Latest / Brewsers / Brewsers #387- Kat Paprocki
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- 0:20Speaker 1: Welcome to Bruisers podcast about beer, coffee, booze and Bruisers.
- 0:23Speaker 1: I am your host, Rody John and today we talked
- 0:25Speaker 1: to Kat Papraki. We talk about owning a gym with
- 0:28Speaker 1: her husband, training and so much more. Kat will be
- 0:31Speaker 1: fighting this Saturday, August twenty ninth at Fenway Park. That's right,
- 0:35Speaker 1: Fenway Park. She is taking on Taylor Sterling at BKFC
- 0:41Speaker 1: ninety two. This is gonna be a huge fight. The
- 0:44Speaker 1: card looks phenomenal. If you've never seen bare knuckle fighting before,
- 0:48Speaker 1: it is so much fun. The ring is so much smaller. Obviously,
- 0:52Speaker 1: if you are in it for you know, the knockouts
- 0:55Speaker 1: and everything like that, you're in the perfect spot because
- 0:57Speaker 1: there's so much blood, there's so much there's so many knockouts,
- 1:00Speaker 1: but you have to be more technical. It's fantastic. We
- 1:02Speaker 1: get into it in the interview. So without further ado,
- 1:05Speaker 1: here is Cat Purprocky. I would like to welcome to
- 1:21Speaker 1: show what Cat Proprocky. How are you doing today?
- 1:24Speaker 2: I'm doing really well? How are you?
- 1:26Speaker 1: I'm doing well? So for those listening kind of paintings
- 1:29Speaker 1: the word picture, where are you at and what's going
- 1:30Speaker 1: on around you.
- 1:32Speaker 2: I'm in Denver, Colorado. I'm in my gym. My husband
- 1:36Speaker 2: and I own this place. I hang out here all
- 1:40Speaker 2: day long. It's hot here in Denver. It's been like
- 1:45Speaker 2: ninety eight. But the worst part is at night it's
- 1:48Speaker 2: hot still, so there's no like cooling down, so dying.
- 1:53Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in North Texas. We're having the same situation
- 1:56Speaker 1: we've been in the hundreds. And then at night. Yeah,
- 1:58Speaker 1: it's gets in the high eighties and it's like but
- 2:00Speaker 1: you're closer to the sun, so it's probably even worse.
- 2:03Speaker 2: I don't know, man, Like, I don't know if it's worse,
- 2:06Speaker 2: but the heat's there, man, Yeah, it's definitely like right there. Yeah.
- 2:14Speaker 1: Well, so I mean let's go right into the you
- 2:16Speaker 1: owning the gym with your husband? So how did that
- 2:18Speaker 1: initially start?
- 2:19Speaker 2: Like?
- 2:19Speaker 1: Where did did you? Guys? Kind of inherit? It was
- 2:22Speaker 1: it something one of those things is like I've always
- 2:24Speaker 1: wanted to, like because I'm always curious about people owning gyms.
- 2:27Speaker 1: It sounds great.
- 2:28Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not as great as it sounds.
- 2:31Speaker 1: Really.
- 2:32Speaker 2: I just clean up after people and it's kind of
- 2:35Speaker 2: like an adult a care. But I do love it.
- 2:40Speaker 2: My husband and I actually have an odd story. We've
- 2:44Speaker 2: been married now for almost twelve years.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Instead of regulations, thank you.
- 2:48Speaker 2: Yeah, and neither of us fought when we met. My
- 2:54Speaker 2: husband started fighting first, and I was just like the
- 3:00Speaker 2: on go Stephen I had ever fought type thing. His
- 3:06Speaker 2: career started to get going, and he's a very business minded.
- 3:13Speaker 2: He had been the general manager at multiple LA boxings
- 3:18Speaker 2: and he kind of merged the two together and we
- 3:22Speaker 2: originally started Tiny opened up in twenty and sixteen. Wow
- 3:29Speaker 2: and yeah, and it's just grown. We recently moved into
- 3:35Speaker 2: our largest location yet. It's gorgeous. We opened up here
- 3:41Speaker 2: in the beginning of June, so slowly but surely, we're
- 3:46Speaker 2: just growing this thing. I know that I can't fight forever,
- 3:52Speaker 2: but fighting is something that I am committed to for
- 3:56Speaker 2: the rest of my life. So being able to coach,
- 4:00Speaker 2: being able to give back to a community that my
- 4:03Speaker 2: husband and I feeld gave so much to us is huge.
- 4:08Speaker 1: So, yeah, congratulations on ten years. That's that's huge. That's
- 4:11Speaker 1: huge for any gym let alone, any any business.
- 4:14Speaker 2: Really sure, absolutely absolutely well.
- 4:16Speaker 1: And also being that intertwined with your husband and like obviously,
- 4:20Speaker 1: like you said, you're there all day and then you
- 4:21Speaker 1: guys go home and upbraise your kids. Is there like
- 4:24Speaker 1: a safe word that you guys have where you have
- 4:26Speaker 1: to like split between business and personal or how does
- 4:29Speaker 1: how do you guys kind of interweave all that?
- 4:32Speaker 2: Yeah, well, now that we're ten years in, we're solid
- 4:37Speaker 2: and we're very good at changing hats. We also own
- 4:42Speaker 2: a grappling comp any called the c JJC so in
- 4:48Speaker 2: call Loretto. We put on huge grappling shows also, so
- 4:54Speaker 2: there's just so many any different hats. At the beginning,
- 4:58Speaker 2: it was hard. It was like, you're my husband and
- 5:01Speaker 2: you're being mean to me. You're telling me to do
- 5:05Speaker 2: push ups, and but we're also very honored, like we
- 5:10Speaker 2: are hommies, we are best friends. I'm very aware that
- 5:14Speaker 2: not all relationships could hang out as often as Steven
- 5:19Speaker 2: and I do, but he's my best friend. So really
- 5:24Speaker 2: it's just us hanging out and doing cool stuff while
- 5:29Speaker 2: hanging out is the best way to explain it.
- 5:34Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you'll initially meet?
- 5:36Speaker 2: Yeah, so we actually met at La boxing.
- 5:39Speaker 1: Oh okay, cool.
- 5:41Speaker 2: I was nineteen, super young, trying to just get in shape,
- 5:46Speaker 2: and I was like I like this guy, and again,
- 5:51Speaker 2: like we've been best friends from probably the first time
- 5:54Speaker 2: that we hung out. We just like hanging out. So
- 5:58Speaker 2: it's been, it's been, it's been great.
- 6:01Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, what is your earliest memory of martial arts?
- 6:04Speaker 1: Was it boxing or was there something else before that?
- 6:08Speaker 2: So my earliest memory of martial arts is actually jiu jitsu.
- 6:14Speaker 2: I started in jiu jitsu. I am a brown belt, right.
- 6:21Speaker 2: My husband is a black bit belt, which blows our
- 6:26Speaker 2: mind because both of us love striking more. Right, I
- 6:29Speaker 2: was gonna yeah, yeah, and uh I did to ju
- 6:35Speaker 2: jitsu first. I loved it striking at first, I was
- 6:40Speaker 2: kind of like, that's brutal, that's kind of mean. Like,
- 6:44Speaker 2: I've never been in a street fight. I'm not an
- 6:46Speaker 2: aggressive kind of person at all. And when Steven started
- 6:54Speaker 2: coaching more is when I kind of was more curious
- 6:57Speaker 2: about striking. But my actual first amateur fight is a
- 7:03Speaker 2: kickboxing fight, so it actually started more in hiking. Yeah.
- 7:10Speaker 1: Yeah, Do you enjoy kickboxing more or did you enjoy
- 7:14Speaker 1: Once the actual martial arts, the mixed martial arts part
- 7:16Speaker 1: of it happened, you were like, oh, well, now that
- 7:18Speaker 1: I can actually use this jujitsu.
- 7:19Speaker 2: As well, I'm an MMA girl at heart. I always
- 7:24Speaker 2: will be MMA is really what got my heart started
- 7:30Speaker 2: in this whole thing. So I really like a blend.
- 7:35Speaker 2: There's like a violence to just being able to hit
- 7:38Speaker 2: you and choke you. Right As an older lady now
- 7:45Speaker 2: and experienced, experienced lady, I have a love and respect
- 7:52Speaker 2: for gie us. Also being a female and having daughters,
- 7:58Speaker 2: I think thatsu is thing that everybody should know. You
- 8:03Speaker 2: should be able to protect your body if you get down.
- 8:07Speaker 2: So I don't know, I have a love for it all.
- 8:11Speaker 2: I have truly been doing mixed martial arts for a
- 8:14Speaker 2: very long time. His whole bare Nuckle journey's kind of
- 8:19Speaker 2: at the not the end at all. But when my
- 8:23Speaker 2: goals for MMA shifted, bare nuckles kind of what made sense.
- 8:30Speaker 2: And then when I found bare knuckle, I was like, oh,
- 8:34Speaker 2: this is the way.
- 8:37Speaker 1: So how did that actually come on your plate? Of
- 8:40Speaker 1: like you know what, hey, do you want to fight
- 8:41Speaker 1: is bare knuckle fights?
- 8:43Speaker 2: It came from a really really sad low place. To
- 8:46Speaker 2: be honest with you, looking at my background, I was
- 8:51Speaker 2: such a good striker in and and May I made
- 8:55Speaker 2: it really quick places very early. I was on the
- 8:59Speaker 2: Ultimate Fire Season thirty team Amanda. I was also on
- 9:05Speaker 2: the Dana White and areas I have very high credentials
- 9:11Speaker 2: and they and it was never my skill, it was
- 9:16Speaker 2: my mental state. And I kept knocking at the door
- 9:21Speaker 2: of the UFC and coming up short, and I kind
- 9:27Speaker 2: of felt broken and I really didn't know what to do.
- 9:32Speaker 2: I started to represent training. I started to kind of
- 9:36Speaker 2: feel lost and like what am I? What am I
- 9:39Speaker 2: training six hours a day for? And where is my
- 9:44Speaker 2: place here? And when I was kind of at the end,
- 9:48Speaker 2: I was kind of like, Steven, I think I'm done,
- 9:52Speaker 2: Like I don't think I can do this, and he
- 9:55Speaker 2: he and I had always talked about bare knuckle being
- 9:59Speaker 2: something I wanted to do at the very end because
- 10:02Speaker 2: it seemed so brutal and like yes, my face looks
- 10:06Speaker 2: like yeah, yeah, sure, And he said, well, hey, gat,
- 10:11Speaker 2: if you're done, then why don't you try that mix?
- 10:16Speaker 2: And He's like, well, why don't you give me three
- 10:19Speaker 2: months of just training for a bare knuckle match. Let's
- 10:24Speaker 2: just see And I was like whatever, like fine, sure,
- 10:28Speaker 2: And day by day just throwing these fists, my heart
- 10:34Speaker 2: started healing. I started to just fall in love with
- 10:39Speaker 2: training again. I didn't feel so lost in being taken
- 10:45Speaker 2: down and not It was no secret in my MMA
- 10:50Speaker 2: career that once I got my hands going, you had
- 10:54Speaker 2: a problem. And so everyone was just shooting it and
- 10:59Speaker 2: again like it was never my skill. But I started
- 11:03Speaker 2: to just lack the convenance and like can I do this?
- 11:08Speaker 2: And so got booked with bk FC. I fought Sidney
- 11:14Speaker 2: Smith and I have a training partner, Courtney Cameron, She's
- 11:20Speaker 2: a champ over at b EKB and he said, Kat,
- 11:25Speaker 2: just wait, just wait till you land your first punch.
- 11:29Speaker 2: You are gonna fall in love. And I was like,
- 11:32Speaker 2: all right. And after the very first round, I come
- 11:36Speaker 2: back into the corner and I'm like, you were right.
- 11:41Speaker 2: I love this, like I'm living. Yeah, so stumbled into this.
- 11:48Speaker 2: It's definitely different than m m A. It's a sweet,
- 11:53Speaker 2: beautiful boxing science and the lack of the gloves makes
- 11:59Speaker 2: the cost of each punch so much higher. I'm not
- 12:03Speaker 2: a brawler. If you look at my last three bare
- 12:07Speaker 2: knuckle fights, I haven't gotten hitches, not one time. I'm
- 12:15Speaker 2: truly trying to bring head movement and angles and a
- 12:20Speaker 2: pretty tactical style and so I'm just playing with it
- 12:27Speaker 2: and enjoying it and it's fun.
- 12:31Speaker 1: Yeah, it's small. It's such a smaller ring too, which
- 12:34Speaker 1: I think is super interesting. Obviously, it makes us far
- 12:37Speaker 1: more intimate and you're not going anywhere like because we
- 12:39Speaker 1: do see a lot of these because obviously boxing will
- 12:41Speaker 1: see ZUFA Boxing getting so much bigger, MVPs doing fantastic things,
- 12:45Speaker 1: especially for women's boxing, but they still have it's still
- 12:49Speaker 1: a giant ring as opposed to you know, bare knuckle,
- 12:52Speaker 1: it's so much smaller, and like I said, you won't
- 12:54Speaker 1: have any room to just go anywhere.
- 12:56Speaker 2: However, man, it's a circle, so the ability to just
- 13:01Speaker 2: roll off that ring is it's not too bad. Again,
- 13:07Speaker 2: I thought in like corners and like octagons, and sometimes
- 13:11Speaker 2: you get stuck in what's called the dead space, and
- 13:17Speaker 2: there really is no dead space in a squared berkle.
- 13:23Speaker 2: My last fight in clear Water against Crystal van Vickick
- 13:29Speaker 2: was the smallest area I have ever fought in ever,
- 13:33Speaker 2: but I moved so much that I kind of feel
- 13:37Speaker 2: like it it opens up that space anyway. Okay, And two,
- 13:42Speaker 2: I'm like, bring it on, I stand here and bang
- 13:46Speaker 2: with me whatever.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Yeah, well, yeah, we've had the ring announcer Jeff Houston
- 13:51Speaker 1: on the show before. I love that guy. He's fantastic.
- 13:55Speaker 1: I love what At first, I was very curious about
- 13:57Speaker 1: ber Knuckle, and then it's the popularities g owing so
- 14:02Speaker 1: much and so much to the point that you're gonna
- 14:04Speaker 1: be fighting August twenty ninth at Fenway Park of all places.
- 14:10Speaker 1: That's insane. What does that feel? What it like just
- 14:13Speaker 1: when you found that out? What was the what was
- 14:15Speaker 1: going through your brain?
- 14:16Speaker 2: You know? When I found that out, I just felt
- 14:19Speaker 2: like all the stars aligned. I'm so prepared for this moment.
- 14:26Speaker 2: I didn't necessarily know when this was going to happen,
- 14:30Speaker 2: but I've been preparing for something since May, and it
- 14:36Speaker 2: just feels right. It's exciting. I have gone some really
- 14:40Speaker 2: cool places in fighting, and so to just add the
- 14:44Speaker 2: Hiss to the list is amazing. I'm honored, just honored.
- 14:50Speaker 2: It's cool. Yeah.
- 14:51Speaker 1: Also, like you said, this was you know, not that
- 14:53Speaker 1: you're on your way out by any means, but you
- 14:55Speaker 1: were just trying to like a last resort, and now
- 14:57Speaker 1: you're fighting at Fenway Park. I don't I mean, I
- 14:59Speaker 1: didn't do the research I was about to do for it.
- 15:01Speaker 1: But is this the first, like like a combat fight
- 15:05Speaker 1: ever to happen at Fenway I.
- 15:07Speaker 2: Would imagine, So, Okay, I can't imagine that there is
- 15:11Speaker 2: anything else that has happened there.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Yeah. I've gone to a fish show there, but that's
- 15:16Speaker 1: a that's a concert and they do that. They do
- 15:17Speaker 1: concerts there all the time.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 15:18Speaker 1: I don't think there's ever been a combat fight there.
- 15:21Speaker 2: It's so cool. It's so cool.
- 15:24Speaker 1: Yeah, as someone who has luckily been on the field, Uh,
- 15:28Speaker 1: just take it in like book around the history of
- 15:32Speaker 1: that place is absolutely crazy. No, yeah, I'm looking, there's
- 15:34Speaker 1: been nothing that's so cool. Wow. Yeah, you're gonna be
- 15:38Speaker 1: the first not to anymore, not to add anything extra
- 15:41Speaker 1: to it.
- 15:42Speaker 2: Bring it on, add it on. Yeah, yeah here here
- 15:46Speaker 2: in Colorado. I was also the main event of the
- 15:51Speaker 2: very first ever combat sports event at the Olympic Training
- 15:56Speaker 2: Reason too. Yeah. Yeah, so I have done some cool thing.
- 16:00Speaker 2: So I'm like, just keep adding it on. I mean,
- 16:04Speaker 2: what what a life to just have lived?
- 16:07Speaker 1: So yeah, well, I mean so you touched on it,
- 16:11Speaker 1: you were on The Ultimate Fighter, you were on the
- 16:14Speaker 1: Dana White Contender series. What do you think you learned
- 16:16Speaker 1: most from? I mean the Ultimate Fighter alone is something
- 16:19Speaker 1: that it's for people who don't you know, they see
- 16:23Speaker 1: it on TV, but like, what is the actual time
- 16:25Speaker 1: span of that show.
- 16:27Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was. I was there for three months,
- 16:32Speaker 2: so January through the end of March. But they take
- 16:36Speaker 2: your phone, yeah, and they take your access to like
- 16:41Speaker 2: your life, no, no music, no TV. I didn't no no,
- 16:49Speaker 2: because they don't want to have to deal with the
- 16:52Speaker 2: ice himself of course, right, So even like training, it's
- 16:59Speaker 2: just quiet.
- 17:01Speaker 1: And uh generic music that like.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Not at all, not at all. And it's interesting because
- 17:11Speaker 2: like for me, I I am born and bred d
- 17:17Speaker 2: e c O and m a my gym, and my
- 17:22Speaker 2: husband has cornered me my entire career and here I
- 17:27Speaker 2: am in like the biggest fight of my life and
- 17:30Speaker 2: I can't even call home. And it was such an
- 17:35Speaker 2: experience I wouldn't do it again, to be honest, I
- 17:39Speaker 2: don't know many people who do it that would do
- 17:42Speaker 2: it again. But it was very cool. It brought me
- 17:46Speaker 2: so much no no to write that heat as well,
- 17:50Speaker 2: and like I'm part of a very small group of
- 17:54Speaker 2: people who can even say that they have done something
- 17:58Speaker 2: that cool. Definitely something that took me a few years
- 18:03Speaker 2: to take away from it and to yeah, yes, I
- 18:08Speaker 2: was so hurt and so bummed out by just like
- 18:11Speaker 2: the whole experience and like it it's so personal, like
- 18:17Speaker 2: you're just exposed on this show, and like I'm not
- 18:22Speaker 2: a super reality TV show person anyway, so like putting
- 18:28Speaker 2: something so close to my heart, like just on a show,
- 18:33Speaker 2: it's hard and then too like you then have to
- 18:37Speaker 2: like watch it back and like I lot to do. Yeah,
- 18:41Speaker 2: you're right, I make myself right.
- 18:44Speaker 1: Well, I mean most people do, Like what did they
- 18:46Speaker 1: put in there? Would they cut? Would they like? Because
- 18:48Speaker 1: there's obviously there's things that were said that you know,
- 18:51Speaker 1: we're not connected to any scenario that it was actually
- 18:54Speaker 1: happening at the time. I watched enough Brava shows, I
- 18:56Speaker 1: know how this is all cut up.
- 18:58Speaker 2: It's so interesting too, because it really changed my perspective
- 19:04Speaker 2: because seeing it edited and how like out of order
- 19:08Speaker 2: the whole show was. Knowing that like so many fights
- 19:13Speaker 2: happened on the same night but were split into and
- 19:17Speaker 2: the amount of times that we had to re walk
- 19:21Speaker 2: through a doorway something totally and like you're in a
- 19:28Speaker 2: house with these people that you're fighting, which I also
- 19:32Speaker 2: learned that like fighters are just humans and like everybody's
- 19:37Speaker 2: going through the same experience. But like you didn't have
- 19:43Speaker 2: a door to your room because cameras had to be
- 19:47Speaker 2: able to flow in and out. It's like weird cool stuff. Yeah, yeah,
- 19:56Speaker 2: but uh, I don't know it. It gave me tough
- 20:00Speaker 2: for skin, and it made me really appreciate, like my
- 20:05Speaker 2: corner crew. It made me appreciate the process. And for
- 20:11Speaker 2: the first time, like I was fighting alone and I
- 20:15Speaker 2: was like, I freaking love this. I think this is cool.
- 20:19Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you learn from I'm just being around Amanda.
- 20:23Speaker 1: I mean, I mean obviously the goat of you know,
- 20:25Speaker 1: professional wrestling or not sorry of MMA, So like what
- 20:30Speaker 1: was that situation?
- 20:31Speaker 2: Like Amanda has more passion than anybody I have ever met.
- 20:37Speaker 2: She like comes to practice and she just loves training
- 20:42Speaker 2: so much and she will sit on the mat with
- 20:45Speaker 2: you for hours going over any technique that you could
- 20:49Speaker 2: possibly and her knowledge is it never ends. She's also
- 20:56Speaker 2: one of the most humble, kindest human beings I have
- 20:59Speaker 2: ever met, and she is just a really good person.
- 21:08Speaker 2: So being around her was just inspiring as well. And
- 21:16Speaker 2: her wife Nina was on also and she's also like
- 21:21Speaker 2: a badass and she's hilarious and they were just fun. Yeah.
- 21:27Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, because I mean, being that close
- 21:29Speaker 1: to greatness, I imagine there's you're just watching like, Okay,
- 21:32Speaker 1: she does this, but I'm not doing that. Do I
- 21:34Speaker 1: need to start doing that? Like I just imagine you
- 21:37Speaker 1: probably just trying to pick yourself.
- 21:38Speaker 2: Up well, and it was coming off of her loss
- 21:42Speaker 2: against Juliana, So watching her just exert like I'm getting
- 21:49Speaker 2: my belt back. Oh yeah, And there's no conversation to
- 21:54Speaker 2: be had. I can be uncomfortable, I can be scared,
- 21:57Speaker 2: I can be whatever, but I'm getting this on. And
- 22:01Speaker 2: that's an inspiring mindset to even be around, because we
- 22:06Speaker 2: all have gone through hardships and we have all gone
- 22:09Speaker 2: through the losses, and you're around this fighter who has
- 22:14Speaker 2: lost at the highest level possible and she is still
- 22:19Speaker 2: exuding this complicence and belief in herself and uh yeah
- 22:25Speaker 2: it's cool.
- 22:26Speaker 1: Yeah that chip on the shoulder of like, nope, that
- 22:29Speaker 1: it was a fluke. It's ever happened again and sure enough.
- 22:33Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah she was correct. I man, I want to
- 22:37Speaker 2: see her fight Kayla Harrison.
- 22:38Speaker 1: So so do I I hope I really know we're
- 22:42Speaker 1: I think Kayla's back training.
- 22:44Speaker 2: I think so too. Yeah.
- 22:45Speaker 1: I think I don't think any pictures or videos ranging
- 22:47Speaker 1: has really come out, But I believe that's what I've
- 22:49Speaker 1: been hearing. And I'm like, good because I obviously I
- 22:52Speaker 1: want her to be safe and I want you know,
- 22:54Speaker 1: it's gonna be the first fight back after the surgery
- 22:57Speaker 1: and you know, her title defense and so yeah, and
- 23:01Speaker 1: obviously against the goat, so like, what do you do?
- 23:03Speaker 2: That's so excited?
- 23:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I really hope that does happen, and probably not
- 23:07Speaker 1: this year, but hey, there's the first.
- 23:10Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree.
- 23:11Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, as long as it doesn't happen like
- 23:13Speaker 1: the McGregor want, I think we'll be fun.
- 23:17Speaker 2: Bomber Man just for everybody evolved, literally everybody.
- 23:21Speaker 1: Well not so much for Connor because he that that
- 23:23Speaker 1: massive paycheck he got, but you know.
- 23:25Speaker 2: It's even for him though too man for sure.
- 23:27Speaker 1: Because like there's no way that he was probably like, okay,
- 23:31Speaker 1: however this ends, maybe we'll do a three that's my
- 23:34Speaker 1: fite whatever and then but yeah, just the first and
- 23:39Speaker 1: then every he thinks it's like the controversy behind it.
- 23:42Speaker 1: It's like like this is this happens, this happens.
- 23:45Speaker 2: Has this happens to people? And like he's older man.
- 23:50Speaker 1: Yeah, well, also, like clearly he was on steroids for
- 23:54Speaker 1: a while and totally from what I hear, not great
- 23:57Speaker 1: for your bones.
- 23:58Speaker 2: So you're, yeah, totally.
- 24:02Speaker 1: Take care of that. That's it was gonna be bound
- 24:04Speaker 1: to happen, whether it be the first round or.
- 24:08Speaker 2: If only it hadn't been the first round though, you
- 24:11Speaker 2: know what I mean, maybe later in the round, not
- 24:14Speaker 2: the first maybe later the first kick. What are the odds?
- 24:19Speaker 1: Yeah, but hey, that's the sport. Totally totally well So,
- 24:24Speaker 1: I mean, so you're pretty open about being a recovering alcoholic,
- 24:27Speaker 1: which congratulations on, you know, continuing to fight that. I
- 24:30Speaker 1: know it's a daily process. What are some advice that
- 24:34Speaker 1: you kind of have for people that are going through
- 24:36Speaker 1: the covery themselves or maybe have even thought about, you know,
- 24:39Speaker 1: getting some help themselves.
- 24:40Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, Man, take it one day at a time
- 24:48Speaker 2: because you you have to be mindful of your moments,
- 24:54Speaker 2: and recovery is really really hard. And you even when
- 25:00Speaker 2: you start to get sobriety under your belt, I'm coming
- 25:05Speaker 2: up on four years.
- 25:07Speaker 1: On Halloween, congratulations.
- 25:10Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like each stage is different. So like now,
- 25:16Speaker 2: like I'm so confident in my sobriety and not drinking,
- 25:21Speaker 2: sometimes I'll like forget that, Like I don't drink and
- 25:24Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, like it's patient, Like it sneaks up
- 25:29Speaker 2: on you. And for me, I knew I had a
- 25:33Speaker 2: problem long before I let myself say it out loud.
- 25:38Speaker 2: For me, I knew that when I said it out loud,
- 25:41Speaker 2: I would have to quit. And that was really really scary.
- 25:45Speaker 2: I've gone through sobriety twice, so it's funny too because
- 25:49Speaker 2: it pops up in my career career. Also, the first
- 25:56Speaker 2: time I got sober, I was doing so well. Oh
- 26:00Speaker 2: I had been sober for two years. I'm like, I'm cured.
- 26:04Speaker 2: I overreacted. I must not have had a problem, and
- 26:10Speaker 2: it crept its way back in and like, yeah, at
- 26:13Speaker 2: first I guess I was drinking normally. I don't know,
- 26:18Speaker 2: but it never ends that way for me. And so
- 26:23Speaker 2: this second time around, I kind of had to accept, like,
- 26:29Speaker 2: this is it and if I wanted to get my
- 26:32Speaker 2: comf and it's back, and I wanted to be responsible
- 26:38Speaker 2: to the things that I said and that I was
- 26:41Speaker 2: going to do, like I just needed to get so
- 26:44Speaker 2: sober and uh. Sobriety uh does not run through my family,
- 26:49Speaker 2: but alcoholism does. And man, it can get a hold
- 26:56Speaker 2: of you and it can just drastically change who you
- 27:02Speaker 2: who are. And uh, not only did I feel I
- 27:07Speaker 2: owe it to my marriage, my family, but me too.
- 27:12Speaker 2: I was really letting myself down in probably every area possible,
- 27:17Speaker 2: and so it was just time. And uh like, if
- 27:22Speaker 2: you're even having that thought, I say, try it, because
- 27:28Speaker 2: it's better than just letting it sink you further rightly, Yeah.
- 27:33Speaker 1: Yeah, it's genuinely be an anchor because it's it's legal,
- 27:36Speaker 1: It's everywhere, it's legal. It's so easy to get it
- 27:39Speaker 1: no matter what level you really want to drink, whether
- 27:41Speaker 1: it's nice stuff or even the bottom basement stuff, no
- 27:44Speaker 1: matter what it is like, so it's just and it's
- 27:47Speaker 1: so socially acceptable to just be out and drinking. So
- 27:50Speaker 1: that's why I'm loving the non alcoholic stuff that's been happening.
- 27:53Speaker 1: And yes, people that are doing sober curious things which
- 27:56Speaker 1: are great too. Yeah, yeah, that's that's I love too
- 28:00Speaker 1: that on the show as well, because you do have
- 28:02Speaker 1: the option you can do the non alcoholic. A lot
- 28:05Speaker 1: of these mock nails and non alcoholic stuff taste almost
- 28:07Speaker 1: the same, if not better than the one with alcoholic,
- 28:10Speaker 1: and you don't feels.
- 28:11Speaker 2: Better that that is true, that is totally true. I yeah, yeah,
- 28:18Speaker 2: I uh, it's funny because I am so if if
- 28:25Speaker 2: a drink had alcohol in it, I would never not
- 28:30Speaker 2: in shit. And my husband laughs because my non alcoholics stuff,
- 28:37Speaker 2: I'll drink like half and I'm like set, I'm like good,
- 28:42Speaker 2: I'm like man, like what what? What? What's happened here?
- 28:46Speaker 1: Yeah? Why couldn't I do this before?
- 28:49Speaker 2: Yeah? Well?
- 28:50Speaker 1: How has been training? You know? Obviously when you were
- 28:54Speaker 1: drinking and then sober? How different did you see the
- 28:58Speaker 1: was it for you?
- 28:59Speaker 2: Every thing about my mental state is different, I think
- 29:04Speaker 2: when when you're in active alcoholism. Especially for me, I
- 29:09Speaker 2: was a liar to myself and making excuses was really easy.
- 29:15Speaker 2: And like everybody has excuses for why they don't want
- 29:20Speaker 2: a train. I don't want to train every day, right,
- 29:23Speaker 2: but too fucking bad, And it was easy to convince
- 29:31Speaker 2: myself like, well I didn't run the four miles. I
- 29:35Speaker 2: cut it short at two, but it still counts because
- 29:39Speaker 2: and you start shortcutting like everything, well, then that's just
- 29:43Speaker 2: the way that you're training. And if you're shortcutting things
- 29:46Speaker 2: in training, you're gonna be shortcutting it when you fight too.
- 29:52Speaker 2: And I haven't been at the level in a while
- 29:57Speaker 2: where I can take a short cut. When I'm good
- 30:01Speaker 2: and you're good, we're both fighting within very small rgins.
- 30:07Speaker 2: And if I'm cutting things short and training, I mean
- 30:12Speaker 2: those tiny margins show and like it's easy to have
- 30:21Speaker 2: false confidence when you're drinking actively because alcoholism gives you confidence.
- 30:28Speaker 2: You feel pretty confident when you're drinking. And so just
- 30:34Speaker 2: this constant cycle of like not great training, having excuses,
- 30:41Speaker 2: and then having this undeserved comf a dense And the
- 30:49Speaker 2: thing about fighting is is it exposes you. It exposes
- 30:54Speaker 2: your truth, and it exposes if you train that hard,
- 30:58Speaker 2: and it exposes if you're confident or not. And so
- 31:04Speaker 2: that started to bleed through. Who you are at home
- 31:09Speaker 2: is who you are at your job. And I was
- 31:14Speaker 2: slacking everywhere right now, man, Like I I couldn't be
- 31:21Speaker 2: more proud of myself. I have to slow myself down
- 31:26Speaker 2: sometimes and like remind myself that I'm proud because I'm
- 31:30Speaker 2: always chasing like more. I'm one of those fighters where
- 31:36Speaker 2: I could have a monstrous day and sparring, but I'm like,
- 31:40Speaker 2: you know what, there were those few combos that I
- 31:43Speaker 2: could have done it better. But I take moments now
- 31:48Speaker 2: to just be like, all right, I have I have
- 31:52Speaker 2: truly turned over every stone I could possibly turn in
- 31:57Speaker 2: this training camp. And there is true confidence that's earned
- 32:01Speaker 2: through that. It's not courage that I got from a bottle, right,
- 32:07Speaker 2: It's it's true courage from the absolute time and hours
- 32:12Speaker 2: and effort and struggle that that I have one put in.
- 32:17Speaker 2: And being sober helps me be that person that can
- 32:22Speaker 2: show up in training and actually do what I set
- 32:26Speaker 2: out to do. So so sober cat is just building moment.
- 32:34Speaker 1: Yeah, that confidence is built in the gym and like
- 32:36Speaker 1: you said, just getting the reps in and doing it
- 32:37Speaker 1: over Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that.
- 32:41Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 32:42Speaker 1: Well, so I mean, so you have a shirt out
- 32:44Speaker 1: right now. It's a limited edition shirt. Love that sick.
- 32:47Speaker 1: It's a sick design. That's pretty cool design, just a
- 32:50Speaker 1: super dope design. Tell tell people how they can get it.
- 32:52Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, So I am on Instagram at cat Pap Rocky.
- 32:58Speaker 2: Just shoot me over what size you want, I'll send
- 33:02Speaker 2: you the leak and we'll get this thing happening here.
- 33:06Speaker 2: So check out my shirt. It's pretty cool.
- 33:10Speaker 1: Yeah, it's super cool shirt.
- 33:13Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 33:14Speaker 1: They really amplify those abs too.
- 33:16Speaker 2: Yeah, hold me, my abs are popping right now. I'm shredded.
- 33:22Speaker 1: That way is going to be awesome.
- 33:23Speaker 2: Just wait, yeah, yes, yeah, I Taylor Starling is known
- 33:31Speaker 2: for like her crowns and her outfits. And for me,
- 33:37Speaker 2: my body is gonna speak for itself. It's gonna be
- 33:42Speaker 2: my masterpiece. Get Ready, there you go? Yeah?
- 33:47Speaker 1: Well, I have a segment show. I call it the
- 33:48Speaker 1: Five Counts. It's five random questions.
- 33:50Speaker 2: Okay, cool?
- 33:52Speaker 1: Number one? Who is your first concert?
- 33:54Speaker 2: Green Day?
- 33:56Speaker 1: Love that fu Yeah, showy homie.
- 34:00Speaker 2: They're entertaining and fun and still like out there oh.
- 34:05Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, even at the age there are now,
- 34:07Speaker 1: they're still killing.
- 34:07Speaker 2: I mean what makes me laugh is they still look
- 34:11Speaker 2: very similar to what theay like. Spiky hair, spiky belts.
- 34:18Speaker 1: Yeah, they have not changed since Dookie. It's it's awesome. Now.
- 34:23Speaker 1: This next one's gonna be interesting. We could change it
- 34:26Speaker 1: around here. It normally it's if you owned a liquor company, brewery, winery,
- 34:29Speaker 1: coffee shop, dispensary. Which one would you own? What would
- 34:32Speaker 1: the name be? But we can add a non alcoholic
- 34:34Speaker 1: company as well, if you want to add that as well.
- 34:36Speaker 2: I do coffee becaucause everybody knows when you go to AA,
- 34:41Speaker 2: everybody's chugging coffee. I'm a coffee person. Yeah, I would
- 34:47Speaker 2: definitely do coffee.
- 34:49Speaker 1: Okay, what would the name be?
- 34:51Speaker 2: Oh, oh, I'm so late, cat Pop Rockies, coffee spot.
- 35:00Speaker 1: Here you go, that's perfect. Yeah. What for dinner guests?
- 35:04Speaker 1: Dead or alive?
- 35:05Speaker 2: Would you have dinner guests dead or alive? How many
- 35:11Speaker 2: dinner guests? Oh? I get four? Yea for dinner guests?
- 35:24Speaker 2: This is not like out of touch with like the
- 35:27Speaker 2: world I am. I'm like, I can't even think of
- 35:29Speaker 2: four people.
- 35:32Speaker 1: Well through your whole life, I imagine there's been four
- 35:34Speaker 1: people that you're like.
- 35:35Speaker 2: Why right, Oh man, who's the Who is the creator
- 35:45Speaker 2: of Family Guy? Oh, Seth MacFarlane, Seth McFarlane.
- 35:50Speaker 1: The fact I was able to do that fast is alarming.
- 35:52Speaker 2: That was pretty good. I would want the creator of
- 35:56Speaker 2: the Himpsons too.
- 35:57Speaker 1: Oh, Matt Groening' you're good. That's the useless stuff in
- 36:01Speaker 1: my brain. There's so much.
- 36:03Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably it. I just want to hear more
- 36:09Speaker 2: about how they came up with the show. And I
- 36:13Speaker 2: love the show.
- 36:14Speaker 1: And know yeah, I would love to hear Seth and
- 36:17Speaker 1: Matt talk too, because Seth and or Matt inspired Seth
- 36:20Speaker 1: so much as well, and then like the time, considering
- 36:23Speaker 1: how cutting edge the Simpsons were, then when it came
- 36:26Speaker 1: to the humor, and then later when the family guy
- 36:29Speaker 1: got canceled two or three times, So yeah, that'd be funny.
- 36:35Speaker 1: Number four, Who or what inspires you? M?
- 36:38Speaker 2: Who or what inspires me? Right now? My youngest daughter,
- 36:48Speaker 2: her name is Leila. She is going into her sophomore
- 36:51Speaker 2: year in high school. Wow, and she just got her
- 36:55Speaker 2: blue belt.
- 36:56Speaker 1: That's awesome.
- 36:57Speaker 2: She had a monstrous for season in high school for
- 37:03Speaker 2: rest sally. She went to States and she won egenoles, which,
- 37:10Speaker 2: mind you, this was her first.
- 37:12Speaker 1: Yeah, yere time.
- 37:14Speaker 2: And uh, she's been my little homie in the gym.
- 37:19Speaker 2: I do cardio a stare master at four point thirty am.
- 37:25Speaker 2: And she gets up every morning with me and she
- 37:29Speaker 2: goes and in her her head like like I'm I'm
- 37:37Speaker 2: pushing her, but like really she's pushing me, and like
- 37:42Speaker 2: seeing her like develop and fall in love with fighting
- 37:47Speaker 2: is just inspiring me, like why I started in the
- 37:51Speaker 2: first place. Yeah, oh yeah.
- 37:54Speaker 1: That's perfect, that's pretty cool. Yeah. Number five, what would
- 37:58Speaker 1: you tell her seventeen year old self?
- 38:02Speaker 2: Don't drop out of high school? Your dummy, what are
- 38:08Speaker 2: you doing I would probably target my stuttering. I think
- 38:17Speaker 2: I've grown so much into my stutter and I'm so
- 38:21Speaker 2: confident in and now I would tell myself, don't take
- 38:25Speaker 2: it so seriously and make those phone calls and talk
- 38:32Speaker 2: the talk when you wanted.
- 38:34Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean I wanted to bring it up
- 38:37Speaker 1: at some point, but yeah, please do Yeah, I mean,
- 38:40Speaker 1: how do you what advice do you give to kids
- 38:43Speaker 1: that are coming up and they are, you know, having
- 38:44Speaker 1: stuttering problems.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I just did a meet and greet today. Oh,
- 38:52Speaker 2: this is my favorite conversation to talk about. I would
- 38:57Speaker 2: tell them that fluency isn't important, Okay, it's communication, yep.
- 39:03Speaker 2: And you can stutter and you can be as fluent
- 39:08Speaker 2: and you can still get what you want out. And yeah,
- 39:13Speaker 2: communication is key. Yeah, yeah, definitely.
- 39:19Speaker 1: Well, if people want to find out more about you, obviously,
- 39:21Speaker 1: watch you fight, follow you online, visit the gym. How
- 39:25Speaker 1: can they do all this? Buy the T shirt? How
- 39:26Speaker 1: can they do all the things?
- 39:27Speaker 2: Yes, please check me out on Instagram at ca pap Rocky.
- 39:33Speaker 2: Also check out my gym as well at dco MMA.
- 39:39Speaker 2: You can check out our gym. You can look up
- 39:42Speaker 2: my fight shirts and then my fight August twenty ninth
- 39:47Speaker 2: at Fenway Park against Taylor Starling. Guys, you don't want
- 39:52Speaker 2: to miss this fight. It's gonna be a war. I
- 39:55Speaker 2: am coming for her and I know that she's coming
- 40:00Speaker 2: for me. It's gonna be on BKFC, so make sure
- 40:06Speaker 2: you add that in to your calendar. You don't want
- 40:09Speaker 2: to miss it.
- 40:10Speaker 1: Exactly first fight ever at Fenway Park, and you're gonna.
- 40:12Speaker 2: Be Yes, you gotta see it.
- 40:14Speaker 1: I love it. Kat, Thank you so much for being
- 40:17Speaker 1: on the show. Oh yeah again. I can't wait to
- 40:18Speaker 1: see you fight at Fenway and this.
- 40:20Speaker 2: Thank you a awesome Thank you so much.
- 40:23Speaker 1: No problem, Thank you so much to Kat for being
- 40:39Speaker 1: on the show again. Tune in this Saturday, August twenty ninth.
- 40:43Speaker 1: She will be fighting at Fenway Park. That is the
- 40:46Speaker 1: coolest place you could have a fight, I think, because
- 40:49Speaker 1: the history in that place is so legendary. But she
- 40:52Speaker 1: will be taking on Taylor starlingk at Barey Knuckle Fighting
- 40:55Speaker 1: Championships ninety two. This car is gonna be amazing, not
- 40:59Speaker 1: only because of the venue itself, but just because of
- 41:01Speaker 1: the card. You get to check that out. The whole
- 41:03Speaker 1: cards are gonna be amazing. I'm definitely gonna be watching
- 41:05Speaker 1: it whenever I can, so, uh, while you're watching that,
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