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Let Their Effort Speak for Their Interest · Moming and Me: The Podcast

Najah: Can we normalize letting people's efforts speak for their interests? Because I want to be considered without having to campaign for it. I can communicate what I need, but I don't want to keep reminding you to put some effort into dating me. Call me because you want to talk to me. Make a plan because you want to see me. Remember something I told you mattered to me. And follow through on what you said you was gonna do. because if I stop reminding, planning, and initiating. What happens between us? Do we still have something or was my effort keeping this whole thing going? And see, if I notice that lack of effort, even a little bit, I'm not asking no questions. I'm not explaining myself. you're showing me that you don't value me, you don't think of me, and you're not making room for me in your life. And baby. That's all I need to know to move on and stop wasting my time. I'll be good. Don't worry about it.