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What's Happening at the Courthouse: Teen's run-in with the law · "What's happening at the Courthouse?" with Rameez Khan

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  Speaker 1: For some prison is where it ends. For all, court
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  Speaker 1: is where it begins. The TV show this is the
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  Speaker 1: real world and this is what's happening at the courthouse
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  Speaker 1: on KFM Mornings with from Me.
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  Speaker 2: All right, so remember at one book course yesterday that
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  Speaker 2: is good, eventful as always, asking everybody one simple question,
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  Speaker 2: what are.
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  Speaker 3: You doing at the court house today?
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  Speaker 4: To try and resolve a maintenance issue. I am the
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  Speaker 4: primary care giver, okay, and I'm to receive maintenance. Since
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  Speaker 4: day one, I have never received maintenance, so there's been
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  Speaker 4: a default for about four years. What I basically came
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  Speaker 4: to do is see what my options are, to see
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  Speaker 4: how we can amicably resolve the matter. Got you in
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  Speaker 4: the divorce decree my son was then, Yeah, he was
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  Speaker 4: to stay with me. Half of everything was supposed to
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  Speaker 4: be covered by my.
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  Speaker 3: Ex which never happened.
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  Speaker 4: Why is there I just got excuses for but four years,
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  Speaker 4: you're not looking to actually cause harm to the mother
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  Speaker 4: of your child. The child is still going to look
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  Speaker 4: at you and you're trying to maintain a relationship between them.
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  Speaker 4: The only reason I came now was because the school
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  Speaker 4: fees is due. I cover my half, but the other
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  Speaker 4: off was never covered.
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  Speaker 3: And then what happens do you then cover that.
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  Speaker 4: Hammond's fort even though there's a decree that stipulates that
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  Speaker 4: I'm not supposed to pay it for that off, I
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  Speaker 4: got to summons for it. Because my son is with me,
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  Speaker 4: I'm primary care giver, which is unfair. So I'm not
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  Speaker 4: actually looking to cover the maintenance. I'm more looking to
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  Speaker 4: make sure that the school fees is covered and that
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  Speaker 4: I don't have any default.
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  Speaker 3: A judgment on my name got you what went wrong?
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  Speaker 4: Long story? In my case, I was told that she
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  Speaker 4: didn't actually want a child, she didn't want the responsibility
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  Speaker 4: of a child. She wanted to love a life.
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  Speaker 3: How do you then respond to that?
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  Speaker 4: You cannot hold people when they don't want to be there.
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  Speaker 4: So I have a child to take care of it.
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  Speaker 4: She'll have to answer one day for that. But for me,
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  Speaker 4: my son is my only real priority and that's what
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  Speaker 4: I'll do.
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  Speaker 3: Does she have any relationship with her son?
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  Speaker 4: She'll see him once every few months. Yeah, there's a
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  Speaker 4: missy journey. That's about it.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm generalizing here, but most of the time it's
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  Speaker 5: the other way around.
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  Speaker 6: Correct.
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  Speaker 4: But unfortunately, I'm now in the situation I have to
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  Speaker 4: just make sure he has what he needs. And that's it.
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  Speaker 3: I have heard of this whole maintenance backpay thing. Does
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  Speaker 3: it even work? Though?
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  Speaker 4: I've been running around a year trying to sort it out.
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  Speaker 4: I said to the magistrate that I don't want anything
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  Speaker 4: to really happen to her, but there is this option.
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  Speaker 4: Can we look at this option?
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  Speaker 6: It was agreed on.
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  Speaker 4: There's about another two weeks before the process is sorted, okay,
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  Speaker 4: so I'm grateful for that at least.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you very much for your time. So I hope
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  Speaker 5: that you get some sort of reprieve. Thank you, chairs man,
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  Speaker 5: thank you. What are you doing at the courthouse today?
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  Speaker 7: What I'm supporting my son? He was called negligent driving.
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  Speaker 7: He got in the car and he saw blue lights
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  Speaker 7: and he got scared and he.
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  Speaker 3: Drove away, yes, and they chased him.
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  Speaker 7: They chased him, and he actually got away in a
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  Speaker 7: little yarrows.
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  Speaker 3: You're joking. He got away from the.
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  Speaker 6: Police and did you get away?
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  Speaker 7: And then he pulled in somewhere. But then again he
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  Speaker 7: couldn't switch his lights, so for the and that was it.
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  Speaker 3: He must have done something to attract them to him.
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  Speaker 7: The mere fact that he drove away and he saw
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  Speaker 7: blue lights, that was the attraction.
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  Speaker 3: Where was he He was on his way to liver
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  Speaker 3: so he was on his way out.
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  Speaker 7: Basically, I think it's just a fright.
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  Speaker 6: I do that too if I drive at night time.
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  Speaker 7: That's why I don't drive at night time.
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  Speaker 6: I'd see blue lights and nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Geez.
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  Speaker 7: And I haven't even been drinking. And I think he
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  Speaker 7: was just getting scared.
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  Speaker 5: And he wasn't even drunk. He wasn't he didn't have
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  Speaker 5: any He fines also late.
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  Speaker 7: I think it was just before, just before we leven,
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  Speaker 7: But he was scared of his car. He forgot to
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  Speaker 7: have his car.
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  Speaker 3: What is it called the car needs to be renewed,
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  Speaker 3: the license, the car, Like he's all blue lives.
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  Speaker 7: Now they're gonna catch me. It was stupid. They should
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  Speaker 7: have never I don't think he thought. He just d
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  Speaker 7: and look here we are three times later.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Why so long?
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  Speaker 7: Postponing, postponing?
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  Speaker 3: Did they give him a fine? What did they do
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  Speaker 3: when they stopped him?
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  Speaker 7: He's going to Necro just for a better help, because
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  Speaker 7: now they've assessing needs about help, So it's not.
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  Speaker 5: Really he's not really crazy obviously crazy. Has he been
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  Speaker 5: a bit of a naughty boy. Other times, yeah, he's
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  Speaker 5: a little bit naughty.
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  Speaker 7: You look at him, he's a little bit naughty. But fine,
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  Speaker 7: it's actually he's actually fine.
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  Speaker 5: You were saying that he pulled into some riveway, someone driveway.
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  Speaker 3: Someone someone's like a random driveway.
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  Speaker 7: Random d But then his lights were still on, and
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  Speaker 7: obviously this is the culprit.
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  Speaker 3: Why didn't he put his lights off? What happened once?
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  Speaker 5: Oh the keys fell out of the ignition and he
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  Speaker 5: couldn't put the lights off for whatever.
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  Speaker 3: It was just a struggle. And then they obviously arrested him,
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  Speaker 3: put him in the cell obviously for the night. When
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  Speaker 3: are you finding out about this?
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  Speaker 7: His girlfriend only call with the next day, So off
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  Speaker 7: I go to deeper cells and there he stands like.
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  Speaker 3: This, like he's innocent.
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  Speaker 7: You could see it was a little bit roboseful because
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  Speaker 7: by then his mother has just had it. We'll get
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  Speaker 7: in the carnrichially barbou eleven twelve at nighttime.
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  Speaker 2: The kid man he's from seven years old.
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  Speaker 5: Like you said to me in the beginning, even if
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  Speaker 5: he's done wrong, you're still going to support him.
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  Speaker 7: Supporting for evermore until when until I'm sick for under?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, thank you very much for your time. Man.
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  Speaker 2: You know, they say the only person that will love
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  Speaker 2: you unconditionally in your entire life not your wife, It
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  Speaker 2: is your mother. That is a clear example there.
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  Speaker 8: But you'll also laugh in your face for your silliness.
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  Speaker 6: And she was having such a good time.
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  Speaker 2: And and and and my my boys infallible as well.
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  Speaker 2: But you know what, listen, let's be honest. Yet some
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  Speaker 2: of you might be going, why she's not taking the
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  Speaker 2: law serious? You get blue lights behind you, it's quite
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  Speaker 2: a scary thing. I mean, we know that's a hard
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  Speaker 2: jacking mode.
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  Speaker 6: That's also the thing I was like, good night, that's.
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  Speaker 2: A hard jacking A lot of people.
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  Speaker 6: That vital flight and panic.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know. Yeah. So look, there's I think there's
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  Speaker 2: merits to both sides. But mommy, don't walk into the
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  Speaker 2: court room and laugh like that. Judges not going to
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  Speaker 2: be impressed because it seems that those cops were legit.
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  Speaker 2: But how do you know what?
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  Speaker 8: I wonder what you do in that scenario, because you
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  Speaker 8: can't say I didn't feel safe. Do you have to
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  Speaker 8: pull maybe into a garage then pull into.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but there's that, But now what if you're out
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  Speaker 2: on a remote road and the nearest garage is sixty
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  Speaker 2: ks away. Then what then you outrun them in a yours.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, it's especially frightening when you're like a woman on
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  Speaker 8: your own, which is.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely Oh I think you know what we need yep,
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  Speaker 2: and I thought about this before.
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  Speaker 6: Oh you're another wild idea.
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  Speaker 2: This invention could make me a billionaire quickst route to
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  Speaker 2: a million. As I was saying, we have something. I've
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  Speaker 2: seen them at the flea markets. What you know you
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  Speaker 2: can buy that sound that that that will send a
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  Speaker 2: zap to the car behind you. Oh yeah, you've got
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  Speaker 2: like five emoji buttons in the front. You can send
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  Speaker 2: a smiley face. It's like a little led screen at
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  Speaker 2: the back. Smiley face, pull a zapp piece whatever. Have
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  Speaker 2: one saying follow me to the nearest police station. I'm scared.
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  Speaker 6: That's a very specific message.
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  Speaker 2: Well you could write whatever you want, but let them
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  Speaker 2: know I'm not running from you. I'm scared.
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  Speaker 8: So the zap sign also an option for you there
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  Speaker 8: as well for this technology.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, you think that's what we'll read harmony on the OD.
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  Speaker 2: I think it comes from Timmy, but it already comes
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  Speaker 2: with a zap sign already installed.
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  Speaker 6: You know, it's already turns out there on the roads.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so listen, let's hear your comments on two nine
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  Speaker 2: four five zero nine four zero. Good job, Remy, thank
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  Speaker 2: you very much. That was what's happening at the courthouse
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  Speaker 2: this week, Katie Perry now with firework. Okay, so we
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  Speaker 2: got your comments flying in from what's happening at the courthouse.
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  Speaker 2: Let's hear him.
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  Speaker 7: There's not saying child supporters listening to Tom this morning, seriously,
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  Speaker 7: because what mother wouldn't support our own child?
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  Speaker 2: That's really disgusting, pony guys, But what kind of a
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  Speaker 2: dad takes the mom for maintenance?
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  Speaker 3: I mean that.
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  Speaker 6: Means I can't is sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I mean really, that's why it's you left.
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  Speaker 6: My child is miner and Yowler is awnesome.
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  Speaker 9: The first mother, like, I literally have a lump in
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  Speaker 9: my shirt that somebody could not want to love their child,
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  Speaker 9: to be with their child, and that second mother with
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  Speaker 9: the young guy.
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  Speaker 3: Some it's not laughing matter.
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  Speaker 9: I just want to say, you know, we're quick to
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  Speaker 9: judge the guys when they don't do it.
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  Speaker 3: So I just want to give the flowers to the
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  Speaker 3: guy that is showing.
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  Speaker 2: Up, but as mommy will go to war for him.
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  Speaker 2: She's little me things like he was guilty of some things,
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  Speaker 2: and she's prepared to brash. I think that mother needs
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  Speaker 2: to get a nigro.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, lives you your son had something?
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  Speaker 2: Well, the apple doesn't fall far from that.
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  Speaker 3: That lady is covering for her son.
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  Speaker 9: He's not fighting his own battles.
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  Speaker 5: In that second story with her mom, she is such
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  Speaker 5: a vibe unbelievable.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, who wouldn't want it as a mom.
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  Speaker 6: Study? I know, I'm serious.
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  Speaker 2: I could commit murder and my mother would say he
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  Speaker 2: deserved it. Yes, exactly, I'm deren's innocent. I'm infallible.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, my mom, And there's people in your life who
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  Speaker 8: would also like bury the body with you.
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  Speaker 2: She would dig, she would get hit the spade.
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  Speaker 6: You know, she'd be there.
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  Speaker 2: My mom used to I used to get pages at
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  Speaker 2: school because they worked that caning wasn't working for them, okay,
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  Speaker 2: so then they reverted to giving me pages. My mom
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  Speaker 2: used to do my pages. Stop it, come my mom?
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  Speaker 2: You got pages today? Sure? My boy? Actually how many
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  Speaker 2: you got three? Because I was a trick, so it's
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  Speaker 2: no longer two, it's three. She's just sitting and write
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  Speaker 2: my pages, is it?
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  Speaker 6: Boy, moms. That are a problem.
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  Speaker 2: I think it might be a problem.
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  Speaker 6: Because now, how are you going to learn? Now?
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  Speaker 2: I will not this is my mom writing the pages.
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  Speaker 2: I will not urinate in the tricks anymore. Did you
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  Speaker 2: learn anything because the tricks gave out the pages prefects it?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't. Actually it was an accusation.
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  Speaker 6: So you never admitted guilt.
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  Speaker 2: Never. Actually was there a trial. I was. I was
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  Speaker 2: trialed by the media.
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  Speaker 6: Court of public opinion. Stop it. Yeah he is innocent.
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  Speaker 2: You surely your mom was the same remains No boy.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no. I'm a firstborn, so for me it
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  Speaker 3: was like always tough love is it? Yeah? I see
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  Speaker 3: you were last born.
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  Speaker 2: Man, I'm last born.
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  Speaker 6: I think we need to sit boy moms down and
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  Speaker 6: ask them what the hell is going on?
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  Speaker 8: No?
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  Speaker 6: No, no, you can't cuddle you.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe we've picked a scab there. Okay, listen, I want
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  Speaker 2: to get the song. And I've actually discovered the song
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  Speaker 2: yesterday and I loved it. It's a remix. I just
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  Speaker 2: love it. It's awesome. Just listen. Sorry to the Johnny
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  Speaker 2: Cash fans, Wow, but that was so wid earth?
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  Speaker 6: What's that?
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  Speaker 2: Man? There was a liquor like a cold plunge Johnny
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  Speaker 2: Cash dalhod is gonna go. What is this nonsense?
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  Speaker 3: It was a liquor roller coaster.
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  Speaker 8: We like it like being slapped in the face, like
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  Speaker 8: by by by a fish.
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  Speaker 2: No, man, you want to fish. You want to fish?
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  Speaker 2: That was that wasn't boring?
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  Speaker 6: That song felt like that.
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  Speaker 2: You want to fish? You want to fish.
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  Speaker 6: I enjoyed it. You liked it? Okay, stop moving, I
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  Speaker 6: might give it another chance. And my if my queen
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  Speaker 6: next to me enjoyed this.
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  Speaker 2: And it's not a hey, that's the first thing I checked.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's a d J called Wookie. Wookie, Yes, tell
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  Speaker 2: me you didn't shazam that or however you discover music
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  Speaker 2: these days?
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  Speaker 6: Hm hmm nice, okay Wookie.
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  Speaker 2: All right, some some some we got some messages about
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  Speaker 2: boy mom's. This is where we are.
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  Speaker 6: Now, Okay, together, let's have open minds.
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  Speaker 2: Are we laying it at that door?
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  Speaker 6: Now, let's discuss. I am a longer boy moms.
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  Speaker 2: I think the question is are you the problem?
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  Speaker 8: This is one.
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  Speaker 9: I have a seven year old and almost three year old,
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  Speaker 9: and I can tell you I can see it. I
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  Speaker 9: have to hold myself back all the time. It comes
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  Speaker 9: home and he says somebody punched him, or somebody looked
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  Speaker 9: at him, funny was rude to him. It takes everything
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  Speaker 9: in me to stop myself from going to the school
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  Speaker 9: or phoning those parents and shouting at them because it's
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  Speaker 9: my little boy.
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  Speaker 8: I love that kind of self reflection, like, yes, it
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  Speaker 8: is me, it is I.
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  Speaker 6: I am the drama.
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  Speaker 2: I think with boy moms there's never the question boy
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  Speaker 2: comes home said, ah, so and so I had this
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  Speaker 2: altercation at school. I don't think boy mom's the first
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  Speaker 2: question is what did you do?
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  Speaker 6: No, not my boy?
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  Speaker 2: Why they being nasty to you? I'm a boy mom,
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  Speaker 2: you're not the same.
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  Speaker 6: And a girl the girl mom to time, and which.
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  Speaker 2: One is more challenging, I won't say difficult more challenging, Tom, Really,
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  Speaker 2: I hear that all the time.
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  Speaker 6: Hands down.
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  Speaker 8: I feel like we are. When you have a kind
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  Speaker 8: of a mixed group, it's a bit different. I think
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  Speaker 8: when it's like only boys or just a boy might
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  Speaker 8: be a different experience.
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  Speaker 6: I can see that happening. Yeah, I'm glad I'm on
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  Speaker 6: either end.
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  Speaker 2: Would you say that you would clash more with your
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  Speaker 2: daughter than your son.
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  Speaker 6: Not would I do?
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  Speaker 10: But because he's got siblings or sisters. I feel like
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  Speaker 10: if it was an all boy household, his attitude would
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  Speaker 10: also have been different.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 10: So he can also when he's on his own, he's
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  Speaker 10: a completely different beast. Hut these sisters, he's another mountain
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  Speaker 10: to climb.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting, that dynamic. That's a topic for another day. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: say we've picked the scab, but just put pressure on
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  Speaker 2: the wound.
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  Speaker 6: We're not going to let it lead out this morning.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have the time, we don't have the