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- 0:01Speaker 1: Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name
- 0:04Speaker 1: is Brian Alison and this is maintaining frame number one.
- 0:09Speaker 1: All the single ladies hate moms for this one reason.
- 0:14Speaker 2: Where we're going to be looking at recent four videos,
- 0:21Speaker 2: four four videos from four different.
- 0:26Speaker 1: It's a cancer, people, guess women women who are all
- 0:33Speaker 1: having a bit of a reaction to the opinions of
- 0:36Speaker 1: other women over a video clip that went viral involving
- 0:43Speaker 1: two other women discussing family.
- 0:47Speaker 3: It's from your favorite podcast.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Yes, yes, my absolute favorite of all time podcasts, Call
- 0:53Speaker 1: Her Daddy, which I told you guys, like way back
- 0:58Speaker 1: when I've just first discovered it, that this was going
- 1:00Speaker 1: to be a thing we're gonna have to wrestle with
- 1:04Speaker 1: frequently because it is the most popular podcast for women
- 1:09Speaker 1: on Spotify, number one with women.
- 1:12Speaker 3: I didn't even know it existed until you graciously inform
- 1:17Speaker 3: me of its existence.
- 1:18Speaker 1: I mean, I wish no, but yeah, And we're not
- 1:22Speaker 1: responding to Call Her Daddy's podcast, but a little bit,
- 1:26Speaker 1: a little bit sort of, but we're gonna be responding
- 1:28Speaker 1: to the response to that was on Call Her Daddy.
- 1:32Speaker 3: The ever expanding wave Yeah of selopsism. Can we say
- 1:38Speaker 3: that sylopsism, I think that would be allism.
- 1:41Speaker 1: Thank you, Brian, how you pronounce it? Yeah, which basically
- 1:45Speaker 1: means the world does not exist unless I'm in it.
- 1:49Speaker 4: Like I am.
- 1:50Speaker 1: It's like I am the world every year of object permanence.
- 1:54Speaker 1: Like why does peekaboo work on babies? Because babies think
- 1:58Speaker 1: that when your hands are covering your that you disappear
- 2:02Speaker 1: like they don't know that it's there. And uh, that's
- 2:06Speaker 1: because babies are solipsistic, like they only think that their
- 2:12Speaker 1: world is the only world. Their emotions, their needs are
- 2:16Speaker 1: the only needs. That's why when they speaking of babies,
- 2:19Speaker 1: we're gonna be this is gonna be about babies featuring babies.
- 2:23Speaker 1: But yeah, this is like the way their brains work.
- 2:26Speaker 1: And I have noticed that. Well, I'll say is that
- 2:32Speaker 1: solveism seems to be like an issue that a lot
- 2:36Speaker 1: of modern women have today where this is why the
- 2:42Speaker 1: POV meme doesn't they don't understand it. They're in the
- 2:46Speaker 1: pov meme, which is like an inversion of what it
- 2:49Speaker 1: should be. That's why you have that like meme. Or
- 2:52Speaker 1: it's like you know, when a man takes a picture
- 2:54Speaker 1: of an object versus when a woman takes a picture
- 2:56Speaker 1: of an object, and when a woman takes a picture
- 2:57Speaker 1: of an object, she's in the picture and she takes
- 3:00Speaker 1: up most of it, you know. Like there was a
- 3:03Speaker 1: viral photo of a woman who made a painting of
- 3:07Speaker 1: Pikachu from Pokemon and she was like, this is my
- 3:10Speaker 1: first attempt at painting a Pikachu. But the picture is
- 3:14Speaker 1: of her holding the painting below her gigantic breasts, which
- 3:18Speaker 1: like all cleavage out and she's smiling. She's not showing
- 3:22Speaker 1: us the pikachuw like that, you know, Like anyway, there's
- 3:27Speaker 1: countless examples, but that's what this conversation has become essentially,
- 3:32Speaker 1: because we know we have a well we'll get into
- 3:36Speaker 1: the videos, but we're gonna be looking at a response
- 3:39Speaker 1: to a interview conducted by a famous music person I've
- 3:45Speaker 1: never heard of because I haven't kept track of the
- 3:47Speaker 1: music world in a long time named Chappelle ron I
- 3:52Speaker 1: think that's how you say it. And she was on
- 3:57Speaker 1: call her daddy and she was basically explaining to the
- 4:00Speaker 1: host that mothers are miserable, and her evidence of that
- 4:05Speaker 1: is her friends who are mothers are miserable because having
- 4:09Speaker 1: children is the worst thing or at least this is
- 4:12Speaker 1: what we're supposed to take away from it. And then
- 4:14Speaker 1: there was like a reaction from mothers, and this is
- 4:20Speaker 1: the reaction to the reaction from the mothers who they're
- 4:25Speaker 1: calling conservative influencers or something, but they're just moms with kids,
- 4:30Speaker 1: so I don't know. I guess that's a political thing
- 4:32Speaker 1: right now, to be a mother.
- 4:34Speaker 3: The reaction to the reaction to the reaction. And now
- 4:37Speaker 3: we're doing a reaction. So it's a lot of it's
- 4:40Speaker 3: a Russian doll series of reactions.
- 4:45Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So.
- 4:47Speaker 3: It eventually gets down to us. He eventually filters down
- 4:49Speaker 3: to us at the the hypothalamus of the human subconscious,
- 4:55Speaker 3: collective subconscious. All right, so I think the I was
- 5:01Speaker 3: talking to Brian about this, I actually did like a
- 5:03Speaker 3: how many pages is this?
- 5:04Speaker 4: Like?
- 5:06Speaker 3: Five pages of notes on this, which is why I'm
- 5:09Speaker 3: wearing my welding black goggles instead of my usual orange goggles.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Those are the only mildly headachey goggles. These are the
- 5:19Speaker 3: ones where I've got a throbbing headache. And it's it's
- 5:22Speaker 3: in part because of these women and having to go
- 5:26Speaker 3: through their nest of illogic and self contradiction, because they
- 5:31Speaker 3: do a lot of that. It starts to feel like
- 5:34Speaker 3: the point of talking for them is to maintain a
- 5:38Speaker 3: particular emotional feeling about something, as opposed to being logical
- 5:44Speaker 3: and consistent, which is particularly aggravating for me. So I
- 5:48Speaker 3: apologize for the welding goggles, but they are made necessary
- 5:51Speaker 3: by the sheer cancer that we shall now discuss. And
- 5:57Speaker 3: I suggested Brian, we just start with Hannah Cox and
- 5:59Speaker 3: focus on Hannah because I know this is going to
- 6:02Speaker 3: sound really crazy. She is the one that most keeps
- 6:08Speaker 3: to the topic and gives the most information about the topic.
- 6:13Speaker 3: It's mostly just gathering up all the various thoughts and yeah,
- 6:19Speaker 3: so she actually is the one who is the Can
- 6:23Speaker 3: I say the word rational in all of this? I mean,
- 6:29Speaker 3: in so far this could be considered reasonable if.
- 6:31Speaker 1: You're if you're comparing her to the other Yeah, yeah.
- 6:35Speaker 3: I mean she at the very least she's sort of
- 6:38Speaker 3: explaining her opinion on the subject rather than going off
- 6:43Speaker 3: on very bizarre tangents. But anyway, she she keeps it concise,
- 6:47Speaker 3: which could be an element of rationality if we're being generous.
- 6:53Speaker 3: All right, so let's let's let's start.
- 6:55Speaker 1: Oh, do you have to do things first?
- 6:56Speaker 3: Oh yes, I do. I do have to do the things.
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- 7:52Speaker 3: the doge, the doges, the various doge herd in the
- 7:57Speaker 3: doge Kingdom. You know what, I keep keeping that keeping that.
- 8:00Speaker 1: I just I just want to make sure it can
- 8:02Speaker 1: run crisis. That's a that's a gamer.
- 8:06Speaker 3: That's okay.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Now, but yeah, I'm not.
- 8:12Speaker 3: I'm not particularly a gamer.
- 8:14Speaker 1: I know.
- 8:15Speaker 3: I'm actually more of an art and and writing nerd.
- 8:20Speaker 1: So well, we can say like Photoshop seven, you can
- 8:23Speaker 1: run Photoshop seven. Nothing, okay, but anyway, let's yeah, let's
- 8:32Speaker 1: get into it. So just jump to the first time code.
- 8:34Speaker 1: You want the context from Hannah Cox.
- 8:37Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's do the context. Let's just let her
- 8:39Speaker 3: do the work for us.
- 8:41Speaker 5: You do not want to piss off online, it's mothers.
- 8:46Speaker 5: If there's one group of people you do not want
- 8:48Speaker 5: to piss off online, it's mothers. But apparently no one
- 8:51Speaker 5: told shap will Roam that in her media.
- 8:53Speaker 6: Training, and as it's becoming a bit.
- 8:55Speaker 5: Of the norm for her when it comes to major interviews,
- 8:57Speaker 5: she super stuffed in it. Last week, Chapel appeared on
- 9:00Speaker 5: the Call Her Daddy podcast, where she told hosts Alex
- 9:03Speaker 5: Cooper this, all of.
- 9:05Speaker 3: My friends who have kids are in hell.
- 9:07Speaker 6: I don't know anyone.
- 9:08Speaker 7: I actually don't know anyone who's like happy and has
- 9:10Speaker 7: children at this age. I have like like a one
- 9:15Speaker 7: year old, like three year old, four and under five
- 9:18Speaker 7: and under, don't I literally have not met anyone who's happy,
- 9:22Speaker 7: anyone who has like light in their eyes, anyone who
- 9:23Speaker 7: has who has slept.
- 9:25Speaker 5: People who have never watched the Call Her Daddy Show,
- 9:28Speaker 5: people who have never heard of Chapel Roan have seen
- 9:31Speaker 5: this clip. It went megaviral and moms have been taking
- 9:34Speaker 5: it uber personally and very in their feelings ever since.
- 9:37Speaker 1: But all right, uh, is there more to this? I
- 9:41Speaker 1: mean this is is this enough context?
- 9:44Speaker 4: Uh?
- 9:44Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's enough context for that part. Let
- 9:46Speaker 3: me just open up my notes.
- 9:48Speaker 1: I got it right here four forty seven. So, basically,
- 9:50Speaker 1: Chappelle Roan is a musician. She is a I think
- 9:54Speaker 1: she's identify as as queer or thumb.
- 9:57Speaker 3: She wears men's clothings, which you wear.
- 9:59Speaker 1: Yeah, she basically does the Madonna slash Lady Gaga slash.
- 10:04Speaker 1: You know what was that actress that like, basically she's
- 10:09Speaker 1: doing the androgynist thing. Okay, oh, I know who you're.
- 10:15Speaker 3: But there was an older.
- 10:16Speaker 1: Actress, Yes, the old actress. It's on the tip of
- 10:19Speaker 1: my tongue. But like a German woman or something, right, but.
- 10:23Speaker 3: Marlo no Diatrit Trich.
- 10:26Speaker 1: Dietrick, Marlena Dietrich. Yes, she essentially there's always been in
- 10:31Speaker 1: the celebrity space. You know, women who are shattering norms
- 10:35Speaker 1: and they just put on pants and then everybody acts
- 10:38Speaker 1: like the world is on fire. Marlena Dietrich. Yeah, and uh,
- 10:43Speaker 1: it's been going on for decades and decades, like probably
- 10:46Speaker 1: one hundred years or longer. But this is the latest
- 10:50Speaker 1: version of that. And but that's not really what this
- 10:53Speaker 1: is about. It's not really about Chappelle. Rome's like fashion sense,
- 10:56Speaker 1: of which is awful. She looks like a circus clown
- 10:58Speaker 1: in my opinion, but it's really her. You know, she's
- 11:03Speaker 1: like a queer lesbian musician and Mary she wants to
- 11:08Speaker 1: marry a girl at some point. And she was on
- 11:10Speaker 1: the Call Her Daddy podcast essentially saying that people with
- 11:13Speaker 1: children are miserable, or at least everyone she knows. This
- 11:16Speaker 1: is like anecdotal, but you know, I don't think the
- 11:20Speaker 1: statement exists in a vacuum. And mothers on the internet,
- 11:25Speaker 1: I guess, saw it, and they had words about it,
- 11:28Speaker 1: they had thoughts, they had opinions.
- 11:31Speaker 3: Well, because she's looking at it from the outside, and
- 11:33Speaker 3: they wanted to explain their perspective from the inside, at
- 11:36Speaker 3: least some of them. But the other thing I wanted
- 11:38Speaker 3: to point out was she said she did a little
- 11:41Speaker 3: bit of a martyrdom thing and said, I don't know
- 11:44Speaker 3: if I'll be able to marry my Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 11:49Speaker 3: what are you talking about? Like President Trump? And I
- 11:52Speaker 3: know this may not sit well with conservatives, but President
- 11:55Speaker 3: Trump was the first president who actually was for gay
- 11:59Speaker 3: marriage when he took office. Right, the guy is not
- 12:04Speaker 3: going to take away your marriage lady. No, of course not,
- 12:08Speaker 3: you know if we have, And I mean I wouldn't
- 12:11Speaker 3: because I'm part sort of not officially I guess part
- 12:15Speaker 3: of the lgbt Q plus whatever, but I mean I
- 12:19Speaker 3: wouldn't advocate for that. I'd rather people who were queer
- 12:23Speaker 3: be in long term relationships. You have to do that,
- 12:27Speaker 3: you know. But yeah, it's it's it's not going to happen.
- 12:31Speaker 3: But anyway, I just wanted to point out that she
- 12:33Speaker 3: had that little bit of martyrdom.
- 12:35Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I was going to bring that up
- 12:37Speaker 1: a little bit later because about that. No, it's okay,
- 12:41Speaker 1: that's all right, all right, Okay. So that's the context
- 12:47Speaker 1: is that women are I guess they have opinions on
- 12:53Speaker 1: this statement because it it it you know, reeks of
- 12:59Speaker 1: anti natalist sentiment, and they have opinions on that because
- 13:04Speaker 1: they themselves have children and they don't like the anti
- 13:07Speaker 1: natalist sentiment. I mean, that's like the general I think
- 13:10Speaker 1: reaction that people have. But let's jump ahead to this
- 13:15Speaker 1: first time code. See it's like right here.
- 13:18Speaker 6: Well, and even then bias can take effect.
- 13:21Speaker 5: So there are plenty of studies out there that say
- 13:24Speaker 5: single women who never marry and women who don't have
- 13:26Speaker 5: kids are the happiest. And there's also studies out there
- 13:28Speaker 5: that say married women are the happiest, or that say
- 13:31Speaker 5: moms are the happiest.
- 13:32Speaker 6: And guess what if you dig.
- 13:33Speaker 5: Into who produces these studies, they tend to be organizations
- 13:37Speaker 5: that have some kind of bias in you believing that
- 13:40Speaker 5: one path is better than the other.
- 13:41Speaker 6: But in reality, the only way to actually.
- 13:43Speaker 3: Do Okay what you say about that, I mean, you
- 13:46Speaker 3: can finish that if you want, because I will go
- 13:49Speaker 3: through the actual studies.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Yeah, because that.
- 13:52Speaker 5: Is based on you and your individual needs and desires
- 13:56Speaker 5: and wants and your situation. Not having kids is probably
- 13:59Speaker 5: the right pathway for a lot of people who don't
- 14:01Speaker 5: want to have kids, whereas not having kids for somebody
- 14:04Speaker 5: who really desires having kids would make them unhappy.
- 14:07Speaker 1: This is okay. Is there anything else?
- 14:13Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, I'll respond to this because I'm a
- 14:17Speaker 3: little bit hesitant because I think the Queer Kiwi makes
- 14:20Speaker 3: this a similar point, and I can. I can actually.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Ultimately, they all make a similar point. They all say,
- 14:30Speaker 1: you know, women who because I think that when you're
- 14:35Speaker 1: dealing Okay, let's let's first of all, let's be real
- 14:37Speaker 1: about this, Okay. Queer k Kiwi and Brierty Claire are
- 14:44Speaker 1: like far left kind of socialist feminists. Uh, Manifestel is
- 14:49Speaker 1: basically a socialist feminist as well. She just didn't make
- 14:53Speaker 1: it like political, but your sentiment is in line with that.
- 14:57Speaker 1: She's like all about that it takes a village to
- 14:59Speaker 1: raise child thing. And Hannah Cox is a libertarian feminist.
- 15:04Speaker 1: But like, ultimately they all believe that women they have
- 15:09Speaker 1: to like make the arguments when they're talking about women,
- 15:15Speaker 1: they have to be they're they're walking like a very
- 15:17Speaker 1: delicate line because they have to try not to sound
- 15:21Speaker 1: like their misogynists because that word is so powerful. So
- 15:25Speaker 1: they have to find ways to basically side with you know,
- 15:28Speaker 1: women who don't want children and women who do want children,
- 15:32Speaker 1: so that they don't look like a bad guy to
- 15:33Speaker 1: either group without taking a side per se, and so
- 15:38Speaker 1: they tend to side on you know, freedom of choice
- 15:41Speaker 1: or whatever. And then to measure that they will cite
- 15:44Speaker 1: studies that say women who don't have kids are more happy,
- 15:48Speaker 1: or women who do have kids are more happy, or
- 15:50Speaker 1: in the case of Hannahox, he's saying, well, there are
- 15:52Speaker 1: some studies that'll show this, and there are some studies
- 15:54Speaker 1: that'll show that, and rather than just say, you know,
- 15:57Speaker 1: maybe happiness is something that we can't really accurately measure,
- 16:03Speaker 1: like you know, like, well, how do you even determine that?
- 16:07Speaker 1: It's all like done by women just giving their opinion
- 16:10Speaker 1: on how they feel, and who knows how they feel
- 16:12Speaker 1: in the moment, and then we're using this as a
- 16:14Speaker 1: data point to make the case for something one way
- 16:17Speaker 1: or the other.
- 16:18Speaker 3: I would honestly say that, Okay, I can go through
- 16:22Speaker 3: the actual studies and what they say, or at least
- 16:25Speaker 3: the study and what it says. But to your point,
- 16:33Speaker 3: what we're watching is for women who are talking about
- 16:37Speaker 3: what's best for women, yeah, and how the system can
- 16:42Speaker 3: best benefit women. Now, I'll set aside the pure communists
- 16:46Speaker 3: Byrony Byrony.
- 16:49Speaker 1: And and.
- 16:52Speaker 3: Rainbow sparkles. I didn't want to. I know, I want
- 16:59Speaker 3: to go there. I want to go there. Sure, queer kiwi,
- 17:03Speaker 3: queer kiwi. So let's set aside. All of these women
- 17:05Speaker 3: are talking about what benefits women. Now, the communist women,
- 17:09Speaker 3: those two, they're talking about not just benefiting women in
- 17:14Speaker 3: terms of their material goods, but benefiting women in terms
- 17:17Speaker 3: of their moral beliefs about reality. So we should follow
- 17:21Speaker 3: women's beliefs that we can create a system in which
- 17:25Speaker 3: everybody gets things based on their needs rather than their
- 17:28Speaker 3: merit how much they contribute to the system. You know,
- 17:31Speaker 3: so merit based system is you get based on how
- 17:34Speaker 3: much you contribute to the system, and then you have
- 17:37Speaker 3: kind of an incentive structure. That's capitalism, or that's capital
- 17:40Speaker 3: or money. It's probably a better way of putting it,
- 17:43Speaker 3: and that's the incentive structure. So you contribute to the
- 17:46Speaker 3: system and you get something out of it. Now, at granted,
- 17:50Speaker 3: this isn't a perfect system, especially when you involve government.
- 17:53Speaker 3: Government can start making picking winners and losers, and government
- 17:57Speaker 3: always seems to pick big corporations as a winners. So
- 18:01Speaker 3: you know, there there is corruption in that system. But
- 18:05Speaker 3: the basic element is that you put in you get
- 18:08Speaker 3: something for putting something into the system. What they want
- 18:12Speaker 3: to do is replace that with the system that provides
- 18:15Speaker 3: based on people's needs. And that is a very I
- 18:18Speaker 3: remember a while back I watched what were they called,
- 18:23Speaker 3: It's the comic book Guys nerd Wonder I think, or
- 18:28Speaker 3: no Nerdrotic, nerd Rotic, something like that. But they're big
- 18:32Speaker 3: comic based YouTubers. And the guy said that communism is
- 18:37Speaker 3: a fairy tale for girls, yes, and I was like, yes,
- 18:40Speaker 3: that is the best way to put it. They want
- 18:43Speaker 3: to create a system in which people get based on
- 18:46Speaker 3: their needs. But who provides in that system? What is
- 18:50Speaker 3: their incentive to provide for that system? If you don't
- 18:54Speaker 3: grant people things based on how they benefit, how they provide, like,
- 18:59Speaker 3: how they contribute to the system, you're not going to
- 19:02Speaker 3: end up having much to distribute. Like, if you distribute
- 19:06Speaker 3: to everyone based on the needs, then what is the
- 19:09Speaker 3: incentive for anybody to go out there and get something
- 19:12Speaker 3: based on their merit, based on their actions? And you
- 19:15Speaker 3: see that this is like this is a very sort
- 19:17Speaker 3: of a feminine approach. So the two communists want the
- 19:22Speaker 3: resources of society to go to their sort of self
- 19:25Speaker 3: righteous beliefs about how it should be arranged. And I'm
- 19:29Speaker 3: not really sure if they would really want to sacrifice
- 19:31Speaker 3: for that, but that's that's sort of where they're going.
- 19:34Speaker 3: So in that sense, it's almost and then. But Hannah Cox,
- 19:38Speaker 3: as a way of contrast, is only interested in how
- 19:41Speaker 3: things benefit her. Mm hmm, that's it. And Manifestel I
- 19:48Speaker 3: think Hannah Cox is also that way.
- 19:49Speaker 1: She just she just libertarianism, yeah, is the way for
- 19:54Speaker 1: her as a woman to get the best like life.
- 19:57Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:57Speaker 3: But it's all All four of these are sense discussing
- 20:01Speaker 3: how society can benefit them. It's why they don't really
- 20:04Speaker 3: understand motherhood or parenthood at all.
- 20:08Speaker 1: They just want yeah, I'll go ahead.
- 20:11Speaker 3: They just want the society to benefit them. Hannah Cox
- 20:14Speaker 3: thinks that pure meritocracy benefits her most, probably because she
- 20:18Speaker 3: thinks she's a massive boss babe, and Manifestelle thinks that
- 20:24Speaker 3: being able to suck as much from a man as
- 20:27Speaker 3: possible benefits her most, probably because she is not a
- 20:31Speaker 3: boss babe's she's more of a social manipulator. And Byrony
- 20:37Speaker 3: and the Key, we think that communism is how to
- 20:41Speaker 3: get the most from the system. And none of these
- 20:43Speaker 3: women stop and say, but what about the system? How
- 20:46Speaker 3: do we maintain the system?
- 20:47Speaker 1: We are both like gays, right, they're both like lesbians,
- 20:52Speaker 1: So they don't want men, but they want the benefits
- 20:56Speaker 1: of male so they appeal to a system instead because
- 21:04Speaker 1: they don't want like I think that, and this is
- 21:07Speaker 1: what I believe anyway, I believe that Branny and Rainbow
- 21:11Speaker 1: Shite are they're LARPing as queer because they're more like
- 21:17Speaker 1: political lesbians that don't want to deal with men or relationships,
- 21:22Speaker 1: like they're anti social or something, and so instead they
- 21:25Speaker 1: advocate for a system, communism, so that they can get
- 21:30Speaker 1: provisions from men at the point of a gun, which
- 21:35Speaker 1: is the state. So because like women generally make appeals
- 21:38Speaker 1: to the state, like I think that Manifestel is doing
- 21:42Speaker 1: the same thing. She's just like she hasn't like overtly
- 21:46Speaker 1: stated it politically, but she will. She wants male provision
- 21:50Speaker 1: without having to give anything back, which is essentially what
- 21:54Speaker 1: the lesbian separatists in that we haven't looked at yet,
- 21:57Speaker 1: but what they're advocating for is essentially, I want to
- 22:00Speaker 1: be treated like a princess, but I don't want a
- 22:03Speaker 1: man that I have to actually do anything for. So instead,
- 22:06Speaker 1: I'm going to advocate that a state do the job.
- 22:09Speaker 1: Big Daddy government is real. They are basically just saying
- 22:13Speaker 1: it out loud, while Manifestelle does not say it overtly,
- 22:16Speaker 1: but she is probably fine with men figuring out some
- 22:20Speaker 1: other way to keep her safe and comfortable and living
- 22:25Speaker 1: whatever lifestyle she believes that she deserves without her having
- 22:29Speaker 1: to give anything back. Because all of these women are
- 22:33Speaker 1: basically saying I should not like even though they're trying
- 22:37Speaker 1: to play the whole well, if you want to have kids,
- 22:39Speaker 1: have kids. If you don't want to have kids, it's okay,
- 22:41Speaker 1: but all of them land on the I do not
- 22:43Speaker 1: want to have kids, and most importantly I don't want
- 22:46Speaker 1: to be judged for it, but I do expect to
- 22:48Speaker 1: be taken care of mentality. So normally, in order for
- 22:53Speaker 1: a system a society to work, you need people that
- 22:57Speaker 1: run it. If women are not having kids, then you're
- 23:01Speaker 1: not gonna have people like That's just what's going to happen.
- 23:05Speaker 1: And the people who and what you are ensuring by
- 23:07Speaker 1: the way, people like Hannah Cox and Manifestel and those
- 23:11Speaker 1: political lesbians, is that you are not going to reproduce,
- 23:15Speaker 1: and the people who you hate are going to reproduce,
- 23:18Speaker 1: and their kids are gonna have those values most likely,
- 23:21Speaker 1: So you're just gonna have to deal with more of
- 23:23Speaker 1: those people, so you're not really like it's a cope.
- 23:27Speaker 1: And and there's another thing I want to get to
- 23:29Speaker 1: a little bit later, but ultimately, I think that whether
- 23:33Speaker 1: you're a libertarian feminist, a rad feme lesbian separatist, or
- 23:37Speaker 1: just like a you know, female dating strategy like hustle
- 23:43Speaker 1: bunny or whatever you want to call it, girl boss,
- 23:46Speaker 1: at the end of the day, they're all chasing the
- 23:48Speaker 1: same bag, which is men's productivity. And there's one one
- 23:53Speaker 1: way is that Hannah Cox basically does the whole like
- 23:56Speaker 1: I'm only gonna, you know, give attention to the top
- 23:59Speaker 1: men because they're gonna have the best chance of providing.
- 24:01Speaker 1: And so I'm gonna support things like free markets as
- 24:04Speaker 1: long as that serves me, while I'm also gonna shame
- 24:07Speaker 1: men that don't participate at you know, it's not even
- 24:10Speaker 1: men that don't want to participate at all, it's men
- 24:12Speaker 1: that don't participate at a sufficient level. Those men are
- 24:16Speaker 1: deserved to fail, and you know, like are scorned. And meanwhile,
- 24:21Speaker 1: women who are struggling well, they need like every advantage
- 24:23Speaker 1: possible because they've been oppressed throughout history, which, by the way,
- 24:26Speaker 1: Hannacocks does mention in this video that women have been
- 24:29Speaker 1: historically oppressed. So she's just a feminist, like I've been
- 24:32Speaker 1: saying since the beginning. Meanwhile, Manifestel says, well, you know,
- 24:38Speaker 1: she wants the same thing. She wants the benefits, and
- 24:41Speaker 1: and the other two Briannee and Rainbow Shite. They're just like,
- 24:44Speaker 1: we're communists, so you know, we think the government should
- 24:47Speaker 1: do all of this stuff. And by the way, all
- 24:49Speaker 1: of that is essentially men doing all this stuff for them.
- 24:53Speaker 3: So yeah, so to add to that, Actually I lost
- 25:03Speaker 3: my train of thought. I apologize, sorry, I know, it's
- 25:06Speaker 3: it's it's it's also the cat. The cat is being
- 25:08Speaker 3: very distracting right now. So they don't they don't actually
- 25:12Speaker 3: want to invest anything. They don't want to make any
- 25:14Speaker 3: effort on their part to maintain the system at all.
- 25:16Speaker 3: They don't want to take the jobs that maintain the system.
- 25:18Speaker 3: They don't want to have to give birth to the
- 25:20Speaker 3: children that will create the future, which is really interesting
- 25:23Speaker 3: because if they don't, they're going to have a pretty
- 25:26Speaker 3: rough old age. Like if they and if they don't like,
- 25:31Speaker 3: if they don't encourage it, they're they're gonna have a
- 25:33Speaker 3: pretty rough old age. But let's let's listen to a
- 25:35Speaker 3: bit more of Hanna Cocks. Uh yeah, so this the
- 25:38Speaker 3: next'll get I'll bring up my I'll bring up my
- 25:42Speaker 3: rebuttal when we get to uh. I think it was
- 25:45Speaker 3: actually Byrony Claire who talked about ev magazine and all
- 25:49Speaker 3: the studies.
- 25:50Speaker 6: Yeah, or it's just and make it live on this earth.
- 25:53Speaker 5: But nevertheless, it seems as though the targets for this
- 25:56Speaker 5: outrage click bait were hit, and boy did they respond.
- 26:00Speaker 3: Okay, I just want to I want to stop here. Okay,
- 26:03Speaker 3: everybody pause a moment. She acknowledges that moms were the
- 26:09Speaker 3: target of this outrage clickbait. Right, So moms were targeted
- 26:15Speaker 3: with abuse essentially, And I just want everybody to remember
- 26:20Speaker 3: that she said this, that moms were targeted with abuse
- 26:25Speaker 3: by this individual. And I mean, because what else is
- 26:29Speaker 3: clickbait rage but an abusive statement, right, that's intended to
- 26:33Speaker 3: get your dander up? And of course it is like
- 26:36Speaker 3: what this woman said was a condemnation of their life choice,
- 26:41Speaker 3: and it's a condemnation from a particular viewpoint that everything
- 26:44Speaker 3: has to revolve around women's comfort and needs, and women
- 26:49Speaker 3: can't extend themselves to sacrifice those things in order to
- 26:52Speaker 3: do something that's fulfilling on another level. So essentially, essentially,
- 26:57Speaker 3: this woman believes that women level of actualization, you know
- 27:05Speaker 3: Maslow's hierarchy of needs, that women's level of actualization maxes
- 27:10Speaker 3: out at physical comfort, safety, and socialization. So there's no
- 27:17Speaker 3: level above that. There's no self actualization, there's no the
- 27:23Speaker 3: development of an identity through virtues and virtues and ethics.
- 27:31Speaker 3: It's all just women's comfort, women's safety, and socialization. That's it.
- 27:37Speaker 3: Those are the only levels, that moral levels that women
- 27:41Speaker 3: ever attain. So let's keep going.
- 27:43Speaker 1: Yep, Okay, that.
- 27:46Speaker 6: My house is chaotic.
- 27:47Speaker 8: I haven't had a full night of sleep in years,
- 27:49Speaker 8: but you know what, I've never been happier in my life.
- 27:52Speaker 8: There's a kind of joy that comes from motherhood that
- 27:56Speaker 8: you can't explain to people who only live for the
- 27:59Speaker 8: weekend or the next Instagram dopamine hit. Motherhood is messy
- 28:03Speaker 8: and exhausting, but it's also full of belly laughs, sleepy snuggles,
- 28:07Speaker 8: and tiny little voices saying I love you. It's honestly
- 28:10Speaker 8: the most meaningful thing that I have ever done. The
- 28:13Speaker 8: truth is that selfish people don't understand selfless joy. If
- 28:17Speaker 8: your definition of happiness is constant validation and zero responsibility.
- 28:22Speaker 8: Of course, kids sounds like a nightmare, but don't project
- 28:24Speaker 8: that emptiness onto moms. Don't act like we're in hell
- 28:29Speaker 8: just because we've found purpose in something bigger than ourselves.
- 28:32Speaker 6: Motherhood isn't hell. It's a blessing.
- 28:35Speaker 8: And if that makes you uncomfortable, maybe ask yourself why
- 28:38Speaker 8: these people are okay?
- 28:42Speaker 3: All right? And I also want to point out two things.
- 28:46Speaker 3: Cannacox recognizes that again, like one said, she recognizes that
- 28:51Speaker 3: this was targeted abuse, targeted at mothers. She also says, oh,
- 28:55Speaker 3: it's okay to whatever your lifestyle is, it's fine. But
- 28:59Speaker 3: now she's going to take offense over what this mother said.
- 29:03Speaker 3: This mother is defending her lifestyle against a targeted attack
- 29:07Speaker 3: that Hannah Cox one percent just recognized is a targeted attack.
- 29:12Speaker 3: This is what she has to say, all.
- 29:13Speaker 5: Right, never beating the allegations that they are miserable. Like
- 29:17Speaker 5: everything you just said sounds awful. You're like, yeah, my
- 29:20Speaker 5: life sucks, I'm kind of in hell. But also I
- 29:22Speaker 5: get so much validation from this and so much joy
- 29:24Speaker 5: from this. Guess what, sweetie, that's great. Nobody said that
- 29:27Speaker 5: you weren't happy. Chapell wasn't talking about you. She specifically
- 29:30Speaker 5: said people that she knows in her life, her friends, like, bitch,
- 29:34Speaker 5: do you personally know Chapel Rowan, I don't think so.
- 29:37Speaker 1: So this isn't a.
- 29:38Speaker 3: Okay, this is dissembling. She was making it. She was
- 29:43Speaker 3: using people in her life to make a larger point
- 29:46Speaker 3: about motherhood.
- 29:48Speaker 1: Yeah, all of a sudden, it's like, don't generalize. Meanwhile,
- 29:51Speaker 1: let me generalize all these moms.
- 29:53Speaker 3: But ironically, Hannah Cox contradicts herself later again because she
- 29:58Speaker 3: says here, oh, she not making a general point. And
- 30:01Speaker 3: then later on when somebody calls out, oh, what's her
- 30:06Speaker 3: name again, the.
- 30:08Speaker 1: Musician, Oh, Chapelle Rone.
- 30:11Speaker 3: Chappell Ron. When someone calls out Chappelle Rome for targeting
- 30:14Speaker 3: the people in her life specifically, she says, oh, no,
- 30:17Speaker 3: it's just generalization. Well, which is it?
- 30:22Speaker 1: Yeah? Right, it is?
- 30:25Speaker 3: So she just like I said, it's like, there's no
- 30:27Speaker 3: logical consistency that is warm, woman's worms, woman's thinking. It's
- 30:31Speaker 3: all just I want to maintain an emotional feeling in
- 30:34Speaker 3: the moment, and I think that emotional feeling is validation
- 30:38Speaker 3: over my life choices.
- 30:40Speaker 1: Yeah, but the mom did not claim that she wanted
- 30:45Speaker 1: to be validated. She literally said that maybe'na Cox. Well,
- 30:51Speaker 1: I know, I know, but I'm also playing the Hannah Cox. Okay,
- 30:54Speaker 1: Hannah Cox says that that sounds horrible what you're experiencing.
- 30:59Speaker 1: That is your opinion of her experience. But her opinion
- 31:02Speaker 1: of her own experience is this may have there are
- 31:06Speaker 1: periods where it's difficult, but it's worth it. That's what
- 31:09Speaker 1: she's saying. You know, It's like, I mean, like, let's
- 31:13Speaker 1: take it out of children for a minute. Okay, you
- 31:15Speaker 1: own a dog, Allison, and you also have several pets.
- 31:19Speaker 1: You take care of your pets, and it's not always fun,
- 31:22Speaker 1: no that I mean, but you love your pets, so
- 31:25Speaker 1: it's worth it. I mean, I'm not saying children are pets,
- 31:28Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, but I'm saying, you know, like
- 31:33Speaker 1: doing something fulfilling may have a higher value than doing
- 31:39Speaker 1: something that is just for your own gratification in the moment.
- 31:43Speaker 1: So Hannah Cock's is basically saying, I wouldn't want to
- 31:47Speaker 1: be a mother and sure, if you don't want to,
- 31:49Speaker 1: that's fine. But this mother is saying, you know, maybe
- 31:56Speaker 1: you know, maybe you're missing out or this is what
- 31:58Speaker 1: I think about it as a she's giving you the
- 32:01Speaker 1: this is my perspective, you know, And Hannah Cox is
- 32:05Speaker 1: basically like discrediting that on the basis that she wouldn't
- 32:10Speaker 1: like to do that. But that mom is saying something
- 32:12Speaker 1: I think is important that I said on the show
- 32:14Speaker 1: many times. You know, maybe you're not here on this
- 32:17Speaker 1: earth to be happy. Maybe you're here to be useful,
- 32:19Speaker 1: and maybe if you don't, if you're not serving something,
- 32:23Speaker 1: then you're not gonna be happy. Like it's it's like
- 32:27Speaker 1: an inevitability. It's like we're living in a very materialistic
- 32:30Speaker 1: time and you know, you're talking about Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
- 32:34Speaker 1: Like what is at the higher end of that is
- 32:37Speaker 1: esteem needs right, independence and self acknowledgement, self actualization, right,
- 32:44Speaker 1: and and those things don't come from just doing what
- 32:47Speaker 1: you want in the moment. I mean, do whatever you
- 32:49Speaker 1: want with your life. I'm not making a judgment on that,
- 32:52Speaker 1: but like you know, Hannah Cox is trying to basically
- 32:55Speaker 1: say that she's living her life. This is like she's
- 32:59Speaker 1: claim mean on one hand that people should be able
- 33:02Speaker 1: to choose whatever they want, while simultaneously saying that the
- 33:06Speaker 1: way that she chooses is the best way or at
- 33:08Speaker 1: least ideal, or that there's a lot of advantages and
- 33:11Speaker 1: discounts what the woman's saying as her side, you know.
- 33:14Speaker 1: And yeah, all of this really comes down to women
- 33:17Speaker 1: like fighting each other because they feel judged by one
- 33:21Speaker 1: another and they feel the need to like speak against it.
- 33:24Speaker 1: I think generally men just kind of like you know,
- 33:26Speaker 1: that just washes off their back, like, Okay, this is
- 33:28Speaker 1: your opinion to me, I don't give a fuck, right, Yeah, I.
- 33:31Speaker 3: Think sometimes at least in from the man like the
- 33:34Speaker 3: menas for your community, I see a lot of backbiting
- 33:36Speaker 3: like that. But but you're probably right when it comes
- 33:39Speaker 3: to men who aren't terminally generally general yeah, generally, But sorry, Mike,
- 33:46Speaker 3: my cat is unusually sucky today, possibly because that.
- 33:50Speaker 1: When Alison talks, the cat thinks she's talking to her
- 33:53Speaker 1: until she goes over.
- 33:54Speaker 3: Yeah, but not always quite this much, you know, like
- 33:57Speaker 3: getting getting in in in there, just sticking herself in there.
- 34:01Speaker 3: She's been throwing things off the table. I don't know
- 34:04Speaker 3: if you've been hearing thumps. That's what it's been. I
- 34:06Speaker 3: did want to. I did want it because the thing
- 34:08Speaker 3: is getting back to Hannah Cox. Yeah, she wants validation
- 34:13Speaker 3: for her lifestyle. But and she just said that these
- 34:16Speaker 3: women have been targeted, that these women are responding to
- 34:21Speaker 3: rage bait. Right, she said that that any lifestyle is fine.
- 34:28Speaker 3: Well then, just except that this woman is defending her
- 34:30Speaker 3: lifestyle against someone who said that she's basically in hell,
- 34:34Speaker 3: you know, just I.
- 34:34Speaker 1: Mean, why did you feel the need to make a
- 34:36Speaker 1: video about this in the first place. If it was,
- 34:38Speaker 1: why did you need the feeling right to like move
- 34:40Speaker 1: the needle in some direction.
- 34:42Speaker 3: Well, she moves the needle into getting more subs and hits.
- 34:45Speaker 3: Really is Z drama, right, But understand understand that although
- 34:49Speaker 3: I think that she has some genuine beliefs in the regal.
- 34:52Speaker 1: She does have that. She does have that libertarian like
- 34:55Speaker 1: I'm floating up everybody else thing, which I think a
- 34:58Speaker 1: lot of people eat that up, because man, do people
- 35:00Speaker 1: love feeling smarter than other people? Yeah? Like they they
- 35:04Speaker 1: love it, So you're not who oh.
- 35:09Speaker 3: No, the people I argue with on Twitter, they don't
- 35:11Speaker 3: like me. Oh okay, okay, because because their their opinions
- 35:15Speaker 3: are obvious or their their assertions are have obvious flaws
- 35:19Speaker 3: that can be poked at. But all right, so trying
- 35:22Speaker 3: to get back to Hannah Cock's here, Oh god, I
- 35:28Speaker 3: keep losing my train of thought again. I apologize.
- 35:30Speaker 1: You're talking about the woman feeling like she needs to
- 35:33Speaker 1: defend her lifestyle because.
- 35:35Speaker 3: Yeah, she's being attacked and that's the end of it.
- 35:38Speaker 1: Yeah, her lifestyle wasn't being attacked, and she's she's.
- 35:41Speaker 3: Calling out I think she's calling out women who are
- 35:43Speaker 3: attacking mothers and saying, well, you look depressed and are
- 35:47Speaker 3: you look overtired? And that must be you look like
- 35:49Speaker 3: you're a person who's putting their personal uh self interest
- 35:54Speaker 3: and comfort secondary to something else. Therefore you must be
- 35:57Speaker 3: in hell. And it's like, and she's directly identifying that
- 36:01Speaker 3: people who think that, people who think that are selfish
- 36:06Speaker 3: because they don't understand the upper levels of Maslow's hierarchy
- 36:11Speaker 3: of needs. Like again, taking it away from parenthood, there
- 36:14Speaker 3: was a book that I read that was about I
- 36:19Speaker 3: guess Christian charity in particular. I think it was more
- 36:22Speaker 3: general charity, but it just sort of ended up on
- 36:25Speaker 3: Christian charity and it talked about people finding a calling
- 36:28Speaker 3: or a calling finding them to do something for the
- 36:31Speaker 3: benefit of others, and that is actualization to feel like
- 36:36Speaker 3: your presence on this earth is a benefit to someone
- 36:40Speaker 3: else besides yourself, right, and to want to feel that.
- 36:45Speaker 3: By definition, Yeah, there's a self interest component in it,
- 36:48Speaker 3: and it can become toxic when you force people to
- 36:51Speaker 3: be helpless in order to continue to feel good about
- 36:54Speaker 3: saving them. But for the most part, that is a
- 36:57Speaker 3: selfless urge. Insofar as anything that one does on planet
- 37:02Speaker 3: Earth could be considered selfish, that is a selfish a
- 37:05Speaker 3: selfless urge. It is the desire to see your life
- 37:09Speaker 3: to be benefit to others, right, And that's what this
- 37:12Speaker 3: woman is talking about. And she's saying, if you can't
- 37:15Speaker 3: see that putting aside your own personal comfort and your
- 37:19Speaker 3: own personal you know, engaging in sacrifice towards something that's
- 37:26Speaker 3: bigger than yourself, which is the perpetuation of the human
- 37:29Speaker 3: race and our society by being by raising the next generation.
- 37:33Speaker 3: If you can't see the benefit in that, and you
- 37:36Speaker 3: can only see the drawback, then you are a selfish person.
- 37:41Speaker 3: And he's not. I don't think she's saying this to
- 37:43Speaker 3: all single women. She's saying it to the single women
- 37:46Speaker 3: who can't see can't see that being a mother has
- 37:52Speaker 3: its own value, right, despite the sacrifice, despite putting yourself second,
- 37:58Speaker 3: that being a mother has value in terms of, hey,
- 38:01Speaker 3: I've made another life better.
- 38:04Speaker 1: Right.
- 38:05Speaker 3: So she's one hundred percent right. But Hannah Cox is
- 38:07Speaker 3: taking that on as being targeted at her, and that
- 38:11Speaker 3: is really interesting because she says, well, why do you
- 38:14Speaker 3: feel so targeted by this clickbit rage that I specifically
- 38:19Speaker 3: said was targeted at you? And it's like, well, why
- 38:23Speaker 3: do you feel targeted, Hannah? She's very specific that mom
- 38:26Speaker 3: is being is saying this in a specific context. She's
- 38:29Speaker 3: talking about women who do not understand that there can
- 38:32Speaker 3: be fulfillment even with sacrifice.
- 38:37Speaker 1: Yeah. And the funny thing is is that that clip
- 38:39Speaker 1: the mother and that she's very reasonable, like she's not
- 38:43Speaker 1: saying anything crazy, she's not angry, she's not yelling. She's
- 38:46Speaker 1: just saying, like, yes, motherhood is difficult. She didn't make
- 38:51Speaker 1: the claim that it's the most difficult job on the
- 38:53Speaker 1: planet or anything like that. She probably has a husband
- 38:56Speaker 1: who is involved and helps, but it does doesn't matter.
- 39:00Speaker 1: It's still like it's it is work. I mean that's okay,
- 39:04Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, Like what have women done since time immorial,
- 39:10Speaker 1: immemorial and more? You know, since the beginning? What have
- 39:14Speaker 1: women done since the beginning? Had babies under far worse conditions?
- 39:18Speaker 1: Do you think they were complaining all the time? Probably?
- 39:20Speaker 1: Sometimes yeah, but like they got through it. It was
- 39:24Speaker 1: just like life. It's weird because like if you took
- 39:29Speaker 1: away all of our technological advances, all of our comforts,
- 39:35Speaker 1: everything that we have built across generations, the one thing
- 39:39Speaker 1: that will be left that women could do. That the
- 39:41Speaker 1: only thing that women do that men can't do is
- 39:45Speaker 1: give birth, and that's the one thing that they're being
- 39:47Speaker 1: discouraged from doing. Isn't that weird? It's like the one
- 39:51Speaker 1: thing that we're discouraged. Well, people, a lot of people.
- 39:54Speaker 1: I think the Call Her Daddy podcast is likely government
- 39:58Speaker 1: funded and it is. It is intended to radicalize women.
- 40:04Speaker 1: That's why zoomer women are like super like communist socialists
- 40:08Speaker 1: in their mindset. And well, I'll get into that a
- 40:13Speaker 1: little bit later, because there was something.
- 40:14Speaker 3: We're definitely good. This is gonna be like a three
- 40:16Speaker 3: hour video, but okay, I think we should listen to
- 40:22Speaker 3: a bit more. But we can move forward to Uh, yes,
- 40:28Speaker 3: are we are only at six fifty?
- 40:31Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 40:32Speaker 1: I just jumped ahead to the seven to ten time.
- 40:34Speaker 3: Yeah, let's listen.
- 40:35Speaker 6: Okay, nothing about what you just said makes you sound unselfish.
- 40:38Speaker 5: If you want to have kids and they bring you
- 40:40Speaker 5: joy and they spark light in your life and it's
- 40:42Speaker 5: worth all the sacrifice for you, that's great. But that
- 40:45Speaker 5: doesn't make you an unselfish person. In fact, it means
- 40:48Speaker 5: you reproduced an image of yourself because you love yourself
- 40:51Speaker 5: so much you wanted to give yourself that gift.
- 40:54Speaker 1: Wow, I hope does not have kids. That is insane,
- 40:58Speaker 1: Like imagine thinking that the only reason why you exist
- 41:01Speaker 1: is because your mother is so narcissistic that she needed
- 41:04Speaker 1: to reproduce so that you could have a mini you, unless,
- 41:07Speaker 1: of course, you do have one of those moms that
- 41:09Speaker 1: like put you in pageants and try to like relive
- 41:12Speaker 1: their younger years, you know, through you. But that's that
- 41:16Speaker 1: is some crazy shit to say. Wow, that is I
- 41:20Speaker 1: do remember hearing that and going, WHOA, Hannah Cox, don't
- 41:23Speaker 1: have kids like you are. Probably you would probably murder
- 41:26Speaker 1: your children with.
- 41:27Speaker 3: Your I wonder if after saying that, Hannah Cox would
- 41:30Speaker 3: admit to the amount of of mothers or I even
- 41:35Speaker 3: want to call them mothers who murder, Yeah, murder their children,
- 41:39Speaker 3: not just smother but murder, rape, beat, neglect, you know,
- 41:46Speaker 3: to take destroy their children's relationship with their father. I mean,
- 41:51Speaker 3: what would would she acknowledge that or would she immediately defend.
- 41:55Speaker 1: The because a men for that somehow may be meant
- 41:58Speaker 1: somebody somehow. But yeah, she she's trying to invert reality
- 42:01Speaker 1: or at least make the opposite case that, like women
- 42:04Speaker 1: having children are actually selfish and women not having children
- 42:08Speaker 1: are not being selfish. That's what she's trying to do.
- 42:11Speaker 3: Yeah, and opinions. These are her genuine opinions. Like she said, oh,
- 42:16Speaker 3: every lifestyle is fine, but she's definitely going to take
- 42:20Speaker 3: it personal. When this woman is talking about women who
- 42:23Speaker 3: don't understand motherhood or the lifestyle choices around motherhood, which
- 42:29Speaker 3: is like a kind of charity. It's taking a sense
- 42:33Speaker 3: of self actualization from the development of another human being,
- 42:37Speaker 3: right in the positive, Like there is a very negative
- 42:40Speaker 3: aspect to motherhood, but in the positive, that's what that is.
- 42:44Speaker 3: And she's she's gonna say, no, it's all selfish and actually,
- 42:49Speaker 3: let's just continue because you're right at the next point.
- 42:52Speaker 6: Damn.
- 42:52Speaker 5: And most of the reasons people choose to have kids,
- 42:54Speaker 5: they tend to be more on the selfish side of
- 42:56Speaker 5: the spectrum, whereas people who don't want kids oftentimes they're
- 43:00Speaker 5: doing it for very unselfish reasons.
- 43:02Speaker 6: I've covered the subject more in depth.
- 43:03Speaker 1: Oh you mean like uh net zero carbon emissions or
- 43:06Speaker 1: something like that. That's like they bought into the propaganda. Yeah.
- 43:10Speaker 1: And here's the thing too, like Hannah Cock's libertarian feminists
- 43:14Speaker 1: is agreeing with the climate change arguments, which are totally
- 43:17Speaker 1: pro government, like gigantic government, like global government. This woman's
- 43:22Speaker 1: not a serious person.
- 43:24Speaker 3: No, she's not. I just I just point out she said, oh,
- 43:27Speaker 3: all lifestyles are acceptable. But this woman saying those women
- 43:31Speaker 3: who cannot understand, like I'm I'm not a mother, right,
- 43:36Speaker 3: but I can understand what she's saying.
- 43:39Speaker 1: No, Yeah, I mean it's it's pretty like, yeah, it's
- 43:42Speaker 1: pretty obvious, like and I can understand that she's.
- 43:45Speaker 3: Not directing it at women like me who are not mothers.
- 43:49Speaker 1: No, she's simply explaining the that like being a mother
- 43:52Speaker 1: is not terrible. That's all she's saying.
- 43:55Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a judgment there, No, there was some judgment
- 43:58Speaker 3: because she said women who don't understand how the sacrifice
- 44:03Speaker 3: leads to a fulfilling life, you know. But she's calling
- 44:06Speaker 3: out those women. She's not calling out every woman who's
- 44:09Speaker 3: chosen a single lifestyle. She's calling out the women who
- 44:12Speaker 3: have chosen or a child free lifestyle. She's calling out
- 44:16Speaker 3: the women who've chosen a child free lifestyle that cannot
- 44:19Speaker 3: understand that you can sacrifice personal comfort, you know, for
- 44:27Speaker 3: something that you find fulfilling, something greater than yourself, right,
- 44:32Speaker 3: that you feel is greater than yourself. And yeah, I mean,
- 44:35Speaker 3: by Hannah Cox's definition, every single thing we do as
- 44:40Speaker 3: human beings is selfish. But let's do a little bit
- 44:43Speaker 3: of a gradient. Doing something because you want to feel
- 44:47Speaker 3: like your presence on this or benefits other people is
- 44:52Speaker 3: a little bit on closer to selfless than it is
- 44:56Speaker 3: to selfish, even though it might be selfish at the
- 44:59Speaker 3: end of the day, because you get to feel really
- 45:01Speaker 3: good about yourself presumably, you know. But let's let's continue.
- 45:07Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, let's continue before all length of video.
- 45:11Speaker 5: But it continues to amaze me the self righteousness so
- 45:13Speaker 5: many of these people have and just complete lack of
- 45:16Speaker 5: self awareness.
- 45:16Speaker 6: When it comes to this conversation and.
- 45:20Speaker 3: She says something profoundly self righteous, right, she said, my
- 45:25Speaker 3: decision to not have children, it's the ethical decision. Your
- 45:30Speaker 3: decision to have children.
- 45:33Speaker 1: Sacrifice. I am making the sacrifice.
- 45:36Speaker 3: I am making the sacrifice. Even though she said women
- 45:42Speaker 3: women who have children are in hell, or she signs
- 45:45Speaker 3: off on that they're miserable, she says, you're not making
- 45:48Speaker 3: the case you're not miserable. Yeah, but that's not the
- 45:50Speaker 3: case she was making. She's making the case that her
- 45:54Speaker 3: physical misery is worth the self actualization. I think that's
- 45:59Speaker 3: what really blows these women's minds. That there's a resource,
- 46:04Speaker 3: a resource beyond their physical and emotional comfort that they
- 46:09Speaker 3: will never access. There's a world beyond their knowing that
- 46:14Speaker 3: they will never touch and see, and that these women occupy,
- 46:18Speaker 3: these mothers or other women who have sacrificed some aspect
- 46:22Speaker 3: of their comfort, emotional or physical, in order to pursue
- 46:27Speaker 3: benefiting someone else in the world. Yep, okay, all right, And.
- 46:33Speaker 5: It isn't betraying you for them to generically say, hey,
- 46:37Speaker 5: I've noticed that most of the people I know who
- 46:39Speaker 5: have kids are not happy their lives, don't look like
- 46:41Speaker 5: how I would want mine to look.
- 46:42Speaker 6: It's like women who complain.
- 46:46Speaker 1: No, just women complaining as the default state. But yeah,
- 46:50Speaker 1: it's fine. They're generally dissatisfied with everything.
- 46:55Speaker 3: The mother was like, yeah, I've made a choice and
- 46:57Speaker 3: I'm happy with it. It's it's uncomfortable some but I
- 47:00Speaker 3: feel the joy of raising another life, you know.
- 47:03Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, you know, without too much of
- 47:06Speaker 1: a digression, Like this Saturday night was Pasca, the Pasca celebration,
- 47:14Speaker 1: which is like Orthodox Easter, and it starts really late,
- 47:18Speaker 1: like eleven thirty at the night at night, and it
- 47:21Speaker 1: goes until like three in the morning. And Lindsay and
- 47:24Speaker 1: I were there and everybody that was there, and most
- 47:27Speaker 1: of the people who are at church are families with
- 47:29Speaker 1: lots of kids because those people are having kids, and
- 47:33Speaker 1: so you have these little, you know, little ones running around, crying, making,
- 47:37Speaker 1: you know, yelling at each other and stuff like after
- 47:39Speaker 1: everything's over, because they fell asleep for most of it,
- 47:42Speaker 1: and then they woke up at the end when the
- 47:44Speaker 1: food was put out because the fasting was being broken.
- 47:46Speaker 1: So everybody's feasting and we're having all this food and
- 47:49Speaker 1: stuff and there's kids everywhere, and yeah, you have to
- 47:53Speaker 1: like keep track of them. You have to watch them.
- 47:55Speaker 1: The moms are and the fathers are like chasing them
- 47:58Speaker 1: around and making sure they don't, you know, break their
- 48:01Speaker 1: heads on something. But they you can tell that they
- 48:05Speaker 1: love their children to death. And like, you know, we
- 48:08Speaker 1: we go on about bear moms and how or mama bears,
- 48:11Speaker 1: you know, and how like activated they get. You should
- 48:14Speaker 1: see some of these dads. Like there's a guy, there's
- 48:16Speaker 1: a father at this he is strapped, like he has
- 48:20Speaker 1: a fucking gun and a ninth he works for secret
- 48:24Speaker 1: service or something. He works for the government. I don't
- 48:26Speaker 1: ask any questions, but but yeah, I mean, like they're
- 48:29Speaker 1: the fathers are. It's a different kind of involved. Like
- 48:32Speaker 1: they're constantly on the lookout right with their kids. And
- 48:36Speaker 1: but they love their children and and it's very rewarding
- 48:40Speaker 1: for them. I don't I couldn't explain it because obviously
- 48:43Speaker 1: I don't have kids, but I always wanted them. I
- 48:45Speaker 1: just can't have them now because of cancer. But you know,
- 48:50Speaker 1: it's enviable. I mean, like I know that it wouldn't
- 48:53Speaker 1: be easy, but I wouldn't like I wouldn't try to
- 48:57Speaker 1: justify it by saying something like, oh, I'm happier because
- 49:02Speaker 1: of x y Z or I think that my life
- 49:04Speaker 1: is better because of the I don't know. I just
- 49:06Speaker 1: don't get that, you know, and I can see it.
- 49:09Speaker 1: I can see that that you can be at once
- 49:11Speaker 1: exhausted but also absolutely like thrilled, and they are. That's
- 49:16Speaker 1: what I see around me every day. Lots of people
- 49:19Speaker 1: have kids here, so this is not weird, you know.
- 49:23Speaker 1: And I don't know. I think that this this sentiment,
- 49:30Speaker 1: this anti family thing, it only comes from women like
- 49:35Speaker 1: men who are who are like Mick Taw, they don't
- 49:39Speaker 1: actually advocate against family like I don't see that from
- 49:43Speaker 1: Better Bachelor. I don't see that from I mean, maybe
- 49:46Speaker 1: there are people out there that are, but I've never
- 49:49Speaker 1: seen it. I don't see it from men. I don't
- 49:50Speaker 1: see it from Micktow. I don't see it from you know, pways.
- 49:53Speaker 1: I think that generally men are pro family, pro marriage
- 49:57Speaker 1: all that, even if they're red pilk. I mean, they're
- 50:00Speaker 1: not pro marriage because of the system, but they're pro
- 50:03Speaker 1: like people having kids and stuff, right, they want to
- 50:06Speaker 1: fix the system at least so.
- 50:09Speaker 3: But anyway, Okay, well, I had a few things to
- 50:12Speaker 3: add to this. First of all, there's a context for
- 50:14Speaker 3: her to say this. Somebody pointed out, like there was
- 50:17Speaker 3: a woman on this who said, this is why you
- 50:19Speaker 3: don't talk to your single female friends, because they betray
- 50:23Speaker 3: you by airing your laundry and public. And then of
- 50:28Speaker 3: course Hannah Cox's pivots from saying that you know, bitch,
- 50:35Speaker 3: do you personally know Chappelle Rowan? I don't think so,
- 50:38Speaker 3: this isn't about you, and then she pivots to them
- 50:41Speaker 3: it isn't about betraying you for them to generically say, hey,
- 50:45Speaker 3: I've noticed. So on the one hand, these these mothers
- 50:49Speaker 3: can't call this out because it's specifically targeted at Chappelle
- 50:53Speaker 3: Rowan's friends. But on the other it's generic when there
- 50:59Speaker 3: is the creticism that this is specifically targeted at Rowan's friends.
- 51:03Speaker 3: So which is it? Is it generic or is it specific?
- 51:06Speaker 3: I think it's both. I think she's specifically airing out
- 51:10Speaker 3: the dirty laundry of her friend in order to target
- 51:14Speaker 3: parents generally. So both criticisms apply, but Hannah Cox is
- 51:18Speaker 3: trying to make it so that neither do, because it's
- 51:21Speaker 3: general when these parents want to call out Rowan for
- 51:25Speaker 3: betraying her friend's trust and it's specific when these parents
- 51:28Speaker 3: want to call out Rowan for condemning all women or
- 51:31Speaker 3: all mothers. So I just wanted to point that out.
- 51:34Speaker 3: It typical Hannah Cox doublethink wants it both ways.
- 51:37Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, Roan is using an anecdote to make
- 51:42Speaker 1: a generalized statement about yeah, and.
- 51:44Speaker 3: She's also very specific with it with the age of
- 51:47Speaker 3: their kids. I'm pretty sure that the if the friends
- 51:51Speaker 3: that she has no exactly who she's talking about.
- 51:55Speaker 1: All right, let's go to there is such a thing
- 51:57Speaker 1: as the terrible two's I jumped ahead to.
- 52:00Speaker 3: So okay, yeah, here we go.
- 52:03Speaker 5: When they see something that's hard or strenuous that is
- 52:05Speaker 5: equivocally going to better their lives, pursue it. It's why
- 52:08Speaker 5: women are getting degrees at a much higher rate than men,
- 52:12Speaker 5: even though that's strenuous and difficult and expensive and a long,
- 52:14Speaker 5: they're getting more degrees.
- 52:15Speaker 6: They're getting higher degrees.
- 52:17Speaker 5: In my own personal life, I've also noticed that it
- 52:19Speaker 5: tends to be women who are doing the very hard
- 52:22Speaker 5: and strenuous work of breaking generational curses, going to therapy,
- 52:26Speaker 5: working on their mental health, fixing bonds within their families.
- 52:29Speaker 3: So the situation is not that actually, actually letter finish.
- 52:36Speaker 1: A letter finish.
- 52:37Speaker 5: Women in this generation are afraid of things that are
- 52:40Speaker 5: hard or strenuous, or that they think life.
- 52:42Speaker 6: Should be lived like a child at Disneyland.
- 52:44Speaker 5: It's that they are only willing to put in hard
- 52:46Speaker 5: work and face things that are strenuous when it is
- 52:49Speaker 5: going to definitely improve their lives.
- 52:51Speaker 9: And again, okay, so first of all, how did how
- 53:00Speaker 9: did women get excluded from that from from women in
- 53:03Speaker 9: the generation or how did mothers get excluded from that.
- 53:07Speaker 2: Right?
- 53:08Speaker 3: And then also, women only put effort in when it
- 53:10Speaker 3: improves their lives, when it when they get credentials or
- 53:13Speaker 3: it improves their income. Yeah, you're not really disproving that
- 53:18Speaker 3: woman's observation that if you don't understand self sacrifice in
- 53:24Speaker 3: order to develop or to benefit others, to see yourself
- 53:29Speaker 3: in the world in terms of benefiting others, that you
- 53:32Speaker 3: are a selfish selfish see yet, see you?
- 53:35Speaker 1: No, No, I thought that not having kids could be
- 53:37Speaker 1: is self less. Actually getting those degrees, those sweet, sweet
- 53:42Speaker 1: degrees and putting yourself six figures in debt for an
- 53:45Speaker 1: office job that's probably going to get be made obsolete
- 53:48Speaker 1: by AI is completely selfless. It's doing it for the planet.
- 53:53Speaker 3: She's not even saying that it's selfless, Brian No.
- 53:56Speaker 1: But she earlier in the video claimed that women who
- 53:59Speaker 1: don't have kids are doing something selfless, or at least
- 54:02Speaker 1: they believe they do. And now she's going back and saying, well,
- 54:06Speaker 1: actually they're they're doing all this stuff for themselves. And
- 54:09Speaker 1: again I'm brought back to thinking about, like, why are
- 54:12Speaker 1: more women trying to get degrees than make babies. Again,
- 54:16Speaker 1: I'm not making a prescription here, I'm just saying, like,
- 54:20Speaker 1: is what is it that's going through the minds of
- 54:22Speaker 1: women that they think it's a better idea to go
- 54:25Speaker 1: into debt, like college debt for you know, six figures
- 54:30Speaker 1: to get a job that may become obsolete by AI.
- 54:33Speaker 1: Because women don't want to do jobs that you know,
- 54:36Speaker 1: will be replaced by all kinds of other machines. They
- 54:38Speaker 1: want to do the stuff that's easy and cushy, so
- 54:41Speaker 1: they get their avocado toasts and their lattes before they're
- 54:44Speaker 1: shift and play you know, ping pong or whatever. Like
- 54:48Speaker 1: they want the Google job, they want the tech job.
- 54:50Speaker 1: They want that nice, comfortable, you know, air condition but
- 54:54Speaker 1: not too much job that pays really well, and they
- 54:58Speaker 1: want to spend all of their you know, twenties doing
- 55:01Speaker 1: that so they can like hang out with their friends
- 55:03Speaker 1: and do the sex and the city thing on weekends
- 55:06Speaker 1: and the you know, if a woman says, well, actually
- 55:11Speaker 1: I prefer to be a mother, they go ham on
- 55:13Speaker 1: her like that's kind of what I'm seeing, you know.
- 55:15Speaker 1: It's like it's about well, go ahead, okay, So what we.
- 55:21Speaker 3: Have as Rowan starts by saying that mothers look like
- 55:23Speaker 3: they're in hell. Mothers explain, at least the mothers who
- 55:27Speaker 3: understand this, explain that no, it's not hell. It is
- 55:31Speaker 3: self sacrifice for the feeling that you are benefiting somebody
- 55:35Speaker 3: else in the world besides yourself. And then Hannah says, oh, well,
- 55:40Speaker 3: you you make these selfish choices to become mothers, and
- 55:44Speaker 3: it's actually selfless for me to make the choice not
- 55:47Speaker 3: to do that self sacrifice for the benefit of others,
- 55:50Speaker 3: but to say, hey, I'm actually sacrificing for the benefit
- 55:53Speaker 3: of others by not having children, not doing this kind
- 55:58Speaker 3: of personal self sacrifice to develop another human being. I'm
- 56:01Speaker 3: doing it, you know, net zero this. But also, I
- 56:04Speaker 3: don't want to do anything in which I have to
- 56:07Speaker 3: sacrifice if it doesn't directly benefit my life if I
- 56:12Speaker 3: don't get credentialed at the end. I also want to
- 56:14Speaker 3: point out that she's talking about women breaking generational curses.
- 56:17Speaker 3: But you're not breaking a generational curse unless you're making
- 56:20Speaker 3: another generation.
- 56:21Speaker 1: Yeah. No, right, I mean you are breaking a generational
- 56:24Speaker 1: curse by ending a generation to do it.
- 56:28Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 56:29Speaker 1: But I mean, like, at the very least, I think
- 56:31Speaker 1: that what the mom's responses are is essentially trying to
- 56:35Speaker 1: balance out the conversation and saying, look, we hear constantly
- 56:40Speaker 1: all of the ways that are all the reasons why
- 56:44Speaker 1: young women should not, you know, pair up with men
- 56:47Speaker 1: and make babies. This is and Hanna Cox thinks the
- 56:50Speaker 1: opposite is true. She thinks that there's like all kinds
- 56:52Speaker 1: of pro natalist propaganda, and I think it's hilarious.
- 56:55Speaker 3: Oh, we can go through that, we can go through that.
- 56:58Speaker 3: But oh what go ahead, Okay if you're yeah, let's
- 57:07Speaker 3: bang them out all right?
- 57:08Speaker 1: Eleven forty Well, this is.
- 57:10Speaker 5: Coming on, and having kids is not definitely going to
- 57:13Speaker 5: improve your life. For many people, it would bring your life.
- 57:16Speaker 5: For others, it would be the best thing that ever
- 57:18Speaker 5: happened to you.
- 57:18Speaker 3: But the difference, as that woman identified, is whether or
- 57:23Speaker 3: not you actually want to see yourself in terms of
- 57:26Speaker 3: benefiting others. It's as simple as that. That's the difference.
- 57:31Speaker 3: And when you look at these women and you say,
- 57:33Speaker 3: oh god, it's so miserable, they're like, yes, I'm sacrificing
- 57:37Speaker 3: my personal comfort in order to bring another life into
- 57:40Speaker 3: the world and raise it in a raise that life
- 57:43Speaker 3: in a way that it becomes productive and continues on.
- 57:47Speaker 3: I am trying to multiply the happiness in the world
- 57:50Speaker 3: by raising a productive, healthy child. Right then, that requires
- 57:54Speaker 3: self sacrifice. But I find that personally fulfilling because I
- 57:59Speaker 3: want I see myself. And the other thing is, this
- 58:01Speaker 3: is something I occurs that I was This is I
- 58:04Speaker 3: think the thing that I was trying to get to.
- 58:08Speaker 3: Hannah Cox has not faced the fact she's gonna die. Yeah,
- 58:13Speaker 3: if she doesn't want to leave some kind of a legacy,
- 58:17Speaker 3: some way of touching people outside of her immediate comfort,
- 58:23Speaker 3: she doesn't. She hasn't actually looked death in the face
- 58:27Speaker 3: and realized it's common for me, Yeah it is, Hannah right.
- 58:33Speaker 1: Well, the thing is I've noticed that Hannah Cox has
- 58:36Speaker 1: been making a lot of like videos about like how
- 58:40Speaker 1: you know motherhood, Like basically kind of like fighting against
- 58:44Speaker 1: this so called stereotype of like women being expected to
- 58:47Speaker 1: be mothers. She's been fighting it pretty hard lately. And
- 58:50Speaker 1: I'm thinking, are you getting into your thirties and you're
- 58:53Speaker 1: starting to like wonder if you made the right decision,
- 58:56Speaker 1: and so to sort of justify the life choices you
- 58:58Speaker 1: have made, your making this kind of content that's like, look, man,
- 59:02Speaker 1: I'm just doing the the libertarian thing, which is like
- 59:05Speaker 1: living the best life as a libertarian person. And I'm
- 59:10Speaker 1: gonna use like, you know, like I'm not going to think, oh,
- 59:13Speaker 1: maybe I should have done something different. And I would
- 59:16Speaker 1: say there's another thing too, is that you know, not
- 59:18Speaker 1: not every woman is fit to be a mother, but
- 59:21Speaker 1: I think that a lot of women were a lot
- 59:24Speaker 1: more in previous generations and are now. And so you
- 59:28Speaker 1: got to ask yourself why is that? Because I would
- 59:31Speaker 1: I would concede, and I don't think it's hard to
- 59:33Speaker 1: say that probably there was a time where the majority
- 59:36Speaker 1: of women could have been, you know, would have been
- 59:39Speaker 1: better mothers or work or more fitting as mothers, more
- 59:44Speaker 1: ready to be mothers, more prepared to be mothers by
- 59:47Speaker 1: their by their own mothers or their extended family or
- 59:50Speaker 1: the community or whatever. I know that these things isis,
- 59:53Speaker 1: and it wasn't even that long ago, because I remember,
- 59:55Speaker 1: you know, my sister was like essentially learning of about
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: womanhood from the extended family, from my grandma, from my aunts,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: you know, and that's gone, Like I don't think that
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: that's really a thing. At least it's a lot less.
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: So you have to wonder what is it that changed?
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: How did our culture change so that we have essentially
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: trained women to go against their own like you know,
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: never mind, like sort of like a religiously prescribed way
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: of living. Let their biology their biological nature, you know,
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: which is to have kids, Like we're encouraging them to
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: kill their children and to live single, you know, to
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: be single and party and act like men and try
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: to embody all the things that they imagine men embody
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: and enjoy, even though that's also not true because men
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: are not the simple creatures that these people make them
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: out to be. And those women find themselves miserable, like
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: they're twenty five, you know. They joke about like how
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: women in the fifties were on like valume and stuff.
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: But I think more women are medicated today than ever
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: in history, Like it's worse, you know, like orders of magnitude.
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: So it's like, well, what changed? What is it that
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: you think about the world that has altered your perceptions
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: so fundamentally make really boils the noodle?
- 1:01:19Speaker 3: Yes it does. I think I have my own opinions,
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: but we probably should.
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: All right, let's play the rest of it.
- 1:01:27Speaker 6: Everybody make the same choices as you is very weird.
- 1:01:30Speaker 5: I don't know how you can look around at the
- 1:01:32Speaker 5: world and the number of people who need substances just
- 1:01:35Speaker 5: to cope on a daily basis, or look around at
- 1:01:38Speaker 5: all of the hardships that happen to people through no
- 1:01:40Speaker 5: fault of their own. I don't know how you can
- 1:01:43Speaker 5: seriously look at all the kids who are abandoned, who
- 1:01:46Speaker 5: are abused, who grow up in broken homes, and say
- 1:01:50Speaker 5: that every single person should be having kids.
- 1:01:54Speaker 3: Why?
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: Why is that happening though, Hannah Cox? Why? Okay? First
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: of all, the Internet has a way of affecting your
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: perception of reality because we tend to focus on the negative.
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: This is why I don't trust like studies that measure happiness,
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: because if you ask someone to tell you what they're
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: happy about, they usually generally don't have a lot to say,
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: but if you ask someone what it is or unhappy about,
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: they have a laundry list of things. Because we're generally
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: we generally measure our reality by our dissatisfaction, and I
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: think women more so because they're in a more vulnerable position,
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: so they tend to operate in a you know, a
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: negative framework of everything. So but like if, but first
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: of all, that's the Internet, it does that. But the
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: other thing is, yeah, I agree, there's a lot of
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: people growing up in broken homes and the families are
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: not really like together, and there's a lot of kids
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: that are messed up and abandoned and murdered and all that.
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: But like, why is that? Like has that also always
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: been true throughout history? Somehow? I don't think so. Yeah,
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: I think that there was something that changed the dynamics
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: of relationships and family that I don't know if you're
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: ready to go there yet figure out for yourself. You know,
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: what's funny is that we're basically like, we're in a
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: world where we're swimming in the problems that feminism made,
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: and they are feminists today complaining about them as though
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: that's just always been the way things are, and they
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: won't acknowledge that it came from their own ideas. This
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: is literally the trans thing. So you guys know, in
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: the UK the Supreme Court passed the ruling that was like,
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: you know, men are men and women are women now
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: and you know, and like the trans debate is over
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: and the turf's won, right, And the thing is is
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: that I'm sitting there looking and I'm like, do you
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: guys realize that it was you that created this problem
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: and now are fighting the problem you created And some
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: people like Julie Bindall are blaming it on men. But
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: so like this is the same thing. Most of this stuff,
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: like with motherhood and singlehood and natalism and all that,
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: it's all stuff made by feminism and now feminists are
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: talking around it like it's not made by them. And
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: it's like so when they point out, oh, look at
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: all the damage to kill children, look at all of
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: the single mother homes, look at all these problems they
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: just came from nowhere must be patriarchy. It's literally feminist
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: like legislation that did that. But anyway, yeah, I'm sorry, house,
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: I know you want to move on because we had
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: a lot of con to cover.
- 1:04:39Speaker 3: Yes, no, it's okay. I mean, uh well, it'll take
- 1:04:43Speaker 3: as long as it takes.
- 1:04:44Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, underneath their skin.
- 1:04:47Speaker 5: There are a lot of people who get pressured into
- 1:04:49Speaker 5: having kids, particularly women. I always think it's so odd
- 1:04:52Speaker 5: when I hear right wing people saying like feminism has
- 1:04:55Speaker 5: broken women's brains, Feminism convinced them not to have kids.
- 1:04:59Speaker 6: This generation grew up.
- 1:05:00Speaker 3: Being told kids like it's actually uh not. Byrony the
- 1:05:06Speaker 3: Queer Kiwi, who later on makes a statement on who's
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: being pressured to have kids. She doesn't actually come to
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: any conclusion because it's it's it's against her ideology, but
- 1:05:18Speaker 3: there's this brief moment where she recognizes there's a hell
- 1:05:21Speaker 3: of a lot of pressure on men to have kids
- 1:05:23Speaker 3: and not to consider whether or not they want to.
- 1:05:26Speaker 3: But we'll talk about when we get there. So yeah,
- 1:05:29Speaker 3: let's let's continue with this, and I can hear everything
- 1:05:32Speaker 3: that's happening. I'm just doing something with a light over there.
- 1:05:36Speaker 5: All right, Okay, you don't know any women. If you
- 1:05:39Speaker 5: truly think that's what's happened, that's not what's happened at all.
- 1:05:42Speaker 5: I still felt very pressure, and thankfully not by my parents,
- 1:05:45Speaker 5: but by vastly everybody else.
- 1:05:46Speaker 6: In my life to have kids.
- 1:05:48Speaker 5: It is pushed and pushed and pushed on women, as
- 1:05:51Speaker 5: I said, and when you choose not to, you get
- 1:05:53Speaker 5: attacked to this day, so to act like the pendulum
- 1:05:56Speaker 5: swung so far over that women are no longer pressure
- 1:05:59Speaker 5: to have kids ridiculous, they act, Oh.
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: So you're so people in your life were suggesting that
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: maybe or or maybe they didn't pressure you pressure, maybe
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: they just asked, you know, like, so, what are you
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: gonna have kids? I know that that happens usually it's
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: from women asking. But like, if you think about it again,
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: if you look at like the culture at large, like movies, television, fiction,
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: our entertainment, our popular culture, our music, it's the opposite
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: of that. It's it's all about like women's empowerment, girl bossing,
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: you know, career focus. So what if the people in
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: your life are just they're aware of that, and they're
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: trying to like counter like, you know, be the counterweight
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: or at least provide the alternate view. Or maybe you've
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: been vocal about not wanting kids and they're like kind
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: of worried that you're gonna end up like unhappy, and
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: you're you only got so much time and so because
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: they care about you, they're like, maybe you should have kids.
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: I don't know, or I don't know. You're just saying
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: that this is like all you deal with.
- 1:07:04Speaker 3: Someone in the vertical chat says, it's Lanelle Aubrey. I
- 1:07:08Speaker 3: think it's fantastic you find it personally fulfilling. I think
- 1:07:11Speaker 3: it's horrific that just because you do, you think all
- 1:07:13Speaker 3: women should all women do and should not all women
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: make good parents people. Why do you force that person
- 1:07:20Speaker 3: to have children. Nobody's forcing anyone to have anything, but
- 1:07:23Speaker 3: Lonelle Aubrey. One day, you're going to be in bed,
- 1:07:30Speaker 3: and you are going to know that that is the
- 1:07:32Speaker 3: last night of your life where it's likely that you
- 1:07:35Speaker 3: will be aware that it's one of the last nights
- 1:07:37Speaker 3: of your life. What do you think about your life
- 1:07:40Speaker 3: in that moment? What do you think about what you've
- 1:07:43Speaker 3: done with your life?
- 1:07:45Speaker 7: Right?
- 1:07:45Speaker 3: Think about that, Lonelle Aubrey. You're lying in bed, your
- 1:07:50Speaker 3: hands are paper thin, you can see all of the
- 1:07:53Speaker 3: veins through them. You know that breathing is becoming very difficult,
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: the weight in your chest is pressing down, and you
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: realize that your life is slipping away. What do you
- 1:08:04Speaker 3: think about in those moments. Aubrey all right, yep, with that,
- 1:08:10Speaker 3: let's let's do a little bit more.
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: Thirteen thirty four. I think that's the end of that clip,
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: so thirteen forty five. I mean, obviously it's not for everybody,
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: and we're we're not prescribing.
- 1:08:24Speaker 3: Her obviously.
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: Kids. Yeah, I mean, I wish I could, but I can't.
- 1:08:30Speaker 1: But I mean, it is what it is.
- 1:08:31Speaker 3: I'll talk about people.
- 1:08:32Speaker 5: Never actually even said that this was about mom's. Moms
- 1:08:35Speaker 5: made it about themselves. She actually said that she didn't
- 1:08:37Speaker 5: know any people who had kids, meaning men and women.
- 1:08:40Speaker 6: But that's where the conversation has gone. Anyways.
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: I think they're yeah, probably because men's input doesn't matter
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: when this is all about women anyway, so nobody wants
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: to hear from men anyhow. And she also because Chappelle
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: whatever her name is, Ron or whatever, the woman who
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: said the thing, she's like a queer person, activist type,
- 1:09:07Speaker 1: so she probably refers to, you know, human beings, not
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: without gendering them. So she's just like they've m's right,
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: So that could be true too. I mean, anyway, is
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: there anything else you wanted to say to it? Because
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: you made that a timecode or no, oh, Chappelle, moms
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: made it about themselves. That was thirteen forty five. Yeah,
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: so fifteen forty seven unless you wanted to say something else.
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: Yeah, how okay, So again she's talking about how oh
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: it was it wasn't a generalized statement. She was just
- 1:09:46Speaker 3: talking about her friends. But elsewhere when when someone called
- 1:09:50Speaker 3: Chappelle out for talking about her friends, she said it
- 1:09:52Speaker 3: was a generalized statement. It's just more of this inconsistency.
- 1:09:56Speaker 3: It's logical inconsistency.
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: Yeah, let's keep going, all right, So fifteen forty five
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: or forty seven.
- 1:10:03Speaker 5: All people behave and with ensuring that their organizations can continue,
- 1:10:08Speaker 5: which takes a lot of money to religious people.
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: Shade that she's throwing. It's typical. Yeah, she's a religious person.
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: Yeah, that's usually.
- 1:10:19Speaker 6: Well, let's see kids, they tend to fall on line.
- 1:10:21Speaker 6: They tend to be more conservative.
- 1:10:23Speaker 5: Hence you get more right wing people having kids than
- 1:10:26Speaker 5: left wing people. That isn't because the left is like
- 1:10:28Speaker 5: preaching an anti baby message.
- 1:10:30Speaker 6: It's really not.
- 1:10:31Speaker 5: In fact, I tend to find the less takes on
- 1:10:33Speaker 5: most of these kinds of issues to be more grounded
- 1:10:36Speaker 5: in the principles of individualism and limited government.
- 1:10:39Speaker 6: Than the rights are these days. And lastly, of course.
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: How so yeah, so that's crazy, Like okay, whatever, whatever,
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: I get it. I know what Hannah Cox is doing.
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: She's basically like again, floating above everybody else. But also
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: she's a feminist at the end of the day, so
- 1:10:59Speaker 1: it like libertarianism is just like a word that she
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: added on to separate herself from the crowd. Pretty sure,
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: leftists are very very pro government, Like that's the one
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: thing that defines them. It's the one thing. They're status.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: That's the defining characteristic of a leftist, whether they're well
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: intentioned or not. They are statists like women are status.
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: They tend to be statists because they want that, like
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: I said before, that security, that safety, that provision that
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: they would normally get from men from the state, because
- 1:11:36Speaker 1: they have bought into the idea that the state is
- 1:11:38Speaker 1: a guaranteed supporter and provider and protector whereas men are not.
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: They're a big giant question mark. That's scary. And you
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: have feminism to thank for women's fear of men, right
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: because the purpose of it is to get them dependent
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: on the state. So anyway, she's out of touch.
- 1:11:59Speaker 6: Yeah, for sure, you have the mouth breathing man.
- 1:12:03Speaker 5: He says feminism is something unhappy women invented to sabotage
- 1:12:06Speaker 5: happy women, like.
- 1:12:08Speaker 6: Are you well?
- 1:12:08Speaker 5: Feminism came about because women were oppressed throughout all of
- 1:12:11Speaker 5: history and they finally had enough, and thanks to technology
- 1:12:14Speaker 5: and thanks to Western civilization, they were finally able to
- 1:12:18Speaker 5: organize and throw off the chains of oppression.
- 1:12:21Speaker 3: Feminism second something.
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: The only reason why you have anything is because men
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: gave it to you.
- 1:12:29Speaker 3: Well, she she just admitted that thanks to technology, which
- 1:12:34Speaker 3: was in most part, in most cases invented by men,
- 1:12:39Speaker 3: and and that's even the minimal thing. It was built
- 1:12:42Speaker 3: by men, like they did all the sacrifices. For example,
- 1:12:47Speaker 3: we wouldn't have a railway without men dying. We wouldn't
- 1:12:51Speaker 3: have a shunnel tonn like a tunnel under the Thames
- 1:12:54Speaker 3: without men dying. We wouldn't have a hoover dam without
- 1:12:56Speaker 3: men dying. We wouldn't have skyscrapers without men dying. So
- 1:13:00Speaker 3: everything that made women capable of moving out into the
- 1:13:03Speaker 3: world have the price tag in terms of men's lives.
- 1:13:08Speaker 3: And she's saying that that was oppression beforehand. Well, if
- 1:13:13Speaker 3: men were the ones instrumental to ending women's oppression. Maybe
- 1:13:17Speaker 3: they didn't intend to impress oppress women in the past.
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: Maybe that was just a function of biology and the
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: limitations of material culture. Hannah Cox. Maybe there's nobody to blame.
- 1:13:34Speaker 3: God forbid all right, Yeah, it's keep gone.
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: It's an amazing that's an amazing claim to make. Women
- 1:13:42Speaker 1: have been oppressed throughout history, and they threw off the
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: shackles of oppression thanks to and names a bunch of
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: stuff that men made. Goes on and name all the
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: things basically men, like, what would you do without men? Seriously,
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: you'd be screwed. Okay, but anyway, next, let's go an
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: a minute in seventeen forty six, okay to.
- 1:14:10Speaker 5: Other people for an example, when I was single, I
- 1:14:12Speaker 5: could look around at happy couples, key being happy and
- 1:14:16Speaker 5: see that life would be better with a husband. Things
- 1:14:19Speaker 5: that are objectively good, that make people happy tend to
- 1:14:21Speaker 5: be sought after. And the fact that more and more
- 1:14:23Speaker 5: people are choosing not to go and having kids should
- 1:14:27Speaker 5: tell you something about the role of parenthood. And I
- 1:14:30Speaker 5: think that there are plenty of really important conversations we
- 1:14:33Speaker 5: could have about what could change or what could transpire
- 1:14:36Speaker 5: to make it.
- 1:14:36Speaker 3: Let's not talked about is that men aren't complaining like
- 1:14:42Speaker 3: I mean, there some some are complaining on social media,
- 1:14:44Speaker 3: but they don't.
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: The only thing men are complaining about is not having
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: access to their kids, yeah, and what they're like a divorce.
- 1:14:53Speaker 3: Yeah, but also you know complaining, yeah, that and also
- 1:14:56Speaker 3: not being able to have relationships in the first place,
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: like insults. But there's not like there's no official platform
- 1:15:05Speaker 3: for these complaints. Most of these complaints and the people
- 1:15:08Speaker 3: who are making these complaints and end up on an
- 1:15:12Speaker 3: FBI watch list. I don't know if you guys have
- 1:15:14Speaker 3: noticed that kind of thing, Like the US government is like, yeah, no,
- 1:15:18Speaker 3: you shouldn't if you do this, if you make complaints
- 1:15:21Speaker 3: about women, we're going to put you on a watch list.
- 1:15:23Speaker 3: Whereas if women make complaints about men, they can actually
- 1:15:28Speaker 3: do it institutionally, like they can get a job in
- 1:15:31Speaker 3: an institution that's basically the complaints about men department. Right,
- 1:15:36Speaker 3: they can create an entire influencer profession on complaining about
- 1:15:42Speaker 3: men about the emotional labor that they do with the
- 1:15:45Speaker 3: men in their life, which amounts to having to tell
- 1:15:47Speaker 3: them what to do, having to tell those men what
- 1:15:50Speaker 3: to do. You don't see this with men they're not
- 1:15:53Speaker 3: complaining to this level. And what I wanted to point
- 1:15:55Speaker 3: out is all of these decisions that these women are
- 1:15:58Speaker 3: making are under by men, including what she was talking
- 1:16:04Speaker 3: about with the oppression, because because of technology and the
- 1:16:08Speaker 3: Western social system is doing a lot of heavy lifting there, Hannah,
- 1:16:12Speaker 3: who put those things into place for the most part,
- 1:16:16Speaker 3: I mean women also raised men to have the values
- 1:16:19Speaker 3: that were expressed in the Western social system. So yes,
- 1:16:22Speaker 3: if we want to recognize that women weren't oppressed and
- 1:16:26Speaker 3: society is actually a function in many cases of what
- 1:16:29Speaker 3: they value as women and those values that they instill
- 1:16:33Speaker 3: into their sons and daughters, Yeah, if we want to
- 1:16:36Speaker 3: acknowledge that, that means we have to acknowledge women weren't
- 1:16:38Speaker 3: depressed in the past. But if we want to say
- 1:16:40Speaker 3: women were oppressed in the past, we're saying that women
- 1:16:43Speaker 3: didn't have a proportionate influence over social systems, which means
- 1:16:48Speaker 3: that men, with their disproportionate influence over the Western social system,
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: created the means by which women could be freed and
- 1:16:58Speaker 3: decided to free them. So either women were oppressed in
- 1:17:02Speaker 3: the past and men chose to give them the means
- 1:17:06Speaker 3: to overcome that so called oppression, so men did it
- 1:17:10Speaker 3: for them, men saved them from it, or women were
- 1:17:14Speaker 3: depressed in the past. And everything that we see in history,
- 1:17:19Speaker 3: and we've seen through the nineteenth century, twenties, whatever, everything
- 1:17:23Speaker 3: through history is actually not just men but men and
- 1:17:28Speaker 3: women working together with roughly equivalent influence over the result.
- 1:17:35Speaker 3: So women are oppressed and men saved them, or women
- 1:17:38Speaker 3: aren't depressed, and the women's rights are an expression of
- 1:17:44Speaker 3: men and working men and women working together. Choose one
- 1:17:48Speaker 3: because it can't be both, all right.
- 1:17:50Speaker 5: Yeah, got it in my channel, and don't read it
- 1:17:53Speaker 5: at the notification bell while you're there. Ultimately, I think
- 1:17:56Speaker 5: the reason that these people had the kind of reaction
- 1:17:58Speaker 5: that they did to this is that they simply aren't
- 1:18:00Speaker 5: happy that what Chapel said hit a sore spot for
- 1:18:03Speaker 5: them and exposed a truth that they have been trying
- 1:18:07Speaker 5: to conceal.
- 1:18:07Speaker 3: Okay again again, hurt you again again, I'd bring you
- 1:18:13Speaker 3: back to listen to Okay. So there's plenty of this
- 1:18:18Speaker 3: is this is Hannah Cox, this is Hanne Cox. But nevertheless,
- 1:18:24Speaker 3: it seems as though the targets for this outrage clickbait
- 1:18:27Speaker 3: were hit and boy did they respond. So moms were targeted,
- 1:18:33Speaker 3: and they responded to being targeted, and they explained what
- 1:18:37Speaker 3: they get out of their lives, and they explained that
- 1:18:40Speaker 3: the people who are targeting them for abuse are probably
- 1:18:45Speaker 3: selfish and don't understand the idea of sacrifice in order
- 1:18:49Speaker 3: to feel like you're building a future, something that will
- 1:18:53Speaker 3: exist beyond your death, which will come for you, Hannah Cox,
- 1:18:59Speaker 3: no matter how much slip filler in botox you checked
- 1:19:02Speaker 3: into your face.
- 1:19:05Speaker 1: Yeah, so here's a okay before I play this next clip.
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: This post here again contradicts her statement or claim that
- 1:19:16Speaker 1: you know, she's constantly women are constantly bombarded, but to
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: have babies and not the opposite. But then it says
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: here there are too many I regret my kids articles, forums,
- 1:19:26Speaker 1: post TikTok's YouTube, vis et cetera for anyone to get
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: defensive about this. Of course, plenty of parents are genuinely
- 1:19:31Speaker 1: unhappy with their decisions. So, like, what's being pushed out here?
- 1:19:36Speaker 1: You know, I don't are you guys aware how much
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: of this could be like like straight up propaganda coming
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: out of China? I know that that China makes videos
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: like there was one a lot of like anti marriage
- 1:19:47Speaker 1: videos where a woman puts a ring on and she
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: starts to and then like she has this flash of
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: images of her like cooking and cleaning and slaving away
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: while pregnant, and then like gives the ring back. I mean,
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: guys saw that videos. It's from a couple of year
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: years ago. It turned out that that came out of
- 1:20:02Speaker 1: like China. And when they eat that stuff up, it's
- 1:20:06Speaker 1: like they want people to tell them this, Like they
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: want an excuse to be selfish, and for whatever reason,
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: like the internet tells them that so and again, people
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: are more likely to complain than anything else. I don't know,
- 1:20:20Speaker 1: it's just crazy because Hannah Cox is claiming the opposite
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: is true.
- 1:20:23Speaker 5: Only I'm happy with their decision. And this is one
- 1:20:25Speaker 5: reason that I've always been very outspoken about not wanting kids,
- 1:20:29Speaker 5: because I feel like I have a very strong mind.
- 1:20:32Speaker 5: I've always had a good support system, and I felt
- 1:20:35Speaker 5: brave enough to go out on a limb and now
- 1:20:38Speaker 5: in hopes that it would help.
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: She's got a strong mind else, and she's a strong
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: I think'strong.
- 1:20:44Speaker 3: She's a strong woman.
- 1:20:45Speaker 1: Yes, I know, very strong.
- 1:20:48Speaker 3: Okay, so I'm just going to double check to make
- 1:20:50Speaker 3: sure that this is the final time code.
- 1:20:52Speaker 1: This is the last time code.
- 1:20:53Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, okay, let her let her play it out.
- 1:20:58Speaker 3: Let her play it out. There's only a couple more
- 1:20:59Speaker 3: sentence this time.
- 1:21:00Speaker 5: Yeah, other women, or show them that there are alternative pathways.
- 1:21:05Speaker 6: You can pick.
- 1:21:06Speaker 1: But I think, okay, that's the extent of that clip.
- 1:21:10Speaker 3: All right, So let me let me give a summation
- 1:21:14Speaker 3: of this situation and Hannah Cox's response to it. So, uh,
- 1:21:20Speaker 3: this individual what is her name again? Chappelle Rowan, Chapelle, Yes,
- 1:21:28Speaker 3: Chappelle Rone, God, I hate it when they do weird spellings.
- 1:21:33Speaker 3: Chappelle Ron. Oh, I'm sorry, I've been fiddling with the
- 1:21:37Speaker 3: lights because I got a freaking migraine coming back. Chappelle
- 1:21:40Speaker 3: Ron essentially says she puts she puts mothers on blasts.
- 1:21:45Speaker 3: I don't understand why you do that, what you do
- 1:21:48Speaker 3: or whatever. You look like you're in hell. You look
- 1:21:51Speaker 3: like you're utterly miserable, you know whatever? Right, Hannah Cox
- 1:21:57Speaker 3: recognizes what does she say again? But nevertheless, it seems
- 1:22:02Speaker 3: as though the targets for this outrage clickbait were hit.
- 1:22:05Speaker 3: So this is intended to be outrageous, right, this is
- 1:22:08Speaker 3: intended to be abusive. It's intended to cause discomfort in
- 1:22:13Speaker 3: its target audience. The target audience responds. The clip that
- 1:22:18Speaker 3: Hannah ro Cox chooses is a woman who basically says,
- 1:22:22Speaker 3: I am a mother. I make these personal sacrifices because
- 1:22:26Speaker 3: I get a sense of personal fulfillment for you know,
- 1:22:31Speaker 3: seeing the development of another life, for seeing myself in
- 1:22:35Speaker 3: terms of benefiting another entity or another creature. And people
- 1:22:40Speaker 3: who don't understand that are selfish. Hannah Cox takes that
- 1:22:45Speaker 3: all on and says, you're saying that all single women
- 1:22:49Speaker 3: are selfish. And even though I've said that every lifestyle
- 1:22:53Speaker 3: is fine, I am now going to go on a
- 1:22:55Speaker 3: twenty minute screed that is going to describe moms as
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: being selfish, as myself as being selfless because I am
- 1:23:03Speaker 3: preventing the destruction of the earth by not having a child,
- 1:23:07Speaker 3: even though I parently think that having a child is misery.
- 1:23:10Speaker 3: So I am sacrificing my misery for the mother Earth.
- 1:23:14Speaker 3: Give me accolades. Right, She's going to call mothers weak minded.
- 1:23:19Speaker 3: She's going to talk about all of this pressure that
- 1:23:22Speaker 3: she's resisted. Guys, She's resisted this tremendous pressure in her
- 1:23:27Speaker 3: life to have children. And incidentally, she said it didn't
- 1:23:30Speaker 3: come from her parents, So where the hell did it
- 1:23:32Speaker 3: come from? Did it come from her partner? I think
- 1:23:34Speaker 3: that we would hear more about it if we did.
- 1:23:37Speaker 3: Did it come from her friends? I don't think it
- 1:23:39Speaker 3: came from like are you going to have children? That's
- 1:23:43Speaker 3: not pressure, right, So where is this pressure really coming from?
- 1:23:46Speaker 3: I think it's coming from her own self conscious conflict.
- 1:23:50Speaker 3: And women do this all the time. From what I say,
- 1:23:53Speaker 3: something internal is conflicting inside them and they projected on
- 1:23:56Speaker 3: the external. But she's going to reframe this as no, oh,
- 1:24:00Speaker 3: I'm just got I've got a stronger mind than mothers.
- 1:24:04Speaker 3: Mothers are just weak willed and I gave I didn't
- 1:24:09Speaker 3: and they're also religiously brainwashed. Right, So she's gonna go through,
- 1:24:14Speaker 3: step by step by step how she is superior to
- 1:24:17Speaker 3: mothers in response to a mother simply saying anyone who
- 1:24:23Speaker 3: doesn't understand this is a selfish person, which is one
- 1:24:27Speaker 3: hundred percent right. She wasn't saying every single woman or
- 1:24:31Speaker 3: every woman without children is selfish. She's saying those who
- 1:24:34Speaker 3: do not understand self sacrifice in order to benefit another
- 1:24:39Speaker 3: entity that is not you, it can be a source
- 1:24:42Speaker 3: of fulfillment are terminally selfish, right, And that's fine if
- 1:24:48Speaker 3: you want to be that way. But obviously Hannah Cox
- 1:24:50Speaker 3: doesn't like it, because this is an entire screed against that.
- 1:24:54Speaker 3: Did I sum this up properly?
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 1:24:58Speaker 3: And also there's some typical Wanna Cox's self contradiction. Apparently
- 1:25:03Speaker 3: Chappelle Rone wash was specifically targeting her friend when she's
- 1:25:08Speaker 3: defending against these mothers, saying that Chappelle Ron were targeting
- 1:25:12Speaker 3: all mothers but not specifically targeting her friend when she's
- 1:25:16Speaker 3: defending against Chappelle Ron actually betraying her friend by throwing
- 1:25:21Speaker 3: her public laundry into the into the spotlight.
- 1:25:24Speaker 4: Right.
- 1:25:24Speaker 3: So we got some nice contradictions in there, the typical
- 1:25:29Speaker 3: that the patent died Hannah Cox, I don't know my
- 1:25:32Speaker 3: own mind contradictions, you know. And also the complete lack
- 1:25:36Speaker 3: of understanding that, yeah, you're gonna die. How do you
- 1:25:40Speaker 3: deal with that?
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: Right?
- 1:25:42Speaker 10: Uh?
- 1:25:42Speaker 3: These women recognize that, and maybe they are producing the
- 1:25:48Speaker 3: next generation, you know, and that's not a bad thing,
- 1:25:51Speaker 3: because we you, Hannah Cox, you're gonna need somebody to
- 1:25:54Speaker 3: clean the sewers when you're pooping and diapers, you know.
- 1:25:58Speaker 4: Like.
- 1:26:00Speaker 3: But the other thing is I did want to speak
- 1:26:03Speaker 3: to what you said about about pets. You know, I
- 1:26:08Speaker 3: understand what this woman is talking about.
- 1:26:10Speaker 4: Right.
- 1:26:10Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't understand it, like I don't know five
- 1:26:12Speaker 3: years ago, but I understand it. And I know that
- 1:26:16Speaker 3: having a puppy isn't the same as a kid. But
- 1:26:20Speaker 3: when I had my puppen, when we got our Scipio,
- 1:26:24Speaker 3: who's like a full grown German shepherd. Now, he was
- 1:26:27Speaker 3: a very small little puppy, and like all puppies, he
- 1:26:31Speaker 3: took a dump everywhere, right, and so four or five
- 1:26:36Speaker 3: times a day I would be picking up shit and
- 1:26:39Speaker 3: depositing it into the toilet and flushing it right because
- 1:26:43Speaker 3: he couldn't help himself, or or cleaning up pee. But
- 1:26:47Speaker 3: what was interesting to me, and this is something that
- 1:26:49Speaker 3: really surprised me, because I was worried about getting a puppy.
- 1:26:51Speaker 3: I was like, oh God, it's going to be such
- 1:26:53Speaker 3: a pain in the ass. You know, all the crap
- 1:26:56Speaker 3: you're gonna have to do to take care of it.
- 1:26:58Speaker 3: It's going to just be like it's gonna sue in
- 1:27:00Speaker 3: your life. What astounded me is after you bond with
- 1:27:05Speaker 3: this little life and puppies, I've read actually give off
- 1:27:08Speaker 3: some of the similar fearomones is like babies, It isn't.
- 1:27:12Speaker 3: You don't feel resentment. Yeah, you're exhausted and it's disgusting,
- 1:27:16Speaker 3: and it's it's an imposition on your personal you know,
- 1:27:20Speaker 3: hygiene and comfort. But you don't feel resentment because you
- 1:27:25Speaker 3: know you're taking care of something that relies on you,
- 1:27:29Speaker 3: and there's an amazing feeling in that. You know, there's
- 1:27:32Speaker 3: there's there is a satisfaction that. Yeah. I don't think
- 1:27:36Speaker 3: Canna Cox knows. And I think that if any of
- 1:27:39Speaker 3: those women who were calling out those mothers for looking
- 1:27:42Speaker 3: exhausted and miserable actually had that experience. And it's not
- 1:27:45Speaker 3: even with the kid, it's with the puppy, right, If
- 1:27:47Speaker 3: you had that experience, you'd understand it. So she's absolutely right.
- 1:27:53Speaker 3: You know, when you have that experience of taking some
- 1:27:56Speaker 3: care of something that's wholly reliant on you, you know,
- 1:28:00Speaker 3: is absolutely vulnerable to you, often you don't feel resentment
- 1:28:06Speaker 3: in taking care of it. It almost feels like it
- 1:28:09Speaker 3: just it was really weird. It felt like it wasn't
- 1:28:13Speaker 3: at all an imposition. I don't know how to describe it.
- 1:28:16Speaker 1: Oh, that's right. You're seeing those videos and they're all
- 1:28:19Speaker 1: over the Internet. Lindsay loves these videos. They're like, you know,
- 1:28:23Speaker 1: a man usually it's a man. A man finds like
- 1:28:25Speaker 1: a stray animal in dire need and rescues them and
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: then and then takes it to a vet or they
- 1:28:33Speaker 1: go somewhere and they nurse it all the way back
- 1:28:35Speaker 1: to health and they show you the process, like there
- 1:28:38Speaker 1: was when we watched yesterday of a coyote that was
- 1:28:41Speaker 1: caught in a trap and this guy gets the coyote
- 1:28:43Speaker 1: out and you know, it's got an injured knee or
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: a leg or whatever, and he takes it to the
- 1:28:48Speaker 1: vet and they you know, they show the whole process
- 1:28:51Speaker 1: of him healing it and then he takes it home
- 1:28:54Speaker 1: and he trains it and you know, takes care of
- 1:28:56Speaker 1: it and feeds it, and they show you all of that.
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: And he's obviously got other animals, so it's they show
- 1:29:01Speaker 1: you know, clips of the coyote playing with his dog
- 1:29:04Speaker 1: and stuff, and then it's like fully grown and like
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: lives with him, and that's you know, so like, yeah,
- 1:29:11Speaker 1: all of that was a lot of work. All of
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: that was a lot of you know, probably late days,
- 1:29:17Speaker 1: and all of it was it wasn't like his job,
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: like I guess he happened to, like you know, decide
- 1:29:22Speaker 1: to record it, like make a record of it on video.
- 1:29:25Speaker 1: But it's not like he was doing it for money.
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: It's not like a career he's chasing. It was just
- 1:29:30Speaker 1: like I want to help this and it could be
- 1:29:31Speaker 1: anything that there's there are videos of, like you know,
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: there was a video of a shark that that ended
- 1:29:36Speaker 1: up on a beach and this group of dudes they
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: all put the shark back out in the ocean. It
- 1:29:42Speaker 1: was like a great white or a nurse shark or something,
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: and they basically all work together to put it back
- 1:29:46Speaker 1: out there. And you know, you could say that those
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: are just those are just men w's, but they are
- 1:29:51Speaker 1: they are doing something they don't have to do because
- 1:29:55Speaker 1: they think it's the right thing and there's a sense
- 1:29:57Speaker 1: of fulfillment in doing it. And I think raising a
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: child is the highest of those things.
- 1:30:03Speaker 3: Yes, right, so you know, yeah, it's like it's like
- 1:30:07Speaker 3: raising a working line German shepherd was an incredibly intensive
- 1:30:12Speaker 3: experience and you have to challenge a lot of the
- 1:30:15Speaker 3: just the indulgences you have. I know, it sounds really weird,
- 1:30:18Speaker 3: and I'm not comparing it to having a kid. But
- 1:30:21Speaker 3: you know, you have to you have to learn to
- 1:30:24Speaker 3: to be emotionally stable, you know, you have to you
- 1:30:28Speaker 3: have to learn to put there. You have to learn
- 1:30:31Speaker 3: to make space for their needs and do it every day,
- 1:30:35Speaker 3: you know. And and one of the things is that,
- 1:30:38Speaker 3: you know, sort of tragic is that you know, I'm
- 1:30:40Speaker 3: gonna have to say goodbye to him, and that really
- 1:30:43Speaker 3: bugs me.
- 1:30:44Speaker 1: You know. And uh, and that's he's gonna He's already
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: nine years old. And yeah, it's inevitable, I mean a lot,
- 1:30:54Speaker 1: so yeah.
- 1:30:55Speaker 3: And and the thing is, the one thing I really
- 1:30:58Speaker 3: really envy mothers and fathers is that for the most part,
- 1:31:03Speaker 3: they don't have to say goodbye to their kids. You know,
- 1:31:06Speaker 3: they get to go through this process and know what
- 1:31:11Speaker 3: they're creating goes on and lives on beyond them, you know.
- 1:31:15Speaker 3: And I don't think that these women have ever even
- 1:31:19Speaker 3: thought in those terms, have ever even considered the world
- 1:31:23Speaker 3: in those terms. What we're looking at is a generation
- 1:31:27Speaker 3: of women who have never come to terms of the
- 1:31:29Speaker 3: fact that they're gonna die, nor do they even think
- 1:31:34Speaker 3: like they are so up their own asses about rejecting
- 1:31:37Speaker 3: And often I find that being a lesbian is less
- 1:31:40Speaker 3: about loving women and more about rejecting men. They're so
- 1:31:44Speaker 3: up their ass about rejecting men and rejecting family and
- 1:31:47Speaker 3: rejecting blah blah blah that they don't even think about
- 1:31:53Speaker 3: how hard it is to say goodbye to something. All right,
- 1:31:58Speaker 3: let's all right, let's.
- 1:31:59Speaker 1: Move on a Manifestell. Okay, So, same same video, different take,
- 1:32:05Speaker 1: so well, not really, not really, but different person.
- 1:32:09Speaker 4: I guess she's okay, it's this one.
- 1:32:11Speaker 7: All of my friends who have kids are in hell.
- 1:32:14Speaker 6: I don't know anyone.
- 1:32:15Speaker 3: I actually don't know anyone.
- 1:32:16Speaker 7: Who's like happy and has children at this age. I
- 1:32:19Speaker 7: have like like a one year old, like three year old,
- 1:32:24Speaker 7: four and under five and under.
- 1:32:25Speaker 3: I don't.
- 1:32:26Speaker 7: I literally have not met anyone who's happy, anyone who
- 1:32:29Speaker 7: has like light in their eyes, anyone who has who
- 1:32:31Speaker 7: has slept.
- 1:32:33Speaker 3: So we're watching this, Okay, let's see Manifestell's response. Oh
- 1:32:37Speaker 3: good lord.
- 1:32:38Speaker 1: Right, So Manifestell, let me go to seven oh two.
- 1:32:45Speaker 1: This was the Chappelle Roan clip where she U basically
- 1:32:48Speaker 1: this is the one everybody's reacting to. And I noticed
- 1:32:50Speaker 1: that it was going out on like shorts, and that's
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: how I came across it. But I didn't think it
- 1:32:56Speaker 1: was going to create this much of a stink. I
- 1:32:58Speaker 1: knew what it was. I knew it was like anti
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: natalist propaganda, because again, consider who is the audience for
- 1:33:06Speaker 1: Call Her Daddy?
- 1:33:07Speaker 4: What?
- 1:33:07Speaker 1: Why did they take a twenty second clip from a
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: one hour plus podcast and then make that into a
- 1:33:14Speaker 1: short and then put that out on the internet boosted
- 1:33:18Speaker 1: by YouTube's algorithm, Like, why would you do that? It's
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: the thing to think about with.
- 1:33:23Speaker 4: Chapel as a pregnant woman.
- 1:33:25Speaker 1: Raise your hand if I'm sorry. If so, MANIFESTL records
- 1:33:29Speaker 1: at a much lower volume than everybody else, so she's
- 1:33:32Speaker 1: gonna be hard to hear compared to the Do you
- 1:33:34Speaker 1: want to just turn it up a bit? I can't.
- 1:33:37Speaker 1: It's maxed out here. I mean, oh, okay, I could
- 1:33:41Speaker 1: turn it up on the website like in OBS, but
- 1:33:45Speaker 1: I don't know if it's going to be that much
- 1:33:47Speaker 1: Here we go.
- 1:33:48Speaker 11: You agree alone, and you're tired of the mothers telling
- 1:33:52Speaker 11: childless women what to think and to just not think
- 1:33:57Speaker 11: about it and have a kid, because it's the best
- 1:33:59Speaker 11: decision to overmake. They are the reason why women are
- 1:34:05Speaker 11: not getting the help and support that they need.
- 1:34:07Speaker 1: Obviously, men, Yeah, Obviously men are blame. Oh, women are
- 1:34:15Speaker 1: not having kids because they're not getting the support that
- 1:34:18Speaker 1: they need. So ultimately, actually, you got.
- 1:34:20Speaker 3: The causality reverse She's saying that women, uh, mothers telling
- 1:34:25Speaker 3: childless women to have children. It's the best decision they'll make.
- 1:34:28Speaker 3: They're the reason why women are not getting the help
- 1:34:30Speaker 3: and support that they need. Obviously men are to blame.
- 1:34:34Speaker 1: Yeah, but women will not have children if they aren't
- 1:34:38Speaker 1: getting the support that they need.
- 1:34:40Speaker 3: And she's saying, no, you've got it reversed. She's saying
- 1:34:44Speaker 3: they're having children and not getting the support that they need.
- 1:34:47Speaker 12: So's the mothers, they're saying, the women having children, but
- 1:34:53Speaker 12: also men, but obviously men, yes, yeah, men, women are mothers.
- 1:35:01Speaker 3: Are the ones that are pushing these childless women into
- 1:35:04Speaker 3: shark infested waters. But of course men are the sharks.
- 1:35:09Speaker 1: Yes, ok, yeah, but it's because women are not getting
- 1:35:13Speaker 1: the support they need like that, like like that's okay,
- 1:35:16Speaker 1: but anyway, give.
- 1:35:17Speaker 11: Me sorry on that of course. But it is also
- 1:35:21Speaker 11: women that once again are telling these childless women, especially
- 1:35:26Speaker 11: ones that are on the fence about it. It's totally fine.
- 1:35:29Speaker 11: And this is coming from someone that is pregnant by
- 1:35:31Speaker 11: the way super damaging, and let's not it's twenty twenty five.
- 1:35:36Speaker 11: Everyone's different. Let's stop shaming women.
- 1:35:39Speaker 3: Nobody's shaming them. Like, look, once again, I have to
- 1:35:43Speaker 3: go back to the fact that this was a childless,
- 1:35:46Speaker 3: childless woman, child free women whatever, who was saying that
- 1:35:51Speaker 3: her female friends were miserable. And then the moms clapped
- 1:35:55Speaker 3: back with you don't understand. Yeah, maybe we're tired, maybe
- 1:36:00Speaker 3: we are sacrificing our comfort, but we're doing so because
- 1:36:04Speaker 3: we get something from it, right, you don't understand Like
- 1:36:08Speaker 3: I said about taking care of my puppy, you know,
- 1:36:11Speaker 3: it wasn't Yeah, I was tired, it was uncomfortable, it's
- 1:36:14Speaker 3: not fun, but it wasn't actually that bad. And what
- 1:36:18Speaker 3: I got out of it was to see a little
- 1:36:19Speaker 3: creature grow and become you know, a very a very
- 1:36:24Speaker 3: good dog.
- 1:36:27Speaker 1: Well, anything that you care about, yeah, you have to
- 1:36:30Speaker 1: do stuff for Like I was just thinking, like, you know,
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: do you have plants in your home? Do you have
- 1:36:35Speaker 1: to water them and give them sunlight and prune them?
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: Do you have a garden do you like, do you
- 1:36:40Speaker 1: paint the walls in your apartment? Well, obviously not. These
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: women's apartments are all just white. They probably just left
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: whatever the you know, the the super cheap paint that
- 1:36:49Speaker 1: the building puts up, and they just left it. Because
- 1:36:51Speaker 1: if you wanted to like make it a home, you'd
- 1:36:54Speaker 1: actually have to like do some work, like like to
- 1:36:57Speaker 1: decorate and paint and keep it up. Like do you
- 1:37:00Speaker 1: do not wash your clothes? Do you not take out
- 1:37:02Speaker 1: your trash?
- 1:37:03Speaker 4: Like?
- 1:37:03Speaker 1: These are all things that we do even before we consider,
- 1:37:08Speaker 1: you know, taking care of something that's alive, whether that's
- 1:37:11Speaker 1: an aquarium or plant life, or pets, or children or
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: a mate. I mean, obviously manifestelas want to do any
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: of those things, because that's been all of her content
- 1:37:21Speaker 1: is what is that men are labor and men are risks.
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: So this obviously could extend to children, especially little boys.
- 1:37:30Speaker 1: Those are like little miniature labor and risk generators. You know.
- 1:37:35Speaker 3: By saying that men are labor, men are risk, she
- 1:37:38Speaker 3: did not denies the necessity of putting anything, any effort
- 1:37:42Speaker 3: on her part into any relationship. So if a man
- 1:37:45Speaker 3: comes into her life, not only should he benefit well,
- 1:37:49Speaker 3: his companionship is irrelevant. When a man comes into her life,
- 1:37:53Speaker 3: he should essentially just you know, walk into her life,
- 1:37:57Speaker 3: start breathing for her. Start shitting for her, start eating
- 1:38:00Speaker 3: for her, start moving for her, start thinking for her,
- 1:38:03Speaker 3: start doing every single start stellium metabolizing for her. You know,
- 1:38:09Speaker 3: like he should be functioning. He should be doing the
- 1:38:11Speaker 3: ATP path way for her. You know, everything, every every
- 1:38:16Speaker 3: aspect of her existence should be done for her by
- 1:38:19Speaker 3: a man. He should function as her complete life support system.
- 1:38:23Speaker 3: And if she has to do anything for herself in
- 1:38:26Speaker 3: the presence of a man, anything, then that's his failure.
- 1:38:31Speaker 1: Yep.
- 1:38:32Speaker 4: Okay, our next time code, what fathers can be held
- 1:38:37Speaker 4: more accountable for their role as fathers and husbands in
- 1:38:41Speaker 4: the family. Because here's my hot take. Like, the reason
- 1:38:45Speaker 4: why the dating stage and even early merrors stage is
- 1:38:49Speaker 4: so so important is this notion that it doesn't get better. Okay,
- 1:38:54Speaker 4: it cannot get better from that Like usually although relationships
- 1:38:58Speaker 4: do get better over time because then you get to
- 1:38:59Speaker 4: know each other better and blah blah blah. But like
- 1:39:02Speaker 4: in a sense, like if your partner isn't stepping up now,
- 1:39:05Speaker 4: they are not going to step up more.
- 1:39:06Speaker 3: You know, sometimes when I listened to her YAP, I
- 1:39:10Speaker 3: get the impression of like a a blind person who
- 1:39:15Speaker 3: has never left their house trying to describe an African safari.
- 1:39:25Speaker 3: You never watched any like and can't watch like you
- 1:39:28Speaker 3: just you're just describing something that you have no knowledge of.
- 1:39:33Speaker 1: So yeah, for sure, like you're you're talking, what do
- 1:39:37Speaker 1: you mean? Fathers can be held more accountable for their
- 1:39:39Speaker 1: roles as fathers, like women are not even letting fathers
- 1:39:42Speaker 1: be fathers.
- 1:39:43Speaker 3: But also men do four hours more according to the
- 1:39:47Speaker 3: Pew research in a week. Sure, the men are pulling
- 1:39:50Speaker 3: more than their weight already. How much more do you
- 1:39:54Speaker 3: want from them?
- 1:39:55Speaker 4: Like that?
- 1:39:55Speaker 3: The problem is that in restructuring society so that women
- 1:39:59Speaker 3: could work, it ended up increasing men and women's workload.
- 1:40:04Speaker 3: While men's workload by like ten hours and women's workload
- 1:40:07Speaker 3: by eight or something.
- 1:40:10Speaker 1: Yeah, and they're taking home less money and they're.
- 1:40:12Speaker 3: Taking and you're taking home less money. And you asked
- 1:40:15Speaker 3: for this, You asked for this complete restructuring. So that
- 1:40:18Speaker 3: which is really funny because in the nineteenth century women
- 1:40:22Speaker 3: went from a seventy five percent workforce participation to ten
- 1:40:26Speaker 3: percent and they were lauding it in their diaries, like
- 1:40:30Speaker 3: women wanted that, and then we reversed that, and now
- 1:40:34Speaker 3: you're all complaining about it because you added eight hours
- 1:40:37Speaker 3: a week onto your workload. But that wasn't because of men.
- 1:40:42Speaker 3: They added ten in order to pay for this right,
- 1:40:47Speaker 3: and it ended up that they do even more work
- 1:40:49Speaker 3: than you. They always did more work than you. In
- 1:40:51Speaker 3: the fifties, men did more work than women. In the nineties,
- 1:40:55Speaker 3: men did more work than women. Now men do more
- 1:40:57Speaker 3: work than women. But because you wanted work outside the home,
- 1:41:05Speaker 3: had to You ended up having to work eight hours
- 1:41:08Speaker 3: more than your grandmothers did. And now you're complaining about it. Well, sorry,
- 1:41:13Speaker 3: but you asked for it. And now you're saying, well,
- 1:41:16Speaker 3: men should pick up even more slack. Why do we
- 1:41:19Speaker 3: have to do eight hours more because of wanting to
- 1:41:22Speaker 3: go work outside the home because you did, and men
- 1:41:26Speaker 3: can't take any more. Men can't absorb any more of
- 1:41:30Speaker 3: your requests and demands. And the most absurd now is
- 1:41:34Speaker 3: now men have were responsible for your emotional labor, telling
- 1:41:38Speaker 3: men what to do, like stop, yep, okay, all.
- 1:41:46Speaker 1: Right, next clip, there's only a couple in this one,
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: I think, so it's like two more.
- 1:41:51Speaker 4: But here we go, where's the girl with the list conversation?
- 1:41:55Speaker 4: Because motherhood and pregnancy does change women's lives, and sometimes
- 1:41:58Speaker 4: for the worst. There's a lot of health issues involved.
- 1:42:01Speaker 4: There's a rise in DV probability. Did you know that
- 1:42:04Speaker 4: the leading cause of an alignment for women?
- 1:42:07Speaker 3: Okay, okay, let me address this is incorrect. First of all,
- 1:42:12Speaker 3: you can see from her headline. New national study finds
- 1:42:15Speaker 3: homicide and suicide is the number one maternal cause of
- 1:42:19Speaker 3: maternal death in the US. All right, I'm going to
- 1:42:21Speaker 3: address that right now. Because I went through the article,
- 1:42:27Speaker 3: I can give this to you, Brian. It's actually in
- 1:42:29Speaker 3: my document that I gave you. But that might be inconvenient, is.
- 1:42:33Speaker 1: It like the link? Oh yeah, I got it right here,
- 1:42:37Speaker 1: sffm org dot whatever. Let me just copy and paste
- 1:42:41Speaker 1: it into in here and we'll put it up on
- 1:42:44Speaker 1: the screen. So give me a second. Okay, here we go.
- 1:42:51Speaker 1: All right, New national study finds homicide and suicide is
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: the number one cause of maternal death in the US.
- 1:42:57Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to break down the numbers so you
- 1:42:59Speaker 3: can find this. We don't have to give you a link,
- 1:43:03Speaker 3: just look up the headline. Guys, you're not completely helpless here,
- 1:43:08Speaker 3: all right. So I went and crunched the numbers they found.
- 1:43:13Speaker 3: Let me see here. I gotta get it myself, Gotta
- 1:43:17Speaker 3: get it up myself so I can read it. They
- 1:43:19Speaker 3: found that two two hundred and ninety three women died
- 1:43:25Speaker 3: of homicide over an eighteen year period when they were pregnant,
- 1:43:28Speaker 3: and that includes that's a year, so it starts from conception,
- 1:43:32Speaker 3: it goes to about forty two days after birth. And
- 1:43:38Speaker 3: so two two hundred and ninety three women died in
- 1:43:42Speaker 3: an eighteen year period, sixty one percent of those were
- 1:43:48Speaker 3: due to homicide and thirty nine percent where the red
- 1:43:50Speaker 3: isulted death by suicide. Okay, so that's just laying out
- 1:43:56Speaker 3: what they found. The way that they're presenting this information
- 1:44:00Speaker 3: very dishonest because they are drawing a distinction between violent
- 1:44:06Speaker 3: deaths by homicide and suicide with medical and probably accidental
- 1:44:11Speaker 3: deaths that are nonviolent that there's no intent to harm
- 1:44:15Speaker 3: in any event. They shouldn't when what they've done is
- 1:44:18Speaker 3: they've compared homicide and suicide lumped together to all other,
- 1:44:23Speaker 3: like to medical causes, but medical causes divided by like,
- 1:44:28Speaker 3: I don't know, heart attacks from bosis, bleeding, that kind
- 1:44:31Speaker 3: of thing, So they divide all of the medical causes
- 1:44:34Speaker 3: down to specific medical causes, and presumably accidents is also
- 1:44:38Speaker 3: an element what they should have done is compared violent
- 1:44:41Speaker 3: causes to nonviolent causes. That would be the honest because
- 1:44:44Speaker 3: that's the dividing line that's meaningful. So if you're going
- 1:44:47Speaker 3: to divide all of the causes of death pregnant women
- 1:44:50Speaker 3: in a medical sense into eat all these little individual things,
- 1:44:54Speaker 3: that's dishonest and then find, oh, suicide and homicide is no.
- 1:44:58Speaker 3: What you're actually finding is that any form of violent
- 1:45:02Speaker 3: death of pregnant women is a minority. It's eleven percent
- 1:45:06Speaker 3: of the total of deaths enduring pregnancy. Now homicide is
- 1:45:11Speaker 3: an even smaller amount of that. That's like maybe six
- 1:45:15Speaker 3: percent or six and a half percent is due to homicide.
- 1:45:20Speaker 3: But then not all homicides are intimate partner violence homicides.
- 1:45:25Speaker 3: That's thirty four percent of all homicides generally of women.
- 1:45:28Speaker 3: So now you're down to seven hundred and eighty. And incidentally,
- 1:45:32Speaker 3: that seven hundred and eighty isn't all boyfriends and husbands,
- 1:45:37Speaker 3: it's also family members. So pregnant women killed by their mothers,
- 1:45:41Speaker 3: pregnant women killed by their sisters, pregnant women killed by
- 1:45:44Speaker 3: their female friends, pregnant women feelkilled by their female cousins,
- 1:45:47Speaker 3: pregnant women killed by their lesbian partners, pregnant women killed
- 1:45:52Speaker 3: by their daughters, right, so other family members right, And
- 1:45:56Speaker 3: that seven hundred and eighty deaths do to family violence,
- 1:46:01Speaker 3: not just intimate partner violence, but family violence over eighteen
- 1:46:05Speaker 3: years comes out to forty three deaths and forty three
- 1:46:10Speaker 3: deaths a year.
- 1:46:13Speaker 4: This is.
- 1:46:15Speaker 3: A meaninglessly small number when you consider that in that time,
- 1:46:20Speaker 3: I believe the US population went from three hundred and
- 1:46:25Speaker 3: twenty five million to something like four hundred and fifty million.
- 1:46:29Speaker 3: Do you realize how small a number forty three deaths
- 1:46:33Speaker 3: a year is in a population that size. I haven't.
- 1:46:37Speaker 3: I haven't run the numbers specifically, I have to. Actually,
- 1:46:39Speaker 3: I think it's like point zero zero zero zero one percent,
- 1:46:44Speaker 3: if that right. It's it's such a minuscule issue. And
- 1:46:48Speaker 3: to give you a bit of perspective on how minuscule
- 1:46:51Speaker 3: this issue is, that they're presented, that manifestel is presenting
- 1:46:55Speaker 3: it's like, oh, pregnant women, they could be murdered by
- 1:46:59Speaker 3: their husband. How minuscule. This is based on a longitudinal
- 1:47:04Speaker 3: study from I think in Toronto, like a Neonata ward
- 1:47:07Speaker 3: in Toronto, and that the findings on how many boys
- 1:47:11Speaker 3: died of circumcision. There is likely a hundred boys dying
- 1:47:16Speaker 3: of circumcision in the US every year, right, because it's
- 1:47:22Speaker 3: it's it's an estimate based on the findings from ANITOO,
- 1:47:27Speaker 3: a neonatal award in Toronto. But you can assume some
- 1:47:30Speaker 3: things like uh neonatal care is probably not significantly better
- 1:47:35Speaker 3: in the US. It's probably comparable between the US and Canada.
- 1:47:38Speaker 3: So yeah, one hundred boys a year based on the
- 1:47:41Speaker 3: prevalence of circumcision are likely dying from it. But they
- 1:47:44Speaker 3: don't keep those stats, so we don't know for sure.
- 1:47:47Speaker 3: But compare those two. This is a tiny, insignificant problem.
- 1:47:52Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell that in significant. The only reason why
- 1:47:57Speaker 3: you'd bring it up except as a rarity, is for
- 1:48:00Speaker 3: a political reason, and that political reason is to further
- 1:48:03Speaker 3: damage the relationship between men and women. All right, getting
- 1:48:07Speaker 3: off my set soapbox. But this is like completely dishonest
- 1:48:10Speaker 3: on so many levels.
- 1:48:13Speaker 1: I believe it.
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- 1:48:48Speaker 3: with us, you can enjoy them when if they're behind paywalls,
- 1:48:53Speaker 3: you know, stuff like that. I probably shouldn't say that,
- 1:48:55Speaker 3: but anyways, the other thing that I wanted to mention
- 1:48:57Speaker 3: is she talks about the increase in domestic violence. Okay,
- 1:49:01Speaker 3: this is another thing that's presented dishonestly. The study which
- 1:49:05Speaker 3: was a terrible study by the way, or not a
- 1:49:07Speaker 3: terrible study. It's findings were not really strong enough, but
- 1:49:10Speaker 3: of course they always present them as super let that
- 1:49:15Speaker 3: get you, that get in the way of a good
- 1:49:18Speaker 3: way of of of demonizing men.
- 1:49:22Speaker 4: Right.
- 1:49:23Speaker 3: So what they found is that of the women who
- 1:49:28Speaker 3: report domestic violence, so of female victims of domestic violence,
- 1:49:33Speaker 3: it was more likely that that domestic violence would occur
- 1:49:37Speaker 3: during their pregnancy. And they had a whole bunch of
- 1:49:40Speaker 3: possible causes for it based on men. But there's one
- 1:49:43Speaker 3: really big possible cause, and I'm going to go to
- 1:49:45Speaker 3: hell for this. No, No, I mean, I don't think
- 1:49:47Speaker 3: I'll go to hell because it's the truth. Uh. And
- 1:49:50Speaker 3: Deborah Powney, who was a researcher DV research that used
- 1:49:54Speaker 3: to come on our show, she just got busy, but
- 1:49:57Speaker 3: she found that the one of the single biggest predictor
- 1:50:02Speaker 3: causal predictor of a woman's experience of violence is being violent.
- 1:50:07Speaker 3: So it's entirely probable that if this this result is true,
- 1:50:12Speaker 3: what's happening is that pregnant women are being violent and
- 1:50:17Speaker 3: that is a predictor of them receiving violence. So, but
- 1:50:21Speaker 3: also the study is sort of it's weak. Its results
- 1:50:24Speaker 3: are weak, and there is results are only specific to
- 1:50:29Speaker 3: the population of abused women period. So it's not a
- 1:50:33Speaker 3: situation where you get pregnant as a woman and then
- 1:50:36Speaker 3: out of a blue a fist is coming towards you.
- 1:50:39Speaker 1: No, you are.
- 1:50:41Speaker 3: It's getting pregnant in the context of a relationship that's
- 1:50:44Speaker 3: already violent. All right, So can increase the violence? What
- 1:50:50Speaker 3: a surprise, you know, I increate a very stressful change
- 1:50:54Speaker 3: in circumstance has the potential of increasing uh, making a
- 1:50:59Speaker 3: already violent relationship more violent. But that's a that's a
- 1:51:02Speaker 3: far cry from what how this result is presented, especially
- 1:51:06Speaker 3: by people like manifestel all.
- 1:51:08Speaker 1: Right, all right, next manifestell clip.
- 1:51:11Speaker 3: I just wanted to clarify those things.
- 1:51:13Speaker 1: That's all.
- 1:51:14Speaker 4: I have to have children to do that, to participate
- 1:51:16Speaker 4: in that. But you can also just bare minimum stop
- 1:51:20Speaker 4: hating children, stop hating mothers, and stop participating in this
- 1:51:24Speaker 4: culture that just normalizes the hatred of children. While it
- 1:51:30Speaker 4: is very important to highlight the negative aspects of motherhood,
- 1:51:35Speaker 4: as Chapel Roone did in the counter arguments to Chapel Roone,
- 1:51:38Speaker 4: statements by mothers who love their experience of motherhood and
- 1:51:41Speaker 4: saying that chapel Roone was wrong, I think we can
- 1:51:44Speaker 4: all exist in this great area.
- 1:51:48Speaker 3: That she's really trying not to criticize.
- 1:51:52Speaker 4: As a radical active hope.
- 1:51:55Speaker 3: This is what's so hilarious about that.
- 1:51:57Speaker 1: I know she doesn't commit to anything because there are
- 1:52:00Speaker 1: mothers that watch her, and there are single ladies that
- 1:52:03Speaker 1: watch her. So it's like how do I how do
- 1:52:06Speaker 1: I walk this walk? This is by the way, Alison,
- 1:52:09Speaker 1: you said to me, like these videos are all very
- 1:52:12Speaker 1: long because they waffle a lot, but what they're doing
- 1:52:15Speaker 1: is they're using rhetoric. It's like a ritual spell. It
- 1:52:20Speaker 1: takes like ten times the normal casting time, so they
- 1:52:24Speaker 1: have to take forty minutes to say something that takes
- 1:52:28Speaker 1: four minutes because they need, by the end for women
- 1:52:31Speaker 1: to believe that ultimately she's on their side, regardless of
- 1:52:35Speaker 1: their life choices, because ultimately it's about preserving the sisterhood
- 1:52:39Speaker 1: and pointing the guns at men because that's always easy.
- 1:52:43Speaker 1: That's why she can be like, yeah, you know, we
- 1:52:45Speaker 1: got to stop hating on mothers and children because we
- 1:52:48Speaker 1: live in a society they hate children and mothers. But
- 1:52:51Speaker 1: she wants to say it's men, but she can't say
- 1:52:53Speaker 1: it because it is women. So instead she just says society.
- 1:52:57Speaker 1: That's why when women say society, they mean women. When
- 1:53:01Speaker 1: women say men, they mean men.
- 1:53:04Speaker 3: Yes, you can't. She's got a waffle, which is freaking
- 1:53:07Speaker 3: hilarious because this is what I've seen a lot of
- 1:53:09Speaker 3: in my life. It's women trying to consume each other's autonomy,
- 1:53:14Speaker 3: that they they're trying to control and force them to
- 1:53:19Speaker 3: do things and that, and that's the perception here. I
- 1:53:22Speaker 3: don't I don't necessarily, I don't think the mother that
- 1:53:25Speaker 3: Hannah Cox was covering was really trying to force anything
- 1:53:30Speaker 3: on anyone. I think that was misperception. Although I agree
- 1:53:34Speaker 3: there are women who try to force motherhood on other
- 1:53:38Speaker 3: women and they're not you know, like, yeah, they're bad,
- 1:53:41Speaker 3: but I'm I'm happy to call them out. Don't do that.
- 1:53:45Speaker 3: I'm happy to call out mothers who are who are abusive.
- 1:53:48Speaker 3: I'm and I'm happy to call out women who use
- 1:53:51Speaker 3: these narratives of male blame. And and again they they
- 1:53:54Speaker 3: blame men. You know, Notice it's they're so uncomfortable. It's
- 1:53:58Speaker 3: like he he they ment, I mean men, they aren't
- 1:54:01Speaker 3: even involved. But god, what would happen if the sister
- 1:54:05Speaker 3: had turned against me? Fucking cowards? Yeah, I know what
- 1:54:11Speaker 3: happens when the sister had turns against me. But you know,
- 1:54:13Speaker 3: I survived. And the woman who turned the sisterhood against me,
- 1:54:17Speaker 3: where the hell is she?
- 1:54:20Speaker 1: All right, Uh, that's it for Manifestel. So let's get
- 1:54:24Speaker 1: to Briaranny Claire.
- 1:54:27Speaker 3: Guys. Yeah, that's fine. Ten year anniversary of being kicked
- 1:54:32Speaker 3: out of the Calgary Expo. Oh yeah, it was actually yesterday,
- 1:54:37Speaker 3: but no it Yeah, ten year anniversary of a bunch
- 1:54:43Speaker 3: of mean girls deciding to kick me out of And
- 1:54:47Speaker 3: it's bigger than just an expo. It was like a
- 1:54:49Speaker 3: marketplace for for independent artists in Western Canada. They got
- 1:54:54Speaker 3: me kicked out, you know, they sort of put a
- 1:54:58Speaker 3: they put a big ki, a big impediment to that
- 1:55:02Speaker 3: part of my career. But then I decided to just
- 1:55:05Speaker 3: go after their ass. So there you go, and they're bullshit,
- 1:55:10Speaker 3: but yeah, I got kicked out for simply going up
- 1:55:12Speaker 3: on a a panel for women into comics and I
- 1:55:16Speaker 3: was a woman who was trying to create a comic.
- 1:55:18Speaker 3: And when they mentioned men's rights activists, I said, hey,
- 1:55:22Speaker 3: I can speak to that because it's relevant to my interests,
- 1:55:25Speaker 3: and they said go ahead, and I said, I think
- 1:55:27Speaker 3: that I don't like feminism or I hate feminism because
- 1:55:30Speaker 3: it excludes men from the picture of being victims. And
- 1:55:35Speaker 3: then the next day, out on my ass. Yeah, the
- 1:55:39Speaker 3: Sisterhood actually attempted to destroy me, but I only got stronger.
- 1:55:46Speaker 1: All right, yep, all right, So Brian ren Eclair, first,
- 1:55:50Speaker 1: I think I have it set to the first time
- 1:55:52Speaker 1: code pause.
- 1:55:54Speaker 13: It is genuinely such a blip, and yet it has
- 1:55:57Speaker 13: caused this huge, outright what visceral reactions like this.
- 1:56:04Speaker 3: Is hell your child coming up to you and saying
- 1:56:06Speaker 3: love you, mom.
- 1:56:08Speaker 4: Is hell?
- 1:56:08Speaker 3: The sound of little children whispering in the morning in
- 1:56:11Speaker 3: their bed because they know they're not supposed to get
- 1:56:12Speaker 3: up yet, but they're awake. Is that what a hell
- 1:56:14Speaker 3: sounds like? I'm so confused.
- 1:56:17Speaker 6: Is hell your child asking for help?
- 1:56:19Speaker 3: That's not hell?
- 1:56:21Speaker 6: Okay, so hi, if you've never seen one. Here she
- 1:56:26Speaker 6: is a young mom of three children that didn't get
- 1:56:28Speaker 6: any sleep last night. That's happy life in her eyes,
- 1:56:31Speaker 6: enjoyed her heart.
- 1:56:32Speaker 13: Huh she never dumped on mother's once.
- 1:56:34Speaker 3: In fact, she was saying yes she did. And Hannah
- 1:56:39Speaker 3: Cox admit me. Yeah, Hannah Cox admitted that these women targeted.
- 1:56:49Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait wait, no, no shit, No, I'm just
- 1:56:52Speaker 3: talking to rich Beer.
- 1:56:55Speaker 1: What did he ask you to respond to something specific
- 1:56:58Speaker 1: but failed to give you a time code that go
- 1:57:00Speaker 1: through the whole thing, only to show up later and
- 1:57:03Speaker 1: say you didn't pick the correct time code.
- 1:57:05Speaker 3: No, that's Dutch.
- 1:57:09Speaker 1: I'm I'm just guessing. Okay.
- 1:57:11Speaker 3: Richard is usually very copathetic about these things. It's just
- 1:57:15Speaker 3: that he finds the most cancerous of like, I don't know,
- 1:57:19Speaker 3: like he like goes he goes under the the the
- 1:57:26Speaker 3: human collective unconscious. He goes to like the basement of
- 1:57:32Speaker 3: the human mind, the collective human mind. And he goes
- 1:57:36Speaker 3: to like the fridge that has been used by a
- 1:57:41Speaker 3: frat for the last fifty years, and he moves the
- 1:57:44Speaker 3: fridge and he scrapes the brown gunk that he finds
- 1:57:49Speaker 3: under that fridge, and then he hands it over to
- 1:57:52Speaker 3: us and says, hey, you can respond to this, and
- 1:57:59Speaker 3: so we do, but not always like God, everything that
- 1:58:03Speaker 3: he does that he offers. But anyway, but actually he
- 1:58:07Speaker 3: asked me if he asked me some other stuff, and
- 1:58:11Speaker 3: I had to respond.
- 1:58:11Speaker 1: But okay, I see, yeah, okay, So uh, Brianny Claire,
- 1:58:17Speaker 1: Uh oh, she didn't finish this thing about she didn't
- 1:58:21Speaker 1: shit on women once. Uh talking about Loan Roon or
- 1:58:25Speaker 1: whatever the hell her name is. Fucking what's the name
- 1:58:28Speaker 1: of this bitch that they're responding to. I don't even
- 1:58:32Speaker 1: remember Chappelle Rone. Yeah, she basically said again. We're looking
- 1:58:38Speaker 1: at a viral snippet made into a YouTube short that's
- 1:58:42Speaker 1: about twenty seconds long, taken from a one hour plus
- 1:58:47Speaker 1: podcast on Call Her Daddy, which is the most popular
- 1:58:51Speaker 1: podcast in the world for women, and it is aimed
- 1:58:55Speaker 1: at women, and it stars and features women, and it
- 1:58:58Speaker 1: is about women's interest because it's popular with women, and
- 1:59:02Speaker 1: so she had a woman on and that women said
- 1:59:05Speaker 1: that women with children are miserable, at least the women
- 1:59:09Speaker 1: that she knows are miserable and it's the worst thing ever,
- 1:59:13Speaker 1: and then also went on to like, you know, concerntrol
- 1:59:15Speaker 1: about being able to marry a lesbian or whatever. But
- 1:59:18Speaker 1: there's a reason why that content is circulating. And some
- 1:59:22Speaker 1: women who are mothers were they disagreed with with the sentiment,
- 1:59:27Speaker 1: and they wanted to express their disagreement. And people like
- 1:59:30Speaker 1: Brian and Ninclaire, Hannah Cox and Manifestel and Rainbow Schite
- 1:59:35Speaker 1: all had opinions on the women's opinions, which is, you're
- 1:59:39Speaker 1: not allowed to have an opinion because you have the
- 1:59:42Speaker 1: wrong opinion. Also, let's preserve the sisterhood somehow.
- 1:59:46Speaker 3: So yeah, well yeah, Also I think that there's there
- 1:59:53Speaker 3: may be a deeper ex distential crisis here that I'll
- 1:59:56Speaker 3: go over, because the sisterhood is about extorting stuff from
- 2:00:01Speaker 3: men because of women's like negative emotions. So they like
- 2:00:05Speaker 3: to take Manifestel as an example. Women should not have
- 2:00:09Speaker 3: to provide anything for themselves, They should not have to
- 2:00:12Speaker 3: breathe for themselves, shit for themselves, eat from themselves, or
- 2:00:14Speaker 3: do anything for themselves, and they should always exist in
- 2:00:17Speaker 3: a perfect state of emotional happiness. So there's this idea
- 2:00:23Speaker 3: of the perfect ideal. I don't women who just ah,
- 2:00:30Speaker 3: her entire life is just ah, and that men should
- 2:00:33Speaker 3: serve women to get to that end where the woman
- 2:00:36Speaker 3: lives in the state of pure ah. You know, that
- 2:00:39Speaker 3: kind of thing. But then they have these women who
- 2:00:42Speaker 3: are taking joy from self sacrifice, which is directly in
- 2:00:48Speaker 3: contradiction with their framing of women needing to have no
- 2:00:54Speaker 3: no actual like, no effort, no effort in their life,
- 2:00:59Speaker 3: no sacrific vice, no attempt at developing merit in relation,
- 2:01:03Speaker 3: because if you want to be a mother, a good mother,
- 2:01:06Speaker 3: then you have to become what your kid needs to
- 2:01:08Speaker 3: grow into a healthy, happy adult, right, so you have
- 2:01:11Speaker 3: an external metric the development of your child. And they
- 2:01:15Speaker 3: deny that women should not have external metrics because they
- 2:01:18Speaker 3: are the metric. See what I'm saying, yea, So not
- 2:01:23Speaker 3: only are the mothers the mothers are presenting. It's not
- 2:01:27Speaker 3: just that they're saying motherhood is fulfilling. They're saying living, sacrificing,
- 2:01:35Speaker 3: seeing yourself in terms of sacrificing for an external standard
- 2:01:40Speaker 3: for another being is satisfying. It is an emotional resource
- 2:01:46Speaker 3: that these women will never have access to, and it
- 2:01:49Speaker 3: also directly conflicts with these women's framing that women any
- 2:01:56Speaker 3: kind of negative experience is oppression of women and men
- 2:02:00Speaker 3: us destroy it. So if women take take a positive
- 2:02:05Speaker 3: sense of self, they take some kind of internal emotional
- 2:02:07Speaker 3: resource from striving from living up to an external standard,
- 2:02:13Speaker 3: from losing sleep, from having to change diapers or anything
- 2:02:17Speaker 3: else that's difficult or unhygienic or disgusting or anything. If
- 2:02:21Speaker 3: they take a sense of self from living up to
- 2:02:23Speaker 3: an external standard, that is in direct contradiction with their
- 2:02:27Speaker 3: framing that any sacrifice by women is wrong and men
- 2:02:31Speaker 3: have to prevent it. See what I'm saying, It's like
- 2:02:34Speaker 3: a it's like a clash of identities.
- 2:02:37Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I don't know, but I want to finish
- 2:02:41Speaker 1: Priory Claire's chat or her sound clip. Huh.
- 2:02:45Speaker 13: She never dumped on mothers once. In fact, she was
- 2:02:48Speaker 13: saying how much she appreciates her friends who are parents
- 2:02:50Speaker 13: because they still show up for her even though they
- 2:02:53Speaker 13: have to go through so many more extra hurdles to
- 2:02:55Speaker 13: be able to even go to one of her concerts
- 2:02:58Speaker 13: they have to do so, and child Tree people do.
- 2:03:01Speaker 3: Okay, Yes, she dunked on parents. She dunked on the
- 2:03:06Speaker 3: idea of what of literally And when I say that
- 2:03:11Speaker 3: this is like a conflict of identities, these women are
- 2:03:14Speaker 3: taking an identity from self sacrifice to an external standard
- 2:03:20Speaker 3: which is in contradiction to all of these feminist and
- 2:03:23Speaker 3: communist identities, which is my needs. My sacrifices are illegitimate.
- 2:03:28Speaker 3: Somebody else should be sacrificing for me. So these women
- 2:03:32Speaker 3: are like, I want to sacrifice for something else. The
- 2:03:35Speaker 3: women Cox, Manifestelle Byrony, and Rainbow Shite are all like, no,
- 2:03:42Speaker 3: I have to be sacrificed for that's my identity. I
- 2:03:45Speaker 3: have to be the one who is provided for and
- 2:03:49Speaker 3: I don't acknowledge any external standard that I have to
- 2:03:52Speaker 3: live up to. And you are when you say that
- 2:03:57Speaker 3: motherhood is worth or is miserable, you are denying how
- 2:04:02Speaker 3: these women see themselves, that their misery is in service
- 2:04:06Speaker 3: of a greater thing, like something else that they're serving.
- 2:04:11Speaker 3: So you are attacking them, right, do you see what
- 2:04:14Speaker 3: I'm saying, Brian, Yeah, And you are attacking. You are
- 2:04:19Speaker 3: attacking how they fundamentally see themselves. They see their misery
- 2:04:23Speaker 3: in service of something greater, and you see, well, misery
- 2:04:28Speaker 3: human women being miserable. Miserable is oppression. It should end.
- 2:04:32Speaker 3: And this is what I use to manipulate men. So
- 2:04:35Speaker 3: shut up about how you you you find fulfillment in
- 2:04:38Speaker 3: your misery, that's wrong. Your misery and service of something
- 2:04:42Speaker 3: greater than yourself, that's wrong. And you attack their identities.
- 2:04:46Speaker 3: You've attacked how they see their self worth, these mothers
- 2:04:48Speaker 3: self worth. So yes, this woman has attacked them.
- 2:04:53Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, next clip Evy magazine everything.
- 2:04:58Speaker 13: If you're fortunate enough to not not about TV magazine,
- 2:05:00Speaker 13: I did talk about them in my raw Milk video.
- 2:05:02Speaker 13: They're basically trying to be a right wing version of Cosmo,
- 2:05:05Speaker 13: and they are scarily growing in popularity. Anyone who thinks mother.
- 2:05:09Speaker 1: Probably because they don't. They're not like ninety percent ads,
- 2:05:13Speaker 1: and they actually are content. I mean, I'm not. I
- 2:05:15Speaker 1: don't read ev magazine. It's basically just like it's for women.
- 2:05:19Speaker 1: But if you're going to compare it to Cosmo, like
- 2:05:23Speaker 1: women's magazines, like mainstream ones are just ads, Like the
- 2:05:27Speaker 1: whole thing is just ads. You're paying seven bucks for ads,
- 2:05:31Speaker 1: and uh yeah, I guess I would rather just read
- 2:05:34Speaker 1: at least something that has articles, even if I don't
- 2:05:36Speaker 1: like the articles. So but anyway, let me see is
- 2:05:42Speaker 1: that the rest of No, there's a little bit more here,
- 2:05:45Speaker 1: so let's go.
- 2:05:47Speaker 13: It is one long soul sucking descent into despair has
- 2:05:50Speaker 13: either never spent meaningful time around actual mothers or is
- 2:05:54Speaker 13: so immersed in their own dopamine. Addicted main character Life
- 2:05:57Speaker 13: that the idea of loving someone with your whole hat
- 2:06:00Speaker 13: sounds like torture. Wow, that is quite a reaction, and
- 2:06:03Speaker 13: on their Instagram they shared this little slide deck too.
- 2:06:06Speaker 13: When Media Research Center said this chaperone, a gen Z
- 2:06:09Speaker 13: popstar who dresses in drag, claims, all my friends who
- 2:06:12Speaker 13: have kids are in hell. I don't know anyone who
- 2:06:15Speaker 13: is happy with kids. Fact check. Statistically, the happiest women
- 2:06:18Speaker 13: in America and married and have children. Huh okay, let
- 2:06:21Speaker 13: me go fact check this unsourced claim, because once again
- 2:06:25Speaker 13: at Brandolini's law comes rocky around the corner, Like, y,
- 2:06:32Speaker 13: what does this?
- 2:06:32Speaker 1: Because it takes Brandolini's law basically the amounts of energy
- 2:06:36Speaker 1: and time needed to produce bullshit.
- 2:06:38Speaker 3: Yeah, we're about to see you example.
- 2:06:40Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she's going to show that it takes
- 2:06:43Speaker 1: a lot more work to disprove lies.
- 2:06:46Speaker 3: Yeah, because she's about to She's just about to puke
- 2:06:48Speaker 3: out a lie.
- 2:06:50Speaker 1: Yeah, let's let's keep going.
- 2:06:51Speaker 13: It's so much longer to debunk misinformation than spread misinformation.
- 2:06:55Speaker 13: So I went on at forty five minute long journey
- 2:06:58Speaker 13: yesterday trying to find the exact sauce here, and guess
- 2:07:01Speaker 13: what happened when I typed in that little statistic. The
- 2:07:04Speaker 13: first thing that popped up was this the end statute fist.
- 2:07:07Speaker 1: So if you spend forty five minutes doing it, how
- 2:07:09Speaker 1: come it came up when you just typed in the
- 2:07:11Speaker 1: little statistic M.
- 2:07:14Speaker 13: Family studies. No red flags there? Hey where they were
- 2:07:18Speaker 13: referencing the.
- 2:07:20Speaker 1: Oh okay, so family studies that did it. Therefore it's debunked,
- 2:07:24Speaker 1: I guess, Yeah, but it.
- 2:07:28Speaker 3: Doesn't debunk the actual findings of the general Social survey.
- 2:07:32Speaker 3: So just keep going. She she quotes the on okay,
- 2:07:40Speaker 3: she quotes Dolan, but keep going. I knew it was
- 2:07:44Speaker 3: going to be Dolan, by the way. I knew it.
- 2:07:45Speaker 3: I knew once I saw her flapping lips over this
- 2:07:48Speaker 3: that it was going to be Dolan, freaking like that
- 2:07:52Speaker 3: man should honestly write a gigantic page and pay Google
- 2:07:57Speaker 3: to correct the red on this. It was such a
- 2:08:02Speaker 3: gigantic boner that he did.
- 2:08:04Speaker 13: And it just keeps going, all right, says General Social Survey.
- 2:08:11Speaker 13: But they had no links, no sources there either, So
- 2:08:14Speaker 13: then I kept on going to find the GSS information.
- 2:08:18Speaker 3: Two sources. They literally see the General Social Survey that
- 2:08:24Speaker 3: is the source. You don't have to link to it.
- 2:08:28Speaker 3: This is a person who's never under never had to
- 2:08:31Speaker 3: list citations at the end of w a of a
- 2:08:34Speaker 3: research assignment or a thesis. Okay, keep going, all right.
- 2:08:40Speaker 13: And this is the part which took up most of
- 2:08:41Speaker 13: my time, because my goodness, they made it super hard.
- 2:08:43Speaker 13: But I eventually found it with this chart, which is
- 2:08:46Speaker 13: referencing the information which they kept on trying to share
- 2:08:49Speaker 13: without linking back to it. My god, why do you
- 2:08:51Speaker 13: think I spent so long linking all of my sources
- 2:08:54Speaker 13: In the description box For people, their source is the
- 2:08:56Speaker 13: happiness charts measured over time. As you can see, this
- 2:08:59Speaker 13: goes back in nineteen seventy four. And this light aren't
- 2:09:02Speaker 13: line that's married people. But very similarly, I could filter
- 2:09:06Speaker 13: the condition of health and the happiest people at those
- 2:09:08Speaker 13: who are healthy. I could so easily go making this
- 2:09:11Speaker 13: into a headline too. The happiest people in America are
- 2:09:13Speaker 13: also the healthiest and nablest society that basically punishes people. Yeah,
- 2:09:19Speaker 13: no kidding, Sherlock.
- 2:09:21Speaker 1: Oh my god. Maybe they're healthy because they have a
- 2:09:25Speaker 1: good attitude, Like maybe they take care of themselves because
- 2:09:31Speaker 1: life is worth living. What I'm saying, like you're putting
- 2:09:34Speaker 1: the nevermind? Go ahead?
- 2:09:35Speaker 3: Yeah no, I think she's just basically saying that married
- 2:09:38Speaker 3: people are self selecting. Yeah they are, but to stay
- 2:09:42Speaker 3: married you actually need to have good habits. To be healthy,
- 2:09:45Speaker 3: you probably also need to have good habits. So I
- 2:09:47Speaker 3: don't know where she's going with this. Marriage doesn't make
- 2:09:50Speaker 3: you necessarily happy or healthy. It's just if you are
- 2:09:54Speaker 3: capable of maintaining the state of being married, you're more
- 2:09:57Speaker 3: likely to be able to be happy. Let's uh, I
- 2:10:01Speaker 3: don't know how far in she actually gets to the
- 2:10:05Speaker 3: freaking point. I actually just went to her her studies,
- 2:10:09Speaker 3: but just keep going.
- 2:10:11Speaker 13: Plus, when you look at the historical data, merit people
- 2:10:14Speaker 13: overwhelmingly are the happiest, so this doesn't news in any way.
- 2:10:18Speaker 13: So just the funzies I was playing around the different
- 2:10:20Speaker 13: filters and saw the citizenship status. Well, people who aren't
- 2:10:25Speaker 13: citizens are the happiest. Why didn't they make this the
- 2:10:29Speaker 13: front page news? And what don't you know the class
- 2:10:32Speaker 13: the people?
- 2:10:33Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's not relevant. We're talking about like mothers,
- 2:10:37Speaker 1: you know.
- 2:10:37Speaker 3: People who are willing to respond to a survey by
- 2:10:41Speaker 3: the US government and not be citizens, or probably HB
- 2:10:45Speaker 3: one's you know, yeah, h one bees, you know, like, Okay,
- 2:10:50Speaker 3: let's she doesn't get to the point. I don't think,
- 2:10:52Speaker 3: but let's keep going, all right.
- 2:10:54Speaker 13: People have high wealth also the happiest.
- 2:10:56Speaker 3: Huh.
- 2:10:56Speaker 13: It's almost like having that safety net of all of
- 2:11:00Speaker 13: this money allows you to be able to get healthcare,
- 2:11:02Speaker 13: maybe holidays, all the fresh fruit and vegetables you could need,
- 2:11:06Speaker 13: and oh god, oh my goodness, you could even afford
- 2:11:09Speaker 13: to buy home.
- 2:11:13Speaker 3: The I can't wait. I got I got a tablet
- 2:11:16Speaker 3: so I can start drawing these concepts out for you, lady.
- 2:11:22Speaker 3: If you incentivize need and not merit, nobody is going
- 2:11:26Speaker 3: to have anything at the end of the day, because
- 2:11:29Speaker 3: nobody's going to build or make anything.
- 2:11:32Speaker 4: Right.
- 2:11:33Speaker 3: All they're going to do is say I have needs,
- 2:11:35Speaker 3: provide for them, and they're not going to actually provide
- 2:11:38Speaker 3: for anyone else's needs. How do they not know this?
- 2:11:41Speaker 3: You've got to incentivize productivity somehow. Otherwise you're all like,
- 2:11:47Speaker 3: it's not it is not money that makes you wealthy,
- 2:11:50Speaker 3: it's the productivity of your neighbor. All right, let's keep going.
- 2:11:55Speaker 13: It's like money can indeed buy things that can bring
- 2:11:58Speaker 13: you happiness because you feel secure. Meslo's hierarchy of needs
- 2:12:01Speaker 13: and everything. I mean, I guess in one case with
- 2:12:03Speaker 13: cheese head over here, because he is deeply, deeply unhappy,
- 2:12:08Speaker 13: but will be getting to him soon, don't worry in
- 2:12:10Speaker 13: a future video, so subscribe for that.
- 2:12:13Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because she hates Elon Musk now, even though
- 2:12:15Speaker 1: he was literally saving the planet like a couple of
- 2:12:18Speaker 1: years ago, but now he's the bad guy, and that
- 2:12:21Speaker 1: means he's actually secretly miserable. And I'm going to figure
- 2:12:24Speaker 1: it all out with my telepathy because women they have
- 2:12:26Speaker 1: to let I don't know, if you know that.
- 2:12:29Speaker 3: Can't be miserable. He's too autistic. Yeah, I know, right,
- 2:12:33Speaker 3: all human emotions are are I don't know.
- 2:12:36Speaker 1: These women, they they go on and on about ableism,
- 2:12:39Speaker 1: but they really really hate guys on the spectrum guys
- 2:12:44Speaker 1: on the spectrum they hate them, and I think it's
- 2:12:46Speaker 1: because those guys on the spectrum don't appear to give
- 2:12:49Speaker 1: a shit about women's opinions. So that's what pisses them off,
- 2:12:52Speaker 1: is that it doesn't satisfy their narcissistic needs. But anyway,
- 2:12:57Speaker 1: next time code for this person trying to be nice
- 2:13:02Speaker 1: of thirteen thirty nine.
- 2:13:05Speaker 3: Ultimately I wanted to actually get into her. I don't
- 2:13:08Speaker 3: know when she actually talks specifically, but I'm pretty sure
- 2:13:12Speaker 3: she talks about Dolan.
- 2:13:13Speaker 1: At some point, right, Yeah, I don't know.
- 2:13:17Speaker 3: You see, you know what, go to the next time code,
- 2:13:21Speaker 3: I will, I will delve into the transcript.
- 2:13:25Speaker 1: Yeah, I have my act there.
- 2:13:27Speaker 3: These are complete blackout goggles, just in case the cancer
- 2:13:31Speaker 3: gets so bad I can't even I can't even allow
- 2:13:34Speaker 3: any light into my eyes.
- 2:13:36Speaker 13: Just to an individual level, And this is the part
- 2:13:38Speaker 13: which these right wing outlets don't want to be talked about,
- 2:13:41Speaker 13: because that means that facing the fact that we should
- 2:13:45Speaker 13: actually begin texes from the rich people, because then we
- 2:13:48Speaker 13: could have better social safety nuts with people, which would
- 2:13:51Speaker 13: make people overall happier. When it comes to the US
- 2:13:53Speaker 13: in particular, there is a strong clinging to individualism, that
- 2:13:56Speaker 13: it's the mother's failure if she is struggling at all,
- 2:14:00Speaker 13: not the fact that like the government's let her down
- 2:14:03Speaker 13: by reducing ever even having those social support safety nets.
- 2:14:10Speaker 3: Wait a second, what are you talking about. If women
- 2:14:14Speaker 3: can't provide for their children, they get welfare. If men
- 2:14:18Speaker 3: can't provide for their children, they go to jail. What
- 2:14:21Speaker 3: the hell are you talking about.
- 2:14:24Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's not American, so like that's just like
- 2:14:31Speaker 1: this is discarded.
- 2:14:33Speaker 3: Yeah, discarded. Well, then you have to discard my opinion.
- 2:14:36Speaker 1: No, I mean, yeah, maybe, but like we we have
- 2:14:39Speaker 1: obviously we have social safety nets too many. It's one
- 2:14:43Speaker 1: of the reasons why so many people are trying to
- 2:14:46Speaker 1: come over here. But they're also trying to impose their
- 2:14:49Speaker 1: beliefs about what should be you know, considered, uh, the
- 2:14:53Speaker 1: government's role in people's lives. And it's a it's a
- 2:14:56Speaker 1: very European idea that, you know, that we should have
- 2:15:00Speaker 1: all this free shit. And of course women they don't
- 2:15:03Speaker 1: know where money even comes from, Like they're just like
- 2:15:05Speaker 1: I just is it in the back, Like I just
- 2:15:08Speaker 1: want my healthcare, Like I don't care how it happens, right,
- 2:15:12Speaker 1: And they assume that they don't get it, then there's
- 2:15:14Speaker 1: something unfair that's going on, so they complain, like this
- 2:15:17Speaker 1: is why, you know, like women of this woman's generation,
- 2:15:22Speaker 1: the zoomers. I think she's a zoomer. I might be
- 2:15:24Speaker 1: a little bit too flattering. The more the women are
- 2:15:28Speaker 1: more radically left than the men are, and I mean
- 2:15:32Speaker 1: like way more. And a lot of it has to
- 2:15:34Speaker 1: do with social media, and the way that social media
- 2:15:36Speaker 1: is sort of like you know, is there are people
- 2:15:40Speaker 1: using it to push women that way, because women respond
- 2:15:43Speaker 1: to groupthink and peer pressure and this kind of thing,
- 2:15:47Speaker 1: so they're more likely to go along with that. And
- 2:15:48Speaker 1: plus it's very nice to hear, you know, the government
- 2:15:52Speaker 1: will take care of you. The government will give you things.
- 2:15:54Speaker 1: The government will tax those those evil, evil rich people
- 2:15:56Speaker 1: and all their monies and give it to you, which
- 2:15:59Speaker 1: will obviously be the better place to put it, because
- 2:16:01Speaker 1: you're gonna know what to do with it. Meanwhile, like
- 2:16:05Speaker 1: you know, several ding dongs later, you're four hundred pounds
- 2:16:08Speaker 1: and like diabetic, but at least you're taken care of.
- 2:16:12Speaker 1: I guess I.
- 2:16:13Speaker 3: Guess the logic here, and I guess it's segues also
- 2:16:17Speaker 3: into how this is sort of bifurcated into the right
- 2:16:20Speaker 3: being male and the left being female, even though concern
- 2:16:23Speaker 3: women used to vote majority conservative up until like the
- 2:16:27Speaker 3: two thousands, almost I think. But anyway, so we got
- 2:16:32Speaker 3: this bifurcation, and I think I just just occurred to
- 2:16:34Speaker 3: me that I think the Communists believed that men should
- 2:16:37Speaker 3: be motivated by others' needs in order to work. But
- 2:16:42Speaker 3: men are you know, fathers are motivated by the needs
- 2:16:45Speaker 3: of their wives and children like but I guess they
- 2:16:50Speaker 3: want men to be motivated by the needs of abstractions
- 2:16:55Speaker 3: as opposed to people in their own families. Oh, I
- 2:16:58Speaker 3: just thought i'd throw that out is a possible explanation
- 2:17:01Speaker 3: and where they're coming from, all right.
- 2:17:04Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, the thing is is that, like I was
- 2:17:07Speaker 1: saying in the beginning of the video, so Brian renny
- 2:17:09Speaker 1: Claire is like, I guess she's married or something. But
- 2:17:12Speaker 1: she's queer too, so I'm sure she's not a handful
- 2:17:15Speaker 1: for her man. But but like women like this, the
- 2:17:19Speaker 1: communist ones, or at least the more openly I think
- 2:17:22Speaker 1: I think Manifestel will be fine with Communism. The more
- 2:17:26Speaker 1: openly communist ones like this one, they're basically like I
- 2:17:29Speaker 1: want men's provision. But I'm just gonna use the state
- 2:17:31Speaker 1: to get it, and I'm gonna make them make men
- 2:17:34Speaker 1: give me stuff so that I get like my comfort
- 2:17:37Speaker 1: needs met without me having to give anything back, without
- 2:17:40Speaker 1: me even needing to have kids to perpetuate the species.
- 2:17:43Speaker 1: And it's like they don't even realize that where the
- 2:17:45Speaker 1: productivity comes from is people, and that you need to
- 2:17:48Speaker 1: make new people in order to keep producing. And you know,
- 2:17:52Speaker 1: the communist model only ends up like starving everybody out,
- 2:17:56Speaker 1: and like essentially it turns people into expendable widgets in
- 2:18:00Speaker 1: a giant machine, most of whom are men. But of
- 2:18:03Speaker 1: course they don't think, you know, past like the length
- 2:18:06Speaker 1: of their arm. That's just like what do I want?
- 2:18:08Speaker 1: And that's it, right. So, and here's the thing that
- 2:18:11Speaker 1: is funny is that they're doing this because men are
- 2:18:13Speaker 1: not going along with this. I have something here that
- 2:18:16Speaker 1: I want to share. Surprise, I have a link too.
- 2:18:21Speaker 1: This is from the New York Post. Women are gen Z.
- 2:18:26Speaker 1: Women are choosing older men over guys their own age.
- 2:18:29Speaker 1: And it's not because they're sugar daddies. It's because men
- 2:18:34Speaker 1: their age want traditional women. They're basically like the the
- 2:18:39Speaker 1: gen Z men want women that are going to be essentially,
- 2:18:46Speaker 1: they want women that are going to be more you know,
- 2:18:48Speaker 1: monogamous traditional, give them families, et cetera. And they're and
- 2:18:52Speaker 1: they're doing it to the point where zoomer women are like,
- 2:18:55Speaker 1: I'm just going to date the older leftists, right millennials,
- 2:19:01Speaker 1: and of course there's it's that's what they're chasing. Because
- 2:19:04Speaker 1: zoomer men are becoming they're basically more traditional, they're more
- 2:19:09Speaker 1: right wing, not like radically so I know that people
- 2:19:12Speaker 1: like Brian and Declare would claim that they are not
- 2:19:14Speaker 1: radically so just sort of like common sense stuff.
- 2:19:17Speaker 3: No, just more like center right at most or just center.
- 2:19:20Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, basically they just want the shit that like,
- 2:19:24Speaker 1: you know, we had a few generations to go. It's
- 2:19:27Speaker 1: not even like that crazy. It's like, oh, I want
- 2:19:30Speaker 1: to you know, I want to have some children and
- 2:19:32Speaker 1: like own some property. And so like you get this
- 2:19:35Speaker 1: young generation of men coming up and they know what
- 2:19:37Speaker 1: they want and they're going for it and they don't
- 2:19:39Speaker 1: care what women want. They're done with that, they're done
- 2:19:41Speaker 1: with listening to them, especially the zoomer women who've completely
- 2:19:45Speaker 1: left up, gone completely off the rails, like they're getting
- 2:19:49Speaker 1: to the point. There was another video I wanted to
- 2:19:51Speaker 1: find but I couldn't. It was a TikTok video of
- 2:19:54Speaker 1: a zoomer woman applying makeup and explaining to other women
- 2:19:58Speaker 1: all of the various what does she call it, like
- 2:20:01Speaker 1: red flags and like you know, going down into like
- 2:20:05Speaker 1: like regular content that could take them down a right
- 2:20:07Speaker 1: wing rabbit hole to becoming like radical like you know,
- 2:20:11Speaker 1: Christian nationalists and all this other and fascists and stuff.
- 2:20:15Speaker 1: And it was shit, like you know, caring about your
- 2:20:17Speaker 1: health like seriously, like like eating natural, using like all
- 2:20:23Speaker 1: natural makeup that isn't like made with like you know,
- 2:20:26Speaker 1: all kinds of crazy chemicals and tested on animals, going
- 2:20:30Speaker 1: to the gym like stuff that is you know, healthy,
- 2:20:33Speaker 1: maintaining your you know, a healthy weight like that that stuff.
- 2:20:37Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, it'll it'll put you down a
- 2:20:39Speaker 1: rabbit hole because you might, you know, start questioning like institutions,
- 2:20:44Speaker 1: like government institutions, like like the Department of Education. You
- 2:20:48Speaker 1: might question them if you like homeschool your kids. So
- 2:20:52Speaker 1: she literally advocating that women stop doing stuff that they enjoy,
- 2:20:57Speaker 1: even including things like crystals and shit, which you obviously
- 2:21:00Speaker 1: is bullshit. But because they might become happy doing that,
- 2:21:05Speaker 1: and they might want to keep doing that, And that's
- 2:21:08Speaker 1: a problem because women have to constantly be in the
- 2:21:12Speaker 1: revolutionary headspace of like fighting against men and the system
- 2:21:15Speaker 1: and patriarchy, et cetera. This is where women are at
- 2:21:18Speaker 1: right now. This is where zoomer women are at right now.
- 2:21:20Speaker 3: Yeah, and again, it's like this bifurcation that you become
- 2:21:24Speaker 3: if you have any investment in recognizing productivity comes from meritocracy,
- 2:21:29Speaker 3: and meritocracy needs to be incentivized or recognized somehow, so,
- 2:21:33Speaker 3: you know, and and then you are on the right.
- 2:21:37Speaker 3: According to them, you're on the extreme right. And yet
- 2:21:40Speaker 3: I would actually challenge these people, these communists, that if
- 2:21:44Speaker 3: they really want to create a society in which the
- 2:21:47Speaker 3: motivation for people to be productive is the needs of others,
- 2:21:52Speaker 3: why do they have like why is men's needs, men's issues?
- 2:21:57Speaker 3: Why is why do they act like in the presence
- 2:22:01Speaker 3: of men's issues? Why do they act like vampires in
- 2:22:03Speaker 3: the presence of sunlight? Like you realize we were already
- 2:22:08Speaker 3: basically communism. It's just that it's communism for women, right.
- 2:22:13Speaker 3: But the only other place we could go to is
- 2:22:17Speaker 3: to create a state that recognized that men deserve stuff
- 2:22:20Speaker 3: when they have needs. That's the only other place we
- 2:22:23Speaker 3: could go to with our communism, right, and not only
- 2:22:26Speaker 3: is it generally rejected by men because they want to
- 2:22:29Speaker 3: define themselves more in terms of getting stuff based on
- 2:22:31Speaker 3: their actions and their merit rather than their needs. I
- 2:22:34Speaker 3: would say that sometimes that's taken too far. Every race
- 2:22:40Speaker 3: card needs a pit stop occasionally, right, But regardless, you know,
- 2:22:45Speaker 3: if you are going to pursue communism any further than
- 2:22:48Speaker 3: what it is now, then you got to recognize men's
- 2:22:52Speaker 3: needs have to also drive policy. But they never will
- 2:22:57Speaker 3: because every time you bring up men, you know, all
- 2:22:59Speaker 3: of the communists who are like, oh, yes, the state
- 2:23:03Speaker 3: should take care of us from cradle to grave, and
- 2:23:05Speaker 3: you bring up something like, well, what about you know,
- 2:23:08Speaker 3: boys falling back in education, what about you know the
- 2:23:11Speaker 3: fact that infant boys are generally mutilate, what about boy
- 2:23:16Speaker 3: men and boys facing domestic violence or sexual assault? What
- 2:23:19Speaker 3: about men and boys not graduating as much? And what
- 2:23:22Speaker 3: about what about men and boys in any context? And
- 2:23:25Speaker 3: they're like, well, they can just pull themselves up by
- 2:23:27Speaker 3: their bootstraps. And it's like wow, that I just I
- 2:23:31Speaker 3: just I just exercised you.
- 2:23:33Speaker 1: If you're going to redistribute, Well, somebody's got to be
- 2:23:37Speaker 1: doing the bootstrapping, and it's gonna be These are not
- 2:23:40Speaker 1: actually contradictions. This is the way it works. Like, this
- 2:23:44Speaker 1: is the way it works. They the women are the
- 2:23:47Speaker 1: party and the men are not. They are the enemy.
- 2:23:51Speaker 1: They are the bourgeoisie, so they deserve what's come into them.
- 2:23:54Speaker 3: I just find it amusing that that I can exercise
- 2:23:59Speaker 3: the communism them in like five seconds by just simple
- 2:24:02Speaker 3: bringing up men's issues.
- 2:24:04Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:24:05Speaker 3: Yeah, they're just they're they're basically their caricature of the right.
- 2:24:09Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, they shouldn't.
- 2:24:10Speaker 6: Get anything anything.
- 2:24:13Speaker 3: They need to pull themselves up. They need to pull
- 2:24:17Speaker 3: themselves up by their toothhairs and some shit, you know that.
- 2:24:21Speaker 3: Like it's just instantaneously the communism injects from their head
- 2:24:25Speaker 3: and splatters onto the Wall's stupid. We can't keep them
- 2:24:29Speaker 3: in that state, then we would neutralize all communism everywhere.
- 2:24:33Speaker 1: Yeah, but in a communist mindset, somebody has to be
- 2:24:37Speaker 1: the one. That's what I'm saying, Like, this isn't actually
- 2:24:41Speaker 1: a contradiction. This is the way it works. Like they're
- 2:24:43Speaker 1: basically deciding the men are the ones with the property.
- 2:24:47Speaker 1: They're the ones we're going to essentially genocide so that
- 2:24:50Speaker 1: the women can have the property. We're gonna slowly kill
- 2:24:53Speaker 1: them by making them work to provide for women. So yeah,
- 2:24:56Speaker 1: if you bring it's just like chee on Head's video
- 2:24:58Speaker 1: where she was like, I don't understand why, like my
- 2:25:01Speaker 1: my lefty friends don't like men, and it's just clip
- 2:25:04Speaker 1: after clip of after clip of communists saying fuck men,
- 2:25:08Speaker 1: because they are the they have the power, they are
- 2:25:12Speaker 1: the enemy. So this is not it's not really a contradiction, like,
- 2:25:16Speaker 1: this is the way it works. This is the way
- 2:25:18Speaker 1: communism works. Somebody has to be the person who redistributed.
- 2:25:24Speaker 3: I know, it's the way it works.
- 2:25:25Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know.
- 2:25:26Speaker 3: But they are in this mentality of virtue. Yes, said
- 2:25:31Speaker 3: that everybody's going to be taken care of, right, and
- 2:25:34Speaker 3: then you say, well, men have needs and suddenly suddenly
- 2:25:38Speaker 3: the communism just ejects from their head like a fucking demon,
- 2:25:42Speaker 3: splatters on the wall.
- 2:25:43Speaker 1: Behind them, like, well, men don't. Men don't deserve Communists,
- 2:25:46Speaker 1: men don't deserve.
- 2:25:47Speaker 3: And I know it's because they want the men to
- 2:25:49Speaker 3: underwrite everything. Even though you actually look at Stalinist, you know,
- 2:25:54Speaker 3: Soviet that that wasn't the way it worked, ladies and gents,
- 2:25:58Speaker 3: because when.
- 2:26:01Speaker 1: It's gonna work, and it's gonna work this time.
- 2:26:05Speaker 3: The Soviet communism worked not for very long. It just
- 2:26:10Speaker 3: required a tremendous amount of state violence. It required a
- 2:26:19Speaker 3: lot of shootings and gulag.
- 2:26:21Speaker 4: You know.
- 2:26:22Speaker 1: Yeah, they were getting there, they were getting they got
- 2:26:24Speaker 1: they were very close, missed it by by about.
- 2:26:27Speaker 3: You know, it just was there was They had to
- 2:26:31Speaker 3: replace the meritocracy with the boot and the whip, and
- 2:26:35Speaker 3: they did it to both men and women. That's my point. Yeah,
- 2:26:39Speaker 3: I know, yeah, okay, all right.
- 2:26:41Speaker 13: All right, anyway, let next sound like space there really
- 2:26:45Speaker 13: acting like this scene from Night.
- 2:26:47Speaker 3: Bitch, happiness is choice?
- 2:26:51Speaker 13: A valid response to that?
- 2:26:53Speaker 1: Why the choice?
- 2:26:55Speaker 13: I think it's important.
- 2:26:58Speaker 3: Okay, So go ahead.
- 2:27:01Speaker 1: Well, and I was gonna say, like Byron and Claire,
- 2:27:04Speaker 1: she basically her whole thing is she takes fiction created
- 2:27:09Speaker 1: by feminists and then presents it as truth and then says,
- 2:27:13Speaker 1: look at this fictional thing, this is so real. I
- 2:27:16Speaker 1: agree with it because it's made by people like her.
- 2:27:19Speaker 1: So it's like, what's the point, Like, what are we
- 2:27:21Speaker 1: even looking at? That'd be my like, it's just ridiculous,
- 2:27:24Speaker 1: but go ahead.
- 2:27:25Speaker 3: Okay. So what we're looking at as a man saying
- 2:27:28Speaker 3: that happiness is a choice and a woman hits her
- 2:27:31Speaker 3: hits him in the face because apparently her happiness is
- 2:27:35Speaker 3: his responsibility, right, you know, he's basically saying, your happiness
- 2:27:41Speaker 3: is your responsibility, lady, and she's like domestic or otherwise
- 2:27:45Speaker 3: violence in response to that, what is she saying. She's saying, no,
- 2:27:49Speaker 3: it's actually your responsibility. And of course we're supposed to
- 2:27:53Speaker 3: cheer on the woman because because men underwrite everything. And
- 2:27:57Speaker 3: also if I ever spoke to Byrony in person and
- 2:28:01Speaker 3: mention men's needs, the communism would eject from her like
- 2:28:06Speaker 3: from her mouth, like extracism, vomit like, and then suddenly
- 2:28:11Speaker 3: she'd be like bedstress.
- 2:28:14Speaker 1: Yep, okay, so let me see next one. Yeah, I
- 2:28:21Speaker 1: guess there's a little bit more. Let's keep going on.
- 2:28:23Speaker 13: The people are able to have honest conversations about how
- 2:28:26Speaker 13: hard it is to be a parent in a society
- 2:28:29Speaker 13: which basically lets you just flounder. It's seeing that you
- 2:28:32Speaker 13: should be able to quote handle it all. Because mums
- 2:28:35Speaker 13: especially often called superwoman for doing it all without ever
- 2:28:39Speaker 13: recognizing that they have to do it all because there
- 2:28:42Speaker 13: is no village to support them, especially in the US.
- 2:28:44Speaker 6: There's no healthcare, sup, there's no village.
- 2:28:48Speaker 3: Like seriously, well, who destroyed the village. If you want
- 2:28:51Speaker 3: a village, ladies, you got to actually you gotta actually
- 2:28:55Speaker 3: behave like a villager, like a woman who put it's
- 2:29:00Speaker 3: her community ahead of her own self interests. Otherwise there's
- 2:29:04Speaker 3: no village to appeal to because nobody is putting. You're
- 2:29:07Speaker 3: all just singletons within the same proximity, right, So you're
- 2:29:12Speaker 3: not gonna do that because you're incredibly selfish people. But
- 2:29:17Speaker 3: you know, let's go to the next time code.
- 2:29:20Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so a lot of gets through. Actually, this
- 2:29:25Speaker 1: is it. This is it for byrony Uh, that's it
- 2:29:28Speaker 1: for Brianny. I mean basically she's she uses fiction to
- 2:29:32Speaker 1: make her point about reality and it's fiction, so it's
- 2:29:35Speaker 1: not reality. And she clais, oh look at you know,
- 2:29:38Speaker 1: it's well acted therefore, right, And there's some movie with
- 2:29:41Speaker 1: Charlie's Theerron that she also uses. I don't I guess
- 2:29:44Speaker 1: it's called the Letdown. Maybe that's what this is. I
- 2:29:46Speaker 1: don't know, I don't care. Uh, we have the queer
- 2:29:49Speaker 1: Keiwi next though so she because and these two both
- 2:29:54Speaker 1: have the same ideas, so it's very similar. But essentially
- 2:29:58Speaker 1: Brianny and Queer Kiri. You know, Byrony is Australian, Queer
- 2:30:02Speaker 1: Kiwi is from New Zealand, so they're basically like sisters,
- 2:30:05Speaker 1: and they both have the same conclusions. What we need
- 2:30:09Speaker 1: is more of the state involved, which is basically communism
- 2:30:12Speaker 1: or at least socialism until we're ready become new people
- 2:30:16Speaker 1: and then will have communism. Then women might consider maybe
- 2:30:20Speaker 1: having children for the for the country, as long as
- 2:30:22Speaker 1: there's a big enough village that's more involved. So when
- 2:30:26Speaker 1: she says a village, she's not talking about like a
- 2:30:29Speaker 1: community that's organically coming together and like they all, you know,
- 2:30:33Speaker 1: share similar values and they live in the same community
- 2:30:35Speaker 1: and they all know each other. No, no, no, she's
- 2:30:37Speaker 1: talking about a government that is handing out money taken
- 2:30:40Speaker 1: from men, you know that she doesn't even know what
- 2:30:43Speaker 1: they look like, so and then giving that to women
- 2:30:47Speaker 1: like her. So anyway, so this is a queer Kiwi
- 2:30:51Speaker 1: or as I like to call her, rainbow shite, and
- 2:30:55Speaker 1: we will go to her first time code at.
- 2:30:58Speaker 3: And also Voidcat has made a rep pearents Okay, it's
- 2:31:05Speaker 3: so so upsetting.
- 2:31:07Speaker 14: There are quite a lot of men in this upreddit
- 2:31:08Speaker 14: who said that they didn't want to have a kid
- 2:31:09Speaker 14: because they didn't feel like it was something they could
- 2:31:11Speaker 14: do or were going to be very good at.
- 2:31:14Speaker 3: But then their.
- 2:31:15Speaker 14: Partners were like very persistent and like threatening to leave
- 2:31:19Speaker 14: them or et cetera, and saying that, you know, having
- 2:31:23Speaker 14: a kid would be amazing and effectively eventually talking them
- 2:31:26Speaker 14: into it.
- 2:31:29Speaker 1: It's ready.
- 2:31:30Speaker 3: Yeah, But also I wanted to point this out. I
- 2:31:35Speaker 3: thought this was an interesting time code. It's a bit different,
- 2:31:37Speaker 3: Like I decided to go with a little the male perspective,
- 2:31:41Speaker 3: Like suddenly we have a moment, a blip in the
- 2:31:44Speaker 3: matrix and we get the male perspective. We see it
- 2:31:46Speaker 3: through the rip and the time space continuum, the no,
- 2:31:49Speaker 3: the fem space continuum, you know, and we just get
- 2:31:56Speaker 3: a moment of the of how much pressure there is
- 2:31:59Speaker 3: on men to have the child that they're women want, right,
- 2:32:04Speaker 3: you know. And I just thought that was interesting. But
- 2:32:07Speaker 3: of course it's never addressed again, Like it doesn't she
- 2:32:10Speaker 3: doesn't go anywhere with it.
- 2:32:14Speaker 1: Yeah, no, she just sort of like I think she's
- 2:32:17Speaker 1: using it to further like say, oh, Look, even the
- 2:32:20Speaker 1: men are unsure, right, But I mean again, men on
- 2:32:23Speaker 1: Reddit are not like the men in the New York
- 2:32:26Speaker 1: Post article that are, you know.
- 2:32:30Speaker 4: Uh.
- 2:32:30Speaker 1: The reason why they're freaking out about this the New
- 2:32:32Speaker 1: York Post article, by the way, is because they're saying
- 2:32:35Speaker 1: that gen Z women are forced to date older men.
- 2:32:40Speaker 1: Because gen Z men, you know, they're they're into the
- 2:32:43Speaker 1: man of sphere content, and so that makes them scary
- 2:32:46Speaker 1: to women. They're obviously misogynistic or whatever. I think it's
- 2:32:49Speaker 1: because those women have been propaganda to fear those men
- 2:32:52Speaker 1: for like, you know, wanting to like essentially find a
- 2:32:56Speaker 1: place where they can get a positive male identity that
- 2:32:59Speaker 1: is not based solely on how they serve women and
- 2:33:03Speaker 1: how they are essentially to be used as tools. And
- 2:33:06Speaker 1: so they're like, well, maybe I want to build my
- 2:33:08Speaker 1: own thing, Maybe I want to own my own business,
- 2:33:10Speaker 1: Maybe I want to do something you know, productive, Like
- 2:33:12Speaker 1: the red pill isn't really about I think it's more
- 2:33:17Speaker 1: about like men sort of self actualizing and doing that
- 2:33:21Speaker 1: without women's like I don't know, responding to women, I guess,
- 2:33:26Speaker 1: and acting on its own. But they don't like that
- 2:33:28Speaker 1: because that doesn't center women anymore.
- 2:33:30Speaker 3: Can you squishing, you want to squish?
- 2:33:35Speaker 1: You want? All right, So what's the other time you
- 2:33:38Speaker 1: want to respond to this? Or try?
- 2:33:39Speaker 3: I go on to the next time code, Well, can
- 2:33:41Speaker 3: we give like a summary.
- 2:33:42Speaker 1: Of Brianny or rainbow shite?
- 2:33:47Speaker 3: I get it if you're like really tired.
- 2:33:51Speaker 1: Yeah, Lindsay's cooking and like I said, we just did
- 2:33:55Speaker 1: a fast and I'm like super hungry.
- 2:33:58Speaker 3: Could you just check your check your phone.
- 2:34:03Speaker 1: Because there might be something.
- 2:34:05Speaker 3: Yeah, it might be Yeah, there's a you know, the
- 2:34:07Speaker 3: the verification.
- 2:34:08Speaker 1: I gotta go to my phone.
- 2:34:10Speaker 3: Hold on, yeah, just i'll uh just imagine we have
- 2:34:15Speaker 3: Brian checking his phone music that we would put right
- 2:34:18Speaker 3: here and it would be very melodious.
- 2:34:20Speaker 1: Picked a hell of a time to do that. Yeah,
- 2:34:24Speaker 1: I do have something here. My phone was plugged in
- 2:34:27Speaker 1: back there, waiting for it to waiting for it to
- 2:34:30Speaker 1: open up. Okay, so show notes summary in do no no,
- 2:34:38Speaker 1: just I got to maybe I need the prompt expire.
- 2:34:41Speaker 1: Do you gotta do it again?
- 2:34:42Speaker 3: Okay, try again? All right, all right, we'll do this one. Okay,
- 2:34:48Speaker 3: there we go.
- 2:34:50Speaker 1: I don't have it yet, but all right, well sorry,
- 2:34:53Speaker 1: I go on, just just wait, just wait, just wait.
- 2:34:55Speaker 3: The longer these shows go on, the more the backstage
- 2:34:58Speaker 3: starts to become visible.
- 2:35:01Speaker 1: Okay, all right, yes it's me and got it all right. Summary.
- 2:35:06Speaker 1: In this conversation, the host explores the subreddit are regretful preparents.
- 2:35:11Speaker 1: So it's literally a subreddit that is about parents who
- 2:35:15Speaker 1: have regrets. You can't use that as evidence of anything.
- 2:35:19Speaker 1: You're literally going to the place where it's happening and
- 2:35:22Speaker 1: saying this is happening everywhere, because it's happening here in
- 2:35:25Speaker 1: this very specific subreddit that is about this. So discussing
- 2:35:29Speaker 1: the challenges and realities of parenthood, the dialogue emphasizes the
- 2:35:33Speaker 1: importance of open conversations about the difficulties of raising children,
- 2:35:36Speaker 1: the societal pressures that have kids, and the impact of
- 2:35:39Speaker 1: social media on perceptions of motherhood. The host reflects on
- 2:35:42Speaker 1: the coercion some individuals face and their parenting decisions, and
- 2:35:45Speaker 1: the long term implications of these choices. The conversation also
- 2:35:49Speaker 1: touches on the capitalist motivations behind promoting family structures and
- 2:35:53Speaker 1: the emotional complexities of parenting, including regret and compassion. By
- 2:35:56Speaker 1: the way, another thing is that both Bribernyclare and Rainbow
- 2:35:59Speaker 1: Shite both say that you know people wanting kids is capitalism,
- 2:36:06Speaker 1: even though you need you need people, no matter what
- 2:36:10Speaker 1: system you want to live under. But yeah, that's a
- 2:36:12Speaker 1: capitalist thing having kids. Do you guys know that? Did
- 2:36:15Speaker 1: you know that having kids is just like being an evil,
- 2:36:17Speaker 1: dirty bourgeois capitalist. But the other thing that I think
- 2:36:22Speaker 1: is really funny about this too is that the two
- 2:36:25Speaker 1: commie women, I think they're political lesbians. I know that
- 2:36:27Speaker 1: they're both queer, whatever the hell that means, and identity
- 2:36:31Speaker 1: without neessence ultimately, and I think Brianny Claire might be married.
- 2:36:36Speaker 1: I think she claims to have a husband. This woman
- 2:36:39Speaker 1: is not but rainbow shite, that is. But what's interesting
- 2:36:43Speaker 1: about them, as well as the original person they're responding to,
- 2:36:46Speaker 1: is that there they were expressing concerns about being able
- 2:36:50Speaker 1: to marry like same sex partners. They wouldn't call it that,
- 2:36:53Speaker 1: I'm sure, because that implies a binary and we can't
- 2:36:56Speaker 1: have that. And it's weird because on the one hand,
- 2:37:00Speaker 1: like what is the purpose of marriage, Like let's let's
- 2:37:02Speaker 1: get let's just look at it from a historical perspective,
- 2:37:06Speaker 1: like why did people get married originally? Why did men
- 2:37:09Speaker 1: and women get married? They got married to start families.
- 2:37:13Speaker 1: That was the purpose of it, so that you like,
- 2:37:15Speaker 1: a man's son will have his name and then give
- 2:37:18Speaker 1: that name to the next and the next and the next.
- 2:37:21Speaker 1: Like you know, women who don't take their husband's name
- 2:37:24Speaker 1: when they get married, they just keep their father's name
- 2:37:26Speaker 1: because their father or they don't. If that wasn't the case,
- 2:37:30Speaker 1: then they have the grandfather's name whatever right on their
- 2:37:34Speaker 1: mother's side. So they're literally trying to undo what marriage
- 2:37:40Speaker 1: was for most of our history in terms of it
- 2:37:44Speaker 1: essentially serving the purpose of forming a union so that
- 2:37:47Speaker 1: you can have children. But they want they want the
- 2:37:50Speaker 1: children having part of it to stop. But they also
- 2:37:53Speaker 1: want to be able to marry same sex people and
- 2:37:56Speaker 1: not have any children, or at least not have their
- 2:37:58Speaker 1: own children. So it's like, I don't know, it's just weird.
- 2:38:02Speaker 1: It's like the what is the meaning of marriage if
- 2:38:05Speaker 1: you've completely inverted all of it. I'm just saying, like
- 2:38:10Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you want marriage to exist,
- 2:38:13Speaker 1: but you want to exist for you, but you don't
- 2:38:15Speaker 1: really want it to exist for people who want to
- 2:38:17Speaker 1: start families, because you don't think everybody anybody should have families.
- 2:38:21Speaker 1: You just don't want to say that because you don't
- 2:38:23Speaker 1: want to judge the women who do want that, because
- 2:38:25Speaker 1: you're trying to preserve the sisterhood. But if it just
- 2:38:28Speaker 1: so happens that our population collapses, which it is doing
- 2:38:32Speaker 1: right now, that's okay because it's just women making choices.
- 2:38:37Speaker 1: Motherhood's hard.
- 2:38:38Speaker 3: I wish you know what, Yeah, I actually it's amazing
- 2:38:42Speaker 3: that these comedies make me long for Soviet Russia. I
- 2:38:48Speaker 3: wish they lived in Soviet Russia. Yeah, problem solves itself.
- 2:38:54Speaker 1: Because no people say that under communism there's no feminism,
- 2:38:58Speaker 1: but they use feminism to start can communism. So like
- 2:39:02Speaker 1: Miose Dong used to say, what's the thing he was
- 2:39:04Speaker 1: known for saying, women hold up half the sky. It
- 2:39:07Speaker 1: was one of the things that he used to get
- 2:39:10Speaker 1: He used women in his own country to start the
- 2:39:13Speaker 1: ball rolling on what is now communist China. So it
- 2:39:17Speaker 1: may not be feminists now because feminism already served its
- 2:39:21Speaker 1: purpose back then in the nineteen fifties or whenever it
- 2:39:24Speaker 1: happened sixties. So anyway, Yeah, but yeah, that's basically the
- 2:39:33Speaker 1: thesis on So there's not much.
- 2:39:36Speaker 3: That much difference between queer Kiwi and dirony. I think
- 2:39:44Speaker 3: is the ultimate conclusion.
- 2:39:45Speaker 1: Here.
- 2:39:47Speaker 3: They both do a lot of communism, and I find
- 2:39:52Speaker 3: myself just sort of glazing over when that starts. Yeah,
- 2:39:57Speaker 3: it's funny because you're right, Brian, it's like, we want
- 2:39:59Speaker 3: to of communism everything from his his abilities to her needs.
- 2:40:07Speaker 3: That's what we want. And it's also going to be
- 2:40:10Speaker 3: underwritten by men. But they don't want to have to
- 2:40:13Speaker 3: actually have a relationship with men or recognize that it's
- 2:40:17Speaker 3: being underwritten by men at all. This is just swaddle delusion,
- 2:40:25Speaker 3: like all of it. This is like the this is
- 2:40:28Speaker 3: the results of excessive swaddling, brain swaddling, and again all
- 2:40:38Speaker 3: of them are trying to contend it's so funny because
- 2:40:41Speaker 3: these women, these mothers, who are you know, they're they're
- 2:40:46Speaker 3: dealing with, if they're good mothers, they're dealing with a
- 2:40:48Speaker 3: certain amount of self sacrifice and self deprivation and you know,
- 2:40:52Speaker 3: sleep deprivation, having to do gross tasks, having to put
- 2:40:57Speaker 3: someone else's needs ahead of your owns, that kind of thing.
- 2:40:59Speaker 3: They're all dealing with that, and they're just like a
- 2:41:03Speaker 3: huge rock thrown into the puddle of these women because
- 2:41:07Speaker 3: they're women taking a positive identity, getting emotional resources from
- 2:41:12Speaker 3: self sacrifice, and that is completely enthetical to all of
- 2:41:17Speaker 3: these women's self with sense of self. Yeah, because any
- 2:41:22Speaker 3: kind of discomfort that women experience, a man is to
- 2:41:27Speaker 3: blame and a man needs to fix It's the idea
- 2:41:29Speaker 3: that women could endure discomfort in order to gain self
- 2:41:33Speaker 3: actualization is just like what is this moon's beak?
- 2:41:42Speaker 1: Oh man barkain, he's hungry. Time for him to eat?
- 2:41:46Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, holy crap, this is this is more
- 2:41:52Speaker 3: than like three hours work. This is I also did
- 2:41:55Speaker 3: a bunch of research. I actually watched as much of
- 2:41:58Speaker 3: these communists as I possibly could.
- 2:42:00Speaker 1: Good.
- 2:42:00Speaker 3: I mean the thing with communism, like I can actually
- 2:42:05Speaker 3: feel something. When I listen to feminists. It's mostly rage,
- 2:42:10Speaker 3: annoyance and pity, but I feel something. Communists are just
- 2:42:17Speaker 3: like they It just it's just I can't even focus
- 2:42:20Speaker 3: on it.
- 2:42:20Speaker 1: It's so boring, all right, Yeah, I mean, well.
- 2:42:28Speaker 3: My emotions are what are important here.
- 2:42:31Speaker 1: Rainbow shite doesn't make arguments. She just says ew, yikes
- 2:42:34Speaker 1: and uh, sweaty all the time. So there's not much.
- 2:42:38Speaker 1: There's not a lot of substance there. Yeah, sweaty, you know,
- 2:42:44Speaker 1: e yikes, you know, do better like that? Just those things,
- 2:42:48Speaker 1: you know. Hope this helps like, that's her whole alliver content.
- 2:42:51Speaker 1: At least Brian Declaire tries to bring like studies, but
- 2:42:55Speaker 1: she's very dishonest in how she presents them. Manifestel is
- 2:42:59Speaker 1: basically a reptile and Hannah Cox is a chameleon. So
- 2:43:02Speaker 1: there's like a couple of cold blooded bitches in there,
- 2:43:05Speaker 1: and a robot that prints out bad studies and a
- 2:43:09Speaker 1: reaction machine that's basically what we just responded to, a
- 2:43:15Speaker 1: surface level reaction machine.
- 2:43:17Speaker 3: Well, look, let's put it. We gotta we gotta bring
- 2:43:22Speaker 3: this stuff in and administer at least some kind of anecdote.
- 2:43:26Speaker 3: I know it's a small scale, but we gotta. You
- 2:43:28Speaker 3: gotta do something right. At least somewhere the truth is
- 2:43:31Speaker 3: being like, at least somewhere, maybe I shouldn't use the
- 2:43:34Speaker 3: word truth. Somewhere we're actually talking about the studies, yeah,
- 2:43:39Speaker 3: what they actually say, and you know, and bringing in
- 2:43:43Speaker 3: the idea that all of this is predicated on just
- 2:43:45Speaker 3: completely ignoring men. Like I said, you know, you bring
- 2:43:48Speaker 3: in men's issues, like you understand that Hannah Cox is
- 2:43:52Speaker 3: just you know, you talk about men's issues and she's
- 2:43:54Speaker 3: just gonna blink in confusion, like what.
- 2:43:58Speaker 1: Yeah, but men have all the power. I don't understand.
- 2:44:02Speaker 3: Well, I mean she uses that to excuse not having
- 2:44:04Speaker 3: to care about it. Let's that that's what this all is.
- 2:44:08Speaker 3: It's just these excuses for eternal salopsism. And then they
- 2:44:13Speaker 3: had a huge rock thrown in their syllopsistic pool, which
- 2:44:17Speaker 3: is these women that are taking a positive sense of
- 2:44:20Speaker 3: self and self regard from sacrificing for something greater than themselves.
- 2:44:25Speaker 3: That's what it is. Yeah, well now they have to
- 2:44:28Speaker 3: contend and they have to do all kinds of mental gymnastics,
- 2:44:32Speaker 3: like pretend that that individual Roan didn't didn't throw the
- 2:44:37Speaker 3: first stone. No, no, I did.
- 2:44:40Speaker 10: The mothers just rose up in anger for no reason,
- 2:44:45Speaker 10: absolutely no reason. It was just like and then the
- 2:44:50Speaker 10: mother nation attacked, Yeah, for no apparent reason.
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- 2:46:10Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you come again that yeah, maybe give me,
- 2:46:18Speaker 1: give me, give me a thank you for feminist for
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- 2:46:35Speaker 6: Uh am I saying that better than you?
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