speaker 1: be the next Golden Bachelor if they end up doing
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  Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor. What are your thoughts who would you want
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  Speaker 1: to nominate.
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  Speaker 5: We're both in agreement to this, Trista, that there's eight
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  Speaker 5: guys that you could put in a hat and pull
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  Speaker 5: out a name. I don't really think there's a front runner.
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  Speaker 5: Everyone has their unique personalities and you know their skill
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  Speaker 5: sets and their love language and all that. You've got
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  Speaker 5: Charles l who America absolutely loves love absolutely. You've got
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  Speaker 5: Mark who is just the best man in the worst
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  Speaker 5: The issue there though, he's now in a relationship at
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  Speaker 5: least been reported.
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  Speaker 3: Is that's his story. Yeah, And you've got.
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  Speaker 5: Jordan with his personality, You've got the flamboyant Pascal. You
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  Speaker 5: have all these unique personalities. Doctor would be a hoot.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, he's so sad and hilarious.
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  Speaker 5: And Jack was at the party. Everyone has fun with
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  Speaker 5: Jack and Keith, the girl dad, everybody. He might be
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  Speaker 5: embarrassed that I say this nationally, but he was out
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  Speaker 5: with my daughter till like four o'clock in the morning
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  Speaker 5: the other night, after the party, after.
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  Speaker 2: The party, was after the finally he was out, Like
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 4: There was a big group of them, was just situable people,
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  Speaker 4: but he was like the last man standing when it
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  Speaker 4: come to the when it came to the goldens.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that is so cute. Oh my gosh. It makes
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  Speaker 1: me so jealous because you know, Joan and I were
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  Speaker 1: talking about whether or not I would be able to
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  Speaker 1: come to the finale, and I'm so sorry I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: be there, but you know, mommy duty calls and and
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  Speaker 1: I wish I could have been there, and I would
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  Speaker 1: have stayed out until four am with with Jack and
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  Speaker 1: your daughter and.
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  Speaker 2: Keith and Taylor. I know it was fun. It was
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  Speaker 2: a fun night. I had a hard time coming home.
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  Speaker 4: I would have stayed out til four am, but we
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  Speaker 4: had to I had to be up at five thirty
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  Speaker 4: for Graham Squad because we had press all day, so
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  Speaker 4: I wouldn't have been very pretty if I hit it out.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what are your freaking beauty secrets? Because my yours
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  Speaker 1: just stunning? And I say this all the time. I
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  Speaker 1: am fifty two years old, you're sixty one years old.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not too far behind you, but I feel like
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  Speaker 1: you look younger than me. So what are your secrets?
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  Speaker 1: Can you share anything?
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  Speaker 3: I appreciate you asking me. Yes, it's really important.
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  Speaker 4: No mine, let's be serious. Botox and piller okay, so yeah, right,
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  Speaker 4: me too. You always see me after I've had LAMB Squad,
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  Speaker 4: so really good makeup.
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  Speaker 2: Let's be honest. There it is that's out there.
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  Speaker 1: Now, glam Squads. And you know what else? Lighting? Lighting
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  Speaker 1: is a glass best friend?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah didn't light? I look so much better?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm beautiful and candlelight.
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  Speaker 1: So what is one surprising thing that you've learned about
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  Speaker 1: each other after the show has ended or after filming ended?
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  Speaker 2: Do you want me to start. Well, the good thing
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  Speaker 2: is he doesn't snore.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's a bonus.
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  Speaker 4: That's yeah, Thank goodness. I learned about like what a
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  Speaker 4: caregiver he is. And you know, it's hard to find
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  Speaker 4: out certain things on the show. There's no you know,
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  Speaker 4: way that it would be exemplified.
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  Speaker 2: But I found out really early on.
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  Speaker 4: We were having a conversation and I was, you know,
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  Speaker 4: concerned about something that was happening with one of my kids.
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  Speaker 4: And next thing I know, I'm getting text from him
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  Speaker 4: and calls and saying, you know, he's like solved it.
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  Speaker 4: You know, he's called on his resources and made a
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  Speaker 4: couple of calls and all of a sudden, like wheels
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  Speaker 4: are in motion and he's fixed it. And he's such
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  Speaker 4: a caregiver and solver. I had to do some work.
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  Speaker 4: We were on a happy couple of visit and I'd
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  Speaker 4: do a little work that day for a bachelor and
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  Speaker 4: I came back to the house and he's standing there
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  Speaker 4: with a glass of wine in the driveway and he's
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  Speaker 4: made the art whole dinner for us that night. So
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  Speaker 4: he's just like such a giver and a care giving
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  Speaker 4: you know, like a solver and a fixer.
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  Speaker 2: And he just wants to take care of me. And
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  Speaker 2: I love that. I love it.
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  Speaker 5: I will tell you that I knew Joan was smart,
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  Speaker 5: but she's actually almost MEDSA smart or MENSA smart. She
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  Speaker 5: is that smart. Absolutely. And then the other thing too,
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  Speaker 5: is I caught some flak on the show for being competitive.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, she is.
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  Speaker 5: I'm at this level of competitiveness.
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  Speaker 1: I was.
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  Speaker 3: I was so surprised.
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  Speaker 5: And it actually happened last night at the restaurant because
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  Speaker 5: we were talking about it. But the two ladies are
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  Speaker 5: calling their ubers, what goes Mine's coming in five minutes,
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  Speaker 5: Mine's coming at four.
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  Speaker 2: That's kind Before I beat you, I was kidding, it was.
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  Speaker 3: It was all It was all fun. But she is competitive,
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  Speaker 3: very yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I know.
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  Speaker 2: My kids used to say, they're like, you never let
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  Speaker 2: us win. I'm like, letting you win?
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  Speaker 1: Why would I let you win?
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  Speaker 2: Man, That's how you become a good athlete or you
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  Speaker 2: know whatever.
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  Speaker 1: It's right. I wouldn't mom teaching you anything? Is your mom?
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: That's so funny. Okay. So, because I was the first
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: to have a wedding on television, I have to ask
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: the question, would you consider televising your wedding?
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: Would you recommend it.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: I would actually I love that question. Yes, So obviously,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: you know, with what happened with Gary and Theresa, I
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: know that it's kind of like and that was the
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: most recent one. You know, there's not bad vibes because
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: it was such a beautiful day and hopefully people would
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: just remember that beautiful you know, it was a beautiful day.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: It was truly about love and even just Bachelor Nation
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: coming together. I just I loved their wedding. I would
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: say that for me, it was a dream come true.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: So the princess and you Joan, and I know that
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: princess is there, would thoroughly enjoy, you know, being able
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: to be like, Okay, who would I want my dress
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: done by oh Badly Mishka. Okay, great, we'll make that happen,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: you know, like I'd love to work with Mindy Weiss.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: In my real world before that, there was no way
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: I was ever going to be working with Mindy Weiss
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: or getting addressed from Badly Mishka. So it is like
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: dreams coming true situation for the princess in you. Now. Obviously,
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: if cameras were a problem with you, Chaka, I know
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: they're not a problem with Joan. Because she's you know,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: a pro, and we've talked about it, you know, live
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: through it, and because I was a lead, I know
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: how that goes. But if cameras are a problem, then
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: maybe it's not for you. If the publicity is a problem,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: maybe it's not for you. But I feel like it's
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: a beautiful way to shout it from the rooftops, you know,
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: like you can still do that in a private way.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: But it is a once in a lifetime thing that
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: not everyone gets to experience it, So why not you know,
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: have fun with it, and yeah, and take.
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: It like as a viewer.
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: So I watched your season many many years ago, like
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: probably the first one I actually watched. I remember like
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: how important it was to see the ending and that
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: you guys actually got married. I can remember the moment, honestly.
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: I you know, I watched very few weddings. I watched
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: Princess Diana. You know, I've watched you know, it's just
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: a few big ones. Yours, Yours is up there with
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: Princess Diana. I actually, you know, tuned in specifically to
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: watch you get married. And I think that that is
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: kind of a kind of part of the journey that
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: people have watched us come to this point and then
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: to like leave him at the curb and not do
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: the wedding in front of them might not be the
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: right thing to do. You know this part of me
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: that also thinks I want it to be an intimate
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: moment with just our family and friends. But the other
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: part of me, the princess part of me, thinks like
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: this big epic wedding would be really fun and it's
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: also maybe the right thing to do for vaccination.
• 18:02
  Speaker 5: Yeah, how do you feel chap when wear suit or tucks?
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Totally.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: My husband, he's like, I don't want to be part
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: of anything. I just just tell me where to be
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: and what to wear. You're so same. So would you
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: do a live if you did the wedding on television,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: that's one thing. But a live wedding, which is something
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: that I did not have. What how do you feel
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: about that? Because it's like in the moment and you know,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know, there's got to be some stress associated
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: with that.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know that it was a choice not
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: to do it live. I thought they were.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Always none and actually not most of them. I don't think.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I don't think Sean and Catherine's I don't think theirs
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: was live. Maybe maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I'm wrong, Maybe
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: I'm wrong. I could totally be.
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: I don't know the benefit of live versus not. Like not,
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: life probably sounds easier, it sounds less intimidating. There's another take.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: You know, you're not live TV, as you know, is scary.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: You know what you put out there is there forever right,
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: So yeah, I would say taped with malfunction.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: It's out there, it's done.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: All we're seeing it now. So I think tape probably
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: sounds more comfortable. But maybe live, since this whole journey
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: has been live, maybe it's like less. Well it's not
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: really live, so it's you know, it's a it's a
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: tape show.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. You have no idea. That's a
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: good question. I didn't know as an option, so I
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: got to think about that.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, So when you answered yes on a wedding,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: you thought it was just going to be live period. Yeah.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Who would you want to have your dress done by?
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Probably Randy Rahm, so she's done. Yes, of course, all
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: my all the Rosera Money dresses and even others. As
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I wore. Yes, I love Randy Ram. She actually came
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: to the finale.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's awesome.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: Rely, so I oh god, it would be a dream
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: to come true to have a Randy rom dress for me.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: She does make BEAUTI full downs. All of everything that
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: you wore was just stunning. Other than you finding chalk, obviously,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: I'm that's up there, top top of the list, but
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I'm sure wearing Randy rams Gorgeous Creations is up there too.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Did you get to keep anything?
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: Not any of any Randy Ram stuff?
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: I mean that's like like beautiful catore expensive crazy stuff.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't. I haven't kept anything yet, but I hear.
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: That sometimes you get to they offer you some of
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: the clothing that you were on this season. So I
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: haven't gotten any yet, but you know, we'll see what happens, hope.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Too.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: Everything everything that the stylist putting put me in is
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: like one hundred times better than anything I own.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: So I loved it all.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't think a hundred times better.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Your fashion sense is immaculate, so yeah, I wouldn't say that,
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: but Carrie Fetman is a genius.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: So there's you're not.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, So I have to wrap I loved
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: talking to you. I'm so, so so happy to welcome
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: you to the happy couple side of the show. And
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I can't wait for the wedding.
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: Thank you, you'll be there, You'll be with us.
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: It was very enjoyable for me to just sit here
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: and have you two guys have the conversation.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, all right, save travels to New York and
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: let's chat again soon. I'd love to continue to hear
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: how you're doing. I will tell him for sure. Oh
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: I should say this because they'll kill me. Remember I
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: did ask that can Bob be included in the wedding invitations?
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: If you guys, If you guys are inviting more than
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: just family.
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: Absolutely, you know we've already had that conversation you and
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: are coming.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, guys, travel safe. It was great to chat,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: and that's bye, guys.